I married an older man. One downside that nobody has mentioned is that you will be a younger widow/widower. My husband died five years ago. I'm still experiencing sad days. People assume that by now I'd want to kick up my heels. All I actually want to do is be on my own and ignore the world. The pandemic was a God send to me.
I can’t imagine how painful that must be, also considering you probably didn’t get the support you needed when he passed cause people probably assumed you can not wait to get on with your life… sorry for your loss
This show was actually really nice. It didn’t put a never spin on these relationships. There’s clearly genuine love and affection between these couples.
The funniest thing about Sir Benjamin is that he seems to discount the fact that children take time to grow up. He seems to think the children will be born and take over his business 😂. Loved all the couples, their love looks genuine and happy.
Perhaps he’s at the stage where he just wants someone to leave it all to….the Jack Russell? Maybe me?!😂 Top man, if I wasn’t over 30 I’d give him a toot.
I know I did not just hear what I thought I hear Sir Benjamin say! Did he say Breed? The match maker set the record straight with saying drop that word!
My husband was 20yrs older than me and I never noticed the difference. I adored him, as he did with me. We were married for 34yrs and I treasured every second with him. He passed away 3yrs ago and I again am completely devastated. Age is just a number. I wish you all well and be as happy as I was.l. Will never marry again. No one would ever reach his expectations God bless you all❤❤❤
15 or 16 year difference in age is not an age gap relationship. In most of the rest of the world this is the norm.This is so stupid!!! This video shows how stupid the west is. The sooner the west destroys itself the better the world is. Just look at the number of children born to single mothers in the west (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at the divorce rate (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at transgender culture (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at homosexuality (and how the percentages have grown). The west is a clown show and yet they say 15 or 16 years is an age gap relationship. The hypocrisy is ridiculous.
Out of the couples presented, Laura and Craig are my favorite. They have an incredible sense of chemistry and comraderie. You can tell they genuinely enjoy each other's company.
I could sense there was something odd about Sir Benjamin. Doing a Wikipedia I found that he had a colourful past, strange demands for potential wives (you think asking what star sign a person was is weird). He already has a daughter, but being a chavenist, he wants a male heir to pass on his estate. I'm sure his daughter must be so happy knowing that she isn't good enough because she's female.
Sir Benjamin’s humor is to freakin’ funny! He seems to be a great catch, successful, wants to care for and make a family, and is straight-forward w/ his circumstances. The only sad part is he won’t be there for much of the kid’s life. There is always someone for everyone.. I hope they all found their hopiness
He had a daughter and disowned her and seen her a handful of times only. He is not a good person. Acting like a girl is no good and just wished for boys
Money is not everything, women are looking for stability, we want to be seen, loved, and respected. Just someone who can stand by you, I'm happy for all of you ⚘ good luck From Australia
@@divyanshusingh2145 Without money, house, land, etc, there is no stability at all. If you think, that stability in this life is possible, only with air in your lungs, that is very confusing to me, especially when a baby is in the womb or more babies...?
When she still in diapers and didn’t know how to talk or walk, he was a full adult! It might seem like nothing during middle age, but before that and after (when the older one’s ageing is showing it is more evident that it’s almost 20 yrs. age difference).
@@Seren_ity22 He's already has a daughter to a woman... in Spain ?? .....wants nothing to do with the child but has acknowledge paternity as I said previous perhaps "Sir Ben" can only father girls.......
For everyone rooting for this Benjamin guy: he has already conceived a child with Sahara Sunday Spain. Violet was born in 2021. A girl. He has since pull back on the wedding with the mother at the last hour, and so far refuses to have a relationship with the daughter, which he hasn’t seen and gives only very little money to the mother. This is a despicable person of the worst kind. Just for everyone to know.
That's sad. He should have known that daughters are a possibility. It's sad he refuses to have a relationship with her or even help out financially. He's too old timish and set in his ways. That little girl can grow up to be an amazing CEP of his business
A parent's worst nightmare is their 20 year old daughter bringing home a 50 year old man. My friend's younger sister did that and her Dad refused to give blessings because he felt the guy was controlling. He was generous and bought her stuff but he decided what "luxury" was appropriate. She would pick a destination, e.g Spain to go on holiday and he would say he'd been there many times so they should go to France instead, oblivious to the fact that she was young and hadn't experienced what he had.
A parents worse nightmare should be being with a 20 something year old that has nothing to offer their daughter! If he can take care of her financially - that’s huge. So many of these young men today are not growing up and won’t contribute to society. As a 50 year old- I surely wish I would have been with older men and not the young idiots I wasted so much time on! They are broke and abusive most of them.
I think 10 or even 15 in some cases works but it's about where people are too someone 45 can get on with someone 15 yrs older but at 20 going with 60 or 70 or even older one has to consider
I honestly think it doesn't matter what reasons people date for. As long as it makes them happy. For some people money is all it takes to be, for some they need a nice arm candy to be happy. We all die some day, I don't take life that seriously but it's really interesting seeing these couples. Some of them are great combinations.
