Nailed it again... stop treating boys like they are incapable of doing basic chores,all mothers need to learn this and teach their Raja beta from a very young age.
Love Life Tak for driving gender based messages right through the head. Teaching boys to do household chores makes them better sons, brothers and understanding husbands. To put it simply, it makes them humane.. thank you Life Tak for this wonderful message.
Responsibility Lena sikhana padta hai. Simple questions: Why can't the child organise his/her toys? Why we don't showcase live consequences to child's actions? Why we don't teach 3 year kids to keep back utensils in sink ? Believe me, it's possible. I have done it.
@@swinil1103 Responsibility Lena sikhana padta hai. Simple questions: Why can't the child organise his/her toys? Why we don't showcase live consequences to child's actions? Why we don't teach 3 year kids to keep back utensils in sink ? Believe me, it's possible. I have done it.
Vo toh achha h chachi (relatives) sensible thi Varna vo bhi aag laga ke chalti banti ..in real lyf hardly there is anyone jo sahi bole ..in real life it's like jiski syd parents ussi bachhe ki mauj
@@Lazy-bliss unless they want to be mothers to their husbands.. Whenever my mom asks, "Can you change a guy's mentality after you get married to him?" My answer is, "I don't want to be his mother he should be an equal and responsible partner"
Great concept!! What’s even more frustrating is that in households where the son is older, the daughter is still asked to do these things. At least in this example in the video they can give the excuse that the brother is younger so he is spoilt but what about the older brothers? No such excuse there, it’s all because of gender roles.
This is coz earlier moms were housewives who could all do all work by herself and she expected her daughter to do same but now with women also working this becomes a dual responsibility. Most husbands are like this at least mine is😢
That’s so sweet… esp the ending made me laugh… chai ki recipe RUclips pe 😂😂😂 but seriously this does happen more often than we know. Hats off team, great job 👏
So true❤this is the reason we love life tak......I mean such a relevant topic all the time...and yes stop making this difference....girls are in much better positions now a days....open your mind..
My parents always do this mostly my mom ,, always like you are a girl so you have to do all household work and whenever i confronted them like why dont my brother do his works then my mom started scolding me or started doing work of his share ... 😑 aur mera bhai humesha aisa hi karta hain meri taraf se koyi bolne wala bhi nhi hain 🙂aur meri mummy toh kabhi maafi bhi nhi mangti
A great episode with a great message. These are the kind of boys who want everthing and everyone under their control especially Mom and sister. And an important role is played by the mother who always shields the son even when the mistake is on his side. But nobody questions him as he is The Boy. Later on when they get married either they become a pet to his wife or tortures his wife. And surely the aged mother suffers the most. Can relate to this episode and the characters.
The men like Shivam in this video improve a lot once they live in hostels or in PGs away from home at least for a few years. Such men start learning the daily tasks when they are away from family. Making tea, arranging bed, washing clothes, cooking rice and dal are just not household chores but basic life skills.
I always refuse to work when my mom asked me to do. I do care about my mom and Know she became very tried doing all the things alone but i always reply that why she only told me to work while my brother is playing games. I just told her that i will definitely do a work if you told my brother to help Why can't we work together avoiding all the burden on one person
A very good episode ,I totally agree that there should be no differentiation between boys n girls .There might be things girls cannot do but still girls r not powerless ,girls can try .Loved the episode ❤
A big thanks to the channel for creating videos on the social issues which are deep rooted and are rarely paid attention to. I hope the channel continues to create such videos.
Awesome topic, thank you team Life Tak. Really up-to certain age I have this gender differentiation in my own house only, because of which, from bright student I became a weak student 😔 Nirupama aunty said very well, these kind of men only become problematic husbands and fathers
Very true. But I will share a real incident - Karma has its own fruit too. 30 yrs ago there was "Raja" Babu - no domestic help - only study, his sister felt she's a step child to be brutally honest doing all domestic chores, going school. Post marriage she had kids, job and a good family life, understanding partner and EDUCATED MOTHER IN LAW. It was cake walk for her. Raja Babu married girl but no kids despite 10yrs of married life and Raja babu earns high salary but no maid . He washes dishes, cleans washrooms, house cleaning, cooking and what not. Raja Babu and his mother are having quality time now and no regrets!!!! Jaise Karni vaise Barni
I totally agree with her words ki aise hi ladke problematic husband hote hain...kyunki I am facing it...I am from a home jahan Mera bhai n Mai dono equal responsibilities lete the..par meri mother in law n meri sister in law suru se hi mere husband ko spoon feed krwa krwa ke adat bigad rakhi hai n jab meri saadi hui...I was totally unaware of the fact and as I am a working lady...itna Ganda feel hota hai n Agar kuch bolo to ladai ho jati hai...saas n nanad se bhi share ki problem ki shayad wo samjhaye ulta wo tu mujhe hi blame krti hain😢
Even I have been always compared and humiliated with my cousin brother, because he is “kuldipak” and my parents only gave birth to a girl. Now all of them has realised that the one who can put a glory on the family and making them feel proud, is actually been considered as “Kuldeepak”.
