"If you could fast forward to your very last day on Earth and see how little validation of others really meant in those final moments, do you think you would live your life differently?" Wow. This question hits deep.... ♡
It's so hard when the people that we love can't or don't know how to show up for us in the ways we need but it's such an empowering feeling to know that we can still show up for ourselves. Heavy hearted thank you for this. All I can say.
I just want to say that I love you Kalyn Nicholson! 🌼 The content you create really makes me feel like I have familiar soul somewhere in this world! You are like my soul sister ❤ it hurts me that I can't meet you in real life...I feel like we are alike in so many ways. Your channel saved my emotional health many times and made me feel less alone! 🌼
Coffee Talk Chapters ✨: 00:00 - intro 01:42 - todays member request 03:52 - having a sure sense of self 07:18 - disagreeing vs. disrespecting 11:12 - ad break 15:35 - judging other people 18:25 - good people can do bad things 21:42 - everyone has flaws that others can exploit 24:38 - ad break 28:55 - stop holding yourself back 32:05 - the only opinions that truly matter 34:49 - surround yourself with better energy 36:37 - don't take it personally 39:49 - it's easy to lose yourself in todays world 41:51 - nobody cares...nobody cares!
I'm autistic and have never cared what others think and am proud to be different. Being true to yourself and not living for the expectations of others is how I live my life. Wonderful brew, you are a amazing human being☕✨!
These peptalk really end up making me cry, I feel super identified because deep down it's something I need to hear. You have no idea how grateful I am to be part of this koze family, I love you Thank you
Same. I’m having a hard time with my group of gamers, and some of them are harsh and spiteful. I need to remember that they don’t know a thing about what I’m really worth and that if they don’t see my efforts they don’t deserve much time or thought on my part 💪
I loved that epilogue 💙✨ A thought on "the only opinions that matter" is that, yes, some people might have your best interests at heart and the best intentions but can still have a harmful effect on you when they're trying to push on their own dreams and aspirations on you. So I think that good intentions don't necessarily equal good advice, so please be aware -to anyone who needs to hear this. Not blaming and forgiving the "accuser" is also SO SO powerful and theraputic, thanks for stressing that out🙏
One of my best traits is that I don’t take things personal but last fall I went down a rabbit hole of self doubt. I’m working on building myself up again and listening to your coffee talks is helping me stay on my path. Thank you!
Koze and your vlog channel are the most soothing, familiar places to be on YT. ❤️ It's like therapy or hanging out with friends. I hope you're super proud of what you do for random strangers on the internet.
I got goosebumps in the middle of this from how raw it is. I hope this wasn’t fueled by a recent specific incident, but rather your collection of experiences over the years ... cause if someone hurts our Kalyn, the Koze Krew ain’t standin’ for it!! ♥️ You are an incredible light for so many of us, and I really appreciate this particular talk, as it’s extremely relevant and timely to my own life. As usual. Love ya lots, Internet Sister.
Kalyn You are just magic, Your authenticity is so vibrant that it resonates beyond the screen and sends an energy of healing that helps me on many levels.
Great talk! I can really relate to how difficult it is to have grace towards a person that's been mean or harsh with you, knowing that they're feeling the way they're trying to make you feel, as you said. I used to have a boss like that, he was treating us badly, being rude, and criticizing everything no matter how fantastic our work was. He wasn't a bad person, but he was making all of his employees suffer and he wouldn't admit that he needs to change. A bit before I quit there, I told him that it's his choice to treat himself however he likes, but he couldn't treat his hard-working employees the same way. He hasn't changed and I quit, did it with a lot of respect and without shaming or blaming (which was hard, but felt right). Moral of the story - I tried to help him, but I couldn't and he was making me feel small. Nobody has to put on with that. if you're reading this and going through something similar - just know that it's not your responsibility to help everyone, and if they hurt you, you've got all the right in the world to stand up for yourself and cut them out of your life (A year later, I'm working in a great place that respects me and my life, where I'm really excited to work for each day✨)
You know what I needed this 😭 Today I toured this adorable apt community with the layout of my dreams in downtown Austin. 5 min bike ride from my job. I'm 24 and this will be my first time living alone. I have lived with so many and always felt like a care giver in a sense. I'm moving out from living with a spouse and after knowing each other and dating on and off for over a decade, I'm really not sure what's next for us.. f*** it, I just put in the application 🥰
I hope you get the appartment! As someone who always cares for others too, living on my own is the best decision I have ever made. It has made every relationship better.
