It has nothing to do with us. God is love, He is the source. We as humans cannot love without Him and even then we only allow as much love as we have faith. Its a good thing we have an eternity to get to know God 😂
I think many women here may have been loved 🥰 however from afar and the person was not able to know them .. our culture has been messed up for many years and the genders confused.. which the evil agendas from elites have encouraged.. the younger generation is having lots of issues with the role confusion .
@@GabrielleTollerson There are many lonely men. The suicide rate is higher in men then in women. I am a woman and it's best to show compassion for all as Christ would.
I raised two children by myself. My oldest was a latch key as I worked. A neighbor with 3 older daughters lusted after my daughter. He would knock on the door demanding she let him in. God had me speak to him telling him leave my daughter alone. He would not. God had me speak to him again and warn him that he would be punished by God if he continued. He continued. After that he fell ill confined to bed unable to get up unable to walk. His wife came to me said for me to remove the curse. I told her I don’t have a husband in my house but God is my husband. Your husband must answer to God. I was very young and did not understand many things about God but after that and through out my life he has been there my partner silent quiet and he has performed many miracles in my life - too many to write here. I love him with all my heart and there is no one like him. He loves and cares and will show you if you have faith in him. Amen. You unloved women are not alone.
@@StardelEste Isaiah 54 was chapter Lord gave me before my husband who turned out to be a huge deceiver !!! five years before he died and I ave asked the lord to help e cling to it with all I’ve got!
The same happens to me. When people intentionally hurt me, God works on my behalf. I have seen him humble the “mightiest” (so they see themselves as such) of people. He has brought them to their lowest point so they can call out to him for help but they refused to listen. I have done my part and when I didn’t want to give up telling them about God, he told me to actually stop and spoke Matthew 7:6 in the middle of the night. God blesses us for having faith in him. ❤
Many people believe the curse of Eve was pain during childbirth. I think it is our need to be loved. Truly loved, not just sex. I don't know one woman who has had long term love from a man. I divorced a man I gave 33 years and a child. I'm old now. Sick from the stress of the long term abuse. I left him once when I was 30 but my family convinced me to "save my marriage." My biggest wisdom I could give to young women is to marry a Christian....a real Christian. If you don't, they don't play by the rules and you will suffer.
The Bible says in Genesis 3:16 in the original KJV that in addition to pain in childbirth our curse is: " ... and thy DESIRE shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee." It would seem that because of Eve's sin it became necessary for her to be ruled over. And considering that today's woman wants to murder her own babies, I can see why! I am a woman by the way.
@the7thousand 0 seconds ago Thanks for the advice on the “real Christian” ❤️ I’m currently living in that choice and seeing date after date choose to leave my life because I’m too much in my faith and convictions for them. But I’d rather stay alone then be with a man that draws me away from the relationship I have with God. Sending you love, older sister. You and I may be hurt but we are LOVED❤️
God just sent me this message 😢. Divorce ,abandoned, barren, rejected. I only wanted my husband’s love. I’ve studied Rachel and Leah through Bible Study Fellowship. Now in my current circumstances and this message my heart identifies with Leah so much. Lord help me to Praise you in all my heartbreak 💔
In the end, you will find that his path for you was a blessing. You will learn to cut ties, to lose reliance on the world and be fed by Him. It is a rare path and as beautiful as refined gold, as beautiful as the refining is difficult. Precious one, I took that path, not by choice at first, but with tremendous protest. Gradually, I submitted my heart piece by piece by piece to the Lord. And now I am old and so very grateful for it all. If not, for His careful separation of me from the world, I would still be living 1 foot in and 1 foot out. I would still be dependent on the love of a parent, or a husband, or church family, or children. But I have finally come to rest, needing only my beautiful Lord. It is worth it all.! The fantasy of “world“ is gone. My eternal future with him has grown brighter and clearer. My friend, I feel his love for you. It is an intense, consuming love. Rest, knowing he will bring you through, and he is separating you for himself.
God bless you sweet woman. You are a precious and beautiful treasure. I do not know you but, I hope you know that the Father sees you and the hurt that you carry. Allow Him to take those burdens and lies away from you. It’s one of the hardest things we will choose to do… but I promise it’s worth it. I know all to well the burden that we carry desiring to be loved from man when we have been designed to love God above all others. Oh beautiful one…. I pray for your heart to be filled with His love overflowing and that you will remember the pain no more. In jesus name, amen
I love the part he says that Leah had a divine destiny and purpose but she was only focused on being loved, until she chose to praise the LORD. She took her eyes off of herself and praised the LORD for His goodness to her. This time I will praise the LORD!
God told me from a young age "human men cannot love." We love only because he loved us first. A man without God cannot love and even so is still a sinner. Make God your root, not men. ❤
It's crushing to see the amount of women here who are unloved by their husbands. 37 year old male here, married with 1 kid. Love my wife but constantly rejected by her. Won't let me hug or kiss her. She stiffens up like a crazy or jumps back 😢 No affection in word or touch by her to me obviously. I feel unappreciated to the core. I've been asking the Lord for answers & got lead here. This has been going on for a few years now. Ladies - a good man feels the same emotional pain or rejection from his wife. My name is Jacob BTW. Keep strong - God has got a plan 💪 Amen!
Please pray for your wife and ask God to heal her soul wounds. The root cause might be abuse and rejection from her past relationship/s. This may be blocking her from reciprocating your affections.
Hi there. I am so sorry for your pain. My last relationship was 11 years ago and I remember how much it hurt that he would not show any affection at the end of our relationship. I thought we were going to get married. I think heartache is the worst pain humans can experience. I am single because God called me to be a full-time servant for Him. I will pray for you and your wife. I pray God heals any wounds in both of you. May God make you both whole and live the oneness God intended for a marriage. Be blessed with love! :)
I’m married but husband has put me through ALOT I’m also a Lea. My worth is in what Christ says it is.. my saviors love in never ending and never failing. Man will fail you HE won’t ❤
@@Blessedbereanmamma I have been put thru a lot as well. After many years I decided to try dating again. And I was ghosted and painfully rejected. I’ve been working on healing and came across this word All I’ve ever wanted was someone to love and be loved by. It will take me a while to come to terms with this. I m not gonna lie. I will try to feel worthy and praise the Lord
Your not unloved, your greatly loved by God. The king of the Universe. Most people aren't loved in this world at least not well, God really is the only true source of pure love that will satisfy the soul.
To all of the beautiful women sharing their stories...I love you. God loves you...he has kept all of your tears in a bottle. He knows the reason for every tear....he knows. ❤
Yes! I'm married and so lonely. It's for a different reason though. My husband is loving BUT he won't draw nigh to the Father. Only when God consumes your heart can you truly love someone. His carnal nature hinders him from truly loving me like I know he would. Our fellowship is wanting because we can't really share the love of Christ together. I ache and long for a marriage that is full of the light of Christ within. I can't truly share those things about Jesus with him that I would love to. He goes to church and everything but his relationship with Lord Jesus needs to become bonded. Nothing more beautiful than a man in love with Lord Jesus!
Thats sad and disappointing! I don't know the reasons why you are in this position Cathy but I will add this....DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! You have the right to express your feelings to your husband..the person that is supposed to be the most loving person in your life that you can completely be yourself with..speak what's on your heart, your thoughts and your needs! He is supposed to take care of you, support you and be loyal to you! I get the feeling he may be one of those people that have a very hard time showing their feelings..no way could I ever be with a man like that again..would drive me crazy! It is very selfish and hurtful! I cant respect a male that is like that because a man should be a man and speak his mind! Cathy he made a vow not only to you but before God and with God to honor you and love you all the days of his life! You know a marriage is really between 3..You your husband and God!
You guys are making me cry … I’ve never seen this pastor in my life & he just randomly came across my screen as I’m laying in bed with yet another heartache .. wanting real love like I give my entire life at 29 years old and finally coming to Christ a few years back as I have grown with him I realize I’ve settled so much and as I keep growing I see him telling me to now see the love he offers me .. & ladies I just wanna say God promises to always be with us all in spirit and in truth & every year he will wipe away .. keep trusting in God ❤
Yes! Your prayers go before His throne..as long as you are living righteously for Him! Susie He has a special and beautiful plan for you! You have a cute name now..but will be renamed in heaven by Jesus Christ Himself!
31 now never been in a relationship never been loved by anyone never has anyone been interested in me. i haven’t had any meaningful friendships, most of the people i know are light years ahead of me in their milestones. pray for me that i may not be alone and that i may rest in God’s grace, it’s very lonely at times
Turning 30 soon. I’m coming to realize that being unmarried at thirty isn’t a reflection of worth. It just shows how broken our society, even in Christian circles, is. It’s hurtful, but our relationship with Him is more important.
Not me😢. Its been 15 years and we don't even see each other or communicate. He's back w the gold digger he left for. He's taken everything from me and he has it all, and is living a far superior lifestyle than we had in our marriage. I'm living in poverty, unable to work, bedridden, friendless, estranged from the kids I raised alone, my sisters, my mom is 92 & tired of me and my Neverending problems. I feel like I am cursed, truly. I will never stop loving my husband. 😢😭😭💔💔💔💔
@@pauladix5655 Please focus on what you have and not what you don't have. At least you have your sisters and mom who love you. Pray your son comes back like the prodigal son. You will be just fine. Just try to do one small thing every day. Got to church and woman bibles study every week. Pray with the woman's leader. If you can get a therapist, do that if possible. I understand your pain. I wish I had sisters to keep me company. 🙏
@pauladix5655 please ask God to work on you and your attitude, sometimes we fail to see things that hold us back because of our own attitude. Be kind to yourself and others, stop complaining to others and talk to God about your troubles. Deliberately do things that bring joy into your life and stop focusing on your ex. You may be bitter and no likes to be around miserable people. I wish you good health and happiness. Focus on God and your joy.
I don't know what touched me more, the message itself, or the multitude of women in the comments who feel unloved for one reason or another! Let loneliness or rejection or abuse or abandonment of any kind throw us in the arms of Jesus who experienced all of it and who died on the cross because of his personal love for us. He asked Mary, Woman, why are you crying? She was crying because she thought he was dead, but he was alive! Let him touch your heart with his tender and transforming love, let him fill your life with light, peace and purpose. He is right there, waiting to listen to your pain and wrap his strong, loving arms around you, comfort you and make you complete. Let him surprise you!
I'm stunned by the comments.. Sic of women being left out. Abused ( I endured, too young& no support for what was happening, same as , like no financial ed in sch.) So I pray for these females here to be healed & find their self luv& sum joy of affection..
Thank you my dear man. I am the unloved woman. I did have two beautiful daughters. I will always praise the Lord. I try to share my testimony of Jesus with all I can, especially the unbelievers. You blessed me and gave me hope. ❤️💐🙏
🎉❤🎉dont foget the same God has given to us the desire to have this nature to go forth and multipy we should chose God first but our carnal nature is to feel and to fulfill this passionate natual act It is only when fail relationship bad memory or age or pain hurt unhealthyness would make many women wont chose the will of God to marry Onñy God alone knows from a woman pespective her youthful years how many sincere hearts would actually do ít This for me i myself would of rather than where i am now and many women too when u get to know the living God and his love u simple wont missed it I guess there is a price to be paided sins from our first mother Eve thanks be to God must Jesus bear the cross alone and the world be free no no no🎉❤🎉 Muñtiplication of families
🎉❤🎉 i know God loves us even when we failed feel ugly rejected abuse sorrowful unloved and many totally lost die it sad only if they knew to whom is given much is required
People forget that to love God He often has us serve people .. to love your wife like God loves His wife, the Church. He commanded it. Stanley got divorced ..??
This is the first time (no joke) that I finally heard a message from the Pulpit like this. I have been saved for decades and not 1 pastor that I have sat under has given this message or has even cared to! Thank you 🙏🌿
The church essentially neglects teaching tailored more to women as well as teaching that exhorts men on their role and responsibilities as husband and the critical importance of submission to God and their family. So no surprise you've never heard this.
@@anjihc8797 yes, as the Christian principal was packing my car full of my own teaching resources because the school provides inequity in pay and resources...on the Christian man radio was "woman submit to your husband" I asked him is this why you are a Christian? To rule over women in inequity? Well, this scripture has a lot of man responsibility behind it!"
My ex-husband abandoned me and our two children and had four other children with two different women. I cannot begin to describe how devastated my entire being was. My heart was shattered into a billion pieces. But I am a living testimony of the grace of God. He gave me the strength to move on with my life. He turned my mourning into dancing! He took my sorrow and gave me joy! He gave me peace that passes ALL understanding … and love no human could EVER give me. I love You, Lord And I lift my voice Just to worship You Oh my soul rejoice Take joy my King In what You hear And let it be a sweet, sweet Sound in Your ear!
The ex-husband is the one with a problem. Not you ! So glad you know Jesus and not having to fight the demons that your ex is oppressed by. The Lord will lead you to where He knows you need to be. Stick with the Lord..don't look back 🙏🙌🕊
I am unloved. I knew it since I was young. I tried my best to be kind and good so I would feel worthy of love but none came. Especially from my pastor father. But I know Jesus loved me enough to die on the cross for me. That is enough. Praise the name of Jesus.
God rejects no one. If the world loves you or does not, it changes NOTHING in God's heart. He created you and He loved you FIRST before you will ever love Him!
