To my Son Brad and my Grandson Blaze. Knowing and living the whole story, this reunion, captured with the love, feeling and respect for each other brings tears of warmth and joy every time I watch your videos. This time round the tears are of joy, warmth, and healing. I am grateful that you have found each other in my lifetime, and healed and filled a massive void in my heart. My love to you both, you are both strong people and this is only the beginning of your beautiful journey. Blaze, I have missed and loved you since you were born, and the day you came to this world we were blessed with your presence. Now I too can have the pleasure of seeing you as a person rather than my memories of you as a tiny wee baby. You are much loved and the most special person xxxx. My door and my heart is forever open to you ❤❤❤ Brad, I am proud of the young man you are, and always taken by your ability to forgive, no matter how much pain you have endured. I love you forever. Now that you have Blaze back in your life enjoy and live every precious moment. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is an example of this profound truth: forgiveness and love wins. Always. There is an amazing mystery in forgiveness…there is a profound love on the other side. I believe it is a deeper, unique, love given as a gift to those who fully forgive and allow God to heal and give a fresh start. What a beautiful example of forgiveness, love, a clean slate - and new beginning. I wrote a book on forgiveness and this is so beautiful. Many struggle with letting the past go - if they only knew what was waiting on the other side. May the Lord bless you immensely…I think you already know HE has. ~Kim Chadwell
@@pupgaming5072it’s a healthy combination of both tbh, like most things in life I wonder why it is that humans seem so keen to split things and apply them as if they can’t coexist?? Religion and Science….Political parties…..levels of acceptance
@@Kurotama11 whilst yes, it could be both at the same time it's possible it's only one, or even neither. But at the end of the day, theres plenty of evidence for both cases (e.g. feral children being evidence for nurture) so you can believe what you want
@@pupgaming5072 “plenty of evidence for both cases” by default means both are true in their respective rights tho, doesn’t it?? So why so adamant to *pick a side* ?
I have no idea why the algorithm brought your video to my attention, but this reaffirms that good things do still happen in this world. Best wishes to you both for a lifetime of love and happiness.
As a mum of a kid being the same age around your son. His dad lives on another continent too. I would ask you to not only make it a vacation thing, write post cards whenever you can, send him trivial things like a new pencil case and annual planner when it’s the new school year, show him how to shave his beard once you’re on visit, pay interest in his school education and grades. My sons father always visits him once a year and my son is always smitten and so thankful - and it always breaks my heart, cause I know there won’t be much contact in between a birthday and Christmas card and that visit. 😢
@@mattyd3079I’m like 27, when I was around 22, my sisters from my estranged dad got in touch with me. He also at one point asked to meet me, and I declined, despite wanting contact with my siblings. Perhaps, he’s changed, learned, whatever. To me, at that age, I don’t really care. I also know how people work, and it’s not really my job, to let him have any forgiveness he can’t give himself🤷🏻♂️ I’d imagine alot of people, especially sons, who had to be their own male idol, and teach themselves would agree with my view.
We have a similar story. My daughter became pregnant with my grandson, and his dad had to go back to Ghana. He never actually got to see his son. Then, as we went into the 1st lockdown(covid), my grandsons mum found his dads sister on facebook. Within an hour I had a message asking if his dad could speak to his son( my grandson lives with me). We decided we would set it up the next day. Early next morning I put RUclips on and called my grandson to watch a video of a man donating food parcels to the Ghanaian police to hand out... I then explained that this special man was infact his dad... That 1st facetime was very special ... This was in the March in the October we went to Ghana to finally meet his dad. He also got to meet some very special people who were turning up just to say hello. He hasn't been able to see his dad since then, until last week when I got a phone call at 7.30 am out of the blue from his dad to say his plane had landed in the UK So at 5pm on Saturday we had his dad ringing our doorbell, I've never seen so much shock and excitement in one 15yrds face!
@@thecutest4282Dude... Just move the hell on. You speak of something that anyone else could see could have unintended consequences. Most just let that inside voice remain inside. Then, there are people like yourself that just can't help yourself. Try to do better and mind your own business if all you're going to do is bring people down.
People don't realise how hard custody battles are. If a parent is telling you about their child that they don't have custody of, you shouldn't automatically assume that they don't love their child. This is beautiful. I'm so happy for you, guys! ❤
We weren’t told that a family friend’s daughter was actually my brother’s half-sister until we were in university. And then we found out about his half-brother! 🙃
This might come across as a little corny, but as a 16-year-old, I've struggled to have a solid relationship with my father. Watching the bond you and your father share, especially after being apart for some time, truly warms my heart. It’s inspiring to see how strong your connection remains despite the distance. Seeing this kind of relationship displayed in a RUclips video is uplifting and gives me hope that family bonds can thrive under challenging circumstances. It reminds me of the importance of connection, love, and resilience. Thank you for sharing this beautiful moment.. it really resonated with me!💓!
Hey bud, I'm 23 and am still at this stage with my biological father. He and my mom separated when I was about 7 and ever since then, despite me spending a few summer vacations with him a few times over the course of a decade, I still don't have much a relationship with him. Although he's my father, he isn't, and never will be, the man that raised me into who I am today. I don't know how your relationship with dad is, but I do know how important it is to have a connection with your biological father. To be completely honest, it never really gets easier not being close with him, but I've reached a point where I know he just isn't a part of my life anymore and I'm okay with it. Just make sure to remember that whether he's a part of your life or not, you are strong both with and without him.
I was 18 when I last saw my dad. I’m now 45. It hurts every day. I hope he’s well. Just balled my eyes out watching this. Embrace every moment. Such a beautiful story.
I’m in the group of “I don’t know why this was in my recommended” but I’m so happy it was. I wish nothing but safety and love for you and your family. ❤
My uncle lost in court to be able to see his son and he has not seen him since 2 years old. His mom unfortunately lied to their son saying that he never cared for him but my uncle got many pictures of him taking care and looking after him as a toddler as his mom worked her job. I hope one day his son contact him to meet him again!
This is becoming a huge problem in the west. Some women are abusing their rights as mums and just make dads vanish. I’m a woman but I see it happening more and more in my community. It’s messed up💔
@@hahe-m5g yeah that too, but I’m actually seeing this happening to fathers who don’t deserve this. It’s not fair to justify this by saying there’s more deadbeat fathers. Equality remember
You are so right!! I had a child at 16 and thankfully our families were loving and supportive. Unfortunately my baby daddy had a lot of growing up to do so it was very difficult for me.
@@cherylspohr9821What did you think was going to happen when you let him hit it raw at the very young age of 16? He was still a child, so were you. Boys grow emotionally even later I mean.
@@SkiesareGrey-un8gvAs you literally just said yourself, kids often make dumb decisions, there’s no need to be so rude. Sounds like she dealt with the consequences as well as she could.
People need to stop hating on the mother. She was very young and listened to her parents because she needed that support. We don't know the full story, so we shouldn't judge.
Agree. Knowing how young he was though in sure the mother's family thought they were doing what was best for their child, too. It's unfortunate for him, but I'm so glad he got his happy ending. This is such a critical age for a young man to have a father figure, too.
My son & his father are so close & do things a lot together. Camping, kayaking, hiking, sometimes basketball 🏀…my son is not very sporty😊now he’s teaching himself how to drive♥️♥️♥️
No, in many cases they should. Many fathers are abusive. But yes. This guy is obviously a very loving father and as long as they are like that, they shouldn't be but life happens i guess:/
I'm 28 years old and have been estranged from my own father. He had contacted me through facebook a while ago and i was somehow terrified to respond. Afraid of rejection and not living up to expectations i didn't reply. This 13 yo kid took the leap and had more courage than i could ever have. It's so lovely to see this beautiful reunion. It fills my heart all the way and has given me some courage to let go of my own fear and just reach out.
what's to be afriad of. just meet him he will not judge you. however you are meet him. you never know about life. when is our last breath. have no regrets. life won't give chance again nad again
I was with Brad at the birthday dinner where he got the message! I remember he seemed a bit quiet for a while but clearly he was just in shock haha. What an amazing story! So glad you guys are re-united and clearly Blaze got the content creator genes. All the best from London.
Well he could be ,his older brother said he was 16 when he was born. I have a friend whose mom had another child her senior/ junior year of college. She is 21 years older than her sibling . 😬 😮
I was adopted as a baby. Six years ago I got to meet my mom dad siblings et. three months later my father died in an accident. I love all of my family adopted, chosen and bio.
So great to see this. I was around 16 when I reached out to my father and was told to never call again. Luckily I have the most amazing step father that raised me and guided me at that age. So glad to see you creating memories and and sharing love. I love being a dad its the best gift on the planet.
Can’t believe I came across this video.. haven’t seen my son for 10 years now… I felt this, I dream of one day getting that message.. will never lose hope. Thank you 😢
You shall receive it, continue to picture that message esp before you sleep, continue to visualize that end result and it will occur , do it while you are falling asleep for a few days, you will receive that message . Chances he may want to commmunicate..but maybe message him if you can , also pray, people sleep on it.
