When A Girl Gives Up On You

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  • Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024

Комментарии • 3,1 тыс.

  • @Sandrastruyck
    @Sandrastruyck 5 лет назад +505

    "She lost the one she loved. But u lost someone who loved u."
    Nice. 👍

  • @sonyagriffy
    @sonyagriffy 5 лет назад +414

    "You not loving me, was the beginning of me loving myself."♡

    • @mikereal9627
      @mikereal9627 4 года назад

      You just didn't see the type of love you were expecting. You were more focused on other things that were more important, it's common in self centered selfish people.

    • @peewee3030
      @peewee3030 4 года назад

      That's sad. shouldn't u already be loving yourself?

    • @mikereal9627
      @mikereal9627 4 года назад

      The grip of your mind

  • @sehwag282
    @sehwag282 5 лет назад +247

    I have already given up on these type relationships....
    Have been single for 5 years now it’s better to be single than hurt
    Peace

    • @RaptureHead1993
      @RaptureHead1993 5 лет назад +8

      7 summers ago for me. Go mgtow it liberates

    • @27annikq
      @27annikq 5 лет назад +4

      I am 12 yrs single (im 12 yrs old)

    • @verquam
      @verquam 5 лет назад +1

      No man is an island 😊

    • @justaeythings9301
      @justaeythings9301 4 года назад +3

      You'll find someone whom you'll love and will love you more. Enjoy being single but don't close yourself for true love. 😍😍

    • @imaginti259
      @imaginti259 4 года назад +3

      @@justaeythings9301 hmm im not even sure love is real to be honest, it is almost like it's a thing people do to make themselves feel better....but i get told im wrong all the time so i dont know

  • @thecowboy9698
    @thecowboy9698 4 года назад +37

    "When a woman is putting in the effort to keep you, you need to match her effort, because when a woman has decided she has given all she can give and can't give anymore, there is NOTHING you can do to get her to give more."
    That's a quote from Derick Jackson, he's a dating coach, and what he said is the truth. I learned it the hard way.

    • @matthewcionco
      @matthewcionco 3 года назад

      What if i given all I can but she still gives up on me?

    • @praisewithmusic
      @praisewithmusic 3 года назад +2

      That’s very true. We can also be very wrong to men. We all need to treat each other better. But a woman will fight hard when she loves you, if you don’t reciprocate she will grow weary and realize she’s wasting her time.

  • @chescad.5849
    @chescad.5849 7 лет назад +2370

    One day you'll realize you lost a diamond while too busy collecting stones.

    • @davidhazel2190
      @davidhazel2190 7 лет назад +32

      ann francesca don't lose a diamond while chasing glitter

    • @leongoodman3364
      @leongoodman3364 7 лет назад +27

      ann francesca I lost my true diamond
      because I got beat up and bullied this is horrible to share but had to put it out there

    • @xkatiex3734
      @xkatiex3734 7 лет назад

      ann francesca yep true

    • @diabolicesper2994
      @diabolicesper2994 7 лет назад +8

      I already lost mine to someone else😥😥😥...

    • @samkelleherx
      @samkelleherx 7 лет назад +11

      Diabolic Esper Same 😭 I still love her this made me cry😯😧

  • @rockbottom5645
    @rockbottom5645 5 лет назад +109

    The hardest lesson I have ever learned.. After 13 years of marriage and 2 children.. she gave up. I havent been the same sense.
    Ive accepted it, grown and now realize.. she did me a favor, she showed me I deserved better.

    • @sryburn641
      @sryburn641 4 года назад +3

      I'm working on that right now. Hits like an atomic bomb. Glad you're doing better and realizing your worth, brother. That's where it gets tricky for me.

    • @aaamdacuaga
      @aaamdacuaga 4 года назад

      Thats right you deserve better. If she isnt going to understand you and is legit okay with growing old and being on the verge of death without a soulmate that they spent their whole life with. Why would they spend their whole life with them then? Its idiotic. People get greedy they take things for granted.. we all deserve love tho. What a shitty world.

    • @irishoutlaw7608
      @irishoutlaw7608 4 года назад +1

      Same 18 yrs and 3 kids she left and is now having a new baby with her puss boy. I was devastated about it all but i now see she did me a favour!!
      Im starting to get on now but ya i hope other can take something from these comments.
      Stay strong 💪👊 you're better than you think you are. ✌

    • @abigailde7184
      @abigailde7184 4 года назад

      You do deserve better i hope my mother can realize that 15 years of been together and have 2 kids at a yougy age and the man she been with has never really been around for her or his kids.

    • @LifvingConnoisseur
      @LifvingConnoisseur 4 года назад +5

      I know I desvered better bit I still want her what hurts the most is she ended things instead if working through the problems

  • @creatorschosen8382
    @creatorschosen8382 5 лет назад +412

    As i read all these posts, they seem to come from young people. So, as an older, divorced woman who has had many heartbreaks (from high school on into life).... this is the absolute best advice I could ever give u....
    When people show u who they are, believe them ....

  • @weloveGIRLS
    @weloveGIRLS 6 лет назад +60

    I’m 25 & divorced already. And I messed up with the person who actually loved me. So yes this hits me hard but it’s true guys. Be thankful for her! Hug,Kiss,Surprise,etc. Her! Make her smile because you’re gonna mess that when she’s gone Believe it or not.

    • @queenofthorns4053
      @queenofthorns4053 5 лет назад +1

      Never take a woman for granted while you have her. I hope you find love again. We all deserve a 2nd. Chance.

  • @tinklingcrystals6489
    @tinklingcrystals6489 5 лет назад +160

    I'm slowly giving up too...I loved and cared for him and made him my priority... He took me for granted. Lothario

    • @lesliewilliams9838
      @lesliewilliams9838 5 лет назад +9

      Run don't do it move on cause if he wanted you he will be there period dont waste your time on him

    • @malcolmandrews2779
      @malcolmandrews2779 5 лет назад

      Did you let him go afterwards?

    • @frankreynolds7404
      @frankreynolds7404 4 года назад +6

      Maybe you're taking him for granted, tinking crystal

    • @matv176
      @matv176 4 года назад +1

      Not all men will do this to you,,don't give up.

    • @dontsaymynameunlessyouknow8775
      @dontsaymynameunlessyouknow8775 4 года назад +1

      I wonder how he took you for granted? Most women just come up with excuses to mess up the relationship

  • @onitbrkn
    @onitbrkn 6 лет назад +127

    Narcissism is on the rise if you havent noticed. Never love someone that doesnt love you back because youre only hurting yourself. I cant stand when im ignored so i gave up on relationships and absolutely love being single. "be not unequally yolked with unbelievers"

    • @aprilashley4091
      @aprilashley4091 5 лет назад +5

      Amen

    • @tracyg9721
      @tracyg9721 5 лет назад +2

      You can still send that person loving kindness. It comes right back to you and then you don’t carry any burden or karmic debt. I love you .... bye bye.

    • @Spotter000
      @Spotter000 5 лет назад

      Yes and most of them are women

    • @yaharalawahadom6476
      @yaharalawahadom6476 5 лет назад +2

      I disagree with don't love someone if they don't love you back... As men and women we should love all relationship or not... You don't even have to know someone to love them.. You can dislike their ways but always love others.... Cause we all love and show love in different ways.... So the key is to find someone who loves you the way you want to be loved... But we can't say what's in someone else's heart truly.. Accept through their actions not just words... Some people men and women don't know how to love cause they may have never had it... It's like this if your never driven a car and know one ever took time to show you then you'll only be able to drive the car your way it might not be correct but eventually you'll get it right.. So if you truly love that person you'll take the time needed to help teach that person how to drive your car the way you want it drove and if they love you enough they will give their all to do so

    • @xKateshi
      @xKateshi 4 года назад

      @@yaharalawahadom6476 Bullshit

  • @queencanislupusofthewolfpa2247
    @queencanislupusofthewolfpa2247 5 лет назад +66

    I wish my Ex well. Hope you find happiness and peace. That's what I want for myself. So I send it to you but without me. Good Luck in your future.✌🏾

  • @heretwoexpose4255
    @heretwoexpose4255 4 года назад +105

    Uhhhh, where's the one for the loving men out here who gave a woman all of this & still got hurt in the end... It's both ways...

