people need to behave how they do in real life and on the internet...would you say something like this out of your own mouth? probably not because you would get your ass beaten.
I think idols should try and stop trying to please everyone. There are a lot of celebrities that don’t handle their own socials media accounts because you can’t please anyone and listening to people criticize you and complain would do you no good
"People want Wendy to Bury her struggles and pretend that starvation diets aren't happening, just like how fans try to pretend depression, romance, etc. don't exist in Kpop" THIS IS HANDS DOWN THE MOST WOKE STATEMENT OF ALL TIME THANK YOU FOR THAT
I agree. Let’s be honest everyone has said something stereotypical trying to describe people of deferent race. People just pretend that they’re perfect to hide their insecurities
agreed but she did do something pretty rude and the host was rude to ask her to do that,,, she didn’t deserve the excessive hate people should’ve informed her
Wendy’s weight issues make me so sad, I really hope she can get healthier in 2019 both physically and mentally. In their US tours, Wendy was really shining, so hopefully that’s a good sign of her feeling better. I wish people would just stop commenting on her weight, I think we should give Wendy the space she needs to get better without her feeling pressured.
@@pawelpintew It's not just k-netz. It's true that in most cases they are the ones that are really hateful towards idols, but there's also cases like this one where the i-netz are just as bad or even worse.
@@cantputashrugasausernameso5105 sometimes i fans could be annoying. I have seen a lot of unnecessary hateful and ignorant comments on instagram especially after the recent YG scandals involving seungri and B.I. 😑😑😑from an i fan from southeast asia
@@謝岳-l2g Ikr? There's an idiot spamming in Somi's teaser of Birthday with all that B.I. crap and telling people to not stan YG artists. They sometimes go too far.
Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one who actually liked how Wendy looked during the Peak-A-Boo era. She didn't look fat or bloated she just looked...normal. I really hope she can find a way to stay healthy. She takes every criticism to heart and just self destructs over it and it really breaks my heart. Girl needs a vacation.
I thought she looked great. I've never not felt that way. She's beautiful thick or thin! I became a fan during Dumb Dumb promotions. I even thought she was visual 😆😆😆😆
I hope Wendy finds her good middle soon and can end this yoyoing. Shes gained weight back as of right now, this video was made months ago amidst of RBB promos. Honestly popularity and love wise Wendy is at her peak right now and has been getting much support in 2019 so I hope the good vibes stay her way
AMFG Videos i hope if you report on wendy again to mention what Joy said on happy together recently i believe. SM monitoring their weight, making them weigh themselves everyday and reporting what they eat etc
I can’t for the life of me understand ppl who call her ugly... LOOK at her face! She’s gorgeous and sooo cute! hopefully the whole controversy blows over soon (as it should have done like a week after it happened. She’s not necessarily “unapologetic” she does what her company wants her to do, which in this case was to keep quiet about it)
When they debuted, people debated on if she or Irene was the visual. Honestly. I think she got Hyoyeon's ex-stylist or something cause she always gets the worst stage outfits and hairstyling. It drove me nuts how dirty they did her in Bad Boy with those overly baggy sweats and lazy styling.
@@Feelkkari to be quite fair, she and Irene look similar at first glance but I agree, Bad Boy era outfits were so bad on Wendy compared to Joy or Seulgi's outfits.
Honestly this whole thing just makes me want to cry for her. I always see Western fans talk about K-fans as though they're always rude and hateful and say they themselves are so much more accepting, but that clearly isn't always the case. This time it was our fault for everything. She's not racist, though she was ignorant, and didn't deserve the vicious amounts of hate she got. We love you Wendy!
I am an American and I’ve loved Wendy since her debut and even with the misinterpreted subtitles I still didn’t see how they could call her a racist, especially with all of the other ACTUAL racists that live here.
CheshireMar people try to forget that she live on america 10 YEARS AGO, when that jokes where so common. And please like those people judding her are the same that says all asians looks the same
Americans acting like victims all the time is slowly brushing off and I’m glad. Only a few people and feminist are left to feel entitled and to victimize themselves with a few miss interpreted words. Wendy wasn’t being racist, or ignorant, and all the people that say she was are missing brain cells
Bebe oh believe me, it was ignorant and rather insensitive, but I’m sure she’s learned from it by now. Also, saying that someone is missing a few brain cells because he/she doesn’t agree with you is rather contradictory.
Shes so talented and pretty idk why she gets so much hate! I never see a groups powerhouse vocal be so disliked before, usually they're the most popular :( Wendy holds 50% of RV's songs and her dancing is 1st/ 2nd best , her visual is no joke either, she's the perfectly underrated idol.
@@auurielle3257 Are you kidding or trolling? Wendy is the most fluid in the group, only Irene stands as good with her high energy and maybe better/ sharper. Wendy puts her whole heart and soul into every comeback, while some members very obviously give less than 50% performing songs they don't like. Some of the members are very stiff.
PinkPanadalove chill the fuck out, why are u acting like i just threatened you? IMO 5. wendy her energy is amazing and its fun to watch her fancams, she seems to be very sharp in her movements too, but thats about it 4. yeri seems to be a slightly better wendy but she gets off beat sometimes and her expressions are trash 3. joy seems to struggle due to her long ass limbs (if she doesnt exaggerate her movements she looks stiff) 2. irene basically a budget seulgi, can do dance moves correctly but she lacks in expression 1. seulgi really no need to explain. overall wendy has amazing charisma and she looks like she has fun and i never said that she can’t dance, just the worst in the group. and this is MY OPINION, u can have yours.
These idols weight fluctuate so much yet they have no stretch marks. I know they have procedures to remove them but dont those take some time? What kind of black magic is this
You can use heavy duty foundation and concealer makeup to hide stretch marks which is what I’m guessing idols do until they have time to get a procedure to remove them
Karkitts someone whos weight fluctuates this drastically and often should have severe very visible stretch marks. I doubt coco butter would work. Sm must be up to something
NOTE: WISHING UPON SOMEONE TO BE BEATEN, ASSAULTED AND JUMPED AT @ THEIR OWN CONCERT/SEGMENT/PERFORMANCE IS JUST INHUMANE, AND CRUEL AND OVERALL MAKES YOU A WORSE PERSON THAN WENDY Edit: Not only in concerts but anywhere or anytime in general
I agree that she didn't have stable fanbase when all her scandals came out. If she did it would go unnoticed 😕 She is such a beautiful human being, inside and out. Sad to see how people take her words and actions out of context 😣
it was really hard to watch. She looked so confused, like trying to understand what was happening. And also, all the comments were so mean and heartless. She didn't deserved that.
sftndrk lml Exactly. I don’t even understand how someone could be so mean to someone else anyway. She is already having a hard time dealing with her fluctuating weight and to top things off she has to deal with people hating her for something that’s not even that deep. Smh
I don't get why people say she's glamorizing her dieting when all she's doing is answering the host's question lmao. Would people rather she lie about it? Haters can never be pleased. 🤔
Wendy is one of those people that is naturally larger. Genuinely. By looking at her pre-debut photos you can see she simply isn't built to weigh 90-100lbs and some people seriously can't reach that weight without starvation, which naturally leads to yo-yo weight gain like hers. She needs to find an even middle ground because this ain't it and it's tragic to witness...
You can disagree with how Wendy acted (But come on it was clearly a joke she imitated a stereotypical white girl, as well as a black girl I bet most of the haters have said far worse its just their lives, are not publicized ) But how she was treated was beyond disgusting especially Bullying her for her weight and saying she deserves to get attacked. It seems like some more popular idols can get away with murder but she just gets picked on so much. I just hope she gets healthy as she looked both healthy and lovely in Peekaboo (she always looks lovely but it made me happy to see her healthier). But even she loses a ton of weight again calling her hateful things is not going to help her.
americans get confused and think because of free speech that they should be able to speak their minds in the nastiest ways possible if they feel offended. like their form of free speech isn’t respectful disagreement. it’s vile threats and hate. so gross
@@pavgarbis9609 I agree because they always say they (westerners) support and oppose when knetz are body shaming their FAVORITE idols but for Wendy its somewhat different because she made a tasteless comment that btw other more popular idols have said far worst and she gets dragged completely. People gotta start using their brains. This is some stupid shit.
It really breaks my heart thinking about Wendy. She’s perfect as she is, RV’s backbone- best vocalist, arguably their best rapper, a great dancer, and her visuals are beyond average. But with her confidence and self esteem she really struggles to project the best of her. I blame SM for wasting her potential and failing to protect her from all the abuse she gets online as well as their stylists/designers whoever is responsible for dressing her up like that and forcing those bangs 24/7 (not that she looks bad with them but it’s good to change it up every now and then.) She’s been through a lot and people won’t stop labelling her as "skin and bones” which is an absolute exaggeration. Then of course, there’s the racist thing... although it’s been a year since and I’m certain she had no say in doing the impression and SM being SM did nothing to stop the hate let alone let her apologise for upsetting anyone.
Great comment! I really love how you said she's the backbone of the group. I still recall the panic that crossed Seulgi's face when they performed without Wendy for the first time. Then it felt like it hit all of the members that they needed to pick it up because something just wasn't right with that stage. I also agree with the whole racism criticism. I'm black and from America and wasn't offended in the least neither time. I have a similar personality and have done similar when hanging with my friends. I guess when you interact with other cultures you pick up things and can joke around and not worry about being called a racist. That being said, I still say it wasn't just black fans upset. It was also the haters trying to drag her down. Wendy's arguably one of the best vocals in kpop. When you're good at something and at the top, there's always someone trying to knock you down!
