ok but can we all clap our hands for Alessia because how she got soo much comfortable w showing off more emotions? Yes, she is still serious, but its not like in first times when Alessia just sat down and talked. Im not saying that this past "style" was bad, but when you stand, move around and even give breaks , it feels so much more alive. Maybe you can disagree, its okay, maybe I am just seeing things. Whatever is true, Alessia, I am truly proud of you and please, please, stay with us. Sending love
Aww thank you so much for seeing my progress!! 🥹 in fact I feel more comfortable now than at the beginning, it really makes me happy that you are able to see it, too. sending love back 🤍🤍🤍
i swear! i had to laugh at plenty of her statements and character coming through in this video which is generally unusual for me when i watch youtube videos. ur such a kyutie alessia. 💖
" if you are attracted to people who are in a relationship, that`s a psychological issue dear. And you should get it fixed." omggg! i have always wanted to say this to those girls around me who hit on men in a relationship and get offended for not getting attention from them
I disagree that people who have themselves as their background are bad. I used to walk by a mirror, and it could ruin my whole day. Now, I'm able to have myself as my background and I'm proud to see myself. It's a reminder of how far I've come.
you really spoke my mind. A year ago, I ended a friendship with EXACTLY THOSE kinds of people, and they still talk about me, spreading lies - it’s disgusting.
Throughout the whole video she symbolized the embodiment of reality and she's that kind of friend that know when to bring you down to the real world I love how energetic she was and how vibrant her speech influences people I love her so much
Like you women we teenagers are soo blessed to have you i was having a bad relationship with a person i couldn't get over by at the moment i did understand any thing but when i started watching your videos again i felt relief! And going back to my feminine era .
I’m so glad alessia showed her true true emotional side !!not to say that her calm serious self isn’t genuine but like the full emotion emphasises things more !!thank you for your content !!
heavy on the “well they didn’t do anything to me” when someone hurt you and disrespected you but the person you call your friend can still be friends with the person who hurt you. This just shows that your loyalty is not the same as theirs 🥺
Finally someone said something about those people who care more about their dogs then keeping people safe and respecting their boundaries - I cant stand it.
I agree with you, except for one thing! People who put their pictures as background? Maybe there are people who are arrogant or something, but NOT EVERY SINGLE one is bad. Why is it fine to put your picture as a profile picture and everywhere but it’s definitely a red flag when you put it as a background of your phone? I put my picture as a background for the first time, and not only that, I actually typed on the picture “QUEEN” 😂❤️ , to remind myself of a lot of things, and to express my love to myself and how proud I am of myself like if I was my own child, usually you use pictures of your loved ones and I chose myself, it helped me with my self-love/improvement journey. And I’m still the most humble and sweet person, I’m so loyal and caring and lovely! So remember, some signs do not apply to everyone📌.
Agreed. I also didn’t agree w the point abt influencers asking their followers to go like and comment on their posts. Sometimes the algorithm doesn’t push your content, so I don’t think there’s anything wrong w promoting it bc engagement does help (especially if you’re an artist). Just my personal opinion though. Nothing against Alessia, still love her channel. ❤
@@abenagyampo Yeah, like influencers didn’t even force people to do it! They just asked and if you liked to like their posts you can! Nothing wrong with asking for support! Sometimes I like some contents but I don’t like because I forget, so it’s good when influencers remind me
I think the top5 type of people u should stay away are: 1.narcissists - def watch youtube videos about narcissistic people and how to recognize them. Not every selfish and self-absorbed person is narcissist. They ruin your life. It starts with love bombing and they end up destroying you as a human being day by da. 2.gaslighters, downplaying - who never take responsibility for their behaviour and always minimize the damage they’ve done. Whatecer YOU want, feel or are - is not that important. 3.who never text you first - if you disappear for a week and they dont text or call - you arent their priority in life 4.who speak a lot but actions never follow - dont interact with people who promise the world but always break their promises. As little as “ill call u back in a second” and never end up doing this. 5.who ask help but never support you - some people are experts at “oh can u help me with that” but when it comes to helping you or promoting your business for free? Nah I would take just pessimistic or negative people or even fake people any day, rather deal with ANY of those TOP5 ever again in my life.
