6 Signs Your Relationship Is Over
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- Опубликовано: 19 июн 2024
- If you're in a relationship, you. know that they are very tough. They may not always be filled with constant romance and perfect dates. Relationships are tough because you are now not only managing yourself, but also your lover. Here are some signs that it's perhaps better to let go than keep trying. Your happiness matters too.
if you're single but you're still looking for advice on whether you should let go and move on from your crush, we also have a video for that: • 8 Signs To Let Go of Y...
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Vilhauer, Jennice. “4 Signs That It’s Time to Get Out of Your Relationship.” Psychology Today, Sussex Publishers, 31 Dec. 2017, www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-forward/201712/4-signs-its-time-get-out-your-relationship.
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Sign 7: you’re searching for RUclips videos that justify you wanting to end things
This one hit my heart hard, you're not wrong.
This made me cry a bit
Yeah mahn I gotta stop ....i think we can make it work
Lmfao ATTACKED 😂🎉😮😂
Literally me rn 💀
Hello summarized here 👋🏽,
1. You don’t trust each other
2. You don’t like each other
3. They have no respect for you
4. Thy are selfish and make everything about themselves
5. You have drifted apart and things aren’t the same
6. You are the one who puts all the efforts
Have a great week
is this at lest ONE or checklist for a few?
@Răzvan OMG, !!!! HELL ! THIS WAS BETTER RELATABLE THAN THE SIGNS MENTIONED IN THE VIDEO......!!!
It wasnt us but then i am still lonely even after 8months
Number 5 is the most painful breakup
Sad but so true !
If you need to look up whether or not your relationship is over ... id say the writing is on the wall.
THE SIGNS ARE CLEAR AND EXPRESSED IN A OLD SCHOOL SONG 🎙🎶 IT TAKES A FOOL TO LEARN 👍
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If she hates me and doesn't want to be around me, does that mean she is done with the relationship to continue?
@@stephenc2481 YES!!!!! I know you're going to ignore my comment because you love her but seriously. Ask others and tell your friends and family the whole truth about your relationship and they will all tell you to dump her. You're not going to listen to me but keep soul searching until you find the amswer
Well I’d say the writing is on the search bar
1. Lack of trust 🕵🏼♀️
2. You don’t like each other anymore 😒
3. They have no respect for you 🫠
4. They make things all about themselves 🤚🏻
5. Y’all have drifted apart and no longer hold the same values 🛶
6. You’re the one who puts in all the effort 🥀
Thank you 😊
All apply to my ex friend. 😒
don’t let the communication die out. talk about it. work on it. give it your best shot.
most people like to sweep things under the rug and not talk about things.
Mines died
I am trying continuously, meeting tomorrow and finalise the things.
The other has to be wiling
You gotta throw it all at a wall and see what sticks. - Billy Brown
I was rejected by my best friend. She returned to her ex and I feel so broken. At first we agreed to stay friends but today was the day I said NO. I couldn't stand being friends anymore with someone I am in love with who doesn't love me back. I need to move on without her. So she allowed me to let her go, our friendship is no more. We both are devastated, but I believe this is the only way for me to heal and become a better person.
You definetly did the right thing. Now you can take the time and energy you need for yourself!
Message me on WhatsApp.
I'm exactly one step behind you, bro. Trying to build up some strength, cause it's eating me up from the inside. 😔
Keep it up, brother. Never give up. You got this.
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Letting go of someone you love wholeheartedly is one of the hardest things to do. Its necessary, but not easy. That rings especially true when you do everything you can, all the time, to make your relationship work and your partner happy. I suppose that’s life though. Hopefully one day we can all find a partner that’ll give and take with us long term
I NEEDED to read this. Thank you
I tried to let go.... But even that was too hard for me
Just left an 8 year relationship. It's good to remember to put yourself first💖
Was it hard?
Mine is 11 years. It was too much to handle. I am feeling heavy but my heart feel kinda relax ...its kinda weird feeling...i might need a hug from nobody ....i donot know.
Phone batteries last longer than relationships these days. Quick Tip: Relationships lasts longer when Social Media does not know about it 🖖
Because social media is breeding tons of narcissists of all kinds. With these monsters no relationship is possible. Ever.
ive been with my bf for three years and people from high school always say “damn yall still together” when we mention it cause we dont post our relationship jfjdjfsn
@@dashapulkova581 absolutely true, narcissism is on a sharp upward climb. It's difficult to want to leave my house or talk to new people when you know what you're getting out of people that look and act certain ways.
