We are really sorry that a lot of people our going thru this, 😔it really breaks our heart. We hope this film changes someone around you. Be kind and always please help people around you.
Yes, I am too. My parents are so toxic that my bathroom has become my peace room and also my rage room. Due to their toxic words, especially from my father, I sometimes feel that if I hadn’t been born to them, I wouldn’t have seen such things. Watching them fight and my father beating my mother makes me so angry that I slap myself in the bathroom to control my emotions. I don’t know what to do. I can’t confront my father or stand against him because I get scared. But witnessing these things makes me feel helpless, more frustrated, and angrier, though I keep trying to control myself. I can’t talk to my friends or relatives about this because it might affect my mother later. In our society, people think men can do anything, but women cannot. Some people never change, no matter how much progress we make, even in 2025. Parents often don’t understand their children’s feelings. When we grow up and try to tell them not to do certain things, they respond with, “How dare you speak to me like that?” But one day, I will move out of this situation and ensure that I never become like my father. I can’t even focus on studying. If I tell someone about this, they’re like, “It’s nothing to do with you.” Bullshit! It is to do with me-they are my parents, dude, and I’m the one who sees them fighting, not you. I’ve seen my father say terrible things to my mother, slap her, and beat her on the stomach. Not you. I have no siblings, and I feel so lonely. I can’t even pursue arts or sports because they made me quit, saying it’s a waste of time. Now I have no skills. And my college doesn’t teach what’s actually required in the industry-they just stick to the syllabus. I have no one to care for me and no one to share my feelings with. I keep my thoughts to myself, which only ends up disturbing me more. I feel like I’m ruining my life, quitting my dreams, and becoming the worst version of myself. I’m constantly angry, depressed, sad, lonely, and haunted by suicidal thoughts. But then I think about my mom and how she would feel if I did something like that. I’m always fighting with myself. Now, I really care about my little cousin sister who lives with us. My mother is always home to take care of her, and I worry about her future. Once she starts understanding things, how will she grow up in this environment? What will happen to her mental health? Her parents didn’t want her to live with them because they wanted a boy. Even though they had one after having two girls, they left her with us. I don’t know how my sister will feel when she learns the truth-that her parents didn’t want her, that they chose a boy over her. Their father’s family has never been supportive of her or her mother. I can’t tell her the truth. It kills me inside.
I can’t even focus on studying. If I tell someone about this, they’re like, “It’s nothing to do with you.” Bullshit! It is to do with me-they are my parents, dude, and I’m the one who sees them fighting, not you. I’ve seen my father say terrible things to my mother, slap her, and beat her on the stomach. Not you. I have no siblings, and I feel so lonely. I can’t even pursue arts or sports because they made me quit, saying it’s a waste of time. Now I have no skills. And my college doesn’t teach what’s actually required in the industry-they just stick to the syllabus. I have no one to care for me and no one to share my feelings with. I keep my thoughts to myself, which only ends up disturbing me more. I feel like I’m ruining my life, quitting my dreams, and becoming the worst version of myself. I’m constantly angry, depressed, sad, lonely, and haunted by suicidal thoughts. But then I think about my mom and how she would feel if I did something like that. I’m always fighting with myself. Now, I really care about my little cousin sister who lives with us. My mother is always home to take care of her, and I worry about her future. Once she starts understanding things, how will she grow up in this environment? What will happen to her mental health? Her parents didn’t want her to live with them because they wanted a boy. Even though they had one after having two girls, they left her with us. I don’t know how my sister will feel when she learns the truth-that her parents didn’t want her, that they chose a boy over her. Their father’s family has never been supportive of her or her mother. I can’t tell her the truth. It kills me inside. I'm just a one in the earth my problem don't know how many faced this things.
Kiya batau yaar.Jaabse choti thi baap maa haar roj argue karte the.Fir bare ho kar ab science liya.Ye science ki parhai or baap maa ka toxicity or expectations ki liye mera sab potential kho gaya.Ab mujhe lagta hai sirf university mujhe fix kar sakhta hai.I wish to be more independent.
Are u for real? Parents are the ones who spend their whole life working earning and doing every possible thing to make our lives better and you r saying they cause depression anxiety? They only want us to stand on our legs! Not to be dependent on otherss… This genz generation!
My childhood was quite similar to this. My parents were always fighting and blaming each other. Ever since I was little, I loved drawing-it was my escape. Watching this video, I realized that the girl's parents eventually came to terms with their mistakes. But in my 27 years of life, my parents have never acknowledged theirs. They’re still the same as they always were, and I had to grow up in the midst of that. It was very painful. I didn’t have any friends either. I cried alone and comforted myself. To escape from all of it, I created my own little world-my world of art. My parents never supported it. They always said it was a waste of time. But now, I have a small RUclips channel where I occasionally share videos of my drawings and other little creations. It’s something I truly enjoy, and it helps me keep my distance from my parents' toxicity.
At the beginning when the mom was shouting at her daughter and the dad the stood up for her, I don't know why but my eyes got teary...for whatever reason...concerned or not, I wish my dad was like this...
Mere papa toh itne gande hai mummy nhe todha sa bola toh double bolte hai gandee gandee galiyan dete hai mujhe mhe toh kisi din suicide kar lungi ese hai mere parents
don't be sad i know its wrong but its their first time too , just promise yourself that u would never pass that trauma to anyone else ur child or partner cause when u will see ur child being bought up in a positive environment u will realize that it is healing ur inner child too
I still remember when my father was shouting my mother couldn’t say anything and i was crying just because i scored 40/80 in maths but ended up scoring 90/100 in boards. But their words ki padhai likhai chhudwa dete hai crushed me. Their expectations are soo high and they try put conditions on giving me resources which ik are expensive what they said “agar boards mei 90%Plus tabhi phone milega” “neet crack karlo macbook de denge” etc etc and ik for a fact if i scored 90%+ but any of my cousins would’ve scored more than me they would’ve taunted the shit out of me. In reality koi parent sorry ni bolta you just have to live with it.
