Beauty Queen Murdered after Falling for Immature Cruise Ship Worker | Julie Scully Case Analysis

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  • @danpro4519
    @danpro4519 Год назад +1538

    I'm not diagnosing Dr. Grande in this comment, only speculating about what happened to him in New Jersey.

  • @ramonaringer
    @ramonaringer Год назад +853

    " she married an electrician, but there was no spark....." 🤣🤣🤣

    • @ScenekidzrockXD
      @ScenekidzrockXD Год назад +13

      Love it😅😅

    • @Spirit-8
      @Spirit-8 Год назад +62

      The relationship did have a few sparks at the beginning ,but in the end was shocking. It was a power struggle with a undercurrent.

    • @dessib5338
      @dessib5338 Год назад +19

      I love his add ins 😂😭

    • @bfdidc6604
      @bfdidc6604 Год назад +17

      Was there trouble in the ohm?

    • @allieanderson85
      @allieanderson85 Год назад +36

      Lol the best part of his jokes are the way he delivers them in a dry fashion and with a straight face. Solid gold!

  • @lilithowl
    @lilithowl Год назад +231

    Fascinated by the fact that Julie only realised she had made a mistake with George once she moved to Greece and found it boring, but not earlier when the guy had tried to strangle her mother!
    George was a giant manbaby who didn't have any more skills than a toddler in processing and expressing his emotions. He should be locked up forever, 8 years is a disgrace.

    • @MargieM10
      @MargieM10 Год назад +17

      Right? Seems like that should have been a little red flag.

    • @wcsii
      @wcsii Год назад +1

      I wish he got less time…. We need less cheating mom/whores on this planet….

    • @donnathomas9111
      @donnathomas9111 Год назад +4

      I agree with you, he is a psychopath.

    • @andrewmackenzie325
      @andrewmackenzie325 Год назад +8

      No. They’re the type of behaviours that get her drama juices flowing, definitely not boring then.

    • @thomasmills3934
      @thomasmills3934 8 месяцев назад +1

      Welcome to Europe

  • @AmberMaloneAZ
    @AmberMaloneAZ Год назад +774

    Can you analyze the case of How New Jersey hurt Todd Grande? I'm certain the details would be fascinating

    • @wyatthill6252
      @wyatthill6252 Год назад +104

      It's New Jersey. It needs no explanation

    • @debralee1401
      @debralee1401 Год назад +28

      Yea, whats the deal with making Jersey out to be the armpit of the east coast? I vacation there every year. New Jersey's got nothing to do with Julie's mess.

    • @debralee1401
      @debralee1401 Год назад +6

      ​@@wyatthill6252? been there?

    • @AmberMaloneAZ
      @AmberMaloneAZ Год назад +99

      Our thoughts and opinions always generate an interesting dialog

    • @bleepbloop47406
      @bleepbloop47406 Год назад +52

      I have a sneaking suspicion he's either a native or former resident, judging from his vitriol. I would know the feeling.

  • @iCANT_BELIEVE_YOU_SAID_THAT
    @iCANT_BELIEVE_YOU_SAID_THAT Год назад +509

    I'm so relieved her ex husband took custody of his daughter, which doesn't always happen. Taking your kid to start a new family with a guy you hardly know is reckless to the max!

    • @moonstruck562
      @moonstruck562 Год назад +49

      Let alone in a new country across the globe.

    • @MyMerryMessyGermanLife
      @MyMerryMessyGermanLife Год назад +32

      Yeah hopefully the daughter was safe and happy with her dad. She needed to be far away from her mom!

    • @MicheleBohmke
      @MicheleBohmke Год назад

      Most women just want D and A and what their kids want is silly and immaterial.

    • @TheMattTrakker
      @TheMattTrakker Год назад +10

      @@pixel_princess_ Men rarely get custody

    • @MeMe-lx2jw
      @MeMe-lx2jw Год назад +19

      I know a crazy woman doing what this one did because her new husband (that she barely knows) is a criminal on the run in his country, so they've moved to a whole new country neither of them has any affiliation with. I feel so bad for the kids, but their dad is also crazy.

  • @Kissmyweasel
    @Kissmyweasel Год назад +435

    “The neighborhood was so bad the family used to vacation in New Jersey.” Savage!

    • @kevinc809
      @kevinc809 Год назад

      I know right? Everyone knows every neighborhood in New Jersey is a complete ghetto. Right? Am I right?

    • @nopereradicator
      @nopereradicator Год назад +13

      It stands to reason that this particular type of business would be successful in NJ. People desperately throw money at landscapers hoping to transform the land around their homes into something good, only to accept the fact that the property is still in NJ.
      I’ve never been to NJ but damn….

    • @stephendacey8761
      @stephendacey8761 Год назад

      @@nopereradicator Tony Soprano lived in New Jersey.

    • @irenemax3574
      @irenemax3574 Год назад

      @@nopereradicator😂

    • @robertdore9592
      @robertdore9592 Год назад

      Corey Booker is going to call a hit on the good Doctor..

  • @damienruzco
    @damienruzco Год назад +117

    As a New Jersey residence I’d like to thank you for actually going pretty easy on us all things considered

    • @Chuck0856
      @Chuck0856 Год назад +6

      As a New Jersey resident, I found it insulting.

    • @devonteforeman
      @devonteforeman 6 месяцев назад +9

      @@Chuck0856 That's because you have a limited sense of humor. I'm sure if he was ragging on Florida you wouldn't think that was insulting.

