The fact that even when broken up, and cut off from everyone, she’s STILL lying, trying to shift blame and trying to gaslight while incriminating herself with the pictures of her cheating is just…pathetically hilarious
Or they don't want to be on Op's bad side. She is the one that is making successful children and ex is just a brown noser. Can't really brag about how great your grandkids are if they hate you too.
Or that she tried this on them before. But the fact that he said "she cheated" and their daughter said "there wasn't even a guy" kinda shows that OP is onto something.
She had to have done that before and gotten away with it but seems to forget that he's not stuoid or part of the party crowd and likely doesn't do elicits for that excuse to work
Her friend has NO ROOM to even speak to OP afterwards, being the fact that she dry snitched on her and literally blew up everything. She, as well as the ex ain't 💩.
Honestly, I don't get the dynamic there. She sends OP some pics to inform him, then goes fully on his gf's side for the rest of the night... Is it that she didn't like OP, or was jealous? I don't get her angle.
Same, I didn’t understand her logic. If she’s gonna defend OP’s ex, then why reveal to OP that she’s cheating? She probably did that because she was jealous that the ex was with the guy and so exposed her to OP as revenge 🤷♀️
Story 1: She F around and found out Story 2: Notice how the ex suddenly was all apologetic when he got outed for being a crap human being. He not sorry for cheating or failing as a father, he was sorry for being outed to his family
@@RandomTrinidadian sorry for the late response the thing is I feel like society has prioritized women to be less hurt as possible and men to be shamed and humiliated the second he screws up
1st story: She literally recited the narcissist prayer and didn't even know it That didn't happen. (Denies that she made out with the guy) And if it did, it wasn't that bad. (Claims she was drunk and a one time thing And if it was, that's not a big deal. (Downplays it as small and claims he's gay and nothing more happens) And if it is, that's not my fault. (Blames alcohol and blames and gaslights OP for showing up ) And if it was, I didn't mean it. (Plays victim to make it seem like OP was at fault for everything) And if I did, you deserved it. (Tries to make everything OPs fault in the eyes of her parents and social media then tells OP a bunch of BS to justify her cheating)
You know, some people choose their degree not to pursue a career and take care of themselves, but because it is the easiest way to get a diploma while partying without much consequences and figuring out the next man/woman/family to latch on.
@@karinefonte516 I knew a guy with a psychology masters degree. He worked in a paper warehouse filling orders for print shops. That was over 20 years ago. No telling where he is now.
Story 1. Think about this. The parents of the daughter don't allow her around anymore. Can you imagine how bad it has to be to where they won't let their homeless daughter back in?
“I wasn’t giving her enough attention” If she wanted Ops attention why didn’t she just oh I don’t know…talked to him instead of gaslighting him and getting her E girls to bash Op online?
My bad..DooL - Days of our Lives - not what spellcheck saw fit to insert... although I'm not sure how that happened since doul isn't even an English word!?!??
Story 2: The second wife baby trapped him. Well… you got exactly what you wanted. If he won’t leave you voluntarily and you have to baby trap the guy to get him to be together with you then you’re in for a real treat! Double karma if he’s already in a relationship. Good luck with that. You’re about to learn a very very hard life lesson.
Story 2: That last response is crazy. People really don’t know what it means to “dodge a bullet”😭. If u have 3 kids with someone and they cheat on you with a girl right out of HS, you did not “dodge a bullet”, you survived a shooting. You dodge a bullet if you find out they were cheating before you get married or have kids.
Wait, hang on, she tells him she's got a headache and then ghosts him like something went wrong and for some reason HE'S in the wrong for being a good enough person to go check on her? That doesn't sound like a 'you don't trust me' moment, that sounds like a 'this is genuinely a good person' moment.. HANG ON HANG ON?!-- Which is it? Does he not want to go out or is she embarrassed to be seen with him? Was the AP forcing her or was OP just not giving her enough attention? Girl can't even get her excuses straight, what the heck?
First story: Dude, you’re really taking seriously a club/party girl who loves to frequent these places without you? You wanna make her your wife? That’s a mistake you could make at 19/20/21 not 28.😅 you deserve what you get. You should be smarter than that. Unless clubbing and partying is your thing too, you shouldn’t be trying to lock down a girl who isn’t out of that phase, preferably, never had that phase, and it’s just ready to sit at home or focus on work.
