17 Bisexual Guy Problems
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To cheat on someone has nothing to do with sexual orientation it has something to do with personality
@Mikki Reinhold,straight people still get attracted to other men/women even if they are committed. They don't have to cheat,do they?
Exactly
@@qwertymanova2652 straights gays lesbians no matter what we justbattrcat to people when they are beautiful or handsome in appearance. But staying with that person that they love to the rest is what's matter right just liking someone doesn't mean cheating
@@lashenresh4675,zactly
gays and hets understand that a bisexual's dating pool is much larger than a gay's or a het's, and know that their next partner could be literally anybody so people freak out about that lmao
"So you've been with both? Otherwise you wouldn't know right" I HATE THAT.
+MxxnLigght this happened to me last month, it's so annoying.
Sara Grgić yeah what happened to me was that this guy was talking about how his gaydar's pretty spot on, "for example, I know you're straight" to which I replied, "what? I'm not straight haha" and he's asks "OH YOU'RE GAY??? YOOO" and I say no i'm not gay either, and he asks if I've been with both and I said yes and he goes "OH OKAY yeah then definitely you're bi, otherwise how would you even know right?? hahahah" like he gets to decide what i am lmao
+ImpracticalJake exactly I hate that. I am 15 and I came out to my best friend last week and she was just like "are you sure? maybe you are just going through a faze. I mean how can you know you've never had a crush on a girl and you've never dated a girl."
Sara Grgić I just don't get why people gotta make it into such a huge deal. you're gay? cool, you're bi? cool, you're ace, cool. why are they always compelled to doubt you on something they should be grateful you decided to share with them?
+ImpracticalJake and when people ask me "well when did you become bi?" I did not become one I was born bisexual. I was just forced to act straight beacuse I was surrounded by straight people. I didn't become bi I was bi since I was born but I didn't realized that until I came to a certain age
Bisexual men exist, bi the way
Yup im native american and im one of them
Their dangerous
@@trashysoda8418,how?
@@trashysoda8418 What
Pun
Me a bisexual: I’m bi
Person: How do you know? You’ve never even been with a girl
Me: Ok Helen, how do you know if your straight if you’ve never been with a guy?
Nailed it
I need to remember that!!!!! That was amazing, thank you!!!! People ask me this all the time!!!! You are amazing!!! XD
Theatre Geek OOOOOOO
THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!! I'm so glad I'm not the only one who had this problem. People think I'm lying because I have only dated men before.
BURN!!!!!!! 😎
-So you gay or straight?
Me: *yes*
Crusader C A T idk why but I find this really funny😂😂
I’m bi
Or no?
😂
Yesn't
Sexualities as doors
heterosexual: door swings one way
homosexual: door swings the other way
bisexual: door swings both ways
pansexual: revolving door
demisexual: door is locked
asexual: door is actually a wall
omg... I was reading through them, very poker faced. And when I read the last one I cracked up. I needed that, thank you.
Manibe That's an oversimplification, but funny none the less.
Manibe what do the last 3 mean?
shiningstar senorita Pansexual - Someone who is attracted to people, regardless of their genitals.
Demisexual - Someone who is only sexually attracted to people they are emotionally/romantically involved with.
Asexual - People who have no desire to have sex.
peepslostsheep thank you that clarifies a lot:)
I mean bisexual people had all the options since they like both men and women, and yet they chose you. Isn't that kinda sweet?
Kendra Bodelaire yet here i am still single.
@@haiho9027 guess your just meant to be *bi* yourself
Hahaha I'm not funny
Most only do open relationship thou
Im pansexual I have all the options but bi people either date boys girls. Girls nonbinary boys non binary and so on
I just dated a bi guy and things were fine until he cheated on me with his baby mama..... every bi guy I dated has NEVER been satisfied with just a guy yet they choose the girl and still fantasize about the man! It’s unfair
*Me:* mom! I'm bisexual!
*Mom:* "So you're into both boys and girls, but yet you're still single..?"
*Dad:* "more like bi-yourself.."
*Me:* *crying in bisexual
oooooohh
That hurts! That hurts deep!!
Your father's hilarious
Love you much ❤️🥰🌹
@@normalguyonyoutube9330 I am so glad that here is at least a one normal guy :) take care bro! 😋
You guys who are hating on gay and bi people need to grow up. How do their lives affect you in any way whatsoever? Grow up. It's nearly 2015, and people are still immature and hateful towards people who are different.
Well said Gabe, well said. Now where's half life 3 you fool.
NSA Commander Hating gay people isn't an opinion, it's being a bigot plain and simple. If you hate a sexuality or an entire race you're most likely a horrible person who deserves all the crap they get for hating said sexuality or race. It's 2015 quit being an idiot you don't have to complain about everything that gets you all butthurt inside.
NSA Commander Well if I do remember to yesterday you were one of the annoying ignorant bigots crying on yesterdays lgbt video so just guessing here.
NSA Commander That isn't exactly a commendable quality.
trey daniels Nope, he's right. Hatred is from bigoted roots.
When I told a colleague that I'm bi, he took a step away from me. I said "What makes u think I'd hit on u?! I said I'm bi, not blind!"
Usually only guys back away from guys when they say that they are gay or bi. Usually they don't back away from girls, because they like lesbians or girls in general. Although the rude use of the word "stupid" could have been avoided as well. Just clearing that up :)
Haha that's awesome xD
* slow clap *
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!
Please tell me you gave him some cream for that burn!
Bisexuals are attracted to both sexes. That's literally it. It's that simple.