This popped back up in my recommended videos at such a perfect time. Living with someone who belittles you because they think they know the right way to live life and judges your every move, really takes a lot of energy out of me. But it's a good chance to practice not caring about what others think. Thank you so much for this much needed pep talk 💜💞💫 will definitely be coming back to it in the future.
this helped me so much today! Sometimes I so appreciate that permission which allows me to do my thing, look after myself, and recognise opinions that clearly come from the other persons rules for life. Thank you x
Like the new editing of the intro of this video, and love that you are talking about this topic because it's important something to talk about. I am excited to learn about this topic❤️❤️
Thank you soooooo so much for this! I really always try to do my best at work but sometimes my boss still snaps at me. Even when I try to tell myself that they're stressed themselves it still immediately triggers a panic attack and it takes me forever to recover from it. I go to work with a belly ache for weeks whilst everyone else seems to be already over it. I can't confront them about it as it would only make things worse. I really wish I could stand up more for myself but at least you've helped me change my mindset about myself
OMG I am currently looking at this book. I've had it on my desk at work for a week. I keep telling myself to ready during lunch. Taking this as my sign to read the 4 agreements again!!
I am so so glad I came across your channel!! Truly an inspiration to me and feels like I’m listening to a sister giving me advice!! Thank you for authentically existing beautiful soul 💛💛✨✨✨
I just love you and agree with you Kalyn. It makes me so happy to hear your words, and makes me feel like I'm not alone+ assures me that everything is going to be okay because seeing you and how good of a person you are, makes me feel like there must be more out there, does that make sense? More people who care, more people who KNOW what the hell they are talking about. Sometimes it feels like people are so indifferent to what's going on around them, whether it be environmental or social etc. So thank you!! LOVE YOUR CHANNEL GIRL
You literally have no idea how much I needed this. My whole life I've put so much value on what others think of me and not enough on what I think of ME. Sometimes I feel like I'm living my life for others and constantly trying to please everyone which leads to me feeling like crap about myself. I am ready to address this issue and improve my life so I can truly be who I am and show up in the world authentically me. Thank you so much for making these videos, you are helping so many people. Keep being authentically you.❤
I love what you said about the energy underneath the energy! I have definitely experienced this in starting my RUclips channel. My real friends are genuinely all in, but some of the people I know outwardly say nice things but there's an undercurrent of judgement underneath. And I think you are so right that underneath all that there's often fear. Thanks for helping to articulate that for me! I feel like now that I have words for it I can recognize it and let it go so I can keep creating. :)
I remember right at the begining of the pandemic, some influencers were sharing this post that said how this year (2020) could be an opportunity, that we needed to find something positive in it. And I remember you shared it too. I just got so mad, because I was really struggling and crying everyday over this virus, and I've been through so many horrible things that just don't have a positive side to them. I thought that that was heartless and egotistical to so many people who were/are losing loved ones. But I never hated on anyone who shared it or said anything. My point is, I realize now that this was my problem that I was projecting onto someone else, just because I couldn't be a positive person, I was really mentally ill. I know now you can still try to find meaning amongst caos. So I'm sorry I judged you, you didn't even know it but I thought I'd spill my guts here because I really like you and I made a mistake and you're totally right!
