How I Feel Today And Hurting Others :(
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- How I Feel Today And Hurting Others :(
So, I have realised I am hurting people close to me and need to get away a bit, I don't like it and need to try and make sense of things.
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You ARE positive and have every right to be confused, scared, sad or any other feeling that comes along with this. Don't apologize. We understand!
Yeah I do I agree but I need to let it out.
These are wonderful videos, just in the way you are going through so much and still thinking of others. Sending you all the best thoughts each day.
Agree....
Hope someday we will meet in heaven RIP Dan. You sure are missed. ❤️😢
I know that Dan has passed and he has helped me turn a lot of negativity around. Today was a horrible awful day and I've been crying all afternoon. I decided I would find a video of Dan's and hear his voice and I just needed some inspiration. I was kind of scared to listen to him because I thought it would make me sadder. My tears dried up and I miss him but hearing him has helped calm me down. God bless him. He's my INSPERATION these days!!! I miss him.
I was just feeling sorry for myself for hurting others by being ill and having setbacks. Your message cheered me up. Yes! Let's have a beautiful, inspired day!
That's it let's do it :)
I needed to see this 4 years ago when i was fighting cancer myself. Such a shame, its a painful journey. I hope at least now he has peace.
Dan - don't worry about anyone else, let your mum and dad look after you - your treatment plan and happier times will follow :)
They always do :)
Its your right to get angry or snappy or anyway you want too this is your life . I know you would do anything you could to make this all go away. Your a fighter but its ok to need your mum and family. No shame in that and im glad your with them. Take care and just deal with how your feeling an hour at a time xx
Life can be brutal to any one of us... and I certainly sympathize. Your encouragement to others is an example of human grace. Best to you!
It is brutal :(
We love and miss you, Dan. Thank you for EVERYTHING!
Please do not apologise Dan. You are probably one of the most positive person I know and this is coming from someone who has bipolar disorder and has survived suicide. I cannot say I know how you feel but I do know how struggle feels like and I have immense respect for you. Sending love 😊
I felt I had to kinda. :)
Aw dan you are such a beautiful soul i miss not seeing you
Hi Dan, I'm so sorry to hear you have had a rough night and day. However old or young you are, being with Mum and Dad helps so much. Please don't apologise for how you feel, that is completely normal. I hope you manage a few good days out with your family, the seaside always makes you feel better somehow. Keep being mentally strong, you WILL beat this vile illness into submission. Take care, sending you a MASSIVE HUG (or as BIG a hug as a 4ft 11" person can) Hxx : )
Thank you I will damn well beat it!
I know that this will sound silly compared to your experience, and I am sorry for being petty, but I am going through a really sad breakup with my boyfriend of 3 years, and you have inspired me to get up, get dressed, and go out and live and enjoy the beautiful Florida sunshine. I have absolutely no excuse. Thank you, and I wish for a miracle for you, from the bottom of my broken heart. Much love to you and your family.
That is exactly what I want to do. I want to inspire people. It's all about what can I do to inspire others and most importantly myself. You saying that inspires me to carry on doing stuff!
Nakidz - Absolutely nothing silly about that. In fact, I'll bet it makes Dan feel good to be able to help anyone with whatever makes them feel bad :)
Have a wonderful day!
Defo does it's why I'm doing it :)
thank-you!
+PeeWeeToms You're an amazing guy, and I really appreciate the time you've spent making these vids and responding, as I know that time is extremely precious. Thank you again. ❤️
You are an inspiring guy who is easy to like due to the frank and uncensored honesty.
I hope you have a better day tomorrow Dan. Thank you for being such an incredible person, we need more people like you in this crazy world! Sending prayers and Blessings your way from USA!!
It should be a better day :)
Your mom has the best advice to see another specialist. I hope you get more answers and a treatment plan. Sending you love and prayers. You are awesome!
