Hi Friends! For those who are new here and would like some context. Here is a link to the video I mention ruclips.net/video/7LpPto5U2aI/видео.htmlsi=NuIxBY5zRTLM9OKR
Not sure how I bumped into this video, but it's so good listening to semblance of wisdom form a woman.. My 2 cents: The 1st question to ask oneself is Why? Not just why you want marriage, but why marriage exists in the 1st place. I think I should make a video like that myself.. Otherwise, good one!
37 with two kids, divorced and remarried to my ex-husband haha. We both admit we needed to divorce to be this wonderfully married 2nd time around. For marriage to thrive wisdom and maturity are so needed. Now we thrive because though love drives us, but understanding the business of marriage and how it is an ever evolving project motivates us.
Babes, what!!!! I haven't seen you since SABC 2 days. I grew up watching you❤. It's so great to see you after all these years🎉. I never knew you were married, or divorced... But you're so strong ❤. Love you
Being married, I did all the premarital preparation, read books but speed humps still came. There were times when it was honestly HONESTLY only through desperate and sincere prayer that we made it through instead of spiralling to divorce/ miserable marriage. Whatever your beliefs, the truth is there are many many forces invested in breaking up marriage and sometimes only God stands between you and them. So number 1 advice is take God with you into your marriage.
@@PreciousKofi thank you! It taught me that I'm not special, challenges can find me too no matter how good the foundation is. But also meant that anyone can get through even the biggest challenges with prayer. It's about choosing to turn from the temptation of ego and pride (pride includes seeing yourself as a victim!) and instead turning to prayer. Will pray for the success of your new relationship as well, but you'll also need to continue the work yourself ❤
🇬🇦 Mbolo /Salama/Sambona/Hi,HalleluYah 🙏🏿 God/YAH The Most High has to be the foundation of your relationship/marriage🙇🏿♂️...evil forces are out there to keep families divided, marriage destroyed and all good relationships broken... Yeshua is our protector🙌🏿..Shalom 🙇🏿♂️
I could have saved myself years of heartache had I listened to this years ago!!! Been married for 12 years now with 2 kids and so much learning and unlearning to do. Thanks for this, You described marriage so beautifully, heard and understood everything!
Married 3 years now, but no baby yet. Premarital counseling and personal counseling before marriage is so critical. It equipped you with tools for conflict resolution, compassion and humility. Marriage is work, but in a passionate project sort of way. I love school, so think of my husband as a PHD. I'm always seeking deeper knowledge, researching, investigating. There is always room for growth, always more to learn, but I am the expert and leading authority on everything about him! When you encounter something you don't know, seek professional help. Switch up therapist for fresh perspectives. Always assume best intentions and approach misunderstandings with curiosity. ❤ love is beautiful. I also reccomend reading All About Love by Belle Hooks
You spoke so succinctly even when u thought u were speaking in riddles, I heard and understood everything u were bringing across and love it Continue with the conversations, we love to hear it! ❤❤❤❤❤
I completely agree with everything you sad, in my years of being married I woke up to the fact that my husband is as much human as I am, and we intentionally choose to be together not just married but in this thing together there if and but we are doing this life thing together
Great video! I married at 23, coming from a single parent home, absent father, etc... and now, currently separated with 3 kids in the mix. I agree with EVERYthing you shared. In retrospect, (and what I would share with my littles) having an awareness of self, knowing what you want and don't want, therapy, therapy, therapy, premarital counseling, compatibility, getting married before 30, and so much more makes or breaks a relationship!
Yes and yes! I think we also overlook the importance of roll models. Not saying we must worship other people’s relationships but just as we have mentors in the professional world, a relationship mentor (a couple that is thriving) is worth having.
The key to understanding each other in a marriage is KNOWLEDGE. if you have different perspectives about marriage that means you're going to argue a lot. Find out what does your partner know about marriage, where does he/she take this knowledge about marriage? As married couple you should have the same meaning of concepts. if you have the same meaning then you will be on the same page and create chapters togethers. Have conversation about love, faith and God from the conception point.
