If the father had gone out of state with a child and refused to give the child back, he would have had a warrant issued for his. And he would not be getting any kind of parenting time with his child. Time to start holding these contemptuous mothers to the same standards and laws.
Absolutely. It took me a year of court battles and $18k to get full custody of my two kids. The mother had an addiction no one knew about got arrested WITH MY KIDS IN THE CAR for controlled substance and then I finally got full custody. We haven’t heard from her in three years. Fathers are always thought as second class parents meanwhile pos mothers get every benefit of the doubt. It’s bullshit.
I mean.... there are cases like that LITERALLY on this channel and others showing it can happen to both parents male or female. Don't understand why people keep claiming it never happens
It’s pathetic that someone her age needs to post details of her custody arrangement and at the same time make derogatory statements about her ex. Grow up. This isn’t high school. Handle your private affairs privately.
In the end it’s the child that suffers And the father I’m sure the mother attempts to turn her kid against the father by bad mouthing him as much as possible And I don’t get why ppl feel the need to post stuff like this on social media First of all the fact that she thinks anyone cares enough to want to know about it speaks volumes to how self centered this lady is Secondly some things should remain private All of this comes back on the child at some point Classmates can see this and make fun of the kid for it And for what? Cuz the mom is immature and thinks she is special and thinks ppl care about her nonsense Grow up lady and be a mother to your child Once u bring a child into the world your priorities need to change And your child’s needs come before yours Sad all around
Using your child as a pawn makes you an unfit parent. She should thank her lucky stars that her child has a father who takes his job seriously enough that he will fight for what's right for them
@@Zaners82123 biggest mistake and only true regret I have is that I honestly thought my narcissistic ex would love our child more than he hated me. I was wrong. I let my daughter live with him because I would never keep my kids from their Dad. She is now an adult and we have a very difficult, on again off again relationship. Even though she's very much an adult, if he finds out she speaks to me or her other siblings, he ices her out. She's not allowed at his house, won't speak to her, won't text her. I never thought he'd destroy her to get to me but he will.
@@bethroesch2156 that's absolutely awful. I wish you and your daughter well. My ex who tried to make me go crazy and almost succeeded by calling me I'm all the time as suicidal won custody of 2 of my daughters because of him calling me in as suicidal. It's disgusting to use children as pawns and sets the child up to fail horribly.
The common denominator in all these issues is her. She failed to comply with custody, she says she is being stalked when she is actually getting evicted, she compared her supposed stalker to her ex on social media. She is the problem. So glad Judge Simpson sees it that way. She is digging her own ditch at this point. If she doesn't wise up she will lose equal custody next.
That doesn't sound like stalking...but someone reading my private messages...where like anyone in the world should be allowed to have an opinion while not wanting to be with someone...and that be respected. Especially when I know damn well for a fact...it isn't some bullshit excuse of oh it's the algorithm.
It makes me so angry when divorced parents use CPS as their weapon in fighting custody. Unfair on their children who they put in the middle of these fighs, unfair on CPS as they have real abuse cases to deal with. Absolutely disgusting, she should be charged with false reporting 🤬😡🤬😡
I worked many CPS cases and there were a ton of cases like that. We had one where the parent would make calls to the hotline 2-3 times a week and they all turned out false.
Truth!!! My ex didn’t have these issues w/me because I didn’t want our children to suffer anymore by being cut off from their grandparents! I did have strong reasons for us to get out/away from him at the time but I made sure that was NOT bore anymore by the children! This man is a GOOD father so I am DISGUSTED by this selfish, lying Mother!
Unfortunately many parents have to go through CPS in order to regain custody of their child or children even though the court has ordered. There are more important cases such as child neglect or abuse that need immediate attention and we all know there are not enough caseworkers to address the issues or then there are many that truly don’t care 😢
@@josephhodges9819correct. child services is a separate division entirely. the judge can check and see IF a case is open or closed, but the judge is not a case worker.
Her lawyer is tap dancing around the fact that she failed to comply with a valid court order! Her behavior is disgusting and she is trying to alienate this child from their other parent. I don’t know when people will learn that taking this path is a sure fire way to lose all of your parental rights. Some men get tired of fighting and give up. She tried to weaponize CPS when it sounds like she is the one the child needs to be protected from smh
I just love this man, he takes shit from no one. I also love his sense of fairness and humor. We need more judges like him on the bench. God bless him.
So eviction, kidnapping, nasty sm posts, filing CPS case that was dismissed. She is a full mess. Bet father wished he had picked someone else to breed with.
I have two adult sons with ex wife #1. She succeeded in alienating me from them as kids after our divorce and put me through hell. My sons don't care to know me now because I wasn't there for them more than half their childhood. She very cleverly denied me my parenting time, phone access, kept the money I sent them in birthday cards and never gave them the card either. She replaced me with the man I caught her cheating with and didn't want an ex interfering with her fantasy of a certain kind of family, I was unnecessary. That said, I don't regret breeding with her one bit. For almost 8 years, I was very happy with her. We had amazing sex almost every day, usually more than once. Possibly the best sex I've ever had and the most happy I ever was in a relationship. I just didn't want any more children and she did so she deviously plotted my removal and replacement behind my back. Came as a complete surprise, never saw it coming. I hate her more today than ever and wish the worst for her. Every bad thing. I regret marrying her. But I don't regret breeding with her. Despite not being in my life or me in theirs, my sons are outstanding human beings, smart, one is extremely successful and wealthy due to his intelligence and hard work. I couldn't be more proud of them. The world is a better place because they exist. They exist because of me.
She's going to keep doing whatever she wants, regardless of what the courts tell her, and she's going to wind up in jail, with zero parental rights. She's one of those people that have to learn the hard way. I feel so bad for that poor child, having a vindictive mother like her. I'm sure she's been bad-mouthing the father every chance she gets, trying to turn the child against him with her lies.
@HYPNOTOAD291 It's breaks my heart it's the child that suffers through mothers/fathers behaviours using a child as a gun to a parents head to hurt Mother/Father.I respect every father that stays in there child's life and will do what it takes to continue playing big part in their life's.I live in uk and when my daughter &husband split it stayed a amicable for kids one 3 other 6 months.He had access having them weekends dinner week days etc.She could have stopped access when he didn't pay maintenance but she said it would hurt kids more than hurt him.She had three jobs to provide for kids.They are both teenagers now 18 and 14.
I have some advice for any separated parents based on my own experience. A child sees themselves as being a part of each parent. If parent A says parent B is awful in some way the child can believe things like I have eyes like parent A but I get my awful trait from Parent B. It hurts the child on an emotional level. Trust me if Parent B is awful in some way the child given time will figure it out. My Mom never degraded my Bio dad to me but as I matured I figured it out. I respect her so much because she could have said some pretty nasty stuff about her ex but instead when I asked why they were divorced she said "We both were pretty young when we got married and just weren't mature enough to make things work." Some stuff she could have said but she didn't, things like DV, infidelity and after never paying child support she didn't mention. As a child I didn't realize that the behind door "arguments" aka fights were DV even though I heard it. The other stuff I learned later from others. When I was grown and wanted to talk about it she did and I wish I could be even half the mother she was.
Meanwhile, she's living with her significant other/fiance. I hope her new man takes a good hard look at all the chaos and drama surrounding her, because he could be the next one that she takes to court.
