Unseen Pain
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- Опубликовано: 16 окт 2024
- When we learn to see the invisible pain in others, it changes the way we approach them. Please SUBSCRIBE for more videos. Visit: www.DrChristianConte.com for more.
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You have changed another life. Thank you. Personally from me, my family and friends. We all thank you abundantly.
My Doctor remanded for me to check out your videos!! So far I’m like what you are teaching us!! I’m dealing with so much in my life it’s making me feel so done!! Where’s my family when I need them!! My pain in my hear and sprite, family can be so hurtful, to me, never seeing that I too needs to feel ok, while I’m making and helping others, I feel as if I lost myself a long time ago!! My dreams my self worth is gone!! I’m trying with everything in me to regain myself back to the point I feel good about me!!
Very true, when someone is angry, if we detach a little, probably we can see their pain. That helps us and also helps them. 😊 💕💕💕
Thanks Doc! 👍
These videos are wonderfully helpful! I am learning a lot as I try to apply these principles in my life. It helps to realize we don't have to take anything personal in the sense that people are truly acting/reacting out of what they are dealing with in their person. It is interesting how we are all connected though, what we do does effect others. May the Lord help us to live through His love and mercy toward others! - Liz Rosenbaum
Hi Liz! Thank you so much! Yes, please continue to work toward not taking things personally, because we all struggle at times, and when others lash out at us, it's because they're going through something. I've been saying lately, "No one who is in a state of complete peace would ever lash out and hurt others." Sending you all my best and tons of peace!
@@DrChristianConte hi sir i watch your video. Its help me lot. I would like to contact you for my difficulty. Please could you send me your contact detail
@@DrChristianConte I've personally struggled with lashing out at others. I really want to work on this. Great video. Can you make a video on how to overcome being sensitive and going off on people when they say something that triggers you?
so true.." hurt people hurt"
Hi, Cousin, I, too am a Conte. Anyway I am very hurt, sad, dejected etc etc etc. Blah, Blah, Blah. I am starving fiercely for some empathy. My 2 adult children and 5 siblings are sick of me and my invisible illness. Who would choose to be depressed, angry, emotional , judgmental lonely? Not I . I feel cursed with bad brain chemistry, suffering my whole life. Since childhood! How do I find, develope a circle of supporters when I am feeling fiercely angry and borderline destructive? I need sympathetic, empathetic humans in my life. I am holding on by my last fingernail! Thank you for sharing your wisdom . Keep on keeping on.
To understand that those who lashes out on me are suffering from invisible pain, and so try to understand their stories will make a more peaceful world. Thanks for the insights.
Couldn't of said this better myself. Dr. Conte, thank you so much for being on the same page as me and trying to get the world to understand. Invisible pain does exist. Most of my behavior and actions revolve around my anxiety. Thank you for confirming these things.
Hey Hanna, Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm glad you feel validated, because I know that while no one can ever fully understand each other's unseen pain, at least we can give each other compassion, love, and patience. Sending you so much peace! - Dr. Conte
I really appreciated your video and I shared it with many people. May God bless you.
Thank you so much. I appreciate that a ton. Sending you all the best and much peace!
I needed to see this video. Thank you! Blessings
Well said. Great advice. Thanks for sharing. 💕💚
Thank you so much!
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Makes a lot of sense.
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Amazing words!
God bless you sir !!
Thank you. Sending you much peace!
Great video.... Thanks for the reminder...
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amazing
Thank you :)
thank you sir for bringing peace to a lot of people who are hurting. I do have a question. how do you handle people with mental illness that continue to hurt you? I have been told to cut them out of my life completely. my mom is bipolar and schizophrenic. I try to just brush it off and do good to her. she lives close and I am a military wife with 7 children. she is hurting them as well. do you have any suggestions? I have tried just about everything I know how. thank you for your time. -sophie
I have a question?? How do I control from lashing out and yelling at my loved one.
Nice nice topic
Thank you. I think it's so important to lead with compassion. We truly never know all that others are going through. Sending you all the best and tons of peace!
Dr. Christian Conte thanks fir your wishes sir
I so want a one on one person with you and ask your advice. I saw the struggle of the people I love but they are so egocentric and blaming on others like me. and now in their mind Im the monster.
What are signs to see if someone has invisible pain? So they we have a better perspective on how to approach and handle the actions.
What an absolutely great question! I'm going to talk about these tonight on my radio show. If you can catch it (or call in), please do. If not, the short answer I would say is: Pay attention to people's nonverbal behavior. Listen to the tone of their voice, and continuously try to "see the bigger picture" with them, rather than looking at the immediate content they are sharing. I hope that makes sense, but like I said, I will definitely talk about this tonight on my show. Thank you for watching! Sending you much peace!
@@DrChristianConte thanks for the timely response. Your work helps alot of people
@@antwionlewis Thank you brother! And I talked about it on the show last night. I think you asked such a great and conscious question. Thank you for spreading light and peace, and for seeking to learn about the unseen pain of others. I think that speaks volumes about you! Sending you much peace for sure!
@@DrChristianConte again thanks for the compliment and you as well. I'm trying to be more effective.
How can you get to the root problem that causes a remission of a disorder to emerge?
How do i contact you.
Could or would u create a video on the best way to deal with the anger and hurt of having drug addict parents?
Yes, that's a powerful idea, and I will. Thanks, because I think that could be helpful for a lot of people. Much peace!
Dear Dr, thank you!
Why would u say you would make a video on how to deal with anger from parents with drug addiction and not make one? Why bother saying you would your just causing hurt and hate in someone life. Do you not have the emotional intelligence and maturity to do what u say. Btw: don't bother I will seek a real professional.
Hi Jillianne - I'm so sorry to hear your anger and pain. It sounds like you've taken my own unseen pain and struggles over the last couple months personally (that have prevented me from making any videos). I do believe you offered a great idea for a video, and one that I will address, although I did not previously and cannot still offer a specific date by which I will be able to make that video. I am a little confused as to why you would take my own struggles and obstacles that I am facing personally, but I can assure you that the things that have prevented me from making the video you asked for as quickly as you would have liked are definitely not personal toward you in any way, and I sincerely hope that you find peace.
Thank you, but maybe you simply don't know or its just such a complex question. I have decided to cut my parents from my life and taking legal action for protection. With all life's pressures these days I simply cannot handle it so in a way it's a good thing with all I am dealing with because it's made it clear to me to cut them out. But because they are on drugs and crazy I have the, threaten the, with legal consequences to protect myself because I fear they will bombard my life at any random point. I have a freak partner and bright future that I am working diligently for and totally against drugs personally so I really cannot deal with them and their acts anymore. There is a biological connection that was the hardest the work through emotionally but I a, done with the grieving.
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