It's 10 Justice important for man to pay enough attention to what his woman talks about to know what she also likes getting period because getting something that your woman likes is something that will definitely be appreciated
I had a bunch of dreams about a guy that looks exactly like this guy -(Jason?) 😆-no lie - maybe picking up his stuff subconsciously but really friggin weird dude! Lol
Someone once said,; Happiness is like a butterfly 🦋. If you chase after it, it eludes you. Standing peaceful and still, it may come to rest on your shoulder.
Hopefully you will find who you are looking for🎉 plus I’m 63 I have very high values. I’ve been ok dating myself. Just noticed there’s possibly been a some guy who has repeatedly fallowed me into our garbage room. He’s very sweet. But I’m afraid. Due to fallouts” I want to keep that we reside in the same building awkward. To me, I know not same floor. But I don’t want gossip. So I won’t use his name. He blushes like crazy seeing me . I’m shy as a kid
As a high value/quality man what we look for is in no particular order 1. Intelligence 2. Feminine 3. Cooperation not competition 4. Attitude 5. Sense of style and grace.
Most (99.9%) of women wouldn't believe what I find "beautiful" in a woman. Not "glamour" for certain. Forget makeup and expensive clothes and shoes. Those won't do a bit of good in a few years. A GOOD HEART, a pleasant demeaner, a loving spirt, good common sense much more than "intelligence", a willingness to "tough it out" because bad times in life come, I'm stupid, I want a woman with Biblical values IN HER HEART, MIND, AND SPIRT, a helpmate for me, and I for her. Two becoming one flesh and one heart. Not too popular today, I know and I'm old. Wake up in the morning with bed-hair and night breath and STILL LOVE the person beside you after 50 or 70 years more than ANYONE on Earth! I saw that with my Great-grandparents and my parents.
Good for you! NEVER lower your standards to meet someone else's. Take heart, you CAN find someone with those same standards. Keep pouring out your request to God. He loves His children and He loves giving them good things!
Walkercolt1 I haven’t seen many men who are looking for all the things you are looking for. I notice that most men are players . They will flirt even if they have a girlfriend or wife. I hate that!! 😖😔
Me too. Most women want a man who wants those qualities. However, I’m a 64 yr old who values physical fitness and who looks 45 and I like to dress up and wear high heels.
@@suzannaahmed5084 , not all men are cads. I've met a wonderful man last year, we are engaged as of Saturday and he sounds very much like the man who posted here. God has a good man out there for you...trust Him for the love you want! Pray and then let go...once I let go and truly trusted God whether He brough me love or not, He brought the love of my life along a week later.
The most beautiful woman in the world is the one who is beautiful inside out. Kind, never hurts anyone, intelligent but does not belittle anyone etc. Inner beauty somehow shines on the face and adds to the physical beauty. As a saying in our language goes, translation: Paper flowers can never smell good like real flowers. Sooner or later this always becomes evident to everyone. 😊
To my beautifully precious daughters. As a man, he is correct however as for point 4, it doesn't matter how old you get physically, it's the EMOTIONAL maturity a real man desires.
@@hawaiigirl8089 depressingly, you are mostly correct about that. However, as a female, you have the power to force the male to grow stronger darling. Males NEED love, but most are confused about how to get it
My soulmate died of Alzheimer's four months ago. I was virtually alone for over 5 years while taking care of him. I have so much to start over on. Thank you for this information. I need it.
Then I’d say you do you! We are all different! I do makeup days [ I’m 63) all days a 45 min skincare routine, plus non smoking don’t drink anymore] I love animals am mostly vegetarian. I love Stevie Nicks of Fleetwood Mac even Gen Z music Taylor Swift, Lana Del Rey. Plus old faves English bands ) No man will ever tell me what to do!
This is a great video and I loved it. However, as a 61 year old woman who has suffered memory problems due to traumatic brain injuries beyond my control, my intelligence has been compromised. I am blessed with an intelligent husband, 20 years younger than I, who also suffers from some memory problems due to past history. We bless and help each other.
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Be looking your best, the first look is the best presentation, except when the plane is going down, make sure you have the ability to walk away, really mean it, don't look back, move forward and walk into the next place and stay in your own power, not his.
A sense of humor or quirky. Really helps, i like someone who can make me laugh, be goofy even, but know too when to act appropriate. This can be a life saver in a relationship
So much wisdom! Thank you so much for the insight into the male mind and describing the love of my life. My husband of 22 years. I am 12 years older than him and every day he tells me how much he loves me. He tells everyone I am the CEO, because he trusts my decisions. He prefers me natural because he thinks I'm beautiful. The only time age enters into it is his fear that I may go before him. He makes me live everyday, happily.
I'm getting married on Tuesday to the most inteiiigent, loving and caring man I've ever met in my life. I'm seven years older than him (68) and when we first met I had my doubts about his sincerity, etc because of the age difference, etc. That was over two years ago. I never thought I could be so much in love at my age and he shows me daily how much he loves me by the things he says and does. His love is so genuine and teal. He's intelligent, tall, handsome, sexy, honest, strong and genuine. He's the love my life. I've never been happier.
Thank you Jason for this lesson. I am a single woman of 35, psychologist, dog mom of two french bulldogs. I have failed in relationships because of being too smart, and recent years i’ve dimmed my light just to let them shine, but it still wasnt enough. You gave me courage to keep trying and hope to find my true life mate. God bless you and all ladies out there going through their own battles.
I hear you, however maybe explore Devine Femininity and start looking at maybe you sub-conscious beliefs. Start with Marisa Peer. I understand you are a psychologist, I think that modern women have seriously lost the art of being a truly feminine woman from years of femminist brain washing and growing up in the West in this current time, there are certain challenges for smart educated women. Keep vibrating high.
@@heart2heart-nhataihy117 🙏🏻 thank you for the recomendation, I will have a look and listen. And I agree, the much needed feminism has also brought hardship. I have hopes that we will all find the balance that the entire world needs. Yes, lets continue to vibe and spread the good energies🙌🏼 sending love
PHd psychologist in a wildly happy relationship for 40 yrs here. My husband has a BS in psych and zoology and at 50 became a RN at thr dollege where I was a professor so he couldtake care of usmphysically while we cruised our sailbaot in remote places in early retirement...also to replenish the cruising kitty. He had been a builder developer. He was attracted to me physically but what kept him interested besides my femininity and expressive love for HIM was my mind. He had dated many women he liked....he genuinely likes women...his first wife did not value his intelligence and was all about status and social/financial climbing. Those things are not important to me...I want authenticity and so did he. I was widowed..married to a super bright academic whose mind I loved. But this man is just as smart...not quite as educated but certainly more varied and practical knowledge than my previous husband. He is a lifetime reader and learner as am I .your intelligence is NOT, I REPEAT NOT a turn off. It is an attraction for the right man for YOU. . We balance each other intellectually very nicely. So dont go ONLY for intelligence or think. This husband is FAR more emotionally open, sexually experienced and pleasing than my first. My first was a relationship of minds and careers this one is morre about the inner emotional me, as WELL as minds. I didnt know such a relationship was even possible for me or what to look for before I met him...it was pure seredipity. Wishing YOU serendipity too, but til then, figure yourself out, next what you want and know he IS out there. If you are not open to finding him you wont.....
