Have you ever noticed how someone like Alessia just radiates confidence? It’s like she has a completely different energy. I just finished reading book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”, and it really dives into how to tap into that kind of presence. Highly recommend!
0:00 Intro 1:05 The art of observation. 3:57 Emotions can blur your perceivement. 5:30 Being underestimated is the biggest advantage ever. 8:42 Analyze the handwriting. 10:43 Astrology. 14:12 Analzye the social circle. 15:53 Your body is always showing the truth. 17:33 Examine tge childhood. 19:16 Find the missing piece. 20:24 Show me your enemies and i tell you who you are.
NOTES: 1. The art of observation. First observe, then analyze. Don't do it at the same time because you will miss the details. Note everything. 2. Emotions can blur your perceivement. Don't be emotionaly attached to people you want to analyze. Pick a person you can see objectively. 3. Being understanding is the biggest advantage ever. Play dump, don't let people know ypu are observing them. Let people make mistakes while figuring you out. 4. Every emptional reaction says (reveals) something about you. 5. Analyzing the handwriting. 6. Astrology. Astro cartography. (Astra) 7. Analyze their social circle. Don't stay friends with people which morals don't align with your morals. 8. Your body is always telling the truth. 9. Eximine the childhood. Don't always choose things/people/situations that are familiar to you. Reprogram your subconscious mind. 10. Find the missing piece (by observing). 11. Show me your enemies and I tell you who you are. The truth is: we often can't stand people that are subconsciously reminding us of ourselves (parts of ourselves we don't want to admit/accept), or the people we are jelaous of (because they have something we THINK we can't have/alreday have). Love you all! 🤍
as a person whos constanly observing and analizing, this is exactly how it feels to observe. U described it perfectly, my dad inherited me the ability of observing and im really good at it. The first days of school, i always analized everybody to know who seemed to be a good person. Im so happy of being a naturally observing person
@@user-my3qi8te2d Are you a natural empath? If yes, use that and try to understand WHY they might do something. If you're not a natural empath, try really hard to see their perspective and their potential reasoning for things. When you find out WHY, the meaning soon comes too.
Actually that’s a really good life advice to observe new people first and only then start communicating with them. As a quiet child at school when I came to college I immediately started to try to make friends I was so desperate and end up in a toxic company. That’s a good lesson tho. First observe then decide whether you want to get closer with these people.
I love seeing people change. Like i love when someone changes their style and everything throughout the time.. Ik it sounds weird but i feel so good when people do this.
I mostly zone out of my surrounding... Sometimes i don't even know what are they talking about beside me.... I zone out like half of my surroundings and I'm trying to be aware of my surroundings after i realised that i keep zoning out..... This Video was so helpful aly...thanks
Know when to use this and when not. It is not a nice trait to have to always analyze the people you are around, the way you can feel their energy they will also feel that you are on guard the entire time and it will not be a comfortable experience to be around you. Think about it, it does not help you to be vigilant around friends or random strangers the entire time. Not only does it make others feel weird and hinder the connection but it will also, over time, get you out of touch with yourself and make you unhappy. I don't agree it is the most important thing to constantly try to get inside of other peoples heads. The most important thing in life, in my eyes, is to be able to just be comfortable and happy with yourself and find peace within yourself. If you're able to get to that place, that's when you've really won in life. Being able to analyze people and read their true intentions only really comes in handy in areas like a cut-throat career or dangerous environments that you know you need to be careful in. It's a great ability to posess in some contexts, but in others it is more of a disadvantage as you will slowely alienate yourself.
1:59 ......observation came to me naturally because being a quite child I was really very aware of whatever was happening around me. One of the reasons why I remember almost everything since the age of 3. By the way YOU LOOK SO GORGEOUS ALESSIA! THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO. BLESS YOU 💞
Hey my ex told me he also used to observe things growing up he's very much introverted but someone who will never take your stand, I used to request him to change few of his bad habits or things that hurts but he always used to say he forget that like texting back calling & few other things, I wanna know if that do you guys forget or just good at pretending because I'm completely opposite of this and it hurts me.
