1) guard your past 2) face the fear of being alone 3) manage your time wisely 4) celebrate your achievements 5) safeguard your mental health 6) be true to yourself 7) don’t sacrifice your life for someone else 8) prioritize your relationships with friends and family 9) avoid obsessive devotion
I once dated a woman who had a dog named Buck. This woman was always telling Buck what to do and how to do it. When I finally ended our relationship, she couldn’t understand why I was doing so. I told her that she needed a man like Buck and that I wasn’t Buck.
As a 60 years old man who broke each and everyone of these rules, I can tell that they are true. Advice for the young: do not be fooled by anything else. Follow these rules by the letter. If it means losing somebody, so be it. They were not worthy.
@@JSRF420It's NEVER too late to do better! I failed for many years with relationships until I started to love and respect myself more. My current life is not perfect, but my self esteem is in a much, much better place. Don't give up!
Interesting video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
I'm really sorry to hear you're going through this. It's tough to let go of someone you deeply care about. Right now, it's important to allow yourself to grieve and accept your feelings rather than pushing them away. Reach out to friends or family members who can support you during this time; talking about your emotions can help lessen the burden. Try to immerse yourself in activities you enjoy or explore new hobbies to keep your mind occupied. It might be helpful to see a therapist, who can provide a safe space to process your emotions and guide you through this difficult period. Remember, healing takes time, and it's okay to feel lost and hurt. Focus on self-care, be patient with yourself, and slowly, you'll start to find your way forward again. Even though it feels impossible now, life can and will get better.
Wisdom comes with maturity. I have learned all these things and am comfortable, content and happy being alone. I often tell people I came into this world without anyone or anything and will leave the same way. You will too.
Only one being in the whole world is the exception : our mothers. You were not alone, she was there for you. That’s the only exception to the rule. God bless
Then he said to the woman, “I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy, and in pain you will give birth. And you will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you.”
I did not realize the meaning of #2 until after my divorce. After a rebound relationship i swore off dating for 4 years and just focused on my career, myself and my young adult children. It was exactly what I needed and will never regret it. Today, I am in a wonderful relationship with a woman who truly appreciates me, is very patient, and is her own person.
GOOD day this is mom lola. just a reading I have done and it is a very important matter about your life but when you come to the temple I will be able to do a general reading so that you can know more and see by yourself what is happening in your life. I am a professional Healer with strong Ethical principles that I extend to all life. I believe it is a healer’s duty to foster life in all its forms and alleviate bad luck ,confusion and life's mysterious problems. A transit period is on your way and at your age you are not perfectly positioned to get the very best out of the opportunities it is set to bring. Indeed you have lived in the glare of several powerful negative influences. These influences bring about relationship misunderstandings, they put your finances in Jeopardy and so is your life from the past, Jelous friends unstable relationships Financial constraints and debts all caused by evil doings of the people around you. Your destiny was to be a very rich person with a stable family and a very loving Partner and you are an ambitious person. However there many negative spirits that have been holding you and blocking your luck and success in life because there's a bad spell holding your life and blocking your way from reaching your destiny . To find out more on how you can remove the stumbling blocks and live to the Full potential of what God created you to be. At this stage the analysis is very difficult but u can contact me for an appointment and consultation fee free, CALL /WHATSAPP +27838807531
Excellent information - it borders on tragic how much so many people are willing to sacrifice for so little return and often no return at all, only erosion!
Try and figure out how long it took to learn Agriculture..or Animal Husbandry, it wasnt overnight. More like Thousands of Years..they sacrificed their time, effort and happiness to affect a new way of living. Maybe they should have given up after a few centuries with little or no return...sacrifice is sacrifice, in a field or in your own House.
GOOD day this is mom lola. just a reading I have done and it is a very important matter about your life but when you come to the temple I will be able to do a general reading so that you can know more and see by yourself what is happening in your life. I am a professional Healer with strong Ethical principles that I extend to all life. I believe it is a healer’s duty to foster life in all its forms and alleviate bad luck ,confusion and life's mysterious problems. A transit period is on your way and at your age you are not perfectly positioned to get the very best out of the opportunities it is set to bring. Indeed you have lived in the glare of several powerful negative influences. These influences bring about relationship misunderstandings, they put your finances in Jeopardy and so is your life from the past, Jelous friends unstable relationships Financial constraints and debts all caused by evil doings of the people around you. Your destiny was to be a very rich person with a stable family and a very loving Partner and you are an ambitious person. However there many negative spirits that have been holding you and blocking your luck and success in life because there's a bad spell holding your life and blocking your way from reaching your destiny . To find out more on how you can remove the stumbling blocks and live to the Full potential of what God created you to be. At this stage the analysis is very difficult but u can contact me for an appointment and consultation fee free, CALL /WHATSAPP +27838807531
"These Stoic principles are game-changers in relationships! 💪 Maintaining self-respect and setting healthy boundaries can truly strengthen connections. What do you think is the most important lesson here? Let's share our thoughts! 👇"
“You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” ― Marcus Aurelius 👍 GREAT VIDEO! 👏Thanks for the valuable insights! 🌟
Thank you for sharing this video! It's interesting how Marcus Aurelius' words remind us that true power lies within our control over our thoughts and reactions, rather than external events. When it comes to relationships, how do you think we can apply Stoic principles to maintain inner strength and clarity in the face of emotional challenges? Would love to hear your thoughts on this!
