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What resonated with me most is the guy admitting that he wasn’t mature enough to be a husband and I think that’s the issue in our community. A lot of people aren’t ready but do it anyway and then later down the line and get divorce and want to blame women for the divorce rate being high
You’ll never be ready. Marriage is a mindset and lifestyle that happens at the alter anything before that dies everything after happens within that covenant.
@@shawnbailey2300but there is self work that you must do BEFORE in order to give yourself a chance at being successful. That is the preparedness, not having it all together and figured out.
Man we appreciate that!! That makes me feel a little bit better about having these conversations. Would appreciate a subscribe. I’ll keep em coming if yall want em!
Challenges in relationships are part of the journey, but there’s always a way to move forward. My own marriage had significant hurdles, but with the right help, my wife and I overcame them and grew stronger. With effort and cooperation, solutions can be found. Keep your hope-solutions are within reach.
I’m dealing with major issues in my relationship and can't imagine losing her. I love and miss her dearly and am prepared to do whatever is needed to have her back in my life. Any advice or direction you can offer would mean a lot to me.
Learning to let someone you love go is always a tough journey, but in my case, I had the wisdom of a spiritual mentor who kept my marriage from crumbling. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll swiftly look her up online. Thanks. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will bring about positive changes for me too; her absence is deeply felt.
Married 15 years and unexpectedly asked for divorce by husband. We had no issues and he admits he guess he's running away from his responsibilities. Very selfish, I was heartbroken but quickly picked myself up and leaned on my faith. God removes people for reasons. I did question why so many times to God but then said why not. Its life , I moved out, filed for divorce myself and moving forward. I fought a good fight but this is what he wanted. Enough was enough of trying to reason. I wish him well.
Your strength and faith through such a difficult time is truly inspiring. It’s never easy to let go, but you’ve shown wisdom in trusting God's plan and moving forward. Sometimes, the hardest decisions bring us the most peace. Wishing you continued healing and grace on this journey.
God never sent him to begin with. This is why you’re are supposed to FAST and pray and seek the Holy Spirit before getting married because divorce is actually a sin. According to the Bible once you’re married you’re bound until death. God said “why not”? 😂 God does not contradict Himself. His word says that he HATES divorce. If you think God went against his own word and gave you a pass to divorce you are sadly mistaken. When yall say yall hear from God is hilarious when it doesn’t align with scripture and when it doesn’t align with scripture it’s not God but satan that you are hearing from because God is not the author of confusion. Divorce Divorce is a sin and remarriage while the first spouse is living is adultery according to scripture Romans 7:2 a woman is bound to her husband til death Matthew 19:3-12 Jesus explains that from the beginning it was not so, can divorce only for fornication which committed by the single 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 (Keep Your Marriage Vows) 10Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. 11But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife. Jeremiah 3:8 Israel backslid and committed spiritual adultery against the Lord Jeremiah 3:20 Divorce is treacherous Jeremiah 3:14 God is married to the backslider John 3:19 men’s deeds were evil Roman 8:1 free from the law of sin and death through Jesus Christ Malachi 2:16 God hates divorce Mark 10:11-12 if you divorce and marry another you are committing adultery Mark 10:1 Jesus on divorce Mark 10:11-12 Mark 1-9 1 Corinthians 7:1-2 to avoid fornication 1 Corinthians 11:3 the head of the woman is the man 1 Corinthians 7:27 seek not to be loose. Numbers 23:19 Ecclesiasticas (also known as the book of Sarrach) chapter 23: verse 22 Thus shall it go also with the wife that leave her husband and bring in an heir by another, for First she hath disobeyed the law of the most high, and secondly she hath trespassed against her own husband and thirdly she hath played the whore in adultery and brought children by another man. Ecclesiasticas chapter 23: verse 18 a man that breakth wedlock saying thus in his heart “who see me? I am compass about with darkness, the walls cover me what he I to fear the most high will not remember my sins”. 1 Corinthians 7:5 do not deprive your spouse of sex (less it be for prayer, fasting, menstrual cycle, medical condition) James 4:4 adulterers 1 Corinthians 7:2 to avoid fornication 1 Corinthians 2:28 but if you do marry you have not sinned and if a virgin married they have not sinned, but those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this. 1 Corinthians 7:28 Hebrews 13:4 all marriage (first marriages) are honorable Ecclesiasticus 23: 17-21 Mark 10:2-12 1 Corinthians 7:27-29 better to stay single and never marry Ecclesiasticus 26:23 a wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man; but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord. Romans 7:1-3 Matthew 1:18-20 (the word husband used in reference to being engaged not married) 1 Corinthians 7:39 A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. If her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but only if he loves the Lord ruclips.net/video/vLckduyTC1w/видео.html ruclips.net/video/ykb4ARvYM60/видео.html ruclips.net/video/yFbvILsUklo/видео.html ruclips.net/video/8pYLQIL8e4k/видео.html
The guest’s honesty is refreshing and admirable. He said so many profound things with a biblical perspective. I pray many men see this and feel inspired to dig deep. May God protect and keep this gentleman as he guards this beautiful message.
