I Paid $20K For A Wife - But She's Not My 'Slave' | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
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EVAN and Stephanie met on a Filipino dating website and quickly hit it off. Evan explained: "I decided to download a Filipino dating app, just to see what's out there and right away I matched with Stephanie." Weeks later, Evan flew to the Philippines and they made things official. In order to move Stephanie over to the US, they had 90 days to get married. Now husband and wife, the pair share their relationship online. Stephanie revealed: "The comments we get online are like: 'you could not get someone in the US', 'she's going to milk your money dry boy'." Evan said: "When people say Stephanie is my maid, I don't take it personally, because I know that we're both happy and we have a good thing going between us." In this episode of Love Don't Judge, Evan's mom, Susan, will be revealing what she thought when the pair first got together. Speaking candidly to the pair, she questioned: "Why did you feel the need to get married so fast?"
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The title seemed like he paid her. He spent the money on trips to go there.
Dude a trick 15k on flights ✈️
The title is a strategic way to get someone to watch the episode.
I don't see anything wrong here. They are close in age. They have a traditional marriage. They appear to genuinely love each other. The dating pool sucks. It looks like these two won.
It’s anything but “traditional” haha
So what is wrong with age difference? Iam 20 years older than my wife. Its a love marriage just like the couple in this video. You are toxic feminist😂😂😂
They could be further apart in age and there would still be nothing wrong with it.
The title is very misleading, its suggesting that he paid $20k for a wife, like he picked her out of a catalog. He spent that money traveling to visit her. And he definitely got ripped off, you can find much better deals on flights to Philippines
Ripped off by what? He probably booked quickly and during peak-seasons. Plus, the closest airport to him may not have the best flights.
Very normal. Nothing but a clickbait title
@jtomyhope575 Nah he paid too much, google flights and skyscanner to find cheap flights. There's no way he paid that much unless he's naive. Plus he probably paid for her immigration. They filed for a K1 visa which cost a lot.
Post Covid, direct flights to the Philippines have been very expensive. I flew to Thailand and then booed a flight to Manila and saved $600, even with a few extra nights in Bangkok (bonus, I love Thai food).
Congratulations 🎉🎉 guys! i feel so happy for you. There's genuine LOVE there ❤❤All the best 😍
Change the title, he didn't purchase her for 20k. He got to know her then paid that for the traveling 🙄
And immigration. K1 visa, I-130 and I-485 immigration applications are expensive too.
I agree with you lol
@@x50nathan Wow! I didn't know all of this. Thanx.😊
Right let us find this channel using klickbait like ever.
I feel like this is fake
What a beautiful love story. I don't see any judgement or problem. They are a traditional couple, he loves her and she loves him. She is a stay at home wife and there is NOTHING wrong with this. It works for them, so it is a good thing.
Yeah, bringing someone from another country is expensive, but if they are the right person, they are the right person and it is worth it.
Try dating American women, then you will know what is 'expensive'. This is especially if you get divorced
Not mom saying “you look like a foreigner” 😅 like she just had to say that ? 😂
Yes, I noticed that too, it was really awkward 😮
Don't get it twisted, the mother was concerned for her son when he traveled to a far away country as a foreigner, and emphasized that he does look like a foreigner which is 100% true, his gringo ass looks completely foreign in a country like the Philippines which could potentially get him in trouble, any mother would worry about that.
She was talking about her son. What’s wrong with that?
Interesting how if an American man marries someone from abroad with darker skin, she’s always referred to as a “slave”? I don’t see those comments when their picking up a bride from Russia or Ukrainian? 🤔
Very true.
Yeah fr it is maybe also because of the fact that she's from a third world country.
@@rndm1409Philippines tend to outsource their women to the middle east and east Asia as maids and servants for low wages which is pretty much what people think of when it comes to slave.
Touche
This is not a fake relationship, these are two people that found each other.
If you don't want to be judged then don't put yourself on a show about it.
Honestly if you are happy that is great but honestly money was a factor before you both ever got together 🤷♀️
Right 😂😂😂
Can you say that for the people in the back please? Not a lie told
Pretty sure they don’t mind the judgement.
There’s judgment before being on the show obviously or they wouldn’t of said it, also there’s no reason to judge
Yeah money was a factor, does anyone think that this attractive woman would even entertain him if he couldn't provide all that he did ? ...HELL NO !"
