This is a reminder to have self love and self respect. Nothing a man has, should make you want to accept toxicity or disrespect; it doesn't matter who it is. This is an example of the kind of man you shouldn't be dating.
Yeah he a fool till one of yall run cross that bag.. women been manipulating since the beginning of time, that guy see what the world is and can do as he will. Everybody still going to tune in to him because he is who he is.. a broke man couldn’t pull it off but he can
All I heard was him stating that being trash is normal and should be expected of men. Him saying that he knows how to turn on the perfect man is him saying plain as day that he's a wolf in sheep's clothing. But it's funny because you can look at Nick and tell he's not to be taken seriously. He's always been a cornball and acts like a perpetual teenager. I knew Mariah was only with him for his sperm. I don't believe that was love.
@iamdivinefem333 he wasn't trying to hear that tho because that's who he is. So if he can pass it off like every man or person is like that then he just looks like everyone else so it's just normal and expected. But we're not
And those with "pure heart" are the ones who get manipulated.. so, the best thing you can do is to learn to manipulate in order to not be vulnerable, Nick is kinda right on this one.
@@alexrodrigoUK no offense, but that's a defeated attitude. There's no excuse for manipulating people to get what you want. That means you have no actual confidence in who you are as a person. You don't think you are deserving of good things, so you pretend to be someone else. It's cowardly. Everyone gets rejected or harmed, it doesn't mean we have to become the people who harm us. 💛💛💛
I'm 37 and retired, own two businesses, and a man with "good hands" and a plane would not peak my interest and certainly wouldn't get in my bed. I think the more shameful part is that he thinks that bc he has those things he can get a high value relationship.
@@daniellemarie65 I agree. I thought Dr. Bryant was there to counsel him. But what's the point of him talking to her if he isn't going to listen? It doesn't make sense.
I also want to say this...Nick is successful..financially successful..there is nothing any of his kids could ask for that he can't pay for....butt what if one if his kids say "dad..I just wanna see you..spend some time with you"..would his child have to then be put on a schedule just to spend with his father...money relieves some stress in life..but certain things in life require more or less than money..especially when you're a parent..in my humble opinion..periodt
@@makedramccanYes they would need to get with his assistant and get put on the schedule. One of his child’s mothers was talking about how good of a father he is because he never misses anything that she reaches out to his assistant to add to his calendar to attend for his children. So I’m certain once the children are old enough they will have the liberty of booking their own time with his assistant to spend time with him
Over talking the woman who can see through your B.S says a lot about who he is. He’s too busy trying to cover up his flaws than to admit he is the problem!
His immaturity still shows clearly through this video. What she was saying to him was triggering him enough to where he didn’t even want her to finish her sentences. 🤦🏾♀️
@@winning3329 exactly. Women are constantly being held accountable for the actions of these types of men. And while you can catch some red flags, you can't predict everything that a master manipulator will do. The best thing we can do is leave when we're supposed to.
@@UberEats-hz9io Did he not admit he would be anything a woman wanted him to be? Anybody can be fooled by a wolf in sheep clothing. Either way he's preying on women with some unresolved issues. That's what a predator does.
@@CB-hn6ei Telling him to be better is going to work? That’s like telling criminals to stop being criminals instead of telling people to be careful with their belongings
Well the choose better argument isn’t even relevant because the REAL issue is that it’s a MAJORITY. And you can’t tell them nothing because they are too arrogant and prideful to listen. Thats why you are seeing more and more of us date out🤷🏽♀️
@@CB-hn6ei but a high functioning woman would see through that. Choose better for YOU and your future kids not to please men's perception of you. If you allow god to guide you in your life, you won't be dealing with Nick Cannons. There a many layers to healing so always be aware of why these men are drawn to you and why you them.
Nick could have been manipulative with that statement, trying to paint all Men, and everyone as manipulative to justify doing it to women. I'm glad the lady interjected, even though he ended up talking over her.
I knew before I even saw this video that he likes to run game. If you know, you know. Not every woman is going to fall for this. I'll take my regular, working class husband over this any day. Money isn't everything.
This is nothing new. Most men start out by introducing you to their representative. They act like a great guy. They treat you well and portray themselves as better than they really are. But once they believe you’re hooked, off comes the mask. You finally get to meet the real them ( toxic Nick). Then you find yourself confused and striving to get back to when things were good, like they were in the beginning. That’s not going to happen because that was never the real him. That was a character he played. That was him exerting a great deal of energy into trapping you. You’re chasing an illusion. Men do it because it works for them. They get the girl. It doesn’t matter that you’re unhappy. You’re theirs. If this happens to you you aren’t alone. It’s the norm. Stop wasting time trying to turn him back into Prince Charming. Walk away. You got, got. It doesn’t get better. Learn to wait for the mask to drop before catching feelings. Because the real person is the one you need to love and like for a healthy longterm relationship.
True, and once you’re blessed to get unhooked, go no contact because if they’re low on supply they will start back with the confusion trying to get you to fall for them again.
