A man respects a woman who loves herself. Point blank period! I saw a lady on tiktok say be a lady and leave quietly.. no need to scream, argue and complain. Just love yourself enough to move on.
Im in this process right now! Hes being distance, and he flaked out on some plans, but im not gonna nag or go off, i will silently walk away! I cant do another emotionally unavailable man
This is why being abstinent and reserved is so important! This is how you know a man truly wants you! Any man that gets mad at this, he had no intentions of being with you longterm!
The right man will appreciate and reciprocate you being giving woman, and if it turns out you're not compatible he will let you know so you guys don't take each others times. Sometimes people are both good but just not for each other, a good man and woman should keep that in mind and part ways but in an amicable way.
That's right Tony. When I was Single, I used to tell men, if I'm good enough to have Sex with & enjoy life with I'm good enough to Marry. I didn't have sex b4 marriage and rarely cooked
Hoooottt tea!!! As a woman, I have always known this and moved accordingly!!! Men will always respect you....30 years later those men will still respect you for holding your standards.
Hey Tony, I took your advice and I’ve been dating a guy for seven months and it’s somebody I never would’ve considered if it were solely based on financials …. I am so happy and haven’t been happy like this in the last 17 years and finally we are now engaged ❤🎉
Brother Gaskins I agree 1000 percent with what you said about allowing a man to work to receive the multitude of blessings, gifts, and treatment a woman of GOD comes with. I live by this very principal and actively preserve 100 percent of myself so that I can reward my true king and no one else. Why? Because no one else is worth it.
Me too. I’d feel like I gave myself away if I did all that for a boyfriend and then later on ended up marrying a different man. Or he marries a different woman. I just can’t do all that with someone who is only comfortable calling me his “ Girlfriend “.
Thank you so much. This is exactly what I needed to hear. We women are natural givers and it’s difficult for us to realize giving freely isn’t always wise and can spoil/ruin a man. Giving freely ONLY suits babies and small children. That type of energy shouldn’t be given to grown adults. God bless you Mr. gaskins these videos are very much appreciated.
True, I remember when I was around 15 , I managed to get a boyfriend 😂 it was not love but just silly highschool love. And he tried to pressure me into doing stuff, I was remaining a virgin until marriage and had found God at around the age of 10 maybe younger, so I knew it wasnt right I ended things. He was angry, and went and slept with my best friend at the time, I felt hurt and disrespected by both but got over it as there was no soul ties anyway. He dumps her comes back to me and explains how he feels shes easy and im respectable. I ignored and for a long time he hung around until I met my husband at 17 or so.
The very few women who move on in silence, don’t tolerate bs , make him work and keep the legs closed are the women who men they know they fumbled and still think about 20 plus years later.
Mr. Gaskins, even if you had dark brown eyes you'd still be one of the best looking men on the Tube and smartest too. I am an avid viewer from Trinidad.
Let the church say Amen. You're speaking nothing but facts, brother. Women need to learn to stop giving wifely benefits to boyfriends. These men don't appreciate it nor respect it!!!
Tony! You putting in the work with these mini videos here lately!! I can't get nothing done...having to stop and watch them!! Lol! But....Thanks for always taking us along for the "ride" and filling us up (pun intended) with all this good wisdom! God Bless You! 🤣🙏🏽🥰💯
Tony, you speak the truth because you are coming from God's Word as your basis. It's a shame though that nowadays some women may hear this video and still continue sleeping around.
I needed to hear this because there are times when I feel like my pace even for myself is too long but really I’m moving at the right time. Don’t let a man or anyone not even myself to put pressure on me to move prematurely. Everything happens in due time 11:54 most powerful statement that we don’t think about
The issue men have is the women don’t require all men to wait for different reasons. It’s not set standard that women have to make men wait. They tend to make the ones wait that they think it could be serious and/ or they like. So their are a lot of women making one man jump through hoops and then their is another man she’s giving it to for free because she doesn’t take him seriously.
Yea that’s true but If anything it should give women more of a reason to wait because men know that what one won’t do- another one will. Eventually people mature past the point of being ruled by their desires so there will always be men and women that wait and those people do find each other.
