SUMMARY 1. They're obsessed with their looks 00:38 2. They're no longer interested in sex 1:04 3. They're more attentive than usual 1:27 4. They always talk badly about another person 1:51 5. They're constantly arguing with you 2:16 6. They have low self esteem 2:44 7. They're defensive of their phone 3:09 8. They get texts at odd hours from strangers 3:34 9. They project their behavior onto you 3:58 10. You intuition is telling you something's wrong 4:22
As someone who got cheated on, and to everyone who is going through this, just know that no one can ever take away your worth. You were a beautiful and vast person before the relationship, and that is still you. Don’t let other people’s actions define your worth. Stay strong!
I’ve said this many times before on RUclips. But if the narcissist is cold to you, you can be sure the narcissist is hot to someone else. The cold phase, you will feel invisible. You will not feel important anymore. Even if you are in the same room, you will feel that the narcissist doesn't see you. When you are let say at work, the narcissist will no longer check your day. From calling or texting you several times per day to nothing or almost nothing. The biggest sign is when the narcissist's behavior changes dramatically. First you feel visible and really loved. That you have found your soulmate. To not feel visible anymore. Your soulmate feels like a stranger. Another sign is that the narcissist will use their favorite toy a lot more in front of you. and also hide their favorite toy. Which is the smartphone. They will put the phone upside down on the table. Will never leave phone when leaving the room. When someone is calling the narcissist, he will not answer the phone when you are around. Because the narcissist will use the phone a lot more, you start to wonder why the narcissist can't answer your text messages and phone calls. But has no problem to answer others. The communication and sex will be a lot more off. It will be less and less. The sex will almost feel like rape on a dead body. The biggest sign is actually your guts. Always trust it. If you start to feel like the narcissist is cheating on you, trust that. And if the person really is a narcissist, you can be sure you are not the only one. A narcissist needs attention all the time. 24/7. So when you are not with each other, the narcissist will be with someone else. Either in real life or on internet. Always. Additionally I hired a private detective Metaspyhub@gmail. com. Once I knew what the narc was up to, it got easier to get over that lying, cheating, sack of doo doo, loser. I didn’t need closure from the narc, I paid for it. Best money I EVER spent!
If they are even flirting with someone else that's cheating, which means that they don't respect you or the relationship nor take it seriously. Even if it's hard, it's best to just leave the relationship as cheating of any kind is a drop dead deal breaker and the relationship is already over. Don't ever wasted your time on someone who doesn't treat you like the king/queen you are, and many times they will just keep doing the same things that's been causing the problems. Voice of experience on this one
While that's true, you have to watch out if it's flirting or just a compliment that sounds alot like flirting. And people can still say someones hot without it being cheating.
@C.S9869 That is when you should look into what help is available where you live. I understand there are many who are stuck in such a bad situation, I was for 5 years and where I lived at the time didn't have any sort of help nor recourses for me to get out of the situation, especially since it was an abusive one to boot. If you are in an area that does have programs, recourses and other things that can help you get out of a bad situation, take it.
“When people cheat in any arena, they diminish themselves-they threaten their own self-esteem and their relationships with others by undermining the trust they have in their ability to succeed and in their ability to be true.”
Although all valid points, this video can lead people the wrong way if they don't listen through to the end so I wanna put emphasis on the last part about having a discussion!! A lot of these "red flags" can also appear if one is going through a period of high anxiety/mental distress. esp. reduced sexual desire, more irritable, and needing more reassurance, affirmations, and company. They are all signs. I've had to explain these things to my partner who didn't understand my behaviour at first too but fosho it wasn't bc of cheating ッ
True, and people with bipolar disorder tend to have decreased libidos at some point, so cheating might not be the case, and instead that person may just be having a depressive episode.
@@anonymousblanketgirl9865how can you tell tho my girlfriend is like this currently she was all over me for a couple months she was on her phone all the time then i told her i dont like it and its distracting you she said im sorry and deleted socials
My wife recently cheated on me and it ripped my world apart, but I realized I wasn't the problem... She was. Keep in mind when it happens, YOU are not the reason they are unhappy. Keep your head up.
A few other signs to be aware of: 1. Lack of affection or too much affection. Not just limited to sex. 2. They suddenly feel the urge to start checking your phone with you're away from it. 3. Constant lying about even small things. 4. They talk badly about a previous partner, a lot. 5. They don't ask you to accompany them in cases you usually would. Like grocery shopping or running errands for shared friends.
We live in a society where at first sign of anything bad, no matter how easily can be fixed, partners will just jump ship. It's sad...so many choose to never marry, let alone remain single and never date again. I dont agree with it, but I understand. We all need to realize that relationships aren't always easy, even after "the honeymoon phase" believe me, I'm as afraid of it as the next person. Relationships are not something you see out of a Disney movie cause it's not real! Anyone else relate to this?