Oh this is issue i too experienced. In Telugu we call boy as vamsoddarak. I don't know who defined this but if i find them, i will take a jump and kick with left leg (this is my dad's favourite dialogue to scold us. Forget about kick, he never raised his hand or voice. I really miss him). We should be really happy n thankful if a married girl agrees to embrace motherhood (many are childless couple with such norms). Girl should give birth only to boy, white wash skin expectation is stupidity. Boy or girl if properly brought up will definitely take the responsibility. We don't have any control over the gender.
@@prasannakauta94 exactly, I really don’t know who has defined this stupid conception of Bangsadharak. In foreign countries the people don’t bother about their children’s how they will turn out when they will grow up. It’s only for some countries with fake prejudiced.
👌👏👏👏👏 WOW What a great message to all those MOTHERS out there who pamper their sons. I am so GREATFUL for having a Great life partner that knows how to cook and clean. At the moment he is taking care of me due to cancer. A BIG THANK YOU TO ALL THE HUSBANDS OUT THERE WHO HELPS THEIR PARTNERS 🙏
Kaash itne aasani se wo smjh jaate. Hm to kitna v pdh le kitne hi achhe marks laate but pdhne k liye bahr to ldke hi jayenge chahe wo do baar fail hone k baad v q na pass kree.
This is right Boys should learn responsibility and stop discrimination of boy and girl In my family my parents we don't Discriminate gender and teach everyone responsibilities And we also give freedom to every girl and boy to
Real life m maa ye realise nhi kr pati ki apne bete ke sath itna Ache trike se behave krke vo use hi nuksaan krti Aar in sbka beti pe kya asr pdta ye vo hi smj skti h😢
Meri mamma bhi mere ko Hamesha bolati hai ki jao ghar ka kam kar lo aur Vahi Mera Bhai game khel raha Hota Hai Mera Rang thoda savla hai aur mere bhai ka thoda sa Gora Hai Tu Meri mamma Ne Jab Maine 8 sal ki thi Tu hi bola tha ki ‘‘ kahan se ye Kali Paida Hogi Tu To Mere ko Kuchh Karke Nahin Degi aur tera bhai mere ko Hamesha khush rakhega ’’ i broken at that time now its been 4 years and same thing is happing😢😢😢
Even as a boy i had a younger sibling but the catch is I was a lot stupid back then but all the time he did a bad think I was scolded but never ever resisted( he was my cousin) and now a lot responsible and kind of thoughtful had he become nowadays
I also mentioned this situation of my family when i see this video mere father bhi 3brother and both of 2brothers have son but i am just single girl child of my parents we are in a joint family but we are separated each other in a one house it means we have 2 kitchens in one house..but unhe jb bhi chance milta tha to wo log hmesha pareshan krte the and unke action se whi lgta tha they want to say unka beta hi nhi hai.but mere parents mujhe hmesha support krte hain unhe kbhi frk hi nhi pda ki they had only one daughter not son also they gave me a best education in my whole family..and now they want mai ek sarkari Naukri krun especially wo mujhe ias ya fir professor bnte hue dekhna chahte hain and i am grateful to my god ki mujhe aise parents mile jo mujhe apna kuldipak type smjhte hai like a son.or now we r in a nuclear family hm logo ki just partition hui hai and i am so happy ki Maine apne parents ko sirf ek bar kaha papa mujhe ye ghr nhi chodna hai and wo log maan gye..kyuki mere parents ye property sold kr kahi sukoon se alg rehna chahte the mujhe lekr but un logo ne meri baat mani sirf ek baar kehne pr.and now daddy ab us ghr ko or aage bnane ke liye soch rahe hai for me.i am so lucky ki mere parents ne mujhe apne bete ka drja Diya hai and now it's my turn to give them a happy and peaceful life.now m in my last year of my BA degree and I hope i will complete my masters too fast and get a govt job.. and they also gave me a right to marry someone with my own choice but i don't know about this thing kyuki Maine iss baare me kbhi socha hi nhi i was just thought mai apne parents ko kbhi nhi chodungi even after marriage jisko mere saath shaadi krni hai usko mere parents ke saath rehna padega that's my decision otherwise big no..i know bhut log bolenge ki ldke ko apne maa baap ko nhi chodna chahiye but all i want to say kya ladkiyon ko hi apna ghr chodna chahiye after marriage by the way agr koi bhi ladka 2ya 3bhai behen hai to kya wo apne parents ko manage nhi kr sakte...
