'BisexuaIity Isn't Real'
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some bi slurs i’ve seen you guys have come up with in the comments so far:
-Bionicles (naturally)
-Bykes
-Baggots
-SeeSaws
-PingPongs
-Fence Sitters
-Diet Gays
-Bisexual
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"21 seconds" after upload? That's a personal record lol
TRANS RIGHTS
That time of the year already huh?!
Happy Belated Birthday!!!
bi gang, assemble
*'Georgia Guidestones destroyed'*
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
LETS GOOOOOOOOOOOO
FCK THE NWO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
As a pansexual, please put a warning when you’re going to flash cookware like that. It’s really awkward to “get going” in public.
gets me harder than a cast iron skillet
💀💀💀
*PUBG intensifies*
🍳🥘🍳
@@thatHARVguy I like my weed too.
Gay people: It's not a choice
Also Gay people: CHOOSE
You debunking the entire homosexual agenda with one comment -
Yes, I remember a boy who is gay, and I had a friend who is bi. I thought I could match them, but the boy who is gay said to me that my friend couldn't be bi, he must be either gay or straight. I was a closeted bi too. So this annoyed me.
Every man that I slept with did not mind me being bisexual.
I had a GF in highschool who claimed she was bi, at the time I didn't care we were monogamous so I really didn't give a shit. I never saw any evidence of it, honestly I thought she was could be and trying to get attention (she was) Fast-forward 20 years and last time we spoke she said it was "toxic" bc I was "so into" her being with women.
Thank God we didn't last must after highschool, she is absolutely insane now.
@@Fausto_4841 You dodged a bullet
"You aren't oppressed enough to be valid." *Proceeds to oppress*
they're helping us to get enough oppression points, how sweet of them
@TheGrandeGenio i know i find that way of thinking hilarious. They attack us for not being oppress, how ironic
@@treeeyed8578 yep
"here, let me do the honors🥰🥰"
@@VoidSpider69 ong
I dated a lady who said she was bi....... I just didn't know she meant bipolar.
All women are bi, that way.
I dated a lady who was bi... She was bipolar and bisexual 😂
Please god let this be a joke.
Rest in pieces.
Here all week folks!
Everyone knows the best bisexual slur is "centrist"
Ew...
Works as a slur for ace people too
prefect
Or cuntrist
Fucking Brilliant 🔥🔥
Bahhhhh!!!😆
"Sexuality isn't a choice"
"Dear bissexuals CHOOSE!!!"
Underappreciated point.
Actually saying it was not a choice was to get traction. Now that they can cancel people they call it proud choice. FYI it was always a choice at some point. Perhaps people really messed with your head as child, now it's a sexual attraction.
@@Photovintageguy tfw califorian white male and you have to honestly wonder how many of the people responsible for you during your childhood were secretly activist freaks who wanted you to fail/die/never reproduce and you'll never really have the answer but you know it's definitely more than one
@@Photovintageguy "sexuality was always a choice at some point"
Waitafuckinminute... I hope you're talking only about bisexuals now... it would very piss me off if not because you'd so wrong that it would seem almost unbelievable that you'd meant it seriously...
@@mrcrabowski everyone forms some kinda sexual preference along the way. It could be early on. Regardless that whole it's not a choice, is from maybe 10, 20 years ago. Look up what people are saying about sexual preference. It's a proud "choice" now. I personally never thought people were born a certain way. But peoples sexual preferences/fetish don't exactly seem like a choice they just kinda fall that way based on experiences. That's why messing with kids heads in school the way they are doing it, is pure evil. "Study estimates trans youth population has doubled in 5 years". At this point those kids definitely wouldn't call it a choice, it's a path they are definitely going down. But many change thier mind of course. Studies have reported higher rates of desistance among prepubertal children. A 2016 review of 10 prospective follow-up studies from childhood to adolescence found desistance rates ranging from 61% to 98%, with evidence suggesting that they might be less than 85% more generally.
"Some men are okay, not all men are your father."
I wheezed so hard I'm seeing stars
that quote is fucking goated
Weird how when it comes to bi people, leftoid bigotry almost exactly mirrors reactionary rightoid bigotry.
Nah most leftists don't hate bi people, these are just the most ridiculous ones picked from all over the internet. At least over here in Europe no leftist/liberal ever was mean about it to me
Because leftoid bigotry has always been reactionary. These people ruin the left and allow the right wind to portray all of the left as “woke”
@@magdajabonska537 Because all Europeans are homogenous...
Also, "Most leftists". *Googles world populations*. So you're telling me the Chinese are inclusive of this? They can't even receive a basketball team without forming rallies to shout slurs. I doubt they're more accepting of "western" variances of sexuality.
U theory. The extreme left and extreme right are the ends of the U, closer to each other than they think.
@@magdajabonska537Man wish that was true politically here (America) yeah the left tends to be more accepting but in other parts of life ppl who claim to be on the left act alot of the same way as the right when confronted with the idea of dating or being around one of us especially if we don't identify or selfs immediately some see it as a form of deception
Dear bisexuals: not only are you welcome at Pride, your heterosexual spouse is welcome too. If you disagree, fite me.
lol i always thought even allies were allowed so i'm not sure why they're gatekeeping that hard. dumb people in every faction, i guess.
I know women who say other women are not a mother if they had a c-section
I don't disagree. But let's box!!
@@gonzostwin1 oh don’t remind me of that idiocy
@@gonzostwin1 WTF?! That’s absurd! C section mothers actually have a much harder time to recover, in fact lots of them die from heavy bleeding and shock from being cut open. It’s really disgusting how women will invalidate other women’s pain 😡
"most bi women have only dated 1-2 girls."
me, a straight male who hasnt dated any chick: "is this implying that im asexual?"