Just a few seconds ago i was thinking about how it would be if someone posts a video about not caring of what other's are thinking and while scrolling i saw an old video of yours and thought when you will be posting a video and you really did!!! Woah! Thank you!❤
This is so beautifully said ❤️ thank you for this! I keep scrolling back to things that just resonated with me so much- especially the part about not being able to understand what other’s are going through. You really never know if someone is trying not to fall apart that day, or even survive. Which is all the more reason we should act with kindness ✨
I needed this so bad, feeling much better after watching this 🧡 Karma will definitely reward you dear ☺️ I will keep watching this coffee talk every time I need to Thank you K , keep doing the good work and keep doing YOU !!🙏🏻❤️
Jeeze I needed to see this... I had a situation with one of my family members that shook me really badly. I really believed the words this person said and I let myself hurt over them for far too long. I still have some work to do but I'm doing so much better. Thank you for sharing this with us.
Such a great content. This video reminds me when and why I followed you years ago when I just started watch RUclips videos. Your passionate talk helped me at that time. This one helped me now as well. I needed it so much in this stage of my life. Love you.
Great chat today, Kalyn. 💕 I can usually relate to some aspect of your coffee talks and they are great to give me a mental boost and give me opportunity to reflect on my personal choices. When you were talking about having a strong sense of self, that *really* resonated with me. I have always been very impressionable and never really had strong opinions. Now I'm coming into my early 20's and realizing that I have been confusing external opinions with my own. I don't know if there is a formula to finding your soul and finding that strong sense of self, but if you have any advice, I would love a video on that. Your channel empowers and inspires me, keep being you!
I needed this this week! 💞thank you sis!!🥰 I take some peoples opinions of me so personal when it’s opposite of my own then I fight like hell to prove them wrong! it drains soo much of my energy. going to start working on protecting my energy better 🥰🥰 it sucks even more so when it’s family. thank you again fir this pep talk 😻🙌🏽😘
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR POSTING THIS!! I’ve been dealing with trolls on MMM anonymous discord two people constantly stay trolling towards me no matter what I say. But I am fighting back by being myself.
I grew up with a very religious family and I recently got my first tattoo a few days ago I've been scared to show it off because I know I will disappoint them. I hope this video helps.
My parents are also so much against tattoos that they once told me that I am not allowed back home if I get one. Well I did, they did not like it, but they did accept it and I am still allowed to go home. I told them that this is my truth and my opinion and I understand that we will not find a same page here and that it is okay, I accept their opinion and they should accept mine. It was incredibly hard and anxiety provoking but I made it and I hope that you will make it as well. Good luck and stay strong ❤️
@@ragecleaner omg I love that you did this! It's really scary to stand up to one's parents as your own person .. but the cool thing is sometimes when you do that that's when they start to truly respect you and understand you are your own person. :)
I was scrolling through the decaf brew playlist and I saw this really new video. I hit play and... I really needed that pep talk because on Monday I relived my old wounds from when I was bullied at school. Thank you Kalyn!💖😇 P.S. I love the pictures/videos at the ad break. I found it really refreshing.
The open flame near the plant is stressing me out 😂 also, good coffee talk today Kalyn! Really needed it. Would love to hear a coffee talk on moving to a new city where you know absolutely no one. Just got an amazing job and because of the current climate of the world, I immediately said yes to the job offer. However, I’m moving away from my family permanently for the first time and I don’t know anyone in the area. Any advice would be great! Love your vids Kalyn (actually looking back at your old apartment vlogs for inspo for my new one lol) ❤️
I loooove your coffee talks. It juste always feels like we're having a chill and insightful conversation together around a cup of tea or something. Thank you so much for making this content!!
I never comment on videos. Thank you so much for this video. It was exactly what I needed and it’s saved to my favorites for the future. You’re the absolute best!
