If one child requires a staff of 15 full-time people, that just tells me that the average stay-at-home-mom is massively overworked and under-appreciated. And if she also home-schools? She's like Wonder Woman.
These are overkill rich people with god digging wives. If you were just regular person would you rather be a stay at home mum or a concrete drilling mine worker dad?
I worked on private yachts for 20 years for very wealthy people. The man at the end of the video who bought a house for his nanny is so kind. Few would do that or appreciate the importance of their nanny
I've heard of the children growing up and taking care of their nannies, buying them condos or taking car of their rent and needs. Not the parents, but the kids do it. It says a lot. I couldn't delegate the care of my children to anyone. I am the Mama.
I was a nanny for an older millionaire. The boys really cried when their dad fired me for standing up to how abusive he was. They were only 7 and 4, I still worry about them because they were so scared to be alone with him. 😭 Some people really see their kids as a showboat
@@KwazyKupkakes I did! They said they’ve been reported a multitude of times and they do the right things, the end up doing drugs and arguing again. That’s why I cried, I promised the little boy I would help him and the social worker was kind of like “ha we’ve heard of them” :((
I would've remained silent, reported him, but stayed in the home to continue looking out for them. That's just me, not at all implying you did anything other than the right thing.
I met a man (in his twenties)with similar childhood and he told me if his parents were to die he didn’t think it would affect him that much because he was raised by someone else’s parents and he never felt much of a bond to his own, so sad.
A friend of mine was a nanny for super rich people in San Francisco, she took care of the girl from when she was a toddler for quite a few years, years later after not working for the family she got a phone call that the girl when asked what special gift wanted for her birthday she requested to spend the day with my friend, (her old nanny) she knew who gave her the love that should have been coming from her mother but she was to busy with social life to give the time and attention to her own child
Absolutely!!! 100% Unfortunately this video shows a side of the not so typical female, she lacks compassion and desire for raising her own little humans. She wishes to raise them in wrong think and perceptions.
I feel so sad for that philipino nanny. If these people are so rich, why on earth would they not give her a paid week off, and pay for her to fly home and see her own children a few times a year? At minimum? Do they not care about the mental health of the person raising their children?? Let her take your kids with her for the week, if you can't be bothered looking after them. It would be a great cultural experience for them. What happens, when the children she raised are grown? Is she just thrown away? To me, this is abuse, to the nanny, your children, and her children. What a horrible example you are setting for your children.
They should have thought about her and her children. I’m sure they could have worked it out for her to have her children near her. Hearing what she sacrificed made me so sad for her
@Lucinda Sullivan If anything, you should feel sorry for the nannys children. She abandoned her own children to go take care of a strangers kids..smh.. Why have kids if you can't take care of them and that goes for the nanny as well. She is no different then the other woman who pays for the child service. If anything the nanny is worse because she left her children, the other woman lives in the same house as hers.
@@marypeters4576 You are way off base. This is 2 completely different situations! It is not uncommon in certain countries for the mother to work overseas as a domestic helper or nanny then send money back to her children. There are not a lot of employment opportunities in some countries and this is sometimes the only option to provide for your family. Pls educate yourself before you make rude remarks about a mother abandoning her children when that is NOT the case!
I knew a lady who grew up in a wealthy family in the 1920s and 1930s. She rarely saw her parents as they were constantly vacationing abroad for months on end. She and her siblings were left with the household servants who raised them. As she entered her teens she started receiving unwanted sexual attention from one of the staff and felt unsafe in her own home. She got married in her teens to get away from the sexual harassment.
I'm single but I daydream about being so rich both me and my husband spend a lot of time with our kids because we can work a lot less time for a lot more money. And I homeschool my kids. And so that they socialize well, so that we both have healthy time apart from each other and their development I sign them up for clubs and lessons. I imagine every day they have one appointment like that - one is some type of dancing they enjoy, one is some instrument they enjoy, one is some academic subject they're really into and I get them a really good teacher, varied things like that from different brain development healthy domains and they pick exactly what within that domain they want.
So true. Better for children also. We could do better with organizing our social values to be congruent with our social priorities. There’s a lot to be said for arranging a guaranteed minimum income.
@@karenneill9109true! Funny how it goes to their heads, these moms truly think they are all that?! Yes! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but srsly? 😢 They’re not GRACE KELLY beauty, Sorry Not! Just being real! ;)
I thought this was gonna make me depressed that I don’t have help, but I feel like an absolute superwoman woman after watching this💪 ❤here’s to all the moms with no damn help!
I’m so glad between me, my husband and my mothers help every now and then would help us when our kids were little. I wouldn’t have wanted it any other way. A kid raised by Nannie’s will not have the bond that a child would have being raised by two loving parents. I’d rather be poor and with my kids over rich and pushing them off to be raised by strangers. It’s not only more than likely sad for the kids but also the care givers as well. You bond with the children and at any moment these spoiled people can decide they jealous, etc and boom your are gone, never to see the kids you love so much.
My friend’s daughter lived in Hong Kong, her husband was an American CEO, and they had a housekeeper/nanny who also never saw her own family except for very rarely. When I said how sad that was, she said “Oh, they’re used to it. It’s so common.” Of course, I had the same thought. “You folks are super rich, I just don’t understand how you’d allow that when you have the power to change it.” It just seemed so damned cruel.
It is nothing else than social faschism. People think their freedom, their life and their feelings are higher and more valuable, than the freedom, feelings and life of others.
I've heard stories of when such children grow up and their parents pass away, they look completely bored during the funeral and keep looking at their watches. However, when the nanny dies, that's when they are overwhelmed with grief.
It's modern day SLAVERY but the rich turn the term so that they are legal and dont get chestize but who dares to call them out the politicians are bought off as well as news people!!!!
The incident with the gate could have been a great opportunity for the entire family to come together and clean up as a team after having apologized for the inconvenience they unknowingly caused the man. But instead of teaching the kids about the importance of taking responsibility, the parent let the Asian nanny do the dirty work completely alone. The same nanny who is so worthless to the family that they don't allow her holidays to see her kids. What great values to teach young ones ...
Yet they went on and on about hos important she was to them and then the other staff quite obviously think she is beneath them. The only real people in that entire mix are the nanny and the driver.
My kids are grown ups now. My eldest came back home last year after a broken heart. I’ve loved every second of taking care of him for the past 9 months. Now he’s met a girl, fallen in love and I couldn’t be happier for him. His girlfriend is so sweet and I can tell she will take good care of my son just as I raised him to be the loving caring man he is today. My other son has autism and I take care of him like no one on this earth could. If I had an option to have a nanny, I just wouldn’t.
I disagree. Those kids seemed pretty polite, they were just a little ignorant. I wouldn't call what they were doing 'making fun of', either. They were just noticing a difference between his accent and theirs, something ALL kids do at some point.
It‘s not the kids’ fault, but saying his accent is different from ,English’ is quite problematic. The kids were probably doing it innocently, but this is exactly the moment when a parent should step in and tell them that you shouldn’t say such things.
I don’t understand that Heidi woman. Why didn’t she tell the nanny about the children’s diet requirements? She set the poor nanny up for failure. What a mean person.
It was obvious in the interview part what the requirements are when it comes to food. She told the nanny to get apple juice. If the nanny didn't see apple juice then she should have gotten water or went back to Heidi and told her what the options are.
I think she said vegan but even being vegan only mean no dairy products, so will use soya milk, etc but that does not mean no sugar, soft drinks, sweets, etc it's not like you will give your children this things every day, let them enjoy their childhood this will not comeback.
What’s more annoying is that she’s sitting there judging the nanny’s portion sizes and drink choices for the kids. If you have a problem, just do it yourself.
My father was raised with wealth, and had nannies and servants. He left England and immigrated to Canada, and didn't go back for either of his parents funeral. He would tell stories of how his mom would introduce him to her bridge club, then call for the nanny to come and take Peter away. He wasn't allowed to cuddle or touch her..... a very cold upbringing.
How awful for your poor father! I hope he has enjoyed you (and your siblings if you have any) and your childhood as the caring and present parent. He deserved to be loved as a child.❤
The English upper class all seem to raise their kids this way. It's a very foreign idea to Americans. I wonder if it's all of upper-class Europe does it like that or just England?
I think the hairstylist hit it on the nose. Raising a child good and bad is precious time. I'm not willing to share so much of that time being a parent and raising my child with a nanny.
Agreed.. They are missing out on so much. I think that's why Princess Diana and Mrs Kennedy were so admired as they clearly loved spending lots of time with their children. The love between them was obvious.