Thank you :)
Dan, I haven’t in any way been insulted or offended by what you’ve said. You speak about yourself and your life and what you are experiencing in your channel. I’m here to pray, support, believe, laugh and yes even cry along with you but still keep faith along with you sir. Much love (sisterly and in Christ Jesus) from Arizona. #dontgiveupdontgivein #pray #support
Thank you I do want to show the reality of it all as much as possible :)
I can’t speak for everyone but I can definitely say you’re part of my RUclips family and we take care of one another!! Say whatever you want and express how you feel any time you need to. Absolutely no one can speak to how you feel or what you’re going through EVEN if they’ve had, or have cancer!! Everyone’s experience with this disease is different. You shouldn’t ever feel like you have to explain yourself.
I think people are offering advice because they want to help but sometimes you just need someone to listen. I hope you find some answers soon as to how to proceed. It’s difficult just going on without a plan of action.
Thank you so much, I agree sometimes it just needs to be an explosion of thought!
I'm so pleased that you have your mum and dad to support you ....don't ever apologize for how you are feeling xxxx
I do as well :)
I wish i could have stumbled upon this beautiful channel back when my grandfather passed suddenly from cancer. I needed to see these to keep me from doing what i was doing back then im praying for your family.
I’m so looking forward to your series, “Dan BEATS Cancer”. Your spirit is shining through incredibly bright 🌟
Thank you so much :)
kashinoki n - It's going to be a GREAT show!
Lovely message♡
Makes me feel sad that you are in the fight for your life and you are apologizing for your thoughts or feelings , let anyone wear your shoes for one day , you are a beautiful soul ...love from Canada
Thank you :)
don't worry about the other people, if they are TRUE friends they will understand......the force IS with you Dan....
That's it :)
Sending love and prayers to you sweet guy!
Thank you :)
You just can’t beat a cuddle from your Mum and a man hug from your Dad. I bet they get as much from it as you do right now. You’re doing great, it’s a bloody hard journey but you are not taking the road alone.
You really can't.
I miss you brother 💖
Moms are the best thing in the world
A lot of moms suck balls. Don't generalize. My mom is a total bitch, she basically killed me.
As a mom, I'm so glad you went home to let her do what she does best, take care of her you. I'm glad you're looking into everything that can be done for your specific types of cancer. We are living in a time when there are more options and clinical studies than any other time. Israel seems to be leading the way to new treatments and research. I'm not thinking it's over for you Dan and though I'm an optimist, l am also a realist. I'm praying for you and your sweet mom and dad to keep your faith and joy through this scary time, Love and hugs Dan.
Thank you so so much :)
Awesome to see that his channel is still growing after he's gone. R.i.p mate
A beautiful person recently expressed their personal view on their terminal cancer. There is life with cancer. Meaning all the treatments, the pain, the emotional ups and downs "with" cancer. Then there's life because of Cancer. She appreciates life more before the diagnosis. She focuses on this. Small things like a cup of coffee is better. You love your family and friends deeper. The life force can be beautiful, despite this ugly disease. The prognosis is grim, but they are not giving up on a miracle.
Life "because" of Cancer, is what they choose to embrace everyday. Staying positive. And when "living" with cancer rears it's devastating effects, she has the comfort, support, and love from family and friends.
Stay positive. Embrace each day.
Spread the love. ❤❤❤
It is mega hard, I try and stay positive
Dan, your story popped up on my RUclips and I’m so glad. I’ve been living with a metastatic cancer diagnosis for 5 years. I hate hurting others with my news and recurrences, but we can’t control that, can we, brother in the fight? Encouragement to you from Canada (British grandparents!!), and I hope you will get answers very very soon. You aren’t alone, although our cancers are different, know your feelings are understood and shared. 💜
Thank you, if I get through this I wanna go Canada :)
PeeWeeToms That would be brilliant!! Something to look forward to, eh? 🇨🇦 We need to keep our dreams alive. Hope. God bless you and me. 😊
I'd love it :)
Lyla Survivor... Wow, I'm so sorry to hear what you've had to deal with too. Maybe you could share your journey with Dan & it will help ease his mind.