I agree with this list and the details! Influencers asking for likes aren't bad, but narcissists are. Recharging and being introvert isn't bad, but people who never text you first are. Thanks for writing this out!
i also think that people asking for likes is just immaturity and this is not something MAJOR what influences your life so much. some of her "points" for me are so first world problems not what actually ruin and affect your life@@tifamai
Your video hit close to home. Identifying toxic people is crucial for personal well-being. Thanks for the reminder to surround ourselves with positivity and distance from those who bring negativity
Wow dein Englisch ist so gut! Du bist so sympathisch und bringst es einfach auf den Punkt. Ich liebe, dass es Menschen wie dich auf RUclips gibt. Du inspirierst mich ein besserer Mensch zu werden. Danke ❤
06:00 the "i won't let him" made me laugh so hard cuz i relate to this alot because huge dogs can be abit agressive and strong and i get scared but owners r luke oh he just wants to play ~ no no no
Hi Alessia, I just spent the last 2 days watching your videos and honestly, it reaffirms many of my own beliefs, so I thank you so much for making these videos. They’re very concise and there’s no BS in them at all. I got two questions. What are three books you would recommend as a must read? Also as a man who wants a stable relationship with a woman, what must he do and must avoid doing to get a respected young lady to place her trust in him as a long term partner? If you can answer this as a video, it would be much appreciated.
Most of the time we always see wrong in others but not in ourselves, this video made me realise the things I've done before(which I don't do anymore also I'm not proud of doing it) and I what I'm doing now. It was worthy spending my time in your video +1 subscriber❤
It's truly so sad that we need to watch out for these type of "friends". I can't belive everyone nowadays is so full with hate and negativity. I can't agree more with all the things you said. That's why i only have two friends and i never managed to find more good people. It's really concerning that most people are like the ones you described because for each category you explained i could think of a person i know that behaves this way. But as you say it's better to be alone than to feel alone with the wrong people. I belive that everyone will get what they deserve one day. What you give is what you will recive.
Every time I feel down this video gives me so much good energy, I have listened it so many times, I never get bored to it! It's so powerful, but also so funny 😂❤ I really am so grateful for finding this content ❤
You have done it once again, Alessia! I’d say I’m surprised but at this point, I know what you’re going to deliver is top tier. I’m aspiring to be a psychologist one day so your videos are so inspiring!
this video really brought back memories lmaooo, especially the "if they eat in front of you when you're hungry" part. it's not really about food, but I remember how I had a roommate who would constantly put her own needs above anyone elses and constantly demand certain tasks from me, like demanding I pick up my dried clothes so she can put hers out of the washing machine.... while I was eating lunch!! like excuse me, but you don't interrupt someone's lunch like that. especially when you can wait a couple minutes till i'm done and then i'll take them away. then she told me how she and some other girl went somewhere and from her story, the other girl was taking pictures of her and she was constantly dissatisfied with the pics and demanded her to do this/do that, so her pics look better, as if her friend is a professional photographer lmaooo. it's really the little things that reveal a person's character. anyway, that girl doesn't have any real friends from what i've gathered and it's no surprise why.
