If You See THIS, They’re Erasing You From Their Life
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- Опубликовано: 5 июл 2024
- I'm going to list six sinister signs from least important to most important that the person you're dating (or hoping to date) is in the process of erasing you from their life forever.
Buckle up we are in for one wild ride! 
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There are way more narcissists than those that are recorded. Narcissists don’t volunteer to go to psychologists/psychiatrists which would be the first factor in the process to getting diagnosed. Social media has increased the presence of narcissism exponentially.
Social media use is linked to the narcissism witch does not mean yet that it makes one become a narcissist. The main reason is a lack of unconditional love in the childhood- parents only show love to the child as a prize for some achivement or good behavior.
@@gandziaragandziara5425 I received minimal love as a child. I am not a narcissist. However, I also never developed the irrational fear almost all humans have about having no amicable nor amorous connections with other humans. I have had no connections with humans since the 8th of August 2000 at 18:34. Though, parents are never recommended to not show love to their offspring, it seems it was made into a positive of sorts. I have no need for friends nor a girlfriend. My independence, self-reliance, freedom, resourcefulness, and knowledge of how to do things completely alone, is unparalleled when compared to humans that require companionship. There are enormous advantages to being disconnected to humans. It is recommended all try social isolation. Should it prove to be impossible to navigate life without human companionship, one can always assimilate the customs and protocols associated with successful, interpersonal, social, connections, before they change again.
This
Social media has increased the presence of narcissism and *histrionic personality disorder* exponentially. fixed it for you.
Narcissists may even fool the psychologist.
What makes Narcissists stand out from your average egoistic individual, is that the five criteria that are "very human" traits, they drive the narcissist to do things that go against all other human traits such as empathy, compassion, and understanding. The narcissist will destroy you for any small reason that makes them feel fragile, whereas someone who isn't dead inside would try work it out for reasons that aren't directly related to instant self gratification. Narcissists are the claw machine at arcades, it doesn't matter how many coins you put in or how good you are with it, it will only give you the prize as it is programmed to do. You might have spent the most money on it and it might not even be you who gets the prize, someone else will get the reward after you as it's programming hits a certain threshold. The prizes are usually cheap useless stuff that you could attain anywhere, you just don't feel you need it until it becomes a game. That's what a narcissist is, it's a con and a bad investment of your time.
Love this analogy!
If my boss does not pay me, they do not get the pleasure of my existence.
Consider yourself LUCKY AND BLESSED when they erase you from their life!!! 🙌
Considering the endless suffering and stress that you would have to endure with narcissistic partners who don’t care, it’s best to just walk away from them forever, work on yourself physically, financially and possibly move on with someone who are not emotionally unavailable and will value and reciprocate your emotions.
I think the percentage of narcissists in this world is much higher than what they indicate. The problem with the disorder is that they usually treat those closest to them the worst (and wear a mask to most everyone else) and they don't think there's anything wrong with them, so they are never going to go for help or a diagnosis. I have no doubt in my mind that I dated one about 6 years ago. Worst experience of my life!
Most people seem to be covert narcs 😂
Really
To remedy the problematic decay of social protocols and customs that seem to be creating narcissists in droves, simply avoiding others is an easy solution to an ever escalating planetary problem. I deleted all humans crm my life the 8th of August 2000 at 18:34. They were all a bunch of fakes, liars, and users. Observing the decay of society, it was logical to choose to simply no longer seek friendship nor a romantic interest again. Deleting the social aspect of life has led to unparalleled freedom, independence, self-reliance, resourcefulness, and knowledge to be able to do things completely alone, where the socials require humans to be able to do the same. In the 21st century, the positives of being social are very few. However, the negatives of being social are incredibly high. With this knowledge, I have chosen to exist without the parasites that are today known as friends and romantic interest. Life becomes instantly easier without the handicap of being social today.
YES.
@redefineliving5974
Yes.
This video is ON POINT. I improved my life so much more after he monkey branched to the girl he cheated on me with (they rushed into marriage in less than a year). All i can say is she saved me from a life of misery, and I have nothing holding me back form achieving my goals that were stunted while with him.
