It's refreshing and wholesome to see people who are not judgmental. The way I ultimately see it is if two people say they love each other, genuinely make each other happy, and don’t care about the age thing, who is anyone to say otherwise? If a young woman wants to be in a relationship with someone closer to her age, that’s great; no one is forcing anyone to do anything. But, if they desire a relationship, don’t they deserve the human right to be with whomever they wish? I'm not saying that anyone should have a romantic relationship if they feel they are not ready for it, or with someone they do not want to have one with. But I advocate choice. Advocating young adults to have romantic relationships with someone their age but never with older adults is ridiculous, because there is no scientific evidence that a significant age difference automatically results in a bad experience for the younger person if the relationship was mutually desired by both participants. A concern I have with casting judgement toward these relationships is that it contributes to an ever-increasing artificial divide between older and younger people which seems to work out okay for most people but makes life hell for others for no good reason. The worst part of the hysteria is that our entire modern society is structured to deliberately hinder maturation. They want us to be as childlike and dependent for as long as possible. We treat young people all the way up to even the late 30’s as irresponsible youths incapable of making their own decisions who are in need of constant “protection” as an excuse to rob them of their rights and take their voices away. In actuality, young are capable of some of the most extraordinary feats of human ingenuity and progress if given the means to do so. This was the way it was in early America and was attributed as the reason why Americans were the finest citizens on the planet. Dating is connected to sexuality. And the modern hysteria over age-gaps has a disproportionate amount of emotion connected to it in the mindset of sex-obsessed and ostensibly sex-negative society. Far more empirically destructive events like being exposed to the effects of war; neglect; living under widespread impoverished conditions; being shot to death by getting caught in the crossfire of gang-related violence; and having no adequate access to health care and thus constantly subjected to the horribly debilitating effects of curable medical conditions like malnutrition and dysentery, etc., just do not pack the same emotional "punch" as relationships involving significant age gaps. Young adults who emotionally heal from exposure to the non-sexual phenomena explained above are rightfully applauded. But those who do not feel "damaged" from consensual age-gap relationships , and those who may heal quickly or adequately from genuine problems that arise from such relationships, become problematic to Western cultural sensibilities; it threatens to unravel the cultural paradigms that young adults are expected to personify and be complicit with. This is why our culture and the legislation in its penal codes gives a disproportionate amount of attention and "concern" to sexual-related matters of harm to young people--whether real or manufactured. This is why you see the media and concerned organizations putting far more resources into investigating young people working as prostitutes in Third World nations over and above those that investigate the results of the U.S. government refusing to ban the use of cluster bombs and landmines that result in untold demonstrable harm being inflicted upon youths in these nations despite the latter being a rare phenomenon that only happens in homes. The idea or aftermath of a young people's legs being blown off by finding or stepping on a land mine simply packs less of an emotional offense to the sensibilities of the modern Western mindset. A youth with their limbs blown off by a land mine or dropped from a remote controlled drone plane is not harmed in the eyes of the West as do those who have romantic relationships with a much older person. It's that simple, and it shows where our priorities as a society will lie as long as we remain so sex-negative and hell-bent on repressing youth sexuality and dating.
This was interesting to watch. If I was a millionaire/ billionaire I would NOT disclose that I was wealthy. I would look and be average to see if the person actually loved me for me
But I bet you’d be really upset if the person you were dating lied to you. I don’t really think that’s a good approach to starting a new relationship. Trust me, you’ll be able to tell whether or not he/she really loves you but starting a human interaction with a test… not a good idea in my opinion.
Charity? No. Just help random people in need personally. Charity uses it for their profit and often has way to I many restrictions so most people don't get help.
Jon loves Najlah. She keeps him fit, too, as his personal trainer. To me, they seem legit. My only concern, which I think think the father of the girl shares too, is that Jon has been married twice before. That poses some doubts regarding his commitment to marriage
It’s not true happiness or love. It’s pure lust and temporary happiness. They date for either their young body or wallet. Though some couples do it for true love though. It’s rare however.
The notion that something is wrong with you unless you date people your own age is bizarre. The only thing that REALLY matters in a relationship is how people feel about each other. Age gap relationships have been the norm for all of human history for good reason. The fact that so many people today are so much in the closet about them is a comfy indication to people that adult attraction to younger adults is a rare phenomenon confined to a small handful of deviants, despite the fact that art and literature throughout human history easily refute this popular claim. Our species forms long-term pair bonds between older men and young women as our reproductive strategy. Young women are at peak reproductive value (most potential future babies), and grown men are best able to protect and provide for a woman and her potential offspring. This is the most reproductively successful pair bond for our species, which explains why this has been the norm all over the world since the dawn of civilization. Only after the industrial revolution (1% of history or the last 40 years) and recently did radical feminists manage to stigmatize the most natural and beneficial pair bonds we have with unsubstantiated and emotionally manipulative rhetoric passing off their sophistry as gospel truth; it’s our most powerful weapon in our arsenal for staving off the imminent and ever-present threat of extinction. It is what kept us going when we were on the brink of extinction 70,000 years ago. Our modern taboo of anything other than same-age relationships is the most deviant sexual norm of any society in history. Today it is considered one of the worst norms you can engage in despite the many other horrible things in existence. It takes indoctrination from a very young age for people to believe that there’s something wrong about this. A problem with the modern stigma toward age gaps is that it's adding to the increasingly rampant age segregation in society. If you're not a parent, you need to treat all young people as if they carry the zombie plague. Even if you’re a teacher or a coach and regularly work with young people, you are strongly encouraged to keep your distance from them and to treat them as nothing more than students, and never as friends. If older people avoid forming friendships with young people who reach out to them and form a connection with them in large numbers, there will be no way to prove to today's ageist society that these friendships can be very positive and rewarding for both people. Young and older people each have their own unique perspective of the world, and each can have a unique form of wisdom to offer each other. Both can learn much from each other. If intergenerational friendships become virtually extinct, we cannot show society how beneficial these friendships are to people from both age groups. It would be a tremendous loss for many people in society, and the incessant age segregation of our present day society would grow even more pronounced than it is now. Marginalizing the contact between age groups is a ploy designed primarily to keep younger people themselves marginalized from anybody who has the capability of making important decisions in society at the present time. It's dirty pool masquerading as "protection."
LoL she's a GOLD DIGGER ‼️🙄🤦♀️ people🤷♀️...think back when they went Shopping HOW MANY SHOES?? HOW MANY HANDBAGS?? LOL‼️🤔🙄😂😂😂 AND HIS DAUGHTERS FAKE LAUGHS 🤦♀️🤷♀️😱
I’m completely against big age gaps in dating, but seeing the couple that met biking I’m having a change of heart. I’m just happy they found each other🥰
Najla is a go-getter within in her own right--not a gold digger they run a network marketing business and she is fierce. she is a God send to him and he knows it and appreciates her
@@dropdroppie1653 all up in some's business--do you know what she does for him? have you met her? have you talked with her? she is feminine genuine business minded-definitely holds him accountable to his purposeful vision and propels him into his power-Men of mens and vision look for women to assist cause a woman of substance will put you further than you can go alone--Men of means usually always seek out women not lazy women but purposeful women with aligned goals
Wishing Jon and Najila a lifetime of happiness. When I was Najila’s age I was dating men older than Jon. As long as they make each other happy other happy, that’s all that matters. People saying she just cares about the shopping, she is only 25, she is going to enjoy the shopping, it does not mean she doesn’t genuinely love him.