Pete was spitting, when you asked “how a man is supposed to manage the responsibilities of husband” 👏🏽👏🏽 He gets it. it is integral for men to spend a good amount of their early adult hood, single, and focused on building themselves (mentally, physically, financially, etc). So they are already in good shape to take on role of a husband & he can actually view having a wife as a true benefit as a real partner to help him in life 💕
My cousin sent me this.. I am coming to the end of my first 5 years being married .. and boooyyyy all I can say it isn’t for the weak… I have been weak the whole time.. came close to divorce like actual finalize date was set and everything.. we didn’t show up.. long story short.. thank you guys for doing this. Yall hit pretty much every topic in my marriage. Including the part about Albuquerque in the beginning lol that’s where I was born and raised.. now live in Texas… God bless yall brothas
That’s so amazing to hear! Congratulations on reaching your fifth year of marriage, especially after overcoming such a challenging season. It takes so much strength and commitment to work through tough times, and your story is a testament to the power of perseverance and love. I’m truly humbled that the interview played a part in that journey for you both. Keep growing together, keep choosing each other every day, and remember that your story is inspiring to others. Wishing you even more strength, love, and joy in the years ahead! Thank you for sharing your journey-it means a lot.
I know you said you don't like to talk about relationships, BUT MY LORD!! This was so powerful and real. Unlike other podcasts that produce fluff. As a woman I could feel the realism and as a married woman I had wholehearted compassion for my husband. I appreciate this dialogue because we tend to talk about things that have no meaning. This conversation was 1000% worth having and more!! Love you much!
Never heard either of these gentleman before this. I loved the message, vulnerability and authenticity of the two! They touched sensitive topics that are never talked about but that affect our marriages in so many ways. Thank you both for discussing this! Keep maximizing this!!!
Thank you guys for your honesty and transparency. That conversation helped me to see what I need to do better as a wife. It reinforced how much hurt it does to our community to downplay how much we NEED each other and how unfair it is to each other if we aren’t BOTH willingly to be held accountable. I loved the gems about a man being quick to give his daughter what she needs. We are quick to do it for our sons as well. Even when we’re angry and hurt. You’re doing God’s work for sure. Are you guys familiar with Hardly Initiated podcast and Nice and Neat? I can see you guys having them as guests and vice versa. I will def share this with people I know
@12:45 Women have been doing all of that work even though they don’t get the credit a lot of the time! We need to stop looking to society to teach us how to be good human beings! You cannot want to serve society’s expectations & God at the same time! Your wife is your partner/ teammate. She should be your 1st priority!
10 minutes into interview he’s complaining of all the things he must do… it’s called be ALIVE sir , we all women, men even children need to regulate themselves. Let’s see
If you have a 100 dollars, do you need others to tell you you have 100 dollars? Or do you know the value of what you possess? Relationships aren't about getting credit. Thats a childish mindset...
You don’t have to take away yourself to be in a marriage. The problem is being selfish and know how to have respect for your partner and your vows to YOUR spouse. If everything you do you also think about the how it impacts your spouse you will not find yourself sleeping with other people, going to other people for advice, going outside of the marriage for comport…. Selfish people should NEVER get married. Childhood trauma and bitter parents, relatives, and friends will not have a healthy successful marriage. Loving this guy, Pete! ❤. Even with counseling you cannot do it without God. Counseling may get you to acknowledging the pain but God is going to give you the strength to deal with it. ❤️🙏🏽
5 years of hell…. I just got out of a 35 year relationship; 28 year marriage. The first 20 years, HARD; the last 15 HELL! I did everything I could but die to save that marriage and had I stay in it with him the way he was; it would have lead to my demise. In the end he was trying to destroy me in every way but I know it came from his childhood trauma that he hasn’t dealt with and the toxic advice he was getting from his family, friends, coworkers, and jezebel lovers…. I had an entire clan all in him geared to destroy me. The devil knew he had to come strong because he knew I was a fighter. I had become dormant in terms of dealing with him because for my health I had to give him to God or the Devil; whichever one he chose to serve. When we divorced he had for sure chosen the Devil. People running from God just don’t understand how they are tormenting the people they are in relationships with. They are selfish so they can’t see it but I am sure plenty of people left this earth being tortured by someone else’s hell. 🙁❤️🙏🏽
@@Jaycarbrownie12 Yes. Unfortunately most men are not submitted to God. They're submitted to leading the way men tell them to lead, which is usually ungodly.
@@tatianadaniel3569reason why there are so many divorces… until men learn how to lead according to the word. It will be a forever issue …. Women also have to learn how to be submissive to leadership ( God) before marriage . We skipping steps and wonder why we not happy
@@CLINICIANPIVOT Many of us ladies are not even entertaining relationships or marriage anymore because we see that throughout history, men have always expected more from us than they were willing to give. They love quoting scripture towards women, but neglect to live under the influence of the Holy Spirit themselves. The hypocrisy is why women are not happy with men. The lack of control is why men are not happy with women.
I really appreciate the fact that the interviewee didn’t make this show all about himself even though he was the one being interviewed. He gave the host a safe space on his own show to be open and vulnerable and that’s rare. One of the best episodes I’ve seen.
I am new here. I have been divorced now for 3 years. I left my marriage after seeing my husband wouldn't step up and do the self work that was needed for our family to progress. Listening to this conversation is very eye-opening. Thank you, fellas, for this.