@ bhai same and I study at night so obviously i will sleep in daytime right? Noooo according to them mei pura din so rahi hu. Our parents have f@ucked us over honestly 😓
@@ContentkaKeedaI am going to give my board exam this year and my parents are doing literally the same thing they are saying 95% ya above aayege tabhi khuch milega and other than that I played many prestigious football tournaments this year too in my class 10 like CBSE nationals represented delhi at national level and I also played Subroto Cup which is an international inter school tournament [ you can search about it on Google too] and Represented Air force. But at the end it's all about 95% and neet or jee
I totally agree bcz they always say bas pura din Sona aur mobile use karte rhna they don't know main kis condition se guzar rahi hon and I'm not that much lucky to have a good friend I have a lot of study pressure now I'm really tired 🥺
In this video parents realised their mistake but in reality parents won't stop fighting with eachother or blaming their kid and this will led the kid to end their life as in the video the girl had said "mera to dill karta hai kahi bhaag jau" (relatable frrr) but in most cases kids just end their life and some of them become psychopath and did the same thing to others Btw love your videos 💝✨
Maybe life could have been better if real-life situations were this easy, but the content was relatable. I hope parents in real life can realise their mistakes, too.
i left watching this video after 6:23 minutes.. ended up shaking and crying.... idk what's further in this video, and im not here to trigger someone.. but just wanna say, try ur best and if cant.. its fine to give up.. ik courage and guts are very needed to face it or to give up, im tired of always gathering guts to face it.. and im tired of not being strong enough to give up.. i just hope i get strength for whichever step be it. Coz i always thought, years later it will be better, but no! the voices keep roaming around and i struggle daily and nightmares too.. i cant anymore! I have done all therapy things and other stuffs.. its like a temporary relief only to me.. anyways take y'all. And be better parents to ur future kids.
I know its hard to face this .we can't change someone but we can change ourselves by being a kind person even when world is harsh to us because if we also lose courage and guts then there will be no positivity in this world its ok to cry sometime or feel down and wont to give up but remember this world is worse now bcz everyone just dont want to understand each other if we also don't understand our parents and to people who are being harsh and wouldnot give them margin of making mistakes and sometimes being angry and of being human then this world will remain same
I face this and I feel bad for being upset because many people go through worse stuff. I’m probably too sensitive but i feel like my feelings are invalidated when this happens. For anyone else who feels the same, you just gotta continue to stay strong and brave through this.
HER BIGGEST MISTAKE WAS TO SHARE THE PROBLEMS WITH HER MOM THINKING THAT SHE WOULD UNDERSTAND HER 😢.ACTUALLY IN REALITYIT IS VERY HARD TO GET SOMEONE WHO REALLY UNDERSTANDS YOU. IT PAINS A LOT MORE THAN BLEEDING. TRUST ME, THE PROCESS IS PAINFULL BUT THE FUTURE IS BRIGHT😢😢
I used to be like this I used to think that things will improve if I talk to my mom but it just used to get more worse now I just don't say anything....
This video literally showed the Reality of today's parenting! Some parents are not even accepting their meistakes. Today's harsh reality but lets promise we will break this cycle of abuse and bad parenting!😢❤
Being a single child I can say this video is actually about single child . People generally this it' very lucky like we don't have problem. Thank you so much for showing reality...!!
I can understand 'cause I'm also a single child and goin' through all of this... Children with sibligs are soo lucky 'cause they can share their feeligs with someone and take advice from them and they also won't tell ANYONE... Single child don't have anyone to tell their feelings, and all to anyone except their close friends...
Eyes are filled with tears , but we must be proud of ourself do deal these things . We always only “WISH” ki ye cheez yesi ho vese ho , but we need to look at reality and be happy with what we have,and never make wrong decisions.
the worst part is they r just dumping their childhood trauma on us , this series is realistic in the first half only cause our parents don't realize their mistake even a percent forget about sorry and all .......................despite always being the topper of class i never heard a i am proud of u its always u can do better cause they thing me bigad jaungi if they will appreciate me i don't understand why they can't say just a simple i am proud of u i left all my hobbies to just listen to that one sentence but still i never get it now i just have book in my life not even close enough to friends
It's really all not heartbreak ... I face a lot not as much on this front but other problems .. And life can be sunny and bright if you remember to turn on the lights .. Eventhough parents can't always be good parents they deep down try to and are people evermore weighed in by their own battles .... I kind of just grew into this understanding after years of thinking me doomed for my struggle , realising it was just every next person ....and it's just what the sweet dulcet dagger of life is .
@SheSlays.O_O maybe you could dear... If you do want I could maybe share that text if you want me to It's new year ticket may be as a new opportunity to do something good...
I am 43 and my son is 17.. this video is quite an eye opener to all the parents including me 😢 even though I myself had a traumatic childhood and I make sure my son doesnt have to go through what I went through, I still make a few mistakes as a parent sometimes. And to all the children who are watching this video, just focus on yourselves and your dreams and ambitions, you all are amazing and will be successful in everything you do. Love you all, take care, stay safe and keep smiling 😊❤
I cried for hours after watching this video , actually our parents also think they are doing enough for us to be happy , providing us foods , clothes and other things , but the only thing that we actually need is a house without toxicity and all this negativity cause , it really damages the mental health of a child and it can't be healed even when we grow up , maybe in our parents generation they didn't know all of this psychological impacts on a child but I promised to myself that I will never let my kids witness these kind of things or ruin their mental peace, I am not saying our parents are bad or something they actually cares and thinks about us they just didn't realise the correct way to doing it . But whatever happens I love them unconditionally and I always will🫀
I actually experienced it, so got tears in my eyes.....it hearts when your parents fight on issues of property, vacations, your scores in exams, etc....they don't realize how their children are feeling.
