Which should be a leeway to follow suit. I want to believe Iyanla's attempting to encourage an "If she can do it so can I" way of thinking. She wants people to face their truth and heal.
@@leerob7738 he's creating multiple single mother homes but he comes from a two parent household. Unless his dad is a "rolling stone", it proves even kids that had both parents can be broken as well.
When are we going to address women who have multiple baby daddies? None of his children is going to ever be on government assistance. None of his children is going to ever ask tax payers for money to assist with their daily care. Therefore his relationship with his children is none of our business.
you mistake articulate, for intellectual. cam newton graduated from auburn with a degree in sociology.. and he has lived life experiences.. he's doing far better in life than you are.. he's on his third 7 figure career. and he did it HIS way... he has a family that loves him.. and he can pull A list people on HIS show that HE built because people want to hear HIS voice.. while you still live in the hood and are 2 missed paychecks away from being homeless..
this conversation is so critical. I hear the love of father asking important questions and i hear the wisdom of an elder pouring into a father. Beautiful!
I love Iyanla, and I love how she said that she will never diminish a black mans character in public, but you can’t pander to it either. Some things need to be said, but it’s all in how you say it. He is still butt hurt from Dr. Bryant just by the verbiage of the description of this video. She may have been a bit too honest with him, but it needed to be heard because home boy hasn’t gotten a good nights sleep since…it appears lol
If you watched the whole video with Ms. Bryant you know she was offended by Cam asking her how she can counsel married people when she's never been married. She went on the attack and she wasn't trying to help Cam or his kids, it was personal. Cam was too honest with her and she resented it.
It's not a coincidence that iyanla came on after Doctor Bryant.. iyanla is gonna handle him with kid glove and babysit while Dr. Bryant treated him like a grown man And held him accountable
How did she hold him accountable? All she did was insult him. Having children with multiple women doesn't necessarily imply he's a deadbeat even though I know that can be the case.
@@championxix she never said he was dead beat!!!! She said he was creating broken homes which is facts!! She didn’t insult him she just made him realize he making poor choice and continue to make them!!!
@@rosequartz7939First of all, too many exclamation marks. Second, the claim someone is creating broken homes is insulting especially if you aren't aware of their family structure, living arrangements, etc. He could definitely make better choices but some people do live in a poly type of arrangement and it seems to work for them.
She didn't hold him accountable. She insulted him because she was hurt by his question regarding how her marital status conflicts with what type of therapist she said she was.
She coddled him. He wants somebody to support his multiple children/mothers, unfortunately she did just.that. Cam is exactly what Dr. Bryant stated to him.
Dr. Bryant was hurling insults. She equated him to a R-word, one who takes sex forcibly, all because he asked how her marital status and the type of therapist she said she was lines up.
He chose iyanla to come back not Dr. Bryant, because he would be treated with kids gloves. Iyanla never goes hard against black men only black women , so she is perfect for his ego.
No, y'all perception is screwed. Ms. Vanzant always forces all parties, regardless of gender, to take accountability. Just because men are more prone to do that makes it seem like she's handling us with "kid gloves".
He picked her the same way he chooses his chips. He said he can make them be how he wants them to be. He knew Iyanla would cuddle him, the other woman was too much for his ego.
Cam need to realize that he’s creating trauma whenever he goes and get another woman pregnant. His children will always be in competition for his time and attention. If he ever gets married and settle down they’re going to resent the children that has him full-time. The best thing parents can do for their children is be mentally, physically, emotionally, and intellectual present and healthy.
Cam might be wrong BUT shouldn't the women be held accountable for making broken homes also. Nick Cannon, Eddie Giffin and Tesla guy. She hold need to have class for all of them. The list goes on and on
@@torriebrown9607nope! Because when it’s a single mother the accountability all on the mother it’s always “Well you chose him” so let it be the same energy!
@@torriebrown9607 Women need to be held accountable... BUT!!! I’m conversing about Cam’s actions. The fact that he just had a baby with that Jasmine girl and got on his podcast and said he’s still looking for his wife is offensive enough. He’s knowingly and openly creating children with women. He sees no future with it. Do you know the amount of damage that’s going to do when he finally decides to settle down and get married and be with the woman and have children with her? I think about my life And how I... have siblings who can’t stand me because they feel like I had more time with the man we share DNA with than they did. Even though he threw me to the wolves and moved on and had more kids and now they marriage to a woman. I have younger siblings whom I never met. I can remember three times out of my life that he even got us all together under one roof. They never came to my birthday parties, my games, recitals, and ceremonies, and I never went to any of theirs.