You don't have to change. You thought you were with the right person, that was what needed to be changed
What Chris said is just so true. I gave myself to that relationship, so he begun to feel discomfort. I was not aware of all the theory, so my world just fell off apart. We finally broke up. After theraphy and 1 year, I have new projects, learned a lot about myself and regained my confidence. All of a sudden last week he called to greet for my bday. I felt good about the call, felt like that old friend you like to talk to, but I did not feel that overwhelming intensity and anxiety in me. After the call I even forgot about it. So, I am feeling successful for now. 😅
That sounds very similar to my situation. I broke up with him in February of 2023. Then, in September, he sent me a happy birthday text. I said thank you, and that was that. I know he wanted me to ask how he was doing. But I didn't, because I didn't care to know anymore. I was quite proud of myself. 😁
I love how you switched from "get your ex" to "you deserve something better" 🎈🎈🎈🦋🦋🦋🎶🎶🎶
Never give anybody a second chance to be a part of your life again. If you can exist independently, without human companionship, do not bother to replace the parasites you delete lfrom your life. Most modern humans are worthless for companions. If you must have human companionship, never allow anybody a second chance to hurt you again. With 7,666,314,217 humans on the planet, there is no reason to give anybody a second chance in your life.
Me too!
He would make me cry and stare blankly at me; he would shout and scream at me, and get family to see me as the bad guy and him as the innocent one; he would go to the store and grab only what he wants, not what we need.... I held on to hope--toxic hope, I've learned. But after 5 years of marriage and 2 toddlers, I've grown indifferent and picked back up my hobbies and am changing careers so I can financially leave this marriage. NOW he wants to spend time together; NOW he wants to go on dates; NOW he talks about traveling and buying a house; NOW he doesn't want to argue anymore. No, thanks.
Stay as far away as you can, do not look back! Work on healing yourself, get the job you need and take care of yourself. You don’t need a man child. You were already doing things all by yourself you can surely stand on your own two feet! Enjoy the peace n freedom!
Everything is reverseld with narcissist....while ordinary people feel someone elses pain, and dont wat their pain sprewad...
NPD peopel feel joy to cause pain.........
the court system should create a category, like give them financial punishment....
but the person who loves with open heart is not able to collect quickly all the evidence about lies or abuse
because even compllecting the evidence looks like narcissistic move., or suspicious
nobody is filming other person in shamefiul situation....thinking if this person in future will become a narcissisit I will use this clip to show I am good guy.
because such "gesture" would make you a narcissist...(if we consider that narcissists play a games and calculate)
so person with open heart would never put partrner in shameful situation...
so expecting that our btrain has some radar to know immediatelly who is narcissist or who isnt is leading nowhere as well, it creates paranoya
because being extremely suspicious would make us a narcissist, trying to find evidence and play a games constantly, and stalking the person, every comment and every word, every action, to find out whether thyea re or whether thye are not teh narcissist.... thye will think well you must be a narcissist if you are watching me like a watchdog.
Mabye the only way to find solution is some meditation or spiritual solution.
maybe use the intuition, and hope that the person is genuine.
Hoovering.
Run and don't look back. You can do better, even if better means being alone for a while.
Got ghosted for two days on February 13th, broken up with on February 15th. Just got accepted onto a highly competitive doctorate and moving away for 3 years come September. Thank you to my ex for not holding me back 😂❤
They target special occasions. It was intended to ruin Valentine's Day forever.
“Dating Industry”. Says it all.
Shallow
... they fall off the assembly line
Yep. Very transactional. Hallow. Shallow, indeed.
Because I outsmarted her discard plan and secretly got an apartment months before the discard phase started. So I think she’s fixated on the need to regain her idea of control so she decides when the bottom falls out from underneath me because she needs to enjoy my misery in order to discard me for that ultimate ego boost that comes from her feeling validated vindicated and supremely superior all bundled together in my broken heart and destroyed life. I’m so happy I got to deny her the expected end game she was so carefully planning.