When Craig won Big Brother he gave all the prize money to a poorly child who was his friend. What a thoroughly nice man and I am glad to see he seems really genuinely happy with his new family!
Craig and Laura look the most genuine Craig is an extrememly good looking youthful chap, his spirit is also very young,,,they laugh alot together nice couple!!!!
Not according to a video I watched before this. Seems if the woman is older it's gross, she's delusional, gullible etc. Weird what society deems acceptable.
@@debrap947 Agreed! He was a total creep, had no tact, had zero problem lying about his age, acting like a 35-year age gap was 'nothing' and having the audacity to only look for a young 'victim' who could breed him some boys. And one wonders why he's single.
If you’re thinking of Marrying Ben 73!!!😉 Oh I think more like 85 !!!😉 My advise ,,,,invest in a great Lawyer ,,, Get a few millions in your Bank account first Have a contract where you get a generous salary monthly Make sure this contract is solid iron clad ,,and to continue after Ben moves on ! Good luck ,
money can definitely buy young and beautiful wife/husband but no one said you could buy their love and loyalty....that is a bit trickier and takes alot more although for some security is essential to them that they can't fall enough if someone isn't spoiling them i think alot of successful millionaire types are happy to have marriages that are based on a transaction
I could write a story on my colourful life! Been with a rich older guy, Was branded gold digger by someone i worked with too! Despite people's judgements we had great connection and banter, we just didn't marry otherwise I'd be very comfortable! I'm now starting over in my 40s and its harder! I think older men probably treat younger women better probably because they mature later in life, just my experience. Love life is usually more satisfying than a young guy who wants a casual conquest then move on!
AmericanPrimate, I found out that music and food taste are the great equalizer when someone is older or younger.Sense of humor for me wins it all the time. do not be afraid to try to go out with younger or older than you.
15 or 16 year difference in age is not an age gap relationship. In most of the rest of the world this is the norm.This is so stupid!!! This video shows how stupid the west is. The sooner the west destroys itself the better the world is. Just look at the number of children born to single mothers in the west (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at the divorce rate (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at transgender culture (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at homosexuality (and how the percentages have grown). The west is a clown show and yet they say 15 or 16 years is an age gap relationship. The hypocrisy is ridiculous.
Uh, what? What woman wants a 73 as a father to their children? He'd barely be around long enough to help raise them, let alone have any energy to help out with that.
He has a daughter Violet who is about 2 or turning three but wants sons with "superior genes" daughter looks like mom with darker eyes n according to 2022 article her mom Sahara had to move back to USA n at the time of the article baby was 5 months n he had never bothered to visit her
Watching from Kenya 🇰🇪..interesting....I do wonder about the materialistic approach of some. I mean how many yatches and shoes does one need? Anyway, let me call them 'passions' for the sake of being gentle. I do love shoes and bags so I know it can be a real issue drawing a line (I have no issues there at all now)....very interesting
Is there a source? I would love that to be true. Absolute idiot of a man. I guess someone could stomach him and give up their decency to get his money.
@@divyanshusingh2145what if the older one dies? We ALL will die at some point. Nature has it that older people die first generally not all the time. So what's your point?
@@josephinebrevig8748 Older one dies first is the point , And in more than 90% of the cases , This is the natural order ! After that the other spouse is left alone , Tragedy of choice ?
I never had any money at all. My wife is the one that works and earn living. I'm just helping with my social security income. She is beautiful and kind. We have 16 years gap and she is wonderful and loving. I think i hit the jackpot.
Yes, but the PROPER age gap ones. I think the man in the castle and the successful Canadian lady. They were most interesting. In my eyes, the others were regular couples..
15 or 16 year difference in age is not an age gap relationship. In most of the rest of the world this is the norm.This is so stupid!!! This video shows how stupid the west is. The sooner the west destroys itself the better the world is. Just look at the number of children born to single mothers in the west (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at the divorce rate (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at transgender culture (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at homosexuality (and how the percentages have grown). The west is a clown show and yet they say 15 or 16 years is an age gap relationship. The hypocrisy is ridiculous.
Sure. I personally like conscious marriages that attend needs and objectives of the individuals and the couple. Love and attraction happens anyway if both are willing and truthful people.
The wife looks 40s to me. It could be the bad wig and makeup?? Idk! Kelly as well. Actually for all the money they're spending most people here aren't well styled. Strange!
I've been binge watching this show. In fairness the older people in the show looks way better than other younger men (talking about other episodes particularly)
I’m in an age gap relationship of just 7 years but even that seems like a lot sometimes. When we originally met I was 15 and he was 22 and obviously had no attraction to each other. Many years later when I was 22 we met again and fell in love not knowing we had met so many years past. Now it’s really weird to think about our original meeting and we tend to not tell anyone how we actually met. I promise he did not groom me, neither of us recognized each other for many months into our relationship. Now I’m 25 and he’s almost 32 and it’s starting to feel more and more normal but I do often have moments where I’m reminded how much more experienced he is than me in certain things. Many times it’s a good thing because he teaches me a lot but if he didn’t have the right intentions it would’ve been really easy for him to control me at a young age. This makes me fear for many of these girls who get into these age gap relationships in their early 20s.
