@@JRRob3wnyeah, the double standards are outrageous! It’s crazy that male victims are still not taken seriously…..the public outcry would be insane if the roles were reversed & a male educator was the perpetrator.
@@isitoveryet9525 I don’t know if you saw the story from a few months ago about a female teacher molesting a ten year old boy…seems like there is an epidemic of these sick cases out there. Very sad state of affairs in our country all around.
As an Aged Care RN I highly advise people to install camera's in the rooms of loved ones who are unable to communicate effectively. Most of us are good people but there are bad eggs everywhere
This is obviously someone who's brain is broken. IDK what the deal is, Im only halfway through, but IDC what anyone says, this chick's brain is not working properly.
I do not believe she was “ evil” but she used incredibly poor judgement. I believe she was sincerely convinced the young man in question was brilliant and was using their form of facilitated written communication . It was highly accepted system used at that time, for people whom could not articulate their thoughts, ideas and feelings, in many teaching institutions for a while. She was a respected professor , Her own mother was well known as an innovative teacher for people with handicap’s.and this was a long term relationship she had with the young man , as well as having a friendship, his brother and mother. She was seriously misguided by her beliefs and possibly further persuaded by her growing emotional feelings for the young man.. And she maybe became besotted by her feelings for the young man. Magical thinking , in her mind d, was at play here! She wanted to “ save” the young man and be his everything.She is perhaps psychologically unwell and STILL needs treatment. But again, I do not think she is “ evil”. 15:26
@@Mike-y7o2z being sexually assaulted is not a "gift". He's a severely disabled person who cannot consent to sex, nor understand the concept of consent. She used her position and power to take advantage of him. That does have unfortunate psychological repercussions that the victim has to live with.
Isn't it disgusting? We have to start holding women equally accountable. I'm a woman and can't believe how society views sexual abuse so differently between male and female offenders.
This lady maybe would have gotten a hefty sentence if the judge hadn’t made a blunder. It’s not that it was a female that she walked free, it’s the fault of the judge
Also, this was a married woman who had two children. As if the whole thing wasn't bad enough, think of her own family. Imagine finding out your wife or mother did this?
My twin brother has severe cerebral palsy. The fact that some people are on her side and saying it's abeleist is insane. They are vulnerable. She is a predator.
What’s ableist is taking advantage of someone who cannot repel you in any way. Her even saying that he ‘seduced’ her is the same repulsive language pedophiles use.
As someone who is living with cerebral palsy, albeit in a fairly mild form, I find what this woman did to be horrific. People who are genuinely vulnerable need to be protected from people like this. At the same time, I hope that people don't automatically assume that everyone with CP is a potential victim who is incapable of deciding what he/she wants. I know people with cerebral palsy who are lawyers for example, while I have earned a pair of degrees in history and social work. I'm also very capable of telling someone to stop doing something that I don't want them to do. The point is that cases like this need to be judged on an individual level.
In my opinion, the people taking her side and calling this ableism are the real ableists. While I agree that it would be ableist to assume based on appearances that a person lacks competence, there are no assumptions being made here. His intellectual disability is well documented. And most importantly, his inability to care for himself or understand language does not decrease his value or his personhood. He is a worthy human being regardless and I doubt the people who call this situation “ableist” can see that.
It's called yt privilege. In amercian society Caucasians are always given the benefit of the doubt, yet for people of color we're made out to be purposely evil.
@@jwr2904 WTF are you talking about? Most crime docs with sex offenders feature guys who had been given shockingly light sentences for prior crimes before they escalated to murder. And those guys are straight up predators while this woman is dazzled by left-logic to the point that Dr Grande considers her beliefs as possibly delusional so at least she has a major mitigator compared to most sex offenders.
FACT! My professional ethics professor matched with me on a dating app when I was 18 and he was in his 30s, asked to meet up at his place, then begged me not to tell anyone. Those are the ones to be weary off.
She was obsessed with disabilities Disability culture and it was not a genuine passion or something she cared about ...she was obsessed with Disability culture and people with disabilities, it was a dark obsession.... she should never be described as a person who had passion because what it was ,was far from that.
@@meridianoneill3235a lot of narcissistic people get involved in that profession, it's where they live out their fantasies, find victims and abuse their titles. So sorry that happened!
Agree with Dr Grande's analysis. To protect people with severe disabilities, a camera should be set up when they're being worked with by an educator. Just as cameras should be on in Daycares.
As a someone who has worked as a caregiver for people with physical and mental disabilities, I agree. Cameras help in documenting behavior, both good and bad. And ensure ethical treatment of the vulnerable.
lets just put the profound disabilities aside, even as a clinician if she had feelings for a patient she's actively assisting she should have stopped being his clinician. She's broke major boundaries. Adding in the disability she rightfully needed to be charged.
@maxmeier532 the most sensible? Give me a break. The commenter is treating his intellectual limitations as if they are an afterthought to the clinician/patient boundary being crossed. One does not even come close to the egregious nature of the other.
@@lazydaisy2292 no I’m not. She obviously needed to be charged because the man was incapable of consenting due to disabilities. However, I put them aside in my comment to point out that even though she believed him to be understanding and communicating consent, even putting that aside as a clinician she broke a boundary so she was already guilty for that alone. She feels unfairly prosecuted as she believed him consenting and communicating. So my comment points out that she already broke boundaries long before she even considered his disabilities. Adding in the fact the man clearly couldn’t consent is the worst part
As a mother of a daughter with similar profound disabilities, I was furious, disheartened and utterly disgusted. I could barely listen to her nonsense. She received a slap on the wrist.
What would happen if somehow, a disabled girl/woman and a disabled man, who were together on maybe group therapy, or on some facility, who would they charge if they caught them in the act of sex?
May I ask, how common do folks with CP have it this difficult/severely? I know that it can impact all motor functioning, but usually people are okay cognitively? That was always my assumption, but I suppose I shouldn't make assumptions. Perhaps I need to do some buffing up on this particular topic 😬
@@hardver8855, something of a sexual nature did happen between a disabled female and a disabled male on my daughter’s special needs school bus. Both were teenagers under the age of 18. CPS became involved. Not sure of the outcome due to privacy laws. My daughter just recently turned 18 but will continue to go to school until she’s 22. She has a one to one Aid/Assistant at school. My husband and I have guardianship over here since she is by law an adult but unable to mentally make decisions for herself.
@@savagehadoken6828One particular race makes up a majority of all sex offenses in prison. They actually commit more sex offenses than every other race combined… bet ya can’t guess which race ;)
I've used this type of communication with my two cats! I frequently guide their paws along the keyboard of my computer. According to them I'm an awesome human!
This is completely fucked up. I love how, in the documentary, her mom and herself insist that she's never hurt anyone. She traumatized Derrick, his family, and HER family. She's a delusional narcissist. She was wrapped up in a fantasy she created in her head and had no problem violating the rights of Derrick, cheating on her husband, destroying her family, and hurting Derrick's family. The fact she can't even pronounce "D-Man" properly just makes it so much worse. She crossed SO MANY boundaries. This woman is twisted and deserves life in prison.
@@malcriadamedina5358 it’s the little signs that our intuition picks up on that just can’t be ignored, our intuition is always right! The “Daman” thing was her way to make him sound more upper-class and “intellectual”, I think
Yeah, when I saw the "D-man" name in the documentary my first thought was there's nothing shocking about the idea that someone might've called him that before. It's not an uncommon premise for a nickname, proving that FC doesn't work. I agree with the boundaries as well. She wasn't just a family friend that wanted to help- she was employed as an educator who as a scholar was his facilitator. Even if anyone believed in her delusions, there's still the power dynamic at play due to her role was to be his facilitator. Her mom and former clients who she's helped wanting to believe the best in her I can understand, as I imagine it can be difficult to come to terms with a loved one being a sex offender. However, at some point you need to face the facts that just because you love someone whose never hurt you/you've never seen hurt anyone doesn't mean they didn't do it. Regardless of their varying levels of denial, those people are also on the traumatized list. As you rightfully said, the woman is twisted and should've received life in prison.
Yeah that was messed up im glad someone else noticed she (and her mom) kept calling him Daman instead of Dee-Man AFTER his mom pronounced it for her. Then they interview the professor at the history class and she pronounced it Dee-Man as well. It was like she was trying to white it up and make it sound sophisticated.
@meowmirrr I thought that too. Like D Man is a little too ghetto for her so she "churched" it up a bit. Like that scene in Joe Dirt where he's pronouncing his own name with a French accent lol
Great point. If Anna truly believed that Derrick was misdiagnosed and had this hidden potential, she should have gotten him more help rather than have had an intimate relationship. That would have shown more love but she was selfish and only cared about herself.
She’s a zealot. Go find that Frontline special that Dr. John (the brother) referenced. The people who have bought into FC are pathologically fanatical. They think it’s some kind of miracle and that they are miracle workers.
Not to mention, she needed to stop being his facilitator. She was employed as an educator who was his facilitator to help him communicate. She was a scholar, and this was part of her career. If he had the intellectual capability to consent, there's still the power dynamic that if the "relationship" didn't end well that she can cut off his ability to communicate. If the focus really was on her genuine romantic interests and wanting to do the right thing, she needed to stop being his facilitator and hand that role over to someone else to pursue a romantic relationship (which really should've happened anyhow as soon as she realized she was developing feelings for him; proof that it was entirely selfish even if someone believed her delusions).
Exactly! This is really a god complex of "I know better than anyone else." FC is already questionable as far as whether it works. If it works, it has a high margin of error.
The fact that she can't even recognize how inappropriate the power imbalance was, regardless of his intellectual capacity, is a huge red flag that she is not committed to the truth. And to be willing to throw her marriage away to make such a foolish choice really is unbelievable.
@@snu3877I doubt she still married. There is actually a documentary called Tell Them That You Love Me, the husband wrote a letter to the court and called her a narcissist and a liar.
It's not regardless of his intellectual capacity. It's BECAUSE of his intellectual capacity. You think those with disabilities can't have sexual relationships of they're intellectually competent? Of course they can. It's his intellectual limitations that make it wrong. What you said doesn't even make sense.
In terms of fairness, it absolutely is. In terms of evidence based lawmaking, offender registration is nonsense that, according to research, doesn't produce any meaningful result.
Good thing this documentary exists. Her true story is a bad look and the more people see it, the more the community can be vigilant about her. She can't be trusted to work with disabled individuals. Especially those who are nonverbal and can't express if she is raping them. It's a sad state of affairs that she was able to appeal even with all that evidence from legit doctors stating her victim in no way could have consented.
i am disabled in multiple ways. i find it extremely odd how anna thinks about the disabled people she sees. that they are basically "normal" people which is trapped by their physical limitations. its okay for people to not have a normal intelligence and its so weird how she cant seem to accept that. i think it is a way that she tried to legitimize their relationship and ignore their disability
For real. I have a whole masters degree in communication science and disorders, which is how I know FC is embarrassing snake oil. This is exactly why you’re supposed to have a professional license to provide clinical services.
I think one the most disturbing elements of this case is that Anna was willing to double down and actually be interviewed by Netflix. She was essentially role playing with herself. I was speechless.