*When you're single but you still are here for the people who are being cheated on* :)🤗💖😅 *Edit : if you're being cheated on never feel bad if you break up with them, you made the correct choice. Nobody deserves to be heart-broken.* 💔
@@13._.1 Ahh lol what I was trying to say is that sometimes when you're in a manipulative relationship you could feel like without that person you are nothing, when you finally get out of the relationship you start realizing your life is so much better now that you let that person go, and you could feel happy about yourself. Didn't mean it in a mean way.
I saw all the red flags, confronted my partner and he just lied, projected or avoided (when would I have time to have an affair?)...turned out he was just waiting for the best time for him to go to the third party...trust your intuition 💕
hm k but the minecraft card you always pull out is getting so old, I'm surprised no one told you something yet. It's becoming annoying. There. I'm gonna get a ton of hate for saying an _opinion_ but I'm not going to give a massive crap about it.
Just found out yesterday 😔 what really sucks is that she went back to her ex and was keeping it a secret. Why can't people be honest and say they don't love you anymore. That they don't find you attractive, what's the point of keeping the person around and telling them lies.
┊┊┊ ┊┊┊ ❁ཻུ۪۪ ━ ❝ ┊┊┊ ❝summary ❞ ❀┊ ↳ 1. they're obsessed with their looks (0:39) ↳ 2. they're no longer interested in sex (1:04) ↳ 3. they're more attractive than normal (1:28) ↳ 4. they always talk badly about another person (1:54) ↳ 5. they're constantly arguing with you (2:18) ↳ 6. they have low self-esteem (2:44) ↳ 7. they're always defensive of their phone (3:09) ↳ 8. they get texts from strangers at odd hours (3:32) ↳ 9. they project their behaviour onto you (3:57) ↳ 10. your intuition is telling you something is wrong (4:23) have a lovely day!
Don't mind me being here to see if my old boyfriend was cheating because I had my suspicions Edit: yeah probably not, but he started dating my friend a week after we broke up
My mom was with a man for 2.5 years, they did so much things. He bought my mom stuff and was a really nice guy. But we found out something today. It hurts.
Basically, the moral of the video is: "Most people cheat coz they're paying attention to what they think they're missing, rather than what they already have." Suggestion: #1. Avoid them & #2. Never become one
Signs somebody is cheating on you **laughs in single** And you dont need a partner to be happy. If I end up single I will happily live in an old apartent full of cats You are amazing all by youself!
If I could time travel back in time, I would warn myself to not date that one guy I loved in high school. Save myself the pain and trust issues I have in people.
I just came here to ensure my partner doesn't think I might cheat on them, they're very insecure and anything could lead them to me cheating, take good care of your partners y'all
they have trust issues. the fact that you are here even thinking about whether THEY think u are cheating is disturbing; you are a kind soul. They sound possessive and codependent as well as insecure. You might want to get therapy (alone) or leave that relationship. By now i hope you have ♥
I recently got cheated on and these are all the red flags I legit missed. Tbh I’m mad at myself for letting this happen but it only fuels my drive to do better and be better.
04:45 "it's always a good idea to have a discussion with them first". DON'T DO THAT!!!! Find proff, the hit them with facts. If you ask them, they will simply say no and then start being more careful. Find proff, then act. My strengest advice by far!!!!!
That's the thing You talk to someone as a precaution A suspicion that they're cheating ≠ they ARE cheating. If you go on an obsession to look for proof of them cheating (that doesn't exist), chances are you will find something that isn't proof and then misunderstand it as proof. Talking to someone isn't an attempt to expose them. It's something two people in a relationship do to avoid miscommunication. Misunderstandings can lead to so many relationships that were meant to be fall apart.
Thank you Psych2Go ❤️ All the love and info you have given has helped a lot. My healing process out of depression, understanding friends with certain difficulties and recently I found on your channel something that gives my life way more sense. You see, I’ve been so confused on ways that I acted in different experiences I’ve had in my life up to this day. I thought how I felt was normal, until by scrolling through your videos I found this one about BPD. I realized how... This was me. Of course, I‘m not diagnosed. I won’t self-diagnose. It’s hard with the pandemic, but I am looking forward to talk to a psychologist at my school as soon as I get back to figure this all out. If this is it, then I really hope it can improve my life and relationships. I feel better knowing that I’m not alone. 💕 Thank you for everything, Psych2Go.