@@rubyjaez I truly understand. I am so sorry that you had to go through this. Cam is like my brother. 7 kids 5 women. The children know of each other but never met. The ages are 34 to 10. I was disappointed in my parents who never never made him accountable. The saying was that's how he is. SMDH
I let a few of my friends whose father has done exactly what Cam and many others have done watch that episode with him and Dr bryant, All of them said why not interview the adult kids and ask them. A few of them cried when hearing what he was saying and said he had no clue why the kids are going through. That’s the interview I want see, The kids point of view. My dad remarried after 33 years with my mom and his step kids hate his biological kids and I keep my distance also, they are grown and that energy is still there so imagine from small.
Iyanla trying to smooth over the blows he took from that doctor, but she can’t. That doctor spoke facts in a respectful intelligent manner while looking beautiful.
I am so overwhelmed with Love about conversations like this. I radically respect the openness because it is needed. This breaks the chains,curses, and challenges that #WeAllHave. #MinorAdjustments
Very good my daughter makes straight A’s . Got into the best school in the district got there and hated it. I told her to give me one year she gave me that year. She was miserable every day after the year. I let her switch schools now she’s happy. Am I happy that she didn’t go to a great school, no but am I happy that she’s happy yes and that’s what matters not me proving how smart she is and what a great school she’s going to it’s about her being happy and healthy and mentally fit
Sometimes in those great school Academically they deal with issues of subliminal racism. Kinda like corporate America but Kids brains have a hard time knowing how to handle those environments. Of we be honest adults still have a hard time navigating the politics of others.. We dont discuss it enough to provide tools..
@lotusconciergellc3376 What grade was she in at the time? Why was she miserable? Was she away from her friends, her comfort zone? Sounds like the academic requirements were possibly more challenging as well. Did you push her to make new friends, join new activities and clubs, play sports, and become a part of the new school? If not, it seems like you allowed her to control you. She played the parent. She was miserable until she got what she wanted, which may have not been the best place for her long term. We make it seem that being happy and mentally fit is the direct opposite to challenging and difficult. Your daughter knew she had to make it through the year and she won. There was no reason to try to fit in.
@@torrancehicks5565I get what you’re saying and you’ve definitely got a point. Sometimes children don’t know what’s best for them & the things they THINK they want can hurt them in the future. I believe there’s no right or wrong answer unfortunately. Every child is different & there are so many variables we just don’t know. Could she maybe have tried what you suggested? Did she already? We may never know. When I first read your comment, it sounded like you were suggesting she do those things to help assist her daughter through what was clearly a difficult time. So, hey, I get it. At the end of the day, there has never been a perfect parent nor has there ever been a child who doesn’t encounter challenges as they grow. Some aspects of parenting are just a roll of the dice no matter how much we might think it’s the “right thing to do.” 🤷🏽♀️ I just truly hope it all works out for her & she gains strength in the support her mother gave her.
A lot of us don’t realize that we have been traumatized from one thing or another!! Showing them that your failures we can learn from , we can always get back up and try again!!! Blessings ALL!! 🙏🏾♥️🙏🏾
I keep thinking of the episode with the man with 23 kids and she kept putting all these baby dolls in his hands and he dropped one or two and she was like uh uh you dropped two and your finger is in one eye. Yes you love your kids and you take care of them but if you are not in the home everyday it kind of robs the child. They will love their father ofcourse but as they get older they may all say they wish they had him there more
Agreed. I mean look at some of these males now blaming the mom for the father’s absence. We are witnessing in current times the effects of the father not being in the home from both men and women. Break the cycle people‼️✨
@@Lightreign888 right definitely and accountability needs to be taken on many of these men. Many are not taught the importance and value of marriage and family. Broken homes are becoming the new normal. I am newly divorced and had child support conference and the dad was mad he has to pay child support not to mention $700. I’m like dude this is the life you wanted so you gotta take accountability
@@lovejones1897 it’s wild that you think you can bring life into this world and then turn your back on and not be held accountable. In some shape or form they will have to answer to it.
@@Lightreign888 yes fr fr this man got mad a few weeks ago because he had received the letter for child support told me to hurry sign divorce papers and he wanted nothing to do with me and my son and wanted me to change his name and when he gets 18 tell him not to bother looking for him. I never responded. Yesterday during conference he said I was giving u $350 a month I said that does not even cover a week of daycare plus food. Then he says if you can’t afford him send him to him. I said absolutely not you are unstable and impulsive. This is the same person that said he wanted nothing to do with his son now wants him because he doesn’t want to pay child support.