Its not that simple there are more than 2 sexes the usual bi person likes boys and gitls but rhere is bi ppl Who like boys and non binary or girl and nonbinary and so on
@@arrow7923 pretty sure they are right, the one you are talking about is pansexual :)
@@_.kendra._1821actuay no bisexual ppl like 2 genders it doesn't have to be boys and girls I'm pan I like all genders which is more than 2 genders bi ppl like 2 genders not just boy and girl I know what I'm talking about
So.. Many well known and less-well-known bi activists, and myself, define bisexuality as attraction to more than one gender. Everyone I've ever heard on the topic (and I've met hundreds of bi/pan/.. via my meetup group in London UK) also says that their attraction doesn't exclude trans people, or non-binary folk (including trans men and women doesn't stretch the definition anyway though, still just men and women). Definitions evolve over time. Demonstration: September is no longer the 7th month although "sept" means 7. Whats the difference between bisexual and pansexual? Depends who you ask. Some people say no difference, many say pansexuality is attraction to all genders, a few say pansexuality is about attraction independent of a person's gender (ie. thats not what is important about who they fancy at all) vs. bi being attraction to specific genders or to generally-gender-related things - not quite the same if getting technical, and there are other views too. I'm not going to say one is right or wrong over another.
A few pansexual people I know identify that way because there is a belief among some folk that bi excludes non-binary folk and they want to avoid being associated with that version. People who understand trans even less think bi usually excludes trans men and women. More often I've heard genderqueer people /similar identities identify as pansexual than cisgender men and women do (but there are plenty of pan men and women too). Trans non-binary people exist too, in fact I'd posit that non-binary folk can virtually all identify as trans because most country's birth certificates can only say male or female). But not had much discussion on that (any comments from nb folk here on that subject are welcome). Trans men and women people and most respectful people will tell you that being trans man/woman doesn't stop them being men and women).
The most important thing is to respect what they tell you how they identify, be ready to listen to them explain what it means if they trust you enough to share, and don't question them believing they owe you an explanation. Find a pro-trans activist who IS ready to talk about it and already done a video or book etc, if you're curious to learn more about different trans peoples experiences (and aim for more than one view - again, a spectrum of experiences and views exist!). because the average trans person has enough to deal with in day to day life, most don't care to explain it yet again when theres a non-trivial risk of significant stress or attacks or inability to listen and understand. Recommend to do your own work for trans/bi/..., don't put the work on them just cos they're the only (out) trans (or bi/...) person you've met.
Welcome to my castle of wisdom and dangerous by the way
Bi girls - oh thats normal.
Bi boys - GAYYYAYYYYY
Bi girls - secretly straight. Like threesomes.
T R U E,I cant understand why,Ytho?why
It's the other way around for me...
Ikr ir rlly pisses me off
Fern Fore It's normally 'bi girls are just experimenting' and 'bi boys are just in the closet'
"so do you guy like go and check out guys together?"
I'm a bisexual girl and to be honest my boyfriend and I like to check girls out as "bonding"
It happens with my girlfriend and i, hahahah relatable
Hypercorrection...
Literally the type of relationship I want when dating a guy lmao
grow up
Tony Boy are you kidding me don't judge them that's who they are!
I feel like bisexual men don’t get enough acceptance
It's TRUE, tmu say u like girls, ur straight, say u like guys, ur gay forever, but girls can be bi, a lot of this come from black men(stright)😒😒
Yep.
I'm not bi but yeah that's so annoying gosh!!
We don’t ☹️
Sad how most people who say Bi just lie about it for attention
My dad is a bisexual man, and he's been married to my mom for more than 20 year. A peaceful marriage without any affair drama. And now they're raising up another bisexual man, my brother
If you want to be able fall in love with anybody even when you are in relationship, you doesn't need to be a bisexual person, you just need to become a jerk
Ayana Hiromi my dad’s bi too, he did cheat on my mum but that’s cos he wasn’t out and hated himself. He’s actually a better person as a bi man than he ever was as a straight man.
@@brunodrivel2487 no. They are bi.
@@deborahmenchini2931 bi sexual in the thought yet gay or hetro in the action. Bi sugest non comital polyamourous. Which is ok if people consent and no jelosy or abuse. But rare that some one dosent get hurt.
m m bruh come back when u can spell
@@brunodrivel2487 even now, my dad admited he still has sexual attraction to man, so yes, he is a bisexual person who is married to a woman. And being married means you keep loyal to one person, even thought you think other people is atractive. He marry my mom not only based on sexual attration but also because he loves my mom. You can sexual attracted to many people but you can only love one person, right?
Lesbian here. Literally had on a discussion with an actual bisexual girl I was seeing for a bit complaining how people didn't get her sexuality and was so glad I did and was comfortable with it. I told her people weird about dating bisexuals is usually tied to their own insecurities or lack of knowledge about it and I felt secure that who I was dating would love me for me and that I don't stigmatize it and understand it. So no issues there. I asked her how she felt about dating a bisexual man. She told me she struggled with that question all the time and could never bring herself to date one.
The hypocrisy could've blown the damn roof right off her car.
How could a bi person be so biphobic towards the opposite gender? That is a lot of hipocracy right there. As a bisexual female I really have no issue with what your sexuality is as long as you are a good person. I have no issues with dating bi people eithe as my current girlfriend is also bi and I trust her and know she wont br cheating on me.