Yep, the new girlfriend/wife is sitting next to the father in court. Ex-wife's life is falling apart due to her poor choices while he is doing better than ever. She is jealous as hell and trying to create problems where they do not exist.
By bringing this forward, father is showing, loud and clear, that he will not allow her to claim sole ownership of their child and ignore their custody arrangements when it pleases her.' This will most likely nip in the bud any future transgressions. Great job Dad.
I'd take that bet. She'll ignore that order and come up with another excuse. Nothing short of losing custody is going to get through to this entitled creature.
Not always! When my X and I split we had a 1 yr old girl and a 4 yr old son- I obtained sole legal and physical custody and there was No Contact order in place thru the Dept of Corrections! Had I allowed him to have ANY contact - human services would have put them in Foster Care removing them from my custody and had me declared unfit! Thankfully when they were 3 and 6 I met an amazingly great guy and 22 months later we were married! Oct 2nd (in 10ish days) we will be together for 21 years! They had an amazing Dad he just didn't contribute any DNA! I know some women that are a Uterus that gave birth amd some Father's that donate sperm (which funnily enough is what my now 25 and 28 year old CALL Their Father- even TO his face!!!!!!)
@@clarissa8477I was going to say that same thing...she seems weirdly happy. I kinda grew up in the same situation and sometimes I'd cry to myself about my real father and how that relationship never happened. I dearly loved my stepfather and my mother never denied that I could still have feelings for my father even though he couldn't be in my life.
My father was a huge jerk to my mother and was really lousy about paying child support but she never kept me or my sister from our time with him, or, said anything bad about him to us. Adults need to learn how to be adults.
This woman is morally bankrupt and has zero clue what the truth is. Without a doubt she would corrupt any child in her care. She is determined to do whatever she wants and whenever she wants. Even when she was caught dead in a lie, still refused to tell the truth😩. She is the type to gaslight the hell out you and make you think you are the crazy one
@@mikeblevins4277 98% is kind of excessive. Although, I will say, as a woman, that I know a few women who think they're above everyone else and the rules don't apply to them. I've also seen the same behavior from men, but I will agree that I see it more from women. Parental alienation should result in the parent losing custody of the child. She obviously hates her ex more than she loves her child. Otherwise, she wouldn't be trying to keep his son from him. These people treat children like they're possessions. No one owns anyone so I don't understand any parent who believes they can keep the child from their mother/father!
Judge Simpson, "what a wonderful world if defendants when presented with an order by a peace officer could just say they don't believe the order and not have to comply." - What a card he is :) Gotta love his fun way of looking at things. He has a lot of patience for the contempt and bad attitude of the defendant.
CPS tends to side with the mother. The courts tend to do the same! It's difficult to beat the system. Then give the mother supervised visitation and the grandmother is the supervisor? Total joke.
Omg I remember when my husband was asked if his payment was sent obviously before automatic payments well she needed the $$ to pay for her brother's bday party my husband was like I pay for my daughter not your brother!! His payment had been sent nothing you could do about mail delivery. Payments did come from his check and employer 🤦♀️
Weaponizing a child to get back at the other parent is lowest of low unethical things to do. This **mother*" - if not a narcissist/sociopath - will regret it because ultimately she will lose the love and bond with the child. Advice to men or women wanting to play gotcha games - get a hobby - take a class - get on with life that does not revolve around revenge or control..
The dad should file for full custody against this mother. She does what she wants when she wants. If this was the dad, he would be in a lot more trouble. When parents do this, they should get some jail time automatically. Did anyone else notice that mom nor her lawyer never brought up the supposed CPS case that was so important to keep her son away from dad.
Yes. She fails to meet the best interests of mental health moral values and will not facilitate a relationship between other parent and child. Id do it immediately while shes facing charges.
If he wins this case he probably would file for custody, winning this case would be good evidence against her having custody. She could have supervised visits.
It’s always the goal of the courts to have both parents involved. Often times the end result is violence when one or both parties are behaving in the manner the described of the defendant.
So often I see Judge Simpson annoyed or stoic and I loved seeing him smile several times. I also love when the Judge says, "I disagree but I'll let you have it". It's his way of giving them the rope to watch them hang.
As long as the attorney has protected her rights, he's done his job. He can *try* to protect her from her own fool mouth, fool attitude, and fool decisions -- but at the end of the day, that only works if she cooperates with his efforts. If she chooses not to, well, that's all on her.
Her lawyer is reaching, it doesn't matter if the father used to work in law enforcement. What parent, if their child is NOT returned to them for their custody time, doesn't panic and call the police? Also as JS said, a parent disregarding a court order isn't simply a civil matter.
This is ridiculous this mom should have been thrown into jail and her parental rights (as of today) stripped immediately. She kidnapped the child and crossed state lines. News flash if a father or stranger did this they wouldn’t see the light of day for years. This women also lied resulting in CPS case. Full custody needs to be moved to the dad and the mother allowed supervised visits until she proves to be an adult.
@@jaja-cg9yd depends heavily on the judge and politics involved, often times the woman are favored and the men are disfavored. There are many examples of each, fathers jailed because they refuse to allow their child to be abused by the mother and "kidnap" the child and leave the state, the mother files a police report, judge rules in her favor, and the father goes to jail ignoring the child telling the court appointed "therapists" about the abuse.
@@jaja-cg9ydtransporting a child across state lines without the other parent's permission is illegal. Ignoring a court order is illegal. That's how the law is WRITTEN and enforced when it's being welded against man. It's suddenly "not how it works" when it's a toxic mother.
I hate mothers who think that they "own" the child and decide whether the father can see their child or not. Too many do this. A child has two parents. Also hate when they bad mouth the father, usually because they are full of hate and spite. Different if the father is abusive to the child, of course. She should be thankful that her ex wants to to share custody, many walk away because they cant be bothered.
It's nice to see men finally standing up for themselves and not allowing women to weaponize their children. Any woman that does this does not have the concern of their child at heart at all Is more fathers would understand that going to court like this will get you what you want if you have a unwilling mother? Then more father would have their children I know it's a financial burden not everyone has that pleasure but the court system really does work especially nowadays it's getting a lot better. I love jet Simpson he's fair no matter what gender!!
This woman needs to be in jail for awhile and maybe then she'll fully understand what it's like not to have her child when she wants them. She's unfit to parent and I'd bet money that she's filling the child with negative thoughts about their dad. She won't be able to comply with any orders so it wouldn't surprise me in the least if she ends up back in jail. Disgraceful behavior and I feel sorry for the father and child.
I was a 9-1-1 dispatcher for 8 years. We got calls all of the time from parents that needed an officer to stand by, by court order, while at a neutral location to exchange the children, because one or both were incapable of being civil enough to do this on their own.
Thank you for this! I remember when Judge Simpson ordered her to turn herself in to jail for playing with his court orders over the SM postings. He wasn’t playing! I haven’t finished watching yet! Thanks again!
Yeah, not following up herself with court orders was just plain stupid. It takes a simple phone call or visit to the courthouse to do a validation if she was genuinely concerned about the authenticity of the court orders. She thought she could pull a fast one and thought the court might let her slide through. What an idiot. Things will only get worse if she stays on this path. She's going to lose in this upcoming trial, so she better come to terms with her mistakes and bad behavior.
