My crush stood like 4 metres away and i think he smiled at me. Because i were so uncertain i looked away. The day after he didn't even look at me. Im Feeling still bad although it is almost a week ago.😭🤦🏼♀️😂
As a natural flirt, I can tell you that the holding a guy's glance is powerful stuff. Especially if you're walking in oppoaite directions, and you catch him already looking at you. Hold the gaze, keep walking, do a side-ways grin (sort-of a "knowing smile"), and keep the smile as you look away as you pass each other. Feels awesome!
But like last week I caught my crush that sits in front of me in art class looking at me, and then we like maintained eye contact until I was like red like a tomato- ahhhh I don’t understand himmmmm ;-;
When I was young and single in an office full of men, some of them actually remarked that when they looked at me, all they saw were my eyes and my lips. I ended falling in love with one of my male colleagues. We dated 3 months before he proposed and married 5 months after that. We were married 51 years 4 months and 21 days before God took him to his eternal home 2 years and 22 days ago. My husband often said he loved the way I looked at him. I miss him beyond measure and can't wait to be reunited with him.
I love this thank you for sharing! ❤️ I currently work at an office and have such a crush on a coworker but although we share many glances, and we’ve said hello a couple of times, he has not approached to start a conversation. Really wish he would initiate, so I could get to know him 🥺
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I learned in a self defense class that if a woman makes eye contact with a person, instead of looking down, she is less likely to be attacked. This is because she shows confidence and an attacker is looking for someone who won't put up a fight. Plus she could also identify the attacker. I do not recommend the long stare, because you may get an angry reply from some.
Tammy Thorpe, I have never taken a self defense course, but I noticed many years ago that yes, the creepers absolutely do not like a confident woman who makes eye contact! Good thing to keep in mind!
SO true. Besides just confidence, it expresses respect of others, equality, AND general alertness. Been in more than a few cities and countries... It works.
1. Look deep into his eyes 2. Keep eye contact 3. Don't stop 4. As he runs away,run after him 5. Now, in jail,you'll have time to think and built self confidence Works every time
Haha ... yes I use my eyes to tease and flirt with a man in the train station and no smile. We always stare each other no smile and no talking at all. After those 3 months stare and flirt finally he approached me and we started talking for a month. After a month then we started dating. Now we are on 1 year dating. One time he told me that my eyes and the way I looked at him that made him attracted to me and could not forget me keep thinking about me for 3 months till finally he had courage to approached me.
All the best wishes 🥰 I've fallen for a guy I see in the bus every morning. I am so freaking shy, it almost feels like I am totally unable when I see him. This must be unattractive as hell
@@manischkreativ8868 although im not a guy nor man but a girl I find that really cute,and if he has a soft spot for cute stuff then keep on going and see of he aproaches you
@@gachasdevils6871 Thank you for your cute advice. Well - it has been almost a year now 😅😭 He's sitting almost behind me, right now BUT some chick has installed her ass right behind me, so he can't see me anymore🤦🏾♀️ I even can not figure out what that look in his face had to mean as we stood outside the bus 🤷🏿♀️ Seems like I'll have to do the first approach and get to know what he might think So annoying
CONFIDENCE 1. Glance down his lips 2. Bite your lips 3. Wet your lips 4. Look at ONE of his eyes 5. Slight side look 6. Look away 7. Imagine kissing him
These are the seven things that disgust me the most. I mean when a guy does this while I pass by. I can hardly imagine that a guy would find it attractive when I do this 😅🙈
Me: looking at my crush slighty tilting my head looking at him in his active eye biting my lips twirling my hair imagining kissing him Him: are you okay Me: 😔
As a man I can clearly say this is so true when a women looks at you it's so attractive but we always make the move on the second glance, the reason is we want to make sure first and what this does is that we take it as you are attracted to us so we know we stand a better chance. Trust me when I say look at at least twice and if his a confident man he will aproach you
Same. I get really nervous and uncomfortable and start stumbling on my words. Especially if it's a guy you like. The guy I like has insanely beautiful blue eyes and when he looks at you it's just so intense. Like I can't look into his eyes because that feels wierd and uncomfortable so I just end up staring at the wall behind or the ground.
My groceryshopping have been so much fun, after watching this video. I practice this eyecontact with solo men shopping. Most solo men are shopping with just a small basket, because, they seldom know what to buy. If they have a partner, they often take a trolley, and have a shoppinglist. This is the reactions I get: Most of them stare back at me, with a ?-mark, on theire face. I keep eyecontact, and smile as i pass them in the aile. Most of them studder a low "hello", and I can see how they searching their memory, in order to try to remember who I am, or where they have seem me before. Almost nobody approaches me, but a great number of the men, start following me around the store, at a small distance. I feel great, and surprised, that this works. Ladies - try it!
@@gabriellavanderveer4931 I know right. I don't want to be followed. It's happened too many times without doing this. I'm the mother of 2 boys 14 and 12. And my older son starts to catch on.
well, norwegian men are usually not stalkers, and brought up to respect women. I don't do this to foreigners, cause they have different culture, and would react wrong to this. The idea is to have fun, and get a smile, not to overplay it.
eye contact is so much fun, and you do need confidence and strong faith in your self , without being judgemental , just allowing yourself to be who you really are. without trying to impress. I was at a party in Tulum talking with a vey succeesful and carismatic hotelier from San Trope and somehow out of all the girls half naked surrounding him , he didnt stop complimenting me in my feminine energy even when I was covered head to tow. amazing xx
So true! I was walking away from my son’s game and noticed a tall blond man with a “open” face talking with another gentleman. As I was walking up to him I noticed his incredible blue eyes and in a quick moment thought how beautifully blue they were. As I finished that thought he stopped talking with the other man and in a non hurried though appreciative way smiled and said Hi. I was so taken aback I said hi right back and smiled though I kept on walking. It was a very interesting moment!
Same... there's a man with such strong glance in his eyes. One time we locked our eye contact about 7 seconds without saying a word. I just hate that it happens in my work place. That is not nice.
Strange enough I did all this before I dated my now husband! Had not even watched this video! The way in which my husband looked at me was like no man ever and his eyes still shine to this day and he loves the way my eyes shine when I look at him!
The problem with making eye contact with unknown men is that they start following me, and that can be frightening especially if I wasn’t aware until out in the parking lot.
Omg this guy was following me too. I only looked at him for a second in a public building. He left the building an hour later , I didn't know he was following me until I was all the way down the street & I looked behind me .. creepy ! . I was walking to the light rail station he followed me, so I decided to wait for the train on the other side. It was frightening .
The next level up in confidence may be showing the courage to meet him. Choose a safe place, obviously, but let him follow you to where you can relax and, with more eye contact, subtly invite him to join you.