I watched this documentary a few days ago, and watching Anna was very disturbing. She has such high levels of education, but it's clear there's something deeply mentally wrong with her. The part that struck me the most was how overjoyed she was to describe in great detail how and where she was intimate with the victim to his mother. She genuinely enjoys talking about what she did to him. She smiles the entire time. Even during her trail and during sentencing she smiled, disturbing. I'm glad that she views people with disabilities as no different than anyone else, but what she did was predatory. Had nothing to do about caring for him. She saw the opportunity and took full advantage of it. And for that she should have never been released from prison.
She is delusional imo plain and simply. She genuinely believes he is a black Stephen hawking and they had a whirlwind forbidden romance, it's a lot of liberal ideology they teach in school, probably midlife crisis and issues in her marriage, but I understand she is simply delusional
In addition to this egregious crime, not once did Anna ever think about how her children and her husband would feel. She was so preoccupied with herself and her grandiosity, that these precious parts of her life were not even considered.
She was married with kids when she committed those unspeakable acts? Wow, you're right, she either didn't think about how it would effect them, or she resents (hates) them.
@@johnanon658 I thought that too. She was so enamoured with herself and how she was helping this man the love she felt was all created by her. Look what she was able to do.
I was a student of hers in the spring semester of 2011. I forget the official name of the class but we learned of eugenics and generally how disadvantaged people with disabilities are in society. We watched “Annie’s Coning Out” and learned about FC. She brought Derrick into our class one day to show us FC in action. We got to ask him questions about what it was like to live with his condition. I remember asking him at one point “Do you feel your family still understands and “gets” you even though you haven’t been able to talk to them.” and using FC with Anna’s help “he” responded “No, my family doesn’t really get me.” I was sick to my stomach when this story broke and the truth came out. She came across as the furthest thing from a monster. I liked her. To know what was actually happening . . . smh. Heartbreaking beyond my comprehension. I still can’t wrap my head around it.
I work at a courthouse, the massive differences in sentences men and women receive is astounding. We love to talk about racial inequality in the justice system. It has nothing compared to gender differences.
The part that got to be was when his brother described finding wounds on Derek's back from Anna dragging him across the floor. That man's emotions said everything. He loves Derek so deeply.
I just watched "tell them that you love me" last night. I was enraged! I work with adults who have special needs. I can't imagine working with someone to teach and encourage autonomy, to sexually assaulting them and believing that you are in love!!!
Definitely has a much more insidious evil to it when you love or work with special needs. I have family. I can't say what I'd do to someone who did this because my comment would be banned.
Watched the documentary on Netflix last night. She's a monster. As her husband wrote to the court, she's a narcissistic sociopath. Her smugness is infuriating.
This is a common belief amongst sex offenders. They believe that they "can just tell". They believe that what they're doing is consensual and beautiful romance. We, as a species, typically want to believe we can just tell what's going on around us and that we can read other people. It makes life seem predictable.
In that hypothetical, why? No, there wouldn't be a single problem if that was the case as a given hypothetical. It does not seem to be the case here at all, but if it was, what would be the issue
@@NealBurkard-ut1ooI’m guessing it implies that even if he was a typical adult it would still be wrong because therapist having relationships with a client like that (even a fully functioning adult) is unethical. It’s still predatory and honestly just gross.
This is it in a nutshell. It was determined that perfectly well-intentioned facilitators were producing the information, much like an Ouija Board. One person was purported to have said, through facilitation, "They ARE your words, but I am choosing them." This kind of magical thinking served only to move us backward in our goals of providing compassionate and competent care for adults living with disabilities.
This is professional sexual abuse. He can’t be fully consenting due to his vulnerable status. Even if he possessed intelligence and learned to communicate, he was vulnerable to her. In teaching him to communicate she was grooming him.
Did you see the film? His mom said she said “he’s a man in every sense of the word” 🤢 like WAT the film truly made me completely disgusted how does a woman even get there
@@Krmyas His opponent needs diapers too. Just went on a long rant recently at a rally about everything "Obama" is doing, none of which was Obama. He just can't remember what decade things are. Having straight up hallucinations means you might also hallucinate the living room as being the bathroom, better stay safe with diapers.
@scarygary-qq1pj Is this a joke? You do know poor can have multiple meanings. Poor: (of a person) considered to be deserving of pity or sympathy. "they inquired after poor Dorothy's broken hip
@@afrodite9801 I believe she herself described this. She considered it just “discomfort “ due to his “inexperience “. This is how deluded this woman is , remember she still doesn’t think she did anything wrong.
My son has special needs. He's been a victim 3 times. A stranger and 2 classmates. It's a horrible thing. They need more protection. I'm in California . Adult services and local police don't help because they think the disabled person dosn't make a good witnesses on the stand. This women deserves years in jail. May Derek and parents stay strong and heal from this.
Sorry to hear that your son has been a target on 3 occasions. A friend of mine from school mixed some Xanax & alcohol & accosted a disabled boy in a wheelchair at a train station for his laptop & when he refused my friend punched him in the face & stole it. He was sentenced to 7 years in prison. Yet this medical "professional" takes advantage of a vulnerable patient & gets away with time served.
Dr. G, Thank you for covering this case. I definitely agree with your analysis. I’m in shock that Anna only served 22 months. She’s a sick person and I hope she’s monitored carefully on her “Lifetime Probation!”
Are you frigging kidding me?....I cannot possibly understand living in a place where something like that isn't taken seriously and consequences aren't harsh. Do that in Tennessee and you'll be behind bars for a decade or more.
I was struck by her father facilitating her role playing as a physically handicapped person. I remain deeply disturbed by this woman. She is clearly unwell.
I agree. What child plays like they have different disabilities? This was a red flag Unfortunately there are people who are attracted to people with different types of disabilities. They like the disability-not the person
yes I was too as a person with a disability this disturbed me greatly she fed her own ego and need to for attention with Derek I believe Derek does, in fact, have greater cognition than his family understands HOWEVER that does not give this woman in a position of power to lose her damn mind and take advantage the ethical thing to do would have been to refer him to another facilitator.....unfortunately faking disability or role-playing disability has become popular and there is even a term for it called trans abled and just like her many of these people do not understand just how ableist and how much this abhorrent behavior hurts the disabled community and unfortunately any strides that people have made with the technology as i have seen in my own lived experience will be doubts and not believe but don't even get me started on Derek's mother and brother I have so much to say about this and the intersectionality of race class and the harmful ableism of faith healing pentecostal doctrines ANOTHER discussion entirely
@@MoonWomanStudiosin the documentary tell them you love me, she says she used to try to pretend that she had cerebral palsy, which the victim has. She also liked to pretend that she was blind. Now a lot of kids have played that game, blindfold themselves and pretend that you're blind for a few minutes. But she did it for an entire day!
I hope the brother doesn’t feel guilty, he just thought he found help. I’m glad the family are so tight knit and have each other to lean on and help Derrick
I’m the caregiver for my Aunt , she’s mentally disabled. This case is both horrifying and infuriating. I’m thankful Anna was so ignorant that she told Derrick’s mother what she had done. Im also thankful they went to law enforcement and Anna was convicted.
Wherever there are gullible and/or vulnerable people, there are predators .. the more layers of accountability, the less likely abuses can happen .. this woman knew how to manipulate ..
This woman fell in love with herself. She chose Derek’s answers and took advantage of him. She wanted complete control of a man and found a way she could do so. Thank you Dr.Grande for reaching this conclusion as well.
As a mom of a 14 year old son with Autism watching this documentary made me EXTREMELY angry ! The way this predatory narcissist took advantage of this young man and treated his mom is absolutely disgusting !! As parent’s of special needs children/adults we depend on professionals to help our children become the best people they are capable of being and for this psycho to come in and sexually assault this young man and try to isolate him from his amazing family is scary !! Let me say that the mom in this story is better than me because if that was MY son I would’ve handled Anna myself and I would’ve been the one going to jail !! When his mom said that he’s her baby I teared up because even though my son is 14 he’s my baby who I will have to take care of for the rest of my life and I couldn’t imagine anyone taking advantage of him sexually !! Also let’s say that the teacher was a black man and the victim was a disabled white woman he would’ve been put under the jail ! But she’s an educated white woman and got away with a slap on the wrist !! She still think’s what she did is okay ! She’s a predator and should NEVER be allowed to work with disabled people ever again !
She should be in prison for life. She preyed on him and he was obviously mentally challenged beyond the capability of consent. She is a predator. Plain and simple.
I worked at a school for kids with autism back in the late 90s, and saw 1st hand that facilitated communication with non-verbal kids seemed about as reliable as a ouiji board. Over eager facilitators were clearly doing the communicating.
Even VERBAL communication with my autistic niece is about as reliable as a ouiji board. She says whatever she thinks we want her to. But she's very young still and that will change. Really interesting learning about this facilitated communication era I missed. I've been in the specials needs world as a nurse for several years and the communication boards and switches are extremely valuable but the user has full autonomy. No one does it for them.
@@laceyl5682 We had 2 therapists in particular who kind of thought they were AMAZING at FC, but the kids only seemed more likely to get agitated with being misunderstood with them.
@laceyl5682 yes, there are people with cerebral palsy that use the boards how people without a disability use speech to text. It's just to speed up the process for them, but they know what they're saying. Not all obviously.
FC can only work if there's something to communicate. So I could see its value for physically but not mentally disabled people. It clearly has no use for someone who is cognitively a toddler, which is what this young man appears to be.
I remember at least one story of a bed ridden woman who couldn't speak. She lived in a nursing home. She became pregnant from an orderly. It didn't work out to well for him.
@@jesseredden7123 False. Compared to women, mens sentences are extremely harsh. It's not even close. Edit: The orderly that had sex with a coma-woman got 10 years. Compared to 22 months for this woman. "Light"... lol.
@@jessieyork4508the incident you’re talking about involved a woman in coma, she even gave birth and the man was sentenced to ten years. I actually found a couple other stories involving women in a vegetative state who were impregnated by staff members.
Having an attractive non verbal son this shit scares the life out of me. Once they showed the students face, a scared feeling ran through me from head to toe. She knew he couldn't consent she just saw what she saw and projected onto him, she didnt care about reality.
@@andyisdead no, my son has no visual symptoms of his mental disability, he is completely neurotypical passing visually, all his teachers love how affectionate and cute he is i hear how cute he is from basically every woman... I know when he's older he'll look like my dad and I, a very handsome look (yes I'm a handsome lady) and seeing the boy who was victimized in this video looking visibly delayed and not as handsome as my own son but still pretty good it scared me extra
@@andyisdead like my son is ONLY mentally handicapped, physically he passes for anyone else... He is strong fit and cute, and his school takes lots of pictures of him for newsletters because of this... You just don't understand where I'm coming from when this nasty POS woman can lie about this young man's abilities to SA him when my son is 5x more neurotypical passing and handsome, I also keep him immaculately clean and good dental. The fact a caretaker could cross that line when they know they can't mentally consent is disgusting
@@simply_nebulous for who ? No one goes in my house! None of that. It's really schools you need to be careful for! With all students not only non verbal!!
