'Sexually Confused' Man Murders Two Police Officers in Ambush | Nicholas Brutcher Case Analysis

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  • @LKre-vi5oq
    @LKre-vi5oq 24 дня назад +184

    Sexually confused? This guy was confused, desperately, on multiple levels. Full blown psychopath.

    • @JerdMcLean
      @JerdMcLean 21 день назад

      Stop making fun of his sexuality you racist.

    • @geeksworkshop
      @geeksworkshop 21 день назад +10

      Repression will twist the mind

  • @Polyphemus47
    @Polyphemus47 24 дня назад +482

    He was confused in many more ways than 'sexually'.

    • @aarondavis8943
      @aarondavis8943 24 дня назад +38

      Yes, being "confused" about your sexuality doesn't remove all self-control and empathy and turn you into a maniac.
      Also I don't think confused is the correct terminology. He was full of shame and fear lest his friends discover that he was a fake person.

    • @cobracommander9138
      @cobracommander9138 24 дня назад +7

      @@aarondavis8943 How do you know he was in fear that his friends were going to find out? What friends?

    • @po4ti4to
      @po4ti4to 24 дня назад +10

      but sex is the instinct basis of all other behavior

    • @BBefore-mn1jz
      @BBefore-mn1jz 23 дня назад +7

      I think he was looking for a target

    • @DottieMinerva
      @DottieMinerva 23 дня назад +8

      I’m confused about the women letting him knock them up. Must be a small town.

  • @mlovmo
    @mlovmo 24 дня назад +527

    Personality disorder. The Army caught it and refused him.

    • @woooooooo9061
      @woooooooo9061 24 дня назад

      Personality disorder? It’s actually called being a violent scumbag. It’s not a mental disorder.

    • @Jeff-sp7bg
      @Jeff-sp7bg 24 дня назад +23

      Everyone has a personality disorder

    • @adamschrader328
      @adamschrader328 24 дня назад +104

      @@Jeff-sp7bg No they don't.

    • @tomcollins5112
      @tomcollins5112 24 дня назад +9

      How were they able to catch it?

    • @kylek29
      @kylek29 24 дня назад +36

      ​@@tomcollins5112 They do more than just physical screening, they need to know if someone will be more of a liability in the field.

  • @suitejodi
    @suitejodi 24 дня назад +351

    This happened in my dad’s hometown. That guy stood over those two shot officers and assassinated them, disgusting.

    • @susanmann5286
      @susanmann5286 24 дня назад +17

      How terrible!!!

    • @wpeniche
      @wpeniche 24 дня назад +33

      Oink oink

    • @georgedudleysashtray3860
      @georgedudleysashtray3860 24 дня назад

      ACAB

    • @Nadezhda1932
      @Nadezhda1932 24 дня назад +24

      @@wpenicheGTHU!!

    • @marshamacmillan
      @marshamacmillan 24 дня назад +6

      Your dad lives near my city. I live in Waterbury. I don't remember hearing about this when it happened, but shooting is unfortunately common. I hear gunshots where I live. Uncomfortably close.

  • @johanslabbert2869
    @johanslabbert2869 24 дня назад +492

    Hats off to the officer who survived, what a terrible situation to have been in.

    • @cobracommander9138
      @cobracommander9138 24 дня назад +12

      He at first ran like a coward and let his buddies get killed. But then after getting some distance he did man up and comeback into the fight. The other cops harassed and ridiculed the shooter and created the whole situation and then clocked, shift change.

    • @bentleyrv6
      @bentleyrv6 24 дня назад +9

      Yeah and if you've seen the video he takes him put with one shot

    • @bentleyrv6
      @bentleyrv6 24 дня назад +11

      ​@@cobracommander9138dude was talking hella sh!t back. Got his friends killed. He gets to live with that.

    • @cobracommander9138
      @cobracommander9138 24 дня назад +11

      @@bentleyrv6 The short cop that pushed the guy and just kept poking at him is just going to play the victim. I don't think he is man enough to own up to the fact that he set the whole thing in motion.

    • @paulc-xj9ck
      @paulc-xj9ck 24 дня назад +7

      Watch the actual and complete interaction with the police. The is a very biased report. Completely one sided.

  • @christopherortiz9330
    @christopherortiz9330 24 дня назад +313

    He was born in 1987 but looks like he was born 20 years before that.

    • @bru9
      @bru9 24 дня назад +61

      Hate and alcohol abuse does that

    • @Jeff-sp7bg
      @Jeff-sp7bg 24 дня назад

      Police get real comftorable bullying the public. Sometimes they forget theres some heavily armed civilians out here that wont hesitate

    • @denisecounts5381
      @denisecounts5381 24 дня назад +12

      You got that right...

    • @venderstrat
      @venderstrat 24 дня назад +6

      Yes. 1967 'The Year of Love'.

    • @barneyronnie
      @barneyronnie 24 дня назад

      He's an example of nebuchadnezzar's failure to engage in straighthood.

  • @martinswiney2192
    @martinswiney2192 24 дня назад +31

    Cop made one hell of a shot being wounded and the distance in the dark. Marksmanship has been lost on most people these days.

    • @TheVirtualOz
      @TheVirtualOz 16 дней назад

      based on what? you just pulling shite out of your ass lol

  • @robertstone9988
    @robertstone9988 24 дня назад +149

    How can this dude have 2 girl friends and i cant seem to get 1?