Do these people even know the definition of racism. Like wtf. The whole backlash about Wendy just confused me because even without knowing the fault in translation, I still was just thinking "okay? And this is racist how?"
I honestly thought the Wendy hate would stop by now. When that whole scandal came out about her being racist, at first I was shocked and didn’t believe (me being a abw Kpop fan) I but I got over in a week tops. Wendy isn’t racist and I don’t know why people are still bashing her. All through their 2018 comebacks, I was worried about Wendy’s weight because you just saw her getting smaller and smaller. I hope Wendy learns to love herself again and finds that healthy balance! ❤️
she must have been so stressed going through everything. May she find a path that works for her that doesnt ruin her health.THANK YOU FOR THIS AMAZING PART TWO
Wendy: *gains weight Fans: OMG SHE'S SO FAT!! SUCH WEIGHT SHOULDN'T BE ALLOWED Wendy: *loses weight Fans: OMG SHE'S TOO SKINNY OMG I CAN SEE YOUR BONES EWWWW Wendy: *back to normal and did some impersonations Fans: OH MY GOSH A RACIST!!! Y'ALL SEE THAT?! A RACIST!!!!!!! I feel so sorry for her. She receives so much hate yet she still manages to put on a bright smile on stage like nothing. As a Reveluv, my heart breaks for her T^T. Tbh I'm satisfied as long as she puts in 100% in every performance! We really shouldn't give our opinions on other ppl's weight... If she feels confident being skinny, let her be skinny, vice versa.
@@movielover6840 I should've written the "general public" instead of fans then. I'm sure these people's words affect the company's decision, which leads the company to think "AiGhT it's time to starve you, so that'll shut the haters up"
I think the fact that Wendy was asked from people on the show was already a sign that it wasn't the gir'ls fault. I mean of course, I don't think the impression was a good idea, but we have to remember she's in Korea and they are very strict about the hierarchy system they have. Most likely if she hadn't answered, she'd be scolded by many people, and I'm sure a lot of you already know how many of SM's managers are like... plus, some of y'all acting like you don't laugh and make racists jokes. I'm not saying she's completely innocent, she could be a racist, who knows.. but I'm not saying y'all are angels either.
Exactly. Most of the people talk like if they knew the country she lives in and also her position, aplying their own culture 'rules' and mindsets. She lived in america so she knows what she said was wrong. I think we all were dissapointed when she said that, however it doesn't mean everyone has the right to send this much hate towards her. No, I'm justifying her but I'm just saying that she's a human like everybody else, she makes mistakes, and also have feelings and just because she did say something wrong y'all have the right to do the same and worse... The fact that she is an idol =/= she's perfect. But obviously, is easier to judge when the one who made a mistake is famous and you are behind a screen.
Even if she is. Who cares. She’s literally not harming anyone. People over analyze and take every single comment at heart. Racism is thinking their race is better than others. And she did nothing of that sort. Nor did she commit bigotry.
this makes me cry,,,, i went to the red mare concert in LA and on day 2 the western fans were yelling their heads off whenever wendy came on. she had so much love at that show it makes me sad she doesn’t receive that love all the time. her weight loss/gain is really sad to me. she’s constantly been fighting since the beginning and she’s for the most part so secretive about it, like anyone with a eating disorder is. but joy laughs out of stress when wendy says she plans to gain weight again, joys virgo ass knows that wendy is unhealthy and if she keeps pushing there really will be a black hole in red velvet because your idol will be dead.
Wendy is my favorite member of the group. She is super talented and I wish she could showcase her talent more often. I pray she finds happiness and can find a healthy relationship with food and exercise.
Do yeri please! I know theres already a video but it isnt as in depth as your videos. Id also like to thank you for all the efforts you put into your videos. They are extremely entertaining to watch!
Yeah, i agree with you, i believed in her that she didnt have any intention in being racist, like, she is so kind and humble, i really love her so much
Wendy's weight has been stable for the whole year so far and she seems to be enjoying herself a lot. I hope she is truly doing fine and finally found her happy place. :)
Well it's not just Wendy's fault, it's also SM and the fans. She probably wanted to apologize but couldn't because of SM and the fans didn't tell her what she was doing was wrong, if they did however, SM probably would've put out a statement.
And what the people did was wrong as well, inculding the fans. You went to a Red Velvet concert just to say that she's "racist." That was a whole waste of money I wish they weren't so rude. Being a black person myself, yes she did do something wrong y stereotyping how black girls and white girls are, and yes she didn't put out an apology but we still shouldn't treat her like that. We all make mistakes here people.
how can what she said even be racist, when it was said that she imitated her "classmates". so it was people she knew, how can that be racist. people just spot onngeneralized everything
i remember when the whole scandal about her joke came out and I was disappointed that she did it, but when I saw the overwhelming hate, I just never commented on anything because it was already so out of hand. I wished someone had just calmly told her it was offensive rather than tearing her head off. They all kept using the excuse that Wendy was born in Canada so she HAD to have known better, but truthfully, anyone who lived in the West back in the early 2000's probably wouldn't have because that was a really racist time especially in media, so blaming her so harshly is kinda dumb. Very famous male idols have done the exact same thing but they get a free pass 'because they're so cute uwu they don't know its bad my oppar can never do wrong,' which is so dumb. I just wish people could leave Wendy alone about her body, because I know how hard it is to find peace with your appearance when people always have something to say about your size. I hope she can be healthy soon.
Seriously. There have been Male idols who use the N word REPEATEDLY but got a free pass by I-fans as "my poppa didn't know any better". Plus many parts of Canada are not diverse.
Ya'll just always assume everything is racist when she didn't even mock someone else's race. She just impersonated someone from her school and that's based on her memory and experience. You all need to get therapy, not her. People are getting dumber with all the knowledge in this era of time.
the worse thing about this entire situation was she was being playful and joking about HER OWN FRIENDS. Twitter mob is so quick to jump the gun it's so disgusting. But guess who will change their profile pic to black when an idol is driven to s**cide. Hypocrisy. They continuously called her fat, she developed an eating disorder and then she was villainized for her ED too. What the fuck is wrong with humanity??
What Wendy did wasn't appropriate but racist?? lmao please, calling every little thing racist devalues conversations about real racism that hurts people all over the world. Why are y'all hating on some girl that wasn't thinking about what she was saying and how it might offend people when there's actual discrimination going on to all races pretty much everywhere? We clearly need to get our priorities straight. Wendy should have been corrected and that should be the end of it. People aren't either saints or racists and plenty make mistakes, criticism is fine but outright wishing physical harm on her is messed up. edit: also I find it weird that ppl call her out for not apologising? She's managed by a company that puts her on diets that are clearly unhealthy, you guys really think they're gonna let her speak her mind about this? I feel like ppl in the west need to understand that the idol culture surrounding dieting is very toxic. Idols will be asked about their weight constantly and it's seen as less of a big deal/taboo to go on an extreme diet before a comeback than it would be in the west. This is why it might come off as insensitive or ignorant when Wendy talks about starving herself on tv or radio. The reality is she's under a lot of pressure to be thin in a culture that congratulates idols for losing weight quickly and her management doesn't help. We really shouldn't be so harsh on her because she's a product of the environment she lives in; who we really need to criticise is her management.
I honestly can't think of any time when SM has issued an apology for anything. Not even when Kangin was drunk driving unless it was for causing 'distress'. Honestly I kinda feel like SM uses gaslighting tactics when making statements. There's no way that they would let Wendy apologise in their normal style because that would require a lengthy statement.
@@saybah2585 Henry is a senior in the company and Wendy is part of the last girlgroup to come out of SM. I think is also important to have that in mind
@@saybah2585 Henry and Wendy have very different positions within SM, just because he was able to make a statement doesn't mean she can. Additionally, girl group reputations are probably one of if not the most fragile in the k-pop industry and Wendy doesn't have a large western fan base comparatively to other artists so it makes perfect sense to me that the company would want to let the whole thing blow over. They want their group to get popular in Europe/the US and an apology could stir things up more. Obviously I can't say for sure but we can't use Henry as an example to further accuse Wendy since circumstances are different.
Poor Wendy. It sucks that he has had to (and still has to) go through so much crap. She's my ultimate female bias in Kpop and I love her so much, I just want her to be well mentally and physically. People have no right to hate on her so much. I wish I could let her know how great she is and that there are people out there who love and support her.
Wendy honestly can’t win. It’s so unhealthy for her to keep up this yo-yo dieting. She should just focus on being healthy because she is never going to be able to please everyone. And she shouldn’t have to!
All of these people bringing up "This is what happens when you don't apologize", you do know that a lot of entertainment companies don't allow there idols to apologize? Unless it's a controversy effecting their stockmarket or something massive. This kind of topic isn't as big in Korea as it is in the rest of the world. That is the truth. And she was ignorant, but in no way racist. A lot of idols before her have gotten into controversies for following directions. Tzuyu from twice for example, she got a lot of backlash from waving the taiwanese flag at a talk show. Someone in the satff gave her the flag and told her to use it. But this brought in the government in both China and Taiwan and all the disputes regarding Taiwans independence and so on. But Tzuyu got the blame. Wendy was asked to do stereotypes. She did. Many idols have talked about stuff they felt forced to do or just had to do in general in their more active years. They don't have much freedom. Every picture they post will go through someone (probably) and they can get into trouble for swearing in a live recording. If she had refused to do the stereotype, she would get backlash from her company, and from the program. Maybe even from the general public in Korea for being a difficult coworker for other people in the business. She might have wanted to apologize, but she wasn't allowed to, was what I was getting at. Taeyeon from SNSD apologized to fans directly at an airport after one of her controversies. They live such restrictive lives, and they have their faults. A lot of what they do is documented and I'm sure we all have done some questionable stuff that no one will know of because of the simple reason that no one have heard of it. Throwing around the word Racist so much makes it lose its meaning. Being racist is thinking a "race" is less worth than another. Using a stereotype doesn't prove she thinks black people are less worthy than her, what she did was wrong, but it was far from racist. It was ignorant. If you read my block of text, good for you. If I misspelled anything I do apologize, and this is after all just my opinion. Can't we have a discussion were we can listen more to each other and try to understand other peoples perspective and their cultures?