SomeThing about this video so "Full filling" was that I FEEL she is being so Real, like its soo much improvement, i used to notice in her old vids, she used to sit with a "very mature " talk. And now omg i LOVEEE the wayy she is
1. People who ruin your happiness by saying stupid things 2. People who see you hungry and don't buy you food 3. People who are Influencer wannabe who thinks people owe them comments and likes or ask stupid questions unrelated to the post to get attention 4. People who get offended when your social battery is empty 5. People who cancel plans with no explanations 6. "It is not my fight" kind of people 7. People who shame you when you overdress or underdress 8. People think you are obligated to like their dogs 7. People who have a spiritual ego and think they are better than anyone 8. People who gatekeep 9. People who have toxic positivity 10. People who make fun of people's appearances 11. People who have themselves as a background picture 12. People who don't respect your personal choices 13. People who don't respect your relationships 14. People who say things like why you are so quiet or why you are talking so much 15. People who say negative comments and can't stand by their statements (cowards keywarriors) 16. People who talk abour their past relationships 17. Women who put other women down for having high standards 18. People who are unrealistic 19. People who get mad at you for having certain hobbies 20. People who make plans infront you when you are not invited
IVE NEVER EVER HEARD ANYONE SAY THESE OUTLOUD SO ALL MY LIFE I WAS GASLIGHTED THINKING THAT I AM WRONG FOR THINKING THIS WAY, SIS YOU REALLY MADE ME CONFIDENT IN MY VALUES!! ESPECIALLY THE DOG AND THE FRIENDS SITTING AT THE SAME TABLE AS YOUR ENEMY.
Thank you, i have learned few things that i can change in my behaviour to be better. I am woman with autism, and i love watching your videos to learn what things i should not accept, and things i should change. Thank you so much.
So true. Recently I began to notice the subtle way people disrespect me, and only recently did I realise that I say nothing. That both pisses me off, and gives me anxiety, because I don't want to be silent, who else will stand up for me, if not ME? exactly. Love your videos Alessia!
,,spiritual ego'' is such a good term! ive noticed that soooo many spiritual people develop a superiority complex... like it validates their judgemental and borderline hateful views.. it completely contradicts the point of spirituality 😅
I love how you have clear version of you boundaries and who you surround yourself with. I'm working on that and hope to grow up like you.Your my idol and i look up to you so so much.All the love and support from me.❤❤❤
I heavily agree on “it’s not my fight”people, my ex “best friend” use to talk to and be friends with people who hated me or talked bad about me and she would say “oh well I’ve been friends with them for ___ long and so idk” anyways long story short we’re not friends anymore but she’s still friends with the people that were talking bad about me😍😍 so learn from me babes
i just absolutely love you Alessia🎀 i agree with that & experienced those things when people call you boring for not destroying yourself with alcohol or when i like reading, you’re my rolemodel 🤍
6:16 i really agree with this part and if someone doesnt like my pet i just keep her wway but what REALLH gets on my nerves is when they keep sayobg multiple times "oh i dont like your pet, she is ugly, im scared of her" like i really dgaf if you dont like her but you dont need to keep overly say it its annoying 💀💀💀 like leave my kitty alone
I started watching u bc of the phone video and I genuinely love your energy- love u sm Alessia, wishing u success and happiness in your life ❤️ I also have some friends who are like this, and you’ve helped me realize I should prioritize my peace instead of being their people pleaser so thank you so much
THANK YOU for the comment on people who shame others for their sobriety. I can't drink and smoke due to neurological purposes and a lot of people in college didn't want to be my friend because of that. Looking back, thank goodness they weren't my friend because I'd rather not people like that in my social circle anyways!
Sis I have toxic teachers at my school. When a bully treats me badly I stand up for myself but when the teacher is a bully I don't know what to do. The school is not taking any action and my parents are not willing to change my school. I am suffering everyday and I feel my boundaries are violated and I feel like I don't want to live anymore 😢
I would love to see a video of you telling us how to deal with those kinds of people for example when being out with friends and they suddenly start talking about plans you aren‘t invited to. :))
HI ALESSIA YOU ARE RIGHT STOP JUDGING PEOPLE BECAUSE WHAT EVER YOU THINK ABOUT DOING TO ME IS A READY DONE TO YOU THANK AGAIN ALESSIA FOR SHARING ANOTHER GREAT MESSAGE 🙏🏾❤️
I seem to be strange to people arround me, because I haven't been social for many years , what to do,I try to be nice to people but they misunderstand me ... what to do
I lovw how alessia reflect upon psycological conditions and its effect on bodies.Some of us have chronic diseases and due to the medicines being consumed on behalf of that,it will show changes on our bodies.so just by saying workout or go into a diet will never change it .
i totally agree with you when you said 'i don't owe you reply' my one friend is sending me massages non stop saying that 'why are you not replying me?' 'Are you getting bored with our friendship' like seriously it making me sad.