@@FriezaSucks sometimes they don't even look a certain way...
Geniunely good advice. Thats becpming rarer and rarer these days. Thank you
I came here just thinking about my relationship. In the end, it’s true. Relationships aren’t all about sunshine and rainbows. We get into conflicts, but in the end we always come back to each other. I trust my partner a lot. And I love her so much. This gave me more of a reason why I found my person. ❤️
She is YOUR BEST FRIEND!! Glad to hear that!! Without this,you have NOTHING!!!!!
Never let go! Love her every moment! 🥰😎
Foolish me got back with my boyfriend when he cheated on me after begging and crying for me back. I was so scared to be alone and I was so comfortable with him that I let him have another chance. After this, these signs started to show up one at a time. I wish I had known about this channel at this time but, I didn't. So, my mental heath was being greatly affected by trying to keep the relationship afloat and trying to brush things off to not make anything complicated. In the end, I felt more alone with him than i would have if i had ended it right after he broke my trust. My advice: Respect yourself and know your value and just because you're comfortable where you are, doesn't mean you need to stay in the situation.
Same. I let my ex push and push boundaries until I pretty much let him cheat on me and string me along till he decided to drop me... idk how people can do that to someone they claim to love...
Definitely learned from it and am keeping a more selfish and cynical mindset in my current relationship. I'm letting myself consider a breakup and what is best for myself. Though its hard to go through with that when you remember the good moments, even it's what's best for you
I’m in a situation where my boyfriend doesn’t want to be bothered when I’m upset or when he’s upset me. He says he’s too busy with work to deal with my emotions.. it broke my heart. I’m feeling what you felt, more alone with him than you would by yourself. I don’t know what to do yet. I’m afraid he’ll never want to support me
@@xxharuchan he doesn't deserve you, and you deserve someone who will show you that your feelings are important. Me and my ex did end up splitting and its rough but none of us should feel that our feelings are a burden or troublesome.
@@whoevenknows762 thank you💕 it’s rlly tough because he’s my first boyfriend/first love. I was so stuck on the idea that it has to be him, he’s the one.. but maybe it doesn’t have to be him. maybe I could keep exploring
@@xxharuchan definitely! Plus, ending things in a good way now when there is clear differences in values is much easier than waiting when things get muddied later. The longer you guys stay when you Know you have this conflict makes it harder to reason leaving later when you've put up with it that long. You've talked, you've done your best, you can leave freely knowing it just isn't right for you right now 💛
Normal people: taking advice
Meanwhile me: *vibing to the background music*
Glad to know I wasn't the only one😂
The song is a bop lol
Yea 😆
Literally me
Music over madness! The simplicity in this is that ALL can utilize music. Put on your favorite tune & rock on!
"You are the one who puts in all the effort"
Literally me. I poured my heart and soul into my last relationship, and it felt like I got nothing in return. Ate away at me until I eventually couldn't stay quiet anymore. Even then, I hate confrontation to the point I had to make it so obvious something was bothering me that she finally asked me IF anything was wrong
i relate to this with my current relationship .. uh.. i just keep hoping that he will get back to how he used to be. but i dont think its going to work that long if he keeps on like this.. and he is depressed to and wont even let me help. mann..
I feel that
@@NungtarolaPongen literally at this stage too, dont know what to do
I get I just got out of a toxic relationship with someone, I was seeing him for a year. Yes the warning signs and red flags go up! All about him it was great in the beginning the thrill of the chase! The excitement of being with someone new, it was all good. Then his true colors came out he started getting rude mean and arrogant only nice when he wanted some. Then I found out from his ex wife he was running around and cheating on her and he did the same thing to me. I'm glad it's over and I'm not the one being used by him anymore, I'm so glad he found someone else cause she did me a favor, now he can use her now! Very little does she know he will do the same to her! I hope she sees the warning signs and the red flags before it's too late! She better wake up and smell the coffee once a cheater always a cheater they don't change!!!!
@@aldatarx I can relate
Almost four months ago I ended a four-year relationship and literally, all of these signs were part of the reason I took the decision to let go. It's hard, but deep down you know that what's going on isn't benefitting you anymore and... How much will you keep it up until you can't handle it anymore? Allow yourself to experience other things and better types of love and don't hang on to something that has fulfilled its purpose in your life. You'll be fine :)
(Edit: Considering the amount of baffled comments I've seen: would you stay with someone who treats you badly, disregards your well-being and just acts like your mere existence is the biggest annoyance to ever occur? If you would, then congratulations on being a masochist. Sometimes love isn't enough to keep a relationship afloat.)
