The grave of kate spade

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  • Опубликовано: 2 июл 2024
  • Kate Spade was a legendary handbag fashion designer who tragically took her own life on june 5th of 2018
    If you or anyone you know is thinking about hurting themselves please call 1800 273 8255
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  • @lorizimmerman2850
    @lorizimmerman2850 4 года назад +421

    Money dont mean crap when you are depressed.

    • @jajohnson7809
      @jajohnson7809 4 года назад +17

      And even less when you're dead.

    • @lft4589
      @lft4589 3 года назад +20

      It depends if you are depressed due to lack of money than money is everything

    • @prometheuspredator7971
      @prometheuspredator7971 3 года назад +6

      So very true. Money is not everything.

    • @SuperTruthful
      @SuperTruthful 2 года назад +2

      It does cuz you have a place to eat, sleep go see a therapist. Money makes a world difference.

    • @SuperTruthful
      @SuperTruthful Год назад

      @New Jack City after you

  • @sweetcheeks7766
    @sweetcheeks7766 4 года назад +482

    I didn't realize how serious mental illness was until I lost my son amd 2 brothers to suicide. IT IS REAL
    I wanted so badly to be with them I was hospitalized 6 times over wanting to just end the pain.
    I'm beyond thankful for not ending my life. I GOT HELP and got to see my only daughter grow into a beautiful adult. She saved me
    So please if anyone is dealing with deep dark depression. Just remember someone does care amd does love you.

    • @wandagonzalez3973
      @wandagonzalez3973 4 года назад +12

      Ty for sharing gby love and light 🙏🏻

    • @serenacalls
      @serenacalls 4 года назад +6

      Keep Hanging on!!! I care 🤗

    • @dlinares72
      @dlinares72 4 года назад +2

      💛💚💙

    • @jajohnson7809
      @jajohnson7809 4 года назад +5

      That's terrible to lose three people that way. I'm so glad you found a reason to hang on despite your grief. I wish you the best in life from here on out--you've already seen the worst.

    • @gggmoney77
      @gggmoney77 4 года назад +4

      It takes real courage to not take the easy way out and fight your inner demons. I'm glad you got the help you needed.

  • @thoughtfinder
    @thoughtfinder 4 года назад +177

    I know what depression feels like because in August of 2018 I was seriously contemplating suicide. I was hearing voices in my head telling I was worthless and I had no use anymore. My doctor put me on Citalopram but it wasn't working. The only power that saved me from those voices in my head was the power of the blood of Jesus Christ. When I called to God that night his presence came to me. I felt love that filled my inner soul. The only way I can keep those feelings of depression away is for me to take some time out every day to give praise singing and worship to God. When I do that I can feel God's love and it lifts me up and strengthens me. If I stay away from worship for to long the depression wants to come back. Praise to God keeps it away.

    • @lovely.i.am.7753
      @lovely.i.am.7753 4 года назад +17

      Be encouraged and continue to stay in God's grip!

    • @AngieTomlinson35
      @AngieTomlinson35 3 года назад +3

      I currently take that medication and it helped me very much

    • @seliagamble8808
      @seliagamble8808 3 года назад +10

      Hang in there. Keep praising God in the storm. His story for you is not complete. Peace and love to you.

    • @debdebcastillo6600
      @debdebcastillo6600 3 года назад +1

      There’s more to this story .. suicide 🤔. If y’all do more research you’ll find out.

    • @deannalopez6158
      @deannalopez6158 3 года назад +4

      Amen praise God. 🙏🏽

  • @juneannbrusie2042
    @juneannbrusie2042 4 года назад +97

    Suicide isn't always a selfish act. When my oldest son was diagnosed with bone cancer at the age of 21 he fought a good fight for 4 years. When he couldn't fight anymore he decided to end his life instead of letting his family watch him suffer and waste away. He spoke to me about this after he was diagnosed and I supported his decision. What my son did was a selfless act not a selfish one.

    • @ryanfahrne5318
      @ryanfahrne5318 2 года назад +5

      My condolences that's horrible

    • @BloodAndGutsTV
      @BloodAndGutsTV Год назад +1

      You should have thought of that before you selfishly decided to force a child into this existence who may suffer terribly and should never have to consider such a difficult decision in the first place. The possibility of them not having a good life just so you can be happy is not worth the risk. I hope you just learn from it and read up about anti-natalism.