@@lorigbasmajian3843 yes I understand that part, but even if she did (which we all know she didn’t) he was still a student and her a teacher!! Total abuse of power
@@alexa3585 Absolutely. The fact she considered this a possible, ethical or viable relationship after working in this capacity with him is unreal. This is never ok, even if he DID consent, which he didn't.
This is why so many people are terrified of nursing homes or hospitals. It reminds me of how in Australia they caught some nasty female caretakers spitting in the mouth of a poor invalid who can't speak or walk and were mocking her. It was disgusting and sad.
She seemed to have little regard to how this will affect her husband and children but as soon as the police came and arrested her she mentions her daughter.
Her husband wrote a letter condemning her actions, in support of her conviction. That says a lot. He didn't defend her so she must've been very selfish in general, no regard for her family.
If you have to remove someone’s diapers to have sex with them, you’re a rapist. I felt sick listening to what this woman did to that poor helpless man. And she claimed to be an advocate. 🙄
The diaper isn't the issue, it's his lack of mental capacity to consent. A mentally normal quadriplegic could absolutely have consensual sex with someone who took off his/her diaper first.
Eh no that doesnt make you a rapist. Without consent makes you a rapist..plenty of disabled people who need diapers and can't remove them themselves can have consensual sex.
The fact that his mother says he masturbates now is so fucking sad. I don’t think it’s sinful the way I suspect the mom does. But like she said, this woman triggered a physiological response that Derrick just has to now add on to his list of bodily challenges. She is a terrible person.
That is not true in all cases. If someone is e.g. paraplegic and they want to have sex with their partner(s) without their diapers on, it is indeed necessary to have their diapers removed by either their caregivers or their partner(s). Since most people like to be alone with their partner(s) when they are intimate, the partner(s) need to do it then.
Oh my goodness. I know John Johnson. I went to Rutgers with him as an under graduate. I'VE never heard about this.I have lived in NC for over 20 years. I'm so sorry to hear this happened to his brother. What a sick woman.
Two painful facts are (1) that woman probably will never understand and therefore admit she's absolutely wrong, and (2) there are people who think she's right.
Ppl are taking her side because cerebral palsy doesn’t impact your intelligence. Only motor skills. It causes mild to severe muscle weakness and spasm and it can impact most muscles in the body. His is severe hence why he can’t walk or speak. However, almost half of ppl with cerebral palsy have some kind of mental impairment as well due to having other conditions. The chances of him being as intelligent as she claims is slim. It’s about 50/50.
@@Sjejejjsbensj if cerebral palsy is severe enough it absolutely affects your intelligence. The likelihood is 30-50% for the general CP population but for those who actually do have mental impairment like this brother right here, it is not 50/50. It is much higher. There was nothing up until meeting that lady in terms of tests and functionality that indicated that this guy had the intelligence she was attributing to him. She took advantage of that man plain and simple
@@Sjejejjsbensj but the documentary did include a third-party assessment that his brain was at like a 6 month or 6 age level (big jump but i forget which is was, regardless it is r4pe).
As soon as i heard, both of her parents were PhD psychologists my brain went, "this isn't ending well." Edit: the people who cannot process this comment are cracking me up.
Yea that's like a child being taught to grow up inside a world inside another world inside their mind. Children generally are a blank slate so you don't have to analyze their behavior like you would and adult nation but if I were to guess it's hard for two PhD phycologist to resist the temptation to experiment with and analyze rather than raise their kid.
"In a sense Ana was in love, but not with Derrick, she was in love with herself and her own vision of a just society." This is such a well-articulated and, in my opinion, accurate description. Reminds me of "The Quest for Cosmic Justice" by Thomas Sowell.
Informed consent on a Ouija board you mean, I guess. Did her university IRB approve that in lieu of an oral, written, signed, and dated consent form by the patient and his guardians?
intelligence is by definition a social construct, as dependent on the common ideology in a society of what intelligence is, tests are constructed to measure it. She might be all the proof you need, do you think she's highly intelligent? She might have an IQ that was a lot higher than yours, chances are. What is the consequence regarding the value of IQ tests then.
@@maxmeier532 Intelligence is a social construct that is an idea that has been created, operationalized, and accepted by people in a society as a representation of reality. Because it is a construct, it can be measured and ordinally ranked on the IQ scale.
that is the dumbest thing I have read today, congratulations. He has physical attributes hence hormonal composition of an adult. He is also a guy in his 30s. As a byproduct of your statement, you're watering down actual child abuse.
I was a young PhD student when this situation broke. It was viscerally horrifying to watch academics in email listservs defend this woman. I'm glad that there were those individuals who had a strong sense of morality, and individuals who personally knew this woman, to know that she abused DJ.
What's so horrible about her no limits narcissism is both her crime of rape and also how she dehumanized him by making him an object a slate she projected herself onto. She was willing to erase him completely for her narcissism. Scary
Yes, I find the way she erased the parts of him - like saying he enjoyed wine when he didn't, or that he preferred a certain music over another. The man she constructed in her head didn't even match him at all. She's a real piece of shit.
I am familiar with one of these cases from study during my year of Biomedical Ethics in Uni. Abhorrent. An adult woman with severe cognitive and physical disability from birth was forced without her consent nor understanding by her biological parents to undergo surgical modification that invoulved a double-mastectomy, mutilation and remouval of her genitals, and even partial amputative dismemberment. The parents' "reasoning" was to prevent any possibility of sexual abuse and assault by any of her caretakers. My group team and I argued that such an act is a vile and inhumane attempt that disregards the legal, ethical, and moral rights of a human being. It made me sick.
I watched this documentary on Netflix last night. To think that she feels she is a victim in all of this and was “in love” is truly disturbing. I felt profoundly sad for Derrick and others like him that don’t get the chance to live out their lives like everyone else. So glad he has a wonderful brother and mother that truly love him. That is the plus in all of this.
There’s a culture of sexualizing black men which I feel played a part in this. Young black men, even minors, are often not seen as young and in need of protection. There is a history of black men being fetishized and sexualized. I’m convinced that both the race and gender of the victim influenced the sentencing. This is horrendous
Evil has no skin color. Equally, evil has no gender. Stop playing the Victim Card! People like you are part of "the problem". Yet, there is a grain of truth in what you say. As Old Adams and Old Eves, all of us are inclined to be tribal and, in that state of mind, tend to become hostile, disdainful, or indifferent toward the "other tribes.". The Black Tribe is just as capable of being "evil" as the White Tribe. As for Anna, she's a Godless (morally self-directed) Atheist. Her Godless (morally self-directed) thoughts turned into Godless (self serving, self indulgent) feelings, which turned into Godless (moralless and self-serving) actions. The trajectory is predictable. Individually and collectively. Collective Godlessness leads to inhumane Marxism. This ideology might first go through "gentle" Socialism, but, trust this truth, it eventually leads to Marxist dominated Communism. As for the individual Atheists who resist evil, when enough of them gather into Marxism, the good and decent Atheists, who did not indulge thoughts and feelings that misuse and abuse others, who tesist evil, they too shall be hunted down and canceled, silenced, fined, imprisoned, or executed. By Godless inhumane Marxism. We must never forget the abuses of Religionists, but, let's also remember that inhumane Marxists murders more of their own than even their enemies. Mao and Stalin, both Godless Atheists, killed between them over 100 million of their own citizens! THEIR. OWN. CITIZENS. Our Creator has a plan for humankind, and He have us, each, aprox 100 years and, collectively, 6000 years to figure things out. Our time is actually up. 2029 - 2033, God returns, to restore law and order, justice and mercy, and prosperity of body, soul and spirit. While I appreciate the work of good and decent psychology professionals who examine the human soul (psyche means soul) and can be quote helpful to others, still, I think if I'm going to place my soul in someone's care, I'd make it, first, my Creator Savior and, second, flawed fallible and naturally self-serving mortal humans. The second has some merit, yes, but, ultimately, permanent lasting healing (not just behavior modification) comes from the Bible God, Jesus Christ. May you all be blessed with prosperity... Body, Soul and Spirit. May you all meet Jesus and be completely healed from self interest and the fear and pain that so often assaults us as we try to make sense of the world around us. I once knew nothing but tyranny and bullying from childhood onward. Learning about the man Jesus led me to wonder why He was called God. In time, as I searched for truth (in many wrong places, not unlike how I also looked for love in all the wrong places), Jesus introduced Himself to me. Imagine my astonishment. Today, Jesus commands me... with my permission. And, truthfully, He'd not have it any other way ❤ Many thanks to Todd Grande for tremendous insight into this horrible "hellish" situation. May all involved meet Jesus Christ and be comforted to know that, in spite of "Hell on Earth" increasing, Jesus returns soon. He will, ultimately, settle judgment upon those who went Godlessly their own way.
@@kristinaishimwe9422 I kind of disagree with you. Intersectionality exists. Yes, obviously him being disable was a factor but I’m saying I also think him being black was a factor. It doesn’t have to be one or the other. I think it was combination of both
The field of social work - where most therapists get their start otw to getting their LCSW (licensed clinical social worker) is super easy, they practically give degrees away. I was a SW major years ago, coasted with straight As, all female professors, I was one of 2 male students. An LCSW enables them to sell themselves as "therapist" I call it "the rapist" And yea, the PhD programs are ridiculously easy. I know some really dumb PhDs in this field. Most have that Dunning Krueger Effect going on. All female. My last therapist tried to sleep with me. She would send me money when I was homeless. March 2020. She was fired. I didn't sleep with her, but she was pretty.
I realized how ridiculous PhD's are, about 5yrs ago went home to OZ to visit fam and at a party met someone doing their PhD and when I asked what is the thesis, her answer was "hip hop influence in Australian youth/society",,,,,
I think the brother said at her sentencing was perfect. Anna was trying to be the "shero", white savior. It was evident watching the whole thing that she was full of herself and she took advantage of the entire family. The whole thing reminded me of the apologist way they did Casey Anthony. Pretending these people are the real victims instead of the monsters they really are.
In lieu of payment in a civil suit, they should be allowed to exchange it for jail time. Don't have 4 million dollars? How about $100,000 for one year of your life? 40 years sounds good to me.
My friend has a severely disabled daughter who was molested by a female best friend. She really was her only friend ( but she was a predator) . It was very traumatic for her and the entire family felt so betrayed. Another friend , years later , who also had a disabled daughter ( living in a college dorm) , that was groomed by a female online that convinced her she was a lesbian and the control got so bad that she cut her off from her family. It was horrible for this family. Their hands were tied because of her civil rights and age
Did i understand correctly that the disabled daughter visited college? In that case, her situation is hardly comparable with that of the man in the video. I have no idea what actually happened. But disabled people can of course explore their sexuality just like others (and are even more likely to care less about negative reactions), and "convinced her she's gay" is such a weird statement. Like how would they know what her actual sexuality is? Might as well be butthurt conservatives. Again, how would we know.