    • @smitty4483
      @smitty4483 4 года назад

      Heretwo Expose simp

    • @654Crossman
      @654Crossman 4 года назад +6

      @@smitty4483 twat

    • @legallybl0wn
      @legallybl0wn 4 года назад +3

      make your own and stop whining lmao

    • @amberagarwal8396
      @amberagarwal8396 3 года назад +1

      My girls is not bad she has just stopped loving me it hurts but it doesn't make her a bad person

    • @matthewcionco
      @matthewcionco 3 года назад +1

      Happened to me, i gave her my everything and she gave up on me

  • @crimsonminerva
    @crimsonminerva 6 лет назад +249

    Thanku. Walking away...because I love myself more than wasting my love on the dead.

    • @patriciajones9989
      @patriciajones9989 5 лет назад +5

      Can't make them love us back

    • @dark9604
      @dark9604 5 лет назад

      Hahah go fuck ur self

    • @jkw6172
      @jkw6172 5 лет назад

      This is the deal I don't no whid hoping up on me u should have wanted me a. Not going and talk to crazy hell no am sorry u be ol

    • @jkw6172
      @jkw6172 5 лет назад

      @Bert Clayton see that's what am talking about am.nit yo happy today so I would let u take me to the morge

    • @derpherp1810
      @derpherp1810 5 лет назад +1

      Winterdragon, I’m happy you realized crying won’t do shit. Most people can’t move on and get sad and desperate but hey, I’m happy your not most people. As for Lion King, grow a spine you sad pussy. Get over your ex, she will never love you back. Go do something with yourself besides leaving negative, uninspiring, half drunk, half assed insults in the comment section.

  • @lazerbotshims9795
    @lazerbotshims9795 5 лет назад +1055

    Don't take your man for granted either. It's a two way street and many women forget that.

  • @reagangundersen3490
    @reagangundersen3490 4 года назад +18

    It's moments like these when you thought you were over them, moments when you thought you were doing so well, then as soon as you hear the music and see those words, the tears start flowing and the hurt resurfaces, I'm so sorry to the one/ones I took for granted, not just romantically, but to those I just became acustomed to, didn't know what I had till it is gone

  • @chancecrook6210
    @chancecrook6210 6 лет назад +81

    Same goes for women. A relationship is a two way street. This is a truthful video, but it goes both ways.

    • @lordkhalifaaa1562
      @lordkhalifaaa1562 5 лет назад +3

      Exactly my friend

    • @ShaniTheBurningTree
      @ShaniTheBurningTree 5 лет назад +3

      Yes but this is for those in a relationship with women. Even lesbians

    • @Sneak693
      @Sneak693 5 лет назад +4

      It is a two way street and actions are needed more than just words. Yes ill miss her eyes but i won't miss how nothing she said lined up with her actions.

    • @Sneak693
      @Sneak693 5 лет назад

      @@lillobo9536 yes it does hurt. I know im going through it right now. We gotta hang in there, this will hopefully make us better people in the end.

  • @makaylarenes9013
    @makaylarenes9013 6 лет назад +609

    Slowly starting to not love him anymore...he didn't choose what he wanted, I got tired of waiting and being alone then eventually I gave up 😔 it hurt like hell but I can't spend another night crying myself to sleep wondering why I'm not enough. Here's a tip boys if you love her than you better tell her before it's too late because eventually she will give up and she'll spend the rest of her life wondering what she did wrong, but at the same time she'll stop caring someone new will come along and her feelings for you will be nothing more than a distant memory 💔💯

    • @heavenlyymars5598
      @heavenlyymars5598 5 лет назад +10

      Same here but I’m starting to give up

    • @patriciajones9989
      @patriciajones9989 5 лет назад +6

      Very well said,,I'm going threw the same thing it's very hard but i. ALWAYS alone anyway

    • @DJUniMekaju
      @DJUniMekaju 5 лет назад +1

      @@jessicaharris1132, it's obvious you care about him. It may not be romantic but it's unconditional. Just tell him you unconditionally care about him, that the past has already happened and can't be undone but it can be learned from, y'all can heal and move forward, whether it be as friends, acquaintances or more.

    • @DJUniMekaju
      @DJUniMekaju 5 лет назад

      @@jessicaharris1132, did he apologize for making you feel that way?

    • @pragyadudhoria7985
      @pragyadudhoria7985 5 лет назад

      Beautifully written

  • @elizabethpetersen3860
    @elizabethpetersen3860 5 лет назад +78

    This is less when a girl gives up on you and more when she falls out of love. There’s a difference even if it’s subtle. You can give up on a guy you’re still in love with, that’s what I did. I gave up on my ex and left him even though I still loved him at the time. And because I loved him then, I wasn’t indifferent to him. Indifference is the opposite of love. This video describes indifference; it describes falling out of love, not necessarily giving up on someone. Nice video though 👌🏻

    • @johnreed9050
      @johnreed9050 5 лет назад +8

      There's no difference between the two. If you give up that means you don't care enough to keep trying. Which makes people fall out of love. All relationships have a shelf life. The problem is that people refuse to let go when that time comes.I have never had a female stick by me when the hard times come. I don't include my mother and grandmother as they are family. It has been my experience and observations that lead me to say that females are only with you while times are good and she reaping the benefits. The moment it gets rough they are gone. I have no expectations that any female I'm with will be around for long. I just try to enjoy whatever good times we may have and go from there. Anyone who tells me otherwise about female behavior is being dishonest about the true nature of females.

    • @Sister_Sandy
      @Sister_Sandy 4 года назад +1

      I think you can give up on someone and still love them. Also the opposite of love is hate.plain and simple

    • @PanzerChicken69
      @PanzerChicken69 4 года назад +2

      @@Sister_Sandy Hate is love under pressure

    • @christinefuu
      @christinefuu 4 года назад +1

      John Reed What if there was only me standing by him when the hard time came, helping and supporting. I forgot me, to love him. We went through all of that, 3 months later when everything was settled down, he wanted to be with another girl, yes, falling out of love or losing interest, to what it means.
      It’s been two months, my heart still doesn’t want to give up on him. But I’m trying to focus on myself, be a best version of me.

    • @juliewilcox7140
      @juliewilcox7140 4 года назад +1

      Comes a time when you finally have to let him go..for your heart,your piece of mind ,your sanity,the love is still there but the pain..is too hard to keep feeling ,knowing you'll never be....enough.

  • @Heartsandpearls2
    @Heartsandpearls2 5 лет назад +179

    Don't just tell her.. it's not enough, show her by actions, actions speak louder

    • @Characterswrite
      @Characterswrite 5 лет назад +6

      This! Words are nothing if your actions don't back them up.

    • @env0x
      @env0x 5 лет назад +7

      I gave her actions instead of words. She left because she valued words over actions, and fell in love with someone new who talks the talk and says the things they want to hear, but it's empty. And now theyre stuck in an abusive relationship. Humans are complex and will always fixate on the lack and ignore what they have. Never appreciating our own prosperity because its overshadowed by our desire for "something more"

    • @PineappleHazeExpress
      @PineappleHazeExpress 5 лет назад +2

      amalmansy .. i do more then say and boy im done👌🏿 ..i will do no more. Females are the most ungrateful, while we are in a world where its too hard to earn an honest dollar.

    • @kaurpold9706
      @kaurpold9706 4 года назад

      "Act for me", as silence or just being with someone doesn't satisfy you anymore means you expect someone to entertain yourself. No matter how much love or wealth received, yet it all cant replace your own inner emptiness or teach self-love.
      But ey! Just my opinion.

    • @johnwirth4757
      @johnwirth4757 4 года назад

      Y everybody in town is showing and giving her action

  • @MrKingVulture
    @MrKingVulture 5 лет назад +62

    she will never love you it just your turn once she’s bored she will move on ... good luck

    • @morgannitsche7192
      @morgannitsche7192 4 года назад +3

      MrKingVulture that is not true. Not every girl is like that. A girl can spend years in love with a guy to only get hurt and used. It’s not only the guy that gets hurt but it’s not only the girl either. Giving up for some of us isn’t an option... we don’t move on or get bored.... that’s not how we are.