As a person and as a therapist, I'm disgusted when kids are put in the middle of their parents' selfish and manipulative behaviors. "Mature" divorces and separations happen, and it sucks, but I can help a kid work through their feelings and the adjustments around that. With crap like this and the parental alienation, I have to not only create a safe space for the kid, but I have to help them navigate their reality when they're not even sure what their reality is! Side note: I just adore Judge Simpson's approach and sense of humor. Crossing him = being spit roasted over a fire.
I was thinking as the judge said that the responsibility for responding to a court order (including questioning or verifying the order) falls on the person who is the subject of the order. You don't just refuse to comply.
OMG!! I remember this lady and her case with the alleged "stalker"!! The judge found that she was not being stalked. She was exaggerating what the landlord was doing when it came to trying to get her to pay back rent and on top of that SHE had complained to the landlord about things in the apartment not working and needing things fixed and she was saying that them coming into her home to fix what she had asked to be fixed was the person breaking into her house to stalk her further. It was absolutely ridiculous. She said the same thing at that hearing when the judge asked her about the social media posts. Not only had she posted the one that she claims had to do with her having a stalker but, they found then that she still had other posts up that she was supposed to have taken down. If I remember correctly, they said that the posts had been taken down at one point but seem to have been put back up. Her social media posts were only mentioned by the judge then because they knew of the fact that she was not supposed to be posting on social media due to this case and just questioned her about it and then implored her to remove it before the judges court clerk had to report it to the judge in her custody case. I thought this crazy lady looked really familiar! As soon as they stated the case about her landlord stalker, I knew it was the woman. She seems to be a habitual liar who will give any excuses that she thinks will get her out of the woods. Just like with her landlord dispute case. Hopefully the dad starts having an easier time eith her and this case and is able to get the child away from her or at least give her supervised visitation because something is just not right with rhis woman completely.
I have seen Judge Simpson during COVID. He has the best rock solid common sense. I have enjoyed watching him actually dispense justice! Awesome judge!!!!
If ANYONE here in RUclips Land has ever had a custodial conflict interference, you know how this dad feels. I had to take my X back to court twice, once for interference and the other to get custody of my youngest when he turned 12. That was nearly 30 years ago and the effects still sting after the heartburn of flying to depositions, visiting my kids, meetings with my lawyer, etc. Got into the thousands of dollars excluding attorney fees. NO ONE should interfere with a parent's custodial rights. End result on my side, I won both issues in court.
Her attorney is despicable....even having the audacity to imply that the father somehow attempted to use his former service as a police officer to manipulate the custody situation. Trying to use your own child as a "weapon" in divorce..that's also despicable.
His job is to use every argument at his disposal to defend his client. If I was his lawyer I wouldn’t have used it cause you risk irking the judge, but it’s a legitimate weapon in his arsenal. Don’t hate him for doing his job. Even serial killers must be provided a vigorous defense. The day the accused doesn’t is the day we kiss the Consitution goodbye.
Statements like this demonstrate how little the average person understands about the legal system in the United States. This is literally the job of the public defender. Every defendant deserves someone to defend them, whether they are right or not. The attorney isn't "despicable" for providing a service guaranteed by the constitution of the United States.
Got people saying that defense attorneys can imply anything they want to make someone look bad or insinuate horrible intentions. Is that really what this country was founded on? It seems things got perverted along the way. I am truly glad that I don’t have long left on this earth to have to cope with what this country has become, and am so glad that I was never able to have children who would have to live in this craziness.
@@debdanton2295yes it is. Before we set up our court system the ones in Europe were essentially kangaroo courts. So we said, the defense has the obligation, not just a right, to do whatever they can within the law. This may seem unfair or unjust but the individual has to have more power than the accusing government in the court or the rest of the individuals cannot have faith in justice. One of the concessions for the original principles of our founding.
This woman is nuts and maybe have her mentally evaluated by CPS not the father. She is not a a good mom keeping the kid away from the dad. Then lying about stuff posting false allegation. She definitely thinks she is above any judges orders.
I hope we can find this one to follow throughout the jury trial. She’s a joke! What a lying manipulative human being! Judge Simpson saw right through her manipulative tactics however. Tfs and God bless! ~Anna
The police get called all the time for custody disputes and child exchanges. If that cop worked 4 and 1/2 years and never had to deal with it, is the most shocking out of the whole mess.
Parents who try to bring false allegations against the other should be criminally charged. This egg donor doesnt care about her child, only hurting her ex. No real mother or father would use their child as a weapon not caring about the damage done to the child or children
I do not get along well with my ex, and we often argue about what we each think is best for our child, but in the end we figure it out and we put our child first. Arguing aside, I am grateful for a co-parent who truly loves our kid. We have never needed a custody agreement and have even cohabitated so she would have access to us both (it didn’t work out great but we tried).
I really like this judge! Just keeping the dates straight is amazing. Give that Gentleman a hoorah and a bottle of Excedrin. I'm sure he needs it after listening to all of this crap.
I know why CPS takes allegations seriously, they should. That's a good thing! I don't like how parents try and use the system to get back at the other parent or to get a leg up on them in court. Defendant and her lawyer are scum. The father has rights too. She knew what the custody arrangement is. She should of had to go to jail, even for 7 days. We all know she is going to do what she wants. I am looking forward to seeing what happens at her next court date.
This was an interesting one Wolf! I expect we'll see her again, because she's not going to follow anybody's order! Would be great if you can catch the one on Judge Slay's docket! I'll go back & try to catch the date again in Oct.
I love that the lawyer’s whole argument was around the validity of the court documents, and refused to acknowledge that his client was still directly disobeying a custody order and refusing to handover her child to the father on the schedule days, just going to completely ignore the fact that she was violating the original order. Too many mothers get away with this bullshit, but if the roles were reversed, they would’ve hunted that man down like a wild animal. My ex-wife kidnapped my children and fled to another state and hid for six months, I’m a resident of Michigan currently, I was told I was doomed, and that it was unlikely that I would ever see my children again, my ex-wife did a lot more than just kidnap our children. She did many many other things during the six months. On the bright side, I managed to come out on top and by some miracle I got granted an ex parte order only to find out the state she was in refused to cooperate, which again roles reversed. They would’ve hunted me down like an animal. In the end, I did get my children back. She was exposed for child Abuse, child neglect. Parental kidnapping and that’s excluding all of the false criminal charges she tried to put against me to get away with what she did. I got sole, physical and legal custody of all of our children, they are safe and happy, she didn’t get an ounce of trouble and I’m still dealing with the consequences of her actions. All that matters is that I got my children and she won’t ever see them again, if I can help it, because my children are terrified of her and everything she did to them during those six months. But these courts need to stop catering to mothers, and my experience as a first responder, who deals with this on a daily basis, it’s almost always the mothers that turn out to be terrible I had to type all this out on speech to text so sorry if this is butchered lol
Wow. I am happy that this gentleman is trying so hard to get the child away frm toxic mom. It's impressive. A boy needs his dad ( which I say bcuz mine died ) and being with females , and her string of bf's is unhealthy. Bless my mom who did not do that , and waited some years b4 a religious remarriage .
This woman wants to ingratiate herself into this man’s life so much so that she’s willing to keep a child away from the father just to provoke this series of events. Child well-being be damned, she wants what she wants. She’s a selfish, immature person.
I appreciate Judge Simpson for his attention to details and clarity in straightening out timelines. He is a wise man and he has an ability to see through bs and behavior that is childish. 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
This is the standard of Justice that needs to be set in family court proceeding. Treach the father and mother equally. Jail should be issued to mothers that violate orders. Period!
