I love long hair on men. When we first got together, my husband told me he'd had long hair in highschool that of course got buzzed when he joined the army. Then when I saw his senior picture, his hair just looked helmet-ish. I asked where was his long hair. He said, "in the back." I should have known. He graduated in '91.
Once thing I noticed is that most average males typically don't think of using hair as a advantage or disadvantage in a fighting situation. But I have seen plenty females fight growing up like during my school years or typical teenage drama even first time fighters and most females I seen fight their first instant go to is using the hair as a tool to gain the upper end. Its like its instinctual for them
It is like a honor thing, men do not do that, that's girl stuff, when you do that to your opponent ya get the risk of others getting involved in the fight and ya gonna have a bad time, well deserved it
@@shanehorton7651 My dad used to say there are 2 kinds of fights. Ones you win, ones you don't. No time for honor in a real fight. Save honor for the mat.
This is a great conversation, masculine and feminine characteristics, similarities and differences is one of my favorite topics to listen to and or talk about.
A British officer once told me, that by regulation their Sailors’ hair had to be at least a 4, so that they could pull them out of the water by their hair if they needed to.
Men and women are not the same, and that's a good thing. They never have been, and they never will be. It is okay to talk about those differences without getting politically correct about it. There is a reason feminine tendencies are more often associated with women, and masculine tendencies with men...
going further Robert Moore's King Warrior Magician Lover is great delineation of mature vs immature forms of masculine aspects, ie. King / baby tyrant, Magician / know-it-all, Warrior / "hero"
I always find the biblical argument mentioned very amusing. While the Bible does state that men should look masculine and women feminine, that was according to standards of their time. Men were also to maintain their beards yet many Christian men are clean shaven in the modern day. There's also the Biblical Hero of Samson, who power/relationship w/ God was reflected in his long hair- and he lost his power when Delilah cut his hair. There's also King David's son Absalom, who was also noted for his long, beautiful hair.
"Strong, controled, focussed, powerful, centred, purpose driven, love challenges, single task oriented problem solver, who wants freedom and release, makes big things small and forgets, needs admiration, wants to be needed and respected"
Samurai had that top knot, and shaved head so; A: their helmet would stay tilted forward, and B: the shaved portion would still adequately sweat when the helmet was worn.Evemtually, that just became the fashion style, after great armor was no longer utilized.
Physically, I'm a man but energetically I am more feminine. I'm more emotional, empathetic, and overall just supportive. I'd like to be more aggressive and "mainly" but I don't really know where to start
The Bible. A common theme for great men in the Bible is acknowledging their feminine side, but grounding it in the masculine. If you’re too barbaric, you’re just never going to have a healthy relationship. If you’re too feminine, you’re not going to be respected. Don’t get rid of your empathetic side, but try to ground your emotions more, be more neutral in your attitude and don’t react, but maintain control
Yin is the Feminine Principle, Yang is the Masculine Principle lol Both coming from The Void AND Anima is the feminine side in the unconscious of the male brain Animus is the masculine side in the unconscious of the female brain We all come from (thousands of) Males and Females. We're all a (binary) mix of both.
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i think it all depends on the type of culture. Modern military has adopted clean cut buzzed cuts, but if we look at other countries in the past, vikings, the ancient greeks/ spartans, huns, they all had long hair as it was a sign of virtue. As well men with long hair can just look animalistic and beast looking as well.
The hair description in regards to gender you have well-described in terms of military functionality. There's another recent social discussion of this under the RUclips video make Daddy a sandwich which describes the masculine and feminine in different social aspects.
My only small thing to add here about long hair the ancient Greeks and Romans alike sported long hair as well as many other civilizations (especially the Spartans) as a sign of ferocity and intimidation.
I agree with this but as a female we know that's a cheap shot to hair pull. So I don't pull, I take three steps and eventually they fall on their own incapabilities to balance their own body weight in attack.
