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There is a book called Casanova Optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal.
I totally agree with you! There’s a lot to learn about the art of communication and understanding what makes connections genuine. The book you mentioned sounds fascinating-especially the part about body language and conversation starters. It’s interesting how such small details can have a huge impact. What’s one piece of advice from the book that really stood out to you?
Thank you for sharing that! The book sounds fascinating and quite comprehensive. It’s always interesting to explore different perspectives on communication and attraction. Have you found any particular insights from it that stood out to you? I'd love to hear your thoughts!
Thanks for sharing the recommendation! The book sounds intriguing, especially with its focus on body language and conversation strategies. I'm curious-how does it approach 'dark mind tricks' without crossing ethical boundaries? Would love to hear your thoughts!
1.Don't reshape your life to fit others 2. Number two: Don't ruin your life by being too obsessed with someone 3. Number three: Don't let anything harm your mental health or happiness 4. Don't push friends or family away for someone else 5. Don't invest too much time in them 6. Don't reveal everything about your past, especially the tough times 7. Don't agree simply to satisfy them Thank you!
That's a beautiful insight! Stoicism indeed emphasizes finding contentment within oneself and deriving joy from simple pleasures and personal pursuits. Embracing solitude and using it to engage in activities that resonate with you can lead to a deep sense of fulfillment and inner peace. Keep cherishing those moments! - From *Stoic Legend
@@StoicLegend_Official Your are absolutely right what you have ardently opined here. If you do take care of yourself as priority, you will transform yourself to become personality of stability, guts and gumption that any individual would invest to love you and be part of your life, especially your partner in this mundane world !!
I wish I had watched this 3 months ago. I did everything mentioned here that I shouldn’t had and she left me. I was left feeling massively used and hurt. NEVER. again. Thanks for the great information.
I'm sorry to hear about your experience, and it's understandable that you're feeling hurt and used. Breakups can be incredibly challenging, but it's also a time for reflection and growth. Learning from past experiences, like the insights shared in the video, can help you navigate future relationships more effectively. Remember to be kind to yourself during this time and focus on personal growth and healing. That's what I learned from Stoicism. It's okay to take things at your own pace and to prioritize your well-being. Wishing you strength and resilience as you move forward.
when you too good to her, it's dangerous. give all what they need. you will lose her. sad but its true, its difficult to control emotions when truly love someone. big challenge for me right now.
Interesting video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
I'm sorry you're going through this. Breakups are tough, especially after a long relationship. It's okay to miss her and feel frustrated. Give yourself time to heal and consider talking to friends or a professional for support. Focus on self-care and doing things that bring you joy. It will get easier with time.
As said in the video, don't beg, live better, find better things and the one who will regret will be her, try your best! Thank you for watching and supporting our videos!
People that are troubled, unhappy, desperate, try to trick you… how the grass is greener on their side until you discover eventually the ugly weeds that were deeply hiding under that unforeseen toxic soil Thank you for the great reminder the importance of staying stoic
I went for a bike ride in the sun today, it brought me far more joy than pursuing someone who demands all I have and then more than I have. I'm choosing peace and happiness, she has not nurtured those.
It sounds like you had a wonderful and liberating experience on your bike ride! Choosing peace and happiness is a powerful decision, especially when faced with demands that drain you. Nurturing your own well-being is essential, and it seems like you're prioritizing that beautifully. Keep embracing those moments of joy and freedom! Thank you for sharing, please continue supporting us!
If she don't like you , move on and chase dreams, ..Life is too short for wasting time. We are men tired of being rejected, treated like a bullshit .. Just chase money and become successful and see who truly wants you
Absolutely! Focusing on personal growth and pursuing your dreams is a fantastic way to channel energy positively. Life really is too short to dwell on rejection or negative treatment. Success isn't just about wealth; it’s about becoming the best version of ourselves. Those who appreciate and support us through our journey are the ones who truly matter. Keep pushing forward, and thanks for sharing your thoughts!
It's great that you found motivation in the video! Remember, your self-respect should never be tied to someone else. It's important to value yourself independently of any relationship. Focus on building your confidence and self-worth, and everything else will fall into place. Keep pushing forward! 😊💪
Having fear of losing someone just means that you care-life is fragile. Please do not lose that. Instead frame it like this-what is meant for you is simply for you. Put in effort but also, breathe easy. We are all human. As far as self-respect goes, ensure you are rooted in God. He gives clarity. Confusion, fear, doubt is from Satan-not you. You are worthy of what you want.
Yes, fear of losing someone represents love and awareness of the fragility of life. Let's see it as a reminder to appreciate what we have. Believe that what you deserve will come to you and stick with your faith and self-respect. From *Stoic Legend*
I happen to come across a paperback years ago called, How To Read A Person Like A Book. I read it, studied it some and tested it by, observing people over time. This book was 100 % RIGHT ON! I could tell EXACTLY what someone was doing, thinking, anticipating, etc. "THE BODY NEVER LIES".
Thank you for sharing your experience with that book-it sounds fascinating! It's amazing how much insight we can gain from observing body language and nonverbal cues. 'The body never lies' is such a powerful truth, and it’s incredible that you took the time to study and test it in real life. Do you still use these skills today? I'd love to hear more about how they've helped you in different situations!
Please leave your thoughts on these, thank you! 🎯 Key Moments: 00:00 - Intro 01:11 - 1. Don't reshape your life to fit others' 02:12 - 2. Don’t ruin your life by being too obsessed with someone 03:23 - 3. Don't let anything harm your mental health or happiness 04:36 - 4. Don't push friends or family away for someone else 05:46 - 5. Don’t invest too much time in them 07:00 - 6. Don't reveal everything about your past, especially the tough times 08:12 - 7. Don't agree simply to satisfy them 09:35 - 8. Don't be controlled by the fear of solitude 11:06 - 9. Don't forget to celebrate even small wins 13:35 - Conclusion
Hey I am doing all of the above things you mentioned just to fit in my boyfriends life and make him happy. Right now he's giving me a cold shoulder just because I refuse to send my nudes to him 🙂🙂
As someone who’s currently going through this, this helps a lot thank you so much! I’ve studied philosophy for over a year now and I’ve been trying to reshape my mind to stoicism, although I struggle with mental disorders, I am aware that this mindset really does help with inner peace. It’s a process but with time it will help. Thank you for this 🙏🏻
I'm really glad to hear that you found the video helpful! It's wonderful to see you taking steps towards reshaping your mindset and finding inner peace, especially while dealing with mental disorders. Remember, it's okay to struggle along the way - progress takes time and patience. Keep nurturing that Stoic mindset, and I'm sure you'll continue to see positive changes in your life. Stay strong, and keep moving forward! 🙏🏻 From *Stoic Legend*
@@StoicLegend_Official I tried ask out for valatines she ended up saying she is held up somewhere else I felt so depressied and lonely after one month later I found her out with a bunch of boys and one boy holding her up like punching 👜 bag
The insight at 7:40 about avoiding unnecessary comparisons is incredibly profound. Appreciating people for who they are creates healthier relationships. 🌸
Thank you so much for your kind words! 🌸 I'm thrilled that the insight at 7:40 resonated with you. Avoiding comparisons truly helps us see and appreciate people for who they are, building stronger and healthier connections. What other parts of the video did you find meaningful? I'd love to hear your thoughts! 😊
Profound insight-it’s almost heartbreaking how readily people pour their energy and devotion into pursuits or relationships that yield little reward, and sometimes leave them with nothing but emptiness and regret.
Absolutely! Staying present, resilient, and adopting a stoic mindset can be powerful tools for navigating life's challenges. Embracing these principles can help us maintain clarity, strength, and peace of mind, even in the face of adversity. Thank you for sharing, keep enjoying our content!
I somehow came across this video at the point where i needed it the most. The words kept resonating with me throughout. I felt a divine power that the cosmos needed me to hear this out and it was indeed a moment of truth for me through this video. Thanks @Stoic Legend for crafting such a content, i will help millions for sure.
I'm so grateful that the video reached you at just the right moment. It's truly inspiring to hear how the words resonated with you. If there's any particular insight or moment that stood out as especially meaningful, I’d love to hear about it. Thank you for your encouraging words and for being a part of our community! From *Stoic Legend*
My fiancé of 4 years which we were about to get married in about 6 months, quarrelled with me and blocked me on all social media except for her direct line which she doesn't pickup or answer my messages. I loved her so much and obsessed for quite a while but finally realize that I don't need anyone to lead a happy life specially women of such kind.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It sounds like a difficult and painful experience. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness, even if it means letting go of relationships that aren't healthy or fulfilling. Remember that you deserve love and respect, and there are people out there who will appreciate you for who you are. Take care of yourself and focus on finding joy and fulfillment in other aspects of your life. Thank you for watching!
Sorry for your loss!😮💨 I know the feeling since my gf throws those jabs of female $#it tests. I must have failed a lot of them, while she tries to treat me like chopped liver. I silently walked away without a fight.
I understand your pain just ended a 4 yr relationship with my girlfriend, its funny how social media can corrupt purity, giving up ur relationship at the expense of followers, and then they ask where are all the gentlemen
Sorry to hear this. I know it's difficult, but you need to move on. The two of you were just not meant to be, and the lady who is "for you," is out there waiting.
@@David-wr7bs Thank you so much for the supportive and kind words. At first I thought that I can easily get out of it and move on but it was not as easy as I thought it would be. It jas hurt me to a great extent and am still on the processbof healing and still haven't achived it yet.
