Healing from our past relationships. What advice can we share?

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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @6penny372
    @6penny372 4 года назад +385

    People don't give this guy enough credit for his jokes tho! lOl 😁😁

    • @nathynice1
      @nathynice1 4 года назад +7

      He brings so much life to this channel 👌

    • @khangelanincalu8504
      @khangelanincalu8504 4 года назад +3

      My thoughts exactly! Bro Skhu I life I tell you. 😄😄😄

    • @brianchizaza1989
      @brianchizaza1989 4 года назад +4

      You can say that again hes a legend

    • @katlego5077
      @katlego5077 4 года назад +10

      Honestly I love how he laughs at his own jokes 🤣🤣.... it kills me

    • @Mmalehumo
      @Mmalehumo 4 года назад +2

      True. Skhu brings some vibe

  • @kelebetsemogale6736
    @kelebetsemogale6736 4 года назад +195

    This nose is normal truly speaking

  • @mmbidiwilliam2414
    @mmbidiwilliam2414 4 года назад +58

    SKU experiences really lead him to be such kinda guy, really polite and matured... I really respect his mentality honestly ✌️

  • @xolelwathandokazimantungo6457
    @xolelwathandokazimantungo6457 4 года назад +171

    You are right Nozi. My former boyfriend who I almost got married to and even planned a baby girl with flipped when the baby arrived. 3 months after the break up he started dating someone else and even moved in with her. People kept asking me if I am dating and I kept telling them I will not date just because he moved on very fast I will take my time to properly heal and prepare myself for another man who will be totally different from him and do things differently. It's almost 2 years now and I am making sure that I take my time and heal properly before I date someone else.

    • @bathinikowane5879
      @bathinikowane5879 4 года назад +11

      This is my story... we had a baby... he did a 360 on me when she was 2/3 months old. i didn’t even have the luxury of 3 months. He was already in a situation with someone towards the end. I’m still single, healing and working on trusting again as I struggle to see how I can get involved with someone at that level again. It will take me a long time to get there. I’m married to my life’s purpose now. But grateful for the heartbreak and disappointment. It has grown me in ways I could never imagine. And has taught me and owning my happiness.

    • @bukiwemzamo7247
      @bukiwemzamo7247 3 года назад

      W

    • @NewaNemandalale-jw7jm
      @NewaNemandalale-jw7jm Год назад

      U must not sleep with a man b4 u get married. Plan kids in marriage

  • @MrOrsen
    @MrOrsen 4 года назад +107

    Bathong Skhu is DRAMA Skhu is everything.., did I mention how much I LOVE him, haibo he is everything, what nose? Mxm people are just a waste

    • @moemo4016
      @moemo4016 4 года назад +5

      I know ryt..that nose is ok for it's face..it's ok for him

    • @neoneoi
      @neoneoi 4 года назад

      The Mayaba's thank you for this pertinent topic, I personally relate with this so much

    • @shumanobomi7466
      @shumanobomi7466 4 года назад +2

      What nose nyani like people mara!

    • @nguyekanye8852
      @nguyekanye8852 4 года назад

      I think that person wanted attention xeim,there is no big nose at all

  • @thandokazisolibanzi8213
    @thandokazisolibanzi8213 4 года назад +47

    I like how Skhu looks at you Nozi, your husband loves you a lot🤣🤣 my favorite couple ❤️

  • @somiboltina604
    @somiboltina604 4 года назад +126

    I love ubhuti Skhu for u Noz. He just embraces your craziness and your strength so well. ❤️

    • @balisamancayi
      @balisamancayi 4 года назад

      I'm so happy to see you here my friend. I agree with you! ❤ Please send me your contact details via LinkedIn.

  • @gracenovie
    @gracenovie 4 года назад +96

    When two beautiful minds meet❤️.
    I could listen to you guys the whole day. So much wisdom 🙌🙌

  • @thanandlovu5107
    @thanandlovu5107 4 года назад +91

    You guys are so matured ..the level of articulation 🥂

  • @ddawgntsham1243
    @ddawgntsham1243 4 года назад +38

    Ndomelezekile, as uMabuyekwendeni oHIV positive thank you guys...dating again and slowly getting there

  • @xolelwathandokazimantungo6457
    @xolelwathandokazimantungo6457 4 года назад +72

    "What defines you as a person without that job? Who are you?" - Skhu🙏🙏🙏🙏
    Nindichukumisa entliziyweni nina noy2.