Best wishes & hopes for nothing but good things for you:)
You have and will always be an inspiration to everyone that knows you! You are and will always be a LEGEND and Legends NEVER DIE! 😗❤
They say it’s good to talk so you ramble away as much as you like. We are all here to listen and support you and telepathically hold your hand. I hope seeing your mum and dad was a comfort for you. xx
They are ace and I bumped into a friend I have with leukemia and he kindly did an interview with his dogs :)
What you are feeling is normal. My husband was very verbally rude to me while dealing with his ileostomy. I endured it because I knew he needed my help and because I love him and do what needed to be done. You are doing just fine on your videos inspite of your meds. Keep positive and always say I love you! 💖😉👍🎉
Thank you, it is hard and very hard to comprehend most the time :)
I watch your videos everyday! Stay positive and don't let people try and kick you down! Much love from Ohio
Thank you and thanks for watching :)
Sweetheart there is always hope! Prayers🙏😘
Always :)
Dan. You are an inspiration to everyone! You are human! It’s ok to be confused and upset. You’ve got so much going on.
I pray that you get some answers soon that will put your mind at ease. Love and prayers!
Thank you :)
Dan we are so blessed to know you
So glad to see you out and about and enjoying your day! No need to apologize for raw emotion everyone needs to see what it's REALLY like to deal with life threatening issues! We appreciate it💕💕!
I just needed some time out :/
You are not hurting your family the cancer is hurting them. You my friend are a gift, a treasure. My mother calls cancer “ the alien”. I lost my dad to it when I was 14. My mother lives with a rare form of lymphoma. Every doctor visit is scary. I do feel people who are touched by it have a deeper compassion for other’s and appreciation for life. We are with u in this fight!!!
Everything seems scary at the moment :/
PeeWeeToms I am so very sorry u r scared. I am thinking of u.
I am sure it does, but know that it is o.k. and people understand & are here for you. I wish I could give you some peace, but thank God for people like your mom! A shared pain is eased a bit...Bless your family, especially the wonderful women in it, today, International Women's Day!
My mom was told she has large B cell lymphoma it took a while for the diagnosis and it's stage III now. Does your mom have low grade lymphoma?
Maria k my mom has a very rare cancer called cutaneous T cell lymphoma. It’s usually found in men a lot of them were exposed to Agent Orange in Vietnam . My dad was exposed to it when he served and died from it so we think mom touched some of his stuff when he came back and got it that way. We aren’t sure.
Hi dan, I'm glad you have made the disision to spend time with your mum and dad, Try not to over think everything especially about offending anyone, this your life and disisions now, I think I can safely say, everyone wants the best for you my friend, go and have as much of a good time as you can now ,surround yourself in the love and comfort that's there, laugh cry, whatever comes out, oh and stay beautiful 💜👍
I have and I need time out like everyone :)
Sending lots of hugs and healing!💕
Thank you :)
You are doing a great job. Keep on keeping on!
Thank you :)
Dan you dont need to apologize for anything, we understand that you're doing everything that you can to beat this and I have faith that you will! We're all here for you. 💪❤💪✌
I understand exactly what you mean. Glad you are with your family. especially your mom. My mom had already passed when I went through my cancer ordeal but when I was on my morphine drip, I saw my mom check my vitals all the time! Today is all we really have anyway. Live for today. Thats what I did and still try to do.
Hope your family are doing ok , it really affects your loved ones people always forget about how much family suffer on this journey
Thank you so much :) more claire who suffers I'm a nightmare.