I'm truly sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. Rejection can be incredibly tough, but please know that you're not alone. You are valued and deserving of love and acceptance. Take the time you need to heal, and remember that brighter days are ahead. You're in my thoughts, and I'm here to support you in any way I can. Focus on developing yourself, intelligence, health, virtue, appearance, all good things will come to you!
@@delfinflores3595 I'm sorry to hear about what you've been through. It's never easy to navigate the aftermath of such experiences, but it's inspiring to see your resilience and determination to stand up again. Remember, you're not alone, and there's always hope for brighter days ahead. Keep moving forward, one step at a time. You've got this! - From *Stoic Legend*
I agree with almost everything in this video. Thank you for the reminder to put myself first because so far no one else has done so. I’m always putting myself out to help others and it’s hardly ever reciprocated ❤❤❤😢
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. It's truly important to prioritize self-care and self-love, especially when you're naturally inclined to help others. Remember, taking care of yourself isn't selfish; it's necessary. Your wellbeing matters just as much as anyone else's. Keep embracing your kind heart, but don't forget to nurture it as well. Sending you positive vibes and support! ❤️ From *Stoic Legend*
Thank you for your insightful comment! Absolutely, focusing on self-improvement and pursuing meaningful experiences can lead to a more fulfilling life. It's about valuing ourselves and our journey. The right path often brings the right people into our lives. Keep striving for the best!
Absolutely, you're spot on! It's crucial to maintain self-respect and set healthy boundaries in all aspects of life. Standing up for yourself doesn't mean being aggressive; it means valuing your worth and ensuring others do too. Keep embracing your strength and authenticity! 💪🌟
This video reminded me of a time when I learned the hard way that being overly critical can really harm a relationship. I once criticized my girlfriend for something small, and it caused a big rift between us. It taught me the importance of patience and understanding.✨✨
Have just broken up with my school girl friend of seven years. We have a child. But through out all these years she has had no return love for me. She now has a better job than mine but I chased and felt exhausted. So we broke up. Am adapting to life with out her. Ts so painful. These words have added to my strength. I now priotise my self. Thanks
I'm sorry to hear about your breakup and the challenges you're facing. It's understandable to feel hurt and exhausted after investing so much time and effort into a relationship. It sounds like you've made a tough but necessary decision for your well-being and priorities. Taking care of yourself and focusing on your own happiness is crucial. It's okay to feel pain during this adjustment period, but remember that prioritizing yourself is a step towards healing and finding happiness again. Stay strong, and take each day at a time. You're not alone in this journey. Thank you for watching!
I started listening to this video this morning and I felt very inspired because I had a tossing and turning night last night. When I was tossing and turning I know something was not right. Then this video came out and inspired me as I was listening to it saying never give your flashlight to somebody in the dark.
No contact is so hard but once you get over the hump, you'll be fine. I'm working out, putting in more hours at work, supporting my son's track and field meets and I'm painting the inside of my home as well as buying all new furniture. My ex calls me and stalks My page after not reaching out to her. I've met so many women that are just falling from the sky.
It sounds like you're really making strides in focusing on yourself and your own well-being! No contact can indeed be challenging, but it's heartening to hear how you're channeling that energy into positive outlets. Your dedication to personal growth, your son's activities, and even revamping your living space is truly inspiring. Keep prioritizing your own happiness, you're on the right track! Thank you so much for supporting us! From *Stoic Legend*
@@omarova1935 I hear you. Getting stuck in the "hump" part of a process can be incredibly frustrating. It might help to break down the task into smaller, more manageable steps, focusing on one thing at a time. Sometimes taking a step back, gaining some perspective, or seeking advice from others can also provide clarity and help you overcome the obstacle. Remember, it's okay to feel frustrated, but don't let it deter you from moving forward. You've got this! Wishing you the best?
I cracked twice in my phase but now I think I’m nailing it. 2 weeks of no contact! I deleted social media, work 60 hour weeks now and go straight the gym afterwards! Just staying busy!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
The video emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, authenticity, and maintaining a healthy balance in relationships, drawing insights from Stoic philosophy. Key moments: 00:01 To maintain healthy relationships, avoid reshaping your life for others, being overly obsessed with someone, compromising mental health for others, and pushing friends away. Prioritize self-care and authenticity in interactions. -Avoid reshaping your life for others to prevent frustration and confusion. Embrace your uniqueness and take control of your path. -Do not become overly obsessed with someone to maintain focus on your own goals. Nurture your aspirations and avoid losing your sense of self. -Prioritize mental health over constantly catering to others. Reclaim ownership of your happiness and well-being to avoid a cycle of self-neglect. -Avoid pushing friends away and prioritize strengthening relationships. Embrace resilience and protect your inner peace to shape your own destiny. 04:39 Maintain a balance between relationships, time investment, sharing personal history, and agreeing with others to prioritize self-care and authenticity. It's crucial to nurture connections while safeguarding personal boundaries and happiness. -Importance of maintaining relationships with friends and family for support and growth. Neglecting them weakens your support system and personal development. -Being mindful of time investment in relationships to prioritize personal growth and fulfillment. Time is a valuable asset not to be excessively poured into others. -The significance of guarding personal history and not revealing everything to others. Protecting your past helps maintain your strength and security. -The importance of prioritizing personal happiness over agreeing with others to maintain authenticity and self-fulfillment. Saying no can be empowering and liberating. 09:12 Embrace your true self, make decisions based on your desires, not fear or external pressures. Celebrate your victories, cherish your journey, and focus on nurturing virtues for a fulfilling existence. -Importance of self-discovery and embracing solitude to know oneself. Spending quality time alone lays the foundation for authentic relationships. -The significance of celebrating even small victories and accomplishments. Each step forward deserves recognition and celebration. -Making choices that resonate with your inner desires and virtues leads to a deeply fulfilling existence. Embrace your uniqueness and craft a narrative rooted in your values. Generated by sider.ai
54 years old...never married. Truly believed i finally found the one. 4 years into our relationship and she told me she was leaving a few hours ago. Just sitting here numb. It feels surreal. All i can do is wait on God and believe he has someone better for me. May God bless anyone here struggling through the pain like i feel.
I’m so sorry to hear about what you’re going through. It’s incredibly tough to face such a sudden change, especially after investing so much in a relationship. Your strength and faith are truly admirable. Trust that there is a reason for everything, and sometimes life's challenges lead us to the most unexpected and wonderful places. Wishing you peace and healing as you navigate this difficult time. May you find comfort and clarity in your journey ahead. Thank you for watching!
@@chadbaker3207 Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement! Your message truly resonates, and it's a beautiful reminder to stay hopeful and trust in the path ahead. Blessings to you!
@@salomenewsome4188 Absolutely, finding joy in your own company is a wonderful step toward self-love and contentment. It's great to hear you've embraced this journey. Keep cherishing and discovering more about yourself! Thank you for watching, keep enjoying our channel!
That’s wonderful to hear! Stoicism has such a profound impact on personal growth and resilience. It’s great that you’ve found strength and improvement through it. Thanks for sharing your experience! Keep enjoying our video!
This has made me taken a step back from a lady who I really cared for and love. I reached to the extent that I said to myself that I have done all I can to show how really I love her, though not big stuffs, but those little kind that I did to show how I truly love her, but the lack reciprocation was too much from her. So here I’m, my feelings are all gone and i don’t want to pretend to her that I’m still in just in case she sees reasons, which I hope not.
I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through. It's incredibly difficult when feelings are not reciprocated, especially when you've put in a lot of effort to show your love and care. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and emotional health in situations like these. Taking a step back to reassess and protect your own feelings is a brave decision. Remember that it's okay to prioritize yourself and your happiness. Wishing you strength and healing as you navigate through this challenging time.
