I Quit My Dreams To Be A Housewife At 23 | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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LINDA, 23, met her husband Ricky, 27, at the gym where he was a health coach at the time. Ricky told Truly that there "was a pretty much instant connection". At the beginning of their relationship, Ricky didn't make much money, however, since becoming a successful investor in real estate, stocks and cryptocurrency, his wealth has skyrocketed. "In a month, I usually make around $100,000 or more," he said. While Linda interjected, "he’s being humble. [On] his biggest day, he’s made $100,000." Now the couple has a traditional marriage, where Ricky makes the money and Linda takes care of their home. "I believe modern relationships that do 50-50 are unhappy, it’s not natural," she said. "However much he’ll make that month, he’ll give me a percentage. I have never paid a bill in my life." Linda spends her days doing household chores, cooking Ricky meals and making TikTok videos. She has a big online following, showing off the couple's fabulous life, hopping between their homes in the US and Dubai. Since sharing her love of being a stay-at-home wife on social media she has received a barrage of criticism. "I get a lot of hate. People are really mean on social media, but I’ve gotten used to it." Commenters tell Linda "he’s going to leave you, he’s going to cheat on you, he’s going to abuse you." They call her "a spoiled brat" or say that she "brings nothing to the table" or say that she is "useless". The pair brush off the criticism, as their dynamic works well for them. But a loved one closer to home has also voiced concerns, "my dad wants me to do something with my life", Linda confessed. Her father Fouad explained that when Linda told him that she was going to be a housewife "it did not sit well with me, I always encouraged her to go to school." Admitting that he is "worried about power imbalance in the relationship." In this episode of Love Don't Judge Linda's father sits down with the couple to confront them on why he disagrees with their relationship setup.
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I'm starting to think these "Love Don't Judge" stories are just as much bragging about finances as they are talking about their relationships.
Yeah off! Right now she's gold digger..... For married to a riky...... Basically she has an 💪❤ identify still saver beauty configuration at these point over an after yrs shall try to bare on own children's
Money makes the relationships work.
@@paulayanbowale5445 money mke over pleasure but can't fulfill on a ❤️ overseas dreaming as too forever because relationship at once does mke sure shrt term to an indeed long term of version gratitude
right cant be in love and broke as a joke
100%
🙄. Yeah girl..most men don’t make 150k a month. Being a stay at home wife isn’t an option for most women
And if it was, why would they be a stay at home mom? If that man become abusive or doesn’t treat you right, you’re basically stuck in a loveless or stressful marriage.
@@myshiteu4934 to be fair, that’s why women often get to keep the house and half the money. I agree with you tho. Not being self sufficient long term is not a good plan for anyone
Because most women don't want to give up the extra shit that they don't really need. My husband makes close to $70,000 a year and I am a housewife and we live comfortably because we dont overspend.
@@melindaroop1346 that’s not the only thing though I want to be able to go on holidays and save for retirement and stuff what if your husband dies then what
@@myshiteu4934 why do y’all always make up these extreme horror story scenarios to try and prove a point when those said scenarios are not the norm?…
Girl, you dad is amazing. And I hope she follows his advice.
Get a degree and if you never use it, then oh well. Education is the one thing that nobody can ever take away from you. And like her father said, if god for bid something were to happen to him, she needs to bed ready to work.
Her father knows exactly what he is saying but they both don't get it yet.. it's a little dangerous to hinge everything economic on one partner in this age. Times have changed, anything can happen
Considering the amount of money he makes and invests and how well he has done and continues to do I would think, at least I hope, that he has money set aside or invested for them and for her in case something happens.
@@shari9721 i agree, but the dad still is right. For instance, what he they end up divorcing for WHATEVER reason. Divorces are MESSY & all the "I wanna spoil her"...will be more like "now that I can't be with her, I don't want her having anything."
I mean, she is still in a great position, but damn girl get something going for urself.
That's one empty materialistic life if u ask me.
@@BellaIsMyBaby I agree. I think people forget that couples change during a divorce. your once sweet and accommodating spouse might become vindictive. The individual might take a good chunk of money and hid it (yes, people do this in divorce’s, businesses and so on). And to add (depending on where they live) she might not be eligible for alimony. And because they currently don’t have kids, she won’t be getting child support. The fact is, he can easily pull the rug under her foot and leave her in a not so lavish position. I’m not saying this will happen but it’s a common situation that many many find themselves in.