You can tell it’s fake by how these are all written, but some are entertaining. It’s like a mix between what you’d think someone writes on Reddit and the way you’d write a book
@@Catherine.Dorian. Update 3 op - (contemplating “ending it all”)I spend my days going through the motions, nothing can fill my emptiness Also Op - (after gym) I’ve been feeling a whole better
@@MrArielK Yeah that's what happens when you go to the gym and gain some confidence as a result... A lot of people have said this about working out lol
Another "empowered" woman who thinks spreading around and mooching on friends/lovers and relatives, instead of getting a grip of your own life and being responsible for her own actions, is the way to go.
I can't understand cheaters that put everything at risk by cheating the other one who is providing you. If you are a functional adult with a job and means to be on your own, well... You are still a PoS but you are not financially ruining your life (Not counting divorce).
"Living his karma" Well, considering Karma doesn't exist, that's not really the case. However, he certainly is reaping what he has sown. You sow seeds of bs, lies, and betrayal, and you will certainly reap the full amount of consequences to each of your actions.
Honestly? Re story one: OP is not the AH, but the parents are the AH to kick your daughter out because they cheated on their boyfriend seems excessive.
My guess is that shes a habitual liar, and having raised her she probably lied constantly about everything growing up and they are just done with it at this point.
Like Dank said, there are a lot of hints that suggests the parents have grown sick and tired of their daughter's wayward ways. How they immediately believed him, how they clung onto him, how they dropped her, how they pointed out the ways she screwed up.... It kinda paints a picture of a person that habitually disregards accountability and was on super thin ice with her folks until OP came into the picture. Hoping he could be a positive influence in her life, they gave her one last chance, but then she blew it by blowing it.
Kudos for the 1st stories parents. I would also disown my child for this. There are multiple ways how you can traverse all of this before cheating, I value blood but I value morality more, i don't want by blood to be a stain to progress of humanity, i'm not asking for my children to achieve great heights, i simply wish for them to lead a decent life and find happiness in it, if they achieve something it's a bonus to be proud about. Cheating if husband is abusive and controlling, like really abusive and controlling where he physically and with threats arrests any movement MAYBE but only if the girl doesn't have any relatives to rely upon any other reason is lack of morality. Anyway I hold great respect for her parents, i highly doubt that their no-contact period will last very long, I foresee 2 options, 1st she is big child who will live in a car and do dubious stuff only to finally fall back again to her parents who are parents and will take her back but with heavy sanctions. Or the child grows up after sniffing the life of the streets, finds another man tries to control her animal instincts, finds a decent man again and family will have some reconciliation. Sadly for her she lost respect from her parents the girl is 25 years old who still liked to party, why are you getting into relationship girl, to find a hubby who will support you to escape your parents warden like regime?
@@MrArielK no, I have never dyed my hair, I am just curious as to why people are so opposed to people changing their hair colors. Like- I mean- let people live?
if something is too good to be true it usually isnt, i might sound cinical but well thats what i have seen so far, almost always there is a catch, serious relathionships take time to know each other, if it happens fast, in most cases it wont last
I think it’s like, the more you use Snapchat by talking to people, the bigger the “score” gets - so OP knew she was talking to someone other than him when he messaged her because the number went up much higher than it would do if she was only messaging him and then putting her phone down. Hope that helps.
So you're going to cheat and not get this person that you cheating with to help find your lifestyle? I never understood that with people. So that person is good enough for you to allow inside your body, but he's not good enough to pay some bills for you? Which is actually just normal for cheaters you want to cheat with somebody the physical side because oh you're not home all the time you're working all the time but that is the person that's financially supporting your lazy ass. But, you're sleeping with the other person but you can't even get a red cent from them to pay your light bill or your car insurance.
Your gf goea to clubs with single friends? Yout gf will cheat. There is a reason why every man secure enough on the relationship consideres partying a hard boundry
a cheaters first response after getting caught is always redirect and gaslight. would not suprise me she had been cheating on him the entire relationship S2: lol the serial cheating ex is delusional enough to think OP will get back with him after 18+ years of constant cheating and being a deadbeat to his kids. there is special kind of stupid and there is this guy
i can't stand cheaters but when he said all he likes doing is sitting around like a slug and play video games all day/night instead of going out with her i could tell he was/is a loser that deserved getting cheated on.....i mean every thing he said spells loser........no woman is going to faithful to a man that acts like this......
