Respected team Wht about inequality between daughter in law and son in joint family..where if he do any household chores family members behave like ohooo ye hmara beta kya kr rha hai...jaha bahu ko sbse last me khana khane milta hai because phle sab ko khana hai..
The fact that her mother couldn't raise her voice or even support her daughter shook me.. that's why it's really important to be financially independent. Sab hone ke bad bhi wo apni bat tak thik se ni rakh payi. Feeling sad for this kind of society and am worried too since after some years, even i will have to settle down. I really hope tab tak meri ek permanent settled job ho jaye. please pray for me. I have just 1 year, uske bad to gharwale shadi ke liye paresan karne lagenge....
It's all about change in person's perspective... If you have supportive parents try to find supportive and broadminded partner.. I have done my post graduation after marriage and doing a job too..
Mil jayegi acchi job...just do believe in yourself ....aur give up mat krna kabhi chahe kuch bhi ho jaye okay...itni himmat rakhna apne andar ki khud ke liye kuch kar sako...apne kaam pr daate rehna. 👍 Ek imp baat- self respect sbse upr hai . Do remember it.
This discrimination between daughters and sons is seen nearly every single home of our society. A change is necessary for nation's development. I really want to request all the parents to treat their childrens equally with love,care,respect and all worthy things needed for their development.Both are their children so they should treat each equally without any gender biasness prevalent in society because #why not?
@@study_with_abhi_upsc yes,I agreed that I got mistaken in using appropriate word , " Every single home" to " most of the homes" while putting up my view for the above content brought out in the video but it's not deniable that this kind of gender biasness is not prevalent in our society and society is the sum total of all the houses in the country.Nearly, most of the houses in our country carries out such kind of tornament placed between daughter and sons and the video itself is a evidence of my saying , the thing is that some dares to put up their problems in front of the society while some silently suffers from their problems so you can never know what one is going through in his / her life. Secondly,how can you so confidently judged me and dares to say that my parents does such kind of gender discrimination between me and my brother ? Do you know me personally or do you know my parents very well that you said so ? If you judged just by my views that I put up then let me tell you for your kind information that I just gave my views thats it because I loved to share my opinions about any topic . Lastly,I would say that my fault lies in just the use of appropriate word while your fault lies in your whole understanding thereby you judged me so confidently without knowing the real story.
@@study_with_abhi_upsc I've already answered your question in reply to your comment so without getting angry whenever you feel so can read that properly and get understood,that's it.
@@kusumagarwal8940 no need to apologize. you're totally right. Any toddler knows that when you say "Every Single..." You don't mean it literally, but as a concept that relates to the majority. Those who focus on semantics, mostly run away from the essence of the debate. And yes, luckily, there are families in which girls Get the equal opportunity. But if to follow the semantics, the problem lies within the statement. Girls are Given the opportunity. It's not treated as their birthright. So...
Naa mera ghar world ka best ghar tha mere parents aur bhai mujhe bahut support karte the i m civil aspirant but my bad luck mere parents and ek bhai covid se khatam ho gaye
Meri daughter 28 yrs ki he...job kar rhi...lekin kabhi hamne shadi ka pressure nhi diya...koi kuch bhi kahe...meri beti he...jab uska dil shadi ke liye ready hoga tabhi karegi...iske liye uski wishes ko hum mar nhi sakte....ye hamari responsbilty he...so i am very happy...i have single girl child....
शादी तो हम आदमी लोग भी नहीं करना चाहते लेकिन जबरदस्ती करवा ही देते हैं, वर्ण कौन सा आदमी शादी नहीं किया हैं अमीर गरीब लोअर मिडिल क्लास अपर सब तो किए हैं, और जिंदगी भर खर्चा उठा रहे हैं सबका, कहां से उनकी तरक्की होगी अगर वो बिजनेस करना चाहे पैसा बचा के
'Kami hai surf awaaz ki' ...the writer has hit the hammer on the nail! That is why I never was in a hurry to get my daughter married...and I am glad she focussed on her work single mindedly...today she has a voice ..' awaaz' ..
sometimes parents become enemies. May be they will even allow to study. but then when you understand life and become independent, then they start having problem with it. nowadays so called modern parents can let daughters study but never let them enjoy their life. they want to chain them down so that they can proudly say that those are their sanskars. they want the girl to have arrange marriage and ultimately become house wife as all women should according to the society! but it's eventually depends on the girl who knows her wings and sky is not the limit.
Even when your parents tried to support you as much they can and they feel proud that they allowed you to become independent. And now if you wanna do love marriage, his parents or he himself wanna see you as a housewife. Stupid thinking of people!! I don’t know when people will start treating both genders equally in india.
This is present in every single home , may not be so intense but it is present. Son's demands are always fulfilled , son gets more food less work , more pampering . The only thing left for daughters is restrictions and a big AHSAAN of marriage
Jab job nhi milti kutto se bhi bura haal hota hain,jab marks ache nhi ate esa lgta hain ki Janam hi nhi Lena chahiye tha.... Or us samay ma papa koi bhi hamare side nhi hota. But lrkiya to phir bhi PAPA KI PARI hoti hain
Thank god my parents are so supportive..I am 25..unemployed..preparing for a govt job but my parents never ever made me feel pressurised from their side..But this is indeed a thing which still a lot of girls are facing..Life Tak never dissapoints us..Great work by whole team🙌👏
I am also soon going to turn 25. And trying to get a job for myself to support myself and my family... Hope all of our families understand us always...
Ur very lucky ...Here I have to struggle because my family is not supportive...I'm 29 and my mother just want to marry me off...my ambitious don't matter
I'm jealous my parents never been by my side when i was at my lowest now I'm 19 mom want me to get married soon i dropped my school every years and stopped going school since 4 years because they can't afford and i can't work to earn money but they can afford money for marriage 🙃💔
@@usamasohail3294 tere jaiso ke liye india aaj bhi itna peeche hain.. i pity the women around you what a sad mentality you have ew gaon me hi reh aur gobar kha
I have such a father....even more than this character.... It's really hard even living one day with him.... I have seen domestic violence from my childhood... my mom didn't have any support so that she can leave him...but still she tried working here and there and saving up for my sis n me. Almost after 19 yrs I saw her smiling when i sis got a job Microsoft One advice... In what ever situation u r work hard and proceed in whatever way u can
This is one of the best channels which delivers amazing content. Most people dont know what equality is. When a woman raise her voice they say its her arrogance. Then come a hero who slaps woman and show heroism. Its a pity that even woman are against woman
Seeing this I feel very lucky...my father is extremely supportive..he rather gives me wings to fly higher and higher.. Yes but what's shown here is also reality for a lot of girls
Her mother didn't have independence to give 5000/- to her secretly even....... Same goes with my mother , she doesn't have 100/- rs. in her hand for herself even in today's life at a Delhi City....... Financial independence and fighting for your kids is a duty for every parent
Our previous generation was so suppressed that we grew up watching it and now that we are growing up we have determined to not be like them. So its really hard for current generation to understand when to be patient and when to raise a voice.