@@pageroo9644 Jhn 15:19 NKJV - 18 “If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you. 19 “If you were of the world, the world would love its own. Yet because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. 20 “Remember the word that I said to you, ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted Me, they will also persecute you. If they kept My word, they will keep yours also. --- The world will not love you if you love and stand for Jesus. If you do not love Jesus, you will be rejected by God. This is what OP was saying. We can't try to serve 2 masters, trying for the love of the world and the love of God because if we love the world the love of the Father is not in us: 1 John 2:15 NKJV - Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.
I'm unloved woman. Just when I was slipping into depressive episode because of a heartbreak, this video accidentally poped up on my feed. Lord has ways of sending me signs when i most need them
It wasn’t an accident that this sermon popped up. It is the hand of God rescuing you from your state of depression. I’m saying this because I too am/ was an unloved woman. But God and His love rescued me. The days ahead will outshine any day of the past if you allow God to show you the way ❤
I've been a mess for three weeks now cause my husband left me for another woman and treated me like dirt. And then I run up on this today. I needed this.
Oh Lord Adonai! Surely, You are a husband to the lonely and forsaken women of this world! And so faithful and true to all who feel heartbroken and alone. Thank You for this word of assurance. 🙏🏻 ❤
My christian husband left me. Unloved & barren. Had both ovaries removed for cancer reasons. 41yrs old, no children yet. I needed to hear this. Thankyou.
I'm so sorry. Praying for you, that you may find peace, joy and happiness in future. ❤ Forgive me father for I will sin, but I hope your husband steps on a bed of Lego's.
Isaiah 54 God told me this in my prayer closet then he told me that he was my husband.. and that he would rebuild me with expensive gems… and that my abandonment and shame would end… that he would give me and my kids peace 🕊️ We serve a God of restoration!
God's greatest gift is his creation. Love your pets, your trees, flowers, bushes, and plants. They will not turn against you but will thrive with the love and care you give them.
Sometimes your destiny will take you along a path that would seem lonely and pathetic, but in the it will turn out to be a grand purpose in God's plan for the redemption of the world. It is still happening, even today. God's ways are beyond finding out. He choses the unloved and despised in this world and give them great destinies. Amen.
There are those who are “ barren” and have many children - and then there are those who birth all without effort and wish to be able to abort - aren’t we all without peace and contentment and looking for love in all the wrong places UNTIL we, like Leah, find the peace and deep contentment by surrendering our needs for the one need that is the most important - and that’s to thank God for all the missteps in our lives and birth a “Judah” -- ❤❤
@@cannaryboy4195 God told me he was going to heal my disabled brother, and sister and reveal himself. I am the only one who has always loved them, and know they were disabled. God is going to use them to prove he is real.
God Bless you Judy. I agree with this statement wholeheartedly. I am now divorced again. I knew it would be bad on day 1 after we married.When you go through things that totally break you, you learn only Jesus can fill the role of husband. He alone is my source.
@@gwendolynpatrick6539 why… just why! He is preaching the word of God. Sometimes you bitter women need to put the keyboard down and stop trying to steal the encouragement that others are finding in the teaching of men of God. Yes I believe God first. Be kind, be encouraging or be quiet 🤐 please!
I'm glad you corrected this self rightious comment Dear Lady. It is sad when people cannot see beauty in a message from the Lord and not be a pharissee with criticism. @@jccarey4585
I am a single woman, living in a foreign country for 9 years. Never married. Feeling unloved and not wanted. May I see and experience myself the way the Lord sees me and loves me.
Me too. Mostly unloved by men, starting with my earthly father. And the older i get, the more I notice how some men only save their "love" for younger, prettier women. But Jesus, THE MAN has ALWAYS been faithful. He is pure and holy and able to love all of us perfectly. 💟🕊✝️
Totally relate. Started with my earthly father and nobody else has loved me either. I feel very down and am ready to leave this earth and all its heartache.
@@Janevelynyou can make it through God's tests. Believe he gives you the strength. Find lots of other sources of love: friends, nature, animals, church
Amen sis. The only true Father I've ever had is my God in Heaven. Jesus has always been faithful and loving to me even when I was unfaithful. He is the one who has always loved me, always protected me from the worst of things and always been there to forgive and raise me up when I was lost. Praise Jesus and rejoice in the fact that He loves you. When God is for you, who can be against you?
I grew up and was raised in Albania as an orphan until age 16 years old. I was a Muslim and at age 13 years old I accepted Jesus Christ. He become my Father. At age 16 I was adopted into an American family. 2 years ago I meet my father. My mother passed away from Alcoholism. I am now married 11 years to a wonderful Husband from my home country. A barren waiting for God to do a miracle. Jesus Christ my peace and joy no matter the circumstances he is always good. The LORD never makes a mistake and you’re not a mistake.
Stela!! That's an amazing testimony. I am living and serving in Albania reaching out to people with the Gospel. Please pray for many to know the Truth and accept Jesus..
That was my story….unloved by my parents, ill treated by my grandpa when my parents sent me to stayed with them. I gave my life to Jesus when I was 15, my life was completely changed around. I met my husband when I was 24 and God had used him to compensate all that the clicks had eaten. He loves me so well and sacrificially and we have three adults children who had wonderful relationships with us. My cup is filled.
Last night I woke up at 2am and I cried to God because I never was loved, I got pregnant at 22 raised my child alone, the father never involved, I've never been married and I ask God why am not loveable that someone can't want to share their life with me and this video came on my feed 😢😢😢😢
This message was meant for me, as my wife feels the same way. As unloved woman and as her husband I am very sorry my love to make you feel that way. I regret all the hurt i caused you and the humiliation I have caused on our marriage. I repent in the name of Jesus and please forgive me.
Because of early childhood abuse and trauma, for over 40 years, I got along better with animals than people. I’ve been learning to get along better with people now by the “grace of God”. Good message!!!
This message definitely is gor me. Despite my husband's 30 some years of cheating, neglecting, emotional abuse, financial ruin, etc. God blessed me with my children and grandchildren and even blessed my career...all despite him! God has blessed me throughout the trials!
Hello everyone, I’m sorry that youre going through so much pain. I’m sorry you feel unloved, abandoned, neglected and feeling like you’re not enough. The devil comes to kill, steal and destroy. He comes to destroy your worth, self esteem, and make you feel inadequate. I’m here to tell you that you are worthy of all that God says you are. You are beautifully and wonderfully made. Your situation doesn’t determine your destiny. God has a greater blessing for you. Please continue to pray for guidance, strength and healing through your pain. The world needs your essence.
As many have stated already, this is a message for me. My husband left me for another (they both left spouses and children to be together)and married her leaving me with 3 children. It took me years to forgive. I used to think …I will find another! God won’t leave me alone and I used to identify with Leah. I’m still alone after 25 years. (Don’t want to be.) My children are all walking with the Lord. I’ve forgiven him and recently found out that he has been miserable and guilt ridden for years. Small comfort as I used to think he would at least apologize, but never did. So this message has me deciding to be more purposed in praises. He is still my Lord forever will I praise and worship Him ❤
If your children are all walking with the Lord, that's good. Your ex-husband might have been a hindrance to their reception of Christ if he were there.
I use to pray my father would leave my mother because he was physically abusive.. And she passed away much earlier than him..she was an unloved woman..I don't care to hear a man say the word love to me. I've seen the worst exhibition of love from a man😢
@leozion I can totally relate to your situation. After 25 years of singleness, my first boyfriend, whom I dated briefly when I was 16, got in touch with me. After talking for one week, we realised that we were falling in love with each other. He was convinced that God had brought us together after all these years. Today, we are happily married. Keep praising God, and wait on Him. He knows the right time and has a purpose for us all.
In terms of Romantic relationships am an unloved women.I keep been rejected 😭 by men.I am currently on a journey to just accept that i may never have the romantic love i desire so i have chosen to love God and myself.I am dedicating myself to loving the Lord with all my heart and to loving myself more.I will not continue allowing men in my life who just end up rejecting me and hurting me.I am loved and accepted by God that is whats important.
I too I’m trying to come to terms with exactly the same as you. It’s a hard pill to swallow but I love God with all my heart and it’s him that keeps me going and facing another day🙏🏼cling to Jesus and never let go!
When we HEAL, the Lord will then REVEAL. We often time attract who we are. Like spirits are familiar. It’s great to just focus on Him. He can heal those areas and then we will draw to ourselves from that healed place and not the place of trauma.
I'm 35. Only now beginning to heal from childhood trauma. Have never opened up to anyone or allowed anyone close enough for meaningful relationships because I could never trust people. I still can't because ny family has never been stable or safe. My whole life has been survival mode. However, the latest rejection and betrayal from family really caused me to face the deep wounds I've been hiding from and in the pain, I'm learning to trust only in God. If all I've been through has brought me to knowledge of and relationship with Him, then it was all worth it. He is the only Father, Friend, Counselor and Lover of my soul that I need. It's been a lonely road and it still is but I have Hope.
Me too. Beaten so much that 3 times I passed out. No gives a flying hiney about their off spring anymore. See if I get close to a guy. Beaters. I am 55. I was married for 1.5 years and he throat punched me because I asked for closet space. Yeah no thanks. I flew backwards, somersaulted and thought I was paralyzed or dead. Try to hurt me now. I am a Tae Kwon Do, girl. 😂
NOT BEFORE GOD killed off his 2 wicked sons and his Canaanite wife dies!! He then wanted to BURN the prostituted TAMAR until he was then shown her righteousness before God......Judah then Marries Tamar and THIS then is the SEED that brings in the BREACH to the earthly throne.........as God has a BACK-UP plan in place where HE overthrows the CROWN 3 times to ZARA from Perez..... The SAX sons of Isaac are then given the CROWN and the blessings prophesied from God to SARAH...... United in Jack 🇬🇧 as GREAT BRI-TISH ( Hebrew Man) of the covenant!
I have felt unloved by every man in my life. When I got saved I was crying so much because Jesus is good! I struggle still a lot that He loves me, but I know Im wrongfully projecting my human experience on him but it is something I have to work on daily. God is good!
I hear your pain and can identify with you. Jesus has proved to me that He is all sufficient and truly all I will ever need. No man can ever be that. Its wonderful to be content with Jesus' love - He's the fairest of ten thousand and becomes our Betrothed! How wonderful ❤
Many years ago (I’ve been married 40 years now), I shared with my spiritual mom about my plight in my marriage. My husbands heart was driven from me, and no he longer touched me. I shared the despair, and sorrow. She replied “God will give/send love in other ways.” I didn’t understand that because I wanted my husbands love. Well I understand now. My children have been the vehicle of that love I so craved, and of course the love of God shed/filled my heart in my many moments of despair! There are other loves other than the love of a mate we can learn to receive, and yes thrive in! Pray through sisters, the best is yet to be!!
I DO need to be loved by a man I love!!! 😢❤ I need to give and receive love by GOD first, then by a man I LOVE WHO LOVES ME. NOTHING ELSE WILL DO BUT BEING LOVED BY JESUS CHRIST ❤ AND A MAN I LOVE WHO LOVES ME!!! NOTHING ELSE will do!!!
@@Mary-c5l8o a number of years ago I went to an Elizabeth Elliot conference in NJ. To hear her say one sentence that has stayed with me since; ‘it is safest in the center of Gods will.’ What that looks like for you or myself, only God knows. Different paths, but one goal, to do life Gods way! Stay in His presence, and seek His will, read His word, Gods best to you!
Perhaps he was having an affair or was involved with pornography. Neither of those is a reflection of you, but a reflection of his brokenness. You did not create his mess, and you can not heal him. Only God can address this. It's bugger than you. Pr*n messes with a man's mind. I pray that God will reveal the truth and direct your path. Know you are valued and a beautiful wife. He is the broken one. You are God's beautiful woman, a precious gift given to your husband. No matter what he does, it doesnt change your beauty, your light, and your value. Shine on.
A woman can do anything and everything under the sun to gain a man''s love but never gain it . . . A man can love you at the start and become abusive later . . . There is just no guarantee about everlasting love when it comes to human beings . Only God can love unconditionally and forever . . . Human beings look at others through human eyes . . .
Lord, comfort each person who feels unloved and reveal to them Your love and compassion. When my mother and father forsake me, God will not leave me. He will always love us. Praise God!
The love of God is ENOUGH, is COMPLETE, is PERFECT, and the only love that fully satisfies the longings of the human heart for love. GOD LOVES YOU! Praise the LORD!
Me too! But realize that God gardens that rejection into sanctification. He sits with you in your loneliness, rejection and pain. But he is separating you for himself. How precious it is! My whole life was like this, and now I am old, and grateful for the path he led me on. It allowed me to see through the deception of “world“ and set my heart more and more on Him alone. God bless you, friend. You are very un-alone! Perhaps God will allow you and me to sit together, sometime in heaven, giving him glory that we are, and will never be alone. Never be rejected. We will be wanted, enough, suitable, and refined like pure gold.
There is a man Tim Fletcher who speaks a lot about how to deal with rejection, abandonment, complex trauma etc. he is Canadian and a Christian as well. He has many talks on guilt, shame too. God does not want us burdened He wants us free... I in part understand your pain + isolation that can occur- Stay close to God, His Word and Christ- the Love of God IS incredible and untimely... we can only have complete trust in God. May the Spirit of truth- the Holy Spirit guid you into greater Truths and YOU coming to KNOW your inheritance in our Amazing living God. His plans are good and His mercy endures forever.