    • @arfriedman4577
      @arfriedman4577 4 месяца назад +2

      Being that he's a dr and psych person, he should not be putting down any state without reasons.
      People show Kensington PA on you tube so you see what goes on there.

    • @nkmcfrln
      @nkmcfrln 4 месяца назад

      So you’re a dwelling of some sort.

    • @CH-1111
      @CH-1111 4 месяца назад

      @@Chuck0856and that’s because you’re from Jersey and a prime example of why NOBODY speaks highly of the east coast…. Bunch of rude entitled cry babies.
      Go get your 10,000 booster already.

  • @chicagogyrl4846
    @chicagogyrl4846 Год назад +201

    “She actually thought it was worse than New Jersey, it’s not clear how that’s possible.” I’m Dead. 😂🤣

    • @MlewIs-qr5ot
      @MlewIs-qr5ot Год назад +2

      She may just have real short memory . Nothing is worse then NEWARK NJ biggest hell hole

    • @Hypno_BPM
      @Hypno_BPM 6 месяцев назад

      @@MlewIs-qr5oti’m sure princeton, trenton or camden are worse

    • @stevemorris6790
      @stevemorris6790 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@Hypno_BPM, the red states are the poorest states in the country supported by the federal government and by the blue states including New Jersey!

    • @redlabel9294
      @redlabel9294 4 месяца назад

      @@stevemorris6790 Yeah, you're right... the states that grow nearly ALL of the food are being supported by the states that are crammed wall-to-wall with people in high-rises. Brilliant analysis there. This isn't a red state vs blue state thing. Jersey sucks to a large portion of the country, many of whom once made it their home. :/

    • @townhall05446
      @townhall05446 3 месяца назад

      @@stevemorris6790 Oh go away with your politics. Can't you people shut up?

  • @cm182cm
    @cm182cm Год назад +130

    "The neighbourhood was so bad, the family used to vacation in New Jersey" ffs Dr Grande 😂😂

  • @Luv2LuvEm
    @Luv2LuvEm Год назад +104

    “Growing up Julie had a lot of strikes against her. Her mother was addicted to substances, she had a series of unstable romantic relationships, _she was exposed to New Jersey_
    😂 Dr Grande’s dry sense of humor is the best.

    • @WhoWho569
      @WhoWho569 Год назад +2

      😂😂😂

    • @badabing-g4g
      @badabing-g4g Год назад +2

      If he thinks exposure to Jersey is bad he should try Las Vegas

    • @sludge8506
      @sludge8506 4 месяца назад

      He’s not a doctor. He has a doctorate, which means he can legally use the title doctor, like our president’s wife.

    • @cadillacdeville5828
      @cadillacdeville5828 Месяц назад

      ​@@sludge8506 and he is still a doctor. You can be a doctor without being in the medical field. Doctors aren't limited to certain industries.

  • @CyeOutsider
    @CyeOutsider Год назад +471

    8 years for murder? That's a disgrace. Shame on Greece.

    • @CostasCourtComposer
      @CostasCourtComposer Год назад +39

      That's so true. There is a big issue with penalties unfortunately.

    • @makiss.2597
      @makiss.2597 Год назад +74

      Its not just Greece its most of Europe that's so lenient on crime. Socialism has left many scars on the justice system

    • @KelmutHool
      @KelmutHool Год назад

      @@makiss.2597 and yet most euro countries have much better living conditions than the US will ever have. The US justice system is a complete farce, corrupt to the core and solely based on making money for the prison industrial complex. Many US states still have the death penalty, yet the crime rate is much higher than in non-barbaric countries.

    • @johnbauman4005
      @johnbauman4005 Год назад +67

      Yeah, they should have given him life - in New Jersey! 😂😂😂

    • @WhoWho569
      @WhoWho569 Год назад +28

      That's not true actually, he got life in Greece. Quick google search. No one only gets 8 years for murder anywhere in the world, tf. In most European countries it's 25 years, but Greece gave him the life penalty. European here.

  • @Butterfly-mt5ml
    @Butterfly-mt5ml Год назад +83

    5:31 George was a very influential member of the crew. “Without him, who knows what would’ve happened to the swimming pool.” 😂

  • @gold707786
    @gold707786 Год назад +19

    Boyfriend attempting to strangle girlfriend's mother could be a red flag that something is amiss with the young man.

    • @ember1794
      @ember1794 Год назад +4

      Now, let's not jump to conclusions, here 🤪

  • @MyMerryMessyGermanLife
    @MyMerryMessyGermanLife Год назад +154

    Another classic case of how childhood trauma and abuse affect a person in a terrible way. Julia was severely insecure and traumatized and that made her vulnerable. People who haven’t been shown real and healthy love easily get tricked into fake love and are often attracted to other insecure and traumatized people. She also sounds like she had ADHD - being constantly bored is a big symptom of ADHD. That, combined with anxiety, trauma and PTSD makes for a very messed up person. Fix child abuse and trauma and we will have a better world!! Problem is, it’s a big and complicated problem to fix.

    • @thedarknessunderneathpodca6366
      @thedarknessunderneathpodca6366 Год назад +5

      Her problem was far worse than ADHD. She seemed a little sociopathic herself.

    • @lilyjane1011
      @lilyjane1011 Год назад +6

      ​@@thedarknessunderneathpodca6366and narcissistic.

    • @thedarknessunderneathpodca6366
      @thedarknessunderneathpodca6366 Год назад +1

      @@lilyjane1011 I concur

    • @licmir3663
      @licmir3663 9 месяцев назад +6

      She was clearly narcissistic, which meant that she lacked empathy.