38 year old me is in the place you were concerning marriage. I knew about premarital counseling, but it got dismissed when I mentioned it, based on the couple I had suggested we go for counseling to. It never got done, and I am paying dearly for this mistake. We haven't gone for a single therapy session in the 9 years we've been married, individually and as a couple. I have seriously considered checking into an institution before, but didn't go through with it. I did opt to be a stay at home mom for a bit, but ended up getting back to work 4 years later. Thank you for sharing lessons from your experience.
I really admire a woman who takes accountability for herself. There’s no blaming or criticizing her EX partner, no excuses, and no complaints about who did what. You've grown so much-thank you for being so open and vulnerable. I have learned so much 🙌🏿🙏
You described marriage so beautifully in simple terms... most of us want it, however we don't understand what it really means. Requires lots and lots of compromise....sharing finances, making decisions... everything? Yoh haikhona
Remove "compromise, " replace it with "duty, " and watch the magic happen. 1. Duty to each other's dreams and aspirations. 2. Duty to family (a plan in place aligned with a vision for your kids and the future generation), 3. Duty to society (Engage in activities that help communities grow and improve). If you base your base marriage on duty, I hate to repeat this again, but watch how the magic happens when a plan comes together; marriage is beautiful.
@404Learning I get you, however thing is 2 people will not agree to the same thing all the time, hence I say compromise. Sometimes 1 has to let the other get away with something to make it work, otherwise they will both pull to different directions.
@@NanaFlower24@NanaFlower24 Research shows that the top three reasons for divorce are finances, external influences from extended family, and infidelity. The key is that disagreements are bound to happen, and it's important to have a system in place to resolve conflicts. In our marriage, we have found that disagreements are best resolved through logical reasoning and common sense, supported by research, statistics, and advice from successful couples married for over 20 years. After prolonged disagreements, we realized that it was sensible to move away from our families in KZN. It's not just about compromising; it's about using common sense and logical reasoning.
Wow interesting, do you mind if you makes examples of when solving an issue logically cause sometimes people may also disagree on which logic is right .
@@404LearningI'm not even married yet but my relationship got tough there for a few months because of the influence of a family member. I don't even know why this person was meddling in my affairs when we are not even in laws yet. People are brave, I tell you.
Lmao that small pause when you thought about the price of therapy vs just posting this video killed me 😂😂😂. That’s me anytime I see the price of therapy. This topic is so necessary and I’m glad you going to do a whole series on relationships. I’m 32 and I feel like I’ve been terrible at relationships just because of the number of unsuccessful relationships I’ve had at my big age 😂. What I realised my biggest mistake was never taking accountability on how I contributed to the failure of relationships. My biggest struggle is communicating my needs, wants and expectations which I now realised stems from my childhood. I’m trying to work on this but I still struggle so much even in my current relationship so I would appreciate advice on how to be a better/more effective communicator. Side Note: On the next video can you please try preparing notes/ talking points before hand so that it’s easier to follow the things you saying. Otherwise thank you so much for the content ❤
Another awesome video! It's true-two are better than one. We won't always agree, but that’s how we stretch, grow, and sometimes feel uncomfortable. Walking and working through life together is key. Marriage is a partnership, where two become one, and I strongly advocate for better communication-it's so important. ❤ Keep up the great work with your amazing content!
You don't know how happy i am to see you. I watched everything enoPrecious. I loved Cape Town, because you stayed in Cape Town back then. Wena sana you are the original content create. I remember when your mom was so concerned when you were about to do Precious Africa, that you will be busy sleeping in people's houses 😂😂.
Learning to handle conflict is very important. When you have conflict please approach the people that genuinely love both of you to help in solving conflict if conflict should happen.
I love how tell stories Precious....the giggling... Its giving cousins having a sleep over at granny house, everyone sleeping on the dinning room floor. SA-Township style❤❤
I’ve never been married but only listening few min in im glad came across the channel. I have a saying “a human will always need another human at some point in their journey of life”. Marriage really needs a lot hey😫😭😤
Ooooh such incredible wisdom in this video!!! I can’t believe you captured me as a teen during Precious Africa ! You are still as amazing when I’m older and about to get married! lol amazing!! Loved this video!