@@FakeSpiderMan3434 Certainly in the loans and other investment which my dad made by suppressing our happiness, in the fights he does through out his life with others due to his temper leading us to number of cases and then that investments turned out to be a scam......... And my mother always stayed quiet , had she raised her voice on time then we won't have to suffer much n he may have improved......so it's every parents duty to give better life instead of making it hell.......
@@Goodpurp I'm a guy and not kidding my father use to do the same... He always said all money is into savings, investment and for business but when my mum realised that all are scams she just divorced... Scammer will always be a scammer not matter if he is father of son or daughter.... I would suggest just tell ur mum to leave ur father and start a new life just like my mum did.... And my father later went under burden of loans, interest and other scams then he committed suicide... Now I'm 18 pursuing engineering degree and living a happy life with mum and elder bro... If a father can't earn for his family and children and can't fullfill their demands and suppresses them then he is not eligible for being a father....
Salute to the parents who support the daughters and sons equally and are proud of both their achievements. Such children grow up to achieve great heights.
I once needed 5k rupees to go on a college trip, my dad didn't have it at that time. (This was 15 years ago), my grandmother said, " i save my monthly pension." And gave me 5k and some more to spend. I am a girl. No one in my family had ever been to college before. And i never even once felt that i am unsupported. There are all kinds of people in this world. Have faith, most families love their daughters.
Wow. It's absolutely impossible for me to imagine such parents exist. I can't comprehend how suffocating it all must be. Parents are supposed to be there for us rather than dragging them down.
@@RelaxingMusic-gi1nl I am from jharkhand only. And I'm going to pursue my masters soon. So that's not true at all . It's more about the mindset of parents. And all my friends have really progressive parents touch wood
It really is. I had the same problem, but it didn't stem only from my parents but also from my five older brothers, and believe me, I didn't have a chance in hell of escaping that. And I wasn't raised in india. They were under the impression that education was wasted on a girl as she was going to be married off ,have kids, and take care of the household. No thought was given to what I wanted and what was good for my future. But that's life I was helpless.
Yes I have not seen such inequality in our family. I become educated and married there was no pressure from family. If there is gender inequality mother should raise voice from the first day so that in future daughter should not to raise and fight for her rights. Nice 👍👍👍👍👍
Bro dual standard. I agree with u. Aisa maa baap koi nhi krta pdaai ke matter me. Maa baap kya duniya hi nhi krega aisa pdaai aise chij hai. Bagal me bhai behen ko same school me hi pdaate h ek 7 dusra 8 . Ye log ka mood ho toh alag class me pdne ko bhi discrimination dikha dega. Gaaon me bhi sbhi bhai behen ko barabar hi milta hai. Saayad isiko ra@&di panti kahte hai. 😑 Laundo ko villain bna dena hi feminisim hai.aaj Sb ladki upsc neet jee ssc nursing ka taiyaari kr rhi hai. Sbke paas mba ke liye paise nhi hote. I m bihari not gujrati. Pehle laundo ko group d ka naukari mil jaye yhi bdi baat hai😊 Jitna chutt aaj ladki ko mila hai nh utna kbhi nhi milega.garib sirf ladki hoti hai ladka nhi yhi nh. Ladka kaise bhi thela chaai majdur bn kar kma lega. Lekin ladki aisa nhi kr skti. Sbhi me equality hona chahiye. Sirf govt job me kyu. 🤬
Feeling Happy and grateful to almighty that my parents nurtured both of the daughters nicely and made us well educated to stand and speak for ourselves👍👍
That is great, but ask a family having a boy kid with a sister, and you will know what it feels like gender discrimination.. I really hate the fact that every privilege is given to me, rather than my sister, and ab mein hi khud apni behen ko required things de deta hu, and I know she is an independent person too, from the childhood.. I also feel ashamed of my own grandparents who have this shitty nature, which I have demanded for justice multiple times, and then they don't have an answer.
I think daughters loves there parents more than sons ...and parents should support equally to there kids...I have two sons I love them too much but I always miss a baby girl ......
but pls never ever speak or raise ur voice against them for they have done such a thing for u ignore their small mistakes respect them and care for them their whole life bcoz ur indebted to them
phenomenal, as always! I am lucky to have had parents who supported me fully, but many girls still face so much discrimination. Life Tak has brought this out so subtly without making villains of any character, that I'm sure most families will see their own lives reflected in the behaviour, and think about it. This in itself will bring about change; and that will have a huge effect on society. Thank you Life Tak.
There's a saying that charity begins at home. Charity means lots of different things not only monetary. Respect,love,appreciation,and many others. Equality is one of them
Same happened with me in my home..my mom always gave everything to my brother even when he was not interested in studies and I was pressurized to get married and she hated spending on my education..and the irony is that she has been through same kind of discrimination all her life with her parents and she turned out to be exactly like them instead of realizing what they did wrong with her and not doing same to her daughter
@@begood430 How do you know they did wrong? If my kids don't start earning after Bachelor degree... I too would hate to spend on their studies. After Bachelors, degrees are nothing more than social jewelleries that some nerds think makes them more attractive.
M lucky to have such parents who alwys fulfilld my wishes nd alwys supported me ...i said i wanna be a doctor they supported...i said i wanna play chess , they supported me as hell , took me from punjab to jharkhand for nationals...i feel so blessed...not showing off ..just telling society needs chnge nd chnge comes from us only
In this story she is facing the problem after 25 , I faced this problem when I was in class 9th .. my fmy doesn't want to send me in 10th even though all decisions where taken from my mother, I got married at 19 Feels like I hv not done anything in my life besides cooking and reasing up the kids ..
Beautifully put. I have been very lucky to have the most supportive parents. But things just don’t stop there. The sad part is, even if you work hard, pursue what you want and be successful, when you get married the story of step treatment starts again. That’s a different thing altogether. Unless the girls are not respected as individuals, little will change. We not only need to educate our girls and encourage them to be independent. We also need to educate our sons to be respectful of others as humans.
Before some day my parents behavier is same but now there behavier is totally changed towards me .....मैं तो भाग गयी थी पढाई के लिये ....फिर मैने part time work करके मेरा और पढाई का खर्चा उठाया .... and these year i have choosen university topper i god gold medal in biochemestry ... then my parents behavier suddenly change towards me
10 years back My sis wanted to become engineer.. but my atya brain washed my dad (who is already a person of old school ) whom we had convinced to let my sis do what she wants.. after that my dad was admont that he can not afford engineering and my sis joined BCA.. of course with god's grace she is now double degree holder and lives in USA.. and she gave me strength to join CA and still supporting me in every though time.. our mom is our biggest support system and we just wish to not let her sacrifices go wasted..
I'm so impressed by your videos, they always portray an important social message that is often not paid attention to, I'm a girl, I'm 17 rn, still a reckless teen maybe, and I've an elder brother, thanks to my mom and dad, they always provide equal opportunities to both me and my bro, they want us to be successful and happy especially my mom I'm really lucky to have them But I feel bad for all those people who aren't fortunate enough and go through these shit But no matter what, pls don't give up, show them what you have got Keep it up!
