GF is so far into the affair fog that she blamed her bf for ruining the marriage. Ironic. In her mind she’s convinced herself she’s not the villain and didn’t do anything wrong
Well, as long as May doesn't find out, she didn't do anything wrong. But when may found out, she blamed her ex, because he told May. Typical logic of a cheater. "It's not a big deal, as long as he/she doesn't know".
I truly dont understand why people think revenge doesn't solve anything. I swear to God it does!!! It helps you heal and move on without the excess anger.
People often resort too fast to revenge when they have other emotional issues that need to be addressed. When they complete the revenge in that situation, they end up with even more emotional issues, especially when they realize the revenge didn't resolve anything, and may have even created barriers towards healing. And there's no way to know if that's your case before you try to get revenge. Plus, it has been shown that when you act out of anger, you train your brain to become more susceptible to anger in the future, which only causes more problems. Basically, revenge might be extremely unhealthy for you, and since you don't know whether that's true for you or not until after you get revenge, you are gambling with your emotional health when you seek revenge.
Revenge on its own tends to be selfish and reckless. Justice, on the other hand, is a different story. While OP may have considered what he did to be revenge and it may have very well been that for him, it was also justice.
Story 1: Op went scorched earth and beyond. Story 2: "I know I messed and I don't deserve you". It's so funny, they know the effed up but still begging for a second chance.
See there is an issue though with them visiting because that family's affiliation with that gang is known and the events just happened. That will 110% be used against her in court. So while they may have felt good doing that, they have utterly f***** her over.
The comments screaming "But he didn't have sex with her so it's not cheating. He can't help his feelings" are also the same ones that would scream "DUMP HER" if the roles were reversed. The fiance can't help but have a crush on his co worker but why invalidate OP who has every right to be upset about it?
Story 2: I mean, you can end a relationship for ANY reason you want…but imo i don’t think what the bf was THAT wrong… Admitted he was developing a crush and backed away from her, started actively trying to better himself and was doing whatever he could to regain Op’s trust. Again she doesn’t NEED to stay if she isn’t happy but i don’t think he’s the villain she thinks he is…
I was reading this story and in one of Op's comments she said that her ex fiance was actively taking her coworker on dates and dinners. So yeah it seems like he was starting something there before Op confronted him
Same honestly, the fact that he came clean about his developing feelings then stayed away after shows that he really did love her and hated that he gained those feelings. You can’t really control if you gain a crush on someone or not
@@bitviper3430 i mean yeah but I think we can control developing more the crush on someone, at first you can start distancing yourself so that feeling doesn't grow. OP's fiancé lacked to recognize that feeling and be able to put a stop to it.
@@mafer4443 Story 2 you can’t control how you feel about people, but you can choose what you do with your emotions and he didn’t do anything. He did nothing wrong
Story 2. He didn't do anything wrong. He had a crush. And he worked and showed u that he was willing to work to be better. A hell of a lot of men will never do that. He came clean he loves u. I think u should have given him a chance
Once you turn off your feelings of love there’s no way of getting them back so it’s better to end a relationship before you hurt someone what op did is the right thing as she was no longer in love but more so hate and it’s not good to remain in a relationship when you hate someone
He did everything right after confrontation but the fact of the matter is that she was unable to trust him anymore and she had withdrawn from the relationship. You can’t force her to stay if she is repulsed by him. It just wasn’t meant to be. I’m sure he’s remorseful and I hope he does better in life but actions do have consequences and a consequence, in this case, was that she lost her trust in him. Pretty sad story all around. That’s why you have to really make sure you’re not getting caught up in childish crushes when you’re already committed.
Why’d they beat up the guy but just scare the girl? I’m no advocate of violence, but it’s seems people are more ok with physical violence towards men than towards women. I just don’t like double standards.
Women are, on average, physically weaker. So we don't let men and women, for example, in the boxing ring together. Unless the guy say he's a "woman", then it's fine, you wail on the poor cow.
Because men understand the language of getting a punch in the face, Physical altercations is how men settle things, I bet Tom will remember that 'conversation' in the future and think twice, Women are always 'victims' in their own minds, Doing the same thing to them is only going to reinforce this mentality,
@thisismyelement OMG thank you. I literally thought the same thing. I said why they beat him up and not also her? Why didn't they get a woman to do it because they both deserve an ass whooping. The double standard is sick and vile.
