DETACH & STOP Caring What OTHERS Think
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- Опубликовано: 24 авг 2023
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'So if you listen to the average person for their average advice, you will end up like the average person'!!!! So true. Margarita's advice never fails💯
Actually it is a contradiction or Paradox or inescapable Zen Koan
Im 17 y/o. I’m taking sociology in HS, today we learned “lookin glass self” the concept- we perceive & change ourselves depending on what society thinks of us. I’m happy too say I have not changed for anyone- for society, I dress goth, white face, dark makeup, dark clothes, bird nest hair. Get looks but those make me feel better. Means I’m different, people take their time too talk about me, weither good or bad. Be yourself guys, like she said no one is gonna remember you anyway, do as you please. Have a lovely day
Yet your not because the majority are looking like you
@@mikepiccolo32where do you live that the majority dresses goth? I know it's trendy right now but I wouldn't necessarily call it the majority.
@@chibisoda7083 Are you cool ?Do you listen to Aerosmith?
Well I'm from the 80s lol so I don't really get surprised or look at anyone, and I don't care what someone looks like, back then punks, skid heads, new romantics, and mods were all around I admired the punks they went through a lot of thought to get their look just right always clean tidy well groomed
@@mikepiccolo32 not necessarily, not where I am from. They dress a little alt, not fully traditional goth.
Key point you made at the end - you could be working to please someone for years, do one wrong thing, and they'll abandon you in a heartbeat. When you self-validate, every mistake is a new opportunity for growth and self-reflection, and you'll never abandon yourself in that way
❤💯
Indeed. You can build 20 years of approval and lose it in one day, it's genuinely pointless. Thank you Margarita, love you !
Reminds me of a line a book that has stuck with me…
”One ah shit
wipes out every atta boy.”
“I care if I like me”💗
My mother use to say “You’re a psycho,” when I called her out on things, and was right. I, finally, learned to respond with “I may be, though, that doesn’t imply I am wrong.”
Well that's funny😂😂
hope she got your message her reaction must be epic in the moment
"You will be failing at smth you didn't even want for yourself in the first place!." Ouch, thaaat resonated big time...
"It is of no consequence what others think of you. What matters is what you think of them." - Gore Vidal.
It has to be talked about more. That going against the social expectations is lonely sometimes but you find yourself. The same way they say that it is lonely at the top and it is ok. Marching to the beat of your own drums is worth it.
When i tell you i watch your videos almost everyday ? Because one you are telling me about myself and also I’m learning and growing and I’m not even gonna lie to you i am a black man who suffers from anxiety and anxious attachment and also seeking approval from others because i was raised in a household where i got criticized everyday so it affected my life heavy. But watching your videos these past few weeks/ month I’ve noticed a change in my mindset, mood, relationship and attitude. So thank you margarita 🌷
Freeing myself of people’s opinions cause they are mediocre and want me to stay stuck cause they hate im trying and having chance especially my toxic family and I’m listening to my intuition and my spiritual beliefs and myself period. I feel free and at ease. Taking baby steps to reprogram myself and felt this video. Thanks for posting your truth and inspiration. ❤
I recently started running to podcasts, instead of music. Been a runner for 18 years. WOW. What a game-changer listening to these podcasts while striving towards your running goals! Or any goals! SO. MUCH. VALUE.
You know what is funny? I recently realized that if you tell anyone that you would like to try something new, for example a try going on a new career path. 9 out of 10 people will tell you “oh this is going to be so hard for you, not many people succeed in this, if I were you I wouldn’t try this.” And you rarely have people who say “yeah, go fo it, good for you, good luck!”. Why can’t people just mind their own business. These “advices” are not really advices, people are trying to hold you back and I always wonder why.
Needed this! Getting the silent treatment right now from my bf. I owned my mistakes and know I should walk away, but keep caring about being mean or his opinion of me.
Silent treatment is mental abuse
You can care about him from a distance. You don't need to be in his life just because you love him. Silent treatment is a punishment and if you don't walk away, you will be rewarding him for punishing you and he'll keep repeating this behavior. And the time will come when you will be overwhelmed and snap at him. That's when he'll call you crazy and make it all your fault.
So it's best to silently walk away now. And never look back. Show him that his petty punishment won't work on you.
