How You Know He’s A Husband?

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  • Опубликовано: 27 дек 2024

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  • @LisaCPerry
    @LisaCPerry 8 месяцев назад +143

    Basically a man who exercise self control in all areas of life with emotional maturity is a viable candidate for marriage.

  • @meagon177
    @meagon177 9 месяцев назад +445

    Point Blank Peri-yod.

    • @deenafleming4385
      @deenafleming4385 9 месяцев назад +14

      😂

    • @EiaWea
      @EiaWea 9 месяцев назад +6

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Realness111
      @Realness111 9 месяцев назад +5

      😂

    • @deaudrey85
      @deaudrey85 9 месяцев назад +4

      😂 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @BossAnjeil
      @BossAnjeil 9 месяцев назад +3

      😂😂😂😂

  • @PrettyDreadie
    @PrettyDreadie 9 месяцев назад +180

    When I hear “Hey hey Tony Gaskins here” I know he bout to drop that heat 🔥 😅

    • @adrianaleon5753
      @adrianaleon5753 9 месяцев назад +3

      Same 😂🎯

    • @PrettyDreadie
      @PrettyDreadie 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@adrianaleon5753 okaaaayyy !!! 😂

    • @christinedozier2154
      @christinedozier2154 8 месяцев назад +1

      True 😆

    • @EsiriE
      @EsiriE 8 месяцев назад +3

      Sooo every video then? 😂😂 because he says this every video haha

    • @PrettyDreadie
      @PrettyDreadie 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@EsiriE pretty much haha 😂

  • @kkandbeyond
    @kkandbeyond 8 месяцев назад +88

    Dishonest money dwindles away, but he who gathers money little by little makes it grow.
    Proverbs 13:11

  • @PCF09
    @PCF09 9 месяцев назад +190

    Facts on facts on facts. My dad has been smoking over 50 yrs and was diagnosed with lung cancer 2 yrs ago. He can get around with a walker but now my mom has to take care of him and do everything he cant do. He still smokes, his mind is bad, and he always upset about small things. I vowed to myself at a young age to never marry a man that smokes.

    • @PCF09
      @PCF09 8 месяцев назад +22

      @@Darling_Youcancallme but smoking and putting anything harmful in your body voluntarily speeds up the process and makes it worse. We have a history of cancer my grandfather - his father and one of his brothers died of cancer and aother brother caught his early. So knowing the history why add fuel to the fire.

    • @la6136
      @la6136 8 месяцев назад

      @@Darling_Youcancallme A large percent of people who get lung cancer never smoked. The air is polluted with toxins we can not avoid unless you get very good air filters and stay indoors

    • @PCF09
      @PCF09 8 месяцев назад +11

      @@Darling_Youcancallme Thanks...health issues that you can't help or is beyond your control is understandable but doing things that are harmful when you dont have to is not. One of my cousins died of lung cancer as well but she wasnt a smoker her husband was sadly.

    • @truh_von_tay
      @truh_von_tay 8 месяцев назад +2

      Good for you mamas. My mom smoked cigs so I share your sentiments. She stopped then picked back up after an incident with my stepdad but I believe she has stopped again.

    • @tamitatangoto5134
      @tamitatangoto5134 8 месяцев назад +1

      You got that right they have serious issues with OCD..
      My ex-husband was a smoker and everything came around WHEN he would be smoking. He basically planned when he would smoke and what he would do while smoking 😮
      He talked about quitting but then he knew he would have to give up coffee because coffee was associated with his first cigarette of the day.😢
      I don't even know where my ex is now🤷🏼‍♀️
      I haven't talked to him in like 2 and 1/2 years. He was having problems with his throat and I was concerned. The last time I talked to him he also spoke with my daughter, his stepdaughter. And we haven't heard from him since. I don't even know if he's still alive😢
      Cigarettes are evil and my daughter nearly wasn't able to quit smoking, but she was determined to be pleasing to God. And she knew that she needed to quit that addiction in order to successfully please God.
      Some people may not understand why it would be displeasing to God. But there are some scriptures if someone needs me to bring them out.😊
      Sincerely TAMI 🙋🏼💞😇~⚔️ PROVERBS 27:17⚔️