Though I am 34 now but still remember my childhood days and my all sadful moments of life. I was very good in painting, writing poems and short stories, singing and instruments playing. After my 10th I begged them to take admission in the relevant field but they forced me to do intermediate in Arts. Honestly saying at that moment my heart broke into pieces, I kinda lost the motto of my life. I had to accept the failure even after struggling a lot with my parents. Neither I could complete my study nor I I could become successful in life. I was thrown out from my home at the age of 19 by my parents just because I was not earning that time while my neighbour's son was working in Gujarat. I was always a "Naalayak" before my parents just because I wanted to pursue a career in Literature and Performing Arts. Today, I don't have a degree to get a good salaried job and working as a labour somewhere in this society. Still dreaming...😢
i was able to relate to this video so much, even the dialogues the mom spoke, except the part in which the mom realized her mistake. i used to cry same as the girl in the video, sometimes even more badly. but after 5 years, i realized that there was no end to this. so, i stopped crying or expressing my feelings. i have even stopped talking with her to some extent . hope no one ever goes through this.
Same here at first I used to cry but slowly I started talking less and created my own world around me so whenever I went through this trauma I used to talk to talk to every single thing around me and thought atleast they understand me they feel how I feel I started reading books and listening to music and I recovered rapidly from my trauma trust me it is not easy to live in this sort of environment but we have to find our way out ourselves only
@@rachnaparashar4693 same, i also listen to music to lighten my heart and read novels to distract myself. i am sorry to hear that u had to go through the same thing.....
Middle class family k bachho ki feeling nahi hota anxiety depression me.....ye chiz ammer logo me jayda hote hain . Middle class family me ek responsibility hota hai apni family ki . We are the middle class family we always have a dream to achieve something in life for better and prosperous future for our family members and to fulfill the unfulfilled dreams of our parents.
After thinkig about my life and my ruined childhood and the comments... EVERY CHILD DESERVES PARENTS BUT NOT EVERY PARENTS DESERVES CHILD IF THEY CAN'T UNDERSTAND THEIR OWN BLOOD...
Depend krta hai bacho pe and parents pe same parents bhi apne pehle or dusre bacho sai alag behave krte hai depends on kon kaise samj ta hai jo easily control hota hai use or control kiya jata hai ❤
It's soooo damm relatable bs farak itna hai ki ending mai jese yeh log badal gye na... Rl(mere) nhi badal ne wale... Also mujhe anxiety attacks hai bs that's the difference 🙂
My parents realised it I was so depressed that I started going incognito and see adults stuff but my parents pulled me out I am proud of them and myself today
Unfortunately we "Children's" are watching this instead of our parents.....!! They don't reliase their mistakes.... 🙂 They have their own arguments to support their fight.... Parents don't realise how much we suffer... I think it is better to start accepting and facing those situations instead we correcting them
fact is toxic parents will never realisethat they are toxic never appreciate your talent and always blame and humiliate you......i wish i could follow my dreams my passion though i came first apart from studies they never appreciated me
Evertthing is just so relatable .....omg ....... the only difference is her parents changed and somehow her mother understood it from her friend and her father realized things from her mother........ Literally they don't understand that their fights and shouts affect us.......like please they need therapists
My younger brother cries a lot, so for him i have to be strong.. Anyway , I'm proud of you guys for being strong, we can get through this and create a happy life for ourselves😄
I am lucky to have amazing parents who have always supported me and also shown me the right path, but the thing that surprised me was about Vanshu. What an amazing friend is she. Such type of friends are very rare. I too have genuine friends like Vanshu but they are hardly a few in number. That's the sad reality of today's world. Some friends are selfish and also put you down whenever you attempt to climb the ladder of success. I have had many selfish friends in my life who have only tried to use me and were not genuine in life. But I also have a few friends who have always been blunt with me and also shown me the right path and supported me.
"I know how terrible it feels to live with toxic parents😢, but I listen with one ear and let it out from the other. And we can't even share this with anyone. Parents should also watch this video." They should go for counseling.❤
Though my parents are not toxic, they are like my Gods. But as a patient of depressive disorder no one understands, no one, can your team make next video on mental health, it helps lot....This life sometimes gets worse 😢
I grew up in such a situation. Today I am 24 years old. I understand what depression is. I still haven't been able to get out of this situation. My life is over because of such a family. And my career is over. I am now a living corpse.
Excellent film! Thank you for sharing this incredible work. It serves as a reflection of society and reveals how parents in such situations often fail to realize the extent of the harm they are causing their children. Thank you for bringing this critical issue to light.
This video draws the line between reality and imagination. Parents in reality never realise that their actions are hurting the child.Even if you try to communicate with them they'll shrug you off stating you are too sensitive or its called parenting. In reality the child has to suffer and heal alone and honestly that's sad, or when you confront them when you're older they'll Gaslight you stating that they never did those things and that never happened and the child overreacting because toxic parents are the most narcissistic manipulators you'll ever find. Anyways it was a really good lesson for the parents. I hope the parents watching this take this lesson seriously.
The situation of this girl when she say i go blank and her mother say excuses but i can understand bcz i also sometimes go just blank even i learn each and everything and perform well in regular classes and i dont know why this happen to me
Huuh| in my life my father is very understanding to me but mom isnt😢. Everyone says that a girl can share anything to her mom but I can't, I don't know why do I feel very insecure with my mom. I know its very strange but its TRUE 😭😭
Hats off to the whole team of Contentkakeeda❤ I have been watching your videos from past two years and i am commenting here for the first time This is the most realistic short film i have even watched It's really a serious issue right now and as a student i also know it very well that everytime the child suffers the most when parents fight and the saddest part is that in reality they never try to understand what we feel
This is actually very relatable for me I have grown up in such a household but more toxic and I feel so bad for others who have to deal with this..I really don’t know who to tell all this to…but this video made me feel heard.
😭Ye video meri puri life ko bta Rahi h... Parent's maintain h but mummy ka behaviour sister ka behaviour dekh kr Maan krta h ki khtm kr de ya sach me bhag Jaye😭😔... Meri bestie hamesha rokti h hum ruk jaye h... 1 din esa aayegaa jis din chhe toh hum chle jayenge hamesha ke liye... Ya sabko chor denge... Esi life kyu Mila rah h pta nhi ... Ky 1 glti ki saja aapko life time milti h😭💔... ...Radhe radhe Krishn...