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As a bartender i use these techniques everyday at work and it's true, your temperament can set the tone for anyone you approach or approaches you. I get the most compliments about my smile and that no matter what, I'm always happy and people say I make them feel wanted and missed and appreciated because my eyes and smile show them this and it's because as I approach them I'm genuinely happy to see them and it shows without a single word spoken by me.
Me too. My aunt also noticed that when I'm really focused on something, my lips move like I'm whispering. So I wonder if I do this when I'm focusing on my crush when he's talking to me. Bc when my crush starts up a story he talks for a long time so I get really focused on his eyes and general face
1) glans down at his lips. 2) Bite your lower lip with light pressure. 3)wet your lips lightly. 4) gentle relax stare at one of his eye. 5) Make eye contact maybe by tilting your head on one side or the other a bit. 6) reset yourself by looking away and back again if you feel like you have been staring a bit too long. 7) Imagine yourself kissing him.
One of my fav eye flirts to use is to seem preoccupied with something I'm doing that's below eye contact (such as looking at a menu) while talking to them with my head turned a bit to the left or right, and then looking up from the side without turning my head ESPECIALLY if I want to acknowledge something they said, or I want to emphasize something I just said. They ALWAYS respond well to it. And you don't have to hold it, it could just be a glance up, and then back to what you're looking at. That sexy, "knowing" look is AMAZING.
I know this is an older video, I took your eye contact advice and it really does work! I tried it at work(I’m a cashier at a store where the customers are 90% men) and I have gotten many dates and prospective dates from single men that came through my line. I recently turned 51! My life changed a year ago I became single(it was a blindside I didn’t know that was coming). Thanks for your videos and advice. 🙂
Super late reply but I’m wondering how that works as a cashier considering you have to talk and be friendly to guests. Would that not come off as nice and/or professional?
@@cinbeano Nope people find it uncomfortable when they are ichecking out at a register they rarely make eye contact and most don’t chit chat, they are usually crabby and just want to get their items check out and leave.
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I met a guy in September... OMG I am still reeling......He was a trades person. I am an older woman. This man left me panting! He took his sunglasses off and made eye contact with me ..I just got totally lost in his eyes....I was in love!!! I need to find out what he was thinking and what he was doing to me???? He didn't seem turned off at my age at all! I do look pretty young for my age! This guy is light and has a great build...I just couldn't look away. I honestly didn't know if he was going to kiss me or if I would kiss him!! I chickened out and looked away, otherwise I might have dragged him into my bedroom!!!!
I HATE eye contact, I tend to avoid it even when I’m talking to people cause eye contacts are so personal and uncomfortable. BUT there’s this guy at my nee workplace who have been staring at me a whole lot, I only noticed him recently, caught him staring. He looked away, turned red. Then after that when we saw each other again, he would look me in the eyes and smile instead and remember when I said I HATE eye contact? Well, apparently with him I was just too comfortable to look at him in the eyes and smile back. We did that about a month now and he finally said hi to me. I was surprised because he’s such a shy guy, so he must’ve mustered a huge amount of courage to say hi first. It’s interesting, never had an experience like this before, would like to see where it goes 😅
Girl your not alone about the eye contact thing.. it’s not even that I’m not confident. I just feel awkward when I do it, but I’m getting the hang of it. I think it just takes practice
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I love the fact you offered and encouraged desensitization practice and training tactics in this presentation. That is true coaching. Bravo and thank you!
I already exchange eye contact with my coworker. He is very much responding with smiles and he is such a gentleman. But the idea here is for him to know subconscious or consciously of the interest, without the need of speaking. Whoever watches us knows thee is something. All my friends say that. Shame he doesn't do much but he wants something for sure.
I just want you to know that this is the best video on men women interactions that I have ever watched in my life. You're really good at this. Keep up the good work
I work in customer relations; I always strive to be professional- however i can’t help having an attraction for some of them, and unintentionally have this intense prolonged eye contact with them and then suddenly, I see that ‘light’ switch on in his eye - his pupils dilate, eyebrows fall slightly and breathing slightly slowed and they just go silent for a second. That very moment of connection is so powerful.
When he said look at one of his eyes, I thought about the movie Moana when she got picked up by that giant crab and he tells her to just pick one eye to look at.
There's another thing he didn't quite mention. When you look at him, slowly look down, while smiling, then look up. Kinda like what a cat does when they communicate their love to their human. I've found that most men react positively to this. Also, if there are any BTS Army out there, just watch Jimin. He has all moves down. He's a natural born flirt.
I always test out my flirting skills in the mirror, and flirt with myself 😂 ha,ha, 😂 and laugh at myself, so I know have I come across, yah know! LOL 😂😂
@@user-bt7tp3sn5i yas gurl ✌ I do understand, I was so shy when I was unger, then over time I have started to build confidence, to express myself in public or just in a social setting 😁 it have boost my confidence fo sho to practice at home, dancing 😘
This is one of my favorite ways to interact with men of interest. I am glad this is acknowledged as a key point in communication and subtle flirting. Stay confident ladies ;)
the last part tips happened to me juz 3 days back..but i hadnt seen your video then..i was wowed with what i had done..i was in the bus stop..to the platform that i wanted to reach i had to walk up a bridge n get down..so as i started to walk..i saw from very far itself a tall well built white guy coming from opposite side..he was walking so gracefully n he indeed was so handsome that i couldnt help but notice too..we were almost walking in a straight line opposite to each other..i kept walking..n since im a confident girl who always walks n owns any place..i kept walking..as we approached near i kept the confident look with chin up n maintained eye contact n kept walking..he kept walking same way too..n on frst eye contact from where we saw each others face closely he gave a few seconds stare n looked other side for few seconds..i held the same poise n walked maintaining eye contact..after few seconds he couldnt resist n looked at me back n that moment i gave him an intense look which almost meant ' huh! i knw to get ur attention' n looked away..frm that moment he kept his stare n suddenly smiled..i gave back the look n smiled..n as we approached nearer each other..the smile became wider n wider n wider..n we almost were walking in same straight line..when we were closest his face became red n he gave me widest smile with u won look nodded at me..i nodded back..n crossed our paths! i was surprised when this was suggested in this video..how did i know to do it..i myself was surprised that day how i managed to do that! coz am an indian girl with complete indian skin n looks! n he was a complete greek god looks guy with brown ruffled hair blue eyes sharp nose beard n moustache!
Once when I was walking with a friend of mine she commented that she noticed that black people acknowledge each other when out and about because she'd seen me do it a number of times. Well, it's a reason for that if you are the minority in a group. I do exactly this strategy once I notice another black person a ways away. The other person can feel someone looking at this and once they are closer they will acknowledge you. It is such a habit of mine that I didn't really notice that I was doing it to others and I wondered why they were looking at me strangely. I never thought to do it for someone I was interested in. I daydream alot and get lost in my thoughts but I'm looking in a certain direction and people always speak or acknowledge me in some way. Until now I didn't know why, silly me.
