F(x) Sulli Weight Loss 2009 - 2019 (Full)
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- Опубликовано: 13 окт 2019
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Since debut Sulli has struggled with her weight and body confidence. Now as an adult, she still struggles to find a healthy balance while being under constant scrutiny and caught in never ending controversies.
“You can have your own opinion, but you shouldn’t hurt other people” thank you amber.
I totally agree with this 💯
Mel Richo exactly. I just wish people stood by this....she would be alive now....
Amber is so cool
I started watching Ambers channel before I knew about kpop and thought she is so positive. What a good person to be around.
i felt so bad for sulli. the guy didnt need to single her out like that. its not as though he's very handsome even and there he is criticizing the poor girl on her weight. im so disgusted with him. T.T
dang the part where the dude talked about his preference for skinny girls was so rough to watch. props to amber for speaking up!
Nida Kuruvilla i want to slap his mouth so much. it's just no matter what she did it's always wrong in netizens' eyes. i knew her while watching to the beautiful you. and i love her. rip sulli
I know and it hurt me even more that she tried to cover it with a smile :(
How is your comment 5 months old? 🤔
How is this comment made 5 months ago?
@@arevev this video was a private for patreons before
amber was so angry in that clip. i could feel her rage
forget amber, looking at victoria's fucking face @ 7:05 lmao
And he is looking like a whole recessive gene with a voice. He has some nerve. He doesn't even look the standard. She was very skinny.
wait that's a girl? i was sure it was a boy
Giulia. Yes she is a tomboy
If I were there I would have stormed up the stairs and dumped a gallon of rotten potatoes onto her face. If your opinion is going to hurt others, then be prepared for the consequences...and don't blame others if they retaliate...
The kpop industry needs to change. We have lost so many beautiful souls yet they choose to ignore it
Yes we need room for actual stars and artists not just whole "idols"!
Korea society's mind need to change too
@@brittanys505 I dont really get what you are saying but we have lost too many people to that sick industry that everyone seems to idolize
@@bigbangsuga979 I'm saying that there isn't any room for real self expression in sk music industry. An idol is expected to be multitalented and have perfect looks and perfect behavior as a role model. You aren't taken seriously if you lack one of these things if you're in an idol group!
@@brittanys505 ah I understand. I completely agree with you
It’s sad that now that she passed away now everyone suddenly cares. She deserved so much better.
You did well sulli you can rest easy now angel ❤️
That’s always the case, some people didn’t even know her before but I get it, it doesn’t matter if you knew Sulli from the beginning or never heard of her before, this is just tragic whatsoever,. It’s a shock on the industry and on the world of kpop fans. I feel bad for what she had been through, because if you go to her insta before, the only thing you see is hate, hate and hate. Now it’s full of condolences and grief. This has to stop, they are not products, they are not robots that should be controlled. Let all artist/celebrity (not only kpop) be free in what they believe, do and say.
Ikr!! I thought Jonghyun passing away was enough... but it wasn’t. Then I thought the public would take it seriously when Goo Hara attempted but still nothing. Now we lost another. How long will it take for people to realise that hate comments affect idols. Or any celebrity. It’s a shit world we live in
People are trash
So sad
@@flamezodiac5736 Sad but true....
7:12 why is he smiling tho... he’s saying terrible things as if they were nothing
what’s wrong with humanity
V // I also found it crazy that he had the nerve to criticize Sulli and tell her she needs to lose weight like as if he didn’t have any flaws himself
Acutally he is soo ulgy ....😑
He is/was anorexic. He probably meant what he said to a 100% because of his distorted views of bodies. I still hate how he hurt sulli's feelings because of his standards.
In the episode he would body shame his underweight sister, childhood friend and mother. He was underweight and he said he was perfect.
@@emmabennett7699 which one is it?
I can't believe that a normal body figure is already fat in South Korea, they really do have high standards. Rest In Peace, Jinri.
I think they do not have a high standard, they just don't know what should a standard standard be like.
honestly, when i was in high school and my love for kpop was at an all time high i would look at pictures of idols to help fuel my eating disorder. it's a standard that hurts everybody, everybody.
@@hyde1893 😔😔
Haydee Skare I go off and on being a kpop fan bc I find that everytime I start watching kpop I become very self conscious about my body.idk y🤷🏾♀️
Yup and chubby like me would be considered obese
“A brave and strong woman who lived her authentic life in a judgmental society”. RIP beautiful angel ♥️♥️♥️
The part when Sulli was looking scary thin and sick and the comments saying that how's like a health body looks like, or that she looks pretty really scares me, what other life would this crazy and sick people ruin? I'm so sad of these poor people (the idols)
if she was petite, like 5'5 or below, it'd be healthy, Although borderline, at 5'5. but on a 5'7 girl, no way.
Some people are naturally extremely skinny so don’t say those people look sick or scary.