Yes! I have tried to explain this to my X's, but I just couldn't articulate like you did. The man has to first learn to be submissive as the Bride of Christ, before he attempts to lead a wife. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Iron sharpens Iron. Please go into the highways and hedges and blast thisTruth to the world. Submit to each other. 1 Peter5:5🙏🏼
I pray many men see this.. men in the church need to disciple other men.. this man has a testimony that could help many.. thank you for sharing this . Great interview!
@@GDavisLWTCK I actually shared it with my nephew who is getting married. It’s important for him to hear this conversation before he goes into it. It was helpful for me in ways I hadn’t expected.
What a blessing 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 plz have more of these conversations...... Much needed. Men need a safe place to be open, honest, & heal. You are not alone! Teaching & Healing my brother's one heart at a time 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
All women are not the same. I don’t like being categorized as a woman who acts crazy when I want something or wants attention at hectic times and a lot of other categories men put women in.
Ok, it is no coincidence that I literally stumbled on this video today when yesterday in my bible study my Pastor spoke on this very topic of the man being the bridegroom. My heart is full.
My man! "I'm not gonna save you." "You gotta keep going ". This right here, ladies and gentlemen is an example of how MEN can keep each other ACCOUNTABLE .
Wasn’t looking for this podcast it just appeared and I decided to listen…this has been very profound at a very hard time in my life…yesterday I received my divorce papers unfortunately…I married a man that I found out since being married still has issues from his previous marriage…I tried to do everything I knew to do as his wife and wanting to go to counseling…he did not want to go to counseling when it was first mentioned but said he would eventually and when I asked a while later I realized he was gas lighting me…being ppl of the body of Christ were held to a higher regard and have to get things done on earth as it is in heaven…I’m truly praying for us that are needing to do the work to grow…a lot of our men don’t take the time needed to heal so they can have healthy relationships…this podcast has shedded a lot of light on conversation that is desperately needed and I pray more of our men and women allow them selves to be transparent, vulnerable, and accountable to love the way TMH GOD intended…Peace and Blessings ❤
The part with the Sasha the cat I loved!!! My mom's cat just passed and it was devastating so glad you didn't cut that part out. Also, such a great podcast episode.
Wow only a minute in and I am impressed with the honesty and wisdom this young man has…. The accountability to heal is beyond words…. Love this! Love it! I’ll keep listening… ❤️🙏🏽🙌🏽
Brotha, "you are not losing a viewer" and please don't insult our spiritual intelligence... you've gained a fan in this one with this session due to honesty and transparency.❤ As Christian woman walking in the spirit with God this is not complicated, if you are in alignment with your assignment in Christ. Submission to Christ helps you to have humility, forgiveness , protection and loyalty with your partner mainly because of Jesus loyalty to you. I love this " meat and not milk conversation. Thank you🙏🏾
Recommendation: It would be easier on the eyes if both people were in view at the same time, rather than switching between speakers, and the camera feels too zoomed in on each person.
Great discussion. Glad you got out of your comfort zone. I'm sure that conversation freed a lot of men and enlightened the ladies. Thanks for your transparency!
This conversation was great. I never expected him to say stop. It’s something about relationship conversations that makes him uncomfortable. Your testimony is for others. The tweeter culture for example. Great job guys. God is everything of all things. He will ALWAYS give you what you need.
Basically-if you’re buying into today’s pop culture-the role you’re expected to fulfill as a man is really just the support to the role women (especially Black women) have been filling for decades. When you ask HOW can a man get it all done with a degree of respectability… I would ask if you posed the same question when it was just a woman filling the role? NOW… give her the respect that she deserves and is LONG overdue.
"You aint got to take that King"... so accurate... thats what society says... but Kings find a way to rule their Kingdom upright and with reason, love , compassion and sacrifice. Great show!
Why so they could be in fornication together. That man has admitted to willingly sin every 7-8months. And yall just glance over things constantly but say yall are people of the body. Yall all cap especially if yall still support that man, that’s why nobody really believes. Most Christians don’t even live like they believe. So why would a non believer
I haven’t watched this video yet only the first few minutes and a thought came to me. So many men brag on women never being married knowing we should not initiate beg or give an ultimatum to become a wife. We simply have to just be with men that desire us in that way. Anyway, i notice they make fun and mock women that have never been married yet they don’t acknowledge how many times they have been divorced. Like having access to marriage doesn’t mean you have access to quality partner
the difference of when a man “finds a wife “will” receive favor” based on his own “willingness” of “submission” to The Most High vs guys who are just wanting and moving aimlessly from “what they can get” based on his selfishness is so clear…Beautiful & Abundant blessings ❤🤲🏾🥂
46:04 i wish he didn’t interrupt or interject here. guy was on the cusp of a pivotal moment of walking through the tension he/wife were experiencing & possibly how they navigated through that… which would have supported many who needed to understand for themselves/situation. he need praise/appreciation in *that* moment. & bro… he didn’t NEED or ASK to be saved. 😕
I see what you’re saying. It’s frustrating when someone interrupts a moment of deep, personal reflection that could’ve resonated with so many people going through similar struggles. Sometimes, what people need most is to feel heard and understood without being ‘saved’ from their vulnerability. However, I believe the interjection might have come from a place of wanting to help or offer support, even if it wasn’t the right timing. We all sometimes misstep in our attempts to help others, so giving grace in those moments could also be a teaching point for everyone involved.