    • @dawnpence3248
      @dawnpence3248 24 дня назад

      @@robertstone9988 must be a new level of desperate in CT!

    • @cg5648
      @cg5648 24 дня назад

      The bad boys always get the women.

    • @imageword5576
      @imageword5576 24 дня назад +83

      you just have to lower your standards more

    • @robertstone9988
      @robertstone9988 24 дня назад +19

      @@imageword5576 yeah I know right lol. Given the choice between me and the obviously crazy closet loner, two wemon were like eww not you Bob.

    • @geraldfriend256
      @geraldfriend256 24 дня назад +30

      Two girls and three guys for him and not even one non- binary leftover for us to share. Lousy universe

  • @anomboing
    @anomboing 24 дня назад +48

    Something about him having two possibly pregnant girlfriends and yet his ex cant have a boyfriend is crazy business, how no one sat him down and pointed out the hypocrisy is astounding.

    • @noone-dv1jo
      @noone-dv1jo 23 дня назад +2

      Yeah but she had it with his friend

    • @kina18
      @kina18 22 дня назад +6

      ​@@noone-dv1jo So? She was his ex and not obligated to him anymore. No doubt his man baby spoiled toddler behavior is the reason she chose to become his ex. The guy was his own worst enemy. And did he really have friends? Or were they just coworkers and people he forced himself on? Can't imagine anyone wanting to hang around with such a vile person.

    • @samholdsworth420
      @samholdsworth420 20 дней назад

      I don't think there's any reasoning with morons lol

  • @dicedrice7216
    @dicedrice7216 24 дня назад +349

    First red flag: 1:18
    Everyone is just posing with an historic gun as a stunt, but he's pointing a pistol directly at the camera.

    • @Larry-xz9vg
      @Larry-xz9vg 24 дня назад +68

      dude is insane AF

    • @BackyardButcher
      @BackyardButcher 24 дня назад +46

      Yep, you don't point that shit unless you're using that shit... This man is nuts

    • @marctitus5874
      @marctitus5874 24 дня назад +21

      Those aren't historic weapons. There seems to be an MP5 variant, Remington 700, in AR-15 and such.

    • @whateverwhatever4026
      @whateverwhatever4026 24 дня назад +11

      ​@@marctitus5874"Historic" is a pretty loose term...

    • @BarberossaThePirate
      @BarberossaThePirate 24 дня назад +56

      Combat vet, used to be a RSO on the range. Huge red flag. Never point a firearm at a person unless you intend to shoot. Any real soldier knows that.

  • @Masterho310
    @Masterho310 24 дня назад +297

    When a self described “tough guy” can’t take an L.

    • @xXBlackHawksXx
      @xXBlackHawksXx 24 дня назад

      But can take a D

    • @skiak004
      @skiak004 24 дня назад +36

      trump

    • @knoo23
      @knoo23 24 дня назад

      But can take a D

    • @Nobody85746
      @Nobody85746 24 дня назад +10

      ​@@skiak004 one can't have two masters you'll learn to hate one and love the other.

    • @Jeff-sp7bg
      @Jeff-sp7bg 24 дня назад +24

      Orange Jesus cant return soon enough. Trump 2024!

  • @jerrodsonger2869
    @jerrodsonger2869 24 дня назад +114

    His question “are you proud” was directed at officers. During first contact the officer was poking at him saying I bet your parents are proud. That’s where that came from

    • @sweeabn6736
      @sweeabn6736 23 дня назад +20

      In that statement the cop made, this whole thing was touched off. Sometimes, when you poke the psycho - its not good.

    • @newworldgrover8588
      @newworldgrover8588 22 дня назад

      @@sweeabn6736one to noggin’ stops that…

    • @BeardLAD
      @BeardLAD 22 дня назад +19

      This is why people have to teach themselves humility, otherwise you are at risk of trying to provoke or be provoked, by: pride

    • @S-L-C-03
      @S-L-C-03 20 дней назад +8

      Well maybe they shouldn’t of spoke to em like that then.
      Not what cops are even supposed to act like anyway.

    • @Peter-zg3em
      @Peter-zg3em 18 дней назад +2

      @@S-L-C-03you sound slow.

  • @cg5648
    @cg5648 24 дня назад +40

    He was on the same high school football team as two other guys who murdered someone. One was Aaron Hernandez.

    • @high_maintenance
      @high_maintenance 15 дней назад +4

      Interesting. Wonder if the hs had lead paint or asbestos

    • @knowyourlove5613
      @knowyourlove5613 15 часов назад

      Interesting the Hernandez case also involves bi. I wonder if there’s a coach or somebody who abused these guys.

  • @esteemedmortal5917
    @esteemedmortal5917 24 дня назад +144

    Ambushes are so despicable. Those officers were just doing their job and they weren’t even the officers that he interacted with earlier. He just wanted to act out his rage and take it out on others. Probably wanted to die too but some people can’t do that without taking others with them.
    At least he was so drunk he f’ed up his weapon and the surviving officer was able to take one hell of a shot.

    • @warrenlewis3977
      @warrenlewis3977 24 дня назад

      That's the excuse you ass kissers always use..."just doing his job".

    • @Mutantcy1992
      @Mutantcy1992 24 дня назад +25

      Seriously, people who know guns know how incredible of a shot that is under stress and after already being shot yourself.

  • @nottooherbal
    @nottooherbal 24 дня назад +54

    Lots of people out there, confused or not looking for an excuse to use their weapons .