Words of wisdom 🥰 thank you for sharing. Marriage is such a beautiful beautiful institution and premarital counselling is very important. Communication is extremely important and committing to each other and choosing each other everyday is important. Loved loved this discussion 🥰
I remember walking in Joburg and SOMEONE said: ARE YOU PRECIOUS KOFI....I had my FRO out like you did....AND OF COURSE I WAS SOOOO FLATTERED and i didn't wanna disappoint them so i SAID YES and quickly smiled and went because i didn't want them to see through my LIE😊🤭 Jesus, THIS is my confession 😂😂😂😂😂
I love how you shared your wisdom about marriage and partnership without making other parties look bad. You referenced your marriage without even once making your ex husband the monster and it was so so refreshing to watch and listen to. Thank you and glad to see you again.
Great video, I too have been divorced with two kids and just recorded a video about my marriage journey and recommendations and will be posting it on my channel soon. It’s bittersweet when I share my journey but everything works out for our good.
Yoh. I just realized that marriage is just as life changing as getting pregnant 😅. This has definitely changed my perspective on it. I’m 22 and I’m not doing this anytime soon. I already have a child and that was life changing enough
So true we on the same page, having a child it's your "introduction to a life time partnership" y'all would extend into marriage. Saw so many things that made me realise that ,yes I would've loved us to get married but heyyyy let's not damage us further let's take care of the child first then maybe
Interesting self reflection. Being a peer with one of my favourite TV presenters failing in marriage proves to me it's not just hard , but a devine blessing. I'm starting to believe that it's a devine blessing.... You can't be sure if this is right or wrong . Only God knows
Hi!🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 I just came across your content. You've just gained a subscriber!🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 I believe in marriage myself, but unfortunately, I've realized that I'm not really marriage material - not in a bad way, but my personal circumstances don't allow for it. I also appreciate the freedom of living without commitment. Still, I love love, and I celebrate the married people who are close to me. I focus more on building a relationship with my daughter and healing my childhood traumas. I really need to talk about this on my platform..
When i look at the number of times i wanted to walk away, im so grateful i stuck it out because what did i mean, i needed to understand what its like to choose the same person over and over again,
OMG PRECIOUS!!!!.... Used to love you on TV. You still look the same!!! I am less than 3min into the video and i am already giggling, looking forward to this storytime.
Precious Afrika!😩😫🤗😆😁🤣Since your show ended, SABC travel shows were never the same again🥲I am so happy seeing you again and knowing that you are healthy and well❤❤You are one of the reasons why I was so addicted to African geography back in Grade 5/6, I couldnt wait to talk about yesterdays episode the next day with my Geography teacher, even if there was no Geo period that day☺🤣Subscribed.
Marriage is God concept for preservation of mankind in the world. He constituted it for his will on earth. We need to go back to God for knowledge and understanding for this institution called Marriage. Our knowledge of it comes from society and social media which makes it looks glamorous from the outside. Marriage functions by law because its an institution and bear in mind i didnt say emotions, logic or intelligence but law. What are the laws of marriage? you can only find out from the one who created the institution.
This video just showed up on my timeline, the name shook me because it brought back so many childhood memories. Feels like meeting a friend after many years of not seeing each other. Ayt. I guess this is my first Precious video since Keeping it Real with Precious and URBO: The Adventures if Pax Africa.😂😂😂 Man I am old. Here is a sub.