Just imagining myself walking in the grocery store and trying to make eye contact when I see a man 20-30 feet away... my teen daughter would probably call me a creep 😂
sometimes people smile at me but now that I'm in my 50s I can make eye contact in a friendly way, as I do with many people without agenda, but if the person is a younger man they sometimes actually look annoyed or angry and pointedly look away. I act the same but men don't. I really didn't get ageism til it happened. On the other hand, LOTS of people of all kinds are still happy to have brief, pleasant contact.
I tried it on a stranger today... It worked😅😅😅 what is funny is it didn't take a long time for him to respond with a smile! It was quite scary but it worked!
Hahaha! I'm too spastic to do this correctly. I'd mess it all up. I'd probably end up getting confused and licking my nose, gnawing on my upper lip, tripping and falling when I try to look at him sideways and start giggling if I tried to focus on one eyeball.
Omg I can't even focus cuz this guy has me ROTFL...knawing on your lips, crazily slobbering all over your lips, talking about lazy eyes and sh*t. This dude is a riot
I did it! The looking at a stranger... I have found when I go shopping that I am more confident looking at a guy. I have felt like a creep a few times when they've given me a weird look or stared back at me without smiling for a very long time ...one guy stared at me for 2 minutes and did not smile and I found myself smiling before he did and he just kept staring at me, so I finally broke eye contact coz I figured he was a bit odd and I didn't want him to approach me so I stopped looking at him. But the other times I've held eye contact have been very pleasant experiences and I know that even though we didn't exchange numbers or anything dramatic that I may have brightened those strangers day and boosted my confidence in interacting with guys at the same time :)
Yeah, one has to be careful with this stuff. Men who want to be the "winner" of the staring contest and make you smile first or look away first are unpleasant and possibly dangerous to tangle with and definitely not who you are looking for. I guess part of the point of this exercise is to learn how to recognize these undesirables and how to make it a learning experience and not a confidence-breaker. (Deep breath) The first 1000 failures don't count.
I'm autistic, so eye contact is REALLY HAAARD!!! When we all began masking though, I found it took away a lot of the criteria for my anxiety, and lowered the stakes considerably when I was trying to figure out what people's expressions meant. Now all I had to worry about was the eyes. This gave me the confidence to start making eye contact with strangers, just like you challenged us to at the end! The first time I did it successfully the lurch in my stomach felt like I'd just fallen from a balcony. I still fail often and have to look away, but it's becoming easier (and more fun) to keep trying to maintain that contact. I'm actually devastated that the mask mandates are being lifted . . . things are about to get complicated again! XD Thanks for the advice!
To practice eye contact light an organic lamp or candle , stare at that light as much as you can or look yourself in mirror and simply stare in to your own eyes. This practice helps to build confidence in the art of eye contact 😉
😂😂😂 ok. You NEED a different mantra! Start affirming that you are the life of the party... Things will change. The same power that makes you invisible now will make you visible in all the right ways as you re-write your mental program. Just TRY it. Write it and say it 3 times when you wake up and 3 times before bed.
Wear musk oil or musk perfume. its a naturally sexy scent and will get you attention, I know I get that reaction when I wear it. You wont be invisible if you smell good.
Hi, Jason! I have a photo of a woman using her eyes to flirt. She is intently looking into the guy’s eyes with a pleasant expression that says, “I’m very interested in hearing what you have to say.” She’s also simultaneously tilting her head and slowly moving a few strands of hair behind her ear. It’s an awesome photo and I want to email it to you so you can share it with your followers.
I know this sounds crazy. But I am a nurse and my patients really like me and feel relaxed and loved. I have usually no problems with eye contact with them. So I decided to start doing this with men, I simply imagined they were a patient. Instantly the energy shifted. I no longer am the shy woman but the confident knowledgeable caretaker. Only after that I can play around woth that other flirty stuff ;)
You're so right. I fallen in love just from eyes contacts. I don't even know he's name yet. It's working all that you said. He is also locking for eyes contact with me all the time 😍. It feels great ❣️. Wish yo all the best.
I can imagine a Kristin Wiig skit on this doing it all wrong🤣 But seriously, this REALLY works🔥 Being single and dating, I do it sometimes and always seem to illicit a positive reaction.... It establishes the connection, heightens the chemistry and fun 🥰
Thanks I had a experience a couple of weeks went to the grocery store. I was ready to paid I was not looking at him. When he was returning my changed. He hold the bill on the tip and when I raise my hand to get the bill my eyes caught the fellow smiling so I smile back. It was really funny 👍😎
I lived and worked in the Middle East for some time. Those ladies only have their eyes to show / flirt as they have to be covered in public. I've learnt a lot from them! Use your eyes, they are considered the windows of the soul for a good reason.
Yes you can focus on both his eyes at once just RELAX and focus on the spot on his nose in between his eyes. Your eyes will naturally stare into both of his eyes without darting back and forth... the key is to just relax your gaze.
This should be required for aspies. I could never figure out which eye to look at and if someone has a lazy eye I'd get stuck staring at it 😕😜. Good job here this is really entertaining as well as informative. Appreciate you
This kinda happened to me recently. A guy approached me because i had "eye contact/stare". I wasnt actually looking at him, i was just looking straight ahead my way. I was so damn myopic, and wasnt able to wear my glasses that time. He thought I was staring at him, when in fact, I really couldnt see him very well I had myopia. This eye contact thing works, though it wasnt intentional in my case. 🤨😐😼
This was VERY helpful. I’m so awkward with everything you mentioned but you have given me some tools to use to overcome the anxiety because I do want to connect more with men. Thank you!!❤️
I am waiting for him to say hi first. Call me old school. The eye thing definitely worked. We stare at each other but....😩😩😩. Maybe he is not into me. Thank you this is gooooood stuff.
For 10years I worked on areas of my life that made me insecure when dating. Now I feel less needy and more choosy about a man fitting into my life not the other way around.
Hi Jason, I am amazed the way you described to make eye contact in public places with an stranger. It often happens that I find men looking at me but I igone eye contact out of shyness and do not know how should I appropriately respond if I am interested. I would request you to make one video on how let a man or colleague, whom you often see/ interested, to pull out a conversation to start.
I was this video saturday en sunday I met a guy i knew i was never gonna see again. Sow I thought this is a perfect opportunity to practice these trics. I stare in 1 eye and licked my lips sometimes even bite my underlip. And what then happend I had not expected. I saw that he was a but awkward in the beginning but after that he showed so much interesed in me! It was working! Amazing. I also really enjoyed to do it! Thankyou for the tips :)
Hugging and giving kisses on the cheeks is quite normal in Italy even at the end of the same evening you have met someone (I'm obviously talking about informal environment). The second time you see someone from your friend's group it, this behavior is almost a must. I was a bit confused once and the guy simply said "we have met before". It got a bit awkward because I did not remember him.
