Why You Can't Stay Away From Toxic Relationships and How to Let Them Go | Relationship Theory

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  • Опубликовано: 18 ноя 2024

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  • @AlIbrahim
    @AlIbrahim 3 года назад +8

    "You're always in the middle of a trust fall" is a really nice way of putting it. Thanks for that imagery.

    • @michealmichelle2954
      @michealmichelle2954 3 года назад

      Dr. Baba, can , make your ex come back to beg you for a second chance. He, helped, I ,,, restore ,,, return ,, my ,, relationship ,,, broken ,,, of ,,,,, years ,,, by ,,, bring ,,, back ,,, my, ,, ex ,,, Also ,, Dr. Baba,, always ,, follow ,, with ,, your ,, words ,, I ,, strongly ,,, advise ,, that ,, seek ,, help ,, from, , him ,,, whatsap ,,,,, (+2349154661736),,,,,,,,,,

  • @reybeats123
    @reybeats123 3 года назад +8

    I hope you read this quote "Always remember you matter, you're important and you are loved, and you bring to this world things no one else can."

    • @michealmichelle2954
      @michealmichelle2954 3 года назад

      Dr. Baba, can , make your ex come back to beg you for a second chance. He, helped, I ,,, restore ,,, return ,, my ,, relationship ,,, broken ,,, of ,,,,, years ,,, by ,,, bring ,,, back ,,, my, ,, ex ,,, Also ,, Dr. Baba,, always ,, follow ,, with ,, your ,, words ,, I ,, strongly ,,, advise ,, that ,, seek ,, help ,, from, , him ,,, whatsap ,,,,, (+2349154661736),,,,,,,,,,

  • @TakeBackYourMind997
    @TakeBackYourMind997 3 года назад +12

    Letting go is the solution to so many problems it's crazy! Let go of the past and trust yourself to get through anything, then you don't have to fear being hurt in the same way, because you know no matter you'll always be okay. Knowing that gives you the freedom to be vulnerable.

    • @summersalix
      @summersalix 3 года назад +1

      Letting go is such a hard concept bc it’s not like u can just open your hands and drop an object. There needs to be more info on how to actually let go of emotional, traumatic stuff....I still have yet to figure it out :(

    • @TakeBackYourMind997
      @TakeBackYourMind997 3 года назад +4

      @@summersalix It's a really hard topic and I'm far from a therapist. On a personal level I've done inner child meditations (guided using RUclips) to dig deep and let go of stuff, another thing that works for me is journalling. I ask myself the questions I want the answers to, meditate on those questions for a short time to see if anything subconscious comes up, then I just start writing without really thinking and my thoughts usually pour out which allows me to examine them and then challenge them by installing new beliefs and habits. Another part of that is I visualise and feel the version of myself from the times I was going through that hard stuff, and I talk to that part of me like a parent, I think about what that version of me needs and I give it that now from a place of stability, as my own parent effectively. Some of that is best done with someone to help keep you grounded as it can be an emotional process, and no doubt the best route is to get a therapist. Also there's a great dude on RUclips, his channel is Julienhimself, who does a lot of stuff on letting go, I haven't done his courses but I find even just his videos to be amazing. I really hope some of that helped and good luck to you, you'll get there with the right techniques and information, just don't give up on finding that 😊

    • @summersalix
      @summersalix 3 года назад +2

      @@TakeBackYourMind997 you are an incredible person... Thank u for taking the time to write such helpful and thoughtful advice! I'm very grateful for your help and I will try to implement these things and also check out the channel u mentioned. Thank u, sincerely! 🤗 ♥

    • @TakeBackYourMind997
      @TakeBackYourMind997 3 года назад +2

      @@summersalix You're welcome! Thank you for the kind words that's really nice to hear 💛 I hope it goes well for you and if you ever want anymore advice comment back on here or my channel and I'm happy to do my best to help 😊

    • @summersalix
      @summersalix 3 года назад +1

      @@TakeBackYourMind997 Thank u so much! I just subbed to your channel... U have great content that I will be referring to. Again, thank u so much! You've been a huge bright spot in my day today. 🤗