It hurts so much coming form bisexual women
@@jimd8292 Your comment broke my heart a bit, please please know it's just a small hypocritical minority who think that ♥️
I've heard several reports like yours, this is the hypocrisy of the bisexual woman that few know
DISPROVING THE "GREEDY" THEORY, NOW
Let's say 2 people go out for soft-serve ice cream. They both order a medium ice cream cone. One person orders chocolate, the second person orders a chocolate vanilla twist. Since they got the same size, they got the same *amount* of ice cream, no one got more than the other. So is the second person "greedy", or do they just have a difference in taste?
I couldn't have worded that any better. That sentence has completed my life.
Haha,I'm Bi to,it's so nice to see common sense used in 2015. I completely agree with you that it isn't greedy, in fact if anything less people would be willing to date a bi peron because they are bi. :\
+xxNatesterxx Exactly! the greediness is assumed, when again, that's morality not orientation! What about straight partners who cheat, or hire hookers? isn't that greed? We have a *capacity* to like guys or girls, that's not the same thing as wanting (or being with) both at once! And I got really pissed at some lesbians in a similar video basically refusing to date bi girls. It was awful...LGBT means we're all there and have to work together, not judge each other! It's almost worse than straight people hating, because lesbians and gay guy who are biphobic are hypocrites! But when they do refuse to be with us or whatever, we all have to remember it's their loss
+pixiebells :D That's so true. Thanks for brightening up my day it really means a lot ^-^
+xxNatesterxx Awwww, glad I could help!
LET PEOPLE BE BI!!! Men can be bisexual too!!!
Actually i am
Me too
I know people always tell me that because bisexual I'm really just gay
i'm a bi boy
im pansexual lol
I - as a bisexual woman - can confirm this for all bisexual women/girls too.
Yeah I now... let me just dream ... pls.. I'll give u a cookie later ☺ ♥
Lorena May They made one for girls, too. They linked it at the end of the vid :)
Ensembless thanks for the info ! :**
i'm bi too.
tom ramzi Thank you, ♥♥
"It's just a phase, you know."
"Ah, come on! I know you're just doing it for attention."
"Okayyyy... Wouldn't want to date you though. You'd probably be falling in love left and right."
"You can't be both, c'mon. You have to choose a side."
"Oh, so you're straight now?"
"Oh, okay. I get it. You're experimenting."
Comment if you've had to listen to one of these.....
Yes. It's very annoying especially the first one.
The fifth is what I hear a lot
"You're just doing it for attention/to be cool" is the only thing stopping me from coming out. It kills me that people don't believe me when I say I'm Bisexual, even my friends who are bi because they think I'm copying them to fit in.
I'm pan and I have heard every single one of these.
I haven't but my friend has
That best bi moment when you and your girlfriend are pointing out hot guys to each other.
WitchCraftMS HAHA THAT'S WHAT I USED TO DO WITH MY EX GF
Nice! Yeah, my wife and I do that a lot. She is bisexual as well, so we are very open about who we think is sexy...we check out women AND men together. I feel very grateful to have found someone like her to share my life with. As long as we communicate openly, she is cool with me fucking around with men on the side. In fact, she enjoys hearing all about the encounters...
Hey Im not alone!
+feetjunkie haha your username/pic makes this even better :P
feetjunkie You have my life right there. Its fun having a Bisexual girlfriend, and even better being bisexual.
When a person said: "You're lying"
I automatically slapped her face...
+Matheus Cavalcante some people simply aren't too good in the whole thinking-thing -_-
+Matheus Cavalcante Yeah, im sure you did.....
+Adele Del I used to Live in Brazil, not Europe.
Matheus Cavalcante what has that got to do with anything
I'm so proud
My motto is 'why not both?'
Preach
so you're basically the taco ad girl?
because most people are usually attracted to only one. As a gay man I do NOT want both
ahgase852 ¿por que no los dos?
ahgase852 I'm borrowing your motto, I hope you don't mind
the bible said adam and eve so i did both :)
justin party t h i s i s t h e b e s t
OMG 😂
nice said
This is *E V E R Y T H I N G*
SCREEEEEEEEE :3
that's why I wanna date a bi guy or a bi girl... who understands me and we just date without explaining about bisexuality.
If you ever come to colombia call me
If u ever
I'm here ;))) jk jk 😂😂 but no fr, I get you :P
same
It's pretty smooth sailing; my girlfriend and I are both bi. There doesn't have to be any explanations because we both understand.
Girls love girls and boys! And love is not a choice... doodoo doodoo
THEY'RE CLOSE, TO FINDING OUT ABOUT YOUR GIRLFRIEND.
~sophisticated, manipulated~
...And never did I think that I would be caught in the way you got me
PUSH ANOTHER GIRL ASIDE, AND JUST GIVE IIIIIIIIN
PANIC!
Sometimes I want the hole and sometimes I want the pole. Simple as that.
Seems legit :)
yes. perfect discription
+Nash Sullivan Nah always the hole but still bi ;)
same lol
Umm... I'm sorry, I'm not trying to be rude, but isn't that same goes for 'greedy'. I know the term of 'greedy' were meant to be 'all in once', but still, don't you think so. Well, I'm gay and I don't really like Bi person. Specially Bi who thinks someday they have to marriage. To continue their lives and such. Well, because Bi's likes vaginas, but at the same time they do penises, too. Well, I'm sorry really. I don't have any bad intention, it just, even though you said it's simple. Idk why, I don't see it that way.
Me at a gay bar: "Oh, I'm bisexual"
Gay guy: "Ah yes.. I was bi once."
Me: *sighs and orders another drink*
Me; "that`s funny a was gay once too and straight before that"
“Oh, so now you're back in the closet? Don't worry about it, I was 'gay' at one point, too.“
That’s like saying “You have depression? I was sad last week.”