  • @skysshadow6602
    @skysshadow6602 5 лет назад +75

    I can't do it anymore.. 4 year's of my Life.. always about what he wanted, how he felt.. It's Time for ME Now.. I come first.. what I Want, How I Feel.. I have Real, True Love in my Life.. I'm done with Lies.. yahh.. 💯💯 ☀️🖤☀️💯💯

    • @krystalh8445
      @krystalh8445 5 лет назад +6

      Your right I'm going through that
      now after 9 years. It's hurts but it's about me now.💔

    • @taslimabdul1263
      @taslimabdul1263 5 лет назад +2

      For me it's just 9 months... I m giving upon him... My husband..
      Who ignored me when I had miscarriage and was bleeding and cramping and asking for help from him.. because he was angry on me and doing very work he ignored me... So I gave up...

    • @dayvinboisvert4000
      @dayvinboisvert4000 5 лет назад +3

      That ain't no guy there. I've been trying to make her happy and ask her what she wants, her dreams, plans, all her favorite stuff, ask her how her day was, what she did. I made her priority number one and all I got was one worded replies and her not wanting to ask me anything and will just leave me hanging. Then she'll turn around every time she needs something like nothing has nothing I talked about had happened and idk what to do anymore. I love her I really do but I don't know if she feels the same anymore

    • @taslimabdul1263
      @taslimabdul1263 5 лет назад +2

      @@dayvinboisvert4000 I m really jealous of your girl.. this is what I expected from my husband... May be not priority no 1... Atleast as his wife. He never asked what I want, what I feel, if I m discomfortable in house..I stay with in laws and he works outside.. comes oncrs in 2 months for 5 years... He just spends with family... Never take me out.. for even buying necessary things.. I really loved a person who sees me as a thing..

    • @dayvinboisvert4000
      @dayvinboisvert4000 5 лет назад

      @@taslimabdul1263 sadly I don't think she quite shares your jealousy but I love her to death and could never leave her. Maybe one day she'll see how lucky she is and maybe that'll be the day she starts changing things but for now I think shes gotten so used to this treatment she doesn't realize it

  • @vanessagutierrez5253
    @vanessagutierrez5253 7 лет назад +4673

    who else is a girl and watching this

  • @xaimee.
    @xaimee. 5 лет назад +15

    You don't ever appreciate someone's company, love support etc, until it's gone and then you begin to realise how much they meant, their actions meant, their words meant to you... And you miss it 💔💔

  • @cyruslloydlibran9864
    @cyruslloydlibran9864 4 года назад +126

    Karma said
    You will fall in love with someone who doesn't love you
    For not loving someone who did

    • @akashtdm
      @akashtdm 4 года назад +9

      Damn

    • @fox7378
      @fox7378 4 года назад +1

      Well that's not very fair lol

    • @amasion2882
      @amasion2882 4 года назад +23

      That’s not karma. Love is a feeling. It’s not my fault or my doing if I don’t feel love for another person.

    • @fox7378
      @fox7378 4 года назад +1

      @@amasion2882 Well said! Thank you

    • @nomsasechele1244
      @nomsasechele1244 4 года назад +2

      @@amasion2882 yes you are right but what about those who lead others on, give them false hope, deceive them and shit?

  • @timotheusn.h.nakashona1001
    @timotheusn.h.nakashona1001 6 лет назад +136

    Watching this just made me realise that I lost a girl who truly loved and cared for me....I feel like shit.

    • @gypsybloodpurebred7509
      @gypsybloodpurebred7509 5 лет назад

      And what was that lmao

    • @PabloEscobar-yx8up
      @PabloEscobar-yx8up 5 лет назад

      You'd feel worse than shit if she was there mate, eventually theyre enough to give a paracetamol a sore head 💯😂

    • @jonasbaxmeier4168
      @jonasbaxmeier4168 5 лет назад +2

      @ thanks mate i thought im the only one who notices the sickness in the Video and commentsection xD

    • @tremillz6944
      @tremillz6944 5 лет назад +1

      Timotheus H. Nakashona bro this video on point with what's going on with me right now

    • @zenmaster814
      @zenmaster814 5 лет назад +1

      @@jonasbaxmeier4168 Would you mind elaborating on the sickness you observe?

  • @claramagdalena7650
    @claramagdalena7650 7 лет назад +312

    I can relate to every single point made in this video i had a hugeeee crush on this guy but he just didn't pay any attention to me. If i wanted to text with him i had to text him first or start the convo.. I used to stalk him on social media every single day and look through all his female followers. I was crazy. It ruined me, i was mentally devasted, cried myself too sleep because i felt lonely and i felt like he hated me. The only person that knows about that is my best friend i was hella annoying. But with time it got better. I didn't missed him as much as before when i was not around him and i was finally able to talk with other guys again. I got so much more confidence and finally got my happines back. I can now finally laugh again, go out and just enjoy my life. It's crazy how much impact one person can have on your life. So girls/boys if u feel like crap because of a guy/girl get over it. Tell yourself he's not worth it because he really isn't. It's not as hard as it may seem. And there is someone out there for everyone remember that

    • @dinaf.k5372
      @dinaf.k5372 7 лет назад +10

      ClaraMagdalena
      Love is so strong that it can break you and heal you again. It's as if we are possessed by the devil or something. I am also that type of girl Clara. When I find someone that I have feelings for, I get insanely obsessed with him. I don't know how to get rid of the feelings though... until I get over it....but when you think about it...it's hard to get RID of the Feelings inside of me.

    • @Legend-gs4cr
      @Legend-gs4cr 7 лет назад

      ClaraMagdalena ty for a inspiration now i might be able to open the door without feeling like ive done screwed up

    • @roselinevi9725
      @roselinevi9725 6 лет назад +2

      I went through the exact same thing but now I’m over him

    • @myafrazier4546
      @myafrazier4546 6 лет назад +1

      ClaraMagdalena same but now that I have seen this he does not deserve me

    • @khylieaviles5479
      @khylieaviles5479 6 лет назад +2

      ClaraMagdalena I main worry is that I'll never find anyone like them again, because I remember when they used to care and it was the world to me but they moved on. I miss him so much.

  • @damo0078
    @damo0078 5 лет назад +538

    Actually she lost me.....lots of Girls actually lose the Guy .....you know why? Because they just think of themselves!

    • @qa8822
      @qa8822 5 лет назад +17

      It's both ways 💗💓💔💕

    • @vivekmanitripathi138
      @vivekmanitripathi138 5 лет назад +44

      Yeah... Actually... The girls nowadays have every right to change their decision at any time... You will start treating her as your wife but when the time comes, she will leave you saying" you don't respect me..."

    • @qa8822
      @qa8822 5 лет назад

      @@vivekmanitripathi138 nowadays?! Where do you live? :) No offence tho. Very naive people have come forward nowadays imo. 🤥

    • @vivekmanitripathi138
      @vivekmanitripathi138 5 лет назад +2

      @@qa8822 Yeah you can say that as for some people it's way better to be a naive than to be an asshole...

    • @mikemcguinness1304
      @mikemcguinness1304 5 лет назад

      Boom

  • @pingcrimson6854
    @pingcrimson6854 6 лет назад +32

    This hits home...way too hard

  • @ceryslouise9983
    @ceryslouise9983 6 лет назад +26

    I’m a girl, this is so true. A girl will only break your heart if you break hers. When a girl isn’t interested in you, you will know it. She will flirt with other guys and she wouldn’t give a damn about anything you do anymore

    • @jm0481
      @jm0481 6 лет назад +1

      Cerys Louise Well there's this girl that I've been really good friends with for about a year and we even dated each other but after a week she broke up with me but she didn't want to tell me why. It's impossible that I broke her heart. I always cared about her, talked to her in a good way, and treated her like she was the only person important to me. Which I still do. But I'm still wondering to this day why she broke up with me and wondering even more about why she doesn't even want to tell me the reason for doing it

    • @ceryslouise9983
      @ceryslouise9983 6 лет назад

      Jose Manzo III perhaps she didn’t love you anymore , she might have liked someone else ?

    • @jm0481
      @jm0481 6 лет назад

      Cerys Louise Well if that was the case, all she had to do was tell me. It could've been one of those things, or even worse, she was probably with some other idiot WHILE she was dating me, which is probably why never wants to tell me the reason she broke up with me

    • @ceryslouise9983
      @ceryslouise9983 6 лет назад

      Jose Manzo III a girl is scared to tell.