I need some advice, I have two friends who got on a fight, I know them both since I was a kid, they both showed up for me a lot throughout my life and are always there for me. However after their fight they have hold grudges and continuesly disrespected each other a lot and they each make me feel guilty for keeping my friendship with the other party, I always tell them that I don't tolerate any conversation where they talk badly about the one another yet I'm not sure whether I'm choosing the healthiest option or whether there is something more wise to do.
Omg 😂 I have enountered every single one of these people and yes! Stay away. I had a friend who would always announce multiple times and very disdainfully to everyone that I'm drunk when I would just be happy or be having a good time. It always really bothered me but I realise in hindsight that she was very high strung and found it difficult to let loose, and me, I can be very loose. But yeah, we fell out anyway
ok but can we all clap our hands for Alessia because how she got soo much comfortable w showing off more emotions? Yes, she is still serious, but its not like in first times when Alessia just sat down and talked. Im not saying that this past "style" was bad, but when you stand, move around and even give breaks , it feels so much more alive. Maybe you can disagree, its okay, maybe I am just seeing things. Whatever is true, Alessia, I am truly proud of you and please, please, stay with us. Sending love
Aww thank you so much for seeing my progress!! 🥹 in fact I feel more comfortable now than at the beginning, it really makes me happy that you are able to see it, too. sending love back 🤍🤍🤍
❤🩹❤🩹@@Persephonesmind
@@Persephonesmindj
i swear! i had to laugh at plenty of her statements and character coming through in this video which is generally unusual for me when i watch youtube videos. ur such a kyutie alessia. 💖
I totally agree. I remember watching her first video and the difference there and in this video is amazing. I’m so proud.
Alessia's female rage for 14:44 minutes i'm SO here for it
" if you are attracted to people who are in a relationship, that`s a psychological issue dear. And you should get it fixed." omggg! i have always wanted to say this to those girls around me who hit on men in a relationship and get offended for not getting attention from them
This is epitome of woman rage and facts. We love this mother 🙏🏻🤍
I disagree that people who have themselves as their background are bad. I used to walk by a mirror, and it could ruin my whole day. Now, I'm able to have myself as my background and I'm proud to see myself. It's a reminder of how far I've come.
Totally agree
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being confident
@mmmxtyy thank you so much. I appreciate this comment a lot ♡♡ I hope you are happy and confident too
I totally agree. I have myself on my background too and Im happy of it.
Same here. There was a time in my life where I‘ve hated myself completely. I am so proud to love myself now and have myself as an background pic
you really spoke my mind. A year ago, I ended a friendship with EXACTLY THOSE kinds of people, and they still talk about me, spreading lies - it’s disgusting.
Out of nowhere "i see a squirrel" 😂 so cute 🤍
i love you mother
I love you too 🤍🤍🤍
@@PersephonesmindAAA THANK U SO MUCH u helped me so much, how to see through ppl, etc
Are you still friends with Alina😅?