Exactly how female teachers are trying to turn children into the lgbt community members by brainwashing them, society fails to recognize how predatory women can be
Thank you so much for speaking out against FC. I'm on the spectrum and am consistently told that I am a "traitor" to the community because ABA helped me a lot, and I don't believe that it is abusive (even though there can be abusive ABA therapists, just like there can be abusive doctors or abusive teachers). Many of these people who have bullied me support facilitated communication, which I find to be incredibly ironic. ABA gave me the ability to communicate and advocate for myself and has scientific backing. The "evidence" against the therapy is often incredibly biased (e.g., sampling a bunch of people from a facebook group who hate ABA without even knowing what it is, and then claiming that 80% of people who go through ABA get PTSD from it). I'm genuinely tired of me and my family being accused of supporting child abuse, when FC has so many cases of abuse that no one wants to talk about. Recently, a family member of mine worked to overturn a bill that would allow FC in elementary schools. The FC "advocates" spun it to claim that the opposing side was "silencing" autistic children and denying them communication. Whether it's ABA, speech therapy, occupational therapy, etc...there are so many better ways to teach an autistic person how to communicate. And for what it's worth, one of the main proponents of FC (Dr. Bernard Rimland) became a vehement opponent of the practice when he realized there was no evidence behind it. That should tell you a lot about the validity of FC.
@@NichelleSullivan Applied behavior analysis. It’s one of the scientifically backed treatments for autism, often combined with speech & occupational therapy. Some opponents believe it is akin to “conversion therapy”, which I find to be an incredibly homophobic comparison. ABA focuses on reducing harmful behaviors (e.g., hitting, self injurious behavior, eloping, etc.) and uses positive reinforcement. ABA didn’t change who I was (which is a common misconception); it simply helped me to navigate the world. Before ABA, I bit my parents and was told I would never talk or live independently. Now I’m a graduate student with my own apartment ☺
@@Poochiepoochie54321 Thank you so much! You have no idea what this means to me. I am more of a “quiet advocate” since I cannot handle the amount of bullying that other advocates receive. I would highly suggest looking into Kaelynn Partlow; she is an AMAZING autistic advocate who also fights for the same causes I do. Eileen Lamb is also a good advocate; she writes a blog about her life as an autistic mom with 2 autistic kids and also hosts a podcast called “Adulting on the Spectrum”
exactly ! as for people who doubt the whole FC debate: if you do the research you'll see it has been debunked many times over: it is the facilitator typing, every, single, time. why its still promoted i have no idea, especially when things like teaching people how to use AAC devices , sometimes with adaptive buttons and switch access, , eye gaze, large track ball mouse ; also ASL, makaton signing, along with basic and modified sign language etc. to enable people to communicate spontaneous and autonomously. FC does not work, sorry, but i have seen it in my 21 years working in the adult disability services field and advocacy, it is the facilitator typing; and, you'll notice, with each so called ''facilitator'', the clients ''speech'' or typing patterns and styles fluctuates , the literacy levels vary, and personality is different with each facilitator.
I had the same exact thought. A man of color doing this to a non-verbal white woman... the level of media coverage and the sentencing would be night and day.
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The phrases "loosened diaper" and "oral sex" should never, ever go together.
😂 💀 ikr 😞
Literally made me gag
Talk about gag reflex 😮
😂😂😂🎉 cool
Unless it's two geezers doing consensual shenanigans.
This is INSANE.
And she’s not required to register as a sex offender?? Because she should be. For life.
I doubt it. She appealed and was let out of prison.
Imagine a man doing this to a severely disabled woman, then getting 22 months and not having to register. Um, yeah ain’t happening.
I believe she does have to register under Megan's Law as part of her plea deal, along with lifetime parole.
@@JRRob3wnyeah, the double standards are outrageous! It’s crazy that male victims are still not taken seriously…..the public outcry would be insane if the roles were reversed & a male educator was the perpetrator.
@@isitoveryet9525 I don’t know if you saw the story from a few months ago about a female teacher molesting a ten year old boy…seems like there is an epidemic of these sick cases out there. Very sad state of affairs in our country all around.
As an Aged Care RN I highly advise people to install camera's in the rooms of loved ones who are unable to communicate effectively. Most of us are good people but there are bad eggs everywhere
Unfortunately its the world we live in now.
Child please… not that dynamic
@@skybot9998 always been haha
@@skybot9998 Perverts have always been a problem. They just got away with it more in the past
It has always been like that. Do you think people weren't abused before? You are naive@@skybot9998
It's wild, she was literally talking to herself during the facilitated communication and lived out some weird fantasy.
frightening
This is obviously someone who's brain is broken. IDK what the deal is, Im only halfway through, but IDC what anyone says, this chick's brain is not working properly.
Exactly! Like in Psycho when Norman Bates talks to his mom.
Exactly she used him to create herself a "perfect" man. Someone intellectual and romantic. She's still delusional to this day.
Yeah, that’s what it seems like.
“She loosened his diaper . . . .” Say no more, Dr. Grande. Seriously, say no more!
That made my mouth drop. SMH
lmao
I’m stuck there too…. The sentence just keeps repeating.
That sentence and the next one that follows absolutely should never have to be said together
This! Ugh wth.
She should be on a sex offender registry. Really what she did to this vulnerable man is pure evil.
I do not believe she was “ evil” but she used incredibly poor judgement. I believe she was sincerely convinced the young man in question was brilliant and was using their form of facilitated written communication . It was highly accepted system used at that time, for people whom could not articulate their thoughts, ideas and feelings, in many teaching institutions for a while. She was a respected professor , Her own mother was well known as an innovative teacher for people with handicap’s.and this was a long term relationship she had with the young man , as well as having a friendship, his brother and mother. She was seriously misguided by her beliefs and possibly further persuaded by her growing emotional feelings for the young man.. And she maybe became besotted by her feelings for the young man. Magical thinking , in her mind d, was at play here! She wanted to “ save” the young man and be his everything.She is perhaps psychologically unwell and STILL needs treatment. But again, I do not think she is “ evil”. 15:26
Sex is not evil she gave him a gift that he will never get again She is crazy
@@Mike-y7o2zShut up
Yt privilege
@@Mike-y7o2z being sexually assaulted is not a "gift". He's a severely disabled person who cannot consent to sex, nor understand the concept of consent. She used her position and power to take advantage of him. That does have unfortunate psychological repercussions that the victim has to live with.
If a male "counselor" did this to a young, profoundly disabled woman, he would be serving life in prison.
assuming he lived long enough to get to prison.
Isn't it disgusting? We have to start holding women equally accountable. I'm a woman and can't believe how society views sexual abuse so differently between male and female offenders.
This lady maybe would have gotten a hefty sentence if the judge hadn’t made a blunder. It’s not that it was a female that she walked free, it’s the fault of the judge
100 %
And Domestic violence . I work in large Public Hospital
were male DV survivors are pretty much ignored .
The fact that she thinks she’s in a position to “save” black ppl shows how she really feels…. Equals don’t go around saving each other
Exactly right.
This was going to be my comment exactly
Also, this was a married woman who had two children. As if the whole thing wasn't bad enough, think of her own family. Imagine finding out your wife or mother did this?
I know
True talk. Even her husband called her a pathological liar
@@eveheart2876Yes, and he also said she was a narcissist!
Wait, what's that got to do with it, do people go to jail for adultery in America?
@@didirobert3657and she’s also a liberal. The worst disability of them all.
My twin brother has severe cerebral palsy. The fact that some people are on her side and saying it's abeleist is insane. They are vulnerable. She is a predator.
What’s ableist is taking advantage of someone who cannot repel you in any way. Her even saying that he ‘seduced’ her is the same repulsive language pedophiles use.
As someone who is living with cerebral palsy, albeit in a fairly mild form, I find what this woman did to be horrific. People who are genuinely vulnerable need to be protected from people like this. At the same time, I hope that people don't automatically assume that everyone with CP is a potential victim who is incapable of deciding what he/she wants. I know people with cerebral palsy who are lawyers for example, while I have earned a pair of degrees in history and social work. I'm also very capable of telling someone to stop doing something that I don't want them to do. The point is that cases like this need to be judged on an individual level.
In my opinion, the people taking her side and calling this ableism are the real ableists.
While I agree that it would be ableist to assume based on appearances that a person lacks competence, there are no assumptions being made here. His intellectual disability is well documented. And most importantly, his inability to care for himself or understand language does not decrease his value or his personhood. He is a worthy human being regardless and I doubt the people who call this situation “ableist” can see that.
@@lisapeesalemonsqueezah3241 so your saying hes worthy in all ways except intimacy???? What kind of life is that????
It's called yt privilege. In amercian society Caucasians are always given the benefit of the doubt, yet for people of color we're made out to be purposely evil.
Anna's position of power over him and his mental disability should have landed her a longer sentence!
She appealed and was released after 2 years.
But i’m sure she will never teach again.
@@couchprincess698 a man would've been in for a decade at least, though
The power difference is the core of this story of abuse😢
@@jwr2904 WTF are you talking about? Most crime docs with sex offenders feature guys who had been given shockingly light sentences for prior crimes before they escalated to murder. And those guys are straight up predators while this woman is dazzled by left-logic to the point that Dr Grande considers her beliefs as possibly delusional so at least she has a major mitigator compared to most sex offenders.
The more I look at these types of stories the more it friggen feels like the whole friggen legal system is one big fat joke.
That she was a professor of _ethics_ is disturbing.
Usually the ones who have to study it don’t ever have it
FACT! My professional ethics professor matched with me on a dating app when I was 18 and he was in his 30s, asked to meet up at his place, then begged me not to tell anyone. Those are the ones to be weary off.
Of other people's ethic
She was obsessed with disabilities Disability culture and it was not a genuine passion or something she cared about ...she was obsessed with Disability culture and people with disabilities, it was a dark obsession.... she should never be described as a person who had passion because what it was ,was far from that.
@@meridianoneill3235a lot of narcissistic people get involved in that profession, it's where they live out their fantasies, find victims and abuse their titles. So sorry that happened!
She really expected people to believe he typed out "I feel alive for the first time" by himself?
So much projection going on Freud is spinning in his grave at light speed.
@@babblingalong7689yes, w the prokection. Dunno why that would upset a pseudonscientist like freud tho
@@johnanon658lol true
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@@johnanon658 Hey, Freud may have had some weird thoughts about his own mother, but the man knew how to party. That's gotta count for something.
Agree with Dr Grande's analysis. To protect people with severe disabilities, a camera should be set up when they're being worked with by an educator. Just as cameras should be on in Daycares.
Exactly, they're just as vulnerable.
In old people homes too.
And in every classroom everywhere.
I see absolutely no reason that school and public universities should not have cameras in the classrooms.
As a someone who has worked as a caregiver for people with physical and mental disabilities, I agree.
Cameras help in documenting behavior, both good and bad. And ensure ethical treatment of the vulnerable.
lets just put the profound disabilities aside, even as a clinician if she had feelings for a patient she's actively assisting she should have stopped being his clinician. She's broke major boundaries. Adding in the disability she rightfully needed to be charged.
that's probably the most sensible differentiated comment compared to all the witch hunters in this comment section.
@@maxmeier532whats up??
@maxmeier532 the most sensible? Give me a break. The commenter is treating his intellectual limitations as if they are an afterthought to the clinician/patient boundary being crossed. One does not even come close to the egregious nature of the other.