    • @jm0481
      @jm0481 6 лет назад

      Cerys Louise I know. But it's just that I can't forget about it until I find out why she broke up with me. I'm clueless about what to do

  • @missstranger7697
    @missstranger7697 5 лет назад

    That is so true...
    Especially for the part which says she will not care in all respectives about you after you abandon her 😔

  • @ladze6934
    @ladze6934 7 лет назад +309

    Wow I'm a guy never had a gf and I feel like shit right about now

    • @g0023-t7e
      @g0023-t7e 7 лет назад +9

      Chroniiq wow same i relate to that on like a million levels but im a girl

    • @ladze6934
      @ladze6934 7 лет назад +1

      +Like? :(

    • @ArtsyDiy
      @ArtsyDiy 7 лет назад +24

      Chroniiq ik, this basicly happens when a girl has a crush on a guy and the guy never tells her he likes her so she gives up on trying and does everything in the video

    • @ladze6934
      @ladze6934 7 лет назад

      +Artsy Diy that is so sad though

    • @Legend-gs4cr
      @Legend-gs4cr 7 лет назад +5

      Chroniiq yeah now i notice how much of a screw up i can be.
      14 and balling like a f*cking baby bout now. 😭

  • @DezThePyroWolf
    @DezThePyroWolf 6 лет назад +17

    I still remember the day I told my ex I didn't love him anymore. And it wasn't until I said it that I realized I hadn't been in love with him for a long time and I had been giving up more each day. But i couldnt keep losing myself to keep his attention and fight for what he stopped giving

  • @meavemarca2032
    @meavemarca2032 5 лет назад +2

    This is the 5th month and I still hurt terribly... Have cried my heart out.. Depending on sleeping pills to sleep...talked to my friends, his friends our friends... I didn't hurt him he hurt me but the love I have for me overpowered the hate and frustrations I had for him after he betrayed our love...it's still so raw...I've loved before but this was different... All I'm left to do now is pray for inner peace,healing and unending love and happiness in the future. I still love you.

    • @krystalh8445
      @krystalh8445 5 лет назад

      I'm going through this now we was together for 9 years and he left me 1 month ago and it hurts. JUST KEEP PRAYING. We have to take it one day at a time.😪💔🙏🙏🙏

  • @yalehvlogs4037
    @yalehvlogs4037 6 лет назад +87

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 I won't regret for the fake person 😉😉😉 its good that they leave me early in my life 🤗 no time for fake people

  • @christlegreen9458
    @christlegreen9458 5 лет назад +9

    When a guy truly knows the heart of the girl who loves him, there is never any second guessing, in terms of her loyalty/intentions, especially, when she has given him the key. 🗝
    On the contrary, "love" is never unsure.

  • @AverageMaverick164
    @AverageMaverick164 5 лет назад +48

    When a man give up on you
    He bounce.

  • @jessr.8317
    @jessr.8317 7 лет назад +116

    Is anyone else reminded of their ex? Hahah mine is trying to get me back and I think he should've watched this video beforehand bc I'm looong gone.

    • @kangimomastaky
      @kangimomastaky 5 лет назад

      the same i'm a girl i have a ex boyfriend and he want to get be back the'but i don;'t want to because i have bf

    • @stevejohnson9788
      @stevejohnson9788 5 лет назад +6

      I bet there was nothing he could of done while you were together. Some women just get bored and want to explore. Sad cause a lot of good guys get screwed that way.

    • @cindyg3396
      @cindyg3396 5 лет назад +3

      They always wake up when it's way too late.

    • @pranitamaindargikar3679
      @pranitamaindargikar3679 5 лет назад

      me too

  • @ninja-kills6931
    @ninja-kills6931 7 лет назад +191

    This is happening to me right now and i'm not even talking or flirting with other girls but she's flirting with other boys and just doesn't care anymore. I text her, I wait looking at my screen for the whole day and the most i would get is "Hi I can't talk to u" and then like 5 minutes later she posts something on social media. Most of the time she doesn't even say anything and I know she was on cuz she was posting stuff on her snapchat story. All my friends didn't even think she actually likes me and she was way to good for me. People were making fun of me for thinking I had a chance. I'm always trying to protect her too. When people were talking crap on her I stood up for her even though i was gonna get bullied from it. I've never felt this much emotion for anybody but I guess she doesn't feel any emotion for me back. I love this girl with all my heart and take a bullet for her but in her position she would rather have me get shot straight in the head with a bullet. It's especially hard when people are telling me to go drink bleech or go die in a fire. There's one thing that i know that's true that gets me really depressed when someone calls me "fat" and stuff like that. And i know that's true cuz i've been overweight for most of my life. I play soccer and most people say to me " Hey I didn't know that a hippo could play soccer" or "you can't play soccer, your too fat". I'm just scared to go anywhere now. I just wish I had someone who actually cared about me cuz my parents neglect me, my friends bully me, my siblings get more love than me, every time i trust someone the just stab me in the back. I don't even think I should be living anymore cuz apparently no one gives a damn about me. I don't even know what i did to deserve this. My life is already challenging and i'm not even in college or life. I don't know what to do, where to go, and why I should be here. I just want one person would care for me. If you're still reading this i want you to know to never let anybody get to you like they got to me. You don't have to hurt yourself. You are worth something.

    • @iarlaithdarcy1595
      @iarlaithdarcy1595 7 лет назад +11

      Ninja- Kills I love a girl she is irish I am to.. u pronounce her name e mer spelt eimear and I would take a bullet for her I would give her the world in a heartbeat if I could .. she means tbe world to me I loved her for 4 years and she does not like me she is 12 I am 11 and she now likes someone else she was sent text telling her to kill herself and I said what ever you do dont I will have no point in life then I get bullied because everyone knows I love her and they always bully me because she does not live me like I love her more than I love myself I ran 12 kilometers just to be with her and I got bullied when I got there but I had the best time of my life because she asked if she would be allowed to go on a walk with me when we were walking she grabbed my hand and said I never knew you felt like that for me I feel the same for you... now we love each other more than the world...

    • @jessr.8317
      @jessr.8317 7 лет назад +16

      Ninja- Kills Okay so listen. I'm not even sure if this'll get to you, or if you're even going to read it. Don't be sad, life is too short to be sad. Enjoy the good times and capture the memories. Don't let other people change who you are. Your life...You've had a good taste of what the world can do to you. "Don't let the world change your smile, let your smile change the world". And never feel like you're nothing or that you don't deserve to live. You're beautiful on the inside and out. Remember that there's always someone out there who really loves you for who you are. Best of luck. Charisa~~

    • @kennethrodriguez3475
      @kennethrodriguez3475 7 лет назад +10

      Ninja- Kills
      That's the world we live in. Accept it. But also fight it. Who cares if you're fat. LOSE THE FUC***ING WEIGHT BRO. WHO CARES WHAT PEOPLE THINK. JUST DO YOU. And get the girl because then you can show everyone they were wrong. Be positive and stay woke! Your so stupid honestly how can people be like this in life. Its the life we have like WTF AND LIVE. STUPID!

    • @katieb7079
      @katieb7079 7 лет назад +6

      Ninja- Kills Don't listen to them bullies, and don't think your worthless because there is always someone out there in the world that cares for you, like me, I would care for anyone and seeing your comment just shocked me on how that girl could do something that mean to an amazing guy like you, I would do anything to have someone like you, but unfortunately I still have to wait because I don't seem to be finding anyone that likes me that way. 💝💝

    • @ex0tictea767
      @ex0tictea767 6 лет назад +9

      Kenneth Osorio bruh stop being a cyber bully. It’s not cool plus he’s not stupid, how is even stupid? He was just simply telling what was going on and you just think it’s okay for you to like “well who cares just be you, you stupid!” How is that even gonna help him understand that he has to be himself when you’re the one who’s basically not even helping him. And some people can’t accept this life, you need to fucking understand that kids/teens/adults deal with this kind of situation every day. Some people end their lives because of it and you’re just saying “well deal with it it’s life, just accept it” bitch be quiet.

  • @PerfectPatLovey
    @PerfectPatLovey 4 года назад +1

    True ...its hard getting mixed signals from a man one day he is on fire for you tomorrow he says I'm just a man i need space to date freely .Its best to let him go before you become a demented stalker .Love yourself first ..if he loves you too and is your soulmate he'll sort his feelings out and be back .In the meantime let him enjoy his freedom while you enjoy yours .