It's not exactly my story but it's similar to my story. I faced this kind of issues since my childhood journey to till now. The conclusion of the story is very true. If someone doesn't want to change from inside out no one can changed that person. Our indian law and system doesn't take seriously of mental torture is big issue of someone's life to live peacefully. Our system talk to about this issue when someone takes up the drastic decision of his/her life. It's not only sad it's shameful for us also. Thank you "content ka keeda" team to make this kind of story also.🥰🥰🥰
Well, I am going to graduate from college but now I will try to follow my own passions and would focus on also doing so good in life so that I can be a better man for the person I will marry and my own family
I think all the teachers must watch this and know what really goes in students life especially teens…how they survive with a smile on their faces just to get extra peer pressure from school as well. Teachers they always thinks that kids uses phone to get away but tbh its what they have available nowadays to escape their toxic reality and its not good but it sadly helps …. I hope schools enroll mental health awareness subjects in school
When her mother told focus on your studies l rembered about my exam which will come after 5days. And l am watching this. First thing hats off to her even though her mom was strict she was able to express her problem with her .
literally toxic parents are a nightmare thats why there is quote -''all children deserve parents, but all parents dont deserve children'' i hope everyone is doing okay
We are really sorry that a lot of people our going thru this, 😔it really breaks our heart. We hope this film changes someone around you. Be kind and always please help people around you.
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Yes, I am too. My parents are so toxic that my bathroom has become my peace room and also my rage room. Due to their toxic words, especially from my father, I sometimes feel that if I hadn’t been born to them, I wouldn’t have seen such things. Watching them fight and my father beating my mother makes me so angry that I slap myself in the bathroom to control my emotions. I don’t know what to do. I can’t confront my father or stand against him because I get scared. But witnessing these things makes me feel helpless, more frustrated, and angrier, though I keep trying to control myself.
I can’t talk to my friends or relatives about this because it might affect my mother later. In our society, people think men can do anything, but women cannot. Some people never change, no matter how much progress we make, even in 2025. Parents often don’t understand their children’s feelings. When we grow up and try to tell them not to do certain things, they respond with, “How dare you speak to me like that?”
But one day, I will move out of this situation and ensure that I never become like my father.
I can’t even focus on studying. If I tell someone about this, they’re like, “It’s nothing to do with you.” Bullshit! It is to do with me-they are my parents, dude, and I’m the one who sees them fighting, not you. I’ve seen my father say terrible things to my mother, slap her, and beat her on the stomach. Not you.
I have no siblings, and I feel so lonely. I can’t even pursue arts or sports because they made me quit, saying it’s a waste of time. Now I have no skills. And my college doesn’t teach what’s actually required in the industry-they just stick to the syllabus. I have no one to care for me and no one to share my feelings with.
I keep my thoughts to myself, which only ends up disturbing me more. I feel like I’m ruining my life, quitting my dreams, and becoming the worst version of myself. I’m constantly angry, depressed, sad, lonely, and haunted by suicidal thoughts. But then I think about my mom and how she would feel if I did something like that.
I’m always fighting with myself. Now, I really care about my little cousin sister who lives with us. My mother is always home to take care of her, and I worry about her future. Once she starts understanding things, how will she grow up in this environment? What will happen to her mental health?
Her parents didn’t want her to live with them because they wanted a boy. Even though they had one after having two girls, they left her with us. I don’t know how my sister will feel when she learns the truth-that her parents didn’t want her, that they chose a boy over her. Their father’s family has never been supportive of her or her mother.
I can’t tell her the truth. It kills me inside.
I can’t even focus on studying. If I tell someone about this, they’re like, “It’s nothing to do with you.” Bullshit! It is to do with me-they are my parents, dude, and I’m the one who sees them fighting, not you. I’ve seen my father say terrible things to my mother, slap her, and beat her on the stomach. Not you.
I have no siblings, and I feel so lonely. I can’t even pursue arts or sports because they made me quit, saying it’s a waste of time. Now I have no skills. And my college doesn’t teach what’s actually required in the industry-they just stick to the syllabus. I have no one to care for me and no one to share my feelings with.
I keep my thoughts to myself, which only ends up disturbing me more. I feel like I’m ruining my life, quitting my dreams, and becoming the worst version of myself. I’m constantly angry, depressed, sad, lonely, and haunted by suicidal thoughts. But then I think about my mom and how she would feel if I did something like that.
I’m always fighting with myself. Now, I really care about my little cousin sister who lives with us. My mother is always home to take care of her, and I worry about her future. Once she starts understanding things, how will she grow up in this environment? What will happen to her mental health?
Her parents didn’t want her to live with them because they wanted a boy. Even though they had one after having two girls, they left her with us. I don’t know how my sister will feel when she learns the truth-that her parents didn’t want her, that they chose a boy over her. Their father’s family has never been supportive of her or her mother.
I can’t tell her the truth. It kills me inside. I'm just a one in the earth my problem don't know how many faced this things.
Yes ❤
In real. Life parents nevr accept their mistake
In real life toxic parents won't realise their mistakes
Kiya batau yaar.Jaabse choti thi baap maa haar roj argue karte the.Fir bare ho kar ab science liya.Ye science ki parhai or baap maa ka toxicity or expectations ki liye mera sab potential kho gaya.Ab mujhe lagta hai sirf university mujhe fix kar sakhta hai.I wish to be more independent.
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True, and if they heard us talking about their fights to our friends then they would scold us more and blame us.
Hats off to her friends. She supported her and understands her soo well.. Having such a friend is also a blessing..
Reality me asie friends nhi hote
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90% of depression anxiety overthinking start with parents only😢😢😢
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Are u for real?
Parents are the ones who spend their whole life working earning and doing every possible thing to make our lives better and you r saying they cause depression anxiety?
They only want us to stand on our legs! Not to be dependent on otherss…
This genz generation!