"No no, it's one or the other there's no in between" "why can't you just pick one... It's weird" I know they're just actors but I wanted to slap them sooo bad
Me too.
Why are people so douchey?
+Insightful Lad Because they fear and hate what they don't understand.
Jen Dowie It is so.
Ikr...freaking straight and gay people amirite!!
It's just like how people in the 1500's persecuted scientists for witchcraft, and how the Romans persecuted the Christians for believing a different religion. People are afraid of things that are different, and things that they don't have control over. It's sad, but true. My mom actually told me that she'd be fine with me if I was gay or straight, but if I was bisexual, she would think that I'm weird. (She's still a great mom though)
Omg. Hot ginger alert. *horns and whistles*
YoursTruly I feel ya
YoursTruly xD same
YoursTruly woof indeed!! xD
That guy is super hot
Michael Cardenas right?
I FEEL YOU MAN. I FEEL YOU> ALL BI'S REUNITE
(Uniting intensifies).
Ivy Vine UNITED AT ONCE*looks around* wait no one else is here....................
Noah Gomez HERE! :D
YUSSS GURL :DDDDDDD
Ivy Cheang YUSSSS GURLLLL
"Bi people eventually are straight or gay"
No. If a person who happens to be monogamous wants to be with someone, they will pick ONE person. Who is either a man or a woman.
It's not that hard I swear
Omg, i facepalmed so many times at what they said to the bi dude.
I honestly feel like things are worse for bisexual guys then bisexual girls
Oh trust me. I've barely got any junk for being bi yet and I'm in middle school!
Jessica Charlene yeah. you're in middle school. you think you're so mature, yet you're still just a child -.-
Gavin Bowen I think what she actually meant was that people around her, in middle school, are younger, more inexperienced and can be meaner about the fact of her being bisexual but they are apparently not. Instead of bashing her by assuming she is thinking of herself as mature, thought i have no idea how you even got to that conclusion, you should just kept quiet or be glad for her for not having troubles because of her sexuality because that is rare these days.
usedtobemyself a middle schooler wouldn't be thinking like that, and even if she was, it's not really true. most of the time, it's the older generations saying more things (and worse things)
Gavin Bowen Well I had different experiences because when I was in middle school, people would react more weird than in High school.
God being bi is so confusing and it's only because people like this make it so. Yes I'm attracted to both genders, but first of all lets step back from gender because that's not what it's all about. There are specifics about men and women that I find attractive, but it really comes down to the person specifically that turns me on. I'm tired of people always making it all about gender, why can't it just be about love?
+hiyaryan that is one statement a lot of people should read...
+hiyaryan agreed
love another bi
+hiyaryan Feeling the pansexual vibes
+hiyaryan That is called being pansexual
I want to date a bi person so that we can talk about boys and girls together.
It's literally the best thing 🤗
I mean isn't it kinda rude to talk to the person you're dating about other people you wanna date
@@giuliad223 Depends on the relationship you have. My husband and I have no problem with this.
@@giuliad223 It's not really "other people you want to date"; it's "oh yeah, they are really attractive!" It's fun sometimes to compare and contrast your types.
Well hello:)
People doesn't understand is that being bisexual means that you're straight mon-tue-wen and gay thu-fri-sat and the sunday you throw a coin
Nunya Business it was a joke
Edi CP I mis-read your comment sorry.
Edi CP nope 👎 not ture
It rlly depends for example you might have someone who has a preference over guys/girls or they could be like me (I don't rly have one I'm 50/50)
_"sat and Sunday you throw a coin"_ dbsbjisbishsh god bless
Bisexuals aren't more likely to cheat on people. We just like females and males. I'd stay committed because I can't understand how people cheat. It's about who the person is, not what their sexuality is.
plus, it's not like it's that different than straight or gay people. if you are In a committed relationship, you probably won't fall for someone else no matter their gender. same thing goes for bisexuals (or biromantics)
I'm a straight man. But I still sometimes check out guys with my girl. You don't have to be gay to think I guy can be good looking
you don't have to be straight to think women are attractive either. it all about who your into
❤️true
Yep I am straight Female but I can find women attractive too.
Appreciating the human form in its beauty does not determine your sexuality. ☺️
I want a boyfriend like you so we can appreciate beauty together 😂
"It's time we all saw gender as a spectrum rather than two sets of opposing ideals"
-Emma Watson
You dont say why you just said we should
Sexuality and gender aren’t spectrums. It’s a lame excuse🤗
I love her
@@JoelWalker56 gender is not, sexuality is a spectrum.
kill bill Neither of them are.
I am bisexual and I actually enjoy checking out guys with my girlfriend lol. A plus is that she is pan-sexual, so we even check out women.
lol that's a dream relationship right there
+Gracie Beauregard Is it though?
***** It is; being free with someone that one loves or fancies is the greatest feeling ever.
+McCrafter109 Yeah, unreservedly just checking out whoever with your SO is really fun to do.
OneMileyCyrusFanVlog Lol I see, well I am sure that you will be delighted to know that I am in an open relationship.
i am a bisexual girl and i can confirm this is true for women as well.
I know right? It's so bloody annoying 😭
lol but like half of girls are bi or say they are
Angelyca Robbson your comment was removed as 'spam' by some ignorant dumbass. im trying to take it back hold up
Ignore - Let's Plays! i can't tell if you're insulting me.
It's true for anyone who's bisexual believe me.
Okay the girl at 1:22 is literal tumblr.
Be My Dreamspiration yaoi hands
And, what's wrong with loving bisexual men?
Hebiyoujo I think they're referring to the yaoi loving fangirls of tumblr.