Damn bro guess I’m asexual too
We must all be asexual huh
@@captaincapitalis1205 Same
@@captaincapitalis1205 I prefer the term wizard. I earned it.
Man dont know Im bi and I havent dated a man or a women. Thats beein unsuccessful on all sides
I’m married to a bisexual woman. I’m straight, you can cry for me. This video was good and truthful. Thanks for sharing.
Why are these people fighting against themselves, it’s like watching someone cutting off their arm because they hate their hand
it's amazing how they divide themselves
@@arghpee how they “bi”-sect themselves
It’s unreal. I tried to explain this to my straight boyfriend and he was so baffled. He cannot understand why we (bionicles) are being vigorously attacked. He’s like “isnt it love is love” and acceptance above all? Apparently not.
Turn off the internet and the attacks go away. Seriously it's not like strangers would know I'm Bi unless I tell them.
And he's right, "Love IS Love" but acceptance isn't something we can expect everyone to have.
Another straight man here, who's been romantically involved with two bi girls (not at the same time). It never even occurred to me to judge them for that. One of the girls told me she preferred relationships with men because she thoughyt it was easier. I didn't go into why that was, but I think her reasoning was that it was more complicated (emotionally) for her to be in a relationship with another girl. Shre'd probably be called out as homophobic by the alphabet community.
@@TotalTuxedo yea the whole love is love argument is the exact argument maps use.
@@Onnarashi I was thinking that while watching the video; I can *EASILY* see a lot of bisexual women favour men because it's simply going to (very likely) be an easier relationship, without the hassle of having to deal with two womens hysteria. (one is usually too much for any guy, much less a woman)
But no, being realistic, looking out for your own mental health, and making the best choices for yourself...?
Well that's just homophobic ain't it? Hah!
No, silly. It's "Belong to my specific group and adhere to my specific ideology... Or else..."
"straight men can be trusted with other men, absolutely not I've seen what the homies get up to."
I aint even gonna fight this, this is facts.
Kiss your homies goodnight!
Homies in the back be like
Grab ass with the homies was the best game in highschool :)
@@eduardhegyi you know many secrets of the Bro Code
This is legit true from my own experiences.
alphabet people enabled friendly fire
Lol does you think that saying this will be taken as fine?
@@epoilca yup. we dont care.
@@BURNERACCOUNTFORRYTNRS braindead
As a trans person I can only say bisexuals are a godsent. No matter how feminine or masculine I look, they're still attracted to me. This is a lot of comforting stability to me
Valid statement
bisexualaliy is dating someone before, during and after their transition
@@thekidontheinternet6178 based
As you are trans person, it's super affirming to know your "real" identity is baser off others' attraction to you. Loser. Happy loser month🎉
You aren’t trans. Socially made up term that doesn’t exist in reality.
Saying bisexual women who have never been with a woman are fake hurts so much. I had just accepted that I was bi 6 years into a relationship with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Just because I'm not going to leave him to go have experiences with a woman doesn't mean I'm any less bi. God these kinds of people are infuriating
I know it makes me wanna punch something. Then I remember these people are just gatekeeping morons who have no idea what they're talking about lol
I have the same problems but I'm a bi guy with a gf
I am straight and women are repulsed by me. It doesn’t make me less heterosexual
Same here !! I'm in very similar circumstances and it took a lot of courage claiming my biness.
You're valid, and only how you feel inside dictates who you are, not your circumstances nor the experiences you had.
We choose a person, not a 'side'
Saying that you arent bi for not having experiences with women is like saying straight people with no bitches aint straight
This is what happens when your sexuality is your whole identity
Based
idk i think youre sexuality being a large part of your identity isnt a bad thing but it's just when you start insulting people for their sexuality in some kind of "mine is the best"
@@strvmpet Sexuality is not large part
Character
Deeds
Skills
Intelligence
And so on.... Play even major roles
Sexuality just makes you likes people sexually, nothing huge accomplished by this
@@harsha6937 i'd disagree, their is a massive gay culture and when people refer to making your sexuality your whole identity it mainly refers to people who are more involved with that culture
@@strvmpet Get the hell out of that culture then
There is no necessity of that culture
If you think you will have good life for every choice you take
Then that is not the case, life is not always petals, thorns are also present
Just get out of Gay culture and follow normal culture if you are so hurt about it
No ones cares about your gender
Probably you as a person do
But even if you choose one, no big difference will occur
And you are already born with either male or female sex
Then go with the norm
You can't fucking get both and live life as you want to
While ignoring objective truth
It’s sadly true. One of my best friends in the world is bi. She’s had periods she thought she was straight and periods she thought she was gay, and it took a lot of figuring out for her. Sadly whilst I’ve seen her get a heap of support from either camp she mostly just got distrust and dismissed when she finally came out as bi. Like ‘oh so it was a gay phase’ kind of thing, or she’s had guys freak out when they found out she’s previously slept with women either because they fear she’s a closet gay, or because they feel like they won’t be as good in the bedroom (newsflash every woman in America has a vibrator and they still have sex with their partners).
Fortunately she’s been with her current partner for years now and they’re fully committed so people don’t sweat it anymore but yeah shit was crazy, it would really upset her sometimes. I remember when she had her first boyfriend in forever and they were living together everyone just totally dismissed her as ‘straight again’ - in her own words ‘when all the porn you watch is boobs, and you have boobs, you’re not straight.’
“Man residue” is wild I just know from intuition that person is a terf 😭😭😭
What on erf is a terf?
@@KonglomeratYT trans exclusionary radical feminist
Being mad at a bi person for being in a hetro relationship is like being mad at a feminist woman for being a stay home mom, like isn't the point these things people can do whatever they want? If someone wants to be in a more traditional relationship they have every right to do so, and people that think otherwise are part of the problem.