I’m a Filipina and I think She’s perfect and beautiful inside out ❤
I agree with her☝️ 😊
This is the most normal, cute married couple 💕! Please change the TITLE 😌 The writer must be jealous of them 🙄
All normal here , got two friends who each have over sea wife’s and both have 8-10 years married . I’m happy for them and anyone taking that leap of faith .
U can totally tell its real love. Congrats
These are two young people who are inlove. Nobody os taking advantage of anyone. I don't know why everyone is so bitter
....bitter and jealous
Let it go people, they’re happy together 😊
They are too cute. It doesn't seem like he went into the app desperate. He then saw her and something sparked. They are perfect for each other.
They are so blessed. She gets to work from home doing things that makes both their lives good and he is bringing home the bacon. So blessed. I wish I didn't have to work so hard.
They are perfect for each other. You can tell from their body language that they truly love and care for each other. People who hate on them and judge them are just envious as they cannot be in a loving relationship like theirs.
They are cute together , wishing them well in their marriage. She is a beautiful young lady and sounds intelligent
All a mom wants, is for a son to find someone that loves them, as much as she does.
If you are in love that’s great and happy for you. But I would definitely say money and lifestyle were a factor too. It’s clear as day bruh. That’s the only reason she started talking to you and then “later” you fell in love (hopefully).
You are so pessimistic. SMH. She is genuine, why not have a great guy who is loaded in her standards, where’s the problem? 😂you just mad, bruh
@@Embodied.bliss.somaticsidk i think ur username tells me u might think a lot of ppl are pessimistic for simply being realistic lol .. theres nothing wrong with wanting to have a greater standard of living i dont fault her at all
@@Embodied.bliss.somaticsbut two things can be true at the same time ⚖️
That is a big part of marriage 😭😂🤣
Thats a healthy relationship. Both pitch in, in their own way. Those who criticize her for being a house wife are probably the "strong" and "independent" women who cannot even get a date because of their toxic and twisted mentality of how real and fair relationships work out. Kudos to these 2.
Dude people are rightfully worried. She's from a very different country, very far away and she came alone and something bad could have easily happened.
Im just wondering has she even finished her education . 😮
There is no need to be rude to independent women . Everyone should be independent in life I feel men women and children 🙏
You can tell right away when it’s genuine love in my opinion. I really feel like these two make a good match❤️ the stereotype of Filipino wives isn’t always the truth. I’m also in a non traditional relationship (18 year age gap with an immigrant) and everyone will either say I’m using him for money or he’s using me for papers, but we’re in a happy and healthy relationship and have been for 5 years. We’re now married with a baby boy❤
They are both honestly adorable and seem really happy together. Obviously any mother is going to be concerned but I think they are really happy together. At least from what we can see obviously.
You guys have a beautiful relationship, so protect it and grow in strength.
They have a traditional marriage . He works she does the chores . When my husband got sick and had to get off the road and file for disability. I was the one who worked we were a one income family for 5 years till he got his disability. He was the stay at home husband and he did the chores and cooked. Thank heavens because that man of mine is an amazing cook and i can barely boil water. Then i became super sick and had to quit my job and he was the sole provider . I am glad for the both of them. People wonder why our young men go out of the country to get married. I will tell you. The women in the U.S. demand they do not ask they take especially in a relationship. Your money is their money and their money is their money(not every woman but every woman i have seen on the influenced space.).
That the problem I have with Western women..Right now i'm working in the visa to get my girlfriend from Colombia over here
@@yoboybigj875 I wish you nothing but love peace and a long lasting marriage. Women in this country have changed and not for the better. I do not remember them acting like when in the 70's to about the early 90's them something shifted and they became gold diggers i do not get it. We have worked hard all our life, both me and my husband. We have 3 accounts . His account /my account /and a retirement account. I feel so long as we pay all of our bills what ever is left over i do not care what he does with the rest of his money.
@@yoboybigj875 From what i have seen of women from other countries who marry the men from the United States they seem more respectful because of where they come from and they are what i would call more of a traditional woman.
Congrats I met my wife about 16 years ago and brought her and our daughter here 13 years ago. Hope you have a long and happy life.
They look so happy. That’s a genuine smile on her face. Good for them
I just love all of her wedding looks!!! They are a lovely couple!
They're such a cute couple. I wish them a beautiful lasting union.
I love this beautiful young couple. They are a real breath of fresh air. How lovely to see your relationship flourish. Keep up the good work. Btw, Stephanie is gorgeous no matter what Philipino standards are. It's the most ridiculous thing to me!! Wow, you're both just perfect for each other. Enjoy the life you are creating. Can't wait to see your babies.