Hey mate. I've never watched any of your videos, i was scrolling to find something to motivate me while i work and this popped up. This is the most wholesome thing i have seen this year, and i felt connected to the experience and felt for you tremendously. I'm glad the algorithm brought me here, because not only did i get to see this, i also share a passion with you in photography. I run the fujifilm xh-2 Hope you and your son have a massive, beautiful future together and share many epic moments. Peace and love, from Brisbane Australia.
I don’t know why i am crying, My son doesn’t see his biologic father since he was born. when my boy asked me who is my dad, i couldn’t hold my tears but i told him everything and my boy he is 12 now. I am so happy for you both. ❤
@@hanaagovic-cc7wq Thank you for your kind words. It’s hard to explain to the child knowing that the man you think he loves you so much turned out he doesn’t want the baby nor me. my life was tuned into hell at that time, i was too young and too stupid. But i fight alone for my sweetheart 12 years old son. With high school grades i have, i couldn’t do much at that time but i work my ass off for my boy even he was in my belly then he born ( he is 12 years old next month ) . and because of my son i am stronger than ever!! To all single moms or single dads in the world!! You all are amazing 😻
It's always good to have both parents while you are growing and single parent means lot of hard work where I live in but I guess being late is ok than never.Be happy and thanks his mum for you ❤
Whilst it is clearly awful that he was taken away from you when you were so young; credit must given to his mother's family who seem to have raised a grounded young man. Wish you all the best.
@@katherinebattle3780 borh men and women who aren't meant to be parents do this. My father's family kept me away from my mom and brainwashed me into thinking she had cheated on my father and abandoned us, when the truth was was father is physically and mentally abusive and schizophrenic. I'm currently living with my mom now and have cut off all contacts with him. Don't just go around blaming women for everything
@@i_am_gohan9232 if they were both 16, how do you want the mom to stop her family from moving away? He knew where they were and had other choices to keep in contact without spending money but he choose to let it be until his own son learned about it. Nobody imprisoned his son in a dessert island in the middle of nowhere
I've know Brad for 6 years! He is the only friend I made for the entire time that I lived in BCN. Happy tears are streaming down my face watching this video! Such a special and magical moment I've just witnessed! It's every single parents kids dream to meet their other parent! Most kids don't get that chance! Talk about devine timing, receiving such a messsage on your birthday! Miracles and happy endings exist, you and Blaze are living proof! Bless you two! -J
No idea why the algorithm gave me this, and I’m so happy it did. This is likely one of the best feelings in the world, if not the best. You both act like you haven’t spent a day apart, and that really makes me happy. So happy for you and your son 💛
This came across my feed! I can emotionally connect with you both. My son had a son young @ 18 yrs old. The last time I seen Wyatt, he was 3. He was 8 when his mom took him out of his dads life. 6 months ago...Wyatt came back to the state to be with his dad!! My son was as scared as I was! Omg! They are best 'mates' and inseparable! God Bless you both!💕🙏💕
This came across my feed today! What an amazing story, and what an amazing son you have. I couldn’t be happier for you and your entire family! ❤️ congratulations!,,
@@carolwilder2289 thank you for sharing. Like Brad & Blaze, your story inspires me with hope for when I begin to find my dad. I am very happy for you and your son to have your grandson in your life again. 🤙
To be fair, it wouldn't surprise me if he has a few kids running around who don't know he's their dad. Dude flew all over the world as the number 1 football player on earth. Definitely a few illegitimate kids
Blaze is your little copy. It's wonderful to see you've build this community of friends all over the world that your son can look forward to meeting. Well done, Dad! Here's to many adventures together 🩷
@@angeloc7486 Well, there's a thing called genetics that is very evident in facial features?! Also, their interests seem to allign. There's no shade thrown to the mom here. Cudos to her for raising the boy. Why does everything have to be a negative? This boy finally got to have his dad in his life. Be happy for them ...
As a mother who gave birth at 16, it is a painfully young age to go through such things. You are still essentially a child and dependent on your own parents, and then you have to try to become a parent without the maturity or financial resources. Im so happy there are no ill feelings or misunderstandings about what happened, at least between you and Blaze. You and his mom both had very tough decisions to make. The greatest gift, is that you are with him now at a most crucial moment in his development, and you can be there to hold his hand and help guide him to manhood. Incredible story and im so happy for you ❤🥲
I agree that at 16 you lack maturity, you're still a child and depends on your parents. But it's always the father that runs away and the mother faces their decisions and raise the child alone. Often with no financial help from the father. It's double standards, a father can leave with little judgement but if a mother leaves people are outraged and she's horrible & how could she do that? I would be curious to see the comments under a video of a mother meeting her child 14 years later. As the child of a single mother who suffered because my father left when I was a baby (they were 21 when she got pregnant) I can't believe we're glamorizing fathers leaving in this video and in these comments and making content of it. I am seriously disgusted.
I'm 14 now and I'm what life would be like without my dad, he is one of the most important people that I have and I can't imagine doing it without him. I don't know why the came up on my feed, but was ment to be seen!!!!
I hate how people think they have the right to judge people they don’t know!!!! NEVER take any negative comments to heart. Just don’t read them. I’m so glad you’re finally getting to see your son!!!!! Enjoy every moment. That first hug will last your lifetime. You’ll always feel it. Congratulations to you both!!!
❤❤❤ thank you for encouraging my Son and MY grandson in this journey. This story is about the wonderful outcome after years of heartache. These are 2 very special people sharing a moment of joy that will be everlasting, for them most importantly and for the wider family and friends. I agree with your comment wholeheartedly about how people think they have the right to judge, this short story is one where you can only rejoice in the outcome, the long story is way to painful to dwell on. ❤❤❤❤
Yep I'm judging because this man abandoned his kid because he was in his feelings. He didn't even tell his friends he had a kid until after the little boy reached out. He lived his best life and threw his kid away and didn't even look back if this kid didn't reach out he'd still be in the trash.
I have no idea who you are but your video was recommended to me. I watched and it was hard to see through the waterfall of tears. Your son is absolutely beautiful. He’s lovely. You are so lucky to have him back in your life. As is he. You were so young when you had him that even though you have your chance to be a great father to him you look more like brothers. Wishing you both a wonderful life together full of love.
I met my biological dad for the first time when I was already 18. Our meeting didn't go this way. I'm now 33 with a family of my own, and I rarely talk to that dude. But I'm glad you got to meet your son and you had an instant connection with him. Healing isn't for everyone, I guess, but I'm glad to see one of the instances where it worked.
This should be talked about more. People, understandably, only post the happy end stories on RUclips. It creates false impressions and false hopes for others in a similar situation. Thanks for sharing your story briefly. All the best for you for your future with your own family.❤
My thinking kinda went from, "Woulda been nice if I had a father figure to teach me these things" to "I'm now a father as well. We're (me and that dude) practically on the same level now. No need to consult someone I barely know about things I can learn for myself." There's a lot of resentment there, for sure, but yeah. Seeing this video warms my heart and it reminds me that not everyone who grew up without a father like me will grow to become a resentful individual. Brad is a good dad, and Blaze is a good kid, and they'll figure things out together. This is beautiful.
@@sometimesitbelikedat2529Honestly, your dad’s loss. It sounds like he has no relationship with your children, and trust me, it is HIS loss ❤ Love to you and your family 😊
I thought the same thing. She was almost entirely not included in this story, which is sad. A young teenage mother who gives life to her child nowadays is extraordinary enough, and on top of that, she obviously did a fantastic job! He’s emotionally intelligent, well spoken, and brave!
@@ngs5554 According to the very little information given, she, as a minor, chose to give birth to her son instead of aborting him. Win #1. Then, again, as a child herself, she chose to go home to her support system and raise him. Win #2. What do you suggest she should’ve done? If your opinion is that she should’ve left her family to stay near her son’s biological father, (a teenager himself who was not ready to provide her the support a teen mother NEEDS) then you simply do not understand the needs of a young first time mother. The most important thing for the health, safety, and wellbeing of a newborn infant, is the health, safety and wellbeing of his mother. She obviously sought out the best help she could get, with her family. I am not faulting or blaming him for choosing the support of his own mother, that was his choice. He could have chosen to stay near his son, but he didn’t. That’s OK! He was only 16! It’s completely understandable! But please don’t say she wasn’t a good mother just because she made the very best choices she could for herself and her son. That’s all she could do. She couldn’t make his father’s choices for him.
It is so lovely to see a teenage Dad who fought to be in his child’s life. The fact that he is still so invested in his son is heartwarming. The videos from family and friends shows just how proud of being a Dad he is and just how loved Blaze is.