I am in the exact same situation right now bro i tried everything to fix things between me and her but she wasn't reciprocating cos she is already emotionally invested in her "male friend" which hurts me the most
I love this video!! It is timeless wisdom and exactly the type of healthy message for anyone who attracts it. I will watch this video over and over again, regardless of whether I need support in getting back on track or when I am counting my blessings and giving thanks. Thank you so much!! ❤❤❤🙏
Thank you so much for your kind words! It's wonderful to hear that you found value and inspiration in this video. It's true that timeless wisdom can be a source of guidance and positivity in various aspects of our lives. Whether we need motivation to get back on track or reminders to be grateful, these messages can resonate deeply. Wishing you continued blessings, growth, and gratitude on your journey! ❤️🙏
It's March the 31st, 2024 Easter Sunday and this vid is not a lot about what a man should NOT do with women but some damn good life philosophy in general when it's needed at this time in the journey of my life.. 🤝
Absolutely! Sometimes, life lessons come to us in unexpected ways, and it's great that you were able to find some valuable philosophy in this video. Easter Sunday is indeed a special time for reflection and growth. Keep embracing those lessons and applying them positively in your journey. 🙏🏼✨
This video is a game-changer! The insights on maintaining self-worth and prioritizing our own happiness are incredibly empowering. Thank you for this enlightening content! 🌟
Thank you so much for your wonderful comment! I'm thrilled to hear that you found the video empowering and insightful. Your kind words truly motivate us to keep creating content that uplifts and inspires. Stay tuned for more, and take care of yourself! 🌟
Some men were created to be celibate. Celibacy is their test in the world. Because they're sensitive and emotional and because they are dependent on people and human emotions of feelings of love and loyalty, celibacy is their test and celibacy is their answer. Celibacy is their blessing and celibacy they think is their curse. And whenever an intelligent and wise man goes into a relationship and seeks love and happiness in this world from a woman, he ends up suffering so much through other reasons that he ends up emotionally and mentally breaking down and becoming depressed and dependent upon a man emotionally physically and eventually sexually. And many of them end up falling in love with younger boys after sexually being involved with an intelligent and emotional man who feels dishonoured and humiliated by the sexually serving their boyfriends and husbands. The answer is very simple. Celibacy... Purity. Piety. Chastity. Although for a person who is mentally and emotionally depressed and spends all his life crying weeping and wailing and being sad, the greatest nightmare of that person is to be single and chaste. But if they could suffer that pain of celibacy for 3 to 5 years, then they would find such happiness and such fulfilment in their lives and they would never ever have to go through the long part of seeking sexual pleasure from a woman and then falling in love with a man and then becoming a criminal to keep that man and then becoming a murderer and a monster and a weak person who is dependent on another person's love and has to destroy the universe and every religion and every law just to justify themselves and they're sick sexual sexuality. Although celibacy and Chastity is a word of fear and terror to men. These two words hold every honour, every friendship, every happiness, every power, every fulfilment, health happiness honour respect true friendships ultimate happiness and ultimate success in this world and the next for every single emotional and intelligent man. No man in the world suffered because of celibacy. No man in the world ever suffered because of chastity. No man was ever famed because he was celibate. No man was ever tortured because he was chaste. No man was ever tortured and humiliated and assaulted because he was pious. No man was ever killed murdered or framed for being celibate and chaste and pure
You're welcome! Embracing ourselves and finding our own validation is key to personal growth and happiness. Keep believing in yourself and your journey. Danko! ❤️ *Stoic Legend*
It's great that you found the video helpful and were able to gain valuable insights from it. Recognizing and learning from past mistakes is part of growth, and having a compassionate heart is indeed a wonderful trait. Keep striving for self-improvement and authenticity in your interactions!
I'm glad you found the content helpful! Learned helplessness can be challenging, but with patience and support, progress is absolutely possible. Keep up the great work in supporting your wife, and remember, small steps forward lead to significant changes over time. Wishing you both continued success and growth! ❤️
Truer words were never spoken. Thank you, Stoic Legend. This is both empowering and uplifting. Personal growth and enhancement are up to each one of us. Don't give away your gold.
I learned these principle's of what not to do early in my life. What taught me was I dated a woman for about a two years. We broke up. I was deeply sadden for awhile until I started dating again. As expected (the ex) kept calling me and filling up my messaged machine. Finally I broke down and called her. As expected she was begging me back. I told her no way that the train wreck has long gone. Then she said, "What shall I tell my daughter?". I told her I don't care and don't ever call me again and by the way she should get a couple of cats and get use to them😃. The power I felt was overwhelming. I am now with the woman that replaced her for almost 20 years and very happy.
It sounds like you went through a challenging experience but ultimately learned valuable lessons about boundaries and self-worth. It's important to prioritize your own happiness and well-being, and it seems like you've found a fulfilling relationship as a result. Setting boundaries and sticking to them can be difficult but ultimately rewarding. Wishing you continued happiness in your current relationship! 😊
@@StoicLegend_Official keep up the great content. Absolutely! I have learned to apply the stoic ways to control my emotions. Stoicism is the way. Stoicism is powerful once understood and applied correctly.
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! 🙏 I’m glad you found value in the video. Stoicism truly does provide powerful tools for building respect, patience, and self-awareness in our interactions. It’s always rewarding to know that these reminders resonate. Feel free to share the video if you think it could help others, and I'd love to hear which part you found most useful!
@@StoicLegend_Official Appreciate your kind words! Stoicism indeed has timeless lessons. Curious to know-what part of the video resonated most with you?
I'm glad this resonated with you! It's all too easy to get caught up in someone else's world and lose sight of our own balance. Remember to prioritize your own well-being and journey. You deserve to thrive in your own unique way. From *Stoic Legend*
Same here I've been alone for so long now i never beg or call at first it hard but now as days pass by i start forgetting her and i feel more happy now and a live thanks to this quote ,
It sounds like you've found solace and strength in your solitude, which is a commendable feat. Remember, embracing your own company and finding happiness within yourself are powerful steps towards personal growth and fulfillment. Thank you for watching and supporting us!
I’m so glad to hear that this video resonated with you! If you are going through a difficult time, please remember that you are not alone and there are resources available to help.
Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
Since my 12-year relationship ended, I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I finally went to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, and he helped me win back his love.
Absolutely enlightening! Each piece of advice resonated deeply, especially the reminder to take control of our own stories. This video has given me a fresh perspective on maintaining balance and resilience in my relationships
I'm truly touched by your words. It's amazing how deeply we connect with certain truths, even when they stir our emotions. Remember, the journey of self-discovery is filled with moments like these, where we challenge our own beliefs and grow stronger. I'm glad this video resonated with you. Stay strong and keep moving forward. 🙏❤️
Absolutely! Following your bliss is crucial for personal fulfillment, but it's equally important to remain empathetic and considerate towards others' journeys and experiences. Balancing our own happiness with empathy creates a harmonious existence for all. Thanks for sharing your insight!
Its a massive uphill battle to get past a lost love. The video clearly tells you what you must do, you should be the one dictating your path. Be thankful for the emotions you have experienced, there could be even bigger pastures ahead.
Absolutely, moving on from a lost love can indeed feel like an uphill battle, and it's a journey that takes time and patience. You're right that it's crucial to take control of your own path and make choices that are best for your own growth and happiness. While it's natural to feel the pain of a lost love, it's also important to be grateful for the emotions and experiences you've had, as they contribute to your personal growth and understanding of yourself. And as you rightly pointed out, there may indeed be even bigger and brighter opportunities waiting for you in the future. Keep focusing on your own well-being and growth, and trust that you're moving towards those bigger pastures ahead. - From *Stoic Legend*
It sounds like you've been through quite a journey. Loving yourself is incredibly important, and it's great to hear that you're prioritizing self-love. Remember, your relationship with yourself sets the foundation for all other relationships. Wishing you all the best on this path of self-discovery and self-care! From *Stoic Legend*
🙏 No Disrespect " but I got to put it out that everybody's family is different" and I myself have always been on my own and doing just fine without my family " again everybody's family are different" and situations. All in all 🙏 thank you for sharing the wisdom that you are putting out.
Absolutely, everyone's family dynamics and personal circumstances vary greatly. It's commendable that you've found your own path and thrived independently. Your resilience and self-reliance are strengths to be celebrated. Thank you for appreciating the insights shared, and may you continue to navigate life with grace and strength, regardless of familial ties or lack thereof. 🙏 - From *StoicLegend*
The video offers a lesson on maintaining personal values and not allowing yourself to be drawn into unhealthy relationships. Through Stoic philosophy, we learn how to avoid excessive people-pleasing, protect our mental health, preserve our independence, and value ourselves. Don’t sacrifice your happiness for others; instead, live according to what you believe in and find balance in every aspect of life.
Wow! So spot on! I needed to listen to these pieces of advice. I was doing exactly the opposite of what you said one should do to stand up for themselves and shine with their own light. Thank you!
I'm glad to hear that the advice resonated with you! It's never too late to start standing up for yourself and embracing your unique light. Keep shining bright and staying true to yourself! If you have any more questions or need further guidance, feel free to ask. From *Stoic Legend*
I agree with you! Love is long-term care and respect, while obsession is often temporary and controlling. Love opens the door to freedom and growth, while obsession tends to bind and limit. It is important to recognize and nurture a healthy and balanced love.
@@daveyvane Thank you for the compliment! Writing poetry for Love magazine sounds like an exciting opportunity. If you have any connections or if Love magazine is interested, feel free to let me know-I'd be happy to explore it further
Thank you for your wonderful comment! It's always a pleasure to reconnect with the deeper aspects of life and share it with such an amazing community. Your support means a lot! Keep enjoying our video!
"I used to listen lots of motivational video like this one." When we love someone a lot and that person also treat at first like we are precious to him.our profound love starts to grow that time. Unfortunately,When that person discovers our deep love for him.He starts take us granted."that's why we have to choices only, Either we could hide our love for him which is so hard to do, Or get ready to be treated like u dervalued. Once human understand that the other loves him he focus on others thinks and ignore us." At one point we feel like no one can love you more then your yourself.
Your experience highlights the ups and downs of love. Initially feeling cherished, only to later feel taken for granted, is a common challenge. Your insight about the shift in focus once love is known is astute. Ultimately, recognizing the importance of self-love becomes paramount. Thanks for sharing.
I think there is a message to everyone. Sometimes it is best to throw in the towel and walk away if there is that much toxicity, especially if the other party is not aware of it/or level.