Thank you for this podcast episode. It’s uplifting to see our brothers being each other’s keepers and embracing God’s word and speaking truth to each other’s lives. I’m going to share this and pray your impactful messages are heard across nations. Keep up the good work!
@27:00 🎉 I am a first time viewer! Actually at this time when your guest was speaking, I hit the like button just before you made the remark that you were going to lose your viewers . His words compelled me To listen more intently.
He hit the nail on the head.. its loving to serve. Its time in Gods presence so we can die to self . The serving comes from God workin thru us and us getting out the way and finding joy in it. Its so true. I agree with what he said.
Absolutely love this guy, I've learnt alot. Indeed you've grown so much in God. I like the fact that you're taking accountability and not pointing fingers to others.
Not every man’s story to union is him being complete and Complete feeling!!! So, where are you growing and where should the growth be shown first… the world may never know…
New subscriber here! Thank you for your vulnerability and truth, Wish I found your channel sooner. Thank you, May you continue to be blessed and prosperous 🙏
I appreciate the dirt Diggler segment of this podcast. It's important for people to know that a man's emotions can affect performance similar to a woman
I appreciated the openness! Omg that "not maximized my talent and potential" speaks so much to me, which has been the challenge I've struggled until this day!!! Any recipe for that?
I appreciate you sharing that! It sounds like you’re resonating with the challenge of tapping into your full potential, which is something many of us face at different stages. One key recipe for this is to break free from comparison and focus on your unique path. Start by defining what ‘maximizing your potential’ means to you, and take small, consistent steps toward that vision daily. Surround yourself with people who push you forward, and don’t shy away from taking calculated risks that challenge your comfort zone. Your potential is there, but sometimes it’s waiting on you to step into unfamiliar spaces with confidence and faith. Keep nurturing your talents, even when it feels like progress is slow-because the small steps matter. You’re closer than you think!
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What resonated with me most is the guy admitting that he wasn’t mature enough to be a husband and I think that’s the issue in our community. A lot of people aren’t ready but do it anyway and then later down the line and get divorce and want to blame women for the divorce rate being high
You’ll never be ready. Marriage is a mindset and lifestyle that happens at the alter anything before that dies everything after happens within that covenant.
@@shawnbailey2300 and a lot of people aren’t really ready for all it entails
@@shawnbailey2300but there is self work that you must do BEFORE in order to give yourself a chance at being successful. That is the preparedness, not having it all together and figured out.
You are not losing viewers you are getting rightful souls that truly want to grow.
I definitely am new here. I love to listen to and learn from men.
I came for the title, I stayed for the informative, non- profane conversation. Thank you gentlemen. Blessings
Man we appreciate that!! That makes me feel a little bit better about having these conversations. Would appreciate a subscribe. I’ll keep em coming if yall want em!
Thank you for taking the time to watch, comment, & encourage!! God Bless you-that means a lot ❤
Same here
Challenges in relationships are part of the journey, but there’s always a way to move forward. My own marriage had significant hurdles, but with the right help, my wife and I overcame them and grew stronger. With effort and cooperation, solutions can be found. Keep your hope-solutions are within reach.
I’m dealing with major issues in my relationship and can't imagine losing her. I love and miss her dearly and am prepared to do whatever is needed to have her back in my life. Any advice or direction you can offer would mean a lot to me.
Learning to let someone you love go is always a tough journey, but in my case, I had the wisdom of a spiritual mentor who kept my marriage from crumbling. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll swiftly look her up online. Thanks. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will bring about positive changes for me too; her absence is deeply felt.
You definitely should
Man I love that!! Thanks for sharing!!
No blame games or deflecting here.... Responsible,Transparent and accountable Kings!!!
I pray this message goes viral.
I'm definitely sharing!
Married 15 years and unexpectedly asked for divorce by husband. We had no issues and he admits he guess he's running away from his responsibilities. Very selfish, I was heartbroken but quickly picked myself up and leaned on my faith. God removes people for reasons. I did question why so many times to God but then said why not. Its life , I moved out, filed for divorce myself and moving forward. I fought a good fight but this is what he wanted. Enough was enough of trying to reason. I wish him well.
Your strength and faith through such a difficult time is truly inspiring. It’s never easy to let go, but you’ve shown wisdom in trusting God's plan and moving forward. Sometimes, the hardest decisions bring us the most peace. Wishing you continued healing and grace on this journey.
Currently in this situation 🙁 he asked for a divorce out the blue while on deployment.
God never sent him to begin with. This is why you’re are supposed to FAST and pray and seek the Holy Spirit before getting married because divorce is actually a sin. According to the Bible once you’re married you’re bound until death. God said “why not”? 😂 God does not contradict Himself. His word says that he HATES divorce. If you think God went against his own word and gave you a pass to divorce you are sadly mistaken. When yall say yall hear from God is hilarious when it doesn’t align with scripture and when it doesn’t align with scripture it’s not God but satan that you are hearing from because God is not the author of confusion.