I would say just to be careful with the staring tecnic, because if you are in a place like a bus or train where the guy does not have a place to go to, that could totally scare many! Hahahahhaha
Amazing! Absolutely love It! He is my best friend for years and now that I'm doing this he is nervous (and he is quite good in hide nervousness). Hahahahah. Is so funny what look to his lips cause! Love It! I'll try the other ones! (Muahaha)
I would look up at guys and they'd tell me thats what drew them in. Something so simple I never realized they liked. I have big eyes and the guys always say they love it
about the Italian guy : it mights also be that in italy when we meet someone we know , we kiss on the cheeks so she mights have know that and just go for it .
I’m not the type to try to look some kinda way or use practiced lip n eye moves. I’m just me. Good bad or indifferent. I see guys and girls “trying” to look or be something they aren’t and I can only feel sad for them. Be yourself it’s really just that easy ~ Natural and genuine is the only way. js
There is a guy he keeps looking me into my soul like doesn’t look away at all - first I was like challenge accepted cause usually guys don’t keep the eye contact if you challenge them but boy he sure doesn’t back down and now I’m the one catching feelings 😂
Everything said is incredibly true from my past experience. .but only thing is that those especially about the eye contact and lips happens naturally only if you like them and are sure that he likes you . It so happens without studying about these ..especially if you are a no nonsense confident woman sure of your feelings and someone's feelings for you. If you act them out it becomes fake and drains all the bliss out of it. I am so sure about this as I've experienced this bliss and all those tips you said were present except the biting of lips ..all naturally without even knowing these are happening. Please don't encourage ladies to learn and do it..it won't give them the real feeling they need to experience at least once in life. But I agree that your tips are all correct ..just please don't act --Preethi
Look at him in the eye whilst thinking "you are going to fall for my gaze right here right now because you've never seen eyes that talk this much". Boom... it's like magic.
Since watching this video I realized that I never look up in public places. The moment I see a person walking in my direction I look down. Making eye contact is going to be a real challenge for me, but I am willing to try.
Me: watches multiple RUclips videos on how to flirt with eyes
Me when my crush is around: Forgets everything I learned and runs away
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Lol 😂
i felt this on a personal level
My crush stood like 4 metres away and i think he smiled at me. Because i were so uncertain i looked away. The day after he didn't even look at me. Im Feeling still bad although it is almost a week ago.😭🤦🏼♀️😂
Sounds familiar..
As a natural flirt, I can tell you that the holding a guy's glance is powerful stuff. Especially if you're walking in oppoaite directions, and you catch him already looking at you. Hold the gaze, keep walking, do a side-ways grin (sort-of a "knowing smile"), and keep the smile as you look away as you pass each other. Feels awesome!
You said it all😊😊😊😊
But like last week I caught my crush that sits in front of me in art class looking at me, and then we like maintained eye contact until I was like red like a tomato- ahhhh I don’t understand himmmmm ;-;
@@cori8212 lmfaoooo ayo
@@cori8212 ahhhhhh lmao 😭
Tell me more about flirting please 🥺
When I was young and single in an office full of men, some of them actually remarked that when they looked at me, all they saw were my eyes and my lips. I ended falling in love with one of my male colleagues. We dated 3 months before he proposed and married 5 months after that. We were married 51 years 4 months and 21 days before God took him to his eternal home 2 years and 22 days ago. My husband often said he loved the way I looked at him. I miss him beyond measure and can't wait to be reunited with him.
This is the sweetest thing I’ve seen today apart from my 6yr old son picking flowers for me
Sweetest
I love this thank you for sharing! ❤️ I currently work at an office and have such a crush on a coworker but although we share many glances, and we’ve said hello a couple of times, he has not approached to start a conversation. Really wish he would initiate, so I could get to know him 🥺
😢😢😢😢 omg I can't stop crying 😭.
This is how I feel about my precious husband too.
@@juliesmoochy3996 In 1974, after we've been married 3 years, I heard John Denver sing Annie's Song. I did not know he wrote it for his wife Annie, and didn't even know the title of the song. I found all that out later. The first time I heard that song my husband and I were sitting in the back seat of my cousin's car in San Francisco. We were visiting. I was so touched by the lyrics because it described exactly how I felt about my husband. I felt that way all our life together. I've sung it for him many times. I definitely would give my life for him.
Lmaooo if he has a lazy eye focus on the eye that’s active 😂
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What if he has a lazy @ss... Should I spank it to activate it ❕ ❓ ❕ 😄😇
@@GPAnAngelDK LMAO yes
I learned in a self defense class that if a woman makes eye contact with a person, instead of looking down, she is less likely to be attacked. This is because she shows confidence and an attacker is looking for someone who won't put up a fight. Plus she could also identify the attacker. I do not recommend the long stare, because you may get an angry reply from some.
Yeah I do this all the time and it disarms people instantly
Tammy Thorpe, I have never taken a self defense course, but I noticed many years ago that yes, the creepers absolutely do not like a confident woman who makes eye contact! Good thing to keep in mind!
@@BD638 Same here. Creepers don't like me.😊
SO true. Besides just confidence, it expresses respect of others, equality, AND general alertness. Been in more than a few cities and countries... It works.
Doesn’t always work I know plenty of women who tried this while held at knife point and were still sexually assaulted
1. Look deep into his eyes
2. Keep eye contact
3. Don't stop
4. As he runs away,run after him
5. Now, in jail,you'll have time to think and built self confidence
Works every time
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Haha ... yes I use my eyes to tease and flirt with a man in the train station and no smile. We always stare each other no smile and no talking at all. After those 3 months stare and flirt finally he approached me and we started talking for a month. After a month then we started dating. Now we are on 1 year dating. One time he told me that my eyes and the way I looked at him that made him attracted to me and could not forget me keep thinking about me for 3 months till finally he had courage to approached me.
All the best wishes 🥰
I've fallen for a guy I see in the bus every morning. I am so freaking shy, it almost feels like I am totally unable when I see him.
This must be unattractive as hell
wish i had magical powers like u
Luuuckyyy
@@manischkreativ8868 although im not a guy nor man but a girl I find that really cute,and if he has a soft spot for cute stuff then keep on going and see of he aproaches you
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Thank you for your cute advice.
Well - it has been almost a year now 😅😭
He's sitting almost behind me, right now BUT some chick has installed her ass right behind me, so he can't see me anymore🤦🏾♀️
I even can not figure out what that look in his face had to mean as we stood outside the bus 🤷🏿♀️
Seems like I'll have to do the first approach and get to know what he might think
So annoying
CONFIDENCE
1. Glance down his lips 2. Bite your lips 3. Wet your lips 4. Look at ONE of his eyes 5. Slight side look 6. Look away 7. Imagine kissing him
These are the seven things that disgust me the most. I mean when a guy does this while I pass by.
