even if it's real half of those stories are probably people who aren't neglected at all but just like to be the victim. "my mom didn't like my doodling and ripped my paper" could easily mean "I was lazy and never did anything around the house or even try at school and my parents got sick of it." Have seen enough people like that,
The moment mother played the sickness card to worm her way back into OP's life, OP's answer should've been "I don't recall making any 'in health and sickness' vows to you. That's what your husband is for."
the fact that she had the nerve to go in ther crying that nobody went to her damn baby shower after she said that people will make their own decisions on who to support is nuts
The MOH was the MVP. She recognized the problem /immediately/ and tried to nip it in the bud. A shame no one backed her up, or maybe the wedding could have been salvaged.
The one thing i will give this story for, i’m glad it wasnt an AITA story. Loool i was imagining “AITA for not changing my wedding date last minute for my sisters baby shower” 😂😂
The reason why some people do that is so that they can vent in the AITA threads to more people, which is more popular than just venting randomly and getting deleted for putting it in the wrong thread.
One minute in, two things stick out: 1. "Main character energy"...I'm using that phrase moving forward. 2. Sister thought a baby shower for _fourth_ child was more important than a wedding? Oh, please...
... The baby shower is actually more important because a baby gets things in a wedding is just once and.. once you give birth to a baby you're going to feel that pain multiple times if you have multiple kids I know that it's not just a one-time thing but sometimes you don't get that some people can't have baby showers they're trapped and they just want to get out of pregnancy.. so baby showers are very important thing but what she did was horrible
Portia had looked into her own future with her comment about marriages break apart all of the time. The BiL realized that he married a High Maintenance sufferer of Main Character Syndrome and decided to make her prediction come true
What a brat, she couldn't stand even one day when she wasn't the centre of attention. Serves her right, she knew what she was doing and it backfired. I'm glad OP cut ties and has a better life now.
The fact the mother didn't tell OP what her sister was planning or didn't tell Portia to change her baby shower date showed the reconciliation was fake and thought playing the health problems card would get OP to forgive her for every slight after that. Good for OP for not falling for it. When the sister talks about repentance OP should have told her that she was right and she should let OP know when her and the parents are truly repentant next time.
Lmao "yeah, let's belittle the one remaining kid we have after the favorite ditched us. That'll make them stay and support us.!" - OP's shift parents. "How dare they not prioritize me over OP like my parents and then calling me out on purposely choosing the same date as OP's wedding.!" - Portia.
Sometimes the family you are born into isn't the family God meant for you to have. I often listen to these stories, and it shocks me that some people are so horrible. The sister in this story is one of the most selfish and self-absorbed people I've ever heard of. For the sister to use her as a scapegoat about her marriage and ask her to baby sit for free, she may need to look in the mirror. When you point the finger at someone, you are also pointing three fingers at yourself.
The father being to proud to admit he was wrong fits so well with my life. That’s part of the problem with people today and not taking responsibility for their actions. 😢 sad
Since when are we hosting our own baby showers? That is done by a friend who is a part from the family. Otherwise it's an obvious gift grab. Very, very ill mannered.
I find baby showers such a selfish and stupid concept. Nobody asked you to have sex and conceive a child. Then the audacity to send people a list of gifts. 💀💀
Especially for the 4th kid, like what happened to the stuff from the 1st kid? Just use the same baby clothes and equipment that your previous kids used lmao. It makes sense on the first kid as a way for the family to help you get stuff so you can raise your kid better. But after that first kid you can just re-use that stuff for your next kids. Sure maybe if you have a different gender baby you get new baby clothes but then again I doubt the baby cares if it's in a pink outfit or a blue one you could also just get a neutral colour like green or something.
From what I know, baby showers are supposed to be done by others anyways & not by yourself. I didn't throw a baby shower for myself. However my MIL & my own mom wanted one since it was both of their first grandkid. So I had it thrown for me. Same with a gender reveal. I am not a party person. I stopped having birthday parties when I had the chance. My autism just makes me not a fan of chaotic environments. But yeah if others throw it for you it's different. But I also feel it's selfish to expect others to go to a baby shower & get you stuff just cause you wanted a baby. Same with a lot of things imo
It's not your fault it's your selfish sister's fault because she was spoiled and she ruined her wedding and they favored their Golden child sister over her own daughter and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything for ruining her wedding and they favored their Golden child sister over her other daughter and you don't have to apologize for anything it's her sister's fault not hers.