I have been divorced, abandoned, rejected, and Barren for 33 years. Life hasn’t been easy for me. By the grace of God, I am still here hallelujah. 🙌❤️🙏
I truly needed this message today. I am the unloved woman. Abused, tortured, barren and in a loveless marriage, the 5th one. I was just looking in the mirror yesterday, thinking, "I have never truly been loved by any man except the Lord Jesus Christ. What is wrong with me? " I know the Lord saved and delivered me from my tormentors and preserved my life, but I always felt left out of normal women's life experiences of being loved by my husband AND having a baby. I am now in 65th year and I needed this message, this day, this very hour. Thank you for being obedient and preaching this message at the right time for it to come up in my feed. Thank You, Father for reminding me that I am Loved and I will praise You. ❤🔥💓🙏🙌
So many of us feel unloved, I think I do not love myself. I have been married 49 years and my husband says he loves me. I do not have any children and I feel useless in my old age 72 yrs. I now often dream I am lost and can't find my way home. Please pray for me if you read this. I have been a born again christian for many years.
@@Christine-j7b I am reading this right now and I'm praying for you to be strengthened and comforted in the Holy Spirit. I have similar dreams as well. I am lost in my old childhood neighborhoos and I can't find my way home. Just remember what the Lord said about you. That the spiritual children of the desolate one will be more than the children of the married wife. Praying and believing on your behalf in the Name of Jesus, Yeshua Messiah.
@@Christine-j7b So sorry to hear that. Reading it I wondered if you are traumatised?! Ever thought about psychotherapy? Always remember that God loves you: he lay his life down at the cross for you! He did this to make you heal - on the inside! Maybe Lisa TerKeurst's channel would be something I can recommend you?! It helped me a lot already: Therapy & Theology. I pray for you 🛐
I was married nearly 25 years to a narcissistist. A man who cheated, lied. He was physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and financially abusive. Although I supported his military career nearly 20 years, I was not compensated, nor did I receive any compensation. But God is good! Before I married him, God was my groom. God is my Protector, Doctor, my Comforter and all! Thank you Jesus Christ!❤❤❤
@daughteroftherisenking Praying God wrap His loving arms around you. May He strengthen, comfort & fill you w peace. Peace that far surpasses all understanding. Refreshing your mind, body & spirit. 💯☝️🤗
I'm a single mom with two major failed/toxic relationships. Ever since I came across the proverb about how the earth itself couldn't bear an unloved woman, I've identified with that. I haven't been able to ever embrace being anything but unlovable. Broken. Isaiah 54 was read to me and the passage became an anchor... I've had times that I have seen what a privilege it is to be so dependent on God, perhaps even much closer to Him than I would be if I were married. But loneliness can be just awful and pervasive. I also did not imagine that my days of having children would already be over, that it would be this way. This sermon will touch many hearts. I'll keep looking to God for the love I need.
I was alone raising my kids no family nothing but jesus the loneliness was overwhelming, I'm 50 now kids raised jesus gave me a beautiful husband he is faithful I wouldn't be the woman I am now without just having jesus❤ he is faithful ✝️
I have never come across anyone who has mentioned Isaiah 54. The Lord gave me that chapter 5 years before my husband passed away. I didn’t understand at the time and a week after he passed away it came back to me. The Lord is my husband, but then it goes on to say some other things That were very important to me that I didn’t understand at the time and I understood after his death. I thank the Lord so many times for that chapter and referred to it many times during my prayers , asking the Lord to let me just be satisfied with him and not need to have another man in my life! Marriage is difficult. It’s not always wonderful and it’s even harder when one of you is committed to the Lord and doing what the father wants and the other one seems like they are, but in reality, they’re having one foot in the world, and the other foot somewhat planted in in the church not really entering in not really living obediently to Christ!
@@Geebaby1968 | Your faith and trust in the Lord are commendable; and yes, He will always be near to them who love Him. But He is not your husband. Isaiah 54 is a loveletter to Messiah Jesus' ONE and ONLY wife (and bride also of course). Her name is 'Jerusalem'.
@@banner-fq8ln I totally understand what you’re saying but the father just reminded me through this chapter that he is always with me like a husband example would be in a marriage. That covenant of support protection provision etc.
I am the unloved woman. Never loved by my biological father, never loved by my husband of 14 yrs. A few weeks ago I actually prayed that prayer, " Lord, I have never ever been loved by any man, and I struggle to relate to you as my Father and lover of my soul" . It's a message meant for those truly living it. To anyone with a different reality, we celebrate you. But please be kind and don't judge 🙏🏾
I understand and I’ve been there. Please know that most of these men are broken and don’t know how to love or wasn’t raised on love. To be unloved is a painful feeling. A broken man will never love properly, it will take God. Don’t ever blame yourself or feel ashamed. I had to really encourage myself and stay in Gods word and stay in church. When I tell you it’s God that’s is really keeping my mind. I pray and bind the enemy everyday because the enemy wants your mind and wants you to keep feeling like this. Stay in God and in his will and I promise you. You will feel so loved. Yes it hurts and it painful. Put God and his son Jesus will keep you. And the Holy Spirit is a comforter. Blessings to you!!👑🙌🏽🙏🏽
This time, I WILL praise the Lord. I have been called a failure to my face by two siblings. It hurt like no other hurt I've taken since divorcing someone popular and successful who took my children after he left me too broke to get a real lawyer. He married an atty he cheated with who could not have kids. I kept my right mind because my hands are clean and I actually do know the Lord for myself. Every step I take is in the live view of the Living God.
I see a lot of woman confirming they are unloved. But don’t you realise God loves us? He chose woman to birth the king.. he absolutely adores us. Don’t allow the enemy to put those words into your mouth. You aren’t unloved you are loved. This story tells a tale of even when everyone doesn’t love us, God does. And he sees us in our pain and rejection.
I’m seeing that a lot too! Many posts of I’m unloved- my husband, I’m divorced twice etc. these women are actually with men/were with men. Did they think the men married them because they hated them? They need to understand how men love and it looks nothing like how women love. In fact sometimes it can be misinterpreted. Seriously women need to take a step back before labeling themselves as unloved. And God loves us, we’re supposed to find our fulfillment in Him and show love to those around us, not try to take from them.
I see a lack of compassion from your comment to hurting women. God is the father of compassion. We are women, we can understand each other, so have compassion. Of course God's love is ultimate, but understand a person's sadness too. A big part of Leah's story, calls us to have compassion and to cry with her and her children. When you cry with someone, you can help rise them too. Otherwise you're just beating them down. You won't be able to pray for them nor be a reflection of Jesus.
@@crestalee6968thank you for that comment….a woman has feelings and emotions and nothing hurts like the rejection of the man who you have invested yourself to…who was supposed to love you, cherish you and protect you. It is a pain that cuts deep. That doesn’t mean we don’t know the Saviour’s love….but we are human, and when a husband breaks the covenant of marriage, it only hurts more to have someone with no compassion diminish your pain.
I am astounded by this message. Thank You, God for allowing me to hear this and be changed by it. I am an unloved woman who is loved deeply by You. This time I WILL PRAISE THE LORD! ✝️✡️🩸🔥
Unloved woman here. Divorced, abandoned, rejected, neglected, barren and betrayed by everyone I ever loved. This message has truly truly truly blessed me in my season of waiting. Coming across this message in this season is no mistake. This time, I will praise the Lord! 🗣️🔊 God knows 🙌🏾❤️🩹♥️♥️🛐🐛🦋
I have loved but never been loved in return, except by my children. I am numb because when I ponder on it, the very depths of my soul cry out in such pain. It's better to keep it buried.
Let it spill out and up to heaven a little at a time. Many times someone needs to go back and forth from thanksgiving, praise, and supplication prayers.
There are so many of us who feel as you do. I think sharing our pain as we are doing even here is so helpful to know that we are not alone and that others are experiencing the same thing. I attempt to express my pain and my joy in simple ways that are meaningful to me and sometimes it's a poem, song, or simple art project that can be shared with others. It's a safe an effective way to let it out.
To all of you suffering this way: I suffer with you. Although it is absolutely horrific... the thought that I can suffer alongside you and pray for you, knowing what you're going through first hand... I don't know how to say it, but I'm happy I feel you close in the darkness, knowing this darkness is temporary! If we suffer with Jesus, we WILL rise with Him. I pray for you as we labor together, let your pain bring you closer to Him and HE WILL NOT FAIL YOU. Keep your heart as a clean and welcoming home for Him. Through all possible nightmares, He has kept me sane and safe. Despite terrible blows of indifference, neglect and lies of hate, through loss of children and health, HE answered me and made me feel His love. I feel like a living miracle. Keep fighting ❤ what if your sacrifice becomes a salvation for those who hurt you, and for those who don't know God? It's too good of an opportunity to waste.
BEAUTIFUL POST!!! THANK YOU!!! Some of us have "been in the trenches" and unless you have been there you can NEVER understand! GOD BLESS YOU!! From one "daughter of the King" to another! ALL my love in Christ!
I realised this in my life when asking for the bare minimum seemed like a great inconvenience. I am thankful to God for his love otherwise I would have been lost.
I hear you! I hear you, but I came to the stark realisation a couple of years ago that not everybody gets to be loved (by parents, by a man or woman) in their earthly life, but wow! JESUS has the most awesome and crazy love for us. I have become content with His love ❤ In Isaiah ch54 v5&6 "For your Maker is your husband..." Amen. Be blessed 🙏🏽
I've been feeling so unloved lately. This video kept coming up as a suggestion but I kept ignoring it. Finally watched it. I'm so glad I did. I will praise God!!
Being unloved all my life. Its painful and dauhting at times. I was rejected my mother and it carried through my life. I was always kind and longed to be loved. I too experienced divorce twice. The last marriage was a living nightmare where i almost ended my life. But God stepped in and took me on incredible journey of recovery but little did i know he was preparing me for an incredible assignment that would impact people around the world. God used my loneliness, rejections and pain for a greater purpose. Being single I was able to devote every part of myself to a very important call that i actually sensed even in my youth. Though i wouldn't wish this kind if pain and grief on anyone BUT God used it to saving of many lives. I had to go through a riguous restoration process and commit to the change no matter how difficult it was. God shined his light on that path. To God be the Glory
@@motheryuba57 I had to give a very important message to a Global pastor then the message was passed to many other pastors around the world that would help prepare the church for the coming of our Lord Jesus. It completely shocked the pastors how God chose to do this. It really got their attention. During this time lots of people that suffered the way I did were getting saved and set free. Little did I know this pastor needed this message personally for himself. Need less to say I was overwhelmed with amazement in God using me for this task. I never would have dreamed it in a million years. It's true He would do exceedly and abundantly far above that we can imagine. If only we are willing to do whatever it takes to overcome the issues in our life. I was actually in a state of complete desperation when it all began. There is much more to this story but this is in the most compact form I could say about it in a message like this. Thanks for asking.
It would be nice to hear more about it! I feel similar, that bad things happened to me will be because of something greater. Regards from Finland!!!😊❤️Where do you live???
If not for my daughter,that came out the marriage. I regret the day i got married. I pray that God gives me grace to forgive myself, how couldnt i see the lies, hypocricy from my husband, indeed “ love” is blind. Now a single mother 7yrs,
God truly DOES work in mysterious ways......amen? I needed this RIGHT NOW! TODAY! Who else cried in the end? I did.......ALL GLORY TO GOD for this amazing message. My father DID NOT love me, my husband never loved me and I have been in misery......I WILL PRAISE THE LORD! THANK YOU JESUS!
When I decided to stop trying to get the love I desperately needed from my husband, and become intimately know and loved by Father God instead, everything changed! I no longer lived like a wounded, broken soul, but knelt at the cross of my Jesus and handed everything over to Him instead. I never felt so free! And the added bonus was my husband could see the change in me and pursued God more himself, and we now have the most wonderful, loving marriage. So thankful!
44 years old. Always single. Never had a relationship before. I've tried so hard to improve on myself. I've asked men out before and I have always been turned down. I'm not bad looking, maintain a healthy weight. I have a good job and I'm never chosen. There isn't a single man on this Earth that will look twice at me. I'm very slowly and gradually accepting my fate as a single person. I guess it's just that God doesn't want to share me with a husband. I have to believe that He has a higher purpose and calling for me than other women.
It is better than living in a loveless marriage. Imagine feeling unworthy and unappreciated every single day. Count your blessings. ❤ never settle!!!!!!
A true Christian man would totally reject a woman who asks him out. That is not your place. That is his job. Read about biblical submission. Maybe that would help you.
I am reading all these msgs of unloved women. My encouragement to all of you....Jesus came into this world not offending anyone and He was hated. And that should give us hope no matter what good you do to be accepted and loved not everyone will love you. Jesus was hated and so you will be hated... especially when you are truthful. God loves us and that is all we need in this world.
I am unloved in this world even though I have a husband, a father, a brother, a pastor... No male figures love me. Even females. For some reason I am alone even though I am surrounded. No one checks on me nor do I have anyone for a heart to heart conversation. This message encouraged me. Thanks
I was with my Husband 23 yrs. I loved him always. I did not receive love back. We separated 12 yrs ago, he got into a relationship with my cousin before we’re were broken up. He still with her. I raised our daughters through the teen years alone. It was hard. It was traumatizing. I’m still healing. God is all I got.
He just told me I’m just like used toilet paper… he can’t shake me off his hands. Years of abuse and no escape because he’s isolated and cut me off from all escape. I’d appreciate your prayers.
Your worth is 100%, don’t let anyone change your perception of that truth due to their behaviour. I hope you find a way out of the situation. You deserve so much better ❤
I volunteered at a domestic abuse/violence shelter and learned a lot. THERE ARE SECRET WAYS THEY WORK TO HELP KEEP YOUR CONTACT with them FROM YOUR ABUSER. Please know God is enraged that this man is hurting you, his daughter. He is FOR you and WILL help you if you trust him and step out in faith. He is not wanting you to obey an abuser. Only Him because He TRULY loves you.
