Lol, Nozi this story reminds me of how I asked my husband if he'd started his lobola fund a month or two into our relationship. After that conversation he called his financial advisor and they set it up. We got married that year. I agree with Skhu saying women must ask questions and have clarity.
I love what Nozi was saying about ilobola and I have the same views. I believe that it is even up to us brides to speak to our families bangayibaxi. If we are old enough to marry, we are old enough to have tough conversations.
Nozi - when my hubby told his parents that he wants to marry me. The first question his father asked was "How much money do you have? He told him that he is not going to have the marriage conversation without money being sorted out first. Yho! I appreciated my father inlove so much yazi because shem umntu wam wadibanisa izinto zakhe wathengisa neemoto zakhe just so we can proceed with the marriage conversation.
I agree with you Bhuti Skhu, I think in a relationship, it's vital to know if you in it to play or for long term mutual interest (marriage), cause it's painful for both genders to have pure intentions for someone only to find out that you are a mere temporal contract
The way SisNozi pays attention to her husband as he speaks.. I'm here for it, I love to see it... It commands even us to pay attention to the wisdom Ka BhutiSkhu
Oh I love you guys soo much. Your authenticity, boldness, strength & realness.. Believe it or not you guys are changing lives and helping so many people out there. May God bless you more, all the way from Namibia 🇳🇦🇳🇦😘😘😘
@@madamflames wow thanks there's a car I always see with it on the registration when we jog in the evenings but never got a chance to meet the owner and ask.
Case study;-The girl comes in fully loaded as an asset,educated,has a job ,has assets,has demonstrated ability to be home maker but still ,it’s a favor for a man to propose,It’s a sad reality across the globe!And the mans family has to approve.God help us women!
I watched it from the beginning to the end wooooow I enjoyed... I was feeling insecure regarding asking my boyfriend such questions because I don't it to seem as if I am forcing him. Thank you so much for this❤❤❤❤❤
Sis don't be ashamed. We've been played for temporary woman for too long while a person is waiting for the right girl. You have a right to know especially when you can see that things are not adding up or going any particular direction
Getting married involves you, meaning it’s your life as well so you have every right to know where your own life is going, he won’t be doing you a favour, this is a joint decision. And if the answer is “not yet” then you must ask “why not now and if not now when?”. Some reasons are legitimate and if a man says that he’s not yet ready because of reasons that make sense, don’t be pushy. But he must be asked and he shouldn’t get defensive or think you’re desperate, those are little boys who shouldn’t even be dating.
We need the full story of the sabbatical because the date posted on Facebook still seems to be an issue for Skhu, and he also has skeletons in his closet because he doesn’t want Nozi “laying it all on the floor” 🤣🤣🤣. I died at that story at the end where the bride ended her friendship with Nozi after she showed up at her wedding (clearly upstaging the bride 😅). Nozi, please tell us- did you wear a bridal gown to the wedding? A red dress? Give us the juice 🤣🤣🤣 Love from Kenya 🇰🇪
Your videos are so educational, honest and covers everything i was uncertain about . Thank you, Nozi for using your life stories as a tool to inspire and enhance our outlook on different topics! 🤝🏽
😅😅Being introduced to family means nothing...it is no guarantee for marriage, some inlaws might be all fakes, including the boyfriend. They might even string you along as a makoti, meanwhile all other girlfriends are treated the same. At that stage never loose yourself in that promise, continue with your life until it is for real. Stop acting like a wife until you get there.
I agree with this. You will be putting in all this work that his family will be enjoying and he still wont marry you. Just do things because you want to and not as a performance.
So true, that's why I want to tell my sons that I don't want to see different faces, the day they decide to introduce a girl to us they must make sure it's the one they are serious about & ready to send uncles.
Yhuuu watched this channel once with my bae😭 jiki jiki umntu is calling me with some "Babe have you seen the New video,yhoo are you going to do the same to me like Nozi did to Skhu" haibo
It's the realness for me❤❤ Skhu unfortunately your wife looks great in everything, she's got a beautiful body it doesn't matter what she's wearing 🤞🏼 🤣
I’m like Nozi, I don’t hint, I ask and I don’t even leave clues, I make sure you know my ring size😂 We can’t be behaving like these men are doing us a favour by marrying us, it’s a joint decision that both parties should have information about. We can’t play guessing games with our lives. And only boys who are still playing will call it “desperate”.