99%
It depends how you take it yr it's not same for everyone
Actually my parents' silent expectation is killing me!😭😭 though Iam not pressurized by them🥀😓
My childhood was quite similar to this. My parents were always fighting and blaming each other. Ever since I was little, I loved drawing-it was my escape. Watching this video, I realized that the girl's parents eventually came to terms with their mistakes. But in my 27 years of life, my parents have never acknowledged theirs. They’re still the same as they always were, and I had to grow up in the midst of that. It was very painful. I didn’t have any friends either. I cried alone and comforted myself.
To escape from all of it, I created my own little world-my world of art. My parents never supported it. They always said it was a waste of time. But now, I have a small RUclips channel where I occasionally share videos of my drawings and other little creations. It’s something I truly enjoy, and it helps me keep my distance from my parents' toxicity.
O mai gawd so sad 😂😂
I am so happy for you that you can finally live happily in your own little world
proud of you
So sad beta😢😢😢
@@User-yahajekd are you mad laughing on his/her situation
Nothing hurts more then family trauma...
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@@ContentkaKeeda 🙂🍂 yeah..
It's correct
I don't know why parents can't understand that these war of words among them how much affects their children!!🙃💔
Let's learn and promise ourselves not to do this to the coming generation.
@@ContentkaKeeda ❤️
At the beginning when the mom was shouting at her daughter and the dad the stood up for her, I don't know why but my eyes got teary...for whatever reason...concerned or not, I wish my dad was like this...
dont worry you deserve so much love
You will someday definitely get what you deserved and you’ll be happy and satisfied
Mere papa toh itne gande hai mummy nhe todha sa bola toh double bolte hai gandee gandee galiyan dete hai mujhe mhe toh kisi din suicide kar lungi ese hai mere parents
We love you :)
Thank you 🙂
When she said 'Aapne mujhe proud of you bola wo first prize se jyada bada achievement tha'😭
She is lucky to have a friend like that.
Not everyone's parents realize that...
Just watched this short film and i realised how nicely and proudly my parents raised me ❤
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Actually yaar ❤😊
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Yeahh! we are so lucky 💗
Were lucky!❤
I remember, I made a portrait, it took me 3 hours to complete, and The father tore it into pieces right infront of me. This video is so nostalgic 😃
So sorry for you hope you are doing well ❤️🩹
DO NOT FEEL BAD BUT REMEMBER THAT SINCE THAT DAY GOD STARTED TO MAKE A STONGER VERSION OF YOU
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don't be sad i know its wrong but its their first time too , just promise yourself that u would never pass that trauma to anyone else ur child or partner cause when u will see ur child being bought up in a positive environment u will realize that it is healing ur inner child too
So sorry you went thru this. We are proud of you.
I still remember when my father was shouting my mother couldn’t say anything and i was crying just because i scored 40/80 in maths but ended up scoring 90/100 in boards. But their words ki padhai likhai chhudwa dete hai crushed me. Their expectations are soo high and they try put conditions on giving me resources which ik are expensive what they said “agar boards mei 90%Plus tabhi phone milega” “neet crack karlo macbook de denge” etc etc and ik for a fact if i scored 90%+ but any of my cousins would’ve scored more than me they would’ve taunted the shit out of me. In reality koi parent sorry ni bolta you just have to live with it.
Yea I can understand bro.. I'm a neet student and mai roz sunti hoon itna hi nhi bhot kuch
@ bhai same and I study at night so obviously i will sleep in daytime right? Noooo according to them mei pura din so rahi hu. Our parents have f@ucked us over honestly 😓
Sorry you went thru this :(
@@ContentkaKeedaI am going to give my board exam this year and my parents are doing literally the same thing they are saying 95% ya above aayege tabhi khuch milega and other than that I played many prestigious football tournaments this year too in my class 10 like CBSE nationals represented delhi at national level and I also played Subroto Cup which is an international inter school tournament [ you can search about it on Google too] and Represented Air force. But at the end it's all about 95% and neet or jee
I totally agree bcz they always say bas pura din Sona aur mobile use karte rhna they don't know main kis condition se guzar rahi hon and I'm not that much lucky to have a good friend I have a lot of study pressure now I'm really tired 🥺
In this video parents realised their mistake but in reality parents won't stop fighting with eachother or blaming their kid and this will led the kid to end their life as in the video the girl had said "mera to dill karta hai kahi bhaag jau" (relatable frrr) but in most cases kids just end their life and some of them become psychopath and did the same thing to others
Btw love your videos 💝✨
One day they will, Thank you.
True, they don't realise it
Definitely they will not realise.........most scary thing for me is marriage.......I just wanna be a single and supportive mother
True
Reality not changing always trying blame eachother
Maybe life could have been better if real-life situations were this easy, but the content was relatable. I hope parents in real life can realise their mistakes, too.
We hope that too.
i left watching this video after 6:23 minutes.. ended up shaking and crying.... idk what's further in this video, and im not here to trigger someone.. but just wanna say, try ur best and if cant.. its fine to give up.. ik courage and guts are very needed to face it or to give up, im tired of always gathering guts to face it.. and im tired of not being strong enough to give up.. i just hope i get strength for whichever step be it. Coz i always thought, years later it will be better, but no! the voices keep roaming around and i struggle daily and nightmares too.. i cant anymore! I have done all therapy things and other stuffs.. its like a temporary relief only to me.. anyways take y'all. And be better parents to ur future kids.
I know its hard to face this .we can't change someone but we can change ourselves by being a kind person even when world is harsh to us because if we also lose courage and guts then there will be no positivity in this world its ok to cry sometime or feel down and wont to give up but remember this world is worse now bcz everyone just dont want to understand each other if we also don't understand our parents and to people who are being harsh and wouldnot give them margin of making mistakes and sometimes being angry and of being human then this world will remain same
Itna relatable nhi hona tha 😢😢
Abhi issme to parents ko realise ho hi gya...hmare parents to realise bhi nhi krte ..ulta hme hi lecture de dete h 😢😢
Iykyk.... U have to stand for yourself.... Hr case me aisa nhi hota ki maa baba baccho Lo smjhe.. I wish is year me sb shi hone lge...
