Meeting my 14 year old son... I can't believe this is happening

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  • Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2024

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  • @DJDJ-qt7jd
    @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +11817

    To my Son Brad and my Grandson Blaze.
    Knowing and living the whole story, this reunion, captured with the love, feeling and respect for each other brings tears of warmth and joy every time I watch your videos. This time round the tears are of joy, warmth, and healing.
    I am grateful that you have found each other in my lifetime, and healed and filled a massive void in my heart.
    My love to you both, you are both strong people and this is only the beginning of your beautiful journey.
    Blaze, I have missed and loved you since you were born, and the day you came to this world we were blessed with your presence. Now I too can have the pleasure of seeing you as a person rather than my memories of you as a tiny wee baby. You are much loved and the most special person xxxx. My door and my heart is forever open to you ❤❤❤
    Brad, I am proud of the young man you are, and always taken by your ability to forgive, no matter how much pain you have endured. I love you forever. Now that you have Blaze back in your life enjoy and live every precious moment.
    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +2860

      Love you mum! ❤️

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +354

      @@whosyourbrad 🥰🥰

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +391

      @@whosyourbradlove you to babe, ❤❤❤ 😊😊😊

    • @HolyNationOfficialMain
      @HolyNationOfficialMain 3 месяца назад +294

      This is an example of this profound truth: forgiveness and love wins. Always. There is an amazing mystery in forgiveness…there is a profound love on the other side. I believe it is a deeper, unique, love given as a gift to those who fully forgive and allow God to heal and give a fresh start. What a beautiful example of forgiveness, love, a clean slate - and new beginning. I wrote a book on forgiveness and this is so beautiful. Many struggle with letting the past go - if they only knew what was waiting on the other side. May the Lord bless you immensely…I think you already know HE has. ~Kim Chadwell

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +113

      @@HolyNationOfficialMain Thank you for your encouragement 😊

  • @valdos9318
    @valdos9318 3 месяца назад +9759

    him loving photography just like his dad, even though he hadn't seen him while growing up. I'm crying

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +37

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @pupgaming5072
      @pupgaming5072 3 месяца назад +45

      Evidence for nature instead of nurture, although I still believe its nurture not nature

    • @Kurotama11
      @Kurotama11 3 месяца назад +127

      @@pupgaming5072it’s a healthy combination of both tbh, like most things in life
      I wonder why it is that humans seem so keen to split things and apply them as if they can’t coexist?? Religion and Science….Political parties…..levels of acceptance

    • @pupgaming5072
      @pupgaming5072 3 месяца назад +3

      @@Kurotama11 whilst yes, it could be both at the same time it's possible it's only one, or even neither. But at the end of the day, theres plenty of evidence for both cases (e.g. feral children being evidence for nurture) so you can believe what you want

    • @Kurotama11
      @Kurotama11 3 месяца назад +21

      @@pupgaming5072 “plenty of evidence for both cases” by default means both are true in their respective rights tho, doesn’t it??
      So why so adamant to *pick a side* ?

  • @ixedtea5302
    @ixedtea5302 3 месяца назад +4849

    The "Dad!" shows the pure happiness from both parties! Crying is perfectly normal in such a situation!

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +9

      ❤❤❤

    • @phamissy
      @phamissy 3 месяца назад +4

      Engene?😭

    • @gilnahnu
      @gilnahnu 28 дней назад +1

      so cute I’m crying 😭😭💗

  • @leedsdevil
    @leedsdevil 3 месяца назад +12428

    I have no idea why the algorithm brought your video to my attention, but this reaffirms that good things do still happen in this world. Best wishes to you both for a lifetime of love and happiness.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +409

      Thank you so much 🥹💛

    • @Abigail_1219_
      @Abigail_1219_ 3 месяца назад +61

      Christ is king! ❤🙏

    • @sophiaunger8189
      @sophiaunger8189 3 месяца назад +14

      Fr!!! I was ment to see UT and it made my day.

    • @sophiaunger8189
      @sophiaunger8189 3 месяца назад +5

      *it

    • @Rae_Naeee
      @Rae_Naeee 3 месяца назад +8

      I agree!! I’m happy I’m here ❤

  • @mayyace
    @mayyace 3 месяца назад +2918

    People don't realise how hard custody battles are. If a parent is telling you about their child that they don't have custody of, you shouldn't automatically assume that they don't love their child. This is beautiful. I'm so happy for you, guys! ❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +207

      Thank you for the kind words! 💛🥹

    • @mayyace
      @mayyace 3 месяца назад +50

      @@whosyourbrad Your son is very lucky to have such an amazing dad that never forgot about him.

    • @mayyace
      @mayyace 3 месяца назад +50

      @@whosyourbrad I don't believe in fate but him coming back into your life ON YOUR BIRTHDAY is crazy fate.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +39

      @@mayyace that was the craziest moment ever for me!!! Such a special moment.

    • @mayyace
      @mayyace 3 месяца назад +10

      @@whosyourbrad I'm so happy for you both! I can't wait for more content from the both of you!

  • @Janie-i8d
    @Janie-i8d 3 месяца назад +3398

    Met my Dad at 14 years old ! Best Day of my life !!! I am 69 now and miss him so much.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +49

      ❤❤

    • @USER-ZB2YT
      @USER-ZB2YT 3 месяца назад +69

      I'm sorry for your loss.. Rest in peace🕊

    • @5icko3dits
      @5icko3dits 3 месяца назад +17

      @@HorsesAreMyLife-Horses what?

    • @HorsesAreMyLife-Horses
      @HorsesAreMyLife-Horses 3 месяца назад

      @@5icko3dits nothing nvm!

    • @Blunpobuns
      @Blunpobuns 3 месяца назад +1

      @@5icko3dits dirty mind😔

  • @tursneyhuman622
    @tursneyhuman622 3 месяца назад +3082

    Met my biological Dad when I was 18, I knew him as a family friend but no one ever told me the truth

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +42

      ❤❤❤

    • @rainy5517
      @rainy5517 3 месяца назад +156

      That's really brutal... I hope you reunited and are happy

    • @kafitty
      @kafitty 3 месяца назад +67

      We weren’t told that a family friend’s daughter was actually my brother’s half-sister until we were in university. And then we found out about his half-brother! 🙃

    • @thepinktreeclub
      @thepinktreeclub 3 месяца назад

      i see, shes for the streets

    • @Staroy
      @Staroy 3 месяца назад +1

      @@kafitty weird way to phrase it, why not just your half sister?

  • @MarieSallaupHalse
    @MarieSallaupHalse 3 месяца назад +4828

    Not sure why this ended up in my recommended section, but I'm happy it did.

  • @sxhizornsmn
    @sxhizornsmn Месяц назад +291

    it’s crazy to think how something like this couldn’t have happened like 50 years ago. the internet, man. it really can be a good place sometimes

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd Месяц назад +3

      🌹🌹😊

    • @InBeats-o4q
      @InBeats-o4q 17 дней назад

      i don't think so. 50 years ago boys don't exist but only real mans who don't leave pregnat womans alone.