"I love how this video highlights the balance between self-growth and relationships. Prioritizing time, mental health, and meaningful connections is key to living authentically."
After listening to this video and reading the comments, I have to thank you Stoicism Hub for providing a group therapy session for men. We usually don't engage in this way . . . at least in modern society. In tribal times, men sat around the campfire and shared experiences, insight and wisdom, This was a profound forum.
@@Unknownmanufacturer Mistakes are good predictor of wisdom. In the end, one could end up with nothing except wisdom. Too much wisdom means they don't worth a dime.
@@TheStoicismHubTM IT's not the form that is offensive. It is what people do with the form in the name of degeneracy, usury, and gratification that is offensive.
I agree with all except number 1. Sharing your past struggles and how you overcame is often a source of hope and motivation for others; of someone somehow wants to use it against you, that’s on them, you can’t worry about that cuz you should own all of who you are and never run from it or feel shame because if you have progressed and are a better person today, it should not matter 💯
I loved a woman, and I was ready to change anything about me for her. She always takes me for granted, and she is always comparing me with others in terms of looks and dressing style, and money. I was never happy with her constant comparison with others and i know i am earning decent and my next goals are aligned with my timeline. Finally I broke up with her and moving according to my plan, now I am happy and prosperous. Thank god, I made a great decision to leave her, i will never regret that decision, so far in my life, that's the best decision I have made in my life. now I got back my peace and after reaching my next goal within a year, i will marry someone who understands me and respects me, i will definitely respect her and treat her with utmost respect.
GOOD day this is mom lola. just a reading I have done and it is a very important matter about your life but when you come to the temple I will be able to do a general reading so that you can know more and see by yourself what is happening in your life. I am a professional Healer with strong Ethical principles that I extend to all life. I believe it is a healer’s duty to foster life in all its forms and alleviate bad luck ,confusion and life's mysterious problems. A transit period is on your way and at your age you are not perfectly positioned to get the very best out of the opportunities it is set to bring. Indeed you have lived in the glare of several powerful negative influences. These influences bring about relationship misunderstandings, they put your finances in Jeopardy and so is your life from the past, Jelous friends unstable relationships Financial constraints and debts all caused by evil doings of the people around you. Your destiny was to be a very rich person with a stable family and a very loving Partner and you are an ambitious person. However there many negative spirits that have been holding you and blocking your luck and success in life because there's a bad spell holding your life and blocking your way from reaching your destiny . To find out more on how you can remove the stumbling blocks and live to the Full potential of what God created you to be. At this stage the analysis is very difficult but u can contact me for an appointment and consultation fee free, CALL /WHATSAPP 0838807531
11 if they ever cheat on you no matter how much they beg and cry do not take them back. Because if you do they know that they can get away with it. And they will do it at every opportunity that they get.
Profound insight-it’s almost heartbreaking how readily people pour their energy and devotion into pursuits or relationships that yield little reward, and sometimes leave them with nothing but emptiness and regret.
My girl knows everything about me...and the same i also... we shared everything there's nothing in secret,,,,we trust, support, share,and love one another... we've been in a relationship right from 2015.. both side of our parents have come to know about this but they are happy they just guide us to be on the right path 😊❤
Congratulations and wish you the best, buddy. You seem to be a good soul. May I add -not cynically - that just because I've been driving a car for 8years without accident doesn't REALLY mean God is watching over me and that I can ignore safety procedures/behaviours which is exactly what this video is about. You can do BOTH. Like a wise Arab once said: trust in God, but tie your camel first😊
In this video, the nine principles that smart men should embrace in relationships according to stoic philosophy are discussed. The principles include guarding your past, facing the fear of being alone, managing your time wisely, celebrating your achievements, safeguarding your mental health, being true to yourself, not sacrificing your path for others, prioritizing relationships with friends and family, and avoiding obsessive devotion. Key moments: 00:00 Exploring Stoic Wisdom in Relationships -Embrace stoic philosophy in relationships -Guard your past and manage time wisely -Face the fear of being alone 02:34 Embracing Self-Worth and Individuality: A Guide to Personal Fulfillment -Value your time and achievements -Prioritize mental health and authenticity -Stay true to yourself and your path 05:08 Embracing Stoicism in Relationships: A Journey of Wisdom and Growth -Maintain connections with friends and family -Avoid obsessive devotion and reclaim control
Im now old enough to fully understand and follow this but when i was young i was only able to understand this, not follow. Hormones, energy, optimism, not enough (bad) experiences etc
This video truly opened my mind to how Stoicism can be applied to relationships. The lesson about valuing your own time and not wasting it on undeserving relationships is really thought-provoking. Thank you for the amazing insights!
The best part of the video is at 05:06 with the lesson 'Prioritize relationships with friends and family.' It highlights the importance of valuing core relationships, reminding us that true support and growth come from those who have always been there. This lesson emphasizes that genuine connections are essential for lasting happiness and should never be sacrificed for external approval.
Number 7 is a cardinal principle in handling women. I was a victim of a manipulative woman which I mistook for love and paid the price of servitude. Only when I was cheated upon did I realize my mistake.