Also, I saw a few people saying that she never mentioned race, and if she didn't and people are just assuming she did because that's how they (not Wendy) perceive a certain group, so wouldn't that make them the racist or ignorant ones? I've seen people trying to claim that she had done it again for the third time just because she was wearing those sunglasses and trying to act cool while saying "Yo, man, what's up" with swag. Like, race wasn't mention and she was honestly just acting like her usual dorky self because she was acting cool. And girl's daily language is "Yo, man" like how some people would say "Hey bro" and more. That video was taken out of context by a fangirl of another group and it created more problems, but it made her seem ignorant herself because she was planting the seeds on trying to make Wendy out to be someone she's not. Also, the anti-fan assumed that only blacks acted like that, so it made her seem very ignorant because I'm from a very diverse suburban city and I've been around people of various races and ethnicities that act kind of like Wendy and some even acts ghetto if that's the right term. I even work with people who use "man" instead of "dude," "bro," "girl," and so on.
"Being racist is thinking a "race" is less worth than another. Using a stereotype doesn't prove she thinks black people are less worthy than her, what she did was wrong, but it was far from racist. It was ignorant." Brilliantly said!
What Wendy did was a stereotype, please DO NOT confuse that with racism. A part of her stereotype comes from ignorence but it isn't a malicious type. It's innocent and usually hurts the speakers intelligence rather than the directed audience.
Dorkis B I agree! What Wendy did was ignorant and I would never go as far as defending her actions but when looking at intentions I don’t think she meant any harm 🤷🏽♀️ In the end like you said she was the one hurt by her words rather than those who claim to be offended by it when half of the industry has done things much worse yet get away with it 🤦🏽♀️
yikes i lowkey thought that whole impersonation thing would blow over fast but i’ve seen mad people say she grew up in us/can so she ‘should’ve known better’, i don’t really keep up w/ rv so i didn’t know this was still being dragged out but damn i feel bad for her
I rarely see the racism stuff these days. Not sure why this video is rehashing it. I guess to show the stress it caused on her body. #BlackAndSoNotOffended
@@ky9933 Will you just grow up and move on? It’s been three years. I can name other idols who have done very questionable things in the past that can *easily* go under racism. Way more offensive than what Wendy has done. Seeing how you like BTS, remember all the colorist comments RM made in the past? “Ohh I didn’t see them (J-Hope and another member) because they were too black.” Why aren’t you calling him racist then? If you’re gonna point someone being problematic, you better acknowledge your faves’ mistakes as well instead of sounding like a hypocrite. Again, grow up.
As a wendy stan, Im sobbing watching this. She went through so so much. Still antis like to hate on her as if they know anything about her. She's the sweetest kindest of all..
all this time i thought knetz were the worst... congrats america, you're on the top now too! man some people get so salty over a joke. also stereotypes aren't always racist, people just need to get a life dont @ me, I'm not talking about all american kpop fans, some of y'all are amazing but i won't assume knetz are the worst anymore. wendy deserves the world, i hope she gets better and is able to stabilize her health asap
Dear ReVeLuv please refrain from commenting on Wendy's weight (or hair for that matter)... you may be concerned about her health, but I think she and the other RedVelvet members can approach the situation with more sensitivity and deal with the situation better❤ *Instead, let's remind her of how amazing she is and what she means to us!*
She went through so much. She try hard to gain her confidence bcs of Vocal nodules, weight issues bcs of hate comments and now her accident makes her lose all the confidence back. Please showers her with love and support since she's already return 🥺🥺💙
The camera really does add weight, I saw them June 2018 and they're normal looking, but still pretty tiny. When you see people in real life, you don't think much about their weight or how they look, but online it seems like that's all people talk about.
I saw the video of Wendy that everybody is calling racist and as a black girl I didn't have a big issue with it 🤷🏾♀️ People get so freaking butt hurt over nothing. I feel so bad for Wendy.
Wendy is literally the most skilled and talented vocalist of the 3rd generation. What does it matter what her body looks like? Her voice earns her the spot in Red Velvet by itself. There would be no Red Velvet without Wendy. She carries the group so much vocally and the reason they can do all those crazy things in their songs is because Wendy can support it. Every member of Red Velvet is talented, pretty and deserving of respect and adoration. Remember ignorance does not equal hate and people can always learn and reflect.
I love her voice and singing technique so much. I don't really care how she looks, I just want her to be healthy and confident about herself and her worth. This situation makes me really sad.
I have to agree with what you said about how other ethnicity's tend to 'stereotype' other ethnic groups. Honestly at this point I feel that it's just a hate bandwagon and there really is no reason to get mad imo. From what I've seen and feel, any starter pack for any race or ethnicity's is the same as Wendy stereotyping her white and black friends.
I am absolutely disgusted. People who say things like "she deserves to be assaulted" are doing things far worse than her. Sure, it might have been a bit ignorant and inappropriate to be broadcasted, but are they saying they don't have stereotypes and make jokes like that with friends? What escalated from that was even worse. Why drag her body into it? It's completely unrelated and hurtful. Can you imagine if those comments were from the mouth of a kpop stat broadcasted on tv? People should understand the impact of their words more. I'm glad the Korean fans stood up to her at least. Wendy you deserve much better.
I hope Wendy continues to be healthier and find a nice balance for her and her fans. In my personal opinion, mental health has to contribute to life to and the fans can help her with that. Getting criticism like that is not good for her mental health and will make her continue to have bad thoughts about herself. I do think being racist was her fault, but it wasn’t entirely her fault, after all, the hosts did ask her to imitate her classmates. I understand how many people felt offended after her imitation, but you have to admit we’ve all been racist at least once in our lives. Wendy honestly does not deserve hate and neither does anyone else, idols are human too and they should be able to live like us, no boundaries, but idols are seen as perfect and should be role models. I hope Wendy continues to grow and learn to love herself. ❤️
Wendy is my bias no matter what she's a human you know she can make mistakes so don't blame her, i love healthy and chubby wendy and she's pretty people hate her for something from the past it looks like they can move on. So guys please stop this you don't even know what your comments can make imagine if one of this days we receive the news that wendy has died or that she has depression and leaves Red Velvet that can cause it to dissolve too so think a bit please thanks for reding this.
Wendy is my bias and I’m always worried for her I just hope she is happy and won’t let the haters pull her down!! She is so talented and she’s my role model!!
Thanks for the making the video and I hope it sheds a better light on her. Also, I think something you forgot to mention or perhaps you’re not aware of is Wendy rarely goes home and shes just met up with her family for the first time in 8 years. Her parents had come to visit her once for their first tour in 2017 but after that she hasn’t spoken about them much and you can really tell it takes a toll on her as much as the vocal cords issue. I’ve only recently really gotten into red velvet and before that I was a casual listener and I watched a lot of their videos but Wendy was always that one member to catch my eye and literally captivated my heart. She’s been getting a lot of positive attention these days and I hope she pulls a "Joy" soon, accepts herself as she is with the flaws and ends us all with her personal charm. She’s an amazing person really, and I hope the fandom continues to grow and support her even more.
My weight loss/gain is almost identical to hers: yo-yo dieting,low self steem for my natural bigger physic(i'm latina,i am curvy naturally),bulimia and i hope she gets the help that she needs,she deserves better
I suffer from an eating disorder and it is the most torturous and horrible thing to possibly deal with daily. There’s no running away from it or getting rid of it overnight. I am hoping Wendy and I can prosper this year and say goodbye to our eating disorders
new rv/kpop fan here. kinda furious that wendy got all the hate that she did. i really like her and i want to keep on liking her for a very long time. i can't imagine losing her to depression.
western fans are so much worse they will tear you to pieces and just don't know when to stop honestly as a person and being black i didn't find her actions at all offensive and people just overreacted .
dude facts. i’m black too and i don’t think it was a bad as people say it is. it was literally just a stereotype thing but people blew out of proportion. this isn’t even peak racism. there’s many other celebrities who have said way worse than wendy ever will but they get mad over small shit like this and then brand her as the worst human being in existence.
As a black fan I was so sad seeing the hate (how ironic) that Wendy was getting then. If other black ppl think that was racism then we are lost as a community.
Wendy has gone through so much. She got so much hatred and criticism from K-netz over her weight and developed an eating disorder from it. She then gets shamed for the very body that they made her get. When she finally begins to heal, she gets beat down again for a spur-of-the-moment comment. She got constant shit from international fans, once again body-shamed just for existing. No wonder she began yoyo-dieting under that constant pressure. Not to mention she's gotten injured twice these last few years. She doesn't deserve any of this at all. I really hope she distances herself from all the hatred and recovers for good.
