If no kids or property is involved, then no contact is the only way forward. If the cruel narcissist cut you dead by completely ignoring you in the past then you must now do the same.
I unfortunately bred with her and can't go no contact & I agree with Danielle here. I have personally found that indifference in her company cuts deeper than just ignoring her. Talk to her in a neutral way at kid's sports events, then talk to other parents in exactly the same way. I'm guaranteed a text 3 minutes after we leave "Are you ok?" Hahaha like clockwork.
Thing is, you wouldn't be in the situation you're in with the narcissist if you were as hard-hearted, unfeeling and cold-blooded as they are. It is exceptionally hard to act like you're not hurting when you are.
*_I never got to experience_** "The best REVENGE on my narcissistic ex" **_at all of any kind. My 1st fiance stroked out 3 Months exactly 90 days after being thrown in No Contact. My 2nd fiance cut off her Crystal Gayle Hair got pregnant got married got divorced with financial ruin ALL in a little over a year. So ... I wouldn't know anything about revenge._*
@@lilfairycupcake *_The 2nd 1 had a beautiful figure but she went to 300 pounds and stayed there. She kept the same Insurance Man I hooked her up with and when my agent (30 year friend) saw her after he said he thought I dodged a big bullet there ..._*
@@lilfairycupcake *Wanna see what the 1st one looked like pull up Crystal Gales ..."Don't Take Me Half the Way" Video. The 2nd "Sophia Coppola Scenes" Godfather III video*
Revenge is unecessary, narcs always destroy themselves. Anyone else is just collateral damage. Zero contact, and live well. That is the narcopaths Achilles heel.
I was brutally discarded by a convert narc last year today is the exact date i remember all the stuff. Meanwhile I saw her 4-5 times she was acting like we dont know each other. I think i m hoover free now. Next time i will apply all the ideas given in this video. Thanks
Thanks a lot, God bless u 💯 take care. U re a brave good cute young woman - lady. Keep going on as u re really an expert in narcology 🎓 😁🙂 in the path of Dr Ramani 👍🙏
Hmm good tactic but how do you know the “narc” is INSINCERE? What if the person is genuinely regretful? … My point of this: Before you do such things, I think one should really need to pinpoint that disorder first! For I KNOW that people seem to be HAPPY to judge one another (who perhaps hurted them or been IN THE WAY of them ir their happyness) as a narcissist… Thus my Q is maybe you can make a good informative tutorial, like A FULL LIST of symptons and red flags you could find when u have met a Narcissist Person. For look. I know… I have for example not been myself as much lately. And i really struggle with this sometimes -I dont think im a narc but maybe… i actually suffer FROM narcs/having been with them. And maybe IF I CANT CHANGE my conditions than I MAY DEVELOP such kind of disorder if im not careful. For i have SURELY MADE MY MISTAKES! Lets say for example, i have INTENTIONALLY acted LIKE! Perhaps a narcissist, a dictator. In a way. But with a clear goal in Mind. A genuinely honest well-intended goal. To help them set boundaries. Because I KNOW!! One guy. That has NO BOUNDARIES!! At all. Like no backbone. So AT SOME POINT i got really frustrated, explaining him for months. Tonstand up for himself, what to do, etc. And became like a drill-instructor. At some point we were actually getting there! But i think inlost it somewhere. I just wanted to make him stronger. And have in someway intentionally “abused him”, in the hope he will learn. I had to let go and be softer… For it is ACTUALLY NOT MY responsibility, and its dead-tiring. Even though i push myself so much that i dont even sleep at night… (this changed now..) But eventually it seems like he IS A LITTLE STRONGER, He has a LITTLE MORE EASE!! To actually ask his boss for a day off. To actually SAY i cannot drive tomorrow. But he still has many excuses to keep himself enslaved to others. -Im talking my dad…. AGAIN i think… I have to let go of this… SOME people you REALLY cant help… And in a way it would become MY excuse not to jmprove myself…. 😢 thus it is something to let gonof. Only can take full responsibility for ME! And can only teach others when the time is right. Its not the time yet. I guess. Anyway, i have regretted doing it. I just only remind him Now. I still have a little habit of sometimes criticising or scolding him, or getting angry easily sometimes. But I know that in some way It was harmful to him…. At least thats what it has sometimes looked like. And he dont know how to heal himself… Thus jt is TIME that does… i guess. And a little more positivity towards him perhaps… However to use praise can cause a sense of acheivement in others while nothing is actually acheived… Its such a….. shitty situation… Samsara.