Thank you Nozi for explaining the significant of Lobola (i share the same sentiments) we have to think of the after life and remember the reason for it......very important to ensure that both couples do not go into debts to impress others.
Yooh Nozi 😄your marketing skills yokuba umakoti..ive taken some tips😄... Love you guys your video content is always informative n narrated interestingly..im laughing right now
Nothing excites me more than Nozi saying "Skhu" & Skhu saying "tshini thiza" 😂😂😂😂 Then there's Nozi's "kaloku" that sounds so fancy you'd swear it went to Harvard 😂😂😂
Yio guys Ndiyanithanda...your stories are funny but very educational. Thank you Nozi for the free advice.😂😂😂 Definetly using them in my next relationship ( hopefully a promising one leading to marriage🙏).
Good for you Nozi 👊😁, you definitely asked the right questions. I also did the same with my then boyfriend, who is my husband now. Umntu must state their intentions and they need to be clear.
I love your openness, you guys are always fun to watch and thanks for looking out for the sisters Nozi and for all advices from both of you. I enjoyed this video.
I have already asked my Boyfriend when he is marrying me, he said soon but I will tell him I need dates as well because I need assurance that I will happen
Sis Nozi pleeease don't start Uncle Skhu with the haircut issue because you know he's gonna come back with iTint that looks like its airbrushed 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and then you're gonna complain again!
Just thinking that me, myself and I was engaged for 4 years 😅😅😅 I was not bothered yaz because we were both still studying back then 🤣🤣 kdw if tables were turned ai nam bendizofuna ukubona payslip shaim 🤣🤣🤣
Nozi, my husband proposed August 2014 wathi he will go pay lobola June 2015... I was like what??? Aykwazi kalok!!! So mna I’ll have to keep this secret for 9months? I asked him unamalini and believe me he went home December same year because the money he saved was good enough but because we never communicated about such things, so he was clueless.
I am Nozi mna guyzini, take me to your home, you are definitely marrying me. I go there ready, with even meals planned ahead. I make sure I leave there with my inlaws ready to negotiate lobola for me.
I don't think people have any idea how far and how traumatic indlela eya eLusikisisiki is, igwijogwijo Sana... You can't go all the way for nothing Sana ngeke, he had to marry you
Not Skhu saying "I'm back, not by popular demand." 😂😂😭😭
Hahaha!
One thing about the Mayaba's? They'll deliver raw and great content. Thank you very much for this platform
Ohhh I love them ❤️❤️❤️ hay klk Khu...
@@ntuthundzongana9157 ha.ana Skhu❤️❤️❤️❤️. 😹😹😹 Wholesome content
so true
Like they talk about exes and personal experiences so openly❤️
I love how Mrs Mayaba is unapologetic about her stunts.. LOL.. God bless the union and the level of transparency. It is honestly helping us.
Lol, Nozi this story reminds me of how I asked my husband if he'd started his lobola fund a month or two into our relationship. After that conversation he called his financial advisor and they set it up. We got married that year. I agree with Skhu saying women must ask questions and have clarity.
Oh I am so I'm love with you guys. You are reviving what had died in me. I bless you that The Almighty hide you under His shadow.
Love this and I took note👏🏿
I love Nozi's SouthAfrican English😂😂😂
I love what Nozi was saying about ilobola and I have the same views. I believe that it is even up to us brides to speak to our families bangayibaxi. If we are old enough to marry, we are old enough to have tough conversations.
I completely completely agree with this...
Abazali bavele bathi sizenza cheap.... Njani when we're thinking about our future? Enye into, siyathengiswa nah kwacacba ilobola izawbaxwa kanje?
Totally agree, I also did that.
Those small funny arguments in the beginning of all videos😂❤️❤️..
Tell me about it 😅😂😂😂🤣
#suzettekeybah
🤣🤣 Like all the time, they never disappoint
I look forward to those fight😂😂vele ndihleke isangena
All the time 😂😂
It's a must kaloku😂😂😂
“Ai kalokhu Skhu” has to be my favourite line🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️
I enjoy your conversations ...please add subtitles for when you speak the local language for your international followers
The banter between you two is everything😂, Nozi needs to allow uButhi Skhu to tell us the story about her Facebook date🤣
we want to know about the date!!!