@@STAN_LOONA nono, i mean that she not being naturally skinny lost so much weigh that was scary and she looked sick
she was 5'7" and she must've ended up weighing like 100 lbs. it shocked me how tiny she got in 2019, it's like her depression took over
STAN LOOΠΔ shes not that naturally skinny, it depends on your natural body type. people who are naturally that thin don't look weird, it looks weird on people who aren't meant to be that small
the boy who said the girls could lose weight needs to take a look at himself. He has a cheek to go on about peoples looks...
Dude has the most disgusting janked up teeth and he could use about five showers to get the grease out of his hair.
michellel9595 Seriously! What "standards" does he have!? Standards like his TEETH!??
Y'all I don't mean to rain on your guys' parade but isn't this exactly the type of comment that hurt Sulli so much? The hatred towards a person's looks? We can't go on about being more thoughtful and caring of others if we keep hurting others, even if it can be justified. I'm not saying you're wrong to feel upset but we gotta be more mindful because the guy is probably dealing with this more personally due to his appearance and this isn't helping what should be a constant effort to be kinder to others.
Right now, we're not being better than the K-netz who endlessly rag on idols' appearance. The same ill intent is here.
a k Umm, he hurted Sulli's feelings tho!!! Haven't you seen the video??
@@KpopStan2009 Yes I have. This is why I even commented. I don't condone bullying of any kind so please don't think I'm excusing the dude's words but insulting his looks is not gonna take his words or Sulli's pain back. You can defend your idols without being rude in return. It's way more classy and less likely to keep the cycle of hatred going on. It's like what Amber said: you can state your opinion but you can't hurt others while doing so.
"She's not the only one who has it rough" DISGUSTING. Not everybody reacts to malicious comments and rumors the same.
And now the same thing is happening to blackpink jennie
@@sharlenethompson1977 Hun they've been targeting my Queen for a few years. Especially with the whole Jennie is lazy and even I got sucked into that bullshit and believed she was because I saw it everywhere. I feel so ashamed I'm supposed to be a fan and supporter. I hope Jennie stays strong no matter what, that woman is amazing
lotus sight but it’s true she was lazy. Not anymore I get it Jennie is human and needs time to herself. I hope our queen stays strong and doesn’t give in to those haters
@@sharlenethompson1977 Korean public? International fans should take a look at themselves...
@@samtae6217 It all starts with y'all when it comes down to bullying KPop stars. Don't try to shift blame now.
12:01 "You uglies, always hating on pretty celebrities"
tea.
spider li that comment is so me with those bitches.
I was about to say that.
Now THAT is the most intellectual comment anyone has made on that forum.
It made me happy to see some positive comments in there
☕️
No hate to Korea but I’m am so blessed to have not been born in a place like this that puts so much pressure to look a certain way🤦🏾♀️
Same
Sameeee!
Same.... i could never survive in a country like that. I will listen to kpop and watch kdramas like... forever but nothing more than that. I hate their standards... its sickening.
7:57... Same, this is so sad ☹️
To be honest I am very blessed to be born in a country where being slightly chubby is the ideal type, and other bidy types are considered beautiful too, so everyone is comfortable
I really like Amber that she protects her members
I just heard about the tragic news today and it's overwhelming but I just want to say to anyone thinking of following Sulli DON'T PLEASE PLEASE! The pain you feel right now for Sulli will spread onto your loved ones and it won't heal your pain. If anything we have to just try to empathize with them to understand why they chose to end it, reflect and learn how to help those still living in the future to give at least one person feeling lost a sense of security. A security most idols don't feel when shoved into an industry that demands they be a product and not human.
This was a Patreon video but it just doesn't sit well with me to have a deceased idol video for $$ (thats why I have not and will not make one for Jonghyun) The only reason I have this video is because I made it months ago before and promised to release it. *As of today I'm closing my Patreon permanently, the page will be up but it's free and I can't commit to a schedule anymore for a while.*
Last month I was MIA since I had to fly out of town to help a family member in the hospital. They got better and just as things have finally gone back to normal chaos is just breaking out everywhere. All I can say is things go bad when you least expect it, they come out of nowhere and grief is NOT easy, but we CAN endure it.
I am back in the hospital for the rest of October unfortunately and will be releasing these old videos once in a while when I find a chance, but new videos I just can't promise anymore for the moment.
Be strong guys, nothing is worth more than your health
Your spelling has improved since your older videos but I honestly think you should have another person proofread your videos because there are still spelling errors.... it doesn't take away from the quality of your videos, it just would make them more professional. Especially considering the popularity of your videos. I think they would be better with no spelling errors.
Well said 💖 Sorry to hear about your situation. Things should start to look up for you soon 🌟 Take as long as you need to, I wish you the best~
Rest up 💪🏻 stay strong & we all wish you well
Hope you feel better and one day your Patreon is back up. I really enjoy watching your videos. ❤🌹
AMFG Videos thank you for all your hardwork. Take care
Her body was never bad or ugly, she just didn’t wear clothes that flattered her body shape.