ahhhhhhhhh maannn, Preci Preci. Miss you so much girl, not that we know each other but your TV program those days travelling all over and sharing it with us made me ur fan. I love your vibe and was always your fan and damn your energy still the same, you talk and giggle. Keep it real, you know what I mean. from a psychological point of view, pre-martials are good because it helps you navigate through certain issues and develop a marital plan (marriage is an institution and you cant run using love without a plan)
Precious! I am so happy that i bumped into your video waw am so happy to see you. Bendizibuza ukba washonaphi. used to watch you ko the crazy games ❤❤I love you
I clicked on this video wondering where do i familiarise this face from?? Oh my Gosh i Love You So Much & your voice ….. i know Unrelated to the video but i had to just drop it before watching the video further ❤
I quite enjoyed this…about to turn 39 with no partner or children in sight but I do know how I don’t want my marriage to be more than what I do want. I think If you are intentional and work at what you want then marital success can be achieved
Hi Friends! For those who are new here and would like some context. Here is a link to the video I mention ruclips.net/video/7LpPto5U2aI/видео.htmlsi=NuIxBY5zRTLM9OKR
Thank you 🤩
I grew up watching and looking up to you on Precious Africa.I love you so much❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Yep
❤❤❤❤this is always so beautiful to hear! And thank you for being here and subscribing!
The way she made me love our continent and travelling.
I knew I knew her form somewhere - she's still cute!
Not sure how I bumped into this video, but it's so good listening to semblance of wisdom form a woman..
My 2 cents: The 1st question to ask oneself is Why? Not just why you want marriage, but why marriage exists in the 1st place.
I think I should make a video like that myself..
Otherwise, good one!
“Your spouse is reacting to your assumptions of who YOU think they are.”
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37 with two kids, divorced and remarried to my ex-husband haha. We both admit we needed to divorce to be this wonderfully married 2nd time around. For marriage to thrive wisdom and maturity are so needed. Now we thrive because though love drives us, but understanding the business of marriage and how it is an ever evolving project motivates us.
❤❤❤
You're lucky. My ex of 10 years moved on after 6 months and is proposing to his new gf 😂.
Why do I now feel like second marriages don’t last
@kylieking8163 not always my friend was married for 20 years, but it was abusive, so she got divorced, now in her second marriage married for 10 years
@@BMN545 Congratulations my friend! I’m so happy for the both of you ❤️
The main thing is that people should have the same worldview on important things… the bible says “can two walk together unless they agree”.
Preach!!!❤
Babes, what!!!! I haven't seen you since SABC 2 days. I grew up watching you❤. It's so great to see you after all these years🎉. I never knew you were married, or divorced... But you're so strong ❤. Love you
she got married after her series
Being married, I did all the premarital preparation, read books but speed humps still came. There were times when it was honestly HONESTLY only through desperate and sincere prayer that we made it through instead of spiralling to divorce/ miserable marriage. Whatever your beliefs, the truth is there are many many forces invested in breaking up marriage and sometimes only God stands between you and them. So number 1 advice is take God with you into your marriage.
Amen! So glad you never gave up ❤
@@PreciousKofi thank you! It taught me that I'm not special, challenges can find me too no matter how good the foundation is. But also meant that anyone can get through even the biggest challenges with prayer. It's about choosing to turn from the temptation of ego and pride (pride includes seeing yourself as a victim!) and instead turning to prayer.
Will pray for the success of your new relationship as well, but you'll also need to continue the work yourself ❤
Amen 🙏
🇬🇦 Mbolo /Salama/Sambona/Hi,HalleluYah 🙏🏿 God/YAH The Most High has to be the foundation of your relationship/marriage🙇🏿♂️...evil forces are out there to keep families divided, marriage destroyed and all good relationships broken... Yeshua is our protector🙌🏿..Shalom 🙇🏿♂️
WHEEWW, a gust of wind came through this place cause you said nothing but the truth!
I could have saved myself years of heartache had I listened to this years ago!!! Been married for 12 years now with 2 kids and so much learning and unlearning to do. Thanks for this, You described marriage so beautifully, heard and understood everything!
@@silindilembongwa8379 now that we know better, we will do better ❤️
Married 3 years now, but no baby yet. Premarital counseling and personal counseling before marriage is so critical. It equipped you with tools for conflict resolution, compassion and humility. Marriage is work, but in a passionate project sort of way. I love school, so think of my husband as a PHD. I'm always seeking deeper knowledge, researching, investigating. There is always room for growth, always more to learn, but I am the expert and leading authority on everything about him! When you encounter something you don't know, seek professional help. Switch up therapist for fresh perspectives. Always assume best intentions and approach misunderstandings with curiosity. ❤ love is beautiful. I also reccomend reading All About Love by Belle Hooks
THIS❤️Thank you so very much for sharing!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You spoke so succinctly even when u thought u were speaking in riddles, I heard and understood everything u were bringing across and love it
Continue with the conversations, we love to hear it! ❤❤❤❤❤
I'm so glad!The conversation will continue!