Positive cases are more than negative cases. But channel and society would like to highlight the negative. The film could have been portrayed in better way to send a meaningful message. Best wishes. Regards to your family.
@@LifeTak Sure. I mention/ include your videos, with full acknowledgement in my class lectures, research papers and gender sensitization sessions as well. Very effective presentation of sensitive and serious issues.
I am really... Lucky that I haven't faced these..thingss...in my entire life. My parents never discriminated between me nd my brother.... ❤️ Blessed...to have..such parents 💟
Video bahut achha hai ...stark reality. Acting itni badhiya hai ki dekh kar bilkul sach laga aur bahut gussa aaya. Fortunately hamari family mein sabse jyada importance studies ko di gayi hai. I did three international Diploma's in 2018 with flying colorsI am 54 now and love studying.
This is between boy n girl. But in my home I m facing this discrimination with younger sibling. Lucky r the people whose family never discriminate. I worked hard, did Job n paid my fees since I was 19. At that time my home conditions were not good. But today when they have everything they don’t even ask me do I need anything. They just give all their money to her for parties, etc. I never ask them for anything, n they don’t even ask me do I want anything. I just want to go away. Sometimes I feel living alone with a dog is better than people at least that pet will not discriminate and appreciate my love for him n give love to me in return…
It's the opposite in my house! I work so my family treats me and my brother equally! My parents always say we are like their two eyes! We both are equally imp! I'm happy and have no pressure of anything on me, not even marrige! I'm working hard and will happily fulfil their dreams and my dreams💜
Thank god my parents are so supportive and i am still searching for a job but they financially support me in this struggle time.. Hope i will get good job soon and make them proud n able to pay fees of my younger sister for her higher studies..
Mai rozana is channel pe uploaded vedios dekhati hu aur kuch n kuch roz sikhane ko milata hai... Aur inka content v bhut badhiya hota hai jab bhi koi nya vedio dekhtai hu use zaroor dekhati hu
I have girl child... And dont want another child.... Because if its boy... May be my family will try doing some injustice.... But then i m always with her... Will give her best education thats my motto in life now
Beautifully presented, highly appreciated. You guys are encouraging everyone out there. Thoroughly inspired by this story... Take stand for yourself for your better future... Doesn't matter whether anyone coming with you or not.
Mere life ka experience bilkul different hai isse... Mera chhota bhai v padhna nhi chahta tha, 12th board me uske cross lge the Mai padhai me achi rhi hu, 12th me school topper, graduation college topper rhi hu.... Mujhe apni life me kisi chiz k liye nhi roka gya, Mai apni life me independent rhna chahti hu isiliye mere parents ne kbhi shadi k liye force nhi kiya Mere chhote bhai ki shadi ho rhi hai isi month jo ki is patriarchal society k liye bilkul hi different hai Thanks to god mujhe itne ache parents dene k liye😊
This was actually my life in my parents house...the torture that girls have to face even in well to do families is not genrally even considered. While the boys have everything, girls are deprived of education rights, basic needs and then mocked for not being able to stand up on their on feet as dimag wale kaam toh boys ki kar pate hain Girls should do only household chores. I was lucky to escape out of that. Be strong if you facing this too. Never give up. Also many thanks to the creators❤️
I am facing the same problems at my place. I don't consider myself as intelligent...in fact I am a person with average IQ. My learning faculties demand time and patience. But I work hard so that I can get out of this house...I am currently pursuing law. Hopefully I will make out soon🙏
Again an excellent topic taken up .....girl s education and gender equality...that actually starts at home.....and above all the mindset really needs to be changed . Kudos team 👏👍❤👌
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Bestttt video ever ❣️ Great 💯 Most of the girls have to loose their dreams only nd only because of discremination and due to lack of support from family 💯💯
शादी तो हम आदमी लोग भी नहीं करना चाहते लेकिन जबरदस्ती करवा ही देते हैं, वर्ण कौन सा आदमी शादी नहीं किया हैं अमीर गरीब लोअर मिडिल क्लास अपर सब तो किए हैं, और जिंदगी भर खर्चा उठा रहे हैं सबका, कहां से उनकी तरक्की होगी अगर वो बिजनेस करना चाहे पैसा बचा के
I'm getting addicted to your channel... What a lovely simple video on this important topic. Not just in India but world over (percentage may differ) it's expected that women will sacrifice everything for family. I think that it's also a Problem with us because We take it as our responsibility... 😊 I start feeling guilty... But thanks to my dear brother, few days back he said 'our food is not ONLY your responsibility; it's ours too.' It made me think... And today your video! What perfect timing for me 🙏
I am so glad that I never faced this kind of discrimination…got married at age of 30 and my parents especially my dad told me if u face any issue with ur Marital life…house is open for u…never faced pressure of marriage…and also this is the most underrated channel on youtube
Thankfully, I was raised by amazing parents who never treated me any different because of me being a daughter. But unfortunately I cannot say the same for most of my friends. Most of them are constantly being pressurised to get married even before getting a job. One of my friends fell into depression because of this and chose to move out of her parents'home. It is really tough to be a girl in countries like ours.
It's not only about what is shown in the video. There is so much disparity regarding the attitude shown to the daughters after their marriage. Parents are not worried about the happiness of their daughters. Once they are married to someone , they do not care about anything. Not even bother to visit them. Not all parents, but most of them. Hats off to the team for bringing up this video.
My mom beleives in equality and i also support my elder sister in every right decission she takes thanks to my parents they are open minded and my father is educated but my mom is school dropout but she gives us freedom opportunity like a well educated woman , i know she's the most beautiful and intelligent mom i love her more than anything 😍💕
Thank you for this 😌❤️💥 and yes I also believe in this that ladki matlab sirf ghar ka kaam karna nahi hota hain Future main bohot kuch kar dikhana ka echa bhi hona chahiye And literally I'm blessed with my ma and baba ki woh mujhe samajh te hain or kuch bhi chis ke liye nahi rokte hain
Ye dekhna ke bad I feel privileged, that my parents allow me to study & not just allow me they force me to do so taki mai life mai kuch kar pau. In fact unke lia meri parhai hi sabse important hai. Thanks to my grand parents jinhona parhai ki importance samjhaya unhe. Moreover my mother had three sisters and a brother they all studied. Ingact jab neighbors bolte tha ki bateoin ko parhane ki kya jarurat hai when my grandfather was only a central government employee meri nani kehti thi ki beta to rikshay bhi chala lega par bateina kya karengi agar financial stability na ho to .And I'm so proud that vo sab log aj kamate hai.
Exactly the same I am graduated with physics computer and math but now I am a house wife and I am nothing more then a house wife so please praise you're daughters and sons equally
I am very grateful for my parents because my parents always say first get a nice well to do job then get married that to even if I want to they never ever force anything on me,even if I want anything they always gets me everything I am so grateful for having them as my parents 💖🥺
I am really very happy and feal so lucky that my mom has a firm voice and my dad never stops me to do something infact he supports me and treat me equally to boys and whenever someone says that I don't need education or something no matter who they are my both parents stood for me
Why your channel is so addicted 😍😍...mtlb story + acting yrrr you guys nailed it.....itna badhiya badhiya content banate ho aap log...really aage bhi banate rehna...i m one of your permanent viewers 😇😇😇💜
The discrimination between son and daughter is seen in every single house. A change is very necessary in every single house of this society. Both the children are equal.