This is amazing clip of their conversation, many great points were made. So nice to hear this put into perspective from someone speaking of their own experiences
Wow..,we need more strong men n women in their 50s n 60s to speak healing into our ‘young men n women’ especially even the young parents in their 30s who became parents in their 20s…. Most parents in their 20s n early teens are still children..
This is advice that all parents and guardians can learn from. I'm guilty of enabling nieces and nephews ...spoiling children instead of allowing them to do things on their own and speaking love...not through material things. Support and guidance can be learned and self taught.
3:38 and 3:40 To Cam’s point that “he’s NOT PROUD of Certain things he’s done”, I wonder if those **Certain Things** include contributing to children being born out of Wedlock 🤷🏽♀️
One thing I never see anyone acknowledge is that Cam is claiming two kids that are not biologically related to him - I respect that. He had kids with two women who already had a kid and even though he did not stay with those women, he had committed to being in those children’s lives.
I feel like Ms. Iyanla has a nicer approach than Ms. Bryant. Ms. Bryant told him the truth and didn’t sugar coat it. Ms. Iyanla just gave him some advice she didn’t tell him about himself at all. I think his ego is real fragile but with age and time that will change.
@rsavage8348 Dr Bryant said she is NOT a marriage therapist but she counsels individuals that are married. Big difference. If all ny clients are single you wouldn't say I'm a singles therapist.
I've always felt Iyanla has a soft spot for black men. Her interactions with black men as seen on her reality show and out in public makes me think this. I like her.
I think that being brutally honest is important iyanla is known for that..she did him a disservice by not being honest with cam like dr. Bryant. His feelings are hurt but he put himself there by putting his buisness out there as well as having the narcissist tendency that came out while talking to dr. Bryant. She didn't down him at all she simply told him the truth he asked for by saying what he said. 💁🏾♀️ Iyanla was being extremely nice.
I observed my children and let them tell me who they are and parented them accordingly. That required be present each and every day as they grew and matured so that when they said this is what I want to do, experience or try I knew if it made sense for them.
He got a woman with no psych degree, just a self appointed therapist to come on here and coddle him because DR. Bryant with a phd in psychology gave him that truth. lol
Honey I think you need to go check her background again she has Juris Doctor degree and a masters in spiritual psychology y’all be talking and ain’t did no research 💯
It's all about are the children happy and content with him as their Father. Also he definitely full-time with all of them. Nobody should throw stones on him what the blessing he's receiving.❤LOVE ❤
How can Cam's children feel protected when he is not in the home? Financially supporting children is only the basics of a parent. Cam seems to think that the aspect of parenting should be applauded. It shouldn't be because he created the children so who else does he think will support them? I like Cam but I think having children with multiple women is not the image and the norm you want to peesent to your children.
I grew up like Cam,in a two parent married household. I was having too much fun in college and got a surprise blessing. No one is perfect. I didn't want to get married,but I made sure I wasn't having any more children unless I'm married. It takes two. 😊
@@LovieandLovelle1975 Funny to me how y’all try and theologize/lionize him fucking women without protection and making babies as him living a life in sync with scripture. Y’all are truly delusional. Babies are a blessing, absolutely, but do not front like this man is not irresponsible and selfish.
Yall should probably stop putting Dr Bryant on such high pedestal when she’s on a reality show that’s all about embarrassing the black woman then she comes on and try and embarrass this man and pretend to be this top notch therapist. GTFO… yeah she made some valid points but women on them reality shows fighting at 30 and 40 should not try and give advice and all you internet folks can come at me how you want but I said what I said
That man doesn’t have 8 kids he’s got 5 biological kids with Kia proctor being the main one who’s got 3, 1 with a side chick, 1 with his new girl so let’s see that’s 5 kids… where tf yall get 8 from? Yall forget he adopted some of these broke moms babies but we ain’t gon talk about that 💀
This is the issue with these men having all these babies with different women. Those babies grow up, and then the men have a come to Jesus moments of " what house they should have been in more." Smh
Cam, you cannot call yourself spiritual when you don't submit to the spiritual direction that God gives. He tells us to be a man with ONE wife for a reason. To do anything outside of that is consistence acts of disobedience and dismissal of His standards. We have to stop calling on God to give us things he doesn't purpose for us to have. He didn't purpose for you have 8 children and 3 or 4 different baby mothers. Something is wrong here in the perspective that this ok
A good man doesn't want their kids growing up un trauma...a good man doesn't have outside babies on a woman they said they are committed to. A good man is disciplined and doesn't spread his seed all over
Cam on camera is an image. The facts of the matter are he sees no problem creating broken homes with single women while refusing to commit. Thats a serious problem.