15 or 16 year difference in age is not an age gap relationship. In most of the rest of the world this is the norm.This is so stupid!!! This video shows how stupid the west is. The sooner the west destroys itself the better the world is. Just look at the number of children born to single mothers in the west (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at the divorce rate (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at transgender culture (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at homosexuality (and how the percentages have grown). The west is a clown show and yet they say 15 or 16 years is an age gap relationship. The hypocrisy is ridiculous.
You fall in love with someone’s heart and soul what they look like how much money they have is superficial always a beautiful blessing but not the glue that binds I really like someone’s intellect good luck to them ❤️ Is beautiful
16:42 is that Caroline Stanbery? (spelling) omgoodness WOW this had to be right before she did housewives of London. 😂I adore her because despite everything they say about her. She doesn't stop and hasn't stop working. She's no gold digger.
It makes me sick to see such materialism addiction when there are millions of refugees in the world who can't have a decent meal. How many houses do you need, how many cars do your need, how many pair of shoes do you need.... I don't get it. What a boring life to have to worry about getting more stuff all the time.
Sir Benjamin and Miss Kelly are giving me life. Side note, Love is love. If you are blessed to find it, go with it. You are not ice cream you can't make everyone happy. Do you.
At age 73, Sr. Benjamin still wants more, more, more. How sad, as if material objects create happiness. One would think, by that age, a person would have gained a better understand of what's important in life, And, in that past 30-40 years, what kept him from seriously pursuing marriage and children? And he wants "two sons", as if daughters are not desirable. Rather than focusing on having an heir, perhaps Sr. Benjamin could research worthy charitable organizations to support. The planet needs protecting, millions of people are struggling, single mothers could certainly us assistance, people need help affording college, animals need homes, and so forth. Those are very worthy causes. Sell your estate, move into a modest residence, and do some things to make the world a better place. That will bring you lots of happiness.
He has a daughter with Sahara Sunday, her name is Violet, yet he is still looking for a woman to give him sons. Benjamin Slade doesn't support his daughter financially.
Some good points, but you're not a man. To men a male heir is very important, not that you won't love & bless your daughters. Also, unlike women who expire by mid/late 30s' men are fertile till their 60s'. But he is too caught up in material things which is sad because many aquire some degree of Wisdom by that age😕
@@forward_ever_ever2595 My husband is a mature, intelligent man of integrity. He had his one daughter when he was in his fifties. It was a very meaningful, beautiful and satisfying experience, and he loves her dearly. He has never expressed any need for a "male heir". Indeed, he just replied that the "male heir" concept comes from "19th century thinking" and it is "inappropriate" and based upon the (often religious) patriarchal systems of the past. His final comment, "Nonsensical."
@@christinaannabel actually it stems from way before that, biblical times. And yes it maybe his perspective, and "nonesensical" based on his perspective. However to others it matters to maintain their lineage especially where family businesses have been built for generations.
I married an older man. One downside that nobody has mentioned is that you will be a younger widow/widower. My husband died five years ago. I'm still experiencing sad days. People assume that by now I'd want to kick up my heels. All I actually want to do is be on my own and ignore the world. The pandemic was a God send to me.
💔 I am sorry for your loss
I can’t imagine how painful that must be, also considering you probably didn’t get the support you needed when he passed cause people probably assumed you can not wait to get on with your life… sorry for your loss
YOU COULD BE WIDOWED YOUNG REGARDLESS OF HOW OLD YR SPOUSE IS, IT'S UNFORTUNATE BUT SADLY TRUE THAT
AGE IS IRRELEVANT
Lol , your math seems to be a weak point !@@cheryl5994
Love and enjoy your life darling .... Drink more wine and go out! 🎉🎉🎉🎉
This show was actually really nice. It didn’t put a never spin on these relationships. There’s clearly genuine love and affection between these couples.
You really right . Only love ❤wins
Oh right... I'm sure if they went broke they wouldn't be left behind
I agree. It’s entertaining and provoke lots of development.
Hello how are you i,m 26years
Impossible-
That woman actually wanted Benjamin out of love..
The funniest thing about Sir Benjamin is that he seems to discount the fact that children take time to grow up. He seems to think the children will be born and take over his business 😂.
Loved all the couples, their love looks genuine and happy.
Or the fact that children could be girls 😂
@@wendykranendonk1329 🤣🤣Facts!
@@wendykranendonk1329i was thinking that lol
Perhaps he’s at the stage where he just wants someone to leave it all to….the Jack Russell? Maybe me?!😂 Top man, if I wasn’t over 30 I’d give him a toot.
I agree
That matchmaker's face is priceless when "Ben" pulled out his list 🤣
Totally!
I had to rewind the scene for the smirk on her face 🤣
And no way is Ben 73. I will bet he's at least 83. And he never did get the pronunciation of her name correct .