Exactly and when I was watching the documentary, this is exactly what I thought when she was those breaking professional boundaries.
@@lazydaisy2292 no I’m not. She obviously needed to be charged because the man was incapable of consenting due to disabilities.
However, I put them aside in my comment to point out that even though she believed him to be understanding and communicating consent, even putting that aside as a clinician she broke a boundary so she was already guilty for that alone.
She feels unfairly prosecuted as she believed him consenting and communicating. So my comment points out that she already broke boundaries long before she even considered his disabilities.
Adding in the fact the man clearly couldn’t consent is the worst part
I was fascinated by her mother. She is clearly a huge part of the reason Anna is the way she is. Thats her biggest enabler right there.
Yes! I got a bad vibe from her mother.
‘I was fascinated’ nothing fascinating about a woman. Batshit crazy animals
AGREED!!!!! I would be very interested in hearing more on the history of the mother. Also, what was her relationship with Anna like?
Yes I agree the mother of Ana seems off to me
Literally reminded me of Luka Magnotta’s mom. Wake up, lady. Your kid’s a psycho!!
As a mother of a daughter with similar profound disabilities, I was furious, disheartened and utterly disgusted. I could barely listen to her nonsense. She received a slap on the wrist.
What would happen if somehow, a disabled girl/woman and a disabled man, who were together on maybe group therapy, or on some facility, who would they charge if they caught them in the act of sex?
@@hardver8855 Read the room.
May I ask, how common do folks with CP have it this difficult/severely? I know that it can impact all motor functioning, but usually people are okay cognitively? That was always my assumption, but I suppose I shouldn't make assumptions.
Perhaps I need to do some buffing up on this particular topic 😬
@@hardver8855 The facility could possibly be cited, fined, or shut down for neglect
@@hardver8855, something of a sexual nature did happen between a disabled female and a disabled male on my daughter’s special needs school bus. Both were teenagers under the age of 18. CPS became involved. Not sure of the outcome due to privacy laws. My daughter just recently turned 18 but will continue to go to school until she’s 22. She has a one to one Aid/Assistant at school. My husband and I have guardianship over here since she is by law an adult but unable to mentally make decisions for herself.
There is such a huge disparity between sentencing for male sex offenders and female sex offenders. It's disgusting.
and race
@gerald-uo7ry yeah one particular race does seem to commit a majority of violent crimes
@@gerald-uo7ryIs more about ones socio economic background than race
@@savagehadoken6828 which one?
@@savagehadoken6828One particular race makes up a majority of all sex offenses in prison. They actually commit more sex offenses than every other race combined… bet ya can’t guess which race ;)
I've used this type of communication with my two cats! I frequently guide their paws along the keyboard of my computer. According to them I'm an awesome human!
..... are your cats safe??? 😂
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This is completely fucked up. I love how, in the documentary, her mom and herself insist that she's never hurt anyone. She traumatized Derrick, his family, and HER family. She's a delusional narcissist. She was wrapped up in a fantasy she created in her head and had no problem violating the rights of Derrick, cheating on her husband, destroying her family, and hurting Derrick's family. The fact she can't even pronounce "D-Man" properly just makes it so much worse. She crossed SO MANY boundaries. This woman is twisted and deserves life in prison.
omg yes first sign she was a crazy psycopath was when she kept calling him Daman instead of D-Man
@@malcriadamedina5358 it’s the little signs that our intuition picks up on that just can’t be ignored, our intuition is always right! The “Daman” thing was her way to make him sound more upper-class and “intellectual”, I think
Yeah, when I saw the "D-man" name in the documentary my first thought was there's nothing shocking about the idea that someone might've called him that before. It's not an uncommon premise for a nickname, proving that FC doesn't work. I agree with the boundaries as well. She wasn't just a family friend that wanted to help- she was employed as an educator who as a scholar was his facilitator. Even if anyone believed in her delusions, there's still the power dynamic at play due to her role was to be his facilitator. Her mom and former clients who she's helped wanting to believe the best in her I can understand, as I imagine it can be difficult to come to terms with a loved one being a sex offender. However, at some point you need to face the facts that just because you love someone whose never hurt you/you've never seen hurt anyone doesn't mean they didn't do it. Regardless of their varying levels of denial, those people are also on the traumatized list. As you rightfully said, the woman is twisted and should've received life in prison.
Yeah that was messed up im glad someone else noticed she (and her mom) kept calling him Daman instead of Dee-Man AFTER his mom pronounced it for her. Then they interview the professor at the history class and she pronounced it Dee-Man as well. It was like she was trying to white it up and make it sound sophisticated.
@meowmirrr I thought that too. Like D Man is a little too ghetto for her so she "churched" it up a bit.
Like that scene in Joe Dirt where he's pronouncing his own name with a French accent lol
This is actually one of the creepiest cases Dr Grande has covered, and that's saying a lot.
Great point. If Anna truly believed that Derrick was misdiagnosed and had this hidden potential, she should have gotten him more help rather than have had an intimate relationship. That would have shown more love but she was selfish and only cared about herself.
She’s a zealot. Go find that Frontline special that Dr. John (the brother) referenced. The people who have bought into FC are pathologically fanatical. They think it’s some kind of miracle and that they are miracle workers.
Not to mention, she needed to stop being his facilitator. She was employed as an educator who was his facilitator to help him communicate. She was a scholar, and this was part of her career. If he had the intellectual capability to consent, there's still the power dynamic that if the "relationship" didn't end well that she can cut off his ability to communicate. If the focus really was on her genuine romantic interests and wanting to do the right thing, she needed to stop being his facilitator and hand that role over to someone else to pursue a romantic relationship (which really should've happened anyhow as soon as she realized she was developing feelings for him; proof that it was entirely selfish even if someone believed her delusions).
Exactly! This is really a god complex of "I know better than anyone else." FC is already questionable as far as whether it works. If it works, it has a high margin of error.
What a revolting woman.
This is like a real life horror movie. This lady is deeply, deeply disturbed and its freakin me out 😖
Truly
The woke Left needs to be shut down.
She's just your typical liberal.
I know exactly what you mean
Dr G couldn't have put it better when he referred to her as "extremely creepy" ..... What's worse is that I watched this just after dinner 🤢
I work with a vulnerable population and I CAN’T believe she’s not locked up for life. This is one of the most horrifying stories I’ve heard!!!
The fact that she can't even recognize how inappropriate the power imbalance was, regardless of his intellectual capacity, is a huge red flag that she is not committed to the truth. And to be willing to throw her marriage away to make such a foolish choice really is unbelievable.
I wonder if she is still married. A lot of these beta males would just accept this and stay married.
@@snu3877he left her
@@snu3877I doubt she still married. There is actually a documentary called Tell Them That You Love Me, the husband wrote a letter to the court and called her a narcissist and a liar.
she is a blaq lover, not surprising
It's not regardless of his intellectual capacity. It's BECAUSE of his intellectual capacity. You think those with disabilities can't have sexual relationships of they're intellectually competent? Of course they can. It's his intellectual limitations that make it wrong. What you said doesn't even make sense.
No sex offender registration? Such BS!!
Meanwhile a high school kid streaking gets on the sex offender list.
In terms of fairness, it absolutely is. In terms of evidence based lawmaking, offender registration is nonsense that, according to research, doesn't produce any meaningful result.
Good thing this documentary exists. Her true story is a bad look and the more people see it, the more the community can be vigilant about her. She can't be trusted to work with disabled individuals. Especially those who are nonverbal and can't express if she is raping them. It's a sad state of affairs that she was able to appeal even with all that evidence from legit doctors stating her victim in no way could have consented.
she belongs on the registry what the heck
@@KinslayerOfDoom Uh let me tell you, if somebody I meet is on the register, it would matter a great deal.
i am disabled in multiple ways. i find it extremely odd how anna thinks about the disabled people she sees. that they are basically "normal" people which is trapped by their physical limitations. its okay for people to not have a normal intelligence and its so weird how she cant seem to accept that. i think it is a way that she tried to legitimize their relationship and ignore their disability
Her way to legitimize herself.
Bingo 🎯
Very insightful
So can people with disabilities have romantic relationships with “Normal people”?
I think she liked that she could fully & completely control him. Make him hers, make him whoever she wants him to be.
"I attended a three day workshop." The final words of every great Dr.
Trading gurus attend one day seminars. You're telling me they too are not legit?
For real. I have a whole masters degree in communication science and disorders, which is how I know FC is embarrassing snake oil. This is exactly why you’re supposed to have a professional license to provide clinical services.
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I think one the most disturbing elements of this case is that Anna was willing to double down and actually be interviewed by Netflix. She was essentially role playing with herself. I was speechless.
She clearly is an actual narcissist
It was her only chance to gaslight
And the wicked sick woman was working overtime to isolate him from his family members (i.e., mother and brother).
@Melissam..
What she did has nothing to do with narcissism you clearly are not a psychiatrist.
@@gazelledonald714People have turned it into the latest buzzword and it's lost most of its meaning.
I watched this documentary a few days ago, and watching Anna was very disturbing. She has such high levels of education, but it's clear there's something deeply mentally wrong with her. The part that struck me the most was how overjoyed she was to describe in great detail how and where she was intimate with the victim to his mother. She genuinely enjoys talking about what she did to him. She smiles the entire time. Even during her trail and during sentencing she smiled, disturbing. I'm glad that she views people with disabilities as no different than anyone else, but what she did was predatory. Had nothing to do about caring for him. She saw the opportunity and took full advantage of it. And for that she should have never been released from prison.
She is delusional imo plain and simply. She genuinely believes he is a black Stephen hawking and they had a whirlwind forbidden romance, it's a lot of liberal ideology they teach in school, probably midlife crisis and issues in her marriage, but I understand she is simply delusional
Her odd constant smiling was unsettling
In addition to this egregious crime, not once did Anna ever think about how her children and her husband would feel. She was so preoccupied with herself and her grandiosity, that these precious parts of her life were not even considered.
I honestly feel for the father and her children. Could you imagine how hard it would be to have to protect your children from her insanity?
Grandiosity is an apt word
She was married with kids when she committed those unspeakable acts? Wow, you're right, she either didn't think about how it would effect them, or she resents (hates) them.
@@johnanon658 I thought that too. She was so enamoured with herself and how she was helping this man the love she felt was all created by her. Look what she was able to do.
I was a student of hers in the spring semester of 2011. I forget the official name of the class but we learned of eugenics and generally how disadvantaged people with disabilities are in society. We watched “Annie’s Coning Out” and learned about FC. She brought Derrick into our class one day to show us FC in action. We got to ask him questions about what it was like to live with his condition. I remember asking him at one point “Do you feel your family still understands and “gets” you even though you haven’t been able to talk to them.” and using FC with Anna’s help “he” responded “No, my family doesn’t really get me.” I was sick to my stomach when this story broke and the truth came out. She came across as the furthest thing from a monster. I liked her. To know what was actually happening . . . smh. Heartbreaking beyond my comprehension. I still can’t wrap my head around it.