I can totally relate it with myself... Even my father was so dominating except with the fact that he didn't do any difference among all siblings bt he had never let my ammi speak...
My father also same, actually their generation is same they all belongs to male dominating society. But happy that our generation people r slowly changing
Am blessed with a father who stood rock solid with us in every step of our life We are 5 sisters all well educated I can't digest a parent behaving this way with daughters
This channel is love. So realistic, need of the hour topics and agendas and so exquisitely executed. God bless each n everyone related to this channel! Best best best wishes always. May ur efforts bear fruit and literally bring a sea change in the mindset n attitude of people! Love u all❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is a very realistic story happening in every house. I hv experienced this but in different angle, in my house we are 3 children and my parents hv given equal education to all I mean to say all are Postgraduates. Now my other 2 siblings are well placed and i was working before but now I run my own start-up and iam trying hard to bring it to a level. My problem here is from the day one my father is not satisfied with me following my passion and he still wants me to work for someone else. Till day my father is trying to find me a job which Iam not interested in. Now tell me how do I make him understand that daughters always can definitely achieve in life. This story reminds me of this gender equality which iam facing from couple of years.
My mom is a teacher and my dad is a business men. My dad is just having such traditional mentality. I prooved my mom and dad wrong by becoming CA. Even after becoming CA my mom recently forced me to take leave for a day from job just to attend some social function by telling me "Thoda let go karna Sikh le" and immediately I raised my voice that if there would be my brother than you would not have told him to take leave, than after I hadn't taken leave from office. Girls we have to raise voice for ourselves otherwise this society will continue to suppress us.
daughters in well to do n educated family also go through this even now …. Why ? I feel girls need to start educating there parents…. at times these things become really toxic n the basic necessity like food … girls are expected to do sacrifice? dunno why 🤷♀️
Everyone make sacrifices in their lives. The problem is that, We talk about such things from women perspective only. We never talk other way around. Several boys sacrificed their education to support their family during corona time whereas girls are continuing their education. Open your eyes and have a wider perspective…….
@@jashanbirsingh i beg to disagree as what i have said is my personal opinion based on what i have seen happening in my grandfather’s generation, mom’s n now mine …. rules are different for daughters, son n their Wives …
Unfortunately still we have this problem, it’s just the psychological issues with this kind of people They knew it’s wrong but Kya kare adat se majboor Rest is fine, you can’t make them understand Ther are extremely rigid and adamant Really I feel pity
"EVERY CHILD DESERVES A PARENT , but NOT EVERY PARENT DESERVES CHILD".....It's true , if you bring up children to this world just for your own expectations and dreams , and want a really obedient children on whom you have full control, never ever become parents, Cause you may not realize it but your child is getting hollow and depressed inside....🌫️🎭
Thank God aisi family hume nhi mili...bade bhaiya doctor hai..meri ek bahen p.hd kar rahi hain..choti bahen delhi aiims me padhai kar rahi hain...bhabi job kar rahi hain..mein bhi shadi hone ke baad bhi padhai jari rakhi hun..abhi p.hd ke taiyari me hu..aur job ke liye bhi try kar rahi hu...thank you maa- baba-bhaiya..🙏🙏
OMG I have seen little inequality in my house too, but not to this extent that they're not letting study too, thankful to my parents. I feel so sorry for girls who face this 😔
Lucky to have father just opposite to this... Everything was available to do study... Havey expense is okay for little study benifit. His dream was I to get govt job then he will marry me.... And it happened. I got govt job after that wedding. But in laws are nothing in matter of study and getting further in life.
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Where is mini??? She is not coming in episode
@@humairasamad8219 she has left life tak team
I hv an experience n I want yur team to make a video on it..cn u do??
Respected team
Wht about inequality between daughter in law and son in joint family..where if he do any household chores family members behave like ohooo ye hmara beta kya kr rha hai...jaha bahu ko sbse last me khana khane milta hai because phle sab ko khana hai..
Me...
The fact that her mother couldn't raise her voice or even support her daughter shook me.. that's why it's really important to be financially independent. Sab hone ke bad bhi wo apni bat tak thik se ni rakh payi. Feeling sad for this kind of society and am worried too since after some years, even i will have to settle down. I really hope tab tak meri ek permanent settled job ho jaye. please pray for me. I have just 1 year, uske bad to gharwale shadi ke liye paresan karne lagenge....
Best of Luck... I too am looking for a Job... ☺️ I want to support myself... That's why...
It's all about change in person's perspective... If you have supportive parents try to find supportive and broadminded partner.. I have done my post graduation after marriage and doing a job too..
Jab tak job na lago shadi bhul kar bi mt krna chahe 1 saal ho ya 5 saal
Mil jayegi acchi job...just do believe in yourself ....aur give up mat krna kabhi chahe kuch bhi ho jaye okay...itni himmat rakhna apne andar ki khud ke liye kuch kar sako...apne kaam pr daate rehna. 👍
Ek imp baat- self respect sbse upr hai . Do remember it.
My best wishes is with you sis... Keep hope... Everything going to be okay..
This discrimination between daughters and sons is seen nearly every single home of our society. A change is necessary for nation's development. I really want to request all the parents to treat their childrens equally with love,care,respect and all worthy things needed for their development.Both are their children so they should treat each equally without any gender biasness prevalent in society because #why not?
@@study_with_abhi_upsc yes,I agreed that I got mistaken in using appropriate word ,
" Every single home" to " most of the homes" while putting up my view for the above content brought out in the video but it's not deniable that this kind of gender biasness is not prevalent in our society and society is the sum total of all the houses in the country.Nearly, most of the houses in our country carries out such kind of tornament placed between daughter and sons and the video itself is a evidence of my saying , the thing is that some dares to put up their problems in front of the society while some silently suffers from their problems so you can never know what one is going through in his / her life. Secondly,how can you so confidently judged me and dares to say that my parents does such kind of gender discrimination between me and my brother ? Do you know me personally or do you know my parents very well that you said so ? If you judged just by my views that I put up then let me tell you for your kind information that I just gave my views thats it because I loved to share my opinions about any topic . Lastly,I would say that my fault lies in just the use of appropriate word while your fault lies in your whole understanding thereby you judged me so confidently without knowing the real story.
@@study_with_abhi_upsc I've already answered your question in reply to your comment so without getting angry whenever you feel so can read that properly and get understood,that's it.
@@kusumagarwal8940 no need to apologize. you're totally right. Any toddler knows that when you say "Every Single..." You don't mean it literally, but as a concept that relates to the majority. Those who focus on semantics, mostly run away from the essence of the debate.
And yes, luckily, there are families in which girls Get the equal opportunity.
But if to follow the semantics, the problem lies within the statement.
Girls are Given the opportunity.
It's not treated as their birthright.
So...
