Came here after the Newton interview. One thing both interviews proved was that most people are NOT self aware, are in denial of their own BS, and most people tell themselves comforting lies.
yes! and Ive always told my self especially when it comes to dating that you don't have to be worried about someone lying to you, but them lying to themselves! causing even more confusion...
Yesss they don’t do the work and some just give up and date same sex or just sleep with whoever give them attention. You only going to get someone that loves you as much as love yourself.
@@ghost99100the fact that she can listen to learn and he’s in defensive mode. He’s so hurt with who he is as a person that he has to create an illusion that he’s happy with the choices he’s made and gets so defensive when she tries to shine a light on it. He will never admit to this but any man who continuously creates broken homes with no regret is trying to fill a void they never will without therapy.
@Cristiane97100 mean while nick cannon is loving the life he created and the lady that is interviewing nick is the one that's ACTUALLY unhappy with her life. That's wat I'M SEEING 👀. And she single can't keep a man she need to be the one in therapy not Nick lmao
He was thinking the whole time I MARRIED MARIAH CAREY SHE AINT LOW FUNCTIONING😂BUT..He just described how he got her! Pretended to be someone he’s not then got all toxic on her 😂
She's the first person that told him the truth. I've watched this show several times ONLY to see who was going to tell him. Not Iyanla, not Umar, not the Muslim brother, only this esteemed Doctor held his feet to the fire. ❤ respect
I've noticed both Nick and Cam have persuaded themselves that they are amazing fathers who put their kids first. These interviews really hold a mirror up to how the decisions they are so proud of making, have actually deprived their kids and the money simply can't replace the void. Outside of this the doctor gave some great lessons here on child rearing ans relationships and i'm receiving these. Wish I could afford her sessions 😆❤️
My daddy straight up told me as a child. Thats my wife and I’m gone choose her over you. The context was I doing the back and forth lying going to one and saying the other said something was okay. And it caused confusion between them and he wasn’t going for it. So they were united front and I respect him for pointing that out to me at 9 years old. Set me straight.
@visualvision2488 I think the context here is that he was going to take the mum's side in terms of the discipline and rules. Of course, any father should put their child first in most situations.
And like she said, I think that is a huge problem with our society today is that men and women prefer the commitment of being a parent over the commitment of being a partner
Completely agree. It's unnatural because it takes 2 (humans) to become 1 (a new human) in the first place. Such is how the hierarchy should naturally go.
She isn't saying to forget your kids. She is saying you put each other first to build a foundation in a two parent household so that it's healthy and functioning so you can then feed into the child
Yes!! His body language is clear. He is not truly listening. He is talking over her half the time and I can tell he feels threatened. It’s not a safe space for him, not because of her specifically but because he’s not ready to look in the mirror.
@@LBFufuEata THANK YOU.... And not to mention SHE. IS. NOT. LIVING. watch she is projecting.... Including being on that Basketball Wives show engaging in that SAME "low functioning" and ratchet activity. SMDH
Yessss!!!! I was just thinking that when I watched her on the Cam Newton show! I'm admiring her high functionality, EI, self-awareness & and intelligence 💯💯💯💯
She is a walking flashlight .. exposing anyone who comes in her path . I’ve watched several interviews with Nick but this one showed him for who he is ..
It's sad and so childish if this is how men truly think! I still detest my kids' (adults now) father, but that was never a factor when pouring love into them.
@@firewine You can pour all the love you want into someone and it not work because they’re unable to receive it. Also, it’s NOT your or a woman’s job to love a man that doesn’t love or know himself! Thats a therapist job!
this was true for me as a child… but as a adult our relationship got better & my daughters have good relationships with there fathers & we are not together…
I grew up in a 2 parent house home and my parents been married for over 20 plus years. And my dad put my mom first with everything. And that didn’t make me feel less than. He just went to his wife first
😩🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 He broken and created a bunch of broken homes but swear he got it all figured out. He had a hard time receiving the truth. Kept interrupting. Wasn’t listening. 🙄🙄
She was clearly communicating at a level that he could never understand or process because she is so high functional and vibrational. His life is proof of it and he can make it seem as though he is content with it- but my question is: would you want your daughters to be with a man like you? several baby mamas, non comital, etc? also! props to her, i felt like she was talking to a brick wall (Nick). He was being sarcastic to say the perfect man doesn’t exist, however this is coming from his place of brokenness and lack of accountability to change and evolve. she is clearly very inclined: physically 😍, mentally, and spiritually. a man like nick simply does not speak her language and couldn’t comprehend it if she translated it a million times. your kingdom spouse is coming and she DOES NOT have to settle for low vibrational men just to have a man. thanks for the confirmation queen, i will continue to raise my vibration and evolve to attract a man of my capacity ❤🎉
Breaking news there's no perfect man! As for Nick, he has issues but what do you think about the SEVEN WOMEN who had children with this broken man? Smh
@@tmakjusno one is perfect, however there are plenty of men who are healed and who do practice healthy effective communication, healthy conflict resolution skills, are emotionally intelligent and emotionally mature and overall are mature understanding empathetic individuals. The complete opposite of these broken traumatized broken men she’s making excellent examples of
10:16 something I noticed in both interviews is they talked about putting the child first … the child is number one and everything they do is for the child….. but the 1st thing children want is for BOTH THEIR PARENTS TO BE THERE. In the house, together .