  • @dionneodom2709
    @dionneodom2709 5 лет назад +85

    Only one thing wrong with this!
    Don't tell her you love her...
    Show her you love her...
    Words not matching your actions is recipe for disaster!

    • @alfredquintero4421
      @alfredquintero4421 5 лет назад

      Dionne Odom I' my gonna try this tomorrow , hopefully I'm not to late , I have been fighting with myself for awhile on what I should do , but your commit hit a grandslam, In my book thank you! ! She s still waiting on me , How lucky can a guy be!! .

    • @PineappleHazeExpress
      @PineappleHazeExpress 5 лет назад +1

      Dionne Odom .. i do more then say and boy im done👌🏿 ..i will do no more. Females are the most ungrateful, while we are in a world where its too hard to earn an honest dollar.

  • @ellybolyard8988
    @ellybolyard8988 6 лет назад +54

    If anyone cares and has time, here is my story:
    About a month ago, I wrote a letter to my crush. I already knew he didn't feel the same and when he rejected me, he said he still wanted to be friends. This at the time, was all I wanted. But ever since that day, we stopped talking. I'll look at him and I sometimes think he will glance at me but I'm sure he isn't. All these feelings that I had for him only got stronger and stronger. I started to get over him with the help of RUclips...that is until a couple days ago. I found out that he had tried smoking, something he apparently always wanted to do. From what I heard, he liked it...this was at school and when I literally felt my heart drop. I have lost people to smoking and it hurts to know that you might get into it. I had your friend talk to you about it since we are too distant for you to actually listen to what I have to say. All you did was deny that it was bad for you. I know what I would say...I just can't because I made the situation too awkward. You probably don't think I care about you and I thought I didn't anymore until I was told the news. In this video, it talks about how you loose someone who loved and truly cared about you. I looked at this in the perspective of the girl. The problem is, you wouldn't know that I truly cared about you. Everyday when you weren't there, or you got hurt in P.E., I was hurting. Not being able to do anything for the past 5 months, in fear that you would shut me out or think less of me has started to kill me from the inside out. I held in my tears for 2 months...now they are out. I feel like I'm ready to give you up, even though you never gave me a chance. I just feel like I won't be able to until I know your safe. Until I know you aren't going to ruin yourself and make stupid decisions you will regret later on in life. But of course, you wouldn't care. All because you don't think I care enough or care at all. After all, how can you care so much about someone if you never knew they cared about you more than anything at the time? The truth is, I don't know how. All I know is that it happened to me, but it won't happen to you. Tyler, if you are reading this, please stop before you get hurt. Please contact me through Instagram or at school...I want to talk to you so much. Please, do this before I give up on you like I'm about to. I would hate to see you tear yourself up like I have...I love you too much to let you do that to yourself. And to all the girls reading this, don't do what I have done. Don't waste your time on something that will never happen. You will find someone that loves you and cares for you just as much as you did to the other person. To all the boys out there, don't let her go unless she doesn't feel the same. If she loves you and you don't love her, just think about how much she cares for you compared to everyone else. Maybe you will realize that she is someone you will want by your side.
    I apologize for this REALLY long comment but I hope you guys got something out of this.

    • @kjy05
      @kjy05 6 лет назад +3

      I asked my crush out on Feb 14. But since I'm way too shy, to ask her out in person, I left a note in her tray along with a book I bought for her. Then, she came to me and told me she didn't like me back... it's been a month and 3 days and I'm still thinking about her.. from dusk 'til dawn, from start to finish.

    • @xrosesc
      @xrosesc 6 лет назад

      ...this made me cry because im going through the exact same thing.. T^T i hope it gets better for u than mine.

  • @davidgreen1504
    @davidgreen1504 5 лет назад +1

    That's real right there...i went through it as a man we do dumb shit sometimes.That hit home😓

  • @mikeschannel910
    @mikeschannel910 6 лет назад +31

    It’s harder when she is sitting right in the next room and you know all this to be true.....

  • @liamsmith9834
    @liamsmith9834 5 лет назад +70

    The fact girls allways say theres no nice guys left and I'm like HEY IM RIGHT HERE😂😂

    • @allcode4042
      @allcode4042 5 лет назад +13

      Don't be a nice guy.

    • @Jakkunn8
      @Jakkunn8 5 лет назад +10

      @@allcode4042 They left them in the friendzone.

    • @bUll3t4MyVAlentineee
      @bUll3t4MyVAlentineee 5 лет назад +8

      Women want bad boys they can change into their ideal nice guy but it usually backfires in their faces I've seen the story play out over and over. Just keeping it real.

    • @timothygibney159
      @timothygibney159 5 лет назад +4

      Dude. Nice guys finish last. Go read up on coach Corey Wayne on RUclips? When you text and appease women they quickly loose attraction and go for the asshole who ignores them. Be the man who says Fuck it and be alpha and they will be fighting over you

    • @kiba784
      @kiba784 5 лет назад +8

      No 1 telling you 2 be some so called bad guy. Just live
      4 yourself and what makes you happy! Listen
      real good! Don't become
      a lame simp!😎

  • @Wingman-yl3qq
    @Wingman-yl3qq 5 лет назад

    That was 100% correct.
    You have a keen sense of the obvious!

  • @theperson994
    @theperson994 7 лет назад +22

    when she gives up on you,I would collapse inside and out thinking,crying,and hating myself for what I did the regret.This is what happened to me with my first girlfriend never hate the ones who dump you hate what you did wrong and wait a year to date again or it'll happen again😖😞😐

  • @roseg7723
    @roseg7723 7 лет назад +29

    my boyfriend broke up with me. I wanted to ask him to be together again and I started the conversation like this, "Hey, I know I probably mean like...nothing to you anymore but- he interrupted me. What? No you mean some thing!- I skipped right to the point. "A-are you dating anyone?" I asked scared. "No I'm open still. I kinda just lost interest in dating." I responded as, "Oh okay nevermind then"
    He looked at me like he wanted to know more. I was embarrassed to ask. I know we are not together anymore but I still get jealous. I still care about him more than I care about myself. I still love him and think of him as my world. I care about him so much. BOYS!!! Girls still care about you even if they no longer have you!

  • @John-mh7uz
    @John-mh7uz 5 лет назад +28

    Actually I don't miss my ex. I have some one who has more to them than I thought I would find. I only regret the time lost.

    • @X_Lee.
      @X_Lee. 4 года назад +1

      Dayyummm cold blooded.

  • @geminimoon6221
    @geminimoon6221 5 лет назад +8

    I gave up on my first true love from over 33 years ago... too many chances down the drain.. the last time was it... sadly the hope and dream I had of him is not the reality of him... he was too too toxic for my soul. Good bye, for the last time, TDG.

    • @kiba784
      @kiba784 5 лет назад +1

      You probably we're not worth his time. I'm sure
      he's happy 2 be rid of the problem that's you!😂😂

    • @koo-core7274
      @koo-core7274 5 лет назад +1

      kiba 7 your comment makes me think that a women hurt you because you weren’t worth her time. “😂😂”

    • @kiba784
      @kiba784 5 лет назад +1

      @@koo-core7274 I respect you're comment Ive hurt someone important 2 me!
      & karma did come back. I was eventually hurt! Most
      people will experience this. Hope you life goes
      well take care.

  • @rubydiaz2532
    @rubydiaz2532 5 лет назад +9

    I thought I loved my ex. For two years I tried to be with him when I knew deep down inside he was not right for me. Regardless, I was always there for him when his friends and family looked down on him. I took care of him financially, when he was sick or stranded. I gave him so much freedom. Yet, when I asked for him to be responsible for once, for us to make memories, travel and show me that he loved me he couldn’t do so. Instead he made me look like the evil partner to his friends and family. He broke up with me for three months and I was devastated. Eventually he came back into my life asking for another chance when I was finally done with him. He gave me so many false promises. I knew I shouldn’t have but I went back to him only so he could go back to his old ways after 2 1/2 months. I finally decided I was done and broke up for him for good and he didn’t care. To this day it still hurts and I feel betrayed and lied to but I have become stronger and I have never felt so free!

  • @davidthomspson9771
    @davidthomspson9771 5 лет назад +2

    Be who you are ,if someone doesn't like you or gives up on you thats their problem.