Absolutely, knowing when to walk away from toxicity is crucial for maintaining your well-being. It's not always easy, but recognizing when a situation is harmful and choosing to prioritize your own mental and emotional health is a powerful act of self-care. Sometimes, the other party may not be aware of the toxicity or may not be willing to change, and in those cases, stepping away may be the best option for your own growth and happiness. Trust your instincts and prioritize your own peace of mind. - From *Stoic Legend*
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I was very depressed because of girl rejecting me every point of this video are very provoking now i think i wasted most of time with wrong person for wrong things from now onwards should use it wisely
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That’s a profound statement! Embracing wisdom and living life with intention can indeed make life more beautiful and meaningful. When we focus on gaining wisdom and applying it, life's challenges become opportunities for growth, and the world seems less daunting and more vibrant. This perspective can transform everyday experiences, turning them into moments of learning and beauty. Keep cherishing wisdom and life, and you'll find that beauty continues to unfold in unexpected ways. Thank you for sharing!
Absolutely, maintaining a strong sense of self and having faith can be crucial in navigating challenges to mental health. It's important to remember our worth and identity, especially in the face of negativity or harmful behavior from others. Building resilience and seeking support from trusted sources can also help in protecting and nurturing our mental well-being.
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Important lesson I learned! One of my early girlfriends wanted an open relationship! Thinking this was what the new modern man was about, I agreed! She subsequently dumped me,when I asked why she said she really didn’t want an open relationship after all!! It was the one and only time I got the elbow! I love and respect women but guys, don’t believe everything they say, be true to yourself self🤞
It sounds like you went through a challenging experience. It's essential to stay true to yourself and your values, even if it means not conforming to societal expectations. Relationships require honesty and communication from both sides, and it's crucial to ensure that both partners are on the same page. Thank you for sharing your lesson learned! Thank you for sharing, please continue supporting us!
It's amazing how sometimes things fall into place just when we need them the most. Keep faith and trust in the timing of life's events. Sending you strength and positivity during this time. Are you experiencing something wrong?
@@StoicLegend_Official immense vicious circle which I can't let go..obsessed & yet being enslaven & tortured mentaly,emotionaly,physically when meeting up..humilated infront of her working colleagues in her flight attendant uniform,cheating infront of me with all the males flightcrew!
You're welcome! Focusing on your kids and their well-being is a wonderful priority. Taking things step by step and prioritizing what matters most in the moment is a great way to ensure you're giving your best where it's needed most. Wishing you all the best on your parenting journey!
What is preached is essential and important but in practice it is extremely difficult as only a handful of disciplined driven and focused men are able to do this
Thank you for sharing your perspective! You're absolutely right, what's discussed in the video requires a high level of discipline and focus, which can be challenging to maintain. The key is to take it step by step and remind yourself that progress, not perfection, is what matters. Even small, consistent efforts can lead to significant growth over time.
You're welcome! I'm so glad to hear that these rules are making a positive impact on your life. Keep up the great work, and remember that consistency is key. You've got this! 💪😊
Your words are very inspirational, giving much energy to prove how you love someone who by the way don't reciprocate it is very very draining mentally and emotionally. It's going to a point that am getting obsessed with her but within me I know that she is into someone else. Cuz she hardly communicate, even when she replies it's only one word or liners. But from now on am gonna remove my mind from her and am not gonna chat her up first
It sounds like you've been through a challenging situation, and it's understandable that it's been mentally and emotionally draining. Recognizing when it's time to prioritize your own well-being is an important step towards healing. It's essential to redirect your focus towards activities and relationships that uplift and fulfill you. Remember to be gentle with yourself during this process, and don't hesitate to seek support from friends, family, or a professional if needed. You deserve happiness and peace of mind. - From *Stoic Legend*
@@raugust3376 I appreciate your solidarity, buddy. It's comforting to know that others can relate to what we're experiencing. Remember, we're all in this together, and there's strength in sharing our struggles and supporting each other through tough times. Hang in there, and if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here for you.
@@StoicLegend_Official Thanks bro, its tough for me cos me and her share the same mutual friends so seeing her breaks my heart i wish things didn’t turn out the way it did between us
Absolutely, women can also apply these things to men. And let's focus on developing our intelligence and soul deep inside, all good things will come to us!
Absolutely! Respect is crucial in any relationship. If someone doesn't show you the respect you deserve, it's often best to move on and focus on finding someone who values you. Thanks for sharing your perspective!
We're absolutely thrilled to hear that the video had such a profound impact on you! It's always our goal to inspire and provoke thought. Thank you for your enthusiastic support and for taking the time to share your experience. 🌟
Indeed, learning often leads to deeper understanding, which can sometimes leave us speechless. Keep seeking knowledge in the silence! Thank you for watching, please continue supporting us!
@@WilliaminOz Absolutely, traveling light and fast, like a ghost on the wind, is the essence of freedom and agility. It’s a wonderful reminder to keep things simple and embrace the journey with ease. Thanks for sharing this inspiring thought!
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Beware of misogyny. We women can do likewise to unworthy and dishonourable men. What's sauce for the goose is sauce 🫕 for the gander 🪿
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Is there a way to have a one on one in arizona or do I have to come there 5
We do not compare women or men, in all articles, we always hope you develop yourself, focus on being yourself, all good things will come to you!
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There is a book called Casanova Optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal.
I totally agree with you! There’s a lot to learn about the art of communication and understanding what makes connections genuine. The book you mentioned sounds fascinating-especially the part about body language and conversation starters. It’s interesting how such small details can have a huge impact. What’s one piece of advice from the book that really stood out to you?
Thank you for sharing that! The book sounds fascinating and quite comprehensive. It’s always interesting to explore different perspectives on communication and attraction. Have you found any particular insights from it that stood out to you? I'd love to hear your thoughts!
Thanks for sharing the recommendation! The book sounds intriguing, especially with its focus on body language and conversation strategies. I'm curious-how does it approach 'dark mind tricks' without crossing ethical boundaries? Would love to hear your thoughts!
thank you
1.Don't reshape your life to fit others
2. Number two: Don't ruin your life by being too obsessed with someone
3. Number three: Don't let anything harm your mental health or happiness
4. Don't push friends or family away for someone else
5. Don't invest too much time in them
6. Don't reveal everything about your past, especially the tough times
7. Don't agree simply to satisfy them
Thank you!
Thank you for the value of your comment, a very meaningful summary!
@CCRadio-qd8xy Thanks for saving our time.
@@atgc2310 Thank you for watching!
8)Don't be afraid of solitude.
9)Don't forget to celebrate even small wins.
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The best thing I learned from Stoicism is that now I enjoy and cherish my times alone when I do things that are dear to me.
That's a beautiful insight! Stoicism indeed emphasizes finding contentment within oneself and deriving joy from simple pleasures and personal pursuits. Embracing solitude and using it to engage in activities that resonate with you can lead to a deep sense of fulfillment and inner peace. Keep cherishing those moments! - From *Stoic Legend
I need to find this
@@mikep.473 Thank you!
@@StoicLegend_Official Your are absolutely right what you have ardently opined here. If you do take care of yourself as priority, you will transform yourself to become personality of stability, guts and gumption that any individual would invest to love you and be part of your life, especially your partner in this mundane world !!
'Aloneness' and 'loneliness' are so far apart. I laugh when a woman tells me 'You're lonely'. They know NOTHING about my path!
I wish I had watched this 3 months ago. I did everything mentioned here that I shouldn’t had and she left me. I was left feeling massively used and hurt. NEVER. again. Thanks for the great information.
I'm sorry to hear about your experience, and it's understandable that you're feeling hurt and used. Breakups can be incredibly challenging, but it's also a time for reflection and growth. Learning from past experiences, like the insights shared in the video, can help you navigate future relationships more effectively. Remember to be kind to yourself during this time and focus on personal growth and healing. That's what I learned from Stoicism. It's okay to take things at your own pace and to prioritize your well-being. Wishing you strength and resilience as you move forward.
Hahahahahahah hahahahaha,,,, don't worry, remember, things happen for a reason.
when you too good to her, it's dangerous. give all what they need. you will lose her. sad but its true, its difficult to control emotions when truly love someone. big challenge for me right now.
You seem like an experienced person, what you say is true. However, as the video shared, let's live as ourselves!
if u felt that way to your partner, she's not for u.
Be yourself, true love will come to you!
How do I do this??? It's difficult
Yes, it's very difficult but when you do it, you will master everything, including your emotions!
Interesting video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
I'm sorry you're going through this. Breakups are tough, especially after a long relationship. It's okay to miss her and feel frustrated. Give yourself time to heal and consider talking to friends or a professional for support. Focus on self-care and doing things that bring you joy. It will get easier with time.
I begged her and it didn’t work. The only thing that worked was when I told her I had another girlfriend
As said in the video, don't beg, live better, find better things and the one who will regret will be her, try your best! Thank you for watching and supporting our videos!
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Nice one!
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dont talk to us about women until you have 4 or 5 hobbies you care more about than ladies
People that are troubled, unhappy, desperate, try to trick you… how the grass is greener on their side until you discover eventually the ugly weeds that were deeply hiding under that unforeseen toxic soil
Thank you for the great reminder the importance of staying stoic
You have a very profound thought, I like your maturity! Thank you for watching and supporting our videos!
Are you a good person who keeps calm?
You can check out our Keep Calm video in the videos section! Thank you!
I went for a bike ride in the sun today, it brought me far more joy than pursuing someone who demands all I have and then more than I have. I'm choosing peace and happiness, she has not nurtured those.
It sounds like you had a wonderful and liberating experience on your bike ride! Choosing peace and happiness is a powerful decision, especially when faced with demands that drain you. Nurturing your own well-being is essential, and it seems like you're prioritizing that beautifully. Keep embracing those moments of joy and freedom!