  • @eskimosog
    @eskimosog 9 месяцев назад +165

    Self Control (no addictive personality)
    Work (working, consitently working)
    Emotional intelegence, good temper (not having pride that would not allow to serve a wife)
    And MOST important: Fear and respect God (being humble, admitting that he is not a God and that he is not in control of everything)

    • @onlyHEknowsme
      @onlyHEknowsme 8 месяцев назад +13

      And fears and respects God

    • @eskimosog
      @eskimosog 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@onlyHEknowsme the most important one!! how did I miss this!? adding to the list

    • @ry2yb
      @ry2yb 8 месяцев назад

      Thanks!

    • @merlinsvdd
      @merlinsvdd 7 месяцев назад

      I dealt with a person who did the opposite of those things. Fuh. Thank goodness, i am out of his life.

  • @alaysiavenable9993
    @alaysiavenable9993 8 месяцев назад +43

    He is a husband when he loves God more than he loves you or himself. He will always follow and lead according to God word in righteousness.

  • @Ms.Sipp40
    @Ms.Sipp40 9 месяцев назад +125

    Definitely want a man of GOD🙏🏾🙏🏾Lord please…❤I’m a Christian as well…living it not just talking!

    • @sanaimcclain
      @sanaimcclain 9 месяцев назад +10

      Amen!

    • @dear_mscaines
      @dear_mscaines 8 месяцев назад +4

      I had a man of God but his heart wasn’t in it like it should’ve been with God. Be sure to pray for someone healed! 🙏🏽

    • @Ms.Sipp40
      @Ms.Sipp40 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@dear_mscaines all of them ain’t real! Agree!❤️

  • @BetterLoveMovement
    @BetterLoveMovement 9 месяцев назад +329

    MOST of today’s “modern” men are NOT husband material.😑

    • @red_edj
      @red_edj 9 месяцев назад +11

      💯

    • @Sunshann
      @Sunshann 9 месяцев назад +45

      They’ve never seen a husband

    • @cjbarber1138
      @cjbarber1138 9 месяцев назад +27

      Are Most of today’s modern women wife material 🤔
      No shade, just asking…

    • @BetterLoveMovement
      @BetterLoveMovement 9 месяцев назад

      @@cjbarber1138 Honestly, NO. Women need female mentors who can teach them how to BE wives and present themselves as such to receive their husband. That is what MY platform is all about. Women's standards need to RISE, for THEMSELVES and for the men they entertain.

    • @kristalliiite6408
      @kristalliiite6408 9 месяцев назад +22

      Don't have a scarcity mindset because all you need is one.

  • @wandak1889
    @wandak1889 8 месяцев назад +57

    Amen! I’ve been sober for almost 6 years. It completely got out of control and I had to check in to rehab and got GOD involved. Once I stand on my faith it’s a blessing every moment not to pick up a bottle. To all my brothers and sisters who are struggling please allow GOD in your life and you shall overcome!

    • @beverleyreid563
      @beverleyreid563 8 месяцев назад +3

      Good for you.

    • @cuteblue2212
      @cuteblue2212 8 месяцев назад +2

      The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.~ proverbs16:9
      Good on you brother!

  • @pat4502
    @pat4502 8 месяцев назад +24

    Hey this make me realize I need to work on myself first…bcuz I like to drink…gotta be the change I want to see

  • @theyoMi
    @theyoMi 8 месяцев назад +25

    TG you are absolutely SPOT ON! I dated a 48yo man a couple of years ago. No kids, had never been married (that was kind of suspect to me), made good money, and a great career. He was super generous with his funds. And even with all that, he drank like an ocean and smoked weed like a chimney. I gave it 6 months...NO THANK YOU!

  • @Jay-v7y8x
    @Jay-v7y8x 9 месяцев назад +45

    My ex husband had most of the traits Tony described. He eventually quit smoking cigarettes and marijuana. However, he continued to drink alcohol. The damage was done and he passed away at a young age after a 1 year battle with lung cancer. Tony is speaking the truth.