No you're wrong!!! You have to do what THEY think you should be doing. You can choose whatever you want as long as it's what the narrative tells you
What!? How dare you insinuate that a feminist can't want a man's job! (Of course, it doesn't mean they actually want to do said job, but that's another story.)
The LGBT community is practically blowing itself up.
This is the same line of logic behind the "trans women who are feminine are upholding the patriarchy" line that TERFs use. Even if they are feminine, that is their choice, isn't it?
I'm a bi woman married to a man and being a stay at home mom atm. I must not even exist to these people 😅
@@dustycloudy3753 I'd say you do exist to these people. And to them, that makes you the problem.
As it always is with people who have a preconcieved ideology that can not accept reality disagreeing with their image of it.
As a white bisexual woman, yes I do love my boyfriend
Hank?
Thank you Hank Hill
That was not the insult they thought it was lmao. In a loving and happy relationship? How sickening and invalid.
Thanks Hank
I tell you whwat
I'm bi, the hate I received for coming out as bi, WHILE DATING A GUY AND I'M A GUY, to the "community" was absolutely horrible. I literally never looked back and just do my thing as an individual, never going back to pride and I'm not helping anymore.
I haven’t seen a take that made my jaw drop in so long but the one about MAPs had me suffering
I feel like the lack of a bi slur, *is* the slur. Everyone denies that we exist, so it only makes sense that the best way to insult us is to use someone else's slur.
So for progress, we need to make slurs for ourselves! :D
the f slur targets bi people too. ive had that slur used against me for being bi many times before unfortunately :(
@@saltdad5263 Right, but its origin is for gay people, which proves the point. You don't get one, you just get called gay (which you're not) in a mean way
@@awesomegamer7 bisexuals aren't gay now???
@@awesomegamer7 bigots dont care what specific label i use, all theyre going off of is the fact that im attracted to any gender including my own, and thats gay enough to them. so no, this slur isnt just for 100% homosexual people. im pretty sick and tired of the harassment ive had to endure being seen as invalid just because im not "gay enough". what people like you dont seem to understand is that we get shit from both sides, so a lot of us dont even feel safe or understood in lgbtq spaces. im allowed to be hurt by the slurs people throw at me for existing.
Kind of ironic how groups that have been discriminated against for their sexual orientation/identity discriminate against other groups that don't conform to their interpretation of sexual orientation/identity.
The lack self-awareness is astonishing.
Kind of like how Jews and Christians were persecuted by the same Romans, but while Jews learned the folly of intolerance, the Christians instead picked up where the Romans left off.
It's official: Gays and Lesbians are becoming the new Roman Catholics.
You either die a hero, or live long enough to become the villain.
Edit: I misspelled die. The US public school system is a total failure
I find it hilarious they have slurs for NORMAL people. As in, for the majority of our species. Crazy stuff. They think hating on people is going to get those people on their side. Of course, their main tactics are Gaslighting others like an abusive partner/spouse, so it's not all that surprising that there's pushback against them.
Sounds like a religion
I'm guessing it's because a lot of the newer members haven't actually faced one on one discrimination, you get the occasional nutcase in public but when I was young it was still socially acceptable to abuse us in public and people would either look away or join in.
I will never forget this one girl in my later school years who beat the hell out of me for being very out in the open with my girlfriend.
I begged her beforehand to wait untill the day after because I had just lost my uncle to which she laughed in my face and said she doesn't care.
Her and her 6 other friends left me in a parking lot where I proceeded to crawl to the bus stop and wait to go home.
It was horrible the way we were treated.
The only appropriate bisexual response to these people:
"I'm not just like the rest of you. I'm stronger, I'm smarter. I'm better! I AM BETTER!"
Just because you don't like chocolate doesn't mean I can't enjoy chocolate apple ;)
seriously, this mindset is dumb.
Homelander reference
"Jack-of-all-trades, master of none. Often better than a master of one~"
"French"
- the slur for bi people
That’s a bit too insulting
It is very dehumanizing to compare any person to the Fr*nch
*Baguette intensifies*
"Straight men can be trusted with men? Absolutely not I've seen what the homies get up to." Literally no truer thing has been said.
?
Bromance
lmfao for real though
The gayest men I know were all straight men
A group chat full of straight males is where you’ll find the most homosexual statements
I am not bisexual myself, but I am centrist so I can use it as an analogy: If you think both sides will like you because you are at least partially like them you are wrong. Both sides will hate you because you are partially like their opponent.
So true king
You either piss one side or you piss them both. Neutrality never fucking works (except in politics... which is incredibly ironic). You either take a side or people will pick your side for you.
P.S. and by politics I mean not a supporter, but as member of an official political group... at the individual and state level and at the intra- and inter-state level.
Libertarian problems lol
No, then you are not centrist
ohhhh
I’m a centrist AND bi, literally the easiest target!
This is only your second video I have watched and I love it. Keep it going !!
As a straight man dating a bi woman, I can confirm yes she has both attractions, but is loyal to me as I am to her. We just both happen to find cute women attractive.
I have a friend who's bi and she's had a boyfriend for several years now and been happily together since. But from what I've heard from her the amount of hate messages because she's in a hetero relationship (and even threats) from her ex-girlfriends has been _insane_ , like, damn. There's some psychos out there, regardless of gender lemme tell ya.
Great she upgraded to a hetro relationship and be able to build a family
@@mrdee2454 woldn't say upgrade lmfao, but yeah
You know I'm curious to know how crazy, from a perspective point
Me: Yeah, I like men and women.
Conservatives: Oh you're Bisexual huh?!?! I DONT believe that is POssIBLE. Tell me *every* single fact about bisexuals on the WikEIpedio"😌
Saturn ascends and Maynard wants your shins
"sexuality isn't a choice, we're born this way"
"omfg bi people need to make a choice"
OKAAAAAAY, talk about destroying your own fundamentals.