The second i heard about jake coming to OP's house i had a hopeful feeling he was there to apologise for everything and i was right, and i already like jake and i hope he gets full custody of his kids and i hope he and his kids visit OP from time to time and play with OP's potential future kids ❤❤
I wish one day we get a story where OP goes to their toxic parent deathbed and refuses to do anything but mock their pain and guilt as just another manipulation tactic
Well, at least Portia can have another day that's all about her when she suckers the next guy into marrying her. And if THAT wedding isn't enough about her, I'm sure her 3rd wedding to some other sucker will be better.
these golden child stories are annoying at this point, same story different outcomes like whoever that wrote this need to be more creative because at this point its all a repetition.
My selfish sister planned her baby shower on my wedding day, assuming everyone would choose her event. But karma hit hard when the family chose my wedding instead. It was her attempt to steal the spotlight, but it backfired spectacularly.
The most unrealistic part is OP’s stable animation career. And I don’t mean this as an anti-art dig. I mean this as the industry is unstable and executives cancel animated shows left and right bc they have no respect for the medium. So unless OP is working for Disney, or has a job doing work for something like Family Guy, South Park, or the Simpsons, it’s very unlikely they have a secure job. Source: A lot of animators on Twitter post for job seeking and document their experiences on there. There is actually a strike going on right now to renegotiate contracts.
These stories are getting to formalaic to even listen to in the background. They all have the same plot point, story beats, and outcome. Me wondering if the sister is gonna end up heading towards a divorce since she mentionshe has 4 kids and total and yep...
1st kid i can understand a baby shower but a 4th? Considering what a nightmare the sister is, and the fact she has FOUR children. I have a big feeling some of those kids are affair children. I'm not shaming family who do have multiple children but considering what kind of woman the sister is...yeah. I think she had an affair.
if jake gets full custody of the childern and all contact of portia and if jake wins the divorce then you should maybe babysit the children if he need a babysitter. Karma hit them back.
the way i know this reddit story is ai is no one talks to the principle enough for them to compare siblings. I even grew up in a tiny town of 350 people and i didnt even know my principles name until the last year there
I live in the capital city of my country and have studied in one of the popular private schools in the country. Yet, my principles knew both me and my younger brother pretty casually. So it's not that unrealistic for her principle to compare, or maybe it's different in the US.
My school had grades from nursery to 12th. Has 8-9 sections per class and each class had 40-50 students. She knows me and my sister lol. She has mentioned my sister in front of me atleast 3 TIMES💀 (Well, we both were in student council and we were all-rounders and stuff so she knows us lol but still.)
Grew up in London and the head teacher went out of her way to learn at least the oldest and youngest year group's names, and whoever else she could remember after that. It depends on the teacher
You did all of that to your self by keeping your sister in your life. And asking her to come to your wedding. By doing so you gave her the info to hurt you.
For those who are wondering ill give you what this really is "do it for [insert name here]" story number 100 yes it's another one of these. AI needs to learn a new template soon
Sooo, op's family chose her wedding over her sisters baby shower and op is upset about it? am i hearing this right? am i the only one using my braincells here? why tf would you be upset that your family chose YOU??????? this has to be some fake ahh story.
I am so sorry about this unserious comment I’m about to say but. PORTIA? WHO IN THE RIGHT MIND WOULD NAME THEIR KID PORTIA? THAT SOUNDS LIKE PORTRAIT OR POETRY OR SOMETHING ELSE!
Honestly, Zara (her mom) trying to stop Portia and her husband from entering the venue and then trying to drag Portia out feels like taking a stand to me, but that's just me ig
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The parents thought they could treat OP like a spare child and got a cold, harsh reality check instead... serves them right.
they didnt think anything they dont exist story is AI
Actually @@jdjsksbsvsn this isn't AI, I can differentiate
Yeah, sometimes parents don't realize how badly they treat the 'spare child' until it's too late
@@jdjsksbsvsn no it’s from reddit
even if it's real half of those stories are probably people who aren't neglected at all but just like to be the victim. "my mom didn't like my doodling and ripped my paper" could easily mean "I was lazy and never did anything around the house or even try at school and my parents got sick of it."