😅😅😂
I know I did not just hear what I thought I hear Sir Benjamin say! Did he say Breed? The match maker set the record straight with saying drop that word!
My wife and I have been together for 20 years and we are 16 years apart. Sometimes it works and works well!
My husband was 20yrs older than me and I never noticed the difference. I adored him, as he did with me. We were married for 34yrs and I treasured every second with him. He passed away 3yrs ago and I again am completely devastated. Age is just a number. I wish you all well and be as happy as I was.l. Will never marry again. No one would ever reach his expectations God bless you all❤❤❤
15 or 16 year difference in age is not an age gap relationship. In most of the rest of the world this is the norm.This is so stupid!!! This video shows how stupid the west is. The sooner the west destroys itself the better the world is. Just look at the number of children born to single mothers in the west (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at the divorce rate (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at transgender culture (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at homosexuality (and how the percentages have grown). The west is a clown show and yet they say 15 or 16 years is an age gap relationship. The hypocrisy is ridiculous.
and this is the tragedy of being 20 yrs older , the other spouse is left alone the same age difference !
Lies again? So far
@@NazriB what does that mean
True love 💕 I hope you are healing ❤️🩹 may his soul rest in peace
Out of the couples presented, Laura and Craig are my favorite. They have an incredible sense of chemistry and comraderie. You can tell they genuinely enjoy each other's company.
Yes, they seem like a nice, regular couple.
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They are the cutest couple and that little bub is Gorgeous 👼
Yeah I think they laugh a lot together so you can't really tell the age difference.
Craig and Lora looks like they are almost of the same age.
John and Carolyn seem very suited for eachother.❤
"Only 50 rooms it's quite a small house "
Quote of the day😅😅
tsk tsk . .What a peasant he really is.
That is definitely an understatement
Words to live by ami right? 😂
That will be my new quote to manifest 😂
I could sense there was something odd about Sir Benjamin. Doing a Wikipedia I found that he had a colourful past, strange demands for potential wives (you think asking what star sign a person was is weird). He already has a daughter, but being a chavenist, he wants a male heir to pass on his estate. I'm sure his daughter must be so happy knowing that she isn't good enough because she's female.
Sir Benjamin gives me goosebumbs somehow and my underbelly screams NOOO to me.
I would of run away the first meeting after the date.
Never ever...😮
Yeah his appointment with the Matchmaker and then the date made me uncomfortable
73 is an odd age to decide you want an heir i wonder what he was up to when he was btwn 50-60🤔
Or actually, frankly, when he was in his 20’s and 30’s. I guess it depends on your goals: if it’s all about you having fun, then we wait, and regret.😮
men
What was the diff in the 50's pr 60's? You don t know how long will be your life and already u will be dead when ur kid will need u the most.
Probably working on growing his wealth i guess
50 would have been fine
Sir Benjamin’s humor is to freakin’ funny! He seems to be a great catch, successful, wants to care for and make a family, and is straight-forward w/ his circumstances. The only sad part is he won’t be there for much of the kid’s life. There is always someone for everyone.. I hope they all found their hopiness
Totally agree...he's hilarious. Typical British humour?
I think he's a handsome gentleman with a great sense of humor who knows what he wants. I can't help but root him and his lunch date on.
My late father was born when my grandfather was 60. My dad was 40 when my grandfather died five days after his centenary birthday.
He had a daughter and disowned her and seen her a handful of times only. He is not a good person. Acting like a girl is no good and just wished for boys
“ Must breed two sons “ 😂😂😂
Money is not everything, women are looking for stability, we want to be seen, loved, and respected.
Just someone who can stand by you, I'm happy for all of you ⚘ good luck
From Australia
I love your comment !
You totally right . From Senegal
stability without money , would you accept that Lol ?
There is no stability without money
@@divyanshusingh2145
Without money, house, land, etc, there is no stability at all.
If you think, that stability in this life is possible, only with air in your lungs, that is very confusing to me, especially when a baby is in the womb or more babies...?
53 and 37 is not a huge age gap. They look happy
Their little boys are so cute
When she still in diapers and didn’t know how to talk or walk, he was a full adult! It might seem like nothing during middle age, but before that and after (when the older one’s ageing is showing it is more evident that it’s almost 20 yrs. age difference).
They look comfortable and happy and looking much happier than same age married couples
Yes, what's the big deal?
@@soilgrasswaterairno one cares. If they’re happy, let them be!
It's sorta nice that Karen's husband has faith in her to be the CEO of his football team. ⚽ He believes in her 😊 They seem authentic and genuine.
Ted Lasso anyone?
The millionaire matchmaker was struggling to keep a straight face "must be able to breed two sons..." 😂😂 Sir Benjamin's hilarious.
😂😂😂.....and now you understand why he's still single, unmarried and childless. What will he do when his children turn out to be girls?😅
@@Seren_ity22 He's already has a daughter to a woman... in Spain ?? .....wants nothing to do with the child but has acknowledge paternity as I said previous perhaps "Sir Ben" can only father girls.......
@@lynnharris7215 Wow, if that doesn't solidify how he feels about women...