    • @ckezzy5011
      @ckezzy5011 8 месяцев назад +1

      How old was he? Sorry for your loss 🙏🏾

    • @Jay-v7y8x
      @Jay-v7y8x 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@ckezzy5011 He was 61 years old.

  • @MersayW
    @MersayW 9 месяцев назад +51

    I am currently going through a divorce now; this man has no self control and he curses like a sailor. I have already found me a place and I am moving on and never looking back.

    • @Jay-v7y8x
      @Jay-v7y8x 9 месяцев назад +8

      I don’t know your situation. I bet you’re making the right decision to move on.

  • @behindthescenesreviews6858
    @behindthescenesreviews6858 8 месяцев назад +49

    Unfortunately I have never seen a Husband and I’m 35 years old…this type of man seems to be Rare🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @Healerslightnlove
      @Healerslightnlove 8 месяцев назад +1

      I’m 51 and haven’t seen this as of yet. Just hold on, our husband coming❤😊

    • @sphinxkitty4951
      @sphinxkitty4951 7 месяцев назад

      Hang in there sister. I’m 29 and finally met my husband. He’s coming

  • @aliciashh7369
    @aliciashh7369 8 месяцев назад +24

    "Addictive" behaviors demonstrates "a lack of self control".

  • @kat64470
    @kat64470 8 месяцев назад +22

    My dearly departed husband had cirrhosis of the liver. I married him not knowing he was a drunk. He’d put liquor in big gulp cups and his drink was vodka and I couldn’t smell it. I wasn’t used to it and totally missed it. I truly thought he was a casual drinker on special occasions. I miss him. But self control is a must.

  • @glowupwithdayday9033
    @glowupwithdayday9033 8 месяцев назад +19

    Yes I love that he said "God sanctifies marriage🙌🏽🙌🏽"

  • @atonoflove992
    @atonoflove992 8 месяцев назад +22

    Any man outside of the will of GOD, not bearing the fruit of righteousness is NOT an option. I will NEVER again settle.

  • @NyahHarper
    @NyahHarper 8 месяцев назад +11

    Temperament/patience, emotional intelligence, fear and reverence for God, good decision making, self control

  • @Doctor.Dentista
    @Doctor.Dentista 8 месяцев назад +20

    Right out the gate, no self-control ✅ I married a people pleaser, shopaholic male with a porn addiction. He’s a very “nice” guy, but no self control and no boundaries. Marriage was miserable

  • @Kaye.Nicole
    @Kaye.Nicole 8 месяцев назад +73

    "No, you have an under development failure to launch man" 😂 so true. Unfortunately, some of us learn this lesson the hard way.

    • @yamimngomezulu8402
      @yamimngomezulu8402 8 месяцев назад +2

      😹😹😹😹😹dude! As for ‘failure to launch!’

    • @merlinsvdd
      @merlinsvdd 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes. Thank you, Tony.

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 8 месяцев назад +18

    Tony told no lies. My ex was a wild drunk. I had to run for the hills!

    • @stephaniescott5757
      @stephaniescott5757 8 месяцев назад

      I’m glad you did! God will send you someone that’s right for me

  • @dancerdancer313
    @dancerdancer313 9 месяцев назад +22

    This is solid! Thanks for this information! 🙏🏽
    Tony, you should consider creating "The Tony Gaskins Academy For Men" to teach men how to be men and leaders. Men severely lack positive influences and mentors. Then these men get married and can't lead their family nor be a functioning husband. Single men need you even more. You can have your academy open to local men to enroll, plus men can enroll internationally for the online aspect of the academy. Just an idea.
    Men also need to be taught how to interact with women in a proper, respectful, non-aggressive manner. NO MEANS NO! Men shouldn't be forcing themselves on women nor forcing them to do things they don't want to do. A woman or young lady rejecting a man's romantic advances doesn't give him the right to end her life. A 19 year old girl in New York was recently stabbed to death by a man she rejected at a bodega. Of course there's the horrendous Miya Marcano story out of Florida that happened in 2021. There's too many stories like this.