Looking back again on this video, y'all people who attacking her appearances instead of her attitude is simply the people who pulled the eyes far back to the side of their face to imitate the Asian people and simply had yellow fever too. That selfish of her didn't give any of y'all the validity to talk about her body weight and her image. If you want to fight, fight with dignity, not with being twit. Useless
(Do people really hate Wendy because of the controversy or do they use that reason to hate her because they actually just don't like her in general and want to ruin her and RV or is it both or is it because by mentioning her in their comments and posts, they know they will receive attention from both sides of the spectrum, in which there are people who either hates her or loves her?) I have also noticed that there are people who claim that they don't like Wendy (some don't even know her or how she looks like and some only knows how she looks like but don't know who RV is) and they irritate me because they're usually always saying "I would stan RV if Wendy wasn't in it" but you already know that they weren't going to stan RV in the first place because they only talk about RV if it's about a scandel or Wendy, and some only knows how Wendy looks like, but don't even know how Irene, Seulgi, Joy, and Yeri looks like.... Furthermore, I noticed that one reason people use as an explanation to continue to hate on Wendy when her fans come to defend her is by saying that she should of known better because she studied and lived abroad in the USA and Canada compared to an idol who has never studied or lived in another country outside of S.Korea. I don't want to assume this is why she continues to get hates and threats repeatedly over and over, but seeing not many people do the same to idols who has done worse than her because they've only lived in Korea and are assumed to know nothing about social issues outside of Korea is really ironic because I'm an I-Reveluv and there still are peope here who are born, raised, or is/had studied in the USA that is not educated about race even though it's 2019... In conclusion, I think people are really selective when it comes to who's cancelled or who deserves the most hates and I think we as a society have a hard time identifying between racism and ignorance and coming into agreement of who is really racist or ignorant. Also, if you hate her then that's fine because it's your right to do and think however way you want, but it's the same for fans who are sticking with Wendy and giving her their love and support.
I’m somewhat confused. Please correct me if I’m wrong. Didn’t Wendy to the impression one time and receive backlash? I can see people forgiving the one time, but didn’t she do it again and that’s when she really got hit with the criticism? I mean, once is bad, but can be understood and forgiven with an apology. But twice after you’ve been told it’s offensive, didn’t explain or apologize, and being Canadian she should know the negative connotations of the actions. I don’t understand why she didn’t see this coming or simply declined and took that time instead to educate the panel. It appears to me the criticism is valid, however, the threats, bullying, and body shaming are not.
Wendy, the sweetest most genuine girl, who sings for her fans cause she doesnt know how to express her love and always gives her 100% on stage, doesnt deserve all this. Im so disappointed in all the mindless comments people made about her.
when can international fans realize that being fat isn't a good thing in korea??? pushing your idols to match your/western standard doesn't make them being loved in their own country, just wish that they're eating healthy and done. remember, skinny shamming is a thing too
It is not ok to wish harm on someone - that’s just sickening and she didn’t even have bad intentions when making those comments? I’m so sick of the horrible horrible people on this planet
Okay no. 1. racism is not just about looking down on someone, it is about perpetuating untrue stereotypes about a group of people (which Wendy absolutely did) 2. Yes, westerners do this often, but they are met with the same backlash as Wendy because their actions are WRONG 3. I cannot say for sure that people did not take this as an opportunity to stereotype Koreans, but that does not justify her actions As someone who grew up in America/Canada, I find it hard to believe Wendy did not understand the criticism that she would meet from that joke. America has a long history of racism, and many are extremely sensitive about the subject. As a public figure, her actions need to be chastised if they are wrong. She sets an example of what is appropriate for her fans. If her actions were not criticized I would be concerned because it would send a message that it is okay to perpetuate untrue stereotypes. I do not think the harshness of the criticism is justified, but to say that the joke was not racist is a blatant lie.
When joy gained weight fans were quick to defend her against the harsh comments and netizens, when wendy did, NO ONE stood up for her. Solo stans are annoying. No hate for Joy I love RV ❤️
some international fans are quick to call out any idol for a small mistake that they probably didnt mean but still be fetishizing our men and acting like koreaboos. (an example is that youtube channel Kmusicandblackwomen which not only fetishizes asian men but also in some cases underage idols)
I found it saddening how haters say it's stupid for her to post her dangerous diets when she wants them to know " this is how far I'll go to please you but yet you still don't accept me for the way I am"
It’s actually disgusting the things people say to others. Just in general. How can you be so hateful? I’m shocked. It’s disgusting. No one deserves this sort of nonsense. And then they’re surprised when idols come out saying they have depression and/or other mental health issues. When you were writing that horrendous comment, what did you think was going to happen? They’re humans, they have feelings. Stop being monsters. Fix yourselves.
tbh just my opinion but she just looks so much happier and honestly dances better when she has a little more weight on her, but shes always beautiful in my eyes. Shes amazing and no one should make her feel like she needs to lose so much weight to be so.
My god. This breaks my heart so much. After all this hate and bullying from the "fans" she still laugh at us with a big and heartwarming smiles. She is so strong and we don't deserve her. I love her and I don't care if she gains or loose weight. Just want her to be happy and love herself..
I agree that people shouldn’t of brought Wendy’s weight into this issue, I understand how international fans could of be offended and disappointed in Wendy, considering she has done this on two separate occasions, she grew up in Canada where there are more black people, in a prebut video of her singing “Halo” you can a Black girl singing in the background with two other girls, so Wendy did have black friends / knew black people, but yet she continued to push these negative stereotypes, you can make up your own mind if you think it’s racism or ignorance. But they should of never fat shamed her her weight had nothing to do with the issue. I hope that Wendy is happy and is health in 2021 and I wish the best for Red velvet.
do a video on seulgi because im honestly so curious at how she compares to the other members she always seems so skinny but fit and healthy at the same time because of here six pack
A lot of westerners LOVE to put themselves on a high horse by condemning Knetz for being so hateful but lack the self-awareness to realize how disgusting so many of them can be as well. Pay attention to people's strong reactions to things because more often than not, it's a projection of some form. It's true when they say that what a person says of another (and/or how they say it) speaks so much more about them than the person they're talking about. I can't take any of this hate bandwagoning culture on social media seriously, man. But, of course, it's always easier to focus on others and attack them than to actually focus on yourself and self-improvement. That would require too much self-awareness for most. I really hope emotional intelligence becomes a bigger priority in the future cause society so desperately needs it.
People need to chill I'm black and tbh that wasn't racist at all I feel so bad for Wendy she is my favorite too. I guess some people get offended too easily
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Moral of the story: Wendy just can’t win. People need to stop acting like they have a higher moral value than Wendy.
people need to behave how they do in real life and on the internet...would you say something like this out of your own mouth? probably not because you would get your ass beaten.
I think idols should try and stop trying to please everyone. There are a lot of celebrities that don’t handle their own socials media accounts because you can’t please anyone and listening to people criticize you and complain would do you no good
SAY IT LOUDER SISS
@@Bebe-ge2te they are controlled by their managers so that's easier said that done-their managers certainly do want to please everyone
"People want Wendy to Bury her struggles and pretend that starvation diets aren't happening, just like how fans try to pretend depression, romance, etc. don't exist in Kpop"
THIS IS HANDS DOWN THE MOST WOKE STATEMENT OF ALL TIME THANK YOU FOR THAT
I agree.
finally
My heart hurts so much for them. They don’t deserve this shit. They’re wonderful beings who work hard nonstop and this is what they get. Wtf.
cc penanueva Amen
s a m e
What people did to Wendy was just the definition of wrong
Kpop Is my life They’re honestly the bad guys
Kpop Is my life No one should be hating
I agree. Let’s be honest everyone has said something stereotypical trying to describe people of deferent race. People just pretend that they’re perfect to hide their insecurities
Esther Mutesi that doesn’t make it right though
agreed but she did do something pretty rude and the host was rude to ask her to do that,,, she didn’t deserve the excessive hate people should’ve informed her
Wendy’s weight issues make me so sad, I really hope she can get healthier in 2019 both physically and mentally. In their US tours, Wendy was really shining, so hopefully that’s a good sign of her feeling better. I wish people would just stop commenting on her weight, I think we should give Wendy the space she needs to get better without her feeling pressured.
Divine Gi 😐😐what the actual fuck are you talking about??
@@pawelpintew It's not just k-netz. It's true that in most cases they are the ones that are really hateful towards idols, but there's also cases like this one where the i-netz are just as bad or even worse.
@@cantputashrugasausernameso5105 sometimes i fans could be annoying. I have seen a lot of unnecessary hateful and ignorant comments on instagram especially after the recent YG scandals involving seungri and B.I. 😑😑😑from an i fan from southeast asia
@@謝岳-l2g Ikr? There's an idiot spamming in Somi's teaser of Birthday with all that B.I. crap and telling people to not stan YG artists. They sometimes go too far.
So is she right?
Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one who actually liked how Wendy looked during the Peak-A-Boo era. She didn't look fat or bloated she just looked...normal. I really hope she can find a way to stay healthy. She takes every criticism to heart and just self destructs over it and it really breaks my heart. Girl needs a vacation.
I thought she looked great. I've never not felt that way. She's beautiful thick or thin!
I became a fan during Dumb Dumb promotions. I even thought she was visual 😆😆😆😆
Same here..i love her during peekaboo and bad boy
But i still love her anyway
I hope she will not get thinner
Normal for a westerner, not normal for an asian girl.
I thought I was the only who thought she looked normal too seriously there was nothing wrong with her
@@xsugarplum3442 Bro, I am an Asian girl and that is about how my figure is. Calm your self, not all Asians have the same exact figure
I was honestly terrified for Wendy in “Red Flavor” era.
I hope Wendy finds her good middle soon and can end this yoyoing. Shes gained weight back as of right now, this video was made months ago amidst of RBB promos.
Honestly popularity and love wise Wendy is at her peak right now and has been getting much support in 2019 so I hope the good vibes stay her way
I think I love you thank so much for being clear and to the point with your explanations. People srly need to stop hating on Wendy.
Great comment!