The problem is when it’s your own family that is judging, criticizing, minimizing and humiliating you when you express yourself and what you believe in. 💔 I have been abandoned emotionally and denied real love and acceptance all my life. It’s really hard not to fear being myself. Especially when you depend on them financially and need to be quiet in order not to get abused emotionally or who knows how else. It’s sad and lonely here. PS. But eventually I want to be myself, whoever that is
This type of videos help me fall asleep but also I feel like in that state of almost sleeping but still listening you get to incorporate the information to your subconscious Great video ❤️
Oh girl, now you've encouraged me to live my life more confidently x I really love those pep talks and hope for more! I already know that I'll be coming back to this coffee talk, it's exactly what I needed
In moulin rouge they say that the greatest thing you’ll ever learn is to love someone and be loved in return. But that is NOT it. Loving yourself is the greatest thing you will ever learn. Because when you love yourself unconditionally with all your pros and cons, all the percieved limits in life will dissapear. Nobody and nothing in this world is going to be able to destroy you.
Really needed this pep talk today 😍 such a refreshing way to start my day! A video on feeling guilty for not living up to your full potential (due to mental health) would be incredible 🥺
Love love LOVE this pep talk! Thank you for every podcast, every video, every post, everything!! You are genuinely amazing. And just to let you know, whatever you feel like posting or don't feel like posting, you have my fullest and deepest appreciation (not that it matters! Haha!). But I love your character and energy so much, and I've always considered you my older sister
Sometimes, you end up being scared about what other people may think because you face constant criticism and cold shoulder in your own house. It could be from parents (in my case) or siblings.... People may project their dreams on you and make you feel as if you are not worthy.... This makes us lonely and we look outward for validation and acceptance, since we didn't get it from a place which is very close to us; our home. I am still struggling with not letting validation rule over my life...it's a constant struggle but I hope I can overcome it.
Well, with all the miss that's going around, I think I'm being more mature, understanding the way things should be, stop wasting my time and put extra efforts just to prove that I deserve, Im working smartly and at the right time without needing to be motivating to, I'm focusing on me as the central unit of my life, cause that's what precious mean. Alot of love for you 🤍.
"If you could fast forward to your very last day on Earth
and see how little validation of others really meant in those final moments,
do you think you would live your life differently?"
Wow. This question hits deep.... ♡
It's so hard when the people that we love can't or don't know how to show up for us in the ways we need but it's such an empowering feeling to know that we can still show up for ourselves. Heavy hearted thank you for this. All I can say.
I work in healthcare. I’ve seen how fleeting life is. PLEASE love yourself, do what you want and don’t care what people think.
I just want to say that I love you Kalyn Nicholson! 🌼 The content you create really makes me feel like I have familiar soul somewhere in this world! You are like my soul sister ❤ it hurts me that I can't meet you in real life...I feel like we are alike in so many ways. Your channel saved my emotional health many times and made me feel less alone! 🌼
Coffee Talk Chapters ✨:
00:00 - intro
01:42 - todays member request
03:52 - having a sure sense of self
07:18 - disagreeing vs. disrespecting
11:12 - ad break
15:35 - judging other people
18:25 - good people can do bad things
21:42 - everyone has flaws that others can exploit
24:38 - ad break
28:55 - stop holding yourself back
32:05 - the only opinions that truly matter
34:49 - surround yourself with better energy
36:37 - don't take it personally
39:49 - it's easy to lose yourself in todays world
41:51 - nobody cares...nobody cares!
Hello how are you?
I am I like you so much
I'm autistic and have never cared what others think and am proud to be different. Being true to yourself and not living for the expectations of others is how I live my life. Wonderful brew, you are a amazing human being☕✨!
Thank you for having the courage and vulnerability to talk about this! This is like gold in such a weird and vulnerable era
These peptalk really end up making me cry, I feel super identified because deep down it's something I need to hear. You have no idea how grateful I am to be part of this koze family, I love you Thank you
this couldn’t have come at a better time 💜
Same. I’m having a hard time with my group of gamers, and some of them are harsh and spiteful. I need to remember that they don’t know a thing about what I’m really worth and that if they don’t see my efforts they don’t deserve much time or thought on my part 💪
I already usually don’t care about what people say to me/think of me, but I’m still excited for this!!! ❤️❤️
I loved that epilogue 💙✨
A thought on "the only opinions that matter" is that, yes, some people might have your best interests at heart and the best intentions but can still have a harmful effect on you when they're trying to push on their own dreams and aspirations on you. So I think that good intentions don't necessarily equal good advice, so please be aware -to anyone who needs to hear this.