  • @dreamincolor14
    @dreamincolor14 3 месяца назад +9289

    I love that he called you Dad right away

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +1613

      I was in tears 🥹💛

    • @EthanLomas
      @EthanLomas 3 месяца назад +49

      Give money to mother and child. He OWES them

    • @bentrally
      @bentrally 3 месяца назад +863

      @@EthanLomas Way to ruin the mood

    • @ohhaiJess96
      @ohhaiJess96 3 месяца назад +1

      @@EthanLomas🤡

    • @dikkedoei7057
      @dikkedoei7057 3 месяца назад

      She left, she doesn't deserve anything, her choice was made ​@@EthanLomas

  • @KardoNewman
    @KardoNewman 3 месяца назад +3759

    The algorithm is finally picking up on the little bit of hope and faith i knew i had left in this world 😭

  • @doodles3075
    @doodles3075 3 месяца назад +3334

    We have a similar story.
    My daughter became pregnant with my grandson, and his dad had to go back to Ghana. He never actually got to see his son.
    Then, as we went into the 1st lockdown(covid), my grandsons mum found his dads sister on facebook. Within an hour I had a message asking if his dad could speak to his son( my grandson lives with me). We decided we would set it up the next day.
    Early next morning I put RUclips on and called my grandson to watch a video of a man donating food parcels to the Ghanaian police to hand out...
    I then explained that this special man was infact his dad...
    That 1st facetime was very special ...
    This was in the March in the October we went to Ghana to finally meet his dad. He also got to meet some very special people who were turning up just to say hello.
    He hasn't been able to see his dad since then, until last week when I got a phone call at 7.30 am out of the blue from his dad to say his plane had landed in the UK
    So at 5pm on Saturday we had his dad ringing our doorbell, I've never seen so much shock and excitement in one 15yrds face!

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +84

      ❤❤❤ what a beautiful outcome ❤❤❤

    • @amarylily
      @amarylily 3 месяца назад +46

      ❤❤❤❤ I’m so happy for you all!!!!

    • @thecutest4282
      @thecutest4282 3 месяца назад +43

      That's why premarital sex is wrong.

    • @okcool7477
      @okcool7477 3 месяца назад

      ​@@thecutest4282what a great way to ruin the vibe 🥰

    • @_seekingthetruth_1447
      @_seekingthetruth_1447 3 месяца назад +191

      ​@@thecutest4282Dude... Just move the hell on. You speak of something that anyone else could see could have unintended consequences. Most just let that inside voice remain inside. Then, there are people like yourself that just can't help yourself. Try to do better and mind your own business if all you're going to do is bring people down.

  • @StarletOfDavid
    @StarletOfDavid 2 месяца назад +314

    As a mum of a kid being the same age around your son. His dad lives on another continent too. I would ask you to not only make it a vacation thing, write post cards whenever you can, send him trivial things like a new pencil case and annual planner when it’s the new school year, show him how to shave his beard once you’re on visit, pay interest in his school education and grades. My sons father always visits him once a year and my son is always smitten and so thankful - and it always breaks my heart, cause I know there won’t be much contact in between a birthday and Christmas card and that visit. 😢

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 2 месяца назад +3

      💜💜💜

    • @DT-no2uk
      @DT-no2uk 23 дня назад +4

      That is some beautiful advice. I hope your son’s father changes his ways. Your son has a smart and loving mum. 🌼🌸❤

    • @mattyd3079
      @mattyd3079 22 дня назад +3

      I think this story of the absent father of 14 years being welcomed with open arms is one in a million, almost a fantasy.

  • @lilzuplada1564
    @lilzuplada1564 3 месяца назад +3338

    Blaze just gained a community of people that loves him unconditionally. How amazing is that?

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +35

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @EthanLomas
      @EthanLomas 3 месяца назад +25

      Love is free!!! Money is a true sign of “love”

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +113

      @@lilzuplada1564 💛

    • @audreyltheseira4345
      @audreyltheseira4345 3 месяца назад +7

      ​@@whosyourbradwould love to join Blaze's channel. Love & Blessings from Perth Australia ❤

    • @cantdecidethename8606
      @cantdecidethename8606 Месяц назад

      @@whosyourbrad im ur 100th like on that comment lol

  • @nigelbond4056
    @nigelbond4056 3 месяца назад +4489

    No father should be torn apart from his son. This is so heartwarming 👌

    • @lettus143
      @lettus143 3 месяца назад +269

      Agree. Knowing how young he was though in sure the mother's family thought they were doing what was best for their child, too. It's unfortunate for him, but I'm so glad he got his happy ending. This is such a critical age for a young man to have a father figure, too.

    • @isagoldfield7393
      @isagoldfield7393 3 месяца назад +28

      My son & his father are so close & do things a lot together. Camping, kayaking, hiking, sometimes basketball 🏀…my son is not very sporty😊now he’s teaching himself how to drive♥️♥️♥️

    • @jtb357
      @jtb357 3 месяца назад +181

      You don't know the full circumstances. Better not judge. The were very young.

    • @fallenangel_899
      @fallenangel_899 3 месяца назад +130

      Don’t jump to conclusions when you don’t know the full story

    • @lucijak3444
      @lucijak3444 3 месяца назад +120

      No, in many cases they should. Many fathers are abusive. But yes. This guy is obviously a very loving father and as long as they are like that, they shouldn't be but life happens i guess:/

  • @TSOMTSOMTSOM
    @TSOMTSOMTSOM 2 месяца назад +51

    I was 18 when I last saw my dad. I’m now 45. It hurts every day. I hope he’s well. Just balled my eyes out watching this. Embrace every moment. Such a beautiful story.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  2 месяца назад +3

      So sorry to hear 😞 Thank you for being here with us! 🙏🏽💛

  • @juliestewart5707
    @juliestewart5707 3 месяца назад +1583

    Having a child when you’re young changes your entire life. The struggles are enormous. We need to support young parents better. Congratulations 🎊

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +117

      thank you so much!

    • @cherylspohr9821
      @cherylspohr9821 3 месяца назад +45

      You are so right!! I had a child at 16 and thankfully our families were loving and supportive. Unfortunately my baby daddy had a lot of growing up to do so it was very difficult for me.

    • @SkiesareGrey-un8gv
      @SkiesareGrey-un8gv 3 месяца назад +11

      ​@@cherylspohr9821What did you think was going to happen when you let him hit it raw at the very young age of 16? He was still a child, so were you. Boys grow emotionally even later I mean.

    • @Bunnidove
      @Bunnidove 3 месяца назад

      Shut up ​@@SkiesareGrey-un8gv

    • @emmoo2701
      @emmoo2701 3 месяца назад +94

      ⁠@@SkiesareGrey-un8gvAs you literally just said yourself, kids often make dumb decisions, there’s no need to be so rude. Sounds like she dealt with the consequences as well as she could.

  • @NekoHanyouHanaru
    @NekoHanyouHanaru 3 месяца назад +1081

    I’m in the group of “I don’t know why this was in my recommended” but I’m so happy it was. I wish nothing but safety and love for you and your family. ❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +18

      🥹💛

    • @a1ntcry1noveru
      @a1ntcry1noveru 3 месяца назад +1

      Same! But then I saw mats who I used to watch, and I’m wondering if RUclips did some magic algorithm thing that way lol

  • @mollymo6229
    @mollymo6229 3 месяца назад +859

    My uncle lost in court to be able to see his son and he has not seen him since 2 years old. His mom unfortunately lied to their son saying that he never cared for him but my uncle got many pictures of him taking care and looking after him as a toddler as his mom worked her job. I hope one day his son contact him to meet him again!