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I took my dog for a walk and enjoy that more then being with my girlfriend
If she don't like you , move on and chase dreams, ..Life is too short for wasting time. We are men tired of being rejected, treated like a bullshit .. Just chase money and become successful and see who truly wants you
Absolutely! Focusing on personal growth and pursuing your dreams is a fantastic way to channel energy positively. Life really is too short to dwell on rejection or negative treatment. Success isn't just about wealth; it’s about becoming the best version of ourselves. Those who appreciate and support us through our journey are the ones who truly matter. Keep pushing forward, and thanks for sharing your thoughts!
I lose my self respect only because I am having fear of losing her but I am very thankful to you sir for this motivation video 😊
It's great that you found motivation in the video! Remember, your self-respect should never be tied to someone else. It's important to value yourself independently of any relationship. Focus on building your confidence and self-worth, and everything else will fall into place. Keep pushing forward! 😊💪
Having fear of losing someone just means that you care-life is fragile. Please do not lose that. Instead frame it like this-what is meant for you is simply for you. Put in effort but also, breathe easy. We are all human. As far as self-respect goes, ensure you are rooted in God. He gives clarity. Confusion, fear, doubt is from Satan-not you. You are worthy of what you want.
Yes, fear of losing someone represents love and awareness of the fragility of life. Let's see it as a reminder to appreciate what we have. Believe that what you deserve will come to you and stick with your faith and self-respect.
From *Stoic Legend*
I happen to come across a paperback years ago called, How To Read A Person Like A Book. I read it, studied it some and tested it by, observing people over time. This book was 100 % RIGHT ON! I could tell EXACTLY what someone was doing, thinking, anticipating, etc. "THE BODY NEVER LIES".
Thank you for sharing your experience with that book-it sounds fascinating! It's amazing how much insight we can gain from observing body language and nonverbal cues. 'The body never lies' is such a powerful truth, and it’s incredible that you took the time to study and test it in real life. Do you still use these skills today? I'd love to hear more about how they've helped you in different situations!
Please leave your thoughts on these, thank you!
🎯 Key Moments:
00:00 - Intro
01:11 - 1. Don't reshape your life to fit others'
02:12 - 2. Don’t ruin your life by being too obsessed with someone
03:23 - 3. Don't let anything harm your mental health or happiness
04:36 - 4. Don't push friends or family away for someone else
05:46 - 5. Don’t invest too much time in them
07:00 - 6. Don't reveal everything about your past, especially the tough times
08:12 - 7. Don't agree simply to satisfy them
09:35 - 8. Don't be controlled by the fear of solitude
11:06 - 9. Don't forget to celebrate even small wins
13:35 - Conclusion
Hey I am doing all of the above things you mentioned just to fit in my boyfriends life and make him happy. Right now he's giving me a cold shoulder just because I refuse to send my nudes to him 🙂🙂
As someone who’s currently going through this, this helps a lot thank you so much! I’ve studied philosophy for over a year now and I’ve been trying to reshape my mind to stoicism, although I struggle with mental disorders, I am aware that this mindset really does help with inner peace. It’s a process but with time it will help. Thank you for this 🙏🏻
I'm really glad to hear that you found the video helpful! It's wonderful to see you taking steps towards reshaping your mindset and finding inner peace, especially while dealing with mental disorders. Remember, it's okay to struggle along the way - progress takes time and patience. Keep nurturing that Stoic mindset, and I'm sure you'll continue to see positive changes in your life. Stay strong, and keep moving forward! 🙏🏻
From *Stoic Legend*
@@StoicLegend_Official Thank you so much I appreciate that🙏🏻🙏🏻Truly it means a lot to me!
Thank you!
It's crazy that this video was in my suggestions at a time in my life when I really needed to hear this. Thank you.
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@@StoicLegend_Official I tried ask out for valatines she ended up saying she is held up somewhere else I felt so depressied and lonely after one month later I found her out with a bunch of boys and one boy holding her up like punching 👜 bag
Ignore such girls, focus on developing yourself, all good things will come to you!@@WalkerronnieRonald
It's called algorithm
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The insight at 7:40 about avoiding unnecessary comparisons is incredibly profound. Appreciating people for who they are creates healthier relationships. 🌸
Thank you so much for your kind words! 🌸 I'm thrilled that the insight at 7:40 resonated with you. Avoiding comparisons truly helps us see and appreciate people for who they are, building stronger and healthier connections. What other parts of the video did you find meaningful? I'd love to hear your thoughts! 😊
I swear the internet has been a better father than mine
You will find a lot of useful things from the internet, keep exploring!
Same here
Actually, the Internet has brought us so many interesting things, let's use it well!
To be honest mate ,I think the internet has become more better of a teacher/mentor/ parent then most human beings in the last decade or so!..
Dad did his best, but he didn’t know any of this either. Most men don’t.
Profound insight-it’s almost heartbreaking how readily people pour their energy and devotion into pursuits or relationships that yield little reward, and sometimes leave them with nothing but emptiness and regret.
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"stay present, stay resilient and embrace a stoic mindset"
Absolutely! Staying present, resilient, and adopting a stoic mindset can be powerful tools for navigating life's challenges. Embracing these principles can help us maintain clarity, strength, and peace of mind, even in the face of adversity. Thank you for sharing, keep enjoying our content!
Waaoooo ;;;; today as the Sun sets I feel very strong after opening the Video . Thankyou Tonic Legend
It's nice to hear this from you, I always wish to convey knowledge and positive energy to everyone, thank you for watching and supporting us!
I somehow came across this video at the point where i needed it the most. The words kept resonating with me throughout. I felt a divine power that the cosmos needed me to hear this out and it was indeed a moment of truth for me through this video. Thanks @Stoic Legend for crafting such a content, i will help millions for sure.
I'm so grateful that the video reached you at just the right moment. It's truly inspiring to hear how the words resonated with you. If there's any particular insight or moment that stood out as especially meaningful, I’d love to hear about it. Thank you for your encouraging words and for being a part of our community!
From *Stoic Legend*
My fiancé of 4 years which we were about to get married in about 6 months, quarrelled with me and blocked me on all social media except for her direct line which she doesn't pickup or answer my messages. I loved her so much and obsessed for quite a while but finally realize that I don't need anyone to lead a happy life specially women of such kind.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It sounds like a difficult and painful experience. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness, even if it means letting go of relationships that aren't healthy or fulfilling. Remember that you deserve love and respect, and there are people out there who will appreciate you for who you are. Take care of yourself and focus on finding joy and fulfillment in other aspects of your life. Thank you for watching!
Sorry for your loss!😮💨
I know the feeling since my gf throws those jabs of female $#it tests. I must have failed a lot of them, while she tries to treat me like chopped liver. I silently walked away without a fight.
I understand your pain just ended a 4 yr relationship with my girlfriend, its funny how social media can corrupt purity, giving up ur relationship at the expense of followers, and then they ask where are all the gentlemen
Sorry to hear this. I know it's difficult, but you need to move on. The two of you were just not meant to be, and the lady who is "for you," is out there waiting.
@@David-wr7bs Thank you so much for the supportive and kind words. At first I thought that I can easily get out of it and move on but it was not as easy as I thought it would be. It jas hurt me to a great extent and am still on the processbof healing and still haven't achived it yet.
I'm in the same situation of chasing a woman, but after watching this motivational video. I have learned to be myself. Thank you very much
That's awesome to hear! Staying true to yourself is always the best approach. Keep up the positivity, and best of luck!
I'm rejected one . Please pray and help the broken hearted and rejected like me..
I'm truly sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult time. Rejection can be incredibly tough, but please know that you're not alone. You are valued and deserving of love and acceptance. Take the time you need to heal, and remember that brighter days are ahead. You're in my thoughts, and I'm here to support you in any way I can. Focus on developing yourself, intelligence, health, virtue, appearance, all good things will come to you!
@@StoicLegend_Official I hope in the End..
I wish all the best to you!
All the thoughts in this video happened to me.. after 16 years of time with her. Now I am left alone.. but hearing this need to stand up again.
@@delfinflores3595 I'm sorry to hear about what you've been through. It's never easy to navigate the aftermath of such experiences, but it's inspiring to see your resilience and determination to stand up again. Remember, you're not alone, and there's always hope for brighter days ahead. Keep moving forward, one step at a time. You've got this! - From *Stoic Legend*
I agree with almost everything in this video. Thank you for the reminder to put myself first because so far no one else has done so. I’m always putting myself out to help others and it’s hardly ever reciprocated ❤❤❤😢
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. It's truly important to prioritize self-care and self-love, especially when you're naturally inclined to help others. Remember, taking care of yourself isn't selfish; it's necessary. Your wellbeing matters just as much as anyone else's. Keep embracing your kind heart, but don't forget to nurture it as well. Sending you positive vibes and support! ❤️
From *Stoic Legend*
Don't beg, live better, seek better things and the one who will regret will not be you!
Thank you for your insightful comment! Absolutely, focusing on self-improvement and pursuing meaningful experiences can lead to a more fulfilling life. It's about valuing ourselves and our journey. The right path often brings the right people into our lives. Keep striving for the best!
Very thought provoking. Never be a doormat to anyone
Absolutely, you're spot on! It's crucial to maintain self-respect and set healthy boundaries in all aspects of life. Standing up for yourself doesn't mean being aggressive; it means valuing your worth and ensuring others do too. Keep embracing your strength and authenticity! 💪🌟
This video reminded me of a time when I learned the hard way that being overly critical can really harm a relationship. I once criticized my girlfriend for something small, and it caused a big rift between us. It taught me the importance of patience and understanding.✨✨
Thank you for watching and sharing!