@@learningtolive284 wait i am an introvert as well and observing things and remembering minute details from the past is different from remembering to reply back or call. So, it seems like a very different issue..... if you wanna know about me I never forget texting back my loved ones or calling them if they mean so much to me and about the part of pretending, it depends on the person itself love. I don't do that. Being an observer doesn't imply on things like forgetting certain things. It seems like his problem because who knows he might be pretending to be an observer.
yeah and basically what a person did was like they nitpick on little things in between that they could emotionally react to and blow up into but if you are calm, collected aside from their emotional reactions to your pov, wish them well and let them go, thats like their own toxicity, but it shows, and better to cut off early.... this is really valuable about the observations.... people are usually surprised and happy not aware of the details but we are:) prouuud
Everything woman!!! Everything you said is soo trueee is sooo trueeee!!! I made a mistake of observing WHILE analysing,and lately bad things have been happening with me,and i know I deserve more but I'm filled with jealous people
I’m naturally really observant but I have a hard time trusting my own judgement. I don’t want to have prejudices and I don’t know how to be sure that I’m basing my analysis on my observations without emotions. My intuition tells me that I’m right most of the time because I always actively take my emotions out of the equation and dig deep to see whether I’m projecting or not, but I still don’t trust myself and doubt if I’m being objective even if I make sure I really am.
I also was used to write down what i knew about my friends, so i could eventually use it against them in a discussion. I’ve never admitted this to myself cause it really sounds creepy and rude, i know. I also used to think i was the only one. But thinking about it, i started doing that because i can’t really be mean to someone, and i’ve always considered it a weakness, so my tought was “if i cant be mean, i can at least bring topics that i know trigger that person”.
Me too. I'm ashamed of it, but it's a way for me to keep track of their mannerisms and analyse who they truly are. I have deeply complicated friendships (because we are deeply complicated people) and I need to make sure I'm not being manipulated all the time. I still let them believe they are successfully manipulating me, of course. It's my advantage.
With the body language, it relies on having a baseline read. I've gotten into statement analysis lately and have found that the results seem more substantial and follow more concrete rules, you might get into it. I think it's a little more reliable than body language but I think a combination of observational skills along with critical thinking is most likely going to yield the most accurate results....
Gruselig wie ich die letzten Tage spezifisch über das Verhalten der Menschen um mich herum nach gedacht haben und du plötzlich dieses Video dropst . Danke Alessia 🎀💅🏻
Everyone are obsessed with the looks her looks, She is absolutely stunning ngl but She's sharing the knowledge she seeked from life. Try to appreciate the real things.
thank your for this video!! im getting much more interested in astrology & psychology after this video and if you could please make a video specifically about astrology or/and the stuff u said in the video ❤
i know how to analyze people bc of my childhood but i still watched the video for more information and I benefited somethings that i actually don't know like the handwriting and how its good for me that people failed to figure out me and analyze me and this is an advantage for me , i used to hate that bc sometimes these people talk about their problems and they act like an old man who has been through a lot of bad experiences in life so they keep telling me " oh tatiana you will never understand this and that and you don't know how much it's painful 😣 " well i have very traumatizing childhood and very painful teenage years and even the time that I spentI with them like 4 or 3 years was full of bad things and we were talking everyday bc we were best friends but i have never told them about my problems bc i hate to give anyone the opportunity to know what bad things that i deal with and also to not bring negativity to the conversation , so it was hard to listen to them telling me " oh you will never understand how painful is that " because actually my life was harder than them and i was still strong even that i wasn't have any options to be happy and strong and they were have things that can help them but they were just complain . but after you said that i have advantages i realized that yeah i really succeed analyzing them and they couldn't . Thank you Alessia ❤
I know how to analyze, and almost every point you said, I naturally did it before. My issue is how I would get that information without them noticing me staring at their body language or etc.
video idea: how to present yourself authentically but also in a way to gain valuable friends and how not to lose them quickly and actually stay commited to the friendship
I loved the video! Very well explained and full of valuable insights. I'm also sharing similar content on my channel, and it's amazing to see how topics like this can inspire so many people
I want people that I love to read me lol, I want to understand eachother, I think it is best if everybody reads eachother, then we can be more careful, or help someone Idkk I dont want to act mysterious, I think I am very revealing of what I want out of a relationship from the beginning, and very open about who I think I am
Hi Alessia,ich mag deine Videos und du gibst einen tollen Mehrwert. Danke dafür. Ich möchte nur meinen Gedanken teilen und zwar ist es okay nicht jeden gleich durchschauen zu können, wie du schon sagst, it's a trauma response. Beobachten find ich in Ordnung, aber jetzt alles durchzuanalysieren, das ist man ja ständig unter Stress und Anspannung.