That's awesome.. love it!
A lot of narcissists don’t attend therapy, so don’t get diagnosed. Narcissistic style is the zeitgeist of the day. The PD is also contagious; victims of CPTSD can sometimes exhibit traits of narcissism. Source: Sam Vaknin
Sam Vaknin is a self-proclaimed psychopath, so keep that in mind when he makes statements like that. I'm guessing he has no scientific data from any studies to back his claim that narcissistic personality disorder is contagious.
People with cptsd are usually also victims of narcissists
Find someone who listens with interest, not looking for a way out.
People with actual NPD aren't going to go for help and actually admit their issues.
Exactly, so they go "undocumented" in the count
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All 6 actions, while still saying she loves me and misses me. Wow.
His ex was still his Mommy...i had no chance...
Same with most of them. Children.
Momma boys urgh god 😅
Same....his backup...
Some people erase you from their life because you really never were present in the first place.
If you are watching those type of video about someone's behavior or intentions its really a sign that this relationship isnt working anymore and you search answer to either dip or reassure yourself being the victim.
The real thing is, for me, YOU ARE the problem.
At the end of the day we chose people we speak to, hang out with and have sex with.
If you perpetually choose someone that betray your core value, thats ON you.
Obviously myself included, ive 'wasted' so much time wondering if a girl was thinking about me or if she wanted to see me the next week end meanwhile every signs showed me that i was her last option or the option she chose when she needed me.
And thats when they erase you. Sometimes they still wanna keep you around incase their other option doesnt chose them.
This! People do not want to admit to themselves that they are the problem! Figuring this out, is so empowering!
Spoken like a true narc.
This sounds like a narc!
I knew she was 'gone for good'....when I changed my phone number, closed my email accounts, ghosted all social media, and discarded all friends and contacts in common.
/not sarcasm
The video was interesting, thanks, but the part of making your ex feel sorry for their decision.... I don't see the point. If they prefer Hayley it doesn't have to do with me being less successful or being the wrong person, I don't need to change. I am just getting rid of someone that is not tuned with me and is unable to release me until there is a replacement...
I agree with you. Men seem hellbent on going all these extra steps for no reason
I only learned about a lot of this stuff recently. The term for changing partners while in a relationship is "monkey branching". Creepy it's so common it has a name.
The only thing I disagree with are the stats. Realistically, how many people who might qualify for aspd/npd would actually volunteer to be assessed (without a rock bottom)? Almost none.
As for the rest, if dealing with people like this, it may be best to let them remember a slobbering mess. It's not what our ego might want, but we already know they would ruin our hard-earned successes if they could. Besides, our lives are none of their business.
Half the USA 🇺🇸 wake up
A point on the envious trait - I think there’s a difference between jealousy (humane) and envy (inhumane).
Jealousy makes you look inward to better your own success against someone else, whereas envy drives you to sabotage someone else’s success to feel better about yourself.
There’s a reason this is basically a “universal sin”…
TRAUMA BOND!!
Alot of narcissistic here on comment sector not knowing they are narcissistic
I find it ironic when I see comments that start with "I'm an empath and my narc ex was horrible", while genuine empaths wouldn't need to outwardly project that they are so sweet.
Thank you for everything. I think your videos have caused a therapeutic effect on me over time.
They forever looking for mommy
😂 it’s a theme, yes.
None of these happened. She was loving and affectionate up until shortly after the sudden break up. I didn’t see it coming. She was loving hours after telling me her favorite moments and telling me how good a man I was and crying in my arms. But then after that day, she never wanted to see me again and became cold demanding no contact so she could move on. She loved me and still ran away because of her fears due to outside forces. It’s been several months. I’m still in so much pain and want her to come back but I think she has completely detached from me and probably doesn’t even think about me.
She's avoidant
Thx u for your videos I love the new direction your going....keep it up & go deeper ❤😂 you're truly freeing ppl from the BS of getting into relationships w/ horrible ppl & saving them them time.