Queen Chungha EXACTLY! Her body was so great even when she had some more weight she was amazingly pretty
I agree with you.
ooh jenniekim where? lmfao she never had more weigh she looked completely normal
I was a fan from the start... She was so cute and adorable, she was just a kid 😔
I feel like her stylist(s) gave her a lot of unflattering outfits back in the day :( but she was always beautiful
18:01 OMG NOO I had no idea she attempted suicide before! How stupid stupid people never learn! Why was she not given help or treatment or a therapist, ugh this makes me so mad there were so many signs!
PinkPanadalove Oh WOW I really hope all management agencies bring their artists to mandatory counseling and rest if such a thing ever occurs. If someone has tried it once they need all the care to keep them alive
@*_-Nomin is the only ship I need*_- I always say never focus on the negative but in these types of situations I always say "prepare and expect the worst", since there was any kind of speculation about Sulli wanting to commit suicide, someone should've taken action
@*_-Nomin is the only ship I need*_- Exactly, only thing that could happen was her turning out to be alright, anyone could say "well they just wasted their time" isnt it worth "wasting your time" to make sure someone doesnt kill themselves?
from my understanding, it seems that mental health is considered as non-existent in Korea. In Jonghyun's suicide letter he mentioned that he went to a doctor about his depression but the doctor told him it was all in his head :/.
@@mayurip1548 No fucking way, that man should be in jail for being partially at fault for Jonghyun taking his own life
I think that guy's ideal partner is a skeleton.
Good god I got so pissed when I saw that. I bet Amber really wanted to punch that guy in the face.
i shouldn't hate on his looks, but in what world did he have the right to criticize somebody as beautiful as sulli while looking like that?
actually, no, i don't feel bad for attacking the appearance of somebody that mean.
It's always the nasty incel men/women who feel the need to rip apart others appearances. That dude looks like he hasn't showered in weeks yet expects to get a 10/10 woman?? sick.
Sulli debuted too young, and it’s concerning that debuting idol ages seem to keep dropping, especially for the younger members of girl groups. No one should be exposed to media and public scrutiny so intensely when they are still at such an early developmental age, especially females, since the topics usually pertain to their weights, body, and looks, etc.
I disagree. Often, boys will be critiqued if they are not thin or built, even as teens, so many idols will train for hours on end to get muscles fast and they will starve themselves to show their 6 packs in record times to their fans (an act probably encouraged by their company and the fans themselves). Boys should not be training muscles, it's seriously detrimental to their growth. Also, any boys and girls so young should NOT be starving, it's very concerning. When one is malnourished so young it has, long, life lasting consequences that cannot be reversed.
@@AnonningAnon While I think that the "boys and muscle" aspect is true, I've never witnessed a 14, 15 or 16 year old boy being forced to have/show their abs. That comes only when they get older, and I'm not saying that it's healthy or good then either, but the comment above says that especially girls are being forced to diet more from a younger age, which is true. They have to wear short skirts/pants, dresses, croptops etc. and therefore their bodies are constantly exposed. This doesn't apply as much for younger boys, but when they become legal, or adults, people suddenly expect them to be "a man", have abs and so on, so I get what you mean. It's all toxic, and nobody really has it better, not girls and not boys, because almost every idol has manifested the belief in their head that they are worthless when they aren't pretty/handsome/beautiful.
@@aliaidrissi8802 Because they are constantly told they need to change by their fans and companies, that's why it's manifested. Also, I was talking about the idols showing their abs as teens, you can see it in BTS in their debut when they had the "bad boy" image. They were still teens then and it was disturbing, considering they dieted hard for the abs. I never said anyone had it better or worse, I was simply giving a man's perspective to body critiques and exposition.
I experienced being critiqued in my teens and I can't imagine being an idol and getting those same critiques by thousands of people (mostly women for male groups, at a time when opinions from the opposite sex are sensitive topics to a developing boy) about the shape of my face, my weight, my muscles or my height for that matter. I used to be called Shortie and I hated it, just as much as my cousin hated being called Smurf (short height runs in the family).
Some people (generally girls) thought it was cute, it's not, it's humiliating when you already have a complex about something and some (both boys and girls) did use that as an insult to purposefully make me feel like shit.
It reminds me of Sulli being called Sulliphant or chubby, because her thighs are naturally thick. Most people are damned dicks and are unable to empathise with others and it gets worse as the years pass and their faces melt into their anonymous screens.
@@AnonningAnon Yeah, I think I get what you mean, and I'm sorry that people mocked you in the past. :/
People in general aren't careful enough when talking about other's bodies. And boys or men just have to take in whatever people tell them and pretend they don't care. It sucks. I can only imagine how many males must have issues with their bodies, obsessing over things like muscle mass, height, their masculinity etc.
And I didn't mean to make it seem like boys don't have it hard, I know that especially male idols are really insecure and often talk about wanting or needing to have abs and stuff.
You chose BTS as an example, and I think that's a good one. In that aspect we can take the member Jimin (who showed his abs constantly in No More Dream) to further elaborate.