    • @Lorentz_Factor
      @Lorentz_Factor 22 дня назад +1

      There's a lot of supposition by this so-called counselor or whatever he is but the reality is that the guy doesn't show any evidence of being confused about his sexuality. It's as if He's completely ignoring that sometimes people just sex with either. It's also not indicative of toxic masculinity anything that was described.
      This whole analysis is oddly...off

    • @DGillian6406
      @DGillian6406 15 дней назад +1

      @@Lorentz_Factorgrindr=gay

    • @themathslady988
      @themathslady988 8 дней назад +1

      ​@@Lorentz_FactorI don't think you listened properly. His friend said that he exhibited characteristics of toxic masculinity. And he kept on installing and uninstalling the app. He did not come out as gay or bisexual, but kept his preferences secret.

  • @RullXov
    @RullXov 24 дня назад +203

    I watched the entire police bodycams of this incident, it was difficult to watch. The police that made the traffic stop seemed totally inept. Texas cops would have handcuffed both of them about 90 seconds after the stop, arrested the driver for DUI and the passenger for interference.

    • @pamelastevens1609
      @pamelastevens1609 24 дня назад +17

      Probably following Connecticut policies

    • @fedup7416
      @fedup7416 24 дня назад +20

      I'm thinking they were afraid of a physical confrontation with him, so they chose to let him go instead.

    • @uhoh7541
      @uhoh7541 24 дня назад +25

      ​@@fedup7416 Nicholas was a large man, but was heavily outnumbered by police during the intial traffic stop. They had more reasons to arrest him (and use tasers) than i can easily list and their 'inaction' cost two innocent lives 😟
      I think there's more to the story in regards to why the initial traffic stop was botched so horribly.

    • @ilikepushrodv8s210
      @ilikepushrodv8s210 24 дня назад +12

      It was a weird interaction. Amongst all the tough guy talk one cop tackled him in a playful manner.

    • @uhoh7541
      @uhoh7541 24 дня назад +19

      I saw the whole video myself and could not understand why the officers acted like they did. It feels like there is more to the story in regards to that botched traffic stop. They had plenty of reasons to arrest him and legitimately use their tasers during that stop. Looked like a Reno 911 episode at certain points.
      Unfortunately two innocent men lost their lives because of this 😢 RIP

  • @Swansong321
    @Swansong321 24 дня назад +55

    escalation was CRAZY..how life suddenly takes a turn you never thought..you never know what you are dealing with unfortunately

  • @mikelobrien
    @mikelobrien 24 дня назад +31

    I live in Connecticut and at one time lived on that road in Bristol. I remember my shock in hearing of the ambush and the shooting and killing of the police officers. It was a tragedy that will never be forgotten. Mental health issues need to be addressed when loved ones see them, especially when known substance misuse is involved.

  • @richardaaron4454
    @richardaaron4454 24 дня назад +50

    Alcohol and guns don’t mix, but I’d say there’s a lot more wrong with this person than just the alcohol consumption

  • @Qrail
    @Qrail 24 дня назад +46

    Have a nice holiday celebration, Todd & Amy. thank you for your efforts on RUclips.

  • @brendaredmond4678
    @brendaredmond4678 24 дня назад +295

    I dont think I've contacted my husdand 151 times in 37 years of marriage.

    • @PsyopAgentProvocateur
      @PsyopAgentProvocateur 24 дня назад +30

      Crazy attracts crazy I think.

    • @sammyb1651
      @sammyb1651 24 дня назад +63

      About 4 calls per year? Speaking as a man, that sounds blissful!
      You're a keeper.

    • @darthkek1953
      @darthkek1953 24 дня назад +31

      You made for a great wife but a terrible secretary.

    • @Jeff-sp7bg
      @Jeff-sp7bg 24 дня назад +10

      Thats sad. So u call him once every 4 months

    • @sammyb1651
      @sammyb1651 24 дня назад +18

      @@Jeff-sp7bg 3 months. Once a quarter.
      Sounds like an absolute dreamboat tbh.

  • @philaufan6
    @philaufan6 24 дня назад +176

    This dude was a psycho.

    • @venderstrat
      @venderstrat 24 дня назад +5

      Nice analysis. I mean 'observation'.

    • @philaufan6
      @philaufan6 24 дня назад +2

      @@venderstrat Thanks! ;)

    • @HeathenDance
      @HeathenDance 23 дня назад +2

      You don't say.

    • @philaufan6
      @philaufan6 23 дня назад +3

      @@HeathenDance Yeah just pointing out the obvious.

    • @barrybb5409
      @barrybb5409 22 дня назад

      And what of the cop that started this crap and got 2 of his buddies killed cause he just wanted to be a dick and get some overtimes hours?

  • @FatGuyinaLittleWoods
    @FatGuyinaLittleWoods 24 дня назад +84

    I saw the bodycam video. Nicholas was shoved down by one cop and got his pride hurt. The video also showed the later encounter. It wasn’t even the same cops

    • @bobsmith-ji2uh
      @bobsmith-ji2uh 24 дня назад +20

      Also the cop he’s was friendly with and asked for when they were first pulled over ended up being one of his victims.