@@Unknown-p3l9m aisa nhi hai mai smjhti hu..but situation hi aisi hai ....kher I also hope ki ye saal acha jaye... 🤞🖤
Yes i understand you relate with you
Sorry to hear that.
I face this and I feel bad for being upset because many people go through worse stuff. I’m probably too sensitive but i feel like my feelings are invalidated when this happens. For anyone else who feels the same, you just gotta continue to stay strong and brave through this.
After watching this video...I realise that my parents raised me very well and nicely with care....
HER BIGGEST MISTAKE WAS TO SHARE THE PROBLEMS WITH HER MOM THINKING THAT SHE WOULD UNDERSTAND HER 😢.ACTUALLY IN REALITYIT IS VERY HARD TO GET SOMEONE WHO REALLY UNDERSTANDS YOU. IT PAINS A LOT MORE THAN BLEEDING. TRUST ME, THE PROCESS IS PAINFULL BUT THE FUTURE IS BRIGHT😢😢
Watch videos of Acharya Prashant.
Yes@@Namrata-mt9wr
I used to be like this I used to think that things will improve if I talk to my mom but it just used to get more worse now I just don't say anything....
IT IS NOT MOM OR DAD. TALK TO SOMEONE WHO REALLY UNDERSTANDS YOU
ALWAYS LOVE YOURSELF ❤️. GIVE YOURSELF THE 1ST PRIORITY. SEE THE RESULT. NO MATTER HOW MUCH HATE YOU GET ,YOU CAN STILL BE HAPPY.
This video literally showed the Reality of today's parenting! Some parents are not even accepting their meistakes. Today's harsh reality but lets promise we will break this cycle of abuse and bad parenting!😢❤
Being a single child I can say this video is actually about single child .
People generally this it' very lucky like we don't have problem.
Thank you so much for showing reality...!!
I can understand 'cause I'm also a single child and goin' through all of this... Children with sibligs are soo lucky 'cause they can share their feeligs with someone and take advice from them and they also won't tell ANYONE... Single child don't have anyone to tell their feelings, and all to anyone except their close friends...
@PRAGYATADAS True indeed
Felt like I just saw myself in mirror.
You deserve all the love :)
ohhh i hope you are doing well now❤🩹
Eyes are filled with tears , but we must be proud of ourself do deal these things . We always only “WISH” ki ye cheez yesi ho vese ho , but we need to look at reality and be happy with what we have,and never make wrong decisions.
the worst part is they r just dumping their childhood trauma on us , this series is realistic in the first half only cause our parents don't realize their mistake even a percent forget about sorry and all .......................despite always being the topper of class i never heard a i am proud of u its always u can do better cause they thing me bigad jaungi if they will appreciate me i don't understand why they can't say just a simple i am proud of u i left all my hobbies to just listen to that one sentence but still i never get it now i just have book in my life not even close enough to friends
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It's really all not heartbreak ...
I face a lot not as much on this front but other problems ..
And life can be sunny and bright if you remember to turn on the lights ..
Eventhough parents can't always be good parents they deep down try to and are people evermore weighed in by their own battles ....
I kind of just grew into this understanding after years of thinking me doomed for my struggle , realising it was just every next person ....and it's just what the sweet dulcet dagger of life is .
Manya you will do better don't loose heart you are a winner
So true
How can you be so relatable 😢? I am also the topper of my class and it hits me 😮
My parents are toxic they always scolding me without any reason. I am going to share this to my parents . All parents should watch this
Pls do 💔
be careful
I wanna show this to them but don't have the guts to do so
I sent it to my parents with a big fat note
And now am proud of myself
I wish I had that much courage...
@SheSlays.O_O maybe you could dear...
If you do want I could maybe share that text if you want me to
It's new year ticket may be as a new opportunity to do something good...
What happened next?
@@Spicy.0_0 you will get it one day ❤
@seungxerry my mother actually did said she never realised it
And wanted to improve for my other two siblings
I felt anxious while watching the argument part and how the girl was suffering
it's worse in real life
Same
Actually my parents' silent expectation is killing me!😭😭 though Iam not pressurized by them🥀😓
,😭😭😭
Dont worry, have faith, you will do it😊
Same broooo 😢
Sameee🙂
How can u be so relatable more than the video! 😭😭
Usss sis ussss😭
And the last scene gave me that immense peace jo main humesha paa chahti thi since childhood!! ❤️
I am 43 and my son is 17.. this video is quite an eye opener to all the parents including me 😢 even though I myself had a traumatic childhood and I make sure my son doesnt have to go through what I went through, I still make a few mistakes as a parent sometimes. And to all the children who are watching this video, just focus on yourselves and your dreams and ambitions, you all are amazing and will be successful in everything you do. Love you all, take care, stay safe and keep smiling 😊❤
Thank you for this comment. We are proud of you :)
yah its difficult to live with toxic parents and its affects mental health so much
I cried for hours after watching this video , actually our parents also think they are doing enough for us to be happy , providing us foods , clothes and other things , but the only thing that we actually need is a house without toxicity and all this negativity cause , it really damages the mental health of a child and it can't be healed even when we grow up , maybe in our parents generation they didn't know all of this psychological impacts on a child but I promised to myself that I will never let my kids witness these kind of things or ruin their mental peace, I am not saying our parents are bad or something they actually cares and thinks about us they just didn't realise the correct way to doing it .
But whatever happens I love them unconditionally and I always will🫀
I actually experienced it, so got tears in my eyes.....it hearts when your parents fight on issues of property, vacations, your scores in exams, etc....they don't realize how their children are feeling.
She was lucky that she got supportive friend.