@@nandanasalvi thank you dear 😊
Naa mera ghar world ka best ghar tha mere parents aur bhai mujhe bahut support karte the i m civil aspirant but my bad luck mere parents and ek bhai covid se khatam ho gaye
Meri daughter 28 yrs ki he...job kar rhi...lekin kabhi hamne shadi ka pressure nhi diya...koi kuch bhi kahe...meri beti he...jab uska dil shadi ke liye ready hoga tabhi karegi...iske liye uski wishes ko hum mar nhi sakte....ye hamari responsbilty he...so i am very happy...i have single girl child....
Dil tab tayaiyaar hota hai jab kuchh nhi bachta
bagrat log
शादी तो हम आदमी लोग भी नहीं करना चाहते लेकिन जबरदस्ती करवा ही देते हैं, वर्ण कौन सा आदमी शादी नहीं किया हैं अमीर गरीब लोअर मिडिल क्लास अपर सब तो किए हैं, और जिंदगी भर खर्चा उठा रहे हैं सबका, कहां से उनकी तरक्की होगी अगर वो बिजनेस करना चाहे पैसा बचा के
@@mauzzahid9989 teri jaise
Ma'am ap sachmein bohot understanding hain
'Kami hai surf awaaz ki' ...the writer has hit the hammer on the nail! That is why I never was in a hurry to get my daughter married...and I am glad she focussed on her work single mindedly...today she has a voice ..' awaaz' ..
sometimes parents become enemies. May be they will even allow to study. but then when you understand life and become independent, then they start having problem with it. nowadays so called modern parents can let daughters study but never let them enjoy their life. they want to chain them down so that they can proudly say that those are their sanskars. they want the girl to have arrange marriage and ultimately become house wife as all women should according to the society! but it's eventually depends on the girl who knows her wings and sky is not the limit.
Even when your parents tried to support you as much they can and they feel proud that they allowed you to become independent. And now if you wanna do love marriage, his parents or he himself wanna see you as a housewife. Stupid thinking of people!! I don’t know when people will start treating both genders equally in india.
@Neil Bajwa your parents should have told you not to concentrate on girls' panties!!
@Neil Bajwa dude you really got some issue. Go see a doctor.
Har ghr me uhi hota h
@Neil Bajwa Have a life. I feel sorry for people like you! You need to understand peace and let others breathe peace.
This is present in every single home , may not be so intense but it is present. Son's demands are always fulfilled , son gets more food less work , more pampering . The only thing left for daughters is restrictions and a big AHSAAN of marriage
Wait I kind of agree but I think this word "every single home" is not true.
Not true.
So true
Jab job nhi milti kutto se bhi bura haal hota hain,jab marks ache nhi ate esa lgta hain ki Janam hi nhi Lena chahiye tha.... Or us samay ma papa koi bhi hamare side nhi hota. But lrkiya to phir bhi PAPA KI PARI hoti hain
@@pratickkkumar3061 True. A girl can choose not to work, but the same is not true for the guy. Next, the parents sell the boy in the name of dowry.
Who else found this channel randomly and now Can't Stop watching it
Omg thanks for so many likes 👍
Thank You for staying!
Me
Me i Just love this channel 💗
Same here
Why nowadays mini dewan isn't much acting
Thank god my parents are so supportive..I am 25..unemployed..preparing for a govt job but my parents never ever made me feel pressurised from their side..But this is indeed a thing which still a lot of girls are facing..Life Tak never dissapoints us..Great work by whole team🙌👏
I am also soon going to turn 25. And trying to get a job for myself to support myself and my family... Hope all of our families understand us always...
Ur very lucky ...Here I have to struggle because my family is not supportive...I'm 29 and my mother just want to marry me off...my ambitious don't matter
I'm jealous my parents never been by my side when i was at my lowest now I'm 19 mom want me to get married soon i dropped my school every years and stopped going school since 4 years because they can't afford and i can't work to earn money but they can afford money for marriage 🙃💔
You are very Lucky
@@Mikamayla361 But I think Age 29 is perfect age to get married 😳😳
Discrimination against your child should be a punishable offense!!!
Bewakoof jaahil ladke ladki me farq hota hai... Ladke ko kamaana hota hai aur ladki baith kar khati hai
@@usamasohail3294 tere jaiso ke liye india aaj bhi itna peeche hain.. i pity the women around you what a sad mentality you have ew gaon me hi reh aur gobar kha
@@usamasohail3294don't talk about your women in reality we manage house kids with that we are managing job too
@@HenneCindie don't interfere am talking about Ind pak ..not others
@@HenneCindie Ghanta.
Women of your gen don't even know how to use microwave... Bade Aye House & Kids manage Karen!
I have such a father....even more than this character.... It's really hard even living one day with him.... I have seen domestic violence from my childhood... my mom didn't have any support so that she can leave him...but still she tried working here and there and saving up for my sis n me. Almost after 19 yrs I saw her smiling when i sis got a job Microsoft
One advice... In what ever situation u r work hard and proceed in whatever way u can
One advice - please take some english classes lol (no hate)
Ab toh tumhari pas job hai, ab karwa do na apni parents ki divorce 😂
This is one of the best channels which delivers amazing content. Most people dont know what equality is. When a woman raise her voice they say its her arrogance. Then come a hero who slaps woman and show heroism. Its a pity that even woman are against woman
Seeing this I feel very lucky...my father is extremely supportive..he rather gives me wings to fly higher and higher..
Yes but what's shown here is also reality for a lot of girls
Her mother didn't have independence to give 5000/- to her secretly even....... Same goes with my mother , she doesn't have 100/- rs. in her hand for herself even in today's life at a Delhi City....... Financial independence and fighting for your kids is a duty for every parent
Our previous generation was so suppressed that we grew up watching it and now that we are growing up we have determined to not be like them. So its really hard for current generation to understand when to be patient and when to raise a voice.
Become so rich that you yourself give your mother money in lakhs so she taste beauty of independence
Where does all money go then? Maybe for ur future...
@@FakeSpiderMan3434 Certainly in the loans and other investment which my dad made by suppressing our happiness, in the fights he does through out his life with others due to his temper leading us to number of cases and then that investments turned out to be a scam......... And my mother always stayed quiet , had she raised her voice on time then we won't have to suffer much n he may have improved......so it's every parents duty to give better life instead of making it hell.......
@@Goodpurp I'm a guy and not kidding my father use to do the same... He always said all money is into savings, investment and for business but when my mum realised that all are scams she just divorced... Scammer will always be a scammer not matter if he is father of son or daughter.... I would suggest just tell ur mum to leave ur father and start a new life just like my mum did.... And my father later went under burden of loans, interest and other scams then he committed suicide... Now I'm 18 pursuing engineering degree and living a happy life with mum and elder bro...
If a father can't earn for his family and children and can't fullfill their demands and suppresses them then he is not eligible for being a father....
Salute to the parents who support the daughters and sons equally and are proud of both their achievements. Such children grow up to achieve great heights.
I once needed 5k rupees to go on a college trip, my dad didn't have it at that time. (This was 15 years ago), my grandmother said, " i save my monthly pension." And gave me 5k and some more to spend. I am a girl. No one in my family had ever been to college before. And i never even once felt that i am unsupported.