PeeWeeToms will be very hard for her
Ahh.so pleased you are with your family.it doesn't matter how old we are when we are poorly we need our mum's.you are such a lovely young man.i am sending you a big hug and lots of love xxx😊
Thank you so much :)
It is ok, not to be ok. I was never in your position yet cancer broke my soul open at times. No apology needed. I am praying for an answer from your medical team related to surgery or other things they feel they can do for you. Right now, I am mainly glad you are with your family and your parents. I went through cancer without my parents near me and I WANTED them. It seems, no matter the age, our parents are always the safest place to land (if they are good people). Land safely today, Dan. Let the whole world wrap you up in the love you deserve. I have joined your community. I am passionate about the ethos behind your mission and the willingness to build it under extraordinary circumstances. Thank you for all your sharing and all you do. I ask that the world gives that much back to you threefold.
It's important now I've started to show as much as possible I think :/
You're on top of it...i will never tell you what to do....i want to be here to support you. Xxx
Thank you :)
Dan you don’t need to apologize to us or put on a “happy” face. We are here for you whatever your mood. You can be yourself here.
I know but feel I should sometimes :)
Dan if anyone can beat this YOU can! You need your mum and dad and that is nothing to be ashamed of. To me that was the biggest comfort in the world. Anxiously awaiting your video tonight!!💓
Thank you :)
You owe no explanation for ANYTHING you think, feel or do. As much love & support as you have, you're still walking this alone. If someone can't understand that you're not always sunshine & lollipops, that's on them. Just be who you are in the moment, be real. That imo, is the most valuable part of the journey on this side of the screen.
Much love & big hugs lovely man💖
Thank you so much :)
Much love & inspiration too you!!! Enjoy your day!!! God bless!!!
Thank you , have an awesome day :)
Hi Dan. Please don't waste your energy on apologising - it's not needed. And when you don't feel able to reply to everyone, that's fine too. We're here because of YOU. Just be you - whatever that means at the time. Lots of love. XX ❤
I always apologise if I am bad.
You're not bad! 😞
Dan...you are a hell of a lot stronger than you think. You have every right to be on a rollercoaster of emotions. Personally I have never had cancer, but have been an oncology nurse practitioner for over 30 years. Strength, courage, faith, prayer and a wonderful oncologist that you feel comfortable and confident with will help you through your journey. You aren't hurting the people around you....the disease is. I worked in the UK and there are many wonderful doctors there. Have a wonderful time with your family. Many blessings.
I just want to say brother did I love you and God bless you and your family
Thank you:)
Still missed Daniel. Xx 2 2 2019
Don`t apologise for anything buddy, you are an inspiration. I always heads to mum and dad`s when i need that special support. Gather yourself buddy and come back strong. We are all here to support you, in whatever way we can. My own life has involved not accepting limitation and prognosis, accept only what you need and push away the rest. You are not a person bound by limitation buddy, never forget that. Medical breakthroughs and revised thinking are achieved by men like you. Sorry I have rambled brother, Take care
Thank you so much :)
I’m sorry people aren’t being more supportive and understanding. I think about you everyday, I’m praying for you. Stay positive! You are doing the best you can, stay focused on yourself.
It's life people don't understand I don't think
I think about Dan everyday too ..Im sure we worry about everyone else more than ourselves when we are scared and we push them away to protect them.Dan we are all living one day at a time with you #TeamDan ...We've got your back
Glad to see your out in the fresh sea air. Good for you to go home, take care x
It's a good bit of air :)
Dear Dan, you are such a beautiful soul and I really, really..from the bottom of my heart wish for you to get better ❤ Please do not apologise for anything. Just get well ❤
Thank you so much :)
Sending you Prayers and Positive energy friend🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
God Bless you and your family🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thank you :)
I totally get where you are coming from Dan! I've just been diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis and everyone wants to offer advice and I know it's because they are trying to help. Most of all I just need people to listen to my fears and concerns not just offering solutions all the time.