Divorce
Divorce is a sin and remarriage while the first spouse is living is adultery according to scripture
Romans 7:2 a woman is bound to her husband til death
Matthew 19:3-12 Jesus explains that from the beginning it was not so, can divorce only for fornication which committed by the single
1 Corinthians 7:10-11 (Keep Your Marriage Vows)
10Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband. 11But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
Jeremiah 3:8 Israel backslid and committed spiritual adultery against the Lord
Jeremiah 3:20 Divorce is treacherous
Jeremiah 3:14 God is married to the backslider
John 3:19 men’s deeds were evil
Roman 8:1 free from the law of sin and death through Jesus Christ
Malachi 2:16 God hates divorce
Mark 10:11-12 if you divorce and marry another you are committing adultery
Mark 10:1 Jesus on divorce
Mark 10:11-12
Mark 1-9
1 Corinthians 7:1-2 to avoid fornication
1 Corinthians 11:3 the head of the woman is the man
1 Corinthians 7:27 seek not to be loose.
Numbers 23:19
Ecclesiasticas (also known as the book of Sarrach) chapter 23: verse 22
Thus shall it go also with the wife that leave her husband and bring in an heir by another, for First she hath disobeyed the law of the most high, and secondly she hath trespassed against her own husband and thirdly she hath played the whore in adultery and brought children by another man.
Ecclesiasticas chapter 23: verse 18 a man that breakth wedlock saying thus in his heart “who see me? I am compass about with darkness, the walls cover me what he I to fear the most high will not remember my sins”.
1 Corinthians 7:5 do not deprive your spouse of sex (less it be for prayer, fasting, menstrual cycle, medical condition)
James 4:4 adulterers
1 Corinthians 7:2 to avoid fornication
1 Corinthians 2:28 but if you do marry you have not sinned and if a virgin married they have not sinned, but those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.
1 Corinthians 7:28
Hebrews 13:4 all marriage (first marriages) are honorable
Ecclesiasticus 23: 17-21
Mark 10:2-12
1 Corinthians 7:27-29 better to stay single and never marry
Ecclesiasticus 26:23 a wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man; but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord.
Romans 7:1-3
Matthew 1:18-20 (the word husband used in reference to being engaged not married)
1 Corinthians 7:39
A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. If her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but only if he loves the Lord
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@@dasia_jenaehe’s cheating. Not quite sure how this isn’t obvious. Military men and women are notorious for cheating.
But if a woman file for divorce yall call her a queen for leaving smh
The guest’s honesty is refreshing and admirable. He said so many profound things with a biblical perspective. I pray many men see this and feel inspired to dig deep. May God protect and keep this gentleman as he guards this beautiful message.
Thank you so much!! Please subscribe and share, we’ll have more conversations like these!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Pete was spitting, when you asked “how a man is supposed to manage the responsibilities of husband” 👏🏽👏🏽 He gets it. it is integral for men to spend a good amount of their early adult hood, single, and focused on building themselves (mentally, physically, financially, etc). So they are already in good shape to take on role of a husband & he can actually view having a wife as a true benefit as a real partner to help him in life 💕
This kind of vulnerability from our black men is so refreshing and so healthy! I ❤ every min of this! Thank you men!
My cousin sent me this.. I am coming to the end of my first 5 years being married .. and boooyyyy all I can say it isn’t for the weak… I have been weak the whole time.. came close to divorce like actual finalize date was set and everything.. we didn’t show up.. long story short.. thank you guys for doing this. Yall hit pretty much every topic in my marriage. Including the part about Albuquerque in the beginning lol that’s where I was born and raised.. now live in Texas… God bless yall brothas
That’s so amazing to hear! Congratulations on reaching your fifth year of marriage, especially after overcoming such a challenging season. It takes so much strength and commitment to work through tough times, and your story is a testament to the power of perseverance and love. I’m truly humbled that the interview played a part in that journey for you both. Keep growing together, keep choosing each other every day, and remember that your story is inspiring to others. Wishing you even more strength, love, and joy in the years ahead! Thank you for sharing your journey-it means a lot.
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Appreciate you bro 🙏🏾🙏🏾. Hang in there, it does get better.
I can’t finish this whole episode without thanking you for your courage and transparency. I appreciate this so much.
Thank you so much!! Please share and subscribe. I think we’ll do more of these🙏🏾🙏🏾
I know you said you don't like to talk about relationships, BUT MY LORD!! This was so powerful and real. Unlike other podcasts that produce fluff. As a woman I could feel the realism and as a married woman I had wholehearted compassion for my husband. I appreciate this dialogue because we tend to talk about things that have no meaning. This conversation was 1000% worth having and more!! Love you much!
Thank you!!! Man reading this made my day!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Never heard either of these gentleman before this. I loved the message, vulnerability and authenticity of the two! They touched sensitive topics that are never talked about but that affect our marriages in so many ways. Thank you both for discussing this! Keep maximizing this!!!
This convo needs to be heard nationwide !!! Our people need to hear this .