If they were obviously messed up they couldn't get away with it
I can't wrap my head around it either! She definitely has some severe psychological problems.
Shes a woke weirdo democrat
Fascinating.
Did she have a white lab coat on? Did she say trust the science?
Absolutely disgusting. Taking advantage of a disabled person this way.
karen stop
😂
@@Jeff.55649Seek help
@@Jeff.55649that's so not a Karen dude get a clue 😅
@@Jeff.55649👈PDFile
Imagine the sexes reversed. If a man did this to a disabled woman, they would have thrown away the key. She got off lightly.
The fems always do.
Less than 2 years in jail.
I work at a courthouse, the massive differences in sentences men and women receive is astounding. We love to talk about racial inequality in the justice system. It has nothing compared to gender differences.
She got a lower sentence because she is white and he is Black.
Yup,absolutely no doubt about it and that’s not to mention what the theoretical man would have to face in prison,that’s a punishment all to itself
So Facilitated Communication is basically a Ouija Board.
My thought, too!
My thoughts exactly.
Woah! I totally saw the similarities as well
Nice
Look up "sex surrogate therapy."
The part that got to be was when his brother described finding wounds on Derek's back from Anna dragging him across the floor. That man's emotions said everything. He loves Derek so deeply.
I just watched "tell them that you love me" last night. I was enraged! I work with adults who have special needs. I can't imagine working with someone to teach and encourage autonomy, to sexually assaulting them and believing that you are in love!!!
There just isn't a bottom for some people
I definitely think she was a bit nuts.
Definitely has a much more insidious evil to it when you love or work with special needs. I have family. I can't say what I'd do to someone who did this because my comment would be banned.
Watched the documentary on Netflix last night. She's a monster. As her husband wrote to the court, she's a narcissistic sociopath. Her smugness is infuriating.
This is a common belief amongst sex offenders.
They believe that they "can just tell".
They believe that what they're doing is consensual and beautiful romance.
We, as a species, typically want to believe we can just tell what's going on around us and that we can read other people. It makes life seem predictable.
Even IF he would consent, it was a VERY unethical act!
You are one million percent correct!
Idk what this statement implies lol, legal consent extends far beyond willingness
@@NealBurkard-ut1oo The statement implies doctors can't bang their patients because it's unethical.
In that hypothetical, why? No, there wouldn't be a single problem if that was the case as a given hypothetical. It does not seem to be the case here at all, but if it was, what would be the issue
@@NealBurkard-ut1ooI’m guessing it implies that even if he was a typical adult it would still be wrong because therapist having relationships with a client like that (even a fully functioning adult) is unethical. It’s still predatory and honestly just gross.
I agree with you. She projected her own attributes onto him & was in love with herself.
Her SELF-PERCEIVED attributes.
Yup. Projection is contagious these days
This is it in a nutshell. It was determined that perfectly well-intentioned facilitators were producing the information, much like an Ouija Board. One person was purported to have said, through facilitation, "They ARE your words, but I am choosing them." This kind of magical thinking served only to move us backward in our goals of providing compassionate and competent care for adults living with disabilities.
This is professional sexual abuse. He can’t be fully consenting due to his vulnerable status. Even if he possessed intelligence and learned to communicate, he was vulnerable to her. In teaching him to communicate she was grooming him.
I never thought I'd hear, "loosened his diaper," as a prelude to sex
Man fr 😂
Yes, me too. This makes me very sad.
Hot ❤
😂😂
I mean, there are a lot of physically disabled adults who have to wear them, who are married, in relationships etc
She’s a predator in every sense of the word. In fact, she might be the MOST predator.
lol
Did you see the film? His mom said she said “he’s a man in every sense of the word” 🤢 like WAT the film truly made me completely disgusted how does a woman even get there
Grammatically this dsnt make sense. You mean the WORST predator?
The fact that you’re removing a diaper tells this woman everything she needs to know. That fact that some debate it is insane
Exactly...
I think the president of the USA currently wears diapers. Not sure if he gets lucky, but i do think he had “the button.” 😳
Facilitated communication: look, with my help he just typed “remove this diaper and show me what dat throat do Dr!”
@@Krmyas😂😂😂
@@Krmyas His opponent needs diapers too. Just went on a long rant recently at a rally about everything "Obama" is doing, none of which was Obama. He just can't remember what decade things are. Having straight up hallucinations means you might also hallucinate the living room as being the bathroom, better stay safe with diapers.
As a mother and caregiver for over 25 yrs, this revolts me and disturbs me on so many levels....
That poor young disabled man couldn’t possibly have given any consent whatsoever!
It came out in court that he was physically recoiling and trying to move away from her during the assault.
How do you know he's poor? I don't recall anything in this video mentioning his financial situation.
@scarygary-qq1pj Is this a joke? You do know poor can have multiple meanings.
Poor: (of a person) considered to be deserving of pity or sympathy.
"they inquired after poor Dorothy's broken hip
@@thepaigeparker how would they know this though, if noone witnessed the assault?
@@afrodite9801 I believe she herself described this. She considered it just “discomfort “ due to his “inexperience “. This is how deluded this woman is , remember she still doesn’t think she did anything wrong.
DG- “Ana was EXCEEDINGLY CREEPY.”
Two perfectly placed words for this case 😳
Wow what a sick person. Taking advantage of someone so vulnerable
Definetly has TDS this is a symptom of it
No different than a chomo, in my book
I appreciate how Dr Grande can almost veil his disgust. Almost.
My son has special needs. He's been a victim 3 times. A stranger and 2 classmates. It's a horrible thing. They need more protection. I'm in California . Adult services and local police don't help because they think the disabled person dosn't make a good witnesses on the stand. This women deserves years in jail. May Derek and parents stay strong and heal from this.
Sorry to hear that your son has been a target on 3 occasions. A friend of mine from school mixed some Xanax & alcohol & accosted a disabled boy in a wheelchair at a train station for his laptop & when he refused my friend punched him in the face & stole it. He was sentenced to 7 years in prison. Yet this medical "professional" takes advantage of a vulnerable patient & gets away with time served.
WOW! I'm so sorry your son and family experienced this.
Dr. G,
Thank you for covering this case. I definitely agree with your analysis. I’m in shock that Anna only served 22 months. She’s a sick person and I hope she’s monitored carefully on her “Lifetime Probation!”
Are you frigging kidding me?....I cannot possibly understand living in a place where something like that isn't taken seriously and consequences aren't harsh. Do that in Tennessee and you'll be behind bars for a decade or more.
I'm so shocked and sorry. I'll pray for you and your family
We have adult children with special needs. This makes me so sick. She should go to prison for life.
I was struck by her father facilitating her role playing as a physically handicapped person. I remain deeply disturbed by this woman. She is clearly unwell.
What? That's so weird
I agree. What child plays like they have different disabilities? This was a red flag
Unfortunately there are people who are attracted to people with different types of disabilities. They like the disability-not the person
yes I was too as a person with a disability this disturbed me greatly she fed her own ego and need to for attention with Derek I believe Derek does, in fact, have greater cognition than his family understands HOWEVER that does not give this woman in a position of power to lose her damn mind and take advantage the ethical thing to do would have been to refer him to another facilitator.....unfortunately faking disability or role-playing disability has become popular and there is even a term for it called trans abled and just like her many of these people do not understand just how ableist and how much this abhorrent behavior hurts the disabled community and unfortunately any strides that people have made with the technology as i have seen in my own lived experience will be doubts and not believe but don't even get me started on Derek's mother and brother I have so much to say about this and the intersectionality of race class and the harmful ableism of faith healing pentecostal doctrines ANOTHER discussion entirely
Both her and her parents are walking red flags.
@@MoonWomanStudiosin the documentary tell them you love me, she says she used to try to pretend that she had cerebral palsy, which the victim has. She also liked to pretend that she was blind. Now a lot of kids have played that game, blindfold themselves and pretend that you're blind for a few minutes. But she did it for an entire day!
I hope the brother doesn’t feel guilty, he just thought he found help. I’m glad the family are so tight knit and have each other to lean on and help Derrick
This is like having intimacy with an infant- How is this woman real
Taking the diaper off and all 😖
LGBTQ cult brainwashing.
That part.
@@sarahd8093I was wondering about that🤮 They didn’t address it in the movie!
@@QueenofKings-mh7znThey made a movie out of this !
Who played Derek ?
I’m the caregiver for my Aunt , she’s mentally disabled. This case is both horrifying and infuriating. I’m thankful Anna was so ignorant that she told Derrick’s mother what she had done. Im also thankful they went to law enforcement and Anna was convicted.
yes! the only reason she was found out was bc she told on herself.
😂 ikr. She thought mama bear was going to be okay with that 😢😂😂. I love the way they caught her.
Mama play along 😅 with the detective
How dumb did she have to be? Lol I think she's such a narcissist it didn't phase her. Crazy @@eveheart2876
Wherever there are gullible and/or vulnerable people, there are predators .. the more layers of accountability, the less likely abuses can happen .. this woman knew how to manipulate ..
Aint that the truth
The horrible truth
@@tw8464
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No
Creepy that she doesn't think she did anything wrong. She's still delusional which makes her dangerous.
The cognitive dissonance is strong. She would be high risk of reoffending if she was still working as a therapist .
This woman fell in love with herself. She chose Derek’s answers and took advantage of him. She wanted complete control of a man and found a way she could do so. Thank you Dr.Grande for reaching this conclusion as well.
This is absolutely sickening. She should've gotten a longer sentence and had to register as a S Offender. She preyed on that man.
She got 12 years but entered a plea.
She helped that man get a degree in african american studies. He can get a job and move out the house like she wanted
I love it when doc whips out the "EXCEEDINGLY creepy" judgement.
Wow, I was going to say the same thing!! It's underused. 😂
Me too!!
As a mom of a 14 year old son with Autism watching this documentary made me EXTREMELY angry ! The way this predatory narcissist took advantage of this young man and treated his mom is absolutely disgusting !! As parent’s of special needs children/adults we depend on professionals to help our children become the best people they are capable of being and for this psycho to come in and sexually assault this young man and try to isolate him from his amazing family is scary !! Let me say that the mom in this story is better than me because if that was MY son I would’ve handled Anna myself and I would’ve been the one going to jail !! When his mom said that he’s her baby I teared up because even though my son is 14 he’s my baby who I will have to take care of for the rest of my life and I couldn’t imagine anyone taking advantage of him sexually !! Also let’s say that the teacher was a black man and the victim was a disabled white woman he would’ve been put under the jail ! But she’s an educated white woman and got away with a slap on the wrist !! She still think’s what she did is okay ! She’s a predator and should NEVER be allowed to work with disabled people ever again !
She should be in prison for life. She preyed on him and he was obviously mentally challenged beyond the capability of consent. She is a predator. Plain and simple.
I worked at a school for kids with autism back in the late 90s, and saw 1st hand that facilitated communication with non-verbal kids seemed about as reliable as a ouiji board. Over eager facilitators were clearly doing the communicating.
Even VERBAL communication with my autistic niece is about as reliable as a ouiji board. She says whatever she thinks we want her to. But she's very young still and that will change. Really interesting learning about this facilitated communication era I missed. I've been in the specials needs world as a nurse for several years and the communication boards and switches are extremely valuable but the user has full autonomy. No one does it for them.