Just wanted to put awareness that SOMETIMES WE are WRONG guys! You only can tell a person is a narcissist if you have been close to the person for long enough and you have found a lot of these red flags which seems to be THE NORM for them! This is my opinion as i have checked myself for this but I had by no means anything to do with that! Fortunately. But i am in a weak moment right now and am open to check it!! Or if maybe i could be heading towards such disorder, THIS MAY NOT HAPPEN!!
If no kids or property is involved, then no contact is the only way forward. If the cruel narcissist cut you dead by completely ignoring you in the past then you must now do the same.
I unfortunately bred with her and can't go no contact & I agree with Danielle here. I have personally found that indifference in her company cuts deeper than just ignoring her. Talk to her in a neutral way at kid's sports events, then talk to other parents in exactly the same way. I'm guaranteed a text 3 minutes after we leave "Are you ok?" Hahaha like clockwork.
Thing is, you wouldn't be in the situation you're in with the narcissist if you were as hard-hearted, unfeeling and cold-blooded as they are.
It is exceptionally hard to act like you're not hurting when you are.
Yeah, all these interactions effectively put an end to that which I consider my most positive trait(s)
People get mixed up with them because they are walking around with wounds. In the jungle, the weakest animal gets attacked first.
Being sensitive can be a superpower, but you need to know where the Off Switch is located.
@@johnmaurer2035 We're no longer tribespeople surviving by tactical fighting.
@@johnmaurer2035 Not everyone is hard-hearted or wants to be.
Your advice is like a tall glass of water for man in desert for days. Spot On.
Don't tell them re the trip to france! They'll make sure to sabatoge it...
i.o.w. '' Where you're going is more important than where you have been''.
She's self-destructive, I don't have to do anything. She'll keep monkeybranching till the end.
I couldn’t agree more 😊 yes, you forget who they are because you are so busy living your best life!
Nothing succeeds like success.
Absolutely nothing you say means anything to the narcissist no matter what they've done or how they made you feel.
It is as if they're made of wood.
0 CONTACT IS THE ONLY CURE!
Simply brilliant
*_I never got to experience_** "The best REVENGE on my narcissistic ex" **_at all of any kind. My 1st fiance stroked out 3 Months exactly 90 days after being thrown in No Contact. My 2nd fiance cut off her Crystal Gayle Hair got pregnant got married got divorced with financial ruin ALL in a little over a year. So ... I wouldn't know anything about revenge._*
they are soooo self destructive, all you have to do is stand back, and laugh.
@@lilfairycupcake *_The 2nd 1 had a beautiful figure but she went to 300 pounds and stayed there. She kept the same Insurance Man I hooked her up with and when my agent (30 year friend) saw her after he said he thought I dodged a big bullet there ..._*
@@lilfairycupcake *Wanna see what the 1st one looked like pull up Crystal Gales ..."Don't Take Me Half the Way" Video. The 2nd "Sophia Coppola Scenes" Godfather III video*
@@Imnotyourdoormat i totally have a mental picture already painted.
@@Imnotyourdoormat wow! a 300 pounder. my last one went from 100, to 150 in 3yrs. how the hell do you gain half your body weight? sz0 to sz8-10.
Revenge is unecessary, narcs always destroy themselves. Anyone else is just collateral damage. Zero contact, and live well. That is the narcopaths Achilles heel.