Thank you guys for your honesty and transparency. That conversation helped me to see what I need to do better as a wife. It reinforced how much hurt it does to our community to downplay how much we NEED each other and how unfair it is to each other if we aren’t BOTH willingly to be held accountable. I loved the gems about a man being quick to give his daughter what she needs. We are quick to do it for our sons as well. Even when we’re angry and hurt. You’re doing God’s work for sure. Are you guys familiar with Hardly Initiated podcast and Nice and Neat? I can see you guys having them as guests and vice versa. I will def share this with people I know
Thank you so much!! That really means a lot! Man we appreciate that!! I’ll keep em coming if yall want em!
@12:45 Women have been doing all of that work even though they don’t get the credit a lot of the time! We need to stop looking to society to teach us how to be good human beings! You cannot want to serve society’s expectations & God at the same time! Your wife is your partner/ teammate. She should be your 1st priority!
Sayyyyy it Again!💖💯
10 minutes into interview he’s complaining of all the things he must do… it’s called be ALIVE sir , we all women, men even children need to regulate themselves.
Let’s see
If you have a 100 dollars, do you need others to tell you you have 100 dollars? Or do you know the value of what you possess? Relationships aren't about getting credit. Thats a childish mindset...
She this shows that some husbands also feell the pressure of all the all the expectations of us
@@KimmieB1993so then don’t get married. It’s really that simple but most men don’t know how to be alone.
You don’t have to take away yourself to be in a marriage. The problem is being selfish and know how to have respect for your partner and your vows to YOUR spouse. If everything you do you also think about the how it impacts your spouse you will not find yourself sleeping with other people, going to other people for advice, going outside of the marriage for comport…. Selfish people should NEVER get married. Childhood trauma and bitter parents, relatives, and friends will not have a healthy successful marriage. Loving this guy, Pete! ❤. Even with counseling you cannot do it without God. Counseling may get you to acknowledging the pain but God is going to give you the strength to deal with it. ❤️🙏🏽
5 years of hell…. I just got out of a 35 year relationship; 28 year marriage. The first 20 years, HARD; the last 15 HELL! I did everything I could but die to save that marriage and had I stay in it with him the way he was; it would have lead to my demise. In the end he was trying to destroy me in every way but I know it came from his childhood trauma that he hasn’t dealt with and the toxic advice he was getting from his family, friends, coworkers, and jezebel lovers…. I had an entire clan all in him geared to destroy me. The devil knew he had to come strong because he knew I was a fighter. I had become dormant in terms of dealing with him because for my health I had to give him to God or the Devil; whichever one he chose to serve. When we divorced he had for sure chosen the Devil. People running from God just don’t understand how they are tormenting the people they are in relationships with. They are selfish so they can’t see it but I am sure plenty of people left this earth being tortured by someone else’s hell. 🙁❤️🙏🏽
I feel your pain so deeply, and I'm glad you got through it❤🤗
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The part about men being submitted to something bigger than himself is 🤯🤯
The submission is to God ! Not society
@@Jaycarbrownie12 Yes.
Unfortunately most men are not submitted to God.
They're submitted to leading the way men tell them to lead, which is usually ungodly.
@@tatianadaniel3569reason why there are so many divorces… until men learn how to lead according to the word. It will be a forever issue …. Women also have to learn how to be submissive to leadership ( God) before marriage . We skipping steps and wonder why we not happy
@@CLINICIANPIVOT Many of us ladies are not even entertaining relationships or marriage anymore because we see that throughout history, men have always expected more from us than they were willing to give.
They love quoting scripture towards women, but neglect to live under the influence of the Holy Spirit themselves.
The hypocrisy is why women are not happy with men. The lack of control is why men are not happy with women.
@@tatianadaniel3569 i don’t blame them at all. Something have to change
I really appreciate the fact that the interviewee didn’t make this show all about himself even though he was the one being interviewed. He gave the host a safe space on his own show to be open and vulnerable and that’s rare. One of the best episodes I’ve seen.
I am new here. I have been divorced now for 3 years. I left my marriage after seeing my husband wouldn't step up and do the self work that was needed for our family to progress. Listening to this conversation is very eye-opening. Thank you, fellas, for this.
Thank you for providing hope and encouragement to the men who are ready to do the work and transform through the power of Christ.
Great dialogue fellas. I pray that men and women worldwide have the opportunity to see this conversation. God bless you both 🙏🏽
Yes! I have tried to explain this to my X's, but I just couldn't articulate like you did. The man has to first learn to be submissive as the Bride of Christ, before he attempts to lead a wife. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Iron sharpens Iron. Please go into the highways and hedges and blast thisTruth to the world. Submit to each other.
1 Peter5:5🙏🏼
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Healing is draining, but you're better because of it. Good show guys 🧡🧡🧡
Such a great dialogue…. The transparency and authenticity!
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I pray many men see this.. men in the church need to disciple other men.. this man has a testimony that could help many.. thank you for sharing this . Great interview!
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This was a great discussion. Thank you both for the conversation. I was over here yelling at the gems dropped!
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@@GDavisLWTCK I actually shared it with my nephew who is getting married. It’s important for him to hear this conversation before he goes into it. It was helpful for me in ways I hadn’t expected.
Breath of fresh air!! Thank you all !
What a blessing 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 plz have more of these conversations...... Much needed. Men need a safe place to be open, honest, & heal.