Ok but it’s no surprise. He’s simply saying what he and a lot of men have been doing for years now. Only difference is these other men won’t admit it. It’s not at all okay but these type of men don’t take any real accountability and are usually set in their ways. Yet they tell us women to choose better when it’s not really fair to say that since there are some really good pretenders out there.
He's hurting.. he reminds me of my dad, so trapped in pain will hurt those around him to protect his fragile heart. My dad nowadays is stricken with depression, doesn't speak to anyone and thinks everyone is the problem even though he can't explain why lol his control issues have ruined his life
@@billycothran5989 He said that with his chest. Why does he have to be toxic at all? It says alot about him. If he liked himself, he wouldn't have to pretend to be someone else.
When we are afraid or not ready to see ourselves for who we really are we try to over talk so we can't even hear the truth. One day he will look into the proverbial mirror and see for himself what she is attempting to tell him. He simply is not ready. He needs to have that come to himself moment.
Both are correct. The argument comes because he revealed a tactic that most don’t speak on. My father told me early on the game is to be sold not told.
He just hasn't met his match. I real woman would see through his crap. I've seen guys like him, imitating a christian man, but because of my faith, God allowed me not to completely fall for those tricks! I saw through the smoke screen b4 it was too late.
Dudes have been going in on Dr. Bryant and I don’t really get it. As a black married man I saw no lies in what she said and no man who has a real issue with her hasn’t said anything that she stated that was factually incorrect. The most common issue has been her qualifications or how she dressed for Cam. I understand that, but some of those same men loved Kevin Samuels regardless of his shortcomings. The way I see it both Kevin and Dr. Bryant have had obvious relationship failures but they have both made valid points in spite of their lack of relational success. Their failures could’ve played into their perspectives perhaps. However, the thing I think some men aren’t seeing is if you look at both Cam and Nick’s interviews they both openly admit troubling behavior that could impact children in a bad way. Also, they have openly admitted flawed thinking like Nick admitting to predatory behavior or Cam having a current girlfriend pregnant while saying he’s still looking for a wife and wants more children. That’s a bad look regardless if he has the money because it’s selfish and a complete disregard of her as a person. It’s pretty weird to tie yourself to women you don’t want to marry but want to make more babies while saying you fear marriage. That support is going to be crazy for years not to mention how you can’t adequately parent from multiple house holds. Meanwhile in regards to the women, we can acknowledge they willingly had their children and are equally responsible, but we didn’t hear their toxicity. We didn’t hear any of the baby mamma’s discuss how they lied about being on birth control or how they have a nursery full of rich Mens babies. For all we know they are just “pick me” women who got played. Maybe more of the baby mamas will share their story.
He is stating so plainly that he presents women with a facade of a perfect guy. He seems pretty impressed with himself that he has done this to so many women. How sad.
Many years ago, someone I know (a man) met him before he was super infamous. NC was trying to hang with the guy I know and his friends, they told him no because he was lame and weird. This was either during or shortly after him being on All That/Nickelodeon, when he was in his early 20s. This man is traumatized.
Due to his wealth and status he has women bowing down to be with him, therefore he sees himself as the prize. These women do not care about his toxic traits. He will go on to father more children with more women because he can and the women will happily welcome him into their bed.
He’s not worth talking too!!!!! He’s a man with money as the “answer” with no answers 🤦🏾♀️ he likes to hear only himself speak because others may tell him the truth which would make him feel his power is relinquished and he’s holding on tight to his flesh ridden power scared to death of what he might face if he lets go which is the truth and enlightenment and punishment although he knows he is being punished now for his wrong doings it’s glittery with the money on top so he settles 🤦🏾♀️
@@lakeofalltrades I agree. He thinks his money makes up for toxicity. If women stop getting pregnant by him, they'll stop feeding his ego and delusions.
I’m so happy men are chiming in on this subject bc usually sisters get dismissed for not celebrating Nick’s decision to procreate with 5011 women. If there is a such thing as “normal”, Nick and his harem don’t meet the criteria.
@@Ava44322 it’s sad that men use God to manipulate women !! That’s even more sad. I don’t need a man to usher me into a relationship with God. I actually had a mama to do that
Dear Nick.. When people meet me they don’t meet my representative, they meet me! Do we have different personas at times, yes, but ultimately who you are at core speaks to your character.
He can pretend to be God-fearing all he wants, but he'll never be!! A God-fearing man can be seen by his fruits! And those fruits can only be attainable through the Holy Spirit!!
He knew she was about to rip him up to shreds! I’m glad she held her own. He was very disrespectful. The overtalk we have amongst one another is something I have to work on especially being raised by masculine women and hanging around men who over talk one another…. Whew gotta learn to 🤫🤫🤫🤫
I’m not going to use the word because people be in they feelings but you see how he can’t even let her talk, you hear what’s coming his mouth ❤if you know you know, and those who survived that energy God Bless you
I remember a time when Nick was considered the lamest of the lame…..how did we get to the point where Nick is being allowed to be the biggest womanizer in society? 😩😩😩. What is going on in the world today. SMH.