@Sybil Francis Thank you for sharing with me your story. It is beautiful, full oh hope, heart-spoken, and i see exactly what you mean. 🙏🏻 and Thank you for the kind wishes, i also wish a long, long bliss for the two of you. May God bless you! What if i told you that i have met a soulmate like you have? We met 5 years ago, and been going back to eachother after every failed relationship but each time something happens and we split. In the meantime i am open to getting to know someone new but to tell you the truth, the men from the Romanian society are reacting cautious towards intelligent women. One recently used the terms “intimidating” or “dangerous”. So yes, i hope to find the right one, who loves me for my brain, soul and then body.
I was talking to a male friend of mine many years ago. And I'll never forget what he said to me about women. He said, " I don't like a woman that wears so much makeup, I hafta try to figure out what she really looks like."
100% spot on list. However, I will say that cosmetics is about how we feel about ourselves. We are all learning about what works for our skin types and love of colors as we age as well so it's not always about men or attracting them. Of course my husband says that he'd love to see me natural ALL the time but when I put on THAT shade of red lipstick on date night, he's just obsessed.
As a woman I married a very good man for the main reason he is good. We have no chemistry between us and the marriage struggles mainly for that reason. Chemistry is the that feeling you get at the touch of a special hand. Just my experience
This is right on. At the most basic, I am looking for pretty, smart, and nice. But pretty is a very subjective term. Not everyone is born with beauty genes. However, when a woman is pretty from the inside out, then the outward appearance can vary a lot. As for smart, I would not even date a dumb woman or further on marry one. Smart is more of a turn on than probably most women realize. Back to beauty, I cannot even really conceive of myself telling a woman I care about, "You need to wear more makeup." It is just not going to happen and it never has. Nice is self explanatory. One last thing is confidence. I am greatly attracted to a woman who is comfortable with herself, not in a prideful or boastful way. It is not exactly the same thing as confidence in men but it is definitely similar.
The word settling is a cop out. When the standards are absolutely unattainable, anyone not meeting the mark is not worthy. Maybe apply the HUMAN part to your standards.
If your 60 and still haven’t found what your looking for maybe it’s not them maybe you we have to look deep inside ourselves maybe it’s not them maybe it’s you
@@sharonpope1737 Amen sister! I finally gave up my addictions and found a great church and my life has never felt more blessed and full of loving people. I knew I'd never have a great man in my life as long as I drank and smoked pot. And I am right.
Thank you Jason :). I was dating a guy for a month now. And today he wrote me a message that we are not meant to be. At first I was confused, but after watching the beginning of your video, now I am sure what his problem is. He is so afraid that I am a smart woman with goals in my life, that he is just backing off.
No, he is just not that interested in you. You were simply the complete package at the wrong address. No matter how great any of us think we are, we are just not for everybody
When I wear no makeup, am casual and running around just living my life-I get caught off guard with men looking at me, which confuses me! Lol. When I look fantastic and perfect and feel confident, they are like scared or something! lol.
Just smile and be friendly when you are looking your best; most of us (men) have insecurities and may think (right at the beginning) a highly value woman who is very confident/looking her best may be out of our league or that she does not want to be disturbed (if you look serious and don’t smile). Therefore, they are unlikely to start a conversation (they will notice you for sure, but they won’t talk or smile in most cases) because they may think you are perfect or something similar (yes, most men still have that wrong notion of “perfection,” especially if they have insecurities (more than 60% of men). However, if you look friendly and show a smile, all those insecurities that lies within most men will vanish, and you will see how most men will start talking or at least will try to talk. 😊 Now you know the reason why you see them looking at you when you are dress casually (you may look less intimidating for most of them). Hope this help!
The wisest thing that should be on every wise individual's list is to invest in different stream of income and don't depend on the government to bring in money especially now the pandemic is hitting the economy
A creative mind that is undisciplined. It's not all artists like this, but not controlling your creativity is what creates amazing literature and music. Spontaneous.
Well put...agree to all 5. I would add a #6, she is not afraid to be alone now or in the future, regardless of how much "older" she is getting. Not gonna settle on love. ❤
Thank goodness I don't need a man in my life. I never really did. Friends are far more important but I don't need a hareem of them either but I love being alone as well. I thought I had to have a relationship to fit in and to be "complete" but my short marriage just reminded and highlighted how much I love my independence.
You need to have a perfect combination of them all or a lot of them to find the right man, it took me the longest time to figure that out. I used to try to conform myself to what someone wanted me to be, but now that I'm almost 60, I've found the love of my life and I did absolutely nothing to change myself. I was MYSELF. Thanks for this video!!!!
Everybody is pretty in somebody’s eyes I could be pretty to some men and other could say I’m not we all have different taste and we all see different things in people it’s be abiding works if we all look the same ❤️🙏🏻
I'm 58 and men see looks first but a man who's been down that path know thats not gonna work alone men do look at beauty within in the end. Friendship understanding and warmth in the end
I think most importantly ladies, you’ve got to be doing what you’re called to do in life. This has to do with identity. If a woman has no identity and has accomplished nothing, she will not be of the substance a man is looking for. I’ve had to learn this the hard way. He will not honor or respect you the way you need and desire either. So get into what you’re good at and establish your craft in life.
Men get attracted to a woman’s intelligence and confidence but, once they have the woman with those qualities, they start breaking those very qualities starting with verbal abuse then, by being physically violent. I have decided men are not worth it so, I have chosen to be single and have a peaceful life.
@cynthiaarons This was once a part of my story. I'm happy to say that 4 years is how long it took to heal and be open to my now Husband who is a wonderful man and father to our children. One week from today will be our 5 year wedding anniversary. Just try to remember, all is not lost...you can write new chapters of your life. I made room for good things to take the place of old bad days until all were replaced with kind thoughts.
I LIKE MAKEUP! makeup can be a natural look! I like it.I enjoy being feminine and quirky! Also deep and love studying the bible and helping others to learn from the bible and learning languages. I find men like me on a physical level but not connected on a emotional level.deep levels are difficult to find in a man.I only know I have to be my best friend,hope one day find someone,untill than my life is fulfilling .and stay busy helping people. I enjoyed your show.thanks for your advice I hope benefit
I really wished I hadn't made my comment. I will never be embarrassed about learning the Bible! IM aware that direction is controversial, thats why I don't bother with dateing sites .thanks for your honesty!
Natural look, natural exposure of being confident and falls under those boundaries we set for ourselves. Literally be true to yourself and your partner 🤗
LOL SOME WOMEN ON HERE WORRYING WHAT A MAN THINKS, OR OTHER PEOPLE THINK,OMG SINGLE 63 AND LOVE EVERY MINUTE I DONT HAVE TO DEAL WITH PEOPLE OF ANY KIND, I ONLY WORRY ABOUT WHAT GOD THINKS , YOU NEW A NEW LIFE IF YOU ARE AROUND NARCISSIST PEOPLE, PULLING YOU DOWN TO MAKE THEMSELVES LOOK GOOD..THINK HOW YOU WANNA BE , NOT A OPINION FROM SOMEONE WHO CARES NOTHING ABOUT YOU, WORDS ARE CHEAP , GET A LIFE AND MOVE ON OR YOU WILL ALWAYS LIVE IN SELF PITY..👍👍❤❤
So let’s get this straight, you think wearing makeup is needed for women to take care of themselves but not men? What does a man put on his face to take care of himself? Lol. Double standards are out
@@hannahberlinpetry450 my sons use moisturiser is all but a lot of men use make up these days! I use eye liner (only in the day tho!) as I have v pale eyes and it makes them look nicer - to me not anyone else. It’s the thing to have it on at night that’s so weird to me and if it’s just for your partner then yuck no thanks!!