    • @christopherortiz9330
      @christopherortiz9330 6 месяцев назад +1

      Being bored of Greece is simply being bored of Greece. We all get bored at certain things.

  • @polskiziemniak9776
    @polskiziemniak9776 Год назад +35

    "No spark" in the marriage with an electrician gave me uncontrollable laughter when I was drinking my morning coffee. Thank you.

  • @maureeningleston1501
    @maureeningleston1501 Год назад +143

    Sounds like Julie would have been better off if she had been raised by a pack of wolves.

    • @MelvinJ64
      @MelvinJ64 Год назад +17

      Julie was Julie's own worst enemy. She wasn't pre-programmed to act the way she did. She made her choices.

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 Год назад +4

      ​@@MelvinJ64👏 correct!

    • @malumusera
      @malumusera Год назад +13

      ​@@MelvinJ64but you can't erase her past and that the absence of love and caring from her parents really affected her, besides the beauty, she was looking for love and acceptance, the disgrace was she crossed paths with a psycho

    • @BariumCobaltNitrog3n
      @BariumCobaltNitrog3n Год назад +8

      A wolf pack is a very tight-knit family unit led by a mature and caring adult who provides, disciplines and rewards every member in the group. Every individual contributes to the pack in some way. We should all be so lucky.

    • @MyMerryMessyGermanLife
      @MyMerryMessyGermanLife Год назад +15

      @@MelvinJ64that’s not how childhood abuse and trauma work. They literally change the neurons in the brain and stunt a person’s intellectual and emotional growth because they spend so much of their efforts working to survive. Childhood abuse and trauma are the entire reason for crime and suffering in the world. Try living your whole life with horrible PTSD, depression, anxiety and health problems from suffering as a child. These children start off way behind children who grow up in stable and loving families. They have to work much harder to get on their feet as adults and for some, the trauma and damage is too great for them to have the energy to get ahead and heal.

  • @olilumgbalu5653
    @olilumgbalu5653 Год назад +169

    It seems that Julie fell for someone who was a psychopath/sociopath not immature.

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Год назад +19

      Both

    • @dude926
      @dude926 Год назад +11

      She's Sick herself

    • @haggis525
      @haggis525 Год назад +10

      Well.... like attracted like I guess. She was a bloody train wreck!

  • @joshuapatrick682
    @joshuapatrick682 Год назад +257

    I remember the early days of international roaming in cellular service. Ive seen cell bills that would blow your mind. Kind of shocked they got away with it as long as they did.

    • @vicvega3614
      @vicvega3614 Год назад +40

      Well even long distance charges on regular land lines were complete horseshit, i remember in the 80s and 90s there were tons of commercials for phone companies about saving on long distance calls

    • @h0rriphic
      @h0rriphic Год назад +40

      @@vicvega3614wow your comment just unlocked a torrent of long forgotten memories 😅

    • @suprcrzy
      @suprcrzy Год назад +18

      I got in trouble a couple of times, using my moms cell phone. Talking to girls I would meet online. I remember one in Canada. Oops 😂

    • @Casinogirl56
      @Casinogirl56 Год назад +21

      ​@@h0rriphicsame, I remember a10 minute call to my sister back in the 80s was horrendous. And that was after 7 pm when rates were "cheap". We could only talk once a week.

    • @lasenoritacometa1977
      @lasenoritacometa1977 Год назад +11

      Yep my mom used to make calls to Mexico for less than 1 min and the phone bill was a little less than $30

  • @mrparlanejxtra
    @mrparlanejxtra Год назад +150

    There is something wrong when a man who cuts a person's head off with a hacksaw gets only 8 years. The judge who did that should be doing 8 years himself. I think it is time to do a video on why New Jersey is such a miserable place and why those who live there are so horrible.

    • @RabbitFighter
      @RabbitFighter Год назад +3

      If you don't like living in NJ, why don't you move?

    • @blunttlynxx1973
      @blunttlynxx1973 Год назад

      the water n drivers

    • @whoever_81
      @whoever_81 Год назад +5

      There is definitely something wrong but it is not the judge. It is the broken legal system in Greece.

    • @mrparlanejxtra
      @mrparlanejxtra Год назад +3

      @@whoever_81 It was the judge. Judges "hand down" penalties and reasons for them.

    • @ChadDidNothingWrong
      @ChadDidNothingWrong Год назад

      What do you expect? Its New York's literal ass hole.
      If you want good people, you need to find the other end, where it feeds from.

  • @KB-wl4ip
    @KB-wl4ip Год назад +52

    Eight years for strangling, beheading and dumping the parts of his wife is hard to believe but not as much as the fact that someone else decided to marry him.

  • @annmariemccooey6731
    @annmariemccooey6731 Год назад +8

    "She had her share of challenges growing up and she was exposed to New Jersey" - BRILLIANT!

  • @carweee
    @carweee Год назад +161

    The reality of Kensington is sad. I feel for the children growing up in that neighborhood seeing open drug use on the streets daily.. and even including family members. That’s gotta be a rough upbringing. Thanks for the analysis!!

    • @KoolT
      @KoolT Год назад +3

      Exactly ❤

    • @annastark3786
      @annastark3786 Год назад +8

      The place is famous. I sometimes watch zombie footage from there. Personally I think it looks worse than New Jersey.