We are all fallen. However It’s our purpose in life to cling to God and not to stay down. All this high functioning, high value, independent, attract who you are, buzz words and terms come from a place of pride. It’s people trying to separate and distinguish themselves from “others” by using their gifts as indicators of their value. We fall for the trap of worldly success, and tell ourselves that “Good people“ have or attract “good things”. We fool ourselves and others with the idea that material possessions are the gifts and signs of the Lords favor or signs of a “good life”. I’m a fallen person, i don’t cling to God as tightly as I need to. There is no justification or excuse for that. But because God is merciful I can come back and try again and I will continue this process my whole life. Nick won’t just admit that he’s wrong and that he does bad things (YES as we all do, but that don’t got nothing to do with nothing ). He instead chose to deflect and hide behind “ all men do that” “ all people do that” “well someone is going to want my 🍆 and strong hands and jet and money “ to justify, rationalize, normalize his choice to be manipulative and self serving.
He was not even listening. He was constantly over talking her, so that she couldn't be heard. He is dealing with some internal struggles. She was too much for him. Her last sentence said it all, and so did his. He said, "but you (the women he manipulates) don't even know I'm toxic yet.". Dr. Bryant " a high functioning woman wouldn't even be attracted to you baby.". She hit it on the head. It's not the script you spit. God's anointed, Spiritually discerning, and emotionally intelligent people are able to see beyond your presentation, and see the essence of who you are.
Exactly what women have been saying. You can’t VET this men. That will pretend to be a decent person long enough to manipulate you into getting what they want from you…then bounce or flip the script.
He just don’t know…he on the top now…we gonna see him fall soooo hard…God will show him! He is blessed with Monet tomorrow he could die..or loose EVERYTHING!
this was a hard listen! No matter how much money Nick is paying the good doctor, she really should step away from seeing Nick until he's ready to listen and change..
🤦🏾♂️... So his 10th baby mama was being manipulated as if she was not signing up for what the previous 9 got huh... and she wasn't there for a very specific reason... Knock it of
No one understands why I have always said I wasn’t the most fond of him from how he presents. People show you who they are. She should have just let him speak. Stop trying to make him lie to you about who is. And if he didn’t have the money that he had, these women would not be paying him any mind.
Correction: A toxic man WOULD also be attracted to a high functioning woman, but she's going to leave once he shows his true colors. And because everyone knows Nick has 5837483 kids, luckily they know ahead of time.
@@Ava44322well attraction is probably just the wrong word altogether because physical attraction is just that. It’s who/what we tolerate that make the difference. A toxic man is not going to stick around a woman with boundaries.
As a father of 2 educated adult woman. I gave up the game to my daughters when they were young. Some women allow themselves to be played and manipulated by men. Some women are lured by what a man has or spends on them and let the guard down. Let me make this clear lady’s. The least a man has the least you should question and look at him side ways. That’s often the case. Women over question and see a man in his current situation and judge him. They see a man who has money, a nice house and car and they say ok this brother has it all together not knowing who’s name is on the deed, what his real financial situation is and fall because of the perception instead of the reality. You should question more and be more skeptical of a man who appears to have it all. I am a man who was at the bottom and now on top. That was something any woman could see in me. I left a woman who kept asking about my finances which wasn’t great at the time. How you gonna do this and that and always worried over money. I found this beautiful woman who was just interested in getting to know me. I made myself homeless right when I met her. I moved into her small house and today we live in a bike beautiful home in the suburbs of Dallas. Beautiful cars. I worked hard and got a few raises and just got a BIG raise a few months ago. Not once did my current women worry or bash me about money. My bills were always paid and trips and gifts. Stop judging a man for his current situation because the reality is a man who has nothing can gain it all, a man who has it all can lose it all. I know my woman is with me poor or with money and she knows I know how to get money and I mean legal money.
As a man, I sit here after watching the video and ask for the answers. I dont agree with everything nick had to say, but i do respect his honesty in being himself and what works for him. Thats ultimately what he is looking for. As a black man , i want to know exactly what it is that women want from man so we can honestly tell you if we can meet that expectation or not. High value, low value, high functioning, low functioning whatever. Let's be real with each other so we can break the cycle of this black bitterness towards each other as men and women. Like dam enough already. We really messed up as a community when you stop and think about it. Or should i say we are just lost smh
The answers we usually seek from people are the answers we avoid finding in ourselves. No matter the race, gender, age, humans have needs, these needs are believed to found in something or someone outside of their very own heart, mind and body. The truth is, joy, anger, sadness, peace and more are abundant and all reside in your very own body. We are conditioned to believe that we cannot survive with a woman or a man and they are what we need to look the part of high status or to feel accepted by society and or family or friends. When you choose to love yourself, and acknowledge that you were created perfect inside and out, and accept your very self as God's image of perfection no matter what the world tells you that you are not good or you are bad at, those are projections about themselves and opinions, then you can live a truly fulfilling and prosperous life without having to manipulate people and being tactical to only have people to gain something from them. Peace and Love brotha
Unfortunately it is to women's detriment to tell men what we're looking for in men. That is exactly the reason men like NC are able to manipulate the way he stated in the video. He listened and played the part, then boom toxic guy shows up.