I completely agree with everything you sad, in my years of being married I woke up to the fact that my husband is as much human as I am, and we intentionally choose to be together not just married but in this thing together there if and but we are doing this life thing together
Oh that's powerful. There is definitely a difference between choosing to be together vs. choosing to stay married.
@@nonimbeki9215 Amen!!!!
37 where????....stop the cap you're 27😍❤️😍
She is 18😑
@@innocentdumisani5232 now that I think of it you're correct 😂🤞🏾😅❤️
@@cebile1493 🤣😂😅
Don't gas her, 37 year old eggs are 37 years old.
@@BigSnead76 that's your opinion we not gasing her up and she sure don't physically look like them
Great video! I married at 23, coming from a single parent home, absent father, etc... and now, currently separated with 3 kids in the mix. I agree with EVERYthing you shared. In retrospect, (and what I would share with my littles) having an awareness of self, knowing what you want and don't want, therapy, therapy, therapy, premarital counseling, compatibility, getting married before 30, and so much more makes or breaks a relationship!
Yes and yes! I think we also overlook the importance of roll models. Not saying we must worship other people’s relationships but just as we have mentors in the professional world, a relationship mentor (a couple that is thriving) is worth having.
The key to understanding each other in a marriage is KNOWLEDGE. if you have different perspectives about marriage that means you're going to argue a lot. Find out what does your partner know about marriage, where does he/she take this knowledge about marriage? As married couple you should have the same meaning of concepts. if you have the same meaning then you will be on the same page and create chapters togethers. Have conversation about love, faith and God from the conception point.
Love this! Thank you so much for sharing ❤
great comment!
38 year old me is in the place you were concerning marriage. I knew about premarital counseling, but it got dismissed when I mentioned it, based on the couple I had suggested we go for counseling to. It never got done, and I am paying dearly for this mistake. We haven't gone for a single therapy session in the 9 years we've been married, individually and as a couple. I have seriously considered checking into an institution before, but didn't go through with it. I did opt to be a stay at home mom for a bit, but ended up getting back to work 4 years later. Thank you for sharing lessons from your experience.
I really admire a woman who takes accountability for herself. There’s no blaming or criticizing her EX partner, no excuses, and no complaints about who did what. You've grown so much-thank you for being so open and vulnerable. I have learned so much 🙌🏿🙏
You described marriage so beautifully in simple terms... most of us want it, however we don't understand what it really means. Requires lots and lots of compromise....sharing finances, making decisions... everything? Yoh haikhona
Remove "compromise, " replace it with "duty, " and watch the magic happen. 1. Duty to each other's dreams and aspirations. 2. Duty to family (a plan in place aligned with a vision for your kids and the future generation), 3. Duty to society (Engage in activities that help communities grow and improve). If you base your base marriage on duty, I hate to repeat this again, but watch how the magic happens when a plan comes together; marriage is beautiful.
@404Learning I get you, however thing is 2 people will not agree to the same thing all the time, hence I say compromise. Sometimes 1 has to let the other get away with something to make it work, otherwise they will both pull to different directions.
@@NanaFlower24@NanaFlower24 Research shows that the top three reasons for divorce are finances, external influences from extended family, and infidelity. The key is that disagreements are bound to happen, and it's important to have a system in place to resolve conflicts. In our marriage, we have found that disagreements are best resolved through logical reasoning and common sense, supported by research, statistics, and advice from successful couples married for over 20 years. After prolonged disagreements, we realized that it was sensible to move away from our families in KZN. It's not just about compromising; it's about using common sense and logical reasoning.
Wow interesting, do you mind if you makes examples of when solving an issue logically cause sometimes people may also disagree on which logic is right .
@@404LearningI'm not even married yet but my relationship got tough there for a few months because of the influence of a family member. I don't even know why this person was meddling in my affairs when we are not even in laws yet. People are brave, I tell you.