I request everyone who’s partner has been treating them wrong,,,please for God’s sake leave your partner for your own good or else they’ll never open up instead they’ll blame you and you’ll be the one’s who’s suffering later,,,,,i know you may never in the world have thought of leaving that person but trust me your self worth is far more important than the love for your toxic partner,,,,it’ll take a long time to heal and you may breakdown at times but trust me you’ll be happy once again and thank yourself for what you did!! ❤️❤️
Number 10 is the telltale sign of them all and with any of the other 9 signs there is easily an alternative answer to oppose it. Truth be told, IF you are having any feelings that something is not right or suddenly off with your partner and/or different in your relationship, then you probably don't need any video to validate your feelz. Instead you need to face your partner head on with any concerns that you have because communication is the ONLY thing in a relationship that works. Not videos, not accusations, spying or chasing. Talk to them immediately if your relationship is worth saving or if your gut intuition has confirmed your suspicions and you need to end things. Good luck
I became defensive when I found out he was sending people messages as me from my phone (one of my co workers) and he and his friend were sending emails to his friend's ex as me. 🥴 these people are actually nutcases.
This. A lot of these red flags can also be the result of changes to physical/mental health, and I'm worried this could lead to a lot of silent resentment because of people's minds jumping straight to cheating instead of considering something like depression
people who have trust issues shouldnt get INTO relationships; as the thing that you need to find fulfillment you cant actually get FROM a relationship; that is closure from your first family and early trauma :(( wish u the best! trust issues can make people physically sick.
I don't know why, but I've been having a gut feeling my long-distance partner is cheating on me. I don't know what changed, I don't doubt that she loves me... I talked to her about it , and she said she's completely faithful to me. I don't know what to do. it feels like I should just trust my intuition before I move down to her and make an absolute fool out of myself. But It also feels like I don't have a choice because I have to move on with my life. Now I regret ever saying anything because it's like she's trying to hide things from me to not make me jealous, but it just makes things more suspicious. What should I do maybe break up with her and ruin the possibility she's telling the truth, or stay along with her even though I don't feel like I'm as loved as I used to be.
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As an Asexual, whenever I get into a relationship I tell my Partner that they're aloud to do what most people call "cheating". Basically, I'll allow them to have sex with other people if they really need to since they won't be able to do that with me. But if they catch romantic feelings for one of these people I want them to tell me. I'll probably be angry and sad and stuff, but I know I can't change how they feel
If you are feeling your partner might be cheating on you, but there's no definite evidence. You're faced with two alternatives seek out the facts, or to turn a blind eye. Selecting the first choice, although often suitable in the short term, is incredibly damaging for your personally, But for your children and family, not only in the long run too. Seeking the truth out isn't simple either as I mentioned before, technology had made infidelity much easier to conceal than in the past, however it also provides opportunities for revealing getting the evidence needed to establish them & affairs. I hate cheaters, my husband never gave me a reason to be suspicious until I found him and her colleague at a romantic restaurant. They told me it was work stuff but something wasn't right. I was worried until I was introduced to darkebprohack who offer Remote Installation to the his device, They build a web Dashboard for monitoring, 24x7 monitoring (Live GPS), They also gave me full access into the Social apps (Facebook, Instagram, Whatsapp, etc. There service is 100 % Anonymous, SHA-256 Encrypted Data, They also recover all Deleted Messages and Data you can contact via gmail darkwebprohack@gmail,com or whatsapp +16614855860 wishing you the best
Though true, this is an extremely slippery slope! If any questions come up, ASK. Communication is the key to all relationships (friendships to Life Partners,) they all need open communication with one another. I once heard a story about a couple where the husband had been more quiet than usual and was blowing off questions. The wife was getting concerned and decided to talk with her girl friends about it. The wife went from questioning what was up with him to going home angry and accusing him of cheating on her. The husband was really taken back by this. It all seemed to come out of left field and could not understand what on earthy made her think this. So after letting her yell at him and get "it" out of her system, he asked what brought this on. She told him about his lack of response to questions of how he was doing and his general blowing off of her questions and how she talked to her girl friends about it. A smile started to appear on his face as she started to explain all this. When she finished, he responded that he has been deep in thought. The lawn mower had been acting up and he was trying to figure out what the problem could be. She had only been asking him the typical questions that she usually does in short car rides so he didn't think anything of cutting the questions off so he could focus on the problem at hand. Then he asked why she didn't just ask him about his behaviors that were concerning her. This story can be told in any of a number of ways. Basic morals would be that we all think differently; keep relationship issues within the relationship; if you have a question, Ask! And the answer is almost always simpler and less extreme than what you will come up with if you brew on it.
I had an ex who insisted on inspecting my phone. I had no problem with that. While she was doing that, I picked up her phone to playfully act like I was doing the same thing. She did not like that at all, and she promptly remotely locked her phone. A tiny alarm bell went off in my head.