    • @dishonoredundead
      @dishonoredundead 24 дня назад +28

      Thank you for sharing this. Dr. Grande inexplicably left that entire part out. And you're right, that's probably why he got so upset. And I didn't realize it was different cops. Their entire roadside argument was bizarre, I was hoping for insight into that, and he just completely ignored one side of it. I don't know why they didn't arrest him then and there, and their behavior was instigating as well. Not that it justifies it, just adds backstory. I don't know why Nicholas didn't use his fists then and there either. He chose to be a murdering coward instead.

    • @FatGuyinaLittleWoods
      @FatGuyinaLittleWoods 24 дня назад +20

      @@dishonoredundead it was a pretty bizarre encounter. That one cop was completely unprofessional. You don’t push down a suspect, then give him a hug.

    • @John-bu2xt
      @John-bu2xt 24 дня назад

      ​@@FatGuyinaLittleWoods Ego maniacs. Thank god the world is seeing what many have been saying. They use to get away with just sh00ting you in the back and said you resisited.

    • @mrbriceno3949
      @mrbriceno3949 24 дня назад +2

      That’s what happens to these cops when they continue to abuse people… some people have bad days weeks years… then this happens

  • @Coloradodogmama
    @Coloradodogmama 24 дня назад +21

    Nice (and correct) description of the guns, Dr. G. You must be a man of the brass. 😎💅 Most RUclipsrs don't even know the difference between a shotgun & revolver.

    • @TJTurnage
      @TJTurnage 24 дня назад +10

      @@Coloradodogmama He definitely seems to know his stuff. I’ve learned a lot more about guns here than I ever would have expected from a psychologist’s RUclips channel.

    • @acmartialarts2227
      @acmartialarts2227 24 дня назад +4

      Zesty gun lover

    • @onelifetolive927
      @onelifetolive927 17 дней назад +2

      He's gotten gun stuff right on other videos as well. He does good research and doesn't just recycle news reports.

  • @copperspartan1643
    @copperspartan1643 24 дня назад +16

    He put the magazine in upside down. 🤭

  • @glibglob8755
    @glibglob8755 24 дня назад +60

    I’m surprised you didn’t mention the utter incompetence of the police officers who conducted the traffic stop.

    • @shimmer8289
      @shimmer8289 24 дня назад +9

      They were not incompetent. Nick and Nathan broke no laws that didn't require a citation which they received. The mom drove them home. The reason the 1 officer that pushed Nick to the ground did was a person cannot get in an.officers personal space. Yet Nick tried again later and the officer remained calm but asked other officers to remove Nick. My only issue is that police depts need to change the way they deal with calls for welfare check or whatever ambush Nick created. I've seen body cam after body can of police getting killed on no knock warrants and wellness checks.

    • @willthebeast8002
      @willthebeast8002 24 дня назад +14

      ​@@shimmer8289I'm pretty sure they were drinking at the bar before driving away ...

    • @glibglob8755
      @glibglob8755 24 дня назад +1

      @@shimmer8289 everything you said is bullshit.

    • @shimmer8289
      @shimmer8289 24 дня назад +6

      @willthebeast80 I never heard anything mentioned about a dui for Nathan he got driving with suspended, and public disturbance citations. Nick got public disturbance and was threatened with littering. If the police officers failed to detect a dui on Nathan I'm absolutely sure it will be unearthed after this scrutiny.

    • @thinkingagain5966
      @thinkingagain5966 24 дня назад +3

      ​@shimmer8289 you have an awful lot to say about the situation without watching the full video, which is obvious you haven't seen. It's on RUclips

  • @jackietreehorn
    @jackietreehorn 24 дня назад +50

    His brother should have been investigated for a DUI during the initial traffic stop and he should have been arrested for disorderly conduct. None of that happened and the entire stop was nothing short of chaos. They were let off lightly because they knew one of the officers. Things could have worked out differently if not for the "good ol' boy" system of justice.

  • @TJTurnage
    @TJTurnage 24 дня назад +52

    2 minute old video and I’m already late to the party

  • @1tagardina612
    @1tagardina612 24 дня назад +23

    Nicholas' background reminds me of the intro of Idiocracy the movie

  • @Kvargkvarg
    @Kvargkvarg 24 дня назад +6

    What a tragic man. I hope no one else has to go through something like that ever again.

  • @laurac2081
    @laurac2081 23 дня назад +5

    This is my hometown. People still use blue lights outside of their homes to show their support for the police after this incident. Very tragic.

  • @breathnstop
    @breathnstop 24 дня назад +12

    Stolen Valor among other antisocial traits. Being on the down low was the least of it.

  • @guidosanchez5695
    @guidosanchez5695 24 дня назад +33

    Wow, what a jerk.

  • @doriannemosich232
    @doriannemosich232 24 дня назад +4

    Dr. OG's evaluation is epic, on this psycho. Sadly reminds me of a sibling, who has caused unnecessarily so much heartbreak is also toxic, destructive, high conflict, emotionally immature, behaves jealous hateful but hates himself the most, which are the most dangerous kind.

  • @CompleteProducer84
    @CompleteProducer84 24 дня назад +62

    The police cam footage of this is the most horrifying video on the Police Activity channel. I watched it before bed the other night and had trouble sleeping. There is just something really unnerving about it

    • @RullXov
      @RullXov 24 дня назад +5

      I saw it too.

    • @DannyDorito420
      @DannyDorito420 24 дня назад +9

      Agreed. Truly awful.