This guy knows what he his talking about….I am 74 and take care of myself by watching my weight, very light makeup. read, know what’s going on in the world, have morals, and a good sense of humor….a positive outlook. My hubby who is 11 years younger, always says I am so attractive because of my outgoing, pleasant personality ….and this attractiveness goes both ways. This is what really attracts good women to good men. If your man treats you like a “thing” then you have made a wrong choice.
Jason, You are above and beyond. Hands down you are a true gift to women, and men, too. Thanks so much for all that you provide us; for your time and efforts in sharing your knowledge.
I have all those traits and I’m still single because most men are insecure to accept a woman like this. Very hard to find this type of quality man. It’s doesn’t matter how old, how established, how much experience, or education they may have….but if they have past clutter that hasn’t been healed or they are not spiritually matured and egotistical, it won’t work. It’s very difficult for me to find interest. I’m not settling for less. I’ve worked too hard to become the person I seek. I believe that one should be able to give what they seek. There needs to be an equal contribution to the relationship. We all know what we want in someone else but if we reflect, can we give the same in return?
I'm not looking for any relationship, but I was curious what you had to say& I LOVE IT♡ You are absolutely right! VALUE is everything & a self relationship(self love, self care) should be first before a relationship with someone begins♡ I'm in a journey of self love, care& value. There is such an importance of seeing your value& beauty with your own eyes& to love& accept yourself, that way we don't have any empty holes& don't have that need to need someone to fill those holes. When we are filled we are able to give 100% to our relationships. Thank you for sharing. You have a bless one🙏🏼❤
Men think they want these things until they actually get them, and then they change their mind. Most men are conditioned to see women as toys they play with until we don’t satisfy them anymore and then they discard us, whether that’s just emotionally checking out of the relationship, abuse, or infidelity. Relationships will never work if men continue to see women as toys rather than their equals and partners. When you view someone as a partner in any kind of relationship, you consider their views and needs in your decisions and how you conduct yourself in that relationship. You are kind and respectful because that person matters to you. You are honest because you want to gain a closer relationship with that person. The issue with socialization up to this point is that it has primarily taught men that they don’t need to do these things for women. Instead, it has taught them that they can essentially do whatever they want to us and it has taught us women that we have to put up with it if we want “love”.
And I see so many women doing Excatly what you described. I feel bad for women that think they aren't complete without a man. I see so many women today alone and happy on the other hand males can not be alone.
You make valid points. However, there is another very important part, which is that we teach others how to treat us. To know our worth and stay true to that knowledge is the way to live.
@@TurquoiseInk I don’t think we teach others how to treat us. People can still treat us terribly even when we put boundaries in place. But I think we both agree that we decide who we deal with and allow in our close circles and who we don’t. My ex husband was a covert narcissist who left me for another woman, and is probably still talking trash behind my back and spreading a smear campaign. But I have decided to completely cut him off and not be involved in it. I can’t change him or how he wants to treat me even when I’m not around, but I changed how close he is to me and where he is in my life, which went to being completely cut out.
I am 55 years old woman and my husband loves me very much now we have 11 childrens and we live happily together with my grandchildren trust to each other is the only way to make a man an woman lived happily
Jason. You make total sense. HOWEVER, most men in my age bracket do NOT want to date their age. They think we're just dried-up old prunes with no libido (WRONG!). But, they want ARM CANDY! I've been single for 19 years...yes, that was my last breakup. I've been rejected by men who couldn't wipe dog doo off my shoes, but, they're busy lusting after twenty year-olds. Let's get really REAL. This is the ugly truth of the matter. It's pathetic... 😒
I think too many men feel that dating in their own age group means admitting to themselves how old they actually are! They might be bald, fat and 70, but their ego can't cope with that.
Each man, just like each woman, has his/her own unique turn ons and turn offs...and I don't just mean physical. The 5 things mentioned in this video might be important for some men, yet for others, not so much, and that does not mean he's not a "high value man". Ask yourself what do you value in a man, and keep a clear mental picture of that. Ask yourself (and maybe some of your close friends) next, what do you think you should "bring to the table" in a relationship with such a man. Once you've done that, you might realise you have some strengths, as well as some weaknesses you need to work on. In short, don't just want what you want, without a thought for what the other person deserves to have from you in return. And remember, every person is unique, and every couple is unique.
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This video is the best one I’ve ever come across. Mostly because you’re coming from a very sincere, heartfelt place. All these others people out there are posting videos with a cold and callous tone.
For me, it is a turnoff if your man does not know what you would like to receive on your birthday or a special occasion. That is part of knowing your partner well. Besides, what woman would not find a bouquet of roses, or just any kind of flowers, romantic? Whenever I give a gift to my partner, I go about it by what I know about him. That is how I know what he would like to receive. For all men reading this message, IF YOU GIVE YOUR WOMAN A BEAUTIFUL BOUQUET OF ROSES, YOU WILL FOR SURE HAVE HER HEART! ❤ Every woman has her favorite kind of flower, find out which one and surprise her. It does not have to be for a special occasion, this way it will be even more special to her; but of course, you also have to be caring, loving and all the other good stuff with your partner. It’s not just about the gifts.
I am proud who I became. I am very direct and honest. Not insucure darling. Professional. Focus on living life at is best . Love the challenge! Merci. 🍷🍷🇨🇦
I'm a VERY intuitive, sensitive, empathic, psychic woman(being a triple Pisces-sun, moon, rising) and I think I scare off men, as I mirror back to them, themselves. Most of them run! Also VERY spiritual too.
Guys don’t want to hear about horoscopes. They feel if you base your relationship on that, you’re nuts. Ladies, keep the horoscopes to yourself if you want a MAN.
For me, men who are kind, intelligent, strong, successful are the most desirable. Lots of money and material things are important but not as important as kindness, intelligence, wisdom, working hard, a bit of humility, and common sense.
Confidence is sexy! You are a beautiful woman unlike any other. Live healthy, eat well and exercise, take care of your skin (use sunscreen), get a consultation if you are unsure what clothes and colors are flattering. Be feminine. Natural doesn’t mean not groomed! When you feel great about yourself you’ll be magnetic - your age and imperfections are irrelevant. I can also recommend to surrender to the process - try to let go of the “need” the “search” … once you feel light and free without a partner, you’ll attract one. ✨🙏🏻🌞
BE YOURSELF., Make yourself happy doing what is best for you then men will be attracted to you because you don’t expect a hero, it’s not someone else’s responsible to make you happy neither is it yours to make someone else happy I’m not intelligent, I wear makeup a lot of the time , hate cooking etc etc but my first boyfriend became my first husband of 11 years he had an IQ of 140 when he died thought I’d be single for a few years… NO ..2nd date 7 years younger, CEO, became my 2nd husband , 14 years in he still adores me and I him.
@@fouzianuura2327 and makes you look older at a certain age🤣 I don't wear make up either "unless" am heading somewhere very important but it's only a lighter foundation, lipstick and am good👏
My natural look is very, very pale! I found that a lil make-up does wonders. I also have my eyebrows tinted every 6 weeks... Just saying. I'm about to get married to a very fair skinned guy. We make for a cute couple!
Forget what people think, do what's best for you, waiting for approval from other people shows you have no confidence in yourself, I could care less what people think, God , then you that's the beginning and the end..🙏🙏❤❤
This is what my husband found in me 7 yrs in relationship and proposed to me instantly it took only 4 days we settled we have been married for 56 yrs .before he passed away 3 yrs. .ago in our togetherness it took us 62 yrs. .with life full of joys and happiness
At 70 i am realistic that my dating days are over. However i have formed amazing friendships with men and women who i value and who appreciate me in return. Theres a lot of marvelous people out there.