Absolutely wonderful , you both deserve each other in your lives. Listening to you & your sons interaction it’s clear you father & son , truely wonderful birthday present . When there are so many parents who don’t both to connect you are a gem ❤❤
I only realised I'm the same age he was after I read this comment. Sometimes I forget I'm 16 now. Very true, I also can't imagine going to court at this age. I'm not even a legal adult.
A beautiful story about second chances, & taking chances. Blazes’ Mum family ought to be congratulated on raising such a kind, sincere, & genuine young man. He’s got his head screwed on. And now, Blaze has a Dad, and his family, to help guide & love Blaze on his path to becoming a young man. Irregardless of the history during young & turbulent times, to see that the sole focus of all these adults, on both sides, is on Blaze & the path going forward, is a rare but bloody beautiful sight to see. Cheess to Blaze, and to all the love & care in his yesterdays and his tomorrows.
“I said I wanna build this super dope amazing life and the world was just like, ‘here you go’” That’s awesome man. I hope to get to that point someday.
@@whosyourbradWas there a reason that after going to court for 1 year, that u went twelve years never trying to see or even message or call your son? & Also it sounds like your Son's Mother/his Mom has done a great job at raising a respectable, polite young Man. ❤. Surely with it being all these years later his Mom& you can get along for the sake of your son & put your own feelings aside. That's what my ex/my 2 children's Father & I do.
This is incredible, and I can totally understand how you feel. I was forced to allow my oldest two children go into an adoption situation when I left their biological father who was very abusive to me, and I have waited for all these years ever since for them, to be in contact with them again. I am not in contact with my son yet, as he only recently turned 18, but I've been in limited contact with my daughter through IG for a couple years now, and every post from her, ever message from her makes my heart light up with so much pride. I love my kids, and I look forward to hopefully getting reunited to them in person one day. So happy for you to experience the feeling of reconnection.
Hes so cute. My daughter met her dad at 11. It was so touching and heartwarming. She didnt know he was flying in. I let him in and walked around the corner with her little brother and she was so excited. Then boom her dad wapks around the corner! It was one of her best days ever. That was her first time meeting both of them ❤
Watching this video as an Italian, it made me laugh so hard when the Italian friend popped up in the most Italian way. Blessings to all in this video, y’all look very nice people.
Embrace him, love him, and tell him often. I don't know why I got this video up in recommended, but I'm crying happy tears for you. I lost my own son, he died - I got the first 15 years, you get the rest of your life. Both is a blessing. I'm so happy for you both.
I don’t know how this came into my feed, but I’m so happy it did! In a world filled with negativity, finding this little slice of beauty on the internet is just so wonderful. I hope this relationship (and all of those who support you both- wow! What a blessing) continues to flourish and deepen. 🙏🏽❤️
Cherish him. Be good to him. I unfortunately never got to meet my father in person he passed shortly after I talked to him for the first time after turning 18 (over the phone) hearing how he wanted me and couldn’t because of his addiction. He was in another state and passed due to an overdose. If I could I would flown to meet him I unfortunately won’t ever get that chance was denied it from that extended family. This brought tears to my eyes. Don’t let him go. Y’all got this. Happy for y’all’s journey
I'm 35 i got pregnant at 17 my son is now 17,the donor and his family never i mean never wanted anything to do with my son i waited some years thinking maybe since id grown and matured id try to give that male the same grace,the coward refused to talk to me and instead sent his red headed step child wife to message me and say i was lying because he'd never date a "colored girl" that was my last attempt,so seeing this and how your family and you wanted your son is so amazing and you finally getting your son in your life is the best i love this
@@DJDJ-qt7jd thank you,I've never publicly said this story to anyone but it just got me in my heart seeing this,I'm so happy for them especially the son
I feel so heartbroken for you to have come across such a cruel person! And the flying monkeys..so narcissistic…I am so glad you didn’t endure that man..and your child didn’t…you saved your child and yourself by the sounds of things.. Sending you love and hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I really teared up when blaze was walking while saying "City vibez" you see how HAPPY he is!❤🥲 his face expression and the way he walked.. uhgg someone give me a tissueee
This man has the most attractive diverse friend group on the planet! He & his son are stunning! It’s like pure light, joy, good vibes and Gods love exudes from them! Totally awesome ❤
Every child should be as wanted as your son. You are awesome. You both are so blessed. I'm so glad this turned up in my feed, not sure how it did. God bless you both.
Absolutely sobbing at this. My dad chose to have me but was never actually there. Never put in the effort to build a suitable life for his children. I am so happy Blaze has you as a father. Much love to your whole family
Was there a reason that after going to court for 1 year, that u went twelve+ years never trying to see or even message or call your son? & Also it sounds like your Son's Mother/his Mom has done a great job at raising a respectable, polite young Man. ❤. Surely with it being all these years later his Mom& you can get along for the sake of your son & put your own feelings aside. That's what my ex/my 2 children's Father & I do.
OMG, this just brought tears to my eyes. It's obvious you NEVER stopped being a father so when he was ready to meet you, you were obviously there for him!
What an emotional roller coaster this video is. The buildup, the production, messages from your friends. It still doesn’t even feel real. I Can’t believe it actually happened. All it took was one message and 2 years later it finally happened. A day that was 14 years in the making. Thank you for everything and the time we had together dad. I hope to see you again someday soon ❤
What a beautiful story. I lost my dad to a heart attack when I was 14 years old. Seeing Blaze gain his Dad back at such a crucial time in his life is so amazing. This story had me crying. Wishing you both the best in the world.
No idea why the algorithm suggested this footage to my wall.Wanted to skip it at first,but ended up with watching the whole of this beautiful video. Glad for u and your son. Bless from Indonesia.
Being able to hear this directly from you and now seeing the reunion is an absolutely a blessing! Thank you for inviting us into your life and sharing this journey with us. We love you Brad and Blaz!!!
Seeing the video montage of people who love Blaze that he didn't know about... It really got me. Haha. Cheers to the Dads out there that actually want to have relationships with their kids. Wishing you both all the best, Brad and Blaze!
I hate how circumstances kept you both separated for so long. It must've been so hard to go through for both you as a father and Blaze as a kid, likely thinking he just didn't have a dad around. The world can be so cruel. But this! This was beautiful. I hope he can see how you fought for him and how you thought of him, always!
But I wonder why he and the mom didnt keep in contact? Although logistics such as living in another country can make it difficult to see each other, you can keep connected more than ever with technology...why wait 14 years to re-connect and why did the son need to reach out first?
@@kpoppy9635 Either dad gave up or mom actively refused to allow son to see dad. A lot of women are spiteful after breakups and don't allow fathers to see their kids.
@kpoppy9635 well the video made it sound as though he wasn't allowed to see his child, which might have meant he was blocked on social media and whatnot as well. He might have been waiting for the day his son became old enough to seek him out on his own since dad couldn't.
It seems to me that you had a great way of thinking about your son and your situation with him as a young parent. I am glad he saw that love and care in your message to him and your choices and did not hold any negative feelings. How amazing that he got to see you on YT too? He got to know you and see you in a different way than anyone could have imagined when we were kids (I am very close to your age). All your friends and other family's messages were so sweet! It must have made him feel so included in your life right away! This was so beautiful. It is NEVER too late.
Oh my, I wasn’t watching the screen & I thought it was still the father speaking until he mentioned messaging his dad. They sound so alike! ❤ this was so uplifting & gave me hope that bad situations that seem hopeless can turn into good endings. 🙌🏻🙏🏻
It’s so obvious in this video that the staff has told so many people about him throughout his life, and that so many people are loving this child, even though they be either never met him or met him when he was very little, so I’m happy that this is happening so great!
Omg I'm crying like a baby. How beautiful you both are and blaze you sound just like your dad!!! What an amazing support group of beautiful friends and family all over the world. You Blaze are luckier than you can even conceive. So happy for you all!!
I have no clue who either of these people are, this video just randomly came up in my RUclips feed. I’m so glad it did though because it’s such a heartwarming story, it was so sweet seeing all of Brad/the dad’s friends saying hello to Blaze. I had to hold back tears, it’s so beautiful to see the connections humans can have with each other… i hope to make many friends like that 🥺
Hi Brad, can't imagine the joy you are experiencing in reuniting with your son Blaze. After so many years apart it is awesome that Blaze reached out and found his dad.
It just so happens that THIS is my very first video of yours that I have seen. I seen it come up in my feed, and I clicked on it because I love a good story about loved ones reuniting. I I had no clue what your channel is about but I see you are a photographer. Growing up, my Dad loved photography and I gained interest myself. I have not picked up my camera for a few years, but you just gained a new subscriber. I would love to see more videos of you and hopefully your son and MAYBE get encouraged and inspired to pick up my camera again. ❤
Brad, this is so brave of you to share the world your story. I'm literally speechless. It tears me up, but it's heart warming and full of love. I'm also very glad Blaze took the courage to send you a message, and coincidentally on your birthday. Your hearts know you both are ready and destined to reconnect and build a beautiful family. To Blaze, your dad is such an amazing, warm and friendly person I've met even just twice in the streets of Barcelona while he was doing photography. So proud of you guys!