@@laceyl5682 We had 2 therapists in particular who kind of thought they were AMAZING at FC, but the kids only seemed more likely to get agitated with being misunderstood with them.
@laceyl5682 yes, there are people with cerebral palsy that use the boards how people without a disability use speech to text. It's just to speed up the process for them, but they know what they're saying. Not all obviously.
FC can only work if there's something to communicate. So I could see its value for physically but not mentally disabled people. It clearly has no use for someone who is cognitively a toddler, which is what this young man appears to be.
I hate the gender double standard.
If a man did this, he would (rightly) be considered a monster for the rest of his life.
I remember at least one story of a bed ridden woman who couldn't speak. She lived in a nursing home. She became pregnant from an orderly. It didn't work out to well for him.
Men get light sentences for sex crimes all of the time and if you read the comments you will see most people do consider her a monster.
@@jesseredden7123 False.
Compared to women, mens sentences are extremely harsh.
It's not even close.
Edit: The orderly that had sex with a coma-woman got 10 years. Compared to 22 months for this woman.
"Light"... lol.
@@jessieyork4508the incident you’re talking about involved a woman in coma, she even gave birth and the man was sentenced to ten years. I actually found a couple other stories involving women in a vegetative state who were impregnated by staff members.
@@pkz420 Did I write that men always get light sentences or that women get longer sentences?
Having an attractive non verbal son this shit scares the life out of me. Once they showed the students face, a scared feeling ran through me from head to toe. She knew he couldn't consent she just saw what she saw and projected onto him, she didnt care about reality.
Every mother thinks their son is attractive
@@andyisdead no, my son has no visual symptoms of his mental disability, he is completely neurotypical passing visually, all his teachers love how affectionate and cute he is i hear how cute he is from basically every woman... I know when he's older he'll look like my dad and I, a very handsome look (yes I'm a handsome lady) and seeing the boy who was victimized in this video looking visibly delayed and not as handsome as my own son but still pretty good it scared me extra
@@andyisdead like my son is ONLY mentally handicapped, physically he passes for anyone else... He is strong fit and cute, and his school takes lots of pictures of him for newsletters because of this... You just don't understand where I'm coming from when this nasty POS woman can lie about this young man's abilities to SA him when my son is 5x more neurotypical passing and handsome, I also keep him immaculately clean and good dental. The fact a caretaker could cross that line when they know they can't mentally consent is disgusting
Put cameras in his room.
@@simply_nebulous for who ? No one goes in my house! None of that. It's really schools you need to be careful for! With all students not only non verbal!!
It’s wild that she to this day doesn’t think she commited a crime
She’s insane!
Because she thinks she got consent from facilitated communication
@@lorigbasmajian3843 yes I understand that part, but even if she did (which we all know she didn’t) he was still a student and her a teacher!! Total abuse of power
only narcissists agree to be in a documentary about their own crime lmao
@@alexa3585 Absolutely. The fact she considered this a possible, ethical or viable relationship after working in this capacity with him is unreal. This is never ok, even if he DID consent, which he didn't.
shit like this is way too common. disabled people are often abused by the very people supposed to care for them, including family
Right, they are a vulnerable group and predators know that. It happens every day, it’s very sad.
This is why so many people are terrified of nursing homes or hospitals. It reminds me of how in Australia they caught some nasty female caretakers spitting in the mouth of a poor invalid who can't speak or walk and were mocking her. It was disgusting and sad.
You gotta love these people who think they are so smart and special and they are here to educate the rest of us ,the plebs 😅.
And these types usually hurt people along the way. Like this woman here.
She seemed to have little regard to how this will affect her husband and children but as soon as the police came and arrested her she mentions her daughter.
Right??? Like maybe you should have thought of that before 🤷🏼♀️
Her husband wrote a letter condemning her actions, in support of her conviction. That says a lot. He didn't defend her so she must've been very selfish in general, no regard for her family.
@@brianal7143 that absolutely says a lot. Pathological altruism, you have to be careful with those type of folks
If you have to remove someone’s diapers to have sex with them, you’re a rapist. I felt sick listening to what this woman did to that poor helpless man. And she claimed to be an advocate. 🙄
The diaper isn't the issue, it's his lack of mental capacity to consent. A mentally normal quadriplegic could absolutely have consensual sex with someone who took off his/her diaper first.
Eh no that doesnt make you a rapist. Without consent makes you a rapist..plenty of disabled people who need diapers and can't remove them themselves can have consensual sex.
The fact that his mother says he masturbates now is so fucking sad. I don’t think it’s sinful the way I suspect the mom does. But like she said, this woman triggered a physiological response that Derrick just has to now add on to his list of bodily challenges. She is a terrible person.
That is not true in all cases. If someone is e.g. paraplegic and they want to have sex with their partner(s) without their diapers on, it is indeed necessary to have their diapers removed by either their caregivers or their partner(s). Since most people like to be alone with their partner(s) when they are intimate, the partner(s) need to do it then.
So my grandfather had numerous strokes leaving him to need diapers. So he doesn't deserve to be with his wife anymore?
This lady is insane 😮
Typical far leftist, lol
Of course! Name one liberal who isn't....
Most liberals are
That and a million other things but I can sum it up in two words: F@#ked up!
@@marthamasdeo9833 I guess you had or paid for an abortion while voting anti-choice.
If you're going to dish it out, TAKE IT.
Oh my goodness. I know John Johnson. I went to Rutgers with him as an under graduate. I'VE never heard about this.I have lived in NC for over 20 years. I'm so sorry to hear this happened to his brother. What a sick woman.
When Derek's mom spoke about the injufies on Derek's back from the carpet in Ana's office when she was having her way with him, it broke my heart.
Now, please explain what could have possibly happened in the office. I really dont understand why he on his back.
@@Mr.woman_loverbecause Derek was physically disabled, he was probably on his back and she was on top riding him 😢
Absolutely disgusting.
I agree. Her behavior was godawful too.
🤮🤮🤮
Two painful facts are (1) that woman probably will never understand and therefore admit she's absolutely wrong, and (2) there are people who think she's right.
#2 is scarier
Netflix edited that thing so people would think her story is credible.
Ppl are taking her side because cerebral palsy doesn’t impact your intelligence. Only motor skills. It causes mild to severe muscle weakness and spasm and it can impact most muscles in the body. His is severe hence why he can’t walk or speak. However, almost half of ppl with cerebral palsy have some kind of mental impairment as well due to having other conditions. The chances of him being as intelligent as she claims is slim. It’s about 50/50.
@@Sjejejjsbensj if cerebral palsy is severe enough it absolutely affects your intelligence. The likelihood is 30-50% for the general CP population but for those who actually do have mental impairment like this brother right here, it is not 50/50. It is much higher. There was nothing up until meeting that lady in terms of tests and functionality that indicated that this guy had the intelligence she was attributing to him. She took advantage of that man plain and simple
@@Sjejejjsbensj but the documentary did include a third-party assessment that his brain was at like a 6 month or 6 age level (big jump but i forget which is was, regardless it is r4pe).
As soon as i heard, both of her parents were PhD psychologists my brain went, "this isn't ending well."
Edit: the people who cannot process this comment are cracking me up.
Yea that's like a child being taught to grow up inside a world inside another world inside their mind. Children generally are a blank slate so you don't have to analyze their behavior like you would and adult nation but if I were to guess it's hard for two PhD phycologist to resist the temptation to experiment with and analyze rather than raise their kid.
Great comment 👍
Really? I would immediately assume that they would be very fit and highly aware, as well as educated. Social class differences here.
🎯 🎯 🎯 🎯 🎯
@@MrSynhairyeah you sound like the type
"In a sense Ana was in love, but not with Derrick, she was in love with herself and her own vision of a just society." This is such a well-articulated and, in my opinion, accurate description.
Reminds me of "The Quest for Cosmic Justice" by Thomas Sowell.
When she said intelligence is a social construct I would guess that she also assumes that so is consent.
Informed consent on a Ouija board you mean, I guess. Did her university IRB approve that in lieu of an oral, written, signed, and dated consent form by the patient and his guardians?
intelligence is by definition a social construct, as dependent on the common ideology in a society of what intelligence is, tests are constructed to measure it. She might be all the proof you need, do you think she's highly intelligent? She might have an IQ that was a lot higher than yours, chances are. What is the consequence regarding the value of IQ tests then.
@@maxmeier532 Intelligence is a social construct that is an idea that has been created, operationalized, and accepted by people in a society as a representation of reality. Because it is a construct, it can be measured and ordinally ranked on the IQ scale.
Since developmentally he was a child, they should have charged with child abuse as well. That poor family.
That’s a good point!
vulnerable adult
His brother must have felt so betrayed and guilty. He brought her into his brother’s life 😞
that is the dumbest thing I have read today, congratulations. He has physical attributes hence hormonal composition of an adult. He is also a guy in his 30s. As a byproduct of your statement, you're watering down actual child abuse.
@@esteemedmortal5917he did - his anger is palpable.
The paradox is that no one will ever likely know with any certainty how Derek feels about this whole situation.
That’s because Derek doesn’t even know how he feels about this situation!
@@supernova11711 no he certainly feels some way about it, he just cannot articulate how he feels for others to understand
@@acmhfmggru your mama feels potato when your dad lays on top of her
@@acmhfmggru What a profoundly cruel comment.
@@greenjtI doubt he's even aware of the situation
I was a young PhD student when this situation broke. It was viscerally horrifying to watch academics in email listservs defend this woman. I'm glad that there were those individuals who had a strong sense of morality, and individuals who personally knew this woman, to know that she abused DJ.
In my professional opinion, Anna is a nutcase with no core values.
I second this excellent diagnosis
What's so horrible about her no limits narcissism is both her crime of rape and also how she dehumanized him by making him an object a slate she projected herself onto. She was willing to erase him completely for her narcissism. Scary
Yes, I find the way she erased the parts of him - like saying he enjoyed wine when he didn't, or that he preferred a certain music over another. The man she constructed in her head didn't even match him at all. She's a real piece of shit.
I am familiar with one of these cases from study during my year of Biomedical Ethics in Uni. Abhorrent. An adult woman with severe cognitive and physical disability from birth was forced without her consent nor understanding by her biological parents to undergo surgical modification that invoulved a double-mastectomy, mutilation and remouval of her genitals, and even partial amputative dismemberment. The parents' "reasoning" was to prevent any possibility of sexual abuse and assault by any of her caretakers. My group team and I argued that such an act is a vile and inhumane attempt that disregards the legal, ethical, and moral rights of a human being. It made me sick.
The Ashley treatment or another case? If another, I would like to read it if you reference the name. (One professional to another. Thank you!)
That’s absolutely abhorrent!
Jesus! It's like what the Kennedy's did to Rose 100x
What they did to their own daughter feels like the sexual torture that were afraid of. What awful people!