Honestly this hair colour looks amazing on her but it changed the whole vibe of the thumbnails, I think dark hair adds into the confident femme fatal vibe more
when i was listening i thought ,,hmm maybe i should start read and be interested in psychology'' you are very good at making other people interested in what u want and thats great , i also think that U have really pretty hair to be honest :], and i have a question, Since what age have you been interested in psychology?
Thank you for the video Alessia but one of my cincerns is that i might get too engrossed in psychology and behin neglect other things,i knkw its an irrational concern but my major in uni is highly demanding.
oh my god about 5 months later I thought about making files of people I found out you are a Virgo and we are soo much alike I too wanna become a lawyer i love your personality
Have you ever noticed how someone like Alessia just radiates confidence? It’s like she has a completely different energy. I just finished reading book called “The Art of Seductive Power by Juliet Arden”, and it really dives into how to tap into that kind of presence. Highly recommend!
I totally agree with you
I have to check that out now
I actually finished that book 3 weeks ago. Tactics are crazy good. I like it so much. Would also really recommend it!
Alessia's secret talent is being able to rock any hair color 🤍
Alessia giving those old 2000s movies blonde girl vibes and I'm here for it
Frrr she looks so pretty on pink
0:00 Intro
1:05 The art of observation.
3:57 Emotions can blur your perceivement.
5:30 Being underestimated is the biggest advantage ever.
8:42 Analyze the handwriting.
10:43 Astrology.
14:12 Analzye the social circle.
15:53 Your body is always showing the truth.
17:33 Examine tge childhood.
19:16 Find the missing piece.
20:24 Show me your enemies and i tell you who you are.
TYSM
❤
Ugh I adore people with this mindset. I’ve been following your channel for a long time now and you’re so intelligent and well-spoken.
no water, only structure. She cooked, we ate and now we are full. Thank YOU gorgeous!!!❤️
NOTES:
1. The art of observation. First observe, then analyze. Don't do it at the same time because you will miss the details. Note everything.
2. Emotions can blur your perceivement. Don't be emotionaly attached to people you want to analyze. Pick a person you can see objectively.
3. Being understanding is the biggest advantage ever. Play dump, don't let people know ypu are observing them. Let people make mistakes while figuring you out.
4. Every emptional reaction says (reveals) something about you.
5. Analyzing the handwriting.
6. Astrology. Astro cartography. (Astra)
7. Analyze their social circle. Don't stay friends with people which morals don't align with your morals.
8. Your body is always telling the truth.
9. Eximine the childhood. Don't always choose things/people/situations that are familiar to you. Reprogram your subconscious mind.
10. Find the missing piece (by observing).
11. Show me your enemies and I tell you who you are. The truth is: we often can't stand people that are subconsciously reminding us of ourselves (parts of ourselves we don't want to admit/accept), or the people we are jelaous of (because they have something we THINK we can't have/alreday have).
Love you all! 🤍
as a person whos constanly observing and analizing, this is exactly how it feels to observe. U described it perfectly, my dad inherited me the ability of observing and im really good at it. The first days of school, i always analized everybody to know who seemed to be a good person. Im so happy of being a naturally observing person
same, i got it from my father
Giys im new and i kinda still dont get it... even when i observe i dont know what meaning to givethese observations
@@user-my3qi8te2d Are you a natural empath? If yes, use that and try to understand WHY they might do something. If you're not a natural empath, try really hard to see their perspective and their potential reasoning for things. When you find out WHY, the meaning soon comes too.