Please tell me that isn’t true
@@lynnharris7215"SIR" Ben
For everyone rooting for this Benjamin guy: he has already conceived a child with Sahara Sunday Spain. Violet was born in 2021. A girl. He has since pull back on the wedding with the mother at the last hour, and so far refuses to have a relationship with the daughter, which he hasn’t seen and gives only very little money to the mother. This is a despicable person of the worst kind. Just for everyone to know.
He only wanted sons.
Thank you that’s very important but look he s face, that say everything
That's sad. He should have known that daughters are a possibility. It's sad he refuses to have a relationship with her or even help out financially. He's too old timish and set in his ways. That little girl can grow up to be an amazing CEP of his business
He dhould leave his stuff to his staff. They worked their butts off for him
He was clear tho from the beginning. Only sons
All the Millionaires are not telling their real ages. I believe 10 years need to be added to each one of them.
They don’t look their ages at all. They look much older. Example, sir, Benj, he looks 85 and John looks 65🤷🏻♀️
The older lady is late 50,s???? I don,t think so😂😂 lf she changed her hairstyle it would improve her look.
Yep, that 53-year-old "helicopter guy" looks "sixtyish"...if not more. 😂
Closer to 90 I reckon. It's his doddery slow movements which give him away, lol.
I thought I was the only one eho noticed. One of the younger spices isn't being honest as well. I'll let you all decide which one.
A parent's worst nightmare is their 20 year old daughter bringing home a 50 year old man. My friend's younger sister did that and her Dad refused to give blessings because he felt the guy was controlling. He was generous and bought her stuff but he decided what "luxury" was appropriate. She would pick a destination, e.g Spain to go on holiday and he would say he'd been there many times so they should go to France instead, oblivious to the fact that she was young and hadn't experienced what he had.
A parents worse nightmare should be being with a 20 something year old that has nothing to offer their daughter! If he can take care of her financially - that’s huge. So many of these young men today are not growing up and won’t contribute to society. As a 50 year old- I surely wish I would have been with older men and not the young idiots I wasted so much time on! They are broke and abusive most of them.
@@carieyounginsurance So true 💯
At least you learn your lesson and they did not got you pregnant
I think 10 or even 15 in some cases works but it's about where people are too someone 45 can get on with someone 15 yrs older but at 20 going with 60 or 70 or even older one has to consider
@@carieyounginsurancei ten bohatý 50 byl mladým idiotem madam o:)
What was Sir Benjamin doing for such long time? He is 73!!! Didn't he want an heir 30 or 40 years ago?
@AMWF_King Oh I see, yeah that's ok with me, aslong you are prepared with the 73 to be single without kids.
@@findpurpose6300 Al Pacino and Robert de niro just had a child they are both near 80.
@@mirjanapucarevic2105 I don't find that normal, maybe you do. Nor is it fair to the child.
He actually has a daughter Violet but she doesn't have the perfect genes yet so beautiful like her mom😢she's about 2 or three yrs old this year
22:35 OMG I'm raising my hat to that woman for taking that all with a poker face 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Caroline, please don't worry yourself over idiots posting negative comments to you. They're just plain jealous because you got the cream.🙂
Lol - she got the cream alright 😂
Carolyn & John are doing fine...Carolyn has done a lot...she's given him 3 boys...managing a household, a football club & more
😂😂😂😂😂😂sir Benjamin....i almost choked on my rosè......"what are you doing this weekend?"😂😂take it slow old boy......
There's a large age gap between my husband and me, but he was very handsome- gray haired older men are great, treats me like a queen.
I honestly think it doesn't matter what reasons people date for. As long as it makes them happy. For some people money is all it takes to be, for some they need a nice arm candy to be happy. We all die some day, I don't take life that seriously but it's really interesting seeing these couples. Some of them are great combinations.
You should not marry people for their wealth. But respect and love.
Ok Craig and Laura are super cute together
Sir Benjamin at that forbidden drawer 😂😂😂😂. He has his goals set high, I hope Ivana settles in well into that mansion.
Nice to see Craig again
I’m glad they’re enjoying their money…
I just need a mediocre 3/4 bed house with 2 toilets and parking space 😪gonna get there one day💪💪
I just want my own washer and dryer to use.
@@neen42 lol
And lower insurance premiums. They can help on that front.
When Craig won Big Brother he gave all the prize money to a poorly child who was his friend. What a thoroughly nice man and I am glad to see he seems really genuinely happy with his new family!
Craig and Laura look the most genuine Craig is an extrememly good looking youthful chap, his spirit is also very young,,,they laugh alot together nice couple!!!!
When the man said absolutely no Scorpios 😂 Excuse me sir as a Scorpio myself WE DONT WANT YOU EITHER😂😂😂
I second that!!!
😅😂❤
Uff!! Red flag!! He's been stung before. I understand him Well 😅😅😅
Maybe ex wife was one
She married him and given him children
. That’s makes her a wife and a mother..Not a gold digger 🥴🥴
You can still be all three.