The thing is that all of their friends are exactly the same and they haven't done it any other way. It's all they know. Plus. I think a lot of these women marry for money and it's their "duty" to give the father children. Many just don't seem to have a motherly instinct. So, for them, their children are just something else they can brag about -- like little Jimmy has 8 tutors and got into Oxford. The vegan mom seemed very different from the others. I wonder if they knew the title of the video before agreeing to it... They probably don't see anything wrong with it, either.
My children are 32,33,34 years old. I worked, but my favorite times were being with my children and husband. We are empty nesters and enjoyed our time together and visit the children and grandchildren. My wealth is my family and memories.
My only child died when she was sixteen in a car accident. I was a stay-at-home mother for her young life, taking her to school, helping with homework, and kissing her boo boos. What if someone else had reared my child so I could get my picture taken all the time? Also, the Philippine nanny deserves better. They could have flown her home a couple of times a year, at least.
Immigration laws do not normally allow a break when on a work visa. Leaving perioticalky to go home could frequently result in loss of a visa to return.
I honor all mothers. My mother was a stay at home mom; she had five of us. We harried her, we wore her down and we wore her out we aged her and we probably made her hate us. I saw what we did to our mother. She made cookies for us, home made soup, brought us to the dentist once a year and was always there when we came home from school where there was always a home made treat. Always. Because I remember how children are, I decided when I was a child that I would never be like my mother and would never have children. I am almost 70, live alone, never married and never had children. I do not regret this; I know no other way. This is why I honor all mothers. Not everyone has the power and determination to do what they do. Oh, and we also make them cry.
@@corners23251similar situation with my mom, she does everything around the house and she works part time too, I don't know if it's something I can handle, I'm still in my late teens but not knowing what I want to do with my life stresses me out
I parented my son for nearly 19 years now...but everyday still yearn for the days when he was still a small boy doing his cute antics and giving me affectionate hugs. Childhood is wayy too short...cherish every moment..you are missing a lot by not caring for your own little ones. I look forward to grandmotherhood one day.
I have a 19 year old and I share the same opinion. One day they just aren’t that silly, openly affectionate little child anymore and your heart aches for that little human! Though we feel so proud of who they have become and all of the accomplishments along the way, we’ll never forget who they were and they will always be our “baby”. I’d regret it SO much if someone else spent most of those days with my child! You can’t go back.
@@LaurenWoz421 Take comfort. That child is still there, but they have discovered a wider world. Someday they will find someone to share that part of themselves again.
@@LaurenWoz421 I’m so glad you shared that! My only daughter is now 23 and thanks to online shipping, I found frames for the drawings she made for each family member - and that was 7 drawings! She did not know I kept those drawings and when she found me with her drawings, a great big smile spread across her face! Seeing her smile so wide was just heaven to me! I had so much fun raising her and her 4 brothers!,
I am convinced that virtually anyone can run out of money. I've seen a lot of power ball winners that go bankrupt very quickly from doing what these people are doing...spending money stupidly. There are so many better ways to invest in your children's futures.
So sad... The little girls mocking their drivers with no respect, the poor teenager playing the violin with no passion, the Asian nanny who can't even see her kids more than every other year just so that the other lady could pop out 5 kids and never care for them. Children need love from their parents more than anything
@@MrBettylachulaif my kids behave like this they will get punishment. So no this isn’t just kids they are spoiled rotten. Have no respect for human beings.
@@MrBettylachulaSome kids realized from their mistakes tho,and never acted like that again anymore after they felt remorse...And not all kids behave like that
I also find it okay. But the driver is a part of the family he has responsibility to teach the kids on how to respect him as well. As kids in this age are just being kids.
My greatest accomplishment in my life was raising three amazing children who are now wonderful, responsible, & loving adults. Two who are parents themselves, now. The bond that I still have with my kids is so very precious. It wasn’t always easy, but it has always been rewarding. These “Moms” 🙄 are truly missing out. Such a shame.
I get nouveau riche vibes from them. Those that have real wealth and assets are going to be more private and less likely to divulge details of their daily lives. Plus, they tend to be more modest and are more careful of their expenses. These people do not come from true wealth and prestige.
@@cityhawk Nope. The richest people in the world overall are new money or new-ish money (not technically new money in many cases), or have much the same culture in any case. Though there are a small number of exceptionally wealthy families who are old money and are very quiet, that's an exception.
I was raised by maids. Some were good many were really bad…both physically and sexually abusive. And there were ones that I really bonded to and felt like they were my mum, so when they quit it felt like I was getting abandoned. Your parents don’t know anything about you and only use you to show off. I never experienced a parent/maid reading me a book before bed time or tucking me into bed or brushing my hair, waking me up for school or making me breakfast. It was very lonely, and I always felt like they shouldn’t have had my siblings and I.
I’m so very sorry for your neglect and abuse. I pray you have a good loving person in your life today and know that you are special and worthy of love but those people in and out of your life were horrible broken people and you did nothing wrong.
I’m so sorry, that sounds so sad. You and your sibs deserved to be cherished. Luckily you get two shots to have a happy parent/child relationship: one as the kid and one as the parent. Hopefully you will parent as you would’ve wanted to be parented.
Kids are basically an accessory to them. How are you OK with someone else potty training and changing your baby. That man was so proud that he never change any of his four kids diapers. SMH.
How odd that you all think of changing a diaper as some sort of measure of love. It's ridiculous! He can love his children immensely and spend endless time with them doing fun or educational things without ever changing a diaper or preparing a meal or giving a bath. 🙄
That's not parenting. That's visiting. Parenting involves getting your hands dirty and demonstrating love through serving those you love, earning their trust and comfort with you.
one mother says, "someone else can do the school run getting the kids, why not??" sad they don't know the experience of seeing the smile and happiness on your child's face when they see you at picking them up...these are special moments, like so so many mothers that have staff raise their kids do not experience. PITY
That’s very true, I work as a kindie teacher and those genuine smiles from kids when they see there parents? Absolutely phenomenal, so much love and happiness
They have it backwards. If you are rich, you pay tons of money to someone to take care of the nonsense of your life so you can spend more time with your kids. These people are just paying to avoid emotional attachment.
what Russian? True Russians are forced to pay for Putin's wars or immigrate and work some crappy paying IT jobs. Those mafia criminals with stolen money are Gews.
Unfortunately it's no different to Charlie's dicken days only instead of poor houses its called benifits ,or living on the bread line ,and it's in colour ,yet people still close there eyes to it
That punch in the face. And the smile on the girls face.😮 Already a bully, someone needs to tell her younger brother will be strong one day. I see problems when they get older. Great parenting! 👍
You can’t teach your kids they can have everything and anything they want! Some things can’t be bought! I had a friend who had money and basically taught her daughter she could always have her way. When the daughter was 16 her boyfriend broke up with her and she couldn’t take the disappointment and took her own life. She had just never been told no! She couldn’t fathom that she couldn’t have her way!
I grew up in the 1%. Then my Dad left, and blew all his own and his father’s money. I cannot tell you how grateful I was that my Mother ALWAYS taught me the value of a dollar. She also taught me that life is about SO much more than money. Love, health, family, children, ALL are more valuable than money. I’m also very fortunate that I knew from age 16 that I was going to have to make my own money, and I did have money my grandfather had set aside for my education.
Actually, you say as if you really for sure know the reason why this üoor child took her life but you weren't her, you can't possible know if that was the true reason. That could have been much deeper then just hearing "no". I say it from experience. Someone brokeup qithme and it shattered me to the core and for years I had to battel myself to get out of it. I wasn't spoiled...but I was maybe not loved enough by my father or at least he didn't show it well. Easy to say she was spoiled but I bet she maybe wasn't spoiled enough with attention of her busy parents
So sad to hear Katya died at only 17 years old due to drug consumption :( her parents were convinced she was happy but you can see from her facial expressions in this she truly was not. To have your life laid out for you and not to be able to make choices of your own is incredibly restricting and eventually the seams come apart. I feel horrible for her father and mother though, because they were so so blind to it even though others in this comment section could see it like I can in this video. 😢❤RIP dear girl
I've felt this way for a very long time. It's like what the hairstylist was saying, having that time to spend with your child is precious and valuable. A parent should be a parent. If you don’t have the time and energy to take care of children, you shouldn't have any. Establishing a bond and connection very early on in their lives is very important.
Then the nannies need not have children. Just because someone employs a nanny who happens to be a mother, does not make it the wealthy person's problem.
This adds a whole new meaning to the term "Deadbeat Parents". Imagine all of the amazing special moments that these "parents" will never experience. I worked with homeless youths, many from rich families like these and one thing I learned is that kids spell love, "T I M E" and these parents don't spend enough time with their children.