I think she was making him jealous,she's wise
Nozi - when my hubby told his parents that he wants to marry me. The first question his father asked was "How much money do you have? He told him that he is not going to have the marriage conversation without money being sorted out first. Yho! I appreciated my father inlove so much yazi because shem umntu wam wadibanisa izinto zakhe wathengisa neemoto zakhe just so we can proceed with the marriage conversation.
I love it when you laugh hard Nozi and umshaye uSkhu on the hand. Beautiful.
Ndiyanithanda. Especially Nozi for standing firm for what you want, seeking clarity in everything.
Nozi you hit the nail on the head! When you get to meet his family there's no turning back I feel you sis.
I agree with you Bhuti Skhu, I think in a relationship, it's vital to know if you in it to play or for long term mutual interest (marriage), cause it's painful for both genders to have pure intentions for someone only to find out that you are a mere temporal contract
My favs😍😍😍😍❤as for leaving rings all-over the place🤣🤣🤣that's a good one
The way SisNozi pays attention to her husband as he speaks.. I'm here for it, I love to see it... It commands even us to pay attention to the wisdom Ka BhutiSkhu
These videos always feel like therapy sessions 🥰🥰🥰i love you guys
Oh I love you guys soo much. Your authenticity, boldness, strength & realness.. Believe it or not you guys are changing lives and helping so many people out there. May God bless you more, all the way from Namibia 🇳🇦🇳🇦😘😘😘
Which country flag is this Suzette?
@@khulumandoda9595 Namibia
@@madamflames wow thanks there's a car I always see with it on the registration when we jog in the evenings but never got a chance to meet the owner and ask.
@@khulumandoda9595 you are welcome
@@madamflames hopefully one day yourself too will find you visiting Margate Beach (South Coast of KZN)
Case study;-The girl comes in fully loaded as an asset,educated,has a job ,has assets,has demonstrated ability to be home maker but still ,it’s a favor for a man to propose,It’s a sad reality across the globe!And the mans family has to approve.God help us women!
I tell you.
Nozi for leadership👊yhuu singaphela ngaba bhuti😂...wafika mntase sewu ready uzithe long dress ntombi😂😂
As for "I was thinking of going home and you jumped in..." Nozi is a true definition of taking what is yours unapologetically 🤣🤣🤣
Nozi is such a clever girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’m in tears “I had to show them my capabilities “. The rings I’m dead🤣
‘I can’t be a rebound’🤣🤣 Nozi doesn’t play when it comes to finances 🔥Thanks for content you two 😍👏🏽
Skhu has explanations for everything 😂🤣
Dude😅😅
@@preciouskeigh love him for that
😂😂😂😂 purposely leave your ring for the ring size 😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭Nozi
I love how you pay attention to hubby, and facial expression encourages him to open up more.
I love how he looks at you and shakes his head, haha cute
I'm watching ndilapha e Matatiele bantase Eastern Cape❤️❤️❤️❤️♥️♥️😍
Nozi you are my role model bathong. You straight out prepared that man for you.
I watched it from the beginning to the end wooooow I enjoyed... I was feeling insecure regarding asking my boyfriend such questions because I don't it to seem as if I am forcing him. Thank you so much for this❤❤❤❤❤
Sis don't be ashamed. We've been played for temporary woman for too long while a person is waiting for the right girl. You have a right to know especially when you can see that things are not adding up or going any particular direction
Getting married involves you, meaning it’s your life as well so you have every right to know where your own life is going, he won’t be doing you a favour, this is a joint decision. And if the answer is “not yet” then you must ask “why not now and if not now when?”. Some reasons are legitimate and if a man says that he’s not yet ready because of reasons that make sense, don’t be pushy. But he must be asked and he shouldn’t get defensive or think you’re desperate, those are little boys who shouldn’t even be dating.
My facial muscles got their workout for the day! I doubt that I laugh this much on other vlogs.
The smile on Skhu's face when Nozi talks 🥰❤️ yuuuuuh guys uthando 🥰🥰🥰🥰
"If this 1 is not serious I know my mother in law is going to push"😂😂😂nans itip
Rebound=A project you are just managing 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"How else is he going to know your ring size" Lmao l love Nozi🤣🤣🤣
We need the full story of the sabbatical because the date posted on Facebook still seems to be an issue for Skhu, and he also has skeletons in his closet because he doesn’t want Nozi “laying it all on the floor” 🤣🤣🤣.