Yeah but if a man finds out you made him wait and not others he will feel s certain way. The only way a woman could hold my attention that way was if she knows how to cook well and wants to maintain a home properly and isn't difficult with me. If she is giving in qualities that aren't sex then I will understand that she feels she gave her body away to soon before and I would respect that. But if it's just all for show, and to just reel in a man , then it's best they go their separate ways.
It hurts my heart to hear this. Although I understand, my prayer is that God will heal you and soften your heart.... not necessarily for a man but just for yourself. I've been learning how to forgive myself for my decisions in the past and it's been so hard. Don't let life harden you just allow it to make you wiser and move differently. I hope you can receive my words with all the love and empathy that I can possibly type. ❤️🙏🏾❤️
Oh Tony it's so sad I didn't know any of these so with an honest heart I have done some of these for not knowing, and wondered why he was disrespectful, now I know. That is why God protects his loving daughters for not doing these things before marriage but lack of knowledge has cost me a lot. Thank you God that I get to know now.
Jus what I needed just the thoughts I was having you can’t let men overstep boundaries at all and never too soon for sex including oral kissing cooking for him or cleaning as well as helping him with business matters
Point me to the men that’s waiting until marriage PLEASE! I tried making plenty men wait and they move around, I see them in relationships, with the next female. Sex is too easy to get now days. Even if you give it up, if a man wants you no matter what, they’ll let you know, SIMPLE.
I'm a woman and if I gotta do that one "" thing"" too keep him,I just won't have man. I've never in all my 55 yrs done that! Nope can't do it and my husband didn't expect it from me, he was glad!!! Never had a man to ask me to do that!! Hahaha I guess he can just "tell" !!! Huh?
I just want to say that we really need to work on agreeing to disagree. People are entitled to their own views and perspectives of life. Perspectives will vary based on life experiences period. The bottom line is men and women can do a better job vetting potential partners, friends etc.... (My thoughts are clearly my thoughts)
I agree with you, but Tony's video is more about a Godly perspective instead of personal preference. When you love God, your perspective is 2nd to God's instructions...
You got men that had to wait for the cookie, a long time and he still left that woman or didn’t marry. Not the case for a lot of men. Understand a woman see men as nasty mouth too when they’re going down on women that they don’t know. It really does go both ways.
Issue is this seems to gamey. Rather just be with a person that i can do what works for me and the other person is receptive to it. Having to think about if im making it too easy and then planning out when i want to touch or do thing is alot of work. Easier to just get with a person that mesh with your personality type. Most relationships end because they were not compatible and people try to force it through money and lust
Getting to and maintaining a marriage requires THOUGHT and effort. It's not games. Have y'all ever thought about our male ancestors who had to marry a woman (or hire a prostitute) to have access to sex. If they wanted offspring/legacy, they had to find a wife. Men have a higher level of respect among other men when married because they know the mental work it entails. It elevates their social status. Men know. But they'll take the steak if it just plops down in front of them. They didn't have to buy it, grill it, or do any work. Men respect what they earn and feel more accomplished that way. We need to start listening to Jesus, Mr. Gaskins, and the mothers and grandmothers that have been telling us that men are not going to buy the cow if you're giving out the milk for free. We need to THINK about how men work, how to respect ourselves, and how to maintain boundaries with men. For example, my bf and I (both active Christians) will cook (and clean up) together as quality time, though sometimes we'll cook for each other while the other person helps with clean up. We kiss, hug, hold hands. No sexual touching. I'm not sitting on his lap. He's not allowed to touch my butt (though I know he wants to😅). We've had discussions about sex. What it means to God, to each of us (expressing wants/needs- we're not virgins), and for the health of our future marriage. We're not cleaning each other's houses (outside of what we did together) because when we live together in marriage, it will be OUR space to clean. I'm not doing his laundry if I'm over at his. When married, we've discussed that he dislikes laundry while I don't mind it so I'd volunteer for that. He knows yard work ain't my thing maybe besides some gardening, so that's his. We will both continue cooking because we enjoy trying new recipes. We spend time together chilling, fun activities/discussions, joking around, but also having deeper conversations (about God, the Word, our ministries, being vulnerable about the past, what's going on with us each day in the present, praying for each other, speaking on our future). We're all in spiritually, mentally, emotionally, politically, but have social, physical/sexual, &financial boundaries. We both pay for dates, but of course we treat each other for special days (birthdays, anniversary, Valentine's day, Christmas). In marriage, we believe in full disclosure joint finances, a household budget/expenses tracking (which he prefers I handle), with individual checking accounts for monthly personal spending included in the budget.