Can anyone tell me if my boyfriend cheated or not?☹ he used to buy lunch/breakfast for his female coworker. And they started texting what food they were gonna buy for each other. Then one morning before he was going to work, he said he was going to give her a ride to work because she got into a car crash. But he wasn't wearing his uniform, he was wearing a tank top, gym shorts, and sandels. And I asked him why he was going dressed like that and he said "I wanna go dressed comfortable." Can I have any opinions☹
I love that my boyfriend watches these despite my constant loyalty and affection. Yet he meets all 10 of these signs himself while I do not meet even close to five. He will work until midnight and every other night workout in the basement, surrounded in tapestries now, for 5 hours give or take one. Watching women’s diving and such while he’s at it. Meanwhile I am usually upstairs dressed sexy waiting for him while he “watches women’s diving”. And women’s diving only.
But what if a boyfriend says his girlfriend not to make male friends and not to hangout with them or even if some random boy ask anything just ignore him but she made made male & female friends and go out with them like social gathering so does it also called cheating?? Cuz social gatherings are also important...
SUMMARY
1. They're obsessed with their looks 00:38
2. They're no longer interested in sex 1:04
3. They're more attentive than usual 1:27
4. They always talk badly about another person 1:51
5. They're constantly arguing with you 2:16
6. They have low self esteem 2:44
7. They're defensive of their phone 3:09
8. They get texts at odd hours from strangers 3:34
9. They project their behavior onto you 3:58
10. You intuition is telling you something's wrong 4:22
Thank you for the timestamp :D
Btw number 10 is really working whenever I would be getting cheated lmaoo
#4 is fact. My ex-fiancé used to trashtalk very obsessively about a girl at work that I knew, and he was fucking with her before she got married ._.
Thank you : ) .
There’s a name for women who cheat on their boyfriends. Guess what it is?
@@knightwolf9863 I'm curious. What is it?
“The only reason why people hold on to memories so tight is because memories are the things that don’t change, when everyone else does.” ✨
Where are you getting all these quotes from? I see you everywhere 😂
youre goddamn right
im a big fan of yours but now that i know you also (used to?) watch phy2go my respect and admiration just went ss3.
As someone who got cheated on, and to everyone who is going through this, just know that no one can ever take away your worth. You were a beautiful and vast person before the relationship, and that is still you. Don’t let other people’s actions define your worth. Stay strong!
You're very sweet
Thank you King or Queen❤
"Has your partner been acting strange lately?"
Me, being single: yeah 100%
70 likes and no comments... i'm about to change that
XD
Yep. Too true.
lololol
LOL😂😂
I’ve said this many times before on RUclips. But if the narcissist is cold to you, you can be sure the narcissist is hot to someone else. The cold phase, you will feel invisible. You will not feel important anymore. Even if you are in the same room, you will feel that the narcissist doesn't see you. When you are let say at work, the narcissist will no longer check your day. From calling or texting you several times per day to nothing or almost nothing. The biggest sign is when the narcissist's behavior changes dramatically. First you feel visible and really loved. That you have found your soulmate. To not feel visible anymore. Your soulmate feels like a stranger. Another sign is that the narcissist will use their favorite toy a lot more in front of you. and also hide their favorite toy. Which is the smartphone. They will put the phone upside down on the table. Will never leave phone when leaving the room. When someone is calling the narcissist, he will not answer the phone when you are around. Because the narcissist will use the phone a lot more, you start to wonder why the narcissist can't answer your text messages and phone calls. But has no problem to answer others. The communication and sex will be a lot more off. It will be less and less. The sex will almost feel like rape on a dead body. The biggest sign is actually your guts. Always trust it. If you start to feel like the narcissist is cheating on you, trust that. And if the person really is a narcissist, you can be sure you are not the only one. A narcissist needs attention all the time. 24/7. So when you are not with each other, the narcissist will be with someone else. Either in real life or on internet. Always. Additionally I hired a private detective Metaspyhub@gmail. com. Once I knew what the narc was up to, it got easier to get over that lying, cheating, sack of doo doo, loser. I didn’t need closure from the narc, I paid for it. Best money I EVER spent!
Damn this hit deep.
If they are even flirting with someone else that's cheating, which means that they don't respect you or the relationship nor take it seriously. Even if it's hard, it's best to just leave the relationship as cheating of any kind is a drop dead deal breaker and the relationship is already over. Don't ever wasted your time on someone who doesn't treat you like the king/queen you are, and many times they will just keep doing the same things that's been causing the problems. Voice of experience on this one
While that's true, you have to watch out if it's flirting or just a compliment that sounds alot like flirting. And people can still say someones hot without it being cheating.
@@moonspot675 Very true as it's not always about what you say, but how you say it
What if you’re pregnant and unfortunately dependent on them, have no family and friends. What then? And have been job hunting to no avail?
@C.S9869 That is when you should look into what help is available where you live. I understand there are many who are stuck in such a bad situation, I was for 5 years and where I lived at the time didn't have any sort of help nor recourses for me to get out of the situation, especially since it was an abusive one to boot. If you are in an area that does have programs, recourses and other things that can help you get out of a bad situation, take it.