I can hardly imagine that a guy would find it attractive when I do this 😅🙈
manisch kreativ if a guy wet their lips while talking to me I’d throw up
Maybe I would give it a try though
@@daniella4889 the eyes have it😉
As a guy, this stuff makes girls look insane. The bad kind of insane.
Me: looking at my crush slighty tilting my head looking at him in his active eye biting my lips twirling my hair imagining kissing him
Him: are you okay
Me: 😔
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I can already imagine myself looking like a dying witch
As a man I can clearly say this is so true when a women looks at you it's so attractive but we always make the move on the second glance, the reason is we want to make sure first and what this does is that we take it as you are attracted to us so we know we stand a better chance. Trust me when I say look at at least twice and if his a confident man he will aproach you
In a conversation when the other person is making really intense eye contact I get really nervous and stressed out 😬
Makes me wanted to crossed my eyes
Me too!
Same. It makes me really uncomfortable
Same. I get really nervous and uncomfortable and start stumbling on my words. Especially if it's a guy you like. The guy I like has insanely beautiful blue eyes and when he looks at you it's just so intense. Like I can't look into his eyes because that feels wierd and uncomfortable so I just end up staring at the wall behind or the ground.
Im that person honestly
My groceryshopping have been so much fun, after watching this video. I practice this eyecontact with solo men shopping. Most solo men are shopping with just a small basket, because, they seldom know what to buy. If they have a partner, they often take a trolley, and have a shoppinglist. This is the reactions I get: Most of them stare back at me, with a ?-mark, on theire face. I keep eyecontact, and smile as i pass them in the aile. Most of them studder a low "hello", and I can see how they searching their memory, in order to try to remember who I am, or where they have seem me before. Almost nobody approaches me, but a great number of the men, start following me around the store, at a small distance. I feel great, and surprised, that this works. Ladies - try it!
Gastly nice way to get stalked and hurt. 😵
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@@gabriellavanderveer4931 I know right. I don't want to be followed. It's happened too many times without doing this. I'm the mother of 2 boys 14 and 12. And my older son starts to catch on.
well, norwegian men are usually not stalkers, and brought up to respect women. I don't do this to foreigners, cause they have different culture, and would react wrong to this. The idea is to have fun, and get a smile, not to overplay it.
Gastly! Lol! Maybe I will give this method a shot, after all!🤣
I’m Asian. They can barely see my eyes to begin with.
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omg i feel u
Asain boys look so cold I love it😂
They say Asians are inscrutable...
I can see yun
is this what my life has come to?
i was so happy not being interested in anyone... ugh
spaghettimonster 😂😂😂😂😂 I know 😰
And yet here we are... Hi ladies!👋
spaghettimonster
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spaghettimonster same board
So true
eye contact is so much fun, and you do need confidence and strong faith in your self , without being judgemental , just allowing yourself to be who you really are. without trying to impress. I was at a party in Tulum talking with a vey succeesful and carismatic hotelier from San Trope and somehow out of all the girls half naked surrounding him , he didnt stop complimenting me in my feminine energy even when I was covered head to tow. amazing xx
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A hotel in Saint Tropez... must be a happy man
Btw i’m a girl- today there was handsome boy keep staring at me
And we made about 5-10 times eye contact :> yeah right that’s was really fun🥺
Toe not tow.
@koki kak you will understand what you are worth if you read the bible. It's helped me.
So true! I was walking away from my son’s game and noticed a tall blond man with a “open” face talking with another gentleman. As I was walking up to him I noticed his incredible blue eyes and in a quick moment thought how beautifully blue they were. As I finished that thought he stopped talking with the other man and in a non hurried though appreciative way smiled and said Hi. I was so taken aback I said hi right back and smiled though I kept on walking. It was a very interesting moment!
should have stopped to talk with him, who knows, he was probably married, but maybe not.
I usually stare at people sometimes too intense or too long because of bad eyesight hahaha trying to focus my vision is a struggle
Hahaha same here!
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Guilty of doing this. My eyesight is horrible and I focus on them that I get them uncomfortable lol
There is a guy at work that, when he looks into my eyes, I get an almost electric shock.
magenta44 me too
Hahahaha same at my work 😂😂😂😂✌🏻
Same... there's a man with such strong glance in his eyes. One time we locked our eye contact about 7 seconds without saying a word.
I just hate that it happens in my work place. That is not nice.
@Jenny Ortiz hahahahahaha omg are u serious?
@Jenny Ortiz Gross. 🤣😭🤣
Strange enough I did all this before I dated my now husband! Had not even watched this video! The way in which my husband looked at me was like no man ever and his eyes still shine to this day and he loves the way my eyes shine when I look at him!
The problem with making eye contact with unknown men is that they start following me, and that can be frightening especially if I wasn’t aware until out in the parking lot.
Ikr..
That's when you run. 🚶
Omg this guy was following me too. I only looked at him for a second in a public building. He left the building an hour later , I didn't know he was following me until I was all the way down the street & I looked behind me .. creepy ! . I was walking to the light rail station he followed me, so I decided to wait for the train on the other side. It was frightening .
The next level up in confidence may be showing the courage to meet him. Choose a safe place, obviously, but let him follow you to where you can relax and, with more eye contact, subtly invite him to join you.
Same happens to me...lol
Omg I'm howling!! I can just imagine me using all these tips at once.... the lazy eye comment made me spit out my wine.
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I love the 'getting caught' looking. We all do it when someone catches our eye. It's nice!
As a bartender i use these techniques everyday at work and it's true, your temperament can set the tone for anyone you approach or approaches you. I get the most compliments about my smile and that no matter what, I'm always happy and people say I make them feel wanted and missed and appreciated because my eyes and smile show them this and it's because as I approach them I'm genuinely happy to see them and it shows without a single word spoken by me.
he was looking at me so I decided to look back at him and he looked away smiling lmao I got him there
i bite my lips when i'm thinking/ concentrating too.
Same lol
Saaaaameeee my bff thought I was seducing him during our math test just because I was biting my lips
same I either bite my lips or my tongue
Me too. My aunt also noticed that when I'm really focused on something, my lips move like I'm whispering. So I wonder if I do this when I'm focusing on my crush when he's talking to me. Bc when my crush starts up a story he talks for a long time so I get really focused on his eyes and general face
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I always focus on the lazy eye, I don’t want it to feel left out. 👀
Hahahaha this is the best comment ever!!
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1) glans down at his lips.
2) Bite your lower lip with light pressure.
3)wet your lips lightly.
4) gentle relax stare at one of his eye.
5) Make eye contact maybe by tilting your head on one side or the other a bit.
6) reset yourself by looking away and back again if you feel like you have been staring a bit too long.
7) Imagine yourself kissing him.
'Look at his lips'.