SMH. These dudes embarrassing me as a black man. I don’t like to talk down on nobody but can we get some ppl worth sense on moral in front of these cameras?
Learn to be quiet & listen, let someone tell you who they are & what they genuinely want Usually when we come across souls, it’s merely an experience Learn, love & let go Lessons everyone and everything serves a purpose The only word she didn’t use was DISCERNMENT & it just goes to show how broken people will attempt to consistently paint a picture perfect illusion rather than just showing up as they are & stating simply what they want No this generation has become very superficial, surface level, all common sense & intuition seems to float out the door the moment something “glittery” comes around. Be wise & remain prayed up my beautiful people🤍 There are still pure souls with good intentions around, it’s just the bs loves to always have center stage 🤭
This is a reminder to have self love and self respect. Nothing a man has, should make you want to accept toxicity or disrespect; it doesn't matter who it is. This is an example of the kind of man you shouldn't be dating.
Let a dude talk…he’ll tell u exactly how who he really is..
@@SheistheeTruth exactly. Observe and listen. He can't keep the mask on forever.
Facts!! And they think they’re smarter than the average bear!
All man and womankind usually does 📜 always 📜💊
I wish she would've just let that fool talk.
Yeah he a fool till one of yall run cross that bag.. women been manipulating since the beginning of time, that guy see what the world is and can do as he will. Everybody still going to tune in to him because he is who he is.. a broke man couldn’t pull it off but he can
“A high functioning woman would not attract you.” 💪🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Laid me out!
@@mondocjenson-dy8zd And yet you still chase them I'm sure.
Boom 💥 🤯🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️
What's a high functioning woman? 😂 @@shamekahill4037
Dr. Bryant was SO on point!!! Nick showed how IMMATURE he truly is.
At the end of the day Money talks...
Nick is in his 40s and still childish 🙄
40s and got a bunch of children who will have the same pattern smh
Smh
This is why he's paying out his karma in child support for multiple BMs; justice will be served
@@marcuslosgreat4225 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@@f-zerogxyou have a weird perception of “justice” and “karma”
He can’t even have a high functioning conversation.
😂😂😂😂
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only high function is acoustic for Nick if you know what I mean
😅😅😅
Facts. He overtalks and cuts in because he's a manipulator
The way he said “cause I’m a man” like manipulating women is something to be proud of; definition traits of narcissism.
@@jayviensam I was rolling my eyes the whole time he was talking.
It didn't sound like a boast to me, but rather: "this is how men are, this is what they do".
All I heard was him stating that being trash is normal and should be expected of men. Him saying that he knows how to turn on the perfect man is him saying plain as day that he's a wolf in sheep's clothing. But it's funny because you can look at Nick and tell he's not to be taken seriously. He's always been a cornball and acts like a perpetual teenager. I knew Mariah was only with him for his sperm. I don't believe that was love.
Not all men
@@adajourbanks5618 Body parts? Always objectifying. Nothing changes.
Does he not hear what is coming out of his own mouth? Disgusting.
Exactly! It was 🤢 and he's clueless
Yup that's who he REALLY is.
Yes, he does and he’s proud of it. That is why he keeps repeating himself louder and louder every time.
Not every man manipulates. Some people have a pure heart.
@@davidwilliamson8109 That's what Dr. Bryant was trying to tell him.
@iamdivinefem333 he wasn't trying to hear that tho because that's who he is. So if he can pass it off like every man or person is like that then he just looks like everyone else so it's just normal and expected. But we're not
And those with "pure heart" are the ones who get manipulated.. so, the best thing you can do is to learn to manipulate in order to not be vulnerable, Nick is kinda right on this one.
@@davidwilliamson8109🎯
@@alexrodrigoUK no offense, but that's a defeated attitude. There's no excuse for manipulating people to get what you want. That means you have no actual confidence in who you are as a person. You don't think you are deserving of good things, so you pretend to be someone else. It's cowardly. Everyone gets rejected or harmed, it doesn't mean we have to become the people who harm us. 💛💛💛
"When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time!!" Maya Angelou.
"A high functioning woman wouldn't even attract you baby" 👏 👏 🙌
😂😂😂 it was the best part of the clip
Yes @@juliajackson344
I felt that in my soulllll
I'm 37 and retired, own two businesses, and a man with "good hands" and a plane would not peak my interest and certainly wouldn't get in my bed. I think the more shameful part is that he thinks that bc he has those things he can get a high value relationship.
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Nick Cannon has serious issues
@@daniellemarie65 I agree. I thought Dr. Bryant was there to counsel him. But what's the point of him talking to her if he isn't going to listen? It doesn't make sense.
he does. he need thearpy. something deeper going on
All people don’t prey and manipulate. It wouldn’t even cross my mind to “say whatever I have to say,” to get something from someone
TRUTH!!!! Not many know that humans like this exist! However, the truth is many are.
Exactly. I also don't see what someone else has and want it. I have my own goals and I've yet to see someone who has a life a I wish I had.
MOST PEOPLE DO IT SUBCONSCIOUSLY!!! Don’t lie to yourself.
Exactly. He's projecting. He thinks because he does it(and probably people he hangs around do it) then the whole world must do it too. So sad.