Though I am 34 now but still remember my childhood days and my all sadful moments of life. I was very good in painting, writing poems and short stories, singing and instruments playing. After my 10th I begged them to take admission in the relevant field but they forced me to do intermediate in Arts. Honestly saying at that moment my heart broke into pieces, I kinda lost the motto of my life. I had to accept the failure even after struggling a lot with my parents. Neither I could complete my study nor I I could become successful in life. I was thrown out from my home at the age of 19 by my parents just because I was not earning that time while my neighbour's son was working in Gujarat. I was always a "Naalayak" before my parents just because I wanted to pursue a career in Literature and Performing Arts. Today, I don't have a degree to get a good salaried job and working as a labour somewhere in this society. Still dreaming...😢
I hope you do something good in life more power to you
I will duaa 🤲🏻 for you 😢
@@amishamishra01Thank you
@@farhanaalam8529Thank you
i was able to relate to this video so much, even the dialogues the mom spoke, except the part in which the mom realized her mistake. i used to cry same as the girl in the video, sometimes even more badly. but after 5 years, i realized that there was no end to this. so, i stopped crying or expressing my feelings. i have even stopped talking with her to some extent . hope no one ever goes through this.
Same here at first I used to cry but slowly I started talking less and created my own world around me so whenever I went through this trauma I used to talk to talk to every single thing around me and thought atleast they understand me they feel how I feel I started reading books and listening to music and I recovered rapidly from my trauma trust me it is not easy to live in this sort of environment but we have to find our way out ourselves only
@@rachnaparashar4693 same, i also listen to music to lighten my heart and read novels to distract myself. i am sorry to hear that u had to go through the same thing.....
This film is so relatable for me 🥲
Thanks for making this ♥️
Middle class family k bachho ki feeling nahi hota anxiety depression me.....ye chiz ammer logo me jayda hote hain . Middle class family me ek responsibility hota hai apni family ki . We are the middle class family we always have a dream to achieve something in life for better and prosperous future for our family members and to fulfill the unfulfilled dreams of our parents.
I'm from middle class family n I hv anxiety issues
my exact life . the only difference is that my parents wont change
Atleast she is lucky to have such an understanding and true friend besides her❤
She played a very important role for her .
After thinkig about my life and my ruined childhood and the comments...
EVERY CHILD DESERVES PARENTS BUT NOT EVERY PARENTS DESERVES CHILD IF THEY CAN'T UNDERSTAND THEIR OWN BLOOD...
It's a shameful thing that parents don't realize how much pressure they put on their children. Hats of to you Manini aka Dr Sonali from CID
In reality nothing changes infact the situation gets worse 🤡🔥
Depend krta hai bacho pe and parents pe same parents bhi apne pehle or dusre bacho sai alag behave krte hai depends on kon kaise samj ta hai jo easily control hota hai use or control kiya jata hai ❤
It's soooo damm relatable bs farak itna hai ki ending mai jese yeh log badal gye na... Rl(mere) nhi badal ne wale... Also mujhe anxiety attacks hai bs that's the difference 🙂
Ending was UNREALISTIC
I totally agree.Our parents will never ever understand.....
Yes,this doesn't happen.
Kisi ke parents nhi samjhte karan ushki aatma hi waisi hai
One day it will be :)
My parents realised it I was so depressed that I started going incognito and see adults stuff but my parents pulled me out I am proud of them and myself today
Facing toxicity for 12 years only alive due to stories of brave acts of rajputs which imbibed me by indomitable courage and determination.
Unfortunately we "Children's" are watching this instead of our parents.....!! They don't reliase their mistakes.... 🙂 They have their own arguments to support their fight.... Parents don't realise how much we suffer... I think it is better to start accepting and facing those situations instead we correcting them
fact is toxic parents will never realisethat they are toxic never appreciate your talent and always blame and humiliate you......i wish i could follow my dreams my passion though i came first apart from studies they never appreciated me
In my eyes,Father was the main villian of his own family..
Evertthing is just so relatable .....omg ....... the only difference is her parents changed and somehow her mother understood it from her friend and her father realized things from her mother........ Literally they don't understand that their fights and shouts affect us.......like please they need therapists
One day they will.
As boys we are forced to hold back those tears. It feels so bad when you can't share your emotions with parents or anyone 😢...
My younger brother cries a lot, so for him i have to be strong..
Anyway , I'm proud of you guys for being strong, we can get through this and create a happy life for ourselves😄
I am lucky to have amazing parents who have always supported me and also shown me the right path, but the thing that surprised me was about Vanshu. What an amazing friend is she. Such type of friends are very rare. I too have genuine friends like Vanshu but they are hardly a few in number. That's the sad reality of today's world. Some friends are selfish and also put you down whenever you attempt to climb the ladder of success. I have had many selfish friends in my life who have only tried to use me and were not genuine in life. But I also have a few friends who have always been blunt with me and also shown me the right path and supported me.
The same story of my family. But it ended up with divorce. I literally cried and remembered every scene.. and my heart ache 😭
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Find some hobby in your Life
Like - Sports, Dance, Music, Singing, Art, etc
It helps a lot
In old days, parents never faught in front of children.
"I know how terrible it feels to live with toxic parents😢, but I listen with one ear and let it out from the other. And we can't even share this with anyone. Parents should also watch this video."
They should go for counseling.❤
Though my parents are not toxic, they are like my Gods. But as a patient of depressive disorder no one understands, no one, can your team make next video on mental health, it helps lot....This life sometimes gets worse 😢
I suffer from panic attacks sumtimes no one understand
@vsbaghel true
As you most guys are suffering from this I really realised how blessed I am by getting so supportive parents❤❤
Some good words said by a father is the biggest charm for any child.
I grew up in such a situation. Today I am 24 years old. I understand what depression is. I still haven't been able to get out of this situation. My life is over because of such a family. And my career is over. I am now a living corpse.
Why I am crying watching this 😢
I have no words for this..suddenly during watching this some tears rolled over my cheeks..really hats off for making this type of content❤
Glad you liked it
Relatibility at its peak
Excellent film! Thank you for sharing this incredible work. It serves as a reflection of society and reveals how parents in such situations often fail to realize the extent of the harm they are causing their children. Thank you for bringing this critical issue to light.
its the reality of every family ... it just that in real life parents don't even realise their mistake...😞
I know this is not legal to ask but we need a part 2....coz it releatess damn good!!