I've been watching a lot of these custody cases, and it floors me how often these women are getting away with so much. I know men do it too. But it is just so biased. Women are given such leeway. I have girlfriends who do this too. Keep the kids away from the father because she is mad at him about stuff like his dating or she doesn't want the child around hi family. Yet she can bring men in and out of the child's life. This needs to stop. Family court needs to get its act together.
For every woman who is using her kids as pawns in a game there is a mother like me who has a child that hasn’t seen their father since he was a toddler. He could see him any time he wants, he chooses not to.
Thank you! I've been trying to follow this case. I'm sad tosee it go to Judge Slay, only because we can't get video updates. Her lawyer has a problem on his hands and I think he knows it. She used CPS to try to keep the father from his son. She accused law enforcement and the judiciary of conspiring against her with her ex to abuse the child. This child needs protection from her. He needs to know he is loved and safe. Thank goodness Judge Simpson has tried to stop her. It remains to be seen how it turns out. Great job! 😎🦇
God only knows how many lies she's already told the child about his father. She has some serious issues that need to be addressed before she screws up that poor kid.
I like that judge a lot. He seems like the kind of judge that would NOT sell his rulings to the highest bidder. Clarence Thomas and Samuel Alito could learn a lot from a judge like that.
My husband continued to break custody orders and ended up fleeing with my children. They were missing for over 6 months as he travelled around the country living in the car with minimal $ living on welfare fortnight to fortnight. When he ran out of money they would be stuck on the side of the road with no petrol, food and water for days . This was done to punish me for leaving his abusive ass because he thought he owned me and the children
First I have to say so good to see Judge Simpson in court and not on zoom. I have to say, though it was very difficult. I'm not through this yet, but it's very difficult. When the father came up on the stand because you couldn't hear him open on? For most times I'm still going to go through this. Because I'm just happy to see this. It seems like a great case. I just wish the volume was different.
One of my niece's who had primary custody of her two kids decided she was going to move to Chicago from Kansas without informing her ex husband. He found out, moved to Kansas from Texas, contacted the judge & she was ordered to bring the kids back to Kansas. She was ordered to drive the kids back to Kansas the next day. She did. Then they went before the judge & she lost primary custody. The kids are now 19 & 16 & live with their father. She had withheld the kids from seeing her family. They are now fully enveloped in our family & they & we all love them to pieces. We spend a lot of time together & it is wonderful!!!
I hated being kept from my dad, for no reason. On sundays, when I had to go back. If i showed any hesitation getting out of the car, or cried. I was promptly whipped for it.
Hey Mom! Knock this foolishness off! You’re playing with FIRE! It’s already bad enough that you parents had to get the courts involved with custody.. My ex husband and I raised 5 - all happily married - 16 grands now. When we split, we had to make some sacrifices and love those kids more than we hated each other! We didn’t need or want the state to EVER be involved in our family!! Do what you’ve got to do to protect your children..and that includes being willing to humble yourself, open your eyes, and be thankful there’s a loving father who’ll fight for what’s right for them. This stubborn selfish woman has no idea of the dangers ahead if she keeps doing what she’s doing!
If the father had gone out of state with a child and refused to give the child back, he would have had a warrant issued for his. And he would not be getting any kind of parenting time with his child. Time to start holding these contemptuous mothers to the same standards and laws.
100%
That isn't true if both parents have parental rights.
Absolutely. It took me a year of court battles and $18k to get full custody of my two kids. The mother had an addiction no one knew about got arrested WITH MY KIDS IN THE CAR for controlled substance and then I finally got full custody. We haven’t heard from her in three years. Fathers are always thought as second class parents meanwhile pos mothers get every benefit of the doubt. It’s bullshit.
To quote a great man “ you are butt hurt”
I mean.... there are cases like that LITERALLY on this channel and others showing it can happen to both parents male or female. Don't understand why people keep claiming it never happens
It’s pathetic that someone her age needs to post details of her custody arrangement and at the same time make derogatory statements about her ex. Grow up. This isn’t high school. Handle your private affairs privately.
In the end it’s the child that suffers And the father I’m sure the mother attempts to turn her kid against the father by bad mouthing him as much as possible And I don’t get why ppl feel the need to post stuff like this on social media First of all the fact that she thinks anyone cares enough to want to know about it speaks volumes to how self centered this lady is Secondly some things should remain private All of this comes back on the child at some point Classmates can see this and make fun of the kid for it And for what? Cuz the mom is immature and thinks she is special and thinks ppl care about her nonsense Grow up lady and be a mother to your child Once u bring a child into the world your priorities need to change And your child’s needs come before yours Sad all around
@@DannyRedCheeksit’s cause people like that peak in high school
she's that stupid, interfering with the child's school attendance shows that.
@@merlynshandley6337what are you referring to?
She should be reminded that at one time that other person was the center of her life.
“Lock her up, Lock her up”. No sympathy, evil woman 😡
That’s not great for the child either
Using your child as a pawn makes you an unfit parent. She should thank her lucky stars that her child has a father who takes his job seriously enough that he will fight for what's right for them
So true. I wish my children had had a dad like that instead of the dad who just walked away and didn't come back
Exactly
You have to love your child more than you hate your ex. Clearly she doesn't
@@Zaners82123 biggest mistake and only true regret I have is that I honestly thought my narcissistic ex would love our child more than he hated me. I was wrong. I let my daughter live with him because I would never keep my kids from their Dad. She is now an adult and we have a very difficult, on again off again relationship. Even though she's very much an adult, if he finds out she speaks to me or her other siblings, he ices her out. She's not allowed at his house, won't speak to her, won't text her. I never thought he'd destroy her to get to me but he will.
@@bethroesch2156 that's absolutely awful. I wish you and your daughter well. My ex who tried to make me go crazy and almost succeeded by calling me I'm all the time as suicidal won custody of 2 of my daughters because of him calling me in as suicidal. It's disgusting to use children as pawns and sets the child up to fail horribly.
The common denominator in all these issues is her. She failed to comply with custody, she says she is being stalked when she is actually getting evicted, she compared her supposed stalker to her ex on social media. She is the problem. So glad Judge Simpson sees it that way. She is digging her own ditch at this point. If she doesn't wise up she will lose equal custody next.
Exactly! Who the heck wants all these judges, cps. Cop. Involved in these people's lives? My God woman grow up!
That doesn't sound like stalking...but someone reading my private messages...where like anyone in the world should be allowed to have an opinion while not wanting to be with someone...and that be respected. Especially when I know damn well for a fact...it isn't some bullshit excuse of oh it's the algorithm.
She deserves to lose parental rights completely now, not after more damage is done. Children aren't property or tools to use against others
She should've lost equal custody this time.
No the common denominator is obviously spray-on hair. both the judge and the defense have it
Judge Simpson is so careful when clarifying the custody order at the start. He picks his words so well. Excellent !
It makes me so angry when divorced parents use CPS as their weapon in fighting custody. Unfair on their children who they put in the middle of these fighs, unfair on CPS as they have real abuse cases to deal with. Absolutely disgusting, she should be charged with false reporting 🤬😡🤬😡
I worked many CPS cases and there were a ton of cases like that. We had one where the parent would make calls to the hotline 2-3 times a week and they all turned out false.
Truth!!! My ex didn’t have these issues w/me because I didn’t want our children to suffer anymore by being cut off from their grandparents! I did have strong reasons for us to get out/away from him at the time but I made sure that was NOT bore anymore by the children! This man is a GOOD father so I am DISGUSTED by this selfish, lying Mother!