He's wearing a mask 😭
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We can't interact as human beings with the freakin' masks. We can take them off now thank goodness!
Ahaha😅...but he will see you looking ther isnt it?!
Just look anyways, his subconscious won't be able to tell the difference and it will still pick it up
One of my fav eye flirts to use is to seem preoccupied with something I'm doing that's below eye contact (such as looking at a menu) while talking to them with my head turned a bit to the left or right, and then looking up from the side without turning my head ESPECIALLY if I want to acknowledge something they said, or I want to emphasize something I just said. They ALWAYS respond well to it. And you don't have to hold it, it could just be a glance up, and then back to what you're looking at. That sexy, "knowing" look is AMAZING.
Connecting with the person thru eyes is the best thing ever. Can be so much fun and exciting.
I know this is an older video, I took your eye contact advice and it really does work! I tried it at work(I’m a cashier at a store where the customers are 90% men) and I have gotten many dates and prospective dates from single men that came through my line. I recently turned 51! My life changed a year ago I became single(it was a blindside I didn’t know that was coming). Thanks for your videos and advice. 🙂
CraftyLori Lori Simmon,you deserve a good man 🙏🙏🙏
Super late reply but I’m wondering how that works as a cashier considering you have to talk and be friendly to guests. Would that not come off as nice and/or professional?
@@cinbeano Nope people find it uncomfortable when they are ichecking out at a register they rarely make eye contact and most don’t chit chat, they are usually crabby and just want to get their items check out and leave.
@@CraftyLori hope you are with a good man now?
Hey Dear heart I too have lived through being blindsided. Didn't know it but turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me. God found me and later met my husband we had 331/2 years together before he got sick and taken to heaven. I NEVER knew I could be so in love with somebody. I refer to ex wasband as what's his name. Best thing to have happened. Hope you keep God in All your decisions. Much love to you. 😊🎉
I love how he focuses on taking time, respecting, being patient and non judgemental with ourselves❤️
I met a guy in September... OMG I am still reeling......He was a trades person. I am an older woman. This man left me panting! He took his sunglasses off and made eye contact with me ..I just got totally lost in his eyes....I was in love!!! I need to find out what he was thinking and what he was doing to me???? He didn't seem turned off at my age at all! I do look pretty young for my age! This guy is light and has a great build...I just couldn't look away. I honestly didn't know if he was going to kiss me or if I would kiss him!! I chickened out and looked away, otherwise I might have dragged him into my bedroom!!!!
Always get tested first. If you feel you CAN'T control.
I HATE eye contact, I tend to avoid it even when I’m talking to people cause eye contacts are so personal and uncomfortable. BUT there’s this guy at my nee workplace who have been staring at me a whole lot, I only noticed him recently, caught him staring. He looked away, turned red. Then after that when we saw each other again, he would look me in the eyes and smile instead and remember when I said I HATE eye contact? Well, apparently with him I was just too comfortable to look at him in the eyes and smile back. We did that about a month now and he finally said hi to me. I was surprised because he’s such a shy guy, so he must’ve mustered a huge amount of courage to say hi first. It’s interesting, never had an experience like this before, would like to see where it goes 😅
So how did it go?
hello?? any news
Girl your not alone about the eye contact thing.. it’s not even that I’m not confident. I just feel awkward when I do it, but I’m getting the hang of it. I think it just takes practice
*You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.*
I love the fact you offered and encouraged desensitization practice and training tactics in this presentation. That is true coaching. Bravo and thank you!
I already exchange eye contact with my coworker. He is very much responding with smiles and he is such a gentleman. But the idea here is for him to know subconscious or consciously of the interest, without the need of speaking. Whoever watches us knows thee is something. All my friends say that. Shame he doesn't do much but he wants something for sure.
I just want you to know that this is the best video on men women interactions that I have ever watched in my life. You're really good at this. Keep up the good work
I work in customer relations; I always strive to be professional- however i can’t help having an attraction for some of them, and unintentionally have this intense prolonged eye contact with them and then suddenly, I see that ‘light’ switch on in his eye - his pupils dilate, eyebrows fall slightly and breathing slightly slowed and they just go silent for a second. That very moment of connection is so powerful.
Damn!! I’m a flirt and didn’t even know it 🤦🏽♀️
Almost every woman is a flirt without acknowledging it
@@lorrainespiteri2509 No, just no... lol
When he said look at one of his eyes, I thought about the movie Moana when she got picked up by that giant crab and he tells her to just pick one eye to look at.
sleazybtd same holy!! I was just thinking of that!!!
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There's another thing he didn't quite mention. When you look at him, slowly look down, while smiling, then look up. Kinda like what a cat does when they communicate their love to their human. I've found that most men react positively to this.
Also, if there are any BTS Army out there, just watch Jimin. He has all moves down. He's a natural born flirt.
The last line was the best advice I’ve ever heard🤣
Yeah fellow army here, great advice
This is so funny, I'm sitting with a mirror and make myself laugh.... ⭐
I always test out my flirting skills in the mirror, and flirt with myself 😂 ha,ha, 😂 and laugh at myself, so I know have I come across, yah know! LOL 😂😂
*how* my english is like... 😂✌
Daughter of the King hahaha I need to try that. I’m so reserved and serious lmao
@@user-bt7tp3sn5i yas gurl ✌ I do understand, I was so shy when I was unger, then over time I have started to build confidence, to express myself in public or just in a social setting 😁 it have boost my confidence fo sho to practice at home, dancing 😘
This is one of my favorite ways to interact with men of interest.
I am glad this is acknowledged as a key point in communication and subtle flirting.
Stay confident ladies ;)
This totally works, i do this all the time but only with the right men of course haha
1. Glance Down To His Lips
2. Gently Bite Your Lower Lip
3. Wet Your Lips
4. Look At Just One Of His Eyes
5. Look Away To Reset Your Thoughts
the last part tips happened to me juz 3 days back..but i hadnt seen your video then..i was wowed with what i had done..i was in the bus stop..to the platform that i wanted to reach i had to walk up a bridge n get down..so as i started to walk..i saw from very far itself a tall well built white guy coming from opposite side..he was walking so gracefully n he indeed was so handsome that i couldnt help but notice too..we were almost walking in a straight line opposite to each other..i kept walking..n since im a confident girl who always walks n owns any place..i kept walking..as we approached near i kept the confident look with chin up n maintained eye contact n kept walking..he kept walking same way too..n on frst eye contact from where we saw each others face closely he gave a few seconds stare n looked other side for few seconds..i held the same poise n walked maintaining eye contact..after few seconds he couldnt resist n looked at me back n that moment i gave him an intense look which almost meant ' huh! i knw to get ur attention' n looked away..frm that moment he kept his stare n suddenly smiled..i gave back the look n smiled..n as we approached nearer each other..the smile became wider n wider n wider..n we almost were walking in same straight line..when we were closest his face became red n he gave me widest smile with u won look nodded at me..i nodded back..n crossed our paths! i was surprised when this was suggested in this video..how did i know to do it..i myself was surprised that day how i managed to do that! coz am an indian girl with complete indian skin n looks! n he was a complete greek god looks guy with brown ruffled hair blue eyes sharp nose beard n moustache!