Like all our life we do ! In every stage of life we can find company suitable for us . And if you have so many friends it is interesting ! They must be with same intellectual level ! Because I made mistake in my marriage ! Mu husband was ,,tabula rasa" ! I prefer singing in Choirs ! I don't like to be very close to one person . Only if he/she knows to keep relations with many others I prefer that companionship !
Lower your standards? Please, sir. I would say he's right, ONLY IF you're only interested in perfect human beings because no man is perfect. But if your standards are high and you aren't expecting perfection, lowering your standards may GET you into a relationship but you'll end up unhappy pretty quick.
hes not walking in YOUR SHOES so, sorry, he should shut up. Very bad advice indeed. If/when you feel like you wantnto do something, youll do it without any hesitation. Until you decide NO ONE SHOULD BE THAT CALLUS. I wouldnt ever be getting any more advice from him at al! Hes really screwing your brain up. I got bad advice when going to split with my then husband 24 yrs ago. Dispicable suggestions and frim peoole I thought would give me good advice. NO tgey didnt but when I finally decided that was it, I was likeva steam train atbfull steam and no one could stop me. Thats what I reckon you should wait until - YOU IN YOUR OWN MIND DECIDING. No regrets that way! Good Luck and Best Wishes 💞
Hi Jason! I really love your videos,but as I continue to look at the people throughout the video I didn't see folks that look like me. I'm a woman of color and would love to see people of color reflected in your various subjects on relationships. I find what you discuss is also shared by people of different ethnic groups and similar cultures. I'll continue to support you because you seem so authentic and realistic in your approach,and you have great advice. I really like the way you explain things and you make it so plain and clear for anyone to understand. I normally would not have mentioned this watching other videos,but I really like your style and presentation and your so pleasant to watch. I hope this didn't make you feel uncomfortable, but I just wanted to keep it real and perhaps this can help you expand even more. Wishing you continued success!😊🌻
This is my second video from this channel and I just subscribed. I watched many of these contents from different channels, but you speak to me the most.
Love this.
It's 10 Justice important for man to pay enough attention to what his woman talks about to know what she also likes getting period because getting something that your woman likes is something that will definitely be appreciated
Such a interesting advice.I love watching your videos
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I had a bunch of dreams about a guy that looks exactly like this guy -(Jason?) 😆-no lie - maybe picking up his stuff subconsciously but really friggin weird dude! Lol
A warm smile, sparkle in the eyes, a sense of humor and wit to name a few. The deeper levels- loyalty, trustworthy.
Absolutely.
It is so liberating to have a husband who knows everything about me and still loves me.
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Yesss. Me too
Someone once said,; Happiness is like a butterfly 🦋. If you chase after it, it eludes you. Standing peaceful and still, it may come to rest on your shoulder.
Love that phrase. X
Hi Cynthia. You are absolutely right !! Would love to see you sometime soon.
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Hopefully you will find who you are looking for🎉 plus I’m 63 I have very high values. I’ve been ok dating myself. Just noticed there’s possibly been a some guy who has repeatedly fallowed me into our garbage room. He’s very sweet. But I’m afraid. Due to fallouts”
I want to keep that we reside in the same building awkward. To me, I know not same floor. But I don’t want gossip.
So I won’t use his name. He blushes like crazy seeing me . I’m shy as a kid
That's so pretty, I love it, thanks for sharing
As a high value/quality man what we look for is in no particular order
1. Intelligence
2. Feminine
3. Cooperation not competition
4. Attitude
5. Sense of style and grace.
Got it...got my man too!
True. Femininity and submissive beats all
Yes, and I would say 2-5 are related, in most women
Attitude in what sense ?
I ain't got attitude..not 'feminine
Most (99.9%) of women wouldn't believe what I find "beautiful" in a woman. Not "glamour" for certain. Forget makeup and expensive clothes and shoes. Those won't do a bit of good in a few years. A GOOD HEART, a pleasant demeaner, a loving spirt, good common sense much more than "intelligence", a willingness to "tough it out" because bad times in life come, I'm stupid, I want a woman with Biblical values IN HER HEART, MIND, AND SPIRT, a helpmate for me, and I for her. Two becoming one flesh and one heart. Not too popular today, I know and I'm old. Wake up in the morning with bed-hair and night breath and STILL LOVE the person beside you after 50 or 70 years more than ANYONE on Earth! I saw that with my Great-grandparents and my parents.
Good for you! NEVER lower your standards to meet someone else's. Take heart, you CAN find someone with those same standards. Keep pouring out your request to God. He loves His children and He loves giving them good things!
Yes 💯 extremely well said ❣️ amen 🙌
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I haven’t seen many men who are looking for all the things you are looking for.
I notice that most men are players .
They will flirt even if they have a girlfriend or wife.
I hate that!! 😖😔
Me too. Most women want a man who wants those qualities. However, I’m a 64 yr old who values physical fitness and who looks 45 and I like to dress up and wear high heels.
@@suzannaahmed5084 , not all men are cads. I've met a wonderful man last year, we are engaged as of Saturday and he sounds very much like the man who posted here. God has a good man out there for you...trust Him for the love you want! Pray and then let go...once I let go and truly trusted God whether He brough me love or not, He brought the love of my life along a week later.
The most beautiful woman in the world is the one who is beautiful inside out. Kind, never hurts anyone, intelligent but does not belittle anyone etc. Inner beauty somehow shines on the face and adds to the physical beauty. As a saying in our language goes, translation: Paper flowers can never smell good like real flowers. Sooner or later this always becomes evident to everyone. 😊
Wowww beautifully said.
@@HandiworksbyClyne yes, that was beautiful.
So true. Wish everyone thought this way.
So beautifully said.
Well said! Couldn't have said it better❤❤❤❤
He’s essentially saying just be yourself and you’ll attract your proper mate. 💙
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Exactly!
Absolutely. Brilliant comment
To my beautifully precious daughters. As a man, he is correct however as for point 4, it doesn't matter how old you get physically, it's the EMOTIONAL maturity a real man desires.
@@hawaiigirl8089 depressingly, you are mostly correct about that. However, as a female, you have the power to force the male to grow stronger darling. Males NEED love, but most are confused about how to get it
@@hawaiigirl8089 - i feel sorry for you. What trash are you involved with? Time to change careers and leave Hillsong.
Where are those real man?
Exactly!
My soulmate died of Alzheimer's four months ago. I was virtually alone for over 5 years while taking care of him. I have so much to start over on. Thank you for this information. I need it.
Sending hugs Joanne, it’s so hard when we lose our partner and you you feel so alone and empty.
me too
Yeah twelve years since mind .
Anyone here looking for an online friend?
I never go out without make up, it’s natural not heavy but it makes me feel good and no man is going to tell me how to dress or how I should look
Right on! 👏👏
Did he say "No Makeup"?" I'd rather look pretty, than 'pretty scary.'
It is natural , women should wear make up not too much just a simply make up to look presentable! For me that’s a proper etiquet!
Then I’d say you do you! We are all different! I do makeup days [ I’m 63) all days a 45 min skincare routine, plus non smoking don’t drink anymore] I love animals am mostly vegetarian. I love Stevie Nicks of Fleetwood Mac even Gen Z music Taylor Swift, Lana Del Rey.
Plus old faves English bands ) No man will ever tell me what to do!
@@libralady1780hahaha 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊 he doesn’t get us!
This is a great video and I loved it. However, as a 61 year old woman who has suffered memory problems due to traumatic brain injuries beyond my control, my intelligence has been compromised. I am blessed with an intelligent husband, 20 years younger than I, who also suffers from some memory problems due to past history. We bless and help each other.