This is so beautiful and I'm absolutely thrilled for you both! My father and I were separated when I was 3 months old. We didn't reconnect until I was 28. He passed when I was 39. I'll forever be thankful for the time we had together! This makes me so happy! ♥️🙏🏻
I had a similar story only I reached out to my son just as the Internet social media was getting going, my son was 14 and he is now 30, a grown married made, I was at his wedding to a beautiful wife and during his 30th surprise birthday I was invited by his wife, it was probably one of the best thing in my life after his birth so emotional.
I don’t know how this came into my feeds but I’m so pleased it did ❤. Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful story, I’m looking forward to seeing you more and following your journey ❤️❤️
I LOVE TO WATCH VIDEOS LIKE THIS, I AM AT THE 15-MINUTE MARK WHERE YOUR FRIENDS ARE TALKING TO BLAZE, AND I AM TRYING TO KEEP THESE TEARS FROM ESCAPING MY EYES, THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL. MY MEETING WITH MY BIO PARENTS WAS NOTHING LIKE THIS, BUT GOD, AND SO I MEAN IT FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART I AM SO HAPPY THAT YOU AND YOUR SON HAVE THIS BEAUTIFUL EXPERIENCE AND FUTURE JOURNEY. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH
From the bottom of my heart, congrats on your baby boy. Everything else doesn't matter. Prayers of closeness to you both. Second chances are a blessing
You've got a good lookin' boy, I can totally see you in him. I will say this, his mom seems to have done an excellent job raising such a lovely young man, so good job to mom and the family that raised him. Now it is a new day, the boy needs to have his dad in his life, and I believe his dad needs him in his life as well.
I lost my dad early this year to a kidney disease. This video showed me the significance of a dad in his child's life, and the importance of a dad. I'm glad someone reunited with his dad. Some of us can only wait til that glorious morning ❤
I can join the crowd of folks that are not sure why this showed up in my recommended videos... but I'm glad it did. So happy to see you both reconnected. The adoration in Blaze's eyes as he looks at you is priceless. And Genetics are CRAZY... the head tilt you both have is almost the identicle angle! Reminds me of how I have my dads laugh even thought I was around him much.
This is so heartwarming. I love that you've reconnected and all your friends and family are welcoming Blaze into their lives too. May you continue to grow a loving bond for the rest of your lives. Blaze, you are a lucky kid to get to have this reconnection with your dad. Embrace it open heartedly.
Amazing my bro. The growth you have had as a man, and to see Blaze as a young man is totally heart warming. Couldnt be happier for you both. Also cant believe just hoe much Blaze looks like a young Bradskii! Love you both so much. Blaze, welcome back to whānau!!
This is absolutely crazy. Couldn’t hold it in when your eyes started tearing. I am so happy for you both to be able to reconnect, happy for Blaze he reached out to you and especially happy for you Brad, that you felt such luck and happiness your life felt surreal. It’s so cute to see your energies matching. What a heartwarming story! Enjoy your time and future together 🤍
I don't know how I found this but what an incredible story. I love that you are able to be emotional about the re-connection with your son & what a fabulous time to come into your son's life. Wishing you both Brad & Blaze all the very best on your journey together!
im 18 in 5 days now, and ive been watching RUclips a few hours a day since I was 8, and this was definitely one of the best videos I've watched. This is beautiful, this video was a pure sense of euphoria, and I will keep this saved for when I want to look back to such an amazing story. Thank you Brad. Proud of you Blaze
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To my Son Brad and my Grandson Blaze.
Knowing and living the whole story, this reunion, captured with the love, feeling and respect for each other brings tears of warmth and joy every time I watch your videos. This time round the tears are of joy, warmth, and healing.
I am grateful that you have found each other in my lifetime, and healed and filled a massive void in my heart.
My love to you both, you are both strong people and this is only the beginning of your beautiful journey.
Blaze, I have missed and loved you since you were born, and the day you came to this world we were blessed with your presence. Now I too can have the pleasure of seeing you as a person rather than my memories of you as a tiny wee baby. You are much loved and the most special person xxxx. My door and my heart is forever open to you ❤❤❤
Brad, I am proud of the young man you are, and always taken by your ability to forgive, no matter how much pain you have endured. I love you forever. Now that you have Blaze back in your life enjoy and live every precious moment.
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Love you mum! ❤️
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@@whosyourbradlove you to babe, ❤❤❤ 😊😊😊
This is an example of this profound truth: forgiveness and love wins. Always. There is an amazing mystery in forgiveness…there is a profound love on the other side. I believe it is a deeper, unique, love given as a gift to those who fully forgive and allow God to heal and give a fresh start. What a beautiful example of forgiveness, love, a clean slate - and new beginning. I wrote a book on forgiveness and this is so beautiful. Many struggle with letting the past go - if they only knew what was waiting on the other side. May the Lord bless you immensely…I think you already know HE has. ~Kim Chadwell
@@HolyNationOfficialMain Thank you for your encouragement 😊
him loving photography just like his dad, even though he hadn't seen him while growing up. I'm crying
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Evidence for nature instead of nurture, although I still believe its nurture not nature
@@pupgaming5072it’s a healthy combination of both tbh, like most things in life
I wonder why it is that humans seem so keen to split things and apply them as if they can’t coexist?? Religion and Science….Political parties…..levels of acceptance
@@Kurotama11 whilst yes, it could be both at the same time it's possible it's only one, or even neither. But at the end of the day, theres plenty of evidence for both cases (e.g. feral children being evidence for nurture) so you can believe what you want
@@pupgaming5072 “plenty of evidence for both cases” by default means both are true in their respective rights tho, doesn’t it??
So why so adamant to *pick a side* ?
The "Dad!" shows the pure happiness from both parties! Crying is perfectly normal in such a situation!
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so cute I’m crying 😭😭💗
I have no idea why the algorithm brought your video to my attention, but this reaffirms that good things do still happen in this world. Best wishes to you both for a lifetime of love and happiness.
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Christ is king! ❤🙏
Fr!!! I was ment to see UT and it made my day.
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I agree!! I’m happy I’m here ❤
it’s crazy to think how something like this couldn’t have happened like 50 years ago. the internet, man. it really can be a good place sometimes
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i don't think so. 50 years ago boys don't exist but only real mans who don't leave pregnat womans alone.
Unfortunately, the bad outways the good.
Met my Dad at 14 years old ! Best Day of my life !!! I am 69 now and miss him so much.
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I'm sorry for your loss.. Rest in peace🕊
@@HorsesAreMyLife-Horses what?
@@5icko3dits nothing nvm!
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Not sure why this ended up in my recommended section, but I'm happy it did.
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I love that he called you Dad right away
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Give money to mother and child. He OWES them
@@EthanLomas Way to ruin the mood
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She left, she doesn't deserve anything, her choice was made @@EthanLomas
As a mum of a kid being the same age around your son. His dad lives on another continent too. I would ask you to not only make it a vacation thing, write post cards whenever you can, send him trivial things like a new pencil case and annual planner when it’s the new school year, show him how to shave his beard once you’re on visit, pay interest in his school education and grades. My sons father always visits him once a year and my son is always smitten and so thankful - and it always breaks my heart, cause I know there won’t be much contact in between a birthday and Christmas card and that visit. 😢
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That is some beautiful advice. I hope your son’s father changes his ways. Your son has a smart and loving mum. 🌼🌸❤
I think this story of the absent father of 14 years being welcomed with open arms is one in a million, almost a fantasy.
@@mattyd3079 he wasn't absent by choice if you watched this video...
@@mattyd3079I’m like 27, when I was around 22, my sisters from my estranged dad got in touch with me.
He also at one point asked to meet me, and I declined, despite wanting contact with my siblings.
Perhaps, he’s changed, learned, whatever. To me, at that age, I don’t really care. I also know how people work, and it’s not really my job, to let him have any forgiveness he can’t give himself🤷🏻♂️
I’d imagine alot of people, especially sons, who had to be their own male idol, and teach themselves would agree with my view.
We have a similar story.
My daughter became pregnant with my grandson, and his dad had to go back to Ghana. He never actually got to see his son.
Then, as we went into the 1st lockdown(covid), my grandsons mum found his dads sister on facebook. Within an hour I had a message asking if his dad could speak to his son( my grandson lives with me). We decided we would set it up the next day.
Early next morning I put RUclips on and called my grandson to watch a video of a man donating food parcels to the Ghanaian police to hand out...
I then explained that this special man was infact his dad...
That 1st facetime was very special ...
This was in the March in the October we went to Ghana to finally meet his dad. He also got to meet some very special people who were turning up just to say hello.
He hasn't been able to see his dad since then, until last week when I got a phone call at 7.30 am out of the blue from his dad to say his plane had landed in the UK
So at 5pm on Saturday we had his dad ringing our doorbell, I've never seen so much shock and excitement in one 15yrds face!