Once when I was walking with a friend of mine she commented that she noticed that black people acknowledge each other when out and about because she'd seen me do it a number of times. Well, it's a reason for that if you are the minority in a group. I do exactly this strategy once I notice another black person a ways away. The other person can feel someone looking at this and once they are closer they will acknowledge you. It is such a habit of mine that I didn't really notice that I was doing it to others and I wondered why they were looking at me strangely. I never thought to do it for someone I was interested in. I daydream alot and get lost in my thoughts but I'm looking in a certain direction and people always speak or acknowledge me in some way. Until now I didn't know why, silly me.
Perceptive! And cute actually. I think we all do that
You're exactly right...you can't fake confidence...massive consistent action gives you....man...YOU ARE THE REAL DEAL.
😂🤣😂 if he has a lazy eye 👁 Stare at the eye that’s active. Lmao. I’m soooo dead.
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Ines Febos Laughed so hard at this even though I'm 2 years late, ahahah!
Now that we’re all wearing masks, flirting with the eyes has become so much easier.
Just imagining myself walking in the grocery store and trying to make eye contact when I see a man 20-30 feet away... my teen daughter would probably call me a creep 😂
it,s about your mood , trying to stay calm and think kind things
Yes. 🙋
This video has me roarin 😂 don’t naw on your Bottom lip, don’t soak them in saliva and don’t stare at his lazy eye hahah great life advice really.
Looool!!
the biting on lower lip would really creep me out ..that is not a good move for anyone to do
Deplor AbleDixie it depends how you do it. You should be very subtle
Oops. I bite my lip without even noticing and sometimes I catch my crush is staring at me when I unconsciously do it😟😂
Woow! Loved the part about what awkwardness really means .. I never thought it’s a good sign.!!!!Thanks
sometimes people smile at me but now that I'm in my 50s I can make eye contact in a friendly way, as I do with many people without agenda, but if the person is a younger man they sometimes actually look annoyed or angry and pointedly look away. I act the same but men don't. I really didn't get ageism til it happened. On the other hand, LOTS of people of all kinds are still happy to have brief, pleasant contact.
That's great!
Keep smiling and keep being the naturally kind person that you are!
I tried it on a stranger today... It worked😅😅😅 what is funny is it didn't take a long time for him to respond with a smile! It was quite scary but it worked!
I tried that eye contact and it works.
Hahaha! I'm too spastic to do this correctly. I'd mess it all up. I'd probably end up getting confused and licking my nose, gnawing on my upper lip, tripping and falling when I try to look at him sideways and start giggling if I tried to focus on one eyeball.
you're funny 😄
Same 😩😂
Alicia good please don''t do any of these things he's saying...they are all creepy and weird...ugh.
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I maintained eye contact with my crush for 4-5 seconds from far away but he didn’t smile or anything. He looked even mad, I’d say lol
Probably hot and bothered
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Omg I can't even focus cuz this guy has me ROTFL...knawing on your lips, crazily slobbering all over your lips, talking about lazy eyes and sh*t. This dude is a riot
I did it! The looking at a stranger... I have found when I go shopping that I am more confident looking at a guy. I have felt like a creep a few times when they've given me a weird look or stared back at me without smiling for a very long time ...one guy stared at me for 2 minutes and did not smile and I found myself smiling before he did and he just kept staring at me, so I finally broke eye contact coz I figured he was a bit odd and I didn't want him to approach me so I stopped looking at him.
But the other times I've held eye contact have been very pleasant experiences and I know that even though we didn't exchange numbers or anything dramatic that I may have brightened those strangers day and boosted my confidence in interacting with guys at the same time :)
Yeah, one has to be careful with this stuff. Men who want to be the "winner" of the staring contest and make you smile first or look away first are unpleasant and possibly dangerous to tangle with and definitely not who you are looking for. I guess part of the point of this exercise is to learn how to recognize these undesirables and how to make it a learning experience and not a confidence-breaker. (Deep breath) The first 1000 failures don't count.
These are very simple and cute ways to show to your crush that you really like him/her and I just hope they're going to notice it.=)
Now I know why occasionally I found some strangers were staring me that long, they were practicing 😆😆
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If it's a guy starting at you that long, he's into you. Guys don't waste time looking at someone they're not interested in.
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Haha, I know! Walking into stores and feeling eyes on you can now be less odd.
I'm autistic, so eye contact is REALLY HAAARD!!! When we all began masking though, I found it took away a lot of the criteria for my anxiety, and lowered the stakes considerably when I was trying to figure out what people's expressions meant. Now all I had to worry about was the eyes. This gave me the confidence to start making eye contact with strangers, just like you challenged us to at the end! The first time I did it successfully the lurch in my stomach felt like I'd just fallen from a balcony. I still fail often and have to look away, but it's becoming easier (and more fun) to keep trying to maintain that contact. I'm actually devastated that the mask mandates are being lifted . . . things are about to get complicated again! XD Thanks for the advice!
Thank you for sharing your perspective! I learned a lot reading it.
@@stellae1000 My pleasure! Thank you for reading it! 😁❤️
I loved your comment thank you for sharing .
@@hamnashahid9859 Aw, thank you! 😁🙏
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I ADORED this video. I love eye flirting. Especially when it is with a guy I truly admire.
To practice eye contact light an organic lamp or candle , stare at that light as much as you can or look yourself in mirror and simply stare in to your own eyes. This practice helps to build confidence in the art of eye contact 😉
What if you used a candle and accidentally summoned a demon. Asking for a friend.
⚠️❗❗🚫 That damages your eyes.🤩🥲😢😭❌🧐😳😩😫😣😖😵👀👁️👁️😵💢🙅🚫 Stare at a tree,🌱🌿🌴🌵🥦🌲🌳or a good book,📗📙📒📕📓📘 or something that won't make your eyes burn.🚫🔥☀️🌋🌡️❌
I was happy only being in love with anime characters but now I’m watching vids like this
Im invisable. I could teach a class on how to walk through life in stealth mode...
😂😂😂 ok. You NEED a different mantra! Start affirming that you are the life of the party... Things will change. The same power that makes you invisible now will make you visible in all the right ways as you re-write your mental program. Just TRY it. Write it and say it 3 times when you wake up and 3 times before bed.
You need a makeover then. Change up your clothes. Work out and smell good.
Invisible with an I.
I'm only visible for bad stuff..why Lord Why..
Wear musk oil or musk perfume. its a naturally sexy scent and will get you attention, I know I get that reaction when I wear it. You wont be invisible if you smell good.