1:30 Everything said can be characteristic of most human beings and has nothing to do with gender. NO I don't believe the podcast would be banned even if a trouble maker viewing this video tried to stir anything up because it's a well founded opinion based on observation of different situations and behavior Jocko has seen over the years. I don't believe anything he's saying is emotionally inflammatory; I would hope most people would agree.
I always thought the hair thing was about breaking down the individual’s uniqueness and making them part of a group. Never considered the practical aspects.
Most guys I've seen with long beards are "tough looking" guys who are big, muscular and have lots of tattoos. I'm not sure many people will be messing with them in the first place.
As a man with long hair and beard: Yes, its a tactical disadvantage. However: You can tighten up everything into a bun, that reduces grapping options to not more, than "normal" short guys hair lenght.
@@visible2anyoneonyoutube How about wearing Nails and sharp sticks as a bun carrier you could also use for stabbing?^^ But yes i agree, shame hipsters ruined this for the most part
Humans evolved without modern hair/beard trimming tools…I appreciate the grabbing aspect…but this is also the first time I’ve ever heard the tactical advantage…which makes me wonder how much it was ever a top of mind takedown method in past humans.
3:53 lol no The only ancient tribe that cut their hair were the Romans (I know the ponytail liability, w/e) Also the same tribe famous for their Roman Orgies.... Where there were no "men and women", If you know what I mean.... 🤷
I have a medium beard, my hair is only long on top... buzzed on the side. While I am not an "intimidating " male, people do not go out of their way to mess with me. Makes them look twice especially when my beard n hair is braided. 😜😁🤣🤣🤣🤣 Maybe that berserker Highlander thing? Better to be avoided than have to get into it. I wonder what bikers n all think on this? Maybe I will feel differently once the world starts to burn and we are plunged into chaos. 😜 🤔 how are those latest trials going by the way? Oh, need a distraction from that? I think the 30th variant just popped up. 😳 😜🤣🤣🤣🙄
@@blackmcbain3145 oh that and Maxine Waters... of course that is on the same pedophiles as the other trial so we will not see anything on that one either....
Last time anyone even tried to rob me, it was literally 17 years ago. Considering my age that's more than twice of years in my life, not looking like a target, than looking like one.
Men and women are different. As a women I am proud of that. Each sex has their own strengths and weaknesses. We are in a sad time when we can not say this and both sexes will lose out.
@Anthony NSIMBI Im still here (maybe back to the with public ring in the next Sunday) and so is he. ;) (as you may imagine, we dont need a stage to have to fight, and if I do, I may BRAID)
ECHO was rudely ignored. But his correct a woman playing or pushing her hair back is a flirting technique they don’t know they even do it . Well said ECHO. No disrespect. With all due respect. I’ve rocked long hair I enjoyed it pulled in bed ( sarcasm) . I taught my daughter what to do when hair pulled . In fight it’s on RUclips.
Disappointed. Guys who aren't supposed to be afraid of anything totally danced around the topic. I have always wondered if big formidable alpha males prefer women who are strongly feminine (ie. strong in duty and resolve and resilient) or do they really like the modern movie badass like Lara Croft, Gina Carano, or Zoe Saldana. Do we need complementarianism or should females seek to develop traditional male fighting personas? I know my views, but was curious about his.
I think it goes without saying that if you're a fighter with long hair and/or a long beard, then you know at least a few moves to counter a grab in a street fight.
I think I am a man. 😂 I knew it. *Slaps Belly Repetitively* Thats how I learned to say hi...in "Seal". When I flip my hair, it means: My hair is in the way? I think you're making it to be a thing *you* find attractive. Which is fine.
He made a general statement. Not saying that EVERY single woman does it to be attractive or anything. Just simple pointing out what happens most if the time.
@@dinuxplay8003 good to know. I guess some girls can use it that way if they're manipulating you. Like the flirtatious/coy play with your hair bite your lip stuff and bat your eyelashes stuff? Thats a lure. Actual hair in your face is a constant problem when you have hair. I have a lot of hair and its always up to its own agenda.