I know we are all fighting this with you mate! We got u 👍
That's why I vlog to try express my fears and worries :)
I dont pretend to know what horror he was going through. But i can feel for him. And be envious of his courage. Amazing man and family. Heaven has its best back
I hope today is just what you need! Anxious to know what you hear! Have a lovely time with family! Love you, Dan! xx
Thank you :)
Stay positive and thank you for sharing your story with us your point of view is fine it is your story how ever you tell it praying for you for Strength and to know what your next step is for your treatment and for strength for your mom and dad to help you through this
I just want to show a different side of it all :/
This was moving to watch. Reading your replies to people revealed how vulnerable Dan was beneath his fighting spirit. RIP
I'm unclear on what you could be doing that would cause someone/anyone to be rude to u ,or require an apology. You're right it's your channel,and we're the ones choosing to watch....so PISS on them, they are probably just unhappy people regardless. STAY POSITIVE,AND GOD BLESS!
Thank you, I will keep going and can't please everyone :)
Is it strange or morbid that I miss him so come to watch his videos after he's gone but it hurts because I see he's in pain but I miss his vlogs, his visits with us . I have kids older then Dan & would have loved to have a son like him
I just feel like he's such an amazing man such a great human being I love his outlook on life a sense of humor & his eyes have so much emotion I would have loved to have a Dan in my life every family should have a Dan don't you think?
You have to be true to you. I know you are doing all that you can and that is all anyone can do. It is your point of view that you are sharing. I thank you for letting us be a part of your life. No apologies needed to any of us.
Dan, you know that everyone here loves you and your family loves you. Don't be sorry. You have all our support. Just feel as you want to feel, never be sorry. I think you are the most beautiful soul I have ever seen.
Thank you :)
God bless u lad i know its hard please stay around youre family im praying for u x
Thank you :)
there is no need to apologise you are doing the best you can and if someone has a problem with you saying your in pain or tired or worried then those people do not need to be in your life or on your social media delete all negative people you can do this you keep them dukes up and keep fighting you have a lot of people that love and care about you sending you love and hugs from Ohio
Thank you :)
PeeWeeToms your very welcome
Never say sorry you have an amazing attitude you have so many people routing for you the vlogs are amazing xxx
Positive thoughts headed to you from North Carolina!
Precious soul....PLEASE ...just get your house in order....stay with your family...make your wishes known in case you can no longer make decisions....fight...but be prepared ...just in case....enjoy yourself and be with all your loved ones...everyday.....and make peace with God.....God bless you and your family....
I am always happy and try look on the bright side :)
I have been watching your videos for a while now but haven’t commented before (have liked though 😎). Just wanted to take the opportunity to say hi! You come across like a genuinly nice person, very real, funny, determined and strong. What you are doing, letting people take part in your journey and getting people together to help them with their struggles, is amazing. I wish you all the best with all my heart.
Thank you so so much :)
Your video popped up on my youtube a couple of days ago so have watched since then. I live in South Africa and here we wish people 'sterkte' which means strength and stay positive and strong. Wishing you all the best, Dan. You are a lovely person!
Nothing wrong with going to see your parents. Keep up the good fight!
All you can do is take one day at a time, Dan. Life is too short even when you aren’t sick, you know?
This is a very heavy thing you’re carrying around... don’t blame yourself for having weak moments. ❤️
We’re here for you. Good times, bad times, whatever!
I'm pretty sure I'm gonna beat it now though but scared about what to do if I do and what I do after :/
PeeWeeToms That’s the spirit!