I was brutally discarded by a convert narc last year today is the exact date i remember all the stuff. Meanwhile I saw her 4-5 times she was acting like we dont know each other. I think i m hoover free now. Next time i will apply all the ideas given in this video. Thanks
O man im gonna report you for destroying narciccists… 😂
Anyone who is pleasing a person who is abusive in any way has a childhood wound, there is no other reason, zero. Not blaming..just a fact..
Best Revenge is just doing well in life and be happy. (Move on)
I havent listen to anything yet*
Thanks a lot, God bless u 💯 take care. U re a brave good cute young woman - lady.
Keep going on as u re really an expert in narcology 🎓 😁🙂 in the path of Dr Ramani 👍🙏
What is ghosting again?
True
Hmm good tactic but how do you know the “narc” is INSINCERE? What if the person is genuinely regretful? …
My point of this:
Before you do such things, I think one should really need to pinpoint that disorder first!
For I KNOW that people seem to be HAPPY to judge one another (who perhaps hurted them or been IN THE WAY of them ir their happyness) as a narcissist…
Thus my Q is maybe you can make a good informative tutorial, like A FULL LIST of symptons and red flags you could find when u have met a Narcissist Person.
For look. I know…
I have for example not been myself as much lately. And i really struggle with this sometimes -I dont think im a narc but maybe… i actually suffer FROM narcs/having been with them.
And maybe IF I CANT CHANGE my conditions than I MAY DEVELOP such kind of disorder if im not careful. For i have SURELY MADE MY MISTAKES!
Lets say for example, i have INTENTIONALLY acted LIKE! Perhaps a narcissist, a dictator. In a way. But with a clear goal in Mind. A genuinely honest well-intended goal. To help them set boundaries.
Because I KNOW!! One guy. That has NO BOUNDARIES!! At all. Like no backbone.
So AT SOME POINT i got really frustrated, explaining him for months. Tonstand up for himself, what to do, etc.
And became like a drill-instructor.
At some point we were actually getting there! But i think inlost it somewhere.
I just wanted to make him stronger. And have in someway intentionally “abused him”, in the hope he will learn.
I had to let go and be softer… For it is ACTUALLY NOT MY responsibility, and its dead-tiring. Even though i push myself so much that i dont even sleep at night… (this changed now..)
But eventually it seems like he IS A LITTLE STRONGER,
He has a LITTLE MORE EASE!!
To actually ask his boss for a day off. To actually SAY i cannot drive tomorrow.
But he still has many excuses to keep himself enslaved to others.
-Im talking my dad….
AGAIN i think… I have to let go of this… SOME people you REALLY cant help…
And in a way it would become MY excuse not to jmprove myself…. 😢 thus it is something to let gonof.
Only can take full responsibility for ME! And can only teach others when the time is right.
Its not the time yet. I guess.
Anyway, i have regretted doing it. I just only remind him
Now.
I still have a little habit of sometimes criticising or scolding him, or getting angry easily sometimes.
But I know that in some way It was harmful to him…. At least thats what it has sometimes looked like.
And he dont know how to heal himself…
Thus jt is TIME that does… i guess. And a little more positivity towards him perhaps…
However to use praise can cause a sense of acheivement in others while nothing is actually acheived…
Its such a….. shitty situation…
Samsara.
Just wanted to put awareness that SOMETIMES WE are WRONG guys!
You only can tell a person is a narcissist if you have been close to the person for long enough and you have found a lot of these red flags which seems to be THE NORM for them!
This is my opinion as i have checked myself for this but I had by no means anything to do with that! Fortunately.
But i am in a weak moment right now and am open to check it!!
Or if maybe i could be heading towards such disorder, THIS MAY NOT HAPPEN!!
Vote for Trump.
And then go no contact on the narcissistic democrats forever.
ruclips.net/video/X6EzwqR3lzw/видео.htmlsi=nZ9UgxIk185q2MbA@@solice8844
@@solice8844 it goes without saying for every normal person, actually
Propaganda!
Nope, I'm not voting for a narcissist and convicted criminal.