She is becoming prettier day by day❤
I mean, she was pretty, but now gorgeous😅❤
This hair colour was definitely the move. it brings out your features OMG. Your GLOWING 💜💜
ALESSIA PLEASE BRING MORE OF PSYCHOLOGICAL STUFF 💗🎀
"stuff" is actually the perfect description of this kind of content right here
just checked out the app Astra and when I did, I looked back 😭 GIRL YOU DIDN'T TELL ME IT WAS GOING TO BE THIS ACCURATE
Actually that’s a really good life advice to observe new people first and only then start communicating with them. As a quiet child at school when I came to college I immediately started to try to make friends I was so desperate and end up in a toxic company. That’s a good lesson tho. First observe then decide whether you want to get closer with these people.
I love seeing people change. Like i love when someone changes their style and everything throughout the time..
Ik it sounds weird but i feel so good when people do this.
I mostly zone out of my surrounding... Sometimes i don't even know what are they talking about beside me.... I zone out like half of my surroundings and I'm trying to be aware of my surroundings after i realised that i keep zoning out.....
This Video was so helpful aly...thanks
The best back to school preparation.
Agree
couldnt agree more
Know when to use this and when not. It is not a nice trait to have to always analyze the people you are around, the way you can feel their energy they will also feel that you are on guard the entire time and it will not be a comfortable experience to be around you.
Think about it, it does not help you to be vigilant around friends or random strangers the entire time. Not only does it make others feel weird and hinder the connection but it will also, over time, get you out of touch with yourself and make you unhappy.
I don't agree it is the most important thing to constantly try to get inside of other peoples heads. The most important thing in life, in my eyes, is to be able to just be comfortable and happy with yourself and find peace within yourself. If you're able to get to that place, that's when you've really won in life.
Being able to analyze people and read their true intentions only really comes in handy in areas like a cut-throat career or dangerous environments that you know you need to be careful in.
It's a great ability to posess in some contexts, but in others it is more of a disadvantage as you will slowely alienate yourself.
Alessia, you're flaunting in your colour palettes 🤍💌 your hair is highlighting your divine features and enchanting your aura 💋🥀
Exactly when I'm trying to evolve this skill in me.
Timing 🔥
Alessia I SWEAR I'M GOING TO CRY. I was just thinking about the relationships in my life. And how I need to improve them and this video came up. 😭😭
1:59 ......observation came to me naturally because being a quite child I was really very aware of whatever was happening around me. One of the reasons why I remember almost everything since the age of 3.
By the way YOU LOOK SO GORGEOUS ALESSIA! THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO.
BLESS YOU 💞
Hey my ex told me he also used to observe things growing up he's very much introverted but someone who will never take your stand, I used to request him to change few of his bad habits or things that hurts but he always used to say he forget that like texting back calling & few other things, I wanna know if that do you guys forget or just good at pretending because I'm completely opposite of this and it hurts me.
@@learningtolive284 wait i am an introvert as well and observing things and remembering minute details from the past is different from remembering to reply back or call. So, it seems like a very different issue..... if you wanna know about me I never forget texting back my loved ones or calling them if they mean so much to me and about the part of pretending, it depends on the person itself love. I don't do that. Being an observer doesn't imply on things like forgetting certain things. It seems like his problem because who knows he might be pretending to be an observer.
@@learningtolive284 DON'T LET IT HURT YOU SIS, HE IS BETTER OF AS AN X.
@@learningtolive284 I don't think he's an observer, I think he's a manipulator. There is a fine line, but I think he's crossed it.
My heart has so much love and affectiom towards you Alessia. Thank you for sharing your knowledge💕
Alessia, you look so beautiful and glowing. I hope you are happy and well, this is perfect timing. Thank you for your guidance and teachings, Bless♥️
yeah and basically what a person did was like they nitpick on little things in between that they could emotionally react to and blow up into but if you are calm, collected aside from their emotional reactions to your pov, wish them well and let them go, thats like their own toxicity, but it shows, and better to cut off early.... this is really valuable about the observations.... people are usually surprised and happy not aware of the details but we are:)
prouuud
Everything woman!!!
Everything you said is soo trueee is sooo trueeee!!!
I made a mistake of observing WHILE analysing,and lately bad things have been happening with me,and i know I deserve more but I'm filled with jealous people
I've been learning Graphology for a month now! I have to say it's such an amazing skill!
What I do when I want to see through someone is look into their eyes. Eyes really says everything.
