Found Out That My Fiancée was Texting Her Ex a Month Before Our Wedding. So I Ghosted Her...

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @RepellentJeff
    @RepellentJeff 3 месяца назад +402

    “Wanna call her (RUclips doesn’t like this word) but let’s call her Elli.”
    😂

    • @Astro-qc7ln
      @Astro-qc7ln 3 месяца назад +9

      404 😂

    • @2xtreem4u
      @2xtreem4u 3 месяца назад +10

      gardening tool ?

    • @pushkalvasudev790
      @pushkalvasudev790 3 месяца назад +1

      Just add a star to one of the letters in the word and boom ur off the hook

    • @2xtreem4u
      @2xtreem4u 3 месяца назад +3

      AI censors those too (youtube keeps on ghosting my replies in this thread)

    • @ericsaint-maximin5277
      @ericsaint-maximin5277 3 месяца назад

      @@2xtreem4u Yeah and it is so random that you never know if the star will work or not.

  • @DragonicGamer32
    @DragonicGamer32 3 месяца назад +340

    Gross. In the end all she cared about was "my life goal is to be married and pregnant by 30."
    She didn't care that she hurt OP or that she fricked up. She just cares that her whole dream is going up in smoke

    • @TheKadanz
      @TheKadanz 3 месяца назад +1

      This is why most women with questionable morals settle for a nice guy the closer they get towards 30. 30 is a scary number for women, their prime is going down after 30 for majority of women and the biological clock starts ticking. Unless you're a woman with great genes who look stunning even well into their 50's.

    • @blackice7408
      @blackice7408 3 месяца назад +7

      Narcissist

  • @arcanah02
    @arcanah02 3 месяца назад +195

    Like he said: Always good to have evidence of these things.
    “Better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war.”
    Hate seeing stories where the people let the evidence slip them by.

  • @Notasinglecentreviews
    @Notasinglecentreviews 3 месяца назад +235

    I feel bad for this guy

  • @IWFPYHTAW
    @IWFPYHTAW 3 месяца назад +75

    To anyone saying “so fake, no one would use email to cheat!!”- At the end of the day, it’s IS the least expected method to be used in order to cheat. I’ve had an ex who did it (around 5 years ago), and I know others who have gone through something similar in recent times.
    Just because you haven’t experienced something (hopefully you won’t in this situation), doesn’t mean others haven’t. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @MCBRUCE76
      @MCBRUCE76 3 месяца назад +6

      They may have been using a Gmail or Ymail chat to communicate, which is one of the easiest method to communicate with anybody in the world.

    • @ericsaint-maximin5277
      @ericsaint-maximin5277 3 месяца назад

      @@MCBRUCE76 Not to mention that it was one of the only way to communicate before all those social media and messenger app, like when hotmail and msn were a thing...

    • @ericsaint-maximin5277
      @ericsaint-maximin5277 3 месяца назад +5

      Yeah, it's like there never was a time when emails were one the most common way to communicate before all those social media and msg apps... You know, like when hotmail and MSN were a thing..

    • @vaniajackson6813
      @vaniajackson6813 3 месяца назад

      My ex husband did communicate with his mistress through email though.

    • @karl_day
      @karl_day 2 месяца назад

      @@ericsaint-maximin5277 I still have and use an MSN account I set up when I was 14. it's now a de-facto proof of age

  • @_Thunderball_
    @_Thunderball_ 3 месяца назад +124

    Yay at least it's a real story. Too bad that the reason you know that it's real is because it's so gross.

    • @fl-ri-
      @fl-ri- 3 месяца назад +18

      That and it's not littered with AI'isms. It's a good day when you don't hear "rollercoaster of emotions" on one of these

    • @ericsaint-maximin5277
      @ericsaint-maximin5277 3 месяца назад +5

      @@fl-ri- And yet, there's still a commenter who is convinced that it's a "revenge story written by a 14yo" with 20 people who seem to agree... 🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @thousandyardgavri2785
      @thousandyardgavri2785 3 месяца назад +7

      @@fl-ri- The earth in which I stand felt like crumbling down, the tension in the air was palpable as the revelation of my knowledge to her affair came to light leaving her howling like a wolf as she cried. Ngl, I cant stand those writing but they're fun to mock..

    • @manmeetsoven
      @manmeetsoven 3 месяца назад +1

      But the wedding invites hadn’t gone out a month before the wedding?

    • @jemase7931
      @jemase7931 3 месяца назад +1

      No, that's not a real story. Women don't write like that. You can imagine the person who did write it.