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 Год назад +3

      @@annastark3786it’s on the border to NJ so close enough 😂 but jokes aside, most of NJ is a suburban hell, not as bad as inner city drug life hell. NJ has its hellhole inner cities, like every state, it’s the suburban hell surrounding the cities that make it an extra special sort of hellscape 😂

    • @kellykane7586
      @kellykane7586 Год назад +2

      ​@@lostandfound5145not that I'M claiming it...but other states' inner cities got nothing on Kensington

    • @mckessa17
      @mckessa17 Год назад

      I was in Philly once it looked like someone dropped a nuclear bomb in it.

  • @angievincent3416
    @angievincent3416 Год назад +150

    I can’t believe that some woman would marry George after he committed this brutal murder!

    • @maryfuller8598
      @maryfuller8598 Год назад +12

      Yeah that's fd up

    • @mjanny6330
      @mjanny6330 Год назад

      Hybristophilia, a plague on modern humanity.

    • @tessaducek5601
      @tessaducek5601 Год назад +21

      Really? Happens all the time.

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 Год назад

      So what? He did nothing wrong. He lost lesser pussy to get better pussy! Men are not the only ones who can be replaced. The hoes survey other men for replacement of their current interest or "lover". Bunch of rancid parasites...

    • @malumusera
      @malumusera Год назад +23

      And unbelievable the judge! From 23 to 8 years??

  • @TheLondonLass
    @TheLondonLass Год назад +46

    I am not in the US and Dr Grande's comments make me want to visit New Jersey to see if it is really that bad!

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Год назад +7

      Lol of course not. You can find live footage of the ocean & beaches online. Beautiful 😍
      He's jelly 🤢

    • @anitasmith4559
      @anitasmith4559 Год назад +12

      Perhaps the good doctor is test driving a comedy routine. I was born, raised and still live in New Jersey and even I don't make careless jokes or sarcastic innuendo about the state. Perhaps the good doctor had an unpleasant experience in NJ; but that could happen anywhere.

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Год назад +6

      @@anitasmith4559 I love NJ. Still live here. The Best

    • @Jerseyboondocks
      @Jerseyboondocks Год назад +15

      I live in New Jersey and he said a few other disparaging things about here, but there is really good parts as well.
      I live in the "country"part ofNew Jersey, as my username suggests.
      No big highways or cities too close to me and it takes me a 10 minute drive to get to the nearest store or gas station.
      This is in the Southern part of New Jersey. It's called the Garden State because there's many farms and fields with produce growing.

    • @ashleighsparkle8810
      @ashleighsparkle8810 Год назад +12

      It’s really not bad lol. Like any other state, good and bad areas.

  • @Strype13
    @Strype13 Год назад +22

    Jeeze. He tried to strangle her for simply saying she preferred America over Greece? That's some extremely genuine patriotism, to say the least.

  • @jeanniecatton9168
    @jeanniecatton9168 Год назад +16

    As multi-talented as our beloved Dr. Grande is, I don't forsee him ever working as a tour guide for New Jersey.

  • @neptunedawn7121
    @neptunedawn7121 Год назад +82

    If anyone tries to strangle your mother AND strangle you, YOU NEED TO GET AWAY FROM THAT PERSON PRONTO! RIP Julie: irregardless of what you may have done in your life, you didn't deserve what happened to you!

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Год назад +8

      If anyone hurts your mother. Get away. Prosecute also

    • @Andronicus2007
      @Andronicus2007 Год назад +5

      I feel so sorry for Julie, but she seemed to lack common sense for sure.

    • @guyrabinowitz
      @guyrabinowitz Год назад +8

      There is no word "irregardless."

    • @joanthompson5606
      @joanthompson5606 Год назад +11

      The word you want is 'regardless', just leave the prefix 'ir' off and it's correct. 😊

    • @etal843
      @etal843 Год назад +4

      @@guyrabinowitzwell, irregardless….

  • @lisacolledge7624
    @lisacolledge7624 Год назад +120

    That's one of the most insane stories. Unfortunately, Julie's life until George, islike many other young women from similarly troubled homes. But George.....how the hell is it responsible (let alone fair/justice) for him to have knifed his father in the neck and cut the HEAD off his wife etc and serve 8 years. Slipping through the cracks doesn't even cover it. Thank you, Dr. Grande, a very disturbing story.

    • @TheMattTrakker
      @TheMattTrakker Год назад +15

      And then went on to get married again.

    • @garmind4868
      @garmind4868 Год назад

      because reality is the opposite of real reality is not fake. Reality is imagined. its a dream youre the dreamer not the ego you the other you

    • @stephendacey8761
      @stephendacey8761 Год назад

      Yes, I agree this is an insane case. I would put the Skylar Deleon murders at the top of the list. That story is crazy. It has more twists and turns that even Hollywood couldn't come up with this one.

  • @rcoz6391
    @rcoz6391 Год назад +30

    Murder, burning body, hacking off head....8 years in prison???

  • @kyleshockley1573
    @kyleshockley1573 Год назад +146

    _Pathological fear of boredom._
    _Leaves first husband to go get a job at an insurance company._

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Год назад +9

      Lol

    • @craigfinnegan8534
      @craigfinnegan8534 Год назад +20

      There's a psychological dynamic that explains it, though I'm not sure exactly what it is. My younger sister was always extremely averse to anything depressing, but eventually chose a career administering a nursing home, working 11 hours a day, 6 days a week. Our father was chronically depressed throughout our teenage years, so no doubt my sister's been caught in between what's painfully familiar and what safely affirms her identity.