Thank you for your channel and making this information available. I've been in an on and off relationship for 12 yrs. We recently had what I really believe is our final blow out. I have been struggling to really understand our dynamic, why our relationship and his behavior have been so confusing . I knew my partner grew up in a harsh family environment, which still persists in adulthood. I have been able to observe and draw many theories about his inability to have any healthy relationships. I felt like I had all the pieces, but I was still just missing something. Your videos just made all the pieces fall into place and have really helped me better understand my ex, our relationship, and feel less "crazy". Thank you for helping bring clarity and helping me heal.
You are talking about NPD, not narcissistic personality style, yes it's a spectrum. Most NPD's don't seek treatment, so 5% is questionable. Narcissistic Style is as high as 30%, and not all Avoidants are narcissistic but it's probably safe to assume that all Narcissistic people have insecure attachment.
Really great video.. Just found your channel. Love the clarity.
Love this part 5:12 ... I heard it phrased as "POSITIVE tension" ✨ is needed in a healthy relationship, not negative, not fake positive. Not a big fan of being overly positive, nor super negative. if you are just positive praise lets say, you are not creating the urgency of them claiming you. If they are not investing time in you... that speaks volumes. I am in the best relationship of my life, got it right this time. Like this point too!! 10:57
There are definitely more narcissists than that, I would also add that the average lay person is better at recognising and even diagnosing narcissists because they are in more direct contact of them and can side their unmasked side. I feel like “not everyones a narcissist” and the faux narc statistic are buzz phrases at this point! When people describe their relationships, they are all the same, just different cities, countries, man or woman, but they are all the same, love bombing, devaluing, gaslighting and so on; aka The trauma bond! It’s invalidating to tell people that they haven’t gone through narc abuse, because their abuser hasn’t seen a psychologist to diagnose them.
"everyone thinks their ex is a narcissist" 👏👏👏👏😁 im starting to super like your videos, compared to old vids... You are dressed more casual, your hair is nor perfectly done, you look Real and you talk Real 🎶 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Yesss .. my thoughts exactly, even the hair lol for real
Narcissist is a taught behavior no empathy no respect 😊
A bit like a car rolling off on its own, it might hit/hurt someone.
But if someone responsible is behind the wheel it won´t.
We heal some kids not strong enough
Really good content. Thank you.
I’m single but this content is providing all the tools I’ll need! lol
Same!
But we lived together for 15 years and we have been together for 22 years and we live 5 miles apart from each other. But he is an “Only Adult Child” that wouldn’t get a job so I kicked him out. He moved in with his mon. Now he doesn’t have to go to work.
My now ex is dangerous to play with people's emotions....
He got his way, i left.
should i be concerned as algorithm got me here?
The algorithm moves in mysterious ways
A narcissist wouldn't ask that! 🙂👍
Great video!
Thank you, it explains on the loss I experienced and myself.
Genius, simplistic and logical... Fantastic...
This is exactly how my last relationship came to an end!
I really enjoyed this video. Very well conceived and organized. I love the graphics, video additions and edits, and the flowing paced commentary. It helps make your points jell and it is much more interesting and engaging than lots of other videos I watch about dating and relationships. I realize doing all this isn't easy. But I don't want to listen to only a talking head spouting opinions and not providing sourcing and backup for some of their points, irrespective of their expertise. So thanks for respecting the audience. Your videos are kinda cool as I feel like I am having a cinematic experience. So thanks for the extra effort. I also appreciate the time you took to describe how to determine if someone is a narcissist and how that can be a slippery slope. Too many people toss that term around with any qualifiers. Also, at the end of the video you talk about it being a somewhat negative topic, but I really don't see it that way. It's like a siren call....a warning....a recipe of what to look for so you are not deluding yourself. Really good job. Keep it coming.