@@Lucky_Soleil people have a very specific lexicon. The AI has shown time and time again it has its own lexicon when being asked to write reddit stories. It’s very easy to catch. Usually in the updates or just how absurd the stories are. It’s always in there somewhere but even an AI can and has developed a lexicon when using its archive of reddit stories it’s trying to imitate.
Story 1: really cool revenge Story 2: bro dodged a bullet, how do you let go your feelings over a crush of all things? One he was upfront about and probably wasn't sure if it was even that. OP is the problem, he actually did nothing wrong but was more than willing to work for trust that he probably never had in the first place and I hope he finds someone that isn't so quick to throw away a relationship for his honesty. No amount of excuses can be used to justify her reaction, and it's sad, if they'd had stayed together who knows what else she was going to use to break up with him. It could be as simple as liking another woman's hair style. Yeah no thanks, my wife had crushes before and it didn't bother me because that's all it was, we stay together all the time. I even ask her questions and share our opinions on things or who we like, acting on those emotions are what makes cheating actually cheating and not before. To throw away a relationship because of a crush he opened up to about will likely scar him for life to avoid being honest with their partner. It's just crazy to take drastic measures for literally no reason. (We all have had family issues like that, that doesn't make it your own issues and it's not fair to push that on a person that was honest with you especially if they haven't done anything)
The part where you caught your girlfriend messaging the groom on his wedding day was truly shocking. It's hard to believe she betrayed both you and her best friend like that. Stay strong.
I thoroughly enjoyed story1. I was denied the chance of revenge, she left the state with her ap. All I could do was block her everywhere and move on. Karma, however, had my back and did more damage to her than I could have ever done without going to prison.
Story 1: Kudos to op for the master plan!👏👏👏 That was the most satisfying revenge to hear, and I'm REALLY glad he didn't give any details about the "2 paragraphs" Tom made; that would've been traumatizing 💀💀 Story 2: Go to therapy.. You need professional help to overcome this.. Hope you're doing well now❤
How tf are people so twisted that they think they are at no fault for cheating and in fact blame the partners they betray? Such a disgusting lack of character
Personally I am 100% in favor of checking your partners phone if you are strongly suspecting cheating, you are not doing it for the sake of it, you are doing it because your partner is not being 100% trustful to you. With is a red flag. Also May would of find out Tom was a cheater eventually, is also funny to me that Op's ex is the classic cheater selfish only thinking about full filing her kink hurting everybody that shows her love.
Story 1: Wow, just ... wow! Before anyone blames OP for going overboard, it's really just a domino effect at work; all OP did was do the morally right thing by telling the AP's now-ex. This is something I would never understand with people that cheat on their significant others. Even if they love that thrill of seeking the forbidden fruit, do they ever stop to think about what happens if said fruit ends up being rotten, or it gets way out of reach and you can't fall back to your nest egg (which is equally bad, cause you're toying with the other party's feelings and emotions)? Plus, mighty rich of OP's ex-GF to act all high and mighty to call OP out for destroying her AP's affair, when HE did it himself by accepting the ex-GF's advances (or vice versa, we don't actually know). OP, I don't mind if you want to stick around with the AP's ex, but you HAVE to completely ghost your ex-GF and her AP, cause my gut tells me they will be back and come after you for ruining their plans.
But he was beginning to delve into an emotional connection with her and was being distant to OP. She felt repulsed by him and you can’t just suddenly make her not feel that way and stay.
Just started the video. Regardless of whether the girlfriend is cheating, if you've gone through her phone multiple times to prove she isn't cheating then it's time to break up. You don't trust her. Despite claiming that not finding proof previously made you trust her more. You clearly don't cause as you keep doing it.
@@_.Dxno_Octvne._ He said he trusted her but then he secretly searches her phone. So you should ask him. I"m clearly saying he doesn't trust her and should just end it and stop the snooping.