And honestly, you never know what opportunities will come during this whole process. The answers that you seek might end up being right in front of you. :)
totally understandable. Know that many are walking the road beside youlll
I'm so heart broken when I see his videos. :( God bless him
I miss you so much Dan. The world is a lot less bright and happy now that you’ve gone. Your radiant light shall never be extinguished. Rest in Paradise beautiful soul....you’re a hero and a warrior and I will always carry you in my heart. 😭🕯🙏🏽💔❤️
Just be you....don’t worry about what others are saying. It has to be difficult. My thoughts and prayers are with you. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I will be me don't worry :)
You look great honey! You do you! You know in your heart that you’re doing everything possible to help yourself heal while being a blessing to so many others who are battling with you. I hope you enjoy your day with your family. Much love and big ol hugs from Texas ❤️
Thank you so much :)
Just a personal note. EAT ANYTHING YOU DAMN WELL PLEASE....Because it doesn’t cause cancer or stop it. Seriously, eat whatever you want to eat.
I will ha ha love food
Wtf
very tough on your spirits when you have to get to grips with this in such a short time frame. you have great parents girlfriend friends and they are going to be there all the way. don't lose heart..rest assured much as you can.
Hi Dan. My Dad was in your shoes with a rare cancer, and so much time was wasted in specialist discussing his case at multi-disciplinary teams at different hospitals etc, that it ultimately cost him valuable time, and nobody stood in to take charge of his care. We had to demand that his care was transferred to a 'major' hospital so he had access to specialists that he needed. Find a consultant/oncologist that can help you and believes in you, and when you need an appointment, phone their secretary every day asking if there are any cancellations and keep stressing how desperate you are. Badger them. It does help. At one point, he had to present to A&E and exaggerate his pain in order to get a valuable MRI performed, as he was only offered one for a couple of weeks later. Hope you are feeling better tonight x
I've done that I've demanded it go to a professor and be dealt with! Only way now.
Your blog is great. Your an amazing person. I'm a cancer patient as well. My prayers are with you.
Thank you :)
Don't let the pressure of others bring you down. Only let light love and positive feelings into your bubble! God bless you! I'm so glad you have such supportive parents!
Never does just my own worries and concerns. I need to be mentally fit as well :)
People....stop overwhelming him. Become a vegan, stand on your head, eat pits. Stop It! He is too nice to say it directly, so I will.
I'm ok with it. I do look at it all but have an opinion on it but won't say what I think lol
But standing on your head could be a cure.
Cynthia you need to eat meat and animal fat to maintain a strong and healthy body... a vegan diet is not good for humans!
BROTHER TN wrong we are physiologically herbivores but behaviourally omnivores. Some of the strongest body builders and animals in the world are plant eaters. Meat, dairy, sugar and a host of other stuff is poison for our bodies.
oscarcat1231 yeah right, vegans are always getting sick! My brother in law and his dumb gf were vegans but then the girl began getting seizures and now they’re vegetarians, but they’re sick all the time and to make it worst the bitch is a registered dietitian!
You are a beautiful soul I look forward to how you are feeling day today I love western btw you keep being positive and definitely fight fight fight enjoy your day x
Thank you, it's a lovely place of you know which bits to see. Lol
you need not apologize my brother lashed out at times as well not to family .but to others. It never lasted long it was just a burst. I think a lot of it is fear, & suddendley it hits you. Then you have that moment of breaking. Hang in there my friend You know I hope you know how much you are loved and cared for by a lot of people Hugs & prayers ( Judy )
It's horrible to deal with and comprehend. It's like facing your fate daily.