@@RikodiusRex Yup, that is the point. Often messing with your hair is considered to be a flirtatious act. The context or basically how the hair is messed with, obviously matters.
ever seen two girls fight? they grab the back of the head and pull you down, you can't even grab the wrist at that point. You're be unconscious from being smashed against a hand/wall/ground/curb. Long hair puts you at a huge disadvantage if the enemy has a good grip of it.
@@americanpatriot6938 Back of the head is very different than chin. Having someone by their hair while being behind them prevents them from turning to see you. Having someone by their beard probably means that they are facing you which means it is way easier for them to counter you.
Y chromosome is being deleted it seems . If not for toxic masculinity in men or woman of 🇺🇸 Military we would be speaking GERMAN OR JAPANESE no offense to either of those countries just saying sir
Is Jocko still telling people to just be quiet and put on the mask? Just comply because its not worth challenging the mask mandates. I stopped watching his content for a while after that.
1 Corinthians 16:13 Ephesians 6:10-11 If you connect the above two verses, you will know that real men are from the military Work with Jordan Peterson Jocko Willink!
1 Corinthians 11:14-15 Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him? But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering. Its the word of God and true.
I love long hair on men. When we first got together, my husband told me he'd had long hair in highschool that of course got buzzed when he joined the army. Then when I saw his senior picture, his hair just looked helmet-ish. I asked where was his long hair. He said, "in the back." I should have known. He graduated in '91.
Long hair is only for women.
Once thing I noticed is that most average males typically don't think of using hair as a advantage or disadvantage in a fighting situation. But I have seen plenty females fight growing up like during my school years or typical teenage drama even first time fighters and most females I seen fight their first instant go to is using the hair as a tool to gain the upper end. Its like its instinctual for them
And men are taught not to pull hair “like a girl”.
Darn true girls go straight for the hair first and dont let go haha.
It is like a honor thing, men do not do that, that's girl stuff, when you do that to your opponent ya get the risk of others getting involved in the fight and ya gonna have a bad time, well deserved it
@@WildZeratul Honor? There no honor in a fight. Anything goes. people can say its a dirty move but theres no such thing as a fair fight
@@shanehorton7651 My dad used to say there are 2 kinds of fights. Ones you win, ones you don't.
No time for honor in a real fight. Save honor for the mat.
I would happily watch Jocko and Echo review drunk girls fighting.
HAHAHA omg I wish
LOL
"Pulling hair, kicks in the pussy, claws to the face, NO FACTOR"
This is a great conversation, masculine and feminine characteristics, similarities and differences is one of my favorite topics to listen to and or talk about.
A British officer once told me, that by regulation their Sailors’ hair had to be at least a 4, so that they could pull them out of the water by their hair if they needed to.
This is a certified h00d classic
He the real Big Poppa
@@solar_warden81 it's a bot, testing the algo
"This is the podcast that will get us banned" - Jocko
Amazing
“Is this the freaking podcast that gets us banned finally” 🤡🤡🤡
Jocko has a backup plan in case this happens.
Jocko you mean “conventional” rather than “traditional”. Generally speaking, people of every tradition and culture have these traits.
Not enforcing the 'hair thing' with his daughters...Jocko just knows how to choose his battles.
Imagine being friends with Jocko when you were in middle school and you guys were goofing off and shit and then you see him 30 years later
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I imagine he was doing push ups while we were goofing off
Men and women are not the same, and that's a good thing. They never have been, and they never will be. It is okay to talk about those differences without getting politically correct about it. There is a reason feminine tendencies are more often associated with women, and masculine tendencies with men...
Equal but different
@@My.Name.Is.Chris. exactly 👍🤘
They aren’t that different tho. Also, not all men and women are the same. So to compare them like that implies that the two are monoliths in a way?
going further Robert Moore's King Warrior Magician Lover is great delineation of mature vs immature forms of masculine aspects, ie. King / baby tyrant, Magician / know-it-all, Warrior / "hero"
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I always find the biblical argument mentioned very amusing. While the Bible does state that men should look masculine and women feminine, that was according to standards of their time. Men were also to maintain their beards yet many Christian men are clean shaven in the modern day. There's also the Biblical Hero of Samson, who power/relationship w/ God was reflected in his long hair- and he lost his power when Delilah cut his hair. There's also King David's son Absalom, who was also noted for his long, beautiful hair.