why this is so relatable not from video perspective but my elder sister name is shivangi and my older brother name is shivam while i am the middle one i was literally shocked fr
Anyone notices Shivi's mother was in jethani role and yet she was addressing her devarni as aap..None Jethani will ever or had ever call her devrani by aap...😅😅😅Even not in parallel universe
its different in every cases, from my side ,i loosed mother at the age of 8 to manage household and multiple tasks and also faced taunts and struggles ,but society shames and never believes that i m good at house management and each and every aspect
This is must a watch video for every parents. at some house only one child will be responsible for all the responsibilities irrespective of gender. So either boys or girls have to be equally responsible and its a parent’s duty.
Truly lived in characters. Great job guys. I don't know about north but this is very unfair practice in most of south Indian houses with uneducated mothers. Change should happen within us and then expect from society. My daughter is 14, son is 8 but its vice-versa at home. Iam very clear that my daughter is Queen and focus on what she's best at n want to do. That's it. My son is white wash gora, 8 but I am never partial. I will ensure he can make his bed, room, cook food and organise independently before he reaches grade 10 (else my tongue is best weapon - my hubby's family say 😜). Trust me kids should be human beings first, empathise and support family members. He may be manager at office but an afterall son / husband / father when he enters home and do ANY task (no male or female task). I went through all this pain in childhood despite my dad highly educated, understanding couldn't do anything against my tiger Mom 😂. He was gazzette officer by 90's but never shied away from domestic help, cooking, teaching us apart from his Office to share my load. No ego or attitude.
@@1Rinku2 I already said she's 14. Girls have more maturity than boys and she's already independent and much capable than me to handle if situation demands by 12. Girls don't need special training. I clearly said i am impartial. Even if my daughter is queen (only girl child for 3 generations), she still eats what's served and i ensure she's grounded to Earth and very clear on its repercussions.
😭😢 sometimes in my family such types of discrimination happens ahh... The most painful situation in the world. I hope and pray that no-one face such type of discrimination.
In the first scene i think mom was correct bcz this society nowadays is not safe for womens if we want that they should have the right to roam freely we should take steps towards making a safer country for women
My mother never does this to me. She always ask my brother to help too. And whenever I came late from college he prepares bread omelet or coffee for me.
Very nice show, should make more like this. Every indisn mother lives only for her n later that same son will go on treat his wife badly n so goes on this chain.😮
Nailed it again... stop treating boys like they are incapable of doing basic chores,all mothers need to learn this and teach their Raja beta from a very young age.
So true.. parents are the culprits
@@Snnehasahaa - I think you forgot to mention grandparents 🤭
@@prasannakauta94 yes ofcourse
Very true. If he is Raja Beta, his sister and mother are also Rani's.
@@prasannakauta94 without rani no value of raja
This kind of mother's always treat their son like they are perfect and don't do any mistakes
And those kind of sons often end up as demented threats to society.
Love Life Tak for driving gender based messages right through the head.
Teaching boys to do household chores makes them better sons, brothers and understanding husbands. To put it simply, it makes them humane.. thank you Life Tak for this wonderful message.
We must teach the boys to take responsibility. A very good initiative.
Boys responsibility lete hai stop this bakwas
Lekin har boy responsibility nahi leta
@@swinil1103 to har ladki bhi responsibility nahi leti.
Responsibility Lena sikhana padta hai.
Simple questions:
Why can't the child organise his/her toys?
Why we don't showcase live consequences to child's actions?
Why we don't teach 3 year kids to keep back utensils in sink ?
Believe me, it's possible. I have done it.