What if silent treatment is a punishment for something bad she actually done?@@anonymousnation5235
Really really needed to hear this after having a desperately paranoid evening - I’m always seeking the approval of my colleagues when I don’t need to. Thank you 🙏
Can't like this video enough!!! Happy for you to onboard better help as a sponsor x
This is a sword I'll fall on, I've said it before, but I'll say it again, I love the way you put it that I gotta get my sh!t together. It's not in a judgmental, non caring way. And you don't talk us to death 😅. 30mins of saying the same thing different ways like other channels. Thank you 🙏🏾 🥹 you give me the spark that I can be better
Not everyone trying to fit in is seeking approval.
Love and support to you! Thank you for your cool, inspiring, out of the box thinking.
this video is so moving in every positive way possible, you’ve somehow encouraged the beast of courage that i thought was covered in anxiety and worries. thank you so much
The timing of this video in my life is GOLD ✨😍 thank you!
Straight to the point. Thank you great advice! Congratulations on having sponsor for this video, great job!
Omg, this almost made me cry. Thank you so much for this video❤ so inspiring and loving 🙏🏼
Standing ovation for this 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I have been anticipating your next video! Yay! Your wisdom is so needed! And I've been doing therapy on better help for 2 months now and love it! Literally working to find my self!
Thanks for your book suggestion ‘Attached’ in one of your videos, it’s changed my perspective after my breakup two weeks ago.
This is exceptionally brilliant and thoughtful. Thank you Goals!
I love all your videos and I’m so glad that I stumbled on you and your sessions
They have changed me
And I’m glad I hopped out the box!
I love you for your dedication and honesty
really love your inputs!!! thank you SO much for finding really the best explanations for how we can actually really believe in these truths such as "don't care for what others think" :)
Hi Margarita Nazarenko, I am very much grateful that I have found someone like you in the youtube platform. You have saved my life and help me get out of self-hate and depression. Keep doing this type of content. :)
I’m trying so hard to control my emotions! I love your come back! Lol👏👏👏
Love this, Margarita! Thank you for always sharing your wisdom 🤍
My god the words were amazingly said! Very powerful video! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
We love you, Margarita! Always just what we need to hear when we need to hear it!! ❤❤❤
I'm very grateful that I found your channel. Your wisdom is golden. ✨️ Thank you so very much. 🙏
congratulations on your new sponsor!!! i needed this so bad.... cryin on the treadmill 😂 thank you thank you thank you! Sell what's from truly within to win!
This is such a lightbulb moment for me! So simple yet very powerful xx
I need to work on my self. Thank you for giving the information about better help. I needed this.
Great lecture. Just what I needed right now. Thank you a bunch. Kisses from Greece. 😘
Margarita, I truly love watching your videos, as a young girl it’s really helps me understand life a bit better. Thank you THANK YOU!🥰
I have followed you for years and haven't watched your videos for a while until recently. I'm loving your transformation! I've always thought of you as down to earth (even when you did luxury videos), so of course you give good advice
Wow I love your content. This was what I needed to hear
You are definitely not a sell out. I love your videos. They help me so much. I respect you that you work with brands you truly love. Thank you so much for your wisdom. ❤
Thank you so much for your work, Margarita. Over the last couple of months I listened to all your podcasts and youtube videos. And on a daily, I also watch your instagram content. It really has changed many of my negative beliefs, helped me to create my own identity and create the vision for my life. All the best for you and your lovely family x
Hi, Margarita,
I love your videos and content; they have positively impacted my life. Please continue to make videos with tips and advice regarding becoming more confident and secure. I would love it if you made specific videos on self-validation and self-soothing. Cheers!
you are amazing !!! this is powerful
It was hard to stop but this video really mind blowing you really help me stop caring now ❤💖
I really love this advice. It’s just so hard to know WHAT i want.
I genuenly need your videos in my life.
I agree with you, manifestation is REAL! -thank you for your videos
This video resonated with me on whole different level, and gave me a whole different outlook on life. Wow thank you
OMG this is solid gold! I honestly feel this is truth! ❤
This video is SO on point - a colleague was asked to leave due to a disciplinary & seeing the opportunity I asserted myself to ask for the transfer (which is also a promotion / allow better work life balance) they loved the idea ans it was granted without second thought I’ve had to deal with criticism from my ex manager for leaving them but also grappling with my own self judgment of what ppl might think of me but your video made me realise I’ve worked super hard in my career and am seen as trustworthy and reliable so when the opportunity arose I should NOT be apologetic to assert myself in the workplace or worry what ransoms may think of me. Also a man would NEVER even question asking for a promotion or securing the deal.
Yes!!! Started tough! :)
This video came right on time. I realize that I spent waaayyyyy to much time explaining myself to people. No more…
Margarita, you have been doing a fantastic work here. Seriously.