I’m naturally really observant but I have a hard time trusting my own judgement. I don’t want to have prejudices and I don’t know how to be sure that I’m basing my analysis on my observations without emotions. My intuition tells me that I’m right most of the time because I always actively take my emotions out of the equation and dig deep to see whether I’m projecting or not, but I still don’t trust myself and doubt if I’m being objective even if I make sure I really am.
I appreciate you as much as I love my big sister that never existed. Thank you and looking forward to your future videos. ❤
I also was used to write down what i knew about my friends, so i could eventually use it against them in a discussion. I’ve never admitted this to myself cause it really sounds creepy and rude, i know. I also used to think i was the only one. But thinking about it, i started doing that because i can’t really be mean to someone, and i’ve always considered it a weakness, so my tought was “if i cant be mean, i can at least bring topics that i know trigger that person”.
Me too. I'm ashamed of it, but it's a way for me to keep track of their mannerisms and analyse who they truly are. I have deeply complicated friendships (because we are deeply complicated people) and I need to make sure I'm not being manipulated all the time. I still let them believe they are successfully manipulating me, of course. It's my advantage.
Very articulate. I have had to do a lot of these things. I learned a lot about body language tho. Thank you. Keep up the amazing work.
With the body language, it relies on having a baseline read. I've gotten into statement analysis lately and have found that the results seem more substantial and follow more concrete rules, you might get into it. I think it's a little more reliable than body language but I think a combination of observational skills along with critical thinking is most likely going to yield the most accurate results....
im studying graphology, that book you recommended literally saved my life💗
I really enjoyed this video! This is probably one of the few videos I’ve watched without skipping through it ❤️
My jaw dropped when I saw the notification and dropped again when I saw how enchanting you look. ❤
Gruselig wie ich die letzten Tage spezifisch über das Verhalten der Menschen um mich herum nach gedacht haben und du plötzlich dieses Video dropst .
Danke Alessia 🎀💅🏻
Everyone are obsessed with the looks her looks, She is absolutely stunning ngl but She's sharing the knowledge she seeked from life. Try to appreciate the real things.
thank your for this video!! im getting much more interested in astrology & psychology after this video and if you could please make a video specifically about astrology or/and the stuff u said in the video ❤
i know how to analyze people bc of my childhood but i still watched the video for more information and I benefited somethings that i actually don't know like the handwriting and how its good for me that people failed to figure out me and analyze me and this is an advantage for me , i used to hate that bc sometimes these people talk about their problems and they act like an old man who has been through a lot of bad experiences in life so they keep telling me " oh tatiana you will never understand this and that and you don't know how much it's painful 😣 " well i have very traumatizing childhood and very painful teenage years and even the time that I spentI with them like 4 or 3 years was full of bad things and we were talking everyday bc we were best friends but i have never told them about my problems bc i hate to give anyone the opportunity to know what bad things that i deal with and also to not bring negativity to the conversation , so it was hard to listen to them telling me " oh you will never understand how painful is that " because actually my life was harder than them and i was still strong even that i wasn't have any options to be happy and strong and they were have things that can help them but they were just complain .
but after you said that i have advantages i realized that yeah i really succeed analyzing them and they couldn't .
Thank you Alessia ❤
Alessia, your cult needs a 40min video of you recommending your favorite books, please. lots of love 💌💝
Your videos are like ASMR to me, i can listen to you forever❤
I could listen to you talk for hours
omg your outfit and hair is giving old money aesthetic lovee itttt
OMG you look so gorgeous, i was thinking about when you were going to post again when i saw the notification.What timing!🥰
OMG YOUR HAIR IS STUNNING
I know how to analyze, and almost every point you said, I naturally did it before. My issue is how I would get that information without them noticing me staring at their body language or etc.
Gather info very gradually. Don't watch people in weird moments, do it while they're talking to you etc. They wont notice as much
This felt like a psychology class and I freakin loved it❤
I love youu and your advice is always spot on! So truthful
the handwriting thing is crazy!! i just did a test to see what mine said about me and it described me perfectly omg!
how did u do that?
Your new look is so soft 🩷✨
video idea: how to present yourself authentically but also in a way to gain valuable friends and how not to lose them quickly and actually stay commited to the friendship
been waiting for mother’s blessing
this video made me feel good. i loved it !!