I love she explained how where she is from, still catapults her into the world she wanted and still wants to be, And that her results are not the usual. I needed to hear a healed woman say this. I needed to hear, our past damage she prompt us to recall our decision making. This gives me hope for change.
Dr. Bryant is the truth. I appreciate her as a woman and a professional black woman. She speaks at a level that man or woman can comprehend if ready to listen and start healing. She needs her own show in my humble opinion.
I've always admitted I've ruined my kids by "putting them first" and letting them know it. I always knew they wouldn't truly grow until they are the steward of their own lives & I quit fixing everything. Thank you for feeding my soul and giving me tools to address it.
She didn't read shit she couldn't have a conversation because like a typical black woman you don't know how to shut up and agree to disagree or even be given knowledge. Y'all swear y'all know it all. That's why y'all emotional creatures because you use no logic
@@noblezenith65 she is an educated woman and she stood on facts. You are living in delusion just as well as he is... I'm not surprised by the insecurity detected in this comment.... have a good day tho...
He got so exposed. He lost major points with me because he comes off as trying to be an honest person and a real person and he’s not we all need help in this world. He did not want to help. It was a perfect time for him to show his growth as a person I would respected it more. We all gotta take our lumps when we’re wrong. That’s the only way we will get better.
Dr. Cheyenne is a BOSS!! She has an excellent perspective on how to approach mindset and family dynamics from a very holistic level. It’s clear that Nick is still in need of healing… he’s overcompensating.
This woman Deserves her flowers 💐 I definitely ran here Right after watching her on cam newton’s pod she’s not uplifting anyone she’s teaching those of us that want to learn how to navigate our lives in a healthier manner how to do so I absolutely respect that❤
What she’s explaining in 11:00, he won’t understand because he’s not in a singular committed marriage, most people know what she means. A couple (that’s together) have to make sure they’re okay FOR the kids. In order to be able to SHOW UP for the kids, and like she said, or else, it’ll lead to a divorce- which will then HURT THE KIDS that you’re trying so hard to be there for 24/7.
Children / dependents are a priority because they are a dependent. Two things can be true at once, Mum and Dad can have a united front, prioritise their relationship along with making the child’s welfare a priority x
You're not disagreeing with her, though. The couple as a unit has to be strong so that they can then prioritize the kids. If they don't prioritize their marriage first, then divorce/separation happens and then the kids are statistically worse off in almost every way than if the parents had put more value in their relationship 😅 This only works if both people really want the same stable family life, though. When one person doesn't, it's so disastrous.
When I first started watching Im like "Nick let her finish her thought! You keep interrupting, this is proving her point to center of attention, unhealed, narcissistic behaviors, taking accountability." But towards the end I like how Nick let her speak and he juat listened and reflected on his and her personal sessions and you can see the humbleness come through.
I know a lot of the viral clips came from the part when she’s talking about Nick’s relationship but listening to this whole thing and how self aware and accountable she is makes me want to sign up for therapy so that I can be more self aware and accountable for myself and how I show up in the world.
Have you seen love island with kordell and reee. I agreeeeee lol she was a few years older (2or 3) but he was very mature and emotionally intelligent. I get the vibes
@@MG-ym1vh since when have younger men wanted to date “mature” women . This internet got y’all sounding remedial . I know y’all smarter than this you just not actually using your brain
I also can’t stand that nick kept interrupting her. But I’d rather him get his thoughts out than sit in them. I like how she could bring back the conversation when he get off track. She listens so well. Definitely felt like a therapy session.
Here after Cam interview. Can appreciate this interview more. Nick was more respectful and seemed to appreciate her as a professional and as a woman. This comment was before I saw his other interview with her. He had a child like temper tantrum about her, calling him out about his numerous relationships and children.
Putting your spouse first doesn’t mean neglect of a child (ren) it means loving your spouse and loving the children. I agree with Dr Bryant, God. Spouse then child.
This man done changed his sitting position 10 times and clearly laughing thru is pain h can see his eyes aren’t laughing only his mouth noving😂 he needs to heal
I have so much respect for Dr. Bryant. What an amazing example of a high value woman. Intelligent, strong, did not allow her past to define her or hold her back, humble and dignified. I really look up to her as a woman of color and immigrant who also comes from a broken home: Im trying my best to do better and better so the cycle stops in this generation for my future family. Seeing her as an example makes me believe I can get there.
If you can’t let another person express their thoughts and opinions without the need to cut them off then there is work to be done. She handled herself very well in this interview. I hope Nick watches this back and does some self reflection.
IMO, we all need to seek therapy and prayer because we all come from some level of brokenness. All of us deserve healthy and happy relationships with boundaries.
I’m so sick of ppl trying to force e successful women to take care of grown men. Why are yall constantly telling Black women we can’t have decent men. Damn not all men are low functioning. Not all men want to have 50 millions kids around! Everyone has options!
They want you to believe everyone is like them so deal with it! LOL. If women explore their options you can find a high functioning man. Go outside your comfort zone and don't limit yourself to one group of men.