This advice is good for both men and women. It seems to be most relevant for young people without children. I would add to number three 'use your time to judiciously on activites that bring you happiness, foster personal growth and satisfy your soul' AND take good care of any children you have created... again ' don't compromise your path for someone elses..' Parents give up their joy, time, health and sometime their very life - for their children. People do this for their town/ kin / families. Stoicism might be relevant for young people who are fooling around... (?).. but it is not the best advice for all people, all through their lives.
For the first time I'm hearing someone with a similar mindset as mine! I'M VERY HAPPY 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THESE WORDS. PLEASE CONTINUE SHOWERING MORE KNOWLEDGE ON THE PEOPLE OF THIS WORLD. ❤❤❤
Some of it, not all of it. Much of this is not feminine nature. Remember thatt they're not the same as us and this is good. Their differences, strengths and weaknesses balance ours. Part of the downfall of Western society is the emasculation of men and masculinization of women.
I’m 78 and have been wed to the same woman well over 50 years , we get along pretty well and are pretty bonded and matched I guess. One observation I would make is that it very easy when you try to do things right to be taken for granted.
Absolutely! Embracing those steps will definitely lead to profound self-reflection. Aristotle’s insights are timeless. If you're interested in exploring more about personal growth and ethical living, I dive deeper into these themes in my content. It’s always inspiring to connect over such valuable philosophies!
Seems to apply to anyone and everyone not just "men doing with women" there is zero applicability to these wisdoms specifically to inter-sex relationships.
It’s been hard for my spouse to date a stoic man but she has literally said non stop “ your like no man I’ve ever been with, I didn’t know what a real man was.” An more men …. Stoicism is needed in this world
My friend base is at an all time low, mainly because the ones I have distanced myself from have shown their true colors to me and I no longer want to be a part of what they are about! It's very hard to find a loyal and true friend anymore! I'm sure it's not me either! I don't have unreasonable standards! I really like these types of videos, they are very informative!
I really enjoy these Stoic Teachings. Great content and helps me to remember my past teaching. Selfworth, inner happiness, no one can take it from you. Not being cut off from the world or being distant, just realizing your inner worth and it is non-negotiable for some one else to try and take it. How to take a breath and not react. Seneca and Marcus Aurelius taught many great things. Socrotes, Plato, Aristotle, also. This channel carries on the Stoicism that we need. Thank you for the content. Im pushing the like button, subscribing and being a patron.
I know conceptually that ‘it’s never too late’, but I wish I had heeded and embraced these ideas in my youth. I - like so many others around me -!was led to the church and that is a death trap that destroys the individual. I am glad I found your site’
I stumbled across this channel. This is the most irresponsible, pathetic, selfish, ignorant, misguided crap I have ever heard in my entire 67 years on the planet. Who's behind this Krauss Schwab as he's one of the most dangerous men on earth. Myself, I have achieved great success and happiness doing almost the opposite of what is said in this cult mindless advise!! Higlights only to respect my valuable time. I was raised by two selfish, alcoholic and abusive parents (using the title undeservingly). Mother left me without a goodbye at 16. Father did the same months later, and was left homeless, no money, no shelter and so on. In essence, it was a blessing without realizing it. At 18 joined the USMC Iin 1975. Did two tours and it built a solid life foundation. In 1983 was discharged and took a position with a NY based. 6 months later I was introduced to the most stunning, and amazing young woman I had ever met, and I feel stronger today 40 years later. We became one, that's english for one. We had seven children in our first 11 years of marriage 84- 96. Wrap your head around that one if you can! I worked for international level company. Worked my butt off there for 5 years. Rouse quickly as I had common sense and the hardest work ethic. Moved on and established my own startup business. Took a chance, with the total support of my wife! Long story short this start up has turned into a multi-million dollar company. My wife and I have built a marriage, family, life, business, and amassed financial wealth. All by doing the opposite of this stoicism advice. Just in case you didn't get the memo, my wife is more stunning and supporting than ever. Deserving of ever gift I have given her. She especially appreciated and was shocked to get for her ladt birthday yet another car. A 2023 Ferrari F488 Pista. I have also become a professional car collection which started as a hobby many moons ago! Not bad for a Non-Stoic follower, and Non High School Grad I would say. Chow!
"Wow, such a deep and thought-provoking video! It really resonates with me. My 5-year relationship ended just a month ago, and I’m struggling. The person I thought I’d spend my life with decided to leave, and it’s been tough to move on. I’ve tried everything to get her back, but nothing seems to work. My mind keeps going back to her, and I can’t imagine being with anyone else. Honestly, I’m not even sure why I’m sharing this here, but I really miss her, and it’s hard to focus on anything else. Has anyone else been through something like this? How did you cope? I’d love to hear your thoughts."
Some great advice, I would temper it by suggesting also to avoid journeying into narcissism. The context is relationships with women, makes most sense on that topic.
Agreed with every point except 1: if you ever so afraid of being vulnerable, don't go into a relationship. Also point 9 is like very true but saw a lot of smartest guys and girls that understand this but at some point just couldn't control their feelings.