  • @SistahJay27
    @SistahJay27 8 месяцев назад +4

    I thank God for you Tony.
    You’re the realist out here frfr I appreciate you saying that about that dinner time. My food is always cold after serving my kids first, some folks need to grow up. If anything, we all sit down to eat as a family and we eat together. Point, blank, periodt! ❤

  • @alonzoteamerjr
    @alonzoteamerjr 5 месяцев назад +1

    I had to come back a watch again. Love this message and still learning. Thank you Tony keep up the good work.

  • @deezsugah
    @deezsugah 8 месяцев назад +6

    Facts! How they treat themselves will be the tone of how they treat you!

  • @onehappichic7099
    @onehappichic7099 8 месяцев назад +1

    I’m learning to prioritize emotional intelligence now that I’m older. It’s vital in a relationship. Thanks Tony for dropping these gems 💎

  • @Jazz.Ministry
    @Jazz.Ministry 8 месяцев назад +1

    “Done got me a degenerate” 😂😂😂 Tony is funny and don’t even be trying to be funny this was the realest 15 minute video 🔥😆💯

  • @DDW58
    @DDW58 8 месяцев назад +1

    Simple but powerful. Thank you Jesus for this lesson today. Continue to Bless this Man and his family.

  • @amaragrace94
    @amaragrace94 9 месяцев назад +22

    Ideally he would have seen good examples from dad/uncle/grandpa/other father figure, but if not he should have sought out older and wiser married male mentors in his church community/fellowship. Regardless he should be learning what a man and husband is from the Word of our Lord. Look for loving actions (1 Corinthians 13). Look for the fruit of the spirit (Galatians 5: 22-23). He knows that he will never be perfect in God or his wife's eyes, that we will always fall short, but that he will always be honest and humble in facing those issues that come up. A man ready to be a husband, always seeks to understand his wife (by listening and observing), giving grace, as he is given. He is a good communicator and has good conflict resolution.
    A husband vs Your husband is another distinction to look into.

  • @mscustomerservice
    @mscustomerservice 8 месяцев назад +3

    Yes, we do have to get these relationships together and keep them going!!! Thanks for all you do Tony!! 👍🏽✅💯

  • @endureross7431
    @endureross7431 8 месяцев назад +26

    Self control took out 50% - 70% 😅

  • @ElleJae-b9q
    @ElleJae-b9q 9 месяцев назад +72

    The most accurate thing I’ve heard in a moment. Emotional Intelligence

  • @FernGray
    @FernGray 8 месяцев назад +18

    “Then you know, okay, I got me a degenerate..” lord-T have mercy I’m choking TG! 😅

  • @lightl287
    @lightl287 8 месяцев назад +8

    🎉I wish my husband would be so emotionally intelligent as Tony 🤩🍀 Truly Husband Qualities 😍👏👏👏
    Lots of Blessings to you and your damily, Sir🙏🍀💗🍀💜🍀💚🤗

    • @melaniegriffin78
      @melaniegriffin78 8 месяцев назад +4

      Dont compare your husband with another man. Pray for him. As the old saying goes " comparison is the thief of joy".

  • @halliadams5987
    @halliadams5987 8 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks Tony!
    Great information. I wish I had known this 30 years ago! 🙄

  • @chivonnestephens
    @chivonnestephens 9 месяцев назад +4

    You spoke nothin but truth. Thank you

  • @vinadouglas119
    @vinadouglas119 9 месяцев назад +7

    Keep teaching TG ❤ Facts

  • @thebarbieinvestor5428
    @thebarbieinvestor5428 9 месяцев назад +9

    Oh I been listening real bad!
    Not putting up w no 🥷🏽💩 point blank period!

    • @lakajhapruitt4806
      @lakajhapruitt4806 9 месяцев назад +3

      😂😂😂😂😂 I know that’s right. The emoji’s here crack me up.

  • @shaunaf2811
    @shaunaf2811 9 месяцев назад +8

    Great message. Thank you for always sharing with us. Grateful to say these are things that I look for. Even more grateful to say that the man I am engaged to aligns perfectly to this guidance 🙏🏽 🙌🏽 ❤

  • @saluuud
    @saluuud 9 месяцев назад +8

    I thank you much, for making this video. And even more for capturing vital things in the timeframe that you did. Be blessed.