  • @gulli72
    @gulli72 3 месяца назад +57

    Damn. Two full days, and it didn't occur to him to print out the text messages, tape them to the door and live stream her arrival. You had one job.

  • @brokentuskx
    @brokentuskx 3 месяца назад +30

    What kind of monsters wait until a month before the wedding before sending out invites?

    • @MCBRUCE76
      @MCBRUCE76 3 месяца назад

      Yes, that got me too. I had to send my invites 6 months in advance to make sure everybody could make time, and make the required arrangements. They still hadn't sent out their invites, even though their wedding was to take place in a month, was simply mind boggling. I could also interpret this in another way, probably OP and his fiancée were inviting only a small group of close-knit family and friends for their wedding, which sounds a feasible explanation.

  • @josieegold6758
    @josieegold6758 3 месяца назад +18

    I'm so disgusted by her.

  • @reillycurran8508
    @reillycurran8508 3 месяца назад +33

    Shoulda dropped the emails to her friends and family so they'd have tied her down from trying to chase OP

  • @Sigmaman624
    @Sigmaman624 3 месяца назад +45

    Diddy don’t touch me diddy!

  • @taylordaenzer4852
    @taylordaenzer4852 3 месяца назад +37

    It's not your fault it's your fiance's fault because she was texting her ex and she is shut talking about him and she is cheating on him with her ex and that's not right and she should pay for her actions and go to hell for what she has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and she doesn't deserve anything for cheating on him and she was texting her ex and shut talking about him and you don't have to apologize for anything.

  • @Rj-ij6ko
    @Rj-ij6ko 3 месяца назад +2

    I’m glad this wasnt one of those stories where the Op is SOOOOOOO clearly in the right, but people gaslight them into somehow thinking they’re wrong.
    Op is a boss and im glad his POS ex is sad

  • @myeternalteardrop
    @myeternalteardrop 3 месяца назад +4

    It's always funny when they say that the things they said meant nothing. It obviously meant enough for you to say it.

  • @YukitoOnline
    @YukitoOnline 3 месяца назад +2

    If she retaliates via defamation, OP can post her emails as counter.
    And then sue her for defamation.

  • @KTA-oc8nw
    @KTA-oc8nw 3 месяца назад +7

    She quite literally quite literally had to gull to frickin' try to justify her cheating-

  • @akool1462
    @akool1462 3 месяца назад +31

    This ain't no ai story lmao

  • @edo.creative
    @edo.creative 3 месяца назад +5

    Tbh this is one of the wildest endings to a story I've seen here. Its the stuff of movies that she'll fly and find him in Alaska.

  • @TheNimbus007
    @TheNimbus007 3 месяца назад +2

    Dude didn't just dodge a bullet, he dodged a freaking nuke!! Wth??? 😰😰

  • @t.l.c7481
    @t.l.c7481 3 месяца назад +9

    I would have dropped those emails to all of the wedding guests. This is why the wedding is off. 🖕🏻😏😂

  • @JES283
    @JES283 3 месяца назад +1

    She cared more about checking milestones off her list, than her actual BF

  • @Nedvesperec
    @Nedvesperec 3 месяца назад +3

    Rare w for the op. He put his foot down and destroyed that b. This is how you deal with cheaters

  • @mfundoh8148
    @mfundoh8148 3 месяца назад +1

    She told another dude that his bing-bing is tiny. Unforgivable.

  • @FatRonaldo1
    @FatRonaldo1 3 месяца назад +1

    Should have put a printed copy of the email chain in the envelope along with the storage receipt

  • @MCBRUCE76
    @MCBRUCE76 3 месяца назад +2

    If they had married, this ore, would have cheated in the future, which would have put OP in so much trouble emotionally, mentally, financially, legally, and personally.

  • @familhagaudir8561
    @familhagaudir8561 3 месяца назад +1

    A woman who did this at her age is going to cheat on you if you stay with her. This is not a dumb teenage hormone slip.

  • @ayisdone
    @ayisdone 3 месяца назад +1

    the name calling tickles lmaoooo

  • @20puskinas1992
    @20puskinas1992 2 месяца назад

    Good thing he find out emails or else he might be raising other guy's kid.

  • @maanast
    @maanast 3 месяца назад +1

    Good riddance and no alimony or child support. Just vent and move on

  • @Shmeages
    @Shmeages 3 месяца назад +2

    Man bro is hurt pouring one out for him 😭

  • @kachow536
    @kachow536 3 месяца назад +4

    baby why u doin this to me
    -i aint remember the name but that one guy from silk sonic

  • @eskimolost2012
    @eskimolost2012 3 месяца назад

    Print there whole exchanges send them to parents, grandparents with extras to see if they want to share how they failed to raise someone like her, 2 clean out bank account, 3 clean out house/apt 4 ghost everyone.