    • @juneannbrusie2042
      @juneannbrusie2042 Год назад

      @@BloodAndGutsTV your mother should have aborted your ass. How dare you say such things to a mother who has lost their child. Karma will find you bitch

    • @CocoEmmet61
      @CocoEmmet61 Год назад +1

      My aunts brother had AIDS, he ended his life back in the mid 80s, but of course that was in the Netherlands 🇳🇱 where such wishes are respected for the terminally ill.

    • @EMurph42
      @EMurph42 Год назад

      @@BloodAndGutsTV what. The. Hell! First of all what’s wrong with you? Second, what logic is that?! You make no sense and spread terrible energy.

  • @BassGirlSusan1961
    @BassGirlSusan1961 4 года назад +185

    Someone, somewhere may have changed their mind about ending their life today Lamont, through watching this video.
    Tomorrow may bring a new perspective.
    "Hold on for One more Day"
    Wilson Phillips 1990

    • @rm4861
      @rm4861 4 года назад +6

      I completely agree with you BassGirlSusan. I truly appreciate your sincerity and kind heart Lamont. Much love.

    • @irisheyesofbelfast
      @irisheyesofbelfast 4 года назад +5

      Every word of that song is spot on. 💙

  • @susanfisher773
    @susanfisher773 3 года назад +50

    Her tomb stone should have been designed with one of her designs. She is missed 💗

  • @jajohnson7809
    @jajohnson7809 4 года назад +51

    Depression can be a living hell. I know from experience.

    • @amzgMe
      @amzgMe Месяц назад

      PRAYED!

  • @dianealbrecht496
    @dianealbrecht496 4 года назад +143

    Headstones don't tell a story. The people who loved them do.

    • @Alana060310
      @Alana060310 3 года назад +4

      Nah some headstones do.

    • @WhispersFromTheDark
      @WhispersFromTheDark 3 года назад

      Diane, I would like to use that quote on my upcoming cemetery visit video's. I plan to go to our local cemeteries and tell stories of the people that I know, or who are related to me. And your comment would be perfect for that. Would you mind if I used it? And do you want me to accredit it to you? I will, just let me know. Thanks.

    • @prometheuspredator7971
      @prometheuspredator7971 3 года назад

      Very true.

  • @dianebejarano6763
    @dianebejarano6763 4 года назад +81

    Her purses were also beautifully lined with floral material on the inside. And her empire had expanded to homeware, stationary and paper products. Thanks for sharing.

    • @poorthing
      @poorthing 3 года назад +3

      Her name was also a branded cologne/perfume.

    • @misslangleysoryuisiconic
      @misslangleysoryuisiconic 3 года назад +1

      _My grandma’s sister gave aKate Spade black colored backpack which she also told me that I’m gonna have a pink wallet and pink sling bag then my online pal from Malaysia told me that the bag was so minimalistic and beautiful indeed but the price was too pricey in Malaysia though (I was from the Philippines)_

    • @poorthing
      @poorthing Год назад

      @newjackcity7862 the bags are usually very structured. Satchels, totes, crossbody..
      They remind me of Coach.

    • @sabrinacasseus8783
      @sabrinacasseus8783 10 месяцев назад

      @newjackcity7862yes they are check the bags she made for Frances valentine

  • @jaimeeleeradio
    @jaimeeleeradio 4 года назад +360

    Lamont you have the most beautiful eyes 👀

  • @lyndiemaedubois3983
    @lyndiemaedubois3983 3 года назад +19

    No matter how popular and rich you are, we all end up in the ground. So stay humble

  • @addylynch8728
    @addylynch8728 4 года назад +82

    I love Kate Spade. I was so sad when she passed away

  • @liveyourbestlife143
    @liveyourbestlife143 4 года назад +197

    Just goes to show ... you never know what somebody else is going through.

    • @kathybenson9382
      @kathybenson9382 4 года назад +2

      The other tombstone said the man you said was her brother born 1918. Could not have been brother.

    • @cashed-out2192
      @cashed-out2192 4 года назад +2

      Suicide is long term for a short solution

    • @cloudie8314
      @cloudie8314 4 года назад

      Especially at the moment😔

    • @cashed-out2192
      @cashed-out2192 4 года назад +1

      It is not a good idea to commit an act, such as suicide, stealing, or murder, if you do not know of a certainty what will happen next. Where is anyone that follow through on such an act. Are they really at peace?