To avoid issues discussed here, be wise in the person you have a relationship with. No relationship is worth compromising the value of another. Watch how the other person treats people. For instance, if they are rude, critical and demanding of wait staff, the same will happen to you. Look for someone who is caring, polite and considerate. Remember physical beauty is only skin deep. If a handsome man or beautiful woman are rude, self centered, impolite, inconsiderate, their ugliness is to the bone. Run away from them.
I enjoyed listening to the nine recommendations and most importantly, the reasons men should embrace / practice Stoicism. I noticed one odd thing though. Look at the frame that is timestamped 4:54 minutes. On the statue I see one pole, one arm, one hand and "seven" fingers.
Being authentic and being true to oneself is the catch . We must learn to say no . If I love nature more than going to parties I will do so no matter how old fashioned I may appear .
Well, you can't disappoint anyone, you can't be late, you don't have to make someone happy, you can purchase what you desire, you are not accountable, you are not criticized, you can make you own decisions, you can down some brew without the gaze, you can eat what you want, take a nap and go to bed on your clock and you can do what you what to do without seeking approval first. Is this selfish? NO, it's called the independence of living alone and I earned it the old fashion way.
I am married 38 years, got married at 21 years, up until now I had he'll from this women, she is bi-polar, two days it merry, 5 days it war, and I still don't know how it happens and why. I am the bread winner of the home, I am a professional and hold a Masters degree yet I am told I am useless, ugly and no good, she says I must leave home, and not come back, finally I had enough and plucked up the courage and went to divorce her, next month I hope to be divorced and find peace within myself with God's help. 🙏
Secret keeping with your mate is not a strength. It is a weakness. Embrace your past and learn from it. Enlist your mate to help you avoid reliving past mistakes. The right woman cares about your personal growth and will help you keep on the straight and narrow. It is not a battle to take on alone. Most of what is said here is taking into account you are with "just a woman" not "the woman."
@gkranthikumars Right people are everywhere. When we focus on being the right person, they automatically come to us. This is my experience. In the romantic realm, one needs to be a bit more careful as hormones reduce one's rationality for a time. There too, the right people exist and one can perceive them. That right man or woman must also want to be with you. It's both ways if something has to work. Therefore, one needs to focus on being the right person as well.
1) guard your past
2) face the fear of being alone
3) manage your time wisely
4) celebrate your achievements
5) safeguard your mental health
6) be true to yourself
7) don’t sacrifice your life for someone else
8) prioritize your relationships with friends and family
9) avoid obsessive devotion
I've literally fucked up all of these area in every relationship
@@JonTheDestroyer We all have.
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And dont spend time with such a bullshit vids like this...
@@provost5752 I think I've become the master at f--king up.
I once dated a woman who had a dog named Buck. This woman was always telling Buck what to do and how to do it. When I finally ended our relationship, she couldn’t understand why I was doing so. I told her that she needed a man like Buck and that I wasn’t Buck.
Buck then s**t in her shoes and ran away, as it was easier for him to hide and kill his own food.
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And her name was Kelly. At no time was she buck naked.
Buck off........😊
So you told her to go Buck Herself! Lol
As a 60 years old man who broke each and everyone of these rules, I can tell that they are true. Advice for the young: do not be fooled by anything else. Follow these rules by the letter. If it means losing somebody, so be it. They were not worthy.
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I broke them all also, and I felt like a fool years after. Listen up young men.
I'm 34 and just had a bad break up. I'm hoping it is not too late for me.
God bless you
@@JSRF420It's NEVER too late to do better! I failed for many years with relationships until I started to love and respect myself more. My current life is not perfect, but my self esteem is in a much, much better place. Don't give up!
Combining this video and the forbidden book called Charmflow Secrets by vexoner, made it so incredibly helpful for me. Thank you!|
You're so welcome!
Interesting video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
I'm really sorry to hear you're going through this. It's tough to let go of someone you deeply care about. Right now, it's important to allow yourself to grieve and accept your feelings rather than pushing them away. Reach out to friends or family members who can support you during this time; talking about your emotions can help lessen the burden. Try to immerse yourself in activities you enjoy or explore new hobbies to keep your mind occupied. It might be helpful to see a therapist, who can provide a safe space to process your emotions and guide you through this difficult period. Remember, healing takes time, and it's okay to feel lost and hurt. Focus on self-care, be patient with yourself, and slowly, you'll start to find your way forward again. Even though it feels impossible now, life can and will get better.
Wisdom comes with maturity.
I have learned all these things and am comfortable, content and happy being alone. I often tell people I came into this world without anyone or anything and will leave the same way. You will too.
Only one being in the whole world is the exception : our mothers. You were not alone, she was there for you. That’s the only exception to the rule. God bless
I paid mine back by not once ever setting foot in a courtroom. I didnt want t let her down.@@metalheart80s
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Have you ever tried dating a men? According to science men dating men makes you happier. So give it a shot
Wisdom comes with research and knowledge.Do the work.
“Women want the authority of a man…the privileges of a woman…and the accountability of a child”.
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Grate information
Wow! 👌
Then he said to the woman, “I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy, and in pain you will give birth. And you will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you.”
Golden words .
I did not realize the meaning of #2 until after my divorce. After a rebound relationship i swore off dating for 4 years and just focused on my career, myself and my young adult children. It was exactly what I needed and will never regret it. Today, I am in a wonderful relationship with a woman who truly appreciates me, is very patient, and is her own person.