Agreed. She was clearly in the wrong but the fact that he felt he “had to know” what she was talking about or what she “might be hiding” is also weird. What if she wasn’t ready or she just needed space? He didn’t seem to trust her from the beginning and THIS TIME he had a reason not to
Exactly! That rubbed me the wrong way too. Especially if it turned out that she had nothing to hide and wasn't cheating, she would know that her bf doesn't trust her at all/ hast trust issues. And then his comment that "she ran like a fugitive"? Yeah, OP is definitely not my cup of tea
Hope the one night was worth ruining his marriage, losing the girl he was with since high school and getting beat up......as for the ex GF she just didn't ruin one relationship she ruined three AND had to leave the state
Why do cheaters beg to stay in a relationship? They obviously wanted something difference, so why are they like that, seem to be so scared of change? Is so weird for me.
Story 1: Very satisfying, you got your sweet revenge! That's what they deserve hosnestly Story 2: Well I mean... I don't think he did anything wrong but OP didn't do anything wrong either. No one is the asshole in this story. I feel like it's normal to have crushes from time to time as long as you don't do anything towards that crush. As for OP from her pov and from her experience, I understand that she was traumatized by cheating. I don't think anyone did anything wrong here
Don’t tell him that you know because it will give him time to make up lies to me and then she won’t believe you your best bet is to tell her and show her the proof
Damn imagine cheating on your woman on the day of your WEDDING... how freaking low can ppl go 🤢🤢🤢🤢 I'm so happy the wife decided to end it.. cus that was just TRIFLING
Story 2 - smart to get out. I unfortunately was an idiot, married him, 6 yrs later with 2 kids the lies started to trickle out. It started the same - girl at work, emotional affair, she eventually wanted more, he said nothing happened and supposedly cut off ties. I'm still mad at myself for being so trusting.
Story1: that’s a wild story. It’s incredible how you handled such a tough situation with so much composure and decisiveness. How did you stay so focused? Did you ever second-guess your actions?
I would have said, "I'll reconsider it in the future, but you have to prove it." Then just keep tabs occasionally on the other girl, and the moment she posts anything about him, send him a screenshot."Really? Thanks for proving my point. All you had to do was keep things professional with her and never date her"
The guy in the second story is good. Though they should 💯% breakup. If the relationship is too shallow it alternative interests reduce affection, it is not worth keeping. Sometimes people just do not click.
I will say this I've always found it interesting like oh they were Elementary School sweethearts who survived even being in a long distant relationship just to get back together then one of them sheets on them I don't get that is it because like you were with someone for so long you just want to try someone different
I gotta say with the first one that while he was totally right up to the point of telling the wife of the other guy, going and wrecking his ex’s career was a little far… that’s just my opinion tho
16:40 Second story: She subconsciously ended the romantic feelings she had for him at that point so I see no reason she shouldn't break up. If she herself has a reason not to break up then she should go to counseling just to better understand themselves, each other, and their options. Otherwise just end it.
The only thing that's absolutely not okay in the first story is the phone thing. That didn't make any sense, nor is this an okay thing to do if you "trust" your partner.
No because i was genuinely chuckling. This cheating dumbo really thought op would cover for her? I hope she gets a reminder of what she did every single day
I know it cought the cheater ehre but checking peoples phones is not harmless as they may catch you checking your phone and may break up the relationship due to a lack of trust, what people do know doesnt hurt them is bad logic
It's not your fault it's your girlfriend's fault because she was cheating on him with Tom and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to him and she doesn't deserve anything for cheating on him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and you don't have to apologize for anything.
Story 2 made no sense. You broke up with buddy because he had a crush? Dude didn’t even cheat. Just found someone that had a similar personality and interest as him. She insecure asf.
As she explained at the end, she has trauma that she clearly hasn't gotten any help for. Because of it, she wasn't willing to work together with her partner to move forward. If you can't work together with your partner, for both yours and your partner's sake, it's best to break up.
Why is it the guys fault yet again? They weren't even married. If she didn't like him, there wouldn't even have been a divorce. She could have just broken up and left and then sleep with someone. If someone cheats on a vindictive person, they had it coming.
Story 2: understandable for OP to give up on the relationship, but the man reacted as best as he could, no one can blame him for developping feelings for another, and he showed that he wasn't "sorry he was caught" like the other stories here, because he wasn't, he genuinely was torn inside and chose his GF over the other woman. Still, he loved another woman and that is a perfectly good reason to break up. I just don't think he's an asshole. Life sucks and shit just happens.