He clearly suffers from a lot of issues and insecurities concerning his body. Since their debut it was always about his abs, but he was only 17 1/2 years old, just turning 18 in late 2013. He hadn't trained for a long period of time either, and had a lot of baby fat in his cheeks, which was normal; he was still a teen, but he nonetheless felt pressured to have a six-pack, or eight-pack, or whatever people call it.
This needs to really stop, for women and men/adults, and urgently for girls and boys/young people as well. It's sickening, but the kids who made fun of you did that because they were taught by their parents and their environment that it's okay to do so, and that every imperfection a human being has, can be pointed out and joked about (maybe even as a way to make themselves feel better).
It makes me extremely uncomfortable when other people get bullied, because I could never do that to anyone else. Bullying & Cyber-Bullying are disgusting, and just reading your personal experiences made me both angry at the people who told you those things, and it also made me realize how I or my friends and family judge other people's appearances too.
There's a really short guy in our year, and me and my friends never talked that much to him, but we did make a few jokes about his height some time ago. We did think that his height was cute, but we never told him that, because why would we? Nowadays nobody cares about it anymore, and nobody ever brings it up. Because it literally doesn't and shouldn't matter, and your story made me even more aware of that, so thank you.
Another thing that happens in my year a lot is fatshaming. I once overheard a guy saying "Thank god we don't have any fat girls in our P.E. class.", slightly bigger guys (not obese, just...not underweight-looking like everyone else) are always being mocked and called fat as a "joke", and an aquaintance of me told me that I was "thicc, but in a good way, not like *random person* that fat bitch" (basically she could've just complimented me normally instead of calling another girl fat like wtf).
I'm sorry, I kind of went off track here, but I think when reading the top comment and the responses, you would get a pretty accurate view of my thoughts, so I'm going to end this here. I apologize if I somehow misunderstood/misinterpreted you or came off as rude or hateful, that wasn't my intention. I actually agree with you, and just wanted to add some things. Please correct me if I put any words in your mouth, this is just the way I saw your arguments. :')
@@Dokemoni of course she was exposed she was an idol first not an actress she needed exposure
Some of those internet comments are so cruel
Yes, especially "sulliphant", this is too much😠
Not some but "almost"
Let they take their lives like sulli I curse them..
@@thounaojamsilvia2270 That's very disrespectful. No one, no matter what we decide they deserve, should commit suicide. Suicide is heart-breaking and I wouldn't wish it on my worse enemy. Plus, this kind of thinking smacks attempts to prevent suicide and cyber-bullying in the face so I would kindly appreciate you refraining from saying things like this because hatred never fixed things in the long run.
Bruh...cruel is an understatement
Once she passed, now the social media wants to speak about her. Not when she mentioned her depression. Wow.
The way people objectified her body was so disgusting and bizarre. Netizens have a warped perception of reality. How could she have ever gotten out alive after all of that? Starving destroys your mental health and netizens are shaming idols into being underweight and into a life of severe depression
Starry Night It's truly wild and blows my mind. It's like I'm looking into a warped, alternate dimension when I read their comments cause I can't fathom what they're seeing and how they could think she's fat.
I remember watching “to the beautiful you” when I was in high school and when I laid eyes on Sulli I thought she was stunning and I remember wanting to have a body like hers. But I was reading comments online calling her “fat” & I was so confused. It sucks how these idols have to endure such harsh words. Sulli was beautiful no matter what size. She had such an amazing bubbly personality, with a kind free spirit and no one will be able to replace that ♥️
All i've had on my mind since she's passed is that she was one of the most gorgeous people I ever laid eyes on... when I used to tell people that I liked kpop before it became popular, they used to ask me who I think is the prettiest or more handsome in the groups I listened to, and I would always say that there is this one idol that i think is the prettiest but that i didn't listen to her group. I got into kdramas before kpop and saw sulli before i knew she was a member of f(x) and for the longest time i would tell people to wait so i could look her up through "to the beautiful you" and I would say "well she's not a singer but she is one of the most beautiful people i've ever seen." My heart breaks at this news and renews the understanding in me that it doesn't matter how much people like you or even dislike you, you have to like you to survive in this horrible world of ours.
i thought the same way too! I always admire her body when I saw her at 'to the beautiful you' and wished I could have a body like hers. So sad seeing all these comments about her body T_T
Why fans care so much for the artists weight?? Thats wrong their talent is what should matter. And they are humans too. Whats wrong with fans??
alexandra caban in Korea its seen that celebrities ought to just take whatever is being said about them because they decided to be a celebrity. There’s not as much sympathy there about things like this.
"fans"
"Sulli had elephant legs"
Uhhh, there's people whose body mass doesn't even let them walk and they considered her legs "elephant" like.
Um WTF?
Alien 0330 it’s sad that she even knew that they called her “sulliphant” from night of hate comments
@@AmoreYvie the human race can be quite disgusting and insensitive at times. Poor Sulli, RIP.