These people remind me of one of my favorite quotes. “Live simply so others can simply live”. If someone needs that much help to raise THEIR kids… then they should have considered if kids were a good idea for them.
I’m a stay at home mum of my nearly 2 year old daughter and though it’s exhausting, it is the best thing in the world. I love spending this time with her especially knowing it will go by so fast. For me personally, there is nothing more fulfilling than spending time with my child. It is such a blessing to be a parent and I feel lucky that we can afford for me to stay home with her.
I’m with the stylist in the salon. Our babies are precious and they use them for photo ops it seems while hiring others to actually raise and love their children. It’s sad
Don't worry people, these kids aren't suffering anywhere near the kind of hardships millions of others are suffering. There are a whole lot of middle class and poor children that have absent parents and no one else is looking after them. Pour your hearts out to the children that have to see their parents doped up and/or drunk. The ones that are in and out of the completely broken foster care system. At least these kids are being raised by nannies that love them as their own and they don't go without food, shelter and warmth.
@@B_Bodziak sure, if it was true sympathy, rather than being envious of the parents wealth and just wanting to judge them for the sake of feeling superior to someone.
The mother that is vegan and does not allow sweets for her kids is going to have a rude awakening when her kids get to a party. They are the ones that will stuff their faces at other peoples homes or have some kind of eating disorder.
It’s going to affect their physical and mental development as well. Unless it’s an allergy, you should just have a good maybe 80:20 diet, and then at 18 or when old enough they can decide what diet to live life - it affects so many other things, relationships, social gatherings, potential bullying, travel, the list goes on.
It's very sad and unfortunately that nanny chose to leave her family in order to raise someone else's family. If her employer is so filthy rich then she should pay to move her nanny's children in.
Facts! And there’s a clip of the one girl smirking at the camera when the mum tells the nanny she shouldn’t have given them fanta. The lil’ girl knows 😂
also, weather this is true or not, a lot of the parents read as having a ton of childhood trauma or personality disorders. very intense video to say the least. capitalism as a power structure just is unideal in so very many ways
I went to a girls private school and the most messed up girls were also from the wealthiest backgrounds. One girl's parents bought her her own property when she was 15... Because they wanted her out of the house. Unsurprisingly she developed a really toxic relationship with the outside world and was the nastiest bully I've ever come across.
Sometimes I really do wonder what is worse, having a loving family who struggles to feed you and keep a roof over your head or having every single of your wish catered but not have an ounce of love
The latter is worse. I know people who have grown up in both circumstances. Hands down, as long as they’re able to feed and house you, love is more important. Financial circumstances change, knowing how to love and be loved will never leave you.
Love and care is the most important. Children need to feel safe and loved by their parents. Money and possessions are things we teach our kids. They don't understand the concept until we make them aware of it.
These parents aren't involved in their children's lives hardly at all. How sad. As a mother myself, I just don't understand how any parent would be okay with missing out on so many precious moments with their kids. Having a nanny for additional help (especially if someone is a single parent) is one thing. Having an entire team of people raising the child you created is another. Shame on these parents. Seriously.....shame on them.
And then these rich parents wonder in their old age that what did we do wrong that our kid are not with us on our last moment. You gave them all material worldly stuff with no quality time, love and care.
I'm a single mom and I refuse to hire a nanny, no matter how exhausted I will be.. 1st of, nanny is expensive and 2nd, just simply, I want to raise my son myself thank you 😂
Ι believe you would appreciate your wife more if you brought in help once a week to do the ironing or cleaning for a couple of hours. Doesn't she deserve it?
Ignored the children fighting but ran to break up the dogs. I think the stylist said it best! I always have and always will choose family time over luxury. Balance always
When I was young, I worked as a nurse's aide on a physical rehab ward, I met a patient who'd never combed her own hair and didn't know how to do so. Can you imagine how helpless they would be if they ever lost their fortunes?
My mom raised a rich woman’s kids. Then she kicked my mother to the curve when her own children only wanted my mom and not their own mother. But to each its own.
I absolutely loved raising my babies myself. They grew so darn fast. No way I'd want anyone else taking care of my precious children!! Someday i hope to be a large part of my grandchildrens lives, if possible.
I grew up with Nannie’s. One of them I am still closer to than my own mother. She is the one who taught me what it meant to really love and raise a child ❤. I have ASD and did not / could not follow my parents’ plan for me. I now live a very happy middle class life in the country.
I suppose if all you know, is handing your child to a nanny from birth, then you wouldn't feel any loss. Having raised mine, I cannot fathom this. I would be so sad if I missed out on all of it. Mine are adults now. 18, 22, 24. Every memory, every joy, rushing to drive them to three different school buildings etc.. every booboo, every single thing...even the potty training. Such wonderful memories. Such a huge void would fill my heart, without those memories.
I feel like there is such a big difference between wanting to have time for yourself and simply not wanting to take care of the children you chose to have, but hey everyone has their own opinion
I used to work as an estate manager. It's atrocious that one woman through the new nanny into the soup without sitting down with her first to talk about her expectations. (sugar considerations, what she likes served at meals, etc.)
"When I unveiled it there was a bit of a deathly silence" yeah, because it's a bad painting. It's dead, it doesn't have anything to say. Pretty brushstrokes don't make good art.
I feel sad for the 2 Filipino nannies shown on this documentary.. it's a lot harder to take when you see one of your people (I'm also a Filipino) getting embarrassed in front of other people (can't stand the scene where the nanny had to pick the poops and dirt up). I must say, of all the people shown on this documentary, the realest human beings are the nannies. Hats off to all the Overseas Filipino Workers who sacrificed a lot for their families and for contributing A LOT to the world's economy!
Well, I would love to be a nanny. I raised my two children, and it would be like having grandchildren to me. I think it would make my life more fulfilling in a day
I didn't have to really potty train my son. He went to day care and discovered the older kids using the potty and decided he wanted to a well. I showed him how and that was pretty much it. 🤷♀️
Not people I would ever choose to have as a friend. They are all entitled and narcissistic, making them such dangerous people when they don't get their own way.
That mother trying to control her ‘love’s’ distractions? 😅 Sadly, if a husband or partner wants to, or sees the opportunity to CHEAT, will! Whether their maid or nanny is pretty, or not, it happens!
it´s the "marry for money" mentality speaking. i gurantee you- she would NOT have married her husband had he been middle class. so of course in her head, other women would do the same, and with the nanny spending so much time in the home around said husband and if she´s pretty - welp her husband already married for looks once, why would he not go for a potential younger model next time?
My father in law was raised in extreme wealth, had Nannie’s but his mother died young. This mom loves herself more than her kids. Do love the school uniforms
I wouldn't be sure about that. The children will be off having their own lives. The parents have the money and can hire someone else to take care of that.
The truth is the Best Life is an ordinary, simple, safe, stable, comfortable, wholesome life where the greatest possessions are mindfulness, love, family and friendships. Nothing too materially excessive, and anything that is material all honorably earned. Feels good with a sense of gratitude for everything and everyone in life.
I have friends grew up with nannies because their parents were too busy with work. Though they liked their nannies, they loved their parents more, call it blood or something. And they had happy memories with their parents too. I asked one of them about feeling closer to the nanny than to their parents cause their parents werent available. He told me no, a nanny is just hired help, who does it for the money mainly. While the ones who I can count on and love us unconditionally is our parents. 😮
You’re generalizing all nanny situations. Your friend thinks this way as he had a nanny but was raised by his parents. Plenty of normal, good parents have nannies. This video is the extreme situation. Most ppl have help during the work week & the nanny leaves by dinner time, &!rarely works on the weekends. Most ppl w Nannie’s don’t have them multiple Nannie’s available 24/7.
I hate how NOBODY cares to ask the child what HE wanted during the super tutor segment… clearly he isn’t interested in anything his mom wishes him to be 😩💀
Terrible. Never ever would I allow another woman or human consume my children's most precious tears. These mom lack soul and that deep hearted bond a mom should have. Sick
A couple of decades ago. I befriended a woman in graduate school. She was involved with a woman from England who was a nanny to an Upper East Side wealthy family. Mom didn’t work. But she had a Monday through Friday nanny and a weekend nanny. She often reported how soil the children would be on Monday mornings. The nanny said the parents had little or no interest in the children. They were just status symbols.
How to raise dysfunctional people, perfect recipe. Emotionally depriving their offspring from themselves. Gotta be very selfish and shallow, in my opinion. Because nothing is of more value than one's own precious. children.
It's not uncommon.. I work with Filipinos in the rehab Department of Nursing homes for 20 years.. and they typically go home about once a year, usually not more than that. But they stay for an entire month.