    • @CRIMSON-FLAME1
      @CRIMSON-FLAME1 5 лет назад

      In my opinion if they give up on you then that means that they have probably have been thinking about it for a while and only held on to you just for your sake.

  • @daliboreleven6561
    @daliboreleven6561 8 лет назад +91

    But this time i give her everything what i have i give her my heart i told her that the i love her i never says anything bad to her ibwas ready to die fot her.. and she leave me without reason...
    and then they says its always boys fault.. but they dont see how they hurt us..

    • @fadedgaming5084
      @fadedgaming5084 7 лет назад +3

      Dalibor Eleven you speak the truth man you'll soon find the kne for you

    • @michellevalles7086
      @michellevalles7086 7 лет назад +2

      Dalibor Eleven im so sorry

    • @roseg7723
      @roseg7723 7 лет назад +3

      I feel you... my boyfriend left me for nothing. I was so confused...I asked him why and he says, "I don't know" I wanted to scream at him. I was so happy. Its hard getting through every school day seeing him. It hurts. I cried 7 times on that same day. Twice at an after school activity. Once on the activity bus home. Twice at home. And then I cried myself to sleep that night.

    • @eliandkm7848
      @eliandkm7848 7 лет назад +3

      fairy blossom you know that most of the times is girls fault we just don't apreicet some things🔫

    • @isaiahdasavagegarcia5601
      @isaiahdasavagegarcia5601 7 лет назад +3

      Dalibor Eleven I feel you same thing happened to me bro....hopefully we all find the right girl

  • @shi1ba
    @shi1ba 7 лет назад +132

    when i tell her. I love you... she just said.. "Lie ...😢

    • @azakiahofficial7852
      @azakiahofficial7852 6 лет назад +7

      SkychromE maybe she see something you don't lol maybe you've did something to not believe you who knows the story behind her thinking you lying

    • @yesugentsogbuyan9652
      @yesugentsogbuyan9652 6 лет назад +15

      Maybe she's just too scared to believe you maybe it's because she believed someone and at the end she left with broken heart. Maybe that's why she doesn't trust you

    • @lilywalker1316
      @lilywalker1316 6 лет назад +5

      I’m a girl and u need to tell her how u really feel u need to tell her how u feel about her deep down because that’s not enough for girls who have been hurt before. Good luck!!

    • @imanezahidi1978
      @imanezahidi1978 6 лет назад +18

      Don’t tell her.
      Prove it to her !

    • @curtpangan9833
      @curtpangan9833 6 лет назад

      When she broke up with me after being childhood friends then became lovers and breaks up with me just to see her sitting beside someone else

  • @rusticion6460
    @rusticion6460 5 лет назад +20

    I've been single for sometime I gave up on my girl after she lied, and cheated on me.

    • @alexbeville44
      @alexbeville44 4 года назад

      i completely understand. the same thing happened to me 2 weeks ago

    • @ksksksksandioop292
      @ksksksksandioop292 4 года назад

      I'm sorry to hear that

  • @Abandonsoyciety
    @Abandonsoyciety 5 лет назад +17

    Women: when we give up on liking someone we give up permanently
    Also women: doesnt tell guy she likes directly but instead plays games until he decides to go after another girl

    • @amasion2882
      @amasion2882 4 года назад +1

      Michael Smith : I’ve found the opposite is true. Men will ghost or break things off with a suitable woman because they imagine they can do “better” and then come hot footing back because the “new, better” woman really wasn’t that great. It’s actually women who will walk away and stay gone.

    • @ammac8044
      @ammac8044 2 года назад

      Both replies are true I honestly believe that part of the problem is a lot of people don't really understand how to commit to a relationship everyone's looking for better as soon as they see something they don't like.
      How can a relationship survive with a outlook like that.

  • @anglnjmnz
    @anglnjmnz 7 лет назад +27

    this made me cry. idk why

    • @g0023-t7e
      @g0023-t7e 7 лет назад

      Angeline Jimenez i

  • @galaxyglitterlatte4664
    @galaxyglitterlatte4664 5 лет назад

    This is deep AF. The hardest part is wondering what might have been...😭😭😤😫😖

  • @Mika-sj7re
    @Mika-sj7re 7 лет назад +7

    *Gives up on crush after watching this* He never paid attention to me..so. Of course, I GIVE UP!

  • @ethanschiltz7305
    @ethanschiltz7305 4 года назад +22

    She's gone because she's a covert narcissist riding the CC and I'm glad I never have to deal with an adult sized child ever again. Lol

  • @tracyg9721
    @tracyg9721 5 лет назад

    If you love her.....show her. Action is key, not just words. Show up when you say, be present, have integrity and honour.

  • @fadedgaming5084
    @fadedgaming5084 7 лет назад +148

    my girlfriend just broke up with me I've never felt this way about anyone and i just don't want to live anymore why does life have to suck so much

    • @roseg7723
      @roseg7723 7 лет назад +13

      I can feel u. My boyfriend cheated on me while he was on vacation. He thought I would be mad so he broke up with me before I could. I never would have on my life. I miss him. I want him. I need him. I blamed myself and apologized to him but he said nothing was my fault and that I still mean something to him even though we haven't talked in 3 weeks. Its really confusing to me. Everything just hurts.

    • @meowmeow57pro47
      @meowmeow57pro47 7 лет назад +5

      Faded Gaming I know how you feel, trust me if anyone did it would be me, when my girlfriend broke up with me I was so depressed, I cried every time I thought about her and I had no will to live anymore... but now I moved on and I know you will too and then you'll realize it... Was she even worth being so depressed about? No she wasn't

    • @roseg7723
      @roseg7723 7 лет назад +4

      Wow. I ever though a guy could love a girl that much. At least... not after my boyfriend cheated, left me. My guy-friend told me those guys think its funny to get girls attached to them, then toy with their emotions by leaving them. I saw my ex boyfriend as the kindest person in this world. I pictured the most harsh ways he could have left me. But he did something far worse than anything I could imagine. He hasn't seen my for 13 days straight because I was in a hospital in Honolulu. Then the day I first saw him, he acted like I didn't even exist. Then he told other people he was leaving me, then he told me to ask his FRIEND when I asked him if he was going to break up with me. Now I'm hearing rumors he still likes me. Its so hard. Before I met him, I was so depressed. But when I met him, he did something! I don't know what it was but it was like he took my depression, and trew it away like paper. When he left, I didn't know what to do with myself. I'm better and over him now though =)

    • @animelife5724
      @animelife5724 7 лет назад +8

      well you might not think we do love a girl the way a girl loves a man but to be honest a boy probably loves a girl more then a girl loves a man and ps sorry that he cheated on u

    • @animelife5724
      @animelife5724 7 лет назад +1

      kaylee burress no prob

  • @jennylopez7658
    @jennylopez7658 6 лет назад +24

    A week ago my crush unfriended me from Snapchat. Everything was going fine then out of the blue I reload my Snapchat and his label is no longer there it's his username. So I go to change it back believing there was some sort of glitch, I try to change it back and it doesn't let me. I tried texting him asking if I had done something wrong. We were so so close but after that day I didn't know what to do. He posted pictures on his Instagram like everything was fine, like nothing had happened. The next day I felt so broken and I thought of asking him what I did wrong but I feared he would laugh at me. My friends say it's no big deal but this hurts more than anything imaginable. Whenever we would text randomly out of nowhere he'd say "I love you." And in real life I would cry a little that someone as amazing as him could love me. It's been a week and a few days and he doesn't even so much as look at me or speak to me at all. Don't get attached ladies, it's one of the worst mistakes you could ever make.