@@Educatedunhousedperson no just the point that tumblr is literally cancer
@@Educatedunhousedperson You say "loving bisexual men", I see "treating human beings with the same respect as you would teddy bears". Awkward! ^_^;;
“Save some for the rest of us!”
“Not everyone likes me Susan!”
It's just that Susan cant co.pete and she knows it
More like no one for me lol
Being bi doesn’t automatically make you a Casanova.
I'm asexual, so in my opinion ya'll can have 'em ALLLLLLLL. Have anyone you want. Have a great time. Enjoy yourselves! Live ya life! GO HAM! OR DON'T! YOU DO YOU!
(and be safe!)
XD
Same!
I'm jealous of asexual people.
I don't mean to come off rude, but what is asexual? I've heard about, but not full detail. I don't want to offend or give wrong information about asexuals. Would you mind informing me?? ^^"
+이미송 asexual basically means you aren't attracted to anyone.
I can wait for you guys to cover the spectrum of orientations. You guys know that sexual and romantic attraction are two different things, right?
Notyourtypical Why? why is there all this hair splitting? They are basically the same thing.
Albert Hollow No. I'm asexual, meaning I never want to partake in any sexual act with either gender, but that doesn't mean I don't do romance. Just not the sexual parts of it.
Raina Jacobs That's odd. The world is just full of strange people.
Albert Hollow Strange to YOU.
Calm down... I have a spork.
my boyfriend who is bisexual got so many of these while dating me... its so sad....
+Steven Grey Same with my ex it was so annoying
"Today sucked"
"are you bi too?"
Jesus that just got better with time
My ex left me cause I told her I was bi... Her loss cause I'm having a great time with my new boyfriend :)
If she left you for that it means she didn't really love you, if she really loved you she would have stayed with you
Fran2002 no , its just a preference , honestly i can't date a bisexual men because i love tall manly , and to me bisexual men are not that manly ,
Fran2002 for me not dating bisexual men is same as not dating short men
hum... I really don't understand how that could a preference... I mean if someone's bi is because they are attacted to 2 genders, what's the problem with that...
Fran2002 well , something are difficult to explain ,its just that straight guys are seen as more manly ,i like men who are taller and stronger than me but when i think about bisexual men ,i don't see them as manly that's it
I really really dig the chick with the purple hair
Me too Chad me too....
Gabby, she is smoking!
***** She's cute and funny and Bi like me....oops I have a youtube crush!
Do you have like a shovel, or...?
seriously guys.....no
The struggle is real, and while men see bisexual woman as totally hot, woman don't feel that way with men.
They dont?
Euh I can assure you it is as hot for some women to see men together
It is for me hihi
Anyways, when people ask me about what I like, I just go by bi, cause trying to make them understand that I'm attracted to intellect, and don't care about gender, is too much '-'
Let's hope, time will help ^^
naletio
Umm... Call me? :D
Henri-Ansel Vallee xD
How do I do so? :p
I dunno, I find bi guys super attractive (fellow bi here) But it's gross when guys think girls are bi just for their entertainment :/
Straight man: I'm into girls
Gay man: Boys are cute
Bisexual man: HOLES ARE HOLES!!!
I didn't get it??
can't think bout a good name you must be really innocent
Bi guys aren’t only into holes, you know...
@@ostsarahb7466 a meme with that
Hehe I like butt yes
my spouse is bi and I Had extreme fears going into it because I'm gay. But 13 years later and we are very okay. It was hard for me to accept his sexuality and logic but then I thought wait I'm acting exactly like a homophob. I trust him, It took awhile for it to build because of fears. I guess my point is if your dating someone bi and everybody is getting in your head, if the person is genuine, give them a chance because you never know.
Darth Nito I'm sorry, I'm not at that point yet. I'm gay but bi's are in my to-not-date list; a precaution for my emotionally unstable self. I'd be more hurt if I ever see an ex back with a girl.
Soullise News Network hmm interesting 🤔 if you don’t mind me asking, why do you feel that way?
It's that girls can give more to a bi dude than a gay man. A gay man can't give you kids and the relationship is still seen as nasty to this society.
The worst is when you lose the girl who you are totally in because her friend said to her you are gay but actually you aren't. #truestory
Her friends weren't lying, you do like boys
Buzzfeed is basically giving a middle finger to all the homophobes who have been complaining lately about all the lgbt related uploads...lol yes! Love it! 😜
Oh my god. The dreaded "so you're gay now".
My mom once yelled at someone for saying that to me.
She's the most progressive straight woman I know.
Lucky you, my mother wouldn't have said that
@Icy Scarlet I'm from Italy, my name is Francesco so "Fra" and my surname is "Rotunno" but my friends call me "Rotu" or "Rotù", so I decided to call myself "Fra Rotù"
@Icy Scarlet Yeah I'm bi and the lgbt+ community here in Italy is like 50% or 70% accepted more or less because they accept gay marriage but they don't accept the addoption for gay people. I said that my mother wouldn't have said that but she doesn't disown me, actually we have a pretty strong relationship, it's just that she doesn't really understand and accept but I'm trying to make everything clear to her
I would love to have a bi boyfriend someday 😍
@Shawn Guzman I don't have a Twitter
bi's might get "so your'e gay right?"
but when your pan you get the whole
"wait. doesn't that mean you are bi?"
"No. it means i like all genders."
"How can you like all genders if there is only 2?"
Yes I just discorvered about pansexuals.. I dont get it either I think the same thing is there not only two genders?
Angelina Sambuca there are only two SEXES(some are born with both parts) but gender is a spectrum that had no limits.
that is the difference, bisexuals only like 2 genders as a preference while pansexuals like them all and have no preference
I get that ALL the time!!