I think he means some ppl expectations are to high. U can find a good man but he's not going to be everything u want. Moral is take them as they come and make the best of it
This was purely for entertainment purposes. He wasn’t actually trying to learn or understand anything. Nick believes what he believes. Even as he was countering what she said about divorce and putting kids first she was speaking to a marriage/relationship dynamic with children. He sounded as though (in my opinion) that he was pulling from his on situation in which he may have some dealings or situationships with these woman they aren’t serious relationships do of course in his perspective in those situations his children always come first. If he was to want to be in the type of relationship dr. Bryant was referring to I believe he would need to rethink that approach within the home. Which now since he has so many children would EXTREMELY hard because he would feel the obligation to put his children above his marriage since he is split in so many different directions. I honestly don’t believe at this point nick could have a healthy thriving relationship because his priorities wouldn’t allow it even if he really wanted it.
I agree with her 100% that most marriages end because wives put kids needs over husband needs not understanding that the relationship with your husband is the foundation of the family’s hierarchy
I like the back and forth on this. Its exactly how we are, but wont talk back when we disagree. This back and forth allows for the clarity and understanding Nick needs. We get the put your spouse first so messed up thinking it means neglecting the children.
But... In its PROPER context, both relationships HAVE TO BE nourished & remaining mindful of the fact that the children will, eventually, leave the home, to become independent humans, 1 day. Who wins, when all of the energy has been placed in rearing the child, while the marriage dies a slow & painful death, because of benign neglect? 🤷🏽♀️
Nick is used to controlling women. Which is why he’s getting defensive and not allowing her to speak. His low functioning baby mamas do not speak to him this way and he isn’t used to it. He can argue but MARIAH CAREY AND Lanisha Cole left him so fast. The proof is in the pudding. He knows exactly who he can control & ends up sad missing the women that left him.
She's brilliant I love how every point she makes is focused on the reality we live in and how that reality continues to unfold based on our actions and choices. Whew Nick and Cam are so hard to talk to though! Whew she's a patient one!
I love this Dr. She has not told one lie! She is presenting the family dynamics when you are married with a family. The hierarchy according to God is wife/husband first and then the children. Teach the people!😍
Ok so… perfect example of saying you’re healing but actually not knowing anything at all. He was listening to defend himself not to talk. He was defensive and not allowing her to finish a sentence. For him to actually change, he needs to look inwards and face whatever demons he has that makes him want to behave the is way. He feels like he’s the “man” because he has all these kids and all these low functioning women allow him to continue to behave this way. I’m so so happy she said all this but he isn’t receptive about his own issues. This whole show it feels like it’s to point out other people mental health issues except his own.
Thank you Dr, Cheyenne for trying to help Cam Newton and Nick Cannon try to understand how they can't spend time with all their 8 or more children and not marry any of them.
Nike intervening at 2:30 seconds into the interview only after asking her to tell us about herself… And deciding to tell us about him is insane. It is very difficult for men to just listen sometime.
i agree with dr bryant, if a mother puts herself first in front of her daughter, the daughter will see that and do that. it will increase her self worth
Putting our “marriage/relationship” before our children for the child’s own benefit. 😮💨 Most of us not mature enough for that conversation. We think our kids should come first because of our own childhood abandonment issues we’re trying to heal. Help us Lord.
Came here after Cam. Oh, algorithms! I think they are receptive to her message bc they consider how their children will process their existence as adults. She is the adult version of who they fathered... if they're lucky their children will process their parents' decisions as well as the doc has.
This is so true I really agree with her I have 7 kids and my oldest two didn’t get told no from young now I’m paying the price for it but my younger 5 act totally different I failed them cause I was a single mom and I gave gave to them cause I thought it was better to give them the world since they were fatherless but I can say this 100 times she’s correct
Nick is the perfect example of someone who thinks they know it all and feels like he's done the work. Only to get In front of someone who is knowledgeable and knows what she's speaking about to call him out on his BS. We quickly saw how toxic his thinking is and why he's running around creating broken homes.
My husband and i put eachother first although our children are our priority. We are both amazing parents but the love and happiness that we, the husband and wife generate from putting eachother first.
She is spot on! And, Very experienced and wise. As a married man with four children I can agree 100% in a well balanced home, the children do not come first. In a well balanced home the children feel they come first and there is never a moment they feel they are competing for their parents attention. Unfortunately, this dynamic requires effective tools many do not have.
I grew with both parents in the home. The parental relationship superseded the upbringing of myself and sibling. I’m in agreement with Nick. Some of my siblings grew with attention because we needed the parent
Came here after the Newton interview. One thing both interviews proved was that most people are NOT self aware, are in denial of their own BS, and most people tell themselves comforting lies.
Facts
yes! and Ive always told my self especially when it comes to dating that you don't have to be worried about someone lying to you, but them lying to themselves! causing even more confusion...
Comforting lies....i like that 👍
Yesss they don’t do the work and some just give up and date same sex or just sleep with whoever give them attention. You only going to get someone that loves you as much as love yourself.
That’s because a lot of us don’t want to heal or go to therapy
I truly admire her professionalism and grace, because sometimes talking to traumatized men is like talking to a wall.
So nick isnt professional?. What make her better than nick cannon?
@@ghost99100different fields of profession. she’s a therapist he’s a entertainer. She’s better at being a therapist. he’s a better entertainer.