They literally hv 2 options,
But yh it was always a choice lets be real here
@Gangsta Rock u know what bi means right? Its means binary, more than one option equals to a choice being made
@@Eking-su3tr The word is indicative of being sexually inclined towards 2 sexes, not just 1, it does not mean people make a choice whether they are gay or straight lol
Inconsistency is the bread and butter of lgbt people
@@GalaxyGeassS2 yes it literally does, u get to pick. God yall really love this label huh.
Its a choice that's what binary means. Cope
Part of the problem may be everyone trying to use the term "community" where there clearly isn't one. People in a true community wouldn't treat each other like this. Imho
That text crawl is hilarious. Hilarious in a 'yikes' kind of way. 😅 Reminds me when I was looking for university housing and they said women and men would be housed separately to prevent sexual distractions and I asked if that meant I would get my own private room.
"Everyone is bisexual. Everyone. Sexuality exists on the Kinsey Scale."
But the Kinsey scale literally includes the state of being completely straight or completely gay though.
They're banking on people not knowing that and just believing their assertion without scrutiny.
Ooof!! Too much truth and logic. Please go sit in the corner, you sexual spectrum phobe. Someone will be with you shortly to collect all your clothes that have a color that's in the rainbow.
yea these people literally didn't even look on wikipedia, let alone watch the movie or read the book
It is outdated because it doesn't include asexuals.
That's okay, they don't recognize that the ends exist on the gender spectrum either, so at least they're being consistent about not understanding scales.
"A few more sexualities here and we got a gay confederate flag" - O-M-G, that ... DESTROYED me... so funny!
2nd Civil war: oops! All gay!
Sry that was a dumb comment pls dont cancel
The current one is already offensive to my eyes. It's so fugly and the color scheming is absolute dogshit. There's a reason the main flag is a f-cking rainbow, because a rainbow already HAS every color in it. The people who wanted to add Black and Brown... it makes no f-cking sense. They sound like entitled children who didn't see the thing THEY wanted, so they had to play a victim card game, gaslight people and get them added, so now it looks ugly as sin.
THAT SHIT WAS HILARIOUS
I'm pretty sure I did see an actual Confederate Pride flag online once.
"Why can't we all just get along?"
Because the Oppression Olympics is competitive and the Romanian judge is known to take bribes.
I'm sapiosexual... all these people are safe from me.
From Wikipedia:
- Gillette Blade - a 1950s era term for bisexual women, whose sexuality "cuts both ways"
- Switch hitter
Others are "fence-sitter" "gay-lite" "diet-gay"
Would like to add Coin-flipper
I want a t-shirt that says "I'm diet gay"
@@Dewt0x This sounds cool, yo... wtf?
These don't sound like slurs they sound like badass netrunner handles lmao
@@Dewt0x amazing
"all women are naturally gay" no...just...no. I remember in highschool I thought I was bicurious because I thought a girl was pretty but then I thought to myself "do I think she's attractive and pretty because I'm sexually or romantically attracted to her or is it just because she's a pretty human being?" And that's how I knew for sure I was straight. You can think someone is attractive and good looking without wanting to be in a relationship with them. What tf are these people on??
Its natural for anyone in a species that has sexual competition to be able to pick out others who are competition, additionally for us being able to appreciate things outside of ourselves such as art, effort, and yes natural beauty that we can look at another person and understand they are are an attractive member of that sex even if we aren't attracted to them. Though I'll say this is mostly just that drive for competition and those who say "everyone is beautiful" typically fall under the same type that refuses to put in effort themselves to be competitive.
@@JohnA... Yeah, some people are naturally pretty while some are not. Likewise, some are talented in a certain given field while others fall behind. Anyone can recognize when other people are doing well in an area of life, even those who rule that said area.
You won't see great musicians downplaying other musicians just because the great musician is looked upon as the "greatest". That becomes a matter of ego rather than human nature.
@@blitzdactyl1858 When it comes to talent you don't typically see the best putting down others, that could be because they don't see competition in them and therefor they aren't a challenge to their "rule" of whatever they are the best at. It seems even more that this is the case for those who might have some talent but did have to work hard to get where they are, people who work really hard tend to see hard work in others as well and respect it. But the contrary is also true that many of them also don't look at those who refuse to put in any effort as doing their part to be something, maybe not fully out of malice but because they think that others could do something if they put in that effort.
But you do see "powerful" people do this, people who don't have actual talent or didn't get their power in a way that they had to better themselves for, those types see competition in everything, they see that there are others who have talent who would easily outdo them so they have to keep putting others down and holding people back in any way possible so they can keep power. Anything that takes away the attention and privilege they have is a negative to them and needs to be stopped.
I'm a dude and I am straight. But I can tell when a dude is hot and attractive. Doesn't mean I wanna slob his knob.
Me looking at Geralt from Witcher 3.... Man is hot, no lie.
just found your channel. love it great content am on a binge. you give me 2008 nostalgia if that makes any sense. good humour + woman + common sense = congratulations u won life.
A cat walking across nailed it. I almost cried when I had to start googling what the new acronim meant.
When my brother came out as gay, he cried while my parents showed him love, support and acceptance. When my parents discovered I was bi through my MySpace page (yeah) they sat me down for a serious discussion and explained why I had to pick a side.
Bruh wtf
Sheesh...
Well, which side did you pick? j/k
The problem sounds like a misunderstanding of different perspectives. If you view sexual attraction as utilitarian, then being bi sounds like self gratification is taking president over function. It's like thinking a stripper is hot, while knowing the girl at church would make a better mother for your children. It's how you make that decision. At least from what it sounds like the parents perspective is here. This is very common.
You can disagree, but it's easier to take when you understand how the perspective it's coming from is different from yours. Everybody has their own perspectives, and that's ok. Understanding and accepting other perspectives, even when we disagree, is the way.