My aunt was living like this the only difference was , they lived in Africa which was way cheaper to pay for all these services, than they moved overseas, and her husband couldn’t afford to pay the lifestyle she had back home .it messed her up her mind badly. She is convince her self that she was a good mum but deep down she knows she will end lonely as her kids definitely won’t be there
This makes me think of my best friend. Her and her brother were sent to boarding school in different countries. The relationship with their parents is very very disconnected now that they're grown.
@@Sweet_Southern_Pecan yup, not just that individuals but the others that enter into this disturbed individual’s life would also have to share trauma in some way.
I didn’t take it in a nefarious way. At that age they are coming to grips with the concept of death and it seemed she was expressing her not wanting to ever be parted from her nanny which is a love, and a depth of attachment her mother would know nothing about sadly.
It comes off as more of you can't leave us until you die. Like the nanny said that she would leave after they grow up and they didn't want her to. They weren't being mean
@@grapevinez6026 yea, that's what I meant. It's heartbreaking because those words will probably never be said to the mother. It's so passionate saying when you die, you'll be able to leave me. How will she end up when she gets too old to have the love of her nanny.
@@katepausig8562 totally, I didn't think she was being mean. I meant like it's sad to think of how they will take it when she does end up leaving. How it's going to affect them mentally. She's getting more love from a temporary person than her own mother and that is so sad to me. How will her relationships with others be when she grows up.
If one child requires a staff of 15 full-time people, that just tells me that the average stay-at-home-mom is massively overworked and under-appreciated.
And if she also home-schools? She's like Wonder Woman.
Same with the stay at home dad
But they aren't Super-Rich, Millionaire-class chicks! This world is kinda really messed up. How about a poor mom in rural South America???? YIKES!
@@Beth-ie My family is poor. We can't even afford to eat sometimes because of bills.
These are overkill rich people with god digging wives. If you were just regular person would you rather be a stay at home mum or a concrete drilling mine worker dad?
I am that homeschooling mom of 3 and wouldn't trade it for anything.
I worked on private yachts for 20 years for very wealthy people. The man at the end of the video who bought a house for his nanny is so kind. Few would do that or appreciate the importance of their nanny
I've heard of the children growing up and taking care of their nannies, buying them condos or taking car of their rent and needs. Not the parents, but the kids do it. It says a lot. I couldn't delegate the care of my children to anyone. I am the Mama.
@@jomama5186i
It's because their money and wealth is their GOD...
Right, it's a travesty.
finally someone online gets it.@@dana44ism
I was a nanny for an older millionaire. The boys really cried when their dad fired me for standing up to how abusive he was. They were only 7 and 4, I still worry about them because they were so scared to be alone with him. 😭
Some people really see their kids as a showboat
I would have reported him to child services.
@@KwazyKupkakes The filthy rich bury you and still get off free.
@@KwazyKupkakes I did! They said they’ve been reported a multitude of times and they do the right things, the end up doing drugs and arguing again. That’s why I cried, I promised the little boy I would help him and the social worker was kind of like “ha we’ve heard of them” :((
I would've remained silent, reported him, but stayed in the home to continue looking out for them. That's just me, not at all implying you did anything other than the right thing.
Take those kids away with you someday
I met a man (in his twenties)with similar childhood and he told me if his parents were to die he didn’t think it would affect him that much because he was raised by someone else’s parents and he never felt much of a bond to his own, so sad.
Heartbreaking how the world has come to this😢
That's sad and it's because they're disgustingly rich and they abuse their kids 😢
@@btsmochimi7924NOT the entire world 🌎 (just some of the elite) So do not be too sad😉
that's crazy to hear because for many of us losing our parents is the hardest thing in our lives.
@@btsmochimi7924except this is nothing new, it's exactly how the rich have always raised their children.
A friend of mine was a nanny for super rich people in San Francisco, she took care of the girl from when she was a toddler for quite a few years, years later after not working for the family she got a phone call that the girl when asked what special gift wanted for her birthday she requested to spend the day with my friend, (her old nanny) she knew who gave her the love that should have been coming from her mother but she was to busy with social life to give the time and attention to her own child
May that girl find an abundance of people who truly care for her.
*coming from her PARENTS
thats messed up.
heartbreaking
What a beautiful bond the girl shared with your friend. I hope she was able to spend the day with your friend 🥰
That driver is exactly what those kids need - a dadlike figure whose down to earth and has morals
As well as teaching them self defense, that’s such an important tool to have
If I was wealthy I would have no problem having staff for cooking cleaning etc. but no one would raise my children but me.
To me it seems thats what the money is for. To spend more time at home and doing things with the kids.
True 😢
@@evonne315 This.
Same here
Absolutely!!! 100% Unfortunately this video shows a side of the not so typical female, she lacks compassion and desire for raising her own little humans. She wishes to raise them in wrong think and perceptions.
Selfishness isn't attractive no matter how many diamonds they're dripping in.
Absolutely right!
Facts af 😢
As soon as someone selfish or vapid opens their mouth…
Children are a true mother's most precious jewelry.
Not all women have a strong mother instinct. It doesn't mean she would not stop a train for anyone's child.
My parents had 6 children. They had no help but each other. Money was tight, but looking back it made a lovely, honest childhood.
Freedom for Palestine 🇵🇸
@@sapphireemerald6882 Shut Up
Nah you were neglected and your father had no business squirting out that many kids in the first place. Your poor mom.
Bet your parents wished for more money every night of your childhood.
Classic youtube deleting my comments what a bunch of clowns 🤡
Some people are so poor, the only thing they have is money.
That’s a great way to look at it! I’m borrowing that thought!
It is a quote by Patrick Meagher @@TheSaltySiren
@@TheSaltySiren I'm borrowing that thought also. ;)
Well said.
@@bethany311997I think Bob Marley said it first
I feel so sad for that philipino nanny. If these people are so rich, why on earth would they not give her a paid week off, and pay for her to fly home and see her own children a few times a year? At minimum? Do they not care about the mental health of the person raising their children?? Let her take your kids with her for the week, if you can't be bothered looking after them. It would be a great cultural experience for them. What happens, when the children she raised are grown? Is she just thrown away? To me, this is abuse, to the nanny, your children, and her children. What a horrible example you are setting for your children.
modern slavery
They should have thought about her and her children. I’m sure they could have worked it out for her to have her children near her. Hearing what she sacrificed made me so sad for her
@Lucinda Sullivan If anything, you should feel sorry for the nannys children. She abandoned her own children to go take care of a strangers kids..smh.. Why have kids if you can't take care of them and that goes for the nanny as well. She is no different then the other woman who pays for the child service. If anything the nanny is worse because she left her children, the other woman lives in the same house as hers.
@@marypeters4576 You are way off base. This is 2 completely different situations! It is not uncommon in certain countries for the mother to work overseas as a domestic helper or nanny then send money back to her children. There are not a lot of employment opportunities in some countries and this is sometimes the only option to provide for your family. Pls educate yourself before you make rude remarks about a mother abandoning her children when that is NOT the case!
WHY NOT LET HER KIDS MOVE IN WITH HER! They can be parented by her as well-
I knew a lady who grew up in a wealthy family in the 1920s and 1930s. She rarely saw her parents as they were constantly vacationing abroad for months on end. She and her siblings were left with the household servants who raised them. As she entered her teens she started receiving unwanted sexual attention from one of the staff and felt unsafe in her own home. She got married in her teens to get away from the sexual harassment.
A lot of parents wish they were rich so they could spend more time with their kids.
This...
Agree 100 % . I am one of them.
I'm single but I daydream about being so rich both me and my husband spend a lot of time with our kids because we can work a lot less time for a lot more money. And I homeschool my kids. And so that they socialize well, so that we both have healthy time apart from each other and their development I sign them up for clubs and lessons. I imagine every day they have one appointment like that - one is some type of dancing they enjoy, one is some instrument they enjoy, one is some academic subject they're really into and I get them a really good teacher, varied things like that from different brain development healthy domains and they pick exactly what within that domain they want.
So true. Better for children also. We could do better with organizing our social values to be congruent with our social priorities.
There’s a lot to be said for arranging a guaranteed minimum income.
I want to be richer so I can have kids and homeschool them and spend time with them, not so rich to not see them and be a society person.
I know many poor parents who spend more time with their kids than these rich people do. Sick.
Of course the mom is the main focus of the portrait, the kids truly are an accessory
An Adreno accessory/supply 😢
Sadly yes… and the painter plays to her narcissism
Yes, like a solid gold pair of Gucci earrings LOL! Right?
Genuine narcissism.