You are not alone! Teaching & Healing my brother's one heart at a time 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
All women are not the same. I don’t like being categorized as a woman who acts crazy when I want something or wants attention at hectic times and a lot of other categories men put women in.
Ok, it is no coincidence that I literally stumbled on this video today when yesterday in my bible study my Pastor spoke on this very topic of the man being the bridegroom. My heart is full.
Come through Pastor!!!! Thanks for sharing that with us! Please share this and keep the convo going!!
My man! "I'm not gonna save you." "You gotta keep going ". This right here, ladies and gentlemen is an example of how MEN can keep each other ACCOUNTABLE .
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Wasn’t looking for this podcast it just appeared and I decided to listen…this has been very profound at a very hard time in my life…yesterday I received my divorce papers unfortunately…I married a man that I found out since being married still has issues from his previous marriage…I tried to do everything I knew to do as his wife and wanting to go to counseling…he did not want to go to counseling when it was first mentioned but said he would eventually and when I asked a while later I realized he was gas lighting me…being ppl of the body of Christ were held to a higher regard and have to get things done on earth as it is in heaven…I’m truly praying for us that are needing to do the work to grow…a lot of our men don’t take the time needed to heal so they can have healthy relationships…this podcast has shedded a lot of light on conversation that is desperately needed and I pray more of our men and women allow them selves to be transparent, vulnerable, and accountable to love the way TMH GOD intended…Peace and Blessings ❤
The part with the Sasha the cat I loved!!! My mom's cat just passed and it was devastating so glad you didn't cut that part out. Also, such a great podcast episode.
Sasha is gonna make sure everyone knows she’s in the room! Sorry to hear about your mom’s cat. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Wow only a minute in and I am impressed with the honesty and wisdom this young man has…. The accountability to heal is beyond words…. Love this! Love it! I’ll keep listening… ❤️🙏🏽🙌🏽
This was very good. I can’t even begin to explain how great this was to watch/listen to.
Wow, thank you!
Thank you both for the transparency and for having this talk!!!
“ you’re in space where you’re told what you’re not and you still trying to figure out how to become” wow
Brotha, "you are not losing a viewer" and please don't insult our spiritual intelligence... you've gained a fan in this one with this session due to honesty and transparency.❤ As Christian woman walking in the spirit with God this is not complicated, if you are in alignment with your assignment in Christ. Submission to Christ helps you to have humility, forgiveness , protection and loyalty with your partner mainly because of Jesus loyalty to you. I love this " meat and not milk conversation. Thank you🙏🏾
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Recommendation: It would be easier on the eyes if both people were in view at the same time, rather than switching between speakers, and the camera feels too zoomed in on each person.
So transparent. Thank you Gentlemen 🙌🏽
I like how he said build you first before partnering w/ a woman
I’m in tears for a masculine man saying through fear he heart was close, but when he was able to let the love of Christ change him “simply beautiful “
It's good to see Godly men making appearances above the people. Continue the good work. Our society needs it.
Great discussion. Glad you got out of your comfort zone. I'm sure that conversation freed a lot of men and enlightened the ladies. Thanks for your transparency!
1st time checking in on episode. Great example of how to stay faithful. I be ready for next podcast.
Thank you so much!!! Definitely more episodes with these conversations coming. Please share!!
This conversation was great. I never expected him to say stop. It’s something about relationship conversations that makes him uncomfortable. Your testimony is for others. The tweeter culture for example. Great job guys. God is everything of all things. He will ALWAYS give you what you need.
"They are biologically older in age But still a little girl." You are preaching 🙌 👏 👌
Basically-if you’re buying into today’s pop culture-the role you’re expected to fulfill as a man is really just the support to the role women (especially Black women) have been filling for decades. When you ask HOW can a man get it all done with a degree of respectability… I would ask if you posed the same question when it was just a woman filling the role? NOW… give her the respect that she deserves and is LONG overdue.
Yes, doing what needs to be done, whether respected or not is what leaders do.
You all blessed me and encourage me!!! Mission accomplished !!!✅
Thank you 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This convo is healing to my father wounds. Such a great convo!!!!So good! 🙏
wholesome interaction, great conversation 👏🏾👏🏾
"You aint got to take that King"... so accurate... thats what society says... but Kings find a way to rule their Kingdom upright and with reason, love , compassion and sacrifice. Great show!
This was good! He should be on the Dear Future Wifey podcast
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Why so they could be in fornication together. That man has admitted to willingly sin every 7-8months. And yall just glance over things constantly but say yall are people of the body. Yall all cap especially if yall still support that man, that’s why nobody really believes. Most Christians don’t even live like they believe. So why would a non believer
@@K.DaWriterKid lol what!?respectfully, hush please. Thanks. Have a good day
I haven’t watched this video yet only the first few minutes and a thought came to me. So many men brag on women never being married knowing we should not initiate beg or give an ultimatum to become a wife. We simply have to just be with men that desire us in that way. Anyway, i notice they make fun and mock women that have never been married yet they don’t acknowledge how many times they have been divorced. Like having access to marriage doesn’t mean you have access to quality partner
Thank you for your transparency. Great conversation!