@@thetreekeeper143 NOPE..
Did you hear about nba-alimony?
Yes you can marry people for their money and have children with them so when that person dies you and your children inherit the money-
Yeah that’s you hun, a lot of women are gold diggers and have babies with the guy, look no further than the wives of footballers!
Bill is obviously attracted to Kellie's wealth
Actually he looked bored. It’s never quite the same when it’s a much younger man and an older woman.
When a woman out earns her spouse he grows to resent her over time. It's a reminder of his own incompetence.
@@mlake4725Yes, it is against the natural order. Men are expected to be successful and women are typically incompetent.
Which Scorpio broke his heart? 😂
Sir, Benjamin, you're a one in a million, very determined, very precise, wow!!! Age is just a number. 🕊️🙏
I’d have a collection too if my partner paid the big bills like housing.
Not according to a video I watched before this. Seems if the woman is older it's gross, she's delusional, gullible etc. Weird what society deems acceptable.
@@debrap947 Agreed! He was a total creep, had no tact, had zero problem lying about his age, acting like a 35-year age gap was 'nothing' and having the audacity to only look for a young 'victim' who could breed him some boys. And one wonders why he's single.
@@RS54321 ok femnazi
If you’re thinking of Marrying Ben 73!!!😉
Oh I think more like 85 !!!😉
My advise ,,,,invest in a great Lawyer ,,,
Get a few millions in your Bank account first
Have a contract where you get a generous salary monthly
Make sure this contract is solid iron clad ,,and to continue after Ben moves on !
Good luck ,
money can definitely buy young and beautiful wife/husband
but no one said you could buy their love and loyalty....that is a bit trickier and takes alot more
although for some security is essential to them that they can't fall enough if someone isn't spoiling them
i think alot of successful millionaire types are happy to have marriages that are based on a transaction
I could write a story on my colourful life!
Been with a rich older guy,
Was branded gold digger by someone i worked with too!
Despite people's judgements we had great connection and banter, we just didn't marry otherwise I'd be very comfortable!
I'm now starting over in my 40s and its harder!
I think older men probably treat younger women better probably because they mature later in life, just my experience.
Love life is usually more satisfying than a young guy who wants a casual conquest then move on!
John and Carolyn age gap is okay 👌. Beautiful family 😊
I could never be in a long term relationship with someone decades younger than me - we wouldn't have a single thing in common!
I agree
@joanarc7963 A short term fling however, could be fun.
AmericanPrimate, I found out that music and food taste are the great equalizer when someone is older or younger.Sense of humor for me wins it all the time. do not be afraid to try to go out with younger or older than you.
@@ruthrecalde2858 LOL, zoomers don't know what good music is. 😂
@@CheapSquierBassPlayer How do you know, if you have not even try it?
“Oh god shes dreadful” Benjamins a character 😂
Ivana is definitely interested. As soon as I saw their date, I knew she was instantly attracted to Sir Benjamin’s wealth.
Yes the money is of outer most importance 😂
Yes and he just wants someone to breed with, seems like a fair exchange.
@Mrsbehavin59 the expression is "of the upmost importance"
All the guys calling the girls gold diggers bro if you had wealth and spent your youth building it you would also go for younger women stop hating
Nice 😂that the truth that hurts.respect
You said that , all in one breadth lol😅
15 or 16 year difference in age is not an age gap relationship. In most of the rest of the world this is the norm.This is so stupid!!! This video shows how stupid the west is. The sooner the west destroys itself the better the world is. Just look at the number of children born to single mothers in the west (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at the divorce rate (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at transgender culture (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at homosexuality (and how the percentages have grown). The west is a clown show and yet they say 15 or 16 years is an age gap relationship. The hypocrisy is ridiculous.
This is so funny & lovely, it is all a happy & supportive love relationships, I really loved it, wonderful 😄❤️
Sir Benjamin wanting to have kids is a dream partner for many of us. What a documetary.
Uh, what? What woman wants a 73 as a father to their children? He'd barely be around long enough to help raise them, let alone have any energy to help out with that.
He has a daughter Violet who is about 2 or turning three but wants sons with "superior genes" daughter looks like mom with darker eyes n according to 2022 article her mom Sahara had to move back to USA n at the time of the article baby was 5 months n he had never bothered to visit her
I congratulate all the couples for their relationships... May you enjoy your life to the full...!!!
I absolutely ADORE Craig and Laura….Sir Ben is fantastic, great banter and a gentleman. If only I was 5 years younger….I’m only blooming 38!😂
Why do rich people have absolutely no taste when it comes to interior design
Money can't buy class
You can buy class.
Yip
Watching from Kenya 🇰🇪..interesting....I do wonder about the materialistic approach of some. I mean how many yatches and shoes does one need? Anyway, let me call them 'passions' for the sake of being gentle. I do love shoes and bags so I know it can be a real issue drawing a line (I have no issues there at all now)....very interesting
23:19 "Must be able to breed 2 sons, don't mind if she has bred before." 😂🤣🤣🤣
Sir Benjamin is the only one I dislike because of his attitude -even showing off his ex'es want to breed sons etc🙄, the rest are great
He’s alright, he’s being tongue in cheeky and self parodying; I hope!