@@karenneill9109true! Funny how it goes to their heads, these moms truly think they are all that?! Yes! Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but srsly? 😢 They’re not GRACE KELLY beauty, Sorry Not! Just being real! ;)
I thought this was gonna make me depressed that I don’t have help, but I feel like an absolute superwoman woman after watching this💪 ❤here’s to all the moms with no damn help!
and dads, because its both thier jobs! especially in a world where the labor force is carried 80% by women.
I’m so glad between me, my husband and my mothers help every now and then would help us when our kids were little. I wouldn’t have wanted it any other way. A kid raised by Nannie’s will not have the bond that a child would have being raised by two loving parents. I’d rather be poor and with my kids over rich and pushing them off to be raised by strangers. It’s not only more than likely sad for the kids but also the care givers as well. You bond with the children and at any moment these spoiled people can decide they jealous, etc and boom your are gone, never to see the kids you love so much.
As a single dad for two teenage girls struggling to pay rent and buy food, I wish my girls had a better life in England.
My friend’s daughter lived in Hong Kong, her husband was an American CEO, and they had a housekeeper/nanny who also never saw her own family except for very rarely. When I said how sad that was, she said “Oh, they’re used to it. It’s so common.” Of course, I had the same thought. “You folks are super rich, I just don’t understand how you’d allow that when you have the power to change it.” It just seemed so damned cruel.
It is nothing else than social faschism. People think their freedom, their life and their feelings are higher and more valuable, than the freedom, feelings and life of others.
Not thinking saying. They need to hear it from others that this is not right.
I've heard stories of when such children grow up and their parents pass away, they look completely bored during the funeral and keep looking at their watches. However, when the nanny dies, that's when they are overwhelmed with grief.
It's modern day SLAVERY but the rich turn the term so that they are legal and dont get chestize but who dares to call them out the politicians are bought off as well as news people!!!!
I see it as modern day slavery!
The incident with the gate could have been a great opportunity for the entire family to come together and clean up as a team after having apologized for the inconvenience they unknowingly caused the man. But instead of teaching the kids about the importance of taking responsibility, the parent let the Asian nanny do the dirty work completely alone. The same nanny who is so worthless to the family that they don't allow her holidays to see her kids. What great values to teach young ones ...
if they don't value their own kids - why would they value the nanny???
Yet they went on and on about hos important she was to them and then the other staff quite obviously think she is beneath them. The only real people in that entire mix are the nanny and the driver.
@@MaePhilippe-Levy Good point.
That’s the wrong nanny. The one that doesn’t get to see her kids is the nanny for the kids in that castle-like place.
@@riggs20 yeah shes shorter and her employer is the red hair lady.
This one is taller and body built is so different.
My kids are grown ups now. My eldest came back home last year after a broken heart. I’ve loved every second of taking care of him for the past 9 months. Now he’s met a girl, fallen in love and I couldn’t be happier for him. His girlfriend is so sweet and I can tell she will take good care of my son just as I raised him to be the loving caring man he is today. My other son has autism and I take care of him like no one on this earth could. If I had an option to have a nanny, I just wouldn’t.
Listen to those young girls mocking the driver's accent. That's extremely disrespectful. They'll grow up to be just like their mother, I'm afraid.
Because they are not Posh they are vulgar people with money
Idk I thought they were just being silly.
I disagree. Those kids seemed pretty polite, they were just a little ignorant.
I wouldn't call what they were doing 'making fun of', either. They were just noticing a difference between his accent and theirs, something ALL kids do at some point.
It‘s not the kids’ fault, but saying his accent is different from ,English’ is quite problematic. The kids were probably doing it innocently, but this is exactly the moment when a parent should step in and tell them that you shouldn’t say such things.
What an irony... I think their parents are not originally from England. 😂
I don’t understand that Heidi woman. Why didn’t she tell the nanny about the children’s diet requirements? She set the poor nanny up for failure. What a mean person.
That's what had me confused
And the kids loved the Fanta 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She doesn't even the kids know what a fanta is 😂
Well, she did say they eat a vegetarian diet and have no cakes or sweets. I’d have thought the alternative to apple juice was simply bottled water.
It was obvious in the interview part what the requirements are when it comes to food. She told the nanny to get apple juice. If the nanny didn't see apple juice then she should have gotten water or went back to Heidi and told her what the options are.
Vegetarian doesn't mean "no sugar" "no sweet drinks."
Communication is key! 😂😅
I think she said vegan but even being vegan only mean no dairy products, so will use soya milk, etc but that does not mean no sugar, soft drinks, sweets, etc it's not like you will give your children this things every day, let them enjoy their childhood this will not comeback.
@@Troyxxt the mom is vegan but she said her kids and husband are vegetarian
What’s more annoying is that she’s sitting there judging the nanny’s portion sizes and drink choices for the kids. If you have a problem, just do it yourself.
she's an orthorexic, so of course she's a vegan, it's an excuse for her disorder. She's also abusing her children.
Her reaction was not balanced at all. I wonder if she's passing her eating issues on to her children
My father was raised with wealth, and had nannies and servants. He left England and immigrated to Canada, and didn't go back for either of his parents funeral. He would tell stories of how his mom would introduce him to her bridge club, then call for the nanny to come and take Peter away. He wasn't allowed to cuddle or touch her..... a very cold upbringing.
How awful for your poor father! I hope he has enjoyed you (and your siblings if you have any) and your childhood as the caring and present parent. He deserved to be loved as a child.❤
That's crazy. Sounds like a scene from a movie. So sorry for your dad.
The English upper class all seem to raise their kids this way. It's a very foreign idea to Americans. I wonder if it's all of upper-class Europe does it like that or just England?
@@dustin628 It's just England.
Very sad
I think the hairstylist hit it on the nose. Raising a child good and bad is precious time. I'm not willing to share so much of that time being a parent and raising my child with a nanny.
Agreed.. They are missing out on so much. I think that's why Princess Diana and Mrs Kennedy were so admired as they clearly loved spending lots of time with their children. The love between them was obvious.
I could use the help for certain things not for raising them and teaching my values.and a mothers unique display of love and affection.
For some, money is more important than relationships. It rarely makes them happy.
The thing is that all of their friends are exactly the same and they haven't done it any other way. It's all they know. Plus. I think a lot of these women marry for money and it's their "duty" to give the father children. Many just don't seem to have a motherly instinct. So, for them, their children are just something else they can brag about -- like little Jimmy has 8 tutors and got into Oxford. The vegan mom seemed very different from the others. I wonder if they knew the title of the video before agreeing to it... They probably don't see anything wrong with it, either.
well, you probably could not afford it....even if you wanted too. Right ?
My children are 32,33,34 years old. I worked, but my favorite times were being with my children and husband. We are empty nesters and enjoyed our time together and visit the children and grandchildren. My wealth is my family and memories.
I misread and for a moment I thought your children were 320 thousand years old 😂
😂 me too lol@@gracenotme671
My only child died when she was sixteen in a car accident. I was a stay-at-home mother for her young life, taking her to school, helping with homework, and kissing her boo boos. What if someone else had reared my child so I could get my picture taken all the time? Also, the Philippine nanny deserves better. They could have flown her home a couple of times a year, at least.
I am so sorry. I cannot even fathom a loss like what you’ve experienced.
Immigration laws do not normally allow a break when on a work visa. Leaving perioticalky to go home could frequently result in loss of a visa to return.
@@sueregan2782: How about once a year then? What are the rules?
I'm so sorry. ❤
I am sorry for your loss.
The bond between parent and child should be something sacred, beautiful, something special; but when you outsource "this connection" it is business.
Especially when you use them as accessories to your business, like the children modeling their mother's fashion designs.
Being a stay at home mom was the best time in my life.
I honor all mothers. My mother was a stay at home mom; she had five of us. We harried her, we wore her down and we wore her out we aged her and we probably made her hate us. I saw what we did to our mother. She made cookies for us, home made soup, brought us to the dentist once a year and was always there when we came home from school where there was always a home made treat. Always. Because I remember how children are, I decided when I was a child that I would never be like my mother and would never have children. I am almost 70, live alone, never married and never had children. I do not regret this; I know no other way. This is why I honor all mothers. Not everyone has the power and determination to do what they do. Oh, and we also make them cry.
@@corners23251similar situation with my mom, she does everything around the house and she works part time too, I don't know if it's something I can handle, I'm still in my late teens but not knowing what I want to do with my life stresses me out
Me too.!!
same. It just didn't feel right to work at all until the kids were at school. One can't get back missing time with one's children.
@@tanyabrown9839 the memories!! Now the best part grandbabies!!!
I parented my son for nearly 19 years now...but everyday still yearn for the days when he was still a small boy doing his cute antics and giving me affectionate hugs. Childhood is wayy too short...cherish every moment..you are missing a lot by not caring for your own little ones. I look forward to grandmotherhood one day.