@@swinil1103 Responsibility Lena sikhana padta hai.
Simple questions:
Why can't the child organise his/her toys?
Why we don't showcase live consequences to child's actions?
Why we don't teach 3 year kids to keep back utensils in sink ?
Believe me, it's possible. I have done it.
Indian Mothers needs this video
Desh ki korodo ladkiya ki kahani ek vdo me la diye 🥺🥺🥺...
Heart warming ♥️
Thnx to team Life tak .
Vo toh achha h chachi (relatives) sensible thi Varna vo bhi aag laga ke chalti banti ..in real lyf hardly there is anyone jo sahi bole ..in real life it's like jiski syd parents ussi bachhe ki mauj
Yahi bacche bade hoke problematic husbands ban jaate hai..
So true ❤
Exactly 💯 no working women would like to marry such guys
@@Lazy-bliss unless they want to be mothers to their husbands..
Whenever my mom asks, "Can you change a guy's mentality after you get married to him?"
My answer is, "I don't want to be his mother he should be an equal and responsible partner"
@@DrRohiniM worst scenario. Men want working women+ good at chores. Both. Look at the audacity. Can't even hire a maid.
@@Lazy-bliss maids don't work thinking it's their own Home.. they don't serve food and they don't give kids 😂😅
Totally agree 💯
thank god my parents always treat both of their children always in one way
You are so lucky
So lucky u ar
Great concept!! What’s even more frustrating is that in households where the son is older, the daughter is still asked to do these things. At least in this example in the video they can give the excuse that the brother is younger so he is spoilt but what about the older brothers? No such excuse there, it’s all because of gender roles.
Sabse galat parents hote hai jo paida karke fir bhed bhav karte hai. Aisa hai to ek hi paida karo baccha.
Right 😊
Right 👍
Right👍
You are right 💯
Whi
It really hurts to see that this still happens....
Wah !!!! "Aunty ji" is great !!!!
This is exactly what I want .Make this more viral sothat all *mamma's boy* watch it .
This is coz earlier moms were housewives who could all do all work by herself and she expected her daughter to do same but now with women also working this becomes a dual responsibility. Most husbands are like this at least mine is😢
Mamma's boy does not imply irresponsible.
@@SaiAbitathaDUCICmostly they are
@@hephzihephzi7030 I'm a mamma's boy and I have the best training from her ever 🫡
@@hephzihephzi7030ha tabhi to window cooler lagane ke liye mera intezar chal raha tha
Thank God I have an understanding family; I agree we are not perfect but I am blessed to have a family
Bilkul sahi kha jimmedari sikhna bhut jaruri he kuyki ladko ko bachpan se hi Jada bdhava nhi dena chahiye
That’s so sweet… esp the ending made me laugh… chai ki recipe RUclips pe 😂😂😂 but seriously this does happen more often than we know. Hats off team, great job 👏
So true❤this is the reason we love life tak......I mean such a relevant topic all the time...and yes stop making this difference....girls are in much better positions now a days....open your mind..
Sahi h😔beti kuchh bhi kar le ghar k liye...ghar ka bahar ka sb .. fir bhi .. beta se beti kam hi hoti
Wo to tum ho hi
@@Timeisimportant99chal nikal
True
Parents peda hi krte hn nokrani smjh lete hn beti ko or beto ko raja
Hn mere ghar pe meko koi bhi pyar nhi karta sab mere bhai ko karte h 🥺
My parents always do this mostly my mom ,, always like you are a girl so you have to do all household work and whenever i confronted them like why dont my brother do his works then my mom started scolding me or started doing work of his share ... 😑 aur mera bhai humesha aisa hi karta hain meri taraf se koyi bolne wala bhi nhi hain 🙂aur meri mummy toh kabhi maafi bhi nhi mangti
Even the same i do all household work but after that all i am regular disappointed 😞
Same and I can't explain how much it's hurt my story is same as yours 🙂
Same 😢😢
Its true...i can relate well to this❤
These young actors are awesome... the girl is so beautiful 🤩
I’m lucky I have a loving n supportive family
The chachi we all deserve ❤❤❤😍😊
Relatable ...jb bi koi guest ata hai to ldkio ko hi leave lene ko bola jata chahe school clg ho ya job married ho ya unmarried...