@@FACTBOT_5000 would have to find a way to agree with genocide if they lived in certain cultures. This is the way of fascism.
"Why can't the LGBT community all just get along. We're all going to hell anyway."
Common ground at last!
I'll see y'all fuckers there!
Nah, destroy each other 🤣🤣🤣 It's too entertaining to the rest of us
@@Wolf_3125 agreed the more they self the destruct the more "us straight" can enjoy their life style fall apart. Bahahahhaha
Your hell is made up lmao, as is your imaginary friend god.
Ikr we shall take over the world before going to hell
This whole episode is just f-ing GOLD.
I am so glad not living in america. I recently started being open about being bi (not by making it my fucking identity, but being honest about it when asked or in the rare situation of LGBTQ and trans being topic of a conversation), and I almost never got any problems. Usually it's something among the lines of "Huh, didn't expect that." or "Nice that you are so open about it!".
The only time I got a literal "Why don't bi people just choose?" was when my neighbor, a rather uneducated woman, was low-key annoyed by the best friend of her daughter having a "bi-phase". When I told her, I was bi too, she got seriously uncomfortable, trying to backpedal on that statement while stuttering like some embarassed anime character. She never talked to me again except of a fake-friendly "hello" when we met outside.
As a lesbian, I'm totally okay with bi women sitting on my fence.
Same (I'm a men)
@@ghostdog9921im a men too!
Read this like three times before I realized you wrote fence
Ah. I see. A woman of culture.
Edit: nevermind it reads fence....
What kind of fence do you have? Wood or metal ?
As a member of the Bionicle community, I need to protest the use of our word
What term do you prefer?
@@Supermynci9000 person inclined toward Bionicle
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@Supermynci9000constractionist
It's unhealthy to hold on to those feelings.
Sometimes you just gotta Lego.
Thank you for everything you do shoe. I started to watch your videos. Thank you so much. I appreciate your voice on the matter.
Bionicles, that brings me back. Shoe is a real one
I matched with a “lesbian” on a dating site once and only realized once I saw her profile and I asked about it. She said “I guess I’m technically bi but its pretty rare I find a guy I like, it’s easier just to put lesbian” and I respected that because I am a normal ass person and you can like what you want. Some people only like men, some people only like women, some like men and women and some like them to different degrees. A bisexual who mostly likes men but also likes some girls or vice versa is still 100% valid. I also have no idea why anyone, especially all these LGBT people hate on bisexuals. Who cares?
I identified as a lesbian for years despite a slight attraction to men. I found a man (also bisexual) who really understands me, more than any woman I've dated. I never thought I'd spend my life with a man but here we are, on our first anniversary of being together (today!).
I'm a bi dude, and similar. I'm probably about as sexually attracted to guys as women, and frankly, most of my sexual experiences are with guys. But overall, it's extremely hard to find a guy I'd want to go the distance with romantically. So it's easier if I just put straight on dating apps. Otherwise, I get inundated with guy profiles, and matches with guys and nothing else, like the algorithm starts pigeonholing me as super gay because it's easier to get me matches that way. Like, if dating apps could stick to a balance, I'd be fine, but they dont. You start matching a bunch of guys, and not a lot of women (in part because straight women are generally way pickier who they match with), it basically teaches the algorithm youre straight up gay.
Also, if you wanna know why LGBTs pick on Bis... It's because THEY care... Way more than they should... On the same level of religious people caring way too much what others do in the bedroom, a massive hipocrisy. They've been raised on identity politics, and so, for many, their entire personality revolves around sexual and gender identity... As if any of those things can ever make up for a crap personality.
Getting treated like dirt by other LGBTs is the main reason I dont consider myself liberal anymore, but rather a moderate. I've seen the direction the left goes, eating eachother over concepts of intersectionality rather than teaming up and solving the few big systemic problems still left in our country. I'm f@#$ing done, lol
It's all about attention.
@@hugehappygrin And control. Ive found a lot seem to be as authoritative as religious zealots. Some get so worked up they put hands on people.
Fellow heterosexuals, she's onto us! She found us in her audience! Run for your lives!!!
lawd Halp Us..
Oh no, they're pointing out that femboys are technically 2.19% gay!
Nah we’re clearly just gay society has brainwashed us
Nah brah, I just learned at 4:09 that apparently the B stands for Bionicle, so I'm also part of the LGBT community now.
I am staying, I wanna see the spectacle that happens
This video made me subscribe. The snark is hilarious.
Thank you for touching on the subject of pansexuality. I was making some fried eggs the other day, and i could't help myself but to notice, the alluring round shape of my pan, especially the phalic plastic handle, and the smooth black matt surface. Suddenly i felt a strong sexual energy consuming me, but i managed to restrain myself. I think I might be pansexual, yet I'm ashamed to come out, what should I do?
As a straight man who has been in a monogamous relationship with my bisexual wife for almost eight years I appreciate shoe drawing attention to this. The fact that anyone would ever try to argue for the validity of "MAPs" and in the same breath claim that bisexuality is invalid just shows exactly how delusional and warped people are now.
Edit: just to clarify my bisexual wife married me (a man) and she is still bisexual, the fact that we plan on spending our lives committed to solely each other does not change her sexuality nor does it mean I magically "turned her straight". I love how the narrative was to accept everyone and the more we lean into that as a country the more bigotry surfaces from the ones trumpeting acceptance the loudest.
They're blind to their own hypocrisy or they just don't care
@@OceanAce precisely, it both astonishes and sickens me that we have somehow reached a point as a society where there is any group of people who is more protected than children.
@@Edwin-iw8gb I personally believe the latter is the case. In my experience most people are opportunistic and predatory by nature. The issue is that the people who embrace that nature rather than fight it are the ones who tend to be charge however small their particular group may be.