Agree I would hope being wealthy with children would be wonderful instead they treat it like a business transaction why have kids
I have a 19 year old and I share the same opinion. One day they just aren’t that silly, openly affectionate little child anymore and your heart aches for that little human! Though we feel so proud of who they have become and all of the accomplishments along the way, we’ll never forget who they were and they will always be our “baby”. I’d regret it SO much if someone else spent most of those days with my child! You can’t go back.
@@LaurenWoz421 Take comfort. That child is still there, but they have discovered a wider world. Someday they will find someone to share that part of themselves again.
@@LaurenWoz421 I’m so glad you shared that! My only daughter is now 23 and thanks to online shipping, I found frames for the drawings she made for each family member - and that was 7 drawings! She did not know I kept those drawings and when she found me with her drawings, a great big smile spread across her face! Seeing her smile so wide was just heaven to me! I had so much fun raising her and her 4 brothers!,
@@nesanfamily1004 me too!
How embarrassing that they’re fine showing the world what terrible parents they are.
They are new money and have zero manners or class. It’s icky.
AMEN
Actually they are proud of it 😬
I am convinced that virtually anyone can run out of money. I've seen a lot of power ball winners that go bankrupt very quickly from doing what these people are doing...spending money stupidly. There are so many better ways to invest in your children's futures.
Exactly,they aren't parents at all
So sad... The little girls mocking their drivers with no respect, the poor teenager playing the violin with no passion, the Asian nanny who can't even see her kids more than every other year just so that the other lady could pop out 5 kids and never care for them. Children need love from their parents more than anything
And they all sound the same to me😂
They’re just being kids. It’s obviously rude and they should be told but that’s how children behave.
Blamed the parenting, not the child
@@MrBettylachulaif my kids behave like this they will get punishment. So no this isn’t just kids they are spoiled rotten. Have no respect for human beings.
@@MrBettylachulaSome kids realized from their mistakes tho,and never acted like that again anymore after they felt remorse...And not all kids behave like that
I also find it okay. But the driver is a part of the family he has responsibility to teach the kids on how to respect him as well. As kids in this age are just being kids.
My greatest accomplishment in my life was raising three amazing children who are now wonderful, responsible, & loving adults. Two who are parents themselves, now. The bond that I still have with my kids is so very precious. It wasn’t always easy, but it has always been rewarding. These “Moms” 🙄 are truly missing out. Such a shame.
I also have two adult children who are great loving parents .
Their dads, too! The parenting load shouldn't just be on the moms.
very shameful life does bring them regrets
They are actually poor for things that really matters in life.
They're not posh, they're vulgar.
I get nouveau riche vibes from them. Those that have real wealth and assets are going to be more private and less likely to divulge details of their daily lives. Plus, they tend to be more modest and are more careful of their expenses. These people do not come from true wealth and prestige.
@@cityhawk Agreed, I thought they were 'nouveau riche' indeed.
I totally agree.
@@cityhawk Nope. The richest people in the world overall are new money or new-ish money (not technically new money in many cases), or have much the same culture in any case. Though there are a small number of exceptionally wealthy families who are old money and are very quiet, that's an exception.
Their children will be even less posh and more vulgar. Guaranteed.
Kids saying that their driver speaks "not very similar to English" when their own mother doesn't speak proper English herself.
Alienation of Affection is what these children get from their birth parents! Posh is just Narcissism in Disguise.
I was raised by maids. Some were good many were really bad…both physically and sexually abusive. And there were ones that I really bonded to and felt like they were my mum, so when they quit it felt like I was getting abandoned. Your parents don’t know anything about you and only use you to show off. I never experienced a parent/maid reading me a book before bed time or tucking me into bed or brushing my hair, waking me up for school or making me breakfast. It was very lonely, and I always felt like they shouldn’t have had my siblings and I.
I can't imagine having strangers in my house doing stuff that my mother should do. I don't like it.
This is so sad
I’m so very sorry for your neglect and abuse. I pray you have a good loving person in your life today and know that you are special and worthy of love but those people in and out of your life were horrible broken people and you did nothing wrong.
I’m so sorry, that sounds so sad. You and your sibs deserved to be cherished. Luckily you get two shots to have a happy parent/child relationship: one as the kid and one as the parent. Hopefully you will parent as you would’ve wanted to be parented.
That's really sad. The neglect was never your fault.
Every kid deserves a parent,not every parent deserves a kid😢
Well said 👌
These kids are treated like objects, not children!
Why bother having kids if you're not prepared to take on parental responsibilities?
someone needs to be intended to take over all the money and buisneiss.
And they can be used as leverage in a divorce or separation
narcissism
you got one narcissist , one anorexic, one selfish but well meaning, and russian mafia...
Poor mindset you must be from Third World country or Islamists country😂😂
Kids are basically an accessory to them. How are you OK with someone else potty training and changing your baby. That man was so proud that he never change any of his four kids diapers. SMH.
💯 Agreed I was like sir that’s absolutely nothing to be proud of 🙃
@@stephanierose9301I thought that, too. That’s embarrassing to admit, and very sad. SO not a flex.
How odd that you all think of changing a diaper as some sort of measure of love. It's ridiculous! He can love his children immensely and spend endless time with them doing fun or educational things without ever changing a diaper or preparing a meal or giving a bath. 🙄
That's not parenting. That's visiting. Parenting involves getting your hands dirty and demonstrating love through serving those you love, earning their trust and comfort with you.
@@MickeyMacks1 Yes! Couldn’t have said it better myself! 🥰
one mother says, "someone else can do the school run getting the kids, why not??" sad they don't know the experience of seeing the smile and happiness on your child's face when they see you at picking them up...these are special moments, like so so many mothers that have staff raise their kids do not experience. PITY
That’s very true, I work as a kindie teacher and those genuine smiles from kids when they see there parents? Absolutely phenomenal, so much love and happiness
They have it backwards. If you are rich, you pay tons of money to someone to take care of the nonsense of your life so you can spend more time with your kids. These people are just paying to avoid emotional attachment.
The first two rich ladies prove that having children and being a mother are two highly distinct categories.
They could forgo some money or leisure activities and raise their own children.
Those parents have as much warmth as an iceberg.
Good to see the gratitude the Russian family have to their nanny by buying her a house 🎉
what Russian? True Russians are forced to pay for Putin's wars or immigrate and work some crappy paying IT jobs. Those mafia criminals with stolen money are Gews.
The mother seems nice. She is too busy for her kids which is awful but she is good to the nanny who take cares of her kids at least.
Weirdly heartbreaking, homelessness is skyrocketing , when 130,000 children are homeless in the UK. How is this world so broken? Such imbalance
THIS
So your blaming wealthy for other people's life choices? Obserd
It’s called sin thanks to Adam and Eve disobeying God and making our world fallen.
Unfortunately it's no different to Charlie's dicken days only instead of poor houses its called benifits ,or living on the bread line ,and it's in colour ,yet people still close there eyes to it
capitalism daughter. capitalism begets individualism, selfishness and greed
That punch in the face. And the smile on the girls face.😮 Already a bully, someone needs to tell her younger brother will be strong one day. I see problems when they get older. Great parenting! 👍
💯💯💯
You can’t teach your kids they can have everything and anything they want! Some things can’t be bought! I had a friend who had money and basically taught her daughter she could always have her way. When the daughter was 16 her boyfriend broke up with her and she couldn’t take the disappointment and took her own life. She had just never been told no! She couldn’t fathom that she couldn’t have her way!
😓🙏 May the lady rest in peace. One day, the parents will be held accountable before the Holy GOD
I grew up in the 1%. Then my Dad left, and blew all his own and his father’s money. I cannot tell you how grateful I was that my Mother ALWAYS taught me the value of a dollar. She also taught me that life is about SO much more than money. Love, health, family, children, ALL are more valuable than money. I’m also very fortunate that I knew from age 16 that I was going to have to make my own money, and I did have money my grandfather had set aside for my education.
Actually, you say as if you really for sure know the reason why this üoor child took her life but you weren't her, you can't possible know if that was the true reason. That could have been much deeper then just hearing "no". I say it from experience. Someone brokeup qithme and it shattered me to the core and for years I had to battel myself to get out of it. I wasn't spoiled...but I was maybe not loved enough by my father or at least he didn't show it well. Easy to say she was spoiled but I bet she maybe wasn't spoiled enough with attention of her busy parents
Trafic
I mean tragic.
So actually, these are absentee parents. Call it what it is.