Adversity is inevitable in life. If you can’t say, “There are some things I’m not proud of,” you ought not be leading anyone. But also, Cam makes too much money to be getting advice from non-clinicians ni. This got to stop.
She gives too much Grace to black men due to her understanding of our psychological disposition that stems from slavery …. We don’t need to publicly address our issues and publicly lash one another but we gotta STOP keep giving ppl passes for IT TOO … make these men know their behaviors are not psychologically sound LET THEM TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR THEIR GOD COMPLEX THAT ONLY THEY LIVE IN ….
her commenting on her failures as a parent… amazing. a lot of people can’t do that. reflecting and holding ourselves accountable is so crucial.
Which should be a leeway to follow suit. I want to believe Iyanla's attempting to encourage an "If she can do it so can I" way of thinking. She wants people to face their truth and heal.
@yangdrops alot of ppl ..it helps heal ...
What I find so amazing is that Cam is doing to his children, that wasn't done to him growing up.
Rightttttt 😂
You are not in his home, you don’t know what he has or hasn’t done.
Whew. Never thought about that. 🤦🏾♂️
@@DB-vt1kk - Will y’all drop the proof that y’all have of his wrong doings to his family..
@@leerob7738 he's creating multiple single mother homes but he comes from a two parent household. Unless his dad is a "rolling stone", it proves even kids that had both parents can be broken as well.
She didn’t directly address his 8 kids with multiple women, she just gave advise that a parent can give to another parent.
Because she’s a blk male identified pick me. That’s why he has her on the show right after being read by Dr Bryant
@@Lenasevilla-yb4eiexactly
I’m pretty sure he didn’t wanna hear it either
When are we going to address women who have multiple baby daddies? None of his children is going to ever be on government assistance. None of his children is going to ever ask tax payers for money to assist with their daily care. Therefore his relationship with his children is none of our business.
@@michaelbannister7412 dusties defending dusties I’m not surprised
I love how transparent Iyanla is about her parenting and the lessons learned that we can benefit from.
He wants to be deep and intellectual so bad. In order to be those things you must do the work.
@@msthang5366 it’s so painful to watch. 😹
@@venusa4871 super painful. He’s a horrible actor.
Yes the work must be done or you going always repeat the cycles or get humble by Doctors lol
And he's not. He's better off being himself and doing the work to get to that space he sees himself at. We all have to start somewhere.
you mistake articulate, for intellectual. cam newton graduated from auburn with a degree in sociology.. and he has lived life experiences.. he's doing far better in life than you are.. he's on his third 7 figure career. and he did it HIS way... he has a family that loves him.. and he can pull A list people on HIS show that HE built because people want to hear HIS voice.. while you still live in the hood and are 2 missed paychecks away from being homeless..
this conversation is so critical. I hear the love of father asking important questions and i hear the wisdom of an elder pouring into a father. Beautiful!
Indeed
Iyanla laugh is contagious and is a breath of fresh air I really like to hear her POV.
I love Iyanla, and I love how she said that she will never diminish a black mans character in public, but you can’t pander to it either. Some things need to be said, but it’s all in how you say it. He is still butt hurt from Dr. Bryant just by the verbiage of the description of this video. She may have been a bit too honest with him, but it needed to be heard because home boy hasn’t gotten a good nights sleep since…it appears lol
Why diminish anyone in public? Black men are not superhuman. Be a respectful person at the core. ❤
@@HolisticManifesting They diminish themselves by the things they do and say and how they choose to live their lives.
If you watched the whole video with Ms. Bryant you know she was offended by Cam asking her how she can counsel married people when she's never been married. She went on the attack and she wasn't trying to help Cam or his kids, it was personal. Cam was too honest with her and she resented it.
@@outdoorgq *Cam only said those things after she stated that she wouldn't date a man like him. He wanted to say "Bish I'm Cam Newton" so bad* 😂
@outdoorgq she stated to him she counsel individuals which end up benefitingthem in their relationships. She do not counsel married couples together
It's not a coincidence that iyanla came on after Doctor Bryant.. iyanla is gonna handle him with kid glove and babysit while Dr. Bryant treated him like a grown man And held him accountable
I like Dr.Bryant approach better that way make you think!!!