Good luck finding another disposable male.
Why would anyone want to experience other types of love if previous longer relationships didn't work ?,it's better to just have friends and live normal simple life then.
Yea I agree. If somthing isn't on your frequency, you gotta let it go. Now that's not to say somthing can't change in both parties and they better themselves for everyone else. Yknow? But that's if both parties decide to re-engage. If they cross paths again.
I'm still feeling sad
It's been a year and a half since I left (due to feeling, seeing these signs). It hurts because I thought we were friends and were able to communicate. It hurts, but it was leave or lose myself.
Imagine after all the lies, cheating, rudeness etc. she wanted to still be friends.......the gall!
Watching this video made me realize that my relationship isn’t going through as rough of a patch as I thought it was. Thanks for the helpful advice
Same here!!
Same
I've been in a relationship for 9 years and we used to be so so madly in love, I never in a million years would have imagined our feelings would change. We started having problems year 5 and now he acts irritated with me all the time and he cannot/will not communicate about anything, he shuts down and gets defensive. It seems all relationships fall apart sooner or later, true love only lasts a few years then people start getting annoyed with each other and it just erodes from there. I've realized this and it's depressing af
I can recommend you to the same Powerful man who was able to reunite me and my ex back together And it works very fast, he can help your to get back with your specific person.
Wh@t's@pp him.
same here, feel you!
Well it's better that you realized that now than never,at least you can enjoy your life now freely.
Sorry this might sound silly or wrong but i personally think that living without a bf/gf is better,just have friends and enjoy like that.
Unclench your jaw
Take cleansing breath in
Exhale what no longer serves
This is a positive sign.
You are beautiful. You are brilliant. You are worthy of the love of your dreams. May your worries wash away and you find pockets of peace throughout your day 💗 Dr. Liz
Thanks for this
Saddest thing is when you allow this to go on for too long because you’re scared of letting go of the person who you love and thought was your forever person. Its just not fair to be treated or treat anyone that way. Have integrity, know your values and walk away. ✌🏼🌈💕
Rose only let go when Jack was dead - just sayin.
Well..... there was room on the board
Hello are you looking for a way to get your love?
I can help you out
Message me on whtsap.
😂😂😂
Currently in a relationship watching this to make sure I’m good.
What did you discover?
Watching hoping it's over😂😭
Awww, ur smart for that.😄
Id jus sit n watch.
Same tbh
I think we're ok....
I honestly don't know..
I see maybe 2-3 signs (1,5,6)being applicable but he's also not emotionally ok rn...so I'm still kinda lost, still a good vid tho
Me too. I get insecure over things so I just want to make sure.
I think the hardest one to accept is the last sign, that they’re not trying anymore. Since you’re working so hard to keep things together, you can blind yourself and feel as if your efforts are their efforts as well.
Never go into a relationship trusting them when you don’t even know them.
That’s literally the first sign that the relationship won’t last is that you don’t put for trust in them dot who are the people liking this comment which you just said will lead to disaster why are you trying to date them if you don’t feel like they’re trustworthy?
I just want to all remember, there's always something, and someone, better outside. It's a big world, and small at the same time, there's someone who's going to be better for you. Don't give up ❤️
Thanks I truly believe this
You asked " did you relate to any of these signs mentioned in the video? " Yes. Yes I did and I do and now I'm crying 😭
@anna lenny no thank you :)
Get out now. It's a lot easier than later. Trust me.
I relate but.. I don't want to let go. I never will. She's been the one working hard before, she was the one putting in effort all the time - it's my turn.
He told me "I don't want to get old with you". Can't be much more clear than that.
😢 am sorry girl, bt c’on you can stand up without anyone
hello dear do you need any help I can help you out it worked for me whtsap me let's chat better.
Message me on whtsap
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mine told me he doesn’t want to live with anyone..
Just left a narcissist never ever being in another relationship until it finds me I swear 🤦🏽♀️
I know the feeling because I was in a relationship with one, that I recently had to end. The relationship was mainly characterized by a lot of trauma bonding and everything time I would fall for it. a part of me still yearns for their good parts but now I know better because of all the emotional pain they put me through. And how everything had to be about them and nothing to do with me or what I thought.
That moment when this is recommended to you: Hol' up.
Ikr 🙃
I just couldn’t deny😂
Never a more perfect recommendation. I checked off all 6.
Hard for someone to hear. Share kindly🙏💚
I think this goes for friends too, cus boy a lot of “friends” really only care about themselves
True dat!! 👍
It's been a very long since I've dated. And looking at these videos helps me re-evaluate what a healthy relationship is like.