Ikr 💜
@@armybts4069 💜
A lot of girls would love to have those legs, many do a lot of exercise to achieve something like that. she was pretty and her body was great. Ppl can be so mean because they would never have a body or face or even personality like those they see on tv. So sad all those comments killed her like that.
That guy on the show said Sulli should go on diet, ... why didn't he himself go for plastic surgery first ....
comments like these lead to suicide my dude be nice like amber said
C.A by commenting like that, you are just the same as him. Why not just pray to make him a better person rather than wanting him to die🙁
@@c.a1019 There's a reason why South Korea is trying to implement a law against cyber bullying, which will hopefully reduce the damages caused by cyber bullying. What you're doing right now is just a lose-lose situation, and more of a vicious cycle.
Both lose because cyber bullying doesn't do any good and the ones who bullied Sulli will either don't care or they'll get affected by it.
Like what I said previously, it's a vicious cycle because you're bullying a cyber bully and the cycle continues. More damage will be done.
The only sane thing we can do is to let the cyber bullies face justice. I am not justifying the bullies, but we as normal humans shouldn't bully in the first place. Let the law handle it.
@@c.a1019 I agree. It is okay to fight fire with fire. Nothing wrong with that. People who constantly take the moral high ground are fucking cringe.
C.A thats impossible if you really think bad people could be gone in this world thats why theres yin and yang. Let the law speak, and guess what? i believe in heaven and hell. thx for ur last words
I hope all these people know they’re murderer, she was my bias and even though I was young I understood that something was wrong with her mentally, all those called fans that insulted her and turned their back to her killed her too, all those haters who would insult her every movements killed her too. And I hope you’ll have this on the conscience for ever.
Now people are saying rip and preaching about mental illness but they will go on and bully and insult other celebrities, bunch of hypocrites you deserve nothing but the worst.
RIP sulli, I’m sorry I couldn’t do anything and send you more love. Love you for ever my peach.
I couldn't have said it any better myself 😖😞
She was FIFTEEN when people started bullying her body. A young teen!!! How disgusting do people have to be to do that???
She had NEVER deserved hate...... People should stop treating idols like toys.... They are humans. And can make mistakes.. Miss Sulli , she is resting in Peace , she is an angel
For anyone a bit offended by the timing of this video's upload date, this video was uploaded previously but was edited.
'Lazy Dancing' Jennie got a lot of backlash because of that too, I feel scared for her.
I thought about that, too...
I keep thinking bout that too but seeing her close to her mum, i think shr would never doing something like this. Lets protect her and all
Im not a big fan of her or a blink, but we need to send her supportive messages and love. She may be suffering from depression 😔 we need to protect her, we can't let another tragedy like this happen three times 😓
thats nothign compared for what sulli went through, everyone hates her, tehy say shes a bad sing, dancer, actor, shes fat. No one was through for her, imagine
@@shirleyzhang2997 how you know its nothing? Did you feel how she feel?? Each person have difference level of tolerance so i think you should not talk like that. Some may feel nothing when someone said some word like "you should not live" but some may think bout that for 3 hours, 3 days and to make it worse 3 years
I never got to support f(x) while they were active, or learned about the members, but, I hope Sulli rests easy. She had such a pure soul from videos that have been shared around. I hope everyone stays strong :(❤️
Yes we need to be the change we want to see in the world!
Amber is a queen for sticking up for her! I can't believe Sulli is gone
They continuously bully you and they end up saying "I'm sorry, she was a nice girl". Gosh I hate bullies
Amber was holding herself back while defending her friends. She seems like such a good soul. The world needs more Amber and Sullis : (
U Shameless people who had bullied her for years..😡 are u happy now that she's dead? All u did was body shaming her..
U think of urselves as perfect?
#stopbullying🚫
I hope she resting easy now my heart is so broken:( she such a beautiful person inside and out. God bless her soul and f(x) members💕
I get culture shock every time Koreans say something blunt about idol's looks. I get that open criticism is their thing, and having these standards means aesthetically pleasing idols rise to the top which, to be real, most of us international K-pop fans prefer as well.
But after a while, that callous bluntness can rot people from the inside out. People become depressed as fuck, feel empty, have no deep and meaningful thoughts cos they have no energy from starving to themselves to death, they compare themselves against others, have insecurity, eating disorders, stress, body dysmorphia, anxiety, and/or suicide.
Again, it's not my place to judge their culture, and my culture has shitty aspects too, but come on, there needs to be a balance between that bluntness and high standards and allowing idols to be human;. Sometimes being less than perfect is better, more real. More happy and healthy.
*! Since I see I few people also confused who may not have read the description or poster's comment!* -
This was previously uploaded actually (ie: comments from 5 months ago). The poster just decided to edit it with a preface to reach out to those who are too suffering.
I hope all is well with everyone. I was disgruntled when I got the notif too )): Take care please ♡
Rest in peace, Sulli
She’s a child star, everybody praise her appearance and “love” her. However she grew up, they started hating on her appearance. This is why.