  • @ragibnoor6326
    @ragibnoor6326 3 месяца назад +8

    She had the balls 💀💀💀 does she even have balls?

  • @HttydvigcupD
    @HttydvigcupD 3 месяца назад +1

    The OP made a good decision

  • @ExcaliburSonictheKing
    @ExcaliburSonictheKing 3 месяца назад +27

    Damn this OP is gangsta, I like this guy he is at type of OP I wanted to hear😎, this OP isn't like all of the other soft OPs in these typical reddit stories

    • @benhall2307
      @benhall2307 3 месяца назад +1

      Are you serious? He didn't even confront her about it, he just ran away. I get she stuffed up but how did he act gangsta?

    • @ExcaliburSonictheKing
      @ExcaliburSonictheKing 3 месяца назад +4

      @@benhall2307 He did it not because he was scared, but because he wanted to be petty.

    • @benhall2307
      @benhall2307 3 месяца назад

      @@ExcaliburSonictheKing So gangsta behavior is just being petty? And the stories you want to hear are of guys just being petty? Okay.

    • @nyu2631
      @nyu2631 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@benhall2307 "Choose your own fights." He realized she wasn't worth it of that, so I don't see the ghosting as a bad. Hope you never have to go through that to understand. It's better to leave and focus on yourself to heal than trying to deal with someone who is not worth your time. That is gangsta.

    • @benhall2307
      @benhall2307 3 месяца назад

      @@nyu2631 So walking away and not addressing your battles is gangsta now? When I was growing up gangsta was dealing with beefs head on not walking away to heal lol but I guess you're all more in touch with your fifi's nowadays. Sensitive New Age Gangsta lol. And mate I'm old, I've had many of these style issues in my life already.

  • @Katzykeens
    @Katzykeens Месяц назад +1

    Reads like a 12 year old wrote it

  • @lowqualityrodentrandomness
    @lowqualityrodentrandomness 3 месяца назад

    Telltales, please just make a video of the bot you use to read out the stories saying blah blah and occasionally mix in a yay, that'd be hilarious

  • @sheislove12
    @sheislove12 3 месяца назад

    Nice video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him

    • @LiamaraSantos1
      @LiamaraSantos1 3 месяца назад

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, I was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but I couldn't just let him go I did all I could to get him back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

    • @sheislove12
      @sheislove12 3 месяца назад

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach one.?

    • @LiamaraSantos1
      @LiamaraSantos1 3 месяца назад

      His name is Owen Abiola, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex...

    • @sheislove12
      @sheislove12 3 месяца назад

      Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked him up online. impressive.

  • @agm5424
    @agm5424 3 месяца назад +1

    Th ex is clearly psychopathic, like the type that is born like that.
    Also something that people wjo ghost their significant other when they discovered their infidelity is to send the evidence of said infidelity to their parents and closets friends amd family when they start to send the angry texts demanding an explanation as if they're the ones being wronged.

  • @rhonddarousey9683
    @rhonddarousey9683 3 месяца назад +1

    The wedding was a month away but the invites hadn't been sent yet?

  • @MikeHansen-mh8pf
    @MikeHansen-mh8pf 3 месяца назад

    Another man with a very small ego. She did everything right and got rid of the rant.

  • @alonroblox
    @alonroblox 3 месяца назад

    10.26 she has the balls to write that to me

  • @DumpkinPumpkinCurse
    @DumpkinPumpkinCurse 3 месяца назад

    As a SKZ fan it stung his name was Felix.

  • @brunohernandez4908
    @brunohernandez4908 3 месяца назад

    What's this post's name on Reddit??? It was truly intereting and satisfying hearing it.

  • @ghosthunter0404
    @ghosthunter0404 3 месяца назад

    Bro how can anyone consider what she did not cheating makes absolutely no sense if your sext anyone thats not your significant other or person your in a relationship with you are in fact cheating. Like op probably didnt mention it but more then likely they probably sent nudes to eachother and risky photos shit happens to often

  • @ZuriSmooth
    @ZuriSmooth 3 месяца назад

    Be careful she might be psychotic & stalked u & your new girlfriend

  • @kidm0bius190
    @kidm0bius190 3 месяца назад +1

    Hey its a movie from lifetime via text lol.

  • @jamiepetersen6153
    @jamiepetersen6153 3 месяца назад

    When do bank tellers go on work trips

  • @razofdead
    @razofdead 3 месяца назад +1

    Sad how she lie about her sex life….