    • @lostandfound5145
      @lostandfound5145 Год назад +5

      Clearly, Julie was not very good about making long term decisions 😅

    • @craigfinnegan8534
      @craigfinnegan8534 Год назад +5

      @@lostandfound5145 Definitely. She had a major fear of commitment that manifested as boredom. Even when she was just writing something down she couldn't even finish a

    • @katherinep708
      @katherinep708 Год назад +2

      @@craigfinnegan8534damn that hits deeply

  • @joycampi7233
    @joycampi7233 Год назад +17

    I'm from Jersey and laughed out loud with those zingers! You're a funny guy, Dr. Grande! 😂

  • @aneladee2801
    @aneladee2801 Год назад +7

    “Without him, who knowns what could’ve happeed to the swimming pool?” 😂😂😂

  • @sophiaisabelle01
    @sophiaisabelle01 Год назад +32

    We will always support Dr Grande. His insights are worth listening to.

  • @Andronicus2007
    @Andronicus2007 Год назад +41

    George's response to just about anything was to strangle. What a weirdo!

    • @ember1794
      @ember1794 Год назад +4

      That's what I thought! So bizarre!!

    • @mmorgan7918
      @mmorgan7918 8 месяцев назад +3

      I agree! I've never once in my life (and I have faced some seriously threatening situations) have I had ANY desire to put my hands on someone's neck and squeeze. Let alone, being able to do it for 3 minutes as you can clearly see the consequences of what you're doing. Really sick.

  • @janburn007
    @janburn007 Год назад +10

    I was shocked to discover that George, following his release from prison, was actually able to marry & have a family. Surely the fact that he had strangled to death, tried to set alight, decapitated & disposed of Julie's body, would have been enough to deter any sane woman from wanting to marry him - with the thought that he might also want to kill them one day as well!
    I also found it hard to understand why Julie would want to remain romantically involved with a man who had tried to strangle her own mother. Surely that alone would have been a very bad omen for any future romantic relationship with him.

    • @elco2737
      @elco2737 Год назад +1

      I wondered about that myself. His wife didn't think that was maybe a red flag?

    • @peggypeggy4137
      @peggypeggy4137 Год назад +1

      Weird but true. Ted Bundy got married in prison and had a child. (I don't get how he got conjugal visits considering that he clearly had a big problem with women and killed them)...but at least Ted was in prison where he could be monitored to some extent. This wife of George must have liked those "bad boys", as did Julie. That's the only explanation that I can come up with. As far as trying to choke her mom--personally I would have run for the hills.

  • @audreydaleski1067
    @audreydaleski1067 Год назад +52

    He tried to strangler her once, yet she wanted to, still, marry him.

    • @Ann-sj4pt
      @Ann-sj4pt Год назад +4

      Loneliness,self esteem issues.

    • @mrazik131
      @mrazik131 Год назад +9

      she was abused by her mother so abuse was "normal"

    • @mjanny6330
      @mjanny6330 Год назад

      @Ann-sj4pt no, hybristophilia.

    • @Ann-sj4pt
      @Ann-sj4pt Год назад

      @@mjanny6330 one doesn’t negate the other.

    • @dlc5166
      @dlc5166 Год назад +2

      Yeah, like, here's your sign!!

  • @vinmass123
    @vinmass123 Год назад +14

    "Her father John was raised in Philadelphia and also born there. He spent most of his days on the playground, until he got into one little fight that scared his Mom"

  • @Dan-oj4iq
    @Dan-oj4iq Год назад +136

    Something deeply profound and life changing happened in New Jersey. I'm afraid we'll never know exactly what it was.

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Год назад +16

      I think he'll spill the beans one day. I think it's probably why he pursued that career path.

    • @Jerseyboondocks
      @Jerseyboondocks Год назад +4

      Hahaha what part of the state did it occur in, I wonder? Surely it had to be in North or Central Jersey lol just kidding...I guess

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson Год назад +15

      Oh I think he just realizes that it's good for a laugh without really hurting anyone!

    • @rachelleschmidt2114
      @rachelleschmidt2114 Год назад +7

      I've never been to NJ. If his jokes were actually funny I might try to defend it as freedom of speech, but as it is the NJ jokes are cringe and make me wonder more about what's wrong with Dr. Grande than it does what's wrong with New Jersey.

    • @jakepatchogue9478
      @jakepatchogue9478 Год назад +7

      I live in Long Island NY and everyone here agrees NJ is the armpit of America

  • @theskywasgold
    @theskywasgold 4 месяца назад +4

    "....she actually thought it was worse than New Jersey."
    As a New Jersey native, I cackled 😅

  • @staceyshaffer180
    @staceyshaffer180 Год назад +17

    It’s always entertaining watching your analysis. Your subtle digs are the best. Great analysis Dr. Grande.

  • @commonsense8710
    @commonsense8710 Год назад +72

    Being exposed to New Jersey during one's formative years is often enough to condemn even the most promising of souls to a lifetime of misery.

    • @Kafkaworld739
      @Kafkaworld739 Год назад +7

      She never had a chance! 😂

    • @kanamenoname210
      @kanamenoname210 Год назад +5

      Really depends on what part of jersey tho. Parts of north and Central NJ are pretty good

    • @kanamenoname210
      @kanamenoname210 Год назад +1

      @@summrflowers7253 yeah but that's most of NE from Massachusetts/Connecticut to parts of Delaware it's all very affluent

    • @tp38
      @tp38 Год назад +3

      ​@summrflowers7253 Eddie Murphy was born and raised in Brooklyn NY🫣

    • @bbginc694
      @bbginc694 Год назад +2

      Don’t forget Chris Rock and Wendy Williams

  • @Kathy-bc5yq
    @Kathy-bc5yq Год назад +65

    Thank you, Dr. Grande for another interesting and excellent analysis. You always put so much time and effort into your work, and we very much appreciate it!