I hope this is genuine. There's absolutely nothing wrong with marrying someone from a different culture or race, but this is just becoming so common. Maybe these relationships are genuine, but it also seems like convenience as well.
She has absolutely no accent.I'm skeptical of this story.. I've noticed a lot of these couples use the stories for their social media.. But people believe anything
Filipinos especially from the younger generation are pretty good in speaking english
She does have an aceent. Many learn English through social media and movies where they pick up an American accent. I've met people with American and British accents who have never even been to those places.
She clearly has a Filipino accent, you need to educate yourself more.
@@Ad-Infinitum in the Philippines, students are taught English when they start school from day one, thats why the vast majority of Filipinos speak English. Also is high school they are required to learn a 3rd language
@@BrownBomber92181"Educate yourself"😂 Here's a badge🎖, you sound very smart and pleasant😂
The only problem i have is that he is not seen doing the yard work.... thw trash and yardwork should be his job besides working for a living. If she is to be at home with. No job.
If it works for them both, and if it feels right, don’t you just know? I mean, I guess if you know you know, right?
Much love and all the best to this couple for now and the future 🖤
They are both very smart, beautiful and down to earth people and lucky to have found each other this early in life. Some people search for a lifetime and never find the right person.
The world is extremely small. Marriage should be global. My wife is from Vietnam.
lol the bro imported a slave comment had me dying, im glad they are happy
You made a great choice young man. This is a lady dedicated to the man of her life. I am now 75 and my filipina wife is now 52. She is the best investment I have ever made. I hope you two just stay in love. You are a beautiful story, stay that way.
Housewife/husbands are not slaves. They are actually the glue for the family. I know some people abuse it, but it's a tough "job." Especially with kids involved.
Ive actually seen this in real life! My dad had a therapist with a Filipino nurse that helped him. He was disabled in a wheelchair at the time and his therapist and the nurse were bragging about how he paid for her and said she had friends and offered to get my dad one of them for a price! Im literally sitting right there and they WEREN'T JOKING. These girls are literally bred for this. This is human trafficking idgaf what sugar you throw on top of it. This is sick. Do not support this stuff!!!
I've had Filipino and Sri Lankan women trying to set up my BOYFRIEND with members of their family!
YES It is DISGUSTING Mainly bc he KNOWS that She has an IMPOVERISHED MindSet. . .he MOS DEF is PLAYING on Her VULNERABILITIES.
Calling it trafficking is making light of actual trafficking crimes and victims. These are two consenting adults, nothing to do with trafficking.
@@av-ls5dfur so right it should be called “soft self-trafficking” 😍
@@av-ls5df you're obviously missing the red flags. They're literally telling you what it is and thinking this is better than human trafficking or not the same is why it keeps happening. She knew from a young age that she wasn't "beautiful" by her country standards. She fluently speaks English and probably has since a child. I'm telling you these women are groomed to be a concubine from a young age. Even if she's now a consenting adult what about the other girls coming up? It's still going on. I don't think it's fair to do that. And the biggest thing here is that she is at his mercy. He sure seems like a nice dude and I hope for her sake he is. And as I said they will come be your wife for a price!! I call it how I see it. And I truly believe this is not okay. But that's what I believe. You have the right like anyone else to believe what you want. I just wish it were at least looked into.
She is beautiful wtf are they talking about
They look happy. Here or there, they found one another. Let them live
The camera was rolling.
I don’t think it’s there story I think it’s the fact that they filmed it for social media… like they like the shock factor and hate comments
Beautiful young couple!
THis man is smart. Men want a partner, not a business woman that only focus on her career. Asian men want a woman that is traditional. Lucky man! AND smart!
It is a partnership. The guy earns money and she supports him.
People to criticize they couple is simple. they are jeolous. they can't stand others being happy when they are lonely and without a life parnter.
Right now there’s probably a million American men switching to Philippines dating apps because of this video. 😆
She is beautiful. It is a great deal for him as long as she stays .
Looks like a perfect couple to me, love, happy, young, and got it together. Breaking up in the future or stay together happily forever who knows and that's with every marriage on earth.