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the difference of when a man “finds a wife “will” receive favor” based on his own “willingness” of “submission” to The Most High vs guys who are just wanting and moving aimlessly from “what they can get” based on his selfishness is so clear…Beautiful & Abundant blessings ❤🤲🏾🥂
Wow this was so good. I thank you for this discussion 🙏🏾
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Let's work on NOT being a quitter.❤
GOD didn't quit on us. Sure life can be hard at times, God is always near even when it seems there is no way out.
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Great podcast! Much needed Men of God…in this culture. Thank you❤️🙏🏽
I couldn't agree more!
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Great podcast G! (This is Mike Fraser)
This conversation had me thinking you were a big podcast, oh my…
I’m subscribed now, this was too good
Thank you sooooo much! That means a lot.
What incredible revelation he has about marriage. God is good
46:04 i wish he didn’t interrupt or interject here. guy was on the cusp of a pivotal moment of walking through the tension he/wife were experiencing & possibly how they navigated through that… which would have supported many who needed to understand for themselves/situation. he need praise/appreciation in *that* moment. & bro… he didn’t NEED or ASK to be saved. 😕
I see what you’re saying. It’s frustrating when someone interrupts a moment of deep, personal reflection that could’ve resonated with so many people going through similar struggles. Sometimes, what people need most is to feel heard and understood without being ‘saved’ from their vulnerability. However, I believe the interjection might have come from a place of wanting to help or offer support, even if it wasn’t the right timing. We all sometimes misstep in our attempts to help others, so giving grace in those moments could also be a teaching point for everyone involved.
What an eye opening conversation to hear as a woman. So much insight
Dating in Atlanta is a nightmare honestly, there’s so many factors we have to consider on top of other things 😅 smh
Great episode fellas
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The part where you said gifted people struggle with finishing things, I felt that because I was thinking of quitting my brand.
You don’t have to quit, just tweak!!!
Thank you for this podcast episode. It’s uplifting to see our brothers being each other’s keepers and embracing God’s word and speaking truth to each other’s lives. I’m going to share this and pray your impactful messages are heard across nations. Keep up the good work!
Thank you sooo much. Please subscribe and we’ll try to keep em coming!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
GREAT !! Please keep it coming !!
Will do if you keep watching! 🤝🏾🤝🏾. Please subscribe and share 🫡
Sharing this podcast with EVERYONE
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I am only halfway through and the conversation is so in depth! The feeling of alone while married is so honest.
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Thank you!! We need more of this!!
More to come! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I appreciated the level of vulnerability shared between two Christian men ❤ Absolutely refreshing
Thank you!!! It’s crazy that the one where we share the most is the one that goes viral 🙃. Please subscribe and share.
I am a woman and this podcast convicted me, thank you for sharing
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"I only quit I can't control." Wow!
@27:00 🎉 I am a first time viewer! Actually at this time when your guest was speaking, I hit the like button just before you made the remark that you were going to lose your viewers . His words compelled me To listen more intently.
And you stayed!!!!😁😁😁. Thank you!!
Now this a podcast I can subscribe to LOL
Please do!!!! 😁
I really enjoyed and learned from this conversation. Thank you for sharing your wisdom...... lessons learned 💯
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Love this transparency 🎉🎉🎉🎉
This is so good
Just checking this out! Definitely interested in listening to this podcast
He hit the nail on the head.. its loving to serve. Its time in Gods presence so we can die to self . The serving comes from God workin thru us and us getting out the way and finding joy in it. Its so true. I agree with what he said.
Thank the Lord for this. This was for me 🙇🏾♀️
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Absolutely love this guy, I've learnt alot. Indeed you've grown so much in God. I like the fact that you're taking accountability and not pointing fingers to others.
That was very insightful thank you both.
Not every man’s story to union is him being complete and Complete feeling!!! So, where are you growing and where should the growth be shown first… the world may never know…
Such great insight. Never would have known.
Part 2 please!!!
This episode made me subscribe, MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Praise the Lord!
Great Podcast🙏🏾💕
New subscriber here! Thank you for your vulnerability and truth, Wish I found your channel sooner. Thank you, May you continue to be blessed and prosperous 🙏
Thank you!!! No, you’re right on time!!
Great episode G!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You have such a pure heart. Thank you for the content of vulnerability and transparency from men of God. I love it.
Wow, thank you
I appreciate the dirt Diggler segment of this podcast. It's important for people to know that a man's emotions can affect performance similar to a woman
Man….that’s all I need to say!! Please subscribe and share, we’ll have more conversations like these!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Great discussion 💜
Great episode
I appreciated the openness! Omg that "not maximized my talent and potential" speaks so much to me, which has been the challenge I've struggled until this day!!! Any recipe for that?
I appreciate you sharing that! It sounds like you’re resonating with the challenge of tapping into your full potential, which is something many of us face at different stages. One key recipe for this is to break free from comparison and focus on your unique path. Start by defining what ‘maximizing your potential’ means to you, and take small, consistent steps toward that vision daily. Surround yourself with people who push you forward, and don’t shy away from taking calculated risks that challenge your comfort zone. Your potential is there, but sometimes it’s waiting on you to step into unfamiliar spaces with confidence and faith.
Keep nurturing your talents, even when it feels like progress is slow-because the small steps matter. You’re closer than you think!