@@ghost99100the fact that she can listen to learn and he’s in defensive mode. He’s so hurt with who he is as a person that he has to create an illusion that he’s happy with the choices he’s made and gets so defensive when she tries to shine a light on it. He will never admit to this but any man who continuously creates broken homes with no regret is trying to fill a void they never will without therapy.
@@ghost99100 incessantly interrupting a guest speaker on your talk show is wholly unprofessional.
@Cristiane97100 mean while nick cannon is loving the life he created and the lady that is interviewing nick is the one that's ACTUALLY unhappy with her life. That's wat I'M SEEING 👀. And she single can't keep a man she need to be the one in therapy not Nick lmao
Based on the comments WE are all here after the Cam Newton “Session” ❤
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Every time nick thought he ate she pulled that fork out his hand before it even made it to his mouth 😂👌🏾
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Ahht Ahht! Lol
😂This is the best comment I have seen in a long time. Lol😂
"The best thing a man can do for his children is love their mother." -Abraham Lincoln
That is astounding! It’s just so incredibly saddening and eye-opening
Even if they're not together. Do that for the children
Amen❤❤❤
Im here DIRECTLY after the Cam Newton show
Fax.. the way she handled Cam 😮
Same
Same 🤣 I love her where has she been all my life.
Me too boo
Lol
He was thinking the whole time I MARRIED MARIAH CAREY SHE AINT LOW FUNCTIONING😂BUT..He just described how he got her! Pretended to be someone he’s not then got all toxic on her 😂
Oh she was definitely high value low functioning.
Oh my god poor Mariah
She was low functioning when she got with Nick. High earner yes! A high functioning woman like Dr. said would have never entertained Nick Cannon.
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EXACTLY
Mariah at least had enough sense to divorce him and not look back.
Just finished watching her on Cam Newton’s show and came straight here😂. She definitely gained a fan today!
Same lol
Me too!
Same here
Cam was rude as hell to her
She got me within the fist 20 minutes
She's the first person that told him the truth. I've watched this show several times ONLY to see who was going to tell him. Not Iyanla, not Umar, not the Muslim brother, only this esteemed Doctor held his feet to the fire. ❤ respect
I've noticed both Nick and Cam have persuaded themselves that they are amazing fathers who put their kids first. These interviews really hold a mirror up to how the decisions they are so proud of making, have actually deprived their kids and the money simply can't replace the void.
Outside of this the doctor gave some great lessons here on child rearing ans relationships and i'm receiving these. Wish I could afford her sessions 😆❤️
My daddy straight up told me as a child. Thats my wife and I’m gone choose her over you. The context was I doing the back and forth lying going to one and saying the other said something was okay. And it caused confusion between them and he wasn’t going for it. So they were united front and I respect him for pointing that out to me at 9 years old. Set me straight.
When the husband and wife are in union and on the same page. The kids will automatically fall in line. A strong foundation starts with the parents.
Yes! How it’s supposed to be!
In the context you gave, it made sense.
My mom told me that's my husband and she chose him over me and it created someone who never felt good enough and always trying to prove themselves.
@visualvision2488 I think the context here is that he was going to take the mum's side in terms of the discipline and rules. Of course, any father should put their child first in most situations.
And like she said, I think that is a huge problem with our society today is that men and women prefer the commitment of being a parent over the commitment of being a partner
Honestly, It's a reflection of the trauma males.. especially blkm has caused women.... especially bw (I'm speaking on my own community).
Yup. I'm a woman and I feel that way 100%.
Wow I don't nobody was ready for this!! Well said
Exactly. Children benefit and thrive better when the parents are an unbreakable force!!
Completely agree. It's unnatural because it takes 2 (humans) to become 1 (a new human) in the first place. Such is how the hierarchy should naturally go.
She isn't saying to forget your kids. She is saying you put each other first to build a foundation in a two parent household so that it's healthy and functioning so you can then feed into the child
Right!! I wouldn't care what Nick said. SMH lol
YES, exactly!
People are too simple minded to understand this unfortunately. Smh sad.
Yes, but he couldn't u derstand that concept because he isn't present in the homes of these children/ baby mamas
That part. Ppl get defensive with this debate!
The little to no eye contact says it all. This is the epitome of a woman’s strength once she’s healed.
Yes!! His body language is clear. He is not truly listening. He is talking over her half the time and I can tell he feels threatened. It’s not a safe space for him, not because of her specifically but because he’s not ready to look in the mirror.
Cam did the same exact thing smh. It was very uncomfortable to watch but so eye opening
When we hear a woman saying the same BS other women say we check out
@@LBFufuEata THANK YOU.... And not to mention SHE. IS. NOT. LIVING. watch she is projecting.... Including being on that Basketball Wives show engaging in that SAME "low functioning" and ratchet activity. SMDH
@@LBFufuEata interesting that truth =BS 🤔
10 minutes in I was screaming "shut up, Nick!!!!!" Ppl who can't hear past their personal ideologies will always miss the voice of GOD.
This statement is so profound! Thank you.
Amen !!!
Exactly 💯 💯
“Tell me about yourself” proceeds to talk about himself as soon as he gets the chance lol
Correct 💯
Lol so true. Let go have some drinks and talk about it with yo beautiful self
Every episode 😩
This!!
She did the Same thing when cam asked her to tell him about her
Came here after Cam’s interview. I must say Nick was way more respectful towards her. She’s amazing in her purpose 🔥🔥🔥
Really? Then I gotta watch that Cam interview because Nick is rude as hell. He keeps speaking over her and won't let her do much talking.