How did she hold him accountable? All she did was insult him. Having children with multiple women doesn't necessarily imply he's a deadbeat even though I know that can be the case.
@@championxix she never said he was dead beat!!!! She said he was creating broken homes which is facts!! She didn’t insult him she just made him realize he making poor choice and continue to make them!!!
@@rosequartz7939First of all, too many exclamation marks. Second, the claim someone is creating broken homes is insulting especially if you aren't aware of their family structure, living arrangements, etc. He could definitely make better choices but some people do live in a poly type of arrangement and it seems to work for them.
She didn't hold him accountable. She insulted him because she was hurt by his question regarding how her marital status conflicts with what type of therapist she said she was.
She coddled him. He wants somebody to support his multiple children/mothers, unfortunately she did just.that.
Cam is exactly what Dr. Bryant stated to him.
Dr. Bryant was hurling insults. She equated him to a R-word, one who takes sex forcibly, all because he asked how her marital status and the type of therapist she said she was lines up.
He chose iyanla to come back not Dr. Bryant, because he would be treated with kids gloves. Iyanla never goes hard against black men only black women , so she is perfect for his ego.
No, y'all perception is screwed. Ms. Vanzant always forces all parties, regardless of gender, to take accountability. Just because men are more prone to do that makes it seem like she's handling us with "kid gloves".
“Iyanla never goes hard against black men, only black women”
…..Iyanla is a black woman 🙄
Yes she’s a mammy and she’s the older woman that will tell a woman to stay with an abusive man or stay with a man that’s SA people. She’s a mess.
This part!!
He picked her the same way he chooses his chips. He said he can make them be how he wants them to be. He knew Iyanla would cuddle him, the other woman was too much for his ego.
Cam need to realize that he’s creating trauma whenever he goes and get another woman pregnant. His children will always be in competition for his time and attention. If he ever gets married and settle down they’re going to resent the children that has him full-time. The best thing parents can do for their children is be mentally, physically, emotionally, and intellectual present and healthy.
Cam might be wrong BUT shouldn't the women be held accountable for making broken homes also. Nick Cannon, Eddie Giffin and Tesla guy. She hold need to have class for all of them. The list goes on and on
@@torriebrown9607nope! Because when it’s a single mother the accountability all on the mother it’s always “Well you chose him” so let it be the same energy!
@@torriebrown9607 Women need to be held accountable... BUT!!! I’m conversing about Cam’s actions. The fact that he just had a baby with that Jasmine girl and got on his podcast and said he’s still looking for his wife is offensive enough. He’s knowingly and openly creating children with women. He sees no future with it. Do you know the amount of damage that’s going to do when he finally decides to settle down and get married and be with the woman and have children with her? I think about my life And how I... have siblings who can’t stand me because they feel like I had more time with the man we share DNA with than they did. Even though he threw me to the wolves and moved on and had more kids and now they marriage to a woman. I have younger siblings whom I never met. I can remember three times out of my life that he even got us all together under one roof. They never came to my birthday parties, my games, recitals, and ceremonies, and I never went to any of theirs.
@@rubyjaez I truly understand. I am so sorry that you had to go through this. Cam is like my brother. 7 kids 5 women. The children know of each other but never met. The ages are 34 to 10. I was disappointed in my parents who never never made him accountable. The saying was that's how he is. SMDH
I let a few of my friends whose father has done exactly what Cam and many others have done watch that episode with him and Dr bryant, All of them said why not interview the adult kids and ask them. A few of them cried when hearing what he was saying and said he had no clue why the kids are going through. That’s the interview I want see, The kids point of view.
My dad remarried after 33 years with my mom and his step kids hate his biological kids and I keep my distance also, they are grown and that energy is still there so imagine from small.
Iyanla trying to smooth over the blows he took from that doctor, but she can’t. That doctor spoke facts in a respectful intelligent manner while looking beautiful.
She wasn't beautiful but did speak eloquently
I am so overwhelmed with Love about conversations like this. I radically respect the openness because it is needed. This breaks the chains,curses, and challenges that #WeAllHave. #MinorAdjustments
She is speaking golden truth. God bless this woman.