I think if she’s smart she will make sure that she’s legally protected if they were to ever part ways. So that she can get a percentage pf THIER money as she claims.
**also, who know what he’s doing with the money. She might only know so much. The dad seems iffffy and that should be enough for her to feel iffy too
@@raumatipiwari6875 men aren’t providing financially like they did back in the day. Her father is right she needs something to fall back on. He’s talking about her being a doctor and not a social worker.
Nothing wrong with being a housewife but I can't stand the passive bragging. It says alot! Find something you like to do from home that you can make money for yourself not tik tok or follow what your dad is saying. Your dad is smart especially the way this economy is going
She can make money online. Content creators make money duh. Its 2023. Stop hating bc you have to work and she don't.
She's bragging for the TikTok views its her side hustle
@Base😊dTruth
I grew up poor and I married up now being middle class with my hard working blue collar husband. I'm a housewife and blessed. I have more security than I could have ever given myself and I give my husband a way of life that makes us both happy.
So what happens if you guys get divorced?
@@purplelove3666 What if you get framed for a murder?
As the breadwinner of a household, I 100% support anyone who wants to be a housewife. 9-5 5 days a week worked when the wife was expected to stay at home and take care of everything else. But the work week hasn't updated to the standard of the wife having at least a part-time job. A 2 day weekend is simply not enough to get both the house AND your mental health in order.
There's no kids to raise All she does is play on TikTok all day.
I want to be a housewife, are you accepting applications?
@@OffshoreITguy Sure, come on over!
I agree about the 2 day weekend/ 2 days off straight not being enough.
If she works too, why would she take all the responsibility of the house?
She’s an influencer and these days it’s actually a career field , there’s no security in anything so might as well be happy and in love and at peace while you can ❤
She's probably more financially secure than most people ever will be penny pinching and living paycheck to paycheck.
That's a good point
Being an influencer may be a career field but that doesn't mean everyone is successful. True there's no guarantees in anything but you can bring secure doesn't mean mean you're not happy
I agree on that sad to say Job Security doesn't exist anymore like they used to. Especially in today's modern world economy plus covid killed and ruined a lot of things.
@@ojs5988 the thing is if he leaves her for another women she’s basically homeless sense she doesn’t pay anything or have a job
There is nothing wrong with her being a stay at home wife, however think she should pursue her education and have a good working knowledge of her husband’s business even if she never uses it or never have to run his business, anything can happen to him at any time, can’t always trust managers and accountants to do the right thing it all can be stolen from her
Supposedly women live longer than men
@@respecteverybodynohate9637 😹
@@respecteverybodynohate9637😂
Just stop with this education lie degree is worthless now, you get in debt and end being job less at the end. I am a nurse and can not get hired in the field and they pay nurses under the minimum salary. Someone educate the dad pls.
@@andreeadutzu3857she is rich she isn’t going into debt to go to college
Listen to your father. He's 100,% right. Don't be foolish. If the marriage doesn't pan out or your husband dies You will b screwed. Instead of buying channel bags. Use that money to finance a graduate degree...Now's the time.
Honestly she could flip that money 🤦♀️ I'm not against being a stay at home wife BUT GIRL don't just flush all your dreams down the toilet cause you got married...her dad said "what's your priority, tik tok?" Yikes, he's right tho I hope she listens to him.
She owns her own medical spa in Orange County. She can support her self financially if needed. You should worry about yourself instead of telling people on the internet how to live.
worry about yourself💀
@@sashak.4527 Oh shut up! No one forced her to put her business on the internet, so people can talk about it if they want
😂she is literally not doing anything.
“I love being a stay at home woman” two breaths later “i hire a cleaning lady for most of it” 🤣
Good!,well that's what being a stay at home woman is,
There’s nothing wrong with this lifestyle but the bragging about all of the superficial things you possess and all of the money you have, especially in the times we’re living in, is truly classless, tacky and gross.