Yes. Cam was rude and his ego was hurt the whole interview. @@Marc-King777
@@Marc-King777he definitely had his moments, but in comparison to Cam, Nick was very respectful!
Cam was a disrespectful mess! He came with an attitude and came there to just argue and disagree.
Nick interrupted her several times, '& told her "Good Luck Finding Your Person, being a ass hole for no reason 😌
I see the healed version of myself in her she’s truly giving me therapy
I feel the same way✨️💫✨️
I feel the exact same way
Me too!!
@@scurvyelephant5487 that woman is not healed
She hates men like nick and cam
Yessss!!!! I was just thinking that when I watched her on the Cam Newton show! I'm admiring her high functionality, EI, self-awareness & and intelligence 💯💯💯💯
She is a walking flashlight .. exposing anyone who comes in her path . I’ve watched several interviews with Nick but this one showed him for who he is ..
The patience this woman has is something strong
Nick! How you gonna interrupt the guest while she's giving her background and give us yours? Ugh! 🙄
Interrupting period. Like bro chill
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I couldn't even watch it bc he talks too much!
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Omg that irritated me so bad!!
She told Cam everything he needed to hear so I had to come see what she gave Nick. These men need work.
Definitely needs work
ALOT OF WORK!!!
Same here sis!
To be fair the women too!
@@sharesecombs3931not blaming anyone but I would like to hear form the women and their mindset on family
Nick doesn't want to listen and always saying "I think" when she is dropping gems.
Cam did it to. A hit dog holler
@@ShannonLewis-ti7ft Yup same issue
They have a a lot of pent up trauma that they mask with success 🙏🏾
Time will reveal all and when his kids are old enough to communicate he will see then
@@Ikeluve205 she's a nut on house wives what a character trying to fight brook at a charity event so ghetto
This lady has convinced me to find a counselor 😊
FOR A FACT
A man loves their child to the extent he loves the mother is 100% fact.
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It's sad and so childish if this is how men truly think! I still detest my kids' (adults now) father, but that was never a factor when pouring love into them.
Per Nick, a woman needs to pick better. Newsflash: HE needs to better!
@@firewine You can pour all the love you want into someone and it not work because they’re unable to receive it. Also, it’s NOT your or a woman’s job to love a man that doesn’t love or know himself! Thats a therapist job!
this was true for me as a child… but as a adult our relationship got better & my daughters have good relationships with there fathers & we are not together…
“A lot of ppl are still in an environment they don’t want to be in, because that’s the childhood environment they’ve taken with them” WHEW what a word
I am her! I haven’t argued with a man in over 12 yrs since I moved on from my ex. I’m not built like that anymore
Me too🙌
Same. What is the point? If we can’t discuss this like adults, there’s no point in talking.
@@Riylb So true.
You may do the same thing that she does in that particular instance, but you are not her. You are you. She probably would never say that she is you.
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Dr.Bryant this far is the only one that gives it straight to Nic about his life, he is just not ready to accept it. We need her on for an hour!
Not even 40 seconds in, and his body language is telling 'he is NOT ready'😂😂😂
I grew up in a 2 parent house home and my parents been married for over 20 plus years. And my dad put my mom first with everything. And that didn’t make me feel less than. He just went to his wife first
Never knew I didn’t like Nick Connon this much
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😩🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 He broken and created a bunch of broken homes but swear he got it all figured out. He had a hard time receiving the truth. Kept interrupting. Wasn’t listening. 🙄🙄
No fr so immature it’s definitely the penis has to be 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 same yo
I mean, these kids are going to grow up one day and create their own families, and they'll have to put their spouse first
Lol he just does not want to truly listen, and is in denial. Mad respect to the woman for having so much patience with a hardheaded person.
She was clearly communicating at a level that he could never understand or process because she is so high functional and vibrational. His life is proof of it and he can make it seem as though he is content with it- but my question is: would you want your daughters to be with a man like you? several baby mamas, non comital, etc?
also! props to her, i felt like she was talking to a brick wall (Nick). He was being sarcastic to say the perfect man doesn’t exist, however this is coming from his place of brokenness and lack of accountability to change and evolve.
she is clearly very inclined: physically 😍, mentally, and spiritually. a man like nick simply does not speak her language and couldn’t comprehend it if she translated it a million times. your kingdom spouse is coming and she DOES NOT have to settle for low vibrational men just to have a man.
thanks for the confirmation queen, i will continue to raise my vibration and evolve to attract a man of my capacity ❤🎉
Breaking news there's no perfect man! As for Nick, he has issues but what do you think about the SEVEN WOMEN who had children with this broken man? Smh
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Well said
@@tmakjusno one is perfect, however there are plenty of men who are healed and who do practice healthy effective communication, healthy conflict resolution skills, are emotionally intelligent and emotionally mature and overall are mature understanding empathetic individuals. The complete opposite of these broken traumatized broken men she’s making excellent examples of
@@tmakjus...that they are broken too...um, that was her point.
10:16 something I noticed in both interviews is they talked about putting the child first … the child is number one and everything they do is for the child….. but the 1st thing children want is for BOTH THEIR PARENTS TO BE THERE. In the house, together .