Have seen enough people like that,
The moment mother played the sickness card to worm her way back into OP's life, OP's answer should've been "I don't recall making any 'in health and sickness' vows to you. That's what your husband is for."
For real girl
the fact that she had the nerve to go in ther crying that nobody went to her damn baby shower after she said that people will make their own decisions on who to support is nuts
Shes ok with them making their own choices if it suits her🙄
She was being greedy to even think it was a good idea to have a baby shower on a 4th child. You can have a reveal but not a shower
These ppl r mental gymnasts
The MOH was the MVP. She recognized the problem /immediately/ and tried to nip it in the bud. A shame no one backed her up, or maybe the wedding could have been salvaged.
The one thing i will give this story for, i’m glad it wasnt an AITA story. Loool i was imagining “AITA for not changing my wedding date last minute for my sisters baby shower” 😂😂
Folks who do that are aggravating.
The reason why some people do that is so that they can vent in the AITA threads to more people, which is more popular than just venting randomly and getting deleted for putting it in the wrong thread.
Plus the fact that after being told for years that you are second rate, you begin to wonder if in fact you are wrong.
Right? So glad OP didn’t let her manipulate the wedding plans. The audacity!
One minute in, two things stick out:
1. "Main character energy"...I'm using that phrase moving forward.
2. Sister thought a baby shower for _fourth_ child was more important than a wedding? Oh, please...
I'm pretty sure the sister believes that her entire existance is more important than OP's.
@@fanfictiondreamer7836 Yep. I'm gonna go with your take on it.
Haha, 'Main character energy' is a perfect way to describe her! And seriously, a baby shower over a wedding?
... The baby shower is actually more important because a baby gets things in a wedding is just once and.. once you give birth to a baby you're going to feel that pain multiple times if you have multiple kids I know that it's not just a one-time thing but sometimes you don't get that some people can't have baby showers they're trapped and they just want to get out of pregnancy.. so baby showers are very important thing but what she did was horrible
@@KTA-oc8nwid still chose a wedding over a baby shower but your point is valid
Portia had looked into her own future with her comment about marriages break apart all of the time. The BiL realized that he married a High Maintenance sufferer of Main Character Syndrome and decided to make her prediction come true
Lmaooo
What a brat, she couldn't stand even one day when she wasn't the centre of attention.
Serves her right, she knew what she was doing and it backfired.
I'm glad OP cut ties and has a better life now.
Having sister show what she was in front of a large audience may be a good thing in the long run.
25 with her FOURTH child???? And her parents pamper her coz shes a BRIGHT kid 💀💀💀💀 idk about bright kid but she be poppin them out tho
MAN THATS CRAZY
Portia is 30
Bro needs to play Jenga 💀
@@gigibinhas Yes. OP is the one whose 25
They are… wait nm
The fact the mother didn't tell OP what her sister was planning or didn't tell Portia to change her baby shower date showed the reconciliation was fake and thought playing the health problems card would get OP to forgive her for every slight after that. Good for OP for not falling for it. When the sister talks about repentance OP should have told her that she was right and she should let OP know when her and the parents are truly repentant next time.
OP should have hired security for her wedding... considering her sister and dad.
Good point
Lmao "yeah, let's belittle the one remaining kid we have after the favorite ditched us. That'll make them stay and support us.!" - OP's shift parents.
"How dare they not prioritize me over OP like my parents and then calling me out on purposely choosing the same date as OP's wedding.!" - Portia.
Sometimes the family you are born into isn't the family God meant for you to have. I often listen to these stories, and it shocks me that some people are so horrible. The sister in this story is one of the most selfish and self-absorbed people I've ever heard of. For the sister to use her as a scapegoat about her marriage and ask her to baby sit for free, she may need to look in the mirror. When you point the finger at someone, you are also pointing three fingers at yourself.
The father being to proud to admit he was wrong fits so well with my life.