Have just broken up with my school girl friend of seven years. We have a child. But through out all these years she has had no return love for me. She now has a better job than mine but I chased and felt exhausted. So we broke up. Am adapting to life with out her. Ts so painful. These words have added to my strength. I now priotise my self. Thanks
I'm sorry to hear about your breakup and the challenges you're facing. It's understandable to feel hurt and exhausted after investing so much time and effort into a relationship. It sounds like you've made a tough but necessary decision for your well-being and priorities. Taking care of yourself and focusing on your own happiness is crucial. It's okay to feel pain during this adjustment period, but remember that prioritizing yourself is a step towards healing and finding happiness again. Stay strong, and take each day at a time. You're not alone in this journey. Thank you for watching!
I started listening to this video this morning and I felt very inspired because I had a tossing and turning night last night. When I was tossing and turning I know something was not right. Then this video came out and inspired me as I was listening to it saying never give your flashlight to somebody in the dark.
You are a very thoughtful person, the example you give is also great! Advice too!
Have you encountered anything difficult to think about?
@@StoicLegend_Official a new lady who came into my life
Use all your experience to treat her well!
No contact is so hard but once you get over the hump, you'll be fine. I'm working out, putting in more hours at work, supporting my son's track and field meets and I'm painting the inside of my home as well as buying all new furniture. My ex calls me and stalks My page after not reaching out to her. I've met so many women that are just falling from the sky.
It sounds like you're really making strides in focusing on yourself and your own well-being! No contact can indeed be challenging, but it's heartening to hear how you're channeling that energy into positive outlets. Your dedication to personal growth, your son's activities, and even revamping your living space is truly inspiring. Keep prioritizing your own happiness, you're on the right track! Thank you so much for supporting us!
From *Stoic Legend*
I'm stuck on the hump part right now its so frustrating
@@omarova1935 I hear you. Getting stuck in the "hump" part of a process can be incredibly frustrating. It might help to break down the task into smaller, more manageable steps, focusing on one thing at a time. Sometimes taking a step back, gaining some perspective, or seeking advice from others can also provide clarity and help you overcome the obstacle. Remember, it's okay to feel frustrated, but don't let it deter you from moving forward. You've got this! Wishing you the best?
I cracked twice in my phase but now I think I’m nailing it. 2 weeks of no contact! I deleted social media, work 60 hour weeks now and go straight the gym afterwards! Just staying busy!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
@@DatBoyJames Thank you for sharing!
The video emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, authenticity, and maintaining a healthy balance in relationships, drawing insights from Stoic philosophy.
Key moments:
00:01 To maintain healthy relationships, avoid reshaping your life for others, being overly obsessed with someone, compromising mental health for others, and pushing friends away. Prioritize self-care and authenticity in interactions.
-Avoid reshaping your life for others to prevent frustration and confusion. Embrace your uniqueness and take control of your path.
-Do not become overly obsessed with someone to maintain focus on your own goals. Nurture your aspirations and avoid losing your sense of self.
-Prioritize mental health over constantly catering to others. Reclaim ownership of your happiness and well-being to avoid a cycle of self-neglect.
-Avoid pushing friends away and prioritize strengthening relationships. Embrace resilience and protect your inner peace to shape your own destiny.
04:39 Maintain a balance between relationships, time investment, sharing personal history, and agreeing with others to prioritize self-care and authenticity. It's crucial to nurture connections while safeguarding personal boundaries and happiness.
-Importance of maintaining relationships with friends and family for support and growth. Neglecting them weakens your support system and personal development.
-Being mindful of time investment in relationships to prioritize personal growth and fulfillment. Time is a valuable asset not to be excessively poured into others.
-The significance of guarding personal history and not revealing everything to others. Protecting your past helps maintain your strength and security.
-The importance of prioritizing personal happiness over agreeing with others to maintain authenticity and self-fulfillment. Saying no can be empowering and liberating.
09:12 Embrace your true self, make decisions based on your desires, not fear or external pressures. Celebrate your victories, cherish your journey, and focus on nurturing virtues for a fulfilling existence.
-Importance of self-discovery and embracing solitude to know oneself. Spending quality time alone lays the foundation for authentic relationships.
-The significance of celebrating even small victories and accomplishments. Each step forward deserves recognition and celebration.
-Making choices that resonate with your inner desires and virtues leads to a deeply fulfilling existence. Embrace your uniqueness and craft a narrative rooted in your values.
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54 years old...never married.
Truly believed i finally found the one. 4 years into our relationship and she told me she was leaving a few hours ago. Just sitting here numb. It feels surreal. All i can do is wait on God and believe he has someone better for me. May God bless anyone here struggling through the pain like i feel.
I’m so sorry to hear about what you’re going through. It’s incredibly tough to face such a sudden change, especially after investing so much in a relationship. Your strength and faith are truly admirable. Trust that there is a reason for everything, and sometimes life's challenges lead us to the most unexpected and wonderful places. Wishing you peace and healing as you navigate this difficult time. May you find comfort and clarity in your journey ahead. Thank you for watching!
@@chadbaker3207 Thank you, Chad.
@@chadbaker3207 Thank you so much for your kind words and encouragement! Your message truly resonates, and it's a beautiful reminder to stay hopeful and trust in the path ahead. Blessings to you!
So sorry love yourself enjoy your own company. I learnt that and am good
@@salomenewsome4188 Absolutely, finding joy in your own company is a wonderful step toward self-love and contentment. It's great to hear you've embraced this journey. Keep cherishing and discovering more about yourself! Thank you for watching, keep enjoying our channel!
Reading about stoicism is the best decision I've ever made. It made me stronger and better.
That’s wonderful to hear! Stoicism has such a profound impact on personal growth and resilience. It’s great that you’ve found strength and improvement through it. Thanks for sharing your experience! Keep enjoying our video!
This has made me taken a step back from a lady who I really cared for and love. I reached to the extent that I said to myself that I have done all I can to show how really I love her, though not big stuffs, but those little kind that I did to show how I truly love her, but the lack reciprocation was too much from her. So here I’m, my feelings are all gone and i don’t want to pretend to her that I’m still in just in case she sees reasons, which I hope not.
I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through. It's incredibly difficult when feelings are not reciprocated, especially when you've put in a lot of effort to show your love and care. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and emotional health in situations like these. Taking a step back to reassess and protect your own feelings is a brave decision. Remember that it's okay to prioritize yourself and your happiness. Wishing you strength and healing as you navigate through this challenging time.
I am in the exact same situation right now bro i tried everything to fix things between me and her but she wasn't reciprocating cos she is already emotionally invested in her "male friend" which hurts me the most
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I love this video!! It is timeless wisdom and exactly the type of healthy message for anyone who attracts it. I will watch this video over and over again, regardless of whether I need support in getting back on track or when I am counting my blessings and giving thanks. Thank you so much!! ❤❤❤🙏
Thank you so much for your kind words! It's wonderful to hear that you found value and inspiration in this video. It's true that timeless wisdom can be a source of guidance and positivity in various aspects of our lives. Whether we need motivation to get back on track or reminders to be grateful, these messages can resonate deeply. Wishing you continued blessings, growth, and gratitude on your journey! ❤️🙏
It's March the 31st, 2024 Easter Sunday and this vid is not a lot about what a man should NOT do with women but some damn good life philosophy in general when it's needed at this time in the journey of my life.. 🤝
Here I am five min later in the comment after finishing same vid
Absolutely! Sometimes, life lessons come to us in unexpected ways, and it's great that you were able to find some valuable philosophy in this video. Easter Sunday is indeed a special time for reflection and growth. Keep embracing those lessons and applying them positively in your journey. 🙏🏼✨
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This video is a game-changer! The insights on maintaining self-worth and prioritizing our own happiness are incredibly empowering. Thank you for this enlightening content! 🌟
Thank you so much for your wonderful comment! I'm thrilled to hear that you found the video empowering and insightful. Your kind words truly motivate us to keep creating content that uplifts and inspires. Stay tuned for more, and take care of yourself! 🌟
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I'm in transit walking out of only needed relationship ( external). It is my friend who understand and stand by me. Thanks 😊
Be stronger and become better, I firmly believe that then you are the center of the universe!
This not only applies to dating but to all sort of relationships, friends and family
Thank you for sharing
You have very deep thoughts, it's great that you realized that, thank you!
Some men were created to be celibate. Celibacy is their test in the world. Because they're sensitive and emotional and because they are dependent on people and human emotions of feelings of love and loyalty, celibacy is their test and celibacy is their answer. Celibacy is their blessing and celibacy they think is their curse. And whenever an intelligent and wise man goes into a relationship and seeks love and happiness in this world from a woman, he ends up suffering so much through other reasons that he ends up emotionally and mentally breaking down and becoming depressed and dependent upon a man emotionally physically and eventually sexually.
And many of them end up falling in love with younger boys after sexually being involved with an intelligent and emotional man who feels dishonoured and humiliated by the sexually serving their boyfriends and husbands.
The answer is very simple. Celibacy...
Purity. Piety. Chastity.