There are all kinds of people in this world.
Have faith, most families love their daughters.
Wow. It's absolutely impossible for me to imagine such parents exist. I can't comprehend how suffocating it all must be. Parents are supposed to be there for us rather than dragging them down.
@@RelaxingMusic-gi1nl I am from jharkhand only. And I'm going to pursue my masters soon. So that's not true at all . It's more about the mindset of parents. And all my friends have really progressive parents touch wood
It really is. I had the same problem, but it didn't stem only from my parents but also from my five older brothers, and believe me, I didn't have a chance in hell of escaping that. And I wasn't raised in india. They were under the impression that education was wasted on a girl as she was going to be married off ,have kids, and take care of the household. No thought was given to what I wanted and what was good for my future. But that's life I was helpless.
This is never happening in my family. Every body treated equally.
We feel happy for you :)
Yes I have not seen such inequality in our family. I become educated and married there was no pressure from family. If there is gender inequality mother should raise voice from the first day so that in future daughter should not to raise and fight for her rights. Nice 👍👍👍👍👍
@@LifeTak this is exactly why westerns white people laugh at us because of some of our outdated notions
Bro dual standard. I agree with u. Aisa maa baap koi nhi krta pdaai ke matter me. Maa baap kya duniya hi nhi krega aisa pdaai aise chij hai. Bagal me bhai behen ko same school me hi pdaate h ek 7 dusra 8 . Ye log ka mood ho toh alag class me pdne ko bhi discrimination dikha dega. Gaaon me bhi sbhi bhai behen ko barabar hi milta hai. Saayad isiko ra@&di panti kahte hai. 😑
Laundo ko villain bna dena hi feminisim hai.aaj Sb ladki upsc neet jee ssc nursing ka taiyaari kr rhi hai. Sbke paas mba ke liye paise nhi hote. I m bihari not gujrati. Pehle laundo ko group d ka naukari mil jaye yhi bdi baat hai😊
Jitna chutt aaj ladki ko mila hai nh utna kbhi nhi milega.garib sirf ladki hoti hai ladka nhi yhi nh. Ladka kaise bhi thela chaai majdur bn kar kma lega. Lekin ladki aisa nhi kr skti. Sbhi me equality hona chahiye. Sirf govt job me kyu. 🤬
Yuppp........I'm feeling blessed for having a good family... 🥰
Both son and daughter must be treated equally.
Feeling Happy and grateful to almighty that my parents nurtured both of the daughters nicely and made us well educated to stand and speak for ourselves👍👍
That is great, but ask a family having a boy kid with a sister, and you will know what it feels like gender discrimination.. I really hate the fact that every privilege is given to me, rather than my sister, and ab mein hi khud apni behen ko required things de deta hu, and I know she is an independent person too, from the childhood..
I also feel ashamed of my own grandparents who have this shitty nature, which I have demanded for justice multiple times, and then they don't have an answer.
@@gouravkhatoryes, might have felt miserable but great!! that you demanded justice and made life good for your sister.
I think daughters loves there parents more than sons ...and parents should support equally to there kids...I have two sons I love them too much but I always miss a baby girl ......
but pls never ever speak or raise ur voice against them for they have done such a thing for u ignore their small mistakes respect them and care for them their whole life bcoz ur indebted to them
@@becool007 indeed, we all are grateful to our respective parents
phenomenal, as always! I am lucky to have had parents who supported me fully, but many girls still face so much discrimination. Life Tak has brought this out so subtly without making villains of any character, that I'm sure most families will see their own lives reflected in the behaviour, and think about it. This in itself will bring about change; and that will have a huge effect on society. Thank you Life Tak.
There's a saying that charity begins at home. Charity means lots of different things not only monetary. Respect,love,appreciation,and many others. Equality is one of them
Equality is not charity but the right of kids n responsibility of parents!
Same happened with me in my home..my mom always gave everything to my brother even when he was not interested in studies and I was pressurized to get married and she hated spending on my education..and the irony is that she has been through same kind of discrimination all her life with her parents and she turned out to be exactly like them instead of realizing what they did wrong with her and not doing same to her daughter
how r u now...di
@@begood430 How do you know they did wrong?
If my kids don't start earning after Bachelor degree... I too would hate to spend on their studies.
After Bachelors, degrees are nothing more than social jewelleries that some nerds think makes them more attractive.
M lucky to have such parents who alwys fulfilld my wishes nd alwys supported me ...i said i wanna be a doctor they supported...i said i wanna play chess , they supported me as hell , took me from punjab to jharkhand for nationals...i feel so blessed...not showing off ..just telling society needs chnge nd chnge comes from us only
In this story she is facing the problem after 25 , I faced this problem when I was in class 9th .. my fmy doesn't want to send me in 10th even though all decisions where taken from my mother,
I got married at 19
Feels like I hv not done anything in my life besides cooking and reasing up the kids ..
Beautifully put. I have been very lucky to have the most supportive parents.
But things just don’t stop there. The sad part is, even if you work hard, pursue what you want and be successful, when you get married the story of step treatment starts again.
That’s a different thing altogether.
Unless the girls are not respected as individuals, little will change.
We not only need to educate our girls and encourage them to be independent. We also need to educate our sons to be respectful of others as humans.
Before some day my parents behavier is same but now there behavier is totally changed towards me .....मैं तो भाग गयी थी पढाई के लिये ....फिर मैने part time work करके मेरा और पढाई का खर्चा उठाया .... and these year i have choosen university topper i god gold medal in biochemestry ... then my parents behavier suddenly change towards me
10 years back My sis wanted to become engineer.. but my atya brain washed my dad (who is already a person of old school ) whom we had convinced to let my sis do what she wants.. after that my dad was admont that he can not afford engineering and my sis joined BCA.. of course with god's grace she is now double degree holder and lives in USA.. and she gave me strength to join CA and still supporting me in every though time.. our mom is our biggest support system and we just wish to not let her sacrifices go wasted..
Getting job in USA is easy
No special about that
I'm so impressed by your videos, they always portray an important social message that is often not paid attention to,
I'm a girl, I'm 17 rn, still a reckless teen maybe, and I've an elder brother, thanks to my mom and dad, they always provide equal opportunities to both me and my bro, they want us to be successful and happy especially my mom
I'm really lucky to have them
But I feel bad for all those people who aren't fortunate enough and go through these shit
But no matter what, pls don't give up, show them what you have got
Keep it up!
Positive cases are more than negative cases. But channel and society would like to highlight the negative. The film could have been portrayed in better way to send a meaningful message. Best wishes. Regards to your family.
😊😊 9😅😅😅😅😅jo. p...opö9
This message is beautifully communicated in this video ....loved it ...another very powerful short film is " juice" - so relatable
The way things are subtly incorporated is amazing. This is more effective than any melodrama.
Another superb video...as always.
Thanks a lot! Please share it with your family and friends.
@@LifeTak Sure. I mention/ include your videos, with full acknowledgement in my class lectures, research papers and gender sensitization sessions as well.
Very effective presentation of sensitive and serious issues.