Thank you so much, I was almost texting my ex, it was good to see that we no longer have the means to succeed. I can stop humiliating myself now 🖤
I moved on from having relationships with others completely. All people do is let you down.
And focused on yourself? That's not a bad trade off. Self love is key.
TRUTH!
That’s why I try not to have any expectations when it comes to ppl. You have to expect the unexpected.
Your right! I have come to this realization.
In fact, If I don’t marry my one BEFORE I become wealthy; anyone after will be a liability so I will remain single for life.
Fax
Relationships coming to an end are extremely painful even if it is what is best. You have to love yourself even if you have to learn how. I know I’m worth it!
Love and relationships is two different things .... Love is easy and beautiful....But Relationship is something that we have to work ...U and U r partener... it's not about just self it's about other person that person feeling what he/she needs ...Do U r best be try to be honest and most importantly is care is the only way of beautiful relationship ❤️
Very informative video. Although I have never been in any relationship at all, I have come to understand that good, decent relationships are extremely hard to come by. On top of that, it has come to realization that getting angry too easily and arguing over every little thing mean that the relationship has gone down south.
hello dear do you need any help I can help you out it worked for me WhatsApp me let's chat better.
Message me on WhatsApp
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If you feel like your relationship is all about the other person, try creating some space for yourself and being vocal about your needs; if your partner gets upset or isn't responsive, then it is likely that to find yourself and maintain your own identity, you may have to move on.
I'll have to do that
tried to be vocal about my needs to my ex and she said I'm nagging, clingy and being needy . sheesh. but if she says something about what she needs in the relationship I have to listen and take notes.
It's been almost 2 years now since that I'm with my fiancé.. We have all those signs in our relationship. So I tried to make our guess bedroom my room to have a place for myself. But he took it bad and said that his girlfriend will AND should sleep in the same bed as him... 🤦♀️
I love him so much but I'm often wondering if other men's would treat me better. And it's not like there's not a line of them waiting for me 😕..
Somehow I just can't imagine myself leaving him. I want this to work so much. But it's so hard to keep going like this. I'm left to a point where I just don't know what to do...
@@Layla-je1jd well he shouldn't be such a selfish person. I had an ex where we both had our private places because we both respected each other's personal space and the relationship lasted 6 years. We both loved each other very much but there were too many differences between us. We always took a blind eye on the differences and rarely talked about our problems until finally the problems were too many to be fixed and the time bomb exploded. What we had was doomed from the start. It still amazes me how we lasted so long together. I know my story has nothing to do with yours but try talking to him and try to make him respect the thought that people need space for their own mental health. It's what a healthy relationship needs. Both of you need some private time alone without being insecure and overly protective towards each other. Relationship is hard work but it's harder if only one of you is trying to make it better. The question is, how hard are you both willing to work and invest your time and energy on the relationship?
Thanks really helps a lot
what i love in me:
1 - i stopped feeling like loving someone from 6 years now
2 - i don't trust ppl cuz of that same person
3- no one is important to me except for my parent and some few other friends
4- i am not planning to fall in love :) , being single suits me better
Im proud of you ^^
@@sadandcloudynights5961 thank you
Amen to that! My philosophy exactly! Proud of you 👍🏻
Seems like you had a bad partner in your previous relationship and don't want a relationship because of him/her (or at least that's what I understood). Either way, have hope and don't close off from love, by all means be careful but know that one day, you may meet a wonderful person who's going to become your partner.
@@jazelletenukirehara ty
I don’t have any relationship issues right now, but I love to support you guys!!! 💕💕
You're very lucky then
*yet*
This was a reality that hit me 💯. I’ve been married 29 years. Too much effort , staying because of family and obligation but just not happy with the person I’m married to. We are so different and this video is me. 🥺
Wow it's hard to see when are blind and same thing hapen right now after 15 years of living whit her and its hard because she got depression it is confusing I love her but I love more my self and learning how to love more my self
I really hope you find the courage to end your relationship with the least amount of pain possible🙏🙏
All the signs in my ex...god knows how much I miss her.
So you still miss her?
Man I feel you because me and a girl that I very deeply loved seperated and just last Friday I was telling everyone how amazing she was only for her to stab me in the back and stop talking to me for no reason.
@@Psych2go all the damn time even after 2 months. The things she said before leaving, everything went down the drain. Overthinking all the time. Dreams I don't want to see. Imaginations I keep telling myself I don't want. Visions like stuff I keep telling myself consciously to stop. But there's no stopping. Just so many thoughts and memories. It hurts quite physically at times.