It's not her fault people are struggling and broke
I can see why the father is cautious. The husband's income seems to be, for the most part, not steady. What I mean is, while he makes a lot now, he's not bringing in the type of steady income a doctor or lawyer makes. Notice he "owns multiple businesses" but didn't detail what those businesses were. On top of that, they have 3 homes.
Yes. They're a young couple who made money in chaotic markets. That can be unstable sometimes. Her dad is probably worried less about her man being abusive and more about him making bad future decisions. Might be spending more than they can afford.
The headline got it wrong. She is living her dream as a housewife.
Best advice I've ever received is " it's better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it. "
Different relationship dynamics work for different people. If you love it for you, I love it for you.
If you want to be a stay at home wife with a more traditional role, all the power to you. But piss off with implying any women who doesn't choose what you like, is unhappy.
She’s living the good life.
We arab girls know that women are princesses/queens and should always be treated nothing less than that.❤
The key is to use a good part of your time as a homemaker also volunteering with various organizations within your community. This helps two things: you have fulfillment and humility in serving others, and your name and work ethic are well-known just in case you ever do need work. It rains on the just and the unjust; even if their marriage always goes well, it can happen to any family that suddenly both or just the wife need to be working.
For most of the video I was with her - that was until she said “we don’t need to make money”. They absolutely do need to make money to maintain their lifestyle and if shit hits the fan, if for whatever reason he needs to lean on her, she would have no skills or resources to help him provide for their family.
I am happy that they are happy with the way things are though and if this is what works for them they shouldn’t let others opinions change the way their relationship functions.
@@John_Onestrand id hope so
What surprised me is that she sounded bored and monotonous, no excitement whatsoever. I think that's what happens when you're just rich and have no outlet to make a change for the world (difficult or not), the boredom gotta eat you inside and she mention how she's afraid of losing the security. Plus, with people saying she's a gold digger and attacking her for the life that happened to her, she's rather in a rut. Rich people were expected to act in a certain way and I see this does not suit her much because I think she obviously regrets not following her dreams. She seems kind tho actually. I don't understand why she just didn't spend her time to continue her education considering she can afford it. But what I learned is that, despite being rich, you still have to have dreams. I hope she's okay and people stop attacking her by saying bad things are going to happen to her, I mean people are shitty towards her for no good reason.
She’s such an airhead. 😂
I'm just dreaming of the day I get to quit my job and be a stay at home wife with a rich husband. Girl you are living my dream. 😢
So go find one. There's lots of single men with money
@@Butterfly22593 in South Africa, not that much.
Delusional
@@RR.LL.3B home wrecking future cat lady that is probably gonna die alone on the eldery home
I went to college and graduated and I intend on working until I have children, but nothing is wrong with being a housewife. They're not lazy or gold diggers. Most housewives have children to care for and even the childless ones have husbands to care for lol.
She literally said she gave up her dreams of being a doctor to take care of her husband so it's a fair trade. Running a house is a full time job if a man that asks "what a woman brings to the table" it's absolutely a red flag.
If her father is concerned about the power imbalance he needs to tell Ricky to have a clause in the prenup that will give her a lump sum if they get a divorce.
They seem really happy so I wish nothing but the best for them 💖
I doubt being a doctor was ever a dream of hers. More like it was her father's dream for her. And more than likely the father wanted her to pursue that for the income, hence why she kept pointing out that her husband was so rich.
But you do know that men care more about body count than what degree or how much money a woman is making
@@CL-ew7wh we know. And that’s what makes men the worst gender. Shout out to all my virgins who make men’s life like hell. 😂
@@CL-ew7wh women that men don’t like should feel lucky. And women who chose to marry men have no self respect. You probably think why. Well, there is this study say that when look at women, they see them tools to use. So men see women as sex objects. You men don’t deserve women. Period
You put yourself through college just to give up your job once knocked up? No way. Yes running the house is a full time job but it is a dead-end job, a boring no paycheck job.
I love that they met before money was a thing and once he started to make money, he took care of her ♥︎ but I do agree with her dad, you never know when things will go bad so is always good to be prepared :)
Exactly I am sure they will last because they loved each other even before the money came.