Tony, can you speak about fiancé life? I would appreciate that. I currently moved in with him due to the transition but I would love the guidance. In the future, I will plan to do the coaching but I am looking for a new job, lol, thank you. We need a prize pull on the platform, one free 1-1 session with Tony, 😊
I get what Tony said but I think it goes both ways. If a man don’t value a woman because of the nasty things they did together then he really don’t value himself. Cus they both nasty. They both should seek God N repent. Cus they both wrong n stop wasting each other’s time if they really don’t want each other.
You made it what you wanted it to be when a MAN just told you about a MAN. This is called delusion. Listen before anything. You even started your comment off with “I think” don’t think. You’ve done that and it led you here. Now it’s time TO LISTEN
Y'all can fight ya pastors on this one: Legal marriage is for earthly, legal benefits. A true marriage takes place on the spiritual realm. It's just leave, cleave, consummate. I personally believe that if he loves you, he'll legally marry you to make sure that you have access to everything you need, in order to be taken care of in the event something happens to him on this earth. I totally believe in legal marriage, but it's way too glorified for me.
Hi Tony, gentle suggestion here: you might want to get car phone mount so you’re not holding your phone while driving. This is just a safety concern. Please disregard my comment if you already have one and it’s just moving a lot while you drive. Just don’t want you to be put in harms way!
Hi Tony, This is off topic however have you heard of the conjoined twins Abby and Brittany Hensel. They have 2 heads and one body but they are saying only one got married???? Anyhoo if you were to give them any kinda relationship advice, What would it be. Their union is very unique/complex Google them and let us know your input/thoughts on this. Thanks in advance.
Well I was married and just doing doing doing and he nothing I end up dry and empty and divorced! I told him I don’t need to be fighting with you to have a decent life, he reward now the woman from the street.
Tony, please help‼‼‼ What to do when you find a good and godly man BUT.... He respects me and want to wait for sex before marriage, but I dont feel psysical attraction? Everything is there,we have a friendship based relationship, he wants to get married, see me as his wife,he wants to have a children, he is in love...I feel safe around him, everything is ok, but I just dont have an urge to kiss him...please help. I dont wanna let him go, but on the other hand It is not fair to date if I am not attracted. What do you think? Will attraction come with time?
Think this through sis. You don't want to get with someone you are attracted too and they take you through it, then live the rest of your life in regret. Those men are rare to find. Please pray about it and let the peace of God guide you. Trust God with your decision and trust Him to provide what you need...
Outer Beauty fades after a while so you wanna be left with someone with a beautiful heart!!! If you pray God will allow you to see this individual how HE sees him and that will in yearn increase your physical attraction to him… but yea in all things be led by God.
Nah, this is all just manipulation to get what you want. People should be giving and nurturing towards their partner because that's who they are, if I got to put In a certain amount of coins into a woman to get her to cook me a meal.. Id rather cook and eat it myself cause it will be better company. Women tend to do too much and let men not reciprocate, women should be very attentive to not being taken advantage of if they are a giving type of woman. If the man does not reciprocate, that is not the man for you, continue being a giving person but only for the right man. There is a saying, slow to hire quick to fire.. we should all follow this advise.
I’ve realized men who aren’t spiritually connected REALLY think they believe behavior like that from a woman is cool BUT on a spiritual level they know it’s not that’s why their behavior towards her changes without them doing it on purpose or even realizing they really believe she’s a “nasty mouth” lol
A man respects a woman who loves herself. Point blank period! I saw a lady on tiktok say be a lady and leave quietly.. no need to scream, argue and complain. Just love yourself enough to move on.
Exactly ❤
Needed this!!
True. A lady of elegance who values herself won’t through a fit because she knows he lost a good thing by confidently and quietly walking away.
Im in this process right now! Hes being distance, and he flaked out on some plans, but im not gonna nag or go off, i will silently walk away! I cant do another emotionally unavailable man
He definitely lost a good one!
Ladies, Stop giving husband benefits to "boyfriends."
This!!! Wish I knew better but I do now, unfortunately…
@@This_mamas_journey Put it behind you. Now you know -- and you're on the right channel, soaking up wisdom,
That part
💯...I've had to learn this the hard way. This is NOT going to gain a man's respect, love nor commitmen🚫
This is why being abstinent and reserved is so important! This is how you know a man truly wants you! Any man that gets mad at this, he had no intentions of being with you longterm!