Hats off to you team for such a nice content, very much needed for the society. 💯
A great episode with a great message. These are the kind of boys who want everthing and everyone under their control especially Mom and sister. And an important role is played by the mother who always shields the son even when the mistake is on his side. But nobody questions him as he is The Boy. Later on when they get married either they become a pet to his wife or tortures his wife. And surely the aged mother suffers the most. Can relate to this episode and the characters.
The men like Shivam in this video improve a lot once they live in hostels or in PGs away from home at least for a few years. Such men start learning the daily tasks when they are away from family. Making tea, arranging bed, washing clothes, cooking rice and dal are just not household chores but basic life skills.
I always refuse to work when my mom asked me to do. I do care about my mom and Know she became very tried doing all the things alone but i always reply that why she only told me to work while my brother is playing games. I just told her that i will definitely do a work if you told my brother to help
Why can't we work together avoiding all the burden on one person
Tbh your absolutely right, stand your ground.
Eye opener for most of the family 😢😢😢
A very good episode ,I totally agree that there should be no differentiation between boys n girls .There might be things girls cannot do but still girls r not powerless ,girls can try .Loved the episode ❤
So true such mum should be taught a lesson 😡😡😡
A big thanks to the channel for creating videos on the social issues which are deep rooted and are rarely paid attention to. I hope the channel continues to create such videos.
I love this channel
You always give a beautiful and productive message to the present society
Well done 👍
With a touch of humor....nice lesson
Awesome topic, thank you team Life Tak. Really up-to certain age I have this gender differentiation in my own house only, because of which, from bright student I became a weak student 😔 Nirupama aunty said very well, these kind of men only become problematic husbands and fathers
Very true. But I will share a real incident - Karma has its own fruit too. 30 yrs ago there was "Raja" Babu - no domestic help - only study, his sister felt she's a step child to be brutally honest doing all domestic chores, going school. Post marriage she had kids, job and a good family life, understanding partner and EDUCATED MOTHER IN LAW. It was cake walk for her. Raja Babu married girl but no kids despite 10yrs of married life and Raja babu earns high salary but no maid . He washes dishes, cleans washrooms, house cleaning, cooking and what not. Raja Babu and his mother are having quality time now and no regrets!!!! Jaise Karni vaise Barni
I totally agree with her words ki aise hi ladke problematic husband hote hain...kyunki I am facing it...I am from a home jahan Mera bhai n Mai dono equal responsibilities lete the..par meri mother in law n meri sister in law suru se hi mere husband ko spoon feed krwa krwa ke adat bigad rakhi hai n jab meri saadi hui...I was totally unaware of the fact and as I am a working lady...itna Ganda feel hota hai n Agar kuch bolo to ladai ho jati hai...saas n nanad se bhi share ki problem ki shayad wo samjhaye ulta wo tu mujhe hi blame krti hain😢
You guys doing wonderful job... Changing society view n thinking process keep it up
Even I have been always compared and humiliated with my cousin brother, because he is “kuldipak” and my parents only gave birth to a girl. Now all of them has realised that the one who can put a glory on the family and making them feel proud, is actually been considered as “Kuldeepak”.
Oh this is issue i too experienced. In Telugu we call boy as vamsoddarak. I don't know who defined this but if i find them, i will take a jump and kick with left leg (this is my dad's favourite dialogue to scold us. Forget about kick, he never raised his hand or voice. I really miss him). We should be really happy n thankful if a married girl agrees to embrace motherhood (many are childless couple with such norms).
Girl should give birth only to boy, white wash skin expectation is stupidity. Boy or girl if properly brought up will definitely take the responsibility. We don't have any control over the gender.
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@@prasannakauta94 exactly, I really don’t know who has defined this stupid conception of Bangsadharak. In foreign countries the people don’t bother about their children’s how they will turn out when they will grow up. It’s only for some countries with fake prejudiced.
👌👏👏👏👏 WOW What a great message to all those MOTHERS out there who pamper their sons. I am so GREATFUL for having a
Great life partner that knows how to cook and clean. At the moment he is taking care of me due to cancer. A BIG THANK YOU TO ALL
THE HUSBANDS OUT THERE WHO HELPS THEIR PARTNERS 🙏
Kaash itne aasani se wo smjh jaate.
Hm to kitna v pdh le kitne hi achhe marks laate but pdhne k liye bahr to ldke hi jayenge chahe wo do baar fail hone k baad v q na pass kree.