@@kwesiackon1296I have only ever dated 10+ years older..I'm with her. I'm 45 now and wouldn't date.a 24 year old. I asked my daughter's permission and she said NO😅 she's 27
Most Men do NOT care about Race/Color unless it’s something their parents instilled in them to discriminate or unless their Inheritance or Trust Fund will be taken away from them. Once a Man 👨 🧔🏼🧔🏻 is SELF MADE and Financially Established, he can NO LONGER care about being written out of his parent’s Will or Trust. He will Marry the woman and live his OWN life on his OWN accord. That’s what Prince William did. 💯🎯🤷🏾♀️
I STRONGLY believe that if we don’t marry for the right reasons, like compatibility, love, shared values, and commitment to the sanctity of marriage, then we will not be happy. Period. No money in the world can buy you happiness. Marrying for the wrong reasons never ends well. It’s not worth it.
Actually money and infidelity are the two main reasons for divorce. You’ll regret not marrying someone with money when you fall on hard times and have to stand on that bus stop in the rain with two kids and a cheating husband.
All these couples seem genuine, you can tell by the way they interact with each other! Money is money but it does not keep people together. If money and beauty kept people together, people like Halle Berry and Elizabeth Taylor and Jeff Bezos would be married forever! Love is 100 times more important than money! Money comes and money goes but finding somebody that you truly enjoy and that you can love, that's priceless!
I did too, I commented on her house post asking "wow, I love that house it's HUGE, how do you clean that thing?" She responded like thee most entitled ugly soul I've ever seen. "Wtf do you think, I have a something square ft home, you think I slave and clean this myself?" After I put money in their business I felt she was evil and left after that. God doesn't like ugly, she needs to stay humble, life will humble you. She'll learn
My parents were 19 years apart. Mom was 23 & Dad was 42 when I was born. They were together, until my father passed away in 1999, at the tender age of 70. I’m a love child. 😊
@@TriggaTreDay I will be 60 in 2 1/2 years. That woman does NOT look 60. She looks 70, so she might as well tell the truth. My profile picture is from June 2023 in case you 👀 🤣
Lynn is fun. I like her. The interracial couple seems happy. The cycling couple seems happy too. The hairstylist and his wife seem unhappy. I think age and finances matter in all relationships but most importantly equity and respect within the partnership. I wish them all the best.
Lynn and her loud outburst laughing was so low class. The hairstylist couple didn't have good chemistry. She didn't vibe with love, just being a kept woman
I love the fact that he said ' for richer and richer'. I will add 'for better and best'. I'm not putting negativity into the universe. I mean, who wants to be poor, actually? Money makes life sweet. Love these types of documentaries btw.
True, but the meaning of for richer or poor or better or worse is to ensure that if something happens your partner won’t dip. I understand not putting negativity into the universe but being realistic and being prepared for the negative is always better. I wouldn’t want a partner that would leave the second some less than positive happens. Positive and negative have to coexist to create balance. It’s the legit law of the universe itself. I hope this perspective makes since as well. But of course always stay as positive as you can. Best wishes for you 😊🎉
Apparently, you haven’t seen what is in vogue in the p0rnography world. Grandma p0rn is a thing. I found that out accidentally while using my roommate’s computer. 😂🤨😭
Well, she is from Eastern Europe and poor so hey let her concentrate on the guy so kid can have a better life. What's wrong with that. They don't live together and she controls her life with her son in France. Don't judge you would do the same
Well, Arizona is one of the RACIST STATES IN America so, I am not surprised that both their parents are not happy with this union because they both experienced different racial discrimination when they were young. America is still EVERY RACIST as if today!
I am 39, a black Nigerian strong queen. In a relationship with a 65 year old white American. We ve been on and off for 4years. He’s not rich rich but quite stable. Honestly, he treated me like a queen that I am. We never stayed mad at each other, and didn’t feel the age gap at all. He’s an absolute gentleman and we both loved each other dearly. On May 3rd, 2024, I made the toughest decision to end the relationship. He doesn’t want kids and I do. He already has a 23 year old son and said he’s too old for kids. We both held on for the past 4years hoping things would change. But unfortunately I had to let go. Couldn’t see my self trading the joy of motherhood. Honestly, it hurts to let go. But I have to be single again to find me another man. Hopefully soon 🥰 From my on point of view or experience, love is a beautiful thing and definitely sweeter when money is involved, age is just a number. Congratulations to John & Najlay❤
I'm an RN who was in a long-term relationship with a man 27 years my senior. He was very wealthy but the only money I took from him was at Christmas time when we exchanged gifts. He would ask me to get my own gift as he didn't know what to get me. I eventually ended the relationship because he cheated on me repeatedly. He tried to get me back but I moved away and swore my friends and relatives not to share my whereabouts.
Good for you. You will find someone better. I've heard of people that have gotten better a person a couple of age older not 8 or 10 yrs older more like 3 or 4 years older after a big gap mistake and worked better.
This is what I'm thinking, wondering if the very young have own ideas about making their own millions with the resources at hand . I mean 20 LV/Gucci bags and sports cars aren't going to go far if he decides I'm now too old, (Hermes is a different story😂, but they dont but 30 of those....ok...Ronaldo does..I digress!) from my experience though, those men don't want career/busy business women, those are inconvenient, can't be at their back and call. These couples seem genuine to me though.
Modesta seemed to be trying hard to show that she's in love with John but I don't believe she really is. Does he notice it too? They've been together already for five years, do not live together, and seems that he has no plans of marrying her. I think he is happy as he is now and his commitment is to his charity. Did I hear it right when he said he'll leave 70% of his wealth to the charity?
@@hintu2990 ..as a mom, I would instinctively grab my child's hand when crossing a street🤔...she was so preoccupied with John's wellbeing (at the race) she just left the boy to trail behind.🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
My dad is wealthy and I see lots of women like her doing too much around him. I love my dad but he’s not a Greek god 😂 and that extra behaviour is so obvious to everyone.
I do not understand how a guy can be a sugar baby. Women can fake it, but men can’t. Maybe some of these younger guys are into older women? I have found some pretty weird p0rn on my roommate’s computer in the past… The women looked older than this lady. 😂
Modesta holding on to John for dear life 😂😂😂. Sis you’re doing too much. No normal woman behaves like that. John don’t marry her or at least have a prenup. Jon and fiancée seem more natural and at ease. Lynn needs to be realistic.😂
I think age gap relationships are cool if the younger person is in their 30’s. When it’s a 18-20 something year old with someone 2-3x their age, it just screams ‘predatory’ because there’s such a big difference in experience, maturity and mindset.