"I like all genders!"
"So... you're bi...."
😒😒😒😒😒😒😒
+Clippy chan but dont people identify as one or the other for the most part? Even if you're born with both, you can still be male or female. You can be both obviously, but on personallity it normally shifts more towards one area. So wouldn't that make them that one gender? I keep seeing this whole comment section talking about how pans get these questions. But no one says what actually makes them different. Like you just said. "Its a spectrum" Well yeah... but what else is on it. Even if you're a drag queen, or drag king, you would sexually most likely be female or male. If you're trans, you identify as female or male. So i just dont see what else is there. v.v
Cressy Cresitonia there are a lot more genders than that, some genders such as demigirls and demiguys feel partially female/male (like what you where explaining in your comment) while people that are genderqueer feel like a mix of different genders and feel different each day. there is also agender which is someone who feels like they aren't a boy, girl, or anything n between. as it is a spectrum some people feel more like one or the other, other people feel a balance of both, and others don't feel like they have a gender at all.
hope this cleared things up a bit :3
"If you _had_ to choose" you don't know how many times I've heard that.
21
Buy me Sherts Congrats, you got a tyrant to want to strangle you cause he has heard 21 too many times. ( YOU BETTER NOT ASK HAVE I HEARD IT 21 TIMES)
ARE YOU THE GIRL IN THE VIDEO?!
Yoopsen213 Haha, no. But that would be awesome to work at BuzzFeed!
Could be worse, I just have people assume im more attracted to men because im kind of camp
I'm going to be honest, I've definitely asked the "Which do you prefer" question.
I officially love you just for being Bigby Wolf.
***** You are wrong. I did never ask that question and so did a lot of other people.
Im bisexual, and I really wouldn't be offended by that, although I know how people would be. If you want to avoid offending people the question is "Do you have a preferance"
I would ask that question too :)
I'm mean why not.. it could be like 40% and 60% or something like that.
***** if they want to ensure a hetrosexual friend that they're not making moves on them then sure, if not then no. that would be pointless.
This is the most annoying thing ever.
Everyone is telling you to "Just pick one"
This is not ok.
People are fine with people being gay or straight, but you're not allowed to like guys and girls?
Because most people only like one gender
No, it’s not ok to like both. Make up your mind and stop fooling yourself.
Bruce Humphrey Please be a troll.
Ravenclaw Thestral Don’t see how telling the truth is considered being a “troll”.
@@JoelWalker56 It doesnt affect you in any sort of way, Get out of peoples business
person: are you straight or gay?
bi person: ... no??..
pansexual problems? but it might be similar to bi probs idk
there would just be a lot more wtf is that?
Quite similar to bi, probably, just a bit more explanation of the whole non-binary concept and all that.
True ^^
But that would give pan people more recognition, which is always good!
Yeah that's true I hope they make one!
wait is kenny actually bi?
Yes
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So he's gay?
Caroline Patterson Yes if you put buzzfeed kenny into youtube there's a video called coming out but not really
Bruce Wayne ....I'll be in my bunk.
My boyfriend Is bi, i love him, because he choose me on a Worl full of man AND womans ❤️❤️❤️
men and women*
I hate hearing this stuff about bisexual guys. It's not easy being a bisexual woman but for men it's even worse no denying it.
L I can deny it from the experience lots of people say that only men can be bi and women do it for guys I HATE IT
Maggie C bisexual women themselves are very bigoted against dating bisexual men.
Mary G ummmm no
L u bet it is
Maggie C right? Like how come guys can like other guys but a girl can't like another girl and it has to be for another guy? It's's frustrating and stupid.
My favorite parts of the video:
Ashly: "but isn't that greedy, save some for the rest of us!" (It's funny because she's bi😂)
Random guy: "let me get this straight, you're gay" get it? okay I'll leave now
WAIT ASHLY IS BI!?!?!?!?
HOW HAVE IVE NOT KNOWN THAT I LEGIT LOVE HER!!!!!!! 😍😍😍
let me get this STRAIGHT, you're GAY
10/10 bes jok evr
I wish I was bi so much, seems girls like me more than guys.
Delta Powell 😒 I'm a guy, and you don't just "become" bi. Hey that rhymed lol.
Hmm. Interesting feeling. Maybe give girls a shot. You could like them.
Giving things a shot actually makes sense, although people often do mental gymnastics to say otherwise.
androkguz I'm gay lol.
***** It still applies.
I mean, lots of gay guys have had girlfriends before.
And straight guys should give guys a shot at least once.
I don't know, it makes sense to me, but it's your life
+androkguz dude you don't know what you're talking about you can't force anyone to like/do anything some people are just the way they are and you've got to accept that.
As a bisexual male I get so annoyed at those type of people who say I'm gay or only girls can be bi
Pan and Bi girls get this to
Ava Bailey-Torres They made a separate video for that.
can you send me a link?
Ava Bailey-Torres There's one at the end of the video.
Ava Bailey-Torres Not really, Pansexual people get even more shit.
Will Nintendo Because they are a made up sexuality.
My dad is bisexual and he didn't tell my sister and I until after he divorced my mom. My sister didn't like that so she moved in with her friend, but I told my dad whatever makes him happy makes me happy. It's a bit awkward sometimes when he bring women and men home sometimes, but I'm just glad he can finally be who he wants to be. Love you dad! :)
Just dropping in to say
Bisexuality is valid.