Unfortunately many parents have to go through CPS in order to regain custody of their child or children even though the court has ordered. There are more important cases such as child neglect or abuse that need immediate attention and we all know there are not enough caseworkers to address the issues or then there are many that truly don’t care 😢
@@diannmurphy2010 Rarely will a judge order a CPS case be closed. I am not even sure if a judge can order a case be closed.
@@josephhodges9819correct. child services is a separate division entirely. the judge can check and see IF a case is open or closed, but the judge is not a case worker.
Her lawyer is tap dancing around the fact that she failed to comply with a valid court order! Her behavior is disgusting and she is trying to alienate this child from their other parent. I don’t know when people will learn that taking this path is a sure fire way to lose all of your parental rights. Some men get tired of fighting and give up. She tried to weaponize CPS when it sounds like she is the one the child needs to be protected from smh
Right, bottom line failed to follow court order.
Parents think court orders are suggestions.
Tap dancing, but not nearly as good as Fred Astaire or Danny Kaye! 😂😂😂
A GoFundMe page? Wth? Childish at best. Attention seeker! Poor kid
My brother-in-law got tired of fighting. Its so sad.
@@thequeenb8404 🫂🫂🫂
The judge saw thru her BS. Congratulations to him.
I just love this man, he takes shit from no one. I also love his sense of fairness and humor. We need more judges like him on the bench. God bless him.
So eviction, kidnapping, nasty sm posts, filing CPS case that was dismissed. She is a full mess. Bet father wished he had picked someone else to breed with.
She is pretty. He was obviously thinking with the little head instead of the big one.
@@marktrain9498manipulators manipulate. at the time, he trusted her.
I have two adult sons with ex wife #1. She succeeded in alienating me from them as kids after our divorce and put me through hell. My sons don't care to know me now because I wasn't there for them more than half their childhood. She very cleverly denied me my parenting time, phone access, kept the money I sent them in birthday cards and never gave them the card either. She replaced me with the man I caught her cheating with and didn't want an ex interfering with her fantasy of a certain kind of family, I was unnecessary. That said, I don't regret breeding with her one bit. For almost 8 years, I was very happy with her. We had amazing sex almost every day, usually more than once. Possibly the best sex I've ever had and the most happy I ever was in a relationship. I just didn't want any more children and she did so she deviously plotted my removal and replacement behind my back. Came as a complete surprise, never saw it coming. I hate her more today than ever and wish the worst for her. Every bad thing. I regret marrying her. But I don't regret breeding with her. Despite not being in my life or me in theirs, my sons are outstanding human beings, smart, one is extremely successful and wealthy due to his intelligence and hard work. I couldn't be more proud of them. The world is a better place because they exist. They exist because of me.
My son went through something very similar with his child’s other parent. It was brutal and cost a lot of money in court and lawyers fees.
This woman is a defense attorney's worse nightmare bc she's uncontrollable and immature. Should never be a parent
I’m quite familiar with the type. The kid(s) is/are the ones who suffer. I love this judge. He’s stellar and fair.
She's going to keep doing whatever she wants, regardless of what the courts tell her, and she's going to wind up in jail, with zero parental rights. She's one of those people that have to learn the hard way.
I feel so bad for that poor child, having a vindictive mother like her. I'm sure she's been bad-mouthing the father every chance she gets, trying to turn the child against him with her lies.
It's all ego for her. She wants to win the fight at the cost of emotional abuse with their son. She's a piece of work. What a loser.
@HYPNOTOAD291 It's breaks my heart it's the child that suffers through mothers/fathers behaviours using a child as a gun to a parents head to hurt Mother/Father.I respect every father that stays in there child's life and will do what it takes to continue playing big part in their life's.I live in uk and when my daughter &husband split it stayed a amicable for kids one 3 other 6 months.He had access having them weekends dinner week days etc.She could have stopped access when he didn't pay maintenance but she said it would hurt kids more than hurt him.She had three jobs to provide for kids.They are both teenagers now 18 and 14.
Truly sad when fathers do this to children as well
I have some advice for any separated parents based on my own experience. A child sees themselves as being a part of each parent. If parent A says parent B is awful in some way the child can believe things like I have eyes like parent A but I get my awful trait from Parent B. It hurts the child on an emotional level. Trust me if Parent B is awful in some way the child given time will figure it out. My Mom never degraded my Bio dad to me but as I matured I figured it out. I respect her so much because she could have said some pretty nasty stuff about her ex but instead when I asked why they were divorced she said "We both were pretty young when we got married and just weren't mature enough to make things work." Some stuff she could have said but she didn't, things like DV, infidelity and after never paying child support she didn't mention. As a child I didn't realize that the behind door "arguments" aka fights were DV even though I heard it. The other stuff I learned later from others. When I was grown and wanted to talk about it she did and I wish I could be even half the mother she was.
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Sounds like you have a great mom ❤
Social media is relevant and so are subliminal threats made. Especially with so many crazy, bitter mothers killing their kids on social media 🤦🏽♀️
39:26 the dad has another woman. Now we know why the mother is trying to sabotage the relationship between the dad and the child- jealousy.
Meanwhile, she's living with her significant other/fiance. I hope her new man takes a good hard look at all the chaos and drama surrounding her, because he could be the next one that she takes to court.
If they’ll do it with you , they’ll do it to you
Yep, the new girlfriend/wife is sitting next to the father in court. Ex-wife's life is falling apart due to her poor choices while he is doing better than ever. She is jealous as hell and trying to create problems where they do not exist.
Claws come out and it's so immature 😸😸😸
By bringing this forward, father is showing, loud and clear, that he will not allow her to claim sole ownership of their child and ignore their custody arrangements when it pleases her.' This will most likely nip in the bud any future transgressions. Great job Dad.
"Ownership" ???
@@Squawk24I hit reply to say the same....my brain stopped comprehending at that word....
I just want to say thank you for using “nip in the bud” correctly!
@@Squawk24 I was thinking of how she feels about the child, she believes she owns him, children are NOT about ownership, shared or otherwise.
I'd take that bet.
She'll ignore that order and come up with another excuse.
Nothing short of losing custody is going to get through to this entitled creature.
I couldnt imagine keeping my kids from their dad. So cruel in so many ways 😢
Not always! When my X and I split we had a 1 yr old girl and a 4 yr old son- I obtained sole legal and physical custody and there was No Contact order in place thru the Dept of Corrections! Had I allowed him to have ANY contact - human services would have put them in Foster Care removing them from my custody and had me declared unfit! Thankfully when they were 3 and 6 I met an amazingly great guy and 22 months later we were married! Oct 2nd (in 10ish days) we will be together for 21 years! They had an amazing Dad he just didn't contribute any DNA! I know some women that are a Uterus that gave birth amd some Father's that donate sperm (which funnily enough is what my now 25 and 28 year old CALL Their Father- even TO his face!!!!!!)
@@shannonobrien9922 That's twisted logic.
And obviously one sided.
Women sometimes lie, especially in these situations.
@@shannonobrien9922you seem weirdly delighted by what your children have been through.
@@clarissa8477I was going to say that same thing...she seems weirdly happy. I kinda grew up in the same situation and sometimes I'd cry to myself about my real father and how that relationship never happened. I dearly loved my stepfather and my mother never denied that I could still have feelings for my father even though he couldn't be in my life.