Not blaming and forgiving the "accuser" is also SO SO powerful and theraputic, thanks for stressing that out🙏
you’ve been posting the most wholesome, life-changing and authentic coffee talks this year. thank you for this space! you’re wonderful! 🌞
One of my best traits is that I don’t take things personal but last fall I went down a rabbit hole of self doubt. I’m working on building myself up again and listening to your coffee talks is helping me stay on my path. Thank you!
Koze and your vlog channel are the most soothing, familiar places to be on YT. ❤️ It's like therapy or hanging out with friends. I hope you're super proud of what you do for random strangers on the internet.
I got goosebumps in the middle of this from how raw it is. I hope this wasn’t fueled by a recent specific incident, but rather your collection of experiences over the years ... cause if someone hurts our Kalyn, the Koze Krew ain’t standin’ for it!! ♥️ You are an incredible light for so many of us, and I really appreciate this particular talk, as it’s extremely relevant and timely to my own life. As usual. Love ya lots, Internet Sister.
Not me sitting in my car getting ready to walk into work needing a pep talk🤍
Kalyn You are just magic, Your authenticity is so vibrant that it resonates beyond the screen and sends an energy of healing that helps me on many levels.
Great talk! I can really relate to how difficult it is to have grace towards a person that's been mean or harsh with you, knowing that they're feeling the way they're trying to make you feel, as you said. I used to have a boss like that, he was treating us badly, being rude, and criticizing everything no matter how fantastic our work was. He wasn't a bad person, but he was making all of his employees suffer and he wouldn't admit that he needs to change. A bit before I quit there, I told him that it's his choice to treat himself however he likes, but he couldn't treat his hard-working employees the same way. He hasn't changed and I quit, did it with a lot of respect and without shaming or blaming (which was hard, but felt right). Moral of the story - I tried to help him, but I couldn't and he was making me feel small. Nobody has to put on with that. if you're reading this and going through something similar - just know that it's not your responsibility to help everyone, and if they hurt you, you've got all the right in the world to stand up for yourself and cut them out of your life (A year later, I'm working in a great place that respects me and my life, where I'm really excited to work for each day✨)
So difficult if you have social anxiety all my life I have cared about what others think about me 😬
Your topics are always soo perfect to what I’m going through in life!! Thank you for this wisdom 🤍🤍
these are all the things I say to myself everyday, but in the moment it's just so damn hard to remember
You know what I needed this 😭 Today I toured this adorable apt community with the layout of my dreams in downtown Austin. 5 min bike ride from my job. I'm 24 and this will be my first time living alone. I have lived with so many and always felt like a care giver in a sense. I'm moving out from living with a spouse and after knowing each other and dating on and off for over a decade, I'm really not sure what's next for us.. f*** it, I just put in the application 🥰
I hope you get the appartment! As someone who always cares for others too, living on my own is the best decision I have ever made. It has made every relationship better.
This popped back up in my recommended videos at such a perfect time. Living with someone who belittles you because they think they know the right way to live life and judges your every move, really takes a lot of energy out of me. But it's a good chance to practice not caring about what others think.
Thank you so much for this much needed pep talk 💜💞💫 will definitely be coming back to it in the future.
this helped me so much today! Sometimes I so appreciate that permission which allows me to do my thing, look after myself, and recognise opinions that clearly come from the other persons rules for life. Thank you x
Like the new editing of the intro of this video, and love that you are talking about this topic because it's important something to talk about. I am excited to learn about this topic❤️❤️
right! That editing was awesome!