Sometimes you come across these passive-aggressive frenemies among the leadership in your church; if only one leader is like this, you may be able to tolerate it to a large degree, provided the other leaders don't emulate their behavior. I have decided that with a verbally abusive church leader I'm going to simply say, "The Lord rebuke you!" which is what Archangel Michael said to Satan when they were disputing over the body of Moses, and if it's good enough for an archangel to say, it's good enough for me to use too.
Yes, my narcissist ex spent 5 years in a relationship with me then goes on an internet dating show saying he hasn’t been in a relationship since his divorce 😂😂😂. I started wondering if I was the confused fool. I deleted every single message, photo, and video. Now I feel just like we never were together. Disgusting!
good point about YT emphasizing narcissist content
thanks
Or Reels, IG, Threads-algos in any social media yield more of related content to what you’ve already interacted with
15:41 That ending was completely worth it. Lost my girl of almost 3 years, 3 weeks ago and my heart is broken. She’s an avoidant and not truthful. The ending is absolutely true.
My question is why don’t people just become brave and be blunt!
Considering the endless suffering and stress that you would have to endure with narcissistic partners who don’t care, it’s best to just walk away from them forever, work on yourself physically, financially and possibly move on with someone who are not emotionally unavailable and will value and reciprocate your emotions.
This is a good video
Been trying the "massive success thing for two years now with very little fanfare. But I'm going to keep on trying. It's insanely difficult
You're definitely going to get mask underneath every time, whether you like it or not. Can be positive 👍🏻 or can also be negative 👎🏻 to that's reality. Take it or leave it 👍🏻😊✌🏻.
I use reciprocity. I'm only allowed to give as much as they are willing to step up. If they can't step up then I got to move on
In another video you said that avoidants do a lot of these things but it doesn’t mean they don’t care so how do you differentiate?
Hello Chris. I have a good idea for a video: Can you talk about how avoidant attachments interact with OCD? Im having troubles finding essays about it, but I know this girl who suffer both, and I started wondering that OCD can be a huge influence in the development of severe avoidant attachments, they seem to go hand in hand. And also the most essential question Ive tried to answer is: Does the OCD caused the attachment style or does the attachment style was created by other factors? And if the first question is true, does this mean that trying to heal the OCD first is the best option for these type of people or is there a chance to heal the avoidant attachment style first and leaving the OCD in second? Thanks.
What is it that makes you think the two are related? Do you have an example of something this person did? Specifically that caused your concern or your question? I would be interested to hear because I haven't really heard the two talked about very much together either
How do you know if the other person is indifferent or an avoidant or a breadcumber?
I just decided to mimic his behavior back to him and not worry about the outcome.
Maybe I'm an avoidant, too.
I appreciate my alone time.
When they say:
'I think we should stop seeing each other' or
'I don't love you'.
Damn, we're really out here dating the same person huh >< My ex did all of this to a T... Feel bad for the colleague he left me for, but hey, hopefully she either has better boundaries than I did or he's finally met someone exactly like himself lol
Said it the best at the end…
They TREAT SYMPTOMS!!
What if they always call back if I call him .we are broken up for a year but we sometimes still talk on the phone.we we're togeather for over 3 years. What does this mean. Ty.
Stop calling them!
I looked through your playlists, you mostly address romantic relationships. Do you have anything on kids, adult children. My daughter has this and her father has this. The way her father discarded me (and her), she has done the same thing, as though I am a romantic partner versus her mother. Both are avoidants with narcissistic tendencies. She has completely shot herself in the foot. Its the bizarrest thing I have ever seen because it is completely unnecessary. We spent 22 yrs close as can be and then I realized it was all an illusion. Have you heard of this new estrangement going on with parents/child? Do you think this is avoidants of some sort? Did you have any of this with your parents? (My apologies if that is too personal).
I appreciate you reading this comment and I hope you have some insight to offer.
Amazing🎉❤
We all have 'narcissistic traits' and there's nothing more 'narcissistic' and self-interested than dumping someone you've said you love.
I love Chris's RUclips existential crisis...
They're nothing like being a narc!!!!!!!