Lmao that small pause when you thought about the price of therapy vs just posting this video killed me 😂😂😂. That’s me anytime I see the price of therapy.
This topic is so necessary and I’m glad you going to do a whole series on relationships.
I’m 32 and I feel like I’ve been terrible at relationships just because of the number of unsuccessful relationships I’ve had at my big age 😂. What I realised my biggest mistake was never taking accountability on how I contributed to the failure of relationships. My biggest struggle is communicating my needs, wants and expectations which I now realised stems from my childhood. I’m trying to work on this but I still struggle so much even in my current relationship so I would appreciate advice on how to be a better/more effective communicator.
Side Note: On the next video can you please try preparing notes/ talking points before hand so that it’s easier to follow the things you saying. Otherwise thank you so much for the content ❤
I can’t thank you enough all that you’ve written! And I promise to take the advice given! Thank you so much for sharing with us❤️
did i write this comment because girl same !!!!!
I knew I have seen this BEAUTIFUL face before on TV and on magazine's🥺🥺 !! I'm a new subbie now 😂😂
@@yourgirrlll9975 thank you for joining the family ❤️
Oh my goodness,so much to learn and unlearn. Appreciated.
I’m excited to see your future videos! I can already tell I’ll learn a lot from you.
Premarital counselling! Thanks for mentioning that 😊.
I totally recommend! It helped I and my husband.
37 seconds in... years later... the crush definitely never left. Let me wooooosssssaaaa!!!
Oh precious 😍 its great seeing your video. Thank you for the advice. I recently got married. You've made so many valid points. ❤
So much wisdom up in here! 🎊
Another awesome video! It's true-two are better than one. We won't always agree, but that’s how we stretch, grow, and sometimes feel uncomfortable. Walking and working through life together is key. Marriage is a partnership, where two become one, and I strongly advocate for better communication-it's so important. ❤ Keep up the great work with your amazing content!
Amen!!!!❤️
You made me love natural hair from a very young age ❤I decided to be natural since then
Makes me so happy to hear ❤
Thank you Precious, I doubted you but you proved me wrong. My girl believed you'd drop gems and you did.
Off topic but you are such a great communicator ❤❤❤
❤❤❤❤thank you!
You don't know how happy i am to see you. I watched everything enoPrecious. I loved Cape Town, because you stayed in Cape Town back then. Wena sana you are the original content create. I remember when your mom was so concerned when you were about to do Precious Africa, that you will be busy sleeping in people's houses 😂😂.
🤭 sleeping in other people’s houses is still my favourite part of traveling!
Learning to handle conflict is very important. When you have conflict please approach the people that genuinely love both of you to help in solving conflict if conflict should happen.
I love how tell stories Precious....the giggling... Its giving cousins having a sleep over at granny house, everyone sleeping on the dinning room floor. SA-Township style❤❤
I love this so much! I would like to build a community that feels as safe and encouraging ❤️
I’ve never been married but only listening few min in im glad came across the channel.
I have a saying “a human will always need another human at some point in their journey of life”. Marriage really needs a lot hey😫😭😤
Ooooh such incredible wisdom in this video!!!
I can’t believe you captured me as a teen during Precious Africa ! You are still as amazing when I’m older and about to get married! lol amazing!! Loved this video!
❤❤❤❤❤❤may you guys prosper!
Words of wisdom 🥰 thank you for sharing. Marriage is such a beautiful beautiful institution and premarital counselling is very important. Communication is extremely important and committing to each other and choosing each other everyday is important. Loved loved this discussion 🥰
This is my first timing watching her video, and the more I watch the cuter she gets
I remember walking in Joburg and SOMEONE said: ARE YOU PRECIOUS KOFI....I had my FRO out like you did....AND OF COURSE I WAS SOOOO FLATTERED and i didn't wanna disappoint them so i SAID YES and quickly smiled and went because i didn't want them to see through my LIE😊🤭
Jesus, THIS is my confession 😂😂😂😂😂
Just came across this in my recommended videos, but 10/10 advice. Thank you!