    • @esthermpokela5773
      @esthermpokela5773 4 года назад +2

      Love this amazing 👫. Such an inspiration 💃💃😘😘❤️❤️💓💓♥️🔥🔥🔥💐

  • @eviceshambare7122
    @eviceshambare7122 4 года назад +42

    I am happy to say, wife is now listening and giving husband chance to speak without interrupting. You are amazing though! Above all you have a fantastic relationship. Your nose makes you unique so don't worry. Love you guys

  • @katlegomashilo6079
    @katlegomashilo6079 4 года назад +30

    Skhu is such a wholesome person(and his humor is the cherry on top😂).You have an amazing hubby Nozi. Oh,and we love having him on the channel.🙌🏽

  • @friedashifotoka6556
    @friedashifotoka6556 4 года назад +27

    your husband's humour is the best. love the content

  • @alexrantseli3301
    @alexrantseli3301 4 года назад +37

    I'm yet to watch a boring video from you guys and I suspect there will never be one because we love you guys so much. Nozi when I get into another serious relationship I hope to be with someone who has your spirit, intelligence and honesty to name just three things. You guys are lucky to have each other I will always be rooting for you. 😎❤

  • @khangelanincalu8504
    @khangelanincalu8504 4 года назад +38

    If there ever was a perfect combo. The Mayabas are it. Thanks for yet another edutainment of an episode. 🙏🏾

  • @jo-annensovosilaule940
    @jo-annensovosilaule940 4 года назад +47

    I could listen to you guys all day! The maturity in your and the wisdom bombs that you keep dropping.

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 4 года назад +34

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 Your nose is perfect. Missed you guys and Nozi, the channel is "ours".

  • @klavistyg
    @klavistyg 4 года назад +20

    Thank your husband for sharing his story for me. I am going through something similar, build again from nothing. Hearing him talk has helped.

    • @HappyGirlsWW
      @HappyGirlsWW 4 года назад +4

      I pray that God becomes your strength in this difficult time 🙏

  • @Kiki-sv9cl
    @Kiki-sv9cl 4 года назад +48

    Your honesty is so refreshing . May God bless you .

  • @BoboThami
    @BoboThami 4 года назад +12

    He looks so emotional ☹😓. I am glad God pulled through for u sir

  • @nkhen_c357
    @nkhen_c357 4 года назад +2

    Hubby was so brutally honest. We hardly hear that. Thank you

  • @namakau2985
    @namakau2985 4 года назад +42

    Revenge is necessary sometimes 😂😂😂

  • @narelaurantsho3352
    @narelaurantsho3352 4 года назад +40

    🤣haibo! who said that about our special guest!? we must find that person & deal with them!🔪 how can they ruin things like this! 😂There's nothing wrong with Skhu's nose okay!
    I like the level of maturity here... and the honesty... you both have been through the most... Thank you for sharing your stories with us... You are loved 💖, please ignore the nasty comments okay! That unhappy person must stay away from this channel!

  • @pascollcampbell7580
    @pascollcampbell7580 3 года назад +7

    When ever I watch this guy.He makes my day!!! He’s very very hilarious and entertaining...Lol !!!!!!!

  • @masentlelebona9226
    @masentlelebona9226 4 года назад +4

    Do you two sit down and have meaningful conversations over dinner and just enjoy picking each other's brains? I like that mahn.

  • @heathermbambeni5789
    @heathermbambeni5789 4 года назад +15

    11:20 I saw Skhu being vulnerable... thank you sir for opening up,it really takes a real Man.