I agree
Sir Benjamin finally fathered a child in 2022. A girl! 😂
Is there a source? I would love that to be true. Absolute idiot of a man. I guess someone could stomach him and give up their decency to get his money.
Unfortunately, there are problems in that department.
@@carojames6776what do you mean
Hahaha. Glad his daughter will be the heir.
@@carojames6776 is there something wrong with the child? Did he meet the mother through Tinder?😂
I think the gap between Laura and Craig is normal...
He also looks good for his age, which probably makes the difference
I love his boys they are just adorable
It’s not average. However he looks physically well for his age.
The guy with the handcuffs made me giggle😂
He’s not 53? No way!! He hasn’t aged well….he looks 10 years older. 37 and 53 is not such a big gap to be honest.
He’s lying, he looks 64
try that at 60 and 76 - what if the older one dies ?
@@divyanshusingh2145what if the older one dies? We ALL will die at some point. Nature has it that older people die first generally not all the time. So what's your point?
@@josephinebrevig8748 Older one dies first is the point , And in more than 90% of the cases , This is the natural order !
After that the other spouse is left alone , Tragedy of choice ?
@@divyanshusingh2145some people get divorce after one year fo marriage and end up alone...
I never had any money at all. My wife is the one that works and earn living. I'm just helping with my social security income. She is beautiful and kind. We have 16 years gap and she is wonderful and loving. I think i hit the jackpot.
Sir Benjamin's humour is priceless
He is a hoot
Yes, especially since he thought he could pass for 56!!
" the house is about 50 rooms, it's quite a small house, compared to some people"
To my one😂😂😂😂
Sir Ben is funny. 'As quickly as possible really'
Right! At 73, no rush. Lol
The helicopter guy and Sir Benjamin are at least 10 years older than the age they claim to be.
Sir Benjamin is in his 80s surely?
I would love to see a follow up on the couples. I think they are lovely🇨🇦👍
Yes, but the PROPER age gap ones. I think the man in the castle and the successful Canadian lady.
They were most interesting.
In my eyes, the others were regular couples..
Love this! If age-gappers can make it work, awesome for them!
Age is just a number I think and only true love can make us worth o
15 or 16 year difference in age is not an age gap relationship. In most of the rest of the world this is the norm.This is so stupid!!! This video shows how stupid the west is. The sooner the west destroys itself the better the world is. Just look at the number of children born to single mothers in the west (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at the divorce rate (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at transgender culture (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at homosexuality (and how the percentages have grown). The west is a clown show and yet they say 15 or 16 years is an age gap relationship. The hypocrisy is ridiculous.
Sure. I personally like conscious marriages that attend needs and objectives of the individuals and the couple. Love and attraction happens anyway if both are willing and truthful people.
I think the important thing that I noticed anyway, is that they all have a brilliant sense of humor. They don’t take themselves too seriously. ❤
Sir Benjamin needs to move to LA....he'd be snatched up in a matter of seconds😂😅😂
Hopefully by the Mexican Cartels
Sir Benjamin’s math is not adding up 😂
Think John is closer to 63 than 53!
Same with Ben - he’s gotta be in his 70’s not 63!
I love men like Benjamin. They are really proofing that men are ready for commitment in their 70s lol
It's never too late ! Lol
Me too. Agreeably surprised!
He wasted his years now he wants a woman ridiculous !!!
I think John is at least 10 years older than he says and has had work done!
Yeah he is lying on his age. Oh well!
The wife looks 40s to me. It could be the bad wig and makeup?? Idk! Kelly as well. Actually for all the money they're spending most people here aren't well styled. Strange!
Laura and Craig are such a fun lovely couple 💕
Funny how they stated "the older age gap has the largest income" not in my case 😂
When the lady said "when i met bill i was actually going through menopause " bill wanted to creak up in laughter but he was holding it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Libras rock 😂
John and Carolyn my favourite couples
I've been binge watching this show. In fairness the older people in the show looks way better than other younger men (talking about other episodes particularly)
Sir Benj doesn't want a scorpio guardian reader😂😂😂😂 he is hilarious.
And when she said she is a Gemini he was like Ohhhh nooo😂😂😂😂
Bill thinks he looks likes he’s in his late 20s…. 😂😂😂 confidence is key 🔑
I’m in an age gap relationship of just 7 years but even that seems like a lot sometimes. When we originally met I was 15 and he was 22 and obviously had no attraction to each other. Many years later when I was 22 we met again and fell in love not knowing we had met so many years past. Now it’s really weird to think about our original meeting and we tend to not tell anyone how we actually met. I promise he did not groom me, neither of us recognized each other for many months into our relationship. Now I’m 25 and he’s almost 32 and it’s starting to feel more and more normal but I do often have moments where I’m reminded how much more experienced he is than me in certain things. Many times it’s a good thing because he teaches me a lot but if he didn’t have the right intentions it would’ve been really easy for him to control me at a young age. This makes me fear for many of these girls who get into these age gap relationships in their early 20s.