That’s part of the problem with people today and not taking responsibility for their actions. 😢 sad
Since when are we hosting our own baby showers? That is done by a friend who is a part from the family. Otherwise it's an obvious gift grab. Very, very ill mannered.
Exactly though, mine was done by my MIL & mother though
Portia 😂😂😂 merchant of Venice 😂
I find baby showers such a selfish and stupid concept. Nobody asked you to have sex and conceive a child. Then the audacity to send people a list of gifts. 💀💀
Especially for the 4th kid, like what happened to the stuff from the 1st kid? Just use the same baby clothes and equipment that your previous kids used lmao.
It makes sense on the first kid as a way for the family to help you get stuff so you can raise your kid better. But after that first kid you can just re-use that stuff for your next kids.
Sure maybe if you have a different gender baby you get new baby clothes but then again I doubt the baby cares if it's in a pink outfit or a blue one you could also just get a neutral colour like green or something.
Yep, Like what should i write in the card? Congrat you 2 had sex months ago?
@@sammyf0x my friend once said this "They are celebrating cause the husband's pull out game ain't that great" 😂
From what I know, baby showers are supposed to be done by others anyways & not by yourself.
I didn't throw a baby shower for myself. However my MIL & my own mom wanted one since it was both of their first grandkid. So I had it thrown for me.
Same with a gender reveal. I am not a party person. I stopped having birthday parties when I had the chance.
My autism just makes me not a fan of chaotic environments. But yeah if others throw it for you it's different. But I also feel it's selfish to expect others to go to a baby shower & get you stuff just cause you wanted a baby.
Same with a lot of things imo
It's not your fault it's your selfish sister's fault because she was spoiled and she ruined her wedding and they favored their Golden child sister over her own daughter and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything for ruining her wedding and they favored their Golden child sister over her other daughter and you don't have to apologize for anything it's her sister's fault not hers.
The second i heard about jake coming to OP's house i had a hopeful feeling he was there to apologise for everything and i was right, and i already like jake and i hope he gets full custody of his kids and i hope he and his kids visit OP from time to time and play with OP's potential future kids ❤❤
The first gen z mother of all time : I AM THE ONLY MAIN.....ONE!!!!!
I wish one day we get a story where OP goes to their toxic parent deathbed and refuses to do anything but mock their pain and guilt as just another manipulation tactic
The moment someone says they thought something at 13 i know its BS.
4th child 😂 I would go the wedding as well
Well, at least Portia can have another day that's all about her when she suckers the next guy into marrying her. And if THAT wedding isn't enough about her, I'm sure her 3rd wedding to some other sucker will be better.
these golden child stories are annoying at this point, same story different outcomes like whoever that wrote this need to be more creative because at this point its all a repetition.
That's what happens when you use AI to make stories 🥴
AI runs the exact same format for these stories. Ignored child becomes successful, parents come running back, mother gets sick bs
My selfish sister planned her baby shower on my wedding day, assuming everyone would choose her event. But karma hit hard when the family chose my wedding instead. It was her attempt to steal the spotlight, but it backfired spectacularly.
A taste of one's own medicine is never pleasant 😂
Love the creative writing skills
The most unrealistic part is OP’s stable animation career. And I don’t mean this as an anti-art dig. I mean this as the industry is unstable and executives cancel animated shows left and right bc they have no respect for the medium. So unless OP is working for Disney, or has a job doing work for something like Family Guy, South Park, or the Simpsons, it’s very unlikely they have a secure job. Source: A lot of animators on Twitter post for job seeking and document their experiences on there. There is actually a strike going on right now to renegotiate contracts.
You don't have a baby shower for a 4th child. That's just greedy
These stories are getting to formalaic to even listen to in the background. They all have the same plot point, story beats, and outcome.
Me wondering if the sister is gonna end up heading towards a divorce since she mentionshe has 4 kids and total and yep...
Any name like that... Yikes 😬😬
Who names their kid after a car?
The mom is afraid of going to hell. So NOW she wants to be nice. Sorry. That’s not how it works.
THIS IS WHY BEING AN ONLY CHILD IS GOATED
1st kid i can understand a baby shower but a 4th? Considering what a nightmare the sister is, and the fact she has FOUR children. I have a big feeling some of those kids are affair children. I'm not shaming family who do have multiple children but considering what kind of woman the sister is...yeah. I think she had an affair.