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Год назад +7

      His vendetta against NJ fuels him

    • @bubbabroad9051
      @bubbabroad9051 Год назад +3

      How does he know so many details, just so good

  • @GrubbsandWyrm
    @GrubbsandWyrm Год назад +56

    She lived in Jersey and was bored by Greece? I can't even imagine how anyone could think Greece was boring.
    Edit. I've always wanted to visit Greece.

    • @Razorxgreece
      @Razorxgreece Год назад +1

      ​@traybernbraindead comment.

    • @MlewIs-qr5ot
      @MlewIs-qr5ot Год назад +1

      Same way someone got tired having sex with/cheated on Halle Berry.. Gwen Stefani's husband got tired of her ... Tom Brady /Giselle tired of each other

    • @enaitat
      @enaitat Год назад +7

      No friends, no family, no daughter and she probably didn't speak the language. Sure, it's beautiful, but it doesn't seem like she had anyone to enjoy it with. Plus, being new to the location you don't really know where anything is and it seems like her bf was terribly controlling.

    • @bevs9995
      @bevs9995 Год назад

      @traybern why ?

    • @sciencenotstigma9534
      @sciencenotstigma9534 Год назад +2

      @@enaitat. Thank you! Beautiful surroundings and culture are not the only things in life. It wasn’t even a culture she had any personal connection with. Even though I’m indigenous and Swedish I think I would likely feel isolated on either a reservation or in Sweden, even though I respect and feel a great connection to both cultures. I’m from an urban area and have never actually lived in them. I got very tired of the town I lived in with an abusive husband. I never really got to know anyone there because of him.

  • @tmajcan94
    @tmajcan94 Год назад +49

    I absolutely love your channel Dr. Grande. I think it would be really fun to see compilation video of your funniest moments. With that said, another well done video doc. Rest in peace Julie. Such a terrible way to die.

    • @Moodtoodrude
      @Moodtoodrude Год назад

      I'd love to see a blooper reel, too, Dr. Grande!

  • @ember1794
    @ember1794 Год назад +13

    I know it is horrific, but hearing it summarized it's so bizarre, it sounds almost as if he made a hobby out of trying to strangle/murder people and no repercussions/nobody cared, it's so absurd.

  • @donnaevans3062
    @donnaevans3062 Год назад +13

    It always amazes me how New Jersey seems to be a part of all of his videos.

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Год назад +5

      A tad obsessive

    • @kanamenoname210
      @kanamenoname210 Год назад +2

      Probably got rejected by a gas station there or a girl from jersey

  • @RobertaG556
    @RobertaG556 Год назад +7

    Served 8 years for premeditated murder. Unbelievable. No justice in this case

  • @KatGibbons
    @KatGibbons Год назад +9

    “The area of Kensington is so bad that the family would vacation in… New Jersey” lololol

  • @dicedrice7216
    @dicedrice7216 Год назад +5

    She goes on a cruise to save her marriage, then immediately starts having an affair on the cruise.
    Poor girl was one hot mess.

  • @fh1119
    @fh1119 Год назад +16

    Dr. Grande you crack me up with those unrelenting NJ jokes! My brother and his family live in S. Jersey (we were raised in South Philly PA). I've tried to tempt him to come to WA State but he wants to stay in NJ :)

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Год назад

      Of course

    • @sharonhoyt2133
      @sharonhoyt2133 Год назад +2

      South Jersey is a great place. Most of NJ is fine but there are several less than desirable areas that seem to get all of the attention.

  • @matthew.m.stevick
    @matthew.m.stevick Год назад +9

    00:54 YES! 3:26 YES! 7:20 YES! 15:26 YES! 4x Dr. Grande New Jersey joke episode!! Proud New Jersey gang! 🙌🏼😅 (856 & 609)

  • @Billy_Bad_Ass
    @Billy_Bad_Ass Год назад +51

    When friends once asked me what major trauma I was exposed to as a child, I told them, "I was born and raised in New Jersey." They all shook their heads sadly, and from then on, they always looked at me with pity in their eyes. Nothing was the same again. So I guess the moral of the story is: never admit you are from New Jersey.

  • @MeganVictoriaKearns
    @MeganVictoriaKearns Год назад +46

    Dr. Grande, would you please comsider doing a livestream Q & A? I've been with you since before 300K. I loved how you used to do "thank you for +100K subscribers" videos at each 100K milestone and we got to learn a bit more about your life and your personality from those videos.
    Who is with me?
    We want to know more about YOU, Doc! ❤❤❤

    • @tmajcan94
      @tmajcan94 Год назад +8

      Q and A would be amazing! I absolutely love the channel and watch all the videos.

    • @barbieblue3336
      @barbieblue3336 Год назад +2

      What's so bad about NJ

    • @It-is-me...Melsie
      @It-is-me...Melsie Год назад +3

      @@barbieblue3336 The accents of the natives maybe.

    • @mikeballard8404
      @mikeballard8404 Год назад +1

      Yeah, his fave flicks for one milestone video was great.

    • @bugsy742
      @bugsy742 Год назад +1

      @@barbieblue3336grab a bus to north NJ, stay a week- get your answer 😅
      ( don’t do that by the way 😮 🤝 )

  • @sammihawe9836
    @sammihawe9836 Год назад +36

    I had never heard of this story! Thanks for bringing us such a variety of cases in a concise and entertaining way Dr. Grande!