    • @cashed-out2192
      @cashed-out2192 4 года назад

      @@kathybenson9382 had to be her maternal uncle

  • @msdillpickle3956
    @msdillpickle3956 4 года назад +80

    RIP Kate, some of the happiest people on the outside are tormented, inside.

  • @misslangleysoryuisiconic
    @misslangleysoryuisiconic 3 года назад +3

    _her designs on her bags and wallets were so minimalistically beautiful, I’mma have sumn purse bag and it’s wallet someday, rest easy ma’am kate_ ❤️❤️❤️

  • @googieegg6527
    @googieegg6527 4 года назад +81

    Very sad for her young child just heartbreaking

  • @paulinepurifoy1530
    @paulinepurifoy1530 4 года назад +89

    I’m sitting here with tears running down my face. I have tried 3 times to end my life,I just feel a constant pain over the loss of my sister to suicide and I miss her so much....... I will continue with my medication and councillors and hold onto the love of my daughter.
    Thank you BB it means a lot.

    • @oooooo-kr4ep
      @oooooo-kr4ep 4 года назад +8

      Keep the faith and God will see you through. Loosing a child is like someone went inside my body and pulled out my heart and trample on it. That alone should let me think life is worthless, but I cried to God with every fiber of my being and he helped me through the pain and suffering. You can count on him, even when you can't count on anyone else! I love you my brother!!

    • @dlinares72
      @dlinares72 4 года назад +9

      Keep holding on.Suicide is a spirit ,it lingers in families,break that curse.Pray,hug your daughter.

    • @msanw
      @msanw 4 года назад +9

      Sending love...your life is worth living! ❤️

    • @TuwanandTenille
      @TuwanandTenille 4 года назад +7

      Take it one day at a time, keep your faith in your god. You are loved ❤️

    • @sharoncoer5318
      @sharoncoer5318 4 года назад +7

      I pray that life gets better for you. This world is better because you are here♥️

  • @spacecowgurl57
    @spacecowgurl57 4 года назад +254

    Some deem success as owning fancy cars, dripping in pure gold chains or even unlimited money. If you don't love yourself and others none of it matters. xoxoxo

    • @haroldcounts47
      @haroldcounts47 4 года назад +3

      There's so many people who are rich and poor who are lonely and broken.you are so right about what you said.

    • @Omo21000
      @Omo21000 3 года назад +1

      💕💕💕💝

  • @kunhung4733
    @kunhung4733 4 года назад +14

    People come to this world empty handed... And leaves this world empty handed... All fame all wealth means nothing at the end

  • @fortunateadventures3664
    @fortunateadventures3664 4 года назад +39

    We are All Human, rich or poor
    We will all end up in some cemetery in our towns hopefully not forgotten.Thank you Lamont
    for visiting and introducing us to many who have left this earth.
    Gone but not forgotten.RIP🙏

  • @msdustismith8919
    @msdustismith8919 4 года назад +53

    Thank you Lamont, you said it all perfectly...

  • @eliskagray1546
    @eliskagray1546 4 года назад +84

    RIP Kate Spade. Legend. Thank you Lamont!

  • @sandrawaltrip873
    @sandrawaltrip873 4 года назад +70

    So sad! Just goes to show you that money can’t cure everything. Thank you so very much for your message. I wish my grandson had heard it. It hurts so bad not to be able to see him and hug him. I can’t hear his voice anymore and it breaks my heart. He was only 23. I wish I could have healed what was hurting inside of him. He had such a beautiful heart and a loving attitude. I miss him so very very much. 💔😢😢😢😢

    • @sandrawaltrip873
      @sandrawaltrip873 4 года назад +5

      Southern Style - thank you so much! It breaks my heart that people are suffering so and feel so desperate. I pray for all those that are hurting and those that understand. God bless you. I do feel my grandson is with me and I will see him again. Love you Southern Style. 💖🤗

    • @sandrawaltrip873
      @sandrawaltrip873 4 года назад

      Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart that’s true, but we need to take away the power money has over us and concentrate on what matters.

    • @sandrawaltrip873
      @sandrawaltrip873 4 года назад

      Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart great point!

    • @thegamingchannel9023
      @thegamingchannel9023 3 года назад +1

      But without the money u stress more no food no housse no life

    • @joleahnowicki7058
      @joleahnowicki7058 3 года назад

      I’m so very sorry 😢 . God bless you and your ease your pain of loss. May he Rest In Peace.