Praying for you 🙏🌹🤍 from the UK....Dear sister you don't get your validation from any man. Your worth is so much more to the one who delights in you. I pray that you get that revelation deeply inside your heart so you can feel and know how much you are loved and His love lifts you up where you belong just like the song....only the love of God our heavenly Father is what really matters in this loveless world. I pray God will strengthen you to walk away and I pray that He will make a way for you to get out. Love and hugs 🤍
I don't even know how this came across my feed, but I have been Unloved All My Life. I Thank God for this message, because He Knows that I Needed to Hear it. May God Bless this man and this Word. I PRAY THAT IT REACHES EVERY UNLOVED WOMAN THAT NEEDS TO HEAR IT. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY! AMEN AND AMEN 🙏🏽 🙌
Thank you God the Father for this message. I came across it while strolling. Never seen this minister before. Much needed in my life at this time of being separated from my husband. Thank you God for being loved by God
It is so tiring to date. Men want what they want, when they want, how they want, and it is always lustful and ungodly. Honestly? I am tired of explaining my faith and seeing how they cannot handle a godly courtship. I don't even CARE to date now. Not worth the heartache and tired of the rejection. Grow up. Act like men and put away your childish ways. They do not even know HOW to court a woman. So if never find a compatible godly man in this world? I am old enough now to not care. God knows my heart. Jesus loves me. I am a successful and healthy person in this cursed world. And am in need of nothing. Jesus takes care of me. I want to please God and make Him proud that He made me. My sanctification and obedience is EVERYTHING to me. Jesus loves me. It's all I need.
I think you have chosen well. I won't bash men because I have met some wonderful Christian men and their wives are very blessed to have them. However, there are a lot of creeps out there -- men who pretend to be what you're looking for and try to trick you into a lustful relationship. The creeps can also be married men only pretending to be single. The creeps go to church when they feel 'lonely' -- in fact, many say that it's the best way to meet women, whom they use and throw away like paper plates. It isn't a woman's job to find a husband, so don't go on dating websites, etc. It's a man's job to find a wife. If it's God's will that you marry, He will arrange it. If you never get married, you will have saved yourself lots of trouble, sin, degradation and possible danger by not making yourself available to strange men. Be discerning. If none of your godly friends or pastor know the man, stay away. It isn't a woman's job to evangelize strange men. Leave that to your brothers in Christ.
60 never married but I was loved by my parents. Lost both over 20 years ago and have been alone and “unloved” since. Church is the hardest part as there is no place for a single woman.
@@kimberlydeleanu6806that’s how it seems to be for me too. I recently was asked by a young mother if I felt a sense of community and said “ not really”( she’s not in my church parish ) and ever since then somehow the honesty really freed me and every day I keep a gratitude list - I pray more - and each day I write cards to people and remind them of all the positive memories and experiences- or what ever I am grateful for - I also draw and play my piano just a little if I can’t play or do a lot of music and art . I work at helping with volunteering to get better people in our public office positions- and mainly am able to quit pretending that I am happy when I experience the emotions I do - I experience them alone and can express many different ways. ! I do a “ new “ thing each day and make my days all different . Since I realized I could be honest and check in with my own emotions - it’s been good news and blessings from all over . I have felt unloved yes but my mother always taught me to offer the suffering up to God . I do not understand why it’s been the way with my life but I know God works in mysterious ways . I can imagine God needs some people here on earth that are listening . And can devote more to different things .
My children are estranged from me, I did not abuse them and raised them practically alone as my husband and I had many breakups. I left him and went to school to be an RN so I could make a home and do things for my kids. I do not know why they just started gradually erasing me from their life. I love them so much and it's broken my heart. They never text or call or return my messages. I pray and get closer to Jesus and he has saved my life. This sermon really made me cry, so glad I found it
I’m so sorry dear one. As a mother with one son I think about how children are breaking their mother’s hearts when they grow up. I hate the times we are living in. I’m praying for you. That God restores your relationship with your children. It’s not you but the enemy comes to destroy families 😢
I am a nurse and I know several that have kids that resent their mother's. I think it's because we left them to go work. We should have been home with them more. I raised mine w/o any child support help. Father was a deadbeat. Now, they love him.
I feel this way always. Unloved, unseen and unheard. I suppose in this world you have to be of exceptional beauty to be noticed but Jesus sees us always.
It doesn't take exceptional physical beauty to get the attention of a godly single man who is looking for a wife. Exceptional beauty definitely attracts all the lustful, ungodly, unsaved men that you would rather be invisible to. But you're right about Jesus -- we are not invisible to Him.
@@cannaryboy4195I am 5 10, natural blonde, blue eyes and it is a problem. Guys just look. But when they find out I won't sleep with them, I don't even let them take me anywhere or buy me food so I won't OWE them anything. Now that I am mid 50s and have gained weight no one looks at me at all. They just look at the body.
That's not true Shani. The lord has kept you hidden because you are precious. The one the lord has for you will find you and will love you just the way you are. It happens when you let go all attachment to wanting a man in your life and transforming to be content by yourself in Christ.
I am an unloved woman, looking back on my life, I realise no-one has ever really loved me, and now having to have tests for suspected cancer, my family are not interested, so I have to face this alone. I know that I have precious time with the Lord because I have so much spare time, I pray for my family a lot, and have come to realise, to an extent the Lord’s love for me. I do a lot of Bible study and listen to a lot of sermons. There is a purpose for everything, maybe being closer to the Lord is the purpose. I know I can live without other people, I cannot live without the Lord. Sometimes are harder than others, this is one of those times.
It’s 4 am. I just listened to this beautiful reminder that only God can fill my need to be loved and cherished. No human being can completely do this. People will always let me down and I will always let people down but if I live for the audience of One and not the approval of “man” I am on the road to undeniable victory. Ps Dr. Kendall I love all your books that you have written especially Total Forgiveness and the Audience of One. Thank you for your endurance!
My son hates me and it's just recently set up in his heart. Satan has been attacking me like crazy since i heard the lords voice and believed him. He is the great I Am and our Lord Jesus is coming back to get his unloved Bride and he's going to cover her completely in his love ❤
My son hates me too. I did my very best to love him and raise him to know God, but he has become a satanist and made up all kinds of twisted, slanderous accusations against me, now that he has chosen the father of lies and the accuser of the brethren over the God of Love. Please pray for his soul!!!!! He is terribly deceived.
To My Brother and My Sister in Christ, Please realize You are not the only one who was Born into a Loveless family. There are Hundreds of Thousands of US ! Remember it is the darkness in Your Siblings or even Your Mom or Your Dad who have no Understanding, Empathy nor Compassion for You because their eyes are Blinded because of the Lust for the Material things of This World. Please be Comforted to know You not the only one. Just TRULY apply Your entire Life to understand the TRUE definition of the word (ALL) and seek to Fulfill it! You're are Victorious and are Loved beyond Your Understanding! Now be filled with joy because I know of Your Emotional Trauma and Pain! You're Chosen!!!
@@meleshenko3767 You're Welcome....this day remember you only have control of what is in your Hands! Also control the MIND and don't Let the MIND control You! You're not alone in Your Brokenness 💔... We are Many ✝️💯🌹🙏👈
I am 60 years old and I have come to realize that I have never been truly loved by anyone except the Lord.
Me too…
AMEN. I hear you. Can identify with that too well. But God is all-sufficient 🙏🏽 What a mercy that He is 🙏🏽
I'm in my 70th year of life now - same realisation. BUT GOD ❤
It has nothing to do with us. God is love, He is the source. We as humans cannot love without Him and even then we only allow as much love as we have faith.
Its a good thing we have an eternity to get to know God 😂
I think many women here may have been loved 🥰 however from afar and the person was not able to know them .. our culture has been messed up for many years and the genders confused.. which the evil agendas from elites have encouraged.. the younger generation is having lots of issues with the role confusion .
I’m so hurt I can’t even watch this sermon. Pray for me.
I'm praying for you.
Praying. Jesus loves you.
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It's painful. But it's a very good sermon. Praying for you 🙏🏻❤️🩹🫂
It took me a week or two to get the courage to watch it. Watch it. You won't regret it. Jesus truly loves.
I pray for all unloved women . And also unloved men.
unloved men 😂 there are NO unloved men
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We literally can’t have anything
@@GabrielleTollerson There are many lonely men. The suicide rate is higher in men then in women. I am a woman and it's best to show compassion for all as Christ would.
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I raised two children by myself. My oldest was a latch key as I worked. A neighbor with 3 older daughters lusted after my daughter. He would knock on the door demanding she let him in. God had me speak to him telling him leave my daughter alone. He would not. God had me speak to him again and warn him that he would be punished by God if he continued. He continued. After that he fell ill confined to bed unable to get up unable to walk. His wife came to me said for me to remove the curse. I told her I don’t have a husband in my house but God is my husband. Your husband must answer to God. I was very young and did not understand many things about God but after that and through out my life he has been there my partner silent quiet and he has performed many miracles in my life - too many to write here. I love him with all my heart and there is no one like him. He loves and cares and will show you if you have faith in him. Amen. You unloved women are not alone.
Your story captivated me. What happened to that predatory man? Did he repent and is saved, or did he die in his depravity?
Creepy men. You should have called the police for harassment.
@tatie7604 She went higher than mortals for help, and it worked better. Cops can do little when the threat is nxt door.
@@StardelEste Isaiah 54 was chapter Lord gave me before my husband who turned out to be a huge deceiver !!! five years before he died and I ave asked the lord to help e cling to it with all I’ve got!
The same happens to me. When people intentionally hurt me, God works on my behalf. I have seen him humble the “mightiest” (so they see themselves as such) of people. He has brought them to their lowest point so they can call out to him for help but they refused to listen. I have done my part and when I didn’t want to give up telling them about God, he told me to actually stop and spoke Matthew 7:6 in the middle of the night. God blesses us for having faith in him. ❤
Many people believe the curse of Eve was pain during childbirth. I think it is our need to be loved. Truly loved, not just sex. I don't know one woman who has had long term love from a man. I divorced a man I gave 33 years and a child. I'm old now. Sick from the stress of the long term abuse. I left him once when I was 30 but my family convinced me to "save my marriage." My biggest wisdom I could give to young women is to marry a Christian....a real Christian. If you don't, they don't play by the rules and you will suffer.
The Bible says in Genesis 3:16 in the original KJV that in addition to pain in childbirth our curse is: " ... and thy DESIRE shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee." It would seem that because of Eve's sin it became necessary for her to be ruled over. And considering that today's woman wants to murder her own babies, I can see why! I am a woman by the way.
Amen sister...
But the Lord will recompense us in His wonderful day when He comes with rewards for those who are His. !!!
You said it, “you will suffer”.
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Thanks for the advice on the “real Christian” ❤️ I’m currently living in that choice and seeing date after date choose to leave my life because I’m too much in my faith and convictions for them. But I’d rather stay alone then be with a man that draws me away from the relationship I have with God.
Sending you love, older sister. You and I may be hurt but we are LOVED❤️
📌a real Christian!!!
May I add something for all single women: Chase God with all your heart, and, if a man catches up to you, introduce yourself! ❤
Nice! I love it!❤
This is such good wisdom.
*Proverbs 11:14 KJV* *Where no counsel is, the people fall: but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety.*
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Love this!!
Amen…
Love this❤
God just sent me this message 😢. Divorce ,abandoned, barren, rejected. I only wanted my husband’s love. I’ve studied Rachel and Leah through Bible Study Fellowship. Now in my current circumstances and this message my heart identifies with Leah so much. Lord help me to Praise you in all my heartbreak 💔
In the end, you will find that his path for you was a blessing. You will learn to cut ties, to lose reliance on the world and be fed by Him. It is a rare path and as beautiful as refined gold, as beautiful as the refining is difficult. Precious one, I took that path, not by choice at first, but with tremendous protest. Gradually, I submitted my heart piece by piece by piece to the Lord. And now I am old and so very grateful for it all. If not, for His careful separation of me from the world, I would still be living 1 foot in and 1 foot out. I would still be dependent on the love of a parent, or a husband, or church family, or children. But I have finally come to rest, needing only my beautiful Lord. It is worth it all.! The fantasy of “world“ is gone. My eternal future with him has grown brighter and clearer. My friend, I feel his love for you. It is an intense, consuming love. Rest, knowing he will bring you through, and he is separating you for himself.
@@KimberlyRyan-oh2sx I know your pain !! I will pray for both of us to experience Gods amazing healing and plan for our lives.
@@Geebaby1968 yes! Bless you
I feel your pain the same happen to me too. my husband left me for another woman. I never thought that he would do that to me it was a shock 😢
God bless you sweet woman. You are a precious and beautiful treasure. I do not know you but, I hope you know that the Father sees you and the hurt that you carry. Allow Him to take those burdens and lies away from you. It’s one of the hardest things we will choose to do… but I promise it’s worth it.
I know all to well the burden that we carry desiring to be loved from man when we have been designed to love God above all others.
Oh beautiful one…. I pray for your heart to be filled with His love overflowing and that you will remember the pain no more. In jesus name, amen
I love the part he says that Leah had a divine destiny and purpose but she was only focused on being loved, until she chose to praise the LORD. She took her eyes off of herself and praised the LORD for His goodness to her.
This time I will praise the LORD!
You are one who truly understands his message. God wants to make a difference in each of our lives but we’ve got to get our eyes off of “self.”
amen. that was me my whole life looking for one to love me
This is it.