Although for a person who is mentally and emotionally depressed and spends all his life crying weeping and wailing and being sad, the greatest nightmare of that person is to be single and chaste. But if they could suffer that pain of celibacy for 3 to 5 years, then they would find such happiness and such fulfilment in their lives and they would never ever have to go through the long part of seeking sexual pleasure from a woman and then falling in love with a man and then becoming a criminal to keep that man and then becoming a murderer and a monster and a weak person who is dependent on another person's love and has to destroy the universe and every religion and every law just to justify themselves and they're sick sexual sexuality.
Although celibacy and Chastity is a word of fear and terror to men. These two words hold every honour, every friendship, every happiness, every power, every fulfilment, health happiness honour respect true friendships ultimate happiness and ultimate success in this world and the next for every single emotional and intelligent man.
No man in the world suffered because of celibacy. No man in the world ever suffered because of chastity. No man was ever famed because he was celibate. No man was ever tortured because he was chaste. No man was ever tortured and humiliated and assaulted because he was pious. No man was ever killed murdered or framed for being celibate and chaste and pure
Thanks for helping me grow. Let's choose to embrace ourselves. We don't need approval from no one.Danko.❤
You're welcome! Embracing ourselves and finding our own validation is key to personal growth and happiness. Keep believing in yourself and your journey. Danko! ❤️ *Stoic Legend*
I was about to do all those mistakes, thanks god that I watched that video...
Man has a heart of a child
It's great that you found the video helpful and were able to gain valuable insights from it. Recognizing and learning from past mistakes is part of growth, and having a compassionate heart is indeed a wonderful trait. Keep striving for self-improvement and authenticity in your interactions!
This is EXCELLENT. I’ve been trying to help my wife for over a decade with learned helplessness. Thank you. Perfect ❤
I'm glad you found the content helpful! Learned helplessness can be challenging, but with patience and support, progress is absolutely possible. Keep up the great work in supporting your wife, and remember, small steps forward lead to significant changes over time. Wishing you both continued success and growth! ❤️
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How to heal from a bad break up..bro..I need some advice..plzzzz share a word
One-sided love where your self respect always loses..but love always win,win, always win🙂🖤 moment
Great! It sounds like you've captured a complex and bittersweet aspect of love. Thanks so much for sharing your thought!
I very much needed this today. I will try to use this advise moving forward. Thank you.
Wonderful!
Don't try, do! Says Bruce lee..
Truer words were never spoken. Thank you, Stoic Legend. This is both empowering and uplifting. Personal growth and enhancement are up to each one of us. Don't give away your gold.
Thank you! If there's anything else you need, just let me know. keep enjoying our video!
@@StoicLegend_Official Much appreciated!
Thank you! I'm so happy to hear this, I hope you can share it with many people!
I learned these principle's of what not to do early in my life. What taught me was I dated a woman for about a two years. We broke up. I was deeply sadden for awhile until I started dating again. As expected (the ex) kept calling me and filling up my messaged machine. Finally I broke down and called her. As expected she was begging me back. I told her no way that the train wreck has long gone. Then she said, "What shall I tell my daughter?". I told her I don't care and don't ever call me again and by the way she should get a couple of cats and get use to them😃. The power I felt was overwhelming. I am now with the woman that replaced her for almost 20 years and very happy.
It sounds like you went through a challenging experience but ultimately learned valuable lessons about boundaries and self-worth. It's important to prioritize your own happiness and well-being, and it seems like you've found a fulfilling relationship as a result. Setting boundaries and sticking to them can be difficult but ultimately rewarding. Wishing you continued happiness in your current relationship! 😊
@@StoicLegend_Official keep up the great content. Absolutely! I have learned to apply the stoic ways to control my emotions. Stoicism is the way. Stoicism is powerful once understood and applied correctly.
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Insightful video! Stoicism can really guide interactions by focusing on respect, patience, and self-awareness. Great reminders here
Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment! 🙏 I’m glad you found value in the video. Stoicism truly does provide powerful tools for building respect, patience, and self-awareness in our interactions. It’s always rewarding to know that these reminders resonate. Feel free to share the video if you think it could help others, and I'd love to hear which part you found most useful!
@@StoicLegend_Official Appreciate your kind words! Stoicism indeed has timeless lessons. Curious to know-what part of the video resonated most with you?
Wow thank you!! I was entangled in someone else’s world and yes it did disrupt my balance. ..
I'm glad this resonated with you! It's all too easy to get caught up in someone else's world and lose sight of our own balance. Remember to prioritize your own well-being and journey. You deserve to thrive in your own unique way. From *Stoic Legend*
Thanks!
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Same here I've been alone for so long now i never beg or call at first it hard but now as days pass by i start forgetting her and i feel more happy now and a live thanks to this quote ,
It sounds like you've found solace and strength in your solitude, which is a commendable feat. Remember, embracing your own company and finding happiness within yourself are powerful steps towards personal growth and fulfillment. Thank you for watching and supporting us!
@@StoicLegend_Official thanks to you too , for sharing this and inspired me 👍🏻
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Thank you for helping me with depression I learn a lot this morning
I’m so glad to hear that this video resonated with you! If you are going through a difficult time, please remember that you are not alone and there are resources available to help.
Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
Since my 12-year relationship ended, I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I finally went to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, and he helped me win back his love.
It's fascinating! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor and how can I get in touch with one most effectively?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers and he’s the best spell caster to ever live
Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked father obah eze up, and I'm genuinely impressed.
This is so insightful! Following these Stoic principles can really help build respect and create healthier, more balanced relationships.
What makes you think the most in today's video? 🧐🧐
Absolutely enlightening! Each piece of advice resonated deeply, especially the reminder to take control of our own stories. This video has given me a fresh perspective on maintaining balance and resilience in my relationships
Thank you for sharing!
Watching at the same time crying 😭. “I love you” sounds to me as the sweetest lie we have ever told to ourselves. Thanks for this video 🙏🙏🙏
I'm truly touched by your words. It's amazing how deeply we connect with certain truths, even when they stir our emotions. Remember, the journey of self-discovery is filled with moments like these, where we challenge our own beliefs and grow stronger. I'm glad this video resonated with you. Stay strong and keep moving forward. 🙏❤️
A very profound analysis for anyone's being! Follow your bliss, while also staying empathetic to others!
Absolutely! Following your bliss is crucial for personal fulfillment, but it's equally important to remain empathetic and considerate towards others' journeys and experiences. Balancing our own happiness with empathy creates a harmonious existence for all. Thanks for sharing your insight!
Its a massive uphill battle to get past a lost love. The video clearly tells you what you must do, you should be the one dictating your path. Be thankful for the emotions you have experienced, there could be even bigger pastures ahead.
Absolutely, moving on from a lost love can indeed feel like an uphill battle, and it's a journey that takes time and patience. You're right that it's crucial to take control of your own path and make choices that are best for your own growth and happiness. While it's natural to feel the pain of a lost love, it's also important to be grateful for the emotions and experiences you've had, as they contribute to your personal growth and understanding of yourself. And as you rightly pointed out, there may indeed be even bigger and brighter opportunities waiting for you in the future. Keep focusing on your own well-being and growth, and trust that you're moving towards those bigger pastures ahead. - From *Stoic Legend*
I did all the opposite facts when I am in love with her. Now, I have to love my self. Thank you so much.
It sounds like you've been through quite a journey. Loving yourself is incredibly important, and it's great to hear that you're prioritizing self-love. Remember, your relationship with yourself sets the foundation for all other relationships. Wishing you all the best on this path of self-discovery and self-care!
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🙏 No Disrespect " but I got to put it out that everybody's family is different" and I myself have always been on my own and doing just fine without my family " again everybody's family are different" and situations. All in all 🙏 thank you for sharing the wisdom that you are putting out.
Absolutely, everyone's family dynamics and personal circumstances vary greatly. It's commendable that you've found your own path and thrived independently. Your resilience and self-reliance are strengths to be celebrated. Thank you for appreciating the insights shared, and may you continue to navigate life with grace and strength, regardless of familial ties or lack thereof. 🙏 - From *StoicLegend*
The video offers a lesson on maintaining personal values and not allowing yourself to be drawn into unhealthy relationships. Through Stoic philosophy, we learn how to avoid excessive people-pleasing, protect our mental health, preserve our independence, and value ourselves. Don’t sacrifice your happiness for others; instead, live according to what you believe in and find balance in every aspect of life.
I ain’t trying to be perfect. I’m just trying to be better and I continue to strive to make it there day by day.
Yes, thoughts are great, focus on yourself, everything will come to you!
This not only applies to dating but to all sort of relationships, friends and family
Very Enlightening and one of the best narrative on key principles of long standing personal growth..
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s inspiring to see how you connect these principles to a path of personal growth.
Wow! So spot on! I needed to listen to these pieces of advice. I was doing exactly the opposite of what you said one should do to stand up for themselves and shine with their own light. Thank you!
I'm glad to hear that the advice resonated with you! It's never too late to start standing up for yourself and embracing your unique light. Keep shining bright and staying true to yourself! If you have any more questions or need further guidance, feel free to ask.
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Happy to listen.I have learnt that not good to share own past life with people anyhow.
the difference between love and obsession is that obsession is temporary love is eternal
I agree with you!
Love is long-term care and respect, while obsession is often temporary and controlling. Love opens the door to freedom and growth, while obsession tends to bind and limit. It is important to recognize and nurture a healthy and balanced love.