Dude you got cheated on, ruining her livelihood is something a woman would do. And if my ex's "biker relatives" showed up at my house to start problems I can guarantee they'd be leaving with their asses full of buckshot.
I love stories like the first one but you can not break up and throw out the cheaters stuff if they live with you 😂 in the US that’s illegal and cheater or not don’t do this stuff because if I was her he’d be arrested and owe money on top of being cheated on. Best revenge is living well
Because your interests are completely irrelevant to whether you are an alpha, beta, sigma, or whatever type of male. You can be an alpha and be into trivia, and it's common to want your future partner to share interests with you.
I understand the hurt feelings and cheating being bad, but to set up a harassment campaign against her and the other family going to what I can only assume is threaten the hell out of her? Sir you are a psycho and need help if you find that all funny.
That's when you treat someone other than your partner as though they were your partner. There's more to a relationship than sex, so cheating can be something other than sex. You wouldn't' want your partner to be distant with you because they are fulfilling their romantic needs with someone else
GF is so far into the affair fog that she blamed her bf for ruining the marriage. Ironic. In her mind she’s convinced herself she’s not the villain and didn’t do anything wrong
Well, as long as May doesn't find out, she didn't do anything wrong. But when may found out, she blamed her ex, because he told May. Typical logic of a cheater. "It's not a big deal, as long as he/she doesn't know".
cheater logic be like that
7:51 my brother, you are not the homewrecker. Your gf and that scumbag are the ones.
Lmao came to comment the same thing
It’s important to remember that the blame lies with those who betrayed him, not him.
absolutely right. You're not the homewrecker here. Your ex-girlfriend and Tom made their choices, and you're simply standing up for what's right
Absolutely right. You did the right thing by exposing the truth. They are responsible for their actions, not you.
Its always so frustrating to see people go, "Oooh, I ruined this family." after their partner took a sledgehammer to it 😭😭😭
Story 1 OP understood the beauty of revenge.
Not just revenge. Justice.
@@emperorconstantinexipalaio4121 Not just justice. Karma.
@@isabellawilliams30 not just karma but square
@@DragonOfTheMortalKombat not just square, but pie.
@@ArthurLodar Not just pie, but cake.
She sounds like a real winner. Leaves teaching to be an "influencer" LOL
I truly dont understand why people think revenge doesn't solve anything. I swear to God it does!!! It helps you heal and move on without the excess anger.
People often resort too fast to revenge when they have other emotional issues that need to be addressed. When they complete the revenge in that situation, they end up with even more emotional issues, especially when they realize the revenge didn't resolve anything, and may have even created barriers towards healing. And there's no way to know if that's your case before you try to get revenge. Plus, it has been shown that when you act out of anger, you train your brain to become more susceptible to anger in the future, which only causes more problems.
Basically, revenge might be extremely unhealthy for you, and since you don't know whether that's true for you or not until after you get revenge, you are gambling with your emotional health when you seek revenge.
Revenge on its own tends to be selfish and reckless. Justice, on the other hand, is a different story. While OP may have considered what he did to be revenge and it may have very well been that for him, it was also justice.
Story 1: Op went scorched earth and beyond.
Story 2: "I know I messed and I don't deserve you". It's so funny, they know the effed up but still begging for a second chance.
Story 2 what did he do that deserves even asking for an apology?
Story 2 you can’t control how you feel about people, but you can choose what you do with your emotions and he didn’t do anything. He did nothing wrong
Fr fr story 2 made no sense like did he not try to repair that trust?
They acknowledge they messed up but still have the audacity to beg for a second chance. It shows a lack of respect for the person they hurt.
they think what they do is "forgivable". So they beg for a second chance.
I hope the temptation was worth it when the bikers came knocking on his door
I can only imagine the drama that unfolded. Actions have consequences, and that must have been intense.
See there is an issue though with them visiting because that family's affiliation with that gang is known and the events just happened. That will 110% be used against her in court. So while they may have felt good doing that, they have utterly f***** her over.
The post-nut clarity and consequences lol
That’s messed up bruh, I had a lifelong friend of mine sleep with my girlfriend… totally senseless.