@@joelinaalba533 Amen 🙏 🙌 💗
@@nbf_279yes me too😢
Because I had no love from my parents. God understands. But our only peace is in Jesus love✝️🫶🏻❤️
God told me from a young age "human men cannot love."
We love only because he loved us first.
A man without God cannot love and even so is still a sinner.
Make God your root, not men. ❤
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Amen Amen Amen
It's crushing to see the amount of women here who are unloved by their husbands. 37 year old male here, married with 1 kid. Love my wife but constantly rejected by her. Won't let me hug or kiss her. She stiffens up like a crazy or jumps back 😢 No affection in word or touch by her to me obviously. I feel unappreciated to the core. I've been asking the Lord for answers & got lead here. This has been going on for a few years now.
Ladies - a good man feels the same emotional pain or rejection from his wife. My name is Jacob BTW. Keep strong - God has got a plan 💪 Amen!
God bless you
Please pray for your wife and ask God to heal her soul wounds. The root cause might be abuse and rejection from her past relationship/s. This may be blocking her from reciprocating your affections.
Hi there. I am so sorry for your pain. My last relationship was 11 years ago and I remember how much it hurt that he would not show any affection at the end of our relationship. I thought we were going to get married. I think heartache is the worst pain humans can experience. I am single because God called me to be a full-time servant for Him. I will pray for you and your wife. I pray God heals any wounds in both of you. May God make you both whole and live the oneness God intended for a marriage. Be blessed with love! :)
I hear you my brother❤
God bless you Jacob. Only He can heal you. May you feel His love today! In Jesus' name, Amen.
I am an unloved woman. My name is Lea as well. I will praise the Lord.
I’m married but husband has put me through ALOT I’m also a Lea. My worth is in what Christ says it is.. my saviors love in never ending and never failing. Man will fail you HE won’t ❤
@@Blessedbereanmamma I have been put thru a lot as well. After many years I decided to try dating again. And I was ghosted and painfully rejected. I’ve been working on healing and came across this word All I’ve ever wanted was someone to love and be loved by. It will take me a while to come to terms with this. I m not gonna lie. I will try to feel worthy and praise the Lord
Your not unloved, your greatly loved by God. The king of the Universe. Most people aren't loved in this world at least not well, God really is the only true source of pure love that will satisfy the soul.
@@leahh4727 thank you. I appreciate your wonderful words
@@leahh4727 amen
To all of the beautiful women sharing their stories...I love you. God loves you...he has kept all of your tears in a bottle. He knows the reason for every tear....he knows. ❤
What a lovely message. Thankyou - God bless you 🙏
@jane_uk3522 God bless you too Jane❤
Married and never felt so alone. Thank goodness I have a Heavenly Father who loves me and will never leave me.
Yes! I'm married and so lonely. It's for a different reason though. My husband is loving BUT he won't draw nigh to the Father. Only when God consumes your heart can you truly love someone. His carnal nature hinders him from truly loving me like I know he would. Our fellowship is wanting because we can't really share the love of Christ together. I ache and long for a marriage that is full of the light of Christ within. I can't truly share those things about Jesus with him that I would love to. He goes to church and everything but his relationship with Lord Jesus needs to become bonded. Nothing more beautiful than a man in love with Lord Jesus!
@@soniasteed3286I so understand both of you ladies
I have felt that way to. Your not alone
Me too.
Good to know we are not truly alone.
May it produce the greatest love in us.
Thats sad and disappointing! I don't know the reasons why you are in this position Cathy but I will add this....DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! You have the right to express your feelings to your husband..the person that is supposed to be the most loving person in your life that you can completely be yourself with..speak what's on your heart, your thoughts and your needs! He is supposed to take care of you, support you and be loyal to you! I get the feeling he may be one of those people that have a very hard time showing their feelings..no way could I ever be with a man like that again..would drive me crazy! It is very selfish and hurtful! I cant respect a male that is like that because a man should be a man and speak his mind! Cathy he made a vow not only to you but before God and with God to honor you and love you all the days of his life! You know a marriage is really between 3..You your husband and God!
A Christian all my life…Never been loved by a man……gave up decades ago after two failed marriages. Jesus loves me.
omgoodness SAME!!! I've only "known" 2 men, both my husbands, both dumped me! 1st one 25 yrs, 2nd, 15 yrs, now Jesus is my husband! Best husband ever!
Me too. 3 failed marriages. Single now and much happier.
I hear you..me too
@@nemmie007 I'm so sorry 😢 I can relate as well. What do you think happened, were they narcissists?
So very sorry, where are your ex husband's remarried? What do you think happened, were they also Christian?
You guys are making me cry … I’ve never seen this pastor in my life & he just randomly came across my screen as I’m laying in bed with yet another heartache .. wanting real love like I give my entire life at 29 years old and finally coming to Christ a few years back as I have grown with him I realize I’ve settled so much and as I keep growing I see him telling me to now see the love he offers me .. & ladies I just wanna say God promises to always be with us all in spirit and in truth & every year he will wipe away .. keep trusting in God ❤
Thank you for sharing
Amen
@@britneejjohnson Amen
Amen. I have tested His faithful and reckless love.
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Ps. 31: The Lord sees my affliction and knows the anguish of my soul
Amen 🙏
And how is that comfort????
@@Rainbow-m3w Because, knowing this enables our trust in His provision concerning it :)
Yes! Your prayers go before His throne..as long as you are living righteously for Him! Susie He has a special and beautiful plan for you! You have a cute name now..but will be renamed in heaven by Jesus Christ Himself!
AMEN
31 now never been in a relationship never been loved by anyone never has anyone been interested in me. i haven’t had any meaningful friendships, most of the people i know are light years ahead of me in their milestones. pray for me that i may not be alone and that i may rest in God’s grace, it’s very lonely at times
Turning 30 soon. I’m coming to realize that being unmarried at thirty isn’t a reflection of worth. It just shows how broken our society, even in Christian circles, is. It’s hurtful, but our relationship with Him is more important.
I can relate
I'm in a similar boat and being autistic doesn't help
At 31 my life just started. I am 57 now, with 3 grown kids. Trust God, He has a big plan for you. 🙏🏼
@@AS-yh6xu Amen, thank you so much.
So many women have woke up already and are happy being single living their best lives free from abuse and pain!
Not me😢. Its been 15 years and we don't even see each other or communicate. He's back w the gold digger he left for. He's taken everything from me and he has it all, and is living a far superior lifestyle than we had in our marriage. I'm living in poverty, unable to work, bedridden, friendless, estranged from the kids I raised alone, my sisters, my mom is 92 & tired of me and my Neverending problems. I feel like I am cursed, truly. I will never stop loving my husband. 😢😭😭💔💔💔💔
@@pauladix5655 Please focus on what you have and not what you don't have. At least you have your sisters and mom who love you. Pray your son comes back like the prodigal son. You will be just fine. Just try to do one small thing every day. Got to church and woman bibles study every week. Pray with the woman's leader. If you can get a therapist, do that if possible. I understand your pain. I wish I had sisters to keep me company. 🙏
@pauladix5655 please ask God to work on you and your attitude, sometimes we fail to see things that hold us back because of our own attitude. Be kind to yourself and others, stop complaining to others and talk to God about your troubles. Deliberately do things that bring joy into your life and stop focusing on your ex. You may be bitter and no likes to be around miserable people. I wish you good health and happiness. Focus on God and your joy.
@@chisemachikumbi38 learn a lesson from Job's friends. Weep with those that weep. Comfort the comfortless.
@@pauladix5655. Learn to love yourself. Goldiggers do. They will never put a man before themselves.
I don't know what touched me more, the message itself, or the multitude of women in the comments who feel unloved for one reason or another! Let loneliness or rejection or abuse or abandonment of any kind throw us in the arms of Jesus who experienced all of it and who died on the cross because of his personal love for us. He asked Mary, Woman, why are you crying? She was crying because she thought he was dead, but he was alive! Let him touch your heart with his tender and transforming love, let him fill your life with light, peace and purpose. He is right there, waiting to listen to your pain and wrap his strong, loving arms around you, comfort you and make you complete. Let him surprise you!
I'm stunned by the comments.. Sic of women being left out. Abused ( I endured, too young& no support for what was happening, same as , like no financial ed in sch.)
So I pray for these females here to be healed & find their self
luv& sum joy of affection..
@@totogogocc5526Thank you 🙏😊
Thank you, Amen 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you my dear man. I am the unloved woman. I did have two beautiful daughters. I will always praise the Lord. I try to share my testimony of Jesus with all I can, especially the unbelievers. You blessed me and gave me hope. ❤️💐🙏
A precious word.
Pastor Charles Stanley says “Our intimacy with God is his highest priority for our lives, which determines the impact of our lives.”
🎉❤🎉dont foget the same God has given to us the desire to have this
nature to go forth and multipy we should chose God first but our carnal nature is to feel and to fulfill this passionate natual act It is only when fail relationship bad memory
or age or pain hurt unhealthyness would make many women
wont chose the will of God to marry
Onñy God alone knows from a woman pespective her youthful years how many sincere hearts would actually do ít
This for me i myself would of rather than where i am now and many women too when u get to know the living God and his love u simple wont missed it I guess there is a price to be paided sins from our first mother Eve thanks be to God must Jesus bear the cross alone and the world be free no no no🎉❤🎉
Muñtiplication of families
🎉❤🎉 i know God loves us even when we failed feel ugly rejected abuse sorrowful unloved and many totally lost die it sad only if they knew to whom is given much is required
🎉❤🎉 many never made him thier first love and have him as thier lord and personal
People forget that to love God He often has us serve people .. to love your wife like God loves His wife, the Church. He commanded it. Stanley got divorced ..??
@@RealHannahKrogmanyes he did. From my understanding, she wanted to divorce because he gave so much of himself to the church. Sad isn’t it?
I’m praying for all of us women…I lift each of you up in prayer and ask for blessings for each of you!
No woman is unloved, who knows the LORD!
True... however that does not mean there's no pain when one has been rejected by their husband.
It depends on situations. We are living in this fallen world.
@@louisaisthankful6455I agree
Thank you❤
Anything we long for more than God is idolatry.
This is the first time (no joke) that I finally heard a message from the Pulpit like this. I have been saved for decades and not 1 pastor that I have sat under has given this message or has even cared to! Thank you 🙏🌿
The church essentially neglects teaching tailored more to women as well as teaching that exhorts men on their role and responsibilities as husband and the critical importance of submission to God and their family. So no surprise you've never heard this.
We need messages like this ❤
Brad Strait is very good, check him out too!!!
@@anjihc8797 yes, as the Christian principal was packing my car full of my own teaching resources because the school provides inequity in pay and resources...on the Christian man radio was "woman submit to your husband" I asked him is this why you are a Christian? To rule over women in inequity? Well, this scripture has a lot of man responsibility behind it!"
Bout time❤❤
My ex-husband abandoned me and our two children and had four other children with two different women. I cannot begin to describe how devastated my entire being was. My heart was shattered into a billion pieces. But I am a living testimony of the grace of God. He gave me the strength to move on with my life. He turned my mourning into dancing! He took my sorrow and gave me joy! He gave me peace that passes ALL understanding … and love no human could EVER give me.
I love You, Lord
And I lift my voice
Just to worship You
Oh my soul rejoice
Take joy my King
In what You hear
And let it be a sweet, sweet
Sound in Your ear!
The ex-husband is the one with a problem. Not you ! So glad you know Jesus and not having to fight the demons that your ex is oppressed by. The Lord will lead you to where He knows you need to be. Stick with the Lord..don't look back 🙏🙌🕊
Amen 🙌🏾
God bless you, dear sister. He sees your pain and will care for you if you let him
I am unloved. I knew it since I was young. I tried my best to be kind and good so I would feel worthy of love but none came. Especially from my pastor father. But I know Jesus loved me enough to die on the cross for me. That is enough. Praise the name of Jesus.
I Love U
pass it on 💖
Love you dear in Christ. God cares and provides
❤❤❤
I’m so sorry
He set you apart for a purpose. Me too 😢❤🎉
Loved by the world rejected by God
Rejected by the world loved by God
This!!!
God rejects no one. If the world loves you or does not, it changes NOTHING in God's heart. He created you and He loved you FIRST before you will ever love Him!
@@pageroo9644
Jhn 15:19 NKJV -
18 “If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you.
19 “If you were of the world, the world would love its own. Yet because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.
20 “Remember the word that I said to you, ‘A servant is not greater than his master.’ If they persecuted Me, they will also persecute you. If they kept My word, they will keep yours also.
--- The world will not love you if you love and stand for Jesus. If you do not love Jesus, you will be rejected by God. This is what OP was saying. We can't try to serve 2 masters, trying for the love of the world and the love of God because if we love the world the love of the Father is not in us:
1 John 2:15 NKJV - Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.
Even in A christian marriage you can still be rejected.
@@pageroo9644that’s not true. God literally says “friendship with the world is enmity against God”
I'm unloved woman. Just when I was slipping into depressive episode because of a heartbreak, this video accidentally poped up on my feed. Lord has ways of sending me signs when i most need them
It wasn’t an accident that this sermon popped up. It is the hand of God rescuing you from your state of depression. I’m saying this because I too am/ was an unloved woman. But God and His love rescued me. The days ahead will outshine any day of the past if you allow God to show you the way ❤
Same
I've been a mess for three weeks now cause my husband left me for another woman and treated me like dirt. And then I run up on this today. I needed this.