How long have you been married?
Wow!
wow！
The actor Michael Caine quoted this about relationships, “ I feel a tremendous sadness for men who can’t deal with a woman of their own age “
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@@wokeupsassi6334 Thank you for the comment - enjoyed reading all the love 💕
Good for him…that in itself is a real man !!
@@melissa564 Awwww... Very sweet..🌹Much Love
One of the sexiest things a man can ever do, is exactly what he says he will💯💯💯💪
Be looking your best, the first look is the best presentation, except when the plane is going down, make sure you have the ability to walk away, really mean it, don't look back, move forward and walk into the next place and stay in your own power, not his.
I want a man who makes me laugh. Not a comedian, but someone who honestly enjoys life and living.
Amen to THAT!!!
Exactly. Humor. We laugh all the time.
My bf loves my quirkiness. In the beginning, I was worried if it would bother him, but I knew I wouldn't change. He stayed.
A sense of humor or quirky. Really helps, i like someone who can make me laugh, be goofy even, but know too when to act appropriate. This can be a life saver in a relationship
So much wisdom! Thank you so much for the insight into the male mind and describing the love of my life. My husband of 22 years. I am 12 years older than him and every day he tells me how much he loves me. He tells everyone I am the CEO, because he trusts my decisions. He prefers me natural because he thinks I'm beautiful. The only time age enters into it is his fear that I may go before him. He makes me live everyday, happily.
I love this 💝
Love it, thanks for sharing!
I'm getting married on Tuesday to the most inteiiigent, loving and caring man I've ever met in my life. I'm seven years older than him (68) and when we first met I had my doubts about his sincerity, etc because of the age difference, etc. That was over two years ago. I never thought I could be so much in love at my age and he shows me daily how much he loves me by the things he says and does. His love is so genuine and teal. He's intelligent, tall, handsome, sexy, honest, strong and genuine. He's the love my life. I've never been happier.
@@darlenebruchez7731 God bless you both and am happy for you.
@@donnagilligan2905 thank you for your kind words. ❤️
Thank you Jason for this lesson.
I am a single woman of 35, psychologist, dog mom of two french bulldogs.
I have failed in relationships because of being too smart, and recent years i’ve dimmed my light just to let them shine, but it still wasnt enough.
You gave me courage to keep trying and hope to find my true life mate.
God bless you and all ladies out there going through their own battles.
a real man doesn't need his woman to be LESS for him to Shine. That is the stuff that will kill a relationship or send you to therapy.
I hear you, however maybe explore Devine Femininity and start looking at maybe you sub-conscious beliefs. Start with Marisa Peer. I understand you are a psychologist, I think that modern women have seriously lost the art of being a truly feminine woman from years of femminist brain washing and growing up in the West in this current time, there are certain challenges for smart educated women. Keep vibrating high.
@@heart2heart-nhataihy117 🙏🏻 thank you for the recomendation, I will have a look and listen. And I agree, the much needed feminism has also brought hardship.
I have hopes that we will all find the balance that the entire world needs.
Yes, lets continue to vibe and spread the good energies🙌🏼 sending love
PHd psychologist in a wildly happy relationship for 40 yrs here. My husband has a BS in psych and zoology and at 50 became a RN at thr dollege where I was a professor so he couldtake care of usmphysically while we cruised our sailbaot in remote places in early retirement...also to replenish the cruising kitty. He had been a builder developer. He was attracted to me physically but what kept him interested besides my femininity and expressive love for HIM was my mind. He had dated many women he liked....he genuinely likes women...his first wife did not value his intelligence and was all about status and social/financial climbing. Those things are not important to me...I want authenticity and so did he. I was widowed..married to a super bright academic whose mind I loved. But this man is just as smart...not quite as educated but certainly more varied and practical knowledge than my previous husband. He is a lifetime reader and learner as am I .your intelligence is NOT, I REPEAT NOT a turn off. It is an attraction for the right man for YOU.
. We balance each other intellectually very nicely. So dont go ONLY for intelligence or think. This husband is FAR more emotionally open, sexually experienced and pleasing than my first. My first was a relationship of minds and careers this one is morre about the inner emotional me, as WELL as minds. I didnt know such a relationship was even possible for me or what to look for before I met him...it was pure seredipity. Wishing YOU serendipity too, but til then, figure yourself out, next what you want and know he IS out there. If you are not open to finding him you wont.....
@Sybil Francis Thank you for sharing with me your story. It is beautiful, full oh hope, heart-spoken, and i see exactly what you mean. 🙏🏻 and Thank you for the kind wishes, i also wish a long, long bliss for the two of you. May God bless you!
What if i told you that i have met a soulmate like you have? We met 5 years ago, and been going back to eachother after every failed relationship but each time something happens and we split.
In the meantime i am open to getting to know someone new but to tell you the truth, the men from the Romanian society are reacting cautious towards intelligent women. One recently used the terms “intimidating” or “dangerous”.
So yes, i hope to find the right one, who loves me for my brain, soul and then body.
I was talking to a male friend of mine many years ago. And I'll never forget what he said to me about women. He said, " I don't like a woman that wears so much makeup, I hafta try to figure out what she really looks like."
That’s how i feel about beards
100% spot on list. However, I will say that cosmetics is about how we feel about ourselves. We are all learning about what works for our skin types and love of colors as we age as well so it's not always about men or attracting them. Of course my husband says that he'd love to see me natural ALL the time but when I put on THAT shade of red lipstick on date night, he's just obsessed.
I love that you not only put images of young beautiful people but all life stages! So refreshing!
Great thoughts that you share with us, thank you!
I love this too💖
I agree~ that’s a really beautiful thing and I wish more channels did this! Lovely! Adds perspective!
it's so inclusive. love the older folks.
Thank you as a 61 year old woman who was once beautiful. I needed to hear this .🙏🏻💕🙏🏻
You are beautiful...
Beauty is an inside job. If you once had it then you still do. Let it radiate! 💜❤️💚
@@debrasullivan7479 ,"So very true ".😀❤Great insight and I so agree!
I'm sure lots of people still think you're beautiful.
Who said you aren’t
There are no formulas about relationships between men and women. It’s all about circumstances and chemistry and luck.
Stay away from men who watches a lot of porn. Turns his head to check out a woman when you are with him him. him.
It's about commonality, being on the same page and chemistry, not "luck".
As a woman I married a very good man for the main reason he is good. We have no chemistry between us and the marriage struggles mainly for that reason. Chemistry is the that feeling you get at the touch of a special hand. Just my experience
@@da---536 99% of so-called nice guys watch porn studies say. Mostly "Christians ". They are all boys not men though
And destiny
I possess all 5 traits and am still single at 57. Such qualities give no assurance of finding ones mate.
No guarantees in life except death...
@@shadowlatifah Death and taxes! LOL But don't give up hope, ladies!
May b u set too much boundaries 😜
@@ShaikhkiGharwali1993 Is "honest, sane, healthy, responsible, hygienic, and brainy af" too much of a boundary??
Exactaly
This is right on. At the most basic, I am looking for pretty, smart, and nice. But pretty is a very subjective term. Not everyone is born with beauty genes. However, when a woman is pretty from the inside out, then the outward appearance can vary a lot. As for smart, I would not even date a dumb woman or further on marry one. Smart is more of a turn on than probably most women realize. Back to beauty, I cannot even really conceive of myself telling a woman I care about, "You need to wear more makeup." It is just not going to happen and it never has. Nice is self explanatory. One last thing is confidence. I am greatly attracted to a woman who is comfortable with herself, not in a prideful or boastful way. It is not exactly the same thing as confidence in men but it is definitely similar.