@@imran4968 mine left twice. Came back once we made up. Left again for the same reason again. And believe me. That hurts like absolutely in the bone.
plenty of fish in the sea, man. Another, better one will come.
These videos help big time!! And yes all these signs have opened up my eyes even more!! Thank you for posting these!!
As much as you promissed you wouldn't let go... Damn, that got me good.
I'm about to break up with my girlfriend whom Ive known for about 15 years and had a relationship for 4 years. We broke up, we said we would try again, but she isn't. I'm heartbroken, but I think it's time to let go
I ended a 6 year relationship yesterday. It is the hardest thing I've ever done and I'm barley holding on to what identity I have left. We lived together and talked about having kids often. But he had cheated on me in the past and he wasn't fighting as hard as I was to keep the relationship alive. I spent so many years fighting and hoping that somehow we would be ok because we were ment to be together. Turns out it didn't work that way. I said he could stay and make this work or leave and he left. I have a panic attack almost every night and I struggle to even get out of bed in the morning but it does help to know the fighting and screaming and feeling like I'm worthless is over.
Right now your mourning the loss of your partner, to mourn doesnt only relate to death. It's hard but its necessary. It'll take day by day but in time, you'll realize that your life is not over and you will start feeling better and relieved. You'll see your ex for who he really was, may even end up not standing the thought of him. If he was toxic, its for the best.
Life will be good again and you'll be happy. It just takes time. In the meantime, spend time with people who love you, family and friends.
Be strong my YT Friend.
How are u these days?
Sorry for everything you have been through ,it hurts at first but it will heal , give it some time you will be fine
👍When you stay on, expecting he/she will change.
When you keep justifying his/her actions to yourself.
When he/she is causing you emotional/physical/verbal hurt
I love this simple animation, and the soothing voice. Thanks.
After my tough breakup with my romantic partner, this video helped me understand why my partner is not suitable. Thanks so much for this simple explanation!!
It’s hard when you’re married with 2 kids and have 5 out of the 6 of these things. 😕 I think when you’re married it’s harder to let go, or just mean that you’re more likely to try to hold on to the sinking ship.. hoping it’ll float. 💔
Ugh. That IS a tough one.
Maybe you could try reconnecting. Do the things that made you fall in love to begin with
Flirt, have fun and make love.
0:52 1, you don't trust in each other
1:23 2, you don't like each other anymore
2:26 3, they have no respect for you
3:11 4, they are selfish and make everything about themselves
4:01 5, you have drifted apart, and no longer want the same things
4:34 6, you are the one who puts in all the effort
(Edited) pls like
Thanks for putting these timestamps together!
@@Psych2go thx again this is the second time today you commented on me
This channel is STUPID and MISLEADING!! If you and your partner are NOT best FRIENDS,you have NOTHING!!!!
This has got to be the best RUclips channel out there! Thank you guys, for all the work you do, it has saved me many times over, brought me clarity, closure, and has opened my mind to so many things, and taught me so much about myself and those around me. Thank you all! PS: to the lovely person who narrates.... your voice is soothing enough to make anyone feel better 🙂
Your voice is so calming and soft even when saying things I hate hearing. It's very nice.
@Psych2Go thank you so much, every single one of these was my last relationship. It hurts. But it does feel comforting to know I did the right thing by walking away. Thank you for making this.
Don’t cry because it’s over. Smile because it happened.
Tbh, extremely related to my current situation ngl :(
Hope all goes well!
Same :(((
Just let go. It feels so good. I swear it's worth letting go!❤
Trust me it’s not worth it. Be kind to yourself ❤️
Keep your head up.. love is in all things.
oh my god. this channel’s timing is always so perfect 😢
Sometimes people are too obsessed with having a relationship that they don’t understand they’re still immature, period.
Loving someone can be wonderful, but you don’t necessarily need to start a relationship with them: a relationship is a serious commitment that requires many things, and you need to know someone quite well before stepping into it.
Having a relationship with someone is often a desire to possess them “before anyone could steal them from you”, but this is not a good thing.
Grow up children, then you can speak up for yourself and let you surround by good people
These children don't listen. Just wanna play all day and all nite.
This is so relatable , It only end up just the way i didn't hope for. It was a big lesson for me and now I'm working on myself into better.
@@shine5007 Really good darling. You can't control anything at any time, especially people. The one and only whom you should have control of is you; being "rational" actually means evaluating situations and understand what is good for you and what isn't.