  • @lynnmothibeli325
    @lynnmothibeli325 8 месяцев назад +3

    I needed this checklist. Thanks, Tony🙏🏾❤❤.

  • @FernGray
    @FernGray 8 месяцев назад +6

    “You got an underdeveloped, failure to launch man…” I’m done TG !!!

  • @Themelissaeppingermorningshow
    @Themelissaeppingermorningshow 9 месяцев назад +5

    Excellent teaching sir! This is sound Biblical truth!

  • @SimpleTruth818
    @SimpleTruth818 8 месяцев назад +8

    Some will run errands without rebuttal and still lie, cheat, smoke, drink, etc. He must be Born- Again.

  • @TheGoodLifeStarterPack
    @TheGoodLifeStarterPack 9 месяцев назад +10

    Thank you for this video. I’ve noticed that many of the negative podcasts/channels are cover for being: a male chauvinist. Period. Please note: I do not consume this content. Rather, I hear about it by way of Tony’s videos.
    Certainly, not husband material.

  • @ashleycbla
    @ashleycbla 9 месяцев назад +14

    I’m saving videos like these for my daughter. Thanks

  • @tashuasimon4749
    @tashuasimon4749 8 месяцев назад

    Definitely dropping jewels Tony!! You have a lot of wisdom God bless you and your family.

  • @MissPetrina1
    @MissPetrina1 9 месяцев назад +3

    Truths all the way. Listen up ladies! 🙏🏾

  • @77sunflowers
    @77sunflowers 9 месяцев назад +34

    What about pornography, so many men think it's alright to watch it... But I believe it's cheating, because they are imagining themselves having sex with a stranger... It hurts me so much....

    • @Didi-fr5ic
      @Didi-fr5ic 8 месяцев назад +8

      Simple...leave..duh

    • @la6136
      @la6136 8 месяцев назад +4

      You are right. This is the biggest flaw with the majority of men. They do not want to give it up and make 1000 excuses to keep watching.

    • @1Tim2_5
      @1Tim2_5 8 месяцев назад +12

      .....that is included in lack of self control.....fear of the LORD.....

    • @driaannbull
      @driaannbull 8 месяцев назад +4

      He's talked about pornography in recent videos and reels. And yea, it fall under some of the umbrellas mentioned.

    • @caramignon3626
      @caramignon3626 8 месяцев назад

      Really 😂😂😂

  • @Ms.Sipp40
    @Ms.Sipp40 9 месяцев назад +38

    No excuses! Under developed! No real maturity! Lord help us….cause wheew…

  • @kkandbeyond
    @kkandbeyond 8 месяцев назад +5

    I needed this this morning. Thank you.

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 9 месяцев назад +4

    Amen these very good points concerning being watching out for husband material my number on my list that's he a man fear God if he do that everything will fall in line Thanks Tony Gaston for this very encouraging message God bless you and your family

  • @kyongsaunders7877
    @kyongsaunders7877 8 месяцев назад

    Ayyyeee Bet on Me. I needed tha Thank you Virtous woman of God
    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @browngoddess5340
    @browngoddess5340 9 месяцев назад +7

    Question: Do you think its possible for us to attract a man without a vice and if not what vice is more acceptable?

  • @KayisLove777
    @KayisLove777 8 месяцев назад

    Ty Tony ❤️🥰💯 I need to learn everything I need to know … God’s way is best… I’m cleaning myself up… healing getting educated & working on me first… Kwana is tired of the same & changes start with me….

  • @sherrynelson365
    @sherrynelson365 8 месяцев назад +6

    Living Godly every day yes Lord a leader self control

  • @WalkingHaiku
    @WalkingHaiku 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Sir, you have a pastor in you god bless

  • @tonyasherrod9042
    @tonyasherrod9042 9 месяцев назад +3

    Tony ,can you speak on retired man or woman dating a female or male who is working.

  • @caseyj5597
    @caseyj5597 9 месяцев назад +12

    A underdeveloped, failure to launch man! 🙄🤦. That's an excellent way to sum it up Tony

  • @ilissawalker7051
    @ilissawalker7051 8 месяцев назад

    Big thank you for your advice on the relationship ❤. Frfr❤

  • @sinceresinclair
    @sinceresinclair 8 месяцев назад +3

    You had me at self control ❤ that’s the one.