  • @SaltyCwgrl
    @SaltyCwgrl Год назад +6

    ... "Growing up Julie had a lot of strikes against her... She was exposed to New Jersey"! 😁😂🤣

  • @gabschasse600
    @gabschasse600 Год назад +24

    Julies policemen father bringing home alcohol that he had gotten from kids home to Julie's alcoholic mother was distressing by its self . That Julie stayed with her fella after hes to have tried to strangle her mother was worse .I am glad that Julie was not able to bring her daughter to Greece .Poor Julie .

    • @Smithpolly
      @Smithpolly Год назад +1

      On the positive side, he was taking the alcohol from minors. We'll never know how many young livers he saved.

  • @wintercame
    @wintercame Год назад +7

    New Jersey? C'mon. The Sopranos, Bruce Springsteen, Frank Sinatra for starters.

    • @matthew.m.stevick
      @matthew.m.stevick Год назад +4

      Philadelphia, NYC, North Jersey mountains, Jersey Shore 🏖️, Wawa, NJ Turnpike, Atlantic City, Snookie from MTV’s Jersey Shore. Delaware residents (like Dr. Grande are so jealous!)

  • @obeytrinity2987
    @obeytrinity2987 Год назад +5

    Dr. Grande is the Jordan of criminal analysis.

  • @jannieschluter9670
    @jannieschluter9670 4 месяца назад +2

    "She married an electrician and left him after a year. I guess there was no SPARK!" MUAHAHAHAHAHAHA so funny!

  • @elco2737
    @elco2737 Год назад +8

    Truly a tragic story. I don't see how, when looking at the pics of her on the cruise and in Greece with George how she is 35 pounds overweight, or has gained a lot of weight that she never lost. Her body may have changed after childbirth, but she is nowhere near fat in those pics.

    • @j3suisd3
      @j3suisd3 4 месяца назад +1

      Yes ... she is stunning in those photos too ... and seems a healthy body size 🤔

    • @devilmaycry9969
      @devilmaycry9969 3 месяца назад

      Yes but remember we are talking 80s/90s here. The normal body weight for women was less than 130 pounds. My mother was 110 pounds around the time and that was considered healthy weight. This was the heroin chick era. Ribs sticking out and big breasts, sculpted small round butt was considered the beauty standard back then.

  • @davidwartski7213
    @davidwartski7213 Год назад +21

    So, what happened to the $600K? Did George end up with it? Did the ex-husband keep it?

    • @moonstruck562
      @moonstruck562 Год назад +8

      Hopefully it went to her daughter. Surely it didn’t go to George.

  • @brutallyhonest9218
    @brutallyhonest9218 Год назад +4

    Julie had so much warnings ⚠️ multiple attacks on, one also on her mother and still moving her child, her belongings, everything to Greece to be with that dangerous loser😱
    That just baffles me!

  • @thesongbird2383
    @thesongbird2383 Год назад +7

    Dr. Grande - Having never heard of this unfortunate case, I really enjoyed your detailed description and analysis. I appreciate how you always keep within a +/-15-minute range. 👍💜🌵 P.S. Would love to see your precious little doggy now and then!

  • @angelicamichelle1646
    @angelicamichelle1646 Год назад +30

    Thank God she did not have custody of that baby girl cuz Lord knows what he had done with that child

  • @kaelyn6078
    @kaelyn6078 Год назад +2

    Dr. Grande’s irrational hatred for New Jersey is my new favorite thing.

  • @LifesPeachy321
    @LifesPeachy321 Год назад +15

    *8 Years! That's insane!*

    • @Human_01
      @Human_01 Год назад

      Ikr? He did nothing wrong. He should be rewarded with cash indeed.

  • @aly5664
    @aly5664 Год назад +3

    The disses on NJ is legendary😅😂

    • @MrJuvefrank
      @MrJuvefrank Год назад

      Freud said that when you insight somebody (or in this case, some state), you are trying to help him, and people don't like these insights. When George saw the woman was a great person, and she accepted low income people because she was one of them, George got to have his way, and it eventually led to murder. No person needs death and or killing.

  • @christopherfritz3840
    @christopherfritz3840 Год назад +5

    Being from Philly I remember this case. When it popped up I thought "Is this that case about the guy who killed his girlfriend in Greece and threw her head into the ocean?" MAN.. I never heard that her head had indeed been FOUND! Amazing to hear about her life backdrop. What a 'train wreck'..

  • @emuna9823
    @emuna9823 Год назад +2

    Dr Grande surelt has not few new jersey fans. He speaks so nice about them.

  • @davepost7675
    @davepost7675 4 месяца назад +1

    "I guess there was no spark" an "Only to accept the fact that their property is still in New Jersey". Two good zingers.

  • @MB-xz7ct
    @MB-xz7ct Год назад +4

    ‘She was bored with life in Greece. She actually thought it was worse than New Jersey. It’s not clear how that’s possible.’ Always sneaking in the sick burns 😅😂🤣

  • @MichaelStack-f7y
    @MichaelStack-f7y Год назад +24

    I think the personality characteristic of Dr. Grande that I most identify with is his utter contempt for New Jersey

  • @PetalPalmer
    @PetalPalmer Год назад +10

    Hmmmm definitely a lot wrong going on with this case. Thank you for sharing this story!