    • @PsyopAgentProvocateur
      @PsyopAgentProvocateur 24 дня назад +5

      I can’t watch that stuff, but I’m fascinated to know what the Police energy was like in response to this guy’s ridiculous behaviour.
      What context was the ‘people are proud of you’ statement made?
      Was that an attempt at building rapport and trying to get him ro reflect on how others might be ashamed of his conduct? Or a sarcastic statement or insult.
      Would be terrible if an off hand sledge was enough to make a man murder.

    • @AI_MEME_CORP
      @AI_MEME_CORP 24 дня назад +8

      The fact they cut out the beginning tells me they were in the wrong or this was avoidable by the officers in some way. The moments up to the incident are crucial; but of course "not available"... hmm.

    • @CompleteProducer84
      @CompleteProducer84 24 дня назад +9

      @@PsyopAgentProvocateur At the traffic stop, one cop said something like “I’m sure they’re real proud of you” (I forget the exact wording and don’t want to revisit that horrible video to find out, but maybe in reference to his parents being proud of him?) I think it was that very statement that really pushed him over the edge, although I’m sure he would have done an act like this at some point anyway. Then when he carried it out, he asked his mom if she was proud of him.

  • @MarlinWilliams-ts5ul
    @MarlinWilliams-ts5ul 24 дня назад +12

    Bristol was once a little industrial powerhouse; it's been in decline for awhile. Events like this is the result.

  • @carolynsilvers9999
    @carolynsilvers9999 24 дня назад +28

    Nick was OK with his faving lovers and making babies, but his wife wasn't supposed to move on with her life. How can a person be so entitled and self focused

  • @adamliska8577
    @adamliska8577 24 дня назад +14

    One clarification, he had 3-4 rifles, plus handgun, based on police photos associated with the body cam.

  • @weasellylittleliardude
    @weasellylittleliardude 24 дня назад +19

    I'm already speculating

  • @jochenheiden
    @jochenheiden 24 дня назад +24

    You left out the part about the cops, being unbelievably unprofessional during the traffic stop which likely provoked him. I’m not making excuses for this clown, but they did not help anything.

    • @thomasnapierjr4974
      @thomasnapierjr4974 День назад +1

      No they were not; STOP MAKING UP STUFF. As if that justifies his actions, which is exactly what you are doing. YOU ARE THE PROBLEM.

    • @jochenheiden
      @jochenheiden День назад

      @@thomasnapierjr4974 You didn’t watch the whole body cam did you. You should.

  • @orion6372
    @orion6372 23 дня назад +31

    Mother and brother are despicable. Both could have prevented this by warning the police before they arrived.

    • @hatersgotohell627
      @hatersgotohell627 21 день назад +7

      I'm sure they didn't know.. why would they want their brother dead.. if they knew this nate wouldn't have been around ro get shot.. the mother wouldn't want her kid killed like this

    • @ladyreverie7027
      @ladyreverie7027 16 дней назад +2

      Is there any evidence that they knew the ambush? Nate got shot, and the mother was screaming for Nicholas to stop, I don't think they knew.

  • @audralynn7454
    @audralynn7454 24 дня назад +18

    That Iron Cross on his back tells me enough about this guy.

    • @grottybt5006
      @grottybt5006 24 дня назад

      I remember it being a regular cross. The iron cross is something specific

    • @audralynn7454
      @audralynn7454 24 дня назад

      @grottybt5006 it may be a regular cross but from the many times I rewatched the video it looked like an iron cross. I know it's a specific type of cross, that's why I specifically referenced it. If it's not, that's fine but from the video it looks like it and if so my previous statement stands.

    • @southron2279
      @southron2279 21 день назад +1

      An iron cross is equal lengths on all sides dont hate me im not a kraut im a confederate ​@audralynn7454

  • @glendasully
    @glendasully 24 дня назад +73

    Nicholas was a big coward & probably afraid of his own shadow. He couldn't control his anger at himself for being confused sexually. He took it out on men, REAL Men because he was jealous. May the fallen officers RIP & God have mercy & healing for their families & the Bristol police department

    • @blueStarKitt7924
      @blueStarKitt7924 24 дня назад +2

      Yes.😔

    • @lawrencescales9864
      @lawrencescales9864 24 дня назад +3

      He clearly needed help. Coming out is incredibly difficult- your right, it does mean “manning up” in many ways, being honest, taking responsibility and sticking to your convictions. He clearly did not have that within him or anyone around to help foster that in him. I know many people who discuss how before they came out, they also put on the tough guy ladies man act because they where scared of being “found out.” It’s very sad. He should never had had access to firearms while he was constantly intoxicated and depressed/mentally unwell.

    • @samholdsworth420
      @samholdsworth420 20 дней назад +1

      Big tough guy is really a gay guy 😂

  • @jonesmorales-tu6kq
    @jonesmorales-tu6kq 24 дня назад +51

    Alcohol brings out the worst in already damaged man .... alcoholism is a hell of a disease

    • @purrple.shadows
      @purrple.shadows 24 дня назад +6

      ​@@deankirby7237 It's an illness.

    • @deankirby7237
      @deankirby7237 24 дня назад +5

      @@purrple.shadows
      It's an illness caused by excessive alcohol consumption over a period of time. Its called addiction. Like smoking, drug taking, gambling etc.

    • @jonesmorales-tu6kq
      @jonesmorales-tu6kq 24 дня назад

      @@deankirby7237 according to the medical association it is

    • @jonesmorales-tu6kq
      @jonesmorales-tu6kq 24 дня назад +4

      @@deankirby7237 The American Psychiatric Association recognizes the existence of alcoholism as the equivalent of alcohol dependence. The American Hospital Association, the American Public Health Association, the National Association of Social Workers, and the American College of Physicians classify alcoholism as a disease.