  • @TanEbear
    @TanEbear 7 месяцев назад

    This is awesome and so timely. I'm at a place where I needed to develop my self control cause I see how my life would be better. I def see how looking for that trait is essential

  • @BlessedByBella
    @BlessedByBella 8 месяцев назад +5

    Now you know “ok, yeah. Got me a degenerate” 😭😭😂

  • @MirandaLee312
    @MirandaLee312 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks Tony we love these videos.

  • @tammaramencias495
    @tammaramencias495 8 месяцев назад +5

    Ooowee that “under developed failure to launch man” my goodness. That part.

  • @connectedconversationscoun283
    @connectedconversationscoun283 8 месяцев назад +2

    That ending lol. “You got you a degenerate”…😅

  • @dorrisevans2265
    @dorrisevans2265 8 месяцев назад

    That's real talk. God guard our hearts and minds. Blessings to everyone. In Jesus name. Amen 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️🛐😇✝️🥰💕

  • @dancefitnesswithmikadya
    @dancefitnesswithmikadya 8 месяцев назад

    You couldn’t be more right Tony. WOW! If you could just teach THIS class to these “wanna-be-men.” Jesus did & gave it ALL for HIS bride Even as we were heathens HE STILL submitted to the Father❤ Peri YOD☺️Self control is a fruit of the Spirit. Tysm for providing this wisdom to the masses!

  • @nickieh.2838
    @nickieh.2838 5 месяцев назад

    Good advice!!

  • @Nightingale671
    @Nightingale671 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks Tony 🙏

  • @tubegen11
    @tubegen11 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you Tony this is a golden nugget ! ❤

  • @Pr3ttyannahchanel
    @Pr3ttyannahchanel 8 месяцев назад +1

    You’re the father I never had ❤💯🗣️

  • @susanma3483
    @susanma3483 9 месяцев назад +4

    Thanks for sharing Tony. Appreciate the advice.

  • @Yakhanna
    @Yakhanna 8 месяцев назад

    Watching your videos as a refresher....ivec been single... just met a man and a little rusty 😅

  • @Changeyourmindset407
    @Changeyourmindset407 8 месяцев назад

    Tony, what do you think about a man who has been chasing a woman for 9 years but he is 35, does not have his own place, only had one appointment with his BM for four months? The woman has placed him in the friend zone but he keeps trying although she has blocked him twice before. He has bad credit and owes back child support.

    • @MsButterscotch13
      @MsButterscotch13 8 месяцев назад

      Nothing is there since you blocked him; you ain't interested. If you are going to give him a chance tell him to get his shyt together & what he has to do to appeal to you.

  • @slicingitupwithselena2234
    @slicingitupwithselena2234 8 месяцев назад +1

    You speaking truth 🗣️

  • @alexnasrinnoelani
    @alexnasrinnoelani 9 месяцев назад

    🙏🏼yes! Excellent video thanks so true and so supportive for me staying away from the degenerates I’ve been in love with.

  • @abigailalexander2508
    @abigailalexander2508 9 месяцев назад +1

    You are teaching!!!

  • @riffkart329
    @riffkart329 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you Tony

  • @JoJouknow
    @JoJouknow 8 месяцев назад

    I Love his accent.❤ Thx

  • @themultifacetedmom
    @themultifacetedmom 8 месяцев назад +2

    My ex husband had a very addictive personality, i didnt take it seriously before marriage but now i know how it escalates. It turned into a fill blown weed addiction, porn and gambling addiction.

  • @damarish.torres145
    @damarish.torres145 8 месяцев назад +1

    I took notes on this whole video. ⭐️

  • @donnanavarro9693
    @donnanavarro9693 8 месяцев назад

    Hey Tony, that’s a good book title failure to launch! 😊

  • @byebye967
    @byebye967 8 месяцев назад +1

    This man is a good man an period

  • @profmj7630
    @profmj7630 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing

  • @qmtcop
    @qmtcop 8 месяцев назад

    Teach brother!