Sadlly those people were never friends to begin with them I'm sorry that you went through that bro
They are not your friend they don't do that and I am really sorry it happen to you
I honestly don’t understand how people do ish like that. And the fact she was the active pursuer too 🤢
Story (1) that was classic 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
The comments screaming "But he didn't have sex with her so it's not cheating. He can't help his feelings" are also the same ones that would scream "DUMP HER" if the roles were reversed. The fiance can't help but have a crush on his co worker but why invalidate OP who has every right to be upset about it?
Very wrong
Story 2: I mean, you can end a relationship for ANY reason you want…but imo i don’t think what the bf was THAT wrong…
Admitted he was developing a crush and backed away from her, started actively trying to better himself and was doing whatever he could to regain Op’s trust.
Again she doesn’t NEED to stay if she isn’t happy but i don’t think he’s the villain she thinks he is…
I was reading this story and in one of Op's comments she said that her ex fiance was actively taking her coworker on dates and dinners. So yeah it seems like he was starting something there before Op confronted him
Same honestly, the fact that he came clean about his developing feelings then stayed away after shows that he really did love her and hated that he gained those feelings. You can’t really control if you gain a crush on someone or not
@@bitviper3430 i mean yeah but I think we can control developing more the crush on someone, at first you can start distancing yourself so that feeling doesn't grow. OP's fiancé lacked to recognize that feeling and be able to put a stop to it.
@@mafer4443 Story 2 you can’t control how you feel about people, but you can choose what you do with your emotions and he didn’t do anything. He did nothing wrong
@@bitviper3430So OP can't also help it if she starts liking other guys?
in story one op made a whole new level of revenge
Wait till you hear the 50 min one.
@@Lucky_Soleil ooooooh where
@@Das_P-vq7kz "fooled my cheating STBEXW into thinking I'm cheating, then go thermo-nuclear on her" look that up in RUclips it's from telltales
@@Lucky_Soleil what 50 minute one??? TELL USS
@@Undersing13 Okay I'm sorry😭
"I fooled my STBEXW into thinking I'm cheating then went thermo-nuclear" go look that up on RUclips.
story 1 had the best revange ever.
Everyone responds differently infidelity
Story 1: OP a real G
Its funny how the ex blames op for ,"Ruining the marriage" when she is the one who ruined
story 2: bro her previous relationship was 10 years long, this one was 4 years. how is she ever going to gain the trust to date anybody?
Story 2. He didn't do anything wrong. He had a crush. And he worked and showed u that he was willing to work to be better. A hell of a lot of men will never do that. He came clean he loves u. I think u should have given him a chance
Once you turn off your feelings of love there’s no way of getting them back so it’s better to end a relationship before you hurt someone what op did is the right thing as she was no longer in love but more so hate and it’s not good to remain in a relationship when you hate someone
L take honestly
He did everything right after confrontation but the fact of the matter is that she was unable to trust him anymore and she had withdrawn from the relationship. You can’t force her to stay if she is repulsed by him. It just wasn’t meant to be. I’m sure he’s remorseful and I hope he does better in life but actions do have consequences and a consequence, in this case, was that she lost her trust in him. Pretty sad story all around. That’s why you have to really make sure you’re not getting caught up in childish crushes when you’re already committed.
Why’d they beat up the guy but just scare the girl? I’m no advocate of violence, but it’s seems people are more ok with physical violence towards men than towards women. I just don’t like double standards.
Women are, on average, physically weaker. So we don't let men and women, for example, in the boxing ring together. Unless the guy say he's a "woman", then it's fine, you wail on the poor cow.
Because men understand the language of getting a punch in the face, Physical altercations is how men settle things, I bet Tom will remember that 'conversation' in the future and think twice,
Women are always 'victims' in their own minds, Doing the same thing to them is only going to reinforce this mentality,
Batman: The Hammer of Justice is Unisex.
@thisismyelement OMG thank you. I literally thought the same thing. I said why they beat him up and not also her? Why didn't they get a woman to do it because they both deserve an ass whooping. The double standard is sick and vile.
Guys are physically stronger and so it makes more sense for men to fight each other than to beat someone who is less capable of defending herself.