It's even frustrating when people call pansexuals bisexuals, it's not the same thing people.
it doesn't exist
@@tommybontempo6558 It does. I do exist
@Rainbow Cat bisexuality is when you like both guys and girls, polysexuality is when you like multiple genders, and pansexuality is when you like people regardless of gender.
@@PrivateBryan maybe but bisexuals don't date transgender etc and pansexual date everyone
Unless someone who could be classified as pansexual identifies as bisexual... and just to clarify, because I see a few transphobic comment here and there, being pansexual doesn’t mean being attracted to trans people (unless you mean non-binary people, but that still doesn’t make you pansexual)
You know what everyone that's a "just pick a side!" I'm like... Bro... Sexuality.. Isn't... A FREAKING TWIX BAR SO DONT BE TELLING ME TO PICK A SIDE!!!
I still haven't told my parents
Same. I haven't told anyone & im scared. Gonna keep it to myself tbh
Same
im a 16 year old male bisexual and have only recently really accepted it, i have a girlfriend but kinda have an attraction towards men. I told her and she really didnt mind. after that i really wasnt stressed anymore and just told my close friends. i havent told my parents doh but i will do in time .
@@Asmr.Music2Relax I've only just realised I'm bi myslef. I ain't told nobody yet
I am a 16 year old bisexual female from a Catholic family. I haven't told my parents, nor am I ever planning to.....
"So you like everyone!!!???"
I believe you're thinking about pan
Correction pans could like everyone but don't necasserily like everyone but I get your drift
And bi people can like "everyone". I like people of the same gender as me and people of different genders. I choose to identify as bi, some identify as pan.
HahAh bisexual girl here. A lot of these are relatable, and absolutely no one knew that I was actually bisexual because of how straight I look 😂 I mean, I still prefer guys over girls, I just have a taste for girls too.
How does one *look* straight?
Lesbians totally have a stereotypical look
On side note people were calling me a pansy long before i realized i was bi (i bloomed later than the avg guy when it came to sexual attraction i was 15)
It doesn't matter if you're a girl, no matter what you guys do it'll always be seen as a turn-on regardless. But oh no, God forbid you have a penis in your bio know what all horrible thing. I'm being sarcastic. You guys are such in your own bubble because all you know is validation attention guys want you and on the other side is the exact opposite so you can't talk on this because you don't know what it's like to be male and bisexual. Because of your gender Society always has your back no matter what but when it comes to us every little thing is nothing but criticism every little thing is fit into this box of what we want you to be because you're a man
Never understood the bi hate, why would you hate on me just because you like vanilla and I like vanilla and chocolate?
Bisexuality is real people I'm bi cause I do like some women but also like guys.
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I feel you 💯 @eoprocks
And you probably will end up with women, and people will still think that you're straight
I almost prefer bi/pan guys because some straight guys are that closed minded... or my straight ex (while we were together) would talk about girls wiht better bodies and didn't get why it'd upset me. I'M STILL YOUR GIRLFRIEND AND YOU'RE NOT THAT ATTRACTED TO ME!
"But then on Wednesdays you rest, because that's like a personal day" lmao😂😂😂
my wife knows I been with men and she ok with it
Lol why you say that . What does it change?
I think I would be too
I would be fine with it too
james melton found yourself a great woman😊👍
bi guys are hot
Wado thanks
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😏
Thank you
yuvy and dangerous
jesus buzzfeed, stop trying so hard to be non homophobic. its ridiculous. now you're putting a gay couple or gay related topic in EVERY VID! WE GET IT!
Do you actually think they're trying to be non homophobic by posting these videos? They're actually posting them because a lot of people enjoy watching them such as myself, not posting a video about LGBT things doesn't make you homophobic pal.
Andrew Cechy yeah. because it is the norm. but in these vids they make out all lgbt people to be level headed perfect understanding people and everyone else to be ignorant bigots that cant fathom the idea of being gay, bi, etc... they try too hard to make gay couples be a norm.
Andrew Cechy Yeah buzz feed tries way to hard to make homosexuality seem normal, but no amount a videos will change statistics. Heteronormativity will dominate because a mass majority of all people are heterosexual. It is illogical to make deviants seem normal.
Albert Hollow haha, im amazed we've gotten this far without someone raging about how much they hate gays or something like it. people tend to not stay calm when talking about beliefs. im christian, i dont hate gays and im not prejudice, i just dont support it. I hate that if you're not for the public opinion then you're suddenly a homo hating irrational nazi bigot. let people have their opinions
Albert Hollow haha XD yeah, it just sucks that when a few "christians" go and blab about how everyones going to hell and that gays are the bane of existence and etc... because then people make all of us out to be ignorant pricks. its like saying all muslims are jihadist bombers
When a girl's bi: HOT
when a guy's bi: Why are you gæ?
Can they make a pansexual version of this???
Seriously
I'm pan, and I swear to god everyone things I'm confusing... they're like "so you can fall in love with pizza?" 😒
+Krystelle Anne Ternura Ikr and don't forgot the oh so clever "so you like pans? are you attracted to kitchenware?"
My god yes
It's kinda the same experience tho, seeing as trans men and women are still men and women
"You have to pick one gender, you can't have both." Okay, which one do you like better, a bed with no sheets or sheets with no bed? Remember, you can only pick one. You can't have both.
Also, ugh. Imagine being pansexual. "Are you gay?"
"No, I'm pan."
"What is that?"
"You kinda like all genders, it doesn't usually matter what they are."
"So you're bi."
"Bi is only two genders."
"Yeah, exactly. So you're Bi."
Noooooooooo... I'm not...
Also male and female aren't the only goddamn genders, Jesus.