  • @CaptchaNeon
    @CaptchaNeon 4 года назад +203

    I'm super shocked by her grave honestly. I was expecting something fancier.

    • @joyfitzgerald9878
      @joyfitzgerald9878 4 года назад +4

      Yeah.

    • @amyadams1653
      @amyadams1653 4 года назад +4

      Captcha Neon so was I. Not much to it.

    • @lynn.d1015
      @lynn.d1015 4 года назад +16

      Most likely to keep her privacy

    • @booradley989
      @booradley989 4 года назад +3

      Lynn .D - Like she would know the difference?

    • @kristielael2670
      @kristielael2670 4 года назад +2

      @@booradley989 she wouldn't know the difference, but I think it's more so for Security maybe?!! I too was expecting a little more.

  • @txlouise
    @txlouise 4 года назад +31

    I just love how you are so respectful Lamont with your videos.It doesn’t surprise me that your channel is growing at rapid speed. You keep it real but you have such compassion. Congratulations in achieving 21 k . Keep it real and you will do great things

  • @robinpaz5578
    @robinpaz5578 4 года назад +13

    Thanks for the kind words of encouragement...
    Life can be so hard sometimes.
    May She rest in Peace

  • @annmariemcleod6670
    @annmariemcleod6670 4 года назад +23

    I love my Kate spade bag Thank u for bringing her final resting place to us.

  • @Dana548
    @Dana548 4 года назад +19

    I was so sad when she died, I love her bags, I own 2 bags and one wallet....what a shame, may she Rest In Peace! Thanks Lamont, another great video!

  • @phoenixman8569
    @phoenixman8569 4 года назад +21

    The late well loved performer Frank Sinatra who passed back in 1998, still had wealth and power at the time of his passing and he chose to have a simple flat marker just like hers.

  • @shelbygirl4382
    @shelbygirl4382 4 года назад +34

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! That was. Wonderful what you said towards the end, and if I could keep pressing that Thumbs Up Button a hundred thousand times I would thank you again you said it so well.

  • @carol-annemartinalolafrase8473
    @carol-annemartinalolafrase8473 4 года назад +49

    I live with sever panic attacks anxiety attacks depression since I was a kid I'm 28 it's not fun at all so sad about her

    • @msanw
      @msanw 4 года назад +3

      Sending you ❤️ you can make it through this!

    • @OGitGirlJess
      @OGitGirlJess 4 года назад +1

      I hope you are getting medical help. These issues are caused by chemical imbalances. Please see a psychiatrist if you have not already. Peace & love 🙏☮️💟

    • @carol-annemartinalolafrase8473
      @carol-annemartinalolafrase8473 4 года назад

      @@OGitGirlJess mine are from childhood trama and I was born at 33 weeks weight 3 lbs and something and I have IBS my dad has them plus depression and other mental health issues my mom so did she was the worst bipolar u can have I lost her to suicide when she was 17 on may 15 delt with my dad drinking issue cops and so on and I have felt with rape I have seen a a doc that's how ingot dignosed with it and depression and anxiety disorder social anxiety to I hated the meds they gave me made me very very angry all the time gained so much weight and my hormones where out in wake so i resufe to go on any again I have worked so hard to loss the weight I have ad it is so we are looking into cbd oil and gummies for me I already found some just have to order when paid im more about using natural stuff to help me I don't even like taking pain medicine lol of this stuff don't work then all look up and find something that won't make me Gian weight won't mess my hormones up again and and won't make me angry all the time

    • @carol-annemartinalolafrase8473
      @carol-annemartinalolafrase8473 4 года назад

      @@OGitGirlJess I also lost the only women that's been like a mother to me on Christmas Eve 2019 to rare uncurble tumor cancer she was 49 been in my life since I was almost 2 years old and I lost my dad's mom who I was also close to cancer as well in 2002 I had alot happen sadly

    • @OGitGirlJess
      @OGitGirlJess 4 года назад

      Martina Lola fraser I’m sorry you’ve had this reaction with the meds. Mine are from childhood trauma also. However, in the past 10 years so many new meds have come on the market that do not have those powerful side effects. I respect your choice, I just wanted you to know that nothing can truly fix a chemical imbalance other than medicine. You’ve been through a lot, I hope you find peace. 🙏💟☮️

  • @legacyrsme
    @legacyrsme 4 года назад +80

    Damn her headstone looks as though it has been there for at least over 10 years

  • @cathyshaw1227
    @cathyshaw1227 3 года назад +5

    Sad I'm crying here, as i suffer with depression and anxiety, thank you

  • @rethamoore4282
    @rethamoore4282 4 года назад +7

    Thank you for showing us her gravesite. I didn't know her maiden name and would never have thought she live anywhere but N.Y. . Keep up the good work my friend.