@@boxf.rd5 excuse me how didyou get together again?
@@xoxo.doss_ very true relationship is not a bed of roses great maturity and forbearance is required
I am relating to it now…drifting apart and not wanting the same thing. We both have different future goals…
The person that you are with was NEVER your BEST FRIEND to START with!!
Super helpful! Thank you so much for posting this ❤️
Thanks I liked seeing the rationale for reasons to let go or when a healthy balance of effort is suggested for relationships. Sometimes people can sacrifice a lot or be unaware as to how much they give or take
this is so accurate. dropped one of my best friends over 5 months ago. i loved her but she wasn’t a good friend. i was starting to become a bad friend to her and everyone else, i started becoming mean because i was so irritated from how she was treating me and i was so focused on our relationship and what was wrong with it. saw most of these signs without knowing it and at one point i was just so sick of the games and just cut her off.
This video described my failed relationship..she had no respect for me..lying and cheating. I was the only one trying to make the relationship work and rather chase friends and find a whole relationship with another man. Her only interest was smoking weed, working and sleep all day.
Beautiful analogy of the Movie to demonstrate the Psych2go Topic.Beautiful integration ✨
This is great and exactly what I needed to see.
5 years back and forth with the same guy and it’s really tearing me up. Letting go is so hard. I don’t even know where to start
it is mega painful. but 5 years is a long time to be hurting. that break up is far overdue. you have more strength than most. the one year mark is tops for me to make a good decision. the longer you stay, the deeper you are in, the worse that pain is going to be when it is finally all over.
good luck :)
Very, very useful video! Thanks!
Me and my partner trust each other. We love each other, we fight at times, but we always forgive each other and we respect and support each other.
Because you are BEST FRIENDS FIRST!! That’s why you have an EXCELLENT RELATIONSHIP!!!
1.Lack of trust
-trust is important for any relationship
-distrust makes you suspicious and angry of one another which leads to arguments
2.Lack of mutual feelings
-you may have arguments over little things
-if you and your partner act distant, rude, disrespectful and annoying to each other, you don’t like one another. Time to move on
3.Lack of respect
-respect is foundational for any relationship
-if you don’t respect them or they don’t respect you, time to leave
-disrespect includes: lying and belittling
4.Selfishness
-if they’re always all about themselves and leave little room for you, time to leave
5.Lack of similarity
-you both grow and become different people from the ones you fell in love with
-ask yourself with you’re both still compatible
6.Lack of effort
-you try and try too hard to rebuild the connect but they’re not helping
-if they don’t care enough about the relationship, time to leave
Thanks for the summary. :D
Heloo
Thank chu
Thanks but how is ur comment 2 months ago??
@@leahw2461 look again,??
Hello time travelers I am a human being sent from earth here to you
wassup time traveler I ain't got no crush-
I lonely bean. ;w;
@@mifo424 same :') i don't care about relationships tho i just wish i had an actual friend
I guess time travel is real-
How are u guys doing it pls tell me
@@mifo424 pls
I lost the love of my life, my toxicity & insecurities drove him nuts and he decided to end this relationship. I feel so alone now, he's my biggest supporter & idk what to do without him :(
You were NEVER his best friend!! That’s why you FAILED!’ He might have NEVER been your best friend also!!
I have the same! It feels like that right now. But then again i also try to say to myself if it was really the love of my life he would have stayed through difficult times..
True. I had similar experience which led me to break up with him. Its been 5 months without seeing him, knowing his whereabouts, taking utmost care of his wellbeing. Nurturing our relationship. But also without wasting too much energy and putting too much efforts on dragging the relationship. Its better to end things up before things end your own self.
I was once in a relationship. The only one I've ever been in, in my entire life. I thought it was love, but it soon turned very toxic. They became very controlling, made me feel like I was always tip toe on egg shells trying not to make them made. They had absolutely no interest in anything I was interested in and vise versa, but at least I tried to show interest, they wouldn't even do that for me. They just flat out let me know that absolutely everything I like and every idea and every time I tried to have a conversation, they were Never interested in what I had to say. They told me everything I think say and do is stupid. I finally got out of that toxic relationship. I know I have low self esteem and a negative outlook on ,life through my life experiences, but if nothing else. I can at least say that I realized the relationship was toxic and I had enough respect for myself NOT to stay in such a toxic relationship. I have NO regrets that it's over. I actually felt free, and still glad I got out of that relationship.
Good for you! Working through self esteem issues is a really rough time, but you've done well by doing what's best for You.