  • @lilithjesus7718
    @lilithjesus7718 3 года назад +12

    I love everything that was acknowledged here. Another concept I've found helpful is from Richard Grannon: a toxic relationship is a structure- something created by two people. With two consenting adults, the structure cannot stand on its own with only one person. When you remove your part of the toxic structure, it can no longer stand. 👌 ✨

    • @michealmichelle2954
      @michealmichelle2954 3 года назад

      Dr. Baba, can , make your ex come back to beg you for a second chance. He, helped, I ,,, restore ,,, return ,, my ,, relationship ,,, broken ,,, of ,,,,, years ,,, by ,,, bring ,,, back ,,, my, ,, ex ,,, Also ,, Dr. Baba,, always ,, follow ,, with ,, your ,, words ,, I ,, strongly ,,, advise ,, that ,, seek ,, help ,, from, , him ,,, whatsap ,,,,, (+2349154661736),,,,,,,,,,,,

  • @Clarity2222
    @Clarity2222 3 года назад +4

    Foundational information. Thank you for the building blocks to healthy relationships. Growing up in a broken family. It's hard to understand that toxic behavior is not normal. & Boundaries are healthy & good 💜✨☮

    • @michealmichelle2954
      @michealmichelle2954 3 года назад

      Dr. Baba, can , make your ex come back to beg you for a second chance. He, helped, I ,,, restore ,,, return ,, my ,, relationship ,,, broken ,,, of ,,,,, years ,,, by ,,, bring ,,, back ,,, my, ,, ex ,,, Also ,, Dr. Baba,, always ,, follow ,, with ,, your ,, words ,, I ,, strongly ,,, advise ,, that ,, seek ,, help ,, from, , him ,,, whatsap ,,,,, (+2349154661736),,,,,,,,,,,,

  • @Trentonsmommy2012
    @Trentonsmommy2012 3 года назад +6

    I need a video on the toxic relationship of a empath and a narcissistic.

    • @michealmichelle2954
      @michealmichelle2954 3 года назад

      Dr. Baba, can , make your ex come back to beg you for a second chance. He, helped, I ,,, restore ,,, return ,, my ,, relationship ,,, broken ,,, of ,,,,, years ,,, by ,,, bring ,,, back ,,, my, ,, ex ,,, Also ,, Dr. Baba,, always ,, follow ,, with ,, your ,, words ,, I ,, strongly ,,, advise ,, that ,, seek ,, help ,, from, , him ,,, whatsap ,,,,, (+2349154661736),,,,,,,,,,

  • @halunkarecord
    @halunkarecord 3 года назад +1

    Watching these videos has revealed to me how much I can improve.
    I cherish my relationship and feel it is important to give it your all. That special person truly deserves to be happy and treated with compassion and understanding.
    Thanks for helping me become a better partner and friend

  • @TiffanyHallmark
    @TiffanyHallmark 3 года назад +1

    I appreciate the idea of uncovering what you accepted or forgave in the previous relationship(s). And then watching for those things as red flags. Instead of accepting the type of treatment again. Thank you, both, for your insight.

    • @michealmichelle2954
      @michealmichelle2954 3 года назад

      Dr. Baba, can , make your ex come back to beg you for a second chance. He, helped, I ,,, restore ,,, return ,, my ,, relationship ,,, broken ,,, of ,,,,, years ,,, by ,,, bring ,,, back ,,, my, ,, ex ,,, Also ,, Dr. Baba,, always ,, follow ,, with ,, your ,, words ,, I ,, strongly ,,, advise ,, that ,, seek ,, help ,, from, , him ,,, whatsap ,,,,, (+2349154661736),,,,,,,,,,

    • @TiffanyHallmark
      @TiffanyHallmark 3 года назад

      @@michealmichelle2954 this is very odd and I don't want either of my exes back.

  • @TecOneself
    @TecOneself 3 года назад +1

    Well, is complicated when you have so many characters being played with your partner. But thanks guys is nice seeing you.

  • @the_dirac_field6519
    @the_dirac_field6519 3 года назад +1

    Guys this video help me so much. After watched it I cut out a toxic person from my life. Thanks.