Awesome comment! Thank you for this!
Why are you single….
Let’s meet
Being a very bright woman is a challenge! I'd love meeting a man who admires my mind and finds that sexy. Cuz a smart man is DEFINITELY sexy!!
@@therealhellkitty5388 😀😀 he hasn't got his match ....
As a successful, mature man I agree 100% with what he says.
I so agree with your thoughts! If we’re not accepted for who we are, it’s never going to work!
Showing pictures of older couples and different type of people is so sweet 💁🏻♀️
I will add femininity to the list 📖
I love the part where you said,the makeup must come down!
Yes if he loves me, he has to get attracted to me with or without makeup
Yes a good guy is not superficial -you can be yourself. The honeymoon period is brief.
Thanks for showing an older couple.
I love how you also highlight older women in your videos. Not just young women.Nice one.
This guy is like the father I never had 😭 thank you for helping us
He is full of bs and you are buying into it!!
I agree!! I am a 60 year old who has given up on love because I won’t settle!!
The word settling is a cop out. When the standards are absolutely unattainable, anyone not meeting the mark is not worthy. Maybe apply the HUMAN part to your standards.
If your 60 and still haven’t found what your looking for maybe it’s not them maybe you we have to look deep inside ourselves maybe it’s not them maybe it’s you
I will be 64 in January and am in the same boat. 👍
@@marlaheiler2796 Yep! Used and abused and 61. Still no love...
@@sharonpope1737 Amen sister! I finally gave up my addictions and found a great church and my life has never felt more blessed and full of loving people. I knew I'd never have a great man in my life as long as I drank and smoked pot. And I am right.
Thank you Jason :). I was dating a guy for a month now. And today he wrote me a message that we are not meant to be. At first I was confused, but after watching the beginning of your video, now I am sure what his problem is. He is so afraid that I am a smart woman with goals in my life, that he is just backing off.
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Oh Lord - another "smart" Woman! Men want HUMBLE and FEMININE - don't you get it???
No, he is just not that interested in you. You were simply the complete package at the wrong address. No matter how great any of us think we are, we are just not for everybody
Knowing what Men find Beautiful
Is Treasure...THANK YOU!!
What they want to ‘Live With’
could be very complimentary knowledge too
When I wear no makeup, am casual and running around just living my life-I get caught off guard with men looking at me, which confuses me! Lol. When I look fantastic and perfect and feel confident, they are like scared or something! lol.
Just smile and be friendly when you are looking your best; most of us (men) have insecurities and may think (right at the beginning) a highly value woman who is very confident/looking her best may be out of our league or that she does not want to be disturbed (if you look serious and don’t smile). Therefore, they are unlikely to start a conversation (they will notice you for sure, but they won’t talk or smile in most cases) because they may think you are perfect or something similar (yes, most men still have that wrong notion of “perfection,” especially if they have insecurities (more than 60% of men).
However, if you look friendly and show a smile, all those insecurities that lies within most men will vanish, and you will see how most men will start talking or at least will try to talk. 😊
Now you know the reason why you see them looking at you when you are dress casually (you may look less intimidating for most of them).
Hope this help!
Same here
The wisest thing that should be on every wise individual's list is to invest in different stream of income and don't depend on the government to bring in money especially now the pandemic is hitting the economy
you are definitely right , waiting on the government is a big waste
Investments are the stepping Stones to success especially if you been guided by a professional
Investing is good but investing in the right thing is the actual key to success . who is your pro ?
That was exactly what I did, I trade with a professional stock expert "Tamara Diane Hagan " who i met in one of the seminars..
There are so many investment out there but if profits must be considered then not all investments are good to go into.
This was great, Jason. Every woman, single or married, should see this video. You really demystify the male mind-set for women.
A creative mind that is undisciplined. It's not all artists like this, but not controlling your creativity is what creates amazing literature and music. Spontaneous.
I really LOVED seeing the older couples. This made everything you were saying, more real.
Well put...agree to all 5. I would add a #6, she is not afraid to be alone now or in the future, regardless of how much "older" she is getting. Not gonna settle on love. ❤
Thank goodness I don't need a man in my life. I never really did. Friends are far more important but I don't need a hareem of them either but I love being alone as well.
I thought I had to have a relationship to fit in and to be "complete" but my short marriage just reminded and highlighted how much I love my independence.
Bravo!!!! 👏👏👏
You need to have a perfect combination of them all or a lot of them to find the right man, it took me the longest time to figure that out. I used to try to conform myself to what someone wanted me to be, but now that I'm almost 60, I've found the love of my life and I did absolutely nothing to change myself. I was MYSELF. Thanks for this video!!!!
MY IDEAL WOMAN ....
1. Intelligent.
2. Humble.
3. Assertive.
4. Accommodating.
5. Unpretentious.
6. Flexible.
7. Kind.
8. Rational.
9. Challenging.
10. Adventurous !!
Yes -- my strongest is 8 and my weakest is 7 -- you?
9. Challenging, how so? I personally think having good reciprocity and similarities in many key areas is a lot more pleasant 😉
How do you achieve reciprocity with those of dissimilar mindset?
Feminine
You want an intelligent doormat - doesn't exist.
In reality most of the men are looking at pretty face and next intelligence. I just noticed. 😊
Everybody is pretty in somebody’s eyes I could be pretty to some men and other could say I’m not we all have different taste and we all see different things in people it’s be abiding works if we all look the same ❤️🙏🏻
Men are visual, they see tits, ass, eyes. Women are not as visual, so we also listen to what men say at first sight.
I'm 58 and men see looks first but a man who's been down that path know thats not gonna work alone men do look at beauty within in the end. Friendship understanding and warmth in the end
But pretty loses value if the intelligence isn't there.
Yes everyone wants beauty but Personality is very important.
I think most importantly ladies, you’ve got to be doing what you’re called to do in life. This has to do with identity. If a woman has no identity and has accomplished nothing, she will not be of the substance a man is looking for. I’ve had to learn this the hard way. He will not honor or respect you the way you need and desire either. So get into what you’re good at and establish your craft in life.
Thank you for this.
@@nellycan9658
All the good blessings to you in life! Keep focused on getting to know you and then others will want to know you too! 😇
Dear ZiggyLu , well said !
Men get attracted to a woman’s intelligence and confidence but, once they have the woman with those qualities, they start breaking those very qualities starting with verbal abuse then, by being physically violent.
I have decided men are not worth it so, I have chosen to be single and have a peaceful life.
Not advice for badboys 😂
I’m witchya
I am sorry heal for awhile then maybe down the road you might want to try again.
Best wishes my friend
I agree
@cynthiaarons This was once a part of my story. I'm happy to say that 4 years is how long it took to heal and be open to my now Husband who is a wonderful man and father to our children. One week from today will be our 5 year wedding anniversary. Just try to remember, all is not lost...you can write new chapters of your life. I made room for good things to take the place of old bad days until all were replaced with kind thoughts.
I LIKE MAKEUP! makeup can be a natural look! I like it.I enjoy being feminine and quirky! Also deep and love studying the bible and helping others to learn from the bible and learning languages. I find men like me on a physical level but not connected on a emotional level.deep levels are difficult to find in a man.I only know I have to be my best friend,hope one day find someone,untill than my life is fulfilling .and stay busy helping people. I enjoyed your show.thanks for your advice I hope benefit
I'd also run from someone who wants to preach the Bible. 🥺
I really wished I hadn't made my comment. I will never be embarrassed about learning the Bible! IM aware that direction is controversial, thats why I don't bother with dateing sites .thanks for your honesty!