I’m sorry but being a wife isn’t exactly a job or sustainable, being a mother and wife is a different story. What exactly do you do other than cook and clean(sometimes not even clean due to the fact that they’re adults)? Which is quite literally the bare minimum. I’m not judging anyones relationship dynamic if they’re both fine with it then so what, I just don’t see the point of it being a sole purpose.
She doesn’t even clean at that… they literally have a maid
Dad is telling her right,you have to plan for the what ifs and the rainy days because they will surely come..
No one's identity should be riding the coattails of someone else, husband or not.. I heard no mention of her getting out and doing charity work or finding hobbies.. She seems to only care about the material things and has no concept of the fact that as quick as he's earned that wealth,it can be taken from him,and then what..? 🤷🏿♀️
What if the man goes on debt and writes the wife as the owner of the debts
Gurl, really? Just because this method works for you, you don't have the right to say that 50-50 relationships are unhappy lol calm down lady
If it works for you, amazing! But the rest of relationships don't need to follow that
If you are happy that’s awesome but it’s almost never 50/50. Women almost always are doing more domestic labor. If they have kids they do the majority of child rearing. It’s not bs studies have shown this
Atleast be a housewife with a degree
All she has to do is save money lol
@@janisemills1 😂I mean. He is so rich, she can save money. In couple of years she will have a lot of it. It’s better than having a job. But you don’t know if the marriage will last years. So it is better to have a degree. Speacially before she’ll have children
Am a nanny to a Jordanian couple in Kuwait. I have never seen a more hard-working woman in my whole life than my madam. Even when the baby is being difficult I hate to disturb her.
She told me her mom wanted her and all her sisters than the boys because she felt they had to work harder than the men in an Arab setting. She always wanted to go to school but her father forced her into marriage.
She's ok that this lady is ok being a stay at home wife, I would wish to have a rich husband to look after me BUT with life, it's forever changing, she needs to be able to atleast finish school. She could always set her own hours.
It's kinda unfair too, alot of Jordanians would love to have a good education, it's a poor country.
I understand her dad. If something happens like if Ricky loses his job or if they divorce, she has no independence to pay bills or have any work history. I agree she needs to go to school and get a career.
She will make more money with one brand deal on tik tok than I make in a whole month with as a medical doctor.
If she wants to get a degree that’s great. But it certainly isn’t necessary, even to be financially independent.
Is she atleast learning how to stock trade like her husband? 🤦🏽♀️
He could atleast teach her because if anything would happen to him she would squander all that life cover money because of tiktok and grief.
I will work;because I want my OWN money. I want to be independent. I do not want to rely on anyone for nothing, I do not want someone complaining if I purchased something. I do not want to ask for permission to buy something. I want to contribute financially to the union.
I just can't trust people enough to be a stay at home mom with no career or work experience under my belt because when things don't work out with the dude it becomes a whole mess of trying to figure your life out..
I mean they've been living like this for 8 years so I guess it suits them. They got lucky
It's something that works perfectly in India though, I think lotta people don't save and invest money well, you could make enough for both of you by the time you're 35 it's no big deal. You don't really need gucci and chanel or Iphone to live well.
This woman works. The problem is that most people believe being a hardworker and mature means you have to look and sound "serious". Nonsense. She's working. They are a team. Personally I'm taking notes
This relationship makes me so happy. I love this for her. My husband and I have a goal to make me a housewife by next year, when he hits that 6 figure mark.
Best of luck to both of yall! I was a housewife for 7 months before med school started, and it was the best 7 months of my life
I was low key hoping she continued her studies. Why not? She can afford it and I know she's a housewife but if she tried enough she can make it work.
3:48 How snobby
She’s going to do whatever she’s going to do as an adult, Everyone else be damned.
No skin off my nose because it’s not my life, it’s hers at the end of the day.
I do respect her dad, he’s just concerned, and it obviously comes from a place of love rather than judgement.
Her dad is extremely sensible, and of course worried about his daughter who is going to be left with nothing if they divorce. No life skills, and no work experience. Also her comments about 50/50 not being "natural" tells me she is extremely immature and naive. Im all for people having the relationships that work for them, but she is taking a huge risk making herself dependent like that
@@ElMona I like independence personally, the art of freedom and such.