I think it’s okay if the younger person is at least in their mid to late 20s (25 and up). Those are fully grown adults. We can’t tell them who they should or shouldn’t date. Early 20s may be a diff story
My parents were 16 in age difference with my mother already have a son when they met. Not everyone was happy; but they came to learn my father ADORED my mother; and if they didnt like it too bad
I dated someone 25 years older when i was 25. We both had 8 year old girls which helped but I've always been an old soul so we got along really well. Unfortunately i wanted another baby and he was fixed..he also had two adult children
I do believe age matters. I have personally known couples with age difference and so far none have lasted. The true test would be if the money was taken away, what would happen?
Removing money from the equation would make life more difficult for everyone. Many women seek a man who is ambitious and can lead, while men often desire different qualities. Ultimately, it boils down to the dynamics of their individual relationship.
I had opportunities to be a golddigger when I was younger. But I couldn't imagine myself being intimate with someone I'm not in love with. And just fake it for their money.
Would you people stop referring to her as THE BLACK GIRL!!! How would you like people calling you the white or clear girl (or whatever ethnicity you are) because they didn't have enough brain cells to correctly spell your name. A 3rd grade education would tell you to at least say the couple who got married instead of even going there with that low-key hating black girl term. 🙄🖐
Nicky and Kelly are my favourite. They are honest and joke about the age-gap rather than saying he is young at heart and he can take a bit of ribbing, rather than being insecure about it. Was nice to hear they didn’t fancy each other in the beginning, but rather came to like each other after some time. I quite like Manveer too. ❤
I love it, and I quote, "I'm really not a flashy guy, I just like nice things. As he rolls up in a car like that. No wonder these people want to find the fountain of youth. If I had that kind of money, I'd never want to die either.
She's not natural with him. Always on her best behavior so he'll have no reason not to marry her. He sees that about her. I doubt she's the only woman he's seeing anyway
I’m 43 and my husband is 63. We both agree we wouldn’t have dated at any other time or been able to because I probably wouldn’t have been born yet, than at this time in our life. All had lined up for us and feels so natural, peaceful and fun.
@@mercywagaki4154 you are right! And when you have lived some life and know what true happiness is for yourself and then with another, you are gonna appreciate and cherish it so much more.
Oh boy. My husband was 20 years older, broke and narcissist. We had 2 kids. Im still recovering since our separation 4 yrs ago. Money would have helped with my exit stra!😂
@empresswilandefrederici86 you are so right. I aged much faster.. I will be 56 but feel much older. These years I have left are about loving and taking care of me!
@newbee628 you are just two years ahead of my mum and I say it with my chest you are young and beautiful. I pray you feel better about where you are in life and I know God will restore the years you feel lost. He restores. I don't know but I am sending you ALOT OF LOVE from Nairobi Kenya. ❤❤ Ps when you wake up be saying "niko sawa kila kitu itakuwa sawa" I am fine and everything will be fine is what it means.
@irriswarrirris Thank you! Your message touched my heart, and I needed it at this moment. I know God is listening to my prayers! Thank you. May God continue to bless you!! I would love to visit Kenya one day!
John looks good! Hes got that swag about him, Lol Im 38 i would def date him Before even knowing his income Ppl always hate on interracial couples. Especially if theyre a good looking couple together Ive experienced it myself several times
Lynn is really the recruiter she is😂. Running through em cvs and interviews😊. Love her laughter, she seems to be a ball of energy & thats definitely something! I really hope she did /do find happiness in her love life
Older men provide security, stability and open doors. I am 37 and my boyfriend is 64. I can’t imagine my life without him, he has done well for himself but I honestly don’t see the money. I am accomplished myself and when I met him few yrs ago he really empowered me to get my own. Money is not why a lot of ppl choose older men get over it!
I mean isn't the first line of this comment. "Older men provide security, stability and open doors". In other words, they offer something in the financial realm to be had. I am sure that alot of women do actually love thier older partners. It's just funny the way this is worded.
@HirutSelassie-s8c what is your point? I didn't say women didn't want security from younger partners. I am saying some younder women do actually love thier older partners.
I think the difference is that older richer women keep their things more discreet because society frowns upon them dating younger whereas many still see it as “cool” for men. So men are more open about chasing and flaunting much younger partners. Also, women really didn’t have as much time to have accumulated this much wealth independently with this level of freedom.
@@mtsemcomfort2255 It’s because men in their 40s are having a midlife crisis and many actually go out of their way to want to date younger. I think she’ll find it easier to get a boy toy if he’s in his 20s or even 30s. There’s definitely a generational shift on what’s considered appropriate.
He should be driving a Ferrari instead of changing nappies oh my gosh she is so screwed he's already gaslighting her for having a baby like she did it on her own
I’ve dated a guy 18 years younger than me. At 6’10” to my 5’5”, he actually played college basketball at the time. I never heard the end of it from my family and friends. 🙄
How interesting is this? I loved the gorgeous brown young lady whose parents were initially apprehensive of their daughter marrying John....loved the mom with her amazingly classiness!!! Great video for sire!!!
Most Parents become jealous of these types of relationships. Regardless of age or race: The Parents get jealous because she/he wishes she/he could marry a man as wealthy as their daughter/ son,💯
@@riri1718She met that multibillionair on her dreams..do you think the rich people watch this content and write on the comment section?? They do other stuff for sure😅
Havent finished watching, but from the beginning, loved the hairstylist's relationship, seemed authentic to me, wish they remain together...happy..for life. Liked the older lady only after seeing her mom and what she did for her at the very start of her success....had me bawling my eyes out coz mine lived in the house I got her only 10 months and passed...she was half this lady's age too....love her..the mom, shes witty.
Love is love and I’m happy for them! I can tell you from experience that having a little bit of money and being with someone you absolutely cannot stand is not worth it. I couldn’t even be with a billionaire if I didn’t love him. It’s just not possible for me I’ve never really understood the concept of being a gold digger. What’s the point of having money if you have to spend time with someone you can’t stand?
When you find good hearted man you look at his soul not the age mine 17 older than me was broke when we met he is now rising and we're living really and joyfuly comfortably now 🎉
Exactly she fell in love with her husband when she was 12 and he was 49, she waited until he was 18 to make her move 😂 even when her family wanted a young Prince Charming for her she wanted him
A husband who does hair 😍😍, now that’s a Godsend 😅!
no its not unless you want an effeminate man. no wonder so many males are gay now you would encourage this duality its sick 🤢
😂😂😂😂😂RIGHT!!!
If he makes wigs even better 😅😅😅. A different, new me every day 😅
Facts lol
Agree. A husband that can do hair or cook is my weakness!
Beauty meets wealth... supply and demand. No judgment...wish them the best
😂😂😂tats a good one... Beauty meets wealth
Basic economic is the best
It's refreshing and wholesome to see people who are not judgmental. The way I ultimately see it is if two people say they love each other, genuinely make each other happy, and don’t care about the age thing, who is anyone to say otherwise? If a young woman wants to be in a relationship with someone closer to her age, that’s great; no one is forcing anyone to do anything. But, if they desire a relationship, don’t they deserve the human right to be with whomever they wish? I'm not saying that anyone should have a romantic relationship if they feel they are not ready for it, or with someone they do not want to have one with. But I advocate choice. Advocating young adults to have romantic relationships with someone their age but never with older adults is ridiculous, because there is no scientific evidence that a significant age difference automatically results in a bad experience for the younger person if the relationship was mutually desired by both participants.