Again marvelous job guys
This is right
Boys should learn responsibility and stop discrimination of boy and girl
In my family my parents we don't Discriminate gender and teach everyone responsibilities
And we also give freedom to every girl and boy to
"bhai/ behen choti hai use samajh nhi hai " relatable
This all just can happen in phones and tv movies it can't change in real life 😞🥺🥺😔😔😔🙃
Mere sath same aisa hua hai...I really become emotional but I like this video & appreciate the creators
As usual just wow just wow video ❤ i wish everyone can understand even my parents also😢
He didn't even wash his hands after coming home.🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sad and harsh reality❤🙂
Real life m maa ye realise nhi kr pati ki apne bete ke sath itna
Ache trike se behave krke vo use hi nuksaan krti
Aar in sbka beti pe kya asr pdta ye vo hi smj skti h😢
Meri mamma bhi mere ko Hamesha bolati hai ki jao ghar ka kam kar lo aur Vahi Mera Bhai game khel raha Hota Hai Mera Rang thoda savla hai aur mere bhai ka thoda sa Gora Hai Tu Meri mamma Ne Jab Maine 8 sal ki thi Tu hi bola tha ki ‘‘ kahan se ye Kali Paida Hogi Tu To Mere ko Kuchh Karke Nahin Degi aur tera bhai mere ko Hamesha khush rakhega ’’ i broken at that time now its been 4 years and same thing is happing😢😢😢
Sis samjh sakti hu tumhara dard mere sath bhi same hota hai main bhi sawli hu aur behen gori bahut tane marti hai meri maa bahut bolti hai 😞
@JOLLYJellyfish78780 😢oo
@@Arm4n_19 hmm sis
Typical Indians families mai aaj bhi yahi hota hai aur aapne bilkul thik kaha sabse zyada biwi ko jhelna padta hai😌
Awesome❤ very true
Ye story to puri meri jesi b mere sath bhi yhi hota h 🙂
Excellent Message 😊
Meri mummy to bilkul aisi nhi h wo hamesha mujhe support krti h aur mere bhai aur mujhe equal pyar krti h❤❤❤
Before I used think my parents were bad but after seeing this my parents treat me way better than this ,specially my mother
Thank god
Efforts are sincere.....but this scenario will never change ....
Even as a boy i had a younger sibling but the catch is I was a lot stupid back then but all the time he did a bad think I was scolded but never ever resisted( he was my cousin) and now a lot responsible and kind of thoughtful had he become nowadays
great work .... really appreciate the content
Behtrren behadd umdaa❤
Correct 😢😢😢😢ye achha msg dete hai esliye mai ese hmesha dekhti hu thanq so much aap Etna achha msg dete ho ❤❤❤❤
Chachiji ko main salute karti hu❤
I also mentioned this situation of my family when i see this video mere father bhi 3brother and both of 2brothers have son but i am just single girl child of my parents we are in a joint family but we are separated each other in a one house it means we have 2 kitchens in one house..but unhe jb bhi chance milta tha to wo log hmesha pareshan krte the and unke action se whi lgta tha they want to say unka beta hi nhi hai.but mere parents mujhe hmesha support krte hain unhe kbhi frk hi nhi pda ki they had only one daughter not son also they gave me a best education in my whole family..and now they want mai ek sarkari Naukri krun especially wo mujhe ias ya fir professor bnte hue dekhna chahte hain and i am grateful to my god ki mujhe aise parents mile jo mujhe apna kuldipak type smjhte hai like a son.or now we r in a nuclear family hm logo ki just partition hui hai and i am so happy ki Maine apne parents ko sirf ek bar kaha papa mujhe ye ghr nhi chodna hai and wo log maan gye..kyuki mere parents ye property sold kr kahi sukoon se alg rehna chahte the mujhe lekr but un logo ne meri baat mani sirf ek baar kehne pr.and now daddy ab us ghr ko or aage bnane ke liye soch rahe hai for me.i am so lucky ki mere parents ne mujhe apne bete ka drja Diya hai and now it's my turn to give them a happy and peaceful life.now m in my last year of my BA degree and I hope i will complete my masters too fast and get a govt job.. and they also gave me a right to marry someone with my own choice but i don't know about this thing kyuki Maine iss baare me kbhi socha hi nhi i was just thought mai apne parents ko kbhi nhi chodungi even after marriage jisko mere saath shaadi krni hai usko mere parents ke saath rehna padega that's my decision otherwise big no..i know bhut log bolenge ki ldke ko apne maa baap ko nhi chodna chahiye but all i want to say kya ladkiyon ko hi apna ghr chodna chahiye after marriage by the way agr koi bhi ladka 2ya 3bhai behen hai to kya wo apne parents ko manage nhi kr sakte...