My father was a huge jerk to my mother and was really lousy about paying child support but she never kept me or my sister from our time with him, or, said anything bad about him to us. Adults need to learn how to be adults.
This woman is morally bankrupt and has zero clue what the truth is. Without a doubt she would corrupt any child in her care. She is determined to do whatever she wants and whenever she wants. Even when she was caught dead in a lie, still refused to tell the truth😩. She is the type to gaslight the hell out you and make you think you are the crazy one
you just described pretty much 98 percent of woman.
@@mikeblevins4277 98%? That’s a stretch to me but okay
You have described my mother so very well. 😐
Culture.
@@mikeblevins4277 98% is kind of excessive. Although, I will say, as a woman, that I know a few women who think they're above everyone else and the rules don't apply to them. I've also seen the same behavior from men, but I will agree that I see it more from women. Parental alienation should result in the parent losing custody of the child. She obviously hates her ex more than she loves her child. Otherwise, she wouldn't be trying to keep his son from him. These people treat children like they're possessions. No one owns anyone so I don't understand any parent who believes they can keep the child from their mother/father!
Judge Simpson, "what a wonderful world if defendants when presented with an order by a peace officer could just say they don't believe the order and not have to comply." - What a card he is :) Gotta love his fun way of looking at things. He has a lot of patience for the contempt and bad attitude of the defendant.
Dude is hilarious. I saw him say "Uh oh" when a defendant failed three drug tests. That's a funny Uh-oh.
I love watching Judge Simpson. He has a great demeanor and while he may smile and have a few laughs with the attorneys he is fair and serious.
Judge Simpson ❤ love his shirts😊
@@rosamariamendoza1466Yeah, he rocks the hell out of those Mandarin collars. And they go with the robe beautifully.
I feel sorry for her child. The dad should have custody of their daughter & her visits should be supervised.
Well- they actually said "you have a son correct" that was quite LITERALLY the Prosecutors first question he asked the Dad SSSOOOOOO yeah
Give him Full custody she only has custody for money both from county housing voucher ,food benefits and child support etc.
Exactly what I was thinking
CPS tends to side with the mother. The courts tend to do the same! It's difficult to beat the system. Then give the mother supervised visitation and the grandmother is the supervisor? Total joke.
Omg I remember when my husband was asked if his payment was sent obviously before automatic payments well she needed the $$ to pay for her brother's bday party my husband was like I pay for my daughter not your brother!! His payment had been sent nothing you could do about mail delivery. Payments did come from his check and employer 🤦♀️
Weaponizing a child to get back at the other parent is lowest of low unethical things to do. This **mother*" - if not a narcissist/sociopath - will regret it because ultimately she will lose the love and bond with the child. Advice to men or women wanting to play gotcha games - get a hobby - take a class - get on with life that does not revolve around revenge or control..
And they will kill the child for the ulimate revenge😮
@@littlebird1065 😢 court must remove child from her custody she is unstable
Love watching Judge Simpson. He's no nonsense with a side of humor.
The dad should file for full custody against this mother. She does what she wants when she wants. If this was the dad, he would be in a lot more trouble. When parents do this, they should get some jail time automatically. Did anyone else notice that mom nor her lawyer never brought up the supposed CPS case that was so important to keep her son away from dad.
Yes. She fails to meet the best interests of mental health moral values and will not facilitate a relationship between other parent and child. Id do it immediately while shes facing charges.
If he wins this case he probably would file for custody, winning this case would be good evidence against her having custody. She could have supervised visits.
It’s always the goal of the courts to have both parents involved. Often times the end result is violence when one or both parties are behaving in the manner the described of the defendant.
What a piece of work she is- makes me sick the thought of her manipulating the system and this poor child.
So often I see Judge Simpson annoyed or stoic and I loved seeing him smile several times. I also love when the Judge says, "I disagree but I'll let you have it". It's his way of giving them the rope to watch them hang.
A follow-up on this whole mess would be very much appreciated.
This defense attorney tried so hard, but his client made it impossible for him.
No attorney was going to be able to help her, but if you need an attorney you might try to find a better one.
As long as the attorney has protected her rights, he's done his job.
He can *try* to protect her from her own fool mouth, fool attitude, and fool decisions -- but at the end of the day, that only works if she cooperates with his efforts. If she chooses not to, well, that's all on her.
He did a good job with the facts he had to work with.
She was the child the teacher would note, "Doesn't play well with others".
Her lawyer is reaching, it doesn't matter if the father used to work in law enforcement. What parent, if their child is NOT returned to them for their custody time, doesn't panic and call the police? Also as JS said, a parent disregarding a court order isn't simply a civil matter.
She doesn't even bother to stand when addressing the court, that tells us a LOT.
This is ridiculous this mom should have been thrown into jail and her parental rights (as of today) stripped immediately. She kidnapped the child and crossed state lines. News flash if a father or stranger did this they wouldn’t see the light of day for years. This women also lied resulting in CPS case. Full custody needs to be moved to the dad and the mother allowed supervised visits until she proves to be an adult.
Lol, okay. Thankfully, that's not how the law works.
@@jaja-cg9yd depends heavily on the judge and politics involved, often times the woman are favored and the men are disfavored. There are many examples of each, fathers jailed because they refuse to allow their child to be abused by the mother and "kidnap" the child and leave the state, the mother files a police report, judge rules in her favor, and the father goes to jail ignoring the child telling the court appointed "therapists" about the abuse.
@@jaja-cg9ydtransporting a child across state lines without the other parent's permission is illegal.
Ignoring a court order is illegal.
That's how the law is WRITTEN and enforced when it's being welded against man.
It's suddenly "not how it works" when it's a toxic mother.
I hate mothers who think that they "own" the child and decide whether the father can see their child or not. Too many do this. A child has two parents. Also hate when they bad mouth the father, usually because they are full of hate and spite. Different if the father is abusive to the child, of course. She should be thankful that her ex wants to to share custody, many walk away because they cant be bothered.
It's nice to see men finally standing up for themselves and not allowing women to weaponize their children. Any woman that does this does not have the concern of their child at heart at all
Is more fathers would understand that going to court like this will get you what you want if you have a unwilling mother? Then more father would have their children I know it's a financial burden not everyone has that pleasure but the court system really does work especially nowadays it's getting a lot better.
I love jet Simpson he's fair no matter what gender!!
I love seeing Judge Simpson struggling to hold back laughter 😂 9:23 that “it rolls of the tongue” almost got him.
He almost lost it again at 25:23 when he called the trooper to the stand 😂
This woman needs to be in jail for awhile and maybe then she'll fully understand what it's like not to have her child when she wants them. She's unfit to parent and I'd bet money that she's filling the child with negative thoughts about their dad. She won't be able to comply with any orders so it wouldn't surprise me in the least if she ends up back in jail. Disgraceful behavior and I feel sorry for the father and child.
The only way that child can be saved is if the father gets full custody.
Judge Simpson is the best!
I was a 9-1-1 dispatcher for 8 years. We got calls all of the time from parents that needed an officer to stand by, by court order, while at a neutral location to exchange the children, because one or both were incapable of being civil enough to do this on their own.
She should be thankful Dad wants to be a part of the childs life.
She is an awful Mother
I’m sick to death of women who keep their children away from the father. It’s harmful, sick, and selfish.
He's entitled to get help after she failed to abide by the court order.