In Kempo Jutsu we teach hair is a great target. Especially a ponytail.
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Always Love to hear Jocko....
I think Samurai always had long hair…enemy would not get close enough to touch their hair
Kinda thought these guys would refer to this at some point
Samurai had that top knot, and shaved head so; A: their helmet would stay tilted forward, and B: the shaved portion would still adequately sweat when the helmet was worn.Evemtually, that just became the fashion style, after great armor was no longer utilized.
Ah I see your back. Good
Im 6'2", drive a truck, build guns, hard headed, very dominant, and I love babies! Maybe its a spectrum? Love your show!
Physically, I'm a man but energetically I am more feminine. I'm more emotional, empathetic, and overall just supportive. I'd like to be more aggressive and "mainly" but I don't really know where to start
ruclips.net/video/ayeMEyLHRvE/видео.html Another clip from the podcast here Jocko talks about exactly that. May help.
Martial arts.
Start thinking hey why not. Question everything and be brave about your actions. Be focused on your goals. This might start.
The Bible. A common theme for great men in the Bible is acknowledging their feminine side, but grounding it in the masculine. If you’re too barbaric, you’re just never going to have a healthy relationship. If you’re too feminine, you’re not going to be respected. Don’t get rid of your empathetic side, but try to ground your emotions more, be more neutral in your attitude and don’t react, but maintain control
@@Jo3K1n6 W take
Its ok Jocko,
I wouldn't raise my daughters & sons exactly the same.
That makes no sense. Men and women are different. All good bro 💪🏽
Hope the kids agree and are comfortable with every single word
of that sentence
Different and Same in other ways
@@gking407 Couldn’t you atleast think before you wrote your comment?
Its so ignorant no one even bothers to reply
What book is he getting these traits from? What podcast episode is this?
Yin is the Feminine Principle, Yang is the Masculine Principle lol
Both coming from The Void
AND
Anima is the feminine side in the unconscious of the male brain
Animus is the masculine side in the unconscious of the female brain
We all come from (thousands of) Males and Females.
We're all a (binary) mix of both.
Real men have no feminine side.
Speak freely without concern Jocko - We your followers will follow you because we agree with you, if you start pleasing everyone, you please no one!
Thanks Jocko for Saving my life!
Jocko hasn’t said anything you disagree with?
i think it all depends on the type of culture. Modern military has adopted clean cut buzzed cuts, but if we look at other countries in the past, vikings, the ancient greeks/ spartans, huns, they all had long hair as it was a sign of virtue. As well men with long hair can just look animalistic and beast looking as well.
The hair description in regards to gender you have well-described in terms of military functionality. There's another recent social discussion of this under the RUclips video make Daddy a sandwich which describes the masculine and feminine in different social aspects.
My only small thing to add here about long hair the ancient Greeks and Romans alike sported long hair as well as many other civilizations (especially the Spartans) as a sign of ferocity and intimidation.
danggggggggg, he only barely touched on "battle field" use of long hair! I would love to hear about that stuff!
Lets go, Jocko!
Get after it! -Jocko
I agree with this but as a female we know that's a cheap shot to hair pull. So I don't pull, I take three steps and eventually they fall on their own incapabilities to balance their own body weight in attack.
1:30 Everything said can be characteristic of most human beings and has nothing to do with gender. NO I don't believe the podcast would be banned even if a trouble maker viewing this video tried to stir anything up because it's a well founded opinion based on observation of different situations and behavior Jocko has seen over the years. I don't believe anything he's saying is emotionally inflammatory; I would hope most people would agree.
perfect timing lol just got to work
My hero Pat Tillman had long hair and he was a goat
*"I have no friends and no enemies - only competitors." - Aristotle Onassis*
I always thought the hair thing was about breaking down the individual’s uniqueness and making them part of a group. Never considered the practical aspects.
Good.