Very good my daughter makes straight A’s . Got into the best school in the district got there and hated it. I told her to give me one year she gave me that year. She was miserable every day after the year. I let her switch schools now she’s happy. Am I happy that she didn’t go to a great school, no but am I happy that she’s happy yes and that’s what matters not me proving how smart she is and what a great school she’s going to it’s about her being happy and healthy and mentally fit
Sometimes in those great school Academically they deal with issues of subliminal racism. Kinda like corporate America but Kids brains have a hard time knowing how to handle those environments. Of we be honest adults still have a hard time navigating the politics of others.. We dont discuss it enough to provide tools..
@lotusconciergellc3376 What grade was she in at the time? Why was she miserable? Was she away from her friends, her comfort zone? Sounds like the academic requirements were possibly more challenging as well. Did you push her to make new friends, join new activities and clubs, play sports, and become a part of the new school?
If not, it seems like you allowed her to control you. She played the parent. She was miserable until she got what she wanted, which may have not been the best place for her long term.
We make it seem that being happy and mentally fit is the direct opposite to challenging and difficult. Your daughter knew she had to make it through the year and she won. There was no reason to try to fit in.
This is powerful to admit
@@torrancehicks5565I get what you’re saying and you’ve definitely got a point. Sometimes children don’t know what’s best for them & the things they THINK they want can hurt them in the future. I believe there’s no right or wrong answer unfortunately. Every child is different & there are so many variables we just don’t know. Could she maybe have tried what you suggested? Did she already? We may never know. When I first read your comment, it sounded like you were suggesting she do those things to help assist her daughter through what was clearly a difficult time. So, hey, I get it. At the end of the day, there has never been a perfect parent nor has there ever been a child who doesn’t encounter challenges as they grow. Some aspects of parenting are just a roll of the dice no matter how much we might think it’s the “right thing to do.” 🤷🏽♀️ I just truly hope it all works out for her & she gains strength in the support her mother gave her.
Love, Safe protected, competent and resilient and choice
A lot of us don’t realize that we have been traumatized from one thing or another!! Showing them that your failures we can learn from , we can always get back up and try again!!! Blessings ALL!! 🙏🏾♥️🙏🏾
I keep thinking of the episode with the man with 23 kids and she kept putting all these baby dolls in his hands and he dropped one or two and she was like uh uh you dropped two and your finger is in one eye. Yes you love your kids and you take care of them but if you are not in the home everyday it kind of robs the child. They will love their father ofcourse but as they get older they may all say they wish they had him there more
Yes! Yes
Agreed. I mean look at some of these males now blaming the mom for the father’s absence.
We are witnessing in current times the effects of the father not being in the home from both men and women.
Break the cycle people‼️✨
@@Lightreign888 right definitely and accountability needs to be taken on many of these men. Many are not taught the importance and value of marriage and family. Broken homes are becoming the new normal. I am newly divorced and had child support conference and the dad was mad he has to pay child support not to mention $700. I’m like dude this is the life you wanted so you gotta take accountability
@@lovejones1897 it’s wild that you think you can bring life into this world and then turn your back on and not be held accountable. In some shape or form they will have to answer to it.
@@Lightreign888 yes fr fr this man got mad a few weeks ago because he had received the letter for child support told me to hurry sign divorce papers and he wanted nothing to do with me and my son and wanted me to change his name and when he gets 18 tell him not to bother looking for him. I never responded. Yesterday during conference he said I was giving u $350 a month I said that does not even cover a week of daycare plus food. Then he says if you can’t afford him send him to him. I said absolutely not you are unstable and impulsive. This is the same person that said he wanted nothing to do with his son now wants him because he doesn’t want to pay child support.
Thank you for this conversation. Peace & Love
This is amazing clip of their conversation, many great points were made. So nice to hear this put into perspective from someone speaking of their own experiences
💕💕💕Loved, loved this interview. Cam your best 🕐❣️
Wow..,we need more strong men n women in their 50s n 60s to speak healing into our ‘young men n women’ especially even the young parents in their 30s who became parents in their 20s…. Most parents in their 20s n early teens are still children..
This is advice that all parents and guardians can learn from. I'm guilty of enabling nieces and nephews ...spoiling children instead of allowing them to do things on their own and speaking love...not through material things. Support and guidance can be learned and self taught.
I needed to hear this ❤🙏🏾
Same
Great interview, Cam!
Loved, beautiful, confident and have support. Good looking and screw what others think or say. Speak for u
3:38 and 3:40 To Cam’s point that “he’s NOT PROUD of Certain things he’s done”, I wonder if those **Certain Things** include contributing to children being born out of Wedlock 🤷🏽♀️
He says that ALL the time, but doesn't take steps to change his wicked ways... he's talking about other "rituals" that he had to do for the spotlight
One thing I never see anyone acknowledge is that Cam is claiming two kids that are not biologically related to him - I respect that. He had kids with two women who already had a kid and even though he did not stay with those women, he had committed to being in those children’s lives.