I think she just wants handouts, not that’s how things work in life like.
Agree
the father is hilarious, never stops thinking about his family.
She needs to be her own person first. What she loves is bragging about the stuff they own and that her husband can provide it. Take those things of her, she'll throw a tantrum for sure.
The more expensive, the more she loves it.😭🤣
I would like to hear if this man feels she would still love him if he would suddenly have nothing at all and not be able to make all that money again. Does he feel secure? I'd have a lot of doubts don't wanna lie. I'd feel like she is with me for the lifestyle I afford her and so it's not that deep.
When the dad asked: “WHATS YOUR PRIORITY” 💯💯📌👌🏼
When she’s 40 and has no education or job experience 😂😂😩
Poor thing, when he gets bored of her and/or she starts to age..she will see a different side of him and she is going to have so many regrets. It's so very important to have an education and your own money because men change like the weather. I hope she doesn't have to learn the hard way
All she has to do is save money and invest lolol
@@janisemills1 something tells me she ain’t investing her money right
@@BoddaBingBoddaBoom She probably is though. It’s very common even I saved money when my man was paying for everything.
@@janisemills1 true😂. Let’s hope, she is smart to do that.
Girl enjoy your life but have a backup plan.
‘Ricki is ssooo rich’ 😂
There’s nothing wrong with being a homemaker. But in this day and age, it’s wise to always have something to fall back on just in case (whether that be a degree or a little part-time business). God forbid something happens, or the marriage becomes abusive, you can make your escape without worrying too much about what’s in store for you financially. I say this as someone who grew up in an abusive home, with a mother who was reluctant to leave because she relied on my father for everything.
I’m sorry for what you had to go through growing up. I’m happy you were able learn from this experience to not make the same mistakes.
But you could argue her influencer status is a career to fall back on just in case. She could make more on one brand deal in one minute long tik tok than I do all month as a medical doctor.
She's lucky to live that life 😊
Wow it's amazing to me. And she will be in the situation my grandma was in which is in their older age when they get there if he goes before she does, she has no idea how to live. She has no idea what she would do or how to pay her bills if he passed away. I saw what my grandma went through it's sad. It's hard. I pray she will at least learn how to pay the bills and know whats due and when and how to pay them. Even if she chooses not to do them herself it would be good for her to at least learn
Social media is ruining lives
Love that for her. If a guy fell for me and made that kind of money, I'd happily do the same thing. (Well, Id probably try not to spend all of my allowance lol i'd invest it or save some)
However, if she signed a prenup & he ever falls out of love, she's potentially going to be up the creek without a boat.
She owns her own medical spa. She has income
Only this channel would post a video about a spoiled & financially ignorant girl punching down on working people, and act like nothing’s wrong
I love this life for her, but I do worry when she says she gave up her dreams. But she's happy so good for her
She can always go back to school. School and jobs aren't going anywhere. Women don't have forever to have children.
If hes at home. N she is too. She needs to finish up her college. Wealthy women didnt live like this. They had maids, butlers, etc.
Even if the relationship works well. I do agree with her dad she should want more for herself in life. But that’s just my opinion.
You can do whatever you want with your money, but this generation is so comfortable. It’s good that a husband wants to take care of his wife, that isn’t bad at all. But settling down just because you’re comfortable and financially stable is bound to fail. I’d get it if they have kids but they don’t, she can do something more valuable with her time. People lose who they are with money and forget how to be humble and end up getting comfortable because they feel like that’s their only choice. Especially bragging about shopping every day and traveling and eating out all the time. DON’T get comfortable ladies, you can do so much more with life 👏🏼 (ps I am not saying being a house wife is bad, just don’t settle for less just because someone is taking care of you)
Microwaving the chocolate for the strawberries 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️😭😂😂😂
It’s called “Love don’t Judge “ but she judges everyone else’s relationships🤔
She has a point though a marriage 50 -50 isn’t healthy because you want TIME!!!
If your life is so good, why are you online trying to convince us? Her husband needs to tell her about the finances and understand what he’s doing just in case he becomes incapacitated and she’s running around like a chicken with her head cut off not knowing what to do or how to run things.