years back I had abnormal cells I was so fearful I would wake up in the middle of the night crying, I would hyper ventilate, where ever I went or the people I know I would ask myself is this the last time i would ever see them It was a roller coaster ride of complete fear & madness in my mind. One minute my I was okay the next minute I was falling apart. it all began when I wanted children. It was not happening so I went to a fertility specialist he said all my cells were abnormal. They were like that for a year. he called my Dr right there in the office and ask him why he did not go back in & recheck me . My Doctor told him over the phone a woman her age their cells change.The fertility specialist actually screamed over the phone at him " That is why a woman her age you need to recheck them" Those abnormal cells were in me for a year in a cluster. I had to have a total hysterectomy.They were not cancer,but those 7 days of waiting were hell . I have no children but i have my life. If I had not gone to this specialist they could have turned to cancer I was not to go back for 5 years.I never went back to that Doctor. I have some awareness of how you are feeling Take care my friend
Have a great day Dan, don't sweat the small stuff, you're doing an awesome job 💜💛💚
Hey babe.. I'm drugged up with you I had my surgery Friday.💊 So I'm a little cross eyed trying to text.🙃lol. If you mom recommends a different place or doctor ect. Go with it. As a momma bear myself we always do what is very best for our cub. So when your brain feels like mush don't be afraid to lean on her. Even crawl in her lap and let her hold you while you cry. No matter how big our babies are...when they need us we want to be able to hold them and just just be. On another note.. Im loving that hat so much😍
To a better day than the last🍻
I'm seeing lots of people for it all over. We will sort this! We will!
Carri's 3RingCircus Carri Capps Blackwood - What a wonderful message, and soso true! As long as there's a Mama, you always have a place to sit and cry out your sadness♡♡♡♡
I agree 100% !! You are so blessed to have Mum & Dad and you do know they want to be with you for each and every step. ❤❤❤
I am so thankful that Dan always had both his mum and dad to support and love him thru it all. Sadly, Dan's battle has ended today. But what he managed to accomplish in his short time is truly Phenomenal!!! It touched my heart to hear Dan say that he was having a rough time and just needed to go see his mom.Awww! Yes, she is indeed a beautiful Mama bear and was very protective of her baby cub!!😉 Many thoughts of healing and comfort going out to Dan's family. (which of course, Now includes his lovely wife, Becky.)
Your commitment to this channel is inspiring 💗
Thank you :)
Have a good day. Nice to see you out and about.
I am indeedy out and about. :)
Hi Dan, giving advice is the easiest thing in the world. We all have this compulsion and it’s meant to help but it’s distracting. Any chance I get I tell people : nobody should care about you and your health more than you. You are in control, you’ve clearly got a great family and you are navigating this scary labyrinth with courage and elegance. You go Mister !
Thank you :) I'm just shared most the time now :(
You are an inspiring person. While I do not have cancer, I do have a type of chronic painful arthritis that affects so much of my body. Not just joints. I understand painful days. They are hard both physically and emotionally. Keep doing what you can to keep your body healthy with diet and activity. Keep yourself spiritually strong. There are a lot of people that care about you. Will continue prayers for healing and pain free days.
Thank you I am shattered most the time though :/
You are being way stronger than you think! You are amazing!
I live in Canada and I understand your struggles with medical professionals. Our health care is free in Canada but when you have serious medical issues you wait months to see a specialist, it’s not right when your life is on the line.
I have been sick for just over 3 years and you will learn pretty quickly who your real support system is, a lot of friends loose interest when you aren’t cured within a few weeks but your family will stand by your side thru your whole fight, and that is amazing! You need to make the best choices for you and not anyone else.
It’s ok to have bad days, it’s ok to fall apart sometimes! Rest when you need to, it’s a lot right now but you will get through this!
You are doing an amazing job! Thinking about you today!👏🏻
Thank you :)
My great grandfather was diagnosed with brain cancer at the age of 83. Many days he was in terrible pain and doctors were not sure what to do. At 86 he beat cancer! He beat the odds. Continue to have the strength to fight even if the pain is unbearable. Be aggressive towards the doctors and push for treatment and answers. You are doing great. :)
I will for sure carry on and beat it!
You should not need to feel guilty on top of what you are going through right now, it's ok to feel upset and depressed and you are not expected to swallow those emotions just so that those around you feel better. Share your pain with them, they are there to support you in times of need and this is your time of need.
I do try :/ it's just hard :(
Dan, please don’t be so hard on yourself. Of course you are trying everything you can. Vent, rant, laugh, cry, yell, educate, laugh some more. There isn’t an etiquette book for what you are dealing with. Take care of you and those who love you!