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +6

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @PurpleSirens
      @PurpleSirens 3 месяца назад +83

      This is becoming a huge problem in the west. Some women are abusing their rights as mums and just make dads vanish. I’m a woman but I see it happening more and more in my community. It’s messed up💔

    • @adriadri3624
      @adriadri3624 3 месяца назад

      ​@@PurpleSirensProblem in west it happens often in other countries west had huge influence in other places too especially those stupid hook up cultureA

    • @hahe-m5g
      @hahe-m5g 3 месяца назад +36

      @@PurpleSirensIts honestly more common to have deadbeats fathers

    • @PurpleSirens
      @PurpleSirens 3 месяца назад +43

      @@hahe-m5g yeah that too, but I’m actually seeing this happening to fathers who don’t deserve this. It’s not fair to justify this by saying there’s more deadbeat fathers. Equality remember

  • @tinamarie8061
    @tinamarie8061 2 месяца назад +34

    This man has the most attractive diverse friend group on the planet! He & his son are stunning! It’s like pure light, joy, good vibes and Gods love exudes from them! Totally awesome ❤

  • @da96103
    @da96103 3 месяца назад +645

    At first, I thought it was Cristiano Ronaldo making a confession.

    • @Iamtheone-x8w
      @Iamtheone-x8w 3 месяца назад +26

      Fr😂

    • @heyjude2109
      @heyjude2109 29 дней назад +3

      😂 Bro, wear Specsavers!

    • @nicolesaidi
      @nicolesaidi 22 дня назад +1

      LMAO😂

    • @MayMoment_
      @MayMoment_ 14 дней назад

      To be fair, it wouldn't surprise me if he has a few kids running around who don't know he's their dad.
      Dude flew all over the world as the number 1 football player on earth. Definitely a few illegitimate kids

  • @kitoera
    @kitoera 3 месяца назад +603

    I'm 28 years old and have been estranged from my own father. He had contacted me through facebook a while ago and i was somehow terrified to respond. Afraid of rejection and not living up to expectations i didn't reply. This 13 yo kid took the leap and had more courage than i could ever have. It's so lovely to see this beautiful reunion. It fills my heart all the way and has given me some courage to let go of my own fear and just reach out.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +50

      💜💜💜💜 yep, let go and reach out 😊😊😊😊

    • @lyricsbytamy
      @lyricsbytamy 3 месяца назад +35

      It's not too late to reach out still!

    • @Jenny-ii3cd
      @Jenny-ii3cd 3 месяца назад +16

      what's to be afriad of. just meet him he will not judge you. however you are meet him. you never know about life. when is our last breath. have no regrets. life won't give chance again nad again

    • @Jenny-ii3cd
      @Jenny-ii3cd 3 месяца назад +18

      trust me when you ignored him. it hurted him

    • @Catyluss
      @Catyluss 3 месяца назад +9

      reach out. trust me. you wont regret it.

  • @keanusolan2844
    @keanusolan2844 3 месяца назад +542

    Whilst it is clearly awful that he was taken away from you when you were so young; credit must given to his mother's family who seem to have raised a grounded young man. Wish you all the best.

    • @i_am_gohan9232
      @i_am_gohan9232 3 месяца назад +71

      If they kept him away from his son how could you give them any credit? What they did was evil.

    • @katherinebattle3780
      @katherinebattle3780 3 месяца назад +39

      ​@@i_am_gohan9232exactly women do this shit all the time and it's disgusting 💀

    • @hahe-m5g
      @hahe-m5g 3 месяца назад +168

      @@katherinebattle37801/10 ragebait try harder next time

    • @MehrubaAfroz
      @MehrubaAfroz 3 месяца назад

      ​@@katherinebattle3780 borh men and women who aren't meant to be parents do this. My father's family kept me away from my mom and brainwashed me into thinking she had cheated on my father and abandoned us, when the truth was was father is physically and mentally abusive and schizophrenic. I'm currently living with my mom now and have cut off all contacts with him. Don't just go around blaming women for everything

    • @s-9817
      @s-9817 3 месяца назад +144

      ​@@i_am_gohan9232 if they were both 16, how do you want the mom to stop her family from moving away? He knew where they were and had other choices to keep in contact without spending money but he choose to let it be until his own son learned about it. Nobody imprisoned his son in a dessert island in the middle of nowhere

  • @saintXVII
    @saintXVII 3 месяца назад +51

    Watching this video as an Italian, it made me laugh so hard when the Italian friend popped up in the most Italian way. Blessings to all in this video, y’all look very nice people.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +11

      Love that guy so much 😂 One of my best friends in Italy 🇮🇹

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +2

      We love our Italian family lol ❤

  • @richie644
    @richie644 3 месяца назад +1015

    Can’t believe I came across this video.. haven’t seen my son for 10 years now… I felt this, I dream of one day getting that message.. will never lose hope. Thank you 😢

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +34

      ❤❤❤❤ never lose hope ❤❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +73

      🫶🏾

    • @padopaw
      @padopaw 3 месяца назад +21

      not to be insensitive but why not be the one to message your son?

    • @poppymason-smith1051
      @poppymason-smith1051 3 месяца назад +41

      ​@@padopaw probably isnt allowed to due to how it may have played or in court.

    • @Aur315
      @Aur315 3 месяца назад +5

      You shall receive it, continue to picture that message esp before you sleep, continue to visualize that end result and it will occur , do it while you are falling asleep for a few days, you will receive that message . Chances he may want to commmunicate..but maybe message him if you can , also pray, people sleep on it.

  • @tikasinaga1284
    @tikasinaga1284 3 месяца назад +447

    Am happily crying for 2 strangers

    • @abigailadu6183
      @abigailadu6183 3 месяца назад +12

      Same🥹.
      Such a wholesome video❤

    • @sharronjones1017
      @sharronjones1017 3 месяца назад +8

      Happy tears❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +14

      Thank you guys 💛

    • @droptherapy2085
      @droptherapy2085 3 месяца назад +2

      In a way we're all familiar I think

    • @WarmongerYT
      @WarmongerYT 3 месяца назад

      ​@@whosyourbradWas there a reason that after going to court for 1 year, that u went twelve years never trying to see or even message or call your son? & Also it sounds like your Son's Mother/his Mom has done a great job at raising a respectable, polite young Man. ❤. Surely with it being all these years later his Mom& you can get along for the sake of your son & put your own feelings aside. That's what my ex/my 2 children's Father & I do.

  • @Dan-xx5jq
    @Dan-xx5jq 3 месяца назад +2762

    You have to be grateful that his mom did a great job to raise him to be who he is! Congratulations!

    • @nattamused9074
      @nattamused9074 3 месяца назад +809

      I thought the same thing. She was almost entirely not included in this story, which is sad. A young teenage mother who gives life to her child nowadays is extraordinary enough, and on top of that, she obviously did a fantastic job! He’s emotionally intelligent, well spoken, and brave!

    • @haso-jy6sh
      @haso-jy6sh 3 месяца назад +21

      I agree

    • @ngs5554
      @ngs5554 3 месяца назад +308

      Did either of you watch the video? The mother took his son away from him. That’s not a good mother.

    • @nattamused9074
      @nattamused9074 3 месяца назад +1

      @@ngs5554 According to the very little information given, she, as a minor, chose to give birth to her son instead of aborting him. Win #1. Then, again, as a child herself, she chose to go home to her support system and raise him. Win #2.
      What do you suggest she should’ve done?
      If your opinion is that she should’ve left her family to stay near her son’s biological father, (a teenager himself who was not ready to provide her the support a teen mother NEEDS) then you simply do not understand the needs of a young first time mother.
      The most important thing for the health, safety, and wellbeing of a newborn infant, is the health, safety and wellbeing of his mother. She obviously sought out the best help she could get, with her family.
      I am not faulting or blaming him for choosing the support of his own mother, that was his choice. He could have chosen to stay near his son, but he didn’t. That’s OK! He was only 16! It’s completely understandable!
      But please don’t say she wasn’t a good mother just because she made the very best choices she could for herself and her son. That’s all she could do. She couldn’t make his father’s choices for him.