Unfortunately you could do everything right and never ever gain respect from the wrong man! ❤know your worth!!
Or vs Versa
🎉bingo! his Character is #1...
The right man will appreciate and reciprocate you being giving woman, and if it turns out you're not compatible he will let you know so you guys don't take each others times.
Sometimes people are both good but just not for each other, a good man and woman should keep that in mind and part ways but in an amicable way.
That’s why discernment is key!❤
I think you slightly missed his explanation.
Absolutely Correct.
Men love to be needed, respected and pumped up.
That's right Tony. When I was Single, I used to tell men, if I'm good enough to have Sex with & enjoy life with I'm good enough to Marry. I didn't have sex b4 marriage and rarely cooked
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Hoooottt tea!!! As a woman, I have always known this and moved accordingly!!! Men will always respect you....30 years later those men will still respect you for holding your standards.
Yes ma’am! ALL the men who got mad because I didn’t have sex with them will still pop in my inbox every now and then . They stay enamored
@@j-tenn226 absolutely!
Hey Tony, I took your advice and I’ve been dating a guy for seven months and it’s somebody I never would’ve considered if it were solely based on financials …. I am so happy and haven’t been happy like this in the last 17 years and finally we are now engaged ❤🎉
Congratulations 🎉🎉🎉❤
Awesome!! Congrats!! 🎉❤
Brother Gaskins I agree 1000 percent with what you said about allowing a man to work to receive the multitude of blessings, gifts, and treatment a woman of GOD comes with. I live by this very principal and actively preserve 100 percent of myself so that I can reward my true king and no one else. Why? Because no one else is worth it.
And no one else deserves it. Point blank period.
Amen to that!
Me too. I’d feel like I gave myself away if I did all that for a boyfriend and then later on ended up marrying a different man. Or he marries a different woman. I just can’t do all that with someone who is only comfortable calling me his “
Girlfriend “.
Thank you so much. This is exactly what I needed to hear. We women are natural givers and it’s difficult for us to realize giving freely isn’t always wise and can spoil/ruin a man. Giving freely ONLY suits babies and small children. That type of energy shouldn’t be given to grown adults. God bless you Mr. gaskins these videos are very much appreciated.
Great point.
"ALOT of ppl JUST WON'T let it be"😂😂😂💯
True, I remember when I was around 15 , I managed to get a boyfriend 😂 it was not love but just silly highschool love. And he tried to pressure me into doing stuff, I was remaining a virgin until marriage and had found God at around the age of 10 maybe younger, so I knew it wasnt right I ended things. He was angry, and went and slept with my best friend at the time, I felt hurt and disrespected by both but got over it as there was no soul ties anyway. He dumps her comes back to me and explains how he feels shes easy and im respectable. I ignored and for a long time he hung around until I met my husband at 17 or so.
“No P Diddy”😭😭😂
😭😭 he too updated
Right!!😂
Lmbo i caught that too!
THANK THE LORD IM CELIBATE. THANK YOU AGAiN. i HAVE LEARNED FROM MY PAST. THANK YOU FOR THiS & EVERYTHiNG ELSE😊.
So true! Im paying the price after many yaers !!! After so many years, I asked him to contribute and he laughed at me and left😢!!
Be happy that he's gone!
I can relate.... sadly. I'm glad my ex is gone, so I could heal and he could stop blocking my real husband from finding me...
The very few women who move on in silence, don’t tolerate bs , make him work and keep the legs closed are the women who men they know they fumbled and still think about 20 plus years later.
You need to learn to accept kindness when given to you just as when you give kindness to them they accept it! Goes both ways!
Tony side comments be cracking me up LOL :)
😂 I can't help it but notice the beautiful, yellow car 💛 and a nicer neighborhood with gates. 😅 I love it.
Mr. Gaskins, even if you had dark brown eyes you'd still be one of the best looking men on the Tube and smartest too. I am an avid viewer from Trinidad.
Thank you for spreading awarenes❤️ ladies know your worth!!
Not Diddy....Tony is funny as heck 😂😂😂😂 not shipping sprees!