Never cheat on a biker family 😅
Bro finally no AI story
Sounds actually real
You have nothing to prove that some of these are or aren't ai. Stop ruining the thrill of the story. Fiction or not.
@@Lucky_Soleil people have a very specific lexicon. The AI has shown time and time again it has its own lexicon when being asked to write reddit stories. It’s very easy to catch. Usually in the updates or just how absurd the stories are. It’s always in there somewhere but even an AI can and has developed a lexicon when using its archive of reddit stories it’s trying to imitate.
@@firehot427 that's nice. My opinion still stands, fiction or not it's fun to watch.
@@Lucky_SoleilFag
S1: Cheaters verdict... retribution.
S2: Therapy pls.
Story 1: really cool revenge
Story 2: bro dodged a bullet, how do you let go your feelings over a crush of all things? One he was upfront about and probably wasn't sure if it was even that. OP is the problem, he actually did nothing wrong but was more than willing to work for trust that he probably never had in the first place and I hope he finds someone that isn't so quick to throw away a relationship for his honesty. No amount of excuses can be used to justify her reaction, and it's sad, if they'd had stayed together who knows what else she was going to use to break up with him. It could be as simple as liking another woman's hair style. Yeah no thanks, my wife had crushes before and it didn't bother me because that's all it was, we stay together all the time. I even ask her questions and share our opinions on things or who we like, acting on those emotions are what makes cheating actually cheating and not before. To throw away a relationship because of a crush he opened up to about will likely scar him for life to avoid being honest with their partner. It's just crazy to take drastic measures for literally no reason. (We all have had family issues like that, that doesn't make it your own issues and it's not fair to push that on a person that was honest with you especially if they haven't done anything)
Bikers roughed him up and scared the crap out of the GF. I was literally smiling inside.
Story 1 that’s my kind of petty lol
The part where you caught your girlfriend messaging the groom on his wedding day was truly shocking. It's hard to believe she betrayed both you and her best friend like that.
Stay strong.
Story 2: yeah, trust is gone after the cheating. There's no coming back.
He didn't cheat tho
@@MrSircharles05 how do we know
@@MrSircharles05I mean sure ig but he definitely isn’t loyal
@@MrSircharles05he was emotionally cheating on her and normally that how an affair begins
@@MrSircharles05you sound like the kind of person who would blow a gasket if the roles were reversed
I thoroughly enjoyed story1. I was denied the chance of revenge, she left the state with her ap. All I could do was block her everywhere and move on. Karma, however, had my back and did more damage to her than I could have ever done without going to prison.
Story 1: Kudos to op for the master plan!👏👏👏 That was the most satisfying revenge to hear, and I'm REALLY glad he didn't give any details about the "2 paragraphs" Tom made; that would've been traumatizing 💀💀
Story 2: Go to therapy.. You need professional help to overcome this.. Hope you're doing well now❤
How tf are people so twisted that they think they are at no fault for cheating and in fact blame the partners they betray? Such a disgusting lack of character
Personally I am 100% in favor of checking your partners phone if you are strongly suspecting cheating, you are not doing it for the sake of it, you are doing it because your partner is not being 100% trustful to you. With is a red flag.
Also May would of find out Tom was a cheater eventually, is also funny to me that Op's ex is the classic cheater selfish only thinking about full filing her kink hurting everybody that shows her love.
Story 1: Wow, just ... wow! Before anyone blames OP for going overboard, it's really just a domino effect at work; all OP did was do the morally right thing by telling the AP's now-ex.
This is something I would never understand with people that cheat on their significant others. Even if they love that thrill of seeking the forbidden fruit, do they ever stop to think about what happens if said fruit ends up being rotten, or it gets way out of reach and you can't fall back to your nest egg (which is equally bad, cause you're toying with the other party's feelings and emotions)? Plus, mighty rich of OP's ex-GF to act all high and mighty to call OP out for destroying her AP's affair, when HE did it himself by accepting the ex-GF's advances (or vice versa, we don't actually know).
OP, I don't mind if you want to stick around with the AP's ex, but you HAVE to completely ghost your ex-GF and her AP, cause my gut tells me they will be back and come after you for ruining their plans.
2nd story.......he only had a crush and he didn't cheat.............yeah OP is nuts
But he was beginning to delve into an emotional connection with her and was being distant to OP. She felt repulsed by him and you can’t just suddenly make her not feel that way and stay.