  • @Ali-e5h1b
    @Ali-e5h1b 10 месяцев назад +1

    7:30 - I enjoy your raucous delivery of humor. Those punch lines hit like an asthma inhaler ( light and refreshing ).

  • @Human_01
    @Human_01 Год назад +7

    You're a genuinely intelligent and wonderful man, Dr. Grande! 🧡
    I love you content and style of addressing cases.

  • @jackiemcmeekin6551
    @jackiemcmeekin6551 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for your criminal investigative reporting. This is why thousands of us rely on your analysis of past or current criminal cases. Thank you for the long hours you spend researching so we get current, objective reporting on uTube. 🤔👍

  • @Kimber-bz9fe
    @Kimber-bz9fe Год назад +3

    Your narration is as always entertaining and informative

  • @steviescribbles
    @steviescribbles Год назад +4

    Watch out, New Jersey, Dr. Grande is coming for you

    • @anitasmith4559
      @anitasmith4559 Год назад +1

      We got it. As Frank Vincent, as Philip "Phil" Leotardo, said in The Sopranos: "Next time they'll be no next time."

  • @EgaoKage
    @EgaoKage Год назад +4

    I would think that it should be possible to charge New Jersey itself with at least accessory to numerous felonious offenses, as it is brazenly guilty.

  • @mkvision
    @mkvision Год назад +1

    Dr. Grande's jokes are solid in this one. Mainly because they are so subtle. I like it.

  • @janenns9831
    @janenns9831 Год назад +4

    It just occurred to me , you haven’t analyzed the life of el chapo and his wife .. that be so worth listening 🎉

  • @Surfer7ct
    @Surfer7ct 4 месяца назад +1

    He was very influential member of the crew “With out him, who’s knows what could it happen to the pool”…..Dr. Grande…OFF THE WALL🤣🔥🔥

  • @dianamorariu9763
    @dianamorariu9763 Год назад +12

    Monotone voice: "She divorced the electrician. I guess there was no spark." This guy is a legend when it comes to humour. 😂

  • @eddypaul8959
    @eddypaul8959 Год назад +2

    I love your sarcastic quips about New Jersey

    • @MrJuvefrank
      @MrJuvefrank Год назад

      He should have said "Ghetto" instead of New Jersey. Some people who don't study New Jersey think it's a safe place.

  • @mrs.creature3443
    @mrs.creature3443 Год назад +13

    what does it mean when your significant other waits for you outside the bathroom? a guy I dated did that. I didn’t stick around long enough to see what that was all about.

    • @dlc5166
      @dlc5166 Год назад +7

      I'd say that's obsession. Read that John Lennon did that with Yoko Ono.

    • @xelajust
      @xelajust Год назад +7

      Control

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom Год назад +3

      Co-dependent.

    • @annconroy9159
      @annconroy9159 Год назад +4

      I had a dog who used to do that.

    • @peggypeggy4137
      @peggypeggy4137 Год назад +3

      @@annconroy9159 Loved your comment. I had a cat that did that with my husband but only when he would brush his teeth. She would meow until he would let her in.

  • @MM-hf6om
    @MM-hf6om 4 месяца назад +2

    So a narcissist met a sociopath

  • @Philippe.C.A-R
    @Philippe.C.A-R Год назад +17

    Her boyfriend treated her like a queen : he gave her the Marie Antoinette treatment !

  • @BackyardButcher
    @BackyardButcher Год назад +20

    Thanks as always for a thought provoking case... On a lighter note, I CANNOT with you 🤣🤣🤣
    The snark is off the Richter Scale today... "married an electrician, but there was no spark"😂😂🔋⚡

  • @lovingit4450
    @lovingit4450 Год назад +3

    I lived in NJ and laugh every time Dr.Graude saids anything about that state 😂

  • @irishrover4658
    @irishrover4658 4 месяца назад

    You make your comments so routine it makes them funnier.

  • @ishab745
    @ishab745 3 месяца назад +3

    A whole lot of strangling, this story was nuts! After strangling my mom there would be no moving across the world to be with the strangler...

  • @MikeSmedleyOLDSCHOOLSTRIPERS
    @MikeSmedleyOLDSCHOOLSTRIPERS 13 дней назад +1

    Bro. Your NJ digs crack me up every time 😂😂. I seriously laugh out loud when they catch me off guard. I spit my drink out when you said that one girl that lived in a bad town in PA that was SO bad that she went to NJ for vacation. 😂😂.
    Also, I’m from NJ 😂

  • @jackjohnson7396
    @jackjohnson7396 Год назад +3

    New Jersey & the pool comments. Crazy 🌟

  • @thegenrl
    @thegenrl Год назад

    Dr. Grande consistency peaks when it comes to digs at NJ

  • @mrsschnadig
    @mrsschnadig Год назад +6

    I think it's important to add that George kissed her 1 last time before throwing her head into the sea. How is this man free?

  • @andrewmartin6217
    @andrewmartin6217 Год назад +2

    I don’t know about Miss Scully, but your analysis of Jersey seems accurate.

  • @CarolLustgarten
    @CarolLustgarten Год назад +8

    Julie has very bad judgment. Did not even know George. And George got away almost with murder. Feel sorry for her daughter. 😢😢😢😢

  • @rowdeo8968
    @rowdeo8968 Год назад +1

    It’s so sad so many women are unalived

  • @Paulaatmdbqdotnet
    @Paulaatmdbqdotnet Год назад +3

    ….”I guess there was no spark!” 😂😂😂

  • @kstept
    @kstept Год назад +2

    I love your humor, Dr. Grande!