Lol 7 year gap , is nothing 😅😅
15 or 16 year difference in age is not an age gap relationship. In most of the rest of the world this is the norm.This is so stupid!!! This video shows how stupid the west is. The sooner the west destroys itself the better the world is. Just look at the number of children born to single mothers in the west (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at the divorce rate (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at transgender culture (and how the percentages have grown). Just look at homosexuality (and how the percentages have grown). The west is a clown show and yet they say 15 or 16 years is an age gap relationship. The hypocrisy is ridiculous.
7 years is nothing it has to be
Somedy needs to make a movie about Sir Benjamin hahaha!
Omg the old man listing what he wants ‘must be able to breed, doesn’t matter if bred before if proven’ 😳
She’s literally not a dog by the way.
But she is its her only value for world :womb and under 25 no body count :check Andrew tate
Men have been talking this was for thousands of years
@foxywhitetip7387 yes, a thousand years ago.
If he can breed at this age why shoudnt he want another woman who can breed?.
Did Sir Benjamin say a 50 room house is rather small?
insane, those people are delusional
The "house" would be more suited as servant quarters. What a peasant
You fall in love with someone’s heart and soul what they look like how much money they have is superficial always a beautiful blessing but not the glue that binds I really like someone’s intellect good luck to them ❤️ Is beautiful
that assistant did benjamin so dirty with the photos
37 and 53. That's a problem?
He looks like 63. Means my partner are almost in our 50 but I don’t think we will look like that at the age of 53.
Age is a number....it's all in your attitude and outlook on life
Sir Benjamin has a lovely sense of humour.
“As soon as possible” at age 73. 👏🏾
You should fight for your true love, don't listen to those who envy you, just keep doing what you do for your family.
16:42 is that Caroline Stanbery? (spelling) omgoodness WOW this had to be right before she did housewives of London. 😂I adore her because despite everything they say about her. She doesn't stop and hasn't stop working. She's no gold digger.
The old sir could use a surrogate. He would have more control over the process.
He's a fuddy duddy. 😀
And have a better chance for a boy!
Carolyn is amazing, sure she's had advantages but is very capable!
Money’s all well but imagine being a bird trapped in a gilded cage yearning to be free 😢
I was just thinking the same
British ROYALTY !!!
@@carojames6776 please elaborate.
thats the price you pay. you have to sit and wait till they die
💯💯
It makes me sick to see such materialism addiction when there are millions of refugees in the world who can't have a decent meal. How many houses do you need, how many cars do your need, how many pair of shoes do you need.... I don't get it. What a boring life to have to worry about getting more stuff all the time.
TOTALLY AGREE!!!!
Such a hipocrtite you are agnes .you are a frustated gold digger
Sir Benjamin and Miss Kelly are giving me life. Side note, Love is love. If you are blessed to find it, go with it. You are not ice cream you can't make everyone happy. Do you.
Right is right and wrong is wrong says God.
Good for them, happy wife, happy life.
SIR BENJAMIN should of started a family 20 yrs sooner!!!!!! I just want to vomit in my mouth the thought of him wanting someone 35 yrs younger
I don't understand why someone would collect/buy so many guns😮
At age 73, Sr. Benjamin still wants more, more, more. How sad, as if material objects create happiness. One would think, by that age, a person would have gained a better understand of what's important in life, And, in that past 30-40 years, what kept him from seriously pursuing marriage and children? And he wants "two sons", as if daughters are not desirable. Rather than focusing on having an heir, perhaps Sr. Benjamin could research worthy charitable organizations to support. The planet needs protecting, millions of people are struggling, single mothers could certainly us assistance, people need help affording college, animals need homes, and so forth. Those are very worthy causes. Sell your estate, move into a modest residence, and do some things to make the world a better place. That will bring you lots of happiness.
He has a daughter with Sahara Sunday, her name is Violet, yet he is still looking for a woman to give him sons. Benjamin Slade doesn't support his daughter financially.
Agreed!
Some good points, but you're not a man. To men a male heir is very important, not that you won't love & bless your daughters. Also, unlike women who expire by mid/late 30s' men are fertile till their 60s'. But he is too caught up in material things which is sad because many aquire some degree of Wisdom by that age😕
@@forward_ever_ever2595 My husband is a mature, intelligent man of integrity. He had his one daughter when he was in his fifties. It was a very meaningful, beautiful and satisfying experience, and he loves her dearly. He has never expressed any need for a "male heir". Indeed, he just replied that the "male heir" concept comes from "19th century thinking" and it is "inappropriate" and based upon the (often religious) patriarchal systems of the past. His final comment, "Nonsensical."
@@christinaannabel actually it stems from way before that, biblical times. And yes it maybe his perspective, and "nonesensical" based on his perspective. However to others it matters to maintain their lineage especially where family businesses have been built for generations.
😊Kelly I love how u rock your heels 👠 and fashion I wish bill and u more 💕
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