  • @thanandlovu5107
    @thanandlovu5107 4 года назад +49

    Lol that person is hater Skhu siyakuthanda thina. And please feature in all video's 😭😭🤣🤣🤣

  • @tendaig7048
    @tendaig7048 4 года назад +16

    This dude is straight-up funny, am in stitches

  • @nompumelelosihlangu3436
    @nompumelelosihlangu3436 4 года назад +41

    When Bhut' Skhu spoke about taking ownership when you've wronged others in order to fix yourself and not repeat the same mistake moving forward. At times, if not most, we drag the toxins from past relationships into a new relationship and speaking from my own frame of reference mna ndangena kwi relationship with all my walls up thinking if I don't protect myself this time around no one will. The problem with that is I never took ownership for my role on how the relationship ended. Thanks again family for the vital and sound advice! Oh by the way ndicela igama lalomntu who commented about your nose, I want to see something 🤔.....
    As always, great content guys! Keep it up!

  • @kaddyeyo2533
    @kaddyeyo2533 4 года назад +29

    Stumbled on your videos yesterday! Want to say........you are doing a good thing! and as per the nose.....really didnt notice it until you mentioned ! All I saw was a good man! but now that I do, I wish everyone has that size of nose, maybe the world will be a better place, if people 'breath and smell' better!

  • @sinalogqunu9232
    @sinalogqunu9232 4 года назад +16

    14:09 - 14:31 That is the kind of introspection we all need to do for success in the next relationship. Critical things that were said: "I've wronged people" & "I had to own up to the wrong things that I did which led to my marriage crumbling".

  • @janenagana7252
    @janenagana7252 4 года назад +53

    Big nose indicates a proper, and a real African man .when you look at our great grandfather and grandfather you will know.

  • @thabisilemtshweni7615
    @thabisilemtshweni7615 4 года назад +20

    Skhu is very handsome, with or without a big nose just like my husband. 💙

  • @thesanexplorer
    @thesanexplorer 4 года назад +148

    Who made the nose comment? Tell us who it is, we just wanna have a conversation. Not when it comes to our good husband! Love from Toronto

    • @MrOrsen
      @MrOrsen 4 года назад +8

      We want to beat them up 😂 😂

    • @ndakhona3336
      @ndakhona3336 4 года назад +5

      they need to be dealt with hahahhaha

    • @Itfhobi-yebaPhuthi
      @Itfhobi-yebaPhuthi 4 года назад +7

      Gathering here waiting for the name 🤣😂 🥊

    • @nayelushaba3041
      @nayelushaba3041 4 года назад +3

      Revenge is not necessary, let go and Let God. He will meet his Karma

    • @MadamEllaMalala
      @MadamEllaMalala 4 года назад +3

      A conversation... Yes, that! *cough* We good people! Show yourself! 🤗

  • @anathinkenku2411
    @anathinkenku2411 4 года назад +18

    I’m just here for Skhu 😂😂 he’s such a mood. Ndihleka oko 😂😂, I love you both so much❤️❤️❤️😉

  • @fio9174
    @fio9174 4 года назад +7

    Wooow i have fallen in love more with this Gentleman. That person was just jealous, i dont see how big it is.we love u here in Uganda ,so cute.God bless you both.

  • @immaculatekemihingo262
    @immaculatekemihingo262 4 года назад +30

    OMG, I can't stop laughing..... that was such a negative comment. Haters will always find negativety. Don't mind them, you're such a beautiful couple.

  • @thabielee
    @thabielee 4 года назад +31

    I keep on taking breaks because this is an intense episode. From the introduction by looking at our favourite sbari I could tell ukuba it's gonna be a heavy one. I'm happy & thankful to God that you guys have found each other, ningumntu omnye who deserve each other. A beautiful episode that I wish everyone who is contemplating getting into a new relationship would watch. Healing is important just as much as finding the right person for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @thembimatrose2369
    @thembimatrose2369 5 месяцев назад +1

    Mr Mayaba's nose is PERFECT!!!!!!!

  • @lelethumgayi7512
    @lelethumgayi7512 4 года назад +9

    Five seconds in the video and already I'm laughing, you guys are so funny.

  • @DzunyB
    @DzunyB 3 года назад +4

    Recently divorced and stumbled upon one of your videos and have been binge watching since. The two of u have really aided in my healing#noPressureThou I just love u guys❤

  • @sunshineandroses8
    @sunshineandroses8 4 года назад +14

    Nozi, you’re such an incredible woman🙌🏾, you’re questions, you’re listening skills, the way you interact with your hubby. I love how articulate you are and how you process everything you are hearing. You really are incredible. I love you so much 😘

  • @sharonjumba4648
    @sharonjumba4648 4 года назад +9

    You guys are just everything....undeniable chemistry, true, open conversation and so comical. I enjoyed every single bit.