    • @jonesmorales-tu6kq
      @jonesmorales-tu6kq 24 дня назад +1

      @@deankirby7237 lmao 🤣 sure ...

  • @LúciaKitten
    @LúciaKitten 24 дня назад +4

    My condolences to the officers' families!
    Thank you, Dr. Grande!

  • @michaelperez9966
    @michaelperez9966 17 дней назад +2

    I don’t think Nicholas was confused about his sexuality, but rather he was ashamed of it.

  • @mirgrant
    @mirgrant 24 дня назад +8

    ❤most consistent uploads ever!!! Thank you 🙏 Dr. Grande

  • @teenieteenez
    @teenieteenez 24 дня назад +13

    He was a lunatic

  • @Mister8Music
    @Mister8Music 21 день назад +3

    Now he can be a "lay down" comedian.

  • @sandy99922
    @sandy99922 24 дня назад +9

    The audience needs to watch the whole video. You can go to a channel called. Good luck America. He’s a retired police officer. He comments on the stop from start to finish and has the complete video. There was no reason for the police to pull them over. They weren’t even being detained. The cops made fun of them and the short officer pushed him to the ground. They just have to show their authority over the general public, even when it’s not necessary.

    • @kevinallies1014
      @kevinallies1014 24 дня назад +2

      @sandy99922 Of course there was a reason to pull them over. They had been drinking and were driving. They could have hit the younger one with a DUI and they certainly could have hit the older one with public intoxication, drunk and disorderly, disturbing the peace and assault on a police officer. Both of them should have been in jail.

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. 23 дня назад +1

      They stopped them because they'd been fighting in a bar where the owner called the police. This was explained in the video.

    • @sandy99922
      @sandy99922 23 дня назад +2

      @@eadweard. the man he had a fight with didn’t want to press charges. The bar had nothing to do with it. They should never have called the cops. Just wanted to stick their nose in where they didn’t belong wasn’t drinking at all.

    • @sandy99922
      @sandy99922 23 дня назад +2

      The one brother wasn’t drinking at all. I watched the full video from start to end. Check out. Good luck America channel. He’s got the full one.

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. 23 дня назад

      @@sandy99922 There wasn't "no reason" to pull them over.

  • @stevesmusiccorner9105
    @stevesmusiccorner9105 24 дня назад +4

    I moved away from Bristol a few years ago. Strange to see and hear the places where these events took place. R.I.P to the officers.

  • @rayross997
    @rayross997 24 дня назад +5

    I was wondering what could be happening in a situation like this. Sadly there are many deadly situations like this one.

  • @randyboggs3269
    @randyboggs3269 24 дня назад +10

    Great video Dr Grande. You and your family have a happy 4th!

  • @kodokanshiai2143
    @kodokanshiai2143 17 дней назад +1

    Happened across the street from me. Wild that it’s now on a Dr Todd Grande video. Just nuts.

  • @MEL2theJ
    @MEL2theJ 21 день назад +2

    Thank you Dr. Grande 🙏
    Sincerest condolences to the victims 🩵

  • @DigitalNeb
    @DigitalNeb 24 дня назад +48

    This guy was a drunk with an out of control ego. He needed to get off the booze. I've seen a thousand guys just like him in AA.

    • @denisecounts5381
      @denisecounts5381 24 дня назад +8

      Don't forget to add...borderline homosexual...

    • @lylewalker5681
      @lylewalker5681 24 дня назад +6

      Imagine the amount of damage this guy had done in his life up to this point
      while he was drunk. I’m sure he absolutely knew that he had to quit drinking, and I bet he didn’t spend one good second actually legitimately trying to quit.
      Everybody else out in the world has to absorb my violence, and get victimized by me and abused and threatened and Verbally accosted, etc.
      And then one day It finally got to a point where his red line got pinged and he couldn’t take it anymore.

    • @DigitalNeb
      @DigitalNeb 24 дня назад +3

      @@lylewalker5681 the worst part about it is that he might have turned out to be a likable guy if he could just stay sober. I used to be awful to be around, but after over 15 years without a drink I'm totally different. People who've met me since I stopped drinking wouldn't recognize the old me. Just think how much damage could have been averted if he would have faced his problem instead of running away with booze.

    • @lylewalker5681
      @lylewalker5681 24 дня назад +2

      @@DigitalNeb yeah, it’s sad. I was a happy drunk, but i know the other type and it’s absolutely unbearable to be around.

    • @aarondavis8943
      @aarondavis8943 24 дня назад +5

      He was a weak man who tried to account for that with guns and other meaningless trappings.
      And yeah the alcohol is the last ingredient in this recipe for disaster. He made everyone he knew miserable and then ensured they would remain miserable forever. Pure selfishness.

  • @AnGie44555
    @AnGie44555 24 дня назад +26

    I thought it was Dr. Phil at first. Lol

  • @rejaneoliveira5019
    @rejaneoliveira5019 24 дня назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this intriguing case.
    Much appreciated, as always❤

  • @johnharrington6958
    @johnharrington6958 24 дня назад +9

    I live in Bristol Ct and I remember when this happened it was nuts

    • @grottybt5006
      @grottybt5006 24 дня назад +1

      Apparently he didn't like Bristol bits lol

  • @sandhanitizer15
    @sandhanitizer15 23 дня назад +3

    I live in Bristol and knew all parties involved. A true tragedy that shouldn't have happened. Nick should have been arrested at that traffic stop. I live about a mile away from where the shooting happened and i heard it through my gaming headset, it was intense. RIP Alex and Dustin.