Oh Lord Adonai! Surely, You are a husband to the lonely and forsaken women of this world! And so faithful and true to all who feel heartbroken and alone. Thank You for this word of assurance. 🙏🏻 ❤
I can resonate,all a woman needs is love and not neglect and lack of affection
My christian husband left me. Unloved & barren. Had both ovaries removed for cancer reasons. 41yrs old, no children yet. I needed to hear this. Thankyou.
Jesus loves you.
I'm so sorry. Praying for you, that you may find peace, joy and happiness in future. ❤ Forgive me father for I will sin, but I hope your husband steps on a bed of Lego's.
your husband is not Christian - he only plays at being one.
@@myself2861😂
You are gorgeous, and someone will cherish you. Just wait and see!.
Isaiah 54 God told me this in my prayer closet then he told me that he was my husband.. and that he would rebuild me with expensive gems… and that my abandonment and shame would end… that he would give me and my kids peace 🕊️
We serve a God of restoration!
@ ericas2034 - great comment!
Amen!!!
That's beautiful. God is so romantic. 🥹
Amen and Amen 🙏 !!!!
This Scripture has been my LIFE! God please be my husband 😢
It's amazing how God places a sermon like this on my feed at just the right time ❤
Me too you have no idea! God is so good! 🥲
God sent me a rescue cat. I know she loves me and we have been together for 13 years.
@ *ONLYLOVEIZATION* A pet is a great companion. I am praying about getting a dog. 🇨🇦
@@deb6853 Exactly!
I have 3 cats. One of them is very, very loving. I'd be lost without them.
God's greatest gift is his creation. Love your pets, your trees, flowers, bushes, and plants. They will not turn against you but will thrive with the love and care you give them.
Sometimes your destiny will take you along a path that would seem lonely and pathetic, but in the it will turn out to be a grand purpose in God's plan for the redemption of the world. It is still happening, even today. God's ways are beyond finding out. He choses the unloved and despised in this world and give them great destinies. Amen.
That's very sweet. Thank you
True! One day we will find out why God chose a harder path for us. Instead of complaining to Him for doing it, we'll be praising Him for it.
There are those who are “ barren” and have many children - and then there are those who birth all without effort and wish to be able to abort - aren’t we all without peace and contentment and looking for love in all the wrong places UNTIL we, like Leah, find the peace and deep contentment by surrendering our needs for the one need that is the most important - and that’s to thank God for all the missteps in our lives and birth a “Judah” -- ❤❤
@@cannaryboy4195 God told me he was going to heal my disabled brother, and sister and reveal himself. I am the only one who has always loved them, and know they were disabled. God is going to use them to prove he is real.
@@EuniceForcet And great rewards. Some of us will reign with Jesus.
I never knew the power of GOD until I got rejected by all who was to love me. My Jesus was beside me all the way I know now.🙏🙏🙏
God Bless you Judy. I agree with this statement wholeheartedly. I am now divorced again. I knew it would be bad on day 1 after we married.When you go through things that totally break you, you learn only Jesus can fill the role of husband. He alone is my source.
Its not daughter of Jesus take your power back and strength 🙏 in Jesus name 🙏 be encouraged Jesus ❤️❤️❤️ You
Amen 🙏 🙏 Jesus holds the power speak life over yourself.
Listening to Dr. Kendall is like listening to a loving grandfather or father. Thank you for this word Dr. Kendall
You better believe the word of GOD not what a man said.
Only GOD can truly love you
@@gwendolynpatrick6539 why… just why! He is preaching the word of God. Sometimes you bitter women need to put the keyboard down and stop trying to steal the encouragement that others are finding in the teaching of men of God. Yes I believe God first. Be kind, be encouraging or be quiet 🤐 please!
I'm glad you corrected this self rightious comment Dear Lady. It is sad when people cannot see beauty in a message from the Lord and not be a pharissee with criticism. @@jccarey4585
I am a single woman, living in a foreign country for 9 years. Never married. Feeling unloved and not wanted. May I see and experience myself the way the Lord sees me and loves me.
Reading this from a hotel room and feeling you. May God meet you where you are. Sending virtual hugs 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I feel you too🙏🙏 Sending hugs x
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Every woman needs this!!! JESUS understands and loves HIS women
rejection is God's protection. I give me to Jesus.
Me too. Mostly unloved by men, starting with my earthly father. And the older i get, the more I notice how some men only save their "love" for younger, prettier women. But Jesus, THE MAN has ALWAYS been faithful. He is pure and holy and able to love all of us perfectly. 💟🕊✝️
Totally relate. Started with my earthly father and nobody else has loved me either. I feel very down and am ready to leave this earth and all its heartache.
They cannot love ---They only lust after those women!
@@Janevelynyou can make it through God's tests. Believe he gives you the strength. Find lots of other sources of love: friends, nature, animals, church
@@JanevelynSister you are loved by this Most High..never give up on Him..His Love is greater than any other 🙏❤️
Amen sis. The only true Father I've ever had is my God in Heaven. Jesus has always been faithful and loving to me even when I was unfaithful. He is the one who has always loved me, always protected me from the worst of things and always been there to forgive and raise me up when I was lost. Praise Jesus and rejoice in the fact that He loves you. When God is for you, who can be against you?
I grew up and was raised in Albania as an orphan until age 16 years old. I was a Muslim and at age 13 years old I accepted Jesus Christ. He become my Father. At age 16 I was adopted into an American family. 2 years ago I meet my father. My mother passed away from Alcoholism. I am now married 11 years to a wonderful Husband from my home country. A barren waiting for God to do a miracle. Jesus Christ my peace and joy no matter the circumstances he is always good. The LORD never makes a mistake and you’re not a mistake.
Stela!! That's an amazing testimony. I am living and serving in Albania reaching out to people with the Gospel. Please pray for many to know the Truth and accept Jesus..
That was my story….unloved by my parents, ill treated by my grandpa when my parents sent me to stayed with them. I gave my life to Jesus when I was 15, my life was completely changed around. I met my husband when I was 24 and God had used him to compensate all that the clicks had eaten. He loves me so well and sacrificially and we have three adults children who had wonderful relationships with us. My cup is filled.
I am so happy for you!!! God is so good!! 🙏💖💖
thank you for sharing your testimony ❤
Bless God
Praise the Lord! 🙏🏽💕🙏🏽
❤🎉 👍
God bless this pastor and every soul that needed this message as much as I
Last night I woke up at 2am and I cried to God because I never was loved, I got pregnant at 22 raised my child alone, the father never involved, I've never been married and I ask God why am not loveable that someone can't want to share their life with me and this video came on my feed 😢😢😢😢
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God keep you in the palm of his hand.
This is the most beautiful message from a wise and obedient man of God speaking to the hearts of so many women.
This message was meant for me, as my wife feels the same way. As unloved woman and as her husband I am very sorry my love to make you feel that way. I regret all the hurt i caused you and the humiliation I have caused on our marriage. I repent in the name of Jesus and please forgive me.
Forgiveness and trust do not walk hand in hand. Trust is earned by faithful responsible behavior.
Wow wish to hear this from my husband.
Ok now go tell HER that
God bless you for repenting. Now DO BETTER!
Because of early childhood abuse and trauma, for over 40 years, I got along better with animals than people. I’ve been learning to get along better with people now by the “grace of God”. Good message!!!
stick with the animals they will not damage you xx
Beauty has nothing to do with looks. It's the soul that is beautiful.
This message definitely is gor me. Despite my husband's 30 some years of cheating, neglecting, emotional abuse, financial ruin, etc. God blessed me with my children and grandchildren and even blessed my career...all despite him!
God has blessed me throughout the trials!
God did the same thing for me!! God is ALWAYS my husband FIRST!!❤❤❤
Amen!!!! Glory to YHWH 🥰
Same
Hello everyone, I’m sorry that youre going through so much pain. I’m sorry you feel unloved, abandoned, neglected and feeling like you’re not enough. The devil comes to kill, steal and destroy. He comes to destroy your worth, self esteem, and make you feel inadequate. I’m here to tell you that you are worthy of all that God says you are. You are beautifully and wonderfully made. Your situation doesn’t determine your destiny. God has a greater blessing for you. Please continue to pray for guidance, strength and healing through your pain. The world needs your essence.
As many have stated already, this is a message for me. My husband left me for another (they both left spouses and children to be together)and married her leaving me with 3 children. It took me years to forgive. I used to think …I will find another! God won’t leave me alone and I used to identify with Leah. I’m still alone after 25 years. (Don’t want to be.) My children are all walking with the Lord. I’ve forgiven him and recently found out that he has been miserable and guilt ridden for years. Small comfort as I used to think he would at least apologize, but never did. So this message has me deciding to be more purposed in praises. He is still my Lord forever will I praise and worship Him ❤
your experience is close to mine. affairs are so so painful. God has healed me after years of bitterness. Praise God !!!!!
@@nancybraybrooks5509how do we heal from it?
If your children are all walking with the Lord, that's good. Your ex-husband might have been a hindrance to their reception of Christ if he were there.
I use to pray my father would leave my mother because he was physically abusive.. And she passed away much earlier than him..she was an unloved woman..I don't care to hear a man say the word love to me. I've seen the worst exhibition of love from a man😢
@leozion I can totally relate to your situation. After 25 years of singleness, my first boyfriend, whom I dated briefly when I was 16, got in touch with me. After talking for one week, we realised that we were falling in love with each other. He was convinced that God had brought us together after all these years. Today, we are happily married. Keep praising God, and wait on Him. He knows the right time and has a purpose for us all.
In terms of Romantic relationships am an unloved women.I keep been rejected 😭 by men.I am currently on a journey to just accept that i may never have the romantic love i desire so i have chosen to love God and myself.I am dedicating myself to loving the Lord with all my heart and to loving myself more.I will not continue allowing men in my life who just end up rejecting me and hurting me.I am loved and accepted by God that is whats important.
I too I’m trying to come to terms with exactly the same as you. It’s a hard pill to swallow but I love God with all my heart and it’s him that keeps me going and facing another day🙏🏼cling to Jesus and never let go!
When we HEAL, the Lord will then REVEAL. We often time attract who we are. Like spirits are familiar. It’s great to just focus on Him. He can heal those areas and then we will draw to ourselves from that healed place and not the place of trauma.
I learned to love myself and appreciate myself. It’s a powerful feeling
I'm 35. Only now beginning to heal from childhood trauma. Have never opened up to anyone or allowed anyone close enough for meaningful relationships because I could never trust people. I still can't because ny family has never been stable or safe. My whole life has been survival mode. However, the latest rejection and betrayal from family really caused me to face the deep wounds I've been hiding from and in the pain, I'm learning to trust only in God. If all I've been through has brought me to knowledge of and relationship with Him, then it was all worth it. He is the only Father, Friend, Counselor and Lover of my soul that I need. It's been a lonely road and it still is but I have Hope.
I can relate to the story, God is truly healing my heart. He’s the only one that can heal the broken hearted and give us a new life.
I’m with u and understand 🙏✝️
Me too. Beaten so much that 3 times I passed out. No gives a flying hiney about their off spring anymore. See if I get close to a guy. Beaters. I am 55. I was married for 1.5 years and he throat punched me because I asked for closet space. Yeah no thanks. I flew backwards, somersaulted and thought I was paralyzed or dead. Try to hurt me now. I am a Tae Kwon Do, girl. 😂
Oh, and been a Christian my whole life. Even DJd in a Christian radio station.
I can relate as well 🫂❤️🩹
Jesus came from the line of Judah, Leah's son. I love RT!
NOT BEFORE GOD killed off his 2 wicked sons and his Canaanite wife dies!!
He then wanted to BURN the prostituted TAMAR until he was then shown her righteousness before God......Judah then Marries Tamar and THIS then is the SEED that brings in the BREACH to the earthly throne.........as God has a BACK-UP plan in place where HE overthrows the CROWN 3 times to ZARA from Perez.....
The SAX sons of Isaac are then given the CROWN and the blessings prophesied from God to SARAH......
United in Jack 🇬🇧 as GREAT BRI-TISH ( Hebrew Man) of the covenant!
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I have felt unloved by every man in my life. When I got saved I was crying so much because Jesus is good! I struggle still a lot that He loves me, but I know Im
wrongfully projecting my human experience on him but it is something I have to work on daily. God is good!
I hear your pain and can identify with you. Jesus has proved to me that He is all sufficient and truly all I will ever need. No man can ever be that. Its wonderful to be content with Jesus' love - He's the fairest of ten thousand and becomes our Betrothed! How wonderful ❤
Many years ago (I’ve been married 40 years now), I shared with my spiritual mom about my plight in my marriage. My husbands heart was driven from me, and no he longer touched me. I shared the despair, and sorrow. She replied “God will give/send love in other ways.” I didn’t understand that because I wanted my husbands love. Well I understand now. My children have been the vehicle of that love I so craved, and of course the love of God shed/filled my heart in my many moments of despair! There are other loves other than the love of a mate we can learn to receive, and yes thrive in! Pray through sisters, the best is yet to be!!
Thank you for sharing your testimony.
@@evasibrava6895 oh bless you, your welcome!!
I DO need to be loved by a man I love!!! 😢❤ I need to give and receive love by GOD first, then by a man I LOVE WHO LOVES ME. NOTHING ELSE WILL DO BUT BEING LOVED BY JESUS CHRIST ❤ AND A MAN I LOVE WHO LOVES ME!!! NOTHING ELSE will do!!!