I also have experienced that women who have dogs shows they have high values about life and relationships.
Thank you Jason for being our relationship coach, we are on the right path
Wow I highly appreciate this. I just wish men can listen to this too
Natural look, natural exposure of being confident and falls under those boundaries we set for ourselves. Literally be true to yourself and your partner 🤗
I think it’s only the fate to meet the right man and when you met him you have to keep our good relationship 💗💗💗
Very true, beauty fades but the true beauty is in the soul👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
There are men who prefer a little make up because for him it means you take care of yourself and you wanna look your best 🤷♀️
What he calls no make up, means a BIT of make up is good! Just don’t overdo it!!
LOL SOME WOMEN ON HERE WORRYING WHAT A MAN THINKS, OR OTHER PEOPLE THINK,OMG SINGLE 63 AND LOVE EVERY MINUTE I DONT HAVE TO DEAL WITH PEOPLE OF ANY KIND, I ONLY WORRY ABOUT WHAT GOD THINKS , YOU NEW A NEW LIFE IF YOU ARE AROUND NARCISSIST PEOPLE, PULLING YOU DOWN TO MAKE THEMSELVES LOOK GOOD..THINK HOW YOU WANNA BE , NOT A OPINION FROM SOMEONE WHO CARES NOTHING ABOUT YOU, WORDS ARE CHEAP , GET A LIFE AND MOVE ON OR YOU WILL ALWAYS LIVE IN SELF PITY..👍👍❤❤
Make up 24/ 7??? Now that means you don't really think you are all that pretty.
So let’s get this straight, you think wearing makeup is needed for women to take care of themselves but not men? What does a man put on his face to take care of himself? Lol. Double standards are out
@@hannahberlinpetry450 my sons use moisturiser is all but a lot of men use make up these days! I use eye liner (only in the day tho!) as I have v pale eyes and it makes them look nicer - to me not anyone else. It’s the thing to have it on at night that’s so weird to me and if it’s just for your partner then yuck no thanks!!
This is the first video I gave seen with mature women on it. Thank You.
This guy knows what he his talking about….I am 74 and take care of myself by watching my weight, very light makeup. read, know what’s going on in the world, have morals, and a good sense of humor….a positive outlook. My hubby who is 11 years younger, always says I am so attractive because of my outgoing, pleasant personality ….and this attractiveness goes both ways. This is what really attracts good women to good men. If your man treats you like a “thing” then you have made a wrong choice.
Beautiful words for the mature woman, the Beauty Is in our Energy, love It! Thanks to mention It!
Good advice. Absolutely true. Old Saying: Be yourself so you don't have to be by yourself.
Jason, You are above and beyond. Hands down you are a true gift to women, and men, too. Thanks so much for all that you provide us; for your time and efforts in sharing your knowledge.
I have all those traits and I’m still single because most men are insecure to accept a woman like this. Very hard to find this type of quality man. It’s doesn’t matter how old, how established, how much experience, or education they may have….but if they have past clutter that hasn’t been healed or they are not spiritually matured and egotistical, it won’t work. It’s very difficult for me to find interest. I’m not settling for less. I’ve worked too hard to become the person I seek. I believe that one should be able to give what they seek. There needs to be an equal contribution to the relationship. We all know what we want in someone else but if we reflect, can we give the same in return?
All those wonderful traits but are you a nice person?
I'm not looking for any relationship, but I was curious what you had to say& I LOVE IT♡ You are absolutely right! VALUE is everything & a self relationship(self love, self care) should be first before a relationship with someone begins♡ I'm in a journey of self love, care& value.
There is such an importance of seeing your value& beauty with your own eyes& to love& accept yourself, that way we don't have any empty holes& don't have that need to need someone to fill those holes. When we are filled we are able to give 100% to our relationships.
Thank you for sharing. You have a bless one🙏🏼❤
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its really hard to find a true relationship that why just wait for that
This explains why previous relationships didn't last with men who hated my intelligence.
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@@justinaeffimi3975 No thanks. I am due to receive my PhD in Criminology later this year. And the ex I speak of works in a hardware store.
Usually they’re only after one thing and they don’t want you to catch on
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Men think they want these things until they actually get them, and then they change their mind.
Most men are conditioned to see women as toys they play with until we don’t satisfy them anymore and then they discard us, whether that’s just emotionally checking out of the relationship, abuse, or infidelity.
Relationships will never work if men continue to see women as toys rather than their equals and partners. When you view someone as a partner in any kind of relationship, you consider their views and needs in your decisions and how you conduct yourself in that relationship. You are kind and respectful because that person matters to you. You are honest because you want to gain a closer relationship with that person.
The issue with socialization up to this point is that it has primarily taught men that they don’t need to do these things for women. Instead, it has taught them that they can essentially do whatever they want to us and it has taught us women that we have to put up with it if we want “love”.
And I see so many women doing Excatly what you described. I feel bad for women that think they aren't complete without a man. I see so many women today alone and happy on the other hand males can not be alone.
Agreed. 100 %.
You make valid points. However, there is another very important part, which is that we teach others how to treat us. To know our worth and stay true to that knowledge is the way to live.
@@TurquoiseInk I don’t think we teach others how to treat us. People can still treat us terribly even when we put boundaries in place. But I think we both agree that we decide who we deal with and allow in our close circles and who we don’t.
My ex husband was a covert narcissist who left me for another woman, and is probably still talking trash behind my back and spreading a smear campaign. But I have decided to completely cut him off and not be involved in it. I can’t change him or how he wants to treat me even when I’m not around, but I changed how close he is to me and where he is in my life, which went to being completely cut out.
@@TurquoiseInk no, we dont come to this world to teach them how to be behave with us...
I am 55 years old woman and my husband loves me very much now we have 11 childrens and we live happily together with my grandchildren trust to each other is the only way to make a man an woman lived happily
This is the most realistic, truthful advice I ever heard. Thank you.
There are so many sites giving relationship advice..but urs I find is the most mature and practical and eealistic..ur videos are THE best
Jason. You make total sense. HOWEVER, most men in my age bracket do NOT want to date their age. They think we're just dried-up old prunes with no libido (WRONG!). But, they want ARM CANDY! I've been single for 19 years...yes, that was my last breakup. I've been rejected by men who couldn't wipe dog doo off my shoes, but, they're busy lusting after twenty year-olds. Let's get really REAL. This is the ugly truth of the matter. It's pathetic... 😒
I think too many men feel that dating in their own age group means admitting to themselves how old they actually are! They might be bald, fat and 70, but their ego can't cope with that.
@@Challenger2A7I agree with you. Well said.
I couldn’t agree with you more. Been married 35 years now.
Each man, just like each woman, has his/her own unique turn ons and turn offs...and I don't just mean physical. The 5 things mentioned in this video might be important for some men, yet for others, not so much, and that does not mean he's not a "high value man". Ask yourself what do you value in a man, and keep a clear mental picture of that. Ask yourself (and maybe some of your close friends) next, what do you think you should "bring to the table" in a relationship with such a man. Once you've done that, you might realise you have some strengths, as well as some weaknesses you need to work on. In short, don't just want what you want, without a thought for what the other person deserves to have from you in return. And remember, every person is unique, and every couple is unique.
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Mark, you have a lot of wisdom. Yes I agree, we are all unique. 👍😊
This video is the best one I’ve ever come across. Mostly because you’re coming from a very sincere, heartfelt place. All these others people out there are posting videos with a cold and callous tone.