Hand to hand, I can see beards being a bigger problem: hair can be tied back and hidden under helmets.
Most guys I've seen with long beards are "tough looking" guys who are big, muscular and have lots of tattoos. I'm not sure many people will be messing with them in the first place.
As a man with long hair and beard: Yes, its a tactical disadvantage.
However: You can tighten up everything into a bun, that reduces grapping options to not more, than "normal" short guys hair lenght.
Unfortunately once you tie into a bun, you become a whiney new age hipster. Possibly even starts crying for no reason. Its science.
@@visible2anyoneonyoutube How about wearing Nails and sharp sticks as a bun carrier you could also use for stabbing?^^
But yes i agree, shame hipsters ruined this for the most part
@@visible2anyoneonyoutube YOU become it.
@@visible2anyoneonyoutube " Its science " hahahahahahahahahahahaha nice one :D
"Thats one of my favorite takedowns on the battlefield"
what is the book that Jocko is reading ?
I'm wondering that too
I may not wake up super early, but at least I am early for this lmaoooo
Siggestion: get Kelsie Sheren back on here and have this conversation again. I want to hear that one.
Masculine traits in men:
-Stoicism
-mental fortitude
-physical strength
-self reliance
-discipline
-honor
-bravery
-humility
-assertiveness
-competitiveness
-disagreeableness
Feminine traits in women:
-submissiveness
-Intuition
-caring
-nurturing
-empathetic
-high emotional intelligence
-agreeableness
Humans evolved without modern hair/beard trimming tools…I appreciate the grabbing aspect…but this is also the first time I’ve ever heard the tactical advantage…which makes me wonder how much it was ever a top of mind takedown method in past humans.
Look at a few girl fights, the hair is used in over 50% of the fights.
Almost never in men. Probably because it is much less useful with short hair.
i remember a few girl fights i saw back in high school , they would grab that hair every time.
Long hair is only for women.
Flipping your hair back means "come get these cheeks". Big beards means "I spilled soup in here and it's still there."
Bro what?
Bold words for a fake person.
Women flip their hair to me.
3:53 lol no
The only ancient tribe that cut their hair were the Romans (I know the ponytail liability, w/e)
Also the same tribe famous for their Roman Orgies.... Where there were no "men and women", If you know what I mean.... 🤷
Navy vs Marines characteristics
True True True 🤔🤔🤔
The masculine essence of being is shared experience.
The feminine essence of being is intimate disclosure.
Source?
That’s not even true
You have no idea what you're talking about.
@@UnknownPlayer-eg4tc how old are you?
Alexander the Great demanded his men shave their beards as it was a danger in combat....
shaved my head in middle school cause *skateboarding* havent paid for a haircut since
I have a medium beard, my hair is only long on top... buzzed on the side.
While I am not an "intimidating " male, people do not go out of their way to mess with me. Makes them look twice especially when my beard n hair is braided. 😜😁🤣🤣🤣🤣
Maybe that berserker Highlander thing? Better to be avoided than have to get into it. I wonder what bikers n all think on this? Maybe I will feel differently once the world starts to burn and we are plunged into chaos. 😜 🤔 how are those latest trials going by the way? Oh, need a distraction from that? I think the 30th variant just popped up. 😳 😜🤣🤣🤣🙄
You mean the trial of Jeffrey Epstein madam? That's the only one that matters as it's the only one they are refusing to report
@@blackmcbain3145 oh that and Maxine Waters... of course that is on the same pedophiles as the other trial so we will not see anything on that one either....
Last time anyone even tried to rob me, it was literally 17 years ago.
Considering my age that's more than twice of years in my life, not looking like a target, than looking like one.
All of a sudden Jocko has gotten pretty cautious about what he's saying
hopefully that means he'll be runnning for president...
I agree with the characteristics 100%!!
Master Chief Jocko117
Long hair to Jocko is 3/4 of an inch lol
I don't know any dude who thinks that long hair is feminine.
It suits some guys.
Men and women are different.
As a women I am proud of that. Each sex has their own strengths and weaknesses.
We are in a sad time when we can not say this and both sexes will lose out.