Thank you soooooo so much for this! I really always try to do my best at work but sometimes my boss still snaps at me. Even when I try to tell myself that they're stressed themselves it still immediately triggers a panic attack and it takes me forever to recover from it. I go to work with a belly ache for weeks whilst everyone else seems to be already over it. I can't confront them about it as it would only make things worse. I really wish I could stand up more for myself but at least you've helped me change my mindset about myself
OMG I am currently looking at this book. I've had it on my desk at work for a week. I keep telling myself to ready during lunch. Taking this as my sign to read the 4 agreements again!!
It’s mind boggling how there can be even 1 dislike on this video, 👀
Thank you for the continuous positive energy you emit in this world 🤍
....unbelievable happy! Thank you so much!!❤️
hope this gave you the pep talk you needed ✨
I am so so glad I came across your channel!! Truly an inspiration to me and feels like I’m listening to a sister giving me advice!! Thank you for authentically existing beautiful soul 💛💛✨✨✨
Love those pep talks! I really need one on waking up your creative Muse and stop doubting yourself according your art.
I just love you and agree with you Kalyn. It makes me so happy to hear your words, and makes me feel like I'm not alone+ assures me that everything is going to be okay because seeing you and how good of a person you are, makes me feel like there must be more out there, does that make sense? More people who care, more people who KNOW what the hell they are talking about. Sometimes it feels like people are so indifferent to what's going on around them, whether it be environmental or social etc. So thank you!! LOVE YOUR CHANNEL GIRL
I didnt even realize how much I needed this until I actually watched it
Thank you Kalyn 💛
You literally have no idea how much I needed this. My whole life I've put so much value on what others think of me and not enough on what I think of ME. Sometimes I feel like I'm living my life for others and constantly trying to please everyone which leads to me feeling like crap about myself. I am ready to address this issue and improve my life so I can truly be who I am and show up in the world authentically me. Thank you so much for making these videos, you are helping so many people. Keep being authentically you.❤
I'm working through this and working through not projecting as well at times. Thanks, kayln much love
Listening to this video on 0.5x while playing delta waves in the background is a whole mood
I love what you said about the energy underneath the energy! I have definitely experienced this in starting my RUclips channel. My real friends are genuinely all in, but some of the people I know outwardly say nice things but there's an undercurrent of judgement underneath. And I think you are so right that underneath all that there's often fear. Thanks for helping to articulate that for me! I feel like now that I have words for it I can recognize it and let it go so I can keep creating. :)
I remember right at the begining of the pandemic, some influencers were sharing this post that said how this year (2020) could be an opportunity, that we needed to find something positive in it. And I remember you shared it too. I just got so mad, because I was really struggling and crying everyday over this virus, and I've been through so many horrible things that just don't have a positive side to them. I thought that that was heartless and egotistical to so many people who were/are losing loved ones. But I never hated on anyone who shared it or said anything. My point is, I realize now that this was my problem that I was projecting onto someone else, just because I couldn't be a positive person, I was really mentally ill. I know now you can still try to find meaning amongst caos. So I'm sorry I judged you, you didn't even know it but I thought I'd spill my guts here because I really like you and I made a mistake and you're totally right!
Just a few seconds ago i was thinking about how it would be if someone posts a video about not caring of what other's are thinking and while scrolling i saw an old video of yours and thought when you will be posting a video and you really did!!! Woah! Thank you!❤
Synchronicity ✨💫🪐! Intuition on point
This is so beautifully said ❤️ thank you for this! I keep scrolling back to things that just resonated with me so much- especially the part about not being able to understand what other’s are going through. You really never know if someone is trying not to fall apart that day, or even survive. Which is all the more reason we should act with kindness ✨
I needed this so bad, feeling much better after watching this 🧡 Karma will definitely reward you dear ☺️
I will keep watching this coffee talk every time I need to
Thank you K , keep doing the good work and keep doing YOU !!🙏🏻❤️
Seeing this was fate . These talks always show up when needed most . Thank you ❤️
Absolutely fabulous. Beautifully said. Thank you for sharing ☺️
Jeeze I needed to see this...