I was like this when I had that dangerous depression few years back. From a healthy 54 kg to 45 kg. Friends look at me like they're asking "are you on drugs"? I just wish that Sulli was and will be the last who had been "murdered online". I wish too that their govt. be stricter to the making of Sulli law and chase after those evil monster knetz. Cyber bullies should be jailed for a max. of 1 year to a min. of 8 mos. with no bail or pardon. These cyber monsters should be taught a lesson.
I'm not into k-pop, but even if I was I wouldn't understand or even tolerate how this industry is that focused on physical appearance before body and mind health.
*_Amber looked so pissed off_*
The part where they called her lazy and a week later her dating scandal reminds me of Jennie i don't Stan blackpink but...
jisus is army I’m worried about jennie too :(
Poor Sulli, always being shamed, she looks beautiful no matter what. Fly high angel 🕊❤
You know this reminds me of what's happening to Jennie people need to be nicer
JHope watches nisekoi exactly what I was thinking
True, they need to realize what they’re doing to jennie before its too late, calling her lazy when she might have a reason why she did that. We don’t know if she was acting like that to seek help or something just need to be nicer
That dude saying like they’re not skinny enough for his liking acting like these girls would even look in his direction
7:28 exactly. thank u very much amber.
Korea should forbade idols from debutting before 19/20. People attack an idols body while they are still teenagers going through all that body changings. This will affect their self-image forever! And I pray Sulli is in a better place now, another good soul lost to the korean horrendous media... Yet, they never learn how words are sharper than arrows.
Leticia G then their are idols who are criticized for being too old they’re in their in the 17-20s It’s sad. They want a certain age to mold into what they want them to be.
This makes me cry real hard. Sulli was suffering from depression because of unending backlash. I feel pity for her 😞 May she find real peace now. Many people love you Sulli 🥺
guys some of you are doing this to Jennie of Black Pink.. please stop it before this happen to her too..
@Divina Del cielo super pretty and talented
You know what really scares me? One time (when the whole lazy Jennie thing was at it's peak) someone used Sulli at the time to criticise Jennie. I think they said something like "Look what happened to Sulli- she was made to leave F(x) because of laziness and Jennie could be going the same way" or something along those lines! I stuck up for Jennie then and any other person who gets harassed like this because look what happened to poor Sulli! That person's comment seems super scary now...
DIVINA PLAYS GAMES As if Sulli isn’t pretty? Insensitive comment
People sometimes talk about depression like it just appears randomly. But for so many people long- term stress CAUSES depression and anxiety.
This culture is killing people
She's never been too fat. I'ts just normal weight, normal look for healthy people. If you don't like her body, just silent and close your mouth.
Why would you comment about someone's appearance? Appreciate the way they look like, if you love it, you can say it. If you have something negative to say, just keep it to yourself. Do you even feel guilty when you hear the news? Those who commented negatively had affected her so much and you call yourself a person?
Try to spread love. You won't die if you don't post those negative comments. But it might hurt someone so much that they decide to take their own lives. Stop being so judgy and live your own life. We should all mind our own business.
Thank you uploading the full video. I did notice her weight issues over the years. Rest in paradise Sulli. I'm really gonna miss you 😔💜 You NEVER deserved any of the bullying you endured.
So she was too fat and everyone said she looked like an elephant. Then she was thin and everyone said she had lipo. Then she gained the weight and she was an elephant again. They want her to leave the group and when she does they're mad that she 'abbandoned' her group. When she smiles they say it's fake, when she doesn't smile she's a b*tch. And then when she breaks down and gets depression, they tell her to get some help....but all those hatefull people are the ones who need help. You must be really evil as a society to treat someone, and bully someone with thousands of people. I really hoped Korea learned something, but I guess not because they just find other victims like: Jennie. Sulli would've had a nice life if everyone just let her be her. Yess you can dislike someone but like Amber said, if your opinion is going to only hurt someone and is not valid critisism just shut the f up please. Rest in peace sweet Sulli.
I still remember the first time I saw that Strong Heart episode and how angry I was vividly. That damn male audience is the perfect representation of how sexist and misogynistic South Korea has always been. Excuse you sir you have no right whatsoever to tell Sulli or any F(x) member OR any woman what to do with her body. I really hope he, along with all those people leaving malicious comments on Sulli’s social media, would be drowned in shame that they were the direct reason led to Sulli’s suicide.
What episode was it?
Also the way she kept trying to excuse herself with the bag exercise... :(
I think you meant Hello Counselor?
@@sunebites just search hello counselor fx
7:00. This guy was so mean, cristicise someone, like he perfect himself 😤
Seriously idols doesn’t need to be forced to lose weight by people or go on a unhealthy diet
The Korean weight standards suck a## in Korea
I don’t understand why some people have to make fun of people’s look and weight seriously weight doesn’t know even matter a bit unless if people are not confident in themeselves they can go on a healthy diet but still eat and be happy and also it’s not people’s business to ruin someone’s confidency like idols are human and social media stars are human too
She became thin because of depression, 99% looks like it. RIP Sulli
It hurts to realize you posted this on the DAY she passed. R.I.P beautiful angel 🌹
I'm so sorry you had to deal with all these things sulli..