5:13 U baldie balds never saw braids in the Octagon before? õ.o
@Anthony NSIMBI Im still here (maybe back to the with public ring in the next Sunday) and so is he. ;)
(as you may imagine, we dont need a stage to have to fight, and if I do, I may BRAID)
Jason FRIDAY the 13 seriously try stopping someone from getting your back with that mask on
ECHO was rudely ignored. But his correct a woman playing or pushing her hair back is a flirting technique they don’t know they even do it . Well said ECHO. No disrespect. With all due respect. I’ve rocked long hair I enjoyed it pulled in bed ( sarcasm) . I taught my daughter what to do when hair pulled . In fight it’s on RUclips.
It’s not a double standard. We have different standards for male and female.
That is a double standard.
Jocko you need to have Rollo Tomassi on your podcast, he could explain the whole masculine/feminine intersexual dynamics
@Ankush kumar lol. The man has been right about everything. Just read him seriously.
@Ankush kumar If you forget about the Red Pill eventually you'll get back to the Blue Pill mindset.
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As a guy with long hair.. I find this conversation so funny 😂
Disappointed. Guys who aren't supposed to be afraid of anything totally danced around the topic. I have always wondered if big formidable alpha males prefer women who are strongly feminine (ie. strong in duty and resolve and resilient) or do they really like the modern movie badass like Lara Croft, Gina Carano, or Zoe Saldana. Do we need complementarianism or should females seek to develop traditional male fighting personas? I know my views, but was curious about his.
I think it goes without saying that if you're a fighter with long hair and/or a long beard, then you know at least a few moves to counter a grab in a street fight.
I think I am a man. 😂
I knew it.
*Slaps Belly Repetitively* Thats how I learned to say hi...in "Seal".
When I flip my hair, it means: My hair is in the way? I think you're making it to be a thing *you* find attractive. Which is fine.
He made a general statement. Not saying that EVERY single woman does it to be attractive or anything. Just simple pointing out what happens most if the time.
@@dinuxplay8003 good to know. I guess some girls can use it that way if they're manipulating you. Like the flirtatious/coy play with your hair bite your lip stuff and bat your eyelashes stuff? Thats a lure. Actual hair in your face is a constant problem when you have hair. I have a lot of hair and its always up to its own agenda.
@@RikodiusRex Yup, that is the point. Often messing with your hair is considered to be a flirtatious act. The context or basically how the hair is messed with, obviously matters.
@@RikodiusRex very honest.
8:39 You get the beard, I get your wrist.
You can twist the beard and I will laugh, I will twist your wrist and you will cry.
:)
ever seen two girls fight? they grab the back of the head and pull you down, you can't even grab the wrist at that point. You're be unconscious from being smashed against a hand/wall/ground/curb. Long hair puts you at a huge disadvantage if the enemy has a good grip of it.
@@americanpatriot6938 Back of the head is very different than chin. Having someone by their hair while being behind them prevents them from turning to see you. Having someone by their beard probably means that they are facing you which means it is way easier for them to counter you.
Nope
@@user-zt4zr7eg6z YES.
Having your hair used against you in a fight is horrible. I would rather be punched in the face then dragged around by my hair.
Y chromosome is being deleted it seems . If not for toxic masculinity in men or woman of 🇺🇸 Military we would be speaking GERMAN OR JAPANESE no offense to either of those countries just saying sir
low level discussion, hair tangent too much, could've addressed something more culturally, spiritually significant
I got a Texas hat I live in Florida wooooo DE SANTIS NAVAL OFFICER..://.
Is Jocko still telling people to just be quiet and put on the mask? Just comply because its not worth challenging the mask mandates. I stopped watching his content for a while after that.
You didnt got the point.
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Grow a Beard and Carry a Concealed
1 Corinthians 16:13
Ephesians 6:10-11
If you connect the above two verses, you will know that real men are from the military
Work with Jordan Peterson Jocko Willink!
1 Corinthians 11:14-15
Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it is a shame unto him?
But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering.
Its the word of God and true.