Because they don’t want the women. They just want to make a bunch of children
Not necessary true, kids need a non toxic environment. Some couples co-parent better.
@@Elove450 true but if u ask most kids what they want they wouldn’t typically say 2 separate houses. They want 1 house , 2 loving parents.
They don’t even put the children first. They put themselves first. That’s why they’re in these situations.
@@Im.SheenaV Yes, “loving” parents is the keyword.
I love she explained how where she is from, still catapults her into the world she wanted and still wants to be, And that her results are not the usual. I needed to hear a healed woman say this. I needed to hear, our past damage she prompt us to recall our decision making. This gives me hope for change.
She has a lot of patience because I would be exhausted doing interviews with these men
Facts!
Me too
Girl I thought I was the only one
My thought exactly 😩🤨
God has patience and it appears she’s a Godly woman… Christ teaches you patience.
Dr. Bryant is the truth. I appreciate her as a woman and a professional black woman. She speaks at a level that man or woman can comprehend if ready to listen and start healing. She needs her own show in my humble opinion.
Definitely!!!!❤❤
Absolutely 😊
He’s listening to respond instead of listening to understand, those type of people are IMPOSSIBLE to talk to. He can’t be saved.
Lmfao 😂😂😂😂😂 I think you might of hit it on the nail
cam did too
Exactly. A damn airhead.
I've always admitted I've ruined my kids by "putting them first" and letting them know it. I always knew they wouldn't truly grow until they are the steward of their own lives & I quit fixing everything. Thank you for feeding my soul and giving me tools to address it.
This interview was so much better than the Cam Newton one. Nick was able to have a conversation without being condescending.
Because i don’t know what interview everyone else was watching. This interview was waayyyy better than the one with Cam.
Yes it was a little better but he centred himself throughout! Invited a professional to school her, both men are idiots
Every time Cam told her he was letting her off the hook I rolled my eyes
Cam is who he is and where he is in evolution and Nick the same.
@@stefunnydenise9639I agree
She read him on his own show 😂❤
Then went and read cam for filth on his own show 😂 she is on to these “low functioning” men with a lot of money !
Then went and read cam for filth on his own show 😂 she is on to these “low functioning” men with a lot of money !
She didn't read shit she couldn't have a conversation because like a typical black woman you don't know how to shut up and agree to disagree or even be given knowledge. Y'all swear y'all know it all. That's why y'all emotional creatures because you use no logic
Did the same to Cam Newton. I love her directness all while being loving and respectful
She had to he can't have her on her show and spewing out poor information.... No no no sir.... No, no.
He was defensive and in denial 😂😂😂😂😂
So was Cam Newton. Lmbo.. On another note I appreciate this Lady..
facts
False. She's in denial. Nick has what he wants in life. She doesn't
@@noblezenith65 she is an educated woman and she stood on facts. You are living in delusion just as well as he is... I'm not surprised by the insecurity detected in this comment.... have a good day tho...
He got so exposed. He lost major points with me because he comes off as trying to be an honest person and a real person and he’s not we all need help in this world. He did not want to help. It was a perfect time for him to show his growth as a person I would respected it more. We all gotta take our lumps when we’re wrong. That’s the only way we will get better.
Babyyyy she is HER 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I love how he agreed with everything she said except when talking about him 😂
Dr. Cheyenne is a BOSS!! She has an excellent perspective on how to approach mindset and family dynamics from a very holistic level. It’s clear that Nick is still in need of healing… he’s overcompensating.
i’m watching this and realizing things about MYSELF 😭😭
Do some shadow work (if you can't afford therapy or your insurance doesn't cover it)
Absolutely thinking the same for myself 😂
DR. BRYANT was COOKING...NICK WAS TRYING HIS BEST TO CUT THE STOVE OFF
RIGHT!
Yes, I love this comment.
🤣
RIGHT! Man had me screaming 😂😂 Shut up and let her cook!
This woman Deserves her flowers 💐 I definitely ran here Right after watching her on cam newton’s pod she’s not uplifting anyone she’s teaching those of us that want to learn how to navigate our lives in a healthier manner how to do so I absolutely respect that❤
I love Nick. He didn't become combative he kept it real on his side and didn't deflect. Great interview!
Nick's immaturity really shines through in this session.
What she’s explaining in 11:00, he won’t understand because he’s not in a singular committed marriage, most people know what she means. A couple (that’s together) have to make sure they’re okay FOR the kids. In order to be able to SHOW UP for the kids, and like she said, or else, it’ll lead to a divorce- which will then HURT THE KIDS that you’re trying so hard to be there for 24/7.
bingo ! he was like what ??? and she was clearly describing A MARRIAGE AND KIDS AFTER BEING MARRIED not twenty baby mamas 😂
Yes!!!!
Facts on facts on facts.....
🎉🎉 Yessssss. Egzaaaactly
He is extremely emotionally immature and doesn’t even have the bandwidth to understand
Children / dependents are a priority because they are a dependent. Two things can be true at once, Mum and Dad can have a united front, prioritise their relationship along with making the child’s welfare a priority x
EXACTLY
Bingo! Thank you
I sooo agree
You're not disagreeing with her, though. The couple as a unit has to be strong so that they can then prioritize the kids. If they don't prioritize their marriage first, then divorce/separation happens and then the kids are statistically worse off in almost every way than if the parents had put more value in their relationship 😅
This only works if both people really want the same stable family life, though. When one person doesn't, it's so disastrous.