  • @lindamahan9350
    @lindamahan9350 4 года назад +32

    You do a great job. We have to pray for those who can’t for themselves.

  • @brendaciesla4693
    @brendaciesla4693 4 года назад +31

    Thank You Lamont-A beautiful tribute to Katherine Spade. 🌷🌷🕊🕊🕊Thank you for your encouraging words-mental illness is real-Thank You for addressing it🕊🕊🕊

  • @CharlieB.-
    @CharlieB.- 4 года назад +8

    What a caring heart you have BB. I'm glad you decided to put the hotline number in the description in case someone might need it.

  • @d.nicely
    @d.nicely 4 года назад +145

    Suicide has taken my father, old brother and youngest brother... one has to be content/happy with what ya have...happiness is key... not money... teaching yourself to see the happiness is what I've concluded to be the way... I also believe being happy sends happiness to those who have left... be it friends and or family. I just giggle over the simplest things events... it all good =-)

    • @LamontAtLarge
      @LamontAtLarge  4 года назад +23

      Sorry to hear about all that my friend:(

    • @gillianharrison-gates7181
      @gillianharrison-gates7181 4 года назад +9

      D. Nicely I’m so sorry for your loss

    • @d.nicely
      @d.nicely 4 года назад +14

      @@gillianharrison-gates7181 Thank you all so much... stay happy!! life is really fun and never allow sad things... ya can't change... rule your life... you do that... it "always" get better.

    • @dominekemackey
      @dominekemackey 4 года назад +4

      So sorry for your loss

    • @msdustismith8919
      @msdustismith8919 4 года назад +5

      I am so very sorry you've had so much loss... But I also see that you're strong and have a good outlook, and humor,keep laughing, and I can tell you will be just fine... My best to you 😊😊😊

  • @keithreiffenstein9909
    @keithreiffenstein9909 4 года назад +14

    Just had a classmate take his life less than 10 days ago..never thought he would be the one to do that.

  • @mayapace6914
    @mayapace6914 2 года назад +2

    I remember my 1st Kate Spade bag, I was 25 yrs old and I absolutely loved it. I understand how she felt, it’s hard, mental illness is very serious. Rest In Peace, Kate Spade ❤️❤️❤️.

    • @triciaselman9215
      @triciaselman9215 Год назад +1

      I finally got a yellow KS. Loved it but it was stolen.

    • @mayapace6914
      @mayapace6914 Год назад

      @@triciaselman9215 🥺🥺🥺😩

  • @Hof79905
    @Hof79905 4 года назад +5

    Her niece Rachel Brosnahan was just on Jimmy Fallon show from home during the Corona Virus

  • @Gynajones-vk8gj
    @Gynajones-vk8gj 4 года назад +3

    Thank you for doing this video on Kate . You’re a very kind person and caring .

  • @kimberlyholland7843
    @kimberlyholland7843 4 года назад +10

    I appreciate you so much for putting that number in the description. Thank you for your videos, I love them all! You're a great dude. 🌹

  • @jennyq4979
    @jennyq4979 4 года назад +4

    Thank you so much, Lamont. You handled the topic very well and I'm sure that you'll save some lives with this video.

  • @shayevondekempt6069
    @shayevondekempt6069 4 года назад +9

    Thank you Luv. For your honesty, Empathy, and your gentle spirit.💖💋🌺

  • @danielbean868
    @danielbean868 4 года назад +5

    Well-researched, heartfelt, and moving; another amazing video. Thanks for all of the time you put into these 🙂

  • @jubeijackson6602
    @jubeijackson6602 4 года назад

    You have an amazing way with words. So precise with your delivery but you don’t sound rehearsed at all. Really helps me feel and appreciate the depth of the loss. THE WORLD NEEDS MORE EMPATHY! Keep doing what you’re doing. RIP Kate Spade

  • @sharleneburke1835
    @sharleneburke1835 4 года назад +9

    My oldest daughter came ouer last week for the first time in a while with my grandchildren because of coroavrisus with her new bright pink kate spade bag i will share your videos with her thanks Lamont stay safe fr Ontario canada

  • @evelynezachary4310
    @evelynezachary4310 4 года назад +10

    I definitely deal with some depression and I'm so glad to hear you're just address it love you so I watched all the time when I can.