Traumalympics was wild lmao 🤣
The way she kissed the squirrel i can’t 😭😭😭
The pure rage is just so understandable. I love you, Alessia! 🤍
She's literally the embodiment of the cool older sister who we never had
😭❤🛐
Throughout the whole video she symbolized the embodiment of reality and she's that kind of friend that know when to bring you down to the real world I love how energetic she was and how vibrant her speech influences people I love her so much
Thank you so much dear, I love you too 🤍
@@Persephonesmind you got my heart and I'm never bothered by your videos I can watch them the whole day non stop you are my idol
Like you women we teenagers are soo blessed to have you i was having a bad relationship with a person i couldn't get over by at the moment i did understand any thing but when i started watching your videos again i felt relief! And going back to my feminine era .
the traumalympics got me death😭😭😭 ALESSIA YOU'RE WONDERFUL, LOVE YOU
I love you too 🤍🤍🤍
@@Persephonesmind 🩷🩷🩷🩷
Can we be friends? I want new and better friends who have same mindset as mine
I’m so glad alessia showed her true true emotional side !!not to say that her calm serious self isn’t genuine but like the full emotion emphasises things more !!thank you for your content !!
mother is showing more and more emotion and i’m here for it, much love
heavy on the “well they didn’t do anything to me” when someone hurt you and disrespected you but the person you call your friend can still be friends with the person who hurt you. This just shows that your loyalty is not the same as theirs 🥺
Finally someone said something about those people who care more about their dogs then keeping people safe and respecting their boundaries - I cant stand it.
I agree with you, except for one thing! People who put their pictures as background?
Maybe there are people who are arrogant or something, but NOT EVERY SINGLE one is bad.
Why is it fine to put your picture as a profile picture and everywhere but it’s definitely a red flag when you put it as a background of your phone?
I put my picture as a background for the first time, and not only that, I actually typed on the picture “QUEEN” 😂❤️ , to remind myself of a lot of things, and to express my love to myself and how proud I am of myself like if I was my own child, usually you use pictures of your loved ones and I chose myself, it helped me with my self-love/improvement journey.
And I’m still the most humble and sweet person, I’m so loyal and caring and lovely! So remember, some signs do not apply to everyone📌.
Yes , sure we just love ourselves there is nothing to do with arrogant or sth else 😂❤
agree. especially if you have a history of hating yourself, it can be therapeutic to do something like that.
I agree with you, I am not persuaded with this point too
Agreed. I also didn’t agree w the point abt influencers asking their followers to go like and comment on their posts. Sometimes the algorithm doesn’t push your content, so I don’t think there’s anything wrong w promoting it bc engagement does help (especially if you’re an artist). Just my personal opinion though. Nothing against Alessia, still love her channel. ❤
@@abenagyampo Yeah, like influencers didn’t even force people to do it! They just asked and if you liked to like their posts you can! Nothing wrong with asking for support! Sometimes I like some contents but I don’t like because I forget, so it’s good when influencers remind me
1000% agree. Dog owners will rather curse you and yell at you than hold their dog. It's not a flex that you cannot control your dog.
I think the top5 type of people u should stay away are:
1.narcissists - def watch youtube videos about narcissistic people and how to recognize them. Not every selfish and self-absorbed person is narcissist. They ruin your life. It starts with love bombing and they end up destroying you as a human being day by da.
2.gaslighters, downplaying - who never take responsibility for their behaviour and always minimize the damage they’ve done. Whatecer YOU want, feel or are - is not that important.
3.who never text you first - if you disappear for a week and they dont text or call - you arent their priority in life
4.who speak a lot but actions never follow - dont interact with people who promise the world but always break their promises. As little as “ill call u back in a second” and never end up doing this.
5.who ask help but never support you - some people are experts at “oh can u help me with that” but when it comes to helping you or promoting your business for free? Nah
I would take just pessimistic or negative people or even fake people any day, rather deal with ANY of those TOP5 ever again in my life.