  • @kgomotsodunjane4451
    @kgomotsodunjane4451 4 года назад +3

    That's honest truth, time is a healer..it took me 2 years to recover from my last relationship..wow hey

  • @estherkaruku8478
    @estherkaruku8478 4 года назад +8

    I just love the way you listen to each other without interrupting; at the end of the day, everyone feels heard. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @elizabethleboho9752
    @elizabethleboho9752 4 года назад +37

    My favourite couple 😍
    Did you have kids in the first marriage Skhu? How is your relationship with them and with your new marriage ?

  • @lisiwemtshali6823
    @lisiwemtshali6823 4 года назад +2

    Mr Big Nose...in the building...love u guyz...thank you

  • @bulumkobulumko652
    @bulumkobulumko652 4 года назад +19

    Hey Mrs PLEASE say "our" channel
    We demand "our" from you "lady"

  • @janepherkhisa1801
    @janepherkhisa1801 4 года назад +11

    I like watching mature content like this

  • @unathijam-jam
    @unathijam-jam 3 года назад +2

    I dont know how many videos I've watched now😊and umama udikiwe because am always on phone and once she calls me ill be "yima mama uNozi usathetha" 😂I love you guys.

  • @malaikah8329
    @malaikah8329 4 года назад +4

    😂😂😂😂.. kills me everytime she says "ahhh lady" when referring to her mother.
    Sisi.. you teach young ones how great it can be to marry a seasoned man, he fills you with maturity and wisdom.
    I love how you look at him, your expressions as he speaks, as you acknowledge his wisdom. God bless you

  • @thobilevilakazi6566
    @thobilevilakazi6566 4 года назад +1

    May God heal you Nozi we neva stop praying for uzozibonakalisa kuwe ubaba u have a humble heart

  • @janezuze6089
    @janezuze6089 4 года назад +8

    😂😂 I knew Nozi's reply was going to end with "thank you very much" 06:09.🥰🥰

  • @theroyalrecollections3832
    @theroyalrecollections3832 4 года назад +3

    You all are both handsome, good looking and smart couple! Don’t know what those folks are talking about.

  • @tjitjikutuarakepembekotjii
    @tjitjikutuarakepembekotjii 4 года назад +8

    uSkhu is definitely handsome but I'm with him the person who commented the nose gave a topic for that really soothing intro conversation.

  • @siyasangadyalo-paliso3218
    @siyasangadyalo-paliso3218 4 года назад +31

    "What defines you? without your job, without your money and without all your materialistic things, who are you?" shuuuuu bhuti Skhu is out here dropping bars. Shuuuu!!!! Got me thinking.
    Thank you guys for your honesty, I am sure do learning a lot!!!

  • @zodididee4097
    @zodididee4097 4 года назад +10

    Phakathi inside let me just say i love you before i watch❤️

  • @Not_On_Bread_Alone
    @Not_On_Bread_Alone 4 года назад +6

    When Nozi says Ladyyyy!! I DIE 😂😂

  • @naledikumalo9833
    @naledikumalo9833 4 года назад +5

    The rawness and transparency from this video made me subscribe. Thank you guys for sharing and being so vulnerable. You have no idea the impact you have had and the questions and answers you have helped answer in my head and so many other people's heads also. Watching from Ireland😁😁❤

  • @vuyisekakani7375
    @vuyisekakani7375 4 года назад +2

    The emphasis on MY😂😂😂I love you both so much,thank you for sharing your stories, many of us can relate and indeed find pieces of ourselves in them...😂and marn there's NO big nose there!

  • @mimiliousleboko1112
    @mimiliousleboko1112 4 года назад +5

    I died 😂😂at senior citizen..... Skhu is life to the channel yazi😂😂😂😂😂😂👌

  • @vilampi9268
    @vilampi9268 4 года назад +2

    He's so handsome and you re a beautiful couple. I love your interaction.

  • @MyTrails_ZA
    @MyTrails_ZA 4 года назад +1

    Love your RUclips conversations and your madness on Facebook. You are the epitome of HOPE.