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Thank you for your support!
GOOD day this is mom lola. just a reading I have done and it is a very important matter about your life but when you come to the temple I will be able to do a general reading so that you can know more and see by yourself what is happening in your life. I am a professional Healer with strong Ethical principles that I extend to all life. I believe it is a healer’s duty to foster life in all its forms and alleviate bad luck ,confusion and life's mysterious problems. A transit period is on your way and at your age you are not perfectly positioned to get the very best out of the opportunities it is set to bring. Indeed you have lived in the glare of several powerful negative influences. These influences bring about relationship misunderstandings, they put your finances in Jeopardy and so is your life from the past, Jelous friends unstable relationships Financial constraints and debts all caused by evil doings of the people around you. Your destiny was to be a very rich person with a stable family and a very loving Partner and you are an ambitious person. However there many negative spirits that have been holding you and blocking your luck and success in life because there's a bad spell holding your life and blocking your way from reaching your destiny . To find out more on how you can remove the stumbling blocks and live to the Full potential of what God created you to be. At this stage the analysis is very difficult but u can contact me for an appointment and consultation fee free, CALL /WHATSAPP +27838807531
It's appreciated how "by chance" you find something like this installment on the very weekend it is situationally most helpful.
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Excellent information - it borders on tragic how much so many people are willing to sacrifice for so little return and often no return at all, only erosion!
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Try and figure out how long it took to learn Agriculture..or Animal Husbandry, it wasnt overnight. More like Thousands of Years..they sacrificed their time, effort and happiness to affect a new way of living. Maybe they should have given up after a few centuries with little or no return...sacrifice is sacrifice, in a field or in your own House.
GOOD day this is mom lola. just a reading I have done and it is a very important matter about your life but when you come to the temple I will be able to do a general reading so that you can know more and see by yourself what is happening in your life. I am a professional Healer with strong Ethical principles that I extend to all life. I believe it is a healer’s duty to foster life in all its forms and alleviate bad luck ,confusion and life's mysterious problems. A transit period is on your way and at your age you are not perfectly positioned to get the very best out of the opportunities it is set to bring. Indeed you have lived in the glare of several powerful negative influences. These influences bring about relationship misunderstandings, they put your finances in Jeopardy and so is your life from the past, Jelous friends unstable relationships Financial constraints and debts all caused by evil doings of the people around you. Your destiny was to be a very rich person with a stable family and a very loving Partner and you are an ambitious person. However there many negative spirits that have been holding you and blocking your luck and success in life because there's a bad spell holding your life and blocking your way from reaching your destiny . To find out more on how you can remove the stumbling blocks and live to the Full potential of what God created you to be. At this stage the analysis is very difficult but u can contact me for an appointment and consultation fee free, CALL /WHATSAPP +27838807531
Literally just downloaded this...m gonna play it everyday (morning and evening) for a week cheers to everyone else watching this...!!
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Pls how do you download RUclips videos
If you don't know how to download it, you can save the link and add it to your favorites. @@RileyGagnon-ih2td
"These Stoic principles are game-changers in relationships! 💪 Maintaining self-respect and setting healthy boundaries can truly strengthen connections. What do you think is the most important lesson here? Let's share our thoughts! 👇"
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“You have power over your mind - not outside events. Realize this, and you will find strength.” ― Marcus Aurelius
👍 GREAT VIDEO! 👏Thanks for the valuable insights! 🌟
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Thank you for sharing this video! It's interesting how Marcus Aurelius' words remind us that true power lies within our control over our thoughts and reactions, rather than external events. When it comes to relationships, how do you think we can apply Stoic principles to maintain inner strength and clarity in the face of emotional challenges? Would love to hear your thoughts on this!
"I love how this video highlights the balance between self-growth and relationships. Prioritizing time, mental health, and meaningful connections is key to living authentically."
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"When you know you are enough, you no longer depend on anything external."
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After listening to this video and reading the comments, I have to thank you Stoicism Hub for providing a group therapy session for men. We usually don't engage in this way . . . at least in modern society. In tribal times, men sat around the campfire and shared experiences, insight and wisdom, This was a profound forum.
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This philosophy can open your mind to new horizon,
not many people seems interested though.
I enjoyed it. It’s refreshing and mine opening.
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Your insights often feel like they come at the perfect time
I'm 64, this is really good advice. Pay attention Young man.
Listen to this at least twice and write down how each applies to your own life.
Thank you sir 💕
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Age is clearly not a good predictor of wisdom.
@@Unknownmanufacturer Mistakes are good predictor of wisdom. In the end, one could end up with nothing except wisdom. Too much wisdom means they don't worth a dime.
Guard you past - Because they are not interested in you so much as in what information they might gather to use against you.
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Damn right.
Especially modern females and their mothers...
I consistently share these types of videos. If feminism is a sickness, stoicism is the answer.
But you know what? In ancient times, the naked was considered beautiful. There are also statues of naked men. ❤️
@@TheStoicismHubTM IT's not the form that is offensive. It is what people do with the form in the name of degeneracy, usury, and gratification that is offensive.