I died at that story at the end where the bride ended her friendship with Nozi after she showed up at her wedding (clearly upstaging the bride 😅). Nozi, please tell us- did you wear a bridal gown to the wedding? A red dress? Give us the juice 🤣🤣🤣
Love from Kenya 🇰🇪
I want to know all the above too😂😂😂 🇺🇬
Story tiiiimeeeee
I want to know too. Or maybe share pics.
Wow, you're so much on point. We want everything laid down on the floor. From both parties!
Let's understand...Nozi is not a rebound 😂😂 love this lady
Your videos are so educational, honest and covers everything i was uncertain about . Thank you, Nozi for using your life stories as a tool to inspire and enhance our outlook on different topics! 🤝🏽
Nozi & Skhu u guys were made for each other, I'm ano yenu is bomb👌❤️
Project Manager - Skhumbuzo Goodman Mayaba
Sis 😭 🤣🤣
I love this! You guys are so realistic and raw, love how you are friends with each other❤️
I love Nozibele. Straight forward about everything. Asks tough questions.
I am officially addicted to you guys. You are a true definition of God's love
Nozi you actually now look younger and fresh compared to the time you met with Skhue kkkkkk. keep on serving the bedroom food frequently
😁😁
Nozi and Skhu are a blessing to the nation yazi, everything you do and eventually post has a purpose. Siyabulela keep on doing you 'The Mayaba's'
😅😅Being introduced to family means nothing...it is no guarantee for marriage, some inlaws might be all fakes, including the boyfriend. They might even string you along as a makoti, meanwhile all other girlfriends are treated the same. At that stage never loose yourself in that promise, continue with your life until it is for real. Stop acting like a wife until you get there.
I agree with this. You will be putting in all this work that his family will be enjoying and he still wont marry you. Just do things because you want to and not as a performance.
Aii even when you get there mtase 🤣🤣🤣🤣 be the wife that does nothing hai singafa with this makoti thing!
So true, that's why I want to tell my sons that I don't want to see different faces, the day they decide to introduce a girl to us they must make sure it's the one they are serious about & ready to send uncles.
Thanks sis Nozi have been waiting for this upload 🥰🥰
You need to know the road the relationship is leading to
#Powerful
Yhuuu watched this channel once with my bae😭 jiki jiki umntu is calling me with some "Babe have you seen the New video,yhoo are you going to do the same to me like Nozi did to Skhu" haibo
I laughed throughout this whole video. Haa, I also need to make things happen for myself this way!
It's the realness for me❤❤
Skhu unfortunately your wife looks great in everything, she's got a beautiful body it doesn't matter what she's wearing 🤞🏼 🤣
And ndingowokuqala ubukela lena 💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻 notification gang 🕺
I've really been sleeping on you guys' content!! Love it so much!😂😂😂
It's Skhu's explanations for me 😂😂😂
I bumped into your youtube channel and became your big fun instantly. I love your sense of humor. You two were made for each other.
I’m like Nozi, I don’t hint, I ask and I don’t even leave clues, I make sure you know my ring size😂 We can’t be behaving like these men are doing us a favour by marrying us, it’s a joint decision that both parties should have information about. We can’t play guessing games with our lives. And only boys who are still playing will call it “desperate”.
Thank you Nozi for explaining the significant of Lobola (i share the same sentiments) we have to think of the after life and remember the reason for it......very important to ensure that both couples do not go into debts to impress others.
My favourite couple big up watching from 🇧🇼
😂🤣🤣Nozi was veeery intentional kalok.🤣love u guys❣️
Yooh Nozi 😄your marketing skills yokuba umakoti..ive taken some tips😄... Love you guys your video content is always informative n narrated interestingly..im laughing right now
She has a full on post about that weekend ahamba kukotiza ngayo. Look for it...it's fun to view and learn👊🏾❤
Nothing excites me more than Nozi saying "Skhu" & Skhu saying "tshini thiza" 😂😂😂😂
Then there's Nozi's "kaloku" that sounds so fancy you'd swear it went to Harvard 😂😂😂
Also ad Skhu saying "RUclips channel"
And when she says "u njalo ke wena" 🤣🤣🤣
Yambona le "kaloku"🤣🤣🤣🙆♀️
It's the list for me hahahaha "dramatic, romantic..." 🤣 🤣 🤣 You're like me and we attract opposites
😂😂 nkosiyami the way you always look at him in shock 😂😂😂😂
He was not rebounding but managing contracts 😅🤣😂😅
Yayivaa na Management 😂😂😂😂😂
Hi Nozi &Skhu may you put nyana subtitles 😂 We don’t wana miss anything. 🇿🇼🇬🇧
Thank you for saying that we really do need subtitles
Click on the small box with 'cc' on the top right corner
Motaung Mamello l do hear English l mean put subtitles for xhosa because if you click that cc it translate wrong
Yio guys Ndiyanithanda...your stories are funny but very educational. Thank you Nozi for the free advice.😂😂😂 Definetly using them in my next relationship ( hopefully a promising one leading to marriage🙏).