  • @tabisaxentsa8701
    @tabisaxentsa8701 4 года назад +3

    Your transparency is very much appreciated & empowers a lot of people, you are such a lovely couple ❤️ I'm a South African living abroad and I recently started watching your channel, I love it! Keep up the good work 👏🏾👏🏾 Nozi you're such a lovely and beautiful sister, Uyathandeka ❤️

  • @noendlovu4788
    @noendlovu4788 4 года назад +4

    The two of you just bless me. Your life is a testament that God is good all the time. He meets you at your point of need and blesses you with something that you have not even imagined. God bless your both always🙏🏾

  • @preciousndlala6038
    @preciousndlala6038 4 года назад +1

    U 2 deserve ur own TV show, love guys
    The world needs more ppl like u

  • @NghishiinawaMudjanima
    @NghishiinawaMudjanima 4 года назад +7

    Loved this...and love you guys. As usual, informative and funny at the same time. Love from Namibia

  • @z.vmdaka3806
    @z.vmdaka3806 4 года назад +7

    Thank you for this . Im on a journey of self discovery and dealing with my issues. This helped put alot in prospective i love you and Sku niziz goals and both so inlove a beautiful reminder that love comes in all different forms and it is beautiful to be inlove .

  • @maseramemolumo1440
    @maseramemolumo1440 4 года назад +2

    I love this channel, 3days in and I’m hooked. Thank you for sharing your love, your experiences and your life with us

  • @alletagrandy2545
    @alletagrandy2545 4 года назад +4

    I love this channel and why I didn't know about it...but thanks that you always addressing the issues and skhu we like you and both of you I enjoy it

  • @leahledwaba7002
    @leahledwaba7002 4 года назад +3

    OMW I'm really obsessed with you two🤣🤣🤣

  • @nomsebenzi1
    @nomsebenzi1 4 года назад +3

    We love you Skhu and we enjoy having you💛

  • @sisiphosethumbasa587
    @sisiphosethumbasa587 4 года назад +1

    I'm glad I found this channel 😇🙏❤️.

  • @NtombizonkeMehlomakulu
    @NtombizonkeMehlomakulu 4 года назад +1

    Hehake Nozee, I’m here again & still enjoying. Masterpiece is that I’m watching you at 03:11am, abantu balele nogal!

  • @seipatimokoena6152
    @seipatimokoena6152 4 года назад +5

    I love you fam so much, your content is so relevant and comes from a place of honesty ♥️

  • @andiswaedyantyi
    @andiswaedyantyi 4 года назад +2

    Yooh this is real content, i never leave this this chanel without learning something.. thank you all so much.. its been a year im trying to heal now im confident that i will get there one day youve given me hope. Ta Skhu you're are hot if i can say so.. ungafike nalomntu ebegeza unjani yena and its always the sgrwabz abagezayo

  • @janetkyara8004
    @janetkyara8004 4 года назад +2

    Thanks for this clip, well I love when you speak your language mixed with English😘

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk5847 4 года назад +1

    Skhu don't ever go to those "nose job things" your wife loves you the way you are.....your personality says a lot about you I love you guys so honest/ beatifull/ and inspiring

  • @cwengawhite1522
    @cwengawhite1522 4 года назад +7

    "The fact that this nose is big it's an indication that esle where I'm " hay kodwa ta Skhu😛🤣🤣🤣🤣❤❤

  • @candidtalkswithlauvena1835
    @candidtalkswithlauvena1835 4 года назад +5

    Mr Husband, the person's comment shouldn't hurt you Sir, you are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God and he saw that you were perfect and handsome Sir. And only an illiterate person will jave time to comment on things that they themselves can't even fix. We'll you might have a nose that is not created as they maybe want tit to be, but if they can look around themselves they too have some imperfections according to the human eyes. Calling someone names is you not fearing and appreciating God's creation. U'Sku you are handsome Sir. Perfect hubby for my Daughter U'Nozi💕💐💞💐💖

  • @precioussilimbani6409
    @precioussilimbani6409 4 года назад +2

    Nose big an indication to where😂😂Skhu please, I'm finished😂😂... negativity makes life so complete, negativity compliments positivity... I love you guys💛

  • @image2320
    @image2320 4 года назад +1

    I really love you guys, all the way from Namibia. You are such an inspiration to all of us. There are lots of people struggling with this kind of issues, and so much stigma even in our church communities. It's refreshing to see people accepting each other, and have a blessed beautiful life. You are such a blessing. Lots of love.