The gaslighting one wanted a masters in psychology 😂
Psychology is a joke and is dumb, it doesn't exist haha
To improve her ability to gaslight of course
@@Montyandrew45lmao naturally
@@Montyandrew45 Apparently, she must have cheated to get the Bachelor because she failed miserably lol
The only involvement she should have in psychology is as an in-patient
The fact that even when broken up, and cut off from everyone, she’s STILL lying, trying to shift blame and trying to gaslight while incriminating herself with the pictures of her cheating is just…pathetically hilarious
She’s just in denial XD
i dont know what is more hilarious. this or someone who wants to get into relationship with girl who parties...
Honestly, the fact that ex’s mom _immediately_ believed OP over ex tells me that this isn’t the first time ex cheated on her SO with someone.
Or they don't want to be on Op's bad side. She is the one that is making successful children and ex is just a brown noser. Can't really brag about how great your grandkids are if they hate you too.
@@BaeBunni I think they were talking about the first story
Or that she tried this on them before. But the fact that he said "she cheated" and their daughter said "there wasn't even a guy" kinda shows that OP is onto something.
on him *
@@somechannel2461it said EX did it. Not OP. OP was the victim of cheating. Ex was the cheater.
"There was no guy!" She rlly wants him to think he is delutional
"There was no guy" while posting pictures of the guy that wasn't there.
Clearly she is the delusional one
She had to have done that before and gotten away with it but seems to forget that he's not stuoid or part of the party crowd and likely doesn't do elicits for that excuse to work
She tried a Jedi Mind Trick but forgot the somatic components.
That girl cray cray
Her friend has NO ROOM to even speak to OP afterwards, being the fact that she dry snitched on her and literally blew up everything. She, as well as the ex ain't 💩.
Honestly, I don't get the dynamic there. She sends OP some pics to inform him, then goes fully on his gf's side for the rest of the night...
Is it that she didn't like OP, or was jealous? I don't get her angle.
Same, I didn’t understand her logic. If she’s gonna defend OP’s ex, then why reveal to OP that she’s cheating? She probably did that because she was jealous that the ex was with the guy and so exposed her to OP as revenge 🤷♀️
@@Maninawigshe's stupid, that's her angle
Maybe other freind
“His throat was down her throat. How does that make sense?”
Indeed lol
he meant tongue
@@AmazeFaceStill that is some fucked up gore 40k horror image lol
@@fildariusv7045 no. I was just bored and i choose a random img from my device ;-;
You just had to make me imagine it.. 😭@@fildariusv7045
Exactly my thought. My mind is in process of comprehensing the uncomprehensible.@@fildariusv7045
Tbh he's lucky that she asked her parents if he could marry her because then they would have believed her lies about him wanting to get rid of her.
Story 1: Is literally the Shaggy song😂
“You really gunna believe what you saw over ME?” 😂😂
“It wasn’t me!” 😂
Story 1: She F around and found out
Story 2: Notice how the ex suddenly was all apologetic when he got outed for being a crap human being.
He not sorry for cheating or failing as a father, he was sorry for being outed to his family
Hey why are you being more mad qbout the guy when story 1 ex hurt the guy very bad
@@dragonfire-ew7bb why do I have a feeling you would be just as critical if I was dumping more on the ex in the first story?
@@RandomTrinidadian sorry for the late response the thing is I feel like society has prioritized women to be less hurt as possible and men to be shamed and humiliated the second he screws up
The trouble with dating a party girl, as opposed to a girl who likes to party, is that they never want the party to end.
1st story: She literally recited the narcissist prayer and didn't even know it
That didn't happen.
(Denies that she made out with the guy)
And if it did, it wasn't that bad.
(Claims she was drunk and a one time thing
And if it was, that's not a big deal.
(Downplays it as small and claims he's gay and nothing more happens)
And if it is, that's not my fault.
(Blames alcohol and blames and gaslights OP for showing up )
And if it was, I didn't mean it.
(Plays victim to make it seem like OP was at fault for everything)
And if I did, you deserved it.
(Tries to make everything OPs fault in the eyes of her parents and social media then tells OP a bunch of BS to justify her cheating)
Nice catch. It was so much grasping at straws that I didn't catch it myself.