@@easter_sunday Personally, I'm not interested in seeing naked dudes =)
stoicism , its not outspoken enough. High outspoken unapologetic Masculinity is the Answer !
Redpillers are also clowns
making it about women doesn’t justify just how much wisdom has been shared here 🎉
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I agree with all except number 1. Sharing your past struggles and how you overcame is often a source of hope and motivation for others; of someone somehow wants to use it against you, that’s on them, you can’t worry about that cuz you should own all of who you are and never run from it or feel shame because if you have progressed and are a better person today, it should not matter 💯
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Never make a doormat of yourself be the Door
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A door gets slammed, or worse, kicked..
I loved a woman, and I was ready to change anything about me for her. She always takes me for granted, and she is always comparing me with others in terms of looks and dressing style, and money. I was never happy with her constant comparison with others and i know i am earning decent and my next goals are aligned with my timeline. Finally I broke up with her and moving according to my plan, now I am happy and prosperous. Thank god, I made a great decision to leave her, i will never regret that decision, so far in my life, that's the best decision I have made in my life. now I got back my peace and after reaching my next goal within a year, i will marry someone who understands me and respects me, i will definitely respect her and treat her with utmost respect.
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Great Bro. I appreciate ur move.
"Waste no more time arguing about what a good man should be. Be one." - Marcus Aurelius
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Nice one! All men should know and moreover, do this.
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Woooooow, am so glad this randomly popped up in my feed, and that I actually clicked it 🎉 it's a gem for all ❤
Wow, thank you!
The channel encourages me to look back at myself, helping me recognize what needs to change in my life
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Number 10: Never give them your credit card and tell her to return it when she's done. 😲
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Huh?
11 if they ever cheat on you no matter how much they beg and cry do not take them back. Because if you do they know that they can get away with it. And they will do it at every opportunity that they get.
*Never give them your credit card.
Fixed.
Profound insight-it’s almost heartbreaking how readily people pour their energy and devotion into pursuits or relationships that yield little reward, and sometimes leave them with nothing but emptiness and regret.
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My girl knows everything about me...and the same i also... we shared everything there's nothing in secret,,,,we trust, support, share,and love one another... we've been in a relationship right from 2015.. both side of our parents have come to know about this but they are happy they just guide us to be on the right path 😊❤
8 years ... Let's hear from you in 25 years.
You got lucky most women aren’t like that.
wait till time exposes the true person.
Congratulations and wish you the best, buddy. You seem to be a good soul. May I add -not cynically - that just because I've been driving a car for 8years without accident doesn't REALLY mean God is watching over me and that I can ignore safety procedures/behaviours which is exactly what this video is about.
You can do BOTH.
Like a wise Arab once said: trust in God, but tie your camel first😊
Why isn't she your WIFE?
In this video, the nine principles that smart men should embrace in relationships according to stoic philosophy are discussed. The principles include guarding your past, facing the fear of being alone, managing your time wisely, celebrating your achievements, safeguarding your mental health, being true to yourself, not sacrificing your path for others, prioritizing relationships with friends and family, and avoiding obsessive devotion.
Key moments:
00:00 Exploring Stoic Wisdom in Relationships
-Embrace stoic philosophy in relationships
-Guard your past and manage time wisely
-Face the fear of being alone
02:34 Embracing Self-Worth and Individuality: A Guide to Personal Fulfillment
-Value your time and achievements
-Prioritize mental health and authenticity
-Stay true to yourself and your path
05:08 Embracing Stoicism in Relationships: A Journey of Wisdom and Growth
-Maintain connections with friends and family
-Avoid obsessive devotion and reclaim control
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Im now old enough to fully understand and follow this but when i was young i was only able to understand this, not follow. Hormones, energy, optimism, not enough (bad) experiences etc
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Epictetus’s idea of focusing on our own actions is life-changing.”
Brilliant and concise. I appreciate this reminder/video. Thank you.
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This video truly opened my mind to how Stoicism can be applied to relationships. The lesson about valuing your own time and not wasting it on undeserving relationships is really thought-provoking. Thank you for the amazing insights!
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My partner was in the background and had been listening. She has now banned me from using the internet for a month.
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You need another partner. She is controlling you!
Now I know who wears the dress in your relationship😂😂😂
Dude, you need to grow a pair.
That's fuel to keep watching if you ask me. She's scared to lose her power over you.
Stoicism's emphasis on humility and gratitude has enriched my life in countless ways."
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A great video for young men who are not sure of themselves in life, at the same time for young women who trying to find the right man.
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You won't believe how many 70-year olds need this.
The best part of the video is at 05:06 with the lesson 'Prioritize relationships with friends and family.' It highlights the importance of valuing core relationships, reminding us that true support and growth come from those who have always been there. This lesson emphasizes that genuine connections are essential for lasting happiness and should never be sacrificed for external approval.
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I needed to hear this. Thank you.
You are so welcome
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference
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Amen.
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Number 7 is a cardinal principle in handling women. I was a victim of a manipulative woman which I mistook for love and paid the price of servitude. Only when I was cheated upon did I realize my mistake.
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I have been following these throughout most of my last 30 years and believe that I have been far better for it.