@@LifeTak please tell me how can I send you a story so that you can make a video on it if you like.
Even after showing, teaching thousand times, this inequality prevails
I am really... Lucky that I haven't faced these..thingss...in my entire life. My parents never discriminated between me nd my brother.... ❤️ Blessed...to have..such parents 💟
Ledkkiyong Ki vidhya. zaroor chahiye kunki Zarurath Pade ki tho kamajayaka
Video bahut achha hai ...stark reality. Acting itni badhiya hai ki dekh kar bilkul sach laga aur bahut gussa aaya.
Fortunately hamari family mein sabse jyada importance studies ko di gayi hai. I did three international Diploma's in 2018 with flying colorsI am 54 now and love studying.
Wowww 😍😍♥️♥️👏🏻👏🏻
@@indiangirl001 thanks darling. If everyone reads something for 30 mins we can learn so much. Video se bhi bahut gyan mil sakta hai😍
This is between boy n girl. But in my home I m facing this discrimination with younger sibling.
Lucky r the people whose family never discriminate.
I worked hard, did Job n paid my fees since I was 19. At that time my home conditions were not good. But today when they have everything they don’t even ask me do I need anything. They just give all their money to her for parties, etc.
I never ask them for anything, n they don’t even ask me do I want anything.
I just want to go away.
Sometimes I feel living alone with a dog is better than people at least that pet will not discriminate and appreciate my love for him n give love to me in return…
I am so grateful that I have a family which is every girl's dream. My dream is my parents dream and my happiness is their happiness.
It's the opposite in my house! I work so my family treats me and my brother equally! My parents always say we are like their two eyes! We both are equally imp! I'm happy and have no pressure of anything on me, not even marrige! I'm working hard and will happily fulfil their dreams and my dreams💜
Thank god my parents are so supportive and i am still searching for a job but they financially support me in this struggle time.. Hope i will get good job soon and make them proud n able to pay fees of my younger sister for her higher studies..
Mai rozana is channel pe uploaded vedios dekhati hu aur kuch n kuch roz sikhane ko milata hai... Aur inka content v bhut badhiya hota hai jab bhi koi nya vedio dekhtai hu use zaroor dekhati hu
I have girl child... And dont want another child.... Because if its boy... May be my family will try doing some injustice.... But then i m always with her... Will give her best education thats my motto in life now
Women like you don’t deserve sons
Touched my heart. My father believes in equality
Beautifully presented, highly appreciated. You guys are encouraging everyone out there. Thoroughly inspired by this story... Take stand for yourself for your better future... Doesn't matter whether anyone coming with you or not.
Mere life ka experience bilkul different hai isse...
Mera chhota bhai v padhna nhi chahta tha, 12th board me uske cross lge the
Mai padhai me achi rhi hu, 12th me school topper, graduation college topper rhi hu....
Mujhe apni life me kisi chiz k liye nhi roka gya,
Mai apni life me independent rhna chahti hu isiliye mere parents ne kbhi shadi k liye force nhi kiya
Mere chhote bhai ki shadi ho rhi hai isi month jo ki is patriarchal society k liye bilkul hi different hai
Thanks to god mujhe itne ache parents dene k liye😊
Exactly raise ur voice for equality
This was actually my life in my parents house...the torture that girls have to face even in well to do families is not genrally even considered. While the boys have everything, girls are deprived of education rights, basic needs and then mocked for not being able to stand up on their on feet as dimag wale kaam toh boys ki kar pate hain Girls should do only household chores.
I was lucky to escape out of that. Be strong if you facing this too. Never give up.
Also many thanks to the creators❤️
how is it in your inlaws? arranged marraige
I am facing the same problems at my place.
I don't consider myself as intelligent...in fact I am a person with average IQ. My learning faculties demand time and patience.
But I work hard so that I can get out of this house...I am currently pursuing law. Hopefully I will make out soon🙏
We are two sisters our parents love us equally. We are very lucky
Again an excellent topic taken up .....girl s education and gender equality...that actually starts at home.....and above all the mindset really needs to be changed . Kudos team 👏👍❤👌
I'm thinking of sending this video in family group but I don't have that much of courage to do so
BTW great video and harsh reality,😑
Send it.. Let it happen
Just let it happen. Don't think twice, just do it now
बदल गई सरकार, बदल गए हालत |
क्यूँ मजबूर है बेटियां, क्यूँ मजबूर है स्त्रिया,
ना बदली है हैसियत ना बदली है गैरीयत,
फिर भी कदम बड़ा, अपना हौसला सबको दिखा |
Behad khubsurat video. Equality milni hi chahiye. ❤️❤️🙏
Beautiful Story ❤️❤️
Isne to chupchap sunn liya , mere dadaji hote to bolte hi wahi form sa bhar dete.
The way Manu spoke up was the right way to prevent gender equality, #raiseyourvoicewomen
Bestttt video ever ❣️
Great 💯
Most of the girls have to loose their dreams only nd only because of discremination and due to lack of support from family 💯💯
शादी तो हम आदमी लोग भी नहीं करना चाहते लेकिन जबरदस्ती करवा ही देते हैं, वर्ण कौन सा आदमी शादी नहीं किया हैं अमीर गरीब लोअर मिडिल क्लास अपर सब तो किए हैं, और जिंदगी भर खर्चा उठा रहे हैं सबका, कहां से उनकी तरक्की होगी अगर वो बिजनेस करना चाहे पैसा बचा के
Very sensitive topic very nicely dealt with. Keep it up Life tak
My mother is so supportive I love her!♥️♥️♥️
Thank God
She is blessing for me
I'm getting addicted to your channel... What a lovely simple video on this important topic.
Not just in India but world over (percentage may differ) it's expected that women will sacrifice everything for family. I think that it's also a Problem with us because We take it as our responsibility... 😊
I start feeling guilty... But thanks to my dear brother, few days back he said 'our food is not ONLY your responsibility; it's ours too.' It made me think... And today your video! What perfect timing for me 🙏
I am so glad that I never faced this kind of discrimination…got married at age of 30 and my parents especially my dad told me if u face any issue with ur Marital life…house is open for u…never faced pressure of marriage…and also this is the most underrated channel on youtube
Thankfully, I was raised by amazing parents who never treated me any different because of me being a daughter. But unfortunately I cannot say the same for most of my friends. Most of them are constantly being pressurised to get married even before getting a job. One of my friends fell into depression because of this and chose to move out of her parents'home. It is really tough to be a girl in countries like ours.
It's not only about what is shown in the video. There is so much disparity regarding the attitude shown to the daughters after their marriage. Parents are not worried about the happiness of their daughters. Once they are married to someone , they do not care about anything. Not even bother to visit them. Not all parents, but most of them.
Hats off to the team for bringing up this video.
I think that the time has changed nowadays.......My parents even my whole family is very supportive😊😊Waheguru ji di blessings naal...