  • @Ms.Sipp40
    @Ms.Sipp40 9 месяцев назад +12

    Listen! Hardly Initiated ain’t got nothing on you sir! I stopped watching their podcast. I saw when you were on there and have seen guests there after I’m not impressed by them….

    • @Ms.Sipp40
      @Ms.Sipp40 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@Beautiful___452 oh I been saw Tony I was saying their other guests don’t add up to Tony and you’re correct because on several occasions since Tony has been on they’ve both admitted to being dogs! They used Tony to drive more viewers to their podcast but they’re not genuine I can tell that by their guests. I don’t care for them anymore. Definitely toxic!

    • @amib6887
      @amib6887 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@Ms.Sipp40 most definitely noticed from when he was on there. The first time wasn’t so bad , but the second time oh no..

  • @ysmithriley
    @ysmithriley 9 месяцев назад +27

    And how you know he's NOT YOUR HUSBAND!

    • @DaintyAbby
      @DaintyAbby 9 месяцев назад +2

      ..based on redflags my dear lol

    • @davidharris7769
      @davidharris7769 9 месяцев назад +9

      He will be the opposite of everything that was said😁

    • @VS-yi8eo
      @VS-yi8eo 8 месяцев назад +1

      She didn’t say “A” husband, she said YOUR husband

    • @ysmithriley
      @ysmithriley 8 месяцев назад

      @@VS-yi8eo LHMJ, how are such simple comments misunderstood? Thanks! 🥰🥰🥰

    • @ysmithriley
      @ysmithriley 8 месяцев назад

      @@davidharris7769 Yep, that's EXACTLY what I said. 😊

  • @Whitneyjliving
    @Whitneyjliving 8 месяцев назад +1

    Everything you said is 100%!

  • @theassignment2071
    @theassignment2071 8 месяцев назад +2

    Man I wish I would have known these things before getting pregnant and becoming a single mom😢

  • @katiawilliams8710
    @katiawilliams8710 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks for this.

  • @MzHoustonLovely
    @MzHoustonLovely 7 месяцев назад

    What if he’s a good man but you’re concerned about his member size. We haven’t been intimate but I know,😉. Like way below average. More concerned with if we have a boy, wouldn’t want him to have the same issue. Can you make a video on this? Overall good man, in church every Sunday. Supportive of my dreams. Romantic. That issue & the fact he doesn’t come off as a Alpha male & a little over weight be he fast for long times. He’s been wanting to marry me for a long time, but I’m alwaysfind a way out since I’m concerned about those things plus his family health issues.

  • @jerushadowdy7094
    @jerushadowdy7094 8 месяцев назад +3

    I want my husband so bad this man I'm with right now always got me questioning my relationship.

  • @aniabrandt7
    @aniabrandt7 8 месяцев назад +1

    Godly men don't have ego

  • @pangvidal
    @pangvidal 8 месяцев назад

    TRUTH!!!!

  • @cytinachavis9157
    @cytinachavis9157 8 месяцев назад +1

    Tony, do you think that a man could be engaging in some of these behaviors but when he meets the woman for him he can snap himself out of it and get right so that he can be with the woman?

    • @marlonjones5302
      @marlonjones5302 8 месяцев назад +3

      Yep. The guy has to want to, but I stopped smoking cigs because of my girlfriend. She didn't mind or bug me about it, but I just wanted to smell nice for her! But she is a very kind, patient, and nurturing woman.... I probably would not have changed for the other women that I was dating....

    • @amandaslay6045
      @amandaslay6045 8 месяцев назад +1

      I'm a believer that only God can change people so nope I don't believe the right woman will help him, plus who would want to be that mans solution. that is a lot of pressure

  • @2hotcoko
    @2hotcoko 8 месяцев назад

    BEAUTIFUL!!!

    • @2hotcoko
      @2hotcoko 8 месяцев назад

      Without those things… You’ve got an under-developed, failure to launch man… point blank peri-yod.😂

  • @tenaforreal5742
    @tenaforreal5742 8 месяцев назад

    LoveIt!🎉🎯💝