    • @super-cc3ow
      @super-cc3ow 3 месяца назад +1

      @@nattamused9074she also could have told him

  • @M4PLETREEZ
    @M4PLETREEZ Месяц назад +19

    No idea why the algorithm gave me this, and I’m so happy it did. This is likely one of the best feelings in the world, if not the best. You both act like you haven’t spent a day apart, and that really makes me happy. So happy for you and your son 💛

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd Месяц назад +1

      💜💜 in heart they were never ever apart ❤

  • @AndreaLB
    @AndreaLB 3 месяца назад +662

    I hate how people think they have the right to judge people they don’t know!!!! NEVER take any negative comments to heart. Just don’t read them. I’m so glad you’re finally getting to see your son!!!!! Enjoy every moment. That first hug will last your lifetime. You’ll always feel it. Congratulations to you both!!!

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +33

      ❤❤❤ thank you for encouraging my Son and MY grandson in this journey. This story is about the wonderful outcome after years of heartache. These are 2 very special people sharing a moment of joy that will be everlasting, for them most importantly and for the wider family and friends.
      I agree with your comment wholeheartedly about how people think they have the right to judge, this short story is one where you can only rejoice in the outcome, the long story is way to painful to dwell on. ❤❤❤❤

    • @rhondablake4286
      @rhondablake4286 3 месяца назад +4

      Amen! It is their life no one should be judgy of the story they are sharing.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад

      @@rhondablake4286 thank you ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @lyricusx2900
      @lyricusx2900 3 месяца назад +22

      Yep I'm judging because this man abandoned his kid because he was in his feelings. He didn't even tell his friends he had a kid until after the little boy reached out. He lived his best life and threw his kid away and didn't even look back if this kid didn't reach out he'd still be in the trash.

    • @アキコ2003
      @アキコ2003 3 месяца назад +4

      Agreed, those people have sad existences. Stuck online in the virtual world

  • @AriatiArmen
    @AriatiArmen 3 месяца назад +410

    I don’t know why i am crying, My son doesn’t see his biologic father since he was born. when my boy asked me who is my dad, i couldn’t hold my tears but i told him everything and my boy he is 12 now. I am so happy for you both. ❤

    • @hanaagovic-cc7wq
      @hanaagovic-cc7wq 3 месяца назад +15

      You are such an amazing mother! Good job❤

    • @AriatiArmen
      @AriatiArmen 3 месяца назад +52

      @@hanaagovic-cc7wq Thank you for your kind words. It’s hard to explain to the child knowing that the man you think he loves you so much turned out he doesn’t want the baby nor me. my life was tuned into hell at that time, i was too young and too stupid. But i fight alone for my sweetheart 12 years old son. With high school grades i have, i couldn’t do much at that time but i work my ass off for my boy even he was in my belly then he born ( he is 12 years old next month ) . and because of my son i am stronger than ever!! To all single moms or single dads in the world!! You all are amazing 😻

    • @kishniethuyakontha54
      @kishniethuyakontha54 3 месяца назад +3

      It's always good to have both parents while you are growing and single parent means lot of hard work where I live in but I guess being late is ok than never.Be happy and thanks his mum for you ❤

    • @USER-ZB2YT
      @USER-ZB2YT 3 месяца назад +4

      @@AriatiArmen Im glad you're doing better now

    • @Aisha-sh2un
      @Aisha-sh2un 3 месяца назад +2

      Same here . My son is 18

  • @naomipask1809
    @naomipask1809 3 месяца назад +334

    It is so lovely to see a teenage Dad who fought to be in his child’s life. The fact that he is still so invested in his son is heartwarming. The videos from family and friends shows just how proud of being a Dad he is and just how loved Blaze is.

    • @Lewis-py8jl
      @Lewis-py8jl 3 месяца назад +1

      Don’t like this comment as it is currently at a perfect 100 likes

  • @ashroberts1549
    @ashroberts1549 3 месяца назад +26

    Absolutely sobbing at this. My dad chose to have me but was never actually there. Never put in the effort to build a suitable life for his children.
    I am so happy Blaze has you as a father.
    Much love to your whole family

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +2

      ❤❤❤❤ thank you

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +2

      Thank you! 💛

    • @WarmongerYT
      @WarmongerYT 3 месяца назад +2

      Was there a reason that after going to court for 1 year, that u went twelve+ years never trying to see or even message or call your son? & Also it sounds like your Son's Mother/his Mom has done a great job at raising a respectable, polite young Man. ❤. Surely with it being all these years later his Mom& you can get along for the sake of your son & put your own feelings aside. That's what my ex/my 2 children's Father & I do.

  • @mikebrannen5921
    @mikebrannen5921 3 месяца назад +555

    So great to see this. I was around 16 when I reached out to my father and was told to never call again. Luckily I have the most amazing step father that raised me and guided me at that age. So glad to see you creating memories and and sharing love. I love being a dad its the best gift on the planet.

    • @1Dragonist
      @1Dragonist 3 месяца назад +65

      So sorry that happened to you. I'm glad you have a great step dad. ❤

    • @wandalucas7838
      @wandalucas7838 3 месяца назад +31

      Hugs to you and I am so sorry. It sounds like you have a wonderful stepfather and for that always be grateful.

    • @lillieberger2883
      @lillieberger2883 3 месяца назад +30

      I’m sorry that happened to you. Not everyone deserves to be a parent.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +5

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @CotyWilliams-j2k
      @CotyWilliams-j2k 3 месяца назад +27

      That bastard missed out,not you.And your step father definitely won here ❤

  • @sometimesitbelikedat2529
    @sometimesitbelikedat2529 3 месяца назад +369

    I met my biological dad for the first time when I was already 18. Our meeting didn't go this way. I'm now 33 with a family of my own, and I rarely talk to that dude. But I'm glad you got to meet your son and you had an instant connection with him. Healing isn't for everyone, I guess, but I'm glad to see one of the instances where it worked.

    • @miovicdina7706
      @miovicdina7706 3 месяца назад +43

      This should be talked about more. People, understandably, only post the happy end stories on RUclips.
      It creates false impressions and false hopes for others in a similar situation.
      Thanks for sharing your story briefly.
      All the best for you for your future with your own family.❤

    • @javakat343
      @javakat343 3 месяца назад +17

      I'm sorry for your loss. You deserved better

    • @sometimesitbelikedat2529
      @sometimesitbelikedat2529 3 месяца назад +24

      My thinking kinda went from, "Woulda been nice if I had a father figure to teach me these things" to "I'm now a father as well. We're (me and that dude) practically on the same level now. No need to consult someone I barely know about things I can learn for myself." There's a lot of resentment there, for sure, but yeah. Seeing this video warms my heart and it reminds me that not everyone who grew up without a father like me will grow to become a resentful individual. Brad is a good dad, and Blaze is a good kid, and they'll figure things out together. This is beautiful.