I had a situation with one of my family members that shook me really badly. I really believed the words this person said and I let myself hurt over them for far too long. I still have some work to do but I'm doing so much better. Thank you for sharing this with us.
Such a great content. This video reminds me when and why I followed you years ago when I just started watch RUclips videos. Your passionate talk helped me at that time. This one helped me now as well. I needed it so much in this stage of my life. Love you.
Great chat today, Kalyn. 💕
I can usually relate to some aspect of your coffee talks and they are great to give me a mental boost and give me opportunity to reflect on my personal choices. When you were talking about having a strong sense of self, that *really* resonated with me. I have always been very impressionable and never really had strong opinions. Now I'm coming into my early 20's and realizing that I have been confusing external opinions with my own. I don't know if there is a formula to finding your soul and finding that strong sense of self, but if you have any advice, I would love a video on that. Your channel empowers and inspires me, keep being you!
This is video is exactly what I’ve needed today 🧡 I love you all xxx
I needed this this week! 💞thank you sis!!🥰 I take some peoples opinions of me so personal when it’s opposite of my own then I fight like hell to prove them wrong! it drains soo much of my energy. going to start working on protecting my energy better 🥰🥰 it sucks even more so when it’s family. thank you again fir this pep talk 😻🙌🏽😘
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR POSTING THIS!! I’ve been dealing with trolls on MMM anonymous discord two people constantly stay trolling towards me no matter what I say. But I am fighting back by being myself.
I grew up with a very religious family and I recently got my first tattoo a few days ago
I've been scared to show it off because I know I will disappoint them.
I hope this video helps.
My parents are also so much against tattoos that they once told me that I am not allowed back home if I get one. Well I did, they did not like it, but they did accept it and I am still allowed to go home. I told them that this is my truth and my opinion and I understand that we will not find a same page here and that it is okay, I accept their opinion and they should accept mine. It was incredibly hard and anxiety provoking but I made it and I hope that you will make it as well. Good luck and stay strong ❤️
@@ragecleaner omg I love that you did this! It's really scary to stand up to one's parents as your own person .. but the cool thing is sometimes when you do that that's when they start to truly respect you and understand you are your own person. :)
i just opened youtube to see if there's something to watch with my dinner. score!
thanks for this K
lol that's exactly how I felt!
Omg, I ask for a sign this morning and your video showed up. Thank you for always making me feel good ✨
Ly ❤️
I was scrolling through the decaf brew playlist and I saw this really new video. I hit play and... I really needed that pep talk because on Monday I relived my old wounds from when I was bullied at school. Thank you Kalyn!💖😇
P.S. I love the pictures/videos at the ad break. I found it really refreshing.
That was great kalyn! I really needed it! 💗💗💗
The open flame near the plant is stressing me out 😂 also, good coffee talk today Kalyn! Really needed it. Would love to hear a coffee talk on moving to a new city where you know absolutely no one. Just got an amazing job and because of the current climate of the world, I immediately said yes to the job offer. However, I’m moving away from my family permanently for the first time and I don’t know anyone in the area. Any advice would be great! Love your vids Kalyn (actually looking back at your old apartment vlogs for inspo for my new one lol) ❤️
Girl you are killing it with this hair
I loooove your coffee talks. It juste always feels like we're having a chill and insightful conversation together around a cup of tea or something. Thank you so much for making this content!!
I totally adore your pep talks, always did. You used to give us some in between your vlogs back in the day. And it makes me feel kind of nostalgic 🤧🤍
Thank you, Kalyn. Amazing and helpful.
I never comment on videos. Thank you so much for this video. It was exactly what I needed and it’s saved to my favorites for the future. You’re the absolute best!
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Our girl Kalyn always coming through with the content we need to feed our souls! Thank you! 🤍
I needed this. And I am so glad to have come across this wonderful and magical corner of the internet🌟 I am proud to be part of the Koze world!