A lot of people don’t know about the 2 other kids he raising only very few know
Great to have kids and want the best for them, provide and protect them… he won’t understand what he has done until when they grow older.
I feel like Ms. Iyanla has a nicer approach than Ms. Bryant. Ms. Bryant told him the truth and didn’t sugar coat it. Ms. Iyanla just gave him some advice she didn’t tell him about himself at all. I think his ego is real fragile but with age and time that will change.
I wonder why no one has questioned Iyanla’s marriage status like they did Dr. Bryant’s?
Is Iyanla a marriage therapist? So I am thinking that Dr. Bryant counsel married couples and that is why Cam made the comment about Dr Bryant status.
@@rsavage8348 not a therapist and not married, she still has a lot of good things to say
@rsavage8348 Dr Bryant said she is NOT a marriage therapist but she counsels individuals that are married. Big difference. If all ny clients are single you wouldn't say I'm a singles therapist.
Bc she's doing a lil pander
@@rsavage8348 she is NOT and therapist!!
As a parent and dad this hits home for me gave me some watery eyes
I've always felt Iyanla has a soft spot for black men. Her interactions with black men as seen on her reality show and out in public makes me think this. I like her.
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@@GeniusNoir it comes from u derstanding the challenges and brokeness of the black man..
I think it’s interesting Cam talked about his “situation” the fact that he brought it up is a start. It will take him time to get there…..
Prayers
‘It takes a village to raise a child’ most people do not understand what that means…
I think that being brutally honest is important iyanla is known for that..she did him a disservice by not being honest with cam like dr. Bryant. His feelings are hurt but he put himself there by putting his buisness out there as well as having the narcissist tendency that came out while talking to dr. Bryant. She didn't down him at all she simply told him the truth he asked for by saying what he said. 💁🏾♀️ Iyanla was being extremely nice.
Cam you slow.
EXTREMELY! His pseudo intellectual act is horrible..
He was the most hit and sacked QB in the league at a point in time. That could be a factor
@@championxix CTE? Or he’s just a dumb jock. I say the latter.
I ❤ this conversation
I observed my children and let them tell me who they are and parented them accordingly. That required be present each and every day as they grew and matured so that when they said this is what I want to do, experience or try I knew if it made sense for them.
This was so necessary to hear 🙏🏾
He got a woman with no psych degree, just a self appointed therapist to come on here and coddle him because DR. Bryant with a phd in psychology gave him that truth. lol
@@Lyss885 wooo you have a point.
That part!
Honey I think you need to go check her background again she has Juris Doctor degree and a masters in spiritual psychology y’all be talking and ain’t did no research 💯
He needed someone to soothe his bruised ego. He should’ve waited awhile to post this because it says a lot.
You just another male identified pick me
I really need to work on letting my kids feel competent.
@@itsroween Me too
She knows exactly what shes talking about coming from being a mother herself
She speak a lot of truth. She expose a lot of wrong with motherhood.
It's all about are the children happy and content with him as their Father. Also he definitely full-time with all of them. Nobody should throw stones on him what the blessing he's receiving.❤LOVE ❤
How can Cam's children feel protected when he is not in the home? Financially supporting children is only the basics of a parent. Cam seems to think that the aspect of parenting should be applauded. It shouldn't be because he created the children so who else does he think will support them? I like Cam but I think having children with multiple women is not the image and the norm you want to peesent to your children.
Cam was vulnerable if only we could be more loving towards ppl who make unconventional choices
I grew up like Cam,in a two parent married household. I was having too much fun in college and got a surprise blessing. No one is perfect. I didn't want to get married,but I made sure I wasn't having any more children unless I'm married. It takes two. 😊
Stop having kids. Grow up emotionally.
This continues in their Adult hood. I thought when they got older it would be easier. Always mines❤
Loveher❤❤❤❤❤
Why would anyone take advice from these two. Entertainment only
Doesn’t he remember she is the lady that gave that man 24 dolls representing his 24 kids … don’t get Ms .Iyanla started
Broderick Roads
Great job Cam, May God continue to bless you and your children!
My Nephew is a sociopath, the kid will definitely unalive someone in the future.
😮that's sad. Someone needs to get him some help before he takes y'all out😢
Holy s*** 😂😂😂
@@EgonKristi How frightening!