After I began my self knowledge, my personal development, get obsessed with me, my ancestry, I lost a lot of friends.
They were nice people, but I wasn’t vibing with them anymore; we were no longer sharing the same perspective, feelings and lifestyle. I didn’t want to gossip, to mock others, to complain etc.
And meeting your channel, you podcast, I felt “okay, this is ma people!”. So, thank you very, very much. Hopefully, I will find my people off-line too!
Thank you 🙏🏾 this is what I just needed right on time
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 good for you I’m so tired of people getting so butt hurt anytime somebody makes money or has success. Like isn’t that the goal for people that you like to be successful and have money? If not, it’s just gonna be all the people that you don’t like that don’t stand for what you agree with having money. 🤦🏼♀️
Thank you for these words, really helped me ! Greeting from Paris :)
Wow i love u so much! Thank u for the bomb advice, as a young woman i really appreciate you
Your videos provide great perspective on many things. It is a wonderful reminder to do what is right for you. No one else is living your life. Trust yourself. Even if you fail. At least you tried. You learn from it. It doesn't mean you shouldn't try again:)
Thank you Margarita, спасибо Маргарита 🌸
I’m so glad you touched on this, I find it BIZARRE when people react that way once someone is sponsored. Every single one of us is a consumer, what is so wrong about advertising & advocating for a brand you truly appreciate & enjoy?
Beautiful, insightful message!
Thank you Margarita. ❤
M33 and have very high standards on myself and others. The mental prowess and thought pattern behind everything you say is extremely impressive for a woman/man/human/etc. I’m in awe from a philosophical standpoint and every video you put out is genuinely teaching others how to handle complex destructive thoughts in a straightforward manner.
You could honestly do world tours with venue bookings where you hold your teachings to others and I’m confident people would show up to hear you.
I really needed this ❤️ how can I break free finally
Needed to hear this! Thanks
Your videos are quite amazing. I fall in love with your channel.
Great video Margarita! I love your content. 😍
Hi ive just subscribed to your channel and the first thing that caught my attention is how raw you are with your emotions and im starting to learn how to manifest my feminine energy and listening to helps me put things in to perspective and valids what im feeling and going through mainly what i need right now because all my life ive been a people pleaser so im trying get out of that habit and im tired of doing and giving my all only to get the short end of the stick...my best wishes to growing your channel and your future endeavours 😊
@Tel3greeme-Margarita_Nazarenko sorry I didn't have telegram I just downloaded it so I would need your contact info which isn't wise to ask in the comment section lol😇💙
SO glad you included hammock lying! yes 🔥
Brilliant advice! As Always ⭐️⭐️⭐️❤️
That’s so intriguing! When I heard you say you were working with Better Help - I wondered if you were familiar with the controversies, surrounding ‘em; as well as the response, in the comments..
And then, to hear you say “I PLOTTED it” - and that be what this video is about?
I couldn’t love it more.
That’s exactly what I tell myself, when I reflect on things that I hold some semblance of shame for (which, isn’t much, surprisingly- being raised in a family full of nearly only women, which, included a narcissism diagnosis).
Everything in my life I have plotted and schemed, in one way or another.
Even when my life is less than ideal, on the outside - I know it’s exactly what’s necessary to achieve my goals, and live the life I desire to live.
It's scary how relevant this video is to me. I've been improving as a person and getting all these you've changed comments. I'm done explaining myself. And I'm done living for others and regretting. It's my life and I'm going to live it how I please
Thanks for sharing!
Thank you Margarita ♥♥♥
Needed this, thank you! 💗
They want u back in the box so true lovin this
I love this video. Thank you.
Thank you for this ❤ love your content.
Your ideas are very unique. I respect you for that. Also your smile gives me major Scarlett Johansson vibes!
I needed to hear this today. ❤
"How about I plotted it this way" we both moved our heads the same way at same moment 😅🥰
Thank you mam❤
I could listen to you all-day
This is gold
I just love this woman. So smart. 💗
thank you for this ❣
You are so amazing !!!
I love your videos so inspiring xxx
I am resentful that I never stood up to bullies, that I allowed myself to be empowered, controlled, manipulated. I resent that I had to adapt and adapt and adapt in order to stay employed for 17 years to pay bills because company politics. I resent that people are not fired when they should be because politics. I probably need to take all that resentment and build a campfire and watch it burn while I focus on the good stuff. A work in progress.
I loved this!
Love this!
Thanks!
always looking forward to your content
Thank you for your content and motivation
Thank you ❤
finally babez!!
You always give good advice. :)