I don't think the label of her sexuality matters.. It's almost like it's being used to seek validation or something.. She's in a committed relationship with you.. That's all that should matter..
@@user-qd5hy5wl4q Children's lives are more protected today than they ever have through the whole of human history. Often protected to the point of suffocation - where they grow up to adulthood broken and deformed. Teenage suicide and kids shooting kids are not symptoms of a healthy upbringing.
I remember when I came out in college and I was open and proud. I went on a couple dates with men, some with women. But none of the people I dated (except one guy, but he wanted to have a poly relationship, which I’m not into) wanted to continue to date, they didn’t know I was bisexual until after the first date. I was so depressed I went back in the closet. I started dating my current wife and about a month in i sheepishly told her I was bisexual. She openly accepted and loved me. I hate being told that I picked a side, or I ended up straight.
She chose me, and she’s the only person I’ll ever want. I’m still bisexual, she’s straight, and we have a beautiful marriage. I didn’t pick a side. The sides didn’t even pick me, one person did. And I couldn’t be happier she did.
Thanks for helping Shoe. As a guy who is mostly in the closet I feel comfortable coming here ❤️
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This is so sweet. ❤ I'm glad your wife chose and accepted you.
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Beautifully told. I’m so happy for you. 🥺
Subscribed because you are absolutely hilarious!
"Not all men are your father."
I'm a bisexual girl and the only 'relationship' I've been in was with a girl. I was 14 and I honestly don't even know if you can really call it a relationship but I remember going through the city, holding my gfs hand and suddenly an old guy drove by us on a bike, spit at us, and called us dykes.
My then gf is a lesbian, why is she allowed to 'take back' the slur and I'm not? I don't get the logic...
My mom always told us that she didn't care if we brought a boy or a girl back home, as long as they are a decent human being. When I told her I was bi she started telling me that it's only a phase and that I'll make up my mind one day...
And last weird thing I got for being bi, is that the moment someone knows your prefrence, they start to over analyse it. I prefer men and as soon as my lgbt friends foud that out they immidiatly wanted to know exact numbers and shit. When I told them I found a girl attractive they asked me if that number changed etc. Why is it so important to other people?
(Hope I don't have to many typos and stuff, I'm not a native speaker and it's like 1am.)
Because we are a voyeuristic species, darling.
> My mom always told us that she didn't care if we brought a boy or a girl back home, as long as they are a decent human being
Same here, except it's crazy hard to find sane LGBT who similarly won't microanalyse me for any perceived signs of "homophobia" or whatever.
I feel you on the thing where people try to validate you. I legit thought I was gay until I met my wife. I just had never met a good woman before, let alone the right, good woman. It was like we were married from day one. Both of us are still super gay. She still loves girls and I still love boys. She's still the ONLY woman I've ever been with. But, every gay anything that either one of us tries to be apart of involves people constantly asking us about our sex lives. We basically gave up ages ago on all of it. We've been very effectively excluded.
@@tarrker just a random thing I thought about when reading your comment:
I recently heard someone make the point, that sure, gay people can marry, as long as it is a man and a woman. He was making the point on the 'what is a woman' debate from a history study/abrahamic texts standpoint, while it resonated with me as a biologist. Humans are as a species 'programmed' to propagate, regardless of our preference of partner, 'outliers' fill the empty spots. Marriage as a mating pair for the sole purpose to raise children seems to be the most stable way to live life. So sure, you can be gay, but also be human and feel connected to the opposite sex.
Have a nice day.
that's when you just say... I AM ME(I)... not a label or a preference, just me...
As a bi man I’ve dealt with this exact same thing. I feel your pain homie
“A few more sexualities and we’ve got a gay confederate flag!”
The comedic timing and sharp wit are spot on, Shoe!
They have a gay Nazi flag which is fitting.
I figured out l was bi around the age of 13 (l’m 36 now). Things are soooo different now compared to back then. I didn’t know anyone else who was bisexual like me. I found books and some resources but it was almost like it just didn’t exist where l lived. There were only a few kids who you knew were gay but didn’t come out until years later. Even that, I don’t mean in a bad way. I feel insanely bad for those few kids now though because I’m sure they went through hell. I didn’t have a lot of friends but l didn’t get picked on either, not that l would have put up with it.
My issue as far as dating women was always that a lot of lesbians won’t even consider dating a bisexual girl. And most of the women who have said they are bisexual are only interested in sex with other women but have no interest dating women. Sure, a huge part of being bisexual for me is the attraction part. But I’ve never been interested in just sleeping with women, same as that’s never what l wanted when it comes to men.
Thanks for making this video, I recently became publicly open with my bisexuality. The amount of biphobia I've faced, from men and women alike, has been ridiculous. Content like this puts a smile back on my face and reminds me I'm not alone.
I don't think we need to come up with a slur for bi you already hit the nail on the head with bionicle 😆
I always assumed it was bigot(t) :D
oi lego did enough to bionicle you don’t need to make it worse
@@sampfrost I wanna go back to the days where they weren't dying in the backrooms of Legos warehouse
Isn't a slur supposed to sound bad and unappealing, though? I'd almost want to be called a Bionicle.
@@MoustachioFurioso83 I mean "you ain't no Toa, you bum ass Matoran" still sounds pretty harsh
As an Ace person, and on behalf of the ace community, I welcome the bi people. We will create a gang and It will be called “all or none”.
based idk man i like to eat vegege and smoke pp idk why people are riled up
@@whiskey-biscuit9388 idk either my guy.
You gotta invite the pans into it too lad
@@chubski2514 I think you can fall under the “all” part of it. Welcome friend.
@@Sheriden. oh no I’m bi, just gotta watch out for our non stick brethren
14:08 - "my getleman..." haha, nice one :D
"it's like a cat walking across a keyboard" - hahaha, that's gold!