“When people cheat in any arena, they diminish themselves-they threaten their own self-esteem and their relationships with others by undermining the trust they have in their ability to succeed and in their ability to be true.”
Beautiful quote. Where did you find it?
Although all valid points, this video can lead people the wrong way if they don't listen through to the end so I wanna put emphasis on the last part about having a discussion!! A lot of these "red flags" can also appear if one is going through a period of high anxiety/mental distress. esp. reduced sexual desire, more irritable, and needing more reassurance, affirmations, and company. They are all signs. I've had to explain these things to my partner who didn't understand my behaviour at first too but fosho it wasn't bc of cheating ッ
True, and people with bipolar disorder tend to have decreased libidos at some point, so cheating might not be the case, and instead that person may just be having a depressive episode.
@@anonymousblanketgirl9865how can you tell tho my girlfriend is like this currently she was all over me for a couple months she was on her phone all the time then i told her i dont like it and its distracting you she said im sorry and deleted socials
My wife recently cheated on me and it ripped my world apart, but I realized I wasn't the problem... She was. Keep in mind when it happens, YOU are not the reason they are unhappy. Keep your head up.
Thank you
So sorry to hear that. 3 years have been a long time, how are you doing these days?
To anyone going through something: you’re gonna be okay!🥺🥰
Thank You
Probably not but thank you.
when
Thanks for the positive message.
I Really Don't Understand why People Cheat
- Totally Not a Time Traveler
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how please share secrets
whWHAT?!
A few other signs to be aware of:
1. Lack of affection or too much affection. Not just limited to sex.
2. They suddenly feel the urge to start checking your phone with you're away from it.
3. Constant lying about even small things.
4. They talk badly about a previous partner, a lot.
5. They don't ask you to accompany them in cases you usually would. Like grocery shopping or running errands for shared friends.
Sounds like my narc ex. 🤔
mine does 3 and 4, idk what to believe anymore
Me who has no girlfriend but likes to watch these videos: Noted
Lol
Same😭 just to be safe in the future
Same
My lol Im 10
Feeeels!
Me : *Don't have any boyfriend*
My brain : Just in case yk...
Like you never know
Same
same here 😂
same
We live in a society where at first sign of anything bad, no matter how easily can be fixed, partners will just jump ship. It's sad...so many choose to never marry, let alone remain single and never date again. I dont agree with it, but I understand. We all need to realize that relationships aren't always easy, even after "the honeymoon phase" believe me, I'm as afraid of it as the next person. Relationships are not something you see out of a Disney movie cause it's not real! Anyone else relate to this?
Me: Don’t have any girlfriend
My Brain: That’s sad, not even have a chance to get cheated by a girl, but I rather be alone
I feel like my boyfriend is cheating on me all the time but I feel like I'm just being delusional
Same
Sameeee
@@LPSAANDLPSLVids guess what?
Dump him then what's the point been with him
@@keiron.4612 fear of being alone and mental illness
*When you're single but you still are here for the people who are being cheated on* :)🤗💖😅
*Edit : if you're being cheated on never feel bad if you break up with them, you made the correct choice. Nobody deserves to be heart-broken.* 💔
I broke up with my unloyal gf and couldn't be happier
@@squairgg when you break up with then that when you realise how good your life actually is without them.
@@bagelqueen7555 It almost sounds like your purposely, accidentally roasting them...
@@13._.1 Ahh lol what I was trying to say is that sometimes when you're in a manipulative relationship you could feel like without that person you are nothing, when you finally get out of the relationship you start realizing your life is so much better now that you let that person go, and you could feel happy about yourself. Didn't mean it in a mean way.
@@bagelqueen7555 Yeah
It sounded kinda funny earlier tho *I have a dark sense of humor :)*
I saw all the red flags, confronted my partner and he just lied, projected or avoided (when would I have time to have an affair?)...turned out he was just waiting for the best time for him to go to the third party...trust your intuition 💕
Leave the relationship when your partner is cheating on you. You deserve better.
Sign 1: They stop going on Minecraft Dates with you
i can't messed up that 69 like
*Jumps in Lava*
hm k but the minecraft card you always pull out is getting so old, I'm surprised no one told you something yet.
It's becoming annoying. There. I'm gonna get a ton of hate for saying an _opinion_ but I'm not going to give a massive crap about it.
@@nelmae6026 why would you get hate for an opinion? you only stated what you think and thats completely fine.
Oh my god! Where’s the “I give up.” hole when you need it?!
Just found out yesterday 😔 what really sucks is that she went back to her ex and was keeping it a secret. Why can't people be honest and say they don't love you anymore. That they don't find you attractive, what's the point of keeping the person around and telling them lies.