    • @nekosasukeuchiha9355
      @nekosasukeuchiha9355 6 лет назад

      Similar thing happened to me. And I'm a guy

    • @Aiden9050
      @Aiden9050 5 лет назад

      Imo a guy does this if he finds out youre texting many other guys or maybe he thought youre cheating so he left before getting hurt. Just my opinion

  • @siddharthsid3638
    @siddharthsid3638 5 лет назад +20

    Single squad people this is not our place😂

  • @lifeishorrible3974
    @lifeishorrible3974 7 лет назад +14

    When you realize your single so you sing all the single ladies and I ain't your mama

  • @rogue_fang2924
    @rogue_fang2924 5 лет назад +81

    I gave up. He asked someone else to be his girlfriend 💔 he was using me! 😭😭😭 I don’t know what to do. I thought he cared for me, but I was wrong! 💔

    • @timothygibney159
      @timothygibney159 5 лет назад +14

      Rylee it gets better. In a few months you will look back at this time and laugh and shake your head. Learn from this and inthe future weed out these guys ahead of time before emotions are involved

    • @michaeltracinski2360
      @michaeltracinski2360 5 лет назад +4

      You are not alone,I,m going through the same thing,an yes,it hurts,I suffer from stress,depression,insomnia,an that is what always ruins my relationship's,plus I,m a really nice guy,so,I either destroy it when my emotions erupt,or I get used cause I,m"to nice"an that is a weakness women take advantage of everytime !!!!!! #FUCKED FOR LIFE !!!!! ✌ ❤

    • @michaeltracinski2360
      @michaeltracinski2360 5 лет назад +1

      @@lillobo9536 I,m so sorry,wish I could take away your pain an give it to myself,I,m so used to getting hurt,I've become numb to it,add my stress n depression,an I,m a total train wreck. I,m sending you peace,love n good vibes,an hope things get better for you. It will for me soon,cause there will be no more pain. ✌ ❤

    • @timothygibney159
      @timothygibney159 5 лет назад

      @@lillobo9536 let me ask you this? What were the kind of guys you hooked up with and fell for? Were they the bad boys or at least confident and positive and had a lot going for them who contacted you occasionally? Or were they the nice sweet guys who blew up your phone and kept trying to get you to like them? My guess is the former right? Yale confirmed this and especially during ovaluation women picked the strong ones and blew of their male friends.

    • @turkapallysupriya1336
      @turkapallysupriya1336 5 лет назад +1

      Reading all these comments gave me strength . Bt lost hope on true love

  • @flocknkin626
    @flocknkin626 4 года назад +1

    Really every single girl is like this......they will try ...keep on trying even it hurts them a lot..... finally when she breaks down to thousand pieces...... finally her heart breaks .....even though she knows she can't love any other guy like the one she loved and he don't even realize it......she w"ll leave you forever with an unhealed wound in her heart which will never heal again.......

  • @addyneilson4208
    @addyneilson4208 6 лет назад +6

    I met a boy at school and I instantly fell for him, He was amazing, funny, caring, and kind. A few weeks after the first day of school we started talking on instagram. We talked for hours and hours every single day, But then we stopped talking, now when we see each other we just make eye contact and continue walking or something. I still like him but he doesn’t like me, he flirts with other girls at lunch and in the morning before classes begin and it makes me so jealous he doesn’t know that I like him but I really want to tell him. It’s been a month since I’ve talked to him and I’m so sad I just want to forget about him but I can’t. He is just so special to me, And I don’t want to lose him just because I’m too shy to tell him that I like him, or to even talk to him. He has been avoiding me for a long time and I can’t even say hi without being a total idiot and Messing up our conversation before it even happens. I’m so broken right now, and I wish we could talk but he won’t talk to me and it hurts sometimes. I haven’t been able to sleep at night either because I just think of what could go wrong or what could happen between us I know it’s stupid but I like him so much. When we talked he made me so happy and he made me laugh too. I love him and I don’t know what to do please help :(

    • @marissaquintero7353
      @marissaquintero7353 5 лет назад

      i barely talked to mine after 10 months and he ended things after 4 weeks of us

  • @lenasvn
    @lenasvn 5 лет назад +35

    A girl start the grieving process before she disappears/leave for good, by then its too late, guys, remember that.

    • @kwf1
      @kwf1 5 лет назад +2

      That's what happened to me and I didn't even know it.

    • @dumisanimokoena1590
      @dumisanimokoena1590 5 лет назад +2

      we men we don't because girls don't know what they want

    • @stallio5612
      @stallio5612 5 лет назад

      Girls are no saint either, there are tons of asshole bitches around who are self centered and will walk out even they have done the disaster..... So stop bullshitting and pretending that women's are very special creatures and men's are shit. Girls see yourself what you do with good men's .... You leave then in one strike even then when it was your mistake.....

    • @stallio5612
      @stallio5612 5 лет назад

      @@jessgravant guy here, same was done by my girlfriend and she was the one who kicked me like a stone on a street.

    • @stallio5612
      @stallio5612 5 лет назад

      @@jessgravant so true, she was centre of everything I did, my career, my lifestyle I always considered her first but her constant denial to talk, to give time and absolutely stubborn when come to sex...... Later while our parents were discussing our marriage she blew one thing out of proportion and put it on Facebook her whole family indirectly tonted me..... I was sad and was expecting an apology call from her but what I got was another Facebook story post of breakup party with her office collegue......... I feel like such a looser that I am still trying to mend things from my side as if I did it all.

  • @oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314
    @oneoutoftheninety-nine.3314 4 года назад

    True. I've gave up on boyfriends so many times. It was unhealthy, though. I'm finally starting to learn healthy ways of living. I'm a recovering addict and grew up in an abusive household. So, it is all new to me to form healthy boundaries and learning to trust which is really hard because I got hurt so much. I watched some videos 2 nights ago of Susan Winter, a life coach on RUclips. That helped alot, along with being sober and God. Learning to love myself and my relationship with God should be my first priority. My brokeness makes me weak and vulnerable to excepting and being in bad relationships. But with healing and time it's getting better.

  • @rudybmore6809
    @rudybmore6809 6 лет назад +9

    Hurt a Lady , she will have another boyfriend the Next week.
    Hurt a MAN , He will be broken for YEARS!!!
    My Story 💔

  • @mosesmontsi8889
    @mosesmontsi8889 4 года назад +6

    This is not happening to girls only.. And we guys we sometimes get tired of trying, to make things work and to always put an effort....

  • @ChaeThompson
    @ChaeThompson 4 года назад

    Lol these are spot on. I found myself behaving and feeling this way when i got soo fed up with his bs

  • @intentionaiiy9171
    @intentionaiiy9171 7 лет назад +172

    I am crying and I am not a boy

  • @Samuel-ji8rn
    @Samuel-ji8rn 6 лет назад +7

    that really makes you think about what you truly lost I thought about her the whole time and I think of all the great moments and times we had together but I wasn’t being to perfect guy she needed and I hope she finds that guy that makes her really happy and smiling even when she is sad. She always told me how happy I mad her and how I made her smile but apparently it wasn’t enough😕I just really hope the best for her😔

    • @GrgB0y47
      @GrgB0y47 6 лет назад +1

      I feel you man. I realised it too late myself. We started as good friends online and finally commited to LDR and it wasn't easy. We would occasionally book holidays and meet up in places. Those were the only times we could actually physically see, touch and hold each other. It was always emotionally hard going our separate ways at the end of trip. We made great memories and we were so in love. I loved her smile and all i wanted to do was make her happy. She felt the same way. We had ups and downs but we saw the future between us. On the way, lots of miscommunication and she felt i didn't care enough for her. So we both mutually agreed to go back to the way it was. Start as friends again and try again to build the relationship. Start over again. I thought it sounded good but it was a mistake. I should have put more effort in cus in few weeks she moved on. Whereas i got stuck and was hoping always to get back together. I still do but she dont feel the same anymore. Says she has moved on and seeing other guy which crushed me. I tried to get her back but it was all useless. She had already gave up by the time i realised how much i needed her, how much i love her and care her. The realisation have been too late. Now all i do is think of the memories i had with her and imagine of what if's. I am an idiot and i regret whatever happened. 😢

    • @Samuel-ji8rn
      @Samuel-ji8rn 6 лет назад

      Sorry man but there are others in the same situation. You will get threw the hard times. As will I

  • @marshamarritto9136
    @marshamarritto9136 5 лет назад

    So deep and so very true. I'm that girl inside.. Woman on the outside.

  • @alyssaquinn8851
    @alyssaquinn8851 7 лет назад +229

    i gave up on him he didnt care

    • @iliyanag6488
      @iliyanag6488 6 лет назад +5

      Alyssa Quinn Absolutely same here.

    • @ummehani4064
      @ummehani4064 6 лет назад +7

      Because he didn't loved you.