“You’re going to believe your lying eyes over me?”
The irony of her wanting a masters in psychology 😂
It’s so she can manipulate better, duh?
Maybe she can make use of her bachelors degree in psychology in order to analyse herself lol
You know, some people choose their degree not to pursue a career and take care of themselves, but because it is the easiest way to get a diploma while partying without much consequences and figuring out the next man/woman/family to latch on.
@@karinefonte516 I knew a guy with a psychology masters degree. He worked in a paper warehouse filling orders for print shops. That was over 20 years ago. No telling where he is now.
Dude bank rolled her entire existence then had the audacity to ask how she'd pay her bills without his money lol
Story 1. Think about this. The parents of the daughter don't allow her around anymore. Can you imagine how bad it has to be to where they won't let their homeless daughter back in?
'there was no guy there, you're delusional' lol.. even when she's caught redhanded, this women still refuses to take accountabillity.
Sometimes, cheating can cost you
"Maybe I was blowing things out of proportion" apparently not
Music festival + purple hair and bros alarm bells were not ringing? Smh
“I wasn’t giving her enough attention”
If she wanted Ops attention why didn’t she just oh I don’t know…talked to him instead of gaslighting him and getting her E girls to bash Op online?
Story 2: he regrets stepping out on the marriage, so his plan to win his ex-wife back is to step out even more and be a crappier husband?
>purple hair
That's where it started
Agree...only older ladies should wear 'purple' hair & even then, it's a lovely shade of lavender 🧓
For sure it's a woke woman, which is a huge red flag.
man these stories are garbage but they're so entertaining! i'm pretty sure they're rotting my brain
Exactly how I feel, i put them on while working and they are great to pass the time.
@@dankolaska4277 same... easier as audio as opposed to B&B/DouL daily soap opera shows!
My bad..DooL - Days of our Lives - not what spellcheck saw fit to insert... although I'm not sure how that happened since doul isn't even an English word!?!??
Not only are they rotting my brain but they're ruining my ability to trust people and navigate life ngl
Not only are they rotting my brain but they're ruining my ability to trust people and navigate life ngl
Story 2: The second wife baby trapped him. Well… you got exactly what you wanted. If he won’t leave you voluntarily and you have to baby trap the guy to get him to be together with you then you’re in for a real treat! Double karma if he’s already in a relationship. Good luck with that. You’re about to learn a very very hard life lesson.
Story 2: That last response is crazy. People really don’t know what it means to “dodge a bullet”😭. If u have 3 kids with someone and they cheat on you with a girl right out of HS, you did not “dodge a bullet”, you survived a shooting.
You dodge a bullet if you find out they were cheating before you get married or have kids.
"Her purple hair"
Aaaaah, there it is!
S1 - she says he doesn't trust after proving she isn't trustworthy.
Never date people that still go out clubbing
Story 1 OP found and started dating a clown, and got surprised when his relationship turned into a circus. He should have known better.
Wait, hang on, she tells him she's got a headache and then ghosts him like something went wrong and for some reason HE'S in the wrong for being a good enough person to go check on her? That doesn't sound like a 'you don't trust me' moment, that sounds like a 'this is genuinely a good person' moment..
HANG ON HANG ON?!-- Which is it? Does he not want to go out or is she embarrassed to be seen with him? Was the AP forcing her or was OP just not giving her enough attention? Girl can't even get her excuses straight, what the heck?
First story LOL that girlfriend is the definition of somebody living out of their van down by the river
lol that friend of hers is essentially the one that snitched on her, then calls him a POS. That's so fucking toxic bro lmao
First story: Dude, you’re really taking seriously a club/party girl who loves to frequent these places without you? You wanna make her your wife? That’s a mistake you could make at 19/20/21 not 28.😅 you deserve what you get. You should be smarter than that. Unless clubbing and partying is your thing too, you shouldn’t be trying to lock down a girl who isn’t out of that phase, preferably, never had that phase, and it’s just ready to sit at home or focus on work.
Damn, the second story the assistants name is my name😭😭😭
Her behaviour and gaslighting shows how large the bullet was that you dodged.