A concern I have with casting judgement toward these relationships is that it contributes to an ever-increasing artificial divide between older and younger people which seems to work out okay for most people but makes life hell for others for no good reason. The worst part of the hysteria is that our entire modern society is structured to deliberately hinder maturation. They want us to be as childlike and dependent for as long as possible. We treat young people all the way up to even the late 30’s as irresponsible youths incapable of making their own decisions who are in need of constant “protection” as an excuse to rob them of their rights and take their voices away. In actuality, young are capable of some of the most extraordinary feats of human ingenuity and progress if given the means to do so. This was the way it was in early America and was attributed as the reason why Americans were the finest citizens on the planet.
Dating is connected to sexuality. And the modern hysteria over age-gaps has a disproportionate amount of emotion connected to it in the mindset of sex-obsessed and ostensibly sex-negative society. Far more empirically destructive events like being exposed to the effects of war; neglect; living under widespread impoverished conditions; being shot to death by getting caught in the crossfire of gang-related violence; and having no adequate access to health care and thus constantly subjected to the horribly debilitating effects of curable medical conditions like malnutrition and dysentery, etc., just do not pack the same emotional "punch" as relationships involving significant age gaps.
Young adults who emotionally heal from exposure to the non-sexual phenomena explained above are rightfully applauded. But those who do not feel "damaged" from consensual age-gap relationships , and those who may heal quickly or adequately from genuine problems that arise from such relationships, become problematic to Western cultural sensibilities; it threatens to unravel the cultural paradigms that young adults are expected to personify and be complicit with.
This is why our culture and the legislation in its penal codes gives a disproportionate amount of attention and "concern" to sexual-related matters of harm to young people--whether real or manufactured. This is why you see the media and concerned organizations putting far more resources into investigating young people working as prostitutes in Third World nations over and above those that investigate the results of the U.S. government refusing to ban the use of cluster bombs and landmines that result in untold demonstrable harm being inflicted upon youths in these nations despite the latter being a rare phenomenon that only happens in homes. The idea or aftermath of a young people's legs being blown off by finding or stepping on a land mine simply packs less of an emotional offense to the sensibilities of the modern Western mindset. A youth with their limbs blown off by a land mine or dropped from a remote controlled drone plane is not harmed in the eyes of the West as do those who have romantic relationships with a much older person. It's that simple, and it shows where our priorities as a society will lie as long as we remain so sex-negative and hell-bent on repressing youth sexuality and dating.
Money is a factor in every relationship old or young.
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You need money regardless if ur single or not. You have to live... common sense. However, money is the main factor in these deranged age gaps
Of course! However, most do not date or marry someone they likely do not care for.
finally, common sense entered the chat!
Yes with out it they would never go with each other 😊
This was interesting to watch. If I was a millionaire/ billionaire I would NOT disclose that I was wealthy. I would look and be average to see if the person actually loved me for me
Facts!
You will find no one
I wouldn’t even get married if I was wealthy unless I was already married like now
But I bet you’d be really upset if the person you were dating lied to you. I don’t really think that’s a good approach to starting a new relationship. Trust me, you’ll be able to tell whether or not he/she really loves you but starting a human interaction with a test… not a good idea in my opinion.
We need wealthy young men who like to date older women
That guy is so rich he not used to the poor anymore "for richer and richer"😅
He did well with that.
🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
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John leaving 70% of his wealth to charity👏👏👏He has a kind heart
There would still be 450 millions left over
Instead he can share it with his employers too
Charity? No. Just help random people in need personally. Charity uses it for their profit and often has way to I many restrictions so most people don't get help.
He should leave some to all the people that work for him or just give it yo them now to help their lives
Five years and he hasn’t married her
Jon loves Najlah. She keeps him fit, too, as his personal trainer. To me, they seem legit.
My only concern, which I think think the father of the girl shares too, is that Jon has been married twice before. That poses some doubts regarding his commitment to marriage
Yes what were the previous problems why they didn't last
He’s a ex drug addict too
I find it strange that her pops is more concerned that he is white. I would've thought the age gap was more inappropriate to him first. Lol.
My exact thought. 😮
Najlah is so pretty
I’m not even mad at them whatever makes them happy
Agreed
It’s not true happiness or love. It’s pure lust and temporary happiness. They date for either their young body or wallet. Though some couples do it for true love though. It’s rare however.
The notion that something is wrong with you unless you date people your own age is bizarre. The only thing that REALLY matters in a relationship is how people feel about each other. Age gap relationships have been the norm for all of human history for good reason. The fact that so many people today are so much in the closet about them is a comfy indication to people that adult attraction to younger adults is a rare phenomenon confined to a small handful of deviants, despite the fact that art and literature throughout human history easily refute this popular claim.
Our species forms long-term pair bonds between older men and young women as our reproductive strategy. Young women are at peak reproductive value (most potential future babies), and grown men are best able to protect and provide for a woman and her potential offspring. This is the most reproductively successful pair bond for our species, which explains why this has been the norm all over the world since the dawn of civilization. Only after the industrial revolution (1% of history or the last 40 years) and recently did radical feminists manage to stigmatize the most natural and beneficial pair bonds we have with unsubstantiated and emotionally manipulative rhetoric passing off their sophistry as gospel truth; it’s our most powerful weapon in our arsenal for staving off the imminent and ever-present threat of extinction. It is what kept us going when we were on the brink of extinction 70,000 years ago. Our modern taboo of anything other than same-age relationships is the most deviant sexual norm of any society in history. Today it is considered one of the worst norms you can engage in despite the many other horrible things in existence. It takes indoctrination from a very young age for people to believe that there’s something wrong about this.
A problem with the modern stigma toward age gaps is that it's adding to the increasingly rampant age segregation in society. If you're not a parent, you need to treat all young people as if they carry the zombie plague. Even if you’re a teacher or a coach and regularly work with young people, you are strongly encouraged to keep your distance from them and to treat them as nothing more than students, and never as friends. If older people avoid forming friendships with young people who reach out to them and form a connection with them in large numbers, there will be no way to prove to today's ageist society that these friendships can be very positive and rewarding for both people. Young and older people each have their own unique perspective of the world, and each can have a unique form of wisdom to offer each other. Both can learn much from each other. If intergenerational friendships become virtually extinct, we cannot show society how beneficial these friendships are to people from both age groups. It would be a tremendous loss for many people in society, and the incessant age segregation of our present day society would grow even more pronounced than it is now. Marginalizing the contact between age groups is a ploy designed primarily to keep younger people themselves marginalized from anybody who has the capability of making important decisions in society at the present time. It's dirty pool masquerading as "protection."
I am glad that John's daughters get along with his fiancee!