  • @brendapowers9714
    @brendapowers9714 4 года назад +4

    Sometimes those who suffer from mental illness only see the ending of their lives to stop the daily pain they feel living. It is their cure and it is a final one. Mental illness is hard to treat and takes many many years to control and some never get it under control. Lamont you did a great job memorializing Kate Spade. May she finally have peace.

  • @dianes2652
    @dianes2652 2 года назад

    This is exactly why I am a subscriber to each of your channels. Thank you for all you do and the amount of research it takes. Most of all, you are a warm, compassionate caring gentleman. I love you for that. God bless you and stay safe ❤️🙏🏻

  • @marypatkeens930
    @marypatkeens930 2 года назад +1

    Lamont you were literally less than a mile from me! So cool to see KCMO on your channel! My sister was in her class in HS. Super sad for her and her family. 🤍

  • @debraleavy8338
    @debraleavy8338 3 года назад +3

    I am a women who has battled many years with survere manic depression ,Border line personality disorder . You can say all the sweet warm words in the dictionary ,but when your in the clutches of this horrible illness we don’t hear your words,we don’t feel the words. It has only been by Grace of my Lord Jesus Christ that I still live.

  • @wendymudkins668
    @wendymudkins668 4 года назад +10

    Its a sad fact that so many people suffer the horror of depression me included so sad she took her own life I just hope she is at peace now

  • @rovin6441
    @rovin6441 3 года назад +1

    Lamont, I just want you to know how much I appreciate all the links you leave and or phone numbers for people call with tips etc. Good job !

    • @poorthing
      @poorthing 3 года назад

      Many of these comments are being posted without a clear picture of clinical depression or how mental health affects the person who makes that choice of suicide. The patients very illness does NOT factor in on how it would impact others. There is no thoughts of parents, spouse, friends, even children. The pain is crushing and complete, it often feels like it's the best and only option. It is not a cowardly act, it is an act of desperation.

  • @gokathygo
    @gokathygo Год назад +1

    Lamont, thank you for your compassion and your sincerity, your videos touch people's souls.

  • @Charlotte66666
    @Charlotte66666 4 года назад +12

    Sometimes, you just want it all to stop. Thank you for your compassion Lamont ❤️

  • @faynixon8708
    @faynixon8708 4 года назад +4

    Thank you Lamont for those words of wisdom. I appreciate your kindness and love for all types of people.

  • @lindaholcomb9990
    @lindaholcomb9990 4 года назад

    Thank you for caring enough to discuss this sensitive matter. Mental illness can cause so many tragedies that could be avoided with some help

  • @bettyann1951
    @bettyann1951 4 года назад +2

    Thank you Lamont for speaking out and encouraging others to reach out for help.

  • @jwollman9475
    @jwollman9475 4 года назад +6

    Thank you for sharing this video. My heart goes out to Kate’s daughter and family. I pray that her daughter doesn’t suffer from any demons. Mental illness is a very dangerous disease.

  • @jonathanheussi6332
    @jonathanheussi6332 4 года назад +23

    Wonderful message, its all about Love.

  • @patriciapearl2529
    @patriciapearl2529 Год назад +1

    Thank you for all your hard work on showing us all these locations. RIP Kate Spade🙏

  • @rivers743
    @rivers743 2 года назад +1

    I love her hand bags, and I can tell you, women love talking about how much they love their kate spade purses. For a lot of girls, getting a kate spade purse was a coming of age thing. I'm so happy she was able to share her creativity with the world, I feel sad that she's gone but her legacy will live on forever.

  • @mamallama5719
    @mamallama5719 4 года назад +21

    I appreciate your words for suicide, but let me give you some advice, the last thing someone who's thinking of suicide needs to hear, is that how they feel is considered selfish or cowardly. All that does is makes them feel that there is something else, that they can add to their list, of what they think is wrong with them, especially if they are dealing with depression. You saying that people love them, even if they don't think they do, was perfect. But then calling them something negative, doesn't help any and actually does the opposite of what you're trying to accomplish. And I'm speaking from recent experience.
    Love your videos, watch every single one. Keep em coming.