The title got me! But now I want some Oxtails lol
Let the church say Amen. You're speaking nothing but facts, brother. Women need to learn to stop giving wifely benefits to boyfriends. These men don't appreciate it nor respect it!!!
Many husbands don't appreciate
Amen❤❤❤, and this is coming from someone who had to learn this the hardway.
Tony! You putting in the work with these mini videos here lately!! I can't get nothing done...having to stop and watch them!! Lol! But....Thanks for always taking us along for the "ride" and filling us up (pun intended) with all this good wisdom! God Bless You! 🤣🙏🏽🥰💯
Tony, you speak the truth because you are coming from God's Word as your basis. It's a shame though that nowadays some women may hear this video and still continue sleeping around.
I needed to hear this because there are times when I feel like my pace even for myself is too long but really I’m moving at the right time. Don’t let a man or anyone not even myself to put pressure on me to move prematurely. Everything happens in due time 11:54 most powerful statement that we don’t think about
Thanks Tony for the advice
Appreciate from a man’s perspective spacing it out …
You’re one of those people I truly listen to, you’ve been married for 17 years anyways!
"NO P. DIDDY NOW!"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Thankyou for confirming what I am thinking
He is just speaking truth no husband privileges to a boyfriend. Bottom line
Reminds me brother of even when you work/career you have to physically put in the work to get any kind of benefits from your job
Thank you again Tony. You be on it!😂 Thank you!!😊
Bro,My whole body is a temple of the holy Spirit.I don't put my mouth underneath the Belly button.Blessings!!!❤
The issue men have is the women don’t require all men to wait for different reasons. It’s not set standard that women have to make men wait. They tend to make the ones wait that they think it could be serious and/ or they like. So their are a lot of women making one man jump through hoops and then their is another man she’s giving it to for free because she doesn’t take him seriously.
Yea that’s true but If anything it should give women more of a reason to wait because men know that what one won’t do- another one will. Eventually people mature past the point of being ruled by their desires so there will always be men and women that wait and those people do find each other.
Yeah but if a man finds out you made him wait and not others he will feel s certain way.
The only way a woman could hold my attention that way was if she knows how to cook well and wants to maintain a home properly and isn't difficult with me.
If she is giving in qualities that aren't sex then I will understand that she feels she gave her body away to soon before and I would respect that.
But if it's just all for show, and to just reel in a man , then it's best they go their separate ways.
I just hope men are watching these videos!
They’re not 😅
@@Aisha_babii I know that's right but a girl can hope!😅
Wow. Thank you so much for this. Thank you for showing how we ought to conduct our self.
This was so useful, stepping into something new definitely will be applying this
He should and would marry u if he sees u as a treasure he don’t want to lose
Ladies. If you're like me and you made the mistake, it's not too late to stop. And change your ways like I did.😊
Certain Hard, Cold Truths that I learned way Too Late. As a Result, I'm Older and Bitter and Done. 💯
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It hurts my heart to hear this. Although I understand, my prayer is that God will heal you and soften your heart.... not necessarily for a man but just for yourself. I've been learning how to forgive myself for my decisions in the past and it's been so hard. Don't let life harden you just allow it to make you wiser and move differently. I hope you can receive my words with all the love and empathy that I can possibly type. ❤️🙏🏾❤️
keep the videos coming. we need these reminders
Ready to get these gems! 🤓📝
As a woman waiting for marriage bless you & the Lords word you’re spreading 🙏🏽
Oh Tony it's so sad I didn't know any of these so with an honest heart I have done some of these for not knowing, and wondered why he was disrespectful, now I know. That is why God protects his loving daughters for not doing these things before marriage but lack of knowledge has cost me a lot. Thank you God that I get to know now.
Yesss. 2024 and on: I don’t want anything for free!
This must only apply to a man that wants to be in a relationship
You had me at oxtails.
Right lol
Notificationnnnnnnn GANGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG🥰🥰🙌🏾🙌🏾
Thanks for sharing. Love your videos
Jus what I needed just the thoughts I was having you can’t let men overstep boundaries at all and never too soon for sex including oral kissing cooking for him or cleaning as well as helping him with business matters
My great aunt would say “ why would he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free 😂😂❤❤
"Space it out " I like that never heard it put that way before
❤❤woooow that’s some truth you speaking
Thank you Tony❤❤❤❤❤❤....