Having a baby shower for the fourth child is wild!!!
Since it's her 4th child, should it be called a Baby Sprinkle?
Yo funny how her sister is named after a car 😂
I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if Portia cheated on Jake.
Never get involved with married with baby's bull crap..
Siblings are always different. I thought teachers were smart. They should know psychology, educated teacher.
if jake gets full custody of the childern and all contact of portia and if jake wins the divorce then you should maybe babysit the children if he need a babysitter.
Karma hit them back.
Damn Shakespeare writing Portia again but in the future.
"repentance for ruining her life" WHAT😡🤬
Named after a fancy car...
It means pig. It's an actual name
the way i know this reddit story is ai is no one talks to the principle enough for them to compare siblings. I even grew up in a tiny town of 350 people and i didnt even know my principles name until the last year there
I live in the capital city of my country and have studied in one of the popular private schools in the country. Yet, my principles knew both me and my younger brother pretty casually. So it's not that unrealistic for her principle to compare, or maybe it's different in the US.
It's less the size and more the principle. Some are more involved than others
My school had grades from nursery to 12th. Has 8-9 sections per class and each class had 40-50 students. She knows me and my sister lol. She has mentioned my sister in front of me atleast 3 TIMES💀
(Well, we both were in student council and we were all-rounders and stuff so she knows us lol but still.)
Grew up in London and the head teacher went out of her way to learn at least the oldest and youngest year group's names, and whoever else she could remember after that. It depends on the teacher
@@iamjustagirlintheworldd mine was the same and had to read my name off of paper just so they could remember what to call me
The only mistake OP made, was reconnecting with the sperm and egg donnors.
0 views in 1 minute bros dying
Portia=portion, a portion of human descency.
por-SHA (yk what this is ur a real one)
Girl, decide whether you got to know about the shower two days or two weeks before the wedding.
6:58 skip here to the incident
"marriages break apart all the time" yes they definitely do but not ops but yours 12:26
Was there an update anytime? About the kids?
I’m so upset rn bro just cut contact fully get a restraining order there’s many things you can do to keep them away from you
You did all of that to your self by keeping your sister in your life. And asking her to come to your wedding. By doing so you gave her the info to hurt you.
Op should have broke up with that fiancee because he is urging op to reconnect.....
I’m sorry ya moms trying chief
I know someone who is called Portia her grandma works at our school and she never believes anything to do with her I hate her
What is with these videos that show a completely different video than the audio is describing?
why does her sister's name sound like the car porche instead of portia
bruh im playing this in the backround and i go " Her name is Porsche?!" (the correct pronountiation is {por-sha} so thats why i got confused)
imagine if everyone in this story was ulgy
Do you have baby showers for every child?
Normally yes. Unless they can't normally they do them for every kid if they do it for one.
For those who are wondering ill give you what this really is "do it for [insert name here]" story number 100 yes it's another one of these. AI needs to learn a new template soon
Sooo, op's family chose her wedding over her sisters baby shower and op is upset about it? am i hearing this right?
am i the only one using my braincells here? why tf would you be upset that your family chose YOU??????? this has to be some fake ahh story.
😂
I am so sorry about this unserious comment I’m about to say but. PORTIA? WHO IN THE RIGHT MIND WOULD NAME THEIR KID PORTIA? THAT SOUNDS LIKE PORTRAIT OR POETRY OR SOMETHING ELSE!
I'm going to the grocery store. Does anyone want anything?
Be fair to ur children...sahuli pagsisihan nyo tlga na ang golden child kuno tskk kkaainis
Honestly, Zara (her mom) trying to stop Portia and her husband from entering the venue and then trying to drag Portia out feels like taking a stand to me, but that's just me ig
Zara was her MOH
Who holds a baby shower for a 4th kid? Did they lose everything from baby 1-3 in a fire?
Think this is fake because-it says that Lena called portia 2 DAYS BEFORE the wedding, then tells everyone to rsvp 2 WEEKS before
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Why are you using a male voice as a female?
Pls use a girl voice if it’s a girl and a boy voice if it’s a boy and pls change the voice sound I don’t really like it it freaks me out
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