Omg this woman is a nut, so she won’t pay rent and accuses the manager of stalking her. Then has the gall to start a go fund me.
I want to see who wants to contribute to her GoFundMe
Love watching judge simpson videos. Its clear how sharp, concise and logical his intellect is. Fun watching him preside over just about anything.
Thank you for this! I remember when Judge Simpson ordered her to turn herself in to jail for playing with his court orders over the SM postings. He wasn’t playing! I haven’t finished watching yet! Thanks again!
I love the fact that Judge Simpson keeps throwing the "stink eye" in the mother's direction!
Dad, get full custody.
When the judge says “well here we go” I fell in love with him.
Yeah, not following up herself with court orders was just plain stupid. It takes a simple phone call or visit to the courthouse to do a validation if she was genuinely concerned about the authenticity of the court orders. She thought she could pull a fast one and thought the court might let her slide through. What an idiot. Things will only get worse if she stays on this path.
She's going to lose in this upcoming trial, so she better come to terms with her mistakes and bad behavior.
She didnt think for a second it wasnt a real court order. She was just making excuses.
As a person and as a therapist, I'm disgusted when kids are put in the middle of their parents' selfish and manipulative behaviors. "Mature" divorces and separations happen, and it sucks, but I can help a kid work through their feelings and the adjustments around that. With crap like this and the parental alienation, I have to not only create a safe space for the kid, but I have to help them navigate their reality when they're not even sure what their reality is!
Side note: I just adore Judge Simpson's approach and sense of humor. Crossing him = being spit roasted over a fire.
Judge Simpson's smile is contagious, no matter how absurd the circumstances are. Really appreciate him.
This situation is tragic for the child. Hurting a child's parent = hurting the child.
She doesn’t think about the child. Lousy mom
I was thinking as the judge said that the responsibility for responding to a court order (including questioning or verifying the order) falls on the person who is the subject of the order. You don't just refuse to comply.
OMG!! I remember this lady and her case with the alleged "stalker"!! The judge found that she was not being stalked. She was exaggerating what the landlord was doing when it came to trying to get her to pay back rent and on top of that SHE had complained to the landlord about things in the apartment not working and needing things fixed and she was saying that them coming into her home to fix what she had asked to be fixed was the person breaking into her house to stalk her further. It was absolutely ridiculous. She said the same thing at that hearing when the judge asked her about the social media posts. Not only had she posted the one that she claims had to do with her having a stalker but, they found then that she still had other posts up that she was supposed to have taken down. If I remember correctly, they said that the posts had been taken down at one point but seem to have been put back up. Her social media posts were only mentioned by the judge then because they knew of the fact that she was not supposed to be posting on social media due to this case and just questioned her about it and then implored her to remove it before the judges court clerk had to report it to the judge in her custody case.
I thought this crazy lady looked really familiar! As soon as they stated the case about her landlord stalker, I knew it was the woman. She seems to be a habitual liar who will give any excuses that she thinks will get her out of the woods. Just like with her landlord dispute case.
Hopefully the dad starts having an easier time eith her and this case and is able to get the child away from her or at least give her supervised visitation because something is just not right with rhis woman completely.
I thought that’s who she was! I hope dad gets custody and she gets herself together.
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE BACK STORY (the stalker/eviction case)!!!
I was thinking the same thing lol
Link??
I have seen Judge Simpson during COVID. He has the best rock solid common sense. I have enjoyed watching him actually dispense justice! Awesome judge!!!!
I absolutely LOVE me some Judge Simpson!!! If I’m ever in trouble I hope I get a Judge as awesome as him.
It is about time they hold these so-called mothers accountable because if that was the father he would be in jail.
If ANYONE here in RUclips Land has ever had a custodial conflict interference, you know how this dad feels. I had to take my X back to court twice, once for interference and the other to get custody of my youngest when he turned 12. That was nearly 30 years ago and the effects still sting after the heartburn of flying to depositions, visiting my kids, meetings with my lawyer, etc. Got into the thousands of dollars excluding attorney fees. NO ONE should interfere with a parent's custodial rights. End result on my side, I won both issues in court.
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Her attorney is despicable....even having the audacity to imply that the father somehow attempted to use his former service as a police officer to manipulate the custody situation. Trying to use your own child as a "weapon" in divorce..that's also despicable.
His job is to use every argument at his disposal to defend his client. If I was his lawyer I wouldn’t have used it cause you risk irking the judge, but it’s a legitimate weapon in his arsenal. Don’t hate him for doing his job. Even serial killers must be provided a vigorous defense. The day the accused doesn’t is the day we kiss the Consitution goodbye.
Statements like this demonstrate how little the average person understands about the legal system in the United States. This is literally the job of the public defender. Every defendant deserves someone to defend them, whether they are right or not. The attorney isn't "despicable" for providing a service guaranteed by the constitution of the United States.
Got people saying that defense attorneys can imply anything they want to make someone look bad or insinuate horrible intentions. Is that really what this country was founded on? It seems things got perverted along the way. I am truly glad that I don’t have long left on this earth to have to cope with what this country has become, and am so glad that I was never able to have children who would have to live in this craziness.
@@debdanton2295yes it is. Before we set up our court system the ones in Europe were essentially kangaroo courts. So we said, the defense has the obligation, not just a right, to do whatever they can within the law.
This may seem unfair or unjust but the individual has to have more power than the accusing government in the court or the rest of the individuals cannot have faith in justice. One of the concessions for the original principles of our founding.
This woman is nuts and maybe have her mentally evaluated by CPS not the father. She is not a a good mom keeping the kid away from the dad. Then lying about stuff posting false allegation. She definitely thinks she is above any judges orders.
Right what I said
I hope we can find this one to follow throughout the jury trial. She’s a joke! What a lying manipulative human being! Judge Simpson saw right through her manipulative tactics however. Tfs and God bless! ~Anna
Need this judge in the state of Maryland.
The police get called all the time for custody disputes and child exchanges. If that cop worked 4 and 1/2 years and never had to deal with it, is the most shocking out of the whole mess.
He's a State Trooper just called in because it involved two jurisdictions. Nothing unusual there.
Love Judge Simpson.
Judge Simpson has immeasurable patience. Love him.
I’ve watched Judge Simpson many times. He is one of the best. Fair but firm- but don’t lie to him or try to gaslight outsmart him.
This woman is involved in several improprieties and none of it is her fault. If everyone else is wrong maybe you're the one that is actually wrong.
She violated the order. Simple! she's playing games and wasting everyone's time. Pretty pathetic!
Parents who try to bring false allegations against the other should be criminally charged. This egg donor doesnt care about her child, only hurting her ex. No real mother or father would use their child as a weapon not caring about the damage done to the child or children
I do not get along well with my ex, and we often argue about what we each think is best for our child, but in the end we figure it out and we put our child first. Arguing aside, I am grateful for a co-parent who truly loves our kid. We have never needed a custody agreement and have even cohabitated so she would have access to us both (it didn’t work out great but we tried).
I really like this judge! Just keeping the dates straight is amazing. Give that Gentleman a hoorah and a bottle of Excedrin. I'm sure he needs it after listening to all of this crap.
Jack Daniel or johny walker can help him too ! Or Mr Smith and Mr wesson at least !!😂
She knew exactly what she was doing by keeping the child from the father. That is what and who she is and will continue to be.
Ok here we go…. Judge Simpson is on point!
If that lawyer says "um" just one more time I'll go crazier than I already am 🤪❤️
Haha..