I agree with this list and the details! Influencers asking for likes aren't bad, but narcissists are. Recharging and being introvert isn't bad, but people who never text you first are. Thanks for writing this out!
i also think that people asking for likes is just immaturity and this is not something MAJOR what influences your life so much. some of her "points" for me are so first world problems not what actually ruin and affect your life@@tifamai
Your video hit close to home. Identifying toxic people is crucial for personal well-being. Thanks for the reminder to surround ourselves with positivity and distance from those who bring negativity
"SO PLEASE-...I see a squirrel..💋"
Alternate title : "14:44 minutes of pure rant on how people suck"
blowing a kiss for the squirrel was the cutest thing ever😭💕
Wow dein Englisch ist so gut! Du bist so sympathisch und bringst es einfach auf den Punkt. Ich liebe, dass es Menschen wie dich auf RUclips gibt. Du inspirierst mich ein besserer Mensch zu werden. Danke ❤
the crazy emotion of Alessia in this video is something new 😭❤!!
keep up queen !!
06:00 the "i won't let him" made me laugh so hard cuz i relate to this alot because huge dogs can be abit agressive and strong and i get scared but owners r luke oh he just wants to play ~ no no no
Hi Alessia, I just spent the last 2 days watching your videos and honestly, it reaffirms many of my own beliefs, so I thank you so much for making these videos. They’re very concise and there’s no BS in them at all.
I got two questions.
What are three books you would recommend as a must read?
Also as a man who wants a stable relationship with a woman, what must he do and must avoid doing to get a respected young lady to place her trust in him as a long term partner? If you can answer this as a video, it would be much appreciated.
I'm so happy I'm not the only man that watches Alessia 😂❤
Same❗
IVE BEEN WAITING SO DESPERATELY FOR THIS
I LITERALLY SCREAMED
Most of the time we always see wrong in others but not in ourselves, this video made me realise the things I've done before(which I don't do anymore also I'm not proud of doing it) and I what I'm doing now. It was worthy spending my time in your video +1 subscriber❤
she's so naturally funny😭😭
It's truly so sad that we need to watch out for these type of "friends". I can't belive everyone nowadays is so full with hate and negativity. I can't agree more with all the things you said. That's why i only have two friends and i never managed to find more good people. It's really concerning that most people are like the ones you described because for each category you explained i could think of a person i know that behaves this way.
But as you say it's better to be alone than to feel alone with the wrong people. I belive that everyone will get what they deserve one day. What you give is what you will recive.
Every time I feel down this video gives me so much good energy, I have listened it so many times, I never get bored to it! It's so powerful, but also so funny 😂❤ I really am so grateful for finding this content ❤
You have done it once again, Alessia! I’d say I’m surprised but at this point, I know what you’re going to deliver is top tier. I’m aspiring to be a psychologist one day so your videos are so inspiring!
Thank you dear 🤍
this video really brought back memories lmaooo, especially the "if they eat in front of you when you're hungry" part. it's not really about food, but I remember how I had a roommate who would constantly put her own needs above anyone elses and constantly demand certain tasks from me, like demanding I pick up my dried clothes so she can put hers out of the washing machine.... while I was eating lunch!! like excuse me, but you don't interrupt someone's lunch like that. especially when you can wait a couple minutes till i'm done and then i'll take them away. then she told me how she and some other girl went somewhere and from her story, the other girl was taking pictures of her and she was constantly dissatisfied with the pics and demanded her to do this/do that, so her pics look better, as if her friend is a professional photographer lmaooo. it's really the little things that reveal a person's character. anyway, that girl doesn't have any real friends from what i've gathered and it's no surprise why.
SomeThing about this video so "Full filling" was that I FEEL she is being so Real, like its soo much improvement, i used to notice in her old vids, she used to sit with a "very mature " talk. And now omg i LOVEEE the wayy she is
Gracias! Sending warm love across the miles.