@@Ava44322Have you ever thought about operating consciously?
Imagine growing up and seeing your dad on the internet disrespecting your mother 🤦🏾♀️
@@rostarr713 He's obviously not thinking about his children. I doubt he'll have a tight relationship with all of them.
All 10 eleven of em
I also want to say this...Nick is successful..financially successful..there is nothing any of his kids could ask for that he can't pay for....butt what if one if his kids say "dad..I just wanna see you..spend some time with you"..would his child have to then be put on a schedule just to spend with his father...money relieves some stress in life..but certain things in life require more or less than money..especially when you're a parent..in my humble opinion..periodt
@@makedramccanYes they would need to get with his assistant and get put on the schedule. One of his child’s mothers was talking about how good of a father he is because he never misses anything that she reaches out to his assistant to add to his calendar to attend for his children. So I’m certain once the children are old enough they will have the liberty of booking their own time with his assistant to spend time with him
Can he allow her the courtesy of speaking for three seconds without interrupting 😒
@@JL-mv6bj Right, it was annoying. .She seems to have much patience.
Yes!!!
No, because she is cutting too close to the bone. The little man can't stand to hear the truth.
@@CB-hn6eiI was gonna say the same thing! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 He can't handle the truth!
@@CB-hn6ei probably why Maria is doing her own thing 😅
It’s getting worse and worse out here. Lord, please help our community. 😔
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Truth is the light. Many males have failed. I respect the rare few good ones .
Exposing those types of people & things is exactly what the community needs. The Lord is showing up & showing out 💯
Over talking the woman who can see through your B.S says a lot about who he is. He’s too busy trying to cover up his flaws than to admit he is the problem!
His immaturity still shows clearly through this video. What she was saying to him was triggering him enough to where he didn’t even want her to finish her sentences. 🤦🏾♀️
Exactly
A high functioning women wouldn’t even attract you baby!!! On God!!! ❤❤❤❤
And a high functioning woman wouldn't be attracted to him. Hell, a medium-functioning woman wouldn't want to get into that mess!
This is why telling women to choose better is not the answer and instead we should be telling the male's to DO better instead.
@@winning3329 exactly. Women are constantly being held accountable for the actions of these types of men. And while you can catch some red flags, you can't predict everything that a master manipulator will do. The best thing we can do is leave when we're supposed to.
@@UberEats-hz9io Did he not admit he would be anything a woman wanted him to be? Anybody can be fooled by a wolf in sheep clothing. Either way he's preying on women with some unresolved issues. That's what a predator does.
@@CB-hn6ei Telling him to be better is going to work? That’s like telling criminals to stop being criminals instead of telling people to be careful with their belongings
Well the choose better argument isn’t even relevant because the REAL issue is that it’s a MAJORITY. And you can’t tell them nothing because they are too arrogant and prideful to listen. Thats why you are seeing more and more of us date out🤷🏽♀️
@@CB-hn6ei but a high functioning woman would see through that. Choose better for YOU and your future kids not to please men's perception of you. If you allow god to guide you in your life, you won't be dealing with Nick Cannons. There a many layers to healing so always be aware of why these men are drawn to you and why you them.
He’s a loser, run if he’s coming your direction 😎
Money talks
This is what it sounds like when you have no sense of self . Just ego to repeatedly feed
wow. 😢 nick laughing about going to CHURCH w/ a woman as a part of his manipulation phase??? wow.
@@BeautyLoves88 He pretended to be a God fearing man. God is one he shouldn't play with. He's letting his dark spirit win.
He's not going to be laughing when they all teenagers 🙏
And when one or multiple of his daughters end up with men just like him. You reap what you sow.
On TV his reputation is so clean..this is crazy
Like he said, he gives ppl what they think they want then the toxic Nick shows up.
He’s himself on TV so your just not paying attention!!
I haven’t watched the interview, but his body language is screaming!!!! In this clip He doesn’t even realize he defending nonsense.
@@fwill4923 He tried to justify this nonsense by saying, "I'm a man." Then he follows with, "everyone preys and manipulates."
That's crazy these dudes are so feminine these days .
How is this feminine?
Nick could have been manipulative with that statement, trying to paint all Men, and everyone as manipulative to justify doing it to women. I'm glad the lady interjected, even though he ended up talking over her.
I knew before I even saw this video that he likes to run game. If you know, you know. Not every woman is going to fall for this. I'll take my regular, working class husband over this any day. Money isn't everything.
This is nothing new. Most men start out by introducing you to their representative. They act like a great guy. They treat you well and portray themselves as better than they really are. But once they believe you’re hooked, off comes the mask. You finally get to meet the real them ( toxic Nick). Then you find yourself confused and striving to get back to when things were good, like they were in the beginning. That’s not going to happen because that was never the real him. That was a character he played. That was him exerting a great deal of energy into trapping you. You’re chasing an illusion. Men do it because it works for them. They get the girl. It doesn’t matter that you’re unhappy. You’re theirs.