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That's why premarital sex is wrong.
@@thecutest4282what a great way to ruin the vibe 🥰
@@thecutest4282Dude... Just move the hell on. You speak of something that anyone else could see could have unintended consequences. Most just let that inside voice remain inside. Then, there are people like yourself that just can't help yourself. Try to do better and mind your own business if all you're going to do is bring people down.
People don't realise how hard custody battles are. If a parent is telling you about their child that they don't have custody of, you shouldn't automatically assume that they don't love their child. This is beautiful. I'm so happy for you, guys! ❤
Thank you for the kind words! 💛🥹
@@whosyourbrad Your son is very lucky to have such an amazing dad that never forgot about him.
@@whosyourbrad I don't believe in fate but him coming back into your life ON YOUR BIRTHDAY is crazy fate.
@@mayyace that was the craziest moment ever for me!!! Such a special moment.
@@whosyourbrad I'm so happy for you both! I can't wait for more content from the both of you!
Met my biological Dad when I was 18, I knew him as a family friend but no one ever told me the truth
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That's really brutal... I hope you reunited and are happy
We weren’t told that a family friend’s daughter was actually my brother’s half-sister until we were in university. And then we found out about his half-brother! 🙃
i see, shes for the streets
@@kafitty weird way to phrase it, why not just your half sister?
This might come across as a little corny, but as a 16-year-old, I've struggled to have a solid relationship with my father. Watching the bond you and your father share, especially after being apart for some time, truly warms my heart. It’s inspiring to see how strong your connection remains despite the distance.
Seeing this kind of relationship displayed in a RUclips video is uplifting and gives me hope that family bonds can thrive under challenging circumstances. It reminds me of the importance of connection, love, and resilience. Thank you for sharing this beautiful moment.. it really resonated with me!💓!
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Great comment. Wishing you all the best in life 😊❤
Hey bud, I'm 23 and am still at this stage with my biological father. He and my mom separated when I was about 7 and ever since then, despite me spending a few summer vacations with him a few times over the course of a decade, I still don't have much a relationship with him. Although he's my father, he isn't, and never will be, the man that raised me into who I am today. I don't know how your relationship with dad is, but I do know how important it is to have a connection with your biological father. To be completely honest, it never really gets easier not being close with him, but I've reached a point where I know he just isn't a part of my life anymore and I'm okay with it. Just make sure to remember that whether he's a part of your life or not, you are strong both with and without him.
Blaze just gained a community of people that loves him unconditionally. How amazing is that?
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Love is free!!! Money is a true sign of “love”
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@@whosyourbradwould love to join Blaze's channel. Love & Blessings from Perth Australia ❤
@@whosyourbrad im ur 100th like on that comment lol
The algorithm is finally picking up on the little bit of hope and faith i knew i had left in this world 😭
Hope you have a wonderful reunion!!!! 😊
@@abeliever7029 One of the sweetest replies ever 🥰
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"hold fast"! (1Thess.5 :21, the Bible)
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I was 18 when I last saw my dad. I’m now 45. It hurts every day. I hope he’s well. Just balled my eyes out watching this. Embrace every moment. Such a beautiful story.
So sorry to hear 😞 Thank you for being here with us! 🙏🏽💛
I’m in the group of “I don’t know why this was in my recommended” but I’m so happy it was. I wish nothing but safety and love for you and your family. ❤
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Same! But then I saw mats who I used to watch, and I’m wondering if RUclips did some magic algorithm thing that way lol
Never ever seen this channel and it showed up in my feed.... I just had to had to click !!!!! Blessings and love to you both ❤❤❤
My uncle lost in court to be able to see his son and he has not seen him since 2 years old. His mom unfortunately lied to their son saying that he never cared for him but my uncle got many pictures of him taking care and looking after him as a toddler as his mom worked her job. I hope one day his son contact him to meet him again!
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This is becoming a huge problem in the west. Some women are abusing their rights as mums and just make dads vanish. I’m a woman but I see it happening more and more in my community. It’s messed up💔
@@rrrrychProblem in west it happens often in other countries west had huge influence in other places too especially those stupid hook up cultureA
@@rrrrychIts honestly more common to have deadbeats fathers
@@hahe-m5g yeah that too, but I’m actually seeing this happening to fathers who don’t deserve this. It’s not fair to justify this by saying there’s more deadbeat fathers. Equality remember
Having a child when you’re young changes your entire life. The struggles are enormous. We need to support young parents better. Congratulations 🎊
thank you so much!
You are so right!! I had a child at 16 and thankfully our families were loving and supportive. Unfortunately my baby daddy had a lot of growing up to do so it was very difficult for me.
@@cherylspohr9821What did you think was going to happen when you let him hit it raw at the very young age of 16? He was still a child, so were you. Boys grow emotionally even later I mean.
Shut up @@SkiesareGrey-un8gv
@@SkiesareGrey-un8gvAs you literally just said yourself, kids often make dumb decisions, there’s no need to be so rude. Sounds like she dealt with the consequences as well as she could.
People need to stop hating on the mother. She was very young and listened to her parents because she needed that support.
We don't know the full story, so we shouldn't judge.
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exactly!
Is it okay to hate on her parents then? Lol
so he didnt know he had a son?
No father should be torn apart from his son. This is so heartwarming 👌
Agree. Knowing how young he was though in sure the mother's family thought they were doing what was best for their child, too. It's unfortunate for him, but I'm so glad he got his happy ending. This is such a critical age for a young man to have a father figure, too.
My son & his father are so close & do things a lot together. Camping, kayaking, hiking, sometimes basketball 🏀…my son is not very sporty😊now he’s teaching himself how to drive♥️♥️♥️
You don't know the full circumstances. Better not judge. The were very young.
Don’t jump to conclusions when you don’t know the full story
No, in many cases they should. Many fathers are abusive. But yes. This guy is obviously a very loving father and as long as they are like that, they shouldn't be but life happens i guess:/
I'm 28 years old and have been estranged from my own father. He had contacted me through facebook a while ago and i was somehow terrified to respond. Afraid of rejection and not living up to expectations i didn't reply. This 13 yo kid took the leap and had more courage than i could ever have. It's so lovely to see this beautiful reunion. It fills my heart all the way and has given me some courage to let go of my own fear and just reach out.
💜💜💜💜 yep, let go and reach out 😊😊😊😊
It's not too late to reach out still!
what's to be afriad of. just meet him he will not judge you. however you are meet him. you never know about life. when is our last breath. have no regrets. life won't give chance again nad again
trust me when you ignored him. it hurted him
reach out. trust me. you wont regret it.
I was with Brad at the birthday dinner where he got the message! I remember he seemed a bit quiet for a while but clearly he was just in shock haha. What an amazing story! So glad you guys are re-united and clearly Blaze got the content creator genes. All the best from London.
@@The360Guy the best weekend of my life 🙏🏽💛🥹
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You look young enough to be his older brother, let alone his dad!! This is very heartwarming! Each day is a blessing! Take advantage of them!
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Well he could be ,his older brother said he was 16 when he was born. I have a friend whose mom had another child her senior/ junior year of college. She is 21 years older than her sibling . 😬 😮
I was adopted as a baby. Six years ago I got to meet my mom dad siblings et. three months later my father died in an accident. I love all of my family adopted, chosen and bio.
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I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm so glad you got to meet your biological family and that you're in a great relationship with them❤
So great to see this. I was around 16 when I reached out to my father and was told to never call again. Luckily I have the most amazing step father that raised me and guided me at that age. So glad to see you creating memories and and sharing love. I love being a dad its the best gift on the planet.
So sorry that happened to you. I'm glad you have a great step dad. ❤
Hugs to you and I am so sorry. It sounds like you have a wonderful stepfather and for that always be grateful.
I’m sorry that happened to you. Not everyone deserves to be a parent.
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That bastard missed out,not you.And your step father definitely won here ❤
Can’t believe I came across this video.. haven’t seen my son for 10 years now… I felt this, I dream of one day getting that message.. will never lose hope. Thank you 😢
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not to be insensitive but why not be the one to message your son?
@@padopaw probably isnt allowed to due to how it may have played or in court.
You shall receive it, continue to picture that message esp before you sleep, continue to visualize that end result and it will occur , do it while you are falling asleep for a few days, you will receive that message . Chances he may want to commmunicate..but maybe message him if you can , also pray, people sleep on it.
Hey mate.
I've never watched any of your videos, i was scrolling to find something to motivate me while i work and this popped up.
This is the most wholesome thing i have seen this year, and i felt connected to the experience and felt for you tremendously.
I'm glad the algorithm brought me here, because not only did i get to see this, i also share a passion with you in photography.
I run the fujifilm xh-2
Hope you and your son have a massive, beautiful future together and share many epic moments.
Peace and love, from Brisbane Australia.