@EgonKristi WTF😂🤣💀
Make sure you report his every move to the authorities!
Cam has six biological children, but it's commendable that he claims his non-biological children and raises them the same as his biological children
We all have trauma ! Amen ....
Idk what’s up with her hairstyle, but as old as I am, I wish my father held me down like she’s speaking on.
We should want to break generational cycles by stoping this because his sons are watching him
Tell him marry her
Berry Ports
I miss Ilanya
Hilll Mountains
Yall know yall wrong for that thumb nail smh disrespect
Parents need to stop trying to live their childhoods through their children
Mommy i want Mcdonalds threw me down the street. Bless his heart i get it.
Sounds like the Montessori learning
I'm happy for you to be blessed to conceive a lot of children. I haven't conceived yet but I'm waiting.❤
Conceiving a lot of children is not always a blessing to those children. It’s an ego trip.
@@lookintothelight91 It is a blessing when CREATOR do it,that's always a blessing.
That is the first thing God said, be fruitful and multiply only the devil don’t want you to obey God. Keep loving and teaching your babies Cam❤
I pray that JESUS will bless you and spouse abundantly
@@LovieandLovelle1975 Funny to me how y’all try and theologize/lionize him fucking women without protection and making babies as him living a life in sync with scripture. Y’all are truly delusional. Babies are a blessing, absolutely, but do not front like this man is not irresponsible and selfish.
She’s a pick me I’m out✌🏾
Yep
Horrible show!
Feeney Bypass
Yall should probably stop putting Dr Bryant on such high pedestal when she’s on a reality show that’s all about embarrassing the black woman then she comes on and try and embarrass this man and pretend to be this top notch therapist. GTFO… yeah she made some valid points but women on them reality shows fighting at 30 and 40 should not try and give advice and all you internet folks can come at me how you want but I said what I said
Cam stop having kids. It's too much.
Great lessons!
That man doesn’t have 8 kids he’s got 5 biological kids with Kia proctor being the main one who’s got 3, 1 with a side chick, 1 with his new girl so let’s see that’s 5 kids… where tf yall get 8 from? Yall forget he adopted some of these broke moms babies but we ain’t gon talk about that 💀
Von Track
She should’ve gave it to him like she did dmx.😏
Wow, he must really love his wife to raise 8 children with her
Lol
Is this sarcasm? 😅
@@Queen_EL11gotta be lol
Nah, it’s not sarcasm it’s evil. She didn’t have this smoke for Joie Chavis.
@@leerob7738 Are you a feminist?
Keep hope alive🤦🤷🤪🤳🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
This is the issue with these men having all these babies with different women. Those babies grow up, and then the men have a come to Jesus moments of " what house they should have been in more." Smh
Zboncak Ferry
Cam, you cannot call yourself spiritual when you don't submit to the spiritual direction that God gives. He tells us to be a man with ONE wife for a reason. To do anything outside of that is consistence acts of disobedience and dismissal of His standards. We have to stop calling on God to give us things he doesn't purpose for us to have. He didn't purpose for you have 8 children and 3 or 4 different baby mothers. Something is wrong here in the perspective that this ok
Ummmmmm just no. Nice try Cam😂
Babies should be born in water and not smacked
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Just a bunch of lip service
He thinks he is deep he is only surface
He's a good man, high on life. He ❤️ his children. That's a good man
A good man doesn't want their kids growing up un trauma...a good man doesn't have outside babies on a woman they said they are committed to. A good man is disciplined and doesn't spread his seed all over
It’s way more to being a good man. Encompasses your whole character not just because you love children.
Cam on camera is an image. The facts of the matter are he sees no problem creating broken homes with single women while refusing to commit. Thats a serious problem.
The bar is low..
@@venusa4871 In Hell
Adversity is inevitable in life. If you can’t say, “There are some things I’m not proud of,” you ought not be leading anyone.
But also, Cam makes too much money to be getting advice from non-clinicians ni. This got to stop.
Lmao the cope is insane 😭😂
She gives too much Grace to black men due to her understanding of our psychological disposition that stems from slavery …. We don’t need to publicly address our issues and publicly lash one another but we gotta STOP keep giving ppl passes for IT TOO … make these men know their behaviors are not psychologically sound LET THEM TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR THEIR GOD COMPLEX THAT ONLY THEY LIVE IN ….
❤LOVE ❤
Dr Bryant shoulda learned
THIS! 👏🏻👏🏻🫶🏻 She is amazing!