  • @ajotuh2142
    @ajotuh2142 3 месяца назад +2

    This is fake, no one in their right mind would say booyah for anything sex related

    • @HeliosX28
      @HeliosX28 3 месяца назад +14

      ... 😶...
      I feel personally attack now lol

    • @unholyheretik
      @unholyheretik 3 месяца назад +7

      Well, if that's what it takes to be right, maybe I wanna be wrong.

    • @FlamesAndShadows
      @FlamesAndShadows 3 месяца назад +4

      Maybe they REALLY liked Teen Titan's Cyborg XD

    • @1.8T20V
      @1.8T20V 3 месяца назад +1

      Really? I got a mate, lets call him lenny. Whenever he would go to the deep ends with his girl he would take a few steps back, wind up like a marathon runner and scream "Lenny inbound!" before jumping on his girls a**.
      The stuff people do in the bedroom... you'd be surprised. Id consider screaming booyah in bed to be a "lesser evil". But yeah then again i wouldnt call either of us (me nor lenny) right in the mind lol

  • @Gam1ngPhase
    @Gam1ngPhase 3 месяца назад +3

    Imma just comment even though I haven’t watched the full video so I’m early and feel good about myself 😀

  • @shakaman2112
    @shakaman2112 3 месяца назад

    How do I follow up this story on reddit?

  • @Hello_1478
    @Hello_1478 2 месяца назад

    Some of this is a bit tmi ngl

  • @RogerRichardson-Alaska-Team
    @RogerRichardson-Alaska-Team 3 месяца назад +2

    damn alaska

  • @TheLeviathan1293
    @TheLeviathan1293 3 месяца назад

    From the title alone it seems a complete overreaction. Let's see what it actually happened.
    0:21 Oh that was fast.

  • @sonu57924
    @sonu57924 3 месяца назад +13

    DON'T SAY FIRST

  • @ana-wo5nh
    @ana-wo5nh 3 месяца назад

    I feel Bad for him but he is a baddas well done sr

  • @65cmsmith
    @65cmsmith 3 месяца назад

    Watch the language dude

  • @saywhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat
    @saywhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat Месяц назад +1

    Cheaters are terrible (duh) but ghosters are cowards. Be an adult and use your words

  • @AcEo0
    @AcEo0 3 месяца назад +23

    sounds like the revenge fantasy of a 14 year old..

  • @Gaurang_Karande
    @Gaurang_Karande 3 месяца назад +16

    Sexting on email. Yeah we gotta turn down the AI on this one

    • @klyck2002
      @klyck2002 3 месяца назад

      Fr😭🙏

    • @IWFPYHTAW
      @IWFPYHTAW 3 месяца назад +8

      It can definitely happen.
      I’ve had an ex use their email to message people behind my back as well. When it comes down to it, it’s the platform someone would probably least expect to be used for cheating in this day and age.
      Moral of the story: Shady people do weird shit in attempt to not get caught.

    • @hectormiguel172
      @hectormiguel172 3 месяца назад +3

      It's actually a pretty good method if you wish to be secretive, using an alternative account just for it means less chances of being caught, since most people would search in social networks for traces, mails are somehow a more formal type of communication that most people overlook

  • @tipusultan8599
    @tipusultan8599 3 месяца назад +1

    Who uses email for texting?

  • @godlydrip865
    @godlydrip865 3 месяца назад +1

    woah

  • @KillahKuin
    @KillahKuin 3 месяца назад +1

    (Not) first 😎

  • @alonroblox
    @alonroblox 3 месяца назад

    @12.23

  • @LyleDyland
    @LyleDyland 3 месяца назад +1

    IMO OP is acting like a child. Dude finds out that his fiance has hidden feelings that OP is sexually inadequate and vents through sexting. Rather than confront the issue, immediately burns the relationship to the ground and posts the story for validation. Or its fake.

  • @aaronwootton1602
    @aaronwootton1602 3 месяца назад +4

    First 23 seconds

    • @Sigmaman624
      @Sigmaman624 3 месяца назад

      Silence

    • @sonu57924
      @sonu57924 3 месяца назад +1

      It's me but I said "Don't say first!"

  • @iwtbrnk
    @iwtbrnk 3 месяца назад +2

    YTA

    • @vinous.
      @vinous. 3 месяца назад +14

      bro lost the plot 😭😭 how do you interpret this story and then come to this conclusion 🤦🏾‍♂️🙏🏾

    • @iwtbrnk
      @iwtbrnk 3 месяца назад

      @@vinous. Because I don't live in your fucked up fantasy world

  • @SmokerBoyProductions
    @SmokerBoyProductions Месяц назад

    first 15 seconds