Tom should call the cops on the people who who beat him up in a restraining order
Just started the video. Regardless of whether the girlfriend is cheating, if you've gone through her phone multiple times to prove she isn't cheating then it's time to break up. You don't trust her. Despite claiming that not finding proof previously made you trust her more. You clearly don't cause as you keep doing it.
How tf is he supposed to trust her if she doesn't let him, he clearly searched her phone bc she gave him a reason to doubt her fidelity
@@_.Dxno_Octvne._ He said he trusted her but then he secretly searches her phone. So you should ask him.
I"m clearly saying he doesn't trust her and should just end it and stop the snooping.
Agreed. She was clearly in the wrong but the fact that he felt he “had to know” what she was talking about or what she “might be hiding” is also weird. What if she wasn’t ready or she just needed space? He didn’t seem to trust her from the beginning and THIS TIME he had a reason not to
Exactly! That rubbed me the wrong way too. Especially if it turned out that she had nothing to hide and wasn't cheating, she would know that her bf doesn't trust her at all/ hast trust issues. And then his comment that "she ran like a fugitive"? Yeah, OP is definitely not my cup of tea
Hope the one night was worth ruining his marriage, losing the girl he was with since high school and getting beat up......as for the ex GF she just didn't ruin one relationship she ruined three AND had to leave the state
Lol the long-term post-nut clarity was insane
Why do cheaters beg to stay in a relationship? They obviously wanted something difference, so why are they like that, seem to be so scared of change? Is so weird for me.
I just love a good vengeance story
Loved this story
Story 1: Very satisfying, you got your sweet revenge! That's what they deserve hosnestly
Story 2: Well I mean... I don't think he did anything wrong but OP didn't do anything wrong either. No one is the asshole in this story. I feel like it's normal to have crushes from time to time as long as you don't do anything towards that crush. As for OP from her pov and from her experience, I understand that she was traumatized by cheating. I don't think anyone did anything wrong here
Story 1: He had a spine of steel. W
Don’t tell him that you know because it will give him time to make up lies to me and then she won’t believe you your best bet is to tell her and show her the proof
Damn imagine cheating on your woman on the day of your WEDDING... how freaking low can ppl go 🤢🤢🤢🤢 I'm so happy the wife decided to end it.. cus that was just TRIFLING
Story 2 - smart to get out. I unfortunately was an idiot, married him, 6 yrs later with 2 kids the lies started to trickle out. It started the same - girl at work, emotional affair, she eventually wanted more, he said nothing happened and supposedly cut off ties. I'm still mad at myself for being so trusting.
Good for op in the first story
Story1: that’s a wild story. It’s incredible how you handled such a tough situation with so much composure and decisiveness. How did you stay so focused? Did you ever second-guess your actions?
I would have said, "I'll reconsider it in the future, but you have to prove it." Then just keep tabs occasionally on the other girl, and the moment she posts anything about him, send him a screenshot."Really? Thanks for proving my point. All you had to do was keep things professional with her and never date her"
Dope revenge
Juicyyyyy story!!!
That's the best story i have ever heard
The guy in the second story is good.
Though they should 💯% breakup.
If the relationship is too shallow it alternative interests reduce affection, it is not worth keeping.
Sometimes people just do not click.
One of my favs so far❤
Weirdo
Story 2 .....u made urself a victim u probably threw away the real one without even trying .....2 be honest I think he dodged the grenade for real
Sheesh scorched earth indeed, maybe too scorched.
Tell the new wife she can get it annulled
Story 1 , i just want to say is i know how op felt when he read those messages. I have been in the same situation.
I will say this I've always found it interesting like oh they were Elementary School sweethearts who survived even being in a long distant relationship just to get back together then one of them sheets on them I don't get that is it because like you were with someone for so long you just want to try someone different
I gotta say with the first one that while he was totally right up to the point of telling the wife of the other guy, going and wrecking his ex’s career was a little far… that’s just my opinion tho
2x speed!
To be honest I'm not defending the cheating people on the first one the ex groom could sue the family cause it isn't self defense
16:40 Second story: She subconsciously ended the romantic feelings she had for him at that point so I see no reason she shouldn't break up. If she herself has a reason not to break up then she should go to counseling just to better understand themselves, each other, and their options. Otherwise just end it.