1. People who ruin your happiness by saying stupid things
2. People who see you hungry and don't buy you food
3. People who are Influencer wannabe who thinks people owe them comments and likes or ask stupid questions unrelated to the post to get attention
4. People who get offended when your social battery is empty
5. People who cancel plans with no explanations
6. "It is not my fight" kind of people
7. People who shame you when you overdress or underdress
8. People think you are obligated to like their dogs
7. People who have a spiritual ego and think they are better than anyone
8. People who gatekeep
9. People who have toxic positivity
10. People who make fun of people's appearances
11. People who have themselves as a background picture
12. People who don't respect your personal choices
13. People who don't respect your relationships
14. People who say things like why you are so quiet or why you are talking so much
15. People who say negative comments and can't stand by their statements (cowards keywarriors)
16. People who talk abour their past relationships
17. Women who put other women down for having high standards
18. People who are unrealistic
19. People who get mad at you for having certain hobbies
20. People who make plans infront you when you are not invited
Preach! I agree with everything you said, thank you for speaking nothing but truths 🤍
2:45 I'm cryinggg this is so true 😭
IVE NEVER EVER HEARD ANYONE SAY THESE OUTLOUD SO ALL MY LIFE I WAS GASLIGHTED THINKING THAT I AM WRONG FOR THINKING THIS WAY, SIS YOU REALLY MADE ME CONFIDENT IN MY VALUES!!
ESPECIALLY THE DOG AND THE FRIENDS SITTING AT THE SAME TABLE AS YOUR ENEMY.
I feel like I just listened to a whole ass rant and I am really happy that you got your frustration out 🫶🏼😆
Thank you, i have learned few things that i can change in my behaviour to be better. I am woman with autism, and i love watching your videos to learn what things i should not accept, and things i should change. Thank you so much.
So true. Recently I began to notice the subtle way people disrespect me, and only recently did I realise that I say nothing. That both pisses me off, and gives me anxiety, because I don't want to be silent, who else will stand up for me, if not ME? exactly. Love your videos Alessia!
I'm telling my kids that you're my mother and their mother too!
I love all of my kids
5:25 reminds me of taylor swift's "like, can you just not step on our gowns? you need to calm down"
The red colour matching with the female rage 😫 This video was something else and made me lough so much😭 I love youuuu
,,spiritual ego'' is such a good term! ive noticed that soooo many spiritual people develop a superiority complex... like it validates their judgemental and borderline hateful views.. it completely contradicts the point of spirituality 😅
Stopp she's so real and funny at the same time I can't😭😭
Even in anger, she remains attractive and lovable .
When Alessia is in red, changes background and introduces herself that means “you better mark her words by heart ❤”
"I see a squirrel . . . 💋" I just love u haha 💕
I love how you have clear version of you boundaries and who you surround yourself with. I'm working on that and hope to grow up like you.Your my idol and i look up to you so so much.All the love and support from me.❤❤❤
Thank u, U just showed me how much I need to improve to be a better person and friend, I failed in some of these
I love this rant session because all these people annoy me so much 💕😂
I heavily agree on “it’s not my fight”people, my ex “best friend” use to talk to and be friends with people who hated me or talked bad about me and she would say “oh well I’ve been friends with them for ___ long and so idk” anyways long story short we’re not friends anymore but she’s still friends with the people that were talking bad about me😍😍 so learn from me babes
It's literally a sign! i was literally thinking about you and needed this. THANKYOU MOTHER
I love how detailed this is. You're amazing🤍😭
Mom, you taught me to stand!! Love from India 💗
i just absolutely love you Alessia🎀 i agree with that & experienced those things when people call you boring for not destroying yourself with alcohol or when i like reading, you’re my rolemodel 🤍
Facts 🔊📢📣
Finnaly some spoke about this ❤
Lots of love to you Alessia ✨️🥰
6:16 i really agree with this part and if someone doesnt like my pet i just keep her wway but what REALLH gets on my nerves is when they keep sayobg multiple times "oh i dont like your pet, she is ugly, im scared of her" like i really dgaf if you dont like her but you dont need to keep overly say it its annoying 💀💀💀 like leave my kitty alone
I started watching u bc of the phone video and I genuinely love your energy- love u sm Alessia, wishing u success and happiness in your life ❤️ I also have some friends who are like this, and you’ve helped me realize I should prioritize my peace instead of being their people pleaser so thank you so much
THANK YOU for the comment on people who shame others for their sobriety. I can't drink and smoke due to neurological purposes and a lot of people in college didn't want to be my friend because of that. Looking back, thank goodness they weren't my friend because I'd rather not people like that in my social circle anyways!