Wendy's bae no matter what to me!
Stop obsessing over it and it will stop
Your first video about Wendy was what ended up getting me into Kpop. I really hope she is able to find peace within herself
AMFG Videos i hope if you report on wendy again to mention what Joy said on happy together recently i believe. SM monitoring their weight, making them weigh themselves everyday and reporting what they eat etc
Man I feel so bad for her,no matter if she gains or loses ,people are never satisfied :(
IKR it's like she gets hate for breathing smh
she just needs to maintain and very thin weight and be done with the story.
I can’t for the life of me understand ppl who call her ugly... LOOK at her face! She’s gorgeous and sooo cute! hopefully the whole controversy blows over soon (as it should have done like a week after it happened. She’s not necessarily “unapologetic” she does what her company wants her to do, which in this case was to keep quiet about it)
When they debuted, people debated on if she or Irene was the visual. Honestly. I think she got Hyoyeon's ex-stylist or something cause she always gets the worst stage outfits and hairstyling. It drove me nuts how dirty they did her in Bad Boy with those overly baggy sweats and lazy styling.
@@Feelkkari to be quite fair, she and Irene look similar at first glance but I agree, Bad Boy era outfits were so bad on Wendy compared to Joy or Seulgi's outfits.
She's the most intriguing face in the group for me. She's beautiful!
@@eyebrowstj same with me
@@eyebrowstj true, even my mom said her visuals are refreshing.
Honestly this whole thing just makes me want to cry for her. I always see Western fans talk about K-fans as though they're always rude and hateful and say they themselves are so much more accepting, but that clearly isn't always the case. This time it was our fault for everything. She's not racist, though she was ignorant, and didn't deserve the vicious amounts of hate she got. We love you Wendy!
I am an American and I’ve loved Wendy since her debut and even with the misinterpreted subtitles I still didn’t see how they could call her a racist, especially with all of the other ACTUAL racists that live here.
CheshireMar people try to forget that she live on america 10 YEARS AGO, when that jokes where so common. And please like those people judding her are the same that says all asians looks the same
Americans acting like victims all the time is slowly brushing off and I’m glad. Only a few people and feminist are left to feel entitled and to victimize themselves with a few miss interpreted words. Wendy wasn’t being racist, or ignorant, and all the people that say she was are missing brain cells
Bebe oh believe me, it was ignorant and rather insensitive, but I’m sure she’s learned from it by now. Also, saying that someone is missing a few brain cells because he/she doesn’t agree with you is rather contradictory.
Okay but how does racist Americans existing mean that what she said can’t be racist?
lostmybadger depends who took it that way. Aka black over dramatic Americans
Shes so talented and pretty idk why she gets so much hate! I never see a groups powerhouse vocal be so disliked before, usually they're the most popular :( Wendy holds 50% of RV's songs and her dancing is 1st/ 2nd best , her visual is no joke either, she's the perfectly underrated idol.
PinkPanadalove i’m the biggest wendy stan but her dancing is the WORST in red velvet.
@@auurielle3257 Are you kidding or trolling? Wendy is the most fluid in the group, only Irene stands as good with her high energy and maybe better/ sharper. Wendy puts her whole heart and soul into every comeback, while some members very obviously give less than 50% performing songs they don't like. Some of the members are very stiff.
PinkPanadalove chill the fuck out, why are u acting like i just threatened you?
IMO
5. wendy
her energy is amazing and its fun to watch her fancams, she seems to be very sharp in her movements too, but thats about it
4. yeri
seems to be a slightly better wendy but she gets off beat sometimes and her expressions are trash
3. joy
seems to struggle due to her long ass limbs (if she doesnt exaggerate her movements she looks stiff)
2. irene
basically a budget seulgi, can do dance moves correctly but she lacks in expression
1. seulgi
really no need to explain.
overall wendy has amazing charisma and she looks like she has fun
and i never said that she can’t dance, just the worst in the group.
and this is MY OPINION, u can have yours.
how did u comment this a month ago omg
Than you didn't see Taeyeon and Tiffany hate. SM vocalists are always discredited and hated. I hate that.
Oh and add Bom to that mix!
These idols weight fluctuate so much yet they have no stretch marks. I know they have procedures to remove them but dont those take some time? What kind of black magic is this
You can use heavy duty foundation and concealer makeup to hide stretch marks which is what I’m guessing idols do until they have time to get a procedure to remove them
jasmin akhavan but makeup doesn’t hide the texture tho.
SM "procedure"(High Budget on Beauty)
ive heard that rubbing coca butter on stretch marks helps them fade but ive never really tested it out
Karkitts someone whos weight fluctuates this drastically and often should have severe very visible stretch marks. I doubt coco butter would work. Sm must be up to something
NOTE:
WISHING UPON SOMEONE TO BE BEATEN, ASSAULTED AND JUMPED AT @ THEIR OWN CONCERT/SEGMENT/PERFORMANCE IS JUST INHUMANE, AND CRUEL AND OVERALL MAKES YOU A WORSE PERSON THAN WENDY
Edit: Not only in concerts but anywhere or anytime in general
I agree that she didn't have stable fanbase when all her scandals came out. If she did it would go unnoticed 😕 She is such a beautiful human being, inside and out. Sad to see how people take her words and actions out of context 😣
You're right! If I can always defends her from those stupid psychopaths I will wholeheartedly do that! 😥
7:49 Imagine being this rude, like you can literally see how heartbroken Wendy looks after.
it was really hard to watch. She looked so confused, like trying to understand what was happening. And also, all the comments were so mean and heartless. She didn't deserved that.
sftndrk lml Exactly. I don’t even understand how someone could be so mean to someone else anyway. She is already having a hard time dealing with her fluctuating weight and to top things off she has to deal with people hating her for something that’s not even that deep. Smh
I really want to know who said that to punch them all
Joana Mendia Right! Like how could you go completely out of your way to embarrass someone like that, it’s disrespectful and rude.
Fuckkk. My heart dropped. I feel like crying haha. They helped me through depression so I really love them. Shit the tears are coming hahahahaha
I don't get why people say she's glamorizing her dieting when all she's doing is answering the host's question lmao. Would people rather she lie about it? Haters can never be pleased. 🤔
Wendy is one of those people that is naturally larger. Genuinely. By looking at her pre-debut photos you can see she simply isn't built to weigh 90-100lbs and some people seriously can't reach that weight without starvation, which naturally leads to yo-yo weight gain like hers. She needs to find an even middle ground because this ain't it and it's tragic to witness...
You can disagree with how Wendy acted (But come on it was clearly a joke she imitated a stereotypical white girl, as well as a black girl I bet most of the haters have said far worse its just their lives, are not publicized ) But how she was treated was beyond disgusting especially Bullying her for her weight and saying she deserves to get attacked. It seems like some more popular idols can get away with murder but she just gets picked on so much. I just hope she gets healthy as she looked both healthy and lovely in Peekaboo (she always looks lovely but it made me happy to see her healthier). But even she loses a ton of weight again calling her hateful things is not going to help her.
Sorry but at the part about Americans fat-shaming her? I LAUGHED HARD. Hypocrites.
americans get confused and think because of free speech that they should be able to speak their minds in the nastiest ways possible if they feel offended. like their form of free speech isn’t respectful disagreement. it’s vile threats and hate. so gross
@@pavgarbis9609 I agree because they always say they (westerners) support and oppose when knetz are body shaming their FAVORITE idols but for Wendy its somewhat different because she made a tasteless comment that btw other more popular idols have said far worst and she gets dragged completely. People gotta start using their brains. This is some stupid shit.
I agree with you on everything else but that joke was ignorant and hurtful, dont play it off as just a joke. People deserved an apology.
Nah that wasn’t it
It really breaks my heart thinking about Wendy. She’s perfect as she is, RV’s backbone- best vocalist, arguably their best rapper, a great dancer, and her visuals are beyond average. But with her confidence and self esteem she really struggles to project the best of her. I blame SM for wasting her potential and failing to protect her from all the abuse she gets online as well as their stylists/designers whoever is responsible for dressing her up like that and forcing those bangs 24/7 (not that she looks bad with them but it’s good to change it up every now and then.) She’s been through a lot and people won’t stop labelling her as "skin and bones” which is an absolute exaggeration. Then of course, there’s the racist thing... although it’s been a year since and I’m certain she had no say in doing the impression and SM being SM did nothing to stop the hate let alone let her apologise for upsetting anyone.
Great comment!
I really love how you said she's the backbone of the group.
I still recall the panic that crossed Seulgi's face when they performed without Wendy for the first time. Then it felt like it hit all of the members that they needed to pick it up because something just wasn't right with that stage.
I also agree with the whole racism criticism. I'm black and from America and wasn't offended in the least neither time.
I have a similar personality and have done similar when hanging with my friends. I guess when you interact with other cultures you pick up things and can joke around and not worry about being called a racist.
That being said, I still say it wasn't just black fans upset. It was also the haters trying to drag her down.
Wendy's arguably one of the best vocals in kpop. When you're good at something and at the top, there's always someone trying to knock you down!
Do these people even know the definition of racism. Like wtf. The whole backlash about Wendy just confused me because even without knowing the fault in translation, I still was just thinking "okay? And this is racist how?"