@@no.6377you get it!!!
I love Dr. Bryant! Her intelligence is refreshing.
When I first started watching Im like "Nick let her finish her thought! You keep interrupting, this is proving her point to center of attention, unhealed, narcissistic behaviors, taking accountability." But towards the end I like how Nick let her speak and he juat listened and reflected on his and her personal sessions and you can see the humbleness come through.
I know a lot of the viral clips came from the part when she’s talking about Nick’s relationship but listening to this whole thing and how self aware and accountable she is makes me want to sign up for therapy so that I can be more self aware and accountable for myself and how I show up in the world.
I hear a new narrative in the community...Mature women dating younger high functioning men. I'm here for it!
NO.
Cap
Have you seen love island with kordell and reee. I agreeeeee lol she was a few years older (2or 3) but he was very mature and emotionally intelligent. I get the vibes
It’s true I’ve been noticing the shift
@@MG-ym1vh since when have younger men wanted to date “mature” women . This internet got y’all sounding remedial . I know y’all smarter than this you just not actually using your brain
A Woman Shouldn’t Have To SETTLE Just Because Someone Cant Get It Right 🤧
I also can’t stand that nick kept interrupting her. But I’d rather him get his thoughts out than sit in them. I like how she could bring back the conversation when he get off track. She listens so well. Definitely felt like a therapy session.
Here after Cam interview. Can appreciate this interview more. Nick was more respectful and seemed to appreciate her as a professional and as a woman.
This comment was before I saw his other interview with her. He had a child like temper tantrum about her, calling him out about his numerous relationships and children.
From what I gathered he's done personal sessions with her.
Putting your spouse first doesn’t mean neglect of a child (ren) it means loving your spouse and loving the children. I agree with Dr Bryant, God. Spouse then child.
Crazy to be arguing with a professional and the other psychologist he mentioned
I thought so too! Freud had some groundbreaking theories based on extensive studies and evidence. He does have some questionable thoughts tho😂😂
She’s giving ME therapy. Thank you Queen❤
This man done changed his sitting position 10 times and clearly laughing thru is pain h can see his eyes aren’t laughing only his mouth noving😂 he needs to heal
🤣🤣🤣
I have so much respect for Dr. Bryant. What an amazing example of a high value woman. Intelligent, strong, did not allow her past to define her or hold her back, humble and dignified. I really look up to her as a woman of color and immigrant who also comes from a broken home: Im trying my best to do better and better so the cycle stops in this generation for my future family. Seeing her as an example makes me believe I can get there.
If you can’t let another person express their thoughts and opinions without the need to cut them off then there is work to be done. She handled herself very well in this interview. I hope Nick watches this back and does some self reflection.
IMO, we all need to seek therapy and prayer because we all come from some level of brokenness. All of us deserve healthy and happy relationships with boundaries.
I’m so sick of ppl trying to force e successful women to take care of grown men. Why are yall constantly telling Black women we can’t have decent men. Damn not all men are low functioning. Not all men want to have 50 millions kids around! Everyone has options!
They want you to believe everyone is like them so deal with it! LOL. If women explore their options you can find a high functioning man. Go outside your comfort zone and don't limit yourself to one group of men.
I think he means some ppl expectations are to high. U can find a good man but he's not going to be everything u want. Moral is take them as they come and make the best of it
Right they act like it’s too much to expect a man to have a job and some adult level emotional awareness. Like jeez
@deantemays6915 in other words....settle for the one who is halfway decent. Ew
Exactly!!!
This was purely for entertainment purposes. He wasn’t actually trying to learn or understand anything. Nick believes
what he believes. Even as he was countering what she said about divorce and putting kids first she was speaking to a marriage/relationship dynamic with children. He sounded as though (in my opinion) that he was pulling from his on situation in which he may have some dealings or situationships with these woman they aren’t serious relationships do of course in his perspective in those situations his children always come first. If he was to want to be in the type of relationship dr. Bryant was referring to I believe he would need to rethink that approach within the home. Which now since he has so many children would EXTREMELY hard because he would feel the obligation to put his children above his marriage since he is split in so many different directions. I honestly don’t believe at this point nick could have a healthy thriving relationship because his priorities wouldn’t allow it even if he really wanted it.
I agree with her 100% that most marriages end because wives put kids needs over husband needs not understanding that the relationship with your husband is the foundation of the family’s hierarchy
Bravo to Nick Cannon for being brave enough to hold this conversation. He was obviously going to take a lot of heat here and he still had it anyway.
I need her! I left two husbands that I felt were emotionally/ physically abusive- I chose myself so my children didn’t have to be in a toxic family
I like the back and forth on this. Its exactly how we are, but wont talk back when we disagree. This back and forth allows for the clarity and understanding Nick needs. We get the put your spouse first so messed up thinking it means neglecting the children.
Agree
But... In its PROPER context, both relationships HAVE TO BE nourished & remaining mindful of the fact that the children will, eventually, leave the home, to become independent humans, 1 day. Who wins, when all of the energy has been placed in rearing the child, while the marriage dies a slow & painful death, because of benign neglect? 🤷🏽♀️
Nick is used to controlling women. Which is why he’s getting defensive and not allowing her to speak. His low functioning baby mamas do not speak to him this way and he isn’t used to it. He can argue but MARIAH CAREY AND Lanisha Cole left him so fast. The proof is in the pudding. He knows exactly who he can control & ends up sad missing the women that left him.