💜💜💜🌹thank you for your lovely message of encouragement
Thank you so much for the support and being here for our story, and also welcome to the photography family 🥹
I don’t know why i am crying, My son doesn’t see his biologic father since he was born. when my boy asked me who is my dad, i couldn’t hold my tears but i told him everything and my boy he is 12 now. I am so happy for you both. ❤
You are such an amazing mother! Good job❤
@@hanaagovic-cc7wq Thank you for your kind words. It’s hard to explain to the child knowing that the man you think he loves you so much turned out he doesn’t want the baby nor me. my life was tuned into hell at that time, i was too young and too stupid. But i fight alone for my sweetheart 12 years old son. With high school grades i have, i couldn’t do much at that time but i work my ass off for my boy even he was in my belly then he born ( he is 12 years old next month ) . and because of my son i am stronger than ever!! To all single moms or single dads in the world!! You all are amazing 😻
It's always good to have both parents while you are growing and single parent means lot of hard work where I live in but I guess being late is ok than never.Be happy and thanks his mum for you ❤
@@AriatiArmen Im glad you're doing better now
Same here . My son is 18
Whilst it is clearly awful that he was taken away from you when you were so young; credit must given to his mother's family who seem to have raised a grounded young man. Wish you all the best.
If they kept him away from his son how could you give them any credit? What they did was evil.
@@i_am_gohan9232exactly women do this shit all the time and it's disgusting 💀
@@katherinebattle37801/10 ragebait try harder next time
@@katherinebattle3780 borh men and women who aren't meant to be parents do this. My father's family kept me away from my mom and brainwashed me into thinking she had cheated on my father and abandoned us, when the truth was was father is physically and mentally abusive and schizophrenic. I'm currently living with my mom now and have cut off all contacts with him. Don't just go around blaming women for everything
@@i_am_gohan9232 if they were both 16, how do you want the mom to stop her family from moving away? He knew where they were and had other choices to keep in contact without spending money but he choose to let it be until his own son learned about it. Nobody imprisoned his son in a dessert island in the middle of nowhere
I've know Brad for 6 years! He is the only friend I made for the entire time that I lived in BCN. Happy tears are streaming down my face watching this video! Such a special and magical moment I've just witnessed! It's every single parents kids dream to meet their other parent! Most kids don't get that chance! Talk about devine timing, receiving such a messsage on your birthday!
Miracles and happy endings exist, you and Blaze are living proof! Bless you two! -J
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No idea why the algorithm gave me this, and I’m so happy it did. This is likely one of the best feelings in the world, if not the best. You both act like you haven’t spent a day apart, and that really makes me happy. So happy for you and your son 💛
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This came across my feed! I can emotionally connect with you both. My son had a son young @ 18 yrs old. The last time I seen Wyatt, he was 3. He was 8 when his mom took him out of his dads life. 6 months ago...Wyatt came back to the state to be with his dad!! My son was as scared as I was! Omg! They are best 'mates' and inseparable! God Bless you both!💕🙏💕
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Wow! I'm so happy for your son to reconnect too, send our love! 🙏🏽💛
This came across my feed today! What an amazing story, and what an amazing son you have. I couldn’t be happier for you and your entire family! ❤️ congratulations!,,
@@carolwilder2289 thank you for sharing. Like Brad & Blaze, your story inspires me with hope for when I begin to find my dad. I am very happy for you and your son to have your grandson in your life again. 🤙
At first, I thought it was Cristiano Ronaldo making a confession.
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😂 Bro, wear Specsavers!
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To be fair, it wouldn't surprise me if he has a few kids running around who don't know he's their dad.
Dude flew all over the world as the number 1 football player on earth. Definitely a few illegitimate kids
Blaze is your little copy. It's wonderful to see you've build this community of friends all over the world that your son can look forward to meeting. Well done, Dad! Here's to many adventures together 🩷
How is he a copy of him? His mother raised him.
@@angeloc7486 Well, there's a thing called genetics that is very evident in facial features?! Also, their interests seem to allign. There's no shade thrown to the mom here. Cudos to her for raising the boy. Why does everything have to be a negative? This boy finally got to have his dad in his life. Be happy for them ...
He sounds JUST like his father. (His voice, not just his accent) It's so awesome!!
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As a mother who gave birth at 16, it is a painfully young age to go through such things. You are still essentially a child and dependent on your own parents, and then you have to try to become a parent without the maturity or financial resources. Im so happy there are no ill feelings or misunderstandings about what happened, at least between you and Blaze. You and his mom both had very tough decisions to make. The greatest gift, is that you are with him now at a most crucial moment in his development, and you can be there to hold his hand and help guide him to manhood. Incredible story and im so happy for you
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I agree that at 16 you lack maturity, you're still a child and depends on your parents. But it's always the father that runs away and the mother faces their decisions and raise the child alone. Often with no financial help from the father. It's double standards, a father can leave with little judgement but if a mother leaves people are outraged and she's horrible & how could she do that? I would be curious to see the comments under a video of a mother meeting her child 14 years later. As the child of a single mother who suffered because my father left when I was a baby (they were 21 when she got pregnant) I can't believe we're glamorizing fathers leaving in this video and in these comments and making content of it. I am seriously disgusted.
I'm 14 now and I'm what life would be like without my dad, he is one of the most important people that I have and I can't imagine doing it without him. I don't know why the came up on my feed, but was ment to be seen!!!!
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Social media is finally good for something.., god is good. Congratulations, guys!
I hate how people think they have the right to judge people they don’t know!!!! NEVER take any negative comments to heart. Just don’t read them. I’m so glad you’re finally getting to see your son!!!!! Enjoy every moment. That first hug will last your lifetime. You’ll always feel it. Congratulations to you both!!!
❤❤❤ thank you for encouraging my Son and MY grandson in this journey. This story is about the wonderful outcome after years of heartache. These are 2 very special people sharing a moment of joy that will be everlasting, for them most importantly and for the wider family and friends.
I agree with your comment wholeheartedly about how people think they have the right to judge, this short story is one where you can only rejoice in the outcome, the long story is way to painful to dwell on. ❤❤❤❤
Amen! It is their life no one should be judgy of the story they are sharing.
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Yep I'm judging because this man abandoned his kid because he was in his feelings. He didn't even tell his friends he had a kid until after the little boy reached out. He lived his best life and threw his kid away and didn't even look back if this kid didn't reach out he'd still be in the trash.
Agreed, those people have sad existences. Stuck online in the virtual world
I have no idea who you are but your video was recommended to me. I watched and it was hard to see through the waterfall of tears. Your son is absolutely beautiful. He’s lovely. You are so lucky to have him back in your life. As is he. You were so young when you had him that even though you have your chance to be a great father to him you look more like brothers. Wishing you both a wonderful life together full of love.
I met my biological dad for the first time when I was already 18. Our meeting didn't go this way. I'm now 33 with a family of my own, and I rarely talk to that dude. But I'm glad you got to meet your son and you had an instant connection with him. Healing isn't for everyone, I guess, but I'm glad to see one of the instances where it worked.
This should be talked about more. People, understandably, only post the happy end stories on RUclips.
It creates false impressions and false hopes for others in a similar situation.
Thanks for sharing your story briefly.
All the best for you for your future with your own family.❤
I'm sorry for your loss. You deserved better
My thinking kinda went from, "Woulda been nice if I had a father figure to teach me these things" to "I'm now a father as well. We're (me and that dude) practically on the same level now. No need to consult someone I barely know about things I can learn for myself." There's a lot of resentment there, for sure, but yeah. Seeing this video warms my heart and it reminds me that not everyone who grew up without a father like me will grow to become a resentful individual. Brad is a good dad, and Blaze is a good kid, and they'll figure things out together. This is beautiful.
@@sometimesitbelikedat2529Honestly, your dad’s loss. It sounds like he has no relationship with your children, and trust me, it is HIS loss ❤ Love to you and your family 😊
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You have to be grateful that his mom did a great job to raise him to be who he is! Congratulations!
I thought the same thing. She was almost entirely not included in this story, which is sad. A young teenage mother who gives life to her child nowadays is extraordinary enough, and on top of that, she obviously did a fantastic job! He’s emotionally intelligent, well spoken, and brave!
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Did either of you watch the video? The mother took his son away from him. That’s not a good mother.
@@ngs5554 According to the very little information given, she, as a minor, chose to give birth to her son instead of aborting him. Win #1. Then, again, as a child herself, she chose to go home to her support system and raise him. Win #2.
What do you suggest she should’ve done?
If your opinion is that she should’ve left her family to stay near her son’s biological father, (a teenager himself who was not ready to provide her the support a teen mother NEEDS) then you simply do not understand the needs of a young first time mother.
The most important thing for the health, safety, and wellbeing of a newborn infant, is the health, safety and wellbeing of his mother. She obviously sought out the best help she could get, with her family.
I am not faulting or blaming him for choosing the support of his own mother, that was his choice. He could have chosen to stay near his son, but he didn’t. That’s OK! He was only 16! It’s completely understandable!