Point me to the men that’s waiting until marriage PLEASE! I tried making plenty men wait and they move around, I see them in relationships, with the next female. Sex is too easy to get now days. Even if you give it up, if a man wants you no matter what, they’ll let you know, SIMPLE.
I'm a woman and if I gotta do that one "" thing"" too keep him,I just won't have man. I've never in all my 55 yrs done that! Nope can't do it and my husband didn't expect it from me, he was glad!!! Never had a man to ask me to do that!! Hahaha I guess he can just "tell" !!! Huh?
You been eating good pastor 😂that’s good tho
I’m the same way. I don’t want nothing free
I just want to say that we really need to work on agreeing to disagree. People are entitled to their own views and perspectives of life. Perspectives will vary based on life experiences period. The bottom line is men and women can do a better job vetting potential partners, friends etc.... (My thoughts are clearly my thoughts)
I agree with you, but Tony's video is more about a Godly perspective instead of personal preference. When you love God, your perspective is 2nd to God's instructions...
He gonna respect it & he’s not gonna waste his time if you give it up after marriage😂
You got men that had to wait for the cookie, a long time and he still left that woman or didn’t marry. Not the case for a lot of men. Understand a woman see men as nasty mouth too when they’re going down on women that they don’t know. It really does go both ways.
Wow, really loved this !!!!
This is so true and well said 🫡🫡
Thank you 🙏🏾
At least a year if you can't wait until marriage. Ladies and make sure he goes to work and can take care of himself!
Issue is this seems to gamey. Rather just be with a person that i can do what works for me and the other person is receptive to it. Having to think about if im making it too easy and then planning out when i want to touch or do thing is alot of work. Easier to just get with a person that mesh with your personality type. Most relationships end because they were not compatible and people try to force it through money and lust
Getting to and maintaining a marriage requires THOUGHT and effort. It's not games.
Have y'all ever thought about our male ancestors who had to marry a woman (or hire a prostitute) to have access to sex. If they wanted offspring/legacy, they had to find a wife. Men have a higher level of respect among other men when married because they know the mental work it entails. It elevates their social status. Men know. But they'll take the steak if it just plops down in front of them. They didn't have to buy it, grill it, or do any work. Men respect what they earn and feel more accomplished that way.
We need to start listening to Jesus, Mr. Gaskins, and the mothers and grandmothers that have been telling us that men are not going to buy the cow if you're giving out the milk for free. We need to THINK about how men work, how to respect ourselves, and how to maintain boundaries with men.
For example, my bf and I (both active Christians) will cook (and clean up) together as quality time, though sometimes we'll cook for each other while the other person helps with clean up. We kiss, hug, hold hands. No sexual touching. I'm not sitting on his lap. He's not allowed to touch my butt (though I know he wants to😅). We've had discussions about sex. What it means to God, to each of us (expressing wants/needs- we're not virgins), and for the health of our future marriage. We're not cleaning each other's houses (outside of what we did together) because when we live together in marriage, it will be OUR space to clean. I'm not doing his laundry if I'm over at his. When married, we've discussed that he dislikes laundry while I don't mind it so I'd volunteer for that. He knows yard work ain't my thing maybe besides some gardening, so that's his. We will both continue cooking because we enjoy trying new recipes. We spend time together chilling, fun activities/discussions, joking around, but also having deeper conversations (about God, the Word, our ministries, being vulnerable about the past, what's going on with us each day in the present, praying for each other, speaking on our future).
We're all in spiritually, mentally, emotionally, politically, but have social, physical/sexual, &financial boundaries. We both pay for dates, but of course we treat each other for special days (birthdays, anniversary, Valentine's day, Christmas). In marriage, we believe in full disclosure joint finances, a household budget/expenses tracking (which he prefers I handle), with individual checking accounts for monthly personal spending included in the budget.
Tony everyone has to work. Women have to work. Noone is coming to save us lol
Depends on socioecomomic conditions. Hopefully the woman doesn't, but if she does, hopefully she will still be grateful despite.