So sad to hear Katya died at only 17 years old due to drug consumption :( her parents were convinced she was happy but you can see from her facial expressions in this she truly was not. To have your life laid out for you and not to be able to make choices of your own is incredibly restricting and eventually the seams come apart. I feel horrible for her father and mother though, because they were so so blind to it even though others in this comment section could see it like I can in this video. 😢❤RIP dear girl
I must’ve missed that part. Who is Katya?
@@brendatomlinson The girl on the violin
How sad. She didn’t seem happy. The claps didn’t show me much. It took too long from the time she stopped and their clapping
She didn't act like she loved to play the violin, rather like they forced her to do it, and do it well.
Omg actually I had an instant thought of how difficult it must be to live with all that pressure. How devastating
Children are in many cases a voluntary choice and if you don't want to invest time and effort into them, maybe they're not for you. Just my opinion.
I've felt this way for a very long time. It's like what the hairstylist was saying, having that time to spend with your child is precious and valuable. A parent should be a parent. If you don’t have the time and energy to take care of children, you shouldn't have any. Establishing a bond and connection very early on in their lives is very important.
Not an opinion. A fact.
@@rawx485 Right
I feel like all the “parents” were better off not having kids.
Then the nannies need not have children. Just because someone employs a nanny who happens to be a mother, does not make it the wealthy person's problem.
Just because you gave birth to a child does not make you a mother. These nanny's are more of a mother to the kids than they can ever be.
Who says they gave birth? They probably bought the kids on Alibaba or something. (Sorry couldn't resist.) :)
Or surrogates@@lynb1022
Or through surrogacy!
@@lynb1022you're funny
and where are the fathers??
Cautionary tale: if a boyfriend promises he will never change a diaper- run if you want marriage & children.
Hire a nanny 😂
This adds a whole new meaning to the term "Deadbeat Parents". Imagine all of the amazing special moments that these "parents" will never experience.
I worked with homeless youths, many from rich families like these and one thing I learned is that kids spell love, "T I M E" and these parents don't spend enough time with their children.
These people remind me of one of my favorite quotes. “Live simply so others can simply live”.
If someone needs that much help to raise THEIR kids… then they should have considered if kids were a good idea for them.
Some women need kids for other reasons that ordinary people can't imagine, I know it sounds crazy
They mainly have kids to pass on the wealth so it doesn't just die with them if you wanna know the honest truth.
@@anglofrancaiseyvonne9349 That sounds crazy because it is.
That's my feeling exactly!
I’m a stay at home mum of my nearly 2 year old daughter and though it’s exhausting, it is the best thing in the world. I love spending this time with her especially knowing it will go by so fast. For me personally, there is nothing more fulfilling than spending time with my child. It is such a blessing to be a parent and I feel lucky that we can afford for me to stay home with her.
I’m with the stylist in the salon. Our babies are precious and they use them for photo ops it seems while hiring others to actually raise and love their children. It’s sad
Are you American or what, y'all need donut and MacDonald😂
Don't worry people, these kids aren't suffering anywhere near the kind of hardships millions of others are suffering.
There are a whole lot of middle class and poor children that have absent parents and no one else is looking after them.
Pour your hearts out to the children that have to see their parents doped up and/or drunk. The ones that are in and out of the completely broken foster care system.
At least these kids are being raised by nannies that love them as their own and they don't go without food, shelter and warmth.
I agree, sure its controversial and we can always always find something wrong but hopefully they have lovely people helping raise them
It's all bad.
@@rivkahmiri513 there's bad and then there's worse.
True, but we can have sympathy for both.
@@B_Bodziak sure, if it was true sympathy, rather than being envious of the parents wealth and just wanting to judge them for the sake of feeling superior to someone.
I love my son so much. I can't imagine saying I'm too posh to parent.
The mother that is vegan and does not allow sweets for her kids is going to have a rude awakening when her kids get to a party. They are the ones that will stuff their faces at other peoples homes or have some kind of eating disorder.
Yep
The mother looks very thin and may want her children to remain thin like her. She is worried about portion size already. Geez
I know vegan parents, there are many, and they make parties very difficult even for normal people.
It's obvious the children already aren't healthy. You can tell by their skin and hair. I feel bad for them.
It’s going to affect their physical and mental development as well. Unless it’s an allergy, you should just have a good maybe 80:20 diet, and then at 18 or when old enough they can decide what diet to live life - it affects so many other things, relationships, social gatherings, potential bullying, travel, the list goes on.
This is NOTHING new. Rich parents have shipped their children off across the country to private schools from 5,6 to 17. This is nothing new at all
It's very sad and unfortunately that nanny chose to leave her family in order to raise someone else's family. If her employer is so filthy rich then she should pay to move her nanny's children in.
Tip for parents- nanny aside… Being overly strict with your kids will make them sneaky.
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So true lol you shouldnt know this parent!
Facts! And there’s a clip of the one girl smirking at the camera when the mum tells the nanny she shouldn’t have given them fanta. The lil’ girl knows 😂
@@ellapines2850I also noticed 😂
For the most part this is a display of pride and vanity in overdrive
Vanity without character
also, weather this is true or not, a lot of the parents read as having a ton of childhood trauma or personality disorders. very intense video to say the least. capitalism as a power structure just is unideal in so very many ways
Don't forget stupidity, greed, selfishness, and low self esteem.
I went to a girls private school and the most messed up girls were also from the wealthiest backgrounds. One girl's parents bought her her own property when she was 15... Because they wanted her out of the house. Unsurprisingly she developed a really toxic relationship with the outside world and was the nastiest bully I've ever come across.
Sometimes I really do wonder what is worse, having a loving family who struggles to feed you and keep a roof over your head or having every single of your wish catered but not have an ounce of love
The latter is worse. I know people who have grown up in both circumstances. Hands down, as long as they’re able to feed and house you, love is more important. Financial circumstances change, knowing how to love and be loved will never leave you.
Love and care is the most important. Children need to feel safe and loved by their parents. Money and possessions are things we teach our kids. They don't understand the concept until we make them aware of it.
Both situations sound equally bad.
My life
@@The-Oneness11agree the scales must be balanced ❤
The Polo & Tweed's top shelf staff included a drunk and a nanny prospect with no childcare experience. 😂
That was just slightly alarming....and now I think I am due for a career change :)
Takes a special person to do that work. To be part of another family, and blend into different dynamics.
These parents aren't involved in their children's lives hardly at all. How sad. As a mother myself, I just don't understand how any parent would be okay with missing out on so many precious moments with their kids. Having a nanny for additional help (especially if someone is a single parent) is one thing. Having an entire team of people raising the child you created is another. Shame on these parents. Seriously.....shame on them.
And then these rich parents wonder in their old age that what did we do wrong that our kid are not with us on our last moment.
You gave them all material worldly stuff with no quality time, love and care.
I'm a single mom and I refuse to hire a nanny, no matter how exhausted I will be..
1st of, nanny is expensive
and 2nd, just simply, I want to raise my son myself thank you 😂
@@beanbun2312 Who takes care of your son while you work?
@@randomsarcasm2022 me, I'm a stay at home mom, and I'm running a small home business.
@@beanbun2312 How much revenue does the business generate?
Wow. I owe my girl a lot than! She does it all for our 8 kids!!! No nannies, housekeepers or days off! She's the bomb!
Start with a wedding ring
😂😂@@breanadunlap5998
Ι believe you would appreciate your wife more if you brought in help once a week to do the ironing or cleaning for a couple of hours. Doesn't she deserve it?
8 kids😮
So what are you doing?,you are just existing? And are you married to her?
Ignored the children fighting but ran to break up the dogs. I think the stylist said it best! I always have and always will choose family time over luxury. Balance always
When I was young, I worked as a nurse's aide on a physical rehab ward, I met a patient who'd never combed her own hair and didn't know how to do so. Can you imagine how helpless they would be if they ever lost their fortunes?
My mom raised a rich woman’s kids. Then she kicked my mother to the curve when her own children only wanted my mom and not their own mother. But to each its own.
I hope they are still incontact with your mom, she's a lovely woman coz kids are drawn to pure spirited persons❤❤
Where’s the curve?? lol 😆
@@baublesanddollskerb
U mean she tried breaking that bond and maybe creating one with the baby herself
I absolutely loved raising my babies myself. They grew so darn fast. No way I'd want anyone else taking care of my precious children!! Someday i hope to be a large part of my grandchildrens lives, if possible.
I am not judging but I am so happy to care for my family. I am a single mother and I love being with my kids as much as possible
And this is how entitled people are made.
Bingo!
I grew up with Nannie’s. One of them I am still closer to than my own mother. She is the one who taught me what it meant to really love and raise a child ❤. I have ASD and did not / could not follow my parents’ plan for me. I now live a very happy middle class life in the country.