@@Mary-c5l8o a number of years ago I went to an Elizabeth Elliot conference in NJ. To hear her say one sentence that has stayed with me since; ‘it is safest in the center of Gods will.’ What that looks like for you or myself, only God knows. Different paths, but one goal, to do life Gods way! Stay in His presence, and seek His will, read His word, Gods best to you!
Perhaps he was having an affair or was involved with pornography. Neither of those is a reflection of you, but a reflection of his brokenness. You did not create his mess, and you can not heal him. Only God can address this. It's bugger than you. Pr*n messes with a man's mind. I pray that God will reveal the truth and direct your path. Know you are valued and a beautiful wife. He is the broken one. You are God's beautiful woman, a precious gift given to your husband. No matter what he does, it doesnt change your beauty, your light, and your value. Shine on.
A woman can do anything and everything under the sun to gain a man''s love but never gain it . . . A man can love you at the start and become abusive later . . . There is just no guarantee about everlasting love when it comes to human beings . Only God can love unconditionally and forever . . . Human beings look at others through human eyes . . .
Lord, comfort each person who feels unloved and reveal to them Your love and compassion. When my mother and father forsake me, God will not leave me. He will always love us. Praise God!
I’m an unloved woman. But love by God. I am unloved by people around me, since I was a child.
The love of God is ENOUGH, is COMPLETE, is PERFECT, and the only love that fully satisfies the longings of the human heart for love.
GOD LOVES YOU!
Praise the LORD!
Well I love you, and you are not alone. God bless you!
Me too! But realize that God gardens that rejection into sanctification. He sits with you in your loneliness, rejection and pain. But he is separating you for himself. How precious it is! My whole life was like this, and now I am old, and grateful for the path he led me on. It allowed me to see through the deception of “world“ and set my heart more and more on Him alone. God bless you, friend. You are very un-alone! Perhaps God will allow you and me to sit together, sometime in heaven, giving him glory that we are, and will never be alone. Never be rejected. We will be wanted, enough, suitable, and refined like pure gold.
There is a man Tim Fletcher who speaks a lot about how to deal with rejection, abandonment, complex trauma etc.
he is Canadian and a Christian as well.
He has many talks on guilt, shame too.
God does not want us burdened He wants us free...
I in part understand your pain + isolation that can occur- Stay close to God, His Word and Christ- the Love of God IS incredible
and untimely... we can only have complete trust in God.
May the Spirit of truth- the Holy Spirit guid you into greater Truths and YOU coming to KNOW your inheritance in our Amazing living God.
His plans are good and His mercy endures forever.
@@meleshenko3767 Beautifully said.
I have been divorced, abandoned, rejected, and Barren for 33 years. Life hasn’t been easy for me. By the grace of God, I am still here hallelujah. 🙌❤️🙏
Someone please pray for me. I identify so much with Leah and Hosea in this season and I give up every single day.
Praying for you
I truly needed this message today. I am the unloved woman. Abused, tortured, barren and in a loveless marriage, the 5th one. I was just looking in the mirror yesterday, thinking, "I have never truly been loved by any man except the Lord Jesus Christ. What is wrong with me? " I know the Lord saved and delivered me from my tormentors and preserved my life, but I always felt left out of normal women's life experiences of being loved by my husband AND having a baby. I am now in 65th year and I needed this message, this day, this very hour. Thank you for being obedient and preaching this message at the right time for it to come up in my feed. Thank You, Father for reminding me that I am Loved and I will praise You. ❤🔥💓🙏🙌
So many women are unlucky and unloved.
So many like us.....
So many of us feel unloved, I think I do not love myself. I have been married 49 years and my husband says he loves me. I do not have any children and I feel useless in my old age 72 yrs. I now often dream I am lost and can't find my way home. Please pray for me if you read this. I have been a born again christian for many years.
@@Christine-j7b I am reading this right now and I'm praying for you to be strengthened and comforted in the Holy Spirit. I have similar dreams as well. I am lost in my old childhood neighborhoos and I can't find my way home. Just remember what the Lord said about you. That the spiritual children of the desolate one will be more than the children of the married wife. Praying and believing on your behalf in the Name of Jesus, Yeshua Messiah.
@@Christine-j7b So sorry to hear that. Reading it I wondered if you are traumatised?! Ever thought about psychotherapy? Always remember that God loves you: he lay his life down at the cross for you! He did this to make you heal - on the inside! Maybe Lisa TerKeurst's channel would be something I can recommend you?! It helped me a lot already: Therapy & Theology. I pray for you 🛐
I was married nearly 25 years to a narcissistist. A man who cheated, lied. He was physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and financially abusive. Although I supported his military career nearly 20 years, I was not compensated, nor did I receive any compensation. But God is good! Before I married him, God was my groom. God is my Protector, Doctor, my Comforter and all! Thank you Jesus Christ!❤❤❤
God bless you sister! I’m walking a similar walk. Stay strong in the Lord. Titus 2:13 🙏🏼🤍🦾
@daughteroftherisenking Praying God wrap His loving arms around you. May He strengthen, comfort & fill you w peace. Peace that far surpasses all understanding. Refreshing your mind, body & spirit. 💯☝️🤗
I am so very loved and cherished by God and that is all that truely matters.
I'm a single mom with two major failed/toxic relationships. Ever since I came across the proverb about how the earth itself couldn't bear an unloved woman, I've identified with that. I haven't been able to ever embrace being anything but unlovable. Broken. Isaiah 54 was read to me and the passage became an anchor... I've had times that I have seen what a privilege it is to be so dependent on God, perhaps even much closer to Him than I would be if I were married. But loneliness can be just awful and pervasive. I also did not imagine that my days of having children would already be over, that it would be this way. This sermon will touch many hearts. I'll keep looking to God for the love I need.
I was alone raising my kids no family nothing but jesus the loneliness was overwhelming, I'm 50 now kids raised jesus gave me a beautiful husband he is faithful I wouldn't be the woman I am now without just having jesus❤ he is faithful ✝️
I have never come across anyone who has mentioned Isaiah 54. The Lord gave me that chapter 5 years before my husband passed away. I didn’t understand at the time and a week after he passed away it came back to me. The Lord is my husband, but then it goes on to say some other things That were very important to me that I didn’t understand at the time and I understood after his death. I thank the Lord so many times for that chapter and referred to it many times during my prayers , asking the Lord to let me just be satisfied with him and not need to have another man in my life! Marriage is difficult. It’s not always wonderful and it’s even harder when one of you is committed to the Lord and doing what the father wants and the other one seems like they are, but in reality, they’re having one foot in the world, and the other foot somewhat planted in in the church not really entering in not really living obediently to Christ!
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@@Geebaby1968 | Your faith and trust in the Lord are commendable; and yes, He will always be near to them who love Him.
But He is not your husband.
Isaiah 54 is a loveletter to Messiah Jesus' ONE and ONLY wife (and bride also of course). Her name is 'Jerusalem'.
@@banner-fq8ln I totally understand what you’re saying but the father just reminded me through this chapter that he is always with me like a husband example would be in a marriage. That covenant of support protection provision etc.
I am the unloved woman. Never loved by my biological father, never loved by my husband of 14 yrs. A few weeks ago I actually prayed that prayer, " Lord, I have never ever been loved by any man, and I struggle to relate to you as my Father and lover of my soul" . It's a message meant for those truly living it. To anyone with a different reality, we celebrate you. But please be kind and don't judge 🙏🏾
I also struggle with trusting God.
Amen .
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@@JT-ds8gh, thank you for sharing this.. I feel so ashamed that I struggle as well🙏🫂
I understand and I’ve been there. Please know that most of these men are broken and don’t know how to love or wasn’t raised on love. To be unloved is a painful feeling. A broken man will never love properly, it will take God. Don’t ever blame yourself or feel ashamed. I had to really encourage myself and stay in Gods word and stay in church. When I tell you it’s God that’s is really keeping my mind. I pray and bind the enemy everyday because the enemy wants your mind and wants you to keep feeling like this. Stay in God and in his will and I promise you. You will feel so loved. Yes it hurts and it painful. Put God and his son Jesus will keep you. And the Holy Spirit is a comforter. Blessings to you!!👑🙌🏽🙏🏽
This time, I WILL praise the Lord. I have been called a failure to my face by two siblings. It hurt like no other hurt I've taken since divorcing someone popular and successful who took my children after he left me too broke to get a real lawyer. He married an atty he cheated with who could not have kids. I kept my right mind because my hands are clean and I actually do know the Lord for myself. Every step I take is in the live view of the Living God.
I see a lot of woman confirming they are unloved. But don’t you realise God loves us? He chose woman to birth the king.. he absolutely adores us. Don’t allow the enemy to put those words into your mouth. You aren’t unloved you are loved. This story tells a tale of even when everyone doesn’t love us, God does. And he sees us in our pain and rejection.
Amen
I’m seeing that a lot too! Many posts of I’m unloved- my husband, I’m divorced twice etc. these women are actually with men/were with men. Did they think the men married them because they hated them? They need to understand how men love and it looks nothing like how women love. In fact sometimes it can be misinterpreted. Seriously women need to take a step back before labeling themselves as unloved. And God loves us, we’re supposed to find our fulfillment in Him and show love to those around us, not try to take from them.
Amen
I see a lack of compassion from your comment to hurting women. God is the father of compassion. We are women, we can understand each other, so have compassion. Of course God's love is ultimate, but understand a person's sadness too. A big part of Leah's story, calls us to have compassion and to cry with her and her children. When you cry with someone, you can help rise them too. Otherwise you're just beating them down. You won't be able to pray for them nor be a reflection of Jesus.
@@crestalee6968thank you for that comment….a woman has feelings and emotions and nothing hurts like the rejection of the man who you have invested yourself to…who was supposed to love you, cherish you and protect you. It is a pain that cuts deep. That doesn’t mean we don’t know the Saviour’s love….but we are human, and when a husband breaks the covenant of marriage, it only hurts more to have someone with no compassion diminish your pain.
I am astounded by this message. Thank You, God for allowing me to hear this and be changed by it. I am an unloved woman who is loved deeply by You. This time I WILL PRAISE THE LORD! ✝️✡️🩸🔥
"This time, I will just love the Lord." >> such powerful words right there.
Unloved woman here. Divorced, abandoned, rejected, neglected, barren and betrayed by everyone I ever loved. This message has truly truly truly blessed me in my season of waiting. Coming across this message in this season is no mistake.
This time, I will praise the Lord! 🗣️🔊 God knows 🙌🏾❤️🩹♥️♥️🛐🐛🦋
I have loved but never been loved in return, except by my children. I am numb because when I ponder on it, the very depths of my soul cry out in such pain. It's better to keep it buried.
Let it spill out and up to heaven a little at a time. Many times someone needs to go back and forth from thanksgiving, praise, and supplication prayers.
There are so many of us who feel as you do. I think sharing our pain as we are doing even here is so helpful to know that we are not alone and that others are experiencing the same thing. I attempt to express my pain and my joy in simple ways that are meaningful to me and sometimes it's a poem, song, or simple art project that can be shared with others. It's a safe an effective way to let it out.
I can relate. It’s okay to write about it.
Well...most of us aren't loved sister. I just compliment my sisters when I'm out. Hang in there. It's an epidemic.
To all of you suffering this way: I suffer with you. Although it is absolutely horrific... the thought that I can suffer alongside you and pray for you, knowing what you're going through first hand... I don't know how to say it, but I'm happy I feel you close in the darkness, knowing this darkness is temporary! If we suffer with Jesus, we WILL rise with Him. I pray for you as we labor together, let your pain bring you closer to Him and HE WILL NOT FAIL YOU. Keep your heart as a clean and welcoming home for Him.
Through all possible nightmares, He has kept me sane and safe. Despite terrible blows of indifference, neglect and lies of hate, through loss of children and health, HE answered me and made me feel His love. I feel like a living miracle. Keep fighting ❤ what if your sacrifice becomes a salvation for those who hurt you, and for those who don't know God? It's too good of an opportunity to waste.
BEAUTIFUL POST!!! THANK YOU!!! Some of us have "been in the trenches" and unless you have been there you can NEVER understand! GOD BLESS YOU!! From one "daughter of the King" to another! ALL my love in Christ!
Can we create a group chat for women who are having trouble finding a partner for emotional support?? I think this will Bless so many of us
That would be so beautiful ❤
Please include me!! My husband is on the autism spectrum and he does not love me in a way I feel it, tho he sometimes tries to.
Yes please
One thing i know, i am loved by God. I am never unloved.
I realised this in my life when asking for the bare minimum seemed like a great inconvenience. I am thankful to God for his love otherwise I would have been lost.
This time, I will praise Him🕊️🙏
I want to be loved…here on earth!
I hear you! I hear you, but I came to the stark realisation a couple of years ago that not everybody gets to be loved (by parents, by a man or woman) in their earthly life, but wow! JESUS has the most awesome and crazy love for us. I have become content with His love ❤ In Isaiah ch54 v5&6 "For your Maker is your husband..." Amen. Be blessed 🙏🏽
I have never heard this man speak, but my God did I need this message tonight. Thank you so much!
I've been feeling so unloved lately. This video kept coming up as a suggestion but I kept ignoring it. Finally watched it. I'm so glad I did. I will praise God!!
Being unloved all my life. Its painful and dauhting at times. I was rejected my mother and it carried through my life. I was always kind and longed to be loved. I too experienced divorce twice. The last marriage was a living nightmare where i almost ended my life. But God stepped in and took me on incredible journey of recovery but little did i know he was preparing me for an incredible assignment that would impact people around the world. God used my loneliness, rejections and pain for a greater purpose. Being single I was able to devote every part of myself to a very important call that i actually sensed even in my youth. Though i wouldn't wish this kind if pain and grief on anyone BUT God used it to saving of many lives. I had to go through a riguous restoration process and commit to the change no matter how difficult it was. God shined his light on that path. To God be the Glory
Amen! 🎉
What an amazing story. May I ask what your incredible assignment was?