    • @maureenkirby1155
      @maureenkirby1155 4 года назад +4

      I agree. I'm sure Kate was smart enough to realize the effect it would have on her daughter and the rest of her family and friends but some people can't help giving in to those suicidal feelings. She was probably tormented by them for a long time and I wondered if she ever sought out professional help?
      When you have anxiety/depression the last thing you want to do is be thrust into the spotlight and in her type of career she had to face that constantly. I don't know how she did it except thru great inner strength to fight that battle every day, so using negative words to describe her suicide is not really fair. If you have ever had these same demons, you know they take you to a very dark place and no amount of wealth or success can help. Thank-you for mentioning where people can get help if needed. I hope Kate has now found peace.

    • @morgueann12
      @morgueann12 4 года назад +3

      So glad you said this. I was thinking the same thing.

    • @angelaperrin5909
      @angelaperrin5909 4 года назад +2

      Totally wholeheartedly agree! I feel that people that attempt or take their own lives are way past being able to reason out who they are going to hurt etc. They can only think of wanting the pain to end.
      I also have never believed it is a sin to take your own life and that ones that do will not go to the afterlife.
      I believe the real sins the lack of funding for mental health care and the stigma,still today,attached to any and all mental illnesses. We lose way too many loved people because of those 2 things!

    • @lilyrosesoul0077
      @lilyrosesoul0077 3 года назад +1

      I agree with you. Humans are usually wanting to live & thrive & those who become suicidal it is because something drove them to it.

  • @jansfield5314
    @jansfield5314 4 года назад +8

    Thank you Lamont! You are such a caring person, we care about you too!

  • @dianecolumbus477
    @dianecolumbus477 4 года назад +1

    Lamont thank you for this beautiful video and honoring Kate. It’s amazing how much kind words mean to people. You are so right in everything you’ve said. 🙏

  • @deanamorgan2643
    @deanamorgan2643 4 года назад +2

    First of All... Thank You Lamont for your care and concern for so many people you do not know but yet... To put down a crisis number to call if you are suffering and thinking of harming yourself during those very dark times when no one Seems To Care. And for speaking out on the awareness of this illness and Dispaire that people suffer with. This was a very good video and yes, to just think All the Fame and Money she had she still found a humbling place in her being to only want a small and simple headstone. Rest In Peace~ Ms. Spade🌿

  • @mrs.elitenugz8491
    @mrs.elitenugz8491 4 года назад +11

    Yes exactly Lamont!
    You have such a beautiful spirit, much respect my friend 🙏💜

  • @laurastevensonslife6774
    @laurastevensonslife6774 4 года назад +5

    Great video. Never treat people poorly. You never know what might push them over the edge.

  • @lizzypoo75
    @lizzypoo75 18 дней назад

    Thank you Lamont for those encouraging words at the end of the video ❤you have reached and helped so many people

  • @OhISew2
    @OhISew2 4 года назад +1

    This video is the best! Thank you for bringing this to light! Xoxo

  • @Bailey_G
    @Bailey_G 4 года назад +9

    I never had one of her bags but knew who she was and was so shocked when she committed suicide.
    At first I thought how could someone with all she had and had going for her do that and also leave her daughter? But....as someone that has been put through absolute hell these last couple of years I can understand her feeling so down that she checked out. Fortunately, I have never wanted to do that.
    My heart goes out to her for feeling that depressed and hopeless and to her daughter.....and to anyone else suffering in that way. Please call the number Lamont left if you do. It can and will get better.....
    Hugs to all.....

  • @kathyreeves8853
    @kathyreeves8853 4 года назад +16

    Hi from Tucson Az. Never thought that way ever.I love myself

  • @lornalulich9562
    @lornalulich9562 4 года назад +3

    Lamont great video! You words are so heartfelt. The presentation & concern u send out to ppl is truly amazing. Love how u speak & get the msg out there. Also putting the phone # if ppl need it. Great job!

  • @mynameisvna
    @mynameisvna 4 года назад

    As someone who has severe anxiety, some days are easier than others. It is a struggle. We are all human and I always say to everyone to just be kind because you never know what someone may be going through. Thank you for posting this.