Story 2: “she got pregnant on purpose so he couldn’t leave” Imagine being so stupid you end up babytrapping yourself into an abusive marriage😭
And Then The Whole Bus Clapped
You can tell it’s fake by how these are all written, but some are entertaining. It’s like a mix between what you’d think someone writes on Reddit and the way you’d write a book
@@Catherine.Dorian. Update 3 op - (contemplating “ending it all”)I spend my days going through the motions, nothing can fill my emptiness
Also Op - (after gym) I’ve been feeling a whole better
@@MrArielKthats usually a common effect of the gym, yes.
@@MrArielK Yeah that's what happens when you go to the gym and gain some confidence as a result... A lot of people have said this about working out lol
It started to feel fake when he started describing where they first met lol
Another "empowered" woman who thinks spreading around and mooching on friends/lovers and relatives, instead of getting a grip of your own life and being responsible for her own actions, is the way to go.
Purged all her friends and family on social media.
"Purple hair", well that should have been big enough of a warning sign.
Some just don't know. But they should.
She started as a manic pixie dreamgirl, and ended a got dayum psycho nightmare.
Cheaters are only sorry when caught
Yep purple hair makes sense
Lol on behalf of the purple haired girls we don't claim her
Yeah, avoid those. Especially met at a festival!??? God damn.
I can't understand cheaters that put everything at risk by cheating the other one who is providing you. If you are a functional adult with a job and means to be on your own, well... You are still a PoS but you are not financially ruining your life (Not counting divorce).
Red flag Numero uno! Purple hair!
Going for a Masters in psychology is very on brand.
exercising is good bc being physically active can help you lead a healthier and happier life.
Me with my best David Attenburer impression: ah the rare gfeticus gaslightus or the gaslighting girlfriend
Imagine dating a festival girl 😂 the ending was inevitable
She fucking pulled the Bladerunner lady on him 💀 "you look lonely"
7:30 “he’s gay but his throat is down her throat” yeah it rlly doesn’t make sense like tf is u tawking about🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨
one of the most pathetic attempts at gaslighting i have ever seen
My guess is she tried crashing at her friends place and they ended up fighting about who’s fault the situation was
In story two of something like that happened to me and my ex texted me "thank you for ruining my family" I would respond with "you're welcome"
"Living his karma"
Well, considering Karma doesn't exist, that's not really the case. However, he certainly is reaping what he has sown. You sow seeds of bs, lies, and betrayal, and you will certainly reap the full amount of consequences to each of your actions.
This man is savage asf 💀💀💀☢️☢️☢️
The gym helps every time
I am so glad i won't have to deal with shit like this being aroace makes me feel so powerful right now
YTA for giving your kids those names 💀
Lol you have no right of showing up like that and disrupting her 304 activities? XD
Honestly? Re story one: OP is not the AH, but the parents are the AH to kick your daughter out because they cheated on their boyfriend seems excessive.
My guess is that shes a habitual liar, and having raised her she probably lied constantly about everything growing up and they are just done with it at this point.
@@dankolaska4277 that’s super convenient given the amount of unnecessary detail the story has
Like Dank said, there are a lot of hints that suggests the parents have grown sick and tired of their daughter's wayward ways. How they immediately believed him, how they clung onto him, how they dropped her, how they pointed out the ways she screwed up....
It kinda paints a picture of a person that habitually disregards accountability and was on super thin ice with her folks until OP came into the picture. Hoping he could be a positive influence in her life, they gave her one last chance, but then she blew it by blowing it.
Honestly his own fault for thinking a hedonistic party girl was wife material
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These stories are obviously fabricated but very entertaining.
Kudos for the 1st stories parents. I would also disown my child for this. There are multiple ways how you can traverse all of this before cheating, I value blood but I value morality more, i don't want by blood to be a stain to progress of humanity, i'm not asking for my children to achieve great heights, i simply wish for them to lead a decent life and find happiness in it, if they achieve something it's a bonus to be proud about. Cheating if husband is abusive and controlling, like really abusive and controlling where he physically and with threats arrests any movement MAYBE but only if the girl doesn't have any relatives to rely upon any other reason is lack of morality.
Anyway I hold great respect for her parents, i highly doubt that their no-contact period will last very long, I foresee 2 options, 1st she is big child who will live in a car and do dubious stuff only to finally fall back again to her parents who are parents and will take her back but with heavy sanctions. Or the child grows up after sniffing the life of the streets, finds another man tries to control her animal instincts, finds a decent man again and family will have some reconciliation.