Lots of love Precious ❤
❤lots of love to you too Dineo!
You look amazing for 37😊
That was the first thing I noticed 😅 Gorgeous!
Thank you
I love how you shared your wisdom about marriage and partnership without making other parties look bad. You referenced your marriage without even once making your ex husband the monster and it was so so refreshing to watch and listen to.
Thank you and glad to see you again.
Thank you! Blaming would me counterproductive
This information is gold. Subscribed!!
Great video, I too have been divorced with two kids and just recorded a video about my marriage journey and recommendations and will be posting it on my channel soon. It’s bittersweet when I share my journey but everything works out for our good.
It’s all working out for our good and when we know better, we do better!
Ok, now that we know we've seen this Precious face somewhere, lets subscribe to the channel. Thanks, bye 😄
Amazing take on marriage Precious!
Thank you for being here❤
This was such a beautiful video. As a divorcee at 40 with 2 kids i agree with everything you said❤❤❤❤
You’re so well spoken
You look like you are still in your mid twenties ❤
Yoh. I just realized that marriage is just as life changing as getting pregnant 😅. This has definitely changed my perspective on it. I’m 22 and I’m not doing this anytime soon. I already have a child and that was life changing enough
So true we on the same page, having a child it's your "introduction to a life time partnership" y'all would extend into marriage. Saw so many things that made me realise that ,yes I would've loved us to get married but heyyyy let's not damage us further let's take care of the child first then maybe
@@nipsenchanted Girl I’m with you there 😅🙏
What substance are you made of🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾kids will bring it out ok?!! 👌🏾 stunning video, thank you so much. From a mom and wife ❤️
Bro marriage seems like such a headache one would wonder why people aspire to have it so much
Precious, this was so insightful
This was so amazing, you still got it. Definitely subscribing...needed this.
Thanks for the sub!
Interesting self reflection.
Being a peer with one of my favourite TV presenters failing in marriage proves to me it's not just hard , but a devine blessing.
I'm starting to believe that it's a devine blessing....
You can't be sure if this is right or wrong .
Only God knows
I love how honest and wholesome this was....been married for 16 years, and I can certainly relate with a lot of what you shared. Enkosi ntombi❤
I completely understand and agree exactly EVERYTHING. Fully married btw
Girl this video is doing numbers 🎉 thanks for sharing ❤
This one ewe ❤😂,submitting to God is the factor .All you said is true,talking about it is easy,doing is what the problem lies .Jesus helps ❤
So true
Hi!🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 I just came across your content. You've just gained a subscriber!🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳 I believe in marriage myself, but unfortunately, I've realized that I'm not really marriage material - not in a bad way, but my personal circumstances don't allow for it. I also appreciate the freedom of living without commitment. Still, I love love, and I celebrate the married people who are close to me. I focus more on building a relationship with my daughter and healing my childhood traumas. I really need to talk about this on my platform..
When i look at the number of times i wanted to walk away, im so grateful i stuck it out because what did i mean, i needed to understand what its like to choose the same person over and over again,
Like your comment....seem these days most people are quick to quit😢
Right! Commitment ❤
OMG PRECIOUS!!!!.... Used to love you on TV. You still look the same!!! I am less than 3min into the video and i am already giggling, looking forward to this storytime.
Just subscribed... Thank God I've found you again. Thank you for the advice ❤❤❤
Precious Afrika!😩😫🤗😆😁🤣Since your show ended, SABC travel shows were never the same again🥲I am so happy seeing you again and knowing that you are healthy and well❤❤You are one of the reasons why I was so addicted to African geography back in Grade 5/6, I couldnt wait to talk about yesterdays episode the next day with my Geography teacher, even if there was no Geo period that day☺🤣Subscribed.
I love this so much! And how wonderful that your school taught you about Africa in geography!
Really enjoyed this video … all of a sudden a light bulb came on 😂…. Thank you 🙏
So glad!❤
Marriage is God concept for preservation of mankind in the world. He constituted it for his will on earth. We need to go back to God for knowledge and understanding for this institution called Marriage. Our knowledge of it comes from society and social media which makes it looks glamorous from the outside. Marriage functions by law because its an institution and bear in mind i didnt say emotions, logic or intelligence but law. What are the laws of marriage? you can only find out from the one who created the institution.