    • @unmellowyellow
      @unmellowyellow 3 месяца назад +13

      @@sometimesitbelikedat2529Honestly, your dad’s loss. It sounds like he has no relationship with your children, and trust me, it is HIS loss ❤ Love to you and your family 😊

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад

      @@sometimesitbelikedat2529💜💜💜💜💜💜

  • @lisahinkle3867
    @lisahinkle3867 3 месяца назад +286

    I was adopted as a baby. Six years ago I got to meet my mom dad siblings et. three months later my father died in an accident. I love all of my family adopted, chosen and bio.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +3

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Laura_heart
      @Laura_heart 2 месяца назад +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm so glad you got to meet your biological family and that you're in a great relationship with them❤

  • @athaliahmakanuey597
    @athaliahmakanuey597 3 месяца назад +12

    What a beautiful story. I lost my dad to a heart attack when I was 14 years old. Seeing Blaze gain his Dad back at such a crucial time in his life is so amazing. This story had me crying. Wishing you both the best in the world.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +1

      So sorry to hear 😞 Thank you so much for the support, sending love 🫶🏾

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад

      💜💜💜

  • @The360Guy
    @The360Guy 3 месяца назад +915

    I was with Brad at the birthday dinner where he got the message! I remember he seemed a bit quiet for a while but clearly he was just in shock haha. What an amazing story! So glad you guys are re-united and clearly Blaze got the content creator genes. All the best from London.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +149

      @@The360Guy the best weekend of my life 🙏🏽💛🥹

    • @littledog3553
      @littledog3553 3 месяца назад +9

      ❤❤❤

  • @sophiaunger8189
    @sophiaunger8189 3 месяца назад +369

    I'm 14 now and I'm what life would be like without my dad, he is one of the most important people that I have and I can't imagine doing it without him. I don't know why the came up on my feed, but was ment to be seen!!!!

  • @127sys
    @127sys 3 месяца назад +240

    As a 16 year old I can’t imagine going through court for visitation, that must’ve been a crazy time & I’m glad you’ve reunited after everything 💐

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +2

      ❤❤❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  Месяц назад

      Thank you!

    • @sesidonkor
      @sesidonkor 24 дня назад

      I only realised I'm the same age he was after I read this comment. Sometimes I forget I'm 16 now. Very true, I also can't imagine going to court at this age. I'm not even a legal adult.

  • @iloveme2999
    @iloveme2999 29 дней назад +6

    This might come across as a little corny, but as a 16-year-old, I've struggled to have a solid relationship with my father. Watching the bond you and your father share, especially after being apart for some time, truly warms my heart. It’s inspiring to see how strong your connection remains despite the distance.
    Seeing this kind of relationship displayed in a RUclips video is uplifting and gives me hope that family bonds can thrive under challenging circumstances. It reminds me of the importance of connection, love, and resilience. Thank you for sharing this beautiful moment.. it really resonated with me!💓!

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 28 дней назад

      💜💜💜💜🌹🌹🌹

  • @carolwilder2289
    @carolwilder2289 3 месяца назад +441

    This came across my feed! I can emotionally connect with you both. My son had a son young @ 18 yrs old. The last time I seen Wyatt, he was 3. He was 8 when his mom took him out of his dads life. 6 months ago...Wyatt came back to the state to be with his dad!! My son was as scared as I was! Omg! They are best 'mates' and inseparable! God Bless you both!💕🙏💕

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +11

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +57

      Wow! I'm so happy for your son to reconnect too, send our love! 🙏🏽💛

    • @odemonet
      @odemonet 3 месяца назад +14

      This came across my feed today! What an amazing story, and what an amazing son you have. I couldn’t be happier for you and your entire family! ❤️ congratulations!,,

    • @JamesOzmun
      @JamesOzmun 3 месяца назад +5

      @@carolwilder2289 thank you for sharing. Like Brad & Blaze, your story inspires me with hope for when I begin to find my dad. I am very happy for you and your son to have your grandson in your life again. 🤙

  • @dianaandthebookhunt
    @dianaandthebookhunt 3 месяца назад +318

    Blaze is your little copy. It's wonderful to see you've build this community of friends all over the world that your son can look forward to meeting. Well done, Dad! Here's to many adventures together 🩷

    • @angeloc7486
      @angeloc7486 3 месяца назад +11

      How is he a copy of him? His mother raised him.

    • @dianaandthebookhunt
      @dianaandthebookhunt 3 месяца назад +53

      @@angeloc7486 Well, there's a thing called genetics that is very evident in facial features?! Also, their interests seem to allign. There's no shade thrown to the mom here. Cudos to her for raising the boy. Why does everything have to be a negative? This boy finally got to have his dad in his life. Be happy for them ...

    • @DangerHob
      @DangerHob 3 месяца назад +16

      He sounds JUST like his father. (His voice, not just his accent) It's so awesome!!

    • @lovelylife2171
      @lovelylife2171 3 месяца назад

      @@angeloc7486DNA

    • @lovelylife2171
      @lovelylife2171 3 месяца назад

      @@DangerHobYES

  • @keksfresse8553
    @keksfresse8553 3 месяца назад +208

    Props to you for being so vulnerable on camera. You're not a "crybaby" at all, you're just expressing your emotions in a so healthy manner :)

  • @fsttag1
    @fsttag1 17 дней назад +20

    “I said I wanna build this super dope amazing life and the world was just like, ‘here you go’”
    That’s awesome man. I hope to get to that point someday.

  • @CotyWilliams-j2k
    @CotyWilliams-j2k 3 месяца назад +141

    I'm 35 i got pregnant at 17 my son is now 17,the donor and his family never i mean never wanted anything to do with my son i waited some years thinking maybe since id grown and matured id try to give that male the same grace,the coward refused to talk to me and instead sent his red headed step child wife to message me and say i was lying because he'd never date a "colored girl" that was my last attempt,so seeing this and how your family and you wanted your son is so amazing and you finally getting your son in your life is the best i love this

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +14

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤ sending you hugs ❤

    • @CotyWilliams-j2k
      @CotyWilliams-j2k 3 месяца назад +24

      @@DJDJ-qt7jd thank you,I've never publicly said this story to anyone but it just got me in my heart seeing this,I'm so happy for them especially the son

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +10

      @@CotyWilliams-j2k i just feel for both you and your son.. we were blessed that our family finally got reunited. Take care ❤❤

    • @samporter2146
      @samporter2146 3 месяца назад +9

      Also sending you hugs . It was very brave of you to try contact for your child's sake . ❤

    • @AlvenaNelson
      @AlvenaNelson 3 месяца назад +10

      I feel so heartbroken for you to have come across such a cruel person!
      And the flying monkeys..so narcissistic…I am so glad you didn’t endure that man..and your child didn’t…you saved your child and yourself by the sounds of things..
      Sending you love and hugs ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kremmiz1
    @kremmiz1 3 месяца назад +348

    I don’t know how this came into my feed, but I’m so happy it did! In a world filled with negativity, finding this little slice of beauty on the internet is just so wonderful. I hope this relationship (and all of those who support you both- wow! What a blessing) continues to flourish and deepen. 🙏🏽❤️

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +29

      Thank you so much, I'm glad it brought some light to your day because it definitely did for us. Thanks for the support 🥹💛

  • @lilly-ee2sp
    @lilly-ee2sp 3 месяца назад +197

    I've know Brad for 6 years! He is the only friend I made for the entire time that I lived in BCN. Happy tears are streaming down my face watching this video! Such a special and magical moment I've just witnessed! It's every single parents kids dream to meet their other parent! Most kids don't get that chance! Talk about devine timing, receiving such a messsage on your birthday!
    Miracles and happy endings exist, you and Blaze are living proof! Bless you two! -J

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +36

      I love you! Одна команда 💛

  • @amicaninetyfour8838
    @amicaninetyfour8838 2 месяца назад +8

    OMG, this just brought tears to my eyes. It's obvious you NEVER stopped being a father so when he was ready to meet you, you were obviously there for him!