I feel sorry for the father that his been brainwashed too think that school will get you somewhere in life 😢
She could keep and invest her $30k monthly "allowance," as well as go to school. That would provide security. Having his child would cement support also, but that is no reason to have a child.
Personally, if money wasn't an issue, I would still do some kind of schooling, just to learn, grow and keep my brain active. Also, with that much money, imagine all the amazing learning programs you could join! You could join the most prestigious art studios, get a yoga instructor certification from thailand, get a F1 driving lesson from a pro, learn how to produce music from the most high class mentors...the possibilities are endless! Having that much money is all the more reason to dive into learning anything and everything, since you don't need it for work you can do it for pure passion.
This is the traditional life I want
Don't rack up debt!
Last time I checked this is a traditional woman
I love the dad for a reality check. Although her choice is to be a housewife is also valid.
Aint shit wrong with this. Stop hatin
I’m a trad wife and nothing wrong with that. Been with my hubby for 23 years and we have 3 kids. And it works for us.
Awesome, congrats!
😂that woman is so funny. Little do you know, that’s what women who are stuck on their marriage thought. Anyway, I personally don’t gave a shit about women like her. She is an adult. And nobody is forcing her. Let’s get real thou, some women have no goals or ambitions. All they think about is being a housewife so that make sense😂. Some of us have hobbies and goals and education is what will make us achieve it.
Linda is living our dream lives. Hi Linda
People can be dumb. But in reality, people are just saying the obvious. Everything is good now, but it might not always be. That's life. People want you to protect your interests because if he ever decides he's done or becomes unable to work, where does that put you and your children ma'am. It's not about having fear. It's about being prepared. Enjoy your life but don't be naive.
Well, I suppose education is not for everyone, but the power imbalance, to me, is a real threat. At least, I suppose, her TikTok career allows her to generate some money. I think she should listen to her dad more instead of rolling her eyes. I understand that this is the character she has decided to play, but, even so, it does not seem that she really had dreams to give up, to begin with.
I think she needs to continue her own career and her father is telling the truth, you can't rely on him forever
Money is temporary.
God is Eternal.
Aw I love her dad ❤
There's nothing wrong with being a stay-at-home mom, but this woman's head is so far in the clouds that she doesn't realize she's putting herself at risk. Unless her name is on the deed of every house, they have a prenup that provides her a stable income for the rest of her life if they divorce, and their investments are already enough to retire on, there is absolutely no reason she shouldn't get an education that she can fall back on.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a stay-at-home wife, but when she said "bills are irrelevant" it showed how disconnected from reality she is. I'm from a household income close to where she is and that statement is not accurate whatsoever.
The key here is that HE married a girl with a rich father or brother. Unfortunately they don’t actually put a ring on poor young girls.
I think the bragging is a subconcious admission that she's not sure about this at all. Every shoe is a justification.
The interior if their home shows once again that money can't buy taste or class
Perfect. You two do you two. Everyone else is just jealous. Just remember, don't base your value on your finances. Money is good but your spirit is beyond value.
I like her dad hopefully he knocks some sense into her. If he loses all that money she'll have nothing it's risky. All the money he's giving her she should invest and that way if the relationship goes south she has savings. She should already have a lot of savings.
The thing is the day he decided to date a younger women, then what? Bills won’t be irrelevant then…
She is adult and it is her choice good for her ❤
This is not going to end well for her in the long run
You're jealous bc she doesn't have to work and you do. 😂
@@BasedTruth yea I am so jealous that I own my own stuff soooo very jealous wowwwww
@@ericawilliam7985 yea because you have no choice but to work. You don't qualify for someone to take care of you and relieve you of the stress of mobility. Yall capping
@@BasedTruth I am happily married 😂 and I own 4 homes around the world..I now live in the Bahamas 🇧🇸 by the beach yea I am so miserable 😭
@@ericawilliam7985 you're happily married and you still have to work 🤣🤣🤣 i see why you're mad
If God wills, they will be good. She will get blessings for being a good wife and a good daughter. Every time she does a good deed for her husband, she elevates as a woman and in spiritual status. Many westerners will never get the opportunity to experience this because of the social programming that makes one feel superior all the while being burned out. I do, however understand her father’s concerns. Maybe she can start teaching the things she is good at or start an online boutique. Not just TikTok. She should also start investing part of her allowance. She also should learn trading from her husband. She is very blessed that she not only is loved and cherished by her husband, but also her father. He talks so kindly to her and gives advice from a loving and pure place as a daddy. God protect them all from jealousy or any other kind of misfortune, evil, or harm. Amen 🙏🏽
beautiful comment. ameeen
If I could be in her position, I would 100% do it. Who wants to work all day and barely make any pay. That being said she needs to learn some dependency
Girl, you are lucky and I think what you all are doing is a good setup. The only thing that I think you need to do differently is you need to get a degree, learn how to invest... because if something happens to your husband you will be stuck.