Wow, you should write poetry for Love magazine
@@daveyvane Thank you for the compliment! Writing poetry for Love magazine sounds like an exciting opportunity. If you have any connections or if Love magazine is interested, feel free to let me know-I'd be happy to explore it further
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Excellent rediscovery of life's self-touch. Great community indeed!
Thank you for your wonderful comment! It's always a pleasure to reconnect with the deeper aspects of life and share it with such an amazing community. Your support means a lot! Keep enjoying our video!
"I used to listen lots of motivational video like this one." When we love someone a lot and that person also treat at first like we are precious to him.our profound love starts to grow that time. Unfortunately,When that person discovers our deep love for him.He starts take us granted."that's why we have to choices only, Either we could hide our love for him which is so hard to do, Or get ready to be treated like u dervalued. Once human understand that the other loves him he focus on others thinks and ignore us." At one point we feel like no one can love you more then your yourself.
Your experience highlights the ups and downs of love. Initially feeling cherished, only to later feel taken for granted, is a common challenge. Your insight about the shift in focus once love is known is astute. Ultimately, recognizing the importance of self-love becomes paramount. Thanks for sharing.
Thanks
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I literally get goosebumps when I listen
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I think there is a message to everyone. Sometimes it is best to throw in the towel and walk away if there is that much toxicity, especially if the other party is not aware of it/or level.
Absolutely, knowing when to walk away from toxicity is crucial for maintaining your well-being. It's not always easy, but recognizing when a situation is harmful and choosing to prioritize your own mental and emotional health is a powerful act of self-care. Sometimes, the other party may not be aware of the toxicity or may not be willing to change, and in those cases, stepping away may be the best option for your own growth and happiness. Trust your instincts and prioritize your own peace of mind. - From *Stoic Legend*
Thank you guys for building us I mean the youth of this day
I have taken my own
May God bless you for feeding us with these words
Words are more important than money
Thank you for your kind words! It’s wonderful to hear that you’ve found value in these discussions. Words can indeed be incredibly powerful-they can inspire, heal, and transform lives. I'm glad to be a part of your journey of growth and discovery. May you continue to find strength and insight in the wisdom shared, and may it guide you towards fulfillment and happiness. Blessings on your path forward! Please continue sharing and supporting us!
Thank you, universe, for these life insights. It's really important to know all these things.
Glad you think so!
These are facts which we must be aware of. They are of utmost value.
Thank you so much for summarizing these thoughts in videos.
God bless you..
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I think a lot of people around the world would appreciate your videos. It's just a matter of accessiblity of these videos to them. Once people would reach here they can't resist themselves from loving these videos.
The voice of a man,
The background sound and pictures,
And the messages,
Are just irresistible.
Everything seems a special effort to make these videos beautiful.
@@ravipratap4401 Thank you! Keep enjoying our video
People are like dirt; they can either nourish you, and help you grow as a person, or they can stunt your growth and make you wilt and die." ~ Plato
Exactly!
14:37
What impresses you at 14:37?
Actually, the entire video had an impact on me, as I realized - to be short - I have been giving power of my own happiness to others.
Do you feel regretful about that?
No.8 is so true, don't let fear guide u,it really takes you to the most fucked up situation
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I was very depressed because of girl rejecting me every point of this video are very provoking now i think i wasted most of time with wrong person for wrong things from now onwards should use it wisely
Develop yourself and live as yourself, then you will attract better quality and truly worthwhile relationships!
These 9 things are meaningful and true in real life. Thanks for sharing this video. 😘
Thank you, which do you think is the most important?
I recommend stoicism for anyone looking to improve their emotional intelligence. This video is a must-watch!
Thank you so much for your support!!
Man just watched the whole and need to rewatch it again.
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"The Stoic idea of 'the dichotomy of control' has completely shifted my perspective on life."
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MORE THAN WISDOM AND LIFE SHALL NEVER BE UGLY
That’s a profound statement! Embracing wisdom and living life with intention can indeed make life more beautiful and meaningful. When we focus on gaining wisdom and applying it, life's challenges become opportunities for growth, and the world seems less daunting and more vibrant. This perspective can transform everyday experiences, turning them into moments of learning and beauty. Keep cherishing wisdom and life, and you'll find that beauty continues to unfold in unexpected ways. Thank you for sharing!
Some people will go to great lengths to do harm your mental health. That’s why faith is needed and remembering who you are.
Absolutely, maintaining a strong sense of self and having faith can be crucial in navigating challenges to mental health. It's important to remember our worth and identity, especially in the face of negativity or harmful behavior from others. Building resilience and seeking support from trusted sources can also help in protecting and nurturing our mental well-being.
This was incredibly helpful! 👍 Thanks a million for sharing your expertise with us.
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I forgot to celebrate my milestones. Thank you for reminding me! Thank you!
Congratulations on your milestones! It's great that you're taking the time to acknowledge and celebrate your achievements. Keep up the fantastic work!
Celebrating will bring us many emotions and continue to strive to reach the next milestone! Try your best!
This channel deserve more subs👍🏻
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This is timely. Truly an unexamined life is not worth living.
That's right, let's continue to experience, thereby drawing conclusions for ourselves!
Important lesson I learned!
One of my early girlfriends wanted an open relationship!
Thinking this was what the new modern man was about, I agreed!
She subsequently dumped me,when I asked why she said she really didn’t want an open relationship after all!!
It was the one and only time I got the elbow!
I love and respect women but guys, don’t believe everything they say, be true to yourself self🤞
It sounds like you went through a challenging experience. It's essential to stay true to yourself and your values, even if it means not conforming to societal expectations. Relationships require honesty and communication from both sides, and it's crucial to ensure that both partners are on the same page. Thank you for sharing your lesson learned! Thank you for sharing, please continue supporting us!
Appreciate your reply!
I wouldn’t call it challenging though, just surely part of the learning experience we all go through.
Regards Shaun
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Wow what perfect timing..seems the Allmighty Lord heard my prayers in despair! 😢
It's amazing how sometimes things fall into place just when we need them the most. Keep faith and trust in the timing of life's events. Sending you strength and positivity during this time. Are you experiencing something wrong?
@@StoicLegend_Official immense vicious circle which I can't let go..obsessed & yet being enslaven & tortured mentaly,emotionaly,physically when meeting up..humilated infront of her working colleagues in her flight attendant uniform,cheating infront of me with all the males flightcrew!
I hope you can be strong and ready to eliminate the toxic things around you! Wishing all the best will come to you!
Thank you. This is so timely. I cannot do all things at once so my focus now is mainly for my kids
You're welcome! Focusing on your kids and their well-being is a wonderful priority. Taking things step by step and prioritizing what matters most in the moment is a great way to ensure you're giving your best where it's needed most. Wishing you all the best on your parenting journey!
What is preached is essential and important but in practice it is extremely difficult as only a handful of disciplined driven and focused men are able to do this
Thank you for sharing your perspective! You're absolutely right, what's discussed in the video requires a high level of discipline and focus, which can be challenging to maintain. The key is to take it step by step and remind yourself that progress, not perfection, is what matters. Even small, consistent efforts can lead to significant growth over time.
Thank you so much❤
These rules are going to change my life
You're welcome! I'm so glad to hear that these rules are making a positive impact on your life. Keep up the great work, and remember that consistency is key. You've got this! 💪😊
Your words are very inspirational, giving much energy to prove how you love someone who by the way don't reciprocate it is very very draining mentally and emotionally. It's going to a point that am getting obsessed with her but within me I know that she is into someone else. Cuz she hardly communicate, even when she replies it's only one word or liners. But from now on am gonna remove my mind from her and am not gonna chat her up first
It sounds like you've been through a challenging situation, and it's understandable that it's been mentally and emotionally draining. Recognizing when it's time to prioritize your own well-being is an important step towards healing. It's essential to redirect your focus towards activities and relationships that uplift and fulfill you. Remember to be gentle with yourself during this process, and don't hesitate to seek support from friends, family, or a professional if needed. You deserve happiness and peace of mind. - From *Stoic Legend*
You not alone bro i am going through the exact same right now
@@raugust3376 I appreciate your solidarity, buddy. It's comforting to know that others can relate to what we're experiencing. Remember, we're all in this together, and there's strength in sharing our struggles and supporting each other through tough times. Hang in there, and if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here for you.
@@StoicLegend_Official Thanks bro, its tough for me cos me and her share the same mutual friends so seeing her breaks my heart i wish things didn’t turn out the way it did between us
So much insightful wisdom..wish i got this guidance years ago as women caused so much mess in my life
It's never too late, focus on yourself, thank you for watching and supporting us!
Didn't you let these women do that?
Absolutely, women can also apply these things to men. And let's focus on developing our intelligence and soul deep inside, all good things will come to us!
A new me today thanks to stoic teachings
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If she didn’t respect you no matter how beautiful she is just walk away and close the door .
Absolutely! Respect is crucial in any relationship. If someone doesn't show you the respect you deserve, it's often best to move on and focus on finding someone who values you. Thanks for sharing your perspective!
THIS IS...... POWERFUL... AMAZING.
and AWESOME..... Truly Grabbed Me
And Made Me RE --- THINK so many things...... Thank You....
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the more we learn the more silent we become :)
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Travel light travel fast. like a ghost on the wind.
@@WilliaminOz Absolutely, traveling light and fast, like a ghost on the wind, is the essence of freedom and agility. It’s a wonderful reminder to keep things simple and embrace the journey with ease. Thanks for sharing this inspiring thought!