I honestly thought the Wendy hate would stop by now. When that whole scandal came out about her being racist, at first I was shocked and didn’t believe (me being a abw Kpop fan) I but I got over in a week tops. Wendy isn’t racist and I don’t know why people are still bashing her. All through their 2018 comebacks, I was worried about Wendy’s weight because you just saw her getting smaller and smaller. I hope Wendy learns to love herself again and finds that healthy balance! ❤️
While americans make jokes about nuking and even of themselves, but Wendy can't talk about the behaviour of some girls IN HER CLASS.
she must have been so stressed going through everything. May she find a path that works for her that doesnt ruin her health.THANK YOU FOR THIS AMAZING PART TWO
Wendy: *gains weight
Fans: OMG SHE'S SO FAT!! SUCH WEIGHT SHOULDN'T BE ALLOWED
Wendy: *loses weight
Fans: OMG SHE'S TOO SKINNY OMG I CAN SEE YOUR BONES EWWWW
Wendy: *back to normal and did some impersonations
Fans: OH MY GOSH A RACIST!!! Y'ALL SEE THAT?! A RACIST!!!!!!!
I feel so sorry for her. She receives so much hate yet she still manages to put on a bright smile on stage like nothing. As a Reveluv, my heart breaks for her T^T. Tbh I'm satisfied as long as she puts in 100% in every performance! We really shouldn't give our opinions on other ppl's weight... If she feels confident being skinny, let her be skinny, vice versa.
It's not even her fans, its a company that slaves idols to the bone
@@movielover6840 I should've written the "general public" instead of fans then. I'm sure these people's words affect the company's decision, which leads the company to think "AiGhT it's time to starve you, so that'll shut the haters up"
I think the fact that Wendy was asked from people on the show was already a sign that it wasn't the gir'ls fault. I mean of course, I don't think the impression was a good idea, but we have to remember she's in Korea and they are very strict about the hierarchy system they have. Most likely if she hadn't answered, she'd be scolded by many people, and I'm sure a lot of you already know how many of SM's managers are like... plus, some of y'all acting like you don't laugh and make racists jokes. I'm not saying she's completely innocent, she could be a racist, who knows.. but I'm not saying y'all are angels either.
exactly and in korea it's expected of women to do what they are asked and if they do what they want ex: jessi they get called rude and snobby.
Exactly. Most of the people talk like if they knew the country she lives in and also her position, aplying their own culture 'rules' and mindsets.
She lived in america so she knows what she said was wrong. I think we all were dissapointed when she said that, however it doesn't mean everyone has the right to send this much hate towards her.
No, I'm justifying her but I'm just saying that she's a human like everybody else, she makes mistakes, and also have feelings and just because she did say something wrong y'all have the right to do the same and worse... The fact that she is an idol =/= she's perfect. But obviously, is easier to judge when the one who made a mistake is famous and you are behind a screen.
They were on a variety show
Even if she is. Who cares. She’s literally not harming anyone. People over analyze and take every single comment at heart. Racism is thinking their race is better than others. And she did nothing of that sort. Nor did she commit bigotry.
@@fullsun2236 she lived in America 10 YEARS ago. Things were alot different then. People werent as sensitive as they are now.
this makes me cry,,,, i went to the red mare concert in LA and on day 2 the western fans were yelling their heads off whenever wendy came on. she had so much love at that show it makes me sad she doesn’t receive that love all the time. her weight loss/gain is really sad to me. she’s constantly been fighting since the beginning and she’s for the most part so secretive about it, like anyone with a eating disorder is. but joy laughs out of stress when wendy says she plans to gain weight again, joys virgo ass knows that wendy is unhealthy and if she keeps pushing there really will be a black hole in red velvet because your idol will be dead.
Wendy is my favorite member of the group. She is super talented and I wish she could showcase her talent more often. I pray she finds happiness and can find a healthy relationship with food and exercise.
Sane!
Do yeri please! I know theres already a video but it isnt as in depth as your videos.
Id also like to thank you for all the efforts you put into your videos. They are extremely entertaining to watch!
tucheeseyforu :3 Yeri is kinda constant with her weight which is a good thing cause she looks great
@@clarissaacr well she made a video on jennie and joy, they are also consistent
@@avery7578 ohhh! true that! nvm sorry💓💕
@@clarissaacr its fine
1) She’s not racist.
2) she’s beautiful , people just suck.
3) Stan.
Yeah, i agree with you, i believed in her that she didnt have any intention in being racist, like, she is so kind and humble, i really love her so much
Yeah Wendy is a kind person and I really hope this stops for their future comebacks ☹️
Period
Bruh
I don’t like the hate she gets but the actions she have done were racist
Wendy's weight has been stable for the whole year so far and she seems to be enjoying herself a lot. I hope she is truly doing fine and finally found her happy place. :)
Yes, her legs are nicely muscular and her abs look nice too. I’m wondering if she is working out now and eating normally like Joy does
Well it's not just Wendy's fault, it's also SM and the fans. She probably wanted to apologize but couldn't because of SM and the fans didn't tell her what she was doing was wrong, if they did however, SM probably would've put out a statement.
And what the people did was wrong as well, inculding the fans. You went to a Red Velvet concert just to say that she's "racist." That was a whole waste of money I wish they weren't so rude. Being a black person myself, yes she did do something wrong y stereotyping how black girls and white girls are, and yes she didn't put out an apology but we still shouldn't treat her like that. We all make mistakes here people.
how can what she said even be racist, when it was said that she imitated her "classmates". so it was people she knew, how can that be racist. people just spot onngeneralized everything
i remember when the whole scandal about her joke came out and I was disappointed that she did it, but when I saw the overwhelming hate, I just never commented on anything because it was already so out of hand. I wished someone had just calmly told her it was offensive rather than tearing her head off. They all kept using the excuse that Wendy was born in Canada so she HAD to have known better, but truthfully, anyone who lived in the West back in the early 2000's probably wouldn't have because that was a really racist time especially in media, so blaming her so harshly is kinda dumb. Very famous male idols have done the exact same thing but they get a free pass 'because they're so cute uwu they don't know its bad my oppar can never do wrong,' which is so dumb. I just wish people could leave Wendy alone about her body, because I know how hard it is to find peace with your appearance when people always have something to say about your size. I hope she can be healthy soon.
Seriously. There have been Male idols who use the N word REPEATEDLY but got a free pass by I-fans as "my poppa didn't know any better". Plus many parts of Canada are not diverse.
She wasn’t born in Canada she was born in Korea moved to Canada when she was in 5th grade then came back to Korea
Ya'll just always assume everything is racist when she didn't even mock someone else's race. She just impersonated someone from her school and that's based on her memory and experience. You all need to get therapy, not her. People are getting dumber with all the knowledge in this era of time.
ikr. how can it even be racist, when she was referring to people she knew.
I agree so much lmao.
the worse thing about this entire situation was she was being playful and joking about HER OWN FRIENDS. Twitter mob is so quick to jump the gun it's so disgusting. But guess who will change their profile pic to black when an idol is driven to s**cide. Hypocrisy. They continuously called her fat, she developed an eating disorder and then she was villainized for her ED too. What the fuck is wrong with humanity??
What Wendy did wasn't appropriate but racist?? lmao please, calling every little thing racist devalues conversations about real racism that hurts people all over the world. Why are y'all hating on some girl that wasn't thinking about what she was saying and how it might offend people when there's actual discrimination going on to all races pretty much everywhere? We clearly need to get our priorities straight. Wendy should have been corrected and that should be the end of it. People aren't either saints or racists and plenty make mistakes, criticism is fine but outright wishing physical harm on her is messed up.
edit: also I find it weird that ppl call her out for not apologising? She's managed by a company that puts her on diets that are clearly unhealthy, you guys really think they're gonna let her speak her mind about this?
I feel like ppl in the west need to understand that the idol culture surrounding dieting is very toxic. Idols will be asked about their weight constantly and it's seen as less of a big deal/taboo to go on an extreme diet before a comeback than it would be in the west. This is why it might come off as insensitive or ignorant when Wendy talks about starving herself on tv or radio. The reality is she's under a lot of pressure to be thin in a culture that congratulates idols for losing weight quickly and her management doesn't help. We really shouldn't be so harsh on her because she's a product of the environment she lives in; who we really need to criticise is her management.
I honestly can't think of any time when SM has issued an apology for anything. Not even when Kangin was drunk driving unless it was for causing 'distress'. Honestly I kinda feel like SM uses gaslighting tactics when making statements. There's no way that they would let Wendy apologise in their normal style because that would require a lengthy statement.
I'm black. From America. Wendy's still my bias 😄😄😄
Henry who is also under SM ent. made a whole apology video for his insensitive remarks about blackface so...
@@saybah2585 Henry is a senior in the company and Wendy is part of the last girlgroup to come out of SM. I think is also important to have that in mind
@@saybah2585 Henry and Wendy have very different positions within SM, just because he was able to make a statement doesn't mean she can. Additionally, girl group reputations are probably one of if not the most fragile in the k-pop industry and Wendy doesn't have a large western fan base comparatively to other artists so it makes perfect sense to me that the company would want to let the whole thing blow over. They want their group to get popular in Europe/the US and an apology could stir things up more. Obviously I can't say for sure but we can't use Henry as an example to further accuse Wendy since circumstances are different.
I feel so sad for her she's so beautiful and talented she's don't deserve that i hope she's stay fine and healthy
Poor Wendy. It sucks that he has had to (and still has to) go through so much crap. She's my ultimate female bias in Kpop and I love her so much, I just want her to be well mentally and physically. People have no right to hate on her so much. I wish I could let her know how great she is and that there are people out there who love and support her.
Wendy honestly can’t win. It’s so unhealthy for her to keep up this yo-yo dieting. She should just focus on being healthy because she is never going to be able to please everyone. And she shouldn’t have to!