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I suffered from every single one, but here I am now with all nine of these qualities
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This advice is good for both men and women. It seems to be most relevant for young people without children. I would add to number three 'use your time to judiciously on activites that bring you happiness, foster personal growth and satisfy your soul' AND take good care of any children you have created... again ' don't compromise your path for someone elses..' Parents give up their joy, time, health and sometime their very life - for their children. People do this for their town/ kin / families. Stoicism might be relevant for young people who are fooling around... (?).. but it is not the best advice for all people, all through their lives.
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Let your mind be in control of your emotions, not your emotions in control of your mind. thank you very much.
Very good!
The price of a smile is a tear.
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For the first time I'm hearing someone with a similar mindset as mine! I'M VERY HAPPY 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THESE WORDS. PLEASE CONTINUE SHOWERING MORE KNOWLEDGE ON THE PEOPLE OF THIS WORLD. ❤❤❤
Welcome!!
Great information! This applies to smart women also. Not only men.....
Yes they do
Some of it, not all of it. Much of this is not feminine nature. Remember thatt they're not the same as us and this is good. Their differences, strengths and weaknesses balance ours. Part of the downfall of Western society is the emasculation of men and masculinization of women.
I’m 78 and have been wed to the same woman well over 50 years , we get along pretty well and are pretty bonded and matched I guess. One observation I would make is that it very easy when you try to do things right to be taken for granted.
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If I follow this 9 step deeply surely I will compromise with self. thank U for remembering the moral though of Aristotle..❤❤❤❤❤
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Absolutely! Embracing those steps will definitely lead to profound self-reflection. Aristotle’s insights are timeless. If you're interested in exploring more about personal growth and ethical living, I dive deeper into these themes in my content. It’s always inspiring to connect over such valuable philosophies!
I'm doing my best to move forward.
Idk how, but I am doing what I can.
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Seems to apply to anyone and everyone not just "men doing with women" there is zero applicability to these wisdoms specifically to inter-sex relationships.
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It’s been hard for my spouse to date a stoic man but she has literally said non stop “ your like no man I’ve ever been with, I didn’t know what a real man was.” An more men …. Stoicism is needed in this world
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My friend base is at an all time low, mainly because the ones I have distanced myself from have shown their true colors to me and I no longer want to be a part of what they are about! It's very hard to find a loyal and true friend anymore! I'm sure it's not me either! I don't have unreasonable standards! I really like these types of videos, they are very informative!
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I want to thank you, because I bring up my past too much. I put this statement in my little journal.
The title and the photo is misleading. This is about yourself with nothing to do with the title.
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Haha yeah I was like wait where’s the relationship advice?? 😂
The video is beautiful. Best wishes.❤❤
Excellent video, wise words. Blessings.
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I really enjoy these Stoic Teachings. Great content and helps me to remember my past teaching. Selfworth, inner happiness, no one can take it from you. Not being cut off from the world or being distant, just realizing your inner worth and it is non-negotiable for some one else to try and take it. How to take a breath and not react. Seneca and Marcus Aurelius taught many great things. Socrotes, Plato, Aristotle, also. This channel carries on the Stoicism that we need. Thank you for the content. Im pushing the like button, subscribing and being a patron.
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Excellent representation of moral dialogue .
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I know conceptually that ‘it’s never too late’, but I wish I had heeded and embraced these ideas in my youth. I - like so many others around me -!was led to the church and that is a death trap that destroys the individual. I am glad I found your site’
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I stumbled across this channel. This is the most irresponsible, pathetic, selfish, ignorant, misguided crap I have ever heard in my entire 67 years on the planet.
Who's behind this Krauss Schwab as he's one of the most dangerous men on earth.
Myself, I have achieved great success and happiness doing almost the opposite of what is said in this cult mindless advise!!
Higlights only to respect my valuable time.
I was raised by two selfish, alcoholic and abusive parents (using the title undeservingly). Mother left me without a goodbye at 16. Father did the same months later, and was left homeless, no money, no shelter and so on. In essence, it was a blessing without realizing it.
At 18 joined the USMC Iin 1975. Did two tours and it built a solid life foundation. In 1983 was discharged and took a position with a NY based. 6 months later I was introduced to the most stunning, and amazing young woman I had ever met, and I feel stronger today 40 years later.
We became one, that's english for one.
We had seven children in our first 11 years of marriage 84- 96. Wrap your head around that one if you can!
I worked for international level company. Worked my butt off there for 5 years. Rouse quickly as I had common sense and the hardest work ethic.
Moved on and established my own startup business. Took a chance, with the total support of my wife!
Long story short this start up has turned into a multi-million dollar company. My wife and I have built a marriage, family, life, business, and amassed financial wealth. All by doing the opposite of this stoicism advice.
Just in case you didn't get the memo, my wife is more stunning and supporting than ever. Deserving of ever gift I have given her.
She especially appreciated and was shocked to get for her ladt birthday yet another car. A 2023 Ferrari F488 Pista. I have also become a professional car collection which started as a hobby many moons ago! Not bad for a Non-Stoic follower, and Non High School Grad I would say. Chow!