  • @isabellepender3162
    @isabellepender3162 3 года назад

    WoW! I listened to it twice to make sure that I got every nuggets of knowledge there are in that video!
    I will definitely look for assertiveness help. Thank you both!

  • @laughingmoon5825
    @laughingmoon5825 3 года назад +2

    Needed to hear this. Thank You!!! ❤💖

    • @michealmichelle2954
      @michealmichelle2954 3 года назад

      Dr. Baba, can , make your ex come back to beg you for a second chance. He, helped, I ,,, restore ,,, return ,, my ,, relationship ,,, broken ,,, of ,,,,, years ,,, by ,,, bring ,,, back ,,, my, ,, ex ,,, Also ,, Dr. Baba,, always ,, follow ,, with ,, your ,, words ,, I ,, strongly ,,, advise ,, that ,, seek ,, help ,, from, , him ,,, whatsap ,,,,, (+2349154661736),,,,,,,,,,,,

  • @Srishtiiiiiiiiiii
    @Srishtiiiiiiiiiii 3 года назад +1

    Great learning a lot thankuuuuu

  • @vincentbehrens77
    @vincentbehrens77 3 года назад +2

    keep up the great content.

    • @michealmichelle2954
      @michealmichelle2954 3 года назад

      Dr. Baba, can , make your ex come back to beg you for a second chance. He, helped, I ,,, restore ,,, return ,, my ,, relationship ,,, broken ,,, of ,,,,, years ,,, by ,,, bring ,,, back ,,, my, ,, ex ,,, Also ,, Dr. Baba,, always ,, follow ,, with ,, your ,, words ,, I ,, strongly ,,, advise ,, that ,, seek ,, help ,, from, , him ,,, whatsap ,,,,, (+2349154661736),,,,,,,,,,

  • @MotherIsRising
    @MotherIsRising 2 года назад

    Great talk

  • @AbigailMera
    @AbigailMera 3 года назад

    This is awesome. Can I ask you guys if it's possible to heal inside a relationship when both members know that some behaviors came toxic and both want to heal and grow way far away from those ?

  • @Kingme1love
    @Kingme1love 3 года назад

    Where’s the complete video?

  • @summersalix
    @summersalix 3 года назад

    Any tips on finding a good therapist?

    • @poojasingh-nl9gr
      @poojasingh-nl9gr 3 года назад +2

      This is such a good question, most therapists have a site, check what they specialise in. And know what you need, is it relationship, addictions, sexual abuse or whatever. So knowing what you need is important. Also remember you don't have to stick with the 1st therapist you get, if they aren't compatible, pick another. So I also think you don't need one long term, as in you know how you have friends to talk about guys with and some to watch soccer or go shopping with, you can change as your needs change or if one therapist isn't able to help with your different issues. I saw one for sexual abuse but he's not great with family stuff so once I found more peace and had tools to cope I found someone specialised in the family dysfunction

    • @summersalix
      @summersalix 3 года назад

      @@poojasingh-nl9gr thank u so much! Such great advice! I've had some bad therapists which ended up causing more harm than good, so this whole process gives me anxiety lol. Your reply was super helpful... Thank u! I hope you are doing well

    • @poojasingh-nl9gr
      @poojasingh-nl9gr 3 года назад

      @@summersalix hey bee ❤ I am in a much better space, it takes time and is always a work in progress. Lots of love and take care of yourself 🌸❤

    • @michealmichelle2954
      @michealmichelle2954 3 года назад

      Dr. Baba, can , make your ex come back to beg you for a second chance. He, helped, I ,,, restore ,,, return ,, my ,, relationship ,,, broken ,,, of ,,,,, years ,,, by ,,, bring ,,, back ,,, my, ,, ex ,,, Also ,, Dr. Baba,, always ,, follow ,, with ,, your ,, words ,, I ,, strongly ,,, advise ,, that ,, seek ,, help ,, from, , him ,,, whatsap ,,,,, (+2349154661736),,,,,,,,,,,,

  • @ligiasommers
    @ligiasommers 3 года назад +1

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙏🏻💖🌷