Very good video and amazing hair colour 🌸 I love women like you. So smart and an independent thinker. You will go far in life
i love u so much, alessia. thanks for sharing, i got a new insight today, love u xoxo ❤
Thank you for this video. I have learned a lot from it 🙏🏻
Gorgeous and teaching us a lot of things, love that
I wish there was a “Hadesmind” channel. Where it’s similar advice, similar vibe but from a male perspective and geared towards men.
I love her so much ❤
I loved the video! Very well explained and full of valuable insights. I'm also sharing similar content on my channel, and it's amazing to see how topics like this can inspire so many people
Truly a role model
OMG Alessia you don't even know how much i love your accent and voice
and your hair is so beatiful that i can't stop looking at it.
I agree so much with the insecurities part, I have noticed that in many people online
Off topic but YOUR HAIR IS SO PRETTY WHATT 😭😭🫶🫶💓
oh girl this new hair suits you amazingly! you ate that up 🤭 (also your videos have really helped me and i appreciate you sm)
Omg, my intuition told me she might post and she did🥹🤍.
Omg I was missing you so much Alessia and I was waiting for your new video tbh. I LOVE YOU 😭❤️🥹
This video is great 🤍 Thank you for making this. I hope to see more videos like this from you in the future!
Alessia's hair >>>>>>>
💅🏻💅🏻💅🏻
💖✨🎀
I want people that I love to read me lol, I want to understand eachother, I think it is best if everybody reads eachother, then we can be more careful, or help someone Idkk
I dont want to act mysterious, I think I am very revealing of what I want out of a relationship from the
beginning, and very open about who I think I am
Girl i just miss u sending lots of love I'm very grateful to you 💞💞💞💞💋💋💋💋
U look so pretty and iconic in this hair colour. Intelligent blonde 😭💞
Hi Alessia,ich mag deine Videos und du gibst einen tollen Mehrwert. Danke dafür. Ich möchte nur meinen Gedanken teilen und zwar ist es okay nicht jeden gleich durchschauen zu können, wie du schon sagst, it's a trauma response. Beobachten find ich in Ordnung, aber jetzt alles durchzuanalysieren, das ist man ja ständig unter Stress und Anspannung.
Thank you for saving my life again
the way that i did this mostly naturally without even realizing and i thought this is normal thing that all people do
the scorpio moon sign makes a lot of sense for me
i definitely need to learn mooore about astrology and astrocartography! thank you for this video
This ideo is so helpful!! Thank you so much!
God i just love you so much ❤️!! I just stalking evertime if you posted!! Keep going
your subs always work love you!
3:06 pfft- why do we relate so much omg?!?
the fact that i know how to observe but i dont know how to present myself....
Honestly this hair colour looks amazing on her but it changed the whole vibe of the thumbnails, I think dark hair adds into the confident femme fatal vibe more
when i was listening i thought ,,hmm maybe i should start read and be interested in psychology'' you are very good at making other people interested in what u want and thats great , i also think that U have really pretty hair to be honest :], and i have a question, Since what age have you been interested in psychology?
Hey alessia, could you please make a video on psychology book recommendations?
ooooh my god Alessia this hair looks gorgeous on you!!! mashallah
omg you look amazing with this hair!!
Considering this video as my birthday gift😭💌thank you Elder sister for posting on time🌻💋🦢🐞
The timing is insane,I wanted to know about astrology
the hair is serving queen! you look like a vs model!
Thank you for the video Alessia but one of my cincerns is that i might get too engrossed in psychology and behin neglect other things,i knkw its an irrational concern but my major in uni is highly demanding.
Sis posted !!!yayyy .also tf is up with her hair? I liked miss her dark hair it suited her looked so classy like a baddie! Lol
oh my god about 5 months later I thought about making files of people I found out you are a Virgo and we are soo much alike I too wanna become a lawyer i love your personality
You talk about the most interesting things, i wuv to hear
Te veo desde Mexico, estoy impressed with your video, thank you!
Zohar hair colour, hair style, and that baby pink suit you SO effing well cult leader alessia
Ngl making files on people seems fun
😦
I just discovered your channel and subscribed. Incredible video!
Love your hair looks so fresh. But I love your black hair as well :)
omg i love u girl💗 such a pretty video!