True, marriage is very spiritual ❤
Spot on my brother👌🏽
This video just showed up on my timeline, the name shook me because it brought back so many childhood memories. Feels like meeting a friend after many years of not seeing each other. Ayt. I guess this is my first Precious video since Keeping it Real with Precious and URBO: The Adventures if Pax Africa.😂😂😂 Man I am old. Here is a sub.
Wow! Pax Afrika! Memories ❤️
Wow! I didn’t expect to enjoy this so much. I was already judging just from the title..🫣
Very insightful and well presented.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Glad you enjoyed it!!
This woman is awesome, she needs to be promoted
Lol!
Thanks for sharing! ❤
My pleasure ❤️
Great chat Precious. 🙏🏾
How wonderful to discover you on this podcast after more than two decades since 'Precious Africa' TV Series.
😂🎉❤
I don’t normally feel old but almost 2 decades! Damn! The years have flown by so quickly!
I enjoyed this video so much😂 *Let’s👏🏾 Do👏🏾 The👏🏾 Work👏🏾*
Thanks for sharing this❤ your personality is so easy and likeable
Thank you so much!!
Thank you, I needed his and I just realised I do not Want to marry the man in my life, I decided this prior to this video but I must go tell him.
I remember doing my homework watching Precious Africa ❤
1:04 I'm recently divorced, two children and I feel like I'm on my way to a mental asylum.
New subbie 🎉🎉 love, love, what you are sharing, so authentic. Im here to stay ❤
ahhhhhhhhh maannn, Preci Preci. Miss you so much girl, not that we know each other but your TV program those days travelling all over and sharing it with us made me ur fan. I love your vibe and was always your fan and damn your energy still the same, you talk and giggle. Keep it real, you know what I mean. from a psychological point of view, pre-martials are good because it helps you navigate through certain issues and develop a marital plan (marriage is an institution and you cant run using love without a plan)
Girl....are u Precious...theee Precious take on Africa....OMG...its good 2 c u. I've always wondered what happened 2 u
Woman, you are so so so pretty 😍 no you are gorgeous, just simply stunning
the carpet can’t even speak properly 😂
Wow, thank you!
Geez, I've been looking for you for years!
Awwwwww❤️
Precious! I am so happy that i bumped into your video waw am so happy to see you. Bendizibuza ukba washonaphi. used to watch you ko the crazy games ❤❤I love you
Sisi usemhle nangoku?! Damn!! ❤❤❤
So many gems you are spilling 24:48 😂
I appreciate you so much❤
And I appreciate just as much❤
I love you Thank God I found your channel and I am a subscriber ❤
💃🏾 so happy to have you here!
i needed this Thank you so Much
I would love to do a part 2 with you as someone who also married at 21❤ accounting for my 8 hour time difference with SA
Omg where have you been😮. Found you and I'm so happy, miss you on screen.
How are you 37 years old... absolutely gorgeous
Is 37 supposed to look old and haggard…she’s 37 not 57.
I clicked on this video wondering where do i familiarise this face from?? Oh my Gosh i Love You So Much & your voice ….. i know Unrelated to the video but i had to just drop it before watching the video further ❤
I am listening attentively. Always loved you from precious Africa. Im here now❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for being here!
I quite enjoyed this…about to turn 39 with no partner or children in sight but I do know how I don’t want my marriage to be more than what I do want. I think If you are intentional and work at what you want then marital success can be achieved
Thank you sharing this really 😊
Precious Kofi one of my Fav presenters who made me love natural hair on Precious Africa ❤🎉🎉🎉
Awwww❤️
Listen, 2mins in and I already like you. New subbie here
Welcome!!
Your parents story is also yours, from your perspective because you lived it , it's your experience.
Precious😍😍😍😻😻I grew up watching you, suuuuberb....please come back to our screens.
Thanks for this.
You still so pretty!
Thanks Nonhle!
Hey! we have missed you so much!!