All of these people bringing up "This is what happens when you don't apologize", you do know that a lot of entertainment companies don't allow there idols to apologize? Unless it's a controversy effecting their stockmarket or something massive. This kind of topic isn't as big in Korea as it is in the rest of the world. That is the truth. And she was ignorant, but in no way racist. A lot of idols before her have gotten into controversies for following directions. Tzuyu from twice for example, she got a lot of backlash from waving the taiwanese flag at a talk show. Someone in the satff gave her the flag and told her to use it. But this brought in the government in both China and Taiwan and all the disputes regarding Taiwans independence and so on. But Tzuyu got the blame.
Wendy was asked to do stereotypes. She did. Many idols have talked about stuff they felt forced to do or just had to do in general in their more active years. They don't have much freedom. Every picture they post will go through someone (probably) and they can get into trouble for swearing in a live recording. If she had refused to do the stereotype, she would get backlash from her company, and from the program. Maybe even from the general public in Korea for being a difficult coworker for other people in the business. She might have wanted to apologize, but she wasn't allowed to, was what I was getting at. Taeyeon from SNSD apologized to fans directly at an airport after one of her controversies. They live such restrictive lives, and they have their faults. A lot of what they do is documented and I'm sure we all have done some questionable stuff that no one will know of because of the simple reason that no one have heard of it.
Throwing around the word Racist so much makes it lose its meaning. Being racist is thinking a "race" is less worth than another. Using a stereotype doesn't prove she thinks black people are less worthy than her, what she did was wrong, but it was far from racist. It was ignorant.
If you read my block of text, good for you. If I misspelled anything I do apologize, and this is after all just my opinion. Can't we have a discussion were we can listen more to each other and try to understand other peoples perspective and their cultures?
Also, I saw a few people saying that she never mentioned race, and if she didn't and people are just assuming she did because that's how they (not Wendy) perceive a certain group, so wouldn't that make them the racist or ignorant ones? I've seen people trying to claim that she had done it again for the third time just because she was wearing those sunglasses and trying to act cool while saying "Yo, man, what's up" with swag. Like, race wasn't mention and she was honestly just acting like her usual dorky self because she was acting cool. And girl's daily language is "Yo, man" like how some people would say "Hey bro" and more. That video was taken out of context by a fangirl of another group and it created more problems, but it made her seem ignorant herself because she was planting the seeds on trying to make Wendy out to be someone she's not. Also, the anti-fan assumed that only blacks acted like that, so it made her seem very ignorant because I'm from a very diverse suburban city and I've been around people of various races and ethnicities that act kind of like Wendy and some even acts ghetto if that's the right term. I even work with people who use "man" instead of "dude," "bro," "girl," and so on.
"Being racist is thinking a "race" is less worth than another. Using a stereotype doesn't prove she thinks black people are less worthy than her, what she did was wrong, but it was far from racist. It was ignorant." Brilliantly said!
What Wendy did was a stereotype, please DO NOT confuse that with racism. A part of her stereotype comes from ignorence but it isn't a malicious type. It's innocent and usually hurts the speakers intelligence rather than the directed audience.
Dorkis B I agree! What Wendy did was ignorant and I would never go as far as defending her actions but when looking at intentions I don’t think she meant any harm 🤷🏽♀️ In the end like you said she was the one hurt by her words rather than those who claim to be offended by it when half of the industry has done things much worse yet get away with it 🤦🏽♀️
yikes i lowkey thought that whole impersonation thing would blow over fast but i’ve seen mad people say she grew up in us/can so she ‘should’ve known better’, i don’t really keep up w/ rv so i didn’t know this was still being dragged out but damn i feel bad for her
I rarely see the racism stuff these days. Not sure why this video is rehashing it. I guess to show the stress it caused on her body.
#BlackAndSoNotOffended
it blew up because she did it once before and was called out on it
just notice how Irene seems uncomfortable Everytime that they talk about Wendy's weight
the shouting “racist!” thing was so unnecessary. I bet she was very upset throughout the whole night
Good.
@@ky9933 Will you just grow up and move on? It’s been three years.
I can name other idols who have done very questionable things in the past that can *easily* go under racism. Way more offensive than what Wendy has done. Seeing how you like BTS, remember all the colorist comments RM made in the past? “Ohh I didn’t see them (J-Hope and another member) because they were too black.” Why aren’t you calling him racist then? If you’re gonna point someone being problematic, you better acknowledge your faves’ mistakes as well instead of sounding like a hypocrite. Again, grow up.
@@galaxy_kitten95 racism age
It also just doesnt make sense if you think she is Racist why would you even go to her Concert and give her your Money
As a wendy stan, Im sobbing watching this. She went through so so much. Still antis like to hate on her as if they know anything about her. She's the sweetest kindest of all..
all this time i thought knetz were the worst... congrats america, you're on the top now too! man some people get so salty over a joke. also stereotypes aren't always racist, people just need to get a life
dont @ me, I'm not talking about all american kpop fans, some of y'all are amazing but i won't assume knetz are the worst anymore.
wendy deserves the world, i hope she gets better and is able to stabilize her health asap
Dear ReVeLuv please refrain from commenting on Wendy's weight (or hair for that matter)... you may be concerned about her health, but I think she and the other RedVelvet members can approach the situation with more sensitivity and deal with the situation better❤
*Instead, let's remind her of how amazing she is and what she means to us!*
She went through so much. She try hard to gain her confidence bcs of Vocal nodules, weight issues bcs of hate comments and now her accident makes her lose all the confidence back. Please showers her with love and support since she's already return 🥺🥺💙
Wendy has had such an incredible year. Her weight has been stable, she is smiling more and seems very confident.
The camera really does add weight, I saw them June 2018 and they're normal looking, but still pretty tiny. When you see people in real life, you don't think much about their weight or how they look, but online it seems like that's all people talk about.
I can't understand why those fans criticize a main vocal for her visual and apperance rather than praising her perfect vocals!
I saw the video of Wendy that everybody is calling racist and as a black girl I didn't have a big issue with it 🤷🏾♀️
People get so freaking butt hurt over nothing. I feel so bad for Wendy.
I’m always so excited to watch your new videos ^^
Wendy is literally the most skilled and talented vocalist of the 3rd generation. What does it matter what her body looks like? Her voice earns her the spot in Red Velvet by itself. There would be no Red Velvet without Wendy. She carries the group so much vocally and the reason they can do all those crazy things in their songs is because Wendy can support it. Every member of Red Velvet is talented, pretty and deserving of respect and adoration. Remember ignorance does not equal hate and people can always learn and reflect.
I love her voice and singing technique so much. I don't really care how she looks, I just want her to be healthy and confident about herself and her worth. This situation makes me really sad.
Same.
The vocals are my main focus and I hope she's happy and healthy as well!
western fans saw Wendy as racist and in response were racist themselves? Seems legit
leave wendy alone ☹️ she doesn’t deserve this hatreds
Wendy never offended african-americans, she was talking about HER FRIENDS. People are very sensitive nowadays.
yes she did
Americans calling her a racist like Americans aren't some of the, if not the, most racist people out 🤣🤣
I have to agree with what you said about how other ethnicity's tend to 'stereotype' other ethnic groups. Honestly at this point I feel that it's just a hate bandwagon and there really is no reason to get mad imo. From what I've seen and feel, any starter pack for any race or ethnicity's is the same as Wendy stereotyping her white and black friends.
I feel so bad for Wendy...
I love her no matter her weight.
I am absolutely disgusted. People who say things like "she deserves to be assaulted" are doing things far worse than her. Sure, it might have been a bit ignorant and inappropriate to be broadcasted, but are they saying they don't have stereotypes and make jokes like that with friends? What escalated from that was even worse. Why drag her body into it? It's completely unrelated and hurtful. Can you imagine if those comments were from the mouth of a kpop stat broadcasted on tv? People should understand the impact of their words more. I'm glad the Korean fans stood up to her at least. Wendy you deserve much better.
I hope Wendy continues to be healthier and find a nice balance for her and her fans. In my personal opinion, mental health has to contribute to life to and the fans can help her with that. Getting criticism like that is not good for her mental health and will make her continue to have bad thoughts about herself. I do think being racist was her fault, but it wasn’t entirely her fault, after all, the hosts did ask her to imitate her classmates. I understand how many people felt offended after her imitation, but you have to admit we’ve all been racist at least once in our lives. Wendy honestly does not deserve hate and neither does anyone else, idols are human too and they should be able to live like us, no boundaries, but idols are seen as perfect and should be role models. I hope Wendy continues to grow and learn to love herself. ❤️
Wendy is my bias no matter what she's a human you know she can make mistakes so don't blame her, i love healthy and chubby wendy and she's pretty people hate her for something from the past it looks like they can move on. So guys please stop this you don't even know what your comments can make imagine if one of this days we receive the news that wendy has died or that she has depression and leaves Red Velvet that can cause it to dissolve too so think a bit please thanks for reding this.
Wendy is my bias and I’m always worried for her I just hope she is happy and won’t let the haters pull her down!! She is so talented and she’s my role model!!
the member look uncomfortable whenever an interview ask wendy's weight or diet
Thanks for the making the video and I hope it sheds a better light on her. Also, I think something you forgot to mention or perhaps you’re not aware of is Wendy rarely goes home and shes just met up with her family for the first time in 8 years. Her parents had come to visit her once for their first tour in 2017 but after that she hasn’t spoken about them much and you can really tell it takes a toll on her as much as the vocal cords issue.
I’ve only recently really gotten into red velvet and before that I was a casual listener and I watched a lot of their videos but Wendy was always that one member to catch my eye and literally captivated my heart. She’s been getting a lot of positive attention these days and I hope she pulls a "Joy" soon, accepts herself as she is with the flaws and ends us all with her personal charm. She’s an amazing person really, and I hope the fandom continues to grow and support her even more.