@@motheryuba57 I had to give a very important message to a Global pastor then the message was passed to many other pastors around the world that would help prepare the church for the coming of our Lord Jesus. It completely shocked the pastors how God chose to do this. It really got their attention. During this time lots of people that suffered the way I did were getting saved and set free. Little did I know this pastor needed this message personally for himself. Need less to say I was overwhelmed with amazement in God using me for this task. I never would have dreamed it in a million years. It's true He would do exceedly and abundantly far above that we can imagine. If only we are willing to do whatever it takes to overcome the issues in our life. I was actually in a state of complete desperation when it all began. There is much more to this story but this is in the most compact form I could say about it in a message like this. Thanks for asking.
@@evasibrava6895 please share more for us here Eva, we praise the Lord 🙏
It would be nice to hear more about it! I feel similar, that bad things happened to me will be because of something greater. Regards from Finland!!!😊❤️Where do you live???
I was a unloved woman until I got married 11years ago . Now I'm praising the Lord moe than ever.
Am married and not even loved
If not for my daughter,that came out the marriage.
I regret the day i got married.
I pray that God gives me grace to forgive myself, how couldnt i see the lies, hypocricy from my husband, indeed “ love” is blind.
Now a single mother 7yrs,
Believe it or not, I found out this very morning, how much loved and appreciated I am.
God truly DOES work in mysterious ways......amen? I needed this RIGHT NOW! TODAY! Who else cried in the end? I did.......ALL GLORY TO GOD for this amazing message. My father DID NOT love me, my husband never loved me and I have been in misery......I WILL PRAISE THE LORD! THANK YOU JESUS!
I just clicked on this and feel like sobbing just seeing the title
When I decided to stop trying to get the love I desperately needed from my husband, and become intimately know and loved by Father God instead, everything changed! I no longer lived like a wounded, broken soul, but knelt at the cross of my Jesus and handed everything over to Him instead. I never felt so free! And the added bonus was my husband could see the change in me and pursued God more himself, and we now have the most wonderful, loving marriage. So thankful!
44 years old. Always single. Never had a relationship before. I've tried so hard to improve on myself. I've asked men out before and I have always been turned down. I'm not bad looking, maintain a healthy weight. I have a good job and I'm never chosen. There isn't a single man on this Earth that will look twice at me.
I'm very slowly and gradually accepting my fate as a single person.
I guess it's just that God doesn't want to share me with a husband. I have to believe that He has a higher purpose and calling for me than other women.
It is better than living in a loveless marriage. Imagine feeling unworthy and unappreciated every single day. Count your blessings. ❤ never settle!!!!!!
Use Christian dating apps and be okay with dating much older men.
@@ServantOfYHWHwhy should she be ok with dating much older. If she is not then being single is also ok.
I am not certain about "higher purpose". Different for sure❤
A true Christian man would totally reject a woman who asks him out. That is not your place. That is his job. Read about biblical submission. Maybe that would help you.
I am reading all these msgs of unloved women. My encouragement to all of you....Jesus came into this world not offending anyone and He was hated. And that should give us hope no matter what good you do to be accepted and loved not everyone will love you. Jesus was hated and so you will be hated... especially when you are truthful. God loves us and that is all we need in this world.
I am unloved in this world even though I have a husband, a father, a brother, a pastor... No male figures love me. Even females. For some reason I am alone even though I am surrounded. No one checks on me nor do I have anyone for a heart to heart conversation.
This message encouraged me. Thanks
I lose people when I am truthful.
I was with my
Husband 23 yrs. I loved him always. I did not receive love back. We separated 12 yrs ago, he got into a relationship with my cousin before we’re were broken up. He still with her. I raised our daughters through the teen years alone. It was hard. It was traumatizing. I’m still healing. God is all I got.
He just told me I’m just like used toilet paper… he can’t shake me off his hands.
Years of abuse and no escape because he’s isolated and cut me off from all escape.
I’d appreciate your prayers.
And this just came up on my feeds
Contact your local women’s shelter and Domestic Violence hotline. There is a way out.
Your worth is 100%, don’t let anyone change your perception of that truth due to their behaviour. I hope you find a way out of the situation. You deserve so much better ❤
I volunteered at a domestic abuse/violence shelter and learned a lot.
THERE ARE SECRET WAYS THEY WORK TO HELP KEEP YOUR CONTACT with them FROM YOUR ABUSER. Please know God is enraged that this man is hurting you, his daughter. He is FOR you and WILL help you if you trust him and step out in faith. He is not wanting you to obey an abuser. Only Him because He TRULY loves you.
Praying for you 🙏🌹🤍 from the UK....Dear sister you don't get your validation from any man. Your worth is so much more to the one who delights in you. I pray that you get that revelation deeply inside your heart so you can feel and know how much you are loved and His love lifts you up where you belong just like the song....only the love of God our heavenly Father is what really matters in this loveless world.
I pray God will strengthen you to walk away and I pray that He will make a way for you to get out. Love and hugs 🤍
I don't even know how this came across my feed, but I have been Unloved All My Life. I Thank God for this message, because He Knows that I Needed to Hear it. May God Bless this man and this Word.
I PRAY THAT IT REACHES EVERY UNLOVED WOMAN THAT NEEDS TO HEAR IT. IN JESUS NAME I PRAY!
AMEN AND AMEN 🙏🏽 🙌
Thank you God the Father for this message. I came across it while strolling. Never seen this minister before. Much needed in my life at this time of being separated from my husband. Thank you God for being loved by God
This time, I will praise the Lord 🙌🙌🙌
It is so tiring to date. Men want what they want, when they want, how they want, and it is always lustful and ungodly. Honestly? I am tired of explaining my faith and seeing how they cannot handle a godly courtship. I don't even CARE to date now. Not worth the heartache and tired of the rejection. Grow up. Act like men and put away your childish ways. They do not even know HOW to court a woman. So if never find a compatible godly man in this world? I am old enough now to not care. God knows my heart. Jesus loves me. I am a successful and healthy person in this cursed world. And am in need of nothing. Jesus takes care of me. I want to please God and make Him proud that He made me. My sanctification and obedience is EVERYTHING to me. Jesus loves me. It's all I need.
Use Christian dating apps and be okay with dating an older man.
Have you tried meeting a good man in church…🙏🏻🥹
I think you have chosen well. I won't bash men because I have met some wonderful Christian men and their wives are very blessed to have them. However, there are a lot of creeps out there -- men who pretend to be what you're looking for and try to trick you into a lustful relationship. The creeps can also be married men only pretending to be single. The creeps go to church when they feel 'lonely' -- in fact, many say that it's the best way to meet women, whom they use and throw away like paper plates. It isn't a woman's job to find a husband, so don't go on dating websites, etc. It's a man's job to find a wife. If it's God's will that you marry, He will arrange it. If you never get married, you will have saved yourself lots of trouble, sin, degradation and possible danger by not making yourself available to strange men. Be discerning. If none of your godly friends or pastor know the man, stay away. It isn't a woman's job to evangelize strange men. Leave that to your brothers in Christ.
@@ServantOfYHWH there are predators on those apps; they view potential victims as lonely and desperate.
@@gretabarrs7810 😢
60 never married but I was loved by my parents. Lost both over 20 years ago and have been alone and “unloved” since. Church is the hardest part as there is no place for a single woman.
You can join our family.
Psalm 68:6
Women in the church started side eyeing me when I became single. They were all married. There was no place for me.
@@kimberlydeleanu6806that’s how it seems to be for me too. I recently was asked by a young mother if I felt a sense of community and said “ not really”( she’s not in my church parish ) and ever since then somehow the honesty really freed me and every day I keep a gratitude list - I pray more - and each day I write cards to people and remind them of all the positive memories and experiences- or what ever I am grateful for - I also draw and play my piano just a little if I can’t play or do a lot of music and art . I work at helping with volunteering to get better people in our public office positions- and mainly am able to quit pretending that I am happy when I experience the emotions I do - I experience them alone and can express many different ways. ! I do a “ new “ thing each day and make my days all different . Since I realized I could be honest and check in with my own emotions - it’s been good news and blessings from all over . I have felt unloved yes but my mother always taught me to offer the suffering up to God . I do not understand why it’s been the way with my life but I know God works in mysterious ways . I can imagine God needs some people here on earth that are listening . And can devote more to different things .
You could create a group for single women in church.
@@soldbytammybryant good idea . I have recently gotten some people’s numbers - at least that’s a start. !
My children are estranged from me, I did not abuse them and raised them practically alone as my husband and I had many breakups. I left him and went to school to be an RN so I could make a home and do things for my kids. I do not know why they just started gradually erasing me from their life. I love them so much and it's broken my heart. They never text or call or return my messages. I pray and get closer to Jesus and he has saved my life. This sermon really made me cry, so glad I found it
Bless you sometimes people do what they do on their path.God loves you
I’m so sorry dear one. As a mother with one son I think about how children are breaking their mother’s hearts when they grow up. I hate the times we are living in. I’m praying for you. That God restores your relationship with your children. It’s not you but the enemy comes to destroy families 😢
@@michellemckenna8592 thank you ❤️
@@kscott7657 thank you❤️
I am a nurse and I know several that have kids that resent their mother's. I think it's because we left them to go work. We should have been home with them more. I raised mine w/o any child support help. Father was a deadbeat. Now, they love him.
I feel this way always. Unloved, unseen and unheard. I suppose in this world you have to be of exceptional beauty to be noticed but Jesus sees us always.
It doesn't take exceptional physical beauty to get the attention of a godly single man who is looking for a wife. Exceptional beauty definitely attracts all the lustful, ungodly, unsaved men that you would rather be invisible to. But you're right about Jesus -- we are not invisible to Him.
@@cannaryboy4195I am 5 10, natural blonde, blue eyes and it is a problem. Guys just look. But when they find out I won't sleep with them, I don't even let them take me anywhere or buy me food so I won't OWE them anything. Now that I am mid 50s and have gained weight no one looks at me at all. They just look at the body.
That's not true Shani. The lord has kept you hidden because you are precious. The one the lord has for you will find you and will love you just the way you are. It happens when you let go all attachment to wanting a man in your life and transforming to be content by yourself in Christ.
Unloved by man, LOVED by God🙏✨️
I am an unloved woman, looking back on my life, I realise no-one has ever really loved me, and now having to have tests for suspected cancer, my family are not interested, so I have to face this alone.
I know that I have precious time with the Lord because I have so much spare time, I pray for my family a lot, and have come to realise, to an extent the Lord’s love for me. I do a lot of Bible study and listen to a lot of sermons.
There is a purpose for everything, maybe being closer to the Lord is the purpose.
I know I can live without other people, I cannot live without the Lord. Sometimes are harder than others, this is one of those times.
Be healed in Jesus mighty name!
The tests are negative in the mighty name of Jesus! You are well, you are whole 🙏🏾❤️
We pray for megative test results.
I will be praying for you dear.
@@holistically_nicki God bless you.
It’s 4 am. I just listened to this beautiful reminder that only God can fill my need to be loved and cherished. No human being can completely do this. People will always let me down and I will always let people down but if I live for the audience of One and not the approval of “man” I am on the road to undeniable victory. Ps Dr. Kendall I love all your books that you have written especially Total Forgiveness and the Audience of One. Thank you for your endurance!
Amen ❣️❣️❣️
I am an unloved woman. I will praise the Lord.
Nope. I LOVE YOU! ❤ HANG IN THERE!
My son hates me and it's just recently set up in his heart. Satan has been attacking me like crazy since i heard the lords voice and believed him. He is the great I Am and our Lord Jesus is coming back to get his unloved Bride and he's going to cover her completely in his love ❤
My son hates me too. I did my very best to love him and raise him to know God, but he has become a satanist and made up all kinds of twisted, slanderous accusations against me, now that he has chosen the father of lies and the accuser of the brethren over the God of Love. Please pray for his soul!!!!! He is terribly deceived.
Praying for you and your sons reconciliation
Thanks! And that he reconciles with God, too!
Praying for your son @@maryd6068
Halleujah! Come Lord Jesus! And turn these lost children back to Yourself. Amen.
I prayed for 50 years for a husband and a home. Now, at 72 I have had neither. But, it's ok.
Believe me you're better off being single than having a husband. Enjoy your life. And stay close to God.
To My Brother and My Sister in Christ, Please realize You are not the only one who was Born into a Loveless family. There are Hundreds of Thousands of US !
Remember it is the darkness in Your Siblings or even Your Mom or Your Dad who have no Understanding, Empathy nor Compassion for You because their eyes are Blinded because of the Lust for the Material things of This World. Please be Comforted to know You not the only one. Just TRULY apply Your entire Life to understand the TRUE definition of the word (ALL) and seek to Fulfill it!
You're are Victorious and are Loved beyond Your Understanding!
Now be filled with joy because I know of Your Emotional Trauma and Pain! You're Chosen!!!
Lord Christ Jesus bless you greatly! 🙏🏽 ♥️ Thank you for the comfort and true promise!
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Amen! Thank you God Bless you 🙏🙏
Pray for healing
@@meleshenko3767 You're Welcome....this day remember you only have control of what is in your Hands!
Also control the MIND and don't Let the MIND control You!
You're not alone in Your Brokenness 💔...
We are Many ✝️💯🌹🙏👈