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 2 месяца назад +1

      💜💜💜❤❤❤ yep, you got it right, you obviously watched the video and understood the message. Thank you for your encouraging comment. (From Brad’s Mum)

    • @amicaninetyfour8838
      @amicaninetyfour8838 2 месяца назад +1

      @@DJDJ-qt7jd Clearly, you never stopped being his grandmother :D

  • @wansleyleah
    @wansleyleah 3 месяца назад +231

    This is incredible, and I can totally understand how you feel. I was forced to allow my oldest two children go into an adoption situation when I left their biological father who was very abusive to me, and I have waited for all these years ever since for them, to be in contact with them again. I am not in contact with my son yet, as he only recently turned 18, but I've been in limited contact with my daughter through IG for a couple years now, and every post from her, ever message from her makes my heart light up with so much pride. I love my kids, and I look forward to hopefully getting reunited to them in person one day. So happy for you to experience the feeling of reconnection.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +19

      ❤❤❤❤❤ I hope for you this reunion of your family comes soon ❤❤❤

    • @anselnova
      @anselnova 3 месяца назад +6

      GOD BLESS YOU AND EVERYONE SO MUCH I LOVE YOU.🤍

    • @kimberleywilliams7802
      @kimberleywilliams7802 3 месяца назад +3

      You made such a hard choice but you loved your kids. Thank you for sharing your beautiful story, you're amazing!

  • @dreamincolor14
    @dreamincolor14 3 месяца назад +209

    The happiness this kid felt when he probably like read that message from his dad being like I know you don't know me but I love you

  • @T-H-B
    @T-H-B 3 месяца назад +262

    Embrace him, love him, and tell him often. I don't know why I got this video up in recommended, but I'm crying happy tears for you.
    I lost my own son, he died - I got the first 15 years, you get the rest of your life. Both is a blessing. I'm so happy for you both.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +16

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  Месяц назад +3

      so sorry to hear. 😔 Thank you for the support 🥹

  • @kennethwilliams3182
    @kennethwilliams3182 3 месяца назад +154

    Social media is finally good for something.., god is good. Congratulations, guys!

  • @whosyourbrad
    @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +1679

    Thank you everyone, I would love to hear what you think, here in the comments! Ill be here replying to you all. 💛

    • @barbaraJohnJohn-e5b
      @barbaraJohnJohn-e5b 3 месяца назад +51

      Thank you Brad
      This video had me in tears
      Welcome dear great grand son
      Lots of love and God bless both of you as you journey together into the future

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +42

      @@barbaraJohnJohn-e5b 🙏🏽💛 Thank you for being here. Love from us.

    • @karltaylor2857
      @karltaylor2857 3 месяца назад +15

      You got this bro. Best of luck.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +16

      @karltaylor2857 thank you brother 🙏🏽 💛

    • @sunnylife6892
      @sunnylife6892 3 месяца назад +9

      @whosyourbrad Very cinematographic short film! What a wonderful story! Happy days for you! :)

  • @ScoobyDoozy
    @ScoobyDoozy 3 месяца назад +138

    A beautiful story about second chances, & taking chances. Blazes’ Mum family ought to be congratulated on raising such a kind, sincere, & genuine young man. He’s got his head screwed on.
    And now, Blaze has a Dad, and his family, to help guide & love Blaze on his path to becoming a young man.
    Irregardless of the history during young & turbulent times, to see that the sole focus of all these adults, on both sides, is on Blaze & the path going forward, is a rare but bloody beautiful sight to see.
    Cheess to Blaze, and to all the love & care in his yesterdays and his tomorrows.

  • @holdmacat9932
    @holdmacat9932 2 месяца назад +14

    My own parents don't cherish me or love them how this one man loves his son, I'm so jealous

  • @siennamiel-wb7nl
    @siennamiel-wb7nl 3 месяца назад +196

    I’m glad he’s reaching out at 14 and not 21

    • @r..1240
      @r..1240 3 месяца назад +1

      Why

    • @aaabbbuuu777
      @aaabbbuuu777 3 месяца назад +1

      @@r..1240so he can get that beer 🍺 and za 🍃

    • @lusinebaghyan8864
      @lusinebaghyan8864 3 месяца назад +17

      ​@@r..1240 7 more years with each other, that's huge.

  • @lupinashton8913
    @lupinashton8913 3 месяца назад +64

    Cherish him. Be good to him. I unfortunately never got to meet my father in person he passed shortly after I talked to him for the first time after turning 18 (over the phone) hearing how he wanted me and couldn’t because of his addiction. He was in another state and passed due to an overdose. If I could I would flown to meet him I unfortunately won’t ever get that chance was denied it from that extended family. This brought tears to my eyes. Don’t let him go. Y’all got this. Happy for y’all’s journey

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +17

      Heart breaking, I'm sorry 😞 💔
      Thank you so much for sharing your story as well as supporting ours, love from the two of us!

  • @wendyhaws4540
    @wendyhaws4540 3 месяца назад +70

    Every child should be as wanted as your son. You are awesome. You both are so blessed. I'm so glad this turned up in my feed, not sure how it did. God bless you both.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +5

      Thank you so much for seeing the love I and everyone else has for Blaze, thank you for the support!❤️

  • @sandrinecacheton3909
    @sandrinecacheton3909 3 месяца назад +6

    He is SO CUTEEEEE what the hell! He has the most genuine smile. Preserve his innocence at all costs. So mature for his age also it’s crazy.

  • @blazepate
    @blazepate 3 месяца назад +433

    What an emotional roller coaster this video is. The buildup, the production, messages from your friends. It still doesn’t even feel real. I Can’t believe it actually happened. All it took was one message and 2 years later it finally happened. A day that was 14 years in the making. Thank you for everything and the time we had together dad. I hope to see you again someday soon ❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +64

      Forever love! 💛

    • @barbaraJohnJohn-e5b
      @barbaraJohnJohn-e5b 3 месяца назад +29

      @blazepate Love you my great grand son

    • @EthanLomas
      @EthanLomas 3 месяца назад +5

      Words are cheap!!! Give them money that he owes them. I’m disgusted

    • @Suresurely
      @Suresurely 3 месяца назад +15

      Blaze, it was so brave of you to send that message, well done ❤

    • @RehabProjectSRCB
      @RehabProjectSRCB 3 месяца назад

      ​@@EthanLomasYou have no idea of any of the circumstances that went on between that family. Don't be judgemental and negative.

  • @isowiesow9035
    @isowiesow9035 3 месяца назад +66

    I really teared up when blaze was walking while saying "City vibez" you see how HAPPY he is!❤🥲 his face expression and the way he walked.. uhgg someone give me a tissueee

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +3

      ❤❤❤ lol, every time I watch it tear up, ❤❤❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +11

      Yo, I cried so many times editing that part lol 🥹

  • @mooniex825
    @mooniex825 3 месяца назад +68

    I lost my dad early this year to a kidney disease. This video showed me the significance of a dad in his child's life, and the importance of a dad. I'm glad someone reunited with his dad. Some of us can only wait til that glorious morning ❤

  • @WoohooSah
    @WoohooSah 14 дней назад +1

    So beautiful the way you two just fell in (dad and kiddo) love at first sight. Second sight, because I'm sure you felt that way on the day he was born. But those smiles, and the light in your eyes were everything. Congratulations on your reunion!

  • @blusky366
    @blusky366 3 месяца назад +37

    Oh my, I wasn’t watching the screen & I thought it was still the father speaking until he mentioned messaging his dad. They sound so alike! ❤ this was so uplifting & gave me hope that bad situations that seem hopeless can turn into good endings. 🙌🏻🙏🏻

  • @ankiking
    @ankiking 3 месяца назад +50

    Even though I feel it is your job as a parent to keep in touch, I am so glad Blaze reached out and made the connection. Best of luck!