  • @clarissa8477
    @clarissa8477 24 дня назад +12

    Sheesh, this guy’s life was a mess.

  • @beingjohn392
    @beingjohn392 24 дня назад +1

    Hello Dr Grande. Thank you for these excellent videos.

  • @BlackjackArmyCaptain
    @BlackjackArmyCaptain 24 дня назад

    Love your channel, man.Thank you for the content

  • @nottooherbal
    @nottooherbal 24 дня назад +5

    Confused no longer .

  • @pfdrtom
    @pfdrtom 24 дня назад +28

    Those poor parents and brother.

  • @thefourmoodgroups2589
    @thefourmoodgroups2589 24 дня назад +1

    Thanks, Dr. Grande. I watched the shocking body cam video of this incident the other day. Hearing the backstory was very interesting.

  • @Dan_Ben_Michael
    @Dan_Ben_Michael 20 дней назад +2

    Those poor coppers. Imagine going to some seemingly routine disturbance and getting ambushed by a lunatic. What a senseless tragedy. At the risk of triggering 2A Americans (I’m an Australian firearm owner) I’m glad I live in Australia where we have stringent firearms controls that go along with our rights to own firearms. Background checks, mental health checks, and safe storage are reasonable measures to ensure that tragedies like this are few and far between.

  • @JohnGlen502
    @JohnGlen502 24 дня назад +26

    A troubled person and alcohol are a dangerous mix. Self hating homosexuals sometimes are the most macho acting. One of them stabbed a friend after their sexual encounter was over. He told me he knew he shouldn't have walked in front of him which gave him the opportunity to stab him in the back as they left the motel. So strange the behaviors the mind will produce out of guilt and shame. "Are you proud of me are you proud of me" was probably tied to his repressed sexuality. Mothers always know.

    • @MargieM10
      @MargieM10 24 дня назад +1

      It's really sad that this is still happening.

    • @HeathenDance
      @HeathenDance 23 дня назад +1

      I'm a self-repressed dude who wants to have several women instead of just one. And keep changing them.

    • @garrysekelli6776
      @garrysekelli6776 23 дня назад

      Homosexuality is a sin against god.

  • @nikitorres6852
    @nikitorres6852 24 дня назад +60

    This guy is why the rest of Connecticut residents make jokes about people from Bristol being bat sh*t crazy.

    • @johnharrington6958
      @johnharrington6958 24 дня назад +4

      I'm from Bristol and Its no joke so dont come to our town and fuck around

    • @renieme
      @renieme 24 дня назад +6

      My estranged sister lives in Bristol. Can confirm she is batshit.

    • @andoncroft
      @andoncroft 24 дня назад +3

      Dr Grande is a ghost hunter and loves going to a haunted house with his ghost hunting equipment 😎

    • @truthhurts3305
      @truthhurts3305 22 дня назад +1

      @andoncroft 😂😂😂

  • @edannass
    @edannass 22 дня назад +2

    Sounds like the cops escalated instead of de-escalating the problem when the stop happened.

  • @ken_in_atx9619
    @ken_in_atx9619 24 дня назад +35

    No mention of the wild Police interaction from a few hours before? One of the cops was literally goading him into fighting and pushed him, it was wild and highly unprofessional.

    • @thinkingagain5966
      @thinkingagain5966 24 дня назад +15

      Dr. Ariana Grande over here has a particular audience and he knows what they want to hear

    • @XanBcoo
      @XanBcoo 24 дня назад

      ​@thinkingagain5966 Yeah it's gross

    • @chattifactory
      @chattifactory 24 дня назад

      @@thinkingagain5966 super gross

    • @David-cm4ok
      @David-cm4ok 24 дня назад +3

      🤔 He did mention it, he showed some footage.

    • @cobracommander9138
      @cobracommander9138 24 дня назад

      @@David-cm4ok Todd said that Nick was being the aggressor towards police when the cop literally pushed him to the ground for no reason.

  • @tessaducek5601
    @tessaducek5601 24 дня назад +92

    This guy was a ladies man? He looked like sloth.
    Or pickens were slim there.
    What a coward ambushes these officers with firearms.
    I feel for the officers. Not him one iota.

    • @gold707786
      @gold707786 24 дня назад +9

      Wonder what the women he was involved with looked like ? My guess is they wore moo moo's , smoked and had green highlights in the hair or wig.

    • @tessaducek5601
      @tessaducek5601 24 дня назад +4

      @@gold707786
      😅🤣😂 No doubt..
      Probably sisters ..🤣😂😅
      👍👍👍👍

    • @aarondavis8943
      @aarondavis8943 24 дня назад

      Gonna let you in on a little secret: Women aren't any smarter than men. For every insufferable douchebag there's an insufferable woman who thinks he's the bee's knees.

    • @sunnydelight5255
      @sunnydelight5255 24 дня назад

      Yes he was very unattractive and looked like a big oaf.

    • @samholdsworth420
      @samholdsworth420 20 дней назад

      There are some nasty loose women out there

  • @nise5281
    @nise5281 24 дня назад +44

    "Sexual Confusion?".....the most used phrase in the last few years! What a world.