Live your BEST LIVES ❤
I just spent 11 days in the Philippines and I can tell you it’s so easy to make friends and date. People are so humble and are curious to get to know you. whether or not some of the girls are in it for the green card or because they generally are interested in you is up for u to decide objectively
🇵🇭Manileña here! Honestly you guys are good pair! Bagay kayo !💯 👌
Hope youll have a YT! 😍
how is she a slave? everyone cleans their own home
Don't worry about the negatives. Once you married foreigners a lot of people judge you married with money or passport, etc .ignore them we heard this all the time,focus your relationship of your husband and respect each other.
basically its 90 days fiance. she needs to come to US, and he needs someone to be domesticated. 20k is cheap for the money he spent on her.
Who else assumed she was filipino before even clicking on the video 😅
She is absolutely adorable, their relationship is so beautiful!❤ Nothing wrong in getting marry fast when you are 100% ready!!
TLC should invite them to join the 90 Day Fiancé (drama) 💀
I don’t see anything wrong here. They found each other online, and fell inlove, just like what happened to my husband and I..😊Very normal in this modern world we live in. And yes, we Filipinas love to take care of our husbands☺️..So happy for the two of them! 💗💗💗
They are just mad because she is gorgeous and he can provide. Haters, hate. 🤣
Not that gorgeous if we talking about Asean beauty. Its just a rare pokemon for u whites
They seem happy. Screw everyone else.
That’s a good deal so long as she’s faithful and a sane person
Shes beautiful and pretty ..you can see a light shining from the inside ..
Wouldn't pay more than 5$ for a wife
You two looks so adorable. Don't worry about other people and comments. Just be you , be happy and love each others.
Passport bro
I don’t see anything wrong I only see two people living life❤
Very beautiful and elegant woman. So unlike today's entitled, loud, masculine western woman. Good luck to the both of you.
We know that she's with him for the USA GREEN CARD, but there's no shame in that. If they are in love and there is peace in their home then all is well.
Not necessary
Umm not everyone is dreaming for the USA Green Card 😅🤭 She literally said it in the video, US wasn't her dream and she used to ask him if he could rather stay in the Philippines with her.
Just fine in my world... only problem is...I'm jealous
I really adore your union.🎉❤
They seem extremely happy ❤ so when people judge that they don't understand then they get nasty with those comments 😮
This video title is clickbait - change the title. This is a fine couple
Most normal video on this channel 😮
They such a cute couple very young to be married if happy may they.
This is like 90 day Fiance but not toxic
Thats about what i got into my wife also but with as beautiful as she is combined with how loving she is the whole deal is priceless
I was expecting that he paid a dowry but instead it's just clickbait.
Clickbait title...
Also the mom saying "you look like a foreigner ". Wtf does a foreigner look like? Just because you are Asian doesn't mean you're not american
If you're both happy and its working, its all good.
She’s beautiful 😃
I think she is so cute , & her skin color is very pretty , he genuinely seems to be so happy with her 💕 💞 💕
Sadly Filipinos are known worldwide as good house maids
This is such a beautiful story 😭❤️. Please change the thumbnail title, it's really not true to the story. Thank you
Omg Lol you both are just like my wife and I 😂 love it !!!
He's a "square" and she is in need, so both their prayers were answered...
She's so cute and he's so happy. I wish them nothing but the best.
When I saw them holding hands praying I said wowwwww yall got this❤
Taking care of our man is normal that is how our mom do for our dad, tatay.
What’s the Filipino dating app?
Both super cute! Enjoy your life and ignore online idiots!
"You look like a foreigner." Wow. Wow. Wow.... reminds me of the off the wall shit my own mother says. I could go on and on, but someone from Sweden isn't going to "look like a foreigner" even though they are. Also technically everyone is a foreigner unless they are Native American... yes i know its been 10 generations since our relatives immigrated to American butttt, you get my point.
I don't believe her for a second. She's not foriegn at all. 100% born and raised in America.
She has an accent so she is definitely foreign.
Why does he look so awkward sitting with his arm around her? 😂
I wish the best for both of you.
His mom looks more like his older sister 👏🏻
People will always have negative things to say but what you sir and you mam to be the fact is absolutely what is more important. May your love for each other continue to grow every day.
My boss did the same thing ans he paid for all her college. And she divorced him. No flippin joke. No phillapino joke.
I understand this my husband is Indonesian and I'm trying to get him here in America for years I would be rich if I told ya how many times people tell me this or He's going to leave you and take your money 😑
I saved $20k by marrying my Filipina hairdresser who I met in Vancouver. Then I spent $20k paying off her student loan and getting her dental work. 😂😂😂