If this happens to you you aren’t alone. It’s the norm. Stop wasting time trying to turn him back into Prince Charming. Walk away. You got, got. It doesn’t get better. Learn to wait for the mask to drop before catching feelings. Because the real person is the one you need to love and like for a healthy longterm relationship.
You just dropped the jewel to thier game...your right!
You just dropped the jewel to thier game...your right!
True, and once you’re blessed to get unhooked, go no contact because if they’re low on supply they will start back with the confusion trying to get you to fall for them again.
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Facts 💜💜💜
Ok but it’s no surprise. He’s simply saying what he and a lot of men have been doing for years now. Only difference is these other men won’t admit it. It’s not at all okay but these type of men don’t take any real accountability and are usually set in their ways. Yet they tell us women to choose better when it’s not really fair to say that since there are some really good pretenders out there.
He's hurting.. he reminds me of my dad, so trapped in pain will hurt those around him to protect his fragile heart. My dad nowadays is stricken with depression, doesn't speak to anyone and thinks everyone is the problem even though he can't explain why lol his control issues have ruined his life
She doesn't know I'm toxic yet!! Smh
@@billycothran5989 He said that with his chest. Why does he have to be toxic at all? It says alot about him. If he liked himself, he wouldn't have to pretend to be someone else.
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We know now.
We knew after he got a divorce from Mariah and decided to have all those baby moma's
When we are afraid or not ready to see ourselves for who we really are we try to over talk so we can't even hear the truth. One day he will look into the proverbial mirror and see for himself what she is attempting to tell him. He simply is not ready. He needs to have that come to himself moment.
Amen, Dr Bryant. A high functioning woman is discerning and would not be interested.
And this explains all of the baby mommas! THE BIG QUESTION HAS FINALLY BEEN ANSWERED!!!! THANKS DOC
Business acumen, solid but my goodness brutha is every bit of corny that we knew back in the 2000s. This was a saddening 2:50 seconds to watch.
This was hard to watch, because Nick's immaturity, pride and ego were in the way. Sheesh...
How on earth Mariah dealt with him, I do not know 🙄.
But good thing she divorced him, he’s proven to be a waste of space.
At least Cam didn't keep interrupting.
“I know how to turn on the perfect man”.
Believe them when they show you who they are.
If this is not a master in manipulation idk what he is
Both are correct. The argument comes because he revealed a tactic that most don’t speak on. My father told me early on the game is to be sold not told.
He just hasn't met his match. I real woman would see through his crap. I've seen guys like him, imitating a christian man, but because of my faith, God allowed me not to completely fall for those tricks! I saw through the smoke screen b4 it was too late.
Dudes have been going in on Dr. Bryant and I don’t really get it. As a black married man I saw no lies in what she said and no man who has a real issue with her hasn’t said anything that she stated that was factually incorrect. The most common issue has been her qualifications or how she dressed for Cam. I understand that, but some of those same men loved Kevin Samuels regardless of his shortcomings.
The way I see it both Kevin and Dr. Bryant have had obvious relationship failures but they have both made valid points in spite of their lack of relational success. Their failures could’ve played into their perspectives perhaps. However, the thing I think some men aren’t seeing is if you look at both Cam and Nick’s interviews they both openly admit troubling behavior that could impact children in a bad way. Also, they have openly admitted flawed thinking like Nick admitting to predatory behavior or Cam having a current girlfriend pregnant while saying he’s still looking for a wife and wants more children. That’s a bad look regardless if he has the money because it’s selfish and a complete disregard of her as a person. It’s pretty weird to tie yourself to women you don’t want to marry but want to make more babies while saying you fear marriage. That support is going to be crazy for years not to mention how you can’t adequately parent from multiple house holds.
Meanwhile in regards to the women, we can acknowledge they willingly had their children and are equally responsible, but we didn’t hear their toxicity. We didn’t hear any of the baby mamma’s discuss how they lied about being on birth control or how they have a nursery full of rich Mens babies. For all we know they are just “pick me” women who got played. Maybe more of the baby mamas will share their story.
He is stating so plainly that he presents women with a facade of a perfect guy. He seems pretty impressed with himself that he has done this to so many women. How sad.
Like they say hurt people hurt people. This man needs to admit he has a problem. The kids will suffer.
Many years ago, someone I know (a man) met him before he was super infamous. NC was trying to hang with the guy I know and his friends, they told him no because he was lame and weird. This was either during or shortly after him being on All That/Nickelodeon, when he was in his early 20s. This man is traumatized.
The way he barely looks at her while trying to act accountable in the most childish way... may his children be blessed with a better role model...
Due to his wealth and status he has women bowing down to be with him, therefore he sees himself as the prize. These women do not care about his toxic traits. He will go on to father more children with more women because he can and the women will happily welcome him into their bed.
Isn't that a sociopath or a narcissist?
No
He’s not worth talking too!!!!! He’s a man with money as the “answer” with no answers 🤦🏾♀️ he likes to hear only himself speak because others may tell him the truth which would make him feel his power is relinquished and he’s holding on tight to his flesh ridden power scared to death of what he might face if he lets go which is the truth and enlightenment and punishment although he knows he is being punished now for his wrong doings it’s glittery with the money on top so he settles 🤦🏾♀️
@@lakeofalltrades I agree. He thinks his money makes up for toxicity. If women stop getting pregnant by him, they'll stop feeding his ego and delusions.