But please don’t say she wasn’t a good mother just because she made the very best choices she could for herself and her son. That’s all she could do. She couldn’t make his father’s choices for him.
@@nattamused9074she also could have told him
It is so lovely to see a teenage Dad who fought to be in his child’s life. The fact that he is still so invested in his son is heartwarming. The videos from family and friends shows just how proud of being a Dad he is and just how loved Blaze is.
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Absolutely wonderful , you both deserve each other in your lives. Listening to you & your sons interaction it’s clear you father & son , truely wonderful birthday present . When there are so many parents who don’t both to connect you are a gem ❤❤
Props to you for being so vulnerable on camera. You're not a "crybaby" at all, you're just expressing your emotions in a so healthy manner :)
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As a 16 year old I can’t imagine going through court for visitation, that must’ve been a crazy time & I’m glad you’ve reunited after everything 💐
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I only realised I'm the same age he was after I read this comment. Sometimes I forget I'm 16 now. Very true, I also can't imagine going to court at this age. I'm not even a legal adult.
He could have tried more times and older later but no 😅
A beautiful story about second chances, & taking chances. Blazes’ Mum family ought to be congratulated on raising such a kind, sincere, & genuine young man. He’s got his head screwed on.
And now, Blaze has a Dad, and his family, to help guide & love Blaze on his path to becoming a young man.
Irregardless of the history during young & turbulent times, to see that the sole focus of all these adults, on both sides, is on Blaze & the path going forward, is a rare but bloody beautiful sight to see.
Cheess to Blaze, and to all the love & care in his yesterdays and his tomorrows.
“I said I wanna build this super dope amazing life and the world was just like, ‘here you go’”
That’s awesome man. I hope to get to that point someday.
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The happiness this kid felt when he probably like read that message from his dad being like I know you don't know me but I love you
Am happily crying for 2 strangers
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Such a wholesome video❤
Happy tears❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Thank you guys 💛
In a way we're all familiar I think
@@whosyourbradWas there a reason that after going to court for 1 year, that u went twelve years never trying to see or even message or call your son? & Also it sounds like your Son's Mother/his Mom has done a great job at raising a respectable, polite young Man. ❤. Surely with it being all these years later his Mom& you can get along for the sake of your son & put your own feelings aside. That's what my ex/my 2 children's Father & I do.
This is incredible, and I can totally understand how you feel. I was forced to allow my oldest two children go into an adoption situation when I left their biological father who was very abusive to me, and I have waited for all these years ever since for them, to be in contact with them again. I am not in contact with my son yet, as he only recently turned 18, but I've been in limited contact with my daughter through IG for a couple years now, and every post from her, ever message from her makes my heart light up with so much pride. I love my kids, and I look forward to hopefully getting reunited to them in person one day. So happy for you to experience the feeling of reconnection.
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GOD BLESS YOU AND EVERYONE SO MUCH I LOVE YOU.🤍
You made such a hard choice but you loved your kids. Thank you for sharing your beautiful story, you're amazing!
Hes so cute. My daughter met her dad at 11. It was so touching and heartwarming. She didnt know he was flying in. I let him in and walked around the corner with her little brother and she was so excited. Then boom her dad wapks around the corner! It was one of her best days ever. That was her first time meeting both of them ❤
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Watching this video as an Italian, it made me laugh so hard when the Italian friend popped up in the most Italian way. Blessings to all in this video, y’all look very nice people.
Love that guy so much 😂 One of my best friends in Italy 🇮🇹
We love our Italian family lol ❤
Embrace him, love him, and tell him often. I don't know why I got this video up in recommended, but I'm crying happy tears for you.
I lost my own son, he died - I got the first 15 years, you get the rest of your life. Both is a blessing. I'm so happy for you both.
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so sorry to hear. 😔 Thank you for the support 🥹
I don’t know how this came into my feed, but I’m so happy it did! In a world filled with negativity, finding this little slice of beauty on the internet is just so wonderful. I hope this relationship (and all of those who support you both- wow! What a blessing) continues to flourish and deepen. 🙏🏽❤️
Thank you so much, I'm glad it brought some light to your day because it definitely did for us. Thanks for the support 🥹💛
God bless you guys! And I hope you meet your son more often your bond with him is beautiful! 🫶
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Cherish him. Be good to him. I unfortunately never got to meet my father in person he passed shortly after I talked to him for the first time after turning 18 (over the phone) hearing how he wanted me and couldn’t because of his addiction. He was in another state and passed due to an overdose. If I could I would flown to meet him I unfortunately won’t ever get that chance was denied it from that extended family. This brought tears to my eyes. Don’t let him go. Y’all got this. Happy for y’all’s journey
Heart breaking, I'm sorry 😞 💔
Thank you so much for sharing your story as well as supporting ours, love from the two of us!
I'm 35 i got pregnant at 17 my son is now 17,the donor and his family never i mean never wanted anything to do with my son i waited some years thinking maybe since id grown and matured id try to give that male the same grace,the coward refused to talk to me and instead sent his red headed step child wife to message me and say i was lying because he'd never date a "colored girl" that was my last attempt,so seeing this and how your family and you wanted your son is so amazing and you finally getting your son in your life is the best i love this
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@@DJDJ-qt7jd thank you,I've never publicly said this story to anyone but it just got me in my heart seeing this,I'm so happy for them especially the son
@@CotyWilliams-j2k i just feel for both you and your son.. we were blessed that our family finally got reunited. Take care ❤❤
Also sending you hugs . It was very brave of you to try contact for your child's sake . ❤
I feel so heartbroken for you to have come across such a cruel person!
And the flying monkeys..so narcissistic…I am so glad you didn’t endure that man..and your child didn’t…you saved your child and yourself by the sounds of things..
Sending you love and hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I really teared up when blaze was walking while saying "City vibez" you see how HAPPY he is!❤🥲 his face expression and the way he walked.. uhgg someone give me a tissueee
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Yo, I cried so many times editing that part lol 🥹
This man has the most attractive diverse friend group on the planet! He & his son are stunning! It’s like pure light, joy, good vibes and Gods love exudes from them! Totally awesome ❤
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Thank you so much 🥹
Every child should be as wanted as your son. You are awesome. You both are so blessed. I'm so glad this turned up in my feed, not sure how it did. God bless you both.
Thank you so much for seeing the love I and everyone else has for Blaze, thank you for the support!❤️
What a great lad, he's obviously been raised very well. What a great start to being in each others lives.
Absolutely sobbing at this. My dad chose to have me but was never actually there. Never put in the effort to build a suitable life for his children.
I am so happy Blaze has you as a father.
Much love to your whole family
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Thank you! 💛
Was there a reason that after going to court for 1 year, that u went twelve+ years never trying to see or even message or call your son? & Also it sounds like your Son's Mother/his Mom has done a great job at raising a respectable, polite young Man. ❤. Surely with it being all these years later his Mom& you can get along for the sake of your son & put your own feelings aside. That's what my ex/my 2 children's Father & I do.
OMG, this just brought tears to my eyes. It's obvious you NEVER stopped being a father so when he was ready to meet you, you were obviously there for him!
💜💜💜❤❤❤ yep, you got it right, you obviously watched the video and understood the message. Thank you for your encouraging comment. (From Brad’s Mum)
@@DJDJ-qt7jd Clearly, you never stopped being his grandmother :D
What an emotional roller coaster this video is. The buildup, the production, messages from your friends. It still doesn’t even feel real. I Can’t believe it actually happened. All it took was one message and 2 years later it finally happened. A day that was 14 years in the making. Thank you for everything and the time we had together dad. I hope to see you again someday soon ❤
Forever love! 💛
@blazepate Love you my great grand son
Words are cheap!!! Give them money that he owes them. I’m disgusted
Blaze, it was so brave of you to send that message, well done ❤
@@EthanLomasYou have no idea of any of the circumstances that went on between that family. Don't be judgemental and negative.
What a beautiful story. I lost my dad to a heart attack when I was 14 years old. Seeing Blaze gain his Dad back at such a crucial time in his life is so amazing. This story had me crying. Wishing you both the best in the world.
So sorry to hear 😞 Thank you so much for the support, sending love 🫶🏾
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Honestly if you didn’t get emotional I would have worried about you. This was beautiful. Wishing you both a beautiful journey ahead.
@@brianneml2979 thank you so much for watching and sending us your wishes 💛🥹
No idea why the algorithm suggested this footage to my wall.Wanted to skip it at first,but ended up with watching the whole of this beautiful video.
Glad for u and your son.
Bless from Indonesia.
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iv never seen a dad care that much about his son thats so sweet im ur sons age
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Thats sad
If he care that much , he would be in his life. BS
@@iolip5780You clearly didn't watch the video. So much bitterness?