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hmm, maybe that could refer to much of the content you talk about in your vids ...
"Bisexual people get straight privileged"
As an open femine bisexual man who just graduated from a christian school, *No, no we do not*
What is the opposite of "femine"?
@@bioshazard …masculine…?
@@bioshazard masculine
@@bioshazard mascune
@@Unknown-no3cu thanks I figured "feminine" was different from "femine" and was curious if there was a word I didn't know
Man, those "you can't trust bi folk to not cheat on you" really give off the "trans people are liars and deceiving" vibes
Wouldn't surprise me if TERFs also hated bi people, so probably there's some overlap.
bisexual struggles and trans struggles will never be on the same level so dont even imply it lol
@@handicapcat I'm guessing its more of that the person is relating the same stereotyping hate is made by things they cant change and are trying their hardest
@@handicapcat found one
@@seviikun found what lol... im not saying bi people dont go through anything but its not comparable to transgender women getting beat on the street just for living
Bloody fantastic video. Another banger that shows just how insane human beings really are.
Did they not read the perks and quirks list of being bisexual on their character creations screen? You don’t lose the trait after marriage, only if you interact with the celestial gateway to change your stats mid-game
Yep, I worked at a gay bar being a bi male. I started telling people they had to tip me every time they told me I was just gay/straight. People don’t get that I love the person and not their genitalia. Hats off the Bisexual in the world, keep the eye roll strong.
Same but I also love everybody's genitals tbh
New favorite channel
As someone who like Bicycles I stand with you ✊
Yeah, as a Bisexual male, I catch "You like dudes, just say you're gay already" pretty damn often... and frankly it's really upsetting. I'm just grateful to have a friend group that actually believes that I know who I am because apparently all the folks on Twitter know me better than I do.
It's not sexuality, but I've always responded to "Do you like Star Wars or Star Trek?" with "Why does someone only get to pick one?". The idea that everything has to be 100% one way or the other is kind of infuriating.
@@MaskedMammal I'm speaking from personal experience. It's happened to me quite a lot.
@@MaskedMammal People's experiences differ from your own, just cuz it hasn't happened to you, doesn't mean it can't happen to someone else
@@bloxxer_boy Thank you.
I’m pan/bi either works, and sh** gets real sometimes, but I know us bi gals don’t take half the sh** bi dudes take! You guys put up with a lot! I just wanted to show some solidarity, and say you’re awesome!!
Literally ALL of my rage as a bisexual dude in one video. Fucking thank you, woman.
I just realized how stange it is to finish a sentence like that, tho not at all at the same time. I got used to saying "thanks, man" and things like that but like yeah It just sounds off now lmao I think it sounds off because of how often the word "woman" gets thrown around in a derogatory matter, whereas "man" or "dude" is cool and stuff. Huh.
You and me both dude. Thank you shoe!
@@amazonbox5522 I've seen people who say "don't call me dude" lol
Agreed
Make another video, woman.
great video alsoooo i hope everything went well with the move and stuffzzz
So much for ‘loving and accepting’ community
It's about time someone stood up for the most oppressed sexuality... BIONICLE!
Everyone is a Bionicle already since we're wearing masks to go outside
HOLY GADUNKA
Praise Pohatu
They're more of a religion if you've heard of the dream
Love isn't canon
"Ah yes let me gatekeep the community of diversity and acceptance while sitting on my gay little pedestal over here. It has a rainbow flag so you know Im the real deal." Im heterosexual and these people make it look incredibly daunting to try and find a community to belong to for queer people. Its neat how they went from "All are welcome" to highschool drama within a decade, along with slandering anyone and everyone who points out the holes in their ship. Also, you looked freaking GORGEOUS in that ad with the dress and how you did your hair!
Yes she did.
Communities are cancerous, and will try to speak for you in ways you won't like.
It's also weird to make what you're attracted to into your whole identity, when straight people do that we all see them as cringy af.
The current LGBT already wants to be worshiped, as if they're something special to be looked up to. Sorry, but I don't see anything special about genetic dead ends. No offense to y'all(in general), that's kinda what you are. Some people have just given up being part of the community, because it has become a toxic storm of purity testing and things(such as messing with kids) that most people already detest. There's also the whining at not getting their way and attempting to destroy others that don't align with them.
So yeah, that's why there's a lot of LGBT people that AREN'T part of the "Community", which as you said, became a High School Clique. (Not to mention the current Ideology within it, but that's a completely separate argument.)
Twitter does that to people
Intersectionality only leads to what the founding fathers knew the smallest minority is the individual
Ermegerd… designed to break hearts 🥰 as always, a great little escape. Thanks for the smiles.
the cut aways of comedy keep me alive
As a bi dude I've heard my fair share of "you're just gay" which is ironic since I've only been in one relationship and that was with a woman, people can't seem to fathom i like both parties, I'm glad I've had cool friends who haven't judged me for being myself. Now my family on the other hand
As a fellow bi man dating a woman I feel this
Hey, I'm a bi guy myself, dated both sides but even I see that you're still bi and valid, much like Dlm.
People are bi and that’s whatever, but two dudes having sex is gay tho, why is there denial about it
Huh this is giving me hope as a bi girl that I might find a bi guy to befriend, because tbh id prefer a bi dude over a straight one is that weird lol
The word they're looking for is "desperate."
I remember when LGBT+ activists were fighting for the right for people to love who they wanted and not be told by others who it was ok for them to love or be sexually attracted to. Seems a lot in the community have forgotten this basic principle.
It stopped being about sexuality or "right to love" when it went beyond the first 3 letters. After that in the mainstream it was attention, constantly adding more because others saw what attention they could demand with it, as well as normalizing their own situations. And of course it was going to get to fighting, not only are the new kids constantly taking away the attention but they don't all believe the same thing because it isn't about "right to love" anymore its about "what can I be today that will get people to notice me with no effort" or how can I demand people accept my disorder/mentality as "normal".