My weight loss/gain is almost identical to hers: yo-yo dieting,low self steem for my natural bigger physic(i'm latina,i am curvy naturally),bulimia and i hope she gets the help that she needs,she deserves better
I suffer from an eating disorder and it is the most torturous and horrible thing to possibly deal with daily. There’s no running away from it or getting rid of it overnight. I am hoping Wendy and I can prosper this year and say goodbye to our eating disorders
new rv/kpop fan here. kinda furious that wendy got all the hate that she did. i really like her and i want to keep on liking her for a very long time. i can't imagine losing her to depression.
I love how people attacked her for being racist but when they are making fun of kpop and asian people it is absolutely ok
western fans are so much worse they will tear you to pieces and just don't know when to stop honestly as a person and being black i didn't find her actions at all offensive and people just overreacted .
dude facts. i’m black too and i don’t think it was a bad as people say it is. it was literally just a stereotype thing but people blew out of proportion. this isn’t even peak racism. there’s many other celebrities who have said way worse than wendy ever will but they get mad over small shit like this and then brand her as the worst human being in existence.
As a black fan I was so sad seeing the hate (how ironic) that Wendy was getting then. If other black ppl think that was racism then we are lost as a community.
Wendy has gone through so much. She got so much hatred and criticism from K-netz over her weight and developed an eating disorder from it. She then gets shamed for the very body that they made her get. When she finally begins to heal, she gets beat down again for a spur-of-the-moment comment. She got constant shit from international fans, once again body-shamed just for existing. No wonder she began yoyo-dieting under that constant pressure. Not to mention she's gotten injured twice these last few years. She doesn't deserve any of this at all. I really hope she distances herself from all the hatred and recovers for good.
Looking back again on this video, y'all people who attacking her appearances instead of her attitude is simply the people who pulled the eyes far back to the side of their face to imitate the Asian people and simply had yellow fever too. That selfish of her didn't give any of y'all the validity to talk about her body weight and her image. If you want to fight, fight with dignity, not with being twit. Useless
(Do people really hate Wendy because of the controversy or do they use that reason to hate her because they actually just don't like her in general and want to ruin her and RV or is it both or is it because by mentioning her in their comments and posts, they know they will receive attention from both sides of the spectrum, in which there are people who either hates her or loves her?) I have also noticed that there are people who claim that they don't like Wendy (some don't even know her or how she looks like and some only knows how she looks like but don't know who RV is) and they irritate me because they're usually always saying "I would stan RV if Wendy wasn't in it" but you already know that they weren't going to stan RV in the first place because they only talk about RV if it's about a scandel or Wendy, and some only knows how Wendy looks like, but don't even know how Irene, Seulgi, Joy, and Yeri looks like....
Furthermore, I noticed that one reason people use as an explanation to continue to hate on Wendy when her fans come to defend her is by saying that she should of known better because she studied and lived abroad in the USA and Canada compared to an idol who has never studied or lived in another country outside of S.Korea. I don't want to assume this is why she continues to get hates and threats repeatedly over and over, but seeing not many people do the same to idols who has done worse than her because they've only lived in Korea and are assumed to know nothing about social issues outside of Korea is really ironic because I'm an I-Reveluv and there still are peope here who are born, raised, or is/had studied in the USA that is not educated about race even though it's 2019... In conclusion, I think people are really selective when it comes to who's cancelled or who deserves the most hates and I think we as a society have a hard time identifying between racism and ignorance and coming into agreement of who is really racist or ignorant. Also, if you hate her then that's fine because it's your right to do and think however way you want, but it's the same for fans who are sticking with Wendy and giving her their love and support.
I’m somewhat confused. Please correct me if I’m wrong. Didn’t Wendy to the impression one time and receive backlash? I can see people forgiving the one time, but didn’t she do it again and that’s when she really got hit with the criticism? I mean, once is bad, but can be understood and forgiven with an apology. But twice after you’ve been told it’s offensive, didn’t explain or apologize, and being Canadian she should know the negative connotations of the actions. I don’t understand why she didn’t see this coming or simply declined and took that time instead to educate the panel. It appears to me the criticism is valid, however, the threats, bullying, and body shaming are not.
Yes. This whole comment!
Wendy, the sweetest most genuine girl, who sings for her fans cause she doesnt know how to express her love and always gives her 100% on stage, doesnt deserve all this. Im so disappointed in all the mindless comments people made about her.
when can international fans realize that being fat isn't a good thing in korea??? pushing your idols to match your/western standard doesn't make them being loved in their own country, just wish that they're eating healthy and done. remember, skinny shamming is a thing too
It is not ok to wish harm on someone - that’s just sickening and she didn’t even have bad intentions when making those comments? I’m so sick of the horrible horrible people on this planet
Okay no.
1. racism is not just about looking down on someone, it is about perpetuating untrue stereotypes about a group of people (which Wendy absolutely did)
2. Yes, westerners do this often, but they are met with the same backlash as Wendy because their actions are WRONG
3. I cannot say for sure that people did not take this as an opportunity to stereotype Koreans, but that does not justify her actions
As someone who grew up in America/Canada, I find it hard to believe Wendy did not understand the criticism that she would meet from that joke. America has a long history of racism, and many are extremely sensitive about the subject.
As a public figure, her actions need to be chastised if they are wrong. She sets an example of what is appropriate for her fans. If her actions were not criticized I would be concerned because it would send a message that it is okay to perpetuate untrue stereotypes.
I do not think the harshness of the criticism is justified, but to say that the joke was not racist is a blatant lie.
2021 : THE QUEEN IS BACK AND NO ONE CAN FCK WITH HER ANYMORE 👑
People legit gave Wendy an eating disorder and they're ignoring it
When joy gained weight fans were quick to defend her against the harsh comments and netizens, when wendy did, NO ONE stood up for her. Solo stans are annoying.
No hate for Joy
I love RV ❤️
some international fans are quick to call out any idol for a small mistake that they probably didnt mean but still be fetishizing our men and acting like koreaboos. (an example is that youtube channel Kmusicandblackwomen which not only fetishizes asian men but also in some cases underage idols)
I found it saddening how haters say it's stupid for her to post her dangerous diets when she wants them to know " this is how far I'll go to please you but yet you still don't accept me for the way I am"
the word racist gets thrown around SO MUCH it’s actually insane. what she did was racial ignorance, not racism.
criticize her actions, cause that was what got her in trouble but her weight or overall appearance has nothing to do with her behavior
It’s actually disgusting the things people say to others. Just in general. How can you be so hateful? I’m shocked. It’s disgusting. No one deserves this sort of nonsense. And then they’re surprised when idols come out saying they have depression and/or other mental health issues. When you were writing that horrendous comment, what did you think was going to happen? They’re humans, they have feelings. Stop being monsters. Fix yourselves.
tbh just my opinion but she just looks so much happier and honestly dances better when she has a little more weight on her, but shes always beautiful in my eyes. Shes amazing and no one should make her feel like she needs to lose so much weight to be so.
I love how Taeyeon called out their manager. She knows what the company’s trying to do. ☹️
My god. This breaks my heart so much. After all this hate and bullying from the "fans" she still laugh at us with a big and heartwarming smiles. She is so strong and we don't deserve her. I love her and I don't care if she gains or loose weight. Just want her to be happy and love herself..
I agree that people shouldn’t of brought Wendy’s weight into this issue, I understand how international fans could of be offended and disappointed in Wendy, considering she has done this on two separate occasions, she grew up in Canada where there are more black people, in a prebut video of her singing “Halo” you can a Black girl singing in the background with two other girls, so Wendy did have black friends / knew black people, but yet she continued to push these negative stereotypes, you can make up your own mind if you think it’s racism or ignorance. But they should of never fat shamed her her weight had nothing to do with the issue. I hope that Wendy is happy and is health in 2021 and I wish the best for Red velvet.
I find it funny people only care about the stereotypical "black girl" rather than the stereotypical "white girl". Twitter stans are something else.
do a video on seulgi because im honestly so curious at how she compares to the other members she always seems so skinny but fit and healthy at the same time because of here six pack
She's naturally skinny and has very good proportions. Since she's the main dancer, I'm sure she exercises a lot too.
Thank you so much for uploading the full video!
I just don’t understand peoples obsession over Wendys body
it’s so shitty that they bashed her for being “fat” and they also bashed her for being too skinny. like????
A lot of westerners LOVE to put themselves on a high horse by condemning Knetz for being so hateful but lack the self-awareness to realize how disgusting so many of them can be as well. Pay attention to people's strong reactions to things because more often than not, it's a projection of some form. It's true when they say that what a person says of another (and/or how they say it) speaks so much more about them than the person they're talking about. I can't take any of this hate bandwagoning culture on social media seriously, man. But, of course, it's always easier to focus on others and attack them than to actually focus on yourself and self-improvement. That would require too much self-awareness for most. I really hope emotional intelligence becomes a bigger priority in the future cause society so desperately needs it.
This!!!!
I agree that the comments/imitations she did came off as ignorant and tone deaf, but she really didn't deserve such harsh treatment :((
International fans are like "I won't take time to understand your culture, but if you do anything that doesnt stick to mine I will cancel you"
People need to chill I'm black and tbh that wasn't racist at all I feel so bad for Wendy she is my favorite too. I guess some people get offended too easily
You're not black.
@@ky9933 ???
@@ilikeunicornsandbts What? You're not black, and you know you're not black, so stop claiming you're black.
@@ky9933 um ok im not even gonna bother. i'll let you have your own opinion smh
''we love an unapologetic racist 💕💕💕'' im throwing up