Thank you everyone, I would love to hear what you think, here in the comments! Ill be here replying to you all. 💛
Thank you Brad
This video had me in tears
Welcome dear great grand son
Lots of love and God bless both of you as you journey together into the future
@@barbaraJohnJohn-e5b 🙏🏽💛 Thank you for being here. Love from us.
You got this bro. Best of luck.
@karltaylor2857 thank you brother 🙏🏽 💛
@whosyourbrad Very cinematographic short film! What a wonderful story! Happy days for you! :)
Being able to hear this directly from you and now seeing the reunion is an absolutely a blessing! Thank you for inviting us into your life and sharing this journey with us. We love you Brad and Blaz!!!
So much love for you, Maya & Max!
Seeing the video montage of people who love Blaze that he didn't know about... It really got me. Haha. Cheers to the Dads out there that actually want to have relationships with their kids. Wishing you both all the best, Brad and Blaze!
I hate how circumstances kept you both separated for so long. It must've been so hard to go through for both you as a father and Blaze as a kid, likely thinking he just didn't have a dad around. The world can be so cruel. But this! This was beautiful. I hope he can see how you fought for him and how you thought of him, always!
But I wonder why he and the mom didnt keep in contact?
Although logistics such as living in another country can make it difficult to see each other, you can keep connected more than ever with technology...why wait 14 years to re-connect and why did the son need to reach out first?
@@kpoppy9635many mothers bar the child from contacting their dad
@@kpoppy9635 Either dad gave up or mom actively refused to allow son to see dad. A lot of women are spiteful after breakups and don't allow fathers to see their kids.
@@Nabee_H yet he can see his kid now.
Idk what changed from back then other than the father having the money to travel.
@kpoppy9635 well the video made it sound as though he wasn't allowed to see his child, which might have meant he was blocked on social media and whatnot as well. He might have been waiting for the day his son became old enough to seek him out on his own since dad couldn't.
It seems to me that you had a great way of thinking about your son and your situation with him as a young parent. I am glad he saw that love and care in your message to him and your choices and did not hold any negative feelings. How amazing that he got to see you on YT too? He got to know you and see you in a different way than anyone could have imagined when we were kids (I am very close to your age). All your friends and other family's messages were so sweet! It must have made him feel so included in your life right away! This was so beautiful. It is NEVER too late.
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Every son needs his dad. I can see your son feels whole inside. How amazing.
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Oh my, I wasn’t watching the screen & I thought it was still the father speaking until he mentioned messaging his dad. They sound so alike! ❤ this was so uplifting & gave me hope that bad situations that seem hopeless can turn into good endings. 🙌🏻🙏🏻
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It’s so obvious in this video that the staff has told so many people about him throughout his life, and that so many people are loving this child, even though they be either never met him or met him when he was very little, so I’m happy that this is happening so great!
Omg I'm crying like a baby. How beautiful you both are and blaze you sound just like your dad!!! What an amazing support group of beautiful friends and family all over the world. You Blaze are luckier than you can even conceive. So happy for you all!!
I have no clue who either of these people are, this video just randomly came up in my RUclips feed. I’m so glad it did though because it’s such a heartwarming story, it was so sweet seeing all of Brad/the dad’s friends saying hello to Blaze. I had to hold back tears, it’s so beautiful to see the connections humans can have with each other… i hope to make many friends like that 🥺
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Hi Brad, can't imagine the joy you are experiencing in reuniting with your son Blaze. After so many years apart it is awesome that Blaze reached out and found his dad.
This is what we need more of. Pure, wholehearted, natural, positive, unscripted, real content.
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It just so happens that THIS is my very first video of yours that I have seen. I seen it come up in my feed, and I clicked on it because I love a good story about loved ones reuniting. I
I had no clue what your channel is about but I see you are a photographer. Growing up, my Dad loved photography and I gained interest myself. I have not picked up my camera for a few years, but you just gained a new subscriber. I would love to see more videos of you and hopefully your son and MAYBE get encouraged and inspired to pick up my camera again. ❤
💜💜 that’s awesome, I hope you do pick up your camera too!
Wow! That's so cool, thanks for being here and I hope you do pick up another camera 💛
Brad, this is so brave of you to share the world your story. I'm literally speechless. It tears me up, but it's heart warming and full of love. I'm also very glad Blaze took the courage to send you a message, and coincidentally on your birthday. Your hearts know you both are ready and destined to reconnect and build a beautiful family. To Blaze, your dad is such an amazing, warm and friendly person I've met even just twice in the streets of Barcelona while he was doing photography. So proud of you guys!
Thank you so much for the kind words and support, it means a lot! 💛🙏🏽🥹
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This is so beautiful and I'm absolutely thrilled for you both! My father and I were separated when I was 3 months old. We didn't reconnect until I was 28. He passed when I was 39. I'll forever be thankful for the time we had together! This makes me so happy! ♥️🙏🏻
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I had a similar story only I reached out to my son just as the Internet social media was getting going, my son was 14 and he is now 30, a grown married made, I was at his wedding to a beautiful wife and during his 30th surprise birthday I was invited by his wife, it was probably one of the best thing in my life after his birth so emotional.
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I don’t know how this came into my feeds but I’m so pleased it did ❤. Thank you so much for sharing this beautiful story, I’m looking forward to seeing you more and following your journey ❤️❤️
Thank you!
Outstanding! The Lad is as gorgeous and energetic as his Father. Peace and Love be with you both in your new journey together. ❤❤
Thank you so much! 🥹🙏🏽
I LOVE TO WATCH VIDEOS LIKE THIS, I AM AT THE 15-MINUTE MARK WHERE YOUR FRIENDS ARE TALKING TO BLAZE, AND I AM TRYING TO KEEP THESE TEARS FROM ESCAPING MY EYES, THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL. MY MEETING WITH MY BIO PARENTS WAS NOTHING LIKE THIS, BUT GOD, AND SO I MEAN IT FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART I AM SO HAPPY THAT YOU AND YOUR SON HAVE THIS BEAUTIFUL EXPERIENCE AND FUTURE JOURNEY. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH
Thank you so much!!!🫶🏾
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From the bottom of my heart, congrats on your baby boy. Everything else doesn't matter. Prayers of closeness to you both. Second chances are a blessing
❤❤❤ thank you for your beautiful message, yep, nothing else matters.❤
Thank you!! 🙏🏽💛
Thank you RUclips algorythm for showing me this. Good things do happen still. Thank you for sharing Brad and Blaze. From a California biker.
You've got a good lookin' boy, I can totally see you in him. I will say this, his mom seems to have done an excellent job raising such a lovely young man, so good job to mom and the family that raised him. Now it is a new day, the boy needs to have his dad in his life, and I believe his dad needs him in his life as well.
I lost my dad early this year to a kidney disease. This video showed me the significance of a dad in his child's life, and the importance of a dad. I'm glad someone reunited with his dad. Some of us can only wait til that glorious morning ❤
I can join the crowd of folks that are not sure why this showed up in my recommended videos... but I'm glad it did. So happy to see you both reconnected. The adoration in Blaze's eyes as he looks at you is priceless. And Genetics are CRAZY... the head tilt you both have is almost the identicle angle! Reminds me of how I have my dads laugh even thought I was around him much.
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@@DJDJ-qt7jd I can't imagine how happy this makes YOUR heart! Son and grandson reunited.
@@bigd7386It heals the heart t, yes, we are overjoyed ❤❤❤❤
This is so heartwarming. I love that you've reconnected and all your friends and family are welcoming Blaze into their lives too. May you continue to grow a loving bond for the rest of your lives. Blaze, you are a lucky kid to get to have this reconnection with your dad. Embrace it open heartedly.
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Amazing my bro. The growth you have had as a man, and to see Blaze as a young man is totally heart warming. Couldnt be happier for you both. Also cant believe just hoe much Blaze looks like a young Bradskii!
Love you both so much. Blaze, welcome back to whānau!!
Love you so much! Sumskii, thanks for being here all these years and thanks for being part of this video 🥹💛
This is absolutely crazy. Couldn’t hold it in when your eyes started tearing. I am so happy for you both to be able to reconnect, happy for Blaze he reached out to you and especially happy for you Brad, that you felt such luck and happiness your life felt surreal. It’s so cute to see your energies matching. What a heartwarming story! Enjoy your time and future together 🤍
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Anyone else tearing up because of how sweet this is I am so happy for you!❤
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I don't know how I found this but what an incredible story. I love that you are able to be emotional about the re-connection with your son & what a fabulous time to come into your son's life. Wishing you both Brad & Blaze all the very best on your journey together!
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im 18 in 5 days now, and ive been watching RUclips a few hours a day since I was 8, and this was definitely one of the best videos I've watched. This is beautiful, this video was a pure sense of euphoria, and I will keep this saved for when I want to look back to such an amazing story. Thank you Brad. Proud of you Blaze
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Even though I feel it is your job as a parent to keep in touch, I am so glad Blaze reached out and made the connection. Best of luck!