Dang what a coincidence that this "just - so - happens " to pop up on my phone.
*_literally 99% wont see this but if you do, God bless you, stay safe and have a wonderful day_*
@@greysettings9288 ♥♥♥
Actually I’m crying on my couch at 2 am in confusion but I’ll try to have a nice day and I hope u do too :) this made me feel a little better
Aweee i saw it!
Thank you very much!
Have also a nice day and god bless you!💙
Blessings to you too. The last few days have been really hard for me
You to!
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↳ 1. they're obsessed with their looks (0:39)
↳ 2. they're no longer interested in sex (1:04)
↳ 3. they're more attractive than normal (1:28)
↳ 4. they always talk badly about another person (1:54)
↳ 5. they're constantly arguing with you (2:18)
↳ 6. they have low self-esteem (2:44)
↳ 7. they're always defensive of their phone (3:09)
↳ 8. they get texts from strangers at odd hours (3:32)
↳ 9. they project their behaviour onto you (3:57)
↳ 10. your intuition is telling you something is wrong (4:23)
have a lovely day!
@@kodiak9079 I think that's just a bunch of emojis and stuff to make it look nice, but I'm not sure
This comment is so pretty😊
Ty for making this comment, love the aesthetic touches 😂
I loved this comment so much that im just gonna take a screenshot of it😊
This sounds like every “relationship” I’ve ever been in. I never had proof but something always felt wrong.
Don't mind me being here to see if my old boyfriend was cheating because I had my suspicions
Edit: yeah probably not, but he started dating my friend a week after we broke up
Sameee
Don't mind me I'm just time traveling
what
U time travel again?
You're pretty late to the show though...
what and how
WAIT WHAT
My mom was with a man for 2.5 years, they did so much things. He bought my mom stuff and was a really nice guy. But we found out something today. It hurts.
If someone cheats once, they will do it again, don't waste years in self doubt.
NO ONE CAN CHEAT ON ME IF I DONT HAVE A GIRLFRIEND!
HA!
Ah, but what about boyfriend or significant other?
Same as NOT HAVING A BOYFRIEND 😉😉
Ohh, so you'd have a significant other??
Basically, the moral of the video is:
"Most people cheat coz they're paying attention to what they think they're missing, rather than what they already have."
Suggestion: #1. Avoid them & #2. Never become one
You know it's messed up when you have to look this stuff up :/
Damn
Signs somebody is cheating on you
**laughs in single**
And you dont need a partner to be happy. If I end up single I will happily live in an old apartent full of cats
You are amazing all by youself!
*wheezes from laughter in also single*
If I could time travel back in time, I would warn myself to not date that one guy I loved in high school. Save myself the pain and trust issues I have in people.
I just came here to ensure my partner doesn't think I might cheat on them, they're very insecure and anything could lead them to me cheating, take good care of your partners y'all
they have trust issues. the fact that you are here even thinking about whether THEY think u are cheating is disturbing; you are a kind soul. They sound possessive and codependent as well as insecure. You might want to get therapy (alone) or leave that relationship. By now i hope you have ♥
I recently got cheated on and these are all the red flags I legit missed. Tbh I’m mad at myself for letting this happen but it only fuels my drive to do better and be better.
time will heal, stay strong
it's never your fault
The best thing about the single life is that you know you're not getting cheated on.
04:45 "it's always a good idea to have a discussion with them first".
DON'T DO THAT!!!! Find proff, the hit them with facts. If you ask them, they will simply say no and then start being more careful. Find proff, then act. My strengest advice by far!!!!!
That's the thing
You talk to someone as a precaution
A suspicion that they're cheating ≠ they ARE cheating. If you go on an obsession to look for proof of them cheating (that doesn't exist), chances are you will find something that isn't proof and then misunderstand it as proof.
Talking to someone isn't an attempt to expose them. It's something two people in a relationship do to avoid miscommunication. Misunderstandings can lead to so many relationships that were meant to be fall apart.
@@stalechite4152 i felt that currently with a guy im talking to. Im normally right with everything but apparently it was a COMPLETE misunderstanding.
Thank you Psych2Go ❤️
All the love and info you have given has helped a lot. My healing process out of depression, understanding friends with certain difficulties and recently I found on your channel something that gives my life way more sense.
You see, I’ve been so confused on ways that I acted in different experiences I’ve had in my life up to this day. I thought how I felt was normal, until by scrolling through your videos I found this one about BPD. I realized how... This was me.
Of course, I‘m not diagnosed. I won’t self-diagnose.
It’s hard with the pandemic, but I am looking forward to talk to a psychologist at my school as soon as I get back to figure this all out. If this is it, then I really hope it can improve my life and relationships.
I feel better knowing that I’m not alone. 💕
Thank you for everything, Psych2Go.
Eventually, we never know our partners are cheating unless we see them cheating in front of our eyes.