The video is just perfect. That's actually what I've learned after years of meaningful relationships and psychotherapy/psychoeducation.
For me, it is a turnoff if your man does not know what you would like to receive on your birthday or a special occasion. That is part of knowing your partner well. Besides, what woman would not find a bouquet of roses, or just any kind of flowers, romantic? Whenever I give a gift to my partner, I go about it by what I know about him. That is how I know what he would like to receive. For all men reading this message, IF YOU GIVE YOUR WOMAN A BEAUTIFUL BOUQUET OF ROSES, YOU WILL FOR SURE HAVE HER HEART! ❤ Every woman has her favorite kind of flower, find out which one and surprise her. It does not have to be for a special occasion, this way it will be even more special to her; but of course, you also have to be caring, loving and all the other good stuff with your partner. It’s not just about the gifts.
So glad I found Jason I love his brilliant mind and I am learning so much wow what a blessing
I am proud who I became.
I am very direct and honest.
Not insucure darling. Professional.
Focus on living life at is best .
Love the challenge! Merci. 🍷🍷🇨🇦
I'm a VERY intuitive, sensitive, empathic, psychic woman(being a triple Pisces-sun, moon, rising) and I think I scare off men, as I mirror back to them, themselves. Most of them run! Also VERY spiritual too.
You are right men run the other way when I show up in a crowds..not lying...
Guys don’t want to hear about horoscopes. They feel if you base your relationship on that, you’re nuts. Ladies, keep the horoscopes to yourself if you want a MAN.
@@lisanjohnny1 I was making a point about how “reflective” my personality is with people that’s all.
Be yourself! You can attract the right man
I'm very quirky and youthful energy that doesn't wear make up very often at 59💃💃💃and now to find the one that appreciates me♥️💋🥰
You know what you are talking about. . . You are definitely right. You give awesome advice to women. Thank you. ❤
This was very heart warming, and comforting. Thank you.
For me, men who are kind, intelligent, strong, successful are the most desirable. Lots of money and material things are important but not as important as kindness, intelligence, wisdom, working hard, a bit of humility, and common sense.
Thank you Jason, I loved listening to you and when you started talking about growing old and accepting it, I understood!
Confidence is sexy!
You are a beautiful woman unlike any other. Live healthy, eat well and exercise, take care of your skin (use sunscreen), get a consultation if you are unsure what clothes and colors are flattering. Be feminine. Natural doesn’t mean not groomed!
When you feel great about yourself you’ll be magnetic - your age and imperfections are irrelevant. I can also recommend to surrender to the process - try to let go of the “need” the “search” … once you feel light and free without a partner, you’ll attract one. ✨🙏🏻🌞
Well said!!
Well said!!!
So so so true...I could not have said it better. 👍
Absolutely 💯 true
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I AM STILL YOUNG!!!
Thank you for telling me! I didn’t know! I’m really excited! You boost my selfimage!
Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder.
Just found your channel, great information 👍
Thank you Jason for your great lesson I will pass to my daughters as for me I'm learning to love myself and I more.
BE YOURSELF., Make yourself happy doing what is best for you then men will be attracted to you because you don’t expect a hero, it’s not someone else’s responsible to make you happy neither is it yours to make someone else happy
I’m not intelligent, I wear makeup a lot of the time , hate cooking etc etc but my first boyfriend became my first husband of 11 years he had an IQ of 140 when he died thought I’d be single for a few years… NO ..2nd date 7 years younger, CEO, became my 2nd husband , 14 years in he still adores me and I him.
What a great meaningful video. I never wear makeup. I only wear lipstick once in awhile. I prefer a natural look.
Same here 🙋🏻♀️
Good for you... Bcz always wearing a Makeup gives CANCER
@@fouzianuura2327 and makes you look older at a certain age🤣
I don't wear make up either "unless" am heading somewhere very important but it's only a lighter foundation, lipstick and am good👏
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...but makeup can also help protect your skin from sun, wind damage if you do it right with good quality products.
This advice is everything every woman needs to hear.
Hey there, It's harder to go for a natural look over 65. That's just the reality of it.
My natural look is very, very pale! I found that a lil make-up does wonders. I also have my eyebrows tinted every 6 weeks... Just saying. I'm about to get married to a very fair skinned guy. We make for a cute couple!
Great skin care and Loya of water makes natural possible up into the 90’s
If a person cant accept you as you are, You need to find new people..❤
Forget what people think, do what's best for you, waiting for approval from other people shows you have no confidence in yourself, I could care less what people think, God , then you that's the beginning and the end..🙏🙏❤❤
This is what my husband found in me 7 yrs in relationship and proposed to me instantly it took only 4 days we settled we have been married for 56 yrs
.before he passed away 3 yrs. .ago in our togetherness it took us 62 yrs. .with life full of joys and happiness
this last tip of being quirky is spot on👍🏼
At 70 i am realistic that my dating days are over. However i have formed amazing friendships with men and women who i value and who appreciate me in return. Theres a lot of marvelous people out there.
Like all our life we do !
In every stage of life we can find company suitable for us .
And if you have so many friends it is interesting !
They must be with same intellectual level !
Because I made mistake in my marriage !
Mu husband was
,,tabula rasa" !
I prefer singing in Choirs !
I don't like to be very close to one person .
Only if he/she knows to keep relations with many others I prefer that companionship !
great words as usual...my pastor says to lower my standards, and agrees that it's a terrible thing to have to do. ??? I just can't! thank you
Never lower your standards 😊
I tried lowering my standards. It appears to be a fine way to be absolutely miserable. Better to be single imo...
He's not much of a pastor!!
Lower your standards? Please, sir. I would say he's right, ONLY IF you're only interested in perfect human beings because no man is perfect. But if your standards are high and you aren't expecting perfection, lowering your standards may GET you into a relationship but you'll end up unhappy pretty quick.
hes not walking in YOUR SHOES so, sorry, he should shut up. Very bad advice indeed. If/when you feel like you wantnto do something, youll do it without any hesitation. Until you decide NO ONE SHOULD BE THAT CALLUS. I wouldnt ever be getting any more advice from him at al! Hes really screwing your brain up. I got bad advice when going to split with my then husband 24 yrs ago. Dispicable suggestions and frim peoole I thought would give me good advice. NO tgey didnt but when I finally decided that was it, I was likeva steam train atbfull steam and no one could stop me. Thats what I reckon you should wait until - YOU IN YOUR OWN MIND DECIDING.
No regrets that way! Good Luck and Best Wishes 💞
What a great, refreshing perspective on the dynamics of relationships. Thank you for sharing these insights. Really good, honest advice.
Hi Jason! I really love your videos,but as I continue to look at the people throughout the video I didn't see folks that look like me. I'm a woman of color and would love to see people of color reflected in your various subjects on relationships.
I find what you discuss is also shared by people of different ethnic groups and similar cultures. I'll continue to support you because you seem so authentic and realistic in your approach,and you have great advice. I really like the way you explain things and you make it so plain and clear for anyone to understand.
I normally would not have mentioned this watching other videos,but I really like your style and presentation and your so pleasant to watch.
I hope this didn't make you feel uncomfortable, but I just wanted to keep it real and perhaps this can help you expand even more.
Wishing you continued success!😊🌻
Excellent videos just need more diversity.👍
Apply God's Word has beautiful and diversity in his videos. Good if you're a Christian as well. 😘
This is my second video from this channel and I just subscribed. I watched many of these contents from different channels, but you speak to me the most.
Thanks Jason for all of these information. It inspires me to remain the kind of woman I am.