The only thing that's absolutely not okay in the first story is the phone thing. That didn't make any sense, nor is this an okay thing to do if you "trust" your partner.
No because i was genuinely chuckling. This cheating dumbo really thought op would cover for her? I hope she gets a reminder of what she did every single day
I know it cought the cheater ehre but checking peoples phones is not harmless as they may catch you checking your phone and may break up the relationship due to a lack of trust, what people do know doesnt hurt them is bad logic
It's not your fault it's your girlfriend's fault because she was cheating on him with Tom and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to him and she doesn't deserve anything for cheating on him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and you don't have to apologize for anything.
Taylor i want to tell you a thing
2nd story deserves to be alone and look for somebody else. The other guy at least has somebody else waiting for him that may love him.
Second OP is going to be all alone with cats.
And those cats will be more trustworthy than her ex.
@@Mugen-sc Suuuurreee .... previous relationship 10 years.... current one 4 years...... yup.... cats
@@edwo6648 okay that aside, why the use of that many full stops?
@@Mugen-sc Blade and Bow Bourbon. Does a body good.
Still should have rebounded with May.
Story 2 made no sense. You broke up with buddy because he had a crush? Dude didn’t even cheat. Just found someone that had a similar personality and interest as him. She insecure asf.
Just wanna be half as genius as the guy from story 1
Bruh in the secound story the fiance is 10 years older than the op? Ok what is going on out there
Honestly I don’t understand why OP2 broke up with the guy. No one can control whether they like someone or not.
As she explained at the end, she has trauma that she clearly hasn't gotten any help for. Because of it, she wasn't willing to work together with her partner to move forward. If you can't work together with your partner, for both yours and your partner's sake, it's best to break up.
It is a sign the relationship is too shallow, if affection is removed by alternative romantic/sexual interests.
no one cares if you're first
Well said.
Claiming "first" isn't for anyone else other than the commenter though. No one that posts "first" cares that no one cares.
Story 1: Hmm, just spitballing here, but maybe this vindictive side is why he had a girlfriend who wanted to cheat.
Why is it the guys fault yet again? They weren't even married. If she didn't like him, there wouldn't even have been a divorce. She could have just broken up and left and then sleep with someone. If someone cheats on a vindictive person, they had it coming.
Story 2: understandable for OP to give up on the relationship, but the man reacted as best as he could, no one can blame him for developping feelings for another, and he showed that he wasn't "sorry he was caught" like the other stories here, because he wasn't, he genuinely was torn inside and chose his GF over the other woman.
Still, he loved another woman and that is a perfectly good reason to break up. I just don't think he's an asshole. Life sucks and shit just happens.
Dude you got cheated on, ruining her livelihood is something a woman would do. And if my ex's "biker relatives" showed up at my house to start problems I can guarantee they'd be leaving with their asses full of buckshot.
I love stories like the first one but you can not break up and throw out the cheaters stuff if they live with you 😂 in the US that’s illegal and cheater or not don’t do this stuff because if I was her he’d be arrested and owe money on top of being cheated on. Best revenge is living well
therapy
Dude think we need more "female trivia influencers". Why not just SCREAM from the highest mountain, "I AM A BETA LOSER!"?
Because your interests are completely irrelevant to whether you are an alpha, beta, sigma, or whatever type of male. You can be an alpha and be into trivia, and it's common to want your future partner to share interests with you.
I understand the hurt feelings and cheating being bad, but to set up a harassment campaign against her and the other family going to what I can only assume is threaten the hell out of her? Sir you are a psycho and need help if you find that all funny.
Izz so easy to be under hour from zis chanel
LOL. We actually need LESS women on the internet
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Sigma
Emotional cheating? What the heck is this feminist sounding bs?
That's when you treat someone other than your partner as though they were your partner. There's more to a relationship than sex, so cheating can be something other than sex. You wouldn't' want your partner to be distant with you because they are fulfilling their romantic needs with someone else
@@sharingheart13 ah, well, I'm resolved to never be in a relationship so, I suppose it doesn't affect me. but thanks for the explanation
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