I guess
It can be don wen u access their mobile
Without their knowledge though
Hello dear do you need any help I can help you out it worked out for me what's up me let chat better
If I could get inside his phone it will tell me a lot. He almost had a heart attack when I asked to see his phone! Cheating much?
Me, who have been cheated before but was too naive to notice, now watching this video and seeing my ex used to do ALL of these signs: ...😐 f**k
These days people are looking just for fun, no relationships. When is time for relationship is too late
Alexa, play Drake, “Trust Issues”
This should have been the title of this video.
@@Psych2go :)
Hewwo I hope you guys have a good day today ,drink some water and spend some time outside 🌟🤗☀️
Imagine going outside LMFAO 😂
@@Rebecca-rv8nn yeah wouldn't be the greatest idea rn 😂
I request everyone who’s partner has been treating them wrong,,,please for God’s sake leave your partner for your own good or else they’ll never open up instead they’ll blame you and you’ll be the one’s who’s suffering later,,,,,i know you may never in the world have thought of leaving that person but trust me your self worth is far more important than the love for your toxic partner,,,,it’ll take a long time to heal and you may breakdown at times but trust me you’ll be happy once again and thank yourself for what you did!! ❤️❤️
so true! so wise!
“Do you see any of these red flags in your relationship?!”
Me: Yaa… basically all of them. At one point or another.
Number 10 is the telltale sign of them all and with any of the other 9 signs there is easily an alternative answer to oppose it. Truth be told, IF you are having any feelings that something is not right or suddenly off with your partner and/or different in your relationship, then you probably don't need any video to validate your feelz. Instead you need to face your partner head on with any concerns that you have because communication is the ONLY thing in a relationship that works. Not videos, not accusations, spying or chasing. Talk to them immediately if your relationship is worth saving or if your gut intuition has confirmed your suspicions and you need to end things. Good luck
I absolutely love your videos and your animation! Keep up the great work
I became friends with those guys here wow!! wow! NICE WORK MAN, NICE ONE MINSLEGEND
Tbh i dont understand why people dont like being single, its great! You can focus more on yourself
i’m not even dating anyone rn but i clicked on this right away
fun fact: you can never be early to a youtube video. just on time or late.
this is of course, unless you are me. where is my time travel squad at? >:D
How'd you do that-
Me!! i had other comments hehe
@@JustSomeRandomBeing the video was unlisted :)
@@anaeyoi4490 lol that's what I thought but I wasn't sure thx😅😂
I needed this a year ago; ANYWAYS we’re healed now💀
I really found this video helpful...
Not that I have a partner right now....
But....
*CAN WE GET AN EPISODE WHY PEOPLE GO AFTER MARRIED PEOPLE?*
not me watching this despite being single for ages and stillllll single LOL
No. 4 is so true.
My ex was talking badly about his co worker to make me feel complacent and that he’s not interested in her
I’m defensive about my phone, im not hiding anything and I’m the most loyal you’ll find, It’s just habit I think
I became defensive when I found out he was sending people messages as me from my phone (one of my co workers) and he and his friend were sending emails to his friend's ex as me. 🥴 these people are actually nutcases.
This video is going to do so much damage and make a lot of people paranoid.
This. A lot of these red flags can also be the result of changes to physical/mental health, and I'm worried this could lead to a lot of silent resentment because of people's minds jumping straight to cheating instead of considering something like depression
im always suspicious of my partner- because of me being in multiple relationships in the past, of them cheating on me all the time
people who have trust issues shouldnt get INTO relationships; as the thing that you need to find fulfillment you cant actually get FROM a relationship; that is closure from your first family and early trauma :(( wish u the best! trust issues can make people physically sick.
WHY IS EVERYONE HERE IS A TIME TRAVELER?!?!?!
Unlisted videos on playlists
Me who is happily married noticing that I show some of these signs: OMG IM CHEATING?!?!?
I suggest you access his mobile without his knowledge to be sure
Your videos keep me pushing, I’m so glad I found your videos! Thank you so much for making these
But still guys: remember some people can be polyamorous.
yeah but poly relationships are completely consensual and you would already know abt your partner being poly- they wouldn’t have to hide it
#9 is key. People need to be aware
it appeared in the notification and I immediately clicked it
How to know where you can trust your intuition? I mean, it could fail
My bf don’t even talk/notice me anymore… so I think this might be the case…
Me being single as hell and watching this when not being interested in dating anyone: 👩🏽💻
@@Cherryzard888 yupp gettin some extra advice
Keep your head up King/queen
I have a question, please answer : why do I feel sad for no reason on sometimes, and feel like it's very hard to change my mood?
i hate how much of these i find relatable.. 😔
I don't know why, but I've been having a gut feeling my long-distance partner is cheating on me. I don't know what changed, I don't doubt that she loves me... I talked to her about it , and she said she's completely faithful to me. I don't know what to do. it feels like I should just trust my intuition before I move down to her and make an absolute fool out of myself. But It also feels like I don't have a choice because I have to move on with my life. Now I regret ever saying anything because it's like she's trying to hide things from me to not make me jealous, but it just makes things more suspicious. What should I do maybe break up with her and ruin the possibility she's telling the truth, or stay along with her even though I don't feel like I'm as loved as I used to be.