What a wonderful and informative video. Thank you for sharing your experience with us.
Statements!!!🤣🤣🤣
Nozi is leadership shem🤣🤣🤣
Watching from Botswana🇧🇼 i love you guys !!
Good for you Nozi 👊😁, you definitely asked the right questions. I also did the same with my then boyfriend, who is my husband now. Umntu must state their intentions and they need to be clear.
I love your openness, you guys are always fun to watch and thanks for looking out for the sisters Nozi and for all advices from both of you. I enjoyed this video.
Basho “ill lay it all on the floor” 🤣🤣🤣
Listen he did such a fast u turn😭😭😭😭
@@yandisantlahla9190 jongi Uturn enjeni
Hekeeeee Nozi wabaryt uJampe...Jonga uMazala approved you🤣❤
The ring advise 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣! Y’all really make our day!
Hae Nozi, you are clear on matters! 🔥😂
You knew what you wanted, and you went for it!
🤣😂 Not the short-term contracts and projects! 🤣😂
😂😂😂.......kuthiwa waxhuma uNozi wathi singaya nakusasa eLusikisiki.
LOL sugeza I dieded right there
I have already asked my Boyfriend when he is marrying me, he said soon but I will tell him I need dates as well because I need assurance that I will happen
“I will lay it all on the floor.” 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for a great teaching guys, very informative I needed this 👏🏽❣️
Sis Nozi pleeease don't start Uncle Skhu with the haircut issue because you know he's gonna come back with iTint that looks like its airbrushed 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and then you're gonna complain again!
You were wishy washy.. Hilarious 😂 😂 😂
Just thinking that me, myself and I was engaged for 4 years 😅😅😅 I was not bothered yaz because we were both still studying back then 🤣🤣 kdw if tables were turned ai nam bendizofuna ukubona payslip shaim 🤣🤣🤣
My goodness my tummy hurts I laughed so hard through out this video😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂And the story at the end🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🤣🤣🤣
Nozi, my husband proposed August 2014 wathi he will go pay lobola June 2015... I was like what??? Aykwazi kalok!!! So mna I’ll have to keep this secret for 9months? I asked him unamalini and believe me he went home December same year because the money he saved was good enough but because we never communicated about such things, so he was clueless.
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Ku rough mtase. We have to grab these opportunities 🙈
I am Nozi mna guyzini, take me to your home, you are definitely marrying me. I go there ready, with even meals planned ahead. I make sure I leave there with my inlaws ready to negotiate lobola for me.
Akavumi ukuba i'rebound🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't think people have any idea how far and how traumatic indlela eya eLusikisisiki is, igwijogwijo Sana... You can't go all the way for nothing Sana ngeke, he had to marry you
It's Skhu being wishy washy for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Nozi you not the only, nami sana had that experience was invited after that umuntu zange asangithethisa
Loved this conversation guys😂 too many gems and words of wisdom 👌🏾👌🏾
The honesty between you two😭😭❤❤
I can't kaloku!! 😂😂😂 I felt that👏🏾
Yhenina 🤣🤣🤣🤣bank statements, Nozie uyibhoza yam. Teach us gurl. Yhey awumdlali upuce
😆 🤣 😂 😹 one thing about Nozi, akadlali ngemali lol dead by wanting to see bank statement
"don't get overdressed" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣that part killed me
Oh God I pray mommy Nozi come to my wedding next year.. 😂 😂 😂 And Uncle skhu will be the driver yoooo painting Polokwane purple
💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Ncooh I LOVE this couple you so funny, I've watching you for quite a while now, I love this channel
Location sila......thanks Cc nozi sana we really need 2 ask or talk abt this things thanks buti Skhu we need 2 remind them sana❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🤣😂
That is the grand introduction plus half for me... Already I am in 😂😂😂😂oksa layo you are my fave couple❤️❤️❤️
Hai Nozi going out for coffee dates 😂😂❤️
Introducing part 🤣🤣🤣