Sis I have toxic teachers at my school. When a bully treats me badly I stand up for myself but when the teacher is a bully I don't know what to do. The school is not taking any action and my parents are not willing to change my school. I am suffering everyday and I feel my boundaries are violated and I feel like I don't want to live anymore 😢
I'm laughing my ass off while taking notes 😂
2:44 that’s really how it is too !! i’m deaddd 😭😭
Mother knows best.
Thank you for teaching us!!!
I just subscribed to your channel Alessia, you’re truly a classy lady with realness and high standards I wish more women carry themselves like you do
she just described my old friends .. love you
I’ve been these kind of people before and watching your videos help me so much to realize my faults and improve as a person. Tysm Alessia
thank you, alessia. this is my signs to leave that friend
She speaks so well and savage!!❤
"Ah, I saw it, TWO WEEKS AGO"👹
I love you.
Red suits you ❤☺️ and you’re so right, i don’t know what’s wrong with people anymore.
The way you mimic them is a whole mood Alessia
I would love to see a video of you telling us how to deal with those kinds of people for example when being out with friends and they suddenly start talking about plans you aren‘t invited to. :))
HI ALESSIA YOU ARE RIGHT STOP JUDGING PEOPLE BECAUSE WHAT EVER YOU THINK ABOUT DOING TO ME IS A READY DONE TO YOU THANK AGAIN ALESSIA FOR SHARING ANOTHER GREAT MESSAGE 🙏🏾❤️
thank you for confirming some of my doubts, love you.
I loved the moment when you saw the squirrel and decided to blow a kiss towards her, it was so wholesome! 🥹🥹❤️
never forget we can't decide the people around us, but we can decide the people around ourselves.
The pure anger is so real
You got me Queen
Thank you you opened my eyes on things I was doing
This is my favourite video, missed you queen😭❤️
This was one of the best videos ive ever seen. You're successful era started from this video
Finally someone talking about these type of influencers 😭😂❤️
You are so right in everything you spoke about ❤❤❤
She made my day with this video 😂❤
Classy Queen with plethora of positivity and reality checks🥺🤗🤌🏻💯
I seem to be strange to people arround me, because I haven't been social for many years , what to do,I try to be nice to people but they misunderstand me ... what to do
I lovw how alessia reflect upon psycological conditions and its effect on bodies.Some of us have chronic diseases and due to the medicines being consumed on behalf of that,it will show changes on our bodies.so just by saying workout or go into a diet will never change it .
You're too pretty i'm struggling to focus on the actual video😭
i totally agree with you when you said 'i don't owe you reply' my one friend is sending me massages non stop saying that 'why are you not replying me?' 'Are you getting bored with our friendship' like seriously it making me sad.
I need some advice, I have two friends who got on a fight, I know them both since I was a kid, they both showed up for me a lot throughout my life and are always there for me.
However after their fight they have hold grudges and continuesly disrespected each other a lot and they each make me feel guilty for keeping my friendship with the other party, I always tell them that I don't tolerate any conversation where they talk badly about the one another yet I'm not sure whether I'm choosing the healthiest option or whether there is something more wise to do.
I love her. Watching her get so messed up was REAL. Like feels❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂
Omg 😂 I have enountered every single one of these people and yes! Stay away. I had a friend who would always announce multiple times and very disdainfully to everyone that I'm drunk when I would just be happy or be having a good time. It always really bothered me but I realise in hindsight that she was very high strung and found it difficult to let loose, and me, I can be very loose. But yeah, we fell out anyway
This is art. This is my favorite video from now on.