John’s fiancé is gorgeous.
@@ahuvaadina2726 LOVE THEM..."PERFECT" MATCH🎯
@@charityskygrace Agree. It seems like they go together.
@@thepragmatist YES BEAUTIFUL COUPLE!
LoL she's a GOLD DIGGER ‼️🙄🤦♀️ people🤷♀️...think back when they went Shopping HOW MANY SHOES?? HOW MANY HANDBAGS?? LOL‼️🤔🙄😂😂😂 AND HIS DAUGHTERS FAKE LAUGHS 🤦♀️🤷♀️😱
I would date a older rich man ❤
Lol! Me too, but not too much older because I'm the old 😂 but I prefer younger men.
😂lmao
@@montecito12...lol😂😂😂I don't prefer younger men but they are the ones who approach me more than older men....but I have made peace with it now
You should o. 😂
Same. Just not a senile one unless no sx was involved
I’m completely against big age gaps in dating, but seeing the couple that met biking I’m having a change of heart. I’m just happy they found each other🥰
It was the biking huh 😂
@@jupitersworld244right? Hahahaha
Yessss, they look so in love. 😍😍💕
They seem genuine and he doesn't look that old
She's not allowed to live with him. The relationship is long distance and he let her know upfront he's leaving the majority of his money to charity
John and his girlfriend and the ones that met while biking seem really compatible and happy together👏❤️
What about her son? He did not run and hug the man that's been in his short life for 5 YEARS!!😮 No attention paid to the son. Is what I saw.
I agree she's a great match. He's an adrenaline junkie...those types of men are exhausting to date. Good for her and her son.
Thats not how they met
Perspective changes as you age
Najla is a go-getter within in her own right--not a gold digger they run a network marketing business and she is fierce. she is a God send to him and he knows it and appreciates her
ONLY IF SHE GOT KIDS I APROVE THE MONEY GOES TO THE KIDS !
@@dropdroppie1653 all up in some's business--do you know what she does for him? have you met her? have you talked with her? she is feminine genuine business minded-definitely holds him accountable to his purposeful vision and propels him into his power-Men of mens and vision look for women to assist cause a woman of substance will put you further than you can go alone--Men of means usually always seek out women not lazy women but purposeful women with aligned goals
They shouldn't have even made this list. Their age gap is normal.
Hopefully They Are Still Married In 2024. Married In June 1st 2019
Thats a lie. She was a corn star and is still an escort. Google her name
Even though Nicky is alot older than Kelley, it doesnt show. Nicky looks very good for his age and their energy match each other. They seem happy.
Don’t let his hair fool you.
Botox
I was literally thinking the same thing
Now the man that got married to the black woman is fire!!!! Yassss❤
Wishing Jon and Najila a lifetime of happiness. When I was Najila’s age I was dating men older than Jon. As long as they make each other happy other happy, that’s all that matters. People saying she just cares about the shopping, she is only 25, she is going to enjoy the shopping, it does not mean she doesn’t genuinely love him.
Najila seems innocent, she's a puppy and likes to play(shop) and has found someone who also wants to play(spend).
Its all good till the purse strings need to tighten or Najila wants some autonomy
John& Najia are awesome individuals. Met them at an event yrs ago. Both are super sweet and very down to earth.
Hottie 💘
I’m 30 and wouldn’t date a 24year old😭😭😭😂😂. She’s 72 and dating a 24yo? Wow!
Rite! What on earth would they have in common?
So you think a 6 years gap is a problem? What are you smoking?
@@kwesiackon1296I have only ever dated 10+ years older..I'm with her. I'm 45 now and wouldn't date.a 24 year old. I asked my daughter's permission and she said NO😅 she's 27
Me too and I’m 25 lol 😅
@@kwesiackon1296Why is it a "problem" and not a preference?
I like John, especially the fact he doesn't watch race(color),for that he has my utmost respect.
Most men do not. If they do it is because it was pumped into their head as a child growing up by their parents..
I guess the same can be said of his fiancée.
Beautiful is beautiful... Men don't think about that unless they are totally racist
Most Men do NOT care about Race/Color unless it’s something their parents instilled in them to discriminate or unless their Inheritance or Trust Fund will be taken away from them. Once a Man 👨 🧔🏼🧔🏻 is SELF MADE and Financially Established, he can NO LONGER care about being written out of his parent’s Will or Trust. He will Marry the woman and live his OWN life on his OWN accord. That’s what Prince William did. 💯🎯🤷🏾♀️
It's the size of the heart, not the color of the skin
I STRONGLY believe that if we don’t marry for the right reasons, like compatibility, love, shared values, and commitment to the sanctity of marriage, then we will not be happy. Period. No money in the world can buy you happiness. Marrying for the wrong reasons never ends well. It’s not worth it.
Very true.
My mom married for those reasons and got burned! Live your life and enjoy yourself!
True, my boyfriend used to be homeless and I loved him for him and not for his situations
Actually money and infidelity are the two main reasons for divorce. You’ll regret not marrying someone with money when you fall on hard times and have to stand on that bus stop in the rain with two kids and a cheating husband.
Thank you 💯
All these couples seem genuine, you can tell by the way they interact with each other! Money is money but it does not keep people together. If money and beauty kept people together, people like Halle Berry and Elizabeth Taylor and Jeff Bezos would be married forever! Love is 100 times more important than money! Money comes and money goes but finding somebody that you truly enjoy and that you can love, that's priceless!
So True!
Well said!
Exactly
Absolutely ✔️
Marry your best friend. Halle kept settling for disrespectful losers
I like the interacial couple
Right I been following than for years
Me too
I did too, I commented on her house post asking "wow, I love that house it's HUGE, how do you clean that thing?" She responded like thee most entitled ugly soul I've ever seen. "Wtf do you think, I have a something square ft home, you think I slave and clean this myself?" After I put money in their business I felt she was evil and left after that. God doesn't like ugly, she needs to stay humble, life will humble you. She'll learn
Of course YOU would 😂😂
beautiful couple
My parents were 19 years apart. Mom was 23 & Dad was 42 when I was born. They were together, until my father passed away in 1999, at the tender age of 70. I’m a love child. 😊
Lynn needs to not lie about her age, and date younger men who don't mind older looking women🤷🏾♀️
😂😂😂 at 72 that’s a bit of a harder pill to swollen for most younger men. She looks 60 so it’s cool for her to say she’s 60.
I think it's for the sound of it, so I get it.
Yes, if she want an honest man that is not in relationship with her for money then she has to be honest too. It works both ways.
@@TriggaTreDay I will be 60 in 2 1/2 years. That woman does NOT look 60. She looks 70, so she might as well tell the truth.
My profile picture is from June 2023 in case you 👀 🤣
@@mowaters3992u look great. Lynn needs to stop and date men 40+.
The 48 years John looks good though🙄
It really does matter!
Not compared to young men. Or even men his age like David Beckham or Bradley Cooper
Yes he does!
Very good looking.
He looks very good and 48 is young
Everyone whos saying Lynn looks younger than her age is the reasom why she thinks men her age are too old😂.