Clearly, you haven't done a deep dive, or else you may need to look at yourself. 🤷♀️
Not necessarily. It definitely depends on the reasoning behind it, but also it can be less selfish because they could stay with you knowing that they don't feel the same way about you or knowing that you're not the one where they can't or don't want to give you what you need in a relationship or they can stay and cheat. Those would be more selfish than letting a person go sometimes. If you love somebody but you know that your values don't align or you're not capable of meeting their needs. If you really do love that person you would let them go so they can find somebody that does and can do those things...
It all depends how you look at it and how the person presented it to you, and acted
Most narcissists only show up IN a romantic relationship. So a clinician won’t see it.
Experience with someone is the best way to diagnose. Most adults are capable of diagnosing narcissism in a romantic partner. It’s not difficult. Just like when we know our child is hungry or tired or getting a cold. It’s not rocket science.
My ex girlfriend has been avoiding me for the past two monts, she's an avoidant (fearful or dismissive idk), she sometimes says that she misses me and thinks about me even tho she's not texting me. I ask her what does she want from me and she tells me distance and time spent alone with herself. But until the last few days she still had some photos of us on social media but she deleted them like 2 days ago. I don't know if she still cares about me but i have a feeling that she does. I wanted to marry her but I'm sick of all the toxicity and hot & cold behaviour. Last week she told me that she wants to be alone so i started no contact and she was kinda mad that I don't write her. She started posting stories on Instagram and posted a pic, then then when i told her what does she want to do she said that she wants to enjoy time spent alone and she's not feeling good yet. What should i do ?
Why keep i watching Videos i dont want to know the info of?? F**k🤦🏻♀️.
Interesting video but please don't mix avoidant attachment style with NPD. Avoidants already get enough flack.
Hey Chris been watching your videos for a while. My ex gf broke up with me about 5 months ago for me cheating. She found msgs on my phone to other women. Nothing physical but that doesn’t excuse the things I did. They are awful and disgusting what I did to her. After the break up, we were speaking. She was obviously still angry and hurt but we were starting to get back on track. She was gone on a trip for a month and we stayed in contact for the entire trip but we got into an argument in her last few days on the trip and things went south. She said she wanted space. I gave her space for a week and then she reached out. We spoke for a week and then she said she was going on a trip again for a month and said that we can be friends in the future but right now she can’t get over the things I did. We have been in no contact for a month. Other than me wishing her happy birthday and her replying we had msged each other a bit. Haven’t spoken in 2 weeks now and I was wondering how I go about getting her back.
Why did you cheat on her? Why didn't you value her before?
I left my ex because she cheated on me (not the only reason it was good for us to split at the time), but I am still in love with her. Focusing on myself so that I'm in the best position to know who I really am and what I really want, when I'm in a healthy place mentally and physically.
All to say, cheating doesn't have to mean the end, even if two people end up splitting for a time. I don't know that she and I will end up together, or that it's even the best thing to happen. Just wanted to voice the other side of it, where someone can be cheated on and still want to be with the other.
You don’t. You don’t deserve her. Should have thought about this before talking to other people. Let her find someone worth her time
On those trips she was getting drilled bro. Just move on and get it right the next relationship
MOVE ON! there are too many women on this planet to worry about 1 . She isn't the mother of your kids and you aren't married!
I got scared beyond worried about being dumped when he erased all signs of connection online..,,right before taking me to his remote location home. I started recording and putting up defensive strategies that day
Run it’s the devil 👿
Good, makes your life a lot easier, don't come back
Why are the top of you arms and hands orange?
When he me he was going to have to get going. I would always say, OK, bye. This is always what I do when ANYONE says they need to get going. This is consideration in my eyes. He got bent about it telling me HE should be the one to end the call! But he told me he had to get going! Crazy, crazy shit!
Avoidant's do the same thing up to and including the non-empathetic discard.