I needed this reminder! Thank you so much 💛
The problem is when it’s your own family that is judging, criticizing, minimizing and humiliating you when you express yourself and what you believe in. 💔 I have been abandoned emotionally and denied real love and acceptance all my life. It’s really hard not to fear being myself. Especially when you depend on them financially and need to be quiet in order not to get abused emotionally or who knows how else. It’s sad and lonely here.
PS. But eventually I want to be myself, whoever that is
Just want to tell you you're not alone. I hear you and I see you. Sending love and strength ❤️
@@threecrookedhearts Thank you Sarah
Love these pep talks so much! Always be yourself ,Queens 😌💕
This is what I needed at this season of my life. Thank you Kalyn! This is so beautiful ❤
This type of videos help me fall asleep but also I feel like in that state of almost sleeping but still listening you get to incorporate the information to your subconscious
Great video ❤️
Oh girl, now you've encouraged me to live my life more confidently x I really love those pep talks and hope for more! I already know that I'll be coming back to this coffee talk, it's exactly what I needed
also we have the exact same bedsheets + i smile each video
In moulin rouge they say that the greatest thing you’ll ever learn is to love someone and be loved in return. But that is NOT it. Loving yourself is the greatest thing you will ever learn. Because when you love yourself unconditionally with all your pros and cons, all the percieved limits in life will dissapear. Nobody and nothing in this world is going to be able to destroy you.
I love you kalyn . You are awesome i am so grateful you do this kind of videos and help people so much
Just when I was re-watching your old videos for some inspiration, this pops up! ❤️
Really needed this pep talk today 😍 such a refreshing way to start my day! A video on feeling guilty for not living up to your full potential (due to mental health) would be incredible 🥺
Thank you, Kalyn.
Quality content as always, KOZE! Thanks for the video, I love it.
Love love LOVE this pep talk! Thank you for every podcast, every video, every post, everything!! You are genuinely amazing. And just to let you know, whatever you feel like posting or don't feel like posting, you have my fullest and deepest appreciation (not that it matters! Haha!). But I love your character and energy so much, and I've always considered you my older sister
beautiful language & very thought-provoking. kalyn, you continue to amaze me with your wisdom.
👏👏👏👏👏👏 thank you I needed to hear this!! You are an amazing and beautiful soul 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
You always post exactly what I need when I need it🥺♥️😭
Sometimes, you end up being scared about what other people may think because you face constant criticism and cold shoulder in your own house. It could be from parents (in my case) or siblings.... People may project their dreams on you and make you feel as if you are not worthy.... This makes us lonely and we look outward for validation and acceptance, since we didn't get it from a place which is very close to us; our home. I am still struggling with not letting validation rule over my life...it's a constant struggle but I hope I can overcome it.
🖤 thank you I needed this
I just got here and I LOVED IT!
I needed this, thank you!
I definitely need this coffee talk!! Thank you!!
Thank you 💜
Thank you! I value these pep talks so much. Thank you for sharing your energy
Wow! Thank you so much!
Well, with all the miss that's going around, I think I'm being more mature, understanding the way things should be, stop wasting my time and put extra efforts just to prove that I deserve, Im working smartly and at the right time without needing to be motivating to, I'm focusing on me as the central unit of my life, cause that's what precious mean.
Alot of love for you 🤍.
Needed this video today! Always look forward to your videos!
30:13 Kalyn, I cried.
Like always, this came at the perfect time 🙏🙏🙏🌈💘
Thanks big sis this video could not come a better time.
I want to be able to thumb up from the subscriptions-list already 😂 I get so excited when I see a new thumbnail of yours
thank you!
Thank you for covering this topic!
Do you and be you 🥺, I needed to hear that , thank you ❤️!
I loved it so much! I didn't know how much I needed these words :)
Loved this 😭😭💜💜💜
Love this ! Would love a chat about how to kill your ego 😩
Only for the title I´m gonna say that this is something that i need to hear.
Now I´ll enjoy the talk