Yessss!!
Facts 😅😅😅😅
1000000% and he couldn’t wait to bring up the alpha conversation
She's brilliant I love how every point she makes is focused on the reality we live in and how that reality continues to unfold based on our actions and choices. Whew Nick and Cam are so hard to talk to though! Whew she's a patient one!
I love this Dr. She has not told one lie! She is presenting the family dynamics when you are married with a family. The hierarchy according to God is wife/husband first and then the children. Teach the people!😍
Nick interviewed himself in the episode. HE talked waaaaay too much.
He literally acted like she was the Host like he was the guest. He hardly let her complete her facts she clearly has the degree!
Work on not interrupting your guests
Shes yapping tho ,its a conversation
@@matiqueedwards2269 and he wasn't yapping?
*deflecting
Remember, she's Alpha and will always flex. People are buying into her garbage.
Ok so… perfect example of saying you’re healing but actually not knowing anything at all. He was listening to defend himself not to talk. He was defensive and not allowing her to finish a sentence. For him to actually change, he needs to look inwards and face whatever demons he has that makes him want to behave the is way. He feels like he’s the “man” because he has all these kids and all these low functioning women allow him to continue to behave this way. I’m so so happy she said all this but he isn’t receptive about his own issues. This whole show it feels like it’s to point out other people mental health issues except his own.
Thank you Dr, Cheyenne for trying to help Cam Newton and Nick Cannon try to understand how they can't spend time with all their 8 or more children and not marry any of them.
I love this woman. She is fascinating.
Nike intervening at 2:30 seconds into the interview only after asking her to tell us about herself… And deciding to tell us about him is insane. It is very difficult for men to just listen sometime.
He’s just trying to relate trying to get her comfortable
@@delanodobson7697She’s the guest.. He made it about him, so he can be comfortable. He was definitely intimidated
@@lookandfeelgorgeous 🤦🏾🤦🏾
If mommy and daddy aren't good. The kid's aren't either. Trust me they know!
Sholl do!!
I was one of those kids. I knew before I was walking.
i agree with dr bryant, if a mother puts herself first in front of her daughter, the daughter will see that and do that. it will increase her self worth
Or if they see the opposite and realize how unhealthy it was, they will do differently.
De. Bryant is intelligent, real, wise and beautiful. Great show.
Putting our “marriage/relationship” before our children for the child’s own benefit. 😮💨 Most of us not mature enough for that conversation. We think our kids should come first because of our own childhood abandonment issues we’re trying to heal. Help us Lord.
Came here after Cam. Oh, algorithms! I think they are receptive to her message bc they consider how their children will process their existence as adults. She is the adult version of who they fathered... if they're lucky their children will process their parents' decisions as well as the doc has.
This is so true I really agree with her I have 7 kids and my oldest two didn’t get told no from young now I’m paying the price for it but my younger 5 act totally different I failed them cause I was a single mom and I gave gave to them cause I thought it was better to give them the world since they were fatherless but I can say this 100 times she’s correct
its like listening to a 17 year old boy talk
Yes and his hairstyle is annoying me to no end tbc it’s HIM in the hairstyle…not the actual hairstyle
I feel the same way! Why is he wearing his hair like a 6 year old girl?!?!😂❤😂 I literally cannot @@jacquelynn2051
I always say being married is a bigger commitment than raising children
Agree
I teach my kids there is no such thing as fair in life . The minute you understand that the better off you will be.
Nick is the perfect example of someone who thinks they know it all and feels like he's done the work. Only to get In front of someone who is knowledgeable and knows what she's speaking about to call him out on his BS. We quickly saw how toxic his thinking is and why he's running around creating broken homes.
He did behave like this with Brother Minister Muhammad
Yet nick has everything he wanted and Dr Bryant doesn’t. Human natures always wins we need to stop forcing men to be something they don’t want to be.
He uses therapy and translates it to his comfortable dusty rhetoric.
@@MRLX54so by everything he wanted you mean impregnating a bunch of women??
My husband and i put eachother first although our children are our priority. We are both amazing parents but the love and happiness that we, the husband and wife generate from putting eachother first.
Cheyenne made some really thought provoking & soul searching points. For that sister, thank you!💖
Nick body language FROM THE JUMP was like okk lay it on me 😂😂😂
He was nottt ready for it PUBLICLY AT LEAST😂😂
She is spot on! And, Very experienced and wise. As a married man with four children I can agree 100% in a well balanced home, the children do not come first. In a well balanced home the children feel they come first and there is never a moment they feel they are competing for their parents attention. Unfortunately, this dynamic requires effective tools many do not have.
Also everyone doesn't get stronger from the trials and tribulations they go through. Some people never make it out.
I’m learning about my own childhood watching this !!
I grew with both parents in the home. The parental relationship superseded the upbringing of myself and sibling. I’m in agreement with Nick. Some of my siblings grew with attention because we needed the parent
I watched a clip of the Cam interview and then this one. This woman has the patience of Job.
She’s speaking apples to an orange. They’re on 2 diff wavelengths.