    • @jem3848
      @jem3848 24 дня назад +19

      If the world wasn't so prejudiced and restrictive maybe people could openly be themselves

    • @nise5281
      @nise5281 24 дня назад +14

      @@jem3848 Yeah , NOT true! People gave too much freedom and others have taken advantage and abused that freedom. And they have become the "openly" restrictive and the prejudice!

    • @harunmusa8693
      @harunmusa8693 24 дня назад +6

      ​@@jem3848Whatever...

    • @harunmusa8693
      @harunmusa8693 24 дня назад +1

      ​@@nise5281Yep!

    • @harunmusa8693
      @harunmusa8693 24 дня назад +1

      ​@@nise5281Exactly!

  • @Bebecat477
    @Bebecat477 23 дня назад

    Thank you for the case analysis Doc.

  • @pedrodormer6059
    @pedrodormer6059 23 дня назад +2

    The traffic stop would indicate to me that these 2 men were drunk !
    Why weren’t they tested for a alcohol ?

  • @ar-cn5en
    @ar-cn5en 24 дня назад +7

    bro got one tapped

  • @Lisargarza
    @Lisargarza 24 дня назад +3

    Same here. I never call my spouse at work and we’ve been happily married for 44 years.

  • @andrewsmart2949
    @andrewsmart2949 20 дней назад +1

    well thats what the cops get for harrassing someone when the other person didnt want to file charges LOL

  • @wildflower815
    @wildflower815 22 дня назад

    Thank you for doing a great job explaining this.

  • @ScareBear75
    @ScareBear75 24 дня назад +7

    I would probably go into shock if I heard Dr Grande swear just once. 😂

  • @ProfarTheGod
    @ProfarTheGod 24 дня назад +4

    I was going to request you do this video Dr. Grande! We are on the same page. Love from TX 🫶🏼

  • @s.c.boileaukeen
    @s.c.boileaukeen 24 дня назад

    That was quite thoroughly addressed Dr. Grande!

  • @crinklecut3790
    @crinklecut3790 24 дня назад +1

    Hooray! I was hoping you would analyze this case.

  • @christophergarza9118
    @christophergarza9118 24 дня назад +6

    Are the Boucher brothers the most dangerous “Nick & Nate” combo since the Diaz brothers?

  • @davidpetrosky
    @davidpetrosky 24 дня назад +19

    Absolutely amazing, that these guys weren't arrested at the traffic stop. Drunk, belligerent, aggressive, with all of those cops there, and they were allowed to leave. Got the police killed that night. Different rules for different folks.

  • @azinegg
    @azinegg 24 дня назад +4

    Thank you Dr grande.

  • @heywoodjablome2018
    @heywoodjablome2018 24 дня назад +3

    I wonder if the two cops who pursued him even though the victim didn't want to press charges feel any guilt in this.

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. 23 дня назад

      Interesting framing.

  • @hatersgotohell627
    @hatersgotohell627 21 день назад +3

    Where did you get the information on him being sexually confused? I just tried googling that about him and found nothing about it. The reason its interestint is because Aaron hernandez who he weent to school with also murdered ppl out of being in thd closet

  • @OccultDemonCassette
    @OccultDemonCassette 24 дня назад +7

    Oh wow I'd just seen this a few days ago. Apparently it happened 2 years ago.

  • @jem3848
    @jem3848 24 дня назад +2

    Very complex and interesting case

  • @RICOVYBEZ
    @RICOVYBEZ 17 дней назад +1

    You need your own TV Show, the way you give play by play breakdowns is amazing, but buddy was a train wreck just waiting to derail.

  • @davespears2241
    @davespears2241 24 дня назад +15

    A complete psychopath.

  • @gregh7400
    @gregh7400 24 дня назад +5

    What a mess

  • @williamwelch7
    @williamwelch7 24 дня назад +1

    Thanks Dr. Grande

  • @noahh2338
    @noahh2338 20 дней назад +2

    You should have to pass a safety test and, more importantly, a mental exam to get a gun..

  • @ogarzabello
    @ogarzabello 20 дней назад +3

    This happens when the goverment insists on gettin involved in a situation where they were told they are NOT needed or wanted by any citizen. It was only a bar fight, the participants did not want to press charges, but the government insisted on getting involved instead of de-escalate the situation and just go away until they were really needed.

  • @Flamsterette
    @Flamsterette 24 дня назад +13

    Thanks for the upload, Dr. Grande! Your true fans love your humor and sarcasm. Nobody cares if you are first. July 2 is National Anisette Day, Visitation of Virgin Mary Day, I Forgot Day, World UFO Day again, National Literacy Day, International Chicken Wing Day again (might have some MORE later!), and World Sports Journalists Day.

  • @donaldkershaw6371
    @donaldkershaw6371 24 дня назад

    Thanks Doc

  • @juniorthompson9303
    @juniorthompson9303 21 день назад +4

    People are fed up with bully pigs .

  • @djfanboyLIVE
    @djfanboyLIVE 21 день назад +2

    This is a perfect example of why cops can come off as rude sometimes. Not justifying any murders cops committed or when they abuse their authority, but I understand that cops aren't able to let their guard down because literally anyone can be an assailant.

    • @nellybean69
      @nellybean69 20 дней назад

      💯Cops also come into contact with the worst of humanity.