That person was NEVER your BEST FRIEND!! If the person you are with IS NOT your BEST FRIEND,SORRY YOU DO NOT HAVE A RELATIONSHIP!!!
@@dimitriberozny3729 I never said they were my best friend All I said was that I was once in a toxic relationship and I got out of it. Lots of people get romantically involved with someone who turns out to be toxic, but Not everyone gets out of such toxic relationships. I'm glad I do Not have that toxic relationship. I don't know what kind of point you think you are trying to tell me. We were together now we're. Not. I ended it and good riddance.
@@ITIsFunnyDamnIT Please don’t be a FOOL!! If the person that you are with ISN’T your best friend FIRST,you have NOTHING!! It is trying to build a house on quicksand with no foundation!’ The foundation of a RELATIONSHIP is the person that you are with MUST be your BEST FRIEND FIRST!! Without this ingredient,you have NOTHING! PLEASE DON’T BE FOOLED by what today’s world says!!
@@dimitriberozny3729 I'm Not fooled that's why I ended it. I saw it for what it was, toxic. I'm done with. them and happy to be free . I am out of the toxic relationship. Again, I NEVER said we were best friends❗ Clearly English isn't your first language, either that or you are bring a troll. Lots and lots and lots of people have been in toxic relationships some get out of them others do not. I'm Not talking about friendships here this was a someone I dated. I got out of that and am not going back into a toxic relationship. Why don't you Get a life of your own and don't worry about mine. I'm fine. Run along little troll don't make me have to report and block you kid
When the time is up you have to let go and move on. It hurts but you will find someone better. 👍
Hold on to that hope?
Thank You that was very helpful I can now see what my final choice is for once and know that I am confident enough to move on.🙏🏻
I like this new style with the music and the humor!
Elizabeth Canon,your pretty smile ☺️ can make the news!
Respect is paramount for me in any relationship of any kind. You disrespect me, I will basically consider you dead to me...that is the foundation of all relationships and friendships I build!
Another thing, both parties need to build up the effort to make it grow and thrive. I get we all have things going on, but one shouldn't forgo all the effort and the other do nothing.
I recently ended a relationship of sixteen years because my partner had so little time for a relationship and it was rarely a priority. I was the one putting in all the effort. He was surprisingly devastated when I said I couldn’t do it anymore. I’d told him for years I needed a real relationship and even broken up half a dozen times with him but he didn’t seem to understand what a real committed relationship was… till I left, then he would work hard to get me back, after initially being very angry. I had trouble letting go.
He’d been badly burned twice and I think he was afraid to get too close again. As time went on I felt used, though on occasion, like my birthday he would pull out all the stops and be super romantic. Strange on again off again situation. I feel at peace now though I do miss him and am grieving the loss of the future we had planned together- one that never seemed to be within reach. 😔
So relatable. Guess I did the reasonable thing and no regrets. But it's hard to forget your first love..
I watched this to find out I am a terrible girlfriend to my boyfriend.
Who else learned it's time for a breakup? 🤚🤚🤚
Me for sure
miss girl i think but idk
Your name is Grace too just like the animator :)
It was way overtime for me..should have left that dog 7 months ago..
For almost 4 years we've been in a relationship, I just now realize it's really time to cut the relationships off
“Every situation in life is temporary so, when life is good, make sure you enjoy and receive it fully. And when life isn't so good, remember that I will not last forever and better days are on the way.”
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This video definitely brought back some painful memories but some good insight on my new relationship. Last year right after the pandemic my partner of 5 years left me for another person. I had been saving up for an engagement ring and was planting a date. I definitely noticed some red flags during the last two months but she assured me that it was just stress from her family. Man did I get played hard. Currently in a new relationship and trying my best to not be so guarded, but it's hard not to after such a painful experience.
Hang in there. Maybe try to look back into the relationship and see if there were any other signs of incompatibility? And then listen to those when dating new people. It’s so hard ! People are so complex!
The last 2 really hit hard. My long distance relationship was really hard to maintain, both for he and I. He told me he felt disconnected, and our age gap was starting to bother him, now I feel stuck in the past memories we shared because I want them back. It's been 2 weeks. Last night, I came to the realization that he is moving on from us, and we are just gonna try and stay in each other's lives as friends.
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I feel like I was putting my all into every single relationship that I put myself in
This channel LACKS the first INGREDIENT to having a successful RELATIONSHIP!! The person that you are with MUST be your BEST FRIEND!! Without this,you have NOTHING!!!
Ok the animation made me chuckle this time. It’s usually so cute, but this one is my fave.