That’s hard to do when woman gamble with they body parts just like men gamble with their wallets
I’m so happy men are chiming in on this subject bc usually sisters get dismissed for not celebrating Nick’s decision to procreate with 5011 women. If there is a such thing as “normal”, Nick and his harem don’t meet the criteria.
He's talking over her!!! How disrespectful is this clown?!! 🤡
I appreciate her for not painting ALL of us in the same light. 👍🏾
Damn bro can’t even look at her, he definitely was feeling the pressure. Sad state of affairs
I can appreciate, he was being transparent.
A man who invite me to church is SUPER RED FLAG!!😂😂😂 I literally be smelling through the shit he talking about! 😂😂😂
@@UberEats-hz9io everybody! 😂😂😂
That’s extremely sad that you’ve experienced so much manipulation that a God fearing man is red flag
@@Ava44322 it’s sad that men use God to manipulate women !! That’s even more sad. I don’t need a man to usher me into a relationship with God. I actually had a mama to do that
That STING in the end! 😂
Dear Nick..
When people meet me they don’t meet my representative, they meet me! Do we have different personas at times, yes, but ultimately who you are at core speaks to your character.
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He can pretend to be God-fearing all he wants, but he'll never be!! A God-fearing man can be seen by his fruits! And those fruits can only be attainable through the Holy Spirit!!
Preach That 🔥🔥
Amen
Uh no, some fruits arent visible. And i have met many women in abusive relationships who stay to uphold said “scriptures”.its a trap
People be so sure that everything they do is what everybody do. He is so immature!
He knew she was about to rip him up to shreds! I’m glad she held her own. He was very disrespectful. The overtalk we have amongst one another is something I have to work on especially being raised by masculine women and hanging around men who over talk one another…. Whew gotta learn to 🤫🤫🤫🤫
Her last words said it all
I’m not going to use the word because people be in they feelings but you see how he can’t even let her talk, you hear what’s coming his mouth ❤if you know you know, and those who survived that energy God Bless you
He’s so gross
I remember a time when Nick was considered the lamest of the lame…..how did we get to the point where Nick is being allowed to be the biggest womanizer in society? 😩😩😩. What is going on in the world today. SMH.
Nick is still lame...that never changed!
Money thts all women require
Trump and Nick Cannon are notorious womanizers and still lame as hell. They have money. All there is to it.
Most womanizers are corny? The biggest trick is convincing you otherwise 😂😂😂
We are all fallen. However It’s our purpose in life to cling to God and not to stay down. All this high functioning, high value, independent, attract who you are, buzz words and terms come from a place of pride. It’s people trying to separate and distinguish themselves from “others” by using their gifts as indicators of their value. We fall for the trap of worldly success, and tell ourselves that “Good people“ have or attract “good things”. We fool ourselves and others with the idea that material possessions are the gifts and signs of the Lords favor or signs of a “good life”. I’m a fallen person, i don’t cling to God as tightly as I need to. There is no justification or excuse for that. But because God is merciful I can come back and try again and I will continue this process my whole life. Nick won’t just admit that he’s wrong and that he does bad things (YES as we all do, but that don’t got nothing to do with nothing ). He instead chose to deflect and hide behind “ all men do that” “ all people do that” “well someone is going to want my 🍆 and strong hands and jet and money “ to justify, rationalize, normalize his choice to be manipulative and self serving.
Quick question - how can Nick Cannon ever claim to be celibate and someone believe him?!
He was not even listening. He was constantly over talking her, so that she couldn't be heard. He is dealing with some internal struggles. She was too much for him. Her last sentence said it all, and so did his. He said, "but you (the women he manipulates) don't even know I'm toxic yet.". Dr. Bryant " a high functioning woman wouldn't even be attracted to you baby.". She hit it on the head. It's not the script you spit. God's anointed, Spiritually discerning, and emotionally intelligent people are able to see beyond your presentation, and see the essence of who you are.
"A high functioning women wouldn't even attract you baby" - ohhhhh lmao
This is 43 … my Lordt.
I wonder how the mothers of his children and i kean ALL of them (that includes Mariah) feel about him after this.
Exactly what women have been saying. You can’t VET this men. That will pretend to be a decent person long enough to manipulate you into getting what they want from you…then bounce or flip the script.
No shade but NICK she roasted your ass here. But I feel you 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He living love don't cost a thing in real life😂😂😂😂
He just don’t know…he on the top now…we gonna see him fall soooo hard…God will show him! He is blessed with Monet tomorrow he could die..or loose EVERYTHING!
this was a hard listen! No matter how much money Nick is paying the good doctor, she really should step away from seeing Nick until he's ready to listen and change..
ALLLLL TRUTH Queen 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I love how she doesn't budge on her point or laugh at it's stupid jokes
🤦🏾♂️... So his 10th baby mama was being manipulated as if she was not signing up for what the previous 9 got huh... and she wasn't there for a very specific reason... Knock it of
I’m so glad she called out his bs. Don’t lump us all in with your behavior.