Not very professional, for sure.
Man, that drove me nuts too!!!
I know why CPS takes allegations seriously, they should. That's a good thing! I don't like how parents try and use the system to get back at the other parent or to get a leg up on them in court. Defendant and her lawyer are scum. The father has rights too. She knew what the custody arrangement is. She should of had to go to jail, even for 7 days. We all know she is going to do what she wants. I am looking forward to seeing what happens at her next court date.
People have become so addicted to social media that I don't think she will follow these orders.
This was an interesting one Wolf! I expect we'll see her again, because she's not going to follow anybody's order! Would be great if you can catch the one on Judge Slay's docket! I'll go back & try to catch the date again in Oct.
I'm gonna try and catch this on Slay Monday. SHould be interestng to try and follow.
I'm interested as well.
She didn't agree with the order so she didn't think she had to follow order.
I think the judge was wrong in not sentencing her with more time in jail. She will continue to ignore the law.
@@williamclark6555 I agree with that
I love that the lawyer’s whole argument was around the validity of the court documents, and refused to acknowledge that his client was still directly disobeying a custody order and refusing to handover her child to the father on the schedule days, just going to completely ignore the fact that she was violating the original order. Too many mothers get away with this bullshit, but if the roles were reversed, they would’ve hunted that man down like a wild animal. My ex-wife kidnapped my children and fled to another state and hid for six months, I’m a resident of Michigan currently, I was told I was doomed, and that it was unlikely that I would ever see my children again, my ex-wife did a lot more than just kidnap our children. She did many many other things during the six months. On the bright side, I managed to come out on top and by some miracle I got granted an ex parte order only to find out the state she was in refused to cooperate, which again roles reversed. They would’ve hunted me down like an animal. In the end, I did get my children back. She was exposed for child Abuse, child neglect. Parental kidnapping and that’s excluding all of the false criminal charges she tried to put against me to get away with what she did. I got sole, physical and legal custody of all of our children, they are safe and happy, she didn’t get an ounce of trouble and I’m still dealing with the consequences of her actions. All that matters is that I got my children and she won’t ever see them again, if I can help it, because my children are terrified of her and everything she did to them during those six months.
But these courts need to stop catering to mothers, and my experience as a first responder, who deals with this on a daily basis, it’s almost always the mothers that turn out to be terrible
I had to type all this out on speech to text so sorry if this is butchered lol
Wow. I am happy that this gentleman is trying so hard to get the child away frm toxic mom. It's impressive. A boy needs his dad ( which I say bcuz mine died ) and being with females , and her string of bf's is unhealthy. Bless my mom who did not do that , and waited some years b4 a religious remarriage .
This woman wants to ingratiate herself into this man’s life so much so that she’s willing to keep a child away from the father just to provoke this series of events. Child well-being be damned, she wants what she wants. She’s a selfish, immature person.
I can't tell if it's that, or if it's that she hates her ex more than she loves her kid.
Either way she's garbage.
Agreed 👍
That's psychopathic behaviour.
I wonder if she will go on Social Media and tell how you can face serious charges for interfering with Child Custody.
I see why they divorced with this level of manipulation being forefront in her character
I appreciate Judge Simpson for his attention to details and clarity in straightening out timelines.
He is a wise man and he has an ability to see through bs and behavior that is childish.
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
This is the standard of Justice that needs to be set in family court proceeding. Treach the father and mother equally. Jail should be issued to mothers that violate orders. Period!
I've been watching a lot of these custody cases, and it floors me how often these women are getting away with so much. I know men do it too. But it is just so biased. Women are given such leeway. I have girlfriends who do this too. Keep the kids away from the father because she is mad at him about stuff like his dating or she doesn't want the child around hi family. Yet she can bring men in and out of the child's life. This needs to stop. Family court needs to get its act together.
For every woman who is using her kids as pawns in a game there is a mother like me who has a child that hasn’t seen their father since he was a toddler. He could see him any time he wants, he chooses not to.
Thank you! I've been trying to follow this case. I'm sad tosee it go to Judge Slay, only because we can't get video updates. Her lawyer has a problem on his hands and I think he knows it. She used CPS to try to keep the father from his son. She accused law enforcement and the judiciary of conspiring against her with her ex to abuse the child. This child needs protection from her. He needs to know he is loved and safe. Thank goodness Judge Simpson has tried to stop her. It remains to be seen how it turns out. Great job! 😎🦇
God only knows how many lies she's already told the child about his father. She has some serious issues that need to be addressed before she screws up that poor kid.
This child needs to be protected from her.
I like that judge a lot. He seems like the kind of judge that would NOT sell his rulings to the highest bidder. Clarence Thomas and Samuel Alito could learn a lot from a judge like that.
Clarence Thomas and his wife are despicable criminals!
My husband continued to break custody orders and ended up fleeing with my children. They were missing for over 6 months as he travelled around the country living in the car with minimal $ living on welfare fortnight to fortnight. When he ran out of money they would be stuck on the side of the road with no petrol, food and water for days . This was done to punish me for leaving his abusive ass because he thought he owned me and the children
I hope Judge Slay gives her a raking over the coals and sets down strong orders to follow! If she breaks them she needs to spend a month in jail!
My brain is bleeding from the attorney's excessive use of "Um"😵💫. I gotta bounce
I absolutely adore Judge Simpson
His attorney is so annoying with all his “um’s” makes him sound unprepared and confused.
When you hate your ex more than you love your child! What a vile woman! She deserves jail time!!
First I have to say so good to see Judge Simpson in court and not on zoom. I have to say, though it was very difficult. I'm not through this yet, but it's very difficult. When the father came up on the stand because you couldn't hear him open on? For most times I'm still going to go through this. Because I'm just happy to see this. It seems like a great case. I just wish the volume was different.
I hate these types of mothers! Let's hold them responsible for parental alienation. As a mom, I would never keep my child away from dad.
One of my niece's who had primary custody of her two kids decided she was going to move to Chicago from Kansas without informing her ex husband. He found out, moved to Kansas from Texas, contacted the judge & she was ordered to bring the kids back to Kansas. She was ordered to drive the kids back to Kansas the next day. She did. Then they went before the judge & she lost primary custody. The kids are now 19 & 16 & live with their father. She had withheld the kids from seeing her family. They are now fully enveloped in our family & they & we all love them to pieces. We spend a lot of time together & it is wonderful!!!
The way I SCREAMED at my phone “HE GOT THE COPS INVOLVED BECAUSE SHE KIDNAPPED THEIR SON AGAINST A COURT ORDER!!!”
I hated being kept from my dad, for no reason. On sundays, when I had to go back. If i showed any hesitation getting out of the car, or cried. I was promptly whipped for it.
Hey Mom! Knock this foolishness off! You’re playing with FIRE! It’s already bad enough that you parents had to get the courts involved with custody..
My ex husband and I raised 5 - all happily married - 16 grands now. When we split, we had to make some sacrifices and love those kids more than we hated each other! We didn’t need or want the state to EVER be involved in our family!! Do what you’ve got to do to protect your children..and that includes being willing to humble yourself, open your eyes, and be thankful there’s a loving father who’ll fight for what’s right for them.
This stubborn selfish woman has no idea of the dangers ahead if she keeps doing what she’s doing!
Thank you Judge Washington!
Her lawyer is grasping at straws. She is guilty of deliberately keeping the child from the father against court orders. 🤷🏼♀️