My mom beleives in equality and i also support my elder sister in every right decission she takes thanks to my parents they are open minded and my father is educated but my mom is school dropout but she gives us freedom opportunity like a well educated woman , i know she's the most beautiful and intelligent mom i love her more than anything 😍💕
This channel deserves much more million subscribers main aur share krunga
Please share this video and help us reach more people! :)
Pichle 5 din se mein continuously apke saare video dekh raha hun , bahut acha video banate ho app log 👍👍👍
Thank you for this 😌❤️💥 and yes I also believe in this that ladki matlab sirf ghar ka kaam karna nahi hota hain
Future main bohot kuch kar dikhana ka echa bhi hona chahiye
And literally I'm blessed with my ma and baba ki woh mujhe samajh te hain or kuch bhi chis ke liye nahi rokte hain
Ye dekhna ke bad I feel privileged, that my parents allow me to study & not just allow me they force me to do so taki mai life mai kuch kar pau. In fact unke lia meri parhai hi sabse important hai. Thanks to my grand parents jinhona parhai ki importance samjhaya unhe. Moreover my mother had three sisters and a brother they all studied. Ingact jab neighbors bolte tha ki bateoin ko parhane ki kya jarurat hai when my grandfather was only a central government employee meri nani kehti thi ki beta to rikshay bhi chala lega par bateina kya karengi agar financial stability na ho to .And I'm so proud that vo sab log aj kamate hai.
Exactly the same I am graduated with physics computer and math but now I am a house wife and I am nothing more then a house wife so please praise you're daughters and sons equally
I am very grateful for my parents because my parents always say first get a nice well to do job then get married that to even if I want to they never ever force anything on me,even if I want anything they always gets me everything I am so grateful for having them as my parents 💖🥺
I m also grateful for ths
I am really very happy and feal so lucky that my mom has a firm voice and my dad never stops me to do something infact he supports me and treat me equally to boys and whenever someone says that I don't need education or something no matter who they are my both
parents stood for me
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Thank God mere papa aisa nahi hai.. aaj unhi ki wajh se main ek govt job me hu sirf unhi ki wajh se.. aaj unhi ki wajh se meri life secure hai.
I really like this channel. They always come up with sensitive yet eye opening issues. Keep it up 👍
The discrimination between son and daughter is seen in every single house. A change is very necessary in every single house of this society. Both the children are equal.
I can totally relate it with myself... Even my father was so dominating except with the fact that he didn't do any difference among all siblings bt he had never let my ammi speak...
My father also same, actually their generation is same they all belongs to male dominating society. But happy that our generation people r slowly changing
Ha Society mai hota h aishe hi. Parents kho Daughters kha support karna chayie ur proud feel karna chayie. Good job Life Tak ❤️🙏🥰
Yes this still happens,with me...whole my lyf is inequality....
Mine too
Am blessed with a father who stood rock solid with us in every step of our life
We are 5 sisters all well educated
I can't digest a parent behaving this way with daughters
This channel is love. So realistic, need of the hour topics and agendas and so exquisitely executed. God bless each n everyone related to this channel! Best best best wishes always. May ur efforts bear fruit and literally bring a sea change in the mindset n attitude of people! Love u all❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Mujhe bhut acha lga...aisa hi honi chahiye ek beti...good job 👍
Wow.....Nice
This message is beautifully communicated in this video...Loved it.
Fabulous shot by whole team...❤
This is a very realistic story happening in every house. I hv experienced this but in different angle, in my house we are 3 children and my parents hv given equal education to all I mean to say all are Postgraduates. Now my other 2 siblings are well placed and i was working before but now I run my own start-up and iam trying hard to bring it to a level. My problem here is from the day one my father is not satisfied with me following my passion and he still wants me to work for someone else. Till day my father is trying to find me a job which Iam not interested in. Now tell me how do I make him understand that daughters always can definitely achieve in life. This story reminds me of this gender equality which iam facing from couple of years.
Yes I support her because in some places makes have given importance and priorities compared to a females.
I literally cried at the end,this is so true and i really hope this stops in every household the actors did a great job too😭💕
My mom is a teacher and my dad is a business men. My dad is just having such traditional mentality. I prooved my mom and dad wrong by becoming CA. Even after becoming CA my mom recently forced me to take leave for a day from job just to attend some social function by telling me "Thoda let go karna Sikh le" and immediately I raised my voice that if there would be my brother than you would not have told him to take leave, than after I hadn't taken leave from office. Girls we have to raise voice for ourselves otherwise this society will continue to suppress us.
This msg needs to be pinned!!!!! ✨😘🧿
So amazing ye sare cheez dusro k ghar mei hi hote hai why not in my home mene reality mei Aaj Tak esa nai dekha
daughters in well to do n educated family also go through this even now …. Why ? I feel girls need to start educating there parents…. at times these things become really toxic n the basic necessity like food … girls are expected to do sacrifice? dunno why 🤷♀️
Everyone make sacrifices in their lives. The problem is that, We talk about such things from women perspective only. We never talk other way around. Several boys sacrificed their education to support their family during corona time whereas girls are continuing their education. Open your eyes and have a wider perspective…….
@@jashanbirsingh i beg to disagree as what i have said is my personal opinion based on what i have seen happening in my grandfather’s generation, mom’s n now mine …. rules are different for daughters, son n their Wives …
I am.most fortune to have wonderful parents as well as paternal grandparents who supported me in every walk of life
Super reflection of reality 👌
In the end, sahi sunaaya. It's the worst feeling when ur parents doesn't understand you.
Unfortunately still we have this problem, it’s just the psychological issues with this kind of people
They knew it’s wrong but Kya kare adat se majboor
Rest is fine,
you can’t make them understand
Ther are extremely rigid and adamant
Really I feel pity
So beautiful movie and beautiful advice for gender equality
True, lovely video
I love my papa .... ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Always support karte hain mujhe. kabhi bhed bhav nahi kiya ..balki. ....jada hi pyar karte hain 😊😊😊
"EVERY CHILD DESERVES A PARENT , but NOT EVERY PARENT DESERVES CHILD".....It's true , if you bring up children to this world just for your own expectations and dreams , and want a really obedient children on whom you have full control, never ever become parents, Cause you may not realize it but your child is getting hollow and depressed inside....🌫️🎭
Fr same
Thank God aisi family hume nhi mili...bade bhaiya doctor hai..meri ek bahen p.hd kar rahi hain..choti bahen delhi aiims me padhai kar rahi hain...bhabi job kar rahi hain..mein bhi shadi hone ke baad bhi padhai jari rakhi hun..abhi p.hd ke taiyari me hu..aur job ke liye bhi try kar rahi hu...thank you maa- baba-bhaiya..🙏🙏
OMG I have seen little inequality in my house too, but not to this extent that they're not letting study too, thankful to my parents. I feel so sorry for girls who face this 😔
Same to same family I have.. Same experience
Love this channel and all the actors/actresses. Glad to see the good content too. Watching from US. Much love.
I'm lucky to have parents who treat me and my sister equally ❤
Lucky to have father just opposite to this... Everything was available to do study... Havey expense is okay for little study benifit.
His dream was I to get govt job then he will marry me.... And it happened. I got govt job after that wedding.
But in laws are nothing in matter of study and getting further in life.
Such natural acting. Hatsoff.🙏