+JoanEgbertAndFriends I'm not totally understanding what pansexual is... forgive me if I accidently offend somebody... so is pansexual where you like boys and girls, regardless of whether they're gay, lesbian, bi, straight, cis, trans, all that stuff? correct me if I'm wrong and add anything I missed.
Jessie ! Yes.
We are also attracted to Non-Binary/intersex people.
We have a saying here in our community; Hearts, not parts.
I have been confused about what pansexuality is because of the way they state it. Most people don't know about all the gender out there, you shouldn't be surprised when someone gets confused when you say something as vague as; "I like all gender."
It is understandable however when you say; "I only look at personality."
Sir Yabas III BASICALLY;
We love people for them.
I actually came out as Bi this year and luckily my friands and family have been vary supportive and excepting. :D
Matty W Good for you! :)
Matty W great for you :D
Matty W Great, but don't expect that from everyone
Alak Magalhães I know. Haters gonna hate :P
640abdalla I'm really sorry about that :(
I know this is an old vid, but it's still Totally relatable. I was at a party one time and two of my friends were trying to set me up with a bunch of guys simply because they were "also gay". None of them were even my type. Anyway, when I explained to them that I was bi, and not just "gay", my one of my friends proceeded to ask "What's the difference?". We need to end this kind of insensitivity.
Hey im from the present lol! Missed out on all these good conversations.
Anyways its not so bad. Dummies are all around, and most first dates will feature intense questioning about your sexuality. You get used to it. At least its not like it was 15 years ago
*whispers* why does no one talk about pansexuals?
***** Fr. People either never talk about it or they deny it being a real sexuality.
Fat Unicorn Productions * sad sounds*
***** Nah, we don't really exist to most people. x asexual pansexual here (double-nonexistent)
Bi means you like 2 genders. It could be any two genders not just Male an Female... I never said that wasn't true.
garfreeek that's not what I said?? I Know that, I'm just saying that on Buzzfeed (or like anywhere)they never talk about Pan people. I'm in full support of bi ppl and they can love whom ever they want!
I'm super happy they're noticing that bisexuality EXISTS but heyyyy what about pansexualityyy?.. no? .....
yea i'm used to that...
+hungrypikachu135 RIGHT. PAN NATION HERE
cvs4297 YUSS
I know right,,, like, we're here too you know ;((
I doubt we'd ever get an omni version of this and most definitely not exactly what I am (or even really any form of romantic-sexuality difference like pan and ace together) so basically I'm just gonna route for pansexuality here too xD
No offense but until last month I thought pansexuality was the same as Bi (which I am) until my pan friend explained it to me
I don't want to see/hear how these people would react to a pansexual! LOL
+adrianloveslucius ikr
Actually thats not an bad idea.
omg yes
IKR
Where does pan fall, if it sexual attraction then it's by the body normally so I don't get how pan is different to bi? As a bi guy myself
My boyfriend and I are both bi (he’s bisexual and I’m asexual/biromantic) and we both agree that there are too many beautiful people in the world to limit yourself to just one gender.
I also found out that he’s liked me almost as long as we’ve known each other, both before and after I came out as trans. I love him.
I'm literally cringing at this video because I have literally heard a majority of these comments more than once ughhhh
pansexual or asexual problems please!?
Yes please... sometimes I just say I'm bi cause I'm tired of explaining what pansexual is
Polysexual right here
Melanie Melanie Aye... Polysexuals are gr8... in fact for a while I thought I was Polysexual, until I realized I like girls too
Also is your name perhaps a reference to Melanie Martinez? (if not it's chill too)
No, it's like my nickname. I listen to her though.
Melanie Melanie Oh haha yeah I love her a lot ;) I'm a crybaby at heart
I have a crush on that purple hair girl
So do I and I'm a bi guy.
I'm bisexual too
She's bi too. So you're in luck
I know!
She's gabby. Her and Alison have their own channel called just between us. You should check it out, it's awesome
No one’s going to talk about the problems with being pansexual?
- people not understanding that you love every gender
- people thinking you’re just gay
- everyone is cute (aHAhAhAhHHahahHhhAA)
- wE aRe NoT gAy
- people not knowing what it is
- having to explain it over
And over
And over
And over
There’s a thing called google. I’m not going to explain it anymore
Yeah a lot of problems u are a bisexual Who:
1 is transphobic
2 doesn't know the definition of bisexual
3 u want to be "different and cool"
“- people thinking you're just gay“
If you're lucky they think you're just bi but want to be more fancy.
@@gonzalolik4381 how did you come to those conclusions?
@@michaelhomes8049 I am going to put it easy. We bisexuals like every gender on earth, we don't care about your gender. Pansexual is the same but is transphobic because "they are differences in cis people and trans" and "bisexual only like cis people". So pansexual are bisexual but the existence of pansexual beyond bisexual is in fact transphobic.
@@gonzalolik4381 thanks for taking the time that makes sense
2:04 How come I never thought of doing this before ? 😂😂😂
Don't forget to take Wednesdays off
It's ironic because Ashly is bi now
Georgie Ford not bi *now* but out of the closey
Georgie Ford she's gay...
She's BEEN Bi since birth, but she is figuring out mentally and coming out.
Omg sex is sex, simple and natural as that. Man and man woman and woman, whatever. Everything is completely normal as long as its consensual.
True +1
+1
Non consentual sex is natural too (occours in nature)
The word you're looking for is "ok" as in "not a bad thing)
+1000000000
It's mostly a female female thing but people claim that it's not "real sex". I don't get it.
Being bisexual actually makes more sense than being straight or gay ✌🏼❤️🙏🏼