A netizen actually told her to disappear. That breaks my heart. She didn’t deserve an ounce of hate..R.I.P Sulli
You are all hypocrites! Now everyone saying good things to her because she is dead now, but when the time she's alive everyone just keep on saying bad things to her. I feel so angry because we already notice that she's in pain but nobody help her to stand.
Actually a lot of people Feeling sorry are new kpop fans so it's not their fault but those who knew probably forgot her because how long she was out of kpop
@@xivie1239 we as fans don't have that much power when it comes to some incidence, like this one, those who had the chance to do something, SM, ignored her cries for help
@@yasminchan7425 sm is shit they don't care about mental health at all such a disappointment
stop saying nonsense most of the harsh comments are from knetz back in the day whereas the comments on twitter or on this video are new kpop fans so yeah they can feeel sorry a young girl took this decision
@@g.h3874 knetz still talked about her even this year , and old fans are all of a sudden sorry about talking about idols when it should never been on your mind to begin with.
We should let the family mourn and do what we can in remembrance.
It’s hard watching the videos of her while in f(x), wondering what her mindset used to be, if she ever even thought her life would turn out this way. Sulli deserved so much better.
I just wish talking about weight and looks wasn't mentioned on these shows. No one deserves to be humiliated and treated like this.
I didn't follow f(x) but I know they worked hard consistently. I don't want to cry, but it still hurts.
After all of this I simply can’t enjoy kpop anymore. It’s too painful.
i see so many similarities between her and jennie... i really hope what happened to beautiful sulli never happens again and we can treat idols better
i’m really glad amber stand up for sulli on the hello counselling.
look how mad amber was when that man said that her dongsaeng still fat.. she knows that it can affect sulli, that sulli maybe will think of it and get stress about it 😢
That man is not a true man.
I already miss her so much
she was my bias in f(x) and i remember once she left it was like everyone tried/tended to forget her- its really sad that nows the time when everyone finally listens to her pain :( rip baby sulli, you held on for so long and im always proud of you
I've never seen a case like Sulli's... Never, in the whole industry.
She was so hated day by day, for everything she did to everything she said to every picture she posted. People claimed her to be "crazy" and laugh about her weird behaviors, but weren't people noticing that something was wrong? She demanded please to all the comments to stop, because she didn't feel well, she was not well and people just received her with more hate. Like someone is telling you they're not okay, and yet you keep harassing that person again and again... Everyday I went to her Instagram account and all there was was negative comments, for literally everything she posted. Things like: "she's crazy, she needs some help" or "she loves being the center of attention".
I really hope all this people that commented all this things now have realized how this comments affect someone. Is very easy to be behind a screen, criticizing everyone but I hope I would see all this people in the spotlight.
R.I.P Sulli, there was people that really knew you were an angel and supported you no matter what.
Life is ao ironic... I used to be truly jealous of Sulli when I was a teen because she was so pretty and my age. It got to the point that I almost hated her because every male idol would praise her beauty and she seemed everyone’s favourite. But I honestly couldn’t hate her, I thought she was so gorgeous that I made her fanart. And now she’s no longer here because people in reality hated her for no reason... smh
I always remember Krystal having fainting episodes during F(x)'s performances, especially when she started to become recognized for her abs and waist. The girls suffered so damn much. It really reminds me of modeling where you ARE expected to be sample size.
rest in peace, sulli. you deserved so much more than this cruel world gave you.
This is so sad.. all the photo, or live before she smile a lot but at the end she seems so tired and sad.. and now she’s Gone :-/
No offense but some knets need a reality check. They put unhealthy expectations on a person and when she shows her humanness people are disappointed and hate her for not being the unrealistically perfect image they had in their mind. Sulli lived for herself not for others but people wouldn't let that go and now she's gone...
It’s crazy how in Korea people are so focused on looks, I’m from the U.S and we are slowly learning to accept any body type and look, like looks to an extent can help you through daily life in the U.S but not nearly as much as in South Korea, idek why it’s like this
True but even the us has beauty standards
When I think about how much Sulli had been going through when she was alive, I just feel like crying. No one should have to go through what she went through her entire career.
The fact that this video was posted on the day of her death hurts me. I was never into k-pop when she was around, but after hearing about her I fell in love. To hear that she committed breaks my heart. She seemed like such an angel, except now it seems she really is one. Sometimes I think I'll end up like her.
RIP, Sulli
October 14, 2019
Bless Amber for standing up for Sulli, and in the process standing up for every other person who has ever felt picked on and not good enough no matter how much they change
I find myself coming back to this every year around this exact same time…I always ask myself if the outcome could’ve been different and what needed to happen to have made it different..it’s really so sad.
so many people failed her, especially her company
I wasn't into kpop when F(x) debuted or still had Sulli, but I feel so much for her...