What doctors agreed to do that? They should be in prison
This story is disturbing and I have no idea why she isn’t behind bars. It’s sick
I think it was punishment enough being pro black
@@Mr.woman_lover wtf even is this comment? You can berate a pdf ile and you still choose racism? Wet piece of cardboard of a soul
In history, so much evil is committed by those who claim to 'care'.
I watched this documentary on Netflix last night. To think that she feels she is a victim in all of this and was “in love” is truly disturbing. I felt profoundly sad for Derrick and others like him that don’t get the chance to live out their lives like everyone else. So glad he has a wonderful brother and mother that truly love him. That is the plus in all of this.
This is totally gross to me
Because it literally is. It’s absolutely disgusting.
Race mixers are vile
@@neurosentience5150Yup, makes my stomach churn.
Thank you Captain Obvious.
Just you 😂
Absolutely disgusting. She should be in prison for a very long time and a registered offender.
There’s a culture of sexualizing black men which I feel played a part in this. Young black men, even minors, are often not seen as young and in need of protection. There is a history of black men being fetishized and sexualized. I’m convinced that both the race and gender of the victim influenced the sentencing. This is horrendous
Play the race card much?
@@tpcreeper2185 Some things never change. The bots will always be trolling
Evil has no skin color. Equally, evil has no gender. Stop playing the Victim Card! People like you are part of "the problem". Yet, there is a grain of truth in what you say. As Old Adams and Old Eves, all of us are inclined to be tribal and, in that state of mind, tend to become hostile, disdainful, or indifferent toward the "other tribes.". The Black Tribe is just as capable of being "evil" as the White Tribe.
As for Anna, she's a Godless (morally self-directed) Atheist. Her Godless (morally self-directed) thoughts turned into Godless (self serving, self indulgent) feelings, which turned into Godless (moralless and self-serving) actions. The trajectory is predictable. Individually and collectively. Collective Godlessness leads to inhumane Marxism. This ideology might first go through "gentle" Socialism, but, trust this truth, it eventually leads to Marxist dominated Communism.
As for the individual Atheists who resist evil, when enough of them gather into Marxism, the good and decent Atheists, who did not indulge thoughts and feelings that misuse and abuse others, who tesist evil, they too shall be hunted down and canceled, silenced, fined, imprisoned, or executed. By Godless inhumane Marxism.
We must never forget the abuses of Religionists, but, let's also remember that inhumane Marxists murders more of their own than even their enemies. Mao and Stalin, both Godless Atheists, killed between them over 100 million of their own citizens! THEIR. OWN. CITIZENS.
Our Creator has a plan for humankind, and He have us, each, aprox 100 years and, collectively, 6000 years to figure things out. Our time is actually up. 2029 - 2033, God returns, to restore law and order, justice and mercy, and prosperity of body, soul and spirit.
While I appreciate the work of good and decent psychology professionals who examine the human soul (psyche means soul) and can be quote helpful to others, still, I think if I'm going to place my soul in someone's care, I'd make it, first, my Creator Savior and, second, flawed fallible and naturally self-serving mortal humans. The second has some merit, yes, but, ultimately, permanent lasting healing (not just behavior modification) comes from the Bible God, Jesus Christ.
May you all be blessed with prosperity... Body, Soul and Spirit. May you all meet Jesus and be completely healed from self interest and the fear and pain that so often assaults us as we try to make sense of the world around us. I once knew nothing but tyranny and bullying from childhood onward. Learning about the man Jesus led me to wonder why He was called God. In time, as I searched for truth (in many wrong places, not unlike how I also looked for love in all the wrong places), Jesus introduced Himself to me. Imagine my astonishment. Today, Jesus commands me... with my permission. And, truthfully, He'd not have it any other way ❤
Many thanks to Todd Grande for tremendous insight into this horrible "hellish" situation. May all involved meet Jesus Christ and be comforted to know that, in spite of "Hell on Earth" increasing, Jesus returns soon. He will, ultimately, settle judgment upon those who went Godlessly their own way.
I mean, it happens but i don't think that was the driving factor here as much as the fetishism of a disabled person or even their disability itself.
@@kristinaishimwe9422 I kind of disagree with you. Intersectionality exists. Yes, obviously him being disable was a factor but I’m saying I also think him being black was a factor. It doesn’t have to be one or the other. I think it was combination of both
Where the heck did she get her PhD? Wherever, it's time for a recall. How absurd. This woman is truly sick.
WHY are so many college graduates useless and unemployable? Look the subjects they study. .
There's a bunch like that. They are running our country right now.
Let's not forget the one that had sex with dolphin for science.
The field of social work - where most therapists get their start otw to getting their LCSW (licensed clinical social worker) is super easy, they practically give degrees away. I was a SW major years ago, coasted with straight As, all female professors, I was one of 2 male students. An LCSW enables them to sell themselves as "therapist" I call it "the rapist"
And yea, the PhD programs are ridiculously easy. I know some really dumb PhDs in this field. Most have that Dunning Krueger Effect going on. All female. My last therapist tried to sleep with me. She would send me money when I was homeless. March 2020. She was fired. I didn't sleep with her, but she was pretty.
I realized how ridiculous PhD's are, about 5yrs ago went home to OZ to visit fam and at a party met someone doing their PhD and when I asked what is the thesis, her answer was "hip hop influence in Australian youth/society",,,,,
I think the brother said at her sentencing was perfect. Anna was trying to be the "shero", white savior. It was evident watching the whole thing that she was full of herself and she took advantage of the entire family. The whole thing reminded me of the apologist way they did Casey Anthony. Pretending these people are the real victims instead of the monsters they really are.
So many of Anna's exist in disability care
In lieu of payment in a civil suit, they should be allowed to exchange it for jail time. Don't have 4 million dollars? How about $100,000 for one year of your life? 40 years sounds good to me.
An introduction he made and was fine with while his brother was writing papers. If that's the case you to negate it all.
I noticed her husband was also black. I wonder how she treated him, seems she has some racial hang ups outside of being a predator
I CANNOT BELEIVE SHE ONLY GOT 22 MONTHS!!!!!
My friend has a severely disabled daughter who was molested by a female best friend. She really was her only friend ( but she was a predator) . It was very traumatic for her and the entire family felt so betrayed. Another friend , years later , who also had a disabled daughter ( living in a college dorm) , that was groomed by a female online that convinced her she was a lesbian and the control got so bad that she cut her off from her family. It was horrible for this family. Their hands were tied because of her civil rights and age
Female sexual predators are the worse imo because they get too many passes because no one believes they are predators.
Did i understand correctly that the disabled daughter visited college? In that case, her situation is hardly comparable with that of the man in the video. I have no idea what actually happened. But disabled people can of course explore their sexuality just like others (and are even more likely to care less about negative reactions), and "convinced her she's gay" is such a weird statement. Like how would they know what her actual sexuality is? Might as well be butthurt conservatives. Again, how would we know.
OMG
Exactly how female teachers are trying to turn children into the lgbt community members by brainwashing them, society fails to recognize how predatory women can be
IF SHE WAS IN COLLEGE SHE HAD THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE. ARE YOU SAYING DISABLED PEOPLE CAN NOT HAVE SEX OR CHOOSE TO BE A LESBIAN???
Thank you so much for speaking out against FC. I'm on the spectrum and am consistently told that I am a "traitor" to the community because ABA helped me a lot, and I don't believe that it is abusive (even though there can be abusive ABA therapists, just like there can be abusive doctors or abusive teachers).
Many of these people who have bullied me support facilitated communication, which I find to be incredibly ironic. ABA gave me the ability to communicate and advocate for myself and has scientific backing. The "evidence" against the therapy is often incredibly biased (e.g., sampling a bunch of people from a facebook group who hate ABA without even knowing what it is, and then claiming that 80% of people who go through ABA get PTSD from it).
I'm genuinely tired of me and my family being accused of supporting child abuse, when FC has so many cases of abuse that no one wants to talk about. Recently, a family member of mine worked to overturn a bill that would allow FC in elementary schools. The FC "advocates" spun it to claim that the opposing side was "silencing" autistic children and denying them communication.
Whether it's ABA, speech therapy, occupational therapy, etc...there are so many better ways to teach an autistic person how to communicate. And for what it's worth, one of the main proponents of FC (Dr. Bernard Rimland) became a vehement opponent of the practice when he realized there was no evidence behind it. That should tell you a lot about the validity of FC.
Wow you are a great writer! I hope you are in a position to advocate for your community you are very articulate!
What does ABA mean? Thanks.
@@NichelleSullivan Applied Behavior Analysis some people think it's abuse
@@NichelleSullivan Applied behavior analysis. It’s one of the scientifically backed treatments for autism, often combined with speech & occupational therapy. Some opponents believe it is akin to “conversion therapy”, which I find to be an incredibly homophobic comparison. ABA focuses on reducing harmful behaviors (e.g., hitting, self injurious behavior, eloping, etc.) and uses positive reinforcement. ABA didn’t change who I was (which is a common misconception); it simply helped me to navigate the world. Before ABA, I bit my parents and was told I would never talk or live independently. Now I’m a graduate student with my own apartment ☺
@@Poochiepoochie54321 Thank you so much! You have no idea what this means to me. I am more of a “quiet advocate” since I cannot handle the amount of bullying that other advocates receive. I would highly suggest looking into Kaelynn Partlow; she is an AMAZING autistic advocate who also fights for the same causes I do. Eileen Lamb is also a good advocate; she writes a blog about her life as an autistic mom with 2 autistic kids and also hosts a podcast called “Adulting on the Spectrum”
So, Anna used Ouija board logic to communicate w/him. That sure is FC (Flippin Crazy)!
Love the pun
exactly ! as for people who doubt the whole FC debate: if you do the research you'll see it has been debunked many times over: it is the facilitator typing, every, single, time. why its still promoted i have no idea, especially when things like teaching people how to use AAC devices , sometimes with adaptive buttons and switch access, , eye gaze, large track ball mouse ; also ASL, makaton signing, along with basic and modified sign language etc. to enable people to communicate spontaneous and autonomously. FC does not work, sorry, but i have seen it in my 21 years working in the adult disability services field and advocacy, it is the facilitator typing; and, you'll notice, with each so called ''facilitator'', the clients ''speech'' or typing patterns and styles fluctuates , the literacy levels vary, and personality is different with each facilitator.
Dr Grande, you rock! Best content on RUclips 🙏✨🌟👌👌👌
It’s safe to say that if the races and genders were reversed, the professor wouldn’t have gotten such a light sentence or a Netflix special.
I had the same exact thought. A man of color doing this to a non-verbal white woman... the level of media coverage and the sentencing would be night and day.
Not true. Nice attempt to stereotype and advance your SJW agenda, but no one is buying it.
The wyt savior complex is strong with this one…
She is Jewish. With Psychology parents. A lot of creepy stuff comes from them, things like Tuskegee.
Right. That’s exactly what was happening with Anna.
It's strong in anyone who believes in reparations.
Epidemic among progressive white women.
And the inspiration porn was strong
Your commitment to objectivity in your analyses is refreshing, and I really appreciate it.
Please don’t say attempted to have sex w him. There’s no attempt to consensually have sex with him. It’s assault on every level.
Yep. First she attempted to rape him, then she raped him.