Tony, can you speak about fiancé life? I would appreciate that. I currently moved in with him due to the transition but I would love the guidance. In the future, I will plan to do the coaching but I am looking for a new job, lol, thank you. We need a prize pull on the platform, one free 1-1 session with Tony, 😊
"No P Didi now, don't get it twisted" 😂
Why not I’m up 😂
🤣🤣🤣 I know that's right... This cute
Who cooks 4x a week? I cook once and eat twice (sometimes three times) 😅
Thanks for sharing
I get what Tony said but I think it goes both ways. If a man don’t value a woman because of the nasty things they did together then he really don’t value himself. Cus they both nasty. They both should seek God N repent. Cus they both wrong n stop wasting each other’s time if they really don’t want each other.
You made it what you wanted it to be when a MAN just told you about a MAN. This is called delusion. Listen before anything. You even started your comment off with “I think” don’t think. You’ve done that and it led you here. Now it’s time TO LISTEN
My ex husband and my man now say I never won't they help,they hate that I don't know what I suppose to do
Such a good reminder!
Y'all can fight ya pastors on this one: Legal marriage is for earthly, legal benefits. A true marriage takes place on the spiritual realm. It's just leave, cleave, consummate. I personally believe that if he loves you, he'll legally marry you to make sure that you have access to everything you need, in order to be taken care of in the event something happens to him on this earth. I totally believe in legal marriage, but it's way too glorified for me.
Preach
This is Good Information !😊
Hi Tony, gentle suggestion here: you might want to get car phone mount so you’re not holding your phone while driving.
This is just a safety concern. Please disregard my comment if you already have one and it’s just moving a lot while you drive. Just don’t want you to be put in harms way!
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Hi Tony, This is off topic however have you heard of the conjoined twins Abby and Brittany Hensel. They have 2 heads and one body but they are saying only one got married???? Anyhoo if you were to give them any kinda relationship advice, What would it be. Their union is very unique/complex Google them and let us know your input/thoughts on this. Thanks in advance.
I’d love to hear his take on this
I remember them
How do they get intimate?
@@j-tenn226 I’d rather not know 😣
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Well I was married and just doing doing doing and he nothing I end up dry and empty and divorced! I told him I don’t need to be fighting with you to have a decent life, he reward now the woman from the street.
Hey, Tony
Are you driving a Dodge Hornet R/T ? I just picked up mines on 1/29/24. I name all my automobiles. Legacy is his name.
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I realize not knowing I did some these things off bet and too soon no wonder it didn’t get to marraige but now I know
Question what if it's the man that is slowing down the affection. Does that mean he isn't interested
Tony, please help‼‼‼
What to do when you find a good and godly man BUT....
He respects me and want to wait for sex before marriage, but I dont feel psysical attraction?
Everything is there,we have a friendship based relationship, he wants to get married, see me as his wife,he wants to have a children, he is in love...I feel safe around him, everything is ok, but I just dont have an urge to kiss him...please help.
I dont wanna let him go, but on the other hand It is not fair to date if I am not attracted. What do you think? Will attraction come with time?
Think this through sis. You don't want to get with someone you are attracted too and they take you through it, then live the rest of your life in regret. Those men are rare to find. Please pray about it and let the peace of God guide you. Trust God with your decision and trust Him to provide what you need...
Girl pray and ask God to increase you attraction to this man, He sounds like a keeper !!!
Outer Beauty fades after a while so you wanna be left with someone with a beautiful heart!!! If you pray God will allow you to see this individual how HE sees him and that will in yearn increase your physical attraction to him… but yea in all things be led by God.
No P. Diddy 😅😂
Nah, this is all just manipulation to get what you want.
People should be giving and nurturing towards their partner because that's who they are, if I got to put In a certain amount of coins into a woman to get her to cook me a meal..
Id rather cook and eat it myself cause it will be better company.
Women tend to do too much and let men not reciprocate, women should be very attentive to not being taken advantage of if they are a giving type of woman.
If the man does not reciprocate, that is not the man for you, continue being a giving person but only for the right man.
There is a saying, slow to hire quick to fire.. we should all follow this advise.
Exactly how I feel
Why buy the cow when u can get the milk for free 😮💨
I’ve realized men who aren’t spiritually connected REALLY think they believe behavior like that from a woman is cool BUT on a spiritual level they know it’s not that’s why their behavior towards her changes without them doing it on purpose or even realizing they really believe she’s a “nasty mouth” lol
Can you redeem yourself if you’ve done something too early?
I wanna know too.
This is a great question!!!! I hope Tony answers
I need to sleep TONY 😩🇵🇸
Do he go live? If so I be missing it
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