We will try.
@@ContentkaKeeda
Please make Part 2
This time with Boy Child
Thanks to the god that, I couldn't relate this video to my life coz my parents are very much understanding.
16:20 they are not even toxic they are just strict, they are genuine parents according to me
This video draws the line between reality and imagination. Parents in reality never realise that their actions are hurting the child.Even if you try to communicate with them they'll shrug you off stating you are too sensitive or its called parenting. In reality the child has to suffer and heal alone and honestly that's sad, or when you confront them when you're older they'll Gaslight you stating that they never did those things and that never happened and the child overreacting because toxic parents are the most narcissistic manipulators you'll ever find. Anyways it was a really good lesson for the parents. I hope the parents watching this take this lesson seriously.
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You are so lucky jo aisi sachchi dost mili jo advice bhi de toh sahi de yours very Lucky friends keep it up
The situation of this girl when she say i go blank and her mother say excuses but i can understand bcz i also sometimes go just blank even i learn each and everything and perform well in regular classes and i dont know why this happen to me
Huuh| in my life my father is very understanding to me but mom isnt😢. Everyone says that a girl can share anything to her mom but I can't, I don't know why do I feel very insecure with my mom. I know its very strange but its TRUE 😭😭
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Me too
This made me realise how blessed I am to get parents who truly love and care for me and how much of a bad daughter I am 😭😭
Why I'm remembering my memories in just 5 mins....but i hope i could have a father like her father shown in the beginning
Simply superb.
This is actually happening everywhere in families.
Beautiful acting by all the four.
No words to appreciate ❤
toxicity?!? only form which indian generations can understand
Its not abt nationality, its about parents mentality!
Sach rula diya , bahut hi अच्छा सीख दिया सभी मां बाप को
Thank u sm for showing the reality of today's parents
We feel sad that so many of you relate with this 💔
Hats off to the whole team of Contentkakeeda❤
I have been watching your videos from past two years and i am commenting here for the first time
This is the most realistic short film i have even watched
It's really a serious issue right now and as a student i also know it very well that everytime the child suffers the most when parents fight and the saddest part is that in reality they never try to understand what we feel
V.much agree..... already faced this toxicity in my life 😢😢😢 and I am trying v.hard to not give this type of atmosphere to our children...😊
This is actually very relatable for me I have grown up in such a household but more toxic and I feel so bad for others who have to deal with this..I really don’t know who to tell all this to…but this video made me feel heard.
Toxic Parents ❌
Dimag kharab Mummy ✅
Sab mummy pagal hoti hai pata nahi problem kya hai inki, bkl hai sab
@stylish_rani882 arey arey 😂😂 calm down ..
@@harikeshav7269 🙂
I have been waiting for this content from content ka keeda. Finally 🥺❤ .... Tqu so much
😭Ye video meri puri life ko bta Rahi h...
Parent's maintain h but mummy ka behaviour sister ka behaviour dekh kr Maan krta h ki khtm kr de ya sach me bhag Jaye😭😔...
Meri bestie hamesha rokti h hum ruk jaye h...
1 din esa aayegaa jis din chhe toh hum chle jayenge hamesha ke liye...
Ya sabko chor denge...
Esi life kyu Mila rah h pta nhi ...
Ky 1 glti ki saja aapko life time milti h😭💔...
...Radhe radhe Krishn...
The mother’s acting is so good!!!!!
19:33 literally had tears in my eyes after seeing this scene 🥹
It's not exactly my story but it's similar to my story. I faced this kind of issues since my childhood journey to till now. The conclusion of the story is very true. If someone doesn't want to change from inside out no one can changed that person. Our indian law and system doesn't take seriously of mental torture is big issue of someone's life to live peacefully. Our system talk to about this issue when someone takes up the drastic decision of his/her life. It's not only sad it's shameful for us also. Thank you "content ka keeda" team to make this kind of story also.🥰🥰🥰
After watching this I realised how nicely and lovingly our parents have rise us ❤❤🤗
You don't have such supportive friends in real life😂, parents are the best!
We are hoping for supportive friends and awesome parents ❤️
@@ContentkaKeedaDefinitely, it's a bonus if that happens. I love your content btw!🙌🙌
I thought I was the only one......
Iye bohut hi jyada relatable ho gyi lekin kam se kam idhar parents to realise karli lekin hamare parents to realise hi nhi karti😢
19:49 me always wondering ❤😢kash mere lyf mai bhi ese hi happy ending hoti 🥲
THIS IS DRAMA, THIS IS LIFE 😂
Thank God.. my parents are angles.❤ They are very supportive and understanding
Well, I am going to graduate from college but now I will try to follow my own passions and would focus on also doing so good in life so that I can be a better man for the person I will marry and my own family
I think all the teachers must watch this and know what really goes in students life especially teens…how they survive with a smile on their faces just to get extra peer pressure from school as well. Teachers they always thinks that kids uses phone to get away but tbh its what they have available nowadays to escape their toxic reality and its not good but it sadly helps …. I hope schools enroll mental health awareness subjects in school
When her mother told focus on your studies l rembered about my exam which will come after 5days. And l am watching this.
First thing hats off to her even though her mom was strict she was able to express her problem with her .
❤️ it’s sweet how you learned something so beautiful
Lots of love for content ka keeda ❤❤
Idk why but ek ek word sunke muje esa lga Jese mai khud k ghr ki recording dekh rhi🙂
literally toxic parents are a nightmare thats why there is quote -''all children deserve parents, but all parents dont deserve children'' i hope everyone is doing okay
Here for Pratibha Sharma! Really loved her acting!❤
Broo...this whole vdo defines my life...!🙃but still trying to cope with the situation
You will cope with it.Watch videos of Acharya Prashant.
@Namrata-mt9wr Thanks a ton, stranger..Wishing uu all the happiness, always!
Thanks,but do watch the videos of Acharya.@supriyasahu2783