She tried her best but korean fandom sucks so much
I have somewhat like "elephant legs" they're talking about and I'm really proud of my thick thighs! It's beautiful for the culture where I live, her former body was awesome!
She didn't have to lose so much weight if korean bodyshapes standards weren't that hard...
Rest in peace, girl :(
I’m so mad that I can’t even finish the video. My love for Sulli will never go away.
Sulli was a Queen! I followed her on Insta and left her nice comments all the time, I hope she at least got to see one of them to know that their were so many people who loved and adored her!
Please please remember you don't end your pain you only create more for those around you, rest in peace angel ❤️
Selfish. Thinking of others' pain instead of the sufferer's pain. Guilt tripping. Invalidating their pain and emotions. Making them feel like a burden. This advice is shit. Google why this is more harmful than helpful.
7:28 that moment is so sad, Amber was trying to support Sulli but the guy already hurted her, Amber is a good friend. How can people be so mean? Sulli was unique and different that's why they treat her so bad ?? I hope that the boy who is talking in this scene and the people who hurted her understand that words can hurt so bad...
I don't know why people ever for a moment thought she was less than beautiful. She is so beautiful inside and out, it is a pity she had to deal with negative comments and immature people who spend their time only bringing others down. I feel what truly makes a person beautiful is their personality and the kind of person they are.
That's what i hate about Kpop fans and industry. High but super unfair standards. Look what you have done. Rest in peace Sulli.
The guy that made a comment about sulli weight must be very feeling bad now
I don’t know whether to like or dislike this video
@@polaochocinska1966 They made it before she passed but they purposely uploaded today to gain views off of her death. Which is despicable.
This is a reupload
komin shipper it’s just a username 🤔
@komin shipper You must be the creator of the video or extremely obsessive you are a fucking stupid insensitive piece of shit.
Sulli commits suicide yesterday and the next day they upload the full video of her dieting/weightloss/depression. Are you fucking stupid? It is insensitive to her friends, family and fans. People are going to view this video in mass because of the news so yes it is insensitive.
@Nikita Dragun can you shut the fuck up your comments are annoying and pointless.
Those people saying mean things about her make me sad. She didn’t deserve any of that. I wish I knew her more before she passed. I’m happy she’s in a better place, where body image, harsh criticism, mean evil people, toxic comments, beauty standards, and cyber bullies can’t reach her. I’m glad she’s in a safe, happy, and peaceful place. I’m sad cause she didn’t get the happy life most of us wanted for her.
Rest In Peace Sulli ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
We will forever love you!
It makes me so upset knowing what Sulli had to go through... Even though she was a celebrity, she was a human being. I understand why people got angry when she was caught dating and clubbing during her hiatus, but I wouldn't assume she was just playing around all the time. Being on hiatus doesn't mean staying holed up at home or only doing company work. It's a given that she had more free time than the other members. Did people really expect her to just not do anything and stay at home for a year? Just because she was caught clubbing, doesn't mean she went clubbing every night, just because she went to the beach with her boyfriend, doesn't mean she spent her whole hiatus going on dates. She's human, she can have fun every now and then just like everybody else. I mean, the reason she went on hiatus is because of the hate she was getting. Haters were getting mad at her for not being present when they were the ones responsible. Hypocrites. She also might not have put in as much effort on stage because she felt like she would get hate anyways. If you felt like no one was there to support you, wouldn't you also just want to give up? Also, I think her body type naturally made it hard for her to maintain weight loss. After seeing pictures of the bruises on her legs, I would also suspect that she got shots to lose weight, but I think I would have done the same if I were her. I can't believe people were shaming her for getting carboxy shots when they were also commenting about how "fat" she was. After being harassed about weight and body type for YEARS, wouldn't you also feel the need to resort to such measures? Celebrities feel pressure to look perfect in the public's eyes. If any celebrity is getting plastic surgery or shots or wearing corsets or any of that, it's because they wanted to look better for the same people who hate on them. They went through all of that just to fit harsh standards, only to be criticized even more. It's so unfair. I hope the people who hated on Sulli reconsider their actions and realize what they've done.
They only compliment her and like her when she gets dangerously thin and is at her lowest point. These people are sick and only care about looks. May she rest in peace, hope she’s in a better place now…
She must be so damn tired of everything,,, 😭
she- she died.
I feel so bad for her, she had a sad and horrible life...
She and Go Hara are the proof that words can kill a person.
I know that looks are most important with k-pop, but instead of starving the girls why not give them a personal trainer to do weights and stuff and let them meet up with a nutritioniist so that they get healthy meal plans, so that they have tons of energy for performances. At least they should be at the lower end of their healthy bmi. With enough muscle, the girls could look toned and healthy and also eat good food. I was really disgusted by the guy in the tv-show...he shouldn't talk if he doesn't have a perfect body himself.
ketchuphero A guy with a perfect body will never say smth like that dude,.