If someone has 4 of the traits, it’s called “Narcissistic Style”
Shouldn’t everyone ignore and move on after being dumped.. no contact taken to a whole new level lol
I can tell you that I bravely moved my residence to another town to forget my ex and to end his sporadic half- baked attempts to see me. I was sure i was protecting myself from his "games" and though he asked none of my friends gave him my new number or address. (this is before google and cellphones)!
thirty years later i started having nightmares about him. quick search finds him living in my new town now. i have never been involved with anyone since. i am so lonely. dont be me and thats all i can say. its sad, time goes by...hold a stupid grudge and you will pay for it. forgive and even just be friends, dont ghost and regret.
Run like ya seen the devil ❤
I think there is such a spectrum they have 5 whatever so strange
They have to have a CODE TO BILL #1. So it’s about charging $$$$. Billing initially to get any therapeutic help!
Good !
The bea revenge is. truky being or becoming happy.
Thanks
Works with friends too.
Chris - can you do a video where you've ghosted your FA Ex girlfriend and now you want her back?
Hi everyone. I broke up with my ex and got married to someone new after 8 months. The new marriage didn't go well and it all collapsed. I got in contact with my first ex and we've been talking on and off. My ex lost her mum recently and I sent her my condolences which she acknowledged. Last weekend she suggested we meet at a music event but I was unable as I had to accompany my son to a football match. My first ex has asked about my marriage that collapsed. Is my first ex still interested in me? Is she trying to come back to me?
It’s possible, but I wouldn’t assume it. People are just generally curious why a marriage fails, maybe to learn how to avoid the same mistakes in their marriage or future marriage
You broke up with your ex, you got remarried. You were the one that left the original relationship, how can someone come back to a person that left? It takes you to fix it, if you're the one who broke it.
Do i want to know this?? Ignorant Bliss???
I didn't....I knew..I hate to know..😢
Oh good !!!!!!
Well.... how often do narcissists receive psychotherapy? They're not going to be diagnosed if they aren't in a situation to be diagnosed. I think most of our society DOES have narcissistic tendencies, but..... I also am annoyed by everyone hating on "narcissists" like its a fad.
Never ❤
I would argue that the last one is actually the least sinister because there's a chance that your ex will find the grass isn't greener with Haley. Only when the signs of indifference are also present does the chance of him coming back from a rebound become slim.
As I understand it, narcissism is a spectrum. Yeah, we all have narc traits to a certain extent and we sometimes use them as a survival skill, but those who have narcissistic personality styles tend to overuse them. Like we all have leukocytes in our blood, the normal range, though, is 5000-10000. If there's more we're talking about inflammation or pathology. One way or another the body isn't functioning the way it should for doing all the normal every day things it's supposed to do and it might even end up with maladaptiveness. It's the same with narcissistic traits. But then again, it's easy to count blood cells, something tangible is easy to see and easy to measure, how do you measure character traits, though? 😀 Psychologists say in order to diagnose someone, first of all, the maladaptive behavior patterns must cause discomfort to the person themselves. I also heard that it's not as easy as just spotting 5-6 or more traits from the list, there's always the core ingredient that should be observed for every diagnose, everything else is just kind of "decoration" that might be there or might not be. Like corona, some had a fever, others didn't, some lost their smell, others didn't. Just fever or no smell itself is not an indicator that the patient has corona.
And I would also disagree with #4. Eh we're actually wired that way so we do or at least are supposed to care if the other person is in pain after we've hurt them. To a greater or a lesser degree, depends on how close we are with that person, of course, but a healthy person does care. Actually, guilt is the nature's way to signal us we're hurting someone, it's the nature's way to stop the harmful destructive action. If a person doesn't feel it, there's something wrong here, it could be a personality disorder, a trauma or some kind of a brain impairment, or maybe, something else.
Once a monkey brancher always a monkey brancher
You have to realise 8 billion people exist and many of them not raised properly...so yeah at least 4 billion narcissists
I start to hate him.
My ex is with the same sex
We were man and woman
Be grateful. You dodged a bullet. She doesn't even know what she is.
Your information is good but please stop the moving icons, it's making me nauseous.
Auw!!!!
Thank you for this video. The end is perfection. 🤌