A degree isn’t the answer to everything. It’s barely the answer to anything.
I agree with learning how to invest, especially when she can learn a lot of it from her husband who is right there.
But I think she will be fine without a degree. She can probably make more money with one brand deal for one minute long video than I make in a whole month as a medical doctor. I love my career so no complaints. But she will be fine.
This came across as…performative🫠
All she talk about is money... 🙄🙄🙄
I'm not into homemaker wife.. But there are lot middle class woman also choose to stay home even if their husband earn very basic amount for family..
The dad needs to keep out of their relationship their both grown adults she don’t need to work if her husband is rich some people can’t work due to disabilities and don’t have a choice in it
I would support her more if it weren't for her using her lifestyle choice as a blatant way of her announcing how rich they are. That's a different show, sis. I guess all the money didn't buy her much class.
The husband looks embarrassed when the wife talks. So cringe.
If you are happy with this lifestyle goo for you but don't judge couple who do 50/50
Okay the man really is a provider for his wife. I believe you met him for a reason he is awesome husband, but at least educated your self get a education and keep your degree
Traditional Women: Rely on your husband to take care of you
Strong, “Independent” Modern Women: Rely on Corporations and/or the Government to take care of you.
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So basically in both scenarios women are relying on men to take care of them. This is why I always say there is no such thing as an independent woman. Never has been and never will be.
@@kingd-lite3674are you guys nuts?
I was a housewife from 19-23. Its ok, i eis live the free time i had to make my home cleane & organized the way i like it. I do twll ither women though indont think its the amazing fairy tale that they believe it is lol yes my house was nice and paid for, on off days he took me out for dinner or to parks, he bought me clothes etc its not bad, but the way i see some women Dying to be housewives doesnt make sense to me. Evryone felt i was wo lucky. Now my sisters a stay at home & she's bored out of her mind 😂 calls me 247 complainig i said SEE 🤷
I agree with dad. Finish degree before kids to have a back up plan. Put money away for an escape plan.
I'm currently working on my partners house, we plan to sell it to one of my his siblings when I made enough money for the new house. Then we buy a house together in Germany, I suggested that I will be a parttime housewife, he agreed. Parttime housewife means working in the morning and cleaning/cooking, etc in the afternoon and evening. I want to work to have a good start in the morning, so that I can have a easy start in the afternoon. Also working parttime is necessary to have enough money to support ourselves. I understand her. But I do agree that school needs to be finished first to move on. Its always handy to have a backup plan.
"...make sure the house is clean"
1 second later: I HIRE A MAID
*saitama ok*
People don’t hate her because they hate her. We hate her because we wish it was us. I’m deep into envy.
no need to hate on her beacuse your jelous
I thought the boss babe lifestyle is what as women we are taught to achieve. I realized in my mid 20s I was not happy making money & traveling alone & buying beautiful items. I met my husband at 22 & when he settled with a well job & got his own place I retired at 24 & got married. I love being a housewife 😍 I'm 29 now
Aw the picture of them when they first met is cute... they both look great now and definitely their relationship seems cute
I just dont understand how this is any different from so many other relationships other than that he makes a lot of money. Every other relationship out there has this same dynamic just not within this same tax bracket. And actually if you stay at home for a man that makes very little money then youre risking way more than she is. She really shouldnt work because theyre married and if they ever divorced she will get alimony. If she gets a job she will forefit alimony