Sadly for her she lost respect from her parents the girl is 25 years old who still liked to party, why are you getting into relationship girl, to find a hubby who will support you to escape your parents warden like regime?
Club girls will always be club girls
Dodged a goddamn nuke.
He didn't spell it correctly: the master was in psyhoelogy.
Lizzie: how to make ppl proud? Get pregnant xD!
The ex’s in both stories are losers
Take notes guys. The gym helps. Idk how to explain it, but it does.
That last one BRU
Purple hair was the first red flag
Personally I don't think hair colors are problem. Idk why people are against them tbh
@@iamjustagirlintheworldd only makes sense if you’re redpill or incel
@@MrArielK no, I have never dyed my hair, I am just curious as to why people are so opposed to people changing their hair colors. Like- I mean- let people live?
@@iamjustagirlintheworlddit's usually the blue haired twitter Karen's that you should watch out for
@@NagoBust idk man I don't use twitter so I didn't know that😭😭
I know most of these stories are fake cause who uses facebook
To be fair, I know quite a few people who still use it occasionally, but mostly to keep track of their family.
I’m in a huge nerd group on facebook as well as a German Shepherd owners group. A lot of people are still on Facebook
No young person is using Facebook anymore
@@MrArielKsome high schoolers use Facebook
A) Who tolerates their partner clubbing without them?
B) Don't date people with crazy dye jobs. They're advertising poor decision skills.
Hmm, I would agree, but every so often, I like to dye my hair blue, though I have done it in a few years.
Redpill take
Ex gf gets a fat L
Exs parents get a fat W
Here's the secret in theseReddit stories only some are true most are just tricking by using there emotions as an excuse to ruin ppls life
If your in a relationship with someone then they should not be doing single people stuff like going to clubs
Bread 👍
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if something is too good to be true it usually isnt, i might sound cinical but well thats what i have seen so far, almost always there is a catch, serious relathionships take time to know each other, if it happens fast, in most cases it wont last
story 1: BASED FCKN PARENTS
A masters degree in psychology
More like side-304-logy
53 years old dude left for a 18 years old? AYO
Wait, was Jake really 53!?
What the hell is a snap score?
I think it’s like, the more you use Snapchat by talking to people, the bigger the “score” gets - so OP knew she was talking to someone other than him when he messaged her because the number went up much higher than it would do if she was only messaging him and then putting her phone down. Hope that helps.
Didn’t you post this story already?
So you're going to cheat and not get this person that you cheating with to help find your lifestyle?
I never understood that with people. So that person is good enough for you to allow inside your body, but he's not good enough to pay some bills for you?
Which is actually just normal for cheaters you want to cheat with somebody the physical side because oh you're not home all the time you're working all the time but that is the person that's financially supporting your lazy ass.
But, you're sleeping with the other person but you can't even get a red cent from them to pay your light bill or your car insurance.
Your gf goea to clubs with single friends? Yout gf will cheat. There is a reason why every man secure enough on the relationship consideres partying a hard boundry
taken woman clubbing, lmao
Wow, narcissist, gaslighting at its best. Yep, she isn't wife material. No, you are out of her league.
Dude from the first story should’ve known better lmao. She goes to clubs without you?? Actually going to clubs at all?? For the streets 😂
Umm people can go to clubs to have fun dude, not everyone that goes clubbing is a cheater 🙃🤨
@@daisymay6505meanwhile everyone else in the comments also running in fear at “purple hair” as if hair dye makes someone a cheater 😂😂
clutterbot7279 Right? Like some people are so ridiculous 🤣
Stop packing stories
“ a stellar body”. Lol ok. Great judge of character right off. Not his fault at all
Not his fault she cheated 💀
Same story again
Dibs on first comment
Third comment
a cheaters first response after getting caught is always redirect and gaslight. would not suprise me she had been cheating on him the entire relationship
S2: lol the serial cheating ex is delusional enough to think OP will get back with him after 18+ years of constant cheating and being a deadbeat to his kids. there is special kind of stupid and there is this guy
Actions have consequences
i can't stand cheaters but when he said all he likes doing is sitting around like a slug and play video games all day/night instead of going out with her i could tell he was/is a loser that deserved getting cheated on.....i mean every thing he said spells loser........no woman is going to faithful to a man that acts like this......