I suppose if all you know, is handing your child to a nanny from birth, then you wouldn't feel any loss. Having raised mine, I cannot fathom this. I would be so sad if I missed out on all of it. Mine are adults now. 18, 22, 24. Every memory, every joy, rushing to drive them to three different school buildings etc.. every booboo, every single thing...even the potty training. Such wonderful memories. Such a huge void would fill my heart, without those memories.
I’m with you on that.
I feel like there is such a big difference between wanting to have time for yourself and simply not wanting to take care of the children you chose to have, but hey everyone has their own opinion
so sad that some people get to be treated like absolute royalty, when many of us often worry if we can even afford bills from week to week....
I used to work as an estate manager.
It's atrocious that one woman through the new nanny into the soup without sitting down with her first to talk about her expectations. (sugar considerations, what she likes served at meals, etc.)
That sucking up by the artist and Mo just looking at the ceiling in embarrassment was priceless😂😂😂
"When I unveiled it there was a bit of a deathly silence" yeah, because it's a bad painting. It's dead, it doesn't have anything to say. Pretty brushstrokes don't make good art.
I had secondhand embarrassment during that entire part 😊
@@Shiralkian on the contrary I think it protrays the emptiness of the person depicted perfectly 😂
And when that guy was like ”beautiful mother” at the same time she yells ” noo put the door shut I dont want them here” I bursted out laughing 😂😂😂😭😭
The hairdresser said it wisely: looking after your own kids is so precious that you shouldn't give it to someone else
I feel sad for the 2 Filipino nannies shown on this documentary.. it's a lot harder to take when you see one of your people (I'm also a Filipino) getting embarrassed in front of other people (can't stand the scene where the nanny had to pick the poops and dirt up). I must say, of all the people shown on this documentary, the realest human beings are the nannies. Hats off to all the Overseas Filipino Workers who sacrificed a lot for their families and for contributing A LOT to the world's economy!
Well, I would love to be a nanny. I raised my two children, and it would be like having grandchildren to me.
I think it would make my life more fulfilling in a day
@@RhondaSinclair Then go ahead. Sign up with an agency, and let us know how it goes after a year. If you make it that long :)
@@iampetz I don’t wanna be travelling that far away from home I’d rather sign up for someone that’s closer to me
She shouldn’t pick up the waste of the dog ,she is a nanny not pet sitter.
All the moms seemed really self absorbed except the mom worried about her children's safety {M0B)
,,she loves the family, I don’t think she is here for the money“ I can’t believe this
She is delulu
Ahe is tjere only and for the money, stop paying and she will disapear that same day
@@vitnis11 exactly!
Freedom for Palestine 🇵🇸
she is delusional on another level
I didn't have to really potty train my son. He went to day care and discovered the older kids using the potty and decided he wanted to a well. I showed him how and that was pretty much it. 🤷♀️
That's sad day care
Not people I would ever choose to have as a friend. They are all entitled and narcissistic, making them such dangerous people when they don't get their own way.
This is the truth. Behind the veil. Imagine these famous we love in America. They have these services
They act like they are very narcissistic . Can't say for sure. You can't be super wealthy and be altruistic too.
That mother trying to control her ‘love’s’ distractions? 😅 Sadly, if a husband or partner wants to, or sees the opportunity to CHEAT, will! Whether their maid or nanny is pretty, or not, it happens!
Bingo
Think Arnold Schwarzenegger 😅
@@a.konadu4010
My thoughts exactly!!!
it´s the "marry for money" mentality speaking. i gurantee you- she would NOT have married her husband had he been middle class.
so of course in her head, other women would do the same, and with the nanny spending so much time in the home around said husband and if she´s pretty - welp her husband already married for looks once, why would he not go for a potential younger model next time?
Yup! Look at who Arnie cheated with.
My father in law was raised in extreme wealth, had Nannie’s but his mother died young. This mom loves herself more than her kids. Do love the school uniforms
Their children will hire professionals to caretake their parents when they are old and sick or demented.
They can hire someone to visit them too so the kids don’t have to.
😂😂😂😂thats for sure and never visit either I sure will do that if these were my parents
I wouldn't be sure about that. The children will be off having their own lives. The parents have the money and can hire someone else to take care of that.
Yet they’ll have money to spend. Not bad deal.
That is very true.
The truth is the Best Life is an ordinary, simple, safe, stable, comfortable, wholesome life where the greatest possessions are mindfulness, love, family and friendships. Nothing too materially excessive, and anything that is material all honorably earned. Feels good with a sense of gratitude for everything and everyone in life.
I have friends grew up with nannies because their parents were too busy with work. Though they liked their nannies, they loved their parents more, call it blood or something. And they had happy memories with their parents too. I asked one of them about feeling closer to the nanny than to their parents cause their parents werent available. He told me no, a nanny is just hired help, who does it for the money mainly. While the ones who I can count on and love us unconditionally is our parents. 😮
You’re generalizing all nanny situations. Your friend thinks this way as he had a nanny but was raised by his parents.
Plenty of normal, good parents have nannies. This video is the extreme situation. Most ppl have help during the work week & the nanny leaves by dinner time, &!rarely works on the weekends. Most ppl w Nannie’s don’t have them multiple Nannie’s available 24/7.
Can happen, but unusual.
I hate how NOBODY cares to ask the child what HE wanted during the super tutor segment… clearly he isn’t interested in anything his mom wishes him to be 😩💀
Terrible. Never ever would I allow another woman or human consume my children's most precious tears. These mom lack soul and that deep hearted bond a mom should have. Sick
A couple of decades ago. I befriended a woman in graduate school. She was involved with a woman from England who was a nanny to an Upper East Side wealthy family. Mom didn’t work. But she had a Monday through Friday nanny and a weekend nanny. She often reported how soil the children would be on Monday mornings. The nanny said the parents had little or no interest in the children. They were just status symbols.
How to raise dysfunctional people, perfect recipe.
Emotionally depriving their offspring from themselves. Gotta be very selfish and shallow, in my opinion. Because nothing is of more value than one's own precious. children.
The designer is quick to delegate everything with her children to others but refuses to delegate dressing her dogs to someone else.
Yes. Very weird!
Yea…. That disgusted me😢
This was crazy!
Poor dogs.
That says it all.
I feel for the Filipino nanny who only sees her kids every 2 yrs while she looks after someone else’s kids for the last 8 yrs!
Me too.
It's not uncommon.. I work with Filipinos in the rehab Department of Nursing homes for 20 years.. and they typically go home about once a year, usually not more than that. But they stay for an entire month.
@@jenifernadeau so not fair for these mums x
Don't have kids you can't afford
Yep modern day slavery I feel so much for her & others in her situation
My aunt was living like this the only difference was , they lived in Africa which was way cheaper to pay for all these services, than they moved overseas, and her husband couldn’t afford to pay the lifestyle she had back home .it messed her up her mind badly. She is convince her self that she was a good mum but deep down she knows she will end lonely as her kids definitely won’t be there
The hairdresser in the salon hit the nail right on the head.
This makes me think of my best friend. Her and her brother were sent to boarding school in different countries. The relationship with their parents is very very disconnected now that they're grown.
Relationships with parents and siblings drastically change in a lifetime.
@shreemz I agree. However, I do know the absence of a parent in the formative years will dictate the future of the relationship.
@@Sweet_Southern_Pecan yup, not just that individuals but the others that enter into this disturbed individual’s life would also have to share trauma in some way.
@shreemz Oh yeah, that's right, you are spot on.
@@shreemznot drastically if you raised them
Doesn't matter how much money you have. Money can't buy class. That woman with the 3 kids is so tacky.
The "when you die, you can leave" coming from a little girl to her nanny is heartbreaking!!! I need to know what these children will grow up to be!!!!
I didn’t take it in a nefarious way. At that age they are coming to grips with the concept of death and it seemed she was expressing her not wanting to ever be parted from her nanny which is a love, and a depth of attachment her mother would know nothing about sadly.
Monsters...
It comes off as more of you can't leave us until you die. Like the nanny said that she would leave after they grow up and they didn't want her to. They weren't being mean
@@grapevinez6026 yea, that's what I meant. It's heartbreaking because those words will probably never be said to the mother. It's so passionate saying when you die, you'll be able to leave me. How will she end up when she gets too old to have the love of her nanny.
@@katepausig8562 totally, I didn't think she was being mean. I meant like it's sad to think of how they will take it when she does end up leaving. How it's going to affect them mentally. She's getting more love from a temporary person than her own mother and that is so sad to me. How will her relationships with others be when she grows up.