Been together with my boo for many years.By listening to this brings many good points.We need to make improvements and fuss less if we won't t our relationship to last.
ASK YOURSELF THIS IMPORTANT QUESTION? Is your partner your BEST FRIEND? If this is NO,YOU HAVE NOTHING!! This channel is so misleading,and lacks this important ingredient!! It is like trying to build a house without a foundation,the foundation in a RELATIONSHIP is your partner HAS TO BE YOUR BEST FRIEND.WITHOUT THIS,you have NOTHING!!!! This is for both of you!!!!
Going through a really complicated distance based relationship and these signs are really the hardest to face and deal with after time. For those who do have the same issues as me dealing with someone who could seem to care less, I hope you find your way out of that cycle and notice your own worth. I'm still learning now but every loss is a lesson indeed..
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I needed this , felt like u made it for me 😅thank you so much
Wow, I've just made a video about my unrequited love story and I see this! Thanks it helps
This solidified that I made the right decision in walking away a few months ago. I’m letting go in phases.
The last point was the one I related the most to.
I just broke up with my gf bc she said that she wanted to stop talking to me until times get better. But I was waiting and even sometimes hinting at sharing some of her difficulties with me. After all, isn‘t this what makes a relationship? Helping each other out no matter how hard the times might be? And before that, I tried my best to get a routine into our life like videocalling every sunday or every now and then, messaging her about her wellbeing and trying to brighten her day.
But I realized that I just haven‘t found a place in her life yet and when she wanted to stop our only way of communication, that little what she was answering me, it was over for me because my doubts have just grown exponentially.
The sounds like a very one-sided relationship. It also seems like she could be seeing somebody else.
Wow, what a coincidence this came up since I am going through it.
The VO talent for these posts are ideal. Very comforting....
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This very very much reassured me that I am doing the right thing by ending my long term relationship, thank you
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It's like yall read my mind as me and a girl that I really liked just separated and I still don't even know she broke up with me as I was nothing but nice to her and then she just started acting different. I didn't even glow down or gain weight as I am still in really good shape and I take good care of myself. This just feels like a nightmare and this wasn't the true her, but unfortunately it's very real and it's time for me to move.
hey i noticed your comment is a bit old, im going through something similar and i have a few questions i wanted to ask you. how are you holding up? is your life better now without her or was it better back then when you were together? have u found anyone special that is "better" than her?
Lol, got about all of these with my best friend of 18 years. Since September, they've been more or less avoiding me, been flaky, turn conversations on me (tell them I feel neglected and ignored, they twist it around claiming they're too busy with shit like work to the point where I end up apologising for even bringing it up, even though they have the time to spend with other people), they even "forgot" my birthday when I told them that same day it was my birthday.
They called me codependent because I called them out for ignoring me where I could see, which is a trigger for me and it caused a depressive episode, so I decided to just stop putting effort into the relationship, not bend over backwards to make things work, and only put in whatever I get.
Now we barely talk, and they're all upset with me for having boundaries and spending time with others over them, getting passive-aggressive about it. They get upset when I go to bed at a reasonable time and don't stay up whether they have time or not. And they got upset that people at their work forgot their birthday, and I'm like, gee wonder how that feels, huh?
Needless to say, even though we've been close since I was 15, at this point, I'm ambivalent about their presence. If they're there, great. If they're not, business as usual, I don't miss them. 🤷🏼
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Just got out of a 10 month relationship and wow being without her is incredibly tough, i honestly feel so lost and i dont know what to do without her or about the break up. We both still care about each other and still love each other but we decided to end it because we were arguing and things havent been the best, we have been through worse before though and made it out just fine which gives me hope but i dont know if i should pursue that hope. I feel like shes everything ive ever wanted and we were incredibly close, but i dont know if i should try to keep it together and move on, or give us another chance and try to work out something that maybe isnt meant to be. Sorry if what i said doesnt really make sense, my mind and my emotions are honestly all over the place. Also sorry for going to the comments i just dont have many people i can go to about the breakup.
How are things now?
Don’t worry! Same feelings here too!
No worries man. We are in the same boat.
If you’re still in need, I’m in a similar boat. I would say try, if you haven’t been blocked etc. give it 2-4 weeks to let the other person cool off and then maybe try to reach out. If you don’t have any success, it could be time to let that ship sail
If she hasn’t blocked you communicate the problems out don’t give up
I have been numb for a while but after I got rid of it things have gotten as better as it used to be with my relationship
Perfect timing.. I needed to hear those words 😞
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