@@JohnA... You nailed it. No matter how many of them they say there are, the LGBTANDTHEREST community is that, a minority community. Except now, they are not fighting for their right to do what they want (for the most part, they already have that), but whining "boo hoo oppression"; because, even with all those letters and sub-communities added, it's still a minority community and not "the norm" (Not even counting the "if you don't date me you're Xphobic" types). Adding to that is that a vocal chunk of the group is boiling with hatred for the "patriarchy" or the "cis white men".
I won't get started about how transgenderism is a completely separate issue from the rest and how sex isn't a sexuality, so the community started getting mainstream and bastardizing itself at the same time.
As a former LGBTQ+ activist and bisexual male, it breaks my heart that there are people out there who thinks this way. I raised my voice and the flag to guarantee that no one would be treated as a 2nd class citizen.
And idiots like these come saying we're not part of the club anymore.
Twitter and other social medias have become echo chambers for these people.
Chin up you took on the good fight when it still stood for something,
The revolution is eating its own children, like all revolutions before it. Thats what many revolutionaries dont understand: Its NEVER the people who start the revolution that get to see the results they wanted. It ALWAYS ends up somewhere entirely different as the revolution gets hi-jacked again and again, until the original revolutionaries end up being the enemy.
A bi-man from Brazil here! Just LOVED your video!
Yesterday: Sexuality is not a choice!
Today: We are who we choose to be... now choose!
I understood that reference
I think it's more like "you are who WE choose you to be."
First of all I have to give you so much props, I have heard this s*** so much growing up with my mom. I grew up in the gay community and it was so frustrating to hear them say how they're being attacked constantly but would turn face and attack you if your bi... I would always say "wait so you're a lesbian which is good but if they're bi, it's bad".... I hated seeing this s*** and dealing with it growing up. I love the fact we've come a long way with gay rights being more mainstream getting more attention and having better progress, but the infighting is absolute horseshit. Let people be people stop telling them they need to pick a side.
Some of these takes with your reaction had me laughing so excellent call out on these people. 😅
12:52 based af. Also that is EXACTLY what I did + you don’t get much curvier then cast iron skillets
I never knew I could have so much fun by someone just reading of twitter messages from their phone.
As a bisexual man I have gotten such comments as "Oh you're only like 20% gay", "So you're just playing with gay men", "I never flirted with you because you're not into girls", "OMG you're my GAY best friend" and my favorite "Hey you're bi-lingual right?"
I'm with Shoe, yes let's just remove the B from the acronym altogether. Everyone tries to act like we don't exist or it's some kind of conspiracy so fuck it! Just yeet the whole term! "What's your sexuality?" "YES"
"yes" is actually the word i use for my bi/pan ocs on their bio pages
"no" for aces
"What's your sexuality?"
"Like who do I have with?"
"Yes...?"
"Your mo
"What's your sexuality?"
"Like who do I have with?"
"Yes...?"
"Your mo
Just because someone idiots are "against" bisexuality, doesn't mean we all are, I'm gay and I hate when people try to invalidate bisexuals or asexuals, or anyone in those cases (except ped0phile5, of course)
@@XionRulez Demisexual people are "maybe"
As a gay man, watching these people try to claim that bisexuality isn't real or that people ending up with the opposite sex is bad or just something as a result of conditioning really feels like a lot of the things I've heard and been told about my own sexuality. They've become what they swore to destroy.
I just think people worry way too much about other people's sexuality, when it's none of their business.
I agree. As a straight man, I find it a bit ironic that I am more accepting/tolerant of non heterosexual orientations than some people with non heterosexual orientations.
I made the same comment earlier but on further review, I’m not altogether sure that they are the same ones that started the fight.
I am bi, and although I haven't come across that, I've been told that I'm a bad person for daring to be interested in regular gals or guys only, and are condescending while talking to me as if they know me better than I know myself, yeah, they are becoming what they claim to hate.
@@juliankohler5086 Sorry to hear. And if I'm being honest, I never subscribed to any community, not even when it was the LGBT before the identities madness took over and all of that. I see no pride nor shame, I just am what I am, never saw anything of value subscribing to the "movement" at all.
But yeah, I get what you mean, by engaging in purity tests they are becoming what they hate, I've been told that I'm no better than a straight guy for not being interested in dating anyone who isn't a regular guy or gal, but I don't care, nor should you.
That pan prop gag got me laughing out loud 🤣
Ok, you earned a *lot* of points by mentioning Bionicle😂
I remember that despite making it known that I was bisexual, I was called heteronormative because I said kids shouldn't be seeing people in bdsm gear at pride and kinks shouldn't be present at a public event where all ages are allowed to be in it.
if you guessed that this was on Twitter then you guessed right. Icing on the cake is that they were also a furry
as a furry we do not claim
Well hello there!
@@akumu9301 general bigot lol
@@fbidumbbee you and me both man
@@foxtonthefreakshowhound832 LMFAO
As a bi dude, I have to say, I clicked this faster than a peregrine falcon diving after a pigeon. Glad you’re covering this topic, it never gets talked about enough.
I agree but also feel that everyone has a preference if that makes sense would you say that accurate
Having preferences doesn’t make a bisexual person less bisexual
How are they want us to accept them while they can't even accept each other? I will never get why ppl can't just STFU and live their lifes
12:27 If I know anything about LGBT people online, their acronym being a keyboard smash kinda fits.
Shoe says the things I wish I could say to people. Thank you for being you and o w o
@Don't Read My Profile Photo ok, I won't.
@@8KururuSouchou8 good ending unlocked
@Don't Read My Profile Photo k
I’d say stop giving a F and say what you want to say. You might lose some friends, but were they really that good of friends if that would dump you for speaking your mind?