I’m single and I’ve never dated but this is good info to know. Thanks Psych2Go!
Kim watching this taking notes
ahh yess,, 1AM , perfect timing for this .
Very helpful tips. Thank you!
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As an Asexual, whenever I get into a relationship I tell my Partner that they're aloud to do what most people call "cheating". Basically, I'll allow them to have sex with other people if they really need to since they won't be able to do that with me. But if they catch romantic feelings for one of these people I want them to tell me. I'll probably be angry and sad and stuff, but I know I can't change how they feel
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@@alysonlentini1615 thanks for making me read that.
THANKS SO MUCH!! My GF has being ignoring me for a week now
I like how as soon as I get into a relationship and now all the videos you guys post are about dating 😫😫😫😂😂😂😂
I’m here from the future
I'm single but I'm still watching so I'd know if ever I'd get into a relationship
Though true, this is an extremely slippery slope! If any questions come up, ASK. Communication is the key to all relationships (friendships to Life Partners,) they all need open communication with one another.
I once heard a story about a couple where the husband had been more quiet than usual and was blowing off questions. The wife was getting concerned and decided to talk with her girl friends about it. The wife went from questioning what was up with him to going home angry and accusing him of cheating on her. The husband was really taken back by this. It all seemed to come out of left field and could not understand what on earthy made her think this. So after letting her yell at him and get "it" out of her system, he asked what brought this on. She told him about his lack of response to questions of how he was doing and his general blowing off of her questions and how she talked to her girl friends about it. A smile started to appear on his face as she started to explain all this. When she finished, he responded that he has been deep in thought. The lawn mower had been acting up and he was trying to figure out what the problem could be. She had only been asking him the typical questions that she usually does in short car rides so he didn't think anything of cutting the questions off so he could focus on the problem at hand. Then he asked why she didn't just ask him about his behaviors that were concerning her.
This story can be told in any of a number of ways. Basic morals would be that we all think differently; keep relationship issues within the relationship; if you have a question, Ask! And the answer is almost always simpler and less extreme than what you will come up with if you brew on it.
I had an ex who insisted on inspecting my phone. I had no problem with that. While she was doing that, I picked up her phone to playfully act like I was doing the same thing. She did not like that at all, and she promptly remotely locked her phone. A tiny alarm bell went off in my head.
It's nice hearing your voice again Micah
Am I being spied on? My girlfriend and I just broke up after she admitted to cheating on me last Friday. Am still reeling from the pain.
My intuition tells me everything is wrong every time
Girl you deserve better - i wish you gonna recover soon - and get some quality sleep !
Your channel is amazing keep up the good work
Anyone else watching nowing fully that youre single? No? Just me? Alright
Imagine watching this even though you're single... Hah couldn't be me-
Haha me neither.....
Yeah definitely not me-
im not in a relationship but still im watching this ?? god knows why?!
at my work, there's a guy whose married, has a girlfriend AND has something with a colleague. i'm standing there like seriously?
I dont I am just scared for an try to prepare for the worse I think too much
Hmmm. On the plus side I am feeling more secure in my relationship. Neither of us tick any of these boxes.
Can anyone tell me if my boyfriend cheated or not?☹ he used to buy lunch/breakfast for his female coworker. And they started texting what food they were gonna buy for each other. Then one morning before he was going to work, he said he was going to give her a ride to work because she got into a car crash. But he wasn't wearing his uniform, he was wearing a tank top, gym shorts, and sandels. And I asked him why he was going dressed like that and he said "I wanna go dressed comfortable." Can I have any opinions☹
What if you're in an online relationship tho
Honestly this is all so true.. I got all the red flags n I still forgave him n he still did it again.. I'm broken
I love that my boyfriend watches these despite my constant loyalty and affection. Yet he meets all 10 of these signs himself while I do not meet even close to five. He will work until midnight and every other night workout in the basement, surrounded in tapestries now, for 5 hours give or take one. Watching women’s diving and such while he’s at it. Meanwhile I am usually upstairs dressed sexy waiting for him while he “watches women’s diving”. And women’s diving only.
But what if a boyfriend says his girlfriend not to make male friends and not to hangout with them or even if some random boy ask anything just ignore him but she made made male & female friends and go out with them like social gathering so does it also called cheating?? Cuz social gatherings are also important...