  • @ariqis
    @ariqis 3 месяца назад +91

    iv never seen a dad care that much about his son thats so sweet im ur sons age

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +5

      💜💜😊😊

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +8

      💛

    • @Vickangelll
      @Vickangelll Месяц назад +2

      Thats sad

    • @iolip5780
      @iolip5780 18 дней назад +1

      If he care that much , he would be in his life. BS

    • @Scamander1417
      @Scamander1417 18 дней назад

      ​@@iolip5780You clearly didn't watch the video. So much bitterness?

  • @Katie-k2l9n
    @Katie-k2l9n 2 месяца назад +6

    It just so happens that THIS is my very first video of yours that I have seen. I seen it come up in my feed, and I clicked on it because I love a good story about loved ones reuniting. I
    I had no clue what your channel is about but I see you are a photographer. Growing up, my Dad loved photography and I gained interest myself. I have not picked up my camera for a few years, but you just gained a new subscriber. I would love to see more videos of you and hopefully your son and MAYBE get encouraged and inspired to pick up my camera again. ❤

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 2 месяца назад

      💜💜 that’s awesome, I hope you do pick up your camera too!

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  2 месяца назад

      Wow! That's so cool, thanks for being here and I hope you do pick up another camera 💛

  • @elenawilliams32
    @elenawilliams32 3 месяца назад +57

    What a great lad, he's obviously been raised very well. What a great start to being in each others lives.

  • @asiyah-nour
    @asiyah-nour 3 месяца назад +79

    I was adopted, my adoptive parents gave me hell so I never really felt like I had a real family. I found my mum after 13 years. Some hiccups as she is still learning how to be a mother and I’m still learning how to have a mother. But it was the best thing I did finding her. Cried this entire video. So proud of you both. God never puts two souls together for no reason. The birthday was not a coincidence. Praise be to God. May he continue to guide you both Ameen. 💕💕💕🥺🥺

  • @brianneml2979
    @brianneml2979 3 месяца назад +59

    Honestly if you didn’t get emotional I would have worried about you. This was beautiful. Wishing you both a beautiful journey ahead.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +7

      @@brianneml2979 thank you so much for watching and sending us your wishes 💛🥹

  • @happyfeet5530
    @happyfeet5530 15 дней назад +2

    Hes so cute. My daughter met her dad at 11. It was so touching and heartwarming. She didnt know he was flying in. I let him in and walked around the corner with her little brother and she was so excited. Then boom her dad wapks around the corner! It was one of her best days ever. That was her first time meeting both of them ❤

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 15 дней назад

      💜💜💜💜🌹❤️

  • @shamelessmaya
    @shamelessmaya 3 месяца назад +94

    Being able to hear this directly from you and now seeing the reunion is an absolutely a blessing! Thank you for inviting us into your life and sharing this journey with us. We love you Brad and Blaz!!!

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +6

      So much love for you, Maya & Max!

  • @abbys104
    @abbys104 3 месяца назад +88

    This is what we need more of. Pure, wholehearted, natural, positive, unscripted, real content.

  • @OlderThanTime09
    @OlderThanTime09 3 месяца назад +33

    It seems to me that you had a great way of thinking about your son and your situation with him as a young parent. I am glad he saw that love and care in your message to him and your choices and did not hold any negative feelings. How amazing that he got to see you on YT too? He got to know you and see you in a different way than anyone could have imagined when we were kids (I am very close to your age). All your friends and other family's messages were so sweet! It must have made him feel so included in your life right away! This was so beautiful. It is NEVER too late.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @crxmdx9199
    @crxmdx9199 18 дней назад +2

    You look young enough to be his older brother, let alone his dad!! This is very heartwarming! Each day is a blessing! Take advantage of them!

  • @Katherine_02
    @Katherine_02 3 месяца назад +55

    This is so beautiful and I'm absolutely thrilled for you both! My father and I were separated when I was 3 months old. We didn't reconnect until I was 28. He passed when I was 39. I'll forever be thankful for the time we had together! This makes me so happy! ♥️🙏🏻

  • @kinley.-.
    @kinley.-. 3 месяца назад +48

    I have no clue who either of these people are, this video just randomly came up in my RUclips feed. I’m so glad it did though because it’s such a heartwarming story, it was so sweet seeing all of Brad/the dad’s friends saying hello to Blaze. I had to hold back tears, it’s so beautiful to see the connections humans can have with each other… i hope to make many friends like that 🥺

  • @belle132
    @belle132 3 месяца назад +35

    Seeing the video montage of people who love Blaze that he didn't know about... It really got me. Haha. Cheers to the Dads out there that actually want to have relationships with their kids. Wishing you both all the best, Brad and Blaze!

  • @Lylo-mj8ek
    @Lylo-mj8ek 3 месяца назад +45

    Outstanding! The Lad is as gorgeous and energetic as his Father. Peace and Love be with you both in your new journey together. ❤❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +4

      Thank you so much! 🥹🙏🏽

  • @truebluedreams
    @truebluedreams 3 месяца назад +75

    I hate how circumstances kept you both separated for so long. It must've been so hard to go through for both you as a father and Blaze as a kid, likely thinking he just didn't have a dad around. The world can be so cruel. But this! This was beautiful. I hope he can see how you fought for him and how you thought of him, always!

    • @kpoppy9635
      @kpoppy9635 3 месяца назад +30

      But I wonder why he and the mom didnt keep in contact?
      Although logistics such as living in another country can make it difficult to see each other, you can keep connected more than ever with technology...why wait 14 years to re-connect and why did the son need to reach out first?

    • @siqxyre8473
      @siqxyre8473 3 месяца назад

      @@kpoppy9635many mothers bar the child from contacting their dad

    • @Nabee_H
      @Nabee_H Месяц назад +4

      ​@@kpoppy9635 Either dad gave up or mom actively refused to allow son to see dad. A lot of women are spiteful after breakups and don't allow fathers to see their kids.

    • @kpoppy9635
      @kpoppy9635 Месяц назад +2

      @@Nabee_H yet he can see his kid now.
      Idk what changed from back then other than the father having the money to travel.

    • @truebluedreams
      @truebluedreams Месяц назад +2

      @kpoppy9635 well the video made it sound as though he wasn't allowed to see his child, which might have meant he was blocked on social media and whatnot as well. He might have been waiting for the day his son became old enough to seek him out on his own since dad couldn't.

  • @mooncoos
    @mooncoos 3 месяца назад +28

    Every son needs his dad. I can see your son feels whole inside. How amazing.

  • @nattylite9220
    @nattylite9220 Месяц назад +4

    You can truly tell in this situation that hobbies and interests are genetic and not based on the environment you grow up in. My dad didn’t raise me growing up but I love all the same things he does and our personalities are carbon copies of each other. I re-met my dad when I was 16 and now we are as thick as thieves, he’s my whole world and I love my dad with my whole heart. I had my own son four years ago at 19 and after a major court battle with his dad we both have custody but to watch my dad become a grandpa has been so fulfilling. Best wishes to you and your son, he clearly loves you with everything he has 🥹❤️❤️❤️

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd Месяц назад +1

      💜💜💜🌹🌹🌹🌹

    • @tookitogo
      @tookitogo 16 дней назад

      Well… they _can_ be genetic. I share _extremely_ few interests with my parents or sibling.

  • @diandiaz9026
    @diandiaz9026 3 месяца назад +27

    It’s so obvious in this video that the staff has told so many people about him throughout his life, and that so many people are loving this child, even though they be either never met him or met him when he was very little, so I’m happy that this is happening so great!