Hes going to loose his emplyment, then those babies are major financial distress
When ppl ask me why I don’t engage with or date men even though I’m straight and attracted to them 🤦🏾♀️
It's so funny because i always dislike him without to know him but now i know why i didn't like him before..
No one understands why I have always said I wasn’t the most fond of him from how he presents. People show you who they are. She should have just let him speak. Stop trying to make him lie to you about who is. And if he didn’t have the money that he had, these women would not be paying him any mind.
One word: DAMN!
She really talking to a wall
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Correction: A toxic man WOULD also be attracted to a high functioning woman, but she's going to leave once he shows his true colors. And because everyone knows Nick has 5837483 kids, luckily they know ahead of time.
Correcting you: she said Nick wouldn’t attract a high functioning women. No correction needed with the original statement 😂
@@Ava44322well attraction is probably just the wrong word altogether because physical attraction is just that. It’s who/what we tolerate that make the difference. A toxic man is not going to stick around a woman with boundaries.
@@Ava44322 The last thing she said in this video is "a high functioning woman wouldn't even attract you, baby." 🤡 Learn to listen 👂
As a father of 2 educated adult woman. I gave up the game to my daughters when they were young. Some women allow themselves to be played and manipulated by men. Some women are lured by what a man has or spends on them and let the guard down. Let me make this clear lady’s. The least a man has the least you should question and look at him side ways. That’s often the case. Women over question and see a man in his current situation and judge him. They see a man who has money, a nice house and car and they say ok this brother has it all together not knowing who’s name is on the deed, what his real financial situation is and fall because of the perception instead of the reality. You should question more and be more skeptical of a man who appears to have it all. I am a man who was at the bottom and now on top. That was something any woman could see in me. I left a woman who kept asking about my finances which wasn’t great at the time. How you gonna do this and that and always worried over money. I found this beautiful woman who was just interested in getting to know me. I made myself homeless right when I met her. I moved into her small house and today we live in a bike beautiful home in the suburbs of Dallas. Beautiful cars. I worked hard and got a few raises and just got a BIG raise a few months ago. Not once did my current women worry or bash me about money. My bills were always paid and trips and gifts. Stop judging a man for his current situation because the reality is a man who has nothing can gain it all, a man who has it all can lose it all. I know my woman is with me poor or with money and she knows I know how to get money and I mean legal money.
Wow ladies let this be eye opening
Everybody want real then when you do it everybody gets mad! He kept it all the way 💯
Just allow a person to talk they will expose themselves. He just admitted that he’s fake when he’s in relationships
As a man, I sit here after watching the video and ask for the answers. I dont agree with everything nick had to say, but i do respect his honesty in being himself and what works for him. Thats ultimately what he is looking for. As a black man , i want to know exactly what it is that women want from man so we can honestly tell you if we can meet that expectation or not. High value, low value, high functioning, low functioning whatever. Let's be real with each other so we can break the cycle of this black bitterness towards each other as men and women. Like dam enough already. We really messed up as a community when you stop and think about it. Or should i say we are just lost smh
The answers we usually seek from people are the answers we avoid finding in ourselves. No matter the race, gender, age, humans have needs, these needs are believed to found in something or someone outside of their very own heart, mind and body.
The truth is, joy, anger, sadness, peace and more are abundant and all reside in your very own body. We are conditioned to believe that we cannot survive with a woman or a man and they are what we need to look the part of high status or to feel accepted by society and or family or friends.
When you choose to love yourself, and acknowledge that you were created perfect inside and out, and accept your very self as God's image of perfection no matter what the world tells you that you are not good or you are bad at, those are projections about themselves and opinions, then you can live a truly fulfilling and prosperous life without having to manipulate people and being tactical to only have people to gain something from them.
Peace and Love brotha
Unfortunately it is to women's detriment to tell men what we're looking for in men. That is exactly the reason men like NC are able to manipulate the way he stated in the video. He listened and played the part, then boom toxic guy shows up.
"Hey, little kids don't follow these dopes." -Slick Rick
Anyone can be manipulated..hope not to fall victim
Mic 🎤 Drop Dr Bryant
Nick’s absolutely right. It’s too easy for him. And even after seeing this. It’s still too easy.
This is why he played the role of Devon so well in his first movie Drumline
SMH. These dudes embarrassing me as a black man. I don’t like to talk down on nobody but can we get some ppl worth sense on moral in front of these cameras?
Learn to be quiet & listen, let someone tell you who they are & what they genuinely want
Usually when we come across souls, it’s merely an experience
Learn, love & let go
Lessons everyone and everything serves a purpose
The only word she didn’t use was DISCERNMENT & it just goes to show how broken people will attempt to consistently paint a picture perfect illusion rather than just showing up as they are & stating simply what they want
No this generation has become very superficial, surface level, all common sense & intuition seems to float out the door the moment something “glittery” comes around.
Be wise & remain prayed up my beautiful people🤍
There are still pure souls with good intentions around, it’s just the bs loves to always have center stage 🤭
How scary. Very disappointing