    • @yesugentsogbuyan9652
      @yesugentsogbuyan9652 6 лет назад +10

      It's not easy as you imagine

    • @stupididiotthatdoesntknow_581
      @stupididiotthatdoesntknow_581 6 лет назад +5

      Then he wasn’t worth it.
      I’m in the same position. My boyfriend, he told me
      He loved me but doesn’t talk to me but my best friend (his ex)

    • @jm0481
      @jm0481 6 лет назад

      Girls are so rude

  • @Theguythatlikescommenting
    @Theguythatlikescommenting 6 лет назад +65

    My crush needs to see this

  • @crystalxoxox1266
    @crystalxoxox1266 4 года назад

    This is so 100% true!!! Really true!!..and it hurts too!..

  • @Deadpool....
    @Deadpool.... 6 лет назад +54

    im sorry for my ignorance amy.. im sorry i didnt fix it in time because i didnt know.. i'll be the first to say i was wrong & though im too late to apologize for my mistakes.. if you ever do come across this..
    yeah its me.. you'll always be in my heart, you taught me alot..
    but one thing you didn't teach me, was how to live without you haunting my mind with that day we split..

    • @amyhoover310
      @amyhoover310 5 лет назад +2

      Whose deadpool? Ya know there's thousands & thousands of girls named Amy. Make it sound like u mean it & say your first name at least.

    • @MrKaMa94
      @MrKaMa94 5 лет назад +7

      @@amyhoover310 just forgive him Amy... Cmon...

    • @janrenz2117
      @janrenz2117 5 лет назад +1

      My name is amy... XD

    • @RaptureHead1993
      @RaptureHead1993 5 лет назад

      Is this canon?

    • @kimberlywilliams5337
      @kimberlywilliams5337 5 лет назад

      You should of sent this to Amy if you really mean what you say. It's a waste to post if here.

  • @geraltblaviken6127
    @geraltblaviken6127 7 лет назад +4

    Before my marriage ended, my then wife played this song in situations when we argued. We both looked at each other knowing things are falling apart, but I simply stood paralyzed,my voice was gone,I wanted to tell her many things I never did before but I couldn't.
    I will always remember this

  • @Siegfriedneo
    @Siegfriedneo 4 года назад +1

    One of the hardest things to accept is when you’ve lost a girl that you really did like. Like you had her once but eventually you lost her and you wish for anything to have her feel as she once did

  • @BladeWild2319
    @BladeWild2319 7 лет назад +29

    when you have to let someone go because you don't want to hurt them ..

    • @FernandoSanchez-jm7mi
      @FernandoSanchez-jm7mi 7 лет назад +2

      Chibi Otaku my girl left me cuz she didn't want to hurt me anymore and I didn't understand. I was confused

    • @BladeWild2319
      @BladeWild2319 7 лет назад +1

      Fernando Sanchez I dont understand females when it comes to love ^.^ll

    • @FernandoSanchez-jm7mi
      @FernandoSanchez-jm7mi 7 лет назад

      Chibi Otaku do u know what it means when a girl tells you "I can't lead you on like this"

    • @BladeWild2319
      @BladeWild2319 7 лет назад

      Fernando Sanchez maybe she was keeping something from you or maybe she felt something was missing in said relationship?

    • @FernandoSanchez-jm7mi
      @FernandoSanchez-jm7mi 7 лет назад

      Chibi Otaku damn. U think I can get her back loving me again. Plus she's the one who had feelings for me in the 1st place

  • @gntsuwproverbs3136
    @gntsuwproverbs3136 4 года назад +3

    When A Girl Gives Up On You, You can FINALLY HAVE PEACE. Ha! Ha!

  • @MisakiBlossom
    @MisakiBlossom 5 лет назад +11

    I feel like completely giving up. I've fought and tried for years. I feel like nothing is really improving.

    • @korger1481
      @korger1481 4 года назад +1

      Walk away. Don’t waste anymore time.

    • @leobardasantiago6167
      @leobardasantiago6167 4 года назад

      Me tol i just keep seeing date alot of girls and i been trying to wait for him for a long time like about 5 years nows thinking i can change something but really i cant anymoore so i left but got blocked smh

    • @leobardasantiago6167
      @leobardasantiago6167 4 года назад

      He left i meant

  • @joseestrada353
    @joseestrada353 5 лет назад +7

    How did this wind up in my feed, RUclips algorithm's trying to tell me something, haha

  • @asktheetruscans9857
    @asktheetruscans9857 5 лет назад +8

    This is every woman at 3-6 months, even when they stay in the situationship/simbiationship longer...but hey, don't let a good fear/obligation/guilt trip go to waste...blame that man! In the meantime, I'll see you tomorrow while he's at work ;)

  • @angelgil672
    @angelgil672 4 года назад

    That just hit me hard. Yes you’re right on the money with this one. 😔💔

  • @__Co_co__
    @__Co_co__ 4 года назад +5

    When I'm hurt and thinking about giving up..
    The recommendations 😭

  • @nubiaaildaa
    @nubiaaildaa 5 лет назад +15

    sad how many girls are on here relating to this .

  • @filippavlakovic4478
    @filippavlakovic4478 5 лет назад

    I get that feeling.. Happened more than once, each time feels worse than previous

  • @McdonaldsInFallujah
    @McdonaldsInFallujah 6 лет назад +5

    You know why?.. Because shes gone..
    Struck my heart like bullets

  • @dolantwinz5465
    @dolantwinz5465 6 лет назад +18

    i honestly am so happy without my ex, he says he misses me and loves me but he doesn’t. i know he doesn’t . he still smiles at other girls anyways. he doesn’t love me. i have one less problem without him. :) i’m finally happy. but this is so me. :/

  • @ciaphagray1063
    @ciaphagray1063 5 лет назад

    Fuck that! Love yaself!!! Self Love is the best!!

  • @lukesimmons4243
    @lukesimmons4243 5 лет назад +8

    I tried my best to care. I guess it wasn't good enough.

    • @redxrapture
      @redxrapture 4 года назад

      It never is, and never will be. The more you try the more it pushes her away because it only serves to remind her of the times where she perceived you didn't care enough. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

  • @mummabearcuddles9975
    @mummabearcuddles9975 6 лет назад +4

    Hard to forget as the heart will always luv. ✌🏻🌹💘💋

  • @crystalannmitchell3796
    @crystalannmitchell3796 4 года назад +1

    The 1st time I saw this video I was very saddened thinking when will this phase start with me....... months down the line now I’m finally happy that I closed that chapter of my book and now turning a new page for my life 🤗🤗🤗

  • @Chicosfinest420
    @Chicosfinest420 5 лет назад +4

    The hell with this! You got me crying like a freakin little girl right now! My chick of 12 years! We’ve been married for the last 5 of them! We have 2 beautiful little girls together! She walked out on me 2 weeks ago! I never thought I could hurt like this! I didn’t even know what heartbreak really felt like before this! What a love we had together! We had a good life! But she wasn’t happy! I couldn’t make her happy anymore!
    I’m so lost without her and my babies here! I just And cry every night alone in this big ass house! I hate it here! Some nights I just drive! Just to not see this empty house all freakin night long alone!
    This sucks...

    • @ThatsGermey
      @ThatsGermey 4 года назад

      Bro I know that had to hurt she's probably with some man cheating on him right now

  • @xmaddylu
    @xmaddylu 7 лет назад +49

    I got mad at my guy friend because he did something and I gave up on him and I realized that this is true because this video is saying things that I've been doing.. Sorry guys.. ;-; and I'm kinda giving up on my crush...
    ~From a girl

    • @grizzly9809
      @grizzly9809 7 лет назад +1

      Squidward Leonhardt Same😢😢its okay girl were all here for you

    • @danielleadame2675
      @danielleadame2675 7 лет назад +1

      Squidward Leonhardt me too i gave up on my crush already he just keeps on ignoring me 😭🔥💔💔😢😢

  • @shizukanobita3208
    @shizukanobita3208 4 года назад

    Yes off course she will give up after trying her best pls understand..u r my best don't want to loose u luv..ur my heart. Mujhe itna satao nhi fass gayi hun main buri tarah se..na pa sakti hoon na kho sakti hoon..

  • @biswajitdasyt
    @biswajitdasyt 4 года назад +3

    I don't think she would ever understand my feelings. She never tried on me. 😔
    Atleast understand me once, come to me once, try me once.. I will never never give you a chance to let go. Giving up is so far away.