  • @weescotsguy66
    @weescotsguy66 3 месяца назад +28

    I had a similar story only I reached out to my son just as the Internet social media was getting going, my son was 14 and he is now 30, a grown married made, I was at his wedding to a beautiful wife and during his 30th surprise birthday I was invited by his wife, it was probably one of the best thing in my life after his birth so emotional.

  • @benburns5995
    @benburns5995 3 месяца назад +26

    Hi Brad, can't imagine the joy you are experiencing in reuniting with your son Blaze. After so many years apart it is awesome that Blaze reached out and found his dad.

  • @patcox8745
    @patcox8745 Месяц назад +4

    This is the hand of God. He is the one who gave you this wonderful birthday present. God bless you and your son.

  • @derekwalters4980
    @derekwalters4980 3 месяца назад +19

    You've got a good lookin' boy, I can totally see you in him. I will say this, his mom seems to have done an excellent job raising such a lovely young man, so good job to mom and the family that raised him. Now it is a new day, the boy needs to have his dad in his life, and I believe his dad needs him in his life as well.

  • @tophertours
    @tophertours 3 месяца назад +37

    Brad, this is so brave of you to share the world your story. I'm literally speechless. It tears me up, but it's heart warming and full of love. I'm also very glad Blaze took the courage to send you a message, and coincidentally on your birthday. Your hearts know you both are ready and destined to reconnect and build a beautiful family. To Blaze, your dad is such an amazing, warm and friendly person I've met even just twice in the streets of Barcelona while he was doing photography. So proud of you guys!

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +3

      Thank you so much for the kind words and support, it means a lot! 💛🙏🏽🥹

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 2 месяца назад

      @@tophertours 💜💜💜❤️

  • @Vonnie24
    @Vonnie24 3 месяца назад +34

    From the bottom of my heart, congrats on your baby boy. Everything else doesn't matter. Prayers of closeness to you both. Second chances are a blessing

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +1

      ❤❤❤ thank you for your beautiful message, yep, nothing else matters.❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +3

      Thank you!! 🙏🏽💛

  • @aintapurseitsasatchel
    @aintapurseitsasatchel 3 месяца назад +5

    this is so real my parents weren't anything serious when I was born, and 3 yrs later they split up so all my life they have been separate. However my dad has no custody over me and due to past behaviours (which due to therapy are no longer the case) i have strict regulations about him so its hard but he still tries. its so beautiful to see parents show care for their children despite custody regulations ! im going to send this to him ! as a 14 yr old myself ik how important parents are so bless you two 🙏🏼

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад

      ❤❤❤ hang on to the relationship you have with him now, it’s encouraging he still tries, and as you get older you get to make your own choices, it gets easier to maintain contact ❤❤❤❤ take care.

  • @zavariahwilliams9838
    @zavariahwilliams9838 3 месяца назад +26

    I LOVE TO WATCH VIDEOS LIKE THIS, I AM AT THE 15-MINUTE MARK WHERE YOUR FRIENDS ARE TALKING TO BLAZE, AND I AM TRYING TO KEEP THESE TEARS FROM ESCAPING MY EYES, THIS IS SO BEAUTIFUL. MY MEETING WITH MY BIO PARENTS WAS NOTHING LIKE THIS, BUT GOD, AND SO I MEAN IT FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART I AM SO HAPPY THAT YOU AND YOUR SON HAVE THIS BEAUTIFUL EXPERIENCE AND FUTURE JOURNEY. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much!!!🫶🏾

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +1

      ❤❤❤❤

  • @pamelamoyana1493
    @pamelamoyana1493 3 месяца назад +182

    It’s great to see Blaze finally reunited with his father but I’m just curious as to why Brad waited for Blaze to reach out to him instead of going back to Australia and getting custody for his son when he himself was an adult. That’s the part that gives me pause. I can’t imagine just going through life knowing I have a child and not doing anything and everything in my power to get back to them.

    • @NsTheName
      @NsTheName 3 месяца назад +115

      The courts never favor the fathers. It’s a very flawed system. I’m sure he felt beaten down. You’ll never know what you’d do until you’re in it. I used to say, “if I ever got breast cancer, I’d just get a mastectomy because I don’t like them anyway”…and then I really did get breast cancer and suddenly I would have rather died than cut them off. Never assume you know what you’d do. It’s just so different when you’re in it ❤

    • @TycerKirk
      @TycerKirk 3 месяца назад +18

      Yeah, kinda hard to get custody back

    • @msadm1225
      @msadm1225 3 месяца назад +64

      Did you watch the video? It says that he felt overwhelmed, beaten down, and disillusioned after fighting for his son for a year. It's not like that went away the second he became an adult

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +1

      @@msadm1225💜💜💜💜

    • @Patates2024
      @Patates2024 3 месяца назад +4

      @@msadm1225that doesn’t make sense.

  • @Ginger51
    @Ginger51 3 месяца назад +22

    I lost contact with my son seven years ago. Mostly through bad choices I made, that I deeply regret. At the time, I thought I was doing what was best for him. His 22nd birthday is tomorrow. I have reached out to him several times but he has not wanted to speak to me.
    This video gives me hope. Congratulations on finding each other, enjoy your time together. ❤

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +3

      I hope for you that he does connect with you. ❤❤❤

    • @pinkhope84
      @pinkhope84 3 месяца назад +1

      Do not give up, allways try to be aviable.

    • @gwendixon74
      @gwendixon74 5 часов назад

      keep trying so he knows you xx him and ready to rebuild the relationship

  • @johnlomi
    @johnlomi 29 дней назад +3

    No idea why the algorithm suggested this footage to my wall.Wanted to skip it at first,but ended up with watching the whole of this beautiful video.
    Glad for u and your son.
    Bless from Indonesia.

  • @Hi-lli
    @Hi-lli 3 месяца назад +25

    Anyone else tearing up because of how sweet this is I am so happy for you!❤

  • @saphire2214
    @saphire2214 3 месяца назад +46

    Not sure why the algorithm chose to push this video to me but I loved it! Happy for you both and congratulations from Montreal Canada!❤

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +4

      Thank you so much for the wishes and support! 💛

  • @dianemarieevans9145
    @dianemarieevans9145 3 месяца назад +22

    I think you are one of the Luckiest Guys out there. Your Son looks amazing and he truly was so happy to see you. I wish you nothing but the best in your future enendeavors. Love one another to the fullest extent you can. Loved & enjoyed your story.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +3

      @@dianemarieevans9145 I definitely feel lucky & extremely grateful 🥹
      Thank you so much for the kind words 🙏🏽

  • @FactFrenzyy2024
    @FactFrenzyy2024 26 дней назад +2

    The happyness in this kid face is the reason you should never let him go away again, this 14 years was lost but the don't let the future be.
    Your son is a amazing kid and loves you the a lot we all can tell.

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 26 дней назад +1

      🌹🌹💜💜😊

  • @catherineloftus1376
    @catherineloftus1376 3 месяца назад +12

    Father and Son reunited, amazing, wonderful life changing experience for both of you. Well done for his Mamma bring a polite mature and grounded young Man. 👏

  • @tigerlord600
    @tigerlord600 3 месяца назад +23

    im 18 in 5 days now, and ive been watching RUclips a few hours a day since I was 8, and this was definitely one of the best videos I've watched. This is beautiful, this video was a pure sense of euphoria, and I will keep this saved for when I want to look back to such an amazing story. Thank you Brad. Proud of you Blaze

    • @DJDJ-qt7jd
      @DJDJ-qt7jd 3 месяца назад +4

      ❤❤❤❤ have a wonderful 18th birthday. Thank you for the beautiful message.

    • @whosyourbrad
      @whosyourbrad  3 месяца назад +3

      Thank you so much 🥹