I have been practicing something because I always have to reply to what someone's saying because I don't want them to feel unheard and invisible but sometimes it's really draining and tiring esp with a certain friend of mine eg everytime they talk I always count 1-5 in my head. 9/10 they reply themselves or they jump into another topic. Just in case someone needs this one day 🍀
Yea I agree with u , yea most of the time ppl know what their doing whether their actions are hurting u or not but if ur like rlly close with someone and they hurted u then u should tell them that they hurted u because maybe they did that unintentionally anyways idkkkkk (sorry for bad englishhh)
Let them define themselves to you by way of their actions, you are nolonger operating under preconceived notions or passing judgment nor are you imposing your thoughts onto them, your just simply observing their process and interactions and then from that assessment your coming to a conclusion, which is based on that individuals actions. And don't be insecure, be sure of who you are, and love and respect yourself by having zero tolerance for dishonorable individuals.
To me stoicism is about inner virtue and not letting anyone increase or decrease the degree of love you have for yourself. The let them theory is about giving up control and not stressing over what you can't control
the let them theory really changed my life
I have been practicing something because I always have to reply to what someone's saying because I don't want them to feel unheard and invisible but sometimes it's really draining and tiring esp with a certain friend of mine eg everytime they talk I always count 1-5 in my head. 9/10 they reply themselves or they jump into another topic.
Just in case someone needs this one day 🍀
Wow, thanks for sharing this. I honestly needed this today.
This is great advice
Let them, and let go, let go of control. But Let life happen in peace ❤
Yea I agree with u , yea most of the time ppl know what their doing whether their actions are hurting u or not but if ur like rlly close with someone and they hurted u then u should tell them that they hurted u because maybe they did that unintentionally anyways idkkkkk (sorry for bad englishhh)
it aint bad chill. Howu doing
But it hurts
@@JackyHendry but you'll become the person you need to become
@@EMIURIOSTEtrue!!
It gets better with time and also it hurts less and it's less stressful than constantly trying to control others even if uts for their own sake
Get hurt the either way
I love the way you talk and make it claire ❤ love u girl
Let them define themselves to you by way of their actions, you are nolonger operating under preconceived notions or passing judgment nor are you imposing your thoughts onto them, your just simply observing their process and interactions and then from that assessment your coming to a conclusion, which is based on that individuals actions. And don't be insecure, be sure of who you are, and love and respect yourself by having zero tolerance for dishonorable individuals.
perfect timing. had this karmic classmate.
I'm loving hearing and moreso experiencing your words, really wise ✅
thank you!!! :)
Love this, thank you so much for making this
Facts. Really loved your video❤
thank you :)
The I wanna be yours outro is everything I think 💋
Great video ❤ very much needed
thank you 🤍
Great message. Thank you.
thank YOU
Thank You 😊
How can I fully become like this? I mean how to practice
Morw of this❤
Wanna be yours😮 my fav song♥️
This is literally stoicism tf
To me stoicism is about inner virtue and not letting anyone increase or decrease the degree of love you have for yourself. The let them theory is about giving up control and not stressing over what you can't control
fixed my bpd to be honest
Real, but in my case (girlfriend)
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Hey Emi Very great video! btw I'm a thumbnail designer and I could help you grow faster by designing em!