To apni demand shadi se pehle bta dena
why this is so relatable not from video perspective but my elder sister name is shivangi and my older brother name is shivam while i am the middle one i was literally shocked fr
Very nice 👍👍👍
Anyone notices Shivi's mother was in jethani role and yet she was addressing her devarni as aap..None Jethani will ever or had ever call her devrani by aap...😅😅😅Even not in parallel universe
its different in every cases, from my side ,i loosed mother at the age of 8 to manage household and multiple tasks and also faced taunts and struggles ,but society shames and never believes that i m good at house management and each and every aspect
Bahot achhe 👍🌹🌹
This is must a watch video for every parents. at some house only one child will be responsible for all the responsibilities irrespective of gender. So either boys or girls have to be equally responsible and its a parent’s duty.
Truly lived in characters. Great job guys. I don't know about north but this is very unfair practice in most of south Indian houses with uneducated mothers. Change should happen within us and then expect from society.
My daughter is 14, son is 8 but its vice-versa at home. Iam very clear that my daughter is Queen and focus on what she's best at n want to do. That's it. My son is white wash gora, 8 but I am never partial. I will ensure he can make his bed, room, cook food and organise independently before he reaches grade 10 (else my tongue is best weapon - my hubby's family say 😜). Trust me kids should be human beings first, empathise and support family members. He may be manager at office but an afterall son / husband / father when he enters home and do ANY task (no male or female task).
I went through all this pain in childhood despite my dad highly educated, understanding couldn't do anything against my tiger Mom 😂. He was gazzette officer by 90's but never shied away from domestic help, cooking, teaching us apart from his Office to share my load. No ego or attitude.
@@1Rinku2 I already said she's 14. Girls have more maturity than boys and she's already independent and much capable than me to handle if situation demands by 12. Girls don't need special training. I clearly said i am impartial. Even if my daughter is queen (only girl child for 3 generations), she still eats what's served and i ensure she's grounded to Earth and very clear on its repercussions.
@@prasannakauta94I agree but you generalized, your daughter is more mature but not every daughter is more mature in comparison to son.
@@1Rinku2 yes. its not mandate that only girls are mature. Each of them has unique talent
This is exactly the issue where son's are babied at home and then the wives have to take over
😭😢 sometimes in my family such types of discrimination happens ahh... The most painful situation in the world. I hope and pray that no-one face such type of discrimination.
I faced same and now I am in depr.........
We have two boys and we have treated them as our kids and they both are sons of course and more than daughters too.
Bahut bahut aachaa. Splendidly done.
Hope we all had such kind of relatives🙂🤧
Very good and so well portrayed!Keep it up guys!
Well played Act👏👏👏👏
In the first scene i think mom was correct bcz this society nowadays is not safe for womens if we want that they should have the right to roam freely we should take steps towards making a safer country for women
Just awesome very true
Very nice video. Everyone should learn from it
Aise bhai ho tho dushman ki kya jarurat
Superb video with a good lesson 👍 keep it up 'life tak' ki whole team
Equality begins at home. raise your son right, and then the world will be better for the daughters.
No, not only boys....
Girls too..
Not all girls are angels..
Let's make the earth a better place for human beings❤❤
Yaha to samjh gye bhai pura bachpan nikal gya mera ghar me ye baat samjhate, thank god I am out of the hell
Bahot sahi video ❤❤
Mera family yesa hi hai 😥😥 I am from Bangladesh....
It's a high time to understand this... Such a lovely content 👏🏻❤
This makes boys hopeless and helpless especially when they have to fend for themselves.
Good msg for us❤
Superb....👌👍
Kudos for the concept... great work...
My mother never does this to me. She always ask my brother to help too. And whenever I came late from college he prepares bread omelet or coffee for me.
Awesome content as always❤❤❤
Bohot acha laga
A very nice message through this video 😊😊😊😊
Very nice show, should make more like this. Every indisn mother lives only for her n later that same son will go on treat his wife badly n so goes on this chain.😮
Wonderful guyzzzz❤ wat a lovely message 😊
Ha Sach mae bahut achhi kahani thi 👌👌🙏