  • @purplepatriot3418
    @purplepatriot3418 4 года назад +17

    Hi Lamont; I like what you about people thinking about other people who love them when they want to die,but when depression goes too deep for too long that's not enough. I know because I attempted suicide 5 times & by the grace of God. I am still here. Please if anyone who reads this suffering to the point of suicide please reach out and seek help and know THIS YOU ARE LOVED AND NOT ALONE!!!

  • @grandmashauntedhutch6326
    @grandmashauntedhutch6326 4 года назад +11

    Seriously? A tiny marker in Missouri is all that’s left . Craziness.

  • @24pekanpie
    @24pekanpie 3 года назад +2

    Just purchased another today! Love Kate Spades❤️

  • @kathymarsella2170
    @kathymarsella2170 4 года назад

    Thanks Lamont, you are very empathetic and understanding of the pain of others. You would be an excellent therapist for depressed people.

  • @oliviasoliz5983
    @oliviasoliz5983 4 года назад +7

    Thank you for sharing very sad she was still young and had a little girl hope you are doing well.

  • @nicholehoge7432
    @nicholehoge7432 4 года назад +10

    Thanks for the number lamont, ive been suicidal in the past and my ex husband finding me stopped me, im glad it did

    • @LamontAtLarge
      @LamontAtLarge  4 года назад +2

      I am too

    • @desdeundesden
      @desdeundesden 4 года назад +2

      I am here for those who want to talk... No matter what... Just please reach out to me.... I'm no professional... Just someone who cares.... Love you guys... 🤗

  • @laurashipp447
    @laurashipp447 3 года назад

    Thank you Lamont, for being YOU!! Thank you for including the hotline number!!! More than likely you have helped turn someone's life around.
    On a happier topic, you are almost at 100,000 K! Long time subscriber but I do not comment often. Congrats, be safe and again, thank you.

  • @wandamiller7640
    @wandamiller7640 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for putting that out there it may help someone.

  • @louiscaruso4167
    @louiscaruso4167 4 года назад +5

    She was a jewel of a woman...so very missed...RIP my dear!

  • @amberf3599
    @amberf3599 4 года назад +5

    Rest in the Light Kate. You will never be forgotten and will always be loved 💗

  • @suzannagirdler6623
    @suzannagirdler6623 4 года назад +2

    Thank you! I love your videos! I pray she is at peace.

  • @conservativehippie9736
    @conservativehippie9736 3 года назад

    Your message at end has me crying...depression sufferer here...THANK YOU Lamont! ♥️✌😇

  • @blakeledford3854
    @blakeledford3854 4 года назад +11

    You are a great man! Keep up the good work man. :)

  • @valwillman185
    @valwillman185 4 года назад +4

    If you only knew. REALLY knew!
    THANKS FOR sharing words.👍🇺🇸

  • @cecilianickerson9778
    @cecilianickerson9778 Год назад

    Beautiful message, Lamont. Thank you for this one❤❤❤

  • @lyndamello8857
    @lyndamello8857 4 года назад

    Thanks for making this video!

  • @audreyabdo7719
    @audreyabdo7719 4 года назад +9

    Feel so sad for her and her daughter. 💞

  • @catmomma8198
    @catmomma8198 4 года назад +8

    You are a good man, Lamont.

  • @pamelawooten3251
    @pamelawooten3251 4 года назад

    Thank you for sharing Lamont. RIP Ms. Kate.

  • @rachelmiller5076
    @rachelmiller5076 2 года назад

    I really am glad that he did add the hot line in the video. And Lamont at large for having that heart felt talk for people that might be going through depression and anxiety. That really did touch me and i felt better hearing that and that pushes me to go on. Thank-you! ☺

  • @kenn1936
    @kenn1936 4 года назад +4

    Afterlife interview with Kate Spader : on Sloan Bella channel. There was a lot more going on in her household other than her depression !!

  • @roxannemalis8652
    @roxannemalis8652 4 года назад +6

    Rest In Peace Kate.

  • @mikegarrison1095
    @mikegarrison1095 3 года назад

    Thank you Lamont for everything you do and share. Thank you for remembering people and sharing there stories. Your awsome

  • @rhiannonrede
    @rhiannonrede 4 года назад +1

    Thanks, Lamont for the touching & relavent PSA. Love youm