  • @ritahkiziito6335
    @ritahkiziito6335 4 года назад +3

    I like your husband and the nose is ok us who are from Africa and coming from Uganda such noses represent our tribe called buganda. I love you two both on channel because I even repeated your marriage videos twice because they were too nice to listen too and to learn from them..

  • @asie_dudula
    @asie_dudula 4 года назад +3

    Sana, akusemnandi apha!!!
    Thanks for the insight, very fruitful.

  • @nqobilecebekhulu868
    @nqobilecebekhulu868 4 года назад +9

    Sesikhona!!!...No guest la, he is one of us..Now let me watch ke, ill be back.

  • @bonolo_mikali
    @bonolo_mikali 4 года назад

    Lol "we don't wanna imagine". This is beautiful

  • @abatetsiangela4523
    @abatetsiangela4523 4 года назад +13

    Big nose or not, Nozi's handsome hubby, you look alike! Nozi, the difference you have with your hubby is colour! Otherwise one can think you are brothers and sisters!lol.

    • @lesegobrenda2979
      @lesegobrenda2979 4 года назад +1

      Skhu he is a real mood I can't stop watching u guys I love u both

  • @hashtagtechnologies474
    @hashtagtechnologies474 3 года назад

    indlela enginithanda ngakhon alupheli usuku nginganibukaka ...God bless you and your husband sisi Nozi

  • @ruthkamwi_youtube
    @ruthkamwi_youtube Год назад

    New subscriber here👋🏾I am enjoying your channel so so much! You two are beautiful people.🙏🏾 Thank you for the laughter and lessons.

  • @shaz4709
    @shaz4709 4 года назад +1

    Lovely video... beautiful to see honesty and love...As well as personal growth in relationships

  • @amandisandoya1189
    @amandisandoya1189 4 года назад +5

    My boyfriends nose is huge maybe that's why I never noticed skhus 😂😂 Skhu don't worry your nose makes you unique. I love watching your love ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ntombikoloti2034
    @ntombikoloti2034 4 года назад +6

    "Let me like and Love you #TeamMayaba, we love Mr Mayaba nose 😂😂😂😂

  • @abatetsiangela4523
    @abatetsiangela4523 4 года назад +32

    My dearest, darlings, sweet hearts and best friends, there is that language sometimes you use and I get lost😅😓😄😄 be considerate! I am a Ugandan.

    • @yzs7618
      @yzs7618 4 года назад +2

      🙈😝😝 We love you right back down here in SA. Please don’t leave our best friends. The more the merrier in this our international family. We will send you a Xhosa /English dictionary 😆😆

    • @jerushawambui75
      @jerushawambui75 4 года назад +1

      I'm Kenyan and I feel you sister! I just fill in as we go. Lol

  • @nociehngcobo9725
    @nociehngcobo9725 4 года назад +14

    Bhuti Skhu😍😂😂😂”are you denying it?”😂😂😂

  • @nikita-aliyahmgoduka9610
    @nikita-aliyahmgoduka9610 4 года назад +1

    Powerful. Time off is essential

  • @dikolizaskk5847
    @dikolizaskk5847 4 года назад

    Nozi shame so open/ honest and beatifull inside and out.....Skhu thank you for loving this woman and God bless you

  • @lungilehlongwane8730
    @lungilehlongwane8730 4 года назад +1

    Great topic and lovely couple. My Fiance and I have been together for more than 8 years and we recently started talking about our previous relationships in depth. I realised how we needed to have this conversation even though initially I didn't see the need. IT IS ESSENTIAL people.

  • @samukelisiwendlovu4507
    @samukelisiwendlovu4507 4 года назад +2

    Wow guys this is a brilliant video thank you for being so transparent and honest with us ❤️❤️❤️

  • @edithkimberlymhlongo8346
    @edithkimberlymhlongo8346 4 года назад +1

    LMAOOOOOOOO hayi your husband is funny!! loved watching the vid, great content!!!