True indeed.Thanks,I am inspired
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"Wow, such a deep and thought-provoking video! It really resonates with me. My 5-year relationship ended just a month ago, and I’m struggling. The person I thought I’d spend my life with decided to leave, and it’s been tough to move on. I’ve tried everything to get her back, but nothing seems to work. My mind keeps going back to her, and I can’t imagine being with anyone else. Honestly, I’m not even sure why I’m sharing this here, but I really miss her, and it’s hard to focus on anything else. Has anyone else been through something like this? How did you cope? I’d love to hear your thoughts."
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Needed to see this reminder right now
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Some great advice, I would temper it by suggesting also to avoid journeying into narcissism. The context is relationships with women, makes most sense on that topic.
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Thankyou full of wisdom
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All the points are just as important, but (9 avoid obsessive devotion ) is the most importants to me. Thanks for this post.
You're very welcome!
This is very significant information to a young man like me. I appreciate
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Brilliant information for self building on sound principles ❤
Glad you enjoyed it
THIS IS FOR WOMEN TOO. THIS IS FOR ANYONE IN A RELATIONSHIP. VERY INSIGHTFUL👍
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Awesome eyeopener and mind opening video. Thanks
So nice of you
Agreed with every point except 1: if you ever so afraid of being vulnerable, don't go into a relationship.
Also point 9 is like very true but saw a lot of smartest guys and girls that understand this but at some point just couldn't control their feelings.
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I like the " you are the Star of your Own Narrative " 😊
😊 thank you
Very valid and useful information ❤
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nice video! good job mate
Thanks a lot!
To avoid issues discussed here, be wise in the person you have a relationship with. No relationship is worth compromising the value of another. Watch how the other person treats people. For instance, if they are rude, critical and demanding of wait staff, the same will happen to you. Look for someone who is caring, polite and considerate. Remember physical beauty is only skin deep. If a handsome man or beautiful woman are rude, self centered, impolite, inconsiderate, their ugliness is to the bone. Run away from them.
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I enjoyed listening to the nine recommendations and most importantly, the reasons men should embrace / practice Stoicism. I noticed one odd thing though. Look at the frame that is timestamped 4:54 minutes. On the statue I see one pole, one arm, one hand and "seven" fingers.
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Thank you so much ❤
Very inspiring ❤
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Thanks for the update brother, we Realy Appreciate 👏🙏👍
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Thank u very powerful words
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Being authentic and being true to oneself is the catch . We must learn to say no . If I love nature more than going to parties I will do so no matter how old fashioned I may appear .
Wonderful thanks .
Thank you too!
My God this is close to everything about my attitude 😮 !
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Wonderful 😂❤ very informative
Thanks so much
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Goes for men and women alike ...these advices....and good ones too🙂
Absolutely!
Definitely need to apply this 9
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amazing video, which software you used for voice over? please
Elevenlabs
This is the stuff kids should be learning in schools at an early age.
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@@TheStoicismHubTM GOD bless you 💌
Really appreciate your comment!
Being alone isn't fearful, it is a great pleasure.
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Well, you can't disappoint anyone, you can't be late, you don't have to make someone happy, you can purchase what you desire, you are not accountable, you are not criticized, you can make you own decisions, you can down some brew without the gaze, you can eat what you want, take a nap and go to bed on your clock and you can do what you what to do without seeking approval first. Is this selfish? NO, it's called the independence of living alone and I earned it the old fashion way.
Yes once you free yourself from her clutches and adjust your life it is wonderful being alone. If you want sex just play the field.
Applies to both men n women; relationships in general.
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Nope, not necessarily, women and men are different + women's se.uality is always different from men's se.uality
I am married 38 years, got married at 21 years, up until now I had he'll from this women, she is bi-polar, two days it merry, 5 days it war, and I still don't know how it happens and why. I am the bread winner of the home, I am a professional and hold a Masters degree yet I am told I am useless, ugly and no good, she says I must leave home, and not come back, finally I had enough and plucked up the courage and went to divorce her, next month I hope to be divorced and find peace within myself with God's help. 🙏
I wish you all the best
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Take charge n all the best.
Right move man. Enjoy the freedom and piece.
She don't like you and she's a cheater
I needed this ❤
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And vise versa. Why couldn't I have learned this before destroying so much in my life?
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Sorry for what you have gone trough... God Bless you with happiness.
Me too.
Just listening to your voice reminds me of the Golden era , where a game such as Soul Reaver is akin to the heart, "my angle of death."
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Secret keeping with your mate is not a strength. It is a weakness. Embrace your past and learn from it. Enlist your mate to help you avoid reliving past mistakes. The right woman cares about your personal growth and will help you keep on the straight and narrow. It is not a battle to take on alone. Most of what is said here is taking into account you are with "just a woman" not "the woman."
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I agree.. without being honest and vulnerable one doesn't really have a relationship. With anyone. Man or woman
where can we find the so called “right woman” these days😮😅
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Right people are everywhere. When we focus on being the right person, they automatically come to us. This is my experience. In the romantic realm, one needs to be a bit more careful as hormones reduce one's rationality for a time. There too, the right people exist and one can perceive them. That right man or woman must also want to be with you. It's both ways if something has to work. Therefore, one needs to focus on being the right person as well.
I strongly disagree.
this is true of everyone. Not just to men. ALL relationships.
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New subscriber, thanks for this valuable information
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Nobody should mess with mental wellbeing, and tell constant lies to make themselves feel good , nobody knows you truly , and say they do 😊
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