This can get you in a lot of trouble my four year old is already winking at me..
That's normal for small boys, no worries🙂
Completely funny...love
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Thank you for your great video...I’m a man who like other men ...and I have used your advise and it works perfectly...
Hi, Jason! I have a photo of a woman using her eyes to flirt. She is intently looking into the guy’s eyes with a pleasant expression that says, “I’m very interested in hearing what you have to say.” She’s also simultaneously tilting her head and slowly moving a few strands of hair behind her ear. It’s an awesome photo and I want to email it to you so you can share it with your followers.
I know this sounds crazy. But I am a nurse and my patients really like me and feel relaxed and loved. I have usually no problems with eye contact with them. So I decided to start doing this with men, I simply imagined they were a patient. Instantly the energy shifted. I no longer am the shy woman but the confident knowledgeable caretaker. Only after that I can play around woth that other flirty stuff ;)
Damn, watching this a year later and wearing a mask now is making my moves impaired ugh😂
You're so right. I fallen in love just from eyes contacts. I don't even know he's name yet. It's working all that you said. He is also locking for eyes contact with me all the time 😍. It feels great ❣️. Wish yo all the best.
I can imagine a Kristin Wiig skit on this doing it all wrong🤣
But seriously, this REALLY works🔥 Being single and dating, I do it sometimes and always seem to illicit a positive reaction.... It establishes the connection, heightens the chemistry and fun 🥰
Thanks I had a experience a couple of weeks went to the grocery store. I was ready to paid I was not looking at him. When he was returning my changed. He hold the bill on the tip and when I raise my hand to get the bill my eyes caught the fellow smiling so I smile back. It was really funny 👍😎
sophia campos,you deserve a good man!
Anyone else watching this in 2020 where we ALL have masks on? 🤣
Yes I’m and even sunshades 🤣. After this epidemic 😷, hopefully we start doing it, let’s practice
I lived and worked in the Middle East for some time. Those ladies only have their eyes to show / flirt as they have to be covered in public. I've learnt a lot from them! Use your eyes, they are considered the windows of the soul for a good reason.
Lol...about the masks!!!!!
Yes you can focus on both his eyes at once just RELAX and focus on the spot on his nose in between his eyes. Your eyes will naturally stare into both of his eyes without darting back and forth... the key is to just relax your gaze.
This should be required for aspies. I could never figure out which eye to look at and if someone has a lazy eye I'd get stuck staring at it 😕😜. Good job here this is really entertaining as well as informative. Appreciate you
This kinda happened to me recently. A guy approached me because i had "eye contact/stare". I wasnt actually looking at him, i was just looking straight ahead my way. I was so damn myopic, and wasnt able to wear my glasses that time. He thought I was staring at him, when in fact, I really couldnt see him very well I had myopia. This eye contact thing works, though it wasnt intentional in my case. 🤨😐😼
This was VERY helpful. I’m so awkward with everything you mentioned but you have given me some tools to use to overcome the anxiety because I do want to connect more with men. Thank you!!❤️
“If he has a lazy eye then focus on the eye that is active.”
I wasn’t expect that 😆
I am waiting for him to say hi first. Call me old school. The eye thing definitely worked. We stare at each other but....😩😩😩. Maybe he is not into me. Thank you this is gooooood stuff.
For 10years I worked on areas of my life that made me insecure when dating. Now I feel less needy and more choosy about a man fitting into my life not the other way around.
Lori Bothwell,your pretty smile ☺️ can make the news
Hi Jason, I am amazed the way you described to make eye contact in public places with an stranger. It often happens that I find men looking at me but I igone eye contact out of shyness and do not know how should I appropriately respond if I am interested. I would request you to make one video on how let a man or colleague, whom you often see/ interested, to pull out a conversation to start.
The fact that you threw in the tip about the lazy eye 😂😂 actually is helpful
I don’t see any men I want to practice this on. None I would want to notice me.
Give a chance
Ikr
MRNT1257-Same here! Lol
Lol, got that right, only ones I see are walking with canes, fat, or nasty looking..
I was this video saturday en sunday I met a guy i knew i was never gonna see again. Sow I thought this is a perfect opportunity to practice these trics. I stare in 1 eye and licked my lips sometimes even bite my underlip. And what then happend I had not expected. I saw that he was a but awkward in the beginning but after that he showed so much interesed in me! It was working! Amazing. I also really enjoyed to do it! Thankyou for the tips :)
Hugging and giving kisses on the cheeks is quite normal in Italy even at the end of the same evening you have met someone (I'm obviously talking about informal environment). The second time you see someone from your friend's group it, this behavior is almost a must. I was a bit confused once and the guy simply said "we have met before". It got a bit awkward because I did not remember him.
I would say just to be careful with the staring tecnic, because if you are in a place like a bus or train where the guy does not have a place to go to, that could totally scare many! Hahahahhaha
S PP,your pretty smile ☺️ can make the news
Amazing! Absolutely love It! He is my best friend for years and now that I'm doing this he is nervous (and he is quite good in hide nervousness). Hahahahah. Is so funny what look to his lips cause! Love It! I'll try the other ones! (Muahaha)
I would look up at guys and they'd tell me thats what drew them in. Something so simple I never realized they liked. I have big eyes and the guys always say they love it
about the Italian guy : it mights also be that in italy when we meet someone we know , we kiss on the cheeks so she mights have know that and just go for it .
She saw the love in his eyes and when she saw she felt it🥰
I’m not the type to try to look some kinda way or use practiced lip n eye moves. I’m just me. Good bad or indifferent. I see guys and girls “trying” to look or be something they aren’t and I can only feel sad for them. Be yourself it’s really just that easy ~ Natural and genuine is the only way.
js
There is a guy he keeps looking me into my soul like doesn’t look away at all - first I was like challenge accepted cause usually guys don’t keep the eye contact if you challenge them but boy he sure doesn’t back down and now I’m the one catching feelings 😂
Everything said is incredibly true from my past experience. .but only thing is that those especially about the eye contact and lips happens naturally only if you like them and are sure that he likes you . It so happens without studying about these ..especially if you are a no nonsense confident woman sure of your feelings and someone's feelings for you. If you act them out it becomes fake and drains all the bliss out of it. I am so sure about this as I've experienced this bliss and all those tips you said were present except the biting of lips ..all naturally without even knowing these are happening. Please don't encourage ladies to learn and do it..it won't give them the real feeling they need to experience at least once in life. But I agree that your tips are all correct ..just please don't act
--Preethi
Look at him in the eye whilst thinking "you are going to fall for my gaze right here right now because you've never seen eyes that talk this much". Boom... it's like magic.
Since watching this video I realized that I never look up in public places. The moment I see a person walking in my direction I look down. Making eye contact is going to be a real challenge for me, but I am willing to try.
It's hard at first and takes practice. You can do it!