I hear you 😂😂😂
She looks her age.
😅😅😅😅
Who said she looks younger 😅
She looks older
The Interracial Couple is my Favorite!!!!
Why?
That needs a follow up "how are they doing now"
Exactly.
John and Najilah have an Instagram I follow, ao when I saw them on the thumbnail, I had to click and watch.
Are They Still Together?
No need, most don’t last
SHE ISgoing nowhere😅😅😅@@AfricanUSA-th9ov
Lynn is fun. I like her. The interracial couple seems happy. The cycling couple seems happy too. The hairstylist and his wife seem unhappy. I think age and finances matter in all relationships but most importantly equity and respect within the partnership. I wish them all the best.
Lynn and her loud outburst laughing was so low class. The hairstylist couple didn't have good chemistry. She didn't vibe with love, just being a kept woman
The hairstylists wife was pregnant, let’s not forget that puts a strain on any relationship, age gap or not.
Awe I loved all the couples, they seemed genuinely happy and it was nice to see a woman millionaire dating younger for a change. Get it mama! 😂❤
I'm not convinced those guys aren't low-key gross by her and have younger women on the side.
they have always been popular, just not public. until the age of social media
I like john he seems so genuine, he seems like a person thats easy to like and i can see why she like him.
I love the fact that he said ' for richer and richer'. I will add 'for better and best'. I'm not putting negativity into the universe. I mean, who wants to be poor, actually? Money makes life sweet. Love these types of documentaries btw.
The love of money is the root of all evil. It has caused murder in relationships.
@@gennisparry4352 People with evil characters commit murder. It's no fault of money. So many have killed with motives other than money.
True, but the meaning of for richer or poor or better or worse is to ensure that if something happens your partner won’t dip. I understand not putting negativity into the universe but being realistic and being prepared for the negative is always better. I wouldn’t want a partner that would leave the second some less than positive happens. Positive and negative have to coexist to create balance. It’s the legit law of the universe itself. I hope this perspective makes since as well. But of course always stay as positive as you can. Best wishes for you 😊🎉
John doesn't look much older than Najlah. He looks younger than he is. Very good looking
No wonder she is confident 25:49 her momma is 99 years old. She knows she got a good chance at another 25 years.
If not longer! 😂😂❤
I love Lynn’s energy. The men also seem like they are enjoying life, age doesn’t matter, it goes both ways.
Lyn could at least go for 45 year old men
Its ridiculous for her to think a 24 year old man wants her body🤪he's young enough to be her grandson
I am sorry to say but I find it just so unatural and to be honest rather gross.
Apparently, you haven’t seen what is in vogue in the p0rnography world. Grandma p0rn is a thing. I found that out accidentally while using my roommate’s computer. 😂🤨😭
It's the same thing with the guys. It's not like she's doing anything different
Great-Grandson! lol
45 men don’t want her either
Najala and John are actually adorable…
No they are not
@@D13vestyou’re a real hater spreading lies. Are you single and unhappy?
Racist?
What’s your beef? 🥩
John and Modesta completely ignoring her son just broke my heart😢
That was my exact same thought!! That says a lot!
@@hildachacon001 yet their charity is for kids, the hypocrisy is astounding!
When the heck did that happen??
@@RuthLovesJesus on the racetrack event and while they were visiting the place where kids with special needs were
@@kinyuadoreen552933:12 timestamps
In Modesto case, she acting weird. That young boy seems left out. You can tell the mom is concentrating more on her wealthy guy than her son.
Well, she is from Eastern Europe and poor so hey let her concentrate on the guy so kid can have a better life. What's wrong with that. They don't live together and she controls her life with her son in France. Don't judge you would do the same
Well, Arizona is one of the RACIST STATES IN America so, I am not surprised that both their parents are not happy with this union because they both experienced different racial discrimination when they were young. America is still EVERY RACIST as if today!
So is the man. He didn't pay the boy any attention and the son did not go hug him bc he was safe. After 5 YEARS!!😢😢😢
Exactly I picked that up.... especially how he emphasized their date being just them two....he wants no parts of him.
I want to be Barbara mom when I grow up.
Better to be a old man's darling than a young man's slave.. Love it!!!
Makes no sense but okay
😂😅😂
If you can get the work, that is.
@Decades-pl2kl makes sense when you went through as young man slave
Young man’s fool*
I am 39, a black Nigerian strong queen. In a relationship with a 65 year old white American. We ve been on and off for 4years. He’s not rich rich but quite stable. Honestly, he treated me like a queen that I am. We never stayed mad at each other, and didn’t feel the age gap at all. He’s an absolute gentleman and we both loved each other dearly.
On May 3rd, 2024, I made the toughest decision to end the relationship. He doesn’t want kids and I do. He already has a 23 year old son and said he’s too old for kids. We both held on for the past 4years hoping things would change. But unfortunately I had to let go. Couldn’t see my self trading the joy of motherhood. Honestly, it hurts to let go. But I have to be single again to find me another man. Hopefully soon 🥰
From my on point of view or experience, love is a beautiful thing and definitely sweeter when money is involved, age is just a number.
Congratulations to John & Najlay❤
Nigerian men and women are scammers. each in their own way
Yikes! You wasted prime years with a man uninterested in kids when you wanted them. 🤯🥴
@@LadyK007 you right 🤦🏾♀️
16 years is not a big age gap. Im talking more like 30 or 40 years difference.
Why oh why does every African female call herself a queen your a great female but no queen you gotta mention it on a RUclips comment WOW!!!
I'm an RN who was in a long-term relationship with a man 27 years my senior. He was very wealthy but the only money I took from him was at Christmas time when we exchanged gifts. He would ask me to get my own gift as he didn't know what to get me. I eventually ended the relationship because he cheated on me repeatedly. He tried to get me back but I moved away and swore my friends and relatives not to share my whereabouts.
Good for you. You will find someone better. I've heard of people that have gotten better a person a couple of age older not 8 or 10 yrs older more like 3 or 4 years older after a big gap mistake and worked better.
Yup rich men love to gift you and cheat
Where did you get to know the Person i need the dating app please
I met mine at church..he was a wolf dressed in sheep clothing.
@@esthermichels5785 ooh no thats not nice to hear they can be hypocrates
Really enjoyed this wish all involved the very best and happiness for a lifetime
This is what I'm thinking, wondering if the very young have own ideas about making their own millions with the resources at hand . I mean 20 LV/Gucci bags and sports cars aren't going to go far if he decides I'm now too old, (Hermes is a different story😂, but they dont but 30 of those....ok...Ronaldo does..I digress!) from my experience though, those men don't want career/busy business women, those are inconvenient, can't be at their back and call.
These couples seem genuine to me though.
John and Modesta have an interesting dynamic..neither really interact with her son🤔🤔
True😢😢
Yeah, I noticed that
Modesta seemed to be trying hard to show that she's in love with John but I don't believe she really is. Does he notice it too? They've been together already for five years, do not live together, and seems that he has no plans of marrying her. I think he is happy as he is now and his commitment is to his charity. Did I hear it right when he said he'll leave 70% of his wealth to the charity?
Sad 😢 noticed that too.
@@hintu2990 ..as a mom, I would instinctively grab my child's hand when crossing a street🤔...she was so preoccupied with John's wellbeing (at the race) she just left the boy to trail behind.🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
John and Najilah have a fun Instagram that I follow, so when I saw them on the thumbnail, I had to click and watch♥️
What thier instagram?
What’s their IG?
You should google her name. Her corn videos don't look like too much fun
@@D13vest Her husband isn't complaining.
@@D13vest 😮 say what now
My husband and I we are 12 yr apart. When we got together i was 25 yr he was 37 yr been together 13 yrs. Happy as i could bee.
Eww.🤢
Chile, Modesta is just there for the bag😂😂😂Even ignoring her son 😢😢😢
She is weird too.
@@DJRenee Perhaps "the" raison why he doesn't marry her.
Ignoring her son was very obvious. They both did
My dad is wealthy and I see lots of women like her doing too much around him. I love my dad but he’s not a Greek god 😂 and that extra behaviour is so obvious to everyone.
@@GomemGwomen will split their insides open for a man that could care for them in a luxurious way😂
Ma’am it’s definitely your money.
It’s like she asked her own question 😮
Yes, she's not in good condition 😅
It's always money even if one is young. Why do you think young women have to work silly 😂😂😂
Was looking for this comment.
I do not understand how a guy can be a sugar baby. Women can fake it, but men can’t. Maybe some of these younger guys are into older women?
I have found some pretty weird p0rn on my roommate’s computer in the past… The women looked older than this lady. 😂
Modesta holding on to John for dear life 😂😂😂. Sis you’re doing too much. No normal woman behaves like that.
John don’t marry her or at least have a prenup.
Jon and fiancée seem more natural and at ease.
Lynn needs to be realistic.😂
Jon sees right through modesta trying to be happy and perfect all the time. He's calling the shots
Modesta is fake in my eyes - obvious gold-digger.
Yes, it is creepy the way she overdoes everything. So onvious that she is clinging to John 🤑
I think age gap relationships are cool if the younger person is in their 30’s. When it’s a 18-20 something year old with someone 2-3x their age, it just screams ‘predatory’ because there’s such a big difference in experience, maturity and mindset.
I think it’s okay if the younger person is at least in their mid to late 20s (25 and up). Those are fully grown adults. We can’t tell them who they should or shouldn’t date. Early 20s may be a diff story
It doesn't just "scream" it, it IS predatory.
Exactly. 25 and up at least. Let people experience life and find themselves first
It is true. I’m speaking from experience.
@kaylao.3326 25 y/o coworkers at my job constantly talk about their parents and how they have to adult. They are not ready to marry a 40 y/o
My parents were 16 in age difference with my mother already have a son when they met. Not everyone was happy; but they came to learn my father ADORED my mother; and if they didnt like it too bad
Did Lynn really say that young men may be after her BODY??!! Um, okay...
😂😂😂😂
DELUSIONAL. She might even have a touch of dementia 😂
🤣🤣🤣
Um I DONT think so😅😂😅
LMAO let people dream ❤🎉
I love Lyn's energy! She is fun!
I dated someone 25 years older when i was 25. We both had 8 year old girls which helped but I've always been an old soul so we got along really well. Unfortunately i wanted another baby and he was fixed..he also had two adult children
Nikki gradually fell in love with the money😅.
I didn't get IN LOVE vibes from her.
I do believe age matters. I have personally known couples with age difference and so far none have lasted. The true test would be if the money was taken away, what would happen?
I guess you will never know 😊
Removing money from the equation would make life more difficult for everyone. Many women seek a man who is ambitious and can lead, while men often desire different qualities. Ultimately, it boils down to the dynamics of their individual relationship.
I rather have someone to love me than after my money.
I had opportunities to be a golddigger when I was younger. But I couldn't imagine myself being intimate with someone I'm not in love with. And just fake it for their money.
😅😂😅
I love that Lynn's mom is still living. It's love to meet her. ❤
As long as people are respectful and happy…it is their business. Be happy
I for some reason enjoyed watching the older man spend money on the young Black girl, do what ever give you here longer
Love or not
Chile that's reparations...💀
@theblaqkhaleesi9559 😂😂😂
@@theblaqkhaleesi9559 That's sick! All i saw was a man pampering his woman.
Would you people stop referring to her as THE BLACK GIRL!!! How would you like people calling you the white or clear girl (or whatever ethnicity you are) because they didn't have enough brain cells to correctly spell your name. A 3rd grade education would tell you to at least say the couple who got married instead of even going there with that low-key hating black girl term. 🙄🖐
@@ninawestlake14 good.
Nicky looks like Austin Powers... Yeah, Baby, Yeah!!!😂❤
😂😂
A dad at 61...lmao my dad was 64! N my parent lasted decades❤ if it suits u go for it
It's risky and can cause complications and developmental disorders for the young mom and baby
My dad was 55 when I was born and my mom was 35
It seems to me that Lyn isn't really interested on getting married and settling down. I think that's why she dates men so much younger than she is.
🍆😂😂😂
Sprinkle🎉 Sprinkle🎉
Yeah🎉🎉🎉😂
Yessss❤❤❤
Nicky and Kelly are my favourite. They are honest and joke about the age-gap rather than saying he is young at heart and he can take a bit of ribbing, rather than being insecure about it. Was nice to hear they didn’t fancy each other in the beginning, but rather came to like each other after some time. I quite like Manveer too. ❤
Lynn is dating too damn young. She is the kids great grandma. Yucko
Right! I can see 45 ‐ 55 but in their 20's gross!!!
This is the only one I couldn't stomach.
*grandma. But yeah
Yeah that was disgusting
So true, but then again every last one of these perverts are.
Lyn looks great for her age. Must be those weekly massages.
Can't just be massages smarty
I absolutely love the laughter and spirit of the woman with the millions
I love it, and I quote, "I'm really not a flashy guy, I just like nice things. As he rolls up in a car like that. No wonder these people want to find the fountain of youth. If I had that kind of money, I'd never want to die either.
😂😂😂😅
Poor people don't want to die either
I don't think John Codwell will marry Madesta. She's wasting her time with him.
I agree
She's not natural with him. Always on her best behavior so he'll have no reason not to marry her. He sees that about her. I doubt she's the only woman he's seeing anyway
Congrats John and Naijaj!!!
Wishing you both all the very best. My husband is 20 yrs older than I am we are still together 15yrs later
How do you guys make it work?
I’m 43 and my husband is 63. We both agree we wouldn’t have dated at any other time or been able to because I probably wouldn’t have been born yet, than at this time in our life. All had lined up for us and feels so natural, peaceful and fun.
God that's so disgusting. I'm so sorry
@@sarahalderman3126 why do you say that?
@@danifacundo0830 don't mind her ,she is the disgusting one, happiness matter and if you're happy don't give an f to what anyone else think
@@mercywagaki4154 you are right! And when you have lived some life and know what true happiness is for yourself and then with another, you are gonna appreciate and cherish it so much more.
I am 52 and my husband of two years, is 72. We are soulmates:)
Oh boy. My husband was 20 years older, broke and narcissist. We had 2 kids. Im still recovering since our separation 4 yrs ago. Money would have helped with my exit stra!😂
I bet when you first started dating him you were saying "age ain't nothing but a number " you lo.st your youth..
You survived and escaped unscathed. 😅
You won.
@empresswilandefrederici86 you are so right. I aged much faster.. I will be 56 but feel much older. These years I have left are about loving and taking care of me!
@newbee628 you are just two years ahead of my mum and I say it with my chest you are young and beautiful. I pray you feel better about where you are in life and I know God will restore the years you feel lost. He restores. I don't know but I am sending you ALOT OF LOVE from Nairobi Kenya. ❤❤
Ps when you wake up be saying "niko sawa kila kitu itakuwa sawa"
I am fine and everything will be fine is what it means.
@irriswarrirris Thank you! Your message touched my heart, and I needed it at this moment. I know God is listening to my prayers! Thank you. May God continue to bless you!! I would love to visit Kenya one day!
John looks good!
Hes got that swag about him,
Lol
Im 38 i would def date him
Before even knowing his income
Ppl always hate on interracial couples. Especially if theyre a good looking couple together
Ive experienced it myself several times
Lynn is really the recruiter she is😂. Running through em cvs and interviews😊. Love her laughter, she seems to be a ball of energy & thats definitely something! I really hope she did /do find happiness in her love life
Older men provide security, stability and open doors. I am 37 and my boyfriend is 64. I can’t imagine my life without him, he has done well for himself but I honestly don’t see the money. I am accomplished myself and when I met him few yrs ago he really empowered me to get my own. Money is not why a lot of ppl choose older men get over it!
I mean isn't the first line of this comment. "Older men provide security, stability and open doors".
In other words, they offer something in the financial realm to be had.
I am sure that alot of women do actually love thier older partners. It's just funny the way this is worded.
@jessicamessica2271 so get over it younger women want that from young men too
@HirutSelassie-s8c what is your point? I didn't say women didn't want security from younger partners. I am saying some younder women do actually love thier older partners.
Lyn looks stunning for her age ❤
Even her Mother looks great for 99 1/2 years old! ❤
And vibrant 🎉
I assume that when you have wealth, you can care less about how it looks or the other person's intent. 😮
Its so sad that its not that easy for wealthy women 😢
She needs to date olllllllllder much older
She can try older men. Even men in their 40s would be 30 years younger than her.
I think the difference is that older richer women keep their things more discreet because society frowns upon them dating younger whereas many still see it as “cool” for men. So men are more open about chasing and flaunting much younger partners. Also, women really didn’t have as much time to have accumulated this much wealth independently with this level of freedom.
@@mtsemcomfort2255 It’s because men in their 40s are having a midlife crisis and many actually go out of their way to want to date younger. I think she’ll find it easier to get a boy toy if he’s in his 20s or even 30s. There’s definitely a generational shift on what’s considered appropriate.
Wealthy men seem to have it easier to attract younger women, for sure
Nikki skin is really nice! what is his skin regimen? He gets great rest or is it genetics?
plastic surgery and tattoed eyeliner
Lol @@relocatetoEUROPE
John is a great man. Taking into consideration his love for kids, is just awesome 👏
Yes just one of the great qualities he possess besides money
He is a pedo. So yeah... no.🤯
He should be driving a Ferrari instead of changing nappies oh my gosh she is so screwed he's already gaslighting her for having a baby like she did it on her own
Maybe he feels she did, like one of those decisions where you gave in but you don't really want that.
She's sealing the deal with 2 kids. Not cause she's in love
John's new wife is such a stunning girl😍💯
IMO, these are the most honest types of relationships. Each side knows exactly what they provide and need from the other.
I’ve dated a guy 18 years younger than me. At 6’10” to my 5’5”, he actually played college basketball at the time. I never heard the end of it from my family and friends. 🙄
They were probably jealous
How interesting is this? I loved the gorgeous brown young lady whose parents were initially apprehensive of their daughter marrying John....loved the mom with her amazingly classiness!!! Great video for sire!!!
I think only Najilah’s dad was beíng a ďíck. Her mother seemed happy and proud of her babygirl the entire time.
Most Parents become jealous of these types of relationships. Regardless of age or race: The Parents get jealous because she/he wishes she/he could marry a man as wealthy as their daughter/ son,💯
Jealous? 🤣 Nah I dont think it's jealousy! More like disgust, revulsion, and most likely fear/anger at the victimization of their child.
Woooooow!
🙌🙌...wishing them much joy,happiness and peace in their endeavors
Of course the 24 yo boy is after your money lady... smh
Lol... every last one of these "relationships" are transactional and for the money/benefits. Believing anything else is just delusional.😉
So happy for the Arizona couple I wish them the best 🎉
I'm pretty sure the all had to sign a pre-nup. Probably a question forbidden to ask by the journalists.
Why? I married a multibillionaire without a prenup. He trusts me, as he should.
@@m.s9146where did you meet him?
@@riri1718She met that multibillionair on her dreams..do you think the rich people watch this content and write on the comment section?? They do other stuff for sure😅
😂😂😂😂@@marianapopescu753
@@m.s9146 liar
Havent finished watching, but from the beginning, loved the hairstylist's relationship, seemed authentic to me, wish they remain together...happy..for life.
Liked the older lady only after seeing her mom and what she did for her at the very start of her success....had me bawling my eyes out coz mine lived in the house I got her only 10 months and passed...she was half this lady's age too....love her..the mom, shes witty.
Age isn't a number. It's an attitude.If you are sixty, you can look thirty.
On point....and vise versa
If you get a facelift
Stop being delusional no you can’t and no it isnt
Love is love and I’m happy for them!
I can tell you from experience that having a little bit of money and being with someone you absolutely cannot stand is not worth it. I couldn’t even be with a billionaire if I didn’t love him. It’s just not possible for me I’ve never really understood the concept of being a gold digger. What’s the point of having money if you have to spend time with someone you can’t stand?
When you find good hearted man you look at his soul not the age mine 17 older than me was broke when we met he is now rising and we're living really and joyfuly comfortably now 🎉
I loved Lynn's dress on her last date. She is full of energy, and I hope she finds what she is looking for.
We need updates on john and najia marriage 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Still going strong according to her instagram 😌
@@Mantoa_R91what’s their IG ?
Celine Dion is living proof it can work 😅
He died😢
Exactly she fell in love with her husband when she was 12 and he was 49, she waited until he was 18 to make her move 😂 even when her family wanted a young Prince Charming for her she wanted him
@@MsSassy Celine was groom at a young age by a 49 year old pedophile.
@@artisthusnatalal3099I think she's being sarcastic since the husband died after only few years together
Actually I was thinking of